♪ Don't it feel so good...
I wanted a fine-ass woman.
When Sophie followed me online,
I was like, "Oh, [bleep]!"
But she got spoiled
rich-girl tendencies.
She's even used to maids.
Oh, gosh.
I think I've only heard
a g*nsh*t once or twice.
♪ You gotta stand together... ♪
[Ashley] When I met
Manuel in Ecuador,
we became engaged
after like a week.
But I haven't told
him I am a witch.
Really?
Oh, I'm gonna
break it all right.
Fifteen years ago, when our
first K-1 visa was approved
our love wasn't ready.
But now I'm going
back to Moldova
to give love a second chance.
I'm finally making
my dream come true
Oh, my little French pig.
I'm living in a
one-bedroom apartment
with two guinea pigs,
two Chihuahuas
and my mom lives in my closet.
Oh!
Cheers to our new beginning.
[friend speaking]
I don't think I actually
want to be pregnant.
[man] I could not walk
down the aisle today.
It would be a lie.
Hey!
You gonna spend the rest
of your life with this man?
I do feel pressured
to make things work
because there's only 90 days.
It's hitting me. It's like
he really is cold to me.
If you're not sexually
attracted to me,
why are you with me?
What is this?
I have no idea what that is.
No, I'm not!
- Yes, you are!
- I never...
You [bleep] have!
That's not cheating!
[indistinct exclamation]
[crying] I wanna go home.
[Ashley breathing deeply]
[line ringing]
- [woman on phone] Hello?
- I think I'm having a panic att*ck.
Oh, my God.
- [cars honking] - I'm
literally getting lightheaded.
- Oh, my God. - Be careful.
Oh, my God.
Oh, my God, I'm freaking out.
I'm freaking out!
Oh, my God!
Mmm!
Oh, my God.
[groaning]
[singing bowl resonating]
I am just visualizing
him coming.
Us being together.
My name is Ashley.
Yes, I'm a Black Ashley.
We're unicorns.
I'm 32 years old and I'm
from Rochester, New York.
Wait. Wait for Mama.
I love to dance.
I love to learn things.
I'm a poet.
And, um, I am a witch.
[operatic music playing]
I'm a tarot reader.
I'm an astrologer.
I specialize in shadow work.
I think people are still very
much afraid of the word "witch..."
because we've been
conditioned to believe
that a witch is somebody
with like a crooked nose,
looking into their crystal ball,
like throwing hexes on people.
That's not anything that I do.
Place your hands on your heart.
Okay.
Feet planted firmly
on the ground.
Ready to receive divine wisdom
from our spirit guides.
One more deep breath in,
filling the belly up with air.
And let all go.
You can just shake it out
and get all nice and loose.
I love it, I love it, I love it.
Let's pull some cards!
My family was
religious growing up
but I'm like the crazy one,
the rebellious one
and I began to
dabble into the occult.
The magician is
coming in upside down
next to the ten of
swords upside down.
There's some limiting beliefs.
[woman] Yes, there is.
I'm gonna get a little
deep with you, okay?
This little twinge of doubt,
this isn't gonna work,
childhood trauma.
My spirituality guides
every single part of my life.
When I was in my undergrad,
I had a dream I was literally
like in the woods in the jungle.
And I was like working
with the Earth somehow.
And it prompted me to
talk to my biology teacher.
And she's like, "We're going
to Ecuador in December."
And I was like, "Sign me up."
And then I went.
I met Manuel
that very first year.
[Ashley] My fiance's
name is Manuel.
He's 35 years old
and he's a construction
worker from Puyo, Ecuador.
I met Manuel on New Year's Eve
over ten years ago.
Manuel came up to me
and asked me to dance.
Oh, my goodness, he
has this beautiful dark skin.
It's like a mixture of
peanut butter and cinnamon
and this like
luscious black hair
that just bounces
and is so full.
We were like
inseparable after that.
And then we became engaged
after like a week, I think.
It was passion,
getting caught up in the moment,
being young and in love.
Young, dumb, full of [bleep].
I think all of that.
Came back home.
We tried to have a long
distance relationship
but it didn't last.
Ooh, this is beautiful.
Hmm.
He might not wear these.
And I want him to wear it.
Manuel and I spent about
seven years apart, or so,
give or take.
I have gotten out of a
long-term relationship.
Like, I feel like everybody
can relate to this.
When you get out
of a relationship,
the exes come out
of the woodwork,
even if you haven't
announced it.
That's literally what happened.
I was a week out of my
long-term relationship
and Manuel, out
of nowhere, "Hola."
And I'm like, "Oh,
my God, this dude."
Manuel's kind of a
[bleep] boy. I'll own that.
And, you know, in his 20s,
he was more of a
[bleep] boy than he is now.
But Manuel was
always my "what if" man.
So I bought a
ticket to go see him
in September of 2020,
hopping my happy ass
on a plane across the world.
He got me from the airport,
we went straight to the Airbnb
and we quarantined together.
And I'm sitting in the bed
and he like takes out the box
and he was like,
"Okay, so like here's the ring.
Like, are you gonna do it?
Are you gonna do it. Are
you gonna marry me?"
And I was like, "Are you sure?"
He's like, "Are you sure?"
I'm like, "I think I'm sure."
He goes, "I think I'm sure too."
[laughing] And
that's how we did it.
But, yeah.
- Ooh.
- Mmm-hmm.
My partner is
traveling very far away
for the first time ever,
- hence protection work.
- Yes. Yes.
Initially, he didn't
wanna go to America,
but he recognized that it's
better for him to come here
because he can get work
pretty easily doing construction.
So we applied for the K-1 visa.
We got it!
And Manuel is finally
scheduled to arrive tomorrow.
I am so excited about it.
I'm also hella nervous
about Manuel coming here
and being around
my witchy practice
and being able
to take it all in.
Manuel would prefer me
to be a Catholic woman,
a thousand million
billion percent, yes.
[clerk] Any special occasion
going on that we got all this?
- We got some love. We got some protection.
- Yes!
So excited.
Yeah, my partner is
coming here to live.
- [gasps] No! Really?
- Tomorrow.
- Yes, really.
- Tomorrow. From where?
Ecuador.
- Ecuador, wow!
- Mmm-hmm.
He's never been on a plane.
- He's never left his country.
- Wow.
I am petrified of
him taking this trip.
Manuel's never been
outside of Ecuador.
He's traveling from
Guayaquil to Quito,
from Quito to Miami,
from Miami up to Rochester.
Never left his country
before or been on a plane.
And he doesn't speak English.
And then on top of that,
his visa expires tomorrow.
If he's not on the plane,
what happens then?
Literally, like, I'm not
sure if he's gonna be there
or not be there when
we get to the airport.
All the thoughts are
running through my head.
[cheering and chanting]
Yeah!
My name is Jasmine.
I'm 36 years old.
And I live in Panama.
So tonight my friends
are picking me up
because it's my
bachelorette party.
It's very sad to think that
they are not gonna be able
to make it to my wedding.
And why not to have a party?
[loud dance music playing]
Gino and I met
online three years ago.
He was very nerdy,
and I found that kind of cute.
Because I don't like, um...
traditional good-looking guys
because I'm a
super jealous person.
But when I saw his
pictures, he has like
It's kind of my thing.
I mean, those are the
things that I like from him.
I'm being just honest.
I told him that and
he was laughing.
It's always a beautiful
day when I'm with Jasmine.
Aw.
We applied for the K-1
visa one year and a half ago
and they gave me a
date for the interview.
And when I made
it to the embassy,
they just told me,
"Oh, we're sorry,
but there is something wrong
with the visa at this moment
and we will have to
reschedule your interview."
[sighs]
It was devastating.
But I was given a second chance.
And it took the officer less
than ten minutes after seeing me,
because I'm super-cute... How
can you say no to me, right?
And he was like,
"Congratulations.
You're going to America.
Your visa has been approved."
That means that I'm
gonna marry Gino.
I'm gonna be with him
day and night, 24/7.
[laughing] That's scary.
But it makes me so happy.
[Gino speaking]
I'm Gino and I'm from Michigan.
And today is my
last day of work.
Oops.
I've been working in
automotive engineering
for probably like 30 years.
I told my boss,
you know, that I...
need to take a leave of
absence from my work for a while
and I'm not planning
to come back
for possibly a year-ish, or so.
I wanna make Jasmine a priority.
I wanna make sure she
gets on her feet in Michigan,
get all these things
that she's gonna need,
like a social security
number, driver's license.
Because I'm
really worried, like,
if she's not able
to adapt to it,
is she gonna go back
to Panama and that's it?
That would suck.
Adios.
Jasmine and I have been together
for three years now.
And I love Jasmine.
I think she's the most
beautiful woman in the world.
But our relationship
is a roller coaster.
It's up and down, up and
down, and that's on a daily basis.
[Gino] Just forget it.
[Gino] [bleep] whore.
What don't Jasmine
and I fight about?
I mean, we fight
about my past exes,
my past girlfriends,
the food I eat, finances,
my family and stuff,
unnecessary cosmetic
procedures, I believe.
She doesn't like
all the pop I drink.
I don't like her
talking about her exes.
She shouldn't be
talking about her exes.
But...
uh, what keeps us
coming back together
is we have such a strong bond
and a, you know, good connection
that when I believe
there's no hope,
or think there's no hope,
somehow, we come back together.
It's... it's amazing.
[bachelorette party
hooting and hollering]
[party music playing]
Party! Party!
[Jasmine] So I've been
dieting and exercising like crazy.
But the problem is that,
because I lost
a lot of weight...
One of the few things that,
you know, compliments me
is like, "Oh, my gosh,
your fat ass. I love it."
And I was like, "Oh, my
gosh. What am I gonna do?
It's calm."
So I got butt implants,
and now my ass is so
It's just perfect.
I wish Gino were
more appreciative
of all the effort that I
put into being pretty.
My hair. My nails.
But that means spending money.
So I was basically
forced to spend the money
that he had been giving
me for my wedding dress
Whoo!
Oh, my God.
Oh, my God. Sorry.
That's too fast.
Currently, I helped Jasmine
out with her rent and stuff
and bills,
because, unfortunately,
she lost her job
as a teacher in Panama.
And since she's
about to leave for USA,
she hasn't gotten a new one.
So, I... I... I...
I help Jasmine quite a
bit financially right now.
Hoo, not in shape.
Yeah, get that heart rate going.
Oh, my gosh. Wow.
Yeah, it works great.
The hard part is that I think
Jasmine's become spoiled.
And I think when she
comes to Michigan,
you know, she's gonna...
get a taste of reality.
How much are you
selling this for anyway?
I listed it for 200. Um...
[Gino] Do you know what
the milage is on this thing?
Um...
I'm not sure. I'll
have to check that.
But it's only a few
years old. Um...
We just weren't getting
much use out of it.
Oh, yeah. I recently quit my job
because my fiancee's comin'.
So we're on a tight budget
and I don't wanna
go over that today.
Um, but thank you so
much for showing this to me.
Um, I really like it.
You're welcome.
Yeah, I'm not buying
the treadmill today
because, even though
I wanna give Jasmine
everything she wants,
I don't think spending a
lot of money on a treadmill
right now makes sense.
I'm a little worried
about telling Jasmine
that I quit my job
because Jasmine likes
to live the luxury good life
and if I don't have
any income or money,
oh, my God, Jasmine's
going to k*ll me.
So I think it's better to wait
until she gets to the USA.
I'll tell her once she
comes to Michigan.
There we go. That'll
get the pump we need.
I ended up falling
in love with someone
who has a completely
different background.
She's lived in
really nice places.
She's even used to maids.
Being with me is not
gonna be a cakewalk.
Man, this is gonna be a problem.
[man] All right, here we go.
How do I look?
Work, Barbie.
[woman] I think it
had been two years
that Jess and I were dating.
And he was being lazy.
And he wasn't helping
me with the house work.
We got into a lot of
heated arguments.
One of those arguments, I said,
And he freaked.
♪ Yeah, big lights big city ♪
♪ Now we never see
♪ Big lights, big city
♪ That's the energy
♪ Big lights, big city
♪ Electricity
♪ Party all night
Party all night, yeah ♪
That's actually nice.
My name is Sophie.
I'm 23 years old.
And I live in London, England.
For work, I do fashion
modeling and content creating.
Just like social media things.
So, I don't have to
like stay in one place.
I can kind of just
like go wherever.
And also I get free clothes.
So, that's nice.
I don't like green.
But this were
like bright yellow,
I'd like it.
Like, I like standing-out stuff.
I like to go out.
I like to dance.
Good friends, have a good time.
But in Europe, if
you look old enough,
you can go to the clubs.
Like, they don't really care.
I don't really ask
about what he does.
I just know he
made a lot of money.
So like that's why we
always just live, you know,
in nice houses. I
went to private school.
I've traveled a lot of places.
So, like, I'm really
lucky for that.
But I've also had
a lot of really tough
experiences in life.
I'm actually mixed race.
So my dad in Black
and my mom is white.
I was raised in Spain,
where there wasn't
any Black people,
so, um, I was like
the only mixed kid
or Black kid in
the whole school.
And as a kid, I was bullied.
I didn't really
have any friends.
And I just struggled to fit in.
But, like, even though
I went through a
lot of difficult things,
I'm still thankful for them
because those experiences
led me to the person I am today
and also led me to
the love of my life, Rob.
♪ You got
supernatural powers... ♪
Before I met Rob,
I was following like a
bunch of Instagram pages
for like cute mixed-race guys.
And then I saw Rob on there.
He was actually the only
guy from that page I followed
just because I
thought he was so cute.
I wouldn't tell
him that, though.
He'd get a massive head.
I'm Rob. I'm 32 years old.
And I live in Los Angeles.
Two days until you
got your wifey in town,
looking at you like,
"What you been doing?
You been working out?"
[chuckles]
I do care about looks.
I care about both
looks and personality.
But I care about
looks a lot too.
I feel like I'm a
good-looking guy.
So people can kiss my ass
on my being shallow
and wanting a good-looking girl.
But I'ma keep it real.
I wanted a fine-ass woman.
And Sophie is the hottest
person I've been with
and that's...
that's what I've
been looking for.
I'm kind of a
jack of all trades.
And one of my jobs
was being a model.
So I would get a lot of
women who'll reach out to me
on social media.
Um, usually, I would
just ignore them.
But when Sophie followed me,
I was like, "Oh, [bleep]!"
She's stunning. Who is
she? Is she even real?
Like, she followed me?
One of the first
things I said to her was
"If I had a girl like you,
I could stop looking."
And then sparked a
conversation with her
and sh*t my sh*t,
and I must have made that sh*t.
[Sophie] I don't know,
Rob's, I guess, not smooth.
I'm not even gonna
call him smooth.
But like he said all
the right things to me.
I kind of texted him back
and entertained it a bit.
And then literally after the
first day, he facetimed me.
That was very bold. And it...
I don't know if it's an
American thing or what,
but like you don't
just facetime them
after they reply to you
and you don't know them.
I accepted the
call and I was like,
"Hello. Like, why
are you calling me?"
And he was like, "Oh, I just
wanted to see if you were real."
And I was like,
"Yeah, I'm real."
And, at first, I was
a bit weirded out.
But then I was like,
"Oh, he's very
confident just to do that."
I love you, baby.
[Sophie] That facetime
lasted eight hours.
On FaceTime. Like, what
are you gonna talk about
with someone for eight hours?
But we was just talking nonstop.
There was never any silences.
Even though we were from
opposite sides of the world,
and I know I was
raised in a nice area
and he was raised
in a rough area,
but even with that,
we've had very similar
childhood experiences
in terms of like racism stuff
and he never fit in with anyone
and he was bullied as well,
even though we've been
brought up different ways,
I think we both
felt the connection
that was just like...
we haven't really
found it anywhere else.
[Rob] We talked
for like six months
and then she came
to Los Angeles.
And we went from
having never met
to living together
for two months.
Before I ever met
Rob in real life,
I had only ever seen
him on video call
with his face, like,
all up in the camera.
So when I first
saw him in person...
[laughing] It looks like
his head is like stuck
on someone else's body.
One time.
- [laughing]
- What the hell?
At the end of it
all, uh, we both felt
like we, even in
those two months,
had gotten comfortable
with each other.
[Sophie] I had heard
about the K-1 visa before
and I just kind of put
the idea in his head,
like, this is a solution.
And it was so awkward
'cause it was like
this basically
means I'm proposing.
[exhales] Keep
it up. Keep it up.
It'll be worth it.
She is due to show
up here very soon
and this journey all
comes down to this.
That's very nerve-racking.
I'm just gonna take these,
you know, just in case.
Last thing I want is
some uninvited guests.
I ended up falling
in love with someone
who fell in love with me back
who has a completely
different background.
And sometimes it just seems like
Sophie really can relate to me.
She's lived in
really nice places
where she didn't
have to pay the rent.
She's even used to maids.
It's far from the real world.
Let's throw one under there.
She's still got spoiled
rich-girl tendencies.
I'ma have to bring her
a little bit down to earth.
She's gonna have to
learn that, you know,
it ain't... it's not that easy.
And being with me is
not gonna be a cakewalk.
And, at the end of the day,
marrying Sophie needs
to feel like it's gonna work.
If I feel like it's just
not gonna work,
then I don't wanna
do that to myself.
I don't wanna do
it to her, either.
Uh, yes.
Honestly, we have
some things to work on.
There's no third
chance with Justin.
This is our last opportunity.
[man] Are you ready?
All right, here we go.
Angle this a little bit.
- The other way.
- All right.
How do I look?
- Work, Barbie.
- Okay.
- Gorgeous as usual.
- It's okay.
Okay. So I'm ready to do this.
I'm Nicole.
I'm from Hoboken, New Jersey.
I'm 47. It's just an age.
Okay.
Yes.
I am a recording artist
known as Nikki Exotika.
♪ Sexy, exotic
erotic, hypnotic ♪
♪ Makin' them boys
get so, so hot and... ♪
As a music artist,
I created Nikki
Exotika as an alter ego.
I wanted to have another persona
and then come home
and be normal again
and be Nicole.
The difference between
Nicole and Nikki Exotika,
Nikki, she's a
little bit of a diva,
Nicole, on the other
hand, is a homebody.
Vicious, I'm home.
Come here.
Mmm. I love the
smell of fresh roses.
To makes ends meet,
I am a hair stylist
and makeup artist.
And I am also a
beauty consultant.
So that means that
anyone who wants advice
on plastic surgery,
I am the person to come to.
I've done every plastic
surgery procedure
from head to toe.
Nose, lips, jaw,
chin, cheek implants,
eye color change, breasts.
You can't expect a woman
to have all these
curves naturally.
You know, when you
look this certain way,
you have a lot of
people judging you.
But when it's 80% of the world
giving me positive feedback,
I don't really care what
the other 20% have to say.
You know, they can go
kick rocks for all I care.
Because there was a time
where I didn't love myself.
You know, I was going
through a really dark time.
And now I'm finally like
at a place where I'm happy
and I love myself.
And now I can actually
invite love into my life.
[man] Yeah, there you go.
Give me that sex kitten.
You got it?
- I think that's the sh*t.
- Oh!
Guys, we got it!
Love it.
I currently have a
fiance named Justin.
Justin is a personal trainer
and he's from Chisinau, Moldova.
What kind of guy do I go for?
Honestly, it's so ironic,
it's everything Justin is.
Tall, hot...
obviously hung
and funny and sweet.
Like, genuine.
I just wanna be with my baby.
So everybody wants to
know how I met Justin.
It is a long story.
Here it goes.
Seventeen years ago,
I was not in love with Justin.
I was not with Justin.
We were not dating.
I was in love with
a Russian guy.
We met at a night
club in New York City.
He was the love of my life.
We were supposed to get married.
It's just that he was a bad boy.
You know, and he
would get into trouble.
And he committed a crime
that he couldn't get away from
and was deported
from the United States.
I was distraught.
So I made a plan to fly
out to Chisinau, Moldova,
where he got deported to,
to find him.
So I arrive to
Chisinau to reconnect
and reunite with
the love of my life.
So I thought.
I never told him I was coming.
And he opens the door,
I'm trying to like give
him a hug and a kiss
and he's being so cold with me.
And I'm like,
"What is going on?"
He says, "Nikki, I live here
with a girl."
I'm like, "Excuse me?"
I felt like I was in
The Twilight Zone.
My ex played me so bad.
So I made a profile
on a friend's site
in Moldova,
and I found Justin.
His name is Igor.
But I just couldn't
fathom the name Igor
because it just reminds
me of, you know,
Frankenstein's assistant.
So I renamed him Justin
because when I first
met him 17 years ago,
he did look like
Justin Timberlake.
And it stuck.
And he loves the name too.
And we spent the rest of my
first trip in Moldova together.
The first time he
took me on a date,
didn't even try
to sleep with me.
He was really sweet, gave
me a kiss on my forehead
and left.
And I thought it
was like so like, wow,
like, you know,
like that was...
I've never been treated
like that by any guy.
And I started
to fall for Justin.
And then on my
fourth visit to Moldova,
Justin proposed to me.
It was in a park.
It was so romantic.
You hear the birds chirping.
Yeah.
Yes.
Our first K-1 visa was approved.
And we tried to
give it a chance.
But, two weeks after
Justin came the first time,
we had some issues.
And it just couldn't
be worked out.
So, basically, you're
going to Moldova
to see if he's the man for you?
Uh, yes.
Are you excited?
I am excited and...
we have some things to work on.
So.
What happened the first time?
You never told
me the whole story.
He was being lazy
and he wasn't helping
me with the house work.
And he just didn't
wanna help me cook
and things like that that
I had to do everything.
I had to work. I had to
cook, clean, this, that.
We got into a lot of
heated arguments.
And then, one day, I
was talking to him, I said...
And he freaked.
I was... I think I was
about 20 years old
when I did my sex
change operation.
I like woke up and
the first thing I did
was... had to touch
myself down there.
And I'm like... [gasps]
"Oh, my God. I did it.
I'm a woman. I'm a woman."
And I just feel like tears,
you know, coming down my eyes.
I felt reborn again.
At that time,
"Stealth" is basically
where you don't tell people
the way you were born.
I was very in the
closet and very closed.
You know, I didn't
have any gay friends.
I didn't have any trans friends.
I kind of like wanted to
have female friends only.
It was just a thing for me.
You know, I had to find myself
and go through the journey.
It had been about two years
that Justin and I were dating.
And when I did blurt
that I used to be a man,
he was in shock.
Like, "What?"
Like, "How could you
lie to me and do this?"
I traumatized him.
And he went home
and he was depressed
for a really long time.
And I feel bad about that.
When was the last
time you were together?
Yes.
- Wow.
- And we're back together.
Second chance at love.
Justin and I kept in contact
throughout the years.
He had to go through
things on his own.
And I had to go through
things on my own.
But, years ago, we
got into a conversation.
He's like, "How's everything?"
I was like, "Oh, I'm single.
You know, but I'm in a
much better place now.
You know, I'm
happy. I love myself."
And he's like, "Yeah.
Good, good, good.
You know, I'm single too."
And I was like, "You know
what would be so funny
if we actually gave
us another chance."
And he said,
"Nicole, you're crazy."
And I was like, you know,
"Don't you need a
little crazy in your life?"
Hey, sweetie.
You see? I have a new hairstyle.
Hey. I just came to the gym.
Three months after we
first started speaking again,
I arranged a trip to Mexico
for us to connect physically,
mentally, emotionally.
Let me do this.
While we were
there, he did tell me
that I'm the love of his life.
And he proposed to me.
And then I applied
for the K-1 visa...
a second time.
Are you ready to see him again?
Are you ready to
make sure this is it?
Honestly, there is just
some concerns that I have
with our relationship.
So, before the K-1
visa gets approved...
- Mmm.
- we have some things to work on.
So, originally, when I
kept making advances
to come to Chisinau,
his answer was "No, no, no."
Trans people are not
widely accepted in Moldova.
I don't think gays are
widely accepted in Moldova.
People are b*at up
for being who they are.
But this is our last time
to apply for the K-1 visa
because you can only try twice.
So when I go to Moldova,
I need to know like
if it's gonna work
before he comes.
There is no third
chance with Justin.
This is our last opportunity.
And I hope we do keep
building our happily ever after
because it's very rare you're
gonna find a straight man
to date a trans woman,
especially publicly.
Getting older,
this is like my last
chance at love.
Hey, Mom.
Okay, rude, rude, rude.
"Rob the Knob" is not
a term of endearment.
I'm marrying him, so.
You all know I have done
this. I have made a decision.
And then I'm like, "Oh, [bleep],
I made the wrong decision."
- This is the pattern.
- And then I backtrack
and back paddle and pretend
that decision never happened.
There's definitely a lot of
white lies that have come out.
And I'm worried that that's gonna
blow up into something more.
[Ashley] Full transparency,
if [bleep] does not go
the way that I see fit,
I am prepared to bounce.
[surf music playing]
Come on.
So, currently, I
live in Inglewood
with my dog, Rome.
He's my best friend.
I've had him for over ten years
since he was three months old.
We've been
through it all together.
Come on, come on,
come on, no eatin' grass.
Come on.
There's definitely some really
nice cool spots in Inglewood.
And then there are
some, you know,
worse parts of Inglewood
that people have probably seen
on the news in the
'90s or something.
It's kind of like a
really loud street
and not necessarily somewhere
that Sophie should just be
like walking around at night.
We stayed in my crib.
I think she would like
me to not still be there
but, you know, that's
just not how it played out.
Man, this is gonna be a problem.
So, right now, I'm living
in a studio apartment.
And it might not be the nicest
but it has everything I need.
The only thing I don't
have is a bathroom
in the apartment.
Um, you have to walk
across the courtyard,
uh, to get to it,
which I can see
that being annoying,
uh, especially if you gotta go to the
bathroom like in the middle of the night.
Uh, but it hasn't
bothered me so much.
I mean, I used to live
on a mountain in Oregon,
so walking to the bathroom
is better than walking 40 yards
so that you're out of sight.
Oy vey.
Yeah, I got plenty of work
to do to get this place ready.
That's nasty.
I know that this is
not the ideal place
to bring a princess to live,
but this'll be a
part of the story
of me and Sophie one day
where we'll tell our kids, like,
"Yeah, I brought
your mom into LA,
took her straight to the hood
and she was all nervous."
They'll be like, "Wow,
like, that's crazy.
You guys are so happy now.
We got a nice house and
we have all the stuff we want."
I'll be like, "Y'all
have no idea.
You don't know what it's like."
Rob's room is so small.
So like I don't know how
this is gonna fit even into it.
'Cause his closet is small,
and he has a bunch of clothes.
So it's like I don't know how
I'm going to fit everything.
My apartment in London
is very different from
Rob's place in Inglewood.
Rob's, where he
lives is very small.
It's like a giant bedroom.
And then in the corner,
there's like a little
stove and a fridge.
Rob's bathroom is
kind of like an outhouse.
So when I need to pee
at like 2:00 in the morning,
I would rather hold it
than go to the
bathroom at night.
I literally was
showering one time,
and there was a
racoon on the roof.
So I was just a bit
like, "Oh, my gosh,
like, I don't know
where I'm at right now."
[phone chiming]
Hey, Mom. Can you hear me?
Yeah. How are you?
Are you excited?
Yeah, I'm ready.
I just wanna get it
out of the way now.
Like, I've been waiting
for two years for this.
I'm ready to just get there.
I don't have any
siblings or anything,
so like me and my mom
have always been close
since I was little.
It's not really like a mother
and daughter relationship.
It's more like sisters, I'd say.
[laughing]
When I was about 16 years old,
I moved to England by myself.
After that, my mom ended
up moving to England.
She hates England.
But like I was there,
so she moved with me.
And then I moved to Mexico.
And then she stayed with me
the whole time I was in Mexico.
They're not like the
biggest fans of each other,
but they're gonna
have to get along
because we're all gonna be
family at the end of the day.
Okay. Rude, rude, rude.
I'm marrying him, so.
A knob is a penis.
But it's like it's not
an actual penis.
It's someone that's just a knob.
They're just like...
I guess a dickhead. Like...
"Rob the Knob" is not
a term of endearment.
Are you nervous about
when you get there?
Where you're gonna live?
Yeah, obviously, it's
not the best situation.
But I'm just excited to see Rob.
And I'm gonna think
about like the bad stuff
when I get there.
There's a saying. "Talk's
cheap. Money buys houses."
No, I'm gonna get him
to move out at some point.
Don't scare him off
before we're even married.
Wait till we're married,
and then do what you want.
I mean, just first,
let's get the marriage done
that we've been waiting for.
I don't want anything
to mess it up.
And then if you wanna
call him, do whatever.
Go for it.
For work, Rob does little
odd jobs here and there.
But it's frustrating for me
because I've been trying to
get Rob to move out for months.
He's had so much
time to find a good job
and kind of change
the situation he's in.
I think Rob is a real man.
He just doesn't do
some of the things
a real man is supposed to do.
So it's a bit more serious
for me than Rob realizes.
Can I do a vodka water
with lemon and lime please?
I'll do a double.
[excited party chatter]
Oh, hey!
What's up, guys? How
are you guys doing?
What bead memo?
- This one.
- [man] We have this one.
[all laughing]
[woman] Totally unplanned.
[woman 2] Besides me.
I am a mixture of emotions
to know that Manuel's
gonna be arriving soon.
We have been waiting
for this day for so long.
And now it's here.
And it's scary.
So I'm meeting my
friends for a couple of drinks
just to kind of calm down
before I get to Manuel.
My friends know about Manuel.
They all know about this
ex-fiance I had in Ecuador.
Like, he had always
been in the background.
And so they didn't even take
me seriously about this wedding
until like after I got
back from Ecuador
like the third
time, like recently.
Even after we filed for
the K-1 and everything,
they still thought it was
just me in one of my things.
Tomorrow is the big day.
- Tomorrow is the big day.
- Are you excited?
I'm excited, I'm
nervous, I'm anxious.
Did he tell you how
his first flight was
'cause that was his first one?
He said he thought the
plane was gonna fall.
- [all laughing] -
He was literally like,
"My love, oh, my God."
Did he get a chance
to talk to his mom
once he got to Guayaquil?
He's talked to her,
but he's telling her he
was in Guayaquil to work.
Wait. How long does
he normally work for?
So, over there, the men
that work in construction,
they go to different parts of
Ecuador and they live there.
And they work for months,
sometimes even a year.
So he could be
here for three months
before he tells his mama.
This makes me, I'm
sure everybody else,
skeptical as [bleep].
Like it's... It's kind
of scary. [laughs]
That's a Manuel question.
This is what he says.
Okay.
He tells me...
that it's easier
for him to tell her
when he gets here
so that she's not
worried about him
traveling so far
away and all of that.
Sometimes I feel like Manuel
likes to not tell everything
or leave things out
as a way to protect
other people.
Which irks me
because of course I'm
worried what he's not telling me.
[woman] Why do you think
he hasn't said anything?
Do you think he's
coming over here,
just kind of like get
away from a situation?
- Or like...
- I thought about that too
if he's trying to almost
kind of like run away
from the burdens
that he has there
and start fresh.
In America.
Cheers to that.
Cheers to that.
Let's do a cheers.
[man] You, Manuel,
and all the witchy
stuff he hasn't seen yet.
[Ashley] And all the witchy
stuff he hasn't seen yet.
Cheers to that.
[woman] You gotta
get ready for it.
[man] You know,
speaking of that,
does he know the full
extent of your witchiness?
What have you told him so far?
- Like what does he know?
- That I do tarot and astrology.
And your spells and...
I've not slaughtered a
lamb on the full moon.
No, um, I do remember
there was one time,
it was like a full
moon and something,
and I told him I has to
go work with the moon
and that I'll call him back.
And when I called him back,
we were talking
for like ten minutes,
and then he goes,
"So what were you
doing with the moon?"
No. God is a thing in Ecuador.
- [man] So they're Catholic?
- Very Catholic.
So, being a
modern-day witch to me
means working with the elements.
It means working with the Earth.
It means working
with your own intuition
through all different
kinds of spell work,
affirmation work, mantra work,
all that fun stuff.
That being said,
things like witchcraft
are foreign to Manuel,
and they also have a
negative connotation.
But this is not just what I do.
This is who I am.
This is my lifestyle.
So I am worried about how
he's going to conceive it all.
I hope he's supportive.
I hope it doesn't weird him
out, to be honest with you.
Like, it's one thing for
him to say, "It's cool, babe,"
and it's another thing
for him to see me
literally active
working at my altar.
Do you think that you're
actually gonna go through with
the whole process?
With you both
leaving so much out?
So, there is a part
of me that worries.
Like, what if like the
first 30 days are just hell?
What if they're nightmare-ish?
You all know I have done
this. I have made a decision.
And then I'm like, "Oh, [bleep],
I made the wrong decision."
- This is the pattern.
- And then I backtrack
and back paddle and pretend
that decision never happened.
[man] You can't
do that right now.
I can't do that.
There's definitely a lot of
mini lies, like little white lies
that have come out.
And I'm worried that that's
gonna blow up into something more
that's gonna be like
detrimental to their relationship.
So I'm worried that he's
gonna get here finally
and things are gonna change
and I'm... I'm, you know,
as friends, as best friends,
I'm worried that, you know,
she's gonna get
her heart broken.
So.
So like just from the
stuff you told us today,
what happens if it goes south?
Like, are you
prepared to like...
cut the whole thing?
After you spent all
this time doing it?
[Ashley] Full transparency,
- that's all we want.
- Yeah.
If [bleep] does not
go the that I see fit,
I am prepared to bounce.
I have to explain to my son
that his mom is gonna be
moving to the United States.
I don't know how
he's gonna take it.
So it's gonna be very hard.
[Jasmine] Coco.
Coco, just don't be around me,
'cause you can get crushed.
[Jasmine] If you have
told me five year ago
that I was gonna
one day gonna move,
voluntarily,
a fan of mine would
say, "You're crazy."
But her I am, packing
my whole life in a suitcase.
[Jasmine] I have my two sons,
JC and Quancy,
The eldest is Quancy.
And the connection
that I have with Quancy,
it's out of this world.
I'm a cool mom,
so we love eating
a good ice cream
or junk food that he
cannot eat with his dad.
But when things got serious,
I slowly introduced them.
And the funniest part
is that they don't have
a language in common.
But they were getting
along. They were playing.
They were communicating so well.
It was such a beautiful moment.
It's something that I
will take in my heart
until the day I die.
[in other language]
[in other language]
[in English] Gino's sister-in-law,
Lauri, sent me a very rude message
asking me not to have my
wedding day on specific days
because she was gonna
be on vacation to Florida.
It's not just, like, the
message, what she said.
It's how she said it.
It was very bossy.
She never said
like, "Hi, Jasmine.
How are you doing?"
Any kind of greeting.
It just looks more like an order
rather than, you know, a
polite request or suggestion.
And it makes me feel
unwanted, not loved by his family.
[Jasmine in other language]
Mmm-hmm.
[Jasmine in English]
Even though my kids have
a very comfortable
life in Panama,
my plan with Gino,
because we both agree on it,
will be to bring my children to the
United States as soon as possible.
[in other language]
[in other language]
[in other language]
[Jasmine in English] My
ex-husband, he's okay with it.
But I haven't
discussed with Juance
specific details
about the K-1 visa,
especially because there was a
possibility that it wouldn't be approved.
But now I have to explain to him
that his mom is gonna be
moving to the United States.
I don't know if he's gonna
be sad, he's gonna cry.
I don't know how
he's gonna take it, so...
it's gonna be very hard.
[in other language]
Juance really wants
to move to America.
I don't know who put
that idea in his mind was,
maybe Gino.
But no children in the world will
want to be separated from their mother,
even if it is temporary.
[in other language]
[in other language]
[Juance]
[Jasmine]
[clears throat]
[laughs]
- [chuckles softly]
- [Juance chuckles]
[laughs]
[in English] Okay?
[in other language]
[Jasmine in English] It's gonna be
very hard for me to be far from my kids
because...
as a mom [chuckles]
I'm 100% involved in their life.
But I know that everything
I'm doing is for them,
and eventually we're
gonna be all together.
I keep myself
repeating those things,
but it gives me nightmares and
a hard time trying to sleep at night
thinking about not
being with them.
[Justin chuckling]
Really? That's interesting.
Justin and I used
to have lots of sex,
but now that he
knows that I'm trans
something inside him
rejects that part of my body.
We're gonna talk
more when I get there.
♪ If you think I'm
all candy and lace ♪
♪ Take a look for
the clues in my face ♪
♪ I could die for the
thrill of the chase ♪
♪ I get high on the taste
[Nikki] Vicious, we're
gonna speak to Daddy today.
[meows]
[ringing]
- [beep]
- Hello?
[Justin] Oh, I see you!
[alarm beeps]
Hi.
Baby, you're beautiful today.
[laughing] Well, you know,
you like me all natural.
You don't like me done
up like a drag queen.
Yeah. I like when
you more natural.
When you come, when
you do your makeup,
I want you to be
more natural, yes?
I think Justin is nervous
about people looking at me
because he's still trying
to get over his insecurities.
He thinks that people can
still figure out that I'm trans.
- I will teach you. It's great closeness...
- You will not
- teach me anything with
the fashion - [Justin chuckles]
that they have there.
I'm sorry. [laughs]
How's your mom?
- Good, good. - Yeah?
What is she thinking
that I'm coming there?
Like, is she excited?
Is she kind of like...
- Of course. She's waiting you, too.
- Yeah. Really?
She's waiting to
meet me again...
- knowing everything that she knows now?
- Yeah.
My mother respect my
choice, and she support me.
- Mmm.
- [Justin]
[Nikki] Mmm.
That's good, you know.
I just want to be, I
want her blessing.
I want to make sure
that she approves
and, you know, like,
because I'm gonna
be part of the family.
I'm gonna be a part
- of your family... - This is...
and you're gonna
be part of my family.
[Nikki] The time when
I met Maya, his mom,
I feel like she loved our union
and loved us
together as a couple.
She did not know that
I was trans years ago,
but now she knows and she just
has hang-ups and she's scared.
I hope Justin's family
accepts me and us together
like they did in the past.
I don't know how I'm gonna feel,
you know, if she doesn't accept me.
Well, we're gonna talk
more when I get there.
- Are you excited?
- [Justin] Yes.[chuckles]
Oh, I'm gonna break
it all right. [laughs]
Really?
That's interesting
because the last time
we saw each other
love making was very
much in two-and-a-half weeks
maybe four times.
- This is very good for 35 years old.
- No, it's not.
No, it's not.
- That's like an
That's ready for a casket.
No.
[Nikki] 15 years ago, we
used to have lots of sex
and everything was so healthy.
And, like, 15 years
forward, I'm just like...
[stutters and sighs]
What changed?
I've noticed that he will
not pleasure me completely.
I understand, like, the whole
trans thing probably bothers him.
But I mean, like, I'm
supposed to be your fiancée,
like, your future wife,
and you're not even,
like, 100% in bed,
like, fully connected to me.
If you can accept me
then you accept me.
If you can't, c'est la vie.
- Okay, baby.
- [Nikki] All right. Kisses.
I'm very ready to see you.
- Bye, honey.
- [Justin] Bye, sweetie.
- [kisses]
- [kisses]
[sighs wearily]
Tell me why I saw
Sophie on Bumble.
She said she was just trying
to find friends in America
while she was here.
[Tor'i] She's on dating apps.
She's doing a lot of things
that make me feel like
she's not really here for Rob.
Red flags all over.
- Nah. I don't think it's that serious.
- A dating app, Rob.
Nah, bro. Watch.
♪ I don't know
what I don't know ♪
♪ But I know that it's
better off just letting it go ♪
- Hey.
- Took you long enough.
- My bad.
- Had me waiting forever.
- What's up, bro?
- You know I try my best
to not have you
waiting. [chuckles]
- How you doing?
- I'm doing good.
So today me and Tor'i
are going to hit
the dance studio up
and practice something to do for
Sophie when she gets off the plane.
- Um...
- What you got for us?
We're gonna have to
come up with that together.
My plan when I
get to the airport
is that when Sophie walks
around she's gonna see me.
I'm gonna be like, "Stop!
Hammer time!"
♪ Go, go, go
Then I'm gonna bust out the
ring and she's gonna be like,
"Whoa, I thought this was
it but now there's a ring?"
And I'm gonna be like,
"Yes, the time is officially now
I'm gonna do this actual sweet
Disney princess proposal."
What do you want
this dance to signify?
- Like, what are you, what's the process?
- I really just want it
to be, like, cute, fun.
Like, welcome to America.
All right, this is what
I got. You ready?
That's what I got so far,
so I need you to help me
come up with the
next move after that.
- [laughs]
- What is this?
That's all you got right here?
- So we're standing like this.
- I mean, I've never seen nobody
come up with this for love.
Pledge allegiance to Sophie?
That's all you got, for real?
- What are you doing? How long is the dance?
- Probably, like, 20 seconds.
So you can't even think
of a 20 second dance...
- but you about to get married?
- I can come up with it
but I have you here to help.
Bro, that's wild, bro.
I've met Sophie maybe
once or twice before.
The vibes I got from
her were a little iffy.
She seems like an
nice girl but she's young.
Like, early 20s I think?
- When she get here?
- Two days.
Shh.
She's doing a lot of things
that make me feel like
she's not really here for Rob.
- I don't know with you, man.
- Don't start.
- I can't call it.
- Don't start.
I can't call it. You're not
even ready for the dance, bro.
- How you ready for a whole marriage?
- No, don't start. Don't start.
- That's funny.
- I'm ready, all right?
- Okay. All right. I'll take your word for it then.
- I'm ready.
- You know I've put two years into this.
- Facts.
And I've always been
someone looking for somebody.
So I just didn't
find it, but I found it.
I feel like I've found
it, so I'm ready.
I remember last time
she was in LA, bro.
Tell me why I saw
Sophie on Bumble.
She said she was just trying to find
friends in America while she was here.
- And I...
- That don't sound funny to you?
She did the same
thing in Mexico.
That's a red flag,
bro. Red flags all over.
- No, I don't think it's that serious.
- A dating app, Rob.
It ain't only the dating, though.
There is a friends side to it.
But she wasn't, it
was on the app, bro!
Maybe she had clicked
over to the wrong side.
If y'all in an open
relationship just say that.
No, bro. I just think that we have
an understanding on what that was.
- Oh, understanding.
- I don't think that it was...
- it was what you think it was.
- I do not... Okay.
- So, you know, it's facts.
- It's right in your face, bro.
- The cards are in your hand.
- Nah, bro. Watch.
Rob might look like a real
tough guy on the outside,
and he puts that off like
he doesn't trust people,
but in the inside
Rob is really soft.
At the end of the day, I
think he's afraid to put off
that he's scared
of getting hurt,
and that's kind of
how he deals with it.
♪ Hey, whoo
♪ I don't care what
the haters say ♪
♪ I'm a star shining every day ♪
♪ I'll be me no
matter what they say ♪
♪ I light it up like
a diamond ring ♪
♪ Shining bright
over everything ♪
♪ Whoa, I don't care
- Hi.
- Hello.
- How are you?
- Good. How are you?
I'm good, thanks.
[Sophie] Tonight, I'm
meeting my friend Maya.
She met Rob when I went to LA the
first time, like, a couple of years ago.
When she first met Rob
I feel like she really liked him
because she saw that
he was a proper gentlemen
when he first met me.
He hasn't been, like,
as much of, like, a
gentleman as he was.
Me and Rob had,
like, a rough patch.
Because of Covid I couldn't
visit him, he couldn't visit me.
And in that time he was speaking
to, you know, this girl online.
So, like, I told my friend
about that straight away,
and, like, as soon as I told
her, her opinion changed.
Obviously, you know,
I didn't leave him,
but, you know,
that's in the past now.
So hopefully she's forgiven him,
but it'll be good to hear
her opinion of me moving
and actually,
like, marrying him.
- So, how is life?
- Good.
I'm excited for you.
- Yeah.
- You're getting married, Sophie.
I know. Isn't that crazy?
I did not think I'd be
married at, like, 23.
You make me feel like
the old lonely grandma.
- [laughs] - Yeah, no,
but I mean, you know,
you have a boyfriend, you know.
- I do, finally, yeah.
- Yeah. [laughs] Yeah.
Um, to be honest, no.
Like, we've kind of,
I'm just kind of leaving
it until I get there
just because, like, this whole
journey has been so stressful as it is.
Yeah.
You know, obviously, like, sometimes
it crosses my mind that he did that.
Because I'm like, you know,
because I never did anything like that.
Even though we was
going through a hard time,
it's like why would
he do that, you know?
But, I mean, it's not something
I'm gonna, like, ruin
the relationship for
and just end, like, you know,
everything that we've been through.
Do you and Rob feel like you
know everything about each other?
Yeah, I mean, I
feel like, you know,
I know everything there
is to know about Rob.
I mean, obviously, we've
been talking every day
for, like, two-and-a-half
years, nearly three years now.
There is something, like,
he doesn't know about me
which, like, I don't
know if I'll tell him
just because, like, I
haven't told anyone yet.
I haven't even told you, so, like,
[laughing] you don't even know.
- What is it?
- Um...
Basically, um, I'm bisexual.
And, like, did you know that?
- No. I would have never even...
- You didn't know.
- Did you expect it?
- No, not at all.
Like, if someone asked
me I'd probably say, "Yeah."
- But, like, I'm not just gonna announce it.
- Yeah.
I feel like it's no
one's business.
But it feels good
to, like, say it though.
Yeah. [laughs] It's all...
- [laughs]
- Maybe. Who know...
No, no baby.
I've always known that I
was attracted to women
because my first crush when I
was, like, five, six years old was a girl.
But I think because the
fact I'm bi, not fully gay,
is that, like, I've kind
of pushed it aside
because it's, I guess,
easier to date men.
It's exciting for me to get it off
my chest because it does feel nice.
This is all new for me.
But at the same time,
there's definitely a fear of if I
don't explore this before I'm married.
It's like what if
it's a mistake?
But I'll find a way to
figure it out for myself
without ruining
our relationship.
I don't, so when did you know?
Is it something you've always
kind of known about yourself?
- Or is it...
- Yeah, so, like,
the first crush I ever
had was actually a girl.
But it's like, yeah, I just feel like I
kind of just suppressed it for years
because I also like guys.
Like, I think it's like the
same amount maybe,
even though I've
never had a girlfriend.
Do you think, you
know, you've obviously,
or come to the certain realization
now that you are bisexual.
Is there ever gonna be a part of you
that, you know, you're getting married
and you've never
explored that side?
You know, I do
wonder about, like,
because I never, like, physically
went all the way with a girl,
so I don't know
what that's like.
If he was willing to, like, negotiate
some kind of thing at some point,
maybe one day I can,
like, explore it a bit.
Yeah, I mean, I guess
in a normal situation
I'd say just tell him,
see how he reacts,
but you're getting
married. [laughs]
- Right. [laughs]
- So...
It's a bit late now.
I love Rob. And, like, appearance-wise,
I love everything about Rob.
But we only have a
short time to get married,
so I have to figure what I
want to do with that fact.
I haven't even step a
foot into the United States
and I'm already
receiving orders.
What about me that I'm leaving my
whole [bleep] life just to be with you?
[speaking other language]
[in other language]
[Jasmine in English]
My dog, Coco,
is technically the
only family member
that I'm taking with
me to the United States.
Why? Because, unfortunately, he's
the only one who doesn't need a visa.
So I'm taking him to a spa
because I want him to be
the cutest dog at the airport.
[cell phone rings]
Hello, baby.
I want to show you something.
Look who's here.
Your baby.
I want you to say bye to Coco
before he gets his
special treatment today...
- his spa.
- Bye, Coco. You're in good hands.
So, baby, I have to do
some shopping for Coco
because we're
running out of time.
I'm about to travel.
I want to make sure that
I have everything ready.
- Because I...
- Okay, number one,
Coco doesn't do it on purpose.
Okay? He doesn't
do it on purpose.
Um...
Are you okay?
Define okay.
I mean, are you doing okay? Are
you feeling okay? Everything's okay?
I cannot pretend that I'm
super happy. I just can't.
- Because that's not true.
- What's wrong?
[sighs]
Your sister-in-law
texted me about the dates
that I can already not
pick up for the wedding
because she's having a
lovely vacation in Florida.
And she didn't even say,
"Hi. Hello, Jasmine." No.
- So if...
- She didn't mean anything, uh, bad about that.
That was just a hurry
up quick message
because she was
talking to me saying,
"Oh, no, please don't
have the wedding
during these days" or whatever.
It's about having manners.
Yeah, I don't like the way
you talk about my family
like they're your
enemies or something.
Gino is always blaming me for
not getting along with his family
and not being open-minded
to receive them with all my love.
You know, I made them my family.
He always have a bias.
He's never gonna take my
side, not even when I'm right.
All you do is to complain about
me, to compare me to your family,
to just let me know
and throw into my face
that they are more
important than me.
- You would choose them. Okay.
- I said you were equally important.
I don't want to be
equally important.
I need a man that's
gonna tell me that,
- "You are the most important person in this world."
- Yeah, after marriage
- I would say, I'd be willing to say.
- I don't need marriage.
It doesn't matter what
I do or what I don't do,
I'm always gonna be the bad guy
when it comes to
me and his family.
And I hate it. I hate it.
All my family have always
treated you with love, with respect
when you have come to Panama.
I haven't even stepped a
foot into the United States
and I'm already
receiving orders.
[Gino]
That's a simple request
and you're making
a big deal out of it.
Have some compassion
for these people.
I am the one who has
to have compassion?
What about them
having compassion on me
that is leaving her whole
[bleep] life just to go there
- because I love you and marry you?
- Yeah, but there's no reason
- why...
- So whenever I want to get married
I'm gonna get married.
You're talking about
compassion on these people
- because they're having a vacation in Florida.
- That's not the reason...
What about me that I'm leaving my
whole [bleep] life just to be with you?
Wow.
What a jerk.
What a jerk.
[Gino] Yeah, and
that's the way it is.
I'm done talking
about the wedding stuff.
- We can talk later.
- Okay. Sounds good.
Say hi to your lovely family.
- I will, and they are lovely.
- [Jasmine] Bye.
[bleep] Idiot.
I have the message
here. I'm not making it up.
She was so [bleep] rude.
And I have to be compassionate and move
my wedding day according to her vacation.
What about other way around?
[bleep]
[bleep]
[crying]
I don't have any American
friends. I don't have anyone.
Not even [sniffs] from
any part of the world.
[crying] I'm gonna be so lonely.
[sniffs]
[sighs]
I think I'm having
a panic att*ck.
Oh, my God.
Manuel is supposed to
be arriving to Rochester,
but I literally have no clue
if he made his connection.
What is happening? Where is he?
And if he's not on the
plane, what happens then?
Did I lose him already and
he hasn't even gotten here?
- Oh, my God. I'm freaking out.
- [Sienna] Don't freak out.
I'm freaking out.
Oh, my God. Mmm.
[Ashley] Come up here,
baby boy. Come on.
[barks]
- Oh, one more time. You got it.
- [barks]
There you go. Good job.
♪ I've been craving
this for far too long ♪
I'm gonna bringing you a
new daddy today, baby boy.
- Are you excited?
- [whimpers]
Manuel is supposed to be
arriving to Miami right now
in order to catch his
connecting flight to Rochester.
Come on.
But I literally have no clue
if he made his
connections, what's going on.
I don't know where he is.
I sent him a message two hours
ago and he still hasn't gotten it.
So, yeah.
He entered into
Miami, and then Miami,
that's where you
go through customs.
You give everything and
they say, "Okay, enter."
Or, "Something's wrong here."
And, uh, I haven't spoken to
him since he entered into Miami.
Everything's left unchecked
on WhatsApp, Facebook.
Like, literally, my
messages are left unread.
It's very, very worrisome that
there's been no communication at all.
So I don't even know if
he got through customs.
[door creaks]
[Sienna] Hello?
- How are you?
- [sighs]
- [laughs]
- I'm trying to Zen.
You look good.
Thank you. You look good, too.
So, I don't know
where Manuel is. [sighs]
So there's no timeframe?
There's nothing?
- I...
- No messages?
- You have nothing?
- No, I don't have anything.
- And you're just hopeful that he's gonna show up.
- He's supposed to land today.
You know, I feel like
there's always something
that's, like, going wrong
with this whole situation.
So, like, I don't know.
Is that, like, the
universe telling you,
like, maybe this isn't
such a great idea?
- You know what I mean?
- I do believe in signs.
And I've thought about this.
Are these signs that I
shouldn't be doing this?
- I don't know.
- Mmm.
I'm the more cautious sister,
where she's super
spontaneous and will, you know,
go headfirst into, you
know, deep waters
without thinking twice about it.
But I think sometimes
people can be naive,
and I think we need to worry
about the other side of it too.
Like, what if he is not in
it for the right intentions?
Or what if he no
longer wants this,
or what if she no
longer wants this?
- You go ahead of me.
- Okay. I love you.
- I'll see you in a little bit.
- I love you, too.
- I'll see you there, baby girl.
- All right.
Okay. All right.
[sighs] Okay.
Let's do this.
Bye, baby girl. Don't
scratch that, honey. Bye.
[meows]
[Ashley]
Like, tomorrow his visa expires.
It could take just one officer
having a bad day to just be like,
"What are you doing here, sir?
I get it. It's the 22nd,
but, like, why so late?
What held you up? You're
marrying who? Where are they?
Why would they
let you travel this far
when you've never
even traveled before?
I see you don't speak English. Are
you sure this is what you're doing?"
But, like, I can't think anything
else but what the plan has been.
So I'm gonna go to the
airport, and stick to the plan,
and try not to freak out.
[breathes heavily]
Oh, my God.
[Ashley] We were
getting near the airport,
and I carry my
anxiety in my stomach,
and I just felt my
stomach, like, in my throat.
What is happening? Where is he?
And if he's not on the
plane, what happens then?
Did I lose him already and
he hasn't even gotten here?
[breathes heavily]
[cell phone rings]
[Sienna] Hello?
I think I'm having
a panic att*ck.
Oh, my God.
- [Sienna] Just breathe. Breathe.
- I'm just trying to breathe.
Oh, my God.
- I think I just, oh, my God.
- [car honks]
I'm getting lightheaded.
I legit think I'm having
a [bleep] panic att*ck.
I'm literally getting
lightheaded.
- Oh, my God.
- [Sienna] You got this.
Just breathe.
In through your nose,
out through your mouth.
- Oh, my God.
- [Sienna] Hold it.
Oh, my God, I'm freaking
out. I'm freaking out.
Oh, my God, I'm ugly crying.
- Oh, my God.
- [Sienna] Breathe in.
- Oh, my God.
- [Sienna]
Mmm.
Oh, my God. Mmm.
Whoa!
[Sophie] This season
on 90 Day Fiancé...
[squeals]
Woo.
So we're gonna do this?
[speaking Spanish]
Aw.
Come on.
[grunts]
Our country is narrow-minded.
The people over
there are staring at us.
My fiance Citra is from a very
strict Muslim background, and
Unh-unh.
[speaking Spanish]
Anali's dad has no
idea that I even exist.
[speaking Spanish]
[speaking Spanish]
He has family in New York City.
I'd be a fool to not think
Manuel might be coming here
on my back, so that he
could meet up with his family.
And leave you.
- Whoa.
- Who is that?
I don't know.
He's been getting
disgusting videos
from other women.
I'm not perfect,
but I'm definitely
not trying to [bleep] be
with nobody else but you.
What am I supposed
to do now? [sobs]
Whoa!
You act like I cheated on you.
Because it's...
Men in this region,
Excuse me?
You want to bring a
partner in to pleasure me,
'cause you can't be a man
enough to get over that part of me?
Who the [bleep] do
you think you are?
Bye, little child.
It's okay, don't cry.
It's just a lot.
I don't know if I'm making
the right decision.
At this point, I don't know
if I want to marry him.