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sometime today?
Nicole:
so we had a big fight.
Aika wants kids,
but I had a vasectomy.
Is not always guaranteed.
David: we finally
made it to louisville,
And there's not
a lot of time left
Before the end
of the 90 days.
What do you think?
Okay.
I hadn't even had one
conversation with you
When you popped the question
to my daughter.
Don't look to me
for financial help.
You're on your own
on that one.
I still feel like it's important
for us to talk about intimacy.
David and I
are both virgins.
We talk about everything else.
Seriously?
and coming up...
I'm kind of worried
That this is gonna be
the last time I see azan.
Because what if things
really don't work out?
I felt betrayed in a way.
I've told you before
That I don't like
bringing up that subject.
You don't want to marry
someone you can't trust.
I'm ready to have kids.
I'm ready to have family.
There's no way.
**
- Whoo-whoo!
- Whoo!
We're holding her hostage
for the next 24 hours.
It's the first time I will be
seeing the kids with annie.
And they have no idea
that we are engaged.
Do you want a husband
to be there in the home
For his children
and his wife?
You're asking stuff that's not
really your business.
You're blaming
an owl with a candle
On the fact that you are
an to my kids.
This is nuts!
**
I want you to look at some
of my outfits for miami,
For, like, going out.
I don't want to wear anything
that you wouldn't like.
So...
Today, me and my girls
are heading out to miami
For my bachelorette party.
- Yeah?
- Yeah.
Okay.
The problem is,
andrei is very old-school
And is very strict,
so he doesn't like it.
So I can't go celebrate
with my girlfriends?
I had to really convince him
that he can trust,
When we go out,
we're not gonna be crazy,
And we're gonna remain classy
and enjoy our time
Without being wasted
and strippers.
I'll let you know
when I get there.
I will.
Whoo!
Bachelorette partay!
Whoo!
- All aboard!
- Are you serious?
I'm just ready to party.
Like, I'm ready to go out.
I'm ready to dance and have
some drinks and wear high heels
And a cute dress and lipstick.
- Yay!
- Whoo-whoo!
It's happening!
I think this is
actually gonna be fun.
I am actually looking
forward to this.
- Cheers.
- Whoo-whoo!
- To miami!
- Miami!
Libby's
bachelorette party!
Did he give you a lecture
before he let you leave?
- Really?
- That's what he says?
Too much" and, like...
Of course he did.
..."Don't be crazy and, like,
stay classy, san diego."
I don't think there's any guy
in america that wouldn't say,
"Go have fun
for your la..."
'Cause, you know, like...
I feel like
these bottles are...
You don't understand
his culture, though.
That's the thing.
I know that my sisters
are gonna try to get me
To do something
wild and crazy tonight,
And I'm not gonna do anything
that andrei doesn't approve of,
But whatever they plan,
they plan.
And I do want to have some fun.
Whoo!
Let's bring those
to the bar.
Yes, we're
bringing those out.
**
Whoa!
**
- Finally, we're here!
- Wow!
- Whoo!
- We have arrived!
Did a good job loosening her up,
Yes.
...the real libby
was coming out.
She is so much fun
when she lets loose,
And I feel like
she started to come out,
So we're really excited
to take her out.
Mm-hmm.
Definitely.
- Cheers!
- Cheers!
- Whoo!
- To your bachelorette party!
- Miami!
- Whoo!
No turning back now.
- Turning back from what?
- You'll see.
We discussed taking her phone
away, just so we could have,
You know, a couple hours
to just let loose, have fun.
All right.
Send a video to andrei.
And then let's
take your phone...
- No.
- ...so you can't text him.
- No.
- Yes. Yes, yes.
- It's time, my dear.
- It's time.
Jen: you know,
we're signing off.
Fun out in miami for the night.
And she gets married,
She's not gonna have
one of these nights again.
Somebody taking my phone like I'm
a child is not exciting to me.
We're not taking your phone
like a child, but...
That's what I feel like.
I feel like I'm in high school.
Okay, andrei, this is jen
and libby, your future wife.
We're holding her hostage
for the next 24 hours.
Basically what this means is...
- Bye!
- Sayonara, sucka!
Talk to you
tomorrow!
Sent.
You guys feel better now,
as people?
- Kinda.
- Done. I'll take it.
It's not funny.
I thought not having our phones
out was just, you know,
Being in the moment
and living in the moment,
And that's really
what I want for her.
You know, she can
totally let loose
And not be so worried about
andrei and, you know, whatever.
So I just wanted her
to have fun.
She'll get over it, and
she'll come get it later.
Nope. It's jen's party,
not mine.
**
**
So, what do you think
of downtown?
What do you think
of louisville so far?
Annie and I are in louisville
because nikki was not happy
That chris co-sponsored
for annie's visa.
We were gonna go
to louisville anyways,
Because my family is here,
my kids are here.
And tonight we have to meet
with my kids for dinner.
So, annie and I go down
to the riverfront,
Because I think annie
is extremely stressed.
She has talked to ashley on
video call, but not in person.
Ash? Okay.
This is annie.
The kids have no idea
that we are engaged,
And ashley has
absolutely no filter,
So this could get ugly.
I'm so nervous
to meet your family.
I worry about if
they don't accept me,
If they're
talking bad to me.
Whatever they say to you, do not
take it like it's against you.
It's not.
Their anger is with me.
So they might say
bad things to you...
I would be upset, too, if my
father came back with somebody
After I haven't seen him
for 18 months.
But that's just
the initial shock of it.
After that's over with,
like american culture is,
They'll yack, yack,
yack, yack,
And then say sorry
and move on.
Ultimately,
you're family.
We just have to
get through this,
And then we can start
really focusing
And planning
on the wedding accordingly.
I hope so.
So, are you prepared?
You ready to meet the kids?
It's the first time
I will be seeing the kids
Since we've arrived in
america, since being back.
So it's a little stressful,
Because I'm showing up
with a 24-year-old.
And, "oh, by the way,
we're engaged."
Cheers.
- Oh, my god.
- What's up, dad?
Hi!
Jacob:
I'm not really close to my dad.
He's sometimes in my life,
sometimes out.
That's just him.
Oh, my god.
- Hi.
- Hi.
Annie, this is jacob and ashley.
This is annie.
- Hi.
- What's up?
My dad hasn't been here
in almost two years.
Like, they can't just come here
and expect open arms
When he walks away from us.
Say hi. You say hi?
Here, sit.
**
Um...
First of all,
what is on your hand?
- My watch?
- No.
- Are you married?
- No. No, no, no, no, no.
Um, I guess we're not gonna
have small talk beforehand.
Um...
...we are engaged.
What?
**
Ashley:
I feel disappointed.
The fact that he's back
to really be here with us,
It's really just about the fact
that he just wants us
To just welcome her
and be okay with everything.
It's not. I don't know.
It's weird for me that dad
wants to marry a 25-year-old.
He should've told me about the
engagement like way long ago.
You guys were just dating,
and now you're just engaged.
Like, I'm supposed to
just be okay with that.
You know, I didn't want
to say it over the phone.
I mean, obviously we talked
on skype,
You know, back when
we were in thailand.
But I didn't want
to say it.
It's something I wanted
to say to you in person.
We're not married,
but we are engaged.
She's on the k-1 visa,
which means 90-day fiancée.
So we will be getting
married very soon.
But that's why I wanted
to tell you in person,
Because I want you
at the wedding.
If you really want the relationship,
like, we really need to feel that.
Well, that takes time,
ashley.
Right, but it's sad that you
even have to rebuild that.
It shouldn't even
have to be rebuilt.
It should've been
a consistent, steady thing
To have a relationship
with your children.
That's not
how parenting works.
**
- Do you want kids?
- Yeah.
You see the relationship
he has with us, right?
Do you expect that it would
be different for your child
That you would
ever have with him?
I don't know.
Maybe you should
think about that.
Who was there with you
when you were 16
And you were having a baby?
Who took you to every
doctor's appointment?
What did you do
with him?
You walked out of his life
and left him with mom. And gone.
You got with her,
you did this,
You be-bopped around
china and thailand.
He's 18 years old.
Where have you been
since he was 13 years old?
That was during a time
where he really needed you.
So you think that's
gonna be any different,
That he's not there for him,
and this is his only son
And just left him to
go do what he wanted?
You know, clearly,
you don't know my life then.
I know my dad,
and he can sit there
And he can play this all he
wants, but we know what's up.
- That's the past. You know?
- Okay, then.
- Right. Exactly.
- So leave it in the past.
Why would this be any different
for you than it would be for...
The time is different.
Do you think that it
would be any different?
Do you feel like
it would?
Who he really is.
Do you want a husband
and a family and children?
Yeah, but the way
you're thinking...
And a husband that needs
to be there in the home
For his children
and his wife?
- That's what you want?
- Of course.
Do you really involve
yourself in anything
I say to her,
you have to jump in?
Well, I'm not gonna let you
talk to her like that.
- You're being rude.
- I'm asking real questions.
But it's the way
you're asking, ashley.
Ashley:
he's the one that was gone.
Like, you can't just
come here and us be okay
With the situation
when you've just been gone.
You know,
we've had to come together
And be okay without him.
But if I feel like I need
to ask appropriate questions,
I'm gonna ask, regardless
if you're around or not.
David: well, it's the first time
you're meeting somebody.
You ask a question, then you
don't listen for the answer.
- Because you're jumping in.
- Because you're asking stuff
That's not really your
business.
**
**
I know my dad,
and he can sit there
Wants, but we know what's up.
David: you ask a question, then
you don't listen for the answer.
- Because you're jumping in.
- Because you're asking stuff
That's not really your
business.
Punched in the mouth.
Like, don't talk
to me like that.
- Ashley, chill out.
- Don't even go there.
I don't know who you think you
are, talking to me like that.
You haven't seen me
in two years,
And this is the type of crap
you want to say to me?
- Calm down.
- No.
I'm gonna say
what needs to be said.
You haven't seen him
in a while.
Just be happy that
you're seeing him.
It's been a long time.
Talk to your father like that?
Hell no.
The way you talk to parents.
- You just don't do that.
- Why you mad?
Am I ruffling
your feathers?
David: no. You're... But I can
sit there and talk about...
Imagine if I sat there
and said " you."
That's what you do.
- Are you 50 or 15?
- Well, but how old are you?
You're doing the same thing.
So, what's the difference?
You're trying to sit there
and be a parent.
I'm trying to stick to relevant
things, and you keep... Shwoop.
- That's not relevant.
- What's not relevant?
My relationship
is one thing...
Then why are we
here
If your relationship's
not relevant?
He just got done saying your
relationship's not relevant.
There you go.
So we don't need to be here.
Since your relationship
is irrelevant to us.
David: then don't.
Then leave. Then leave.
- Bye.
- Cool, bitch.
**
David:
having water thrown on me is...
I just think about
as childish as it gets.
The hardest thing
for ashley to grasp
Is that I am coming back here
and getting married so quickly,
That I am putting somebody else
Before the children
and grandchildren,
And that's difficult for her.
That was interesting.
I want him to be
like a normal dad.
He used to be a dad, you know,
at least coming over,
Having dinners with us,
you know, seeing his grandkids.
And, you know,
he doesn't even know my kids.
He doesn't know my kids at all.
That hurts.
Here for you all.
I'm still trying
to be here for her.
If they don't want to be
a part of it, that's...
That's her choice.
I think this dinner
had a significant effect
On annie at this point.
I am sure that annie
is probably doubting
Our relationship right now,
Because she's walking
into a storm.
And, although she was
probably prepared for it,
Because we've talked about it,
When you see it firsthand,
it's like, "wow. Is this real?
Why would he even want
to come back here?"
Are you okay?
- No.
- No?
No, I'm not okay.
I'm sorry, david.
I'm not.
**
Molly: the last few weeks
have been hectic,
Because I've never
planned a wedding,
And I think luis
is totally homesick,
And I know he's not happy.
Mom and dad can't come
to the wedding,
But his brother lives
here in new jersey,
And we've applied for a tourist
visa for his other brother
So he can come
to the wedding, as well.
Woman: we've got you
right here, molly.
I'm hoping that it
might make him happy.
- It's perfect. Thank you.
- You're welcome.
How about right here?
In the past few weeks,
luis and I have had problems
About his relationship
With olivia and kensley.
So I thought maybe
it would be good to go out
And do something
with just the two of us.
Woman: y'all enjoy.
Hi.
Molly: I'm hoping that
we can just hang out
And try to reminisce about
When we fell in love
in the d.r.
Are you nervous?
You're so quiet.
Look what's on the table.
Do you remember
when we went to...
- What was it?
- Saona isla.
- Saona isla.
- Yes.
You know, it's one of the most
romantic things I've ever done.
- Hmm.
- I love doing stuff like that.
It's, like, we can do stuff
here, too, you know?
Like, you've never
seen the snow.
We can go to las vegas
or new york.
Luis is being so quiet.
At this point, I'm like...
I have no idea what's going on.
- I have your water.
- Oh, fantastic. Thank you.
And your diet coke.
Thank you.
To lots of stuff.
Boop!
What do you want to do?
Besides go home?
**
Luis keeps joking about
Going back to the d.r.
Before the wedding,
And I'm not sure if it's
a joke or if he's sure.
"It's possible." Is that before
or after the wedding?
**
Yes.
"Yes"? What kind
of answer is that?
Or after, and you say yes.
**
When? Before or
after the wedding?
Yes.
"Yes"? What kind
of answer is that?
Or after, and you say yes.
Hmm?
Mind. You need to be sure.
Now is the time to tell it.
Yeah.
You got to tell it.
I think luis probably feels
trapped a little here.
He can't really go anywhere.
He can't get his license yet.
He can't work.
But it's only worth us going
through with the marriage
And a wedding if he
truly wants to be here.
To stay here
For anybody.
Molly: our 90 days
is almost up,
And luis and I definitely have
some things to still work on.
But I also think that,
With anybody who's
about to get married,
There's always doubts.
Oh.
Thank you.
- For you.
- Oh, my gosh.
- Thank you so much.
- You're welcome.
So, you know, like, maybe next
time, the girls can come.
You know, we can do
some fun stuff
With the girls, too,
you know?
Okay.
Like, maybe go to the park so
you can play with kensley more.
You know, like,
do something fun, you know?
Yes.
Definitely can't hurt, you know?
But there's...
It's not a choice.
You're not
just marrying me.
My kids.
Molly:
it makes me feel sad that luis
Is trying to kind of
separate me from my kids.
Because I love my daughters.
They're my whole heart.
Like, we're a package deal.
And he knows that.
I'm sorry, but it takes
patience.paciencia.
And time.
**
But, oh, my god.
You need to use it.
You're gonna try every day.
For the next 20 years,
Long enough.
You're not just
gonna come in,
And automatically
everything be so wonderful.
I can't believe
what he's saying.
It makes me feel very sad
That luis does not want
to step up to the plate
And be the dad, like,
that I thought he could be.
I mean, he knew before he got
here that I have two kids.
You're worrying
the out of me.
Long enough...
To do everything.
My heart's, like,
dying in my chest.
Because my kids mean
more to me than anything.
Yes.
The wedding
is only a few days away,
And if luis can't love my kids
the same way that he loves me,
Then his 90 days is gonna be up.
**
**
Nicole: you know, today is my
last day in morocco with azan,
And, you know, the trip
didn't exactly go the way
That I wanted it to
or how I thought it would go.
So, me and azan
really need to decide
If we're gonna do the k-1 visa.
Azan: up!
Up, up, up, up!
Some ups and downs,
But i, you know...
I'm always happy to be with you.
Nicole:
me and azan had some moments
When I felt like
it could have been over.
May!
Nicole: azan, wait!
It's not as easy
as you think it is.
Do you love me?
Just a guy friend.
You can trust me.
The interview's over.
Bad person!
Don't say that
I'm the bad person.
Why is it so hard
to talk to me?
- Stop!
- Quit!
Nicole: even with
everything that happened,
I have a lot of high hopes
that, you know,
Azan will come to america
to be with me.
But I'm still worried
that there's a lot...
So much that happened
that, you know,
There's a possibility
that he won't.
You know, I'm really worried
That you're not
gonna trust me 100%
When you finally come
and you're there with me,
You know, all the time
we're living together.
And I feel like still
you're not gonna trust me.
You know, you know...
So, does that mean
With the k-1 visa?
To go through with this,
As soon as we get home.
Only takes like a few months.
I mean, you know,
if anything happens,
A little longer.
Everything will work out fine.
- And you know?
- Yeah.
I'm really excited
for you to come.
It'll be fun.
You'll have a lot of fun.
Are you excited?
We would like
to have a baby.
I thought we were going there
to talk about my stuff,
And she says,
"you're fine. Shut up.
We're talking about her."
She already took your phone.
Elizabeth:
I'm here to celebrate,
And I can't have fun if, like,
nobody's listening to me.
Trying to help you
and help you have fun.
To get a rise out of me.
- No, I'm not.
- Yes, you are.
That we wanted!
**
All right. Let's send
a video to andrei.
And then
let's take your phone.
Elizabeth's bachelorette party.
- Bye!
- Send.
As people?
Becky: I want her to have a good
time, and it looked like she...
You know, it pissed her off
that we took her phone, so...
Yeah.
- It's not funny.
- She'll get over it.
Elizabeth: nope.
It's jen's party,
not mine.
I already told you guys what
I like and what I don't like.
We thought that
it was gonna be fun
And libby was gonna
go along with it,
But it just really
pissed her off.
Bit us in the ass.
So, you don't want me
to keep your phone?
No. It's stupid.
That's not enjoyable.
Do you understand
why we want your phone?
- Yeah.
- So we can hang out with you
And not have the
distraction of texting.
Do you understand why people
like to have their phone?
We're just doing it so you
can let loose a little bit.
That's all. We want to make sure
that you have a good time.
Of course I'm gonna
have a good time.
And I don't want
andrei to, like,
Text you about,
like, stupid stuff.
He's gonna go to bed soon.
- Okay, so why do you need...
- Why are you worried about it?
It's just so...
It's so immature to me.
Why are you really
getting so upset, though?
Is it 'cause
he's gonna be upset?
No. Because
I enjoy communicating
With my future husband.
It's not like...
We love each other.
Jen: trying to
take her phone away
Was not to cause friction or
make her upset or any of that.
I just want her to
just have a good night,
And that's really
all my intention was.
Don't get so upset
about it.
It's not like...
It's not fun to me.
It's not fun, and
it's not enjoyable.
Well, just try to
have a good time.
Because she already
took your phone.
So there's nothing
you can do about it now.
Yeah, such a good time
living like we're in 1872.
It's about celebrating
me and andrei.
Is he gonna get mad at you
if you don't respond?
No.
It's just, like...
It's not cute and it's not fun
To, like, take somebody's
personal property away
Like we're 12.
Just go with it.
Elizabeth: I think anybody
can side with me on this.
Like, you don't want your
personal property to, like,
Be handled in the hands
of another person
Or, like, be taken
from your person.
I'm here to celebrate,
and I can't have fun
If, like,
nobody's listening to me.
You can't be this upset
over a phone.
We haven't even... Do you
want me to go talk to jen?
**
- Jen's not in charge.
- Just go get her phone.
What is this
talking to jen?
Libby, I didn't say
jen was in charge, okay?
I'm just asking you if you
want me to go talk to her.
Do you really think
she's gonna listen to you?
Jen: I'm here.
I heard what you guys
were talking about.
You can come talk to me.
It's fine.
She's not happy.
You just pissed her off.
She is, like,
so pissed over this.
She feels like you are treating
her like a little baby.
And she's mad.
Nope. It's all about...
It's all about jen.
Libby, honestly, like...
No, it's not all about me.
I'm trying to help you
and help you have fun.
Help me?
Don't do that.
There's certain things
that I don't like.
Okay, then you can
have it, libby.
I'm not, you know,
wanting you to get upset.
I'm not, like, intentionally
wanting you to get upset.
Seriously.
You're trying to get
a rise out of me.
- No, I'm not.
- Yes, you are.
- No, I'm really not.
- You're trying to cause.
I don't have to,
but that's what I'm saying.
It didn't turn out
the way that we wanted.
She's now mad.
So let's end it
and give her
Her phone back.
Right. I don't care. Exactly.
That's what I'm saying.
- It's on the counter.
- So let's have fun now.
She can have her phone.
It's not a big deal.
I'm not the bad guy.
Did I really come all the way
to miami for this?
Like, forget it.
It didn't go well.
So... She has
her phone back.
- Cute.
- Great.
I got my phone back,
which I knew I would.
We didn't come here
to miami to fight.
We came here to have fun.
Whoo-hoo!
* Are you ready for
the bachelorette party? *
- Whoo!
- Let's just go party.
**
**
Whoa!
**
Elizabeth: absolutely so much
fun just to be with my girls
And just to be worry-free
and stress-free for a minute.
And then another side of me is,
like, thinking about andrei.
And I know he would be like,
"No, don't do that.
That's trashy.
Like, the only girls
that do that want attention."
And this and that, so...
But I didn't care anyway.
I did it.
**
**
**
- It's a beautiful day.
- Mm-hmm.
David and i, by far,
Had our biggest argument
the other night.
I still feel like it's important
for us to talk about intimacy.
No.
I'm gonna take a break.
- Seriously?
- Yeah, seriously.
Do you need me to be
more clear about it?
Baby, can you...
Yeah. Baby, can you
give me a break?
We just... We haven't,
like, addressed it yet,
So it's still really
fresh and awkward.
I feel a little nervous and
almost scared to bring it up.
The leaves are
starting to change.
- The colors. Fall.
- Yeah.
David: what disappointed me the
other night was that I told her
How I wouldn't
want to talk about sex.
She brought the
subject up several times.
I insinuate her to,
like, change the subject,
But she kept going,
she kept going,
And I felt disappointed,
betrayed in a way.
You don't want to marry
someone you can't trust.
It's a beautiful day.
It's a bit cloudy.
By the way, baby,
I just wanted to, like,
Make up for, like,
the other night.
Yeah. I don't know.
I just got...
I was upset by the way
you reacted towards me.
I know.
But I understand why
you got upset, too.
Yeah, I just felt like
I've told you before
That I don't like
bringing that subject.
I think that one of
the biggest mistakes
That a lot of
christian families do
Is they don't talk about sex,
even in a healthy way.
Because david told me
they've only talked about it
Like once in his life.
It's definitely
more difficult for him.
For me, it's normal.
David: I don't think
I have a lot of rules.
I don't think that I am
someone that puts rules.
Nonetheless, I am someone
that tells you
How I would feel
about certain things.
And if you love me, then you
just should not do something
That the other person
is gonna be disappointed.
I was stressed out,
and, you know, like,
I'm fine talking about anything
you want to talk with me.
And even, like, talking
about sex, it's fine.
It's just, like...
I feel uncomfortable.
I'm not that used to it.
You know?
I was about 13 years old
when I decided to wait
Until I was married to have sex.
People think that it's a little
bit crazy or old-fashioned.
It hasn't always been easy.
These days,
it's probably weird, like,
If you're a guy in your 20s
and you haven't had sex yet,
Like, if you're still a virgin.
David's a little more
self-conscious
About talking about sex,
because maybe he feels like
He'll be more judged
than I will be.
All right?
I love you.
I love you, too.
Communication is not just
talking about whatever.
We need to talk about things
That actually apply
to our relationship.
We're taking our relationship
to the physical level,
And I think it's something
that we should talk about.
David just needs to see that.
But I was touched
when he apologized to me
And told me he loved me.
It just gives me hope
about our future.
So I thought it would be
a good time to tell david
About something else I've been
kind of nervous to bring up.
My dad's friend
has an apartment.
Heat is included.
Electric is included.
Internet's even included.
Snow removal. Trash removal.
What?!
That's like our budget.
Yeah.
So, like, where
is this apartment?
It's in claremont.
It's in claremont?
Okay.
But do you think we're gonna be
very close to your parents?
Like
eight houses away maybe.
Eight houses away?
Baby.
They'd be fine.
No, even my mom said, like,
She'll never pop over
unannounced, like unplanned.
I mean, as long
as they gave us,
Like, freedom and distance
And they don't want to, like, be
always around.
If it's an amazing deal,
let's not turn it down.
How about that?
We have to look at it,
but I'm up for that, baby.
Okay.
I don't love the fact that
it's in the same neighborhood
As her parents,
but if it fits our price,
If it's cozy and in a good area,
I would be willing
to live there.
Why not?
Wow.
It's two weeks away.
- I know, baby.
- Very uncomfortable.
I'm excited.
I'm excited.
Do you need a sex talk
from my mom, too?
No, I don't think so.
You're blaming
an owl with a candle
On the fact that you are
an to my kids!
This is nuts!
**
**
Molly: luis and I didn't really
get to talk about anything
Last night when we
got back from dinner.
And now I've been
at work all day,
And I just had
some time to think.
And I absolutely refuse
to be with someone
Who doesn't love my kids.
Hey, baby.
I'll be back down
in a minute.
I don't think luis
wants this part of my life.
I think he thought he was
gonna get here and get molly,
The girl that goes to the beach
And goes to the disco
and is on vacation.
**
And I have responsibilities.
And my kids come first.
And I'm not gonna just...
Be like, "oh, yeah,
this is really great."
When it really isn't.
- Hey.
- Hi.
How are you?
Okay. And you?
Honestly?
You want the truth?
I debated whether or not
To come home and talk
to you about this,
But I have to.
Because...
It's wedding time,
your family's coming,
And it's not okay.
**
You've made
several statements.
You want my kids
to not be here.
You want my kid
to go live with her dad.
And I let it go.
But this is not
what I expected, at all.
And I don't understand.
It's like
you just don't care.
You used to say,
"Good morning.
You're beautiful.
How are you?
I can't wait to see you."
You don't do any of that.
Instead, you say,
"make me some food.
You need to this.
You need to that."
Like, I'm not here
to take care of you,
In that way,
all the time.
I don't need
to do anything
Except take care of my kids.
- Yes.
- Hmm?
- Hmm?
- What kind...
Molly: all I wanted to do
was talk about,
"Do you want to be a dad?
Are you sure
you're ready for this?"
And it turns into
all this crazy stuff.
And I'm just not understanding.
It's not making sense.
Like, he starts in on me about
the different types of decor
That I have in my house
And that I have owls
and buddha heads
And, like, african masks,
And having these in my house
is, like, super-sacrilegious
To the christian faith
and to god.
It's my art! It's the way
I decorate my house!
So, what does it say about
somebody who drinks every day?
Or who cusses
Of children and love on them?
You're coming from with this.
Clearly, it's
affecting your mind.
And that you've been here
long enough, for 90 days,
That it's come inside your head
and made you crazy.
This is nuts.
Well, I'm sorry.
Well, if you have
a problem with that...
You're blaming
an owl with a candle
On the fact that you are
an to my kids.
That you are demanding
and commanding of me.
How dare you!
Yes, you do.
You understand it when you want
to and it's convenient for you.
You understand how to say,
"make me a sandwich!
Make me some chicken.
I don't like that chicken.
I don't like that barber
or that barber or that barber
Or that barber
or that barber!"
Have you not seen
the cross?!
The scripture in my bathroom
about love?!
I got a mary.
I got a statue.
It's not even buddha.
Well, you need to.
You need to talk about it.
Because this is
nuts!
**
You know why
I don't have a bible?
Because it got spilled
with tea,
And the parchment paper
all stuck together!
I have a jewelry jar
with a cross!
I have a bible
in kensley's room!
Ohh!
I can't do this!
Oh, my god.
Oh, my god.
Oh, my god.
Oh, my god.
I can't do this.
I am not marrying you!
I can't do this.
I'm not doing this.
You need to tell your family
not to come.
I'm calling my cousin right now
and telling him,
"Cancel the wedding."
Because I can't do this.
I am. I'm speaking
on it right now.
Because I'm not doing this.
There's no changing this.
There's no changing this.
I should be more excited today
Than I was the day
he got off the plane.
And I'm frustrated.
I feel defeated,
and I feel broken.
And I feel like I'm trying for
something way harder than he is.
The person that I met
Is not the person
who is in my household today.
This is dead wrong!
You're dead wrong
to come in here
With all your religious
beliefs and values
When you are sitting here,
straight sinner!
This is nuts.
You don't... Nothing.
Material stuff
has nothing.
The love for the lord
lives in your heart!
- Yeah.
- Here!
Has nothing to do
with this tv, this bed.
But you didn't have a problem
getting your butt right up
On that plane
and coming here, did you?
You're about to
make me lose my mind!
I can't deal with this!
You are blaming
an object!
Why don't you blame
your p*rn
That I caught
on your phone?!
Your bachelor party
at the strip club?!
- Excuse me.
- Pre-marital sex.
Drinking, partying.
Hanging out in the streets
with all your friends.
You tell me.
Okay, so, you can't be...
You're a hypocrite.
Those things are what makes
a person have the devil!
Not anything
I've done here!
You need to
analyze yourself!
No, you finish
by going in there
And getting
your packed.
This is not right.
Somebody's gonna sit over here
and try to come at me
And can't even stand up for
what you've done or didn't do,
And want to throw
god at me.
Luis was raised in
a super spirit-filled,
Holy, pentecostal,
hallelujah, worship home.
And I think that
if there's gonna be a copout,
This is the best thing
he can come with.
It's b.s.!
So, you need to figure out
what your real problem is,
And you're looking
for an escape.
Well, I freely
let you go.
You can take
your little ring
And do whatever
you want to do with it,
And pack your bags
and get out of my house.
Because I am not gonna
be living with somebody
Who is gonna chastise
and shun me
And tell me
I'm not this and that.
You can take this and you
can go and pack your stuff.
I am not marrying you.
There is no
justification for this.
Okay, okay.
You no marry...
You're making me feel like
I'm losing my mind!
**
Finished?
Are you finished?
**
Josh:
the wedding is getting close,
And the pressure
I feel to marry aika
Within that 90-day window
Isn't, you know,
do I want to marry her?
It's more about kids.
Are you nervous?
A little bit nervous.
In aika's ideal world,
we'll be married
And she'll be pregnant
in a matter of months.
I'm totally willing
to have a baby with her,
Because I know that having
a kid means a lot to aika.
But I did get a vasectomy
When aika says that, you know,
none of the men
In the philippines
get vasectomies,
That takes away their manhood.
I kind of think it's a little
bit of a s*ab at me, like,
"Well, why can't you have kids?
Nobody back home does that."
So, if aika and I want
to start a family,
We need to go see
a fertility doctor
To talk about what the odds are
Of successfully
reversing a vasectomy.
- Um, this one is for aika.
- Okay, thank you.
This one's for you.
And just fill those out.
Josh: just do the best you can.
We'll do the rest later.
- All right. All set.
- Okay.
- Aika?
- Oh. Yeah.
Okay.
Dr. Gunnala will be
right with you guys.
- Mm-hmm.
- Okay.
- Hi.
- Hi.
- Aika and josh?
- Hi.
- How are you guys?
- Aika.
- Josh.
- Hi, josh.
So, we have to get
some of the information.
Tell me why you're here.
We're really here
more for me than her.
I need to know if my
fiancé, josh, you know,
Can still bear a child,
Or we have possibilities,
because he had vasectomy.
How long it's been since
you had the vasectomy?
- A long time. 2002.
- 2002.
So we are checking
to see if I'm able to.
And we would like
to have a baby.
Aika: oh.
Now, aika...
I thought we were going there
to talk about me and my stuff,
And here we are sitting
in front of the doctor.
We're talking about her."
Follow me.
**
Josh: feeling a little bit
overwhelmed at the moment.
A lot of information.
It's a lot to think about.
I didn't realize that
a lot of our problem
Lies with aika and her clock.
Aika is a little bit shocked
by the news, I think,
Because she might have
waited too long.
Dr. Gunnala:
just finished her exam.
Josh: mm-hmm.
- Good.
- But...
Does that essentially kind
of slow the clock down then?
Correct.
Aika: I never
imagined a scenario
Where I don't have kids
in the future.
Hello?
You know how I feel like
when you disappear.
**
Hi, baby. Stay down.
Hi, bear.
Bear's more excited
to see me than you are.
Hey, bear!
Yeah, it was fun.
Mm-hmm. Of course.
Sure.
Elizabeth: it was so much fun
just to be with my girls,
But coming back home, andrei
is just sitting on the couch.
No expression on his face.
No emotions.
Doesn't get up to greet me.
His behavior makes me feel
like I should feel guilty
And like I did something wrong.
But I didn't do anything wrong.
And it's absolutely absurd.
Are you mad
that I went?
They took my phone,
and I threw a hissy fit,
And they realized
that it was stupid
And finally
gave it back to me.
You didn't hear
what I said.
Then we were getting dressed,
And they finally
were like, "all right."
What do you think?
Yes, we did.
I danced a lot.
It was like a ledge
that you, like, sit on
And there's a ledge
like right here.
What?
Getting up on the thing.
Becky and jen.
It's just something
that you do.
Is yours
And you're
celebrating something,
You get up,
and it's just a thing.
I'm dancing. I'm here."
Why is it stupid?
Really?
"What's the point
of getting married?
Because you want to
go out and have fun
Sometimes."
Very extreme.
Who was trashed?
- I'm making a generality.
- You weren't even there.
Into an unsafe situation?
I'm not an idiot.
See, this goes
back to trust.
Everything?
Elizabeth:
andrei has these expectations
Of how a woman should
behave a certain way.
And I don't want to always
go through the same thing.
I mean, I don't always want
to feel bad for going out
Or for just wanting
to have fun.
This is gonna be addressed
before we get married.
I'm not gonna live with that.
**
Nicole: you got it?
I'm sad that
I'm leaving morocco,
And I'm sad that
I'm leaving azan.
I'm sure some of my family
are hoping I come home
And tell them that it's just
over between me and him,
But I'm sure they'll be
surprised when I come home
And say we're going
through the k-1 visa.
- Say bye-bye. Kiss?
- No. No.
No?
I'm gonna miss her, too.
Especially her cooking.
Yeah.
Mina: bon voyage.
Nicole:
there's a lot on my mind
On the trip from agadir
to the airport.
You know, it's bittersweet.
You know,
I'm happy to see my family,
But I'm already gonna miss him,
And the last thing
I want to do right now
Is say goodbye to azan.
- You got her?
- Yeah.
Okay.
Thank you.
**
Boom!
Nicole: there were times during
the trip that azan really showed
That he could be
a good father to may.
He was always happy to, like,
hold her and to take care of her
And, like, needs to be strict
when he needed to be.
And, you know,
he was really there for her.
Sit. Sit down.
Stay. Stay here.
Want to say
"bye-bye, daddy"?
- Say bye-bye.
- Bye-bye.
- Give her a hug.
- Give me a hug?
Give me a kiss.
Ohh.
I know.
I'm sorry, too, for, like,
everything that happened.
Yeah.
I love you, too.
Nicole: our future is really
a question mark right now.
There are so many factors
to the visa that I feel like,
After everything, that he still
might not come to america.
Bye-bye!
- Want to tell daddy bye?
- Bye-bye.
Bye-bye.
- Say bye-bye.
- Bye-bye.
I'm kind of worried that
This is gonna be the last time
I see azan, because what if
Things really don't work out,
even when I leave?
I'm kind of tired of
hearing how it's all me.
**
**
- Hello.
- Hi! How are you?
- Good.
- Good. So...
What do you want?
Frappuccino?
Like caramel or...?
Josh: today, at the fertility
specialist, the doctor,
She said if we want
to have a child,
We need to be focusing
on aika with the age
And the egg numbers dropping
And being right on that cusp
of almost too late.
And, not to mention, the doctor
says we need to do ivf.
So, I can tell that
what the doctor said
Is really kind of
shaking her up.
- Yours is fancy.
- Mm-hmm.
- Thank you.
- You're welcome.
So you look kind of down
or pissed.
You have issues, too.
The doctor said...
For your age.
Oh, come on.
That is, you know...
Have gone from plenty...
Your eggs have gone
from plenty to not so plenty.
It was surprising
that, you know,
My vasectomy's
not even a problem.
- She's more worried about you.
- No.
- You have a clock problem.
- Oh, yeah.
Everything else she said?
Josh: I don't really like
the blame game.
The doctor was there
to give us medical advice,
And it's like
I'm bringing up, verbatim,
Things that the doctor told us,
and aika's disagreeing with me.
So, yeah, I'm kind of tired
of hearing how it's all me.
You're...
I mean, it's true.
To even start thinking about it.
Or I'll leave and leave
your ass here,
How to get home.
Say it again.
Another man, one more time.
- Try it. Say it.
- What?
A problem picking up
Whoever the
walks in that door.
**
**
Josh: up until
the whole baby thing,
Aika and I were pretty happy
for the most part.
But, you know, now there's this
other side starting to come out.
**
**
**
I can for you.
You know what
happened to me twice.
Why would you say
something that up?
Don't say
like that.
Josh: aika knows
that I've already had
Two failed marriages
due to infidelity.
So, for her to even mention
something like that
Is, you know,
pretty out of line.
But I don't want to
lose our entire future
Over a silly comment
that she didn't even mean.
**
All right.
After the wedding,
we'll set it up.
- Right?
- Mm-hmm.
Josh: I'm willing to do
basically anything
To show aika that I love her
and I'm ready for this.
- Okay?
- You go now.
I just don't like
feeling sweet right now.
It's just getting
through this period.
But we are getting married
extremely soon. I hope.
Do you know why
my parents split up?
Ashley:
I think there's a lot of things
That annie probably
doesn't know about my dad.
She left him because
he would cheat.
It wasn't just one.
It was multiple women.
**
David: I'm really disappointed
in the dinner last night.
The major reason why
annie and I came to louisville
Was so that the family
could be a part of the wedding.
And the way things
are looking right now,
It doesn't look that way.
How'd you sleep?
Not so good? Why?
With ashley, I knew
she would be angry.
She's hurt. I wasn't here
for 4 1/2 years.
The reason why we're here is
so the kids can get to know you.
And I think
as you get to know them,
I think you will love them,
and I know they will love you.
I would like for you
to meet with ashley,
Hang out with her,
talk to her, without me.
I think, yeah...
I think it'd be better
If you and her
were to just meet.
I think now that she got
over the shock of it,
I think she'll be fine.
- Okay.
- Okay. Good.
- You finished?
- Yeah.
**
- See you.
- See you, sweetie.
Hi.
- Hi.
- Yeah.
Last time when I met annie,
it was tense.
Oh, not a problem.
Don't know how honest he's been
with her about his past,
But I think
there's a lot of things
That annie probably
doesn't know about my dad
That she probably needs
to know about dad.
You have to understand that,
you know, I'm right
About my dad and the intentions
that you have with him.
'Cause this isn't the first
relationship that he's been in.
It's not any different
from the last one.
Do you really think
you know my dad?
'Cause he has a whole
nother life here.
Do you know why
my parents split up?
She left him because
he was unfaithful.
He was not faithful to her
and he would cheat.
Right.
It wasn't just one.
It was multiple women.
Obviously, we don't know
how many women, for sure.
But dad likes to party.
Dad likes to drink.
And he likes to hook up
with prostitutes.
**
**
You should probably
ask him more questions
About who he really is,
you know?
Ashley:
I feel like annie is shocked
When she hears
about my dad's past.
I feel like those are things
that he hasn't come clean about.
In a way,
I am telling her these things
So she sees what she's getting
herself into and she goes back.
I don't want her here.
I don't want her in our life
If really all it is
is just a big lie anyways.
I do feel like there is
a hidden agenda.
I don't feel like, you know,
What you guys have going on
is completely real.
I feel like dad is just looking
for somebody to clean his house,
Him for free,
and wash his clothes
And make him thai food.
That's how I feel.
That's what I'm feeling
is going on.
You're okay with somebody
kind of wanting you in that way?
Well, hopefully,
that's the case.
You have to know
how somebody is
And the patterns that they have
in their own marriages in life
Before you just rush
into marrying somebody.
You're young. You know?
You're only 25 years old.
But I do need to leave.
I do have three of his
grandkids at home, so...
Yeah, I understand.
**
Bye.
I mean, I don't want
to talk to david.
I don't want to see him.
I just want to calm down.
**
next time on "90 day fiancé"...
- Aww!
- Ohh! You look so...
It's been 90 days,
and today is the wedding.
Maybe you should
just, like, start
Respecting who's
gonna be my wife.
You'll have you,
him, and may.
How are you gonna support
all three of you
On a minimum-wage job?
That far ahead.
So you're just gonna
kind of wing it?
Yeah.
This is your third marriage.
And I worry.
Your track record sucks.
You don't have
another chance.
I want to see
what you're made of.
With me, I won't see you again.
Yes or no.
Our wedding is supposed
to happen in three days,
And I don't know if it is.
To make, sis.
I don't feel right.