Now come on let's have it. Why
are you here?
As a matter of fact,
we are all going to...Hawaii!
Hawaii!
Tom must go to Hawaii,
no matter what..
The whole family too, I want
the whole family to be there.
[instrumental music]
That's what the man said, dad.
All the luggage
from our flight is here.
But it's not all here,
there's still
one missing...mine!
Gee, tough break, Mr. Bradford.
And was it only one too?
He's going to meet me on the
beach, in front of the hotel.
Now do you think you can arrange
to have Tom there
around o'clock?
Alright, V, I just hope
you know what you're doing.
They have a right
to see their grandfather.
Vivian, you don't understand.
The grandfather doesn't have
the right to see them.
That's nonsense, family
is family, no matter what.
No, Vivian, it's the truth.
I gave up that right
a long time ago.
Well, looks like Nicholas
is having a good time.
- Yes.
- Seems he's found a friend.
He doesn't know it yet,
but he's found his..
...his grandfather.
What?
He's an old man. The time
has come, he is our father.
A father doesn't let
his ten-year-old son
cry himself to sleep
every night.
'No, no, Abby.'
He doesn't know the first
thing about being a father.
The only thing he knows
about is running away.
[theme song]
♪ Oh we spend our days ♪
♪ Like bright and shiny
new dimes ♪
♪ If we're ever puzzled ♪
♪ By the changing times ♪
♪ There's a plate
of homemade wishes ♪
♪ On the kitchen window sill ♪
♪ And eight is enough ♪
♪ To fill our lives with love ♪
♪ More than enough ♪
♪ To fill our
lives with love ♪♪
(female #)
'On your left is Diamond Head.'
'One of Oahu's
two inactive volcanoes.'
Rising majestically
above Waikiki
Diamond Head provides a natural
shield against tropical storms.
'Formed over , years ago
by violent steam explosions'
'this crater gets its name
from a group of British sailors'
'who in , thought they had
discovered diamonds inside.'
'Following the bombing of
Pearl Harbor, Diamond Head..'
- That guy is weird.
- What guy?
- That guy in the second row.
- 'Today..'
(Joannie)
'I mean who wears
a suit in Hawaii'
and reads a newspaper
on the tour bus?
Oh, I don't know,
uh, maybe he misses New York.
(female #)
'For the more adventurous
in our group'
'who might be interested
in knowing The Diamond Head'
'is a popular attraction
for hikers.'
Thanks. Oh, gosh,
this is so fun.
Hey, thanks, you guys,
for the suntan lotion.
It's a real life-saver.
- Yeah, thanks.
- Sure, anytime.
I can't believe
we met the locals.
We didn't think
we'd see anybody but tourists.
Well, we usually
don't hang out at this beach
but, uh, my car's in the shop
and we live
pretty close to here.
Well, must be really nice
knowing all the good places
away from the tourist traps.
It has its advantages.
Say, I don't know what
you girls' schedule is but, uh..
...we'd be glad
to show you around.
- 'If you are interested.'
- Ha!
- Interested, are you kidding?
- Yeah.
Who'd passed up a chance
to see the real Hawaii?
Great! Then why don't we
start with dinner tonight?
Fine! Oh, wait..
- What?
- We can't.
- The Hula Show.
- Oh..
Hula?
Well, that's so cliche.
Oh, I know, but our Aunt Vivian
already made the arrangements.
And, well, besides,
it's the only family thing
that's been planned
for the whole trip.
Oh, we understand.
Well, how about,
uh, tomorrow then?
In the morning, say o'clock.
- Right here?
- How's that?
o'clock, it is.
Great. Be there.
- Ha ha ha.
- Yeah.
[laughing]
We're not gonna get away
with this.
Would you relax? They'll
never know the difference.
We don't look
like we're Hawaiian.
We don't talk
like we're Hawaiian.
And they're not gonna
believe we're Hawaiian.
Not for long anyway.
You know you worry too much.
Even if they do catch on,
by the time they find out
they'll be so in love with us
it won't make any difference.
Sure.
[laughs]
[jazz music]
Right here.
[indistinct chatter]
You know, they sure are
a couple of great kids.
Tom's done a fine job
with those boys.
Wait till you see
the girls and David.
You'll fall in love
with them too.
I can't get over the idea that
I've got eight grandchildren.
Eight?
Dad...I have this idea.
If you and Tom
could-could sit down
just the two of you, and talk..
No. No, Vivian, it won't work.
Tom doesn't want it.
I'm not too sure I do either.
I think you do.
Look, Vivian, you and I
are like two peas in a pod.
But I think Tom is different.
At least you could try.
No, I can't.
You can't or you won't?
[music continues]
Now, you listen
to what I'm going to say.
And understand.
I want this more than anything.
And if you can't do it
for yourself
at least, you can do it for me.
You owe me that much, dad.
At least that.
No, Vivian, not again.
Abby, you can't let me down now.
I can and I am.
You just can't force
them together.
If there were another way,
don't you think
I'd go for it in a second?
Oh, come on, Abby.
You know the situation.
The only way
Tom is gonna talk to Matt
is if he's in a situation
where he has to.
Look, V, I know how important
this is to you and I understand.
Believe me, but I'm not
gonna deceive Tom again.
Well...I guess
I'm on my own then.
V, sometimes these things
look good on paper but..
Well, there's been
lot of water under the bridge.
I don't believe that, Abby.
It's never too late.
(female #)
'Yes, Mr. Bradford.'
I'm calling to confirm your
reservation for tonight's show.
It's a hotel policy for any
group over ten, you understand.
Oh, good, thank you.
(female # on phone)
'Your sister has
you down for o'clock.'
- 'Party of , correct?'
- Right.
(female # on phone)
'Excellent, we'll see you then.'
Okay, bye.
Oh, no, not , .
Hello, you, it's to..
Oh, shucks!
- Hi, what's wrong?
- It's Vivian.
She messed up the reservations
for the Hula Show tonight.
She overbooked us by one.
- Oh, you don't think.
- No, she wouldn't.
- 'Of course, she would.'
- No, really, Tom.
I just talked to her
and she promised me
he wouldn't be there.
You don't know
my sister very well.
When she puts her mind
to something, she doesn't let
much stand in her way,
including promises.
- You really think so?
- 'I know so.'
Fortunately, she didn't count
on the hotel coin
to confirm the reservations.
So what're you gonna do?
I know what I'm gonna do.
I'm going to stay
right here in the room.
Oh, what about the show? The
whole family is gonna be there.
I know, just a little
too much family.
For once in my life,
I'm not going
to fall a victim
to V's manipulations.
- What'll I say?
- Say what you feel.
Say what comes naturally.
I don't believe it,
V, I really don't.
Maybe we should wait
a couple of days.
Dad, you promised.
Look, it's bound to be
uncomfortable at first
but you'll see.
Once the ice is broken,
Tommy will come around.
- I know it.
- Well, I don't.
I think it's premature.
And what if he's not
in his hotel room?
He will be.
I've taken care of everything.
Come.
♪ I've got an island ♪
♪ In the Pacific ♪
♪ And everything
about it is terrific ♪
♪ I've got the sun to tan me ♪
♪ Palms to fan me and ♪
♪ An occasional man ♪♪
[instrumental music]
Ooh..
[laughing]
How do we learn to do that?
[laughs]
Yeoh! Yip! Yip! Yip!
[music continues]
'Yeoh! Yeoh! Yeoh!
Y-y-yip! Yip! Yip!'
[sighs]
[knocking on door]
- Who is it?
- 'It's Vivian.'
It's unlocked.
Hello, son.
- The name is Tom.
- Right.
I don't know
what I'm doing here.
Vivian thought we oughta meet
and talk and, well..
Yeah, let's not make more
out of this than there is.
Vivian has a tendency
to get carried away sometimes.
Alright, we met and we talked.
That's what she wanted, right?
- Yes.
- 'Alright, so..'
Why don't we both do ourselves
a favor and let it go at that?
Suits me, I didn't wanna
come here in the first place.
Good, then we're agreed.
Now why don't you just stay
out of my life and my family's?
And I'll stay out of yours.
I have some cards
to finish writing down.
[mellow music]
(female #)
'Please step to the back of
the boat, ladies and gentlemen.'
[laughing]
- 'Oh, this is gonna be great.'
- Yeah.
Listen, "The Catamaran Cruise
will take you sailing
"into the breath-taking
Hawaiian sunset.
"While you relax and unwind
in the balmy breezes
of the tropical seas."
Ooh..
- It's him!
- Him, who?
The weirdo
on the bus yesterday.
Over there!
Did you see that?
He just looked right at us!
Yes, and I saw the way
he looked at us.
Oh, boy! He gives me the creeps.
Alright, look.
Let's not overreact.
I am sure he's-he's harmless,
perfectly harmless.
- How can you be so sure?
- I'm not.
But that's what
you're supposed to say.
Let's go.
Now, should any water
get into the mouth-piece
just blow like so.
That'll clear it.
Whatever you do,
don't breathe in.
You'll swallow water
and start choking.
- Got it.
- 'Any questions?'
Yeah, there aren't any sharks
out there, are there?
[chuckles]
Look, you're gonna see a lot
of strange-looking creatures
down there, but I promise,
they're all harmless.
So don't be afraid.
Everybody ready?
- Ready!
- Okay, let's go.
What have we got to lose?
[coughing]
Are you okay? Are you okay?
- Is the water getting at you?
- I'm fine.
Oh, ooh, oh.
You're on my slipper.
Oh! This is ridiculous.
I thought you guys knew
what you were doing.
Quick!
- Two of them.
- Aah!
Big black thing
with huge eyes!
Watch it!
(Nancy)
'Hurry, Nick. Hurry!'
(Elizabeth)
'Come on, Nancy, run!'
I can't run,
wait a little, just wait!
- Susan!
- Merle.
[indistinct chatter]
Martini on the rocks,
dry, hold the garbage.
Impressive.
Now, what will you have?
Oh, root beer?
Root beer coming up, no garbage.
It's a nice place you got here.
Thank you.
How'd you get here?
I walked. It wasn't that bad.
Your dad know where you went?
Nah, he hasn't left
his hotel room all day.
Last night, either.
I think he's getting weird
in his old age.
Oh, I'm sorry.
You know, I didn't mean..
Forget it.
Old age isn't so bad, really.
It gives you time to think.
Mostly about what it would be
like to be young again.
I don't know,
maybe it's just a phase
he's going through or something.
Sometimes I think
he doesn't even remember
what it's like
to be young again.
It's not easy
being a father, Tommy.
There's a lot involved.
A lot more than some fathers
have the guts to live up to.
'You're lucky.'
I guess, I just wish
he wouldn't try
and run my life all the time.
Oh, I'm sure
he doesn't do it on purpose.
You know, some dads
have a tendency to overreact.
They make mistakes but
it's because they care so much.
I wish he understood me
like you do.
Oh, he will.
See I've got
an advantage, I'm old.
I've already made the mistakes.
So what time
does the band start?
Uh, about :.
Yeah! Good group?
Not bad, mostly disco.
Hmm..
I wonder if they'd mind if I
sat in for a couple of sets.
'Just to keep me in practice.'
I don't know about
that, Tommy, uh..
Well, if you're worried about
me cutting it, don't be.
I mean, I sat in with
lots of groups before.
- It's not that, it's--
- It's a marvelous idea!
- Hello, sweetheart.
- Hi, Auntie V.
Vivian..
How can you possibly say
no to a musician
who's offered to work for free?
'Be a sport.'
Okay.
Maybe he can, uh,
play for a couple of sets.
Great! I'm gonna check
out their equipment.
That wasn't a very
good idea, Vivian.
Suppose Tom finds out?
(male #)
'Bartender..'
Well...what if Tom finds out?
Surely, he'd love to see
his son perform.
Are you sure you've been
to this restaurant before?
Oh, sure, sure. A hundred times.
A hundred times.
It's just that I-I, um--
Ever since he lost
his glasses, he's had trouble
making out the street signs.
- Right.
- And scuba divers?
[instrumental music]
- Oh, no.
- What's wrong, dad?
What's wrong? Look at this
shirt that Auntie V gave me.
Just, just look at it.
I can't. It makes my eyes cross.
Abby!
Abby, please.
Where is my other shirt?
I can't possibly wear this.
Well, it's at the cleaners.
What's wrong with this?
I think it looks nice.
V says it looks very Hawaiian.
Hawaiian? Come on.
It looks like
somebody sh*t a couch.
Don't be silly, Tom.
You know, V is determined
to make every aspect
of this vacation miserable.
- Even my wardrobe.
- Come on, Tom.
Then why does she insist
that we go tonight
to some dive to hear
Tommy play with a band?
She thought you'd like
to see your son perform.
I mean, how would she know
it was a touchy subject?
And it's not a dive,
I hear it's a very nice club.
The Vagabond.
- The Vagabond?
- Oh, no.
Don't tell me it's one of your
favorite watering hole.
That's all I need to hear.
The Vagabond is
the name of Matt's place.
- Matt?
- Yeah.
He even said
he named it after himself.
[engine revving]
(female #)
'We urge you to take your
personal belongings with you'
'as the bus will be
unattended while we are inside.'
Thank you.
Phew!
Well, at last
we can relax and enjoy.
The tourist is not on this bus.
It was obviously
just a coincidence.
Some harmless egocentric
who, uh..
..gets off
on hearing loudspeakers.
Yeah, just the same.
I'm glad he's gone.
You know, I was getting
a little bit worried.
And to be honest, so was I.
[sighs]
I hope this is good.
It will be.
[gasps]
(Joannie)
'It's him.'
[sighs]
[laughs]
Joannie, you're getting
very, very naughty.
I know. It's ridiculous.
[screams]
[engine revving]
- 'To the two of us.'
- Just the two of us.
[country music]
I, uh, I'm sorry about
the way I acted last night.
I guess, I was a little selfish.
Mm, that's okay.
You had a right.
- Hey, what's wrong?
- N-nothing.
- Really.
- Susan, I..
Well, I don't know, Merle..
It's just,
I can't get dad off my mind.
Something's wrong,
I can feel it.
He has been acting
a might peculiar.
Maybe he's homesick.
You know, a lot of people just
aren't cut out for vacations.
Mm, maybe.
Honey, there's nothing
we can do about it, right now.
So what do you say,
we enjoy ourselves tonight?
After all, we're finally alone.
(Nancy)
'Elizabeth, we finally
made it, do you believe it?'
(Elizabeth)
'Yeah, I know.
I thought we'd never get..'
(male #)
'Oh, this is the greatest,
you girls'
'are gonna love this
place, I'll tell ya.'
- Do you think so?
- Yeah.
- Oh, yeah!
- Oh, yes, yes.
I've seen it many times before.
Oh, wow!
This is really nice.
- Good, I'm glad you like it.
- 'Thank you.'
(Nancy)
'How long have you been
driving around?'
- Not very long.
- Well, I'm starving.
- 'So am I.'
- 'The mahi-mahi is great.'
(male #)
'I've had it last summer.'
[instrumental music]
[music continues]
[crowd applauding]
The band's gonna take a short
break, we'll be right back.
What do you think you're doing?
Tom, uh..
Oh! If you mean Tommy, I'd..
I thought that
we had an agreement!
Well, I didn't mean to interfere
he's just sitting in
for the night.
I want you
to stay out of his life.
Just the way
you stayed out of mine.
And that shouldn't be
so difficult for you.
You've had enough practice.
What's going on?
Your dad and I
are having a talk.
Can you wait outside, Tommy?
No, it's his future.
I think he oughta hear this.
- Hear what?
- I wanna point this out.
(Tom)
You were irresponsible
with my life.
And I won't give you
the opportunity
to do that with my son's.
Oh, dad, I don't know what
you two are talking about!
But Matt was
just tryin' to help.
Maybe he was
or maybe he was just
trying to ease his conscience.
You don't know the first thing
about my conscience.
But I do know
what it takes to raise a son
passed the age
of ten years old.
And let me tell you this.
It involves a lot more
than filling his head
with romantic visions that have
nothing to do with reality.
- I've heard enough.
- No, you haven't.
You couldn't possibly know
how I feel about my son.
I may not have always done
the right thing
but at least I was there
to do it.
I told you
I didn't want to interfere.
- Well, then, don't.
- But, dad--
(Tom)
'The next time you get
an urge to be paternal'
just think back
about years ago
and remember how easy
it was to forget it.
It was..
It was never easy,
it's not easy now.
I wouldn't know about that.
But I do know this.
Your son paid
for one of your mistakes once.
And I wouldn't allow
the possibility
of your grandson
paying for another.
Grandson!
Come on, Tommy.
[dramatic music]
[indistinct chatter]
[knocking on door]
- I'll get it.
- No, no, it's my turn.
Remember you let the maid in.
But she didn't stay,
it doesn't count.
Tough torts, counselor,
back to work.
Uh, David,
could we talk a minute?
W-what's the problem?
[sighs]
You're not gonna believe it.
- But can we, uh..
- Oh, I get the hint.
You two need to be alone,
oh, no problem.
- I understand completely.
- Oh, no.
That's very nice of you, honey
but you don't have
to leave, really.
Oh, no, no, no,
I don't mind, really.
I know, but there's no reason
you have to disrupt your work
'just because
I have to disrupt mine.'
You're so noble, David.
Where do you want
to talk, at the beach?
No, I've had enough of that.
Can we just go down to my room?
The ironic thing is that
Auntie V thought it would be
the perfect opportunity for dad
and Matt to patch things up.
Only all's dad did
was scream at Matt
just like he screams at me.
'And in my case, I'm getting
tired of hearing it.'
Now, wait a minute,
it's not all him, you know.
You've done
your share of screaming too.
- What about you?
- 'Me, I listen.'
- Yeah, but do you hear?
- I don't believe this!
I'm getting another lecture.
You're my brother.
- 'You're supposed to--'
- Now, wait a-wait a minute.
Calm down, you're already
getting defensive.
Can't you see what's happening?
All the pots are so busy
calling the kettles black
that no one can see
anyone's side but their own.
Tommy, the problem between dad
and Matt isn't about you.
It's about a total breakdown
in communication.
They're so wrapped up
in their own reasons
for not getting together
that no one even
bothers trying to get together.
Is that how it's getting
between you and dad?
- Girls, look at this.
- What?
Look at this tree,
isn't that beautiful?
Look at all this stuff,
it's great.
- I've seen this before.
- Trees and..
There's something
in those bushes.
- There is not.
- Yes, there is..
It's great. Be back in a sec.
[sighs]
Do you have any idea
where we are?
Sure, somewhere in Hawaii.
Great, just great.
What are we gonna do now?
I guess what we've been doing.
Walk around and point out
the interesting foliage.
Eventually, we're bound
to find a way out of here.
Yeah, well, it better be fast.
Because I'm running out of names
to make up
for these stupid bushes.
Snorkeling with a push.
Thinking the restaurant fiasco
and now this?
Huh! Some nature hike.
Do you really think we're lost?
We've been walking in circles
for an hour.
Face it, Nancy, these guys
are as about as Hawaiian
as Donnie and Marie.
Do you have any idea
as what we're gonna do?
Yes, we're gonna put a little
"Girls scout know how to work"
and get out of here.
I refuse to spend
the rest of my life
on a mountain plain
naming that plant.
Yeah.
- Come on.
- Come on, you guys, follow me.
(Elizabeth)
'It's gonna take
a lot of knowhow.'
'I have a feeling we're miles
away from civilization.'
[instrumental music]
(Susan)
'Boy, renting this car
was a great idea.'
'Must've cost
a fortune, though.'
(Merle)
'Well, it wasn't cheap,
that's for darn sure.'
- 'But I tell you what.'
- 'What?'
As long as it gets us
away from the family
it's worth every penny.
- Yeah, I guess you're right.
- I know I'm right!
Uh, honey, I love
your family, I really do.
But I swear, they're just
like a batch of weeds.
As soon as you get rid
of one, another pops out!
[laughs]
Hey, Merle, look.
Yeah, they must be in trouble.
Hey! We need a ride!
Hey, that's Nancy and Elizabeth!
- Merle!
- Uh-huh...sorry.
- Reflex edge.
- Yeah..
- Uh, you sure we--
- Merle.
We could..
(Nancy)
Hey, thanks for stopping.
(Elizabeth)
Yeah, that was really nice
of you guys.
Nance! It's Susan and Merle.
- 'You're kidding.'
- 'Thanks a lot.'
- 'I don't believe it.'
- 'Gee, guys.'
(male #)
'You're real life-savers.
Thanks.'
(female #)
And it was here,
at the Pali Lookout
where King Kamehameha the Great
pushed all of his enemies
over the cliff and unified
all the Hawaiian Islands.
Now, if you all just
follow me to the bus..
(Mary)
Oh, wait! One more picture.
[indistinct chatter]
I still think it was really
dumb to take another tour.
Come on, we've taken
every precaution.
We even changed
the buses at the last minute.
And look around.
Do you see anyone
in this group with a suit?
No.
Now can we go before
we miss the bus obviously?
- Huh! Oh..
- Okay, alright.
Just don't panic.
- Terrified, okay?
- That's fine.
Oh..
Oh, my God! He thinks
he's King Kamehameha.
Why? Nobody's gonna hurt us.
He's at the..
- Let's have it.
- Uh, uh, camera.
Traveler's checks.
Why are you following me?
- What?
- What?
You've been tailing me
ever since I got here.
On every tour...I've seen you,
I've seen you looking at me.
'You're private investigators.'
What?
Yeah, I'm not dumb.
I've watched "Charlie's Angels."
My wife hired you, didn't she?
- 'She found out about Eva?'
- Eva!
Now you tell her,
if she wants a divorce, fine.
But I'm tired of running.
No more hiding on tour buses.
I refuse to go
through life, intimidated!
- Right.
- Ha ha..
Bye.
[giggling]
You know, dad...I think
we're doing something wrong.
Why, Nicholas? I-I think
it's a beautiful sand castle.
- You do?
- Yes, of course I do.
It has that lived-in look.
You know, I think
the sand needs to be wetter.
That's what Matt says.
Matt?
Who's building
the sand castle, anyway?
You and me or you and Matt?
You don't like him much, do ya?
Well, I, uh..
How can you hate somebody
you don't even know?
Nicholas, hey,
I never said that.
I don't hate anybody.
Have you been talking to Tommy?
No, it's just that
you always said
you should be nice
to old people.
That's right, Nicholas,
I did say that. And you should.
You said that they can
teach us a lot, remember?
'Cause they already made
the mistakes we're gonna.
[instrumental music]
Well, maybe
just a little wet sand.
[knocking on door]
Hi..
I had a feeling it might be you.
I don't suppose
a simple "I'm sorry"
would save me from a lecture.
Oh, I don't wanna
lecture you, V.
I-I just want you to see how
ludicrous this whole thing is!
I mean, look..
Even if we wanted
to get together..
Well, what would it accomplish?
It might give somebody
something they need.
What? Me, a father?
The children, a grandfather?
For what reason?
Is that all you can see?
What it could
or couldn't give you?
Did you ever stop to think
what it might give me?
- V.
- That's right. Me.
You have a family, Tommy.
A beautiful, wonderful family.
V, don't. Please, don't.
You, you have us,
you have us all the time.
The children adore you, Vivian.
I know.
But sometimes
you just want your own.
He is our own, Tommy.
No matter what you say, he is.
V, I wanna ask you a question.
It may sound a little strange
but just bear with me
for a moment.
Do you remember
when we were kids
and we had that
swing set in the backyard
that you loved so much?
Of course I do.
It was thing I loved
in the whole world.
It was falling apart
and mom had to take it away
because she was afraid
you might k*ll yourself on it.
I cried for weeks,
we couldn't afford another one.
Well, why don't you and I go
to the park right now
and play on the swing set?
What do you say?
Don't be silly, Tom.
It just wouldn't be the same.
Don't you see, V?
It's not the swing set
you miss, it's the memory.
You don't need it anymore.
It's a lovely story,
Tommy, but a poor analogy.
People aren't swing sets.
That's right, they're not.
But the lesson is the same.
You can't go back.
I'm not asking you to go back.
Just forward.
You can go forward.
Why can't you give me this,
Tommy?
This one thing.
Damn it, Tommy.
Why can't you give me this?
[sobbing]
I can't, V.
I just can't.
[sobbing]
- Hi, dad.
- Oh, hi, Tommy.
Guess you got a lot
on your mind, huh?
Yeah, you might say that.
You know, dad,
I've been thinking..
...about you and me and..
Well, I guess I just didn't like
what I saw last night.
Oh, yeah.
Last night,
I, I don't blame you.
It wasn't very pleasant.
Well, you know,
I-I talked to David
and I, I talked to Auntie V.
And...I guess
what I'm tryin' to say is..
...and I think I understand
you a little bit better.
You do?
Well, I never gave much thought
to not having a father.
I guess you thought
about it a lot, huh?
It crossed my mind a few times.
Dad, you know, you don't
have to worry about school.
I plan on sticking it out.
I really, I always did.
I see. I'm glad to hear that.
I'll try not to let the band
get in the way so much.
But I still don't buy
everything you say
about education and my future.
I see.
But...who knows?
You got a pretty good
track record.
You might get lucky.
Dad, I..
...I guess, I just wish
that sometimes you try
and understand me
a little better too.
Tommy, I've got a better idea.
Why don't we try
for more than a little?
Who knows...
we might both get lucky.
Okay.
Oh, and, dad.
You know what,
he's not such a bad guy.
Maybe he just needs
some understanding too.
- And one more thing, dad.
- Yes, son.
You've gotta get rid
of that shirt.
[laughs]
Okay.
Now, let me get this straight.
This person Matt
is our grandfather?
And the whole reason that
Auntie V brought us to Hawaii
was so that we could meet him
after he and dad reconciled.
Only it backfired
'cause dad won't give in.
You got it.
[sighs]
Oh, boy.
How did I miss all that?
'Cause we were too busy
being paranoid.
- And lost.
- A-and found.
Oh, that certainly explains
why dad's been acting
so strange lately.
Yeah, and how come every time
I mention Matt's name
he gets so goofy?
[sighs]
Look, the point is, is
what are we gonna do about it?
(Joannie)
'Well, from what
you said, Tommy'
Auntie V's tried
just about everything.
Whatever it is
it's gotta be upfront.
It's gotta be dad's decision
in the end, no more tricks.
Hey, maybe an event
of some kind.
You know, somethin' so appealin'
wild horses
wouldn't keep him away.
That's not bad, but what?
Somethin' that would involve
the whole family.
You know, like a birthday?
No one's havin' a birthday.
Well, we can lie about our age.
Sure, Nicholas.
Uh, anniversaries?
No, nobody's havin'
one of those either.
But we're havin' a honeymoon.
Two honeymoons.
- Of course.
- 'That's it.'
We'll plan a party
for the honeymoon couples.
We'll make it
a big family event.
Me and my big mouth.
Look, we'll tell dad
that it's the start
of a new Bradford tradition.
He'll have to come.
Well, if we gotta do it,
then let's make it a luau.
- A luau!
- Yeah, why not?
- A great idea.
- Food, music, the whole beach.
I can get the band.
Good, we can make
the arrangements.
Oh, I don't know.
Um, Tommy, wait.
I, uh, saw this in
a Mickey Roonie movie once.
- Really?
- Uh-huh.
Who is Mickey Rooney?
Why would she leave?
I don't know, but we can't have
a luau without Auntie V.
I mean, not this luau.
What are we gonna do?
Well, you know,
the desk clerk said
she left for the airport
a few minutes ago.
Maybe we can catch her.
How?
Wonderful, at least
we found 'em.
- You guys.
- You guys.
- Elizabeth, Nancy.
- Hi.
- What are you doin' here?
- Never mind, where's your car?
Well, it's over there, but wh..
- Let's go.
- Go where?
- Come on.
- It doesn't matter.
You wouldn't know
how to get there anyway.
- Go on, this is important.
- Yeah, would you move it?
- A honeymoon luau?
- Mm-hmm.
But why? I mean, don't
the two of you wanna be alone?
Well, the fact is, dad
we spent so much time
trying to avoid the family
that we haven't enjoyed
Hawaii much at all.
Well, we wanted to be alone
just because we thought
honeymoons were supposed
to be that way.
Yeah, but I think we learned
that what a honeymoon really
is supposed to be
is what you want it to be.
What-what makes you happy.
And being with the family
does that for you.
Mr. B, you have no idea
how strongly
we both feel about this.
Well, how about David and Janet?
Do they feel the same way?
Oh, dad, if you could only see
the expressions on their face
when they found out.
Wow, I, I think
it's a great idea.
I mean, who knows
this might be the beginning
of a whole new
Bradford tradition.
Yeah, uh, but there
is one thing you should know.
What's that?
We invited Matt.
Y-you see, Mr. B
Tommy told us what's been
going on but...well..
Dad, he is our grandfather.
'We're counting on you.'
Now if you don't come,
we'll understand.
But it won't be the same
without you.
[car horn honking]
- Wait!
- Wait!
- Auntie V, wait!
- Wait, wait!
Wait!
Wait, you can't leave.
Look, I know, it was wonderful
that you girls--
Auntie V, you don't understand
we know about Matt
and what you tried to do.
(Elizabeth)
'Yes, so we all got together'
and we came up
with this great idea for a luau.
Yeah it may b*mb too
but it's worth another sh*t.
(Elizabeth)
'Come on,
what do you say Auntie V'
'give it another try, for us?'
Well, I always
was a sucker for luau.
Especially when it comes
with good-looking Hawaiian men.
[laughs]
Okay.
If you give us the fruit,
Eddie, you can take off.
Sure thing.
- There you go.
- Heh. Thanks.
Oh.
[indistinct chatter]
[door closes]
They, uh...really
liked him, didn't they?
Oh, yeah, yeah.
He's a good musician.
I always thought he was a..
...a bunch of junk guy.
It-it's so hard
to hear the words.
Yeah, yeah, you gotta listen
in order to learn
what it's all about.
Yeah.
I guess, you do owe it
to yourself to..
...to at least try.
Listening, I mean.
You drink scotch?
Scotch is fine.
♪ Tiny bubbles ♪
♪ Tiny bubbles ♪
♪ In the wine ♪
♪ In the wine ♪
♪ Makes me happy ♪
♪ Makes me feel fine ♪
♪ Tiny bubbles ♪
♪ Makes me warm all over ♪
♪ With the feeling that.. ♪
Ugh. Don't they know
anything else?
Hey, I got 'em cheap.
Yeah, they must be
friends of Eddie's.
- What time is it?
- It's about o'clock.
You mean, we've already
been here an hour?
Yeah, time sure flies
when you're havin' fun
on your honeymoon.
You know, I didn't hold out
much hope for dad
but I thought at least
Matt would come.
Maybe Matt doesn't like
us anymore.
That's not true, Nicholas.
He likes you a lot.
And it's still early.
V is right.
Let's not give up hope yet.
♪ Makes me happy ♪
Your mother used to joke about
having...three kids
around the house.
I guess she waited a long time
for me to grow up.
She was a good woman, Tom.
She deserved more than she got.
If that's your reason
for leaving, I don't buy it.
No, no, no, it wasn't anything
as noble as that.
I left because I was scared.
Scared I'd never become
what I had said I'd be.
Important.
You were important to us.
Yes.
But I had to prove something.
God knows why but I had to..
I wanted to be a-a big man, Tom.
A mover of mountains
and all that.
But it just wasn't in the cards,
not in that town.
So you just left?
So I just left.
I thought
if I struck out on my own
I'd make it big
and I'd come back and..
Maybe to found that town.
You could've written.
Oh, I did.
I did, the letters
all came back unopened.
Maybe that's the way
she wanted it.
Well, I'm not blaming her.
Maybe that's the only way
she could deal with it.
k*lling me off in her mind.
Yeah.
I'm not unfamiliar
with that process.
You know, Tom, most of us
stumble through life
making mistakes that
don't matter much down the road.
But I've spent my life..
...living with the mistake
that won't go away.
[sighs]
Leaving the family that I loved.
I guess
you were right all along.
You can't go back.
Just wanting to be
a father...again
doesn't get you very far.
I understand,
I really understand.
I just wish
I hadn't met those kids.
Now I'm gonna miss
being a grandfather too.
♪ Tiny bubbles ♪
♪ In the wine ♪
♪ Makes me happy ♪
♪ Make me feel fine ♪
Well, we tried.
Yeah, we tried.
Can we give it
another half hour, you guys?
I can't listen
to that song one more time.
I'm with you.
Let's face it.
Neither one of them
are gonna come.
Nancy is right, you guys.
We just have to accept the fact
that this is one situation
that isn't gonna change.
I really thought
he'd come around.
I really did.
Well, let's pack it in.
Don't take it too hard, slugger.
♪ And here's to the silver sea ♪
♪ Well.. ♪♪
[instrumental music]
I'm sorry, I'm late.
But I had
some catching up to do..
...with my father.
I always hoped to get
a real grandpa.
[instrumental music]
- Dad, this is Susan.
- Hi.
- My wife, Abby.
- Hi.
- And this is Joannie.
- Hello.
And uh..
- Merle.
- Hello.
- Nancy.
- Hi.
And this is Elizabeth.
- I'm Mary.
- Hello, Mary.
Hi.
Janet, this is
my oldest son's wife.
And my oldest son David.
- David.
- I got Tommy right here.
[laughing]
[theme music]
[music continues]
04x09 - Fathers and Other Strangers pt. 2
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The show was modeled on the life of syndicated newspaper columnist Tom Braden, a real-life parent with eight children, who wrote a book by the same title.
The show was modeled on the life of syndicated newspaper columnist Tom Braden, a real-life parent with eight children, who wrote a book by the same title.