Previously on 90 Day Fiance...
We're home.
Welcome to South Dakota.
I'm a little anxious
about my parents meeting Miona.
Brian and I have been talking about
some expectations
that we would have, taking care
of the house, cooking.
I think living here with my parents
is gonna be more difficult
than I imagined.
I can already tell
that there's gonna be issues.
I can't believe Guillermo
is finally here.
But now I'm worried
about whether or not
he's gonna be able to fit into my
lifestyle here in Charlottesville.
Put your seatbelt, sir, it's America
and you will get arrested.
Yes, my love.
So I was thinking maybe we could
just have one night together
before we go back and meet Koban.
What do you think?
Does that mean we can go?
Yeah.
Welcome to your new home.
Oh, my gosh.
All this time, Bilal. This is
what I'm talking about, babe.
Shae and I only spent seven days
together when I went to Trinidad.
There's a lot of things that we
still don't know about each other.
Hypothetically,
if I was a millionaire...
Yeah... and I lost everything,
would you be with me?
Hi.
Tonight is our last night
in Ethiopia
and Bini has only just started
telling his family
that he's leaving.
OK, I'm happy that I'm not gonna
see you guys anymore,
and you know what,
I'm not going to marry you guys,
I'm marrying Biniyam.
Ha!
T?
Yes.
Will you braid my hair for me?
I have question.
Yes.
Listening.
I don't think so.
No, I'm not coming.
I don't want to be in the middle.
Already I have stress.
I don't wanna be, like,
more stressed.
I want everyone to get along
before I'm going America.
I'm happy if you guys say goodbye
to them,
they obviously don't wanna
talk to me, so...
I wasn't the one who was upset.
You and your sisters were upset.
I'm just the one who
got the glass of wine in the face.
Bini decided not to tell them
that he was leaving,
and instead of being angry at him,
they decided to take it out on me.
His sisters
have never treated me well,
and I always give them many chances,
but at this point, I just don't want
to have anything to do with them.
For me, when someone just gets me
to the point, that point,
it's like I'm moving on.
You can't be sad all day long,
you know?
We got a flight to catch,
I have a baby to watch.
It's not like I didn't try
a million times to call them
and to help them when they
needed help.
And I know my conscience is clear.
I've done everything I could
possibly do to be nice to them,
to try to be their family.
OK.
I mean, you tried to, like, nice,
like peace.
I have been very nice, very nice,
and I'm very peaceful.
I'm not calling them and saying,
"You threw wine at me,
you did this."
Nothing. I'm done.
I understand your feeling.
I understand you are so upset.
No, I'm not upset.
I told you that already.
You're the one who's upset.
Your sisters are upset.
I'm not upset. I'm focused on
packing and my baby. OK.
[EXHALES]
Good morning.
Cheers.
So...
So, what do you think?
I can't really believe
that I'm in America.
I'm waking up next to Kobe
for the first time in two years.
And, other than the snoring,
it was perfect.
It's great to be in his arms again.
Like, we just picked up
where we left off.
[MOANS SOFTLY]
Damn, babe! You're ready!
We could do it in the shower like...
I love you!
[BOTH LAUGH]
Oh, my God!
I know. I was super nervous.
Because I haven't seen you!
We had sex once last night in the
shower, and then twice this morning.
The chemistry 100% was there.
He made me feel so comfortable
in my body that I have now.
Like, made me feel so loved.
Like, he didn't not touch me.
I mean, I don't really think
we got into the boobs a whole lot.
We just kind of, you know,
stuck down low.
And I wasn't sure
how it was gonna feel
with my mom bod and his dad bod,
but it worked.
Are you happy that we went out to
dinner and had a little date night?
So, you don't regret...
OK.
I don't think we made a baby.
Except, do you know what happened
when you were asleep?
I decided to do one of those
ovulations things on your phone.
You know when I was most fertile?
Last night. So, it's a good thing
you pulled out, buddy.
Mm-hm. It's making a little uneasy
I was most fertile last night.
Mm-hm. We're just not gonna have sex
for another two years.
It was easy to do that, because you
were so far away.
But now that you're here, I
think it would be hard.
We're just schedule a date night
every two months,
when I'm not ovulating,
and there's our problem,
and you still pull out.
That's our birth control.
I know!
I'm just so excited for you guys
to have that moment.
I'm excited for you to see him.
All right, let's go.
Ready?
Oh, my gosh, I'm so excited.
I hope he's not cranky,
cos it's kind of his nap time.
I am so excited that Koban finally
gets to meet his dad, you know.
I'm overjoyed for Kobe.
But I'm also a little nervous for
how Koban's going to take to him.
Is it?
Oh, my gosh.
Sugar baby!
Are you more excited to see Koban
and nervous to see my family?
Or more excited for both?
What do you think?
[SQUEALS]
Sorry!
I don't wanna make you nervous.
I'm just so excited
for you to meet everybody,
and see my house.
You've only seen it on FaceTime.
Mm-hm. My dad came home for lunch
to meet you.
I'm nervous, too. It's a lot.
Like, I've never even brought a guy
to meet my parents.
Yeah?
Let alone the guy I met in China
who knocked me up who's from Africa.
[SIGHS]
I'm pretty nervous that
Kobe is about to meet my parents,
because I don't have
a good track record.
I don't know how they really feel
about him,
and they hardly even know
each other.
They're probably thinking, "What
the hell did my daughter get into?"
But I feel like
they have to give him a chance,
because he's the father of my son.
[SQUEALS] This is so nerve-wracking.
[EXHALES]
And here we go.
You're gonna meet your son.
I know.
Look at the welcome.
[SNIFFLES]
Babe, are you crying?
Kobe, look at me.
Oh, I knew!
[PANTING]
Take a deep breath.
Babe, take a deep breath.
You're hyperventilating.
Babe, this is so exciting.
It's so exciting.
This is the day we've been
waiting for -
you're gonna meet your son.
OUR son.
Who's, like, amazing and the best
thing that we've ever done.
Give me a kiss.
I know.
Let's go and meet Koban.
Oh, my God.
Oh, look.
Oh, babe, look at Koban.
Oh, my God.
It's so cute!
Oh, my gosh, babe.
This is crazy.
This is so super crazy, man.
I can't believe I saw him.
Baby, look.
Geez!
Are you ready?
line:90% position:50% My name is Patrick.
I'm 31 years old
and I live in Austin, Texas.
I'm goal oriented, I'm hardworking
and I go for broke.
I wake up around 5am or 6am.
I'll go right to the gym.
I really believe
pain is weakness leaving your body.
And I live that.
That's how I got strong.
Ever since nine years old,
I've been competing in sports.
I found my weightlifting coach
in high school,
and I realised
being stronger than everyone else
was something
that I was just really good at.
[GRUNTS]
After training
for a year and a half,
I was one of the strongest people
in the country.
My best squat was 800lbs.
[YELLS]
I made the US national team,
competed at the Pan Am Games,
the world championships,
and eventually started training
for the Olympics.
[CHEERING]
I wasn't really focusing
on anything else
other than my weightlifting career.
So I was in the gym 24/7,
and that's where I ended up meeting
my first girlfriend,
which then ended up
becoming my first wife.
Yeah.
She was a weightlifter as well,
and I thought, you know, we're
gonna have this great life together.
But before the 2012 Olympic Games...
..I tested positive for HGH,
which is human growth hormone.
It's a performance-enhancing drug
which is banned by all sports.
A couple of years later, I tested
positive for dimethyl testosterone,
another banned substance.
And since it was my second offence,
basically that ended my career.
Looking back,
it was a huge mistake.
I was trying to take a shortcut,
and now I have to live with
the consequences, you know,
for the rest of my life,
because I can't be a part of
the sport that I love.
What's up, bro?
I'm gonna make some lunch.
Do you want anything?
Yeah, of course, man.
What are you cooking?
Just some chicken and rice,
some green beans.
Healthy living.
Yeah.
After my weightlifting career ended,
it put a huge, huge divide
in my relationship with my ex.
She fell in love
with the weightlifter,
and so, us not lifting together
and being in the gym together,
I think that's when we started
growing apart.
She asked for a divorce
and ended up moving out.
I was here with this big house,
all by myself
and starting life all over again.
So, I asked my older brother John
to move in with me,
and we've been living together
for the last three years.
Don't forget the seasoning.
Yeah, I threw some in there already.
Don't wanna say you're overcooking
the chicken, but you might be.
You want me to take over?
If you wanna cook it...
No, I'm not trying to be that guy,
but I'm just trying to tell you,
you know,
little bit of salt,
little bit of pepper.
John and I
were both born in Massachusetts,
but he lived there
a lot longer than I did,
and that's why he's got
his beautiful accent.
What can I say?
IN BOSTON ACCENT: Hey, what's
f*cking going on?
OK, that was terrible.
That sounds just like you!
I'm not that bad. John, you
obviously can't hear yourself.
Yeah, OK.
It ain't never gonna be five stars,
but you know what I'm saying?
Go ahead. Go ahead, mix it together.
Well, I'm just trying to help.
My dad and my mom divorced
when I was seven.
Once he was gone, my mom had to
raise four kids on her own.
It was always particularly tough
for me,
because I wanted her attention
a little more,
and I just never got it.
I know she tried her best,
but she was bi-polar
and struggled with drug addiction.
It got really bad, to the point
where she was losing her job.
As I started training
for the Olympics,
I kept my distance from the family,
cos I didn't think
being around my family
was gonna be beneficial to me.
Until I ended up getting divorced.
All right, I'm gonna turn this on.
All right, buddy.
Got your lighter?
I got a lighter.
Abracadabra.
John, he helped me through
a really tough time in my life,
and he's one of the few people
I feel like I can really count on.
I think things would have been
a lot different
if John wasn't around in my life.
It's not bad, bro, I gotta say.
Yeah?
Wash it down with a beer.
You know, it's Monday, I'll take it.
Me and him definitely have
a bachelor pad type of set-up.
Cheers.
Cheers.
But that's all gonna change when my
fiancee moves in with us next week.
My fiancee's name is Thais,
she's 25 years old, she's a model
and she's from Montes Claros,
Brazil.
I met Thais on a trip I planned
to Brazil to reconnect with my dad.
He's Brazilian, and he
retired there eight years ago.
I decided to put my location
down there on a dating app.
And we swiped right.
I was kind of like,
"Man, I hope this girl's real.
Please be real."
When I picked her up
for our first date,
I ended up rolling up
and I screamed.
I was like, "Yeah!"
I was so happy.
This is the hottest girl
I've ever seen in my life.
We just started making out
in this club,
and I was blown away
that first night.
Something was just telling me,
"Man, you gotta give this a sh*t.
This is crazy."
So, I just kept booking trips
and booking trips to go to Brazil
as much as I can.
Oh!
As I got to know her more,
she just showed me this affection
that I've never had any time I
was with my ex, or any other woman.
I realised feeling that love
was just something I wanted
my entire life.
I ended up proposing to her.
And she said yes.
We applied for the K-1 visa, and
she's gonna be here in five days.
I definitely whooped some ass,
so if you wanna step up to the
plate, youngster, then let's go.
Thais and I talk every single night.
I learned how to speak Portuguese,
because she doesn't speak
barely any English.
Aw!
[LAUGHS]
[CHEERING AND SHOUTING]
[INAUDIBLE]
Huh?
Dude, you're playing poker!
One time.
Get out of here.
John brought them here.
You lost that night, too.
[SIGHS]
I really want Thais to be happy,
but I asked John to live with us,
because we've been really close
these last few years,
and I don't wanna see that go away.
And if Thais and I don't work out
and I end up kicking John out,
that's gonna affect
our relationship,
she's gonna be gone, and I'm gonna
end up in the same spot I was,
just alone in this big-ass house
by myself.
Hey, bro.
Yeah?
Hey, Thais.
I apologise,
I don't speak Portuguese.
Anyways...
Yeah, John, we're not allowed to
have parties. No, no, no, no.
We're just having a good time.
No worries.
She said it was her house, too.
I'm not gonna fight it.
I love my brother,
I cherish my brother,
I cherish the relationship
that we're having right now.
But when we're all together,
it's gonna be a test,
cos we got a lot of egos.
I mean, blood's thicker than water,
right?
We'll see.
She said we're good.
Can Thais and I talk?
Sure.
All right, thanks.
line:90% position:50% [GROANS] Give me a kiss.
Is my breath hot?
It feels amazing
to wake up to Miona.
She arrived yesterday,
and I'm super happy that she's here.
And I'm very happy that we can
just be at my parents' house,
but not with my parents there,
so we can have some alone time.
Are you gonna make me
some breakfast today?
Make you some breakfast?
Mm-hm.
Yeah. You like fruit?
Just fruit?
And uh... yoghurt and granola.
OK, that sounds better.
Miona's never lived away from home
before,
let alone been this far
from her parents.
She's never had to do laundry,
cook or clean.
Her mama's always done that for her.
So, I want this just to be
super comfortable with Miona,
because this is our first time
actually living together
that's not been at
a four-to-five star resort.
Hey, Miona, maybe you wanna start
unpacking your suitcases.
Um... I don't think I will unpack
everything now.
Thanks.
It's just... I don't know
how long we are gonna stay here.
For a while.
So, we gotta unpack everything.
Yes, the winter jackets, too.
I don't want Jibri to be upset,
especially since the first day
we are in his parents' house,
but I don't know why Jibri's
pushing us staying in Rapid City.
He probably thought that
I'm just going to change my mind.
But that's not going to happen.
I don't understand why are you
pushing to stay here for so long,
when you know I don't want to.
It's like, is it not
important to you what I want?
No, it's absolutely important to me
what you want.
I'm just trying to utilise
this time we have now, to be here,
to be frugal with our money,
and not spend on crazy vacations
like we always do.
Think about all the stuff
we gotta pay for.
We gotta pay for the wedding.
I know.
And I want a simple wedding
and you don't want a simple wedding.
I want a nice-looking beach
wedding... Expensive.
..that's not cheap-looking.
Exactly.
So, it's going to be expensive.
One of the issues that we definitely
discuss a lot is finances.
How he would maybe like to spend on
different kind of stuff than me.
I would maybe like to give
more money on the wedding.
Yeah, I definitely encourage
spending money on assets
rather than liabilities.
Yeah, but I don't see a wedding
as a liability.
I just want to feel good
on my wedding.
I need at least to be
like I want it to be,
if I'm already not gonna have such
an important part of the wedding,
and that's my family.
So, what if we do a simple wedding
in the next 90 days
and just wait and have the big
wedding when your parents can come?
I wanna do two weddings.
Now you wanna do two weddings?
In Serbia, one in America.
But you want a beach wedding in
America? Yes.
And then what do you want in Serbia?
Like, in the garden.
Hold on.
So, you want a garden wedding in
Serbia... Yeah.
..with your family?
Yeah.
So, why can't we have a garden
wedding here, with my family?
Then you're gonna want to have
three weddings -
on the beach, the garden here and
the garden in Serbia. No. Come on.
I'm not giving up on
my beach wedding.
We don't have money
for a beach wedding.
We don't have money for a vacation
right now.
Miona's unable to work and cannot
contribute the same way I can,
so if Miona can't stick this out
in South Dakota,
I don't know if I'll be able
to get married in 90 days.
Let's get our business stuff
taken care of.
Let's get your makeup line started,
let's get my music career
off its feet.
But do you really think
this is the place to do that?
I think with the internet,
any place can be a viable place.
I always thought about America
as a country of the opportunities,
so I'm definitely
going to do the most,
so I can make my dreams come true.
And I know that he's trying to do
financially smart decisions,
but I think it's better for us
to be in a big city,
because I don't know how
I would start a business here
and make it into something huge.
[GRUNTS SOFTLY]
What? You frustrate me,
but you're so sexy.
That's funny.
So, do you think your mother
was serious
when she was saying we need to cook
for them every week a few times?
Unfortunately, yes.
It might be fun.
No, you're right.
You know, the first night
didn't go as expected,
so I'm hoping that Miona and I can
make some dinner for my parents,
and I'm hoping that my mom can
really get to know
the Miona that I know and love.
Ooh, you're cold.
Yeah, warm me up, warm me up.
You're sexy.
You're sexy.
No, you're sexy.
Hopefully they got what we need.
Hopefully they got what we need.
Miona and I never cook,
we usually eat out.
I try to cook back in Serbia.
Mm... That pasta you made
with so much cheese,
I was on the toilet for a while.
But he ate it all
and then he was on the toilet.
All right, babe. Can't believe
there is everything prepared.
Rice, you all don't even have to
make rice anymore.
Wow! These burritos are eight
of them, and they're only $3.
My first grocery shopping
in the States has been different
by some stuff than in Serbia.
There was a bunch of pre-made food
that I'm not used to in Serbia.
You all guys have everything frozen
that you can just make.
String cheese? That's weird.
Doesn't it look weird?
No, it's good.
You should get some string cheese.
The fruit was looking kind of weird
and plastic.
Oh, there's corn dogs.
I never try that.
Corn dogs?
Yeah, I want to try that.
Yeah, we can't have my parents
eating corn dogs.
Oh, we can make the pasta.
You wanna make chicken alfredo?
OK.
It seems pretty simple.
OK, that sounds good.
Serves two.
I lived in Serbia with my parents,
but they didn't have that much rule
set up for me.
So, I didn't expect
Mahala telling us
when exactly do we have to cook
for them, or how many times a week.
I think Jibri and I are grown people
and we don't want to live
by someone else's rules.
It's definitely one more reason
for us to live alone.
When are your parents
coming back home?
About 6:00. Don't stress out.
And I guess those are houses, too?
Yeah, that's a house.
That's one family home.
Huge house.
Yeah.
Guillermo and I
just landed in America,
and we're past all the immigration
stuff and it's just such a relief.
Your cows are so different
than our cow. I know, they are.
We have different everything.
More cars. More houses.
Are you gonna be OK with me
like this?
I love it. I love...
I love watching you do this.
This is what I've been waiting for,
for ever, to share my home with you.
"Welcome to Virg-ee-nia."
[LAUGHS]
No?
It was perfect.
I used to watch a duck hunting show,
they live in the south,
and I would like to talk like them.
You could say, like, "Alabama."
Or you could say, like...
IN SOUTHERN ACCENT: "Alabama."
And it sounds so good
when you say it like that.
Like, sounds...
Does it?
Oh, wow! Yeah.
Oh, this is something new.
Yeah, hay bales.
So f*cking organised! So beautiful.
I've never seen someone so excited
over a hay bale in my life.
As I'm riding in the car,
I notice so many differences
between USA
and countries in Latin America.
It definitely feels so much bigger.
Everything is triple size
than in Latin America.
I feel American now. I'm American.
Oh, my God, baby.
Me and Kara waking up right now,
it feel so beautiful.
Finally we are together
and we are in this beautiful bed
in a really good space.
So, how did you sleep last night?
After everything happen, so good.
Oh, my God. Yeah, finally.
We broke in the new bed, no?
Oh, my God.
We definitely enjoyed each other
after we went to bed.
Got in the bed? Yeah.
Did you like sleeping with the air
last night?
It was a little bit cold.
And more because
in the beginning we were naked.
But the hot shower was so good.
I spent, like, I don't know,
It was definitely a long time in the
shower. It was a long time.
I didn't have hot water
in the last house that I was living.
It was really quick showers,
you know,
because you don't wanna feel
that pain.
We gotta start unpacking your stuff.
The hot water in the house, I mean,
makes you wake up
in a beautiful way.
It's just amazing.
So, I basically have these drawers,
like, very full.
Let's see if I can make
some more space.
This is gonna be a lot. Well, it's
your whole life in a bag, right?
We can get a closet system or...
Yeah.
I don't know. Babe, I really wanna
get a couple of things.
Like what?
Well, you know, I was thinking
in the moment that I get here,
I really wanted to have my computer.
I mean, I need to buy little things,
but also I really want...
Little things, like a computer?
I mean, that's one of the things,
you know.
You've never used a computer in
your life, why do you need it now?
I had a computer -
OK, and what did you use it for?
Well, I didn't use it, because
I was working in different things,
but I need to start my life here.
Yeah, great.
Well, let's just start with
a toothbrush, then.
I'm a little bit like blindsided
at this sudden want of a computer,
when he knows that we're on
a tight budget right now.
I'm getting started
in my real-estate career
and he's not able to work
for God knows how long.
We have about $6,000 saved,
so I don't think spending $1,000
on a laptop
is the best way to be spending
our money right now.
We just have money set aside
to last the entire time
that you're not working.
But, like, computer, I don't really
know that that's a thing
that we can do right now.
I sold my bike.
Maybe with the money for the bike,
I can buy the computer.
Why not? OK, well, that's, like,
a sixth of our entire budget
on one thing
that you'll be using by yourself.
The money that I bring is because
I sold so many things.
It's my money.
It's OUR money.
Right. But in some point it's my
money, too, and I wanna spend it.
I have a computer.
Right, but it's YOUR computer.
I know.
I cannot touch your computer.
But it functions for both of us,
it doesn't just open for me.
I won't touch your computer.
Why?
Because I'm sure that if I f*ck
with something in your computer,
you're gonna get mad with me,
and I don't really wanna have
a problem for a computer.
I will just get my computer.
I budget the things that I buy, and
so I do bills, payments, whatever.
Guillermo has lived a much more
not-rigid financial lifestyle
and so, my money's his money,
but we also have to make sound
decisions and agree on what we buy.
I know there's things you want,
and I want you to have them. Right?
But we gotta do it
in a timely fashion.
Right, but I understand you want
to control those kind of things,
but also I don't wanna buy
a computer in five months.
We have to make sure that you have
the things you need right now.
Need now, not want. You know?
Because there's gonna be things that
come up that we're not planning on.
We have to leave money
for those things.
That's why a computer
doesn't make any sense right now,
because we don't need it.
We don't need it, you don't need it.
I don't like her talking down to me,
because it's like trying to make me
feel like a little kid.
We are spending money together.
We are building a life together.
It's like, I just got here
and you wanna control me?
I mean, she's not my mom.
So, you're the boss.
Sometimes.
I'm just saying, we don't have to
focus on a computer on day two,
when it's already
a stressful situation.
OK? Thank you, that's it.
Great, Kara.
Yeah, dropkick that conversation,
please. Oh, my God.
Two years you've been keeping this a complete secret from me.
Two years, man!
I don't speak like that. Really?
I've been in America for one day
and it's been the longest one day
of my life.
I'm still disappointed
how Bilal tortured me yesterday,
taking me to the old house first
to get a reaction out of me.
Why?
Well, you know, for me, it was...
I don't have to show...
But you did it in such a weird way.
You was literally hiding.
Yeah, I get that.
I would never have seen a lamp.
I would never have seen your yard.
I would never have seen
your kitchen. Right.
I know a lot of guys like to
show whatever they have. Yeah.
Because they like to showboat
and maybe, you know,
get a lot more ladies and that.
Like, I don't... I'm different.
But once we got to an area where I
feel like it was cool to show you,
because we were more in
a committed relationship,
then it was more so like,
you know what,
you say you're real,
you're gonna come here,
OK, I'll just show you in person.
I'll just surprise you.
Do you trust me
as someone you want to marry?
Yeah. You know, emotionally,
you put me through a lot, right?
Babe...
Last night was...
..we was there less than 24 hours.
I know,
but I wish I would have walked into
this though.
But I'm happy
that you brought me here.
I just cannot describe how
grateful and happy I am right now.
Making you happy makes me happy.
I'm still upset about the prank
and I do feel resentful
that he tested me.
But he's making it up to me.
Guess what?
What?
Mom is on her way.
OK.
So, let's get ready.
I hope she likes me.
Why wouldn't she like you?
I'm just saying, babe, I'm nervous.
Yeah, just be you.
OK.
It's been a rollercoaster
of emotions since Shaeeda landed.
But I think we turned a corner.
We're on a good path now.
I just got a message, they're
actually a couple of blocks from...
Your mom?
Yeah.
Nef and Mom and Raheem.
So, yeah.
I'm really excited for her
to be able to meet my mother
and my sister and my brother
for the very first time.
Obviously I want things
to go out on the right foot,
cos first impressions are
everything, so hoping for the best.
[DOORBELL RINGS]
I think they're here.
Let me get the door.
You ready? You ready?
I'm looking forward to meeting
Bilal's family.
I'm a little...
Well, a lot nervous, I will say.
That's when you're the favourite.
So, you know,
going into meeting Bilal's mom.
I don't know what to expect,
but I'm hoping for the best.
How you doing?
Good.
How you doing? You smell good.
Good thing, good thing.
What's going on, bro?
What's going on, sister girl?
Be grateful. Yes.
Hey, what's good, big bro?
Where's she at? Where's she at?
Uh... She is right this way.
Oh, my gosh.
Here she is.
Look how pretty you look.
Oh, my God.
Good to see you. It's been so long.
Group hug.
Talking on my phone and everything.
Good to see you.
Oh, my goodness.
I know.
It's so good to see you.
Like, she's real.
Nice to meet you.
She's actually her!
Well, you look good.
You look even terrific.
I was like, "His mother got swag."
Is that what you said?
Swag, earrings.
In talking with Shaeeda,
I think she has a very kind heart.
Very kind spirit.
So, I think they have
a good ground foundation.
But she's been here one day,
and they haven't seen each other
in two years,
so they have some things
to work out.
Have you done any touring
of the city?
I have not done that,
but so far, what I've seen driving,
this is beautiful.
So, when Bilal took you to
where we grew up... Yeah.
..what was the perception,
you were coming home?
[CHUCKLES NERVOUSLY]
More or less, I think so.
[ALL LAUGH]
Oh, man.
The whole family knows about
the prank.
I mean, I had to go get the keys
from my mother for the van.
I mean, my sister came in town
to fix the house up.
Everyone knows about the prank.
How was it?
[GIGGLES SOFTLY]
[ALL LAUGH]
I don't know what that means.
What happened?
Yes, tell her all about it.
It took me back to a time...
Like, when I opened the door,
I felt like I stepped back in time.
Like my grandmother's house.
It had my grandmother's ceiling.
Yeah, she wasn't too happy
about that.
She was like, "You brung me
from Trinidad to this?"
Is that what she said?
Yeah.
She's trying to be nice about it,
now she don't wanna talk!
[LAUGHS]
I must say, he's good
at keeping secrets, though.
He's really good at keeping secrets.
So, how was your sleep?
It was comfortable.
See?
I didn't feel like I was back
in a whole era.
Slept real good.
She was slobbering.
No, that's not true.
She was snoring.
That's no true!
[ALL LAUGH]
I was not completely honest
with Bilal's family
when they asked me about his home.
I don't wanna go and start
offending feelings.
Bilal is big on family,
so I know if any member of his
family probably doesn't like me,
I'm getting the boot back home.
One of the things that
I was wondering about,
as I understand,
you have not been married. Mm-hm.
And you're 37.
Mm-hm.
And you don't have any children.
Mm-hm.
And so, just wondering how
you see yourself with children.
Well, I love kids.
I come from a very big family
and my sister's kids
are like my kids.
I've always taken care of
somebody else's kids,
whether it's my sister's kids,
my auntie's grandchildren,
so I know him having children,
it will be easy for me
to adapt to that
and welcoming them
as if they're my kids, as well.
I know that's not a problem for me
for sure, cos I want kids.
You genuinely want children?
Mm-hm, yeah.
What about you, Bilal?
Um... Yeah, I like children.
You like children?
I've always wanted a bigger family.
I wanted four children -
two boys, two girls,
you know, in a perfect world.
Exactly.
However, you know, getting older,
the kids are getting older
and stuff like that, so...
Also, when you have children,
there's no...
You know, like,
things change drastically, too.
And though we've known each other
for two years, we only seen it...
This is the ninth day, I think, of
actual physically seeing each other.
You know? And on top of that,
I wanna do certain things.
You know, whether it's travelling...
Travelling.
All that stuff stops. She'd be like,
"Oh, we can just trek the baby."
Like, no, you cannot.
Do what with the baby?
You could take the baby to this
place or this place or this place.
Like, she lives in a fantasy land
when it comes to that.
You know? So there's a lot of
different stuff I'm thinking about.
I think that there's still some
things that they need to discuss.
Some compromising
is gonna need to be done there.
Because if this relationship doesn't
work out, Bilal will crushed.
When is the wedding
supposed to be?
Yeah, so how long is it gonna take
you guys
before you actually set a date?
You kind of gotta spend a few
nights and weeks together
to see how this thing goes?
Yeah, I like how you say that.
We have to see how it goes.
The chemistry, yeah.
To see if, we're going to make it
to the wedding.
Eh, babe? Yeah, there's some things
we still gotta talk about.
On the subject of children, Bilal
definitely has a way of avoiding it.
And he turns it around on me
to make it look like
I am the incompetent one,
I am the one who lives in
a fairyland.
Just be up front.
Cos I need to be sure of when and if
he's gonna have kids.
And there's no way
I'm going to get married
without having that conversation.
OK.
Yeah.
Yeah.
OK, let's go.
You feel like your first grocery
shopping experience was a success?
Yeah.
Tonight, Miona and I are making
dinner for my parents.
And, you know,
I'm not the best chef,
so we decided to cheat a little bit
and make some pre-made meals.
So, hopefully we can pass the test.
I don't really like to do chores,
but I'm hoping
that I can lead by example
and show Miona
South Dakota's not that bad.
Financially, right now,
this is the best situation for us.
It was fun.
String cheese.
Yeah.
Try it.
No, no, no, no, no.
That was about to be...
You were about to commit
a serious crime. Why?
Because you have to...
Hold on, grab it.
OK, this is the whole point of it.
You gotta peel it
and peel the string.
Boom, there you go.
That's so weird.
String cheese.
It doesn't have much of a taste.
Oh, my God. I can't with you.
OK.
In high school, David would always
think that it was weird,
just with the food,
he thought it was bizarre,
it tasted kind of like GMO
and whatnot.
So, how is David now?
We've been talking about music.
We were thinking about potentially
starting back up with the band.
Why didn't you tell me?
I didn't know that.
David is my friend that I've known
since I was 16 years old.
And he's my best friend.
But Miona and David
don't really get along very well.
I think he's worried
that Miona might not have
the best intentions for me
and might just want to be with me
for an opportunity.
So, that's been a little bit
of a struggle.
We talked a week ago about, you
know, finishing the album and stuff.
So, what was he saying?
Did he mention something about me?
Yeah, he said good luck
and it's a lot, marriage is a lot.
I knew he gonna say something
negative, of course.
He always does.
I know, but he would, you know -
Like, from the beginning.
He just didn't feel like
you were always respectful to him.
Especially from the beginning, when
you met him while we were on tour.
We went to a restaurant
in his hometown,
the electricity went out
and you were complaining
and saying, "This is a stupid
restaurant, this is dumb."
And he like, "That kind of stuff
happens all the time in Serbia,
and she's from Serbia, she should
be more humble and modest."
And he thinks that you're bougie.
Well, he saw me once in his life,
so he doesn't really have the right
to have much of an opinion about me.
Can we cook your parents' dinner?
OK.
I think David doesn't like me,
because he feels like
I took Jibri from him
or something weird like that.
I was friendly and open to him,
and he didn't stop judging me
to this day.
I hope your parents
are going to like this,
because I really want them,
you know, to like me
and get their approval.
No, I think it's about the effort,
you know?
Yeah, definitely.
It feels literally like I'm in a...
Back to my childhood,
doing all these chores,
back at my parents' house.
It's a little eerie,
just because growing up,
it was hard for me to stay focused.
I had so much energy
and it got me in a lot of trouble,
and my mom made me cook and clean
and do stuff around the house.
Like, every kid should do that,
but the way they -
It was hard for you. They would
punish me if I didn't do it,
so that's why I rebelled against it.
Yeah. I'm thinking just how
different our childhood was.
Did your parents make you do stuff
like this?
Honestly, they didn't much.
I guess they were trying
to protect us,
because when I was young,
the w*r was happening, you know,
since I was a baby.
And then, after that, I grew up in
pretty much a post-w*r country.
So, we didn't have a lot of money.
So, my parents definitely did a lot
to make it easier for us
and to not feel like we were growing
up like that, you know?
And maybe that's why they didn't
make me cook as much
or do some stuff.
So, they maybe spoiled me
a little bit in that way.
Although I should have learned
to cook something
before I came here.
Back at home,
my parents are completely different
than Jibri's parents.
We didn't have a lot of money
for all the things, maybe.
And after that,
when I started working,
I was finally able to afford all the
that things I wanted for myself.
So, my parents don't ask me to do
anything around the house,
especially not in, like,
the last ten years.
I've gotta say,
these gas stoves are way faster
than the electric ones
we have in Serbia.
We're gonna do chicken alfredo?
Yeah.
Uh... Jibri, this smells funky.
We are cooking out of the bag
straight up, but...
I mean, don't tell them.
If they notice, they notice,
that it's out of bag
but if they don't, then amazing.
Yeah.
OK, can I just ask something?
Do you plan on spending more time
with David from now on, then?
Yeah, if we finish this album.
You know, it's gonna require that.
I want you to keep in mind that,
in order for us to get out of
South Dakota, to go to LA...
..we're gonna need money.
And that album
has a lot of potential.
Are you gonna be cool with that?
I'm really glad that you're
gonna make your music again,
but I don't know how good
I'm feeling about him.
Miona, you guys are gonna have to
figure out what the issue is,
cos y'all are acting like children,
both of you guys.
He doesn't even wanna give me
a chance,
and I can't change his opinion
anymore.
I don't even want to try to do that.
Maybe he's jealous.
Yeah. I think he's just a little
nervous that you're playing me.
Well, I don't care if he thinks
about that, that's his opinion,
he doesn't even know me.
So, I don't think he has
very much right to have opinion.
He's not even the family.
He's my godfather. That does mean
he can be your godfather,
he is not gonna be anything to me.
That means if we start a family...
No. That doesn't.
That's exactly what that means.
No.
That's exactly what that means.
Absolutely nothing.
Miona isn't quite respectful
of what the significance
of our relationship is.
It's not just friendship.
In Serbian culture, he's my "kum",
which is "godfather" translated.
We got baptised
at a Serbian Orthodox church
and the pastor literally took
a little bit of my hair,
took a little bit of David's hair,
put it in a pot,
did some magic on it,
and then literally he said,
you know,
"If anything were to happen
to David and likewise to Jibri,
you would take care
of each other's kids."
And even though that's part of
her culture, she doesn't care.
Miona does not like David.
I'm your family.
I know you're my family,
but that's my family, too.
You guys gotta figure out whatever
it is. You and me come first.
I'm not gonna let no friend come in
between us from either side, OK?
I feel like I'm being given
an ultimatum.
You're saying that me and you are
family, and that's not our family.
Exactly. Our family's always
gonna be in the first place,
and I want you to figure that out
before the wedding.
I'm gonna be your wife,
and that's it.
The way that Miona's talking to me,
it just seems like
she doesn't want me to record
the album with Black Serbs,
because that would mean
spending time with David.
But I gotta finish it.
Miona's gonna have to get along
with David,
she's gonna have to
just deal with it,
cos that's my best friend
and my bandmate.
You don't think that you're being
a little rude and inconsiderate
of him and me?
No. No, I don't think that.
All right, well, that's an issue.
Sorry, but that's just how it is.
middle line:90% position:50% No. 100% no.
She said we're not important,
after we done everything to her.
Like, it hurt me. It hurts.
We're really sad
because he's leaving.
As a family, you know,
we have strong bond.
We're always there for him
and we gonna be there for him,
no matter what.
My first son, when he's moved
in the US with my ex-wife,
all my family's broken.
I didn't see him
for three years and a half,
he don't know who I am.
And they hope
I can see him in the US,
because they know
how much I miss him.
This is the best part of Austin,
I think.
It is pretty, bro.
Yeah.
Thais is moving here in four days,
and things are really busy at work,
so John and I decided to go out
and get a drink,
so, you know, we can spend some time
together before Thais arrives.
Now, what's the plan
with the team in Dallas?
We need to figure that out.
After my weightlifting career
was over,
I moved to Texas
and started working in sales.
I am now selling home security
door-to-door,
and I manage sales teams
throughout Texas.
John works with me
on the tech side of things,
so when we sell an alarm,
he's the one that installs it.
It's been a little tough,
because last year, there was
a huge tick up in production,
because I was full focus.
But this year, I definitely spend
a lot of time away.
It was literally work, Brazil,
work, Brazil, and that was it.
Well, I mean, soon,
she's gonna be here.
Yeah, a lot simpler.
We shall see. We shall see.
Right here.
Oh, sh*t.
I've had a ton of success
in my door-to-door career,
but ever since I met Thais,
I have put her first,
so I've been to Brazil 14 times,
For every time I go there
and I'm not working,
I'm losing, basically, $1,000 a day.
So, you know, that's a big hit.
And when I'm not there, we
communicate a lot during the day.
Ready?
I'll be right there.
I'm gonna text Thais.
All right, whatever.
I definitely feel like Thais
can be a jealous person
and every little thing I do,
I have to tell her.
Like, "I'm just going to eat dinner
with a couple of friends."
Check in with her all the time.
If I don't, then that's
just gonna lead to an argument.
What's up?
What's up, bro?
Got me a drink?
Of course I did.
Done checking in?
Yeah.
She checked my location,
so she knows where I'm at.
It says "bar".
Yeah it says "bar".
She's not too happy about it.
Yeah, I'm sure.
No, but that's how it is.
I'm used to it now.
Let me ask you a question.
OK.
When you go out, do you have to have
your location on to roam around?
He does.
I know it's not normal.
I'm just asking a question.
I mean,
she lives in another country,
she doesn't know what's happening,
that's why I give her my location.
As long as you're OK with it,
that's all that matters.
I think having a tracker
may show some signs of jealousy.
But, you know, sometimes you've
gotta go to that little extreme.
That's kind of weird.
Hope it works out for him,
but, to me I was like, "Uh-uh. No."
I'm the one that came up with it.
Cos I was tired of dealing with
the hypotheticals.
You know, like, my whole thing was,
"Well, here's facts."
You putt the location on yourself?
What kind of...
No! Why would you bring it up?
Because, bro -
What the f*ck are you talking
about?
You brought up the location?
Imagine being home in bed,
and then she thinks
you're out at the club...
No, no, no, no... and you're home,
you're home sleeping.
No, no, no.
See?
And then cameras at the house,
on the security system.
I go through the app and show her
no-one's come to the house.
No, you don't. Why?
Because that's how -
Why?
..important she is to me.
I was trying to make it easier
for her to -
See?
Bullshit!
I'm not gonna co-sign
on this bullshit.
If somebody asks you
to provide video evidence,
you're doing something wrong.
John definitely, you know,
gives me some sh*t
about being so whipped by Thais.
But I couldn't deal with
the arguments over nothing.
I also had to change how I work.
Sometimes I'll go out
with a female rep
and we just knock on doors,
I'm training them
and showing them what to do.
Thais just doesn't understand
that guys and girls work together.
And instead of me arguing with her,
I can't train any women reps
anymore,
and that's just been the rule.
Yeah, that's -
Is trust not trust?
Different countries
is different, bro.
No, I do not.
[LAUGHS] You know what...
Exactly.
Trust me, when she gets here,
location's coming off.
She doesn't need any of that.
Life's gonna be great. Is it?
Yeah.
Yeah? I hope so.
I definitely don't wanna deal with
Thais' jealousy
for the rest of my life.
It's one thing to deal with it now,
being far away,
but if it continues,
it's gonna be a big issue for me
in this relationship.
Cheers to that.
Cheers.
position:50% OK, and we are going to be sitting here.
We're setting up dinner
for my parents.
They're gonna be home soon.
Miona and I have tried our best
to cook dinner
and, yeah, I'm a little worried
about what my mom's gonna think,
because Miona and I do not
know how to cook.
I hope that they like it.
Is this not a small forks,
like, for dessert?
I guess, but let's just use them.
I think you should get
the bigger forks.
This looks funny.
Like some kids forks.
Well, that's how
we're being treated.
Hello.
Hello?
Hey.
Oh, hi.
Hey.
Wow, what's going on here?
Wow.
You guys back from the work?
Not sure we were expecting dinner.
Wow.
You can sit, guys.
Dinner, Brian.
I see that.
What are we having here?
We're having chicken alfredo,
lemonade and possibly some water.
What vintage is the water?
You know,
that one's a 9.5pH level, so...
Wow, this looks very interesting.
Thank you.
Is that good or bad?
I don't know.
Shall I give this a try?
Yeah.
Hmm.
Are you gonna give it a try?
Yeah.
Hmm.
Is it terrible?
It is um...
It's edible.
The food is really bad.
The food is awful.
I'm not sure whether the chicken
is actually chicken.
Maybe rubber.
Have you made alfredo before?
Today.
[LAUGHTER]
I wasn't necessarily hoping
that they're not gonna like it...
Wow.
..but at least they know
what to expect from now on.
It's a little better
with some hot sauce.
Oh, you put some hot sauce on it?
Yeah.
Can you pass that down?
[LAUGHS] Yes.
Thank you.
I can.
OK, I have to admit,
this chicken is nasty.
The chicken is kind of rubbery
and gross.
All right, all right.
Then don't eat the chicken.
Are you sad?
No, I'm not sad.
It's like, Miona's trying
and I'm trying.
Absolutely. We respect that.
Do you?
Do we what?
Respect it.
Cos you don't seem like you do.
No, we do.
Not the food, the effort.
I'm teasing, I'm teasing.
The food is...
The food is not bad.
Don't be upset. We're not trying
to hurt your feelings.
We just want... Just giving
you constructive criticism.
You don't have to eat it, though,
if it's gross. Just don't eat it.
You don't have to put Tabasco sauce
on it and try to, you know...
Just don't eat it.
OK.
You guys gotta chill out,
and stop being so...
She's really trying hard for this,
to impress you guys.
But it's a huge cultural difference,
because she's never cooked food
for her parents ever.
So, you saying it's nasty and we'll
try again and it's unnecessary.
It's irritating.
It's frustrating that she's acting
like this in front of Miona
and just seems like I can't quite
please her or meet her expectation.
If my mom continues
to go down this path,
it's gonna push Miona and I away,
and I don't want that to happen.
Jibri, we appreciate the effort.
Thank you.
OK, it's a fun first meal.
No, it's not.
Oh, my gosh.
This is crazy.
Are you ready?
Wait.
Finally, I get to see my son.
Koban! Hi!
You wanna hold your son?
Hi, bubba!
Look. Who's that?
You gonna see him?
Oh, it's OK.
You need a second? That's OK.
Here.
Aw!
Who's that, bubba?
Oh, the boobies.
Missed the boobies, huh?
He's so cute.
So, welcome, welcome.
He's very nervous.
You can give them hugs,
you don't have to be...
Do you see that guy? Yeah, well,
our house is your house so...
Look, bubba. Bubba, look.
Who's that?
You see Papa? You see Dada?
He's being shy!
Give him a hug together?
[SOBS]
Babe!
Who's that guy, huh?
He's looking at you.
Who is that?
He looks just like you, huh?
Do you need a second?
Who is that, huh?
I know.
He looks like his dad.
I told you that. He's so cute.
Who's that guy crying?
I know.
High five?
There's a lot, huh?
What do you think?
Can I put you down?
No? OK. That's OK.
I think he's tired.
That's all he wants.
Hey, Kobe.
Nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you, too.
So glad you're finally here.
Oh, my gosh,
no need to apologise.
It's a big moment.
Have a seat, have a seat.
When Kobe was crying,
that was really touching.
I want us to just kind of make him
feel welcome.
But, you know,
I just don't know the guy at all,
so I'm gonna be very observant as to
what his behaviour is towards us
and towards my daughter,
and, of course, my grandson.
So, I'm very nervous to see
how it's all gonna play out.
So, how's Koban been?
He's been good.
Yeah, I hope you got
plenty of sleep,
cos we're tagging out,
you're tagging in.
Yeah.
Oh, my gosh! Little toes!
It's definitely a new normal
having Kobe finally here,
and I know he wants so badly to have
that relationship with Koban
like I do.
But eventually it's gonna happen.
Look, he's already sleeping.
I'm just so happy in this moment.
Yeah, you waited a long time
for this.
That's what we're here for.
New beginning right here, so...
Yeah.
At least he has somebody else
to grab at now. Yeah.
Seriously!
We're done.
The next 90 days are gonna be crazy,
because we're all in this house,
and now we're gonna have to
work on our relationship,
Kobe's relationship with Koban,
and our relationship as a family.
So tired. Oh, my gosh.
I can't wait until you can see him
running around and being himself.
Oh, my gosh.
Kobe being here is great, but
I haven't seen the dad side of him,
so, co-parenting together
is going to be a challenge.
Yeah.
Oh, you're not.
You don't have a choice.
No going back now, buddy.
Yeah.
You're in it, you're in it.
middle line:90% position:50% Ah, here we go.
Oh, my God.
Bini and I are leaving for America,
but the news of our departure
did not go over so well.
It's gonna be OK.
Yeah, I'm sure one day
everything will be OK.
In the past, when I imagined
going to America with Bini,
I always felt like
I would be so excited.
But after last night,
I know Bini is upset.
Airport.
[ENGINE STARTS]
It's always been important for Bini
that I get along with his family,
so the fact that his sisters
have never treated me well,
it makes me sad for Bini,
because they're just hurting him.
Oh, my God, finally he sleep.
Tired.
Yeah, he didn't sleep today.
Yeah.
You know...
I don't want, like,
some big problem.
If they say hi to me, I'll say hi.
I'm not one of these people
that goes... [SCOFFS]
No. Not like this.
I'm not like that. You know that.
Ari, can you bring the little stuff?
I get the rest.
We came to the airport to say
goodbye for the last time.
That's not nice.
All right, I'll move for them.
I knew they didn't wanna see me,
and I just want to avoid them,
get to the car
and just be done with it.
Can you give me Avi?
It's cold outside.
If they're not so stupid,
they can come in and see him,
but their behaviour
is really stupid.
I mean, I cannot believe
she don't let us say bye Avi.
He's like our kid, so that hurt.
That hurt a lot.
Yeah.
OK, you guys ready?
Are you OK?
Huh?
Are you OK?
Yeah, I'm OK.
Good.
But I have to go back
with Ari and Avi, go back to US.
Mimi, we have to, you know...
Cos security and everything,
you can't go past it.
Let me hug her.
Yeah.
Leaving Ethiopia
is very emotional for me.
I will miss my family, my culture.
I'll miss all.
OK.
For me, it's very scary.
I don't know what's happening
when I move.
It's crazy you're going to New York.
I don't know Ari's family,
I don't know Ari's sibling.
So, are you ready to be
New Jersey Bini?
I hope so.
Next time on 90 Day Fiance...
My uncle will definitely
thr*aten to like b*at you up.
I feel like I already know you,
I've been stalking you on Instagram.
My uncle Mike
used to be a private investigator.
I'm gonna keep my eyes on you.
Babe.
What, me pumping in the living room?
Seriously about to come over there
and just lose my sh*t on you.
Oh, family hug!
I'm ready for motherhood, and I
need to have these kids liking me.
What do you want us to call you?
Maybe one day Umi.
And "Umi" means "mother", right?
Yeah.
Honestly, I don't know
how to feel about that.
All righty, babe.
My son has special needs.
There's challenges,
and it's demanding sometimes.
Hello! We're here!
Mohamed does have a heart of gold.
But at the same time,
maybe it could be too much.
We're in New York City, baby, right?
Just wondering whether Ari's family
is good for me or is bad for me.
I wanted you to know
that we have a very crazy family...
Yeah.
..and you'll have to get used to it.
I guarantee you, no-one's gonna
throw wine in your face.
Today's the day.
We're gonna be under one roof.
It's a dream come true.
But Thais is not excited
to live with John.