[crow caws]
[water trickles]
[man 1] I don't feel blameless
in all of this.
[mysterious music plays]
A lot of bad things
happened to good people...
[clicks mouse]
...all because of a series of events
that I'm at the center of.
[g*nsh*t]
[woman 1 breathes anxiously]
[phone dialling]
[line rings]
[operator] 911, what's the address
of your emergency?
[woman 1 panting] I've been sh*t. Oh no!
Prosecutors allege
a love triangle turned fatal.
Of all the cases I've ever prosecuted,
this is the most bizarre and twisted.
[match strikes]
[anchor] The defense is arguing a m*rder
might not have even happened.
[man 2] I was obsessed with this case,
we all were.
But we knew
it was gonna be an uphill battle.
We didn't have a body,
we didn't have a w*apon,
we barely had a crime scene.
I mean, those are the things
that every m*rder trial has.
[ominous music playing]
I thought I'd seen it all.
I hadn't seen anything like this.
[children playing]
[woman 2] I was terrified for my kids.
[man 3] The person we're dealing with
is scary.
Who knows what they're capable of?
[eerie singing]
[door slams]
The one word
that comes to mind is "monster."
[spooky whistling]
[cheerful music plays]
[man 1] It must've been 2000.
I was workin' as a mechanic
at a truck stop.
One day, this blonde-haired,
good-lookin' woman started workin' there.
[projector clicks]
He asked if he could
take me out on a date,
and it was kind of in a goofy way.
[projector clicks]
His dorkiness kind of did attract me.
[projector clicks]
I found myself
falling in love with him very fast.
Before you know it, we had, ya know,
everything but the white-picket fence.
[projector clicks]
So it was, ya know, the American dream.
Almost.
Dave worked days, and I worked nights,
and so we didn't see a lot of each other,
and I think that's basically where
we started growing apart.
[projector clicks]
[Dave] We just weren't happy
anymore together,
and it was probably time to split.
[cheerful music continues]
[projector clicks]
[woman 2] I decided
that I was ready to come home,
and I was bringing the kids with me.
[Dave] There was no part of me
that wasn't gonna take care of my kids,
so separated or not, we were gonna have
to be in the same place.
That's how I ended up movin'
to Omaha, Nebraska.
[train horn blows]
But I had no idea
what the hell was waitin' for me.
I was starting over as a single person.
It's a little bit lonely in a new place
where you don't know anybody.
So I got a job in the automotive industry,
turnin' wrench, 'cause that's what I do.
I got a little one-bedroom apartment,
it was pretty nice.
[pleasant synth music plays]
I was wild and free at 35,
and I was determined to enjoy it.
[knuckles cr*ck]
[typing]
[clicks mouse]
Plenty of Fish. That's what everybody
was usin', apparently.
I was definitely not looking
for something serious.
[clicks mouse]
[typing]
[clicks mouse]
So I'm pretty excited at this point.
[rising tone]
[pleasant synth music stops]
[chimes]
Zero, zilch, nada.
Am I that bad
that nobody wants to talk to me?
[birds chirp]
A few days after that...
[typing]
...looked again, and...
[beeps]
[clicks mouse]
That's when Liz came into my life.
[pleasant synth music resumes]
She seemed very cool, very down-to-earth.
[clicks mouse]
She had a cleaning company.
[clicks mouse]
She obviously loved animals.
She had two dogs, a cat...
- [clicks mouse]
- ...and a big snake.
It turns out that we had a lot in common.
We both liked sci-fi action movies,
heavy metal.
She liked motorcycles, I had a motorcycle.
It was a match made in heaven.
[clicks mouse]
We both had a son and a daughter.
We were both lonely.
[pleasant synth music stops]
This was my first real date
in years and years.
I was pretty nervous,
but we really hit it off.
[indistinct chatter]
["Funnel of Love" by Wanda Jackson plays]
Here I go
Fallin' down, down, down...
[Dave] She was very smiley, energetic.
My head is spinning around...
Full of life.
As I go deep into the funnel of love...
We would go downtown and hit the bars.
It's such a crazy
Crazy feeling
I get weak in the knees
My poor old head is a-reelin'
As I go deep into the funnel of love...
Ya know, it'd been a long time for me,
and I guess once I got the green flag,
I was in.
I tried and I tried
To run and hide
I even tried to run away-yay-yay
You just can't run
From the funnel of love
- [camera shutter clicking]
- It's bound to get you some day...
[Dave] It was exactly the right mix.
Ya know, I still had my personal space,
but there was someone around
when I wanted to chat or hang out.
It was, I would say, just what I needed
at that time in my life.
It's bound to get you some day
[song ends]
As early as our first date,
I had made it clear to Liz
that I was absolutely not
going to be tied down.
- [mysterious music plays]
- [vehicle approaches]
And then, one day...
Cari Farver came into my life.
My initial thought was,
"Dang, she's good-lookin'."
[Cari] Hey! You look like a car mechanic.
[Dave] Like one, but...
We just smiled at each other.
[Cari] Are you busy,
or can you take a look at my car?
[Dave] Yeah, sure. I can do that.
She was a customer,
I was the manager, that was it.
[Cari] Every car is a little...
For all I knew, I'd never see her again.
[Cari] All right, thank you so much.
[mysterious music continues]
[typing]
[Dave] A couple weeks later,
I'm goin' through the profiles
on a dating site,
and I run across one
I absolutely recognize.
[clicks mouse]
It was the girl from the shop,
a couple weeks ago, Cari Farver.
And of course, I made contact.
- [clicks mouse]
- "Hey, I know you."
[mysterious music continues]
She messaged me back and said,
"I know you too," and that was it.
Our first date was pretty good.
She told me a little bit about her life.
She had grown up locally in a small town.
She had had a child
when she was quite young.
But had gone back to college to study.
She had a... a career job.
Computers were her thing.
Her spirit and her drive definitely
marked her out differently
from the rest of the women I had met.
She was smart and sexy,
not in my league all the way around.
But I asked her if she wanted to come back
to my place, and she said sure.
[dog barks]
We haven't even taken our coats off...
[doorbell rings]
...and there's somebody outside.
[intriguing music plays]
It's Liz.
She's like, "I need to get somethin'
outta your apartment."
This is going to be very difficult.
I explain to Cari what's goin' on.
To have this conversation,
yeah, it was a little f*ckin' awkward.
Cari and Liz made eye contact
for all of three seconds, maybe.
[intriguing music fades]
After Liz left the apartment...
[intriguing music plays]
...I gave Cari a call and she said,
"Look, I'm halfway home."
"Why don't you just come
over to my place?"
She lived in Macedonia,
which is a tiny town
over the border, in Iowa.
When I get there, she says,
"Look, we're not boyfriend-girlfriend,
we're not monogamous,
we're not gettin' married."
"This is just fun."
And I was like,
"Oh my God. What the hell?"
Yes! I'm in.
[intriguing music ends]
[birds chirp]
Cari worked three blocks
from my apartment,
so we immediately started
spending a ton of time together.
She stayed a lot of nights,
but it wasn't all sex.
We spent a fair amount
of time just talkin'.
And of course,
I was happy to have her there.
And then one mornin',
I got up at six to go to work.
I gave her a little kiss,
I'm out the door.
I didn't know at the time,
but that day would change my life forever.
About ten, ten-thirty...
[phone chimes]
...I get a text from Cari.
[phone chirps]
[mysterious music plays]
And I'm thinkin',
"I've been seeing you for two weeks."
"Yes, it's been hot and heavy,
it's also been two weeks."
[phone ticks]
[phone chirps]
I felt like I no sooner said "send,"
and I'm getting a barrage of texts back.
[phone chimes, chirps]
[ominous music playing]
[phone chimes, buzzes]
[phone chimes, buzzes]
It was a total shock.
We were involved, but we weren't tryin'
to get that involved.
At this point, I'm thinkin',
"No matter how well
you hit it off with somebody,
you don't really know who they are."
When I went home at lunch,
there was no sign of Cari.
Her bags were gone,
her toothbrush was gone, she was gone.
I felt kinda sad that it didn't work out,
but I tried to get on with my life
like nothin' happened.
I didn't hear from Cari
for a couple of days,
and then outta the blue,
I started receiving texts from her again.
[phone chimes, buzzes]
[phone chimes, buzzes]
The messages started slowly,
but it ramped up.
[phone chimes, buzzes]
Meaner, ruder...
[phone chimes, buzzes]
...more threatening as time went on.
Why she would be harassing me,
I... I just didn't get it.
[mysterious music plays]
[woman 3] At that time,
Cari was very much her own person.
She'd let you know her opinion.
I knew that she had met somebody.
It was a new relationship,
and those are always,
ya know, interesting at the beginning.
He lived just a couple blocks
from where she was working, which helped,
and she could stay there.
So I didn't think too much
about the fact that I didn't talk to her.
But after a while,
I still couldn't get a hold of her.
Ya know, mothers and daughters
always have their ups and downs,
and we did,
but it was just so puzzling
when I couldn't get through to her.
[Dave] So I'm at work,
and my front counter guy comes back
and says, "Dave, there's sheriffs
up front lookin' for you."
[menacing music plays]
How you doin', guys?
What could I have possibly done
that the sheriffs are lookin' for me?
Ya know, I don't know
what's goin' on here, but it's not funny.
The first thing they ask is,
"Do you know Cari Farver?"
And of course, I did.
They told me Cari's mother
had filed a missing person's report.
I'm on the hot seat now.
Ya know, they're lookin' at me like,
"Why don't you know where she's at?
You're her boyfriend."
So I pulled my phone out
and I showed 'em all these nasty messages
I'd been gettin' from her.
After that, their whole demeanor changed.
The sheriffs implied that,
"Here's a bad breakup,"
something they see all the time.
It's not a big deal,
and it should stop pretty shortly.
Nobody stays around that long
harassing people.
[Nancy] Shortly after
we reported her missing,
I started getting these messages
from Cari on her Facebook page.
[typing]
[eerie music plays]
[typing]
[mouse clicks]
She texted me on Mother's Day,
and said, "Happy Mother's Day",
but it got to the point where I was
getting one-to two-word messages
that just got steadily nastier
and nastier.
[birds chirp]
[scraping sound]
[buzzes]
I hadn't seen Liz for quite a while,
but then she comes
to the apartment one day.
She says she's,
ya know, got somethin' to show me.
[dog barks in distance]
I look at the side of her vehicle,
and it's very obviously been keyed deeply.
- [disturbing music plays]
- [phone buzzes]
[phone chirps, buzzes]
[phone chirps]
[phone chirps, buzzes]
It turns out that Liz
is being harassed by Cari
in the same ways as... as I was,
by text and email.
Cari was clearly jealous of Liz.
[menacing music plays]
[phone chimes]
[phone chirps]
We were afraid that somethin' bad
could happen at any time.
[phone chimes, chirps]
[train horn blows distantly]
[man 3] I was an officer
with the Omaha Police Department
for 22 and a half years.
The last ten to 12 years of my career,
I worked
as a Special Victims Unit detective,
specializing in domestic v*olence
and stalking.
Dave Kroupa came to see me
at the end of 2012.
The case was something we see often.
It was very routine.
We were dealing
with some kind of jealous ex-girlfriend,
possibly at the initial phases
of stalking.
[mouse clicks]
The implication, when you look through
all the different
text messages and emails,
was, "If I can't have you, nobody will."
[mouse clicks]
But this turned out to be
one of the strangest,
most unpredictable cases I'd ever worked.
[traffic sounds]
[phone chimes, buzzes]
[lonely whistle plays]
[phone chimes, buzzes]
[chiming, buzzing continue]
[sounds distort]
The texts from Cari,
for the first several days,
came from her original phone,
but after that, they changed.
It was multiple
other phone numbers, 20, 30, 40.
You couldn't block 'em fast enough.
[chiming, buzzing]
[sounds distort]
I can tell they were all Cari
because the verbiage was all the same.
[distorted chiming, buzzing]
The same happened with the emails.
The emails were under
all different kinds of aliases,
or just random names,
and upwards of 125 a day.
[disturbing music plays]
[distortion intensifies]
[mysterious music plays]
[phone chimes, buzzes]
Dave had made a report
of Cari messaging him
with particular details
of customers he was talking to,
standing right outside of his workplace.
[phone chimes, buzzes]
[phone chimes, buzzes]
[phone chimes, buzzes]
[phone chimes, buzzes]
[Chris] I thought, "Okay, if she could see
what he was doing...
she's gotta be hiding around his place."
So, I scan the area for every place
where someone could see what he was doing.
I was doing a reverse stakeout
to find out where she was watching from.
I took Cari's picture, knocked doors.
Nobody had seen her.
I knew that before I could get
anything done, I had to find her.
[mysterious music ends]
[phone chimes, buzzes]
[Dave] What happened next
was a total shock.
[phone chirps]
[intriguing music plays]
Cari told me she was livin'
a couple buildings away from me,
in the same apartment complex.
[phone chimes, buzzes]
[phone chirps]
[disturbing music plays]
[dog barks distantly]
[Dave] One, two, three...
I'm hopin' that I catch her.
[wind chimes tinkle]
But the closer I get, five, six, seven,
now I wanna call the cops.
I'm workin' myself up into a frenzy.
I don't wanna call the cops.
Now, I wanna hurt her bad.
[police siren blares distantly]
And then I hit ten,
and then I hit 11,
and of course, I'm lookin' for 12.
[disturbing music crescendoes]
And there's no 12.
Doesn't exist.
It's just one more part of the mindfuck.
[eerie singing]
As I'm walkin' back to my apartment,
I'm lookin'
at all the apartments everywhere,
I'm wonderin' which one
she's watchin' me out of.
She did it purely to mess with my head.
But then, things only got worse.
[phone chimes, buzzes]
[mysterious music plays]
Oh f*ck.
Cari's inside Liz's house.
[phone chimes, buzzes]
[phone chimes, buzzes]
I mean, seriously, how... What the hell?
[mysterious music continues]
This is definitely a big escalation.
[mysterious music crescendoes]
We find that not only has she keyed
Liz's car in the garage,
but she's spray-painted on the wall.
[projector clicks]
[projector clicks]
The cops were called
and a police report was filed,
but I can tell how much stress
this is puttin' on Liz and her kids.
I felt like Liz was being harassed
because I dated this woman,
who's now makin' her life hell too.
[phone chirps]
[phone chirps]
I felt like she was
the real victim in all of this,
and I wanted to try and protect her.
We felt safe together,
and our relationship rekindled.
[mysterious music fades out]
[Amy] Dave and I were still pretty close.
The kids went to his house
on the weekends,
so they knew some
of what was going on with Cari
and her threatening Dave.
[spooky whistling]
After he had told me of all
the text messages and the vandalizing,
I told him that I didn't want
the kids goin' over to his house.
If he wanted to see them,
he had to come to my house.
It made me very nervous.
[eerie music plays]
[glass shatters]
[Dave] I'm at work,
and I get a call from Liz.
One of my windows is smashed out,
and it looks like somebody's
been in my apartment.
[projector clicks]
Over the top of the bed in red lipstick,
it was written, "Go away, whore."
On the bed was some clothes
that belonged to Liz.
They had been stabbed
and slashed with a Kn*fe.
[projector clicks]
Like, m*rder style.
I don't know how much more
of a direct physical violent thr*at
there could be.
[projector clicks]
[projector clicks]
In my mind, I'm thinkin', "What if Liz
was there when Cari broke in?"
Would Liz have actually gotten stabbed?
This is a real thr*at.
This isn't bullshit.
[phone buzzes, chimes]
[phone buzzes, chimes]
[eerie music ends]
[train horn blows distantly]
At this stage in the investigation,
given all the things that happened,
the crimes that had been committed,
I had felt I had sufficient probable cause
for an arrest warrant for Cari.
Unfortunately, this is all
I can do right now,
because I can't find her.
[mysterious music plays]
In a stalking case, that's not unusual.
But the longer you investigate
these types of cases,
the more you see
the effect it has on your victims.
[Dave] The stalking had been goin' on
for over a year.
Ya know, it wasn't uncommon for me
to go to dinner with my kids
and get a message, "You're at so-and-so,
eatin' with your kids."
Well, f*ck you!
Leave me the f*ck alone.
[dog barks distantly]
Slowly, your normal
kinda devolves into abnormal.
[dog continues barking]
The paranoia is your life.
[distant police siren]
[phone chimes, buzzes]
[phone chirps]
[mysterious music plays]
[door creaks, closes]
You're thinkin' about all the what-ifs,
all the time.
- [breathing]
- [slicing sound]
[phone chimes]
[phone chimes, buzzes]
[phone chimes]
[door slams]
[Dave] It was hard to know sometimes
what was real
and what I might be imagining.
[dog barks distantly]
[mysterious music continues]
As the months went on,
I ended up spending
more and more time at the bar.
I had a drink, but you know,
it took the edge off.
My brain could just shut the f*ck up
for a little bit.
[threatening music plays]
I was on a road
to havin' a mental breakdown.
[match strikes]
[intense, suspenseful music plays]
[phone chimes, buzzes]
[tense music playing]
[phone chirps]
My stomach just drops.
I'm like, "Oh sh*t."
[intense, suspenseful music continues]
Cari has set Liz's f*ckin' house on fire.
[phone chimes, buzzes]
[dramatic music plays]
[fireman 1] Try and give 'em...
They moved everybody outta here.
[fireman 2] That way, move that way.
Come on. Move, that way.
[Dave] Liz was by herself, just cryin'.
Fortunately, Liz's kids
weren't in the house,
but all of her pets d*ed.
She's lost her residence
and everything she owns.
I'm thinking, "This is now
a complete different investigation."
I contacted the fire investigator.
We met at the scene,
walked through the house.
[projector clicks]
[projector clicks]
[projector clicks]
There was still water,
there... the horrible smell of a fire.
[projector clicks]
[projector clicks]
The red flags are just going up
all around me.
[projector clicks]
And I'm thinking,
"This could get to the point
where someone gets
seriously injured, m*rder*d."
And in the back of my head, I'm thinking,
"I've got to catch this person!"
Our investigation at the scene
included, of course, speaking to Liz.
The interview was recorded on tape.
I understand there's been
some problems going on.
- Why don't you tell me about that?
- [Liz] Uh...
The guy that I'm seeing,
he has a girlfriend
he dated for two weeks,
and she's been stalking me since November.
- [Chris] Do you know her name?
- [Liz] It's Cari.
She kept texting me telling me
she wanted to k*ll me and my kids.
[Chris] Okay. It's pretty obvious
this is an intentionally-set fire.
[Liz] What about my, uh, animals?
- [Chris] The animals are...
- [Liz] I know that they're all dead, but...
[Chris] The Humane Society is going
to take care of the animals. Sorry.
[Liz] I just wish she would go away.
[sad music plays]
[indistinct chatter]
After the fire, Liz took what little
she could scavenge from the house,
and moved.
She didn't tell me where,
and I didn't blame her one bit.
She did not want Cari
to come along after her.
At that point, I felt alone.
I didn't know
whether to be mad, or sad, or cry.
I had lost my partner,
or the one person who understood
what I was goin' through.
I felt like the only thing I could do
was also pack up and move.
I changed phones,
and got a new job.
I wanted to rebuild my life
away from Cari.
But in the back of my mind,
I knew that she was still out there.
[sad music crescendoes]
[train horn blows distantly]
[man 4] Pottawattamie County
Sheriff's Office is a small agency.
So two years earlier, I had heard
that there's another couple detectives
lookin' into somebody named Cari Farver
as a missing person.
I'd heard that she was a single mom
that kinda just vanished.
Nobody had physically seen her,
but she was still communicating
via emails and text messages.
At the same time,
detectives from Omaha Police Department
had been investigating arson,
and harassment, and vandalism,
but after a long time,
the case had kinda gone cold
for the investigators
who were lookin' into it.
[upbeat fiddle music plays]
The case had always perked my interest,
like, it had always intrigued me.
I remember talkin' to Jim,
saying, ya know, "We should ask
if we can take the case."
[Jim] Me and Ryan, we're best friends.
That was a good sh*t there, Ryan.
[Ryan] Jim's the most metro cowboy
I've ever met.
I don't think he's ever ridden a horse,
but he pulls off the look.
[Jim] Ryan is more
of a sh**t-from-the-hip kinda guy.
[Ryan] Never mind.
[Ryan and Jim laugh]
[Jim] I'm a little bit more organized.
Our skills and abilities
really complement each other.
And so Avis and I went to our... our boss,
and asked if we could take over
in the Cari Farver case,
and he gave us the go-ahead.
[dramatic music plays]
We went to visit Nancy Raney,
who's Cari's mother.
She lived out in Macedonia, Iowa.
And she told us
how this whole case got started.
[Nancy] It'd been several years
since we'd talked
to an investigator face-to-face,
and, uh, I was skeptical.
I probably was a little short with him...
[inhales]...when he came in,
because I didn't have much faith in him.
[Jim] Now, what day was the last time
you guys saw her?
[Nancy] We haven't seen her
since the 11th of November 2012.
[Jim] So, couple years ago.
[Nancy] Shortly after she left,
I started getting messages,
saying, "I've taken a job in Kansas
and I'm going to be making
$100,000 a year."
And Max, her son, had to stay with us.
[Jim] I'm curious about how she was
before she left.
What was goin' on,
if she mentioned anything?
[Nancy] She was tired
because she'd been working a lot.
[Jim] Mm-hmm.
Granted, there's probably
some things she didn't tell me...
[chuckling]...but I have some things
that I didn't tell my mother.
But, she'd always call home.
I couldn't make sense of it,
and that's when we reported her missing.
If she's just decided she doesn't want
to be around here anymore,
that's her decision,
but I'd like to know if she's okay,
if she's sick, if she's hurt.
[mysterious music plays]
When I first got involved in the case,
it was because it sounded interesting.
Once I met Nancy...
it turned for me,
I wanted to get her answers.
Lookin' through the case file,
the original reports noted that Cari
had a history of bipolar disorder.
[Nancy] Yeah, she had depression problems.
I presumed
she would've taken medication with her,
but she hadn't.
[Ryan] If Cari wasn't taking
her medication,
it might suggest
her change in personality,
to start the harassment,
the messaging, the stalking, all of that.
[Jim] The original investigators
came to the conclusion
that her vanishing
was a symptom of a mental-health crisis.
[Nancy] I had hope
that she'd be back.
[thunder rumbles]
[Dave] I had moved
and was just tryin' to start over.
Liz is outta the picture.
So, of course, I wanna try to date again.
- [typing]
- [hopeful music plays]
[clicks mouse]
I hop back online
onto another dating site.
[clicks mouse]
Made some profiles,
start talkin' to people.
[clicks mouse]
End up talking to a particular woman.
[clicks mouse]
Things are goin' well,
we're chatting, set up a date.
[thunder rumbles]
[hopeful music ends]
I've been there an hour.
Waiter comes over and says,
"Bein' stood up?" Or whatever.
And I was like, "Ah, looks like it."
[phone chimes, buzzes]
[phone chirps]
So I sit there for a little while longer.
And sit there...
and sit there...
and sit there.
And about the time
I decide she's not comin',
she sends another message.
[dramatic sting plays]
[phone ticks]
[phone chirps]
I had f*cked up
and let Cari back into my life.
[police siren blares distantly]
[dramatic music plays]
But this time,
it started to get so much worse.
All of a sudden,
Amy, my ex, became a target.
[eerie singing]
[phone buzzes, chimes]
[Amy] I started getting messages
from Cari,
telling me I needed
to stay away from Dave.
[phone chimes, buzzes]
[phone chirps]
I was terrified.
- [spooky whistling]
- [eerie singing]
But then, the text messages
started involving my children.
[birds chirp]
[children playing]
One weekend, me and the kids went
to the park to play for a while.
[phone chimes, buzzes]
[typing on phone]
[phone chimes, buzzes]
[Amy] She knew exactly what we were doing.
[spooky whistling]
[eerie singing]
I was thinking,
"Is this lady following me all the time?"
[eerie singing]
One night, I got a text message from Cari,
saying she was going to...
slit my kids' throats in their sleep.
I found my son sleeping
on the couch with a baseball bat.
I woke him up to tell him
to go into his own room,
and when I asked him
why he was sleeping on the couch,
he said that he was going to protect us.
It was heartbreaking.
No kid should have to feel that way.
[spooky whistling]
[man] I'm lookin' for a... a handgun.
Are you lookin' for somethin'
that is a target...
[Dave] I did feel
that it was only a matter of time
till somebody gets hurt for real.
There was a need to protect my family.
So, my father got me a p*stol.
It was a Smith & Wesson,
nine-millimeter a*t*matic.
[clerk] Come out back,
we'll get you taken care of.
[Dave] I'm not a gunslinger.
It's not gonna hang off my hip.
So it was up in the top
of the closet in the bedroom,
well outta reach of my children,
but I could reach up there
and grab the p*stol
if I felt like I needed to.
I didn't want to have to use it.
[Jim] There's a lot of mystery
in this case.
But the biggest thing that stuck out to us
is that Cari had not physically been seen
or heard from for two years at this point.
[dramatic music plays]
[Ryan] The emails and the messages
and the social media alone
were not proof that Cari Farver was alive.
[Jim] In those messages,
Cari said she was quittin' her job,
movin' to Kansas,
and just needed some space.
But when we looked at the original
investigators' photographs of Cari's home,
we found that her closet
was still full of clothes.
All of her belongings
were still in that house.
It was just like
she was coming back tomorrow.
She was coming back this afternoon.
Nothing was changed.
[Ryan] The bed was made,
the coat was still hanging on a chair.
Nothing there suggested she had packed up
and moved to a different city.
We got Cari's bank records,
and what we saw then were two transactions
that happened just a couple days
after she went missing,
and after that, there's nothing.
And of course,
it's hard to exist without money.
[birds chirp]
Right at the time she went missing,
Cari's father was dying.
[dramatic music plays]
In my mind, she would never have left,
because her dad was so sick.
Two weeks, three weeks after he passed,
I had this very vivid dream about him.
And in that dream, he'd said,
"Nance, she's with me, it's okay."
[dark music plays]
I can still see his face.
But I had to be there for Max,
to give him a stable life.
He was only 14.
I don't know if it's a mother's thing
or what, but I just knew.
Cari's not with us anymore.
[dramatic music plays]
When Jim came out to talk to us a... again,
I said, "I don't think
she left on her own."
And... he looked at me and said,
"I don't think she left,
either, on her own."
And I hugged him, and I cried,
because nobody with authority
had ever told me that.
[Jim] If Cari wasn't alive,
this case takes a big turn.
[mysterious music plays]
It was all just theories and speculation,
but we continued the case,
lookin' at it through the lens
of a death investigation.
We knew Dave and Liz
had been gettin' these harassing emails
and text messages from Cari for years now.
But if Cari was dead,
clearly she hadn't sent the messages.
So in order to figure out
what happened to Cari,
we needed to figure out
who was sending these messages.
We needed an IT guy.
[man 2] Just a second.
[whimsical music plays]
I've got Soylent,
which has caffeine in it,
and I've got coffee,
which has caffeine in it,
and then I've got the remnants
of my last coffee,
which has caffeine in it. Ah...
Tony Kava worked for our IT department,
and he was also a volunteer
for our sheriff's office as a deputy.
- Soylent.
- [producer] What's Soylent?
It's, um... It's what nerds drink
instead of eating.
For the most part,
I just drink two or three of these a day,
and then eat some hummus.
[Ryan] As a reserve deputy,
Tony was paid a dollar a year to help
with digital forensics investigations.
I don't know if it's clear, but I'm also,
uh, apparently on the, uh, spectrum.
[laughs]
That does, uh, make sense when you see
that I eat and drink
the same thing every day.
I think it actually helps
with the investigations and all that.
In the Cari Farver case, there were
hundreds of thousands of email messages,
hundreds of thousands of text messages.
Over two years of digital evidence.
If we could figure out
where the messages were coming from,
we may be able to find out
what happened to Cari.
Every computer on the Internet
has an IP address.
[clicks mouse]
It stands for Internet Protocol.
It's like, uh, the address on your house,
except for your computer.
And so if we can find
an IP address for an email,
or that was used to send a text message,
we can use that to try
to trace that back to an actual location.
But it seemed like whoever
was sending these messages
was using a lot of different services
to hide their real IP address.
VPNs, proxies,
sometimes even the Wi-Fi at McDonald's.
I was just certain that there's going
to be an IP address in there somewhere
that would be key in trying to solve this.
The solution was
to write the program that I needed.
[intriguing music plays]
I called it Dex.
Once I have Dex available,
I start asking it questions.
I was tryin' to find a pattern, um,
in the chaos of all this information.
We had millions of IP addresses.
I asked it,
"How many of those are unique?"
That narrowed it down to 13,000.
Then I asked the follow-on question,
"Show me the top ten IP addresses
we've seen everywhere in this case."
Out of the top ten IP addresses
seen everywhere in this case,
eight of them are VPN services.
We won't be able to do much with that.
But the very top one,
the one that we see the most,
that IP address was 174.71.6.113.
The IP address was connected
to a house in Council Bluffs, Iowa.
It was the home of a man
named Todd Butterbaugh.
This was a huge shock because...
[clicks mouse]
...Todd works at Pottawattamie County,
and, uh... I'm his boss.
[disturbing music plays]
Obviously, this was an awkward situation.
[rapidly typing]
[typing continues]
The first step was to hide
where our case file was,
'cause as an IT person,
he would have access to all these files.
At that point, we had to present him
with a search warrant to search his house.
[Ryan] We were suspicious of Todd.
He's an IT computer guy,
and this case is hugely digital.
But we also asked if anyone else
had been living there with him,
using his Wi-Fi.
He told us that he had
an on-again, off-again girlfriend.
That girlfriend had been livin' at Todd's
ever since her house was b*rned down.
[menacing music plays]
Todd's on-again,
off-again, live-in girlfriend
was called Liz Golyar.
[mysterious music plays]
[Ryan] I was floored.
The case took a 180-turn, just like that.
Todd had told us that Liz Golyar
had been using his Wi-Fi for years.
[Tony types]
[Tony] We piece together
the digital evidence
in all of the, uh,
email accounts and everything else,
it... it's clear that all roads
lead to Liz.
Everything suggested
Liz had been impersonating Cari
from the moment Cari went missing.
Every message that was sent
to Dave, to Liz, to Nancy, to Max,
came from Liz herself.
We believed that Liz was the victim.
It's not true.
In fact, Liz is the stalker.
[spooky whistling]
[mysterious music plays]
[Dave] The sheriffs came and told me
Liz was the one behind all of it.
My brain was spinning.
I went to the back of the shop
where my toolbox was,
and I just leaned on it and cried.
["Funnel of Love" echoes]
We go round and round
Deep into the funnel of love...
[mysterious music plays]
I'm tryin' to go
through the pieces of the puzzle
and put 'em together.
Round and round...
[mysterious music plays]
Cari was never the one
outside my house messaging me.
Cari wasn't the one that keyed my car,
or b*rned down Liz's house,
or smashed my f*cking windows.
["Funnel of Love" echoes]
It's gonna get you some day
[mysterious music plays]
It was Liz stalking me this whole time.
I mean, it was such a mindfuck.
It didn't take me long,
checkin' the boxes in my head,
to come to the conclusion
that Cari was probably dead,
and that's tough to swallow.
[sad piano music plays]
That's beyond tough.
At this point,
we believe Liz was responsible
for whatever happened to Cari,
but we could only prove
that Liz was posing as Cari.
That's about it.
We couldn't tell you
what happened to Cari,
we couldn't tell you
that Liz was involved,
and so we couldn't just arrest Liz.
But she became our primary suspect
on what happened to Cari.
So now we needed to look back
through all the evidence
that'd been collected
in a whole different light.
[mysterious music plays]
The original investigators
had believed Liz was the victim...
[clicks mouse]
...and so they downloaded her phone
just a month and a half
after Cari went missing.
[clicks mouse]
[scrolls mouse]
When looking
through Liz's phone downloads...
[clicks mouse]
...I found somethin' that was
missed by the original investigators.
[scrolls mouse]
[clicks mouse]
There was a picture of Cari's vehicle,
taken on Christmas Eve of 2012.
[scrolls mouse]
[Ryan] Looking at the case file,
we see the car was not recovered
by police until January 8th.
This photo suggests that Liz knew
where the car was the whole time.
That fact revealed
a totally new aspect of our investigation.
[Jim] When a vehicle was recovered
in January of 2013,
it was then processed.
When I'm lookin' through that report,
I found that a fingerprint was discovered.
[clicks mouse]
The fingerprint was inside the vehicle,
on a mint container
that was on the center console.
We had that fingerprint directly compared
to Liz's known fingerprints.
It's a match.
That's Liz's print on the mint container.
[intense music plays]
[Ryan] This was solid evidence
that shows Liz was in Cari's car
prior to January 8th
when we recovered that vehicle in 2013.
[Jim] It was a huge break for us,
but at the same time,
it... it doesn't answer any questions
of what happened to Cari,
or where Cari's even at.
[intriguing music fades out]
At this point, the stakes were high,
because we just didn't know
what Liz was capable of.
[dramatic music plays]
[Ryan] As we were looking
for more evidence,
we decided to put in a tracker
on Liz's vehicle.
[intriguing music plays]
We were monitoring
her GPS location at all times.
[Jim] We find out that she's driving
and circling around Amy's house
on a daily basis.
So at this point, we're becoming
very concerned about Amy's safety.
[eerie music plays]
[Dave] I'd been visiting my kids
on a Sunday night.
I get back home,
it's probably 8:30, nine o'clock.
I go into my bedroom to change.
As soon as I open my closet door,
I notice my g*n had been moved.
The g*n's gone.
It is not there.
My stomach drops. I'm like, "Oh f*ck."
[line rings]
[g*nsh*t]
[Liz breathes anxiously]
[phone dialling]
[line rings]
[Liz pants]
[operator] 911, what's the address
of your emergency?
- [Liz] I've been sh*t.
- [operator] Okay, where are you at?
[Liz] I'm at, uh, the park
by the sheriff's department.
[pants, weeps]
[Tony] The night of December 5th, 2015,
I was out directing traffic, uh,
at a nativity scene.
As I'm doing that, I heard a radio call,
um, said that there had been
a sh**ting in Big Lake Park.
[intriguing music plays]
[operator] Okay.
Is there any serious bleeding?
[Liz] Um, my... my feet and leg
are soaked with blood.
[operator] Okay.
Is the assailant still nearby?
[Liz] I don't think so.
They took off running.
[police siren blares]
[Ryan] Woman sh*t at Big Lake Park.
When I heard that, my heart
immediately just dropped to my stomach.
I mean... [slaps table] Like that.
I was convinced Dave's ex-wife Amy Flora
had just been sh*t at Big Lake Park.
[Liz cries]
- [operator] Do you know who did it?
- [Liz gasps] No.
[Liz whimpers]
[operator] Do you know
if it was a male or a female?
[Liz] A female.
[Liz weeps]
Later on, there's a news report
that says, uh, there's a woman sh*t
and her name is Liz Golyar.
[projector clicks]
[disturbing music plays]
[projector clicks]
The question that's
running through our heads is...
[projector clicks]
..."Who would want to sh**t Liz?"
[projector clicks]
[dramatic music plays]
[anchor 1] Shock and concern tonight
surrounding a sh**ting in a local park.
[anchor 2] So far,
police can't find the woman
who sh*t another woman in the leg.
The circumstances appear strange.
[Amy] All I heard was, "Open up, police."
I opened the door,
and there were two officers
with g*ns drawn.
I was freaked out.
I felt like,
"What is gonna happen to my kids?"
"I'm goin' to jail."
[Jim] Once she had recovered
from the sh**ting,
we invited Liz to the sheriff's office
for an interview.
[door opens]
I'm Investigator Doty, I work here
for the Sheriff's Office, okay?
I'm aware of that whole deal that happened
right over there in Big Lake.
- [Liz] Okay.
- Uh, I've read the initial police report.
And it ID'd Amy
as the prime suspect. Okay?
- I mean, I wouldn't put it past her.
- [Jim] Mm-hmm.
[Jim] In truth, I did not suspect Amy
of sh**t' Liz.
It sounded crazy,
but we suspected Liz did this herself.
[mysterious music plays]
We believe that Liz stole the g*n
outta Dave's apartment,
and then Liz used that g*n
to sh**t herself.
[g*nsh*t]
[Liz pants] I've been sh*t in the leg.
[Jim] It seemed like
she was tryin' to set up Amy,
not only for the sh**ting,
but also for Cari's m*rder.
I know that there's been
some hostility between you and Amy.
And it's the same hostility
that she has towards, uh, Cari too.
- Yeah, has she ever...
- She's out flat told Dave that.
She's told me that.
What's the hostility
she's had towards Cari?
That she wants to b*at the crap
out of her, like, all the time.
We knew the game Liz was playing,
and we'd play along with her theory.
In my head, I'm thinkin',
if she was bold enough
to go and then sh**t you,
okay, she could easily be bold enough
to have done somethin' to Cari.
We were hoping she was gonna help us out
any way she could,
if she thought we were gonna lock up Amy.
So we used that to try
to turn the tables on Liz,
and deploy a bit of a ruse on her.
If you would kinda go back through the...
if you have any type of history
of contacts with Amy,
and just make sure there's nothin'
where she said somethin' more threatening
than, "Hey, I wanna b*at up Cari."
If she made anything...
Real threatening statements,
or inferred that she ever did
anything to Cari,
'cause that's like gold to me
if we had somethin' like that.
Because then we could
start buildin' a case.
Hopefully Liz would write to herself
posing as Amy,
and hopefully we'd get enough details
that we'd be able
to build that case against Liz.
[eerie singing]
[Ryan] Liz thought
she was smarter than us,
but she was playing checkers,
we were playing chess.
[typing]
[mouse clicks]
[Jim] A couple days
after the interview with Liz,
she started forwarding us
some messages from Amy.
Confessing, "I sh*t you at Big Lake Park
because you wouldn't stay away from Dave."
We knew this was Liz writing to herself
usin' Amy's name.
It was a good start,
but I knew we were gonna need
more details from Liz
of what actually happened to Cari.
[tense music plays]
[Dave] I know the police
couldn't just go and arrest Liz,
'cause they just didn't have
the evidence to convict her.
But myself and the kids and Amy,
I mean, we're under thr*at.
Not knowing what, if anything, may come,
or what kinda craziness might happen.
[dramatic music plays]
If she could sh**t herself,
what else is she capable of?
I was terrified at that point.
[Ryan] There was concern
about Amy and her children,
so I developed a plan.
[phone rings]
[ringing continues]
[phone beeps]
I got in touch with Dave,
and recorded the conversation.
Just speaking father to father,
man to man,
I would do whatever I could
to be around my kids as much as possible.
I'd be damn near moved in
with Amy if I were you.
[Dave] Okay.
[Ryan] If I had to get back with my ex
and move in with her,
so be it,
as long as I know my kids are safe.
[Dave] Okay. I'll take your advice.
Did my plan have an ulterior motive to it?
Yes.
We knew that as soon as Liz found out
that Dave was moving in with Amy,
we were gonna start seein'
some real raw emotion coming from her.
[eerie singing]
[phone rings]
[ringing continues]
This is Investigator Doty.
[Liz] Yeah.
- [Jim] Who am I speakin' to here?
- Liz.
[Jim] Liz, what... what's goin' on?
[Liz] She's still not arrested.
She gets to sh**t somebody,
and then she gets to k*ll another person,
and then she gets to move in with Dave,
and she gets to be free,
and you guys aren't arresting her.
[Jim] There's only so much I can do
if Amy's not talkin' to us.
- You still there?
- [Liz] Yeah. Uh-uh.
[Jim] If she does let you know
some more specifics,
that's the kinda stuff that makes a case.
[Liz] Okay.
[Jim] All right. Bye.
[line clicks]
[Ryan] That phone call with Jim
was the tipping point.
The plan was actually working.
[mysterious music plays]
[Jim] That night,
there was a huge break for us.
[clicks mouse]
Liz starts forwardin' us
more messages from Amy.
But this time, details about Cari's m*rder
begin pouring in.
[computer chimes]
[clicks mouse]
The emails seemed like a descriptor
from the k*ller of what happened.
[clicks mouse]
- [clicks mouse]
- We knew this wasn't Amy.
We knew this was Liz writing to herself,
posing as Amy.
The emails described
how she'd parked in an abandoned lot,
and covered Cari with a tarp
and b*rned her.
As detectives, there's some excitement,
because maybe we're gettin' the evidence
we've been looking for for years.
[clicks mouse]
But at the same time,
what they're describing
is such a horrible thing.
[clicks mouse]
These confessional emails,
if true, were a huge break to us,
'cause up to this point,
we had no idea what happened to Cari.
We believed Liz was involved,
but we had no idea what she had done.
[clicks mouse]
[Ryan] Reading all these emails,
the common theme was there was a stabbing
that occurred in Cari's car.
[scrolls mouse]
And that led us back to the vehicle again,
but this time,
we were looking for traces of blood.
[hopeful music plays]
[aerosol sprays]
[Jim] We processed the vehicle
with the blood reagent.
[Ryan] We just sprayed everywhere
we could think of.
This chemical, when it hits blood,
will glow under a black light.
The black light was taken
over the front seat, the passenger seat,
throughout the back seats,
the back hatch area.
And we saw nothing.
There were no traces of blood.
But it was Cari's vehicle.
There's a good chance maybe
she was driving when she was stabbed.
[machine whirs]
So I pulled the fabric
off the driver's seat,
and there's nothin' under there.
It was just normal foam.
Then I moved to the passenger seat,
I pulled the fabric off of that.
- [shutter clicks]
- [dramatic sting]
[shutter clicks]
On the bottom of that seat
was a big red stain.
- [shutter clicks]
- [sinister sting]
I think, "We found our crime scene."
[police siren blares]
- [Ryan] Who you goin' with? Ambrose?
- [Jim] Yeah, I'm gonna ride with him.
[mysterious music plays]
[Dave] Investigator Avis called me,
said, "We just wanted to let you know
she's been arrested."
In that moment, it did feel
like a weight was lifted off my shoulders.
But not all of it.
You can't wind up slowly over four years
and then just turn it off.
That's not the way it works.
[spooky whistling]
[crickets chirp]
Now, the reason
why you're in this chair right now today,
is because you have a lot of questions
that you need to answer for me.
Did you ever see Cari's car?
- You ever seen it?
- Nope.
A picture of her car
with her plates, her Explorer,
was on your phone.
- I've never seen her car. Ever.
- You've been in her car.
- You drove her car.
- No, I didn't.
I've never been inside her car.
I've never even been around her car.
Ever.
- Your fingerprints are in there.
- No, I haven't.
I'm not lying.
I've never been around her car.
I've never even seen it.
This is where I...
I want you to think hard, okay,
about... what direction
you're gonna go in here.
Are you gonna sit in this chair
and be remorseful or be cold-blooded?
Because right now, after four years,
this... this family's been lookin'
for answers.
For years and years,
people have been, um, sending emails
under Cari's fictitious accounts.
The IP addresses show up to whose house?
Your house.
Why would you create all these emails?
I haven't created any emails.
They're coming from you.
No, they're not.
I'm not gonna be accused
of something that I didn't do.
The finger's pointin' right at you.
Then I'm done talking,
and I'm gonna have my attorney.
[menacing music plays]
Just into our newsroom tonight,
word of an arrest.
[anchor] Golyar charged
with first-degree m*rder,
and is being held
at the Pottawattamie County Jail.
Once Liz was arrested, that doesn't mean
the investigation was over.
This trial was gonna be tough.
We needed brilliant prosecutors
workin' the case with us.
[woman 4] Looking from the outside,
this case truly came across
as far-fetched.
I'm wondering to myself,
how am I gonna get a court
to believe that this is true?
This was somebody keying their own car,
stabbing their own clothes.
This person had even b*rned
their own home.
I mean, who's gonna sh**t themselves
in the leg, for cryin' out loud?
But my biggest concern, honestly,
was "How do you prove a m*rder
without a body?"
We needed to prove that, A, Cari's dead,
and, B, Liz k*lled her.
[dramatic music plays]
It was all-consuming work, day and night,
in search of some kind of smoking g*n
to prove Cari was dead.
[Tony] Avis and I were leaving
no stone unturned.
Anything that could potentially help us
with this case, we wanted.
[Ryan] It was exhausting.
Twelve, sometimes 14, 16 hours a day,
going through the same old phone dumps
that we had reviewed a thousand times,
making sure we didn't miss something.
[clicks mouse]
All those emails, all the email accounts,
make sure we didn't miss another one.
It took a toll on my life.
- [sniffs]
- [clicks mouse]
My marriage was failing.
I knew that I wasn't bein' a good dad
at the time, which broke my heart.
[Tony] A year or so before I started
workin' on this case,
I'd been diagnosed
with having a brain tumor.
At this point in the case,
as it was really starting to... to heat up,
the tumor got bigger,
and that meant surgery.
[clicks mouse]
And so I asked the question,
"Is it gonna impair
my ability to do work?"
And the answer that I got was yes.
So I said right away, "I'm not doin'
the surgery, not till this case is done."
[Ryan] We were both 100% dedicated,
just hoping to find
whatever that missing piece was.
[Tony] We were going back to everyone,
asking them, "Is there anything else
that you haven't told us?"
[tense music plays]
We interviewed Dave for what had
to have been, you know,
the 13th, 14th, umpteenth time.
[Dave] They turn around to leave,
but they kinda stop.
Then Kava turned around
and said, just really offhandedly,
"Just one more thing.
Do you have any electronics
from around November, December 2012
that we could take a look at?"
"Anything you haven't given us?"
[Dave] I went to my storage unit
and did a little diggin' around.
[newspaper crinkles]
And I found this old tablet,
and it was buried, and it was dusty,
and it was dead as a doornail.
[hopeful music plays]
There's nothing interesting about it,
but it does have a memory card.
It has this micro SD card
inserted into it.
When I examine that micro SD card...
[clicks mouse]
...it didn't show any files at all.
Nothing's on it.
Like, it's been wiped clean.
[dramatic music plays]
[Tony] But we can look deeper,
and we can look for deleted information,
and so that's what I did.
And then all of a sudden...
[hits key]
[scrolls mouse]
...I found about 11,000
thumbnail-size photographs on there.
As I started to look through these images,
I see that there are a lot of selfies
of Liz in here.
[Ryan] A selfie of Liz.
- [clicks mouse]
- Another selfie of Liz.
Another one.
[clicks mouse]
- [clicks mouse]
- My heart rate starts to go up.
- [clicks mouse]
- [scrolls mouse]
From the dates on these photos,
we're realizing this is
the SD card from Liz's phone,
back when Cari went missing.
This is huge.
[hopeful music plays]
[moves mouse]
[Tony] I started to look
through the thousands of photographs.
[double clicks mouse]
[clicks mouse]
Is there any information here from 2012
that would help us with this case?
- [clicks mouse]
- [scrolls mouse]
- [scrolls mouse]
- Among the thousands of photos,
there was one that caught my eye.
[scrolls mouse]
[mysterious music plays]
- [scrolls mouse]
- I thought it was a piece of rosewood.
I didn't think
it would have any bearing on this case,
but it w... I was curious,
because it... it... it looked different.
[scrolls mouse]
When I took a look at it
from a couple different angles,
I thought, "This looks like a foot."
[scrolls mouse]
You know, I'm not a pathologist.
I do have a copy of Gray's Anatomy,
so I... I went to the bookshelf.
And there is a drawing
right there that shows
that this is where
the veins are in the foot.
And there is a...
Something that happens postmortem
called venous marbling,
where, uh, these veins become visible.
And I thought, you know, all of a sudden,
we're seeing a picture of a dead body.
This might be Cari's foot.
[dials number]
[line rings]
It was Presidents' Day weekend
when I got a phone call.
[mouse scrolls]
You really had to squint to see.
But there was hope that we now had
more evidence going into the trial.
[scrolls mouse]
We also felt that we had a way of proving
that it was Cari's foot,
because it had a tattoo on it.
[mouse scrolls]
We got a hold of Nancy,
and we had to ask,
"Did Cari have this tattoo?"
[sad piano music plays]
And the answer was yes.
Cari had the tattoo on her foot.
It was the Chinese symbol for "mother."
New tonight in Omaha,
woman on trial for m*rder.
Prosecutors allege
a love triangle turned fatal,
but the defense is arguing
a m*rder might not have even happened.
[Brenda] The first day of court,
I went in a little nervous.
[disturbing music plays]
This was never going
to be the slam-dunk case,
because we had to prove
not only was Cari dead,
but the way she was k*lled,
the manner, the premeditation.
Those were gonna be some big challenges.
[elevator dings]
This is a bizarre and twisted case
of a fatal attraction.
I really didn't know
what happened to Cari until the trial.
[Brenda] There isn't any question,
Your Honor, that Cari's dead,
and the evidence shows
she was k*lled in Omaha.
I wish it wasn't the case for this family.
Having to hear that Cari
had been stabbed, for one thing, just... Uh...
Uh... It's your...
your child, you just don't...
It's not something that you ever...
Uh...
Guess it's a nightmare.
[Brenda] These are trophy pictures.
They memorialize the heinous acts
as if it were some kind
of an accomplishment.
Of course, they tried to warn me
what was coming,
but I don't think you can warn anybody...
[inhales]
...when you've found out you...
your daughter's been mutilated,
and...
thrown away.
Not one person on this Earth
has seen or heard from her
since November 13th, 2012.
That just tears me apart.
[elevator dings]
[dramatic music plays]
[Brenda] The worst time
is waiting for the verdict.
You don't get much sleep.
You go over the evidence.
Did you do everything you could?
I remember walking into the courtroom.
It was... tense.
There was media and family.
We waited for the judge to take the bench.
Part of me wanted to believe
that it was a foregone conclusion
that she was guilty,
but we were all worried
that there was every possibility
she could walk outta there.
[Jim] The stakes were high.
If Liz is found not guilty,
Cari's name isn't cleared.
There will always be a shadow
over Nancy and Max,
and the entire family.
[Ryan] I stood up. I remember, like,
my hands were just shaking
'cause I was that nervous.
[inhales deeply] The court finds,
after careful consideration
of the evidence,
the contention by the defense
that the state has not met its burden
because the body of Cari Farver
has not been recovered... [echoes]
My stomach dropped,
everything in me just dropped.
The things he's saying
sound like it's gonna be
a not-guilty verdict.
[judge]...has been overcome
by the overwhelming amount of evidence
presented by the state during this trial.
But then, the way he was speaking changed.
Cari Farver did not voluntarily disappear
and drop off the face of the Earth.
Very sadly, she was m*rder*d.
The court finds beyond a reasonable doubt
that the defendant
intentionally k*lled Cari Farver
with deliberate and premeditated malice
on or about November 13th, 2012,
here in Douglas County, Nebraska.
[sad piano music plays]
[Jim] There was crying,
and hugs with all the family members.
For Nancy and Max,
I felt a lot of sadness for them
because they had lost
their daughter, their mother,
and we could never give that back.
The little bit we could give back was
restoring Cari's reputation
in that small community.
People had the assumption
Cari was goin' crazy,
and that's obviously very hurtful.
That cuts pretty deep
on the... on the family.
We got really close to Nancy and Max
throughout this whole thing.
Push, push, push, push...
[Jim] We really got to know
who Cari was too.
Oh my gracious.
[girl] Go, go, Mom.
Okay, come on, let's go.
Let's go, let's go, let's go.
Hold on. I gotta get the cookie.
See the cookie?
[Jim] We grew to see
that she was a great mother.
Look what got into it.
[Jim] That she was a good person.
- Oh man!
- Oh! He took the...
- [man] He did, though.
- Oh, okay.
Oh my goodness.
You have to... Just turn him off, you...
[Dave] The woman that I'd dated had goals,
and... was smiley,
and wanted to be somethin'.
She was just tryin'
to make her way in this world.
[sad piano music continues]
I'm very sorry for what happened.
If I hadn't have met Cari,
she wouldn't have met Liz,
and this all wouldn't have happened.
If I'd have known
the choice was this craziness
or tell Cari I'm not interested,
I would've told Cari I'm not interested.
But you don't get that choice.
Ya know.
[hopeful music plays]
All right, so which ones am I again?
- [Ryan] Six through ten.
- Oh, man, this is not looking good.
[Ryan] Here's the ten, six.
Well, yeah, I don't like
any of my options, really.
- [Ryan] Just hit 'em all, then.
- Oh, I'm about to.
I will forever be grateful
to Jim Doty,
and Ryan Avis,
and Tony Kava.
- It's my turn again?
- [Ryan] You really don't know how to play?
Well, I've seen it done.
Okay.
[strikes ball]
[laughs]
They saved my sanity. [chuckles]
And...
they'll always be my boys.
They're fantastic at what they do.
Tsk. And hadn't been for them,
I would still be in the dark now.
[hopeful music fades out]
[mysterious music plays]
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