08x02 - Shame on You

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08x02 - Shame on You

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Previously,
on "90 day fiancé"...


Mike: When natalie gave me
the ring back,

I felt very lost, at that point,

So we kind of put the visa
on the back burner.

I wasn't prepared
to hear this right now.

I'm not ready
to get married right now,

But we want to give it a go.

This is the hail mary.

Whoof.

Brandon: I spent almost
$10,000 in seven months

For France, iceland,
and the k-1 visa,

And she's out of work
at the moment,

So we'll be living
with my parents.

This is my baby boy.

Just wondering, um...

Do you know if she's on
birth control, by chance?

I guess we're not being safe.

You're not? What?!

No, that's not good.

I love your voice. [ laughs ]

Zied is not
my first relationship

With a man
from an arabic country.

Melanie: We've been
through this before,

And then you filed for divorce.

If he does anything
out of line...

We're gonna have problems.

♪♪

Jovi: I'm a very simple
kind of person.

Yara is an extremely girly girl.

Ukrainian women
only want to make it

To the united states.

[ inhales, sighs ]

♪♪

♪♪

[ sighs ]

Julia's coming. Yay!

Yaaaaay!

Oh, she has no clue
what she's in for.

[ laughs ]

I can't wait to see her.

My fiancée, julia,

She's coming from russia
to the u.S.

To live with me and my family,

And we'll have 90 days
to get married.

All comes down to this day.

A new chapter of your life.

A big one.

♪♪

When she found out
when julia would be coming,

My mom started making
all these plans.

She was gonna go to the airport
and meet her with me.

She has moments of being
a helicopter mom.

Yeah.

♪♪

All right... hey, look,
I'm gonna go park the car.

Hurry up. All right.

Whoo!

Come on, let's go!

This is the part
we've been waiting for!

♪♪

Oh, we're finally here.

I know.

Before julia gets here,
let's get some flowers.

Oh, flowers is a great idea.

We are so ready
for julia to arrive.

Absolutely.

We're really excited, and we're
really excited for brandon.

That's pretty, brandon.
Betty: That's nice.

Very pretty.
Yeah, that's beautiful.

I'm having a hard time
just staying still.

My nerves are
just, like, on end.

She's arrived!

She's here. Let's go find her!

Mom!

Let's go. Let's go.

Once we finally see her,
it's gonna be like,

"uhhh!" [ laughs ]

I'm getting goosebumps.
[ laughing ]

Are you getting goosebumps, too?

[ laughter ]

All this time, and now
we're coming down

To not just minutes,
but seconds, maybe.

Ron: [ laughs ]

♪♪

Now, she's finally
gonna be here.

My heart's starting to race,
and I'm looking around like,

"where is she?"

It's a crazy feeling.

[ overlapping chatter ]

There she is.

Betty: Yay, she's here!

Aww. Oh, my gosh.

Ahh! [ laughing ]

[ laughter ]

Oh, go, go, go, go, go!

Julia: [ laughs ]

[ laughter ]

♪♪

[ laughs ] aww!

♪♪

Julia: Mmmmm.

Julia: [ indistinct ]

♪♪

I got tear in my eyes.
Betty: I know!

[ laughs ]

No. Quick, quick, quick.

[ laughter ]

[ smooches ]

Aww. [ laughs ]

Julia: [ smooches ]

Mmmm.

Ron: Oh. [ laughs ]

♪♪

Awwww!

♪♪

Ohhh.

Oh, my god, I don't believe it.

It's unreal. It really is.

Yeah.

Huh? Ah, no!

[ laughter ]

[ laughter ]

[ smooches ]

Ron: Hi! [ laughter ]

Good to see you.

I'm so glad you're here!

Oh, we're so glad to see you!

Finally!

The anticipation of it...
Oh, my word.

We're so glad you're here.

Oh, my god!

I think we're almost
as excited as brandon.

Yeah, I think we were.

We all had goosebumps.

It was so good to see you.

We're so happy to have you here.

Now we have four of us
go out and do things,

Not just the three of us.

[ laughs ] yes!

[ laughs ]

Hoo!

Welcome to the u.S.A!

U.S.A! You're in the u.S.A!

My mom said this!

When I fly here... "america!"

[ laughter ]

And your 90 days
starts right now.

Julia: Yes! Ron: Yes.

[ smooches ]

Mmmm.

Don't believe it.

Oh.

Phew.

[ laughter ]

[ clears throat ]

Um...

[ laughter ]

[ exclaims softly ]

What does that mean?
What does that mean?

Hope that means "both."

[ laughs ]

[ laughter ]

♪♪

Julia: [ laughs ]

I not believe I'm here!

♪♪

♪♪

We should start taking
this stuff down, yeah?

Yeah, brother.
Whatever you think you need.

Mike: My uncle beau,
he's actually my cousin.

He is living
at the house right now.

With natalie coming,

Everything is gonna be
new to her,

So she just wasn't
quite comfortable

With beau living in the house.

Unfortunately, I had to ask beau

If he could move out
for a while, you know?

[ grunts ]

So, we got beau set up.

He's gonna go live
with his brother.

He's not gonna be
homeless or anything.

But, I mean, I feel really bad.

It's... that's not
the easiest thing.

I feel stuck in the middle.

♪♪

This is temporarily...
While she's trying to

Get acclimated in the house.

Hopefully, after a couple weeks,

We can get you back in here,
or out in the barn, at least.



Still got this, man.

You know, I appreciate it,
you know I mean, dude?

Like, I just feel
really bad, you know?

It's just real fast,
but you're gonna be fine.

Take some of this out.

Mike: It sucks, but at
the same time,

Natalie is coming
into a complete new place,

And I want to ensure

That she's the most
comfortable possible.

[ sighs ] all right.

[ sighs ]

♪♪

♪♪

[ heels thudding ]

[ both speaking ukrainian ]

[ speaking english ]

♪♪

♪♪

♪♪

♪♪

♪♪

[ laughs ]

♪♪

♪♪

♪♪

[ overlapping chatter ]

[ sniffles ]

♪♪

[ exhales sharply ]

[ inhales shakily ] phew.

♪♪

♪♪

[ sniffles ]

♪♪

[ smooching ]

♪♪

♪♪

♪♪

♪ Keep me shining ♪

♪ in love ♪

♪ 'cause you keep me
holding on ♪

♪ you keep me shining ♪

♪♪

I've been engaged to hazel
for over two years now...

Um...

...But we're not
even married yet,

And what you're thinking about

Is the girlfriend
we need to find?

Keep your eyes open for
the red flags, rebecca.

I don't want you to go through

What you went through
with your ex.

Rebecca: With my ex,

I still am recovering
financially,

And now, with zied,
I'm gonna be the one

That takes care of him.

You have blinders on.

♪♪

♪♪

Producer: Yo, yo, you can
hear me in the headphones?

Yeah, bro, I got you.

Dope, let's make
some magic today,

Bro, wait till you
hear this [bleep].

[ giggles ]

My name is tarik.

I'm 46 years old,

And I live in
virginia beach, virginia.

Here we go.

♪♪

[ rapping ]
♪ girl, you're hot sauce ♪

♪ hella hot sauce ♪

♪ pretty lil' ghost pepper
burn my mouth off ♪

♪ girl, you're hot sauce ♪

♪ hella hot sauce ♪

♪ so fire, I can't see
when your top off ♪

I'm a passionate person,
and I have many great loves.

I love music.

I'm actually
an excellent rapper.

♪ I'm sorry if I'm
jumping the p*stol ♪

♪ but look how ass looks
bumping my p*stol ♪

♪ I'm a gentleman
and a scholar ♪

♪ so I'ma blame it
on the a-a-a-a-a-a ♪

♪ lemon twist vodka ♪

I love working out.

I got a dad-bod, but I think
the g*ns will tell

That I'm pretty cool
for a 46-year-old.

Producer: Dude, that was lit.

That's dope. That's that sauce.

[ laughs ]

I absolutely love to travel...

♪♪

...And my favorite place
in the whole world is thailand.

♪♪

About eight years ago,
I went to thailand,

And it changed
everything about me.

I've been to thailand
so many times, you know,

That I've learned a lot
of the language and the culture.

♪♪

I got this sword
imported from thailand.

I did a little bit of practicing
when I was there,

And I just kind of brought
the moves back here.

♪♪

Everything about thailand,
I just took to it.

The sights, the sounds,

The food, music.

This sword is a multitasker.

I also had two girlfriends
from thailand that I met online,

But it didn't work out,

So I went on
an asian dating website

To broaden, you know,
my search area.

♪♪

Hazel is from the philippines.

She's beautiful inside
and outside.

She's like an asian version
of angelina jolie,

And I love her.

♪♪

It's been a long road

Since I went to the philippines

To meet hazel for the first time

After three months
of online dating.

♪♪

[ cheering ]

♪♪

This is...

[ sniffs ]

Wow, you are [bleep] gorgeous!

♪♪

Our first interaction,
I was just taken, you know?

But hazel was kind of
standoffish at first.

Tarik: Oh, so, this will
separate us?

Hazel: Yeah.

But as we started to talk,

We saw that
we had a lot in common,

And the more we talked,
we started to see

We had even more in common.

One of those things is that

Family is extremely important
to both of us.

So, she took me
to meet her parents.

[ laughter ]

♪♪

Tarik: I was shocked at the
condition that hazel lived in,

And by the end of the trip,

I knew I wanted to give her
a better life in america.

♪♪

♪ I had to look right down
the street at the corner store ♪

♪♪

Will you marry me?

♪♪

Yes.

Yessss!

[ laughs ]

Tarik: I've been engaged to
hazel for over two years now.

Since then, I applied
for the k-1 visa.

We got approved,
and in a few weeks,

Hazel will be here,

And we're gonna be able
to be together, finally,

In america for the first time.

I am completely overjoyed...

To be marrying hazel.

[ rapping ] ♪ t-a-r-z-e-l ♪

♪ you dig? ♪

But I got another little
special lady in my life.

[ laughter ]

[ giggles ] good catch.

♪♪

I have a daughter.

Her name is auri,
and she's seven years old.

[ laughter ]

I have majority custody.

You know, she's here like
five days out of the week,

And her mom gets her
on the weekends.

♪♪

Oh, no!

And auri has
high-functioning autism.

Give daddy a kiss.

[ smooches ]

My daughter is the biggest
part of my life.

Everything revolves around her.

I live here now.

I live here now. Lock it.

And I'm very nervous

For when hazel and auri
meet in person.

It's really the most
important relationship

That has to work for me.

♪♪

[ call line ringing ]

You there?

I see you now!

Hi, beautiful.

How you doing? Is it hot there?

You're not even sweating.

That's 'cause you're so cool.

[ fake laughs ]

Yeah.

♪♪

So, how's harry?

Hazel has an eight-year-old son.

His name is harry.

He's the cutest little,
happiest little ball of joy

You could ever meet.

I had the pleasure of
taking him out with hazel

A couple of times
when I was in the philippines.

Harry lives with his father,

And his living situation...
It's tough.

It's rough.

I mean, you know,
it's not like he has

All of the opportunities
that we have here in america.

So, we plan on bringing him
here eventually.

♪♪

I love you, too.

It depends on what you want.

♪♪

A while ago,

Hazel dropped a b*mb on me.

You know, she told me...

That she was bisexual,

And I will admit,

I was kind of surprised by it.

♪♪

Uhhhh, yeah.

Virginia beach is full of
smokin' hot women.

[ clears throat ]

Not long after that,

She started talking about
having a girlfriend.

♪♪

But there's so many
questions that that...

That that brings up.

How is that going to work
when she gets here?

Is she really in this for me?

[ laughs ]

Look at you... laughing
like a little kid

In the candy store.

No.

I'm just saying, I don't
want you to be too happy

Thinking about a girl,

'cause you're gon'
forget about me.

♪♪

I feel cautiously
optimistic about it,

But we're not even married yet,

And what you're thinking
about is, you know,

The girlfriend we need to find?

And we've had some trust
and jealousy issues in the past,

So it does make me nervous.

But she wants to go
full-steam-ahead on this thing,

So I hope that
we're really ready for it.

♪♪

♪♪

[ geese honking ]

♪♪

Hey. How you been?

Good.

Can I leave my stuff here?

Absolutely. Thank you.

Rebecca: In a few days,
my fiancé, zied,

Will be having his k-1 visa
interview in tunisia.

You made it. [ laughs ]

Hey.

I love the shirt.

Thank you. It's zied.

I'm really nervous
about this interview process,

So today, I'm excited
to let off some steam

With my best friend, melanie.

Okay, what are we doing?

Girl, gonna do a little bit
of self-defense?

[ laughter ]

Melanie was my boss

When I did the p.I. Stuff
full-time,

But I've started a new career
as a restaurant manager,

And I haven't seen much of her,

So we have a lot to catch up on.

So, what's the latest
on you and zied?

His interview is in two days.

So, bless his heart...
He is so scared.

Why would he be nervous?

I mean...

About having
to answer questions,

And they can tell by the way
he answers questions

If he feels comfortable or not.

Yeah, well...

Be a true test
of y'all's relationship.

♪♪

Melanie: When I met rebecca,
she was with the ex.

She went and visited him,
married him in his country,

And then realizing
he was using her.

It was very hurtful for rebecca.

So, your left arm,
it's gonna be your jab, okay?

So you're gonna punch
right here.

Boom. That's it.

Here we go. Jab.

Now she's getting ready
to bring zied into the u.S.

And two.

It's just so similar,

And being
a private investigator,

I definitely have suspicions.

One and two good..

[ laughs ] okay, one.

And two.

Good.

Now we're gonna
switch fast, okay?

So you're gonna be holding
the pads for her.

Good. Melanie: Let's do this.

Oh, okay. [ laughs ]

Who's that on your shirt?

Oh, so, this is my fiancé, zied.

Okay.

Yeah, he's from tunisia,

Which is kind of
at the top of africa,

And he is about to have his visa
interview in a couple of days.

Yeah.

And she's been
through this before.

This isn't her first time.

Yeah.

[ laughs ]

[ laughter ]

Time to punch now.

She's so in love
with zied right now,

And she, you know, in her mind,

Thinks that it's
gonna be different.

He's gonna be different.

Don't drop the hands.

Keep the hands up. There you go.

But they've not spent
a lot of time together

Face to face.

And, bam...
Now he's coming here.

So I feel totally responsible

To be the eyes
and ears for her...

Help her to really pay attention

To any kind of red flags
that could be going on.



Oh, my god.

How was it? I'm done.

[ pants ] good job.

Melanie: Great. Thank you.

Good, good, good.
Thank you, leo.

All right, no problem.

Melanie: Ugh. Rebecca: Whew.

Let's have a seat. Okay.

♪♪

[ sniffs ]

Rebecca: I think melanie has
been pretty skeptical

About the relationship

Because it's just her nature
as a private investigator.

Oh, man.

But definitely want to make sure
that I have her support.

♪♪

That was a good workout.

Yeah, we need to do it again.

I think zied would like it, too.

[ indistinct chatter ]

Look...

I understand why everybody's
asking questions about this

And not trusting it,
but, ultimately,

Zied and I want to be together.

And I get that, but...

I can see how
caught up you've been

In this relationship with him.

And I know you don't
want to hear this,

And I know you've probably
already thought about it,

But, remember, I did a
background check on him.

I know.

And it was a little concerning.

♪♪

Okay, well, I do have
the background check.

Okay.

Like, he's never worked
a day in his life.

♪♪

What was his explanation to you

As to why there was
no work history listed?

Well, most of the work
that he has done,

When he gets paid
for that, he's paid cash.

And he wants to be working.

He wants to... at least,
that's what he's told me.

♪♪

[ sighs ]

Well, rebecca, you need
to be with someone

That can take care of you.

Everything that you've
sacrificed to get him here,

I don't want you to go through

What you went through
with your ex.

My ex from morocco
took advantage of me so badly

When it comes to how much money
it ended up costing me.

And I still am recovering
both financially

And with my credit,

And it was really difficult
to get over.

♪♪

I don't want to see you go
through that again,

But it's like
you have blinders on.

I'm speaking out of love
when I say all of this, though.

Just keep your eyes open
for the red flags, rebecca.

I know.

I think that I'm doing that,

And I'm gonna give it
as much of the 90 days

As I possibly can
to spend with him

Before we get married.

♪♪

Yeah.

♪♪

Rebecca: With my ex, I offered
to support both of us,

And he treated me like [bleep].

And now, with zied,

Initially, he won't have
a work permit,

So I'm gonna be the one
that takes care of him.

♪♪

It was a very difficult
decision for me

To take the risk
to do this again...

And if it turns out
that I'm wrong about zied,

I don't know that I'll ever
trust my judgment again

Or be able to be
in another relationship again.

♪♪

All right, come see
your new home.

Ouugh.

I put forth a lot of effort
looking for apartments,

So I hope she really
likes the place.

Cheers.

Yeah. [ laughs ]

♪♪

Mike: She gave me the ring back,

And I guess on a technicality,

We're not engaged.

I don't fully know
what to expect

For when I see her right now.

Ooh, see her.

See her.

♪♪

♪♪

♪♪

Jovi: Yeah.

Yeah?

My fiancée yara just arrived
to america from kiev, ukraine.

Before yara's arrival,

I upgraded
to a bigger apartment.

I got a nice place
in the best part of the city.

It's the cleanest, the safest.

But my new apartment
is probably an apartment

That's gonna be smaller
than what yara wants,

So I hope she really
likes the place,

But we'll see
when she gets there.

And this is our home.

Yara likes the luxury stuff
and the fancy stuff.

Maybe I should have a nicer bed.

Maybe I should have
a nicer couch, nicer rugs.

But for a guy living alone,

I think everything
I have is fine.

♪♪

All right, now the fun.

All these bags.

[ gasps ] oh.

[ laughs ] ouch.

Euugh!

Thanks for holding
the door for me.

[ laughs ] sorry.

All right, come see
your new home.

♪♪

[ wheels squeaking ]

♪♪

Ouugh.

I don't know, 'cause...

Uh, well, the living room's big.

I feel like I put forth
a lot of effort

In looking for apartments,
so to hear her say,

"oh, yeah, that looks [bleep]"

When I think
it's actually really nice,

Of course it's frustrating.

[ laughs ]

Yeah, kind of broke that.

[ object clunks ]

I've been trying.

Cheers.

Yeah. [ laughs ]

[ laughs ]

Yeah, you can decorate it
however you want.

So, you about ready to get ready

And get things going
so we can go out?

I understand you've been
flying for a long time.

All right, fine.
We'll stay in, I guess.

Of course.
I've been having plans.

My friends have been waiting...

I wanna go drink and have fun.

Okay, I'll spend
the first night with you.

All right, we'll stay home.

Go shower and go to sleep, then.

I would have
expected yara would be

A lot more excited
to go out, to...

You know, we're planning
to go out on bourbon street

So she can see
the night life here.

I don't think it would have
been that hard

To go out for one hour.

Like, come to meet my friends,

The people who have been
waiting to see you.

And now she doesn't want to go,

So it's pretty frustrating.

♪♪

Yeah, I guess
we can go to sleep.

I don't think me and yara
are on the same page

About a lot of things,

But our 90 days starts today,

And, you know, we really have
a lot to think about

Before we get married.

So, we're gonna have sex
for the first time in america?

[ laughs ]

♪♪

♪♪

I'm driving to pick up
natalie from the airport.

I'm super excited, nervous.

Don't know what to
expect from her.

♪♪

[ phone line ringing ]

Patricia: [ over phone ] hello?

Whoa, hello.

Hold on.

Cruising the airport right now.

The day has come,
mother. [ sighs ]

♪♪

You got any words of advice?

Well, you know, I'm concerned
about all of this.


You guys have already hurt
each other a little bit.


But...

You know, just be kind
to one another


And try to figure it out.

Amen.

♪♪

We have our [bleep]
to work through.

This is day one.

That's stuff's not on my mind.

She's arriving in the u.S.
Her first time.

♪♪

We're gonna make the best of it
that we possibly can.

♪♪

♪♪

I'm here to start
my 90 days with natalie.

♪♪

I'm hoping for the best,

But I don't fully know
what to expect

For when I see her right now

When she gets off the plane.

♪♪

Natalie has always been
my fiancée

Since I gave her the ring,

But, I mean, she gave me
the ring back.

And I don't know
what it means in her country

When she gives a ring back,

But in this country,
it's a big deal.

Obviously, we got [bleep]
to work on,

And I'm not in a rush
to give her the ring back.

But we have 90 days
to work on our things

And to get married.

It's a huge decision.

It's a huge commitment,
you know?

And it's just...
I don't know what to expect.

♪♪

This good work,
and it could not work.

♪♪

♪♪

Oh, I see her.

I see her.

♪♪

♪ Ooh-ooh-ooooh ♪

[ laughs ] hi, baby.

♪ Ooh-ooh-ooooh ♪

This is great.

♪ Ooh-ooh-oooooooh ♪

♪ ooh-ooh-ooooh ♪

♪♪

Oh, boy.

♪♪

You made it.

[ laughs ]

Yeah.

I'm extremely happy.

It is long overdue.

I can't believe that
she is here in america.

Welcome to the great northwest.

It's cold, baby.

Here's some beautiful
flowers for you.

You're welcome.

Huh?

You don't like purple?

♪♪

♪♪

Excited?

Snowboard.

You want to carry it?
You don't want me to carry it?

Huh?

You got it? [ laughing ]

♪♪

We got you got 90 days,
you know what I mean?

We're gonna try to get
everything figured out,

And I'm hoping for the best.

She's here, yeah.

♪♪

Welcome to the u.S.A!

While you're at the farm,

There's gonna be rules
that we have to follow...

That you have your own room.

♪♪

My mom's a [bleep]block.
[ laughs ]

[ stammers ]
our house, our rules.

♪♪

♪♪

Betty: Whoo-hoo!

Good job.

Hi! Clerk: Hi, how are you?

Well, we're checking in.

Brandon has one room,
and then, elizabeth...

That's me...
I have a second room.

Okay, just need your I.D.
And a credit or a debit card.

Yeah, it's nice.

Guys, let's get
this stuff upstairs.

And we gotta kind of hurry

'cause we have
dinner reservations.

Okay, we can spare five minutes.

Yes! A quick five minutes.

Okay?

[ laughs ] go, go, go!

[ laughs ]

[ yawns ] excuse me.

Betty: So, hold the door...

[ laughing ]

Excuse me. [ laughs ]

Ron: Brandon.

Uh, could you help me
get this off here?

♪♪

Okay, guys, don't forget,
we only have a few minutes,

So, like, let's hurry up, okay?

Not to rush you,
but let's hurry it up.

All right, just knock on our
door when you're ready.

My mom's a [bleep]block.

[ laughs ]

Something I've dealt with
my whole life.

[ laughs ] isn't this
how it is for everybody?

[ laughs ] I don't know.

Hmm? I not go.

You take dinner.

Ah! [ laughter ]

Oh, god. [ laughs, sighs ]

Ooh, look, look,
look, look, look.

[ grunts ]

Look, look, look.

♪♪

Yeah, that's the
capitol building.

Mm-hmm. [ smooches ]

♪♪

The last time we saw each other

Was about four months ago
in France,

And now she's here to stay,

And I can't believe it.

I'm so happy.

♪♪

[ laughter ]

♪♪

[ elevator dings ]

I know.

It's much-needed.

Oh, well.

Oh, finally!

Yay! [ chuckles ]

Betty: Hi!

Where have you been?

Never mind,
I don't want to know.

I'm so sorry! [ laughs ]

It's okay.

So, when you get to the farm,

You're gonna see the farm.

You're gonna come home!
You're gonna go home.

[ laughs ] your new home.

Waitress: Your welcome.
I'll be right back.

Cheers.

Ron: Here. Cheers.

To the... happy new couple.

The complete family.

Betty: Welcome to the u.S.A.!

Welcome to america.

I'm worried brandon
has not told julia

The fact that they're gonna
have separate rooms yet,

And I just feel like
she needs to know.

I agree. I agree.

♪♪

Betty: So, while you're
at the farm,

You know that there's
gonna be some rules

That we have to follow
just out of respect.

And I'm not sure how your
culture handles this,

But we thought it'd be
a really good idea

To let you have your own room.

♪♪

Explain.

I don't... I don't like it.

♪♪

And, um...

Our house, kind of our rules.

♪♪

I don't really have a choice.

♪♪

I definitely feel
somewhat blindsided.

I was gonna tell julia,

Like, after she had time
to settle in, you know.

And my mom just comes out
and drops it right on her.

He wasn't being honest.

Shame on you.

You do agree with what your
mother is talking about,

Don't you?

I mean...

What?

Um... [ clears throat ]

I think it sucks, but yeah,
I mean, I understand.

It's y'all's house.

♪♪

♪♪

♪♪

Just until you get married.

We feel it's just
a respect thing.

Digging a tunnel.

You wanna get... [ laughs ]

[ laughter ]

No, I don't have a problem
if you get married.

I don't have a problem.

Can we also have children and...

[ laughs ]

Speaking of children...

Speaking of children...

You guys do not want children
right away, right?

Okay, so you're gonna
take proper steps

To make sure that
there are no children yet?

♪♪

But, I mean, you're making sure

You have adequate protection...

"drink medicine"?

That sounds like something
out of the dark ages.

No, no, no, when she says
"drink medicine,"

She means, like,
"take medicine."

Ah. Oh, no, no, no, no, no.

Things aren't like that
anymore, though.

If there's an accident and...

It's not 26 years.

It's only a few years,

And things happen
when you don't plan them.

Let's try and make sure

You find a way to prevent that.

♪♪

♪♪

Make sure we find a way
for you to go with me...

Maybe to my doctor...
And talk about options.

♪♪

Brandon: I had no idea
my mom was gonna do this.

It was totally unexpected.

But I'm also, like...

A little silently angry.

I feel like even
if I say something,

It's not gonna
make a difference,

So I might as well
just not say anything.

♪♪

♪♪

I am looking for a gaming
system for my fiancé.

He's 28.

Oh, wow.

There are regularly times
I stop and think,

"what the hell am I doing?"

He's cute, right?

♪♪

♪♪

♪♪

Rebecca: Tomorrow is a big day

Because zied finally has his
visa interview in tunisia.

I think the reality of it
maybe is kind of setting in,

And I'm hearing
a little bit more pushback

From my family and friends.

But I'm still excited,

And even though his visa
has not been approved yet,

I am so hopeful that he will be

That I'm already
prepping for his arrival.

♪♪

Hi, how are y'all doing?

Man: Good, how are you?
I'm good.

What can I help you with?

I am looking
for a gaming system.

Okey-doke, I can
help you with that.

It's gonna be right over here.

Thank you. Mm-hmm.

Rebecca: Zied won't be able to

Get a work permit
for six months, so, yeah...

He had mentioned that
he wanted a video game console

Because he's gonna be
stuck at home

And needing something to do
while I'm working.

♪♪

You'll have to help me.

I have literally no idea
what I'm looking for.

I'm thinking that I'll get him

Maybe a soccer game
or something,

But I'm hoping that the staff
can kind of help me

And tell me what somebody
his age might want to do,

About what they want to play.

You said you don't really
know what you're looking for?

No, I have no idea, really.

My son is 25.

I think the last time
I bought one, he was 17,


Something like that.

Mm-hmm, okay.

So, do you remember what
your son likes to play?

Well, I mean, it's...

It's not for my son.

No?

I'm buying it for my fiancé.

It's just, they're close
to the same age.

♪♪

Yeah.

Might be a rude question,
but how old is your fiancé?

He'll be 28.

My son is 25.

Oh, wow.

♪♪

[ clicks tongue ] anyway...

All right, well, I can
help you, for sure.

♪♪

It's, like, charming, you know,

That she's trying to buy,
like, this thing

That she thinks
her fiancé would enjoy.

So, I think this would be good.

Can he hook up, like,
a debit card to it

And buy games and stuff?

Yeah.

Awesome.

But her fiancé is around
the same age as her son,

And it kind of
makes me wonder, like,

Is her son comfortable
with the relationship?

Uh, yeah, so it's
gonna be $215.15.

Very cool.

Who's this on the card?

Uh, that would be my fiancé.

Jenna: Oh, I want to see.

Aww! He's cute, right?

Yeah.

♪♪

Yeah.

I get a razzed
a little bit by my kids

Because I have pictures
of him everywhere.

♪♪

Awesome.

Rebecca: Zied and I are


And, yes, there are
regularly times

Where I stop and think,
"what the hell am I doing?"

It's never when
I'm talking to him...

...But most people
that I come across

Can't possibly understand
the special bond that we share.

Here's your receipt.
Thank you so much.

I hope he likes it.

Should be very fun.

I just hope that
when zied arrives,

The judgment
from the outside world

Doesn't come between us
in any way.

♪♪

[ insects chirping ]

Oh, my gosh.

It is 2:00 a.M. Now,

But it's morning in tunisia,

And zied is on his way
to the interview right now.

♪♪

Yeah, we're pretty nervous.

I mean, I'm really tired,

But I don't know if I'm gonna
be able to sleep.

We'll see. I'm not sure.

[ clicks tongue ]

At this point,
zied's paperwork is approved,

And this interview
is the last thing

Standing between his life here
with me in america.

So everything is
hinging right now

On the next couple of hours.

He just has to prove
to the interviewer

That he's not in this
just for a green card

And that he really loves me.

I think I want to send him

A quick little
good-luck message.

[ phone dings ]

Baby, please be safe driving,

And please call me

As soon as you know something,

And send me a message
when you get to the embassy

So I know you get there safe.

And, uh... [ sighs ]

Good luck, baby.

It's gonna be okay
no matter what.

I love you.

[ phone beeps ]

♪♪

I know how stressed out he is,

And I'm concerned
about his little heart.

It breaks my heart
to think of him

Sitting in there, being scared,

And being by himself.

And I just want to be able
to be there with him

And hold his hand

And, you know,
make him feel comfortable.

♪♪

I'm just hoping in the
next hour... two hours maybe...

That he says that it's approved,

And then he'll be here
to sleep with me.

♪♪

I'll see you soon, baby.

[ kisses ]

♪♪

[ lamp chain clicks ]

I started talking online,
you know, to this girl.

After hazel and I had broken up,

I met minty.

She's really pretty.

I'm afraid to tell hazel.

I'm worried that it might
mess everything up.

♪♪

♪♪

♪♪

Tarik: Today I'm meeting
a good friend of mine... kia.

She used to be a tenant of mine.

You know, we got really cool,

And so, me and her have been
good friends ever since.

Hazel's only a few weeks
away from being here,

And this is what
I've been waiting on

Ever since I proposed to her,

But I'm almost
more nervous now...

Than when I first met her.

So I'm really hoping that
kia can sort of calm me down.

There she is. Hey, tarik.

What it do,
what it do, what it do?

Nice to see you.
Yeah, yeah, for sure.

[ laughs ]

How's the baby doing?

She's getting tall as hell.

Aww, I gotta come by
and see her sometime time.

So, what's the plans
coming up with hazel?

She should be here in the
next two or three weeks, so...

How do you feel?

Nervous as hell,
you know what I'm saying?

I mean, there's a lot
on the line.

I've been friends with terry

For almost ten years.

As far as terry with women,

His daughter's mom was
the last woman I saw him with,

And now, he's with hazel.

There it is. Thank you, sir.

Thank you. All right.

So you're just all-in.

I mean, it's been smooth
sailing since day one.

♪♪

You know, in 2 1/2 years,
everybody, you know...

Everybody gon' go through it.

Have you ever questioned
her character thus far?

You have?

Yeah, and I was wrong,

But I did.

Hazel and I had been engaged
for almost a year,

But then, we had
a big misunderstanding.

What happened was,

We thought she was pregnant.

We thought.

She takes a couple
pregnancy tests...

One positive and two negative.

But the two negatives
was after like a week.

After, like, a week
and some change, uh-huh.

So, I'm thinking that
she terminated the pregnancy.

So I flipped out,
because I'm thinking,

"I can't be with nobody

That's gon' do some [bleep]
like this."

A woman can do whatever
she wants with her body,

But I think why, you know,

My feelings kind of went
all over the place

Was because it was
a trust thing.

You know, I thought she did it
without talking to me...

And I was like, "this is over."

♪♪

So, about three weeks
after I break up with her,

I go back online,

And I start to talk to
a girl in thailand.

♪♪

After hazel and I had
broken up, I met minty.

She's really pretty.

She got a little bit of,
you know, pizzazz to her,

And we had a lot in common.

I mean, I wouldn't say
I was falling in love,

You know, immediately,
but it was a de...

I was falling in like.

♪♪

You know, talking to her online,

I started feeling guilty.

So I told that girl, like,
"yo, before we get any further,

I got to go clean this up."

So when I finally
did talk to hazel...

And they said, "no,
you weren't pregnant."

Your cycle was just late."

Okay.

She forgave me,
and I said, "look,

I'ma be straight-up
honest with you...

I started talking online,
you know, to this girl."

She was like, "I want to
see all the pictures.

I want to see
all the text messages."

I was like, "okay, I ain't
got nothing to hide."

♪♪

You know, and then...

♪♪

...She was like,
"she's beautiful,

And I might want to
talk to her."

Like, "talk to her" like...

Yeah, like holla at her.

Oh.

So hazel is bisexual.

Yeah.

♪♪

I haven't really told anyone...

Not even close friends
and family...

That hazel is bisexual,

Because most people
are going to have

All of these
preconceived notions,

And I'm not gonna
tell her to change.

So, hazel having a girlfriend

Is going to be a part
of our married life.

So, we met...

Y'all met? All three?

Yeah, we met in the philippines

A year and a half ago.

So, wait, did they hook up?

Did it happen?

Everything was beautiful

For about two and a half days.

Uh-huh. But...

Day three, hazel just
put an end to it.

Hazel felt like
minty was more into me

Than she was into hazel,

And hazel could see
I was just fascinated by minty.

You know, it was
refreshing to me

To be able to speak in thai

And talk about all of the stuff

That I experienced in thailand.

But there was, like,
this jealousy

That came over
hazel immediately,

And it ended right there.

And hazel told me to never
contact minty ever again.

♪♪

So, was that the last time
you saw that girl

Or talked to her?

Okay, so...

All I did was text her
a couple of weeks ago

And say, "yo, I saw the news

That coronavirus is,
like, going wild there

In the part of the world
you're from.

Are you good?"

The next day, she gets back,

And it's like ten text messages.

Does hazel know that
you reached out to her?

Not yet. Oh, [bleep].

I'm gon' tell her.
I'm gon' tell her.

You should.

I am.

Okay.

Let me know how that works out.

A woman is not gonna want you

Checking up on another woman

That you was entertaining

While y'all broke up
on a pregnancy scare.

When you say it like that,
you make it sound...

That's what it is.
That's factual.

That's how women think.

♪♪

As reserved and quiet
as hazel is,

She's not a pushover,

So I'm afraid to tell hazel
that I reached out to minty.

♪♪

Hazel's, like, damn near
on her way here,

And I'm worried that it might
mess everything up.

Eventually,
I have to tell hazel.

I'm just not gonna do it now.

Yeah.

Well, you know,
I appreciate that.

You know I value your opinion.

I'm looking forward
to meeting her.

♪♪

Jovi: My mom wants us to go
stay over at her place.

She's excited to meet you.

Introducing my future wife
to my mother

Is one of the most
important things in my life.

If you want me to go alone,

It'll be disrespectful
if you won't do it.

♪♪

♪♪

♪♪

[ door opens ]

What?

What do you want?

♪♪

What?

Today is yara's
first day in america,

And she has not
stopped complaining

Since the moment she landed.

I can already see this is
gonna be a lot harder

Than us just traveling together.

Living together is gonna be a
completely different ball game.

Let's go. You just got here.

Let's go have fun.

Let's not complain and just...

You can unpack later.
It's no big deal.

We can maybe buy them
if you learn how to say them.

"hanger."

A "hanger."

Hanger.

♪♪

Oh, come on, put that away.

It's a nice day outside.

Let's go enjoy it.

My beautiful fiancée
has finally arrived,

And I want to be able
to show her everything.

I want to bring her out and have
some fun in new orleans.

Yara: Yay.

Yeah, that's nice.

I still can't believe
you're in new orleans now.

[ hooves clattering ]

Everybody is always walking
around the streets

Drinking here, too.

Oh, yeah.

Wait till you walk
down bourbon street.

You'll see everybody drinking.

[ band playing rousing music ]

♪♪

♪♪

Jovi: All right, now we can go.

♪♪

♪♪

♪♪

[ indistinct chatter ]

That's the start of...
Man: Whoo!

[ screams ] I'm sorry!

[ laughs ]

We can take any streets.

Look at these streets.

Yeah.

Ah, look.

This spot's good for you.

A tabasco store.

All right, so, I wanted
to ask you...

Tomorrow, my mom actually
wants us to go

Stay over at her place
in larose for the night

So you can meet all my family.

How do you feel about that?

Yeah, spend the night
at her house.

Jovi: Just so you can
get to know them.

I'm really excited
for you to meet her.

She's excited to meet you, so...

I don't need to sleep in her
in the house.

Just for one night,

And we'll come back
the next day.

No, I don't think so.

We're gonna stay there
for one night.

No, it's normal for us.

This is like louisiana culture.

It'll be disrespectful
if you won't do it.

♪♪

♪♪

Okay, well, you don't
have a choice.

I've gone and stayed
where your family's from.

And I can't even speak to them.

They don't even speak english,

And you can't even spend
more than a few hours

In my mom's home?

Like, come on.

Okay, but, why wouldn't
you sleep there?

Oh, you wanna go back
to ukraine already?

Do you want to?

Not such a good one, either.

Better than ukraine.

♪♪

So you're not gonna
come tomorrow?

Done with what?

♪♪

Introducing my future wife
to my mother

Is one of the most
important things in my life,

So I wish she would be more open

And more understanding
that this needs to happen.

And I want yara to like my mom.

I want my mom to like yara.

I don't want there
to be any conflict.

I need them to get along for me
to have a comfortable marriage.

♪♪

Oh!

♪♪

[ sighs ]

Rebecca: Baby?

I'm worried immigration may say,

"you know what,
she's done this before."

And deny his fiancé visa.

How did the interview go?

Did you get an answer?

Yeah.

♪♪

♪♪

♪♪

Mike: Natalie's here
in the u.S. Right now,

And I'm nervous,
and I'm excited.

You know, I want to try
to do something special.

Got a super nice hotel

So we can spend
some time together

For natalie's first night
here in america.

♪♪

♪♪

What's wrong with purple?

You just don't like purple?

♪♪

Huh?

You didn't like the flowers?

In america, it's not
really about the gift.

It's about the thought
that counts.

The appreciation of me going out

And attempting
to get you flowers,

Whether you like it or not.

♪♪

[ laughs ]

About four or five miles.

You'll be able to tell.

It'll just start popping up.

Be all big and beautiful
and lights, okay?

Gonna start getting
a lot brighter.

And I'm really afraid
to tell you this.

I'm like $30,000 in debt.

♪♪

The last couple of months
before natalie's arrival,

I was able to pay down
a lot of the credit cards

And debt stuff.

I got some money saved
and put aside, you know.

Step back. [ laughs ]

But I don't want to
have to, like, start spending

Vast amounts of money and stuff,

This and that again.

Rooms and stuff are super
expensive in seattle...

You know, they're like $400
or $500 a night.

But we've had some really
tough months here in the past,

So I would really like
to make her first night here

Special in america.

There you go.

Oh.

♪♪

Mike: Like it, baby?

Come here.
Come check out the patio.

Look at the view.

♪♪

Oh!

♪♪

♪♪

I really tried to make
something special for you.

♪♪

Champagne?

See what we got here.

[ cork pops ]

[ glass clinks ]

You're welcome, baby.

Welcome to america.

♪♪

Let's let our journey begin.

♪♪

Ahh.

Mmm.

[ knock on door ]

Maybe it's food, baby.

[ door opens ]

Thank you, sir.

Coincidentally.

♪♪

♪♪

♪♪

♪♪

Thank you, baby.

Cheers.

♪♪

We did it, baby.

♪♪

I'm very proud of us
and how far we've come.

We have our struggles,

But the end of the day,
we're still pushing, okay?

Mm-hmm.

It is nice to be back in
a happier place with natalie.

It's a lot better.

I mean, we're a lot better off

Than we were
a couple months ago,

That's for damn sure.

We still have stuff
to work on, obviously,

And we will continue
to work on it,

But the great thing is,

Is we'll finally be
face to face,

And be able to
really work on stuff,

And, you know,
work on it as a team.

And I think it could be
a really good thing for us.

Oh, baby, I'm happy
to see you, you know?

I understand your worries...

It was.

[ sighs ]

It's a new time and age, okay?

I think the next 90 days

Is gonna be
very, very interesting

And very wonderful, okay?

It's amazing, huh?

♪♪

♪♪

♪♪

♪♪

♪♪

[ tablet ringing ]

Rebecca: Ooh.

[ ringing continues ]

[ phone program chimes ]

Baby?

Hang on, let me
turn the big light on.

I can't see.

♪♪

How did the interview go?

Did you get an answer?

Did they tell you?

Baby.

Tell me what happened.

Yeah, um...

♪♪

♪♪

So, you leave
your passport with them?

Yeah.

♪♪

Rebecca: I really am shocked,

And I don't know what to think.

We always knew that zied
could get denied,

But now we're just being told

They're taking his passport,
and come back later.

How do you think
the interview went?

You think it was good?

Yeah.

I just hate that
they're gonna make us

Wait one more week.

♪♪

Are you okay?

Rebecca: I'm so confident
in our relationship

And that he is not looking
just to get a green card,

But because I've had
a spousal visa before

With my ex from morocco,

I'm worried that
immigration may say,

"you know what,
she's done this before."

And deny his fiancé visa.

♪♪

I'm sorry, baby.

I wish they would have
told us today.

Yeah.

But...

I love you.

I love you, too, baby.

All right, baby, I'm gonna go

Back to sleep for a little bit.

All right, baby.

[ phone line beeps ]

♪♪

Zied and I have been
engaged for about a year,

And it's just been really hard
to be apart for that long.

♪♪

I want zied here. [ sighs ]

I want to be able to sleep
through the next week

So I don't have to
worry about it.

It's gonna be
the longest week ever.

♪♪

♪♪

Oh, I have said to them, though.

♪♪

♪♪

How tired are you?

Huh?

Why?

♪♪

♪♪

♪♪

What... we're talking about
the room situation?

Um... [ sighs ]

Um...

Maybe teach you otherwise

About some of the things
that you...

Maybe it's a misconception,

What you have about
birth control pills.

Maybe to tell you
about how safe...

♪♪

[ laughs nervously ] you...

Because...

Oh, I have said to them, though.

I got... I get nowhere.

♪♪

Okay.

"if we don't sleep
together, we leave"?

If we can stay in the same room
and I'm tired,

Is that bonding time for you?

Is that quality time
together, when we sleep?

Cuddling up, I get that,

But if I just go
right to sleep...

♪♪

It's not bad.

It's not a bad situation.

We're gonna have
our whole lives,

You know, to be alone,
to be together...

And especially
after we move out.

You know, my parents...

My mother is
really helping us out.

She wants to be
a little involved.

I don't really see
anything wrong with that.

We kind of owe her.

She did just pay
for her flight over,

And I think
julia should understand

And maybe appreciate, like I do,

The help she's given.

You want talking
with them again?

I know, I know, I know.

I know.

Okay.

♪♪

♪♪

♪♪

♪♪

[ sighs ]

♪♪

Next time, on "90 day fiancé"...

Hazel will be here
in a few minutes,

And my stomach is in pretzels.

Tarik: I'm gonna have to
bite the b*llet

And tell hazel
that I reached out

To our ex-girlfriend, minty.

Mm-mm.

She still thinks we should be
in separate rooms.

♪♪

Hey, baby. Amira: [ laughs ]

When are you guys
getting married?

You don't know yet?

Jovi: I'm a bit nervous
how my mom's gonna react.

I know she has some concerns
about yara being here

And us getting married.

So, we have any wedding plans?

What's the deal?

That's not gonna happen.

I can't just watch him
make a mistake

And me not say anything.

♪♪
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