Previously on "90 day fiancé"...
Justin knows I wanted to be
a part of his wedding.
Music is my life.
I hope Chelsea support me.
How would I feel in Chicago?
Cassia's been concerned
that I've been working too much.
Are you two really prepared
for this interracial marriage
in our country,
where it's not accepted?
I lost my job.
They let me go.
And coming up...
So, how is your planning
coming for your elopement?
We're crossing boundaries
that some people don't like.
The night before the big day
is not too late
to get cold feet.
What?
What's going on?
I don't understand.
I feel like I'm lost.
do you guys feel ready
for the wedding?
I didn't feel pressure,
and then all of a sudden,
I felt pressure.
These days leading up to
the wedding have been insane.
Crazy insane.
Just stressful, overwhelming.
You think
it's gonna be kind of cool
for her family
to meet your family?
Dad was just like,
"it's gonna be interesting."
So, Amy just met my parents,
and that meeting
didn't go amazing.
Are you two really prepared
for this interracial marriage?
I am nervous about my dad
meeting the whole family,
Amy's family.
What is he gonna think?
Oh, hey.
Dan, my family's here.
Hi. Hi, guys.
Oh, I missed you.
Hey.
Amy's family showed up
in like four different cars.
My family's gonna have to meet
a lot of people.
Yes.
Welcome to America.
I see lorna!
Good to see you.
I'm really excited
that my family are all here.
It makes me so happy knowing
that they could make it.
I couldn't have imagined
my wedding day without them.
Ooh.
Amy and Danny, one more night,
and then you will be
Mr. and Mrs.
I know.
It's crazy.
What I'm most nervous for
is my mom
meeting Danny's parents.
So, do you guys know anything
about South Africa?
I mean,
don't take offense to this,
but this is one place
her and I have decided
we never in our life want to go.
That's... it's a big one.
I said to Danny
he had it easy with my family.
Oh.
Hello, everybody.
Hi.
These are Danny's parents.
How you doing?
How are you?
Nice to see you again.
Nice to meet you.
And don't get up.
Let me come to you.
Nice to meet you.
And your name is?
Lorna.
Nice to meet you.
All right, all right.
So, how was the flight here?
Oh, it was wonderful.
How about you guys?
Yeah, we had
a long, long flight.
Yeah.
Wow.
Dallas.
We're in Dallas.
Does it also get hot like...
very hot,
but not quite as humid.
That's here.
So, it's very nice.
We like it.
We like Texas.
And we're trying to, you know,
talk Danny and Amy...
his mom, she's very sweet.
His dad is very hard to talk to.
We both want our families,
you know, to get along,
to, you know,
be accepting of each other.
But they're very different.
I understand
what evelin's feeling
over the past,
you know, few weeks.
She misses
her friends and family.
Today is evelin's birthday,
so I want to do
something special for her.
You know, I always like
to surprise her with things.
Tell me.
What?
It's a surprise.
I can't tell you.
I know it's early, but...
yeah, so early.
We have to get there early.
Yes?
Yes.
Oh, my.
Wow.
Surprise.
Thank you.
Oh, my god.
Spending time
with someone you love
and being able
to express your love,
you know, in a romantic way
makes the relationship stronger,
and doing romantic things
for her just comes naturally.
Happy birthday.
Yes.
I'm just trying
to make you happy.
I know you...
you know, you've changed
your whole life for me
coming here, so...
You know.
Hmm?
Give me away to you.
It's important for me,
honey, so...
I know family's important.
I know building
that relationship
with my mom's important.
I know everything.
You know, when you tell me
what you want,
I try my best to get it done.
You know that.
I know.
So...
I'll say yes.
Yes?
Yes.
Great.
You happy now?
Yeah. More happy.
More happy?
More happy.
I didn't really think
how hard it would be
for my family and friends
to understand
our 90-day engagement,
but evelin made me see those
things in a different light.
She's definitely
the perfect woman for me.
So...
You're welcome.
After this long period now,
and we still have
the same problems.
I lost my job.
They let me go.
Why?
Now you lost your job
means we lost everything.
I wasn't sure
that the wedding will happen.
In my country,
if I do something bad,
it don't affect the wife.
But here is different.
If Danielle do something bad,
it will affect me,
so I need to go to someone
to explain me
what's gonna happen
if I get married.
Hi.
Hi. How are you?
Good. How are you?
Okay. Just a second.
Now it's 9:35.
The wedding will be at 5:00.
Mohamed?
Yes.
Paul dolce.
Mohamed jeveri.
Nice to meet you.
Come on back.
Okay.
And what brings you in today,
mohamed?
I want to ask about the process
of the fiancé visa.
Are you here
on a k-1 visa?
Yes. K-1.
When are you thinking
of getting married?
Today.
Oh, wow.
That's why I came here
this morning...
to know what will affect me
if I get married.
I'll tell you a little bit
how it works.
With the k-1 visa,
after you enter the country,
you are required to get married
within 90 days.
If you don't want
to get married,
you're gonna have to leave
the United States.
I want to know how long time
it would take
till I have that...
I don't know how to say it...
the green card.
Now, sometimes
it could be a few months
or 8 months, 10 months, a year.
It just depends.
But I don't know why
it takes so long time.
There's a lot of fraud,
and the immigration folks
are concerned about that.
When he was telling me
all that information,
I felt like getting married
here in the states
is not something easy.
And I start understanding
why people,
they don't get married here.
And in addition,
when you get married in Ohio,
there are certain rights
and privileges and obligations
that each spouse has
to the other.
Like what?
In relation to property,
in relation to debts.
Because I don't know it.
So, now I would be responsible
for anything she do with
after we get married?
Essentially, you ultimately
could be held responsible.
Mm-hmm.
Any other questions for me?
Now you make me think about
getting married now,
because it's not easy.
Okay?
Okay.
It wasn't a good news.
I'm between two terrible choice.
There is something telling me,
"you have to get married
as soon as possible,"
and other things telling me,
"no, don't get married now."
So, I feel somewhat I'm lost.
I don't know what to do.
I need to talk to Danielle
about everything I heard
from the lawyer.
Really, I don't know.
How I am feeling about
the night before the big day is,
it's not too late
to get cold feet.
Nowadays, parents have no say
in who their children marry.
The wedding
is coming up really soon,
and I have a lot on my mind
right now
with all
the last-minute preparations.
All right, so let me see here.
For my wedding dress,
I bought a lace top in Nicaragua
that I'm going to wear,
and my mom is going to make
a skirt to go with it.
I have the whole thing
sketched out on paper.
I'm just hoping the real thing
turns out the way
I envisioned it.
Are you getting nervous
for the wedding?
I'm just thinking a lot
about the trip that we just...
when we just went to Chicago.
Yeah. How was that?
It was good.
It was really good.
Yamir had his meeting
with the producers,
and only thing is
they told him
that they basically think
he doesn't have a chance
of any sort of career in music
if he stays in galesburg.
Cómo feel you in Chicago?
Would you be able to handle
living in Chicago?
I just don't know
because, like,
we don't have much of anything,
and so, like, I just don't think
it's even a possibility
to rent an apartment
where just, like, prices
are way higher
than they are here.
Like, being here in galesburg
is, like, a little easier
to maneuver
because we have the support
of you and dad.
And if we go to this city,
we're completely alone.
I know, I know.
But think of yamir
and what he has sacrificed
to come here, also.
You know,
he's left his whole family.
Never has before.
You got used to leaving us,
you know?
He's never done that.
So, think of him.
This is a give-and-take
relationship.
You know, 50/50.
If he can accomplish things
in Chicago,
you have to...
you guys got to work it out.
The wedding
is coming up really soon,
and now yamir wants to move.
It's a lot to think about.
Mm-hmm.
Since Cassidy's left,
it's like we're in hyper drive.
And we really need to have time
alone together.
Feel like it's tough on daya
having four adults in one home.
We have not been able
to get privacy.
It's important to have
our own place.
Nice.
I think it's time for us to
leave as a couple together,
not with roommates.
Hello.
Hey.
You guys are looking
for an apartment home?
We are.
Okay.
Would you like
to go see an apartment?
Yeah.
Okay.
So, come on in.
Wow!
Oh, my gosh.
I like it.
Beautiful.
They are beautiful.
They're really pretty.
In Filipino house,
we don't have the dishwasher,
we don't have the dryer.
We use, like,
the heat of the sun.
Look at this.
All of your stuff
would just be out here.
And you got your walk-in closet
that you wanted.
I could just sleep in here.
I love it.
You love it.
A lot.
You guys want to do it?
Let's fill it out, and...
yeah.
Yes!
All right.
Finally, we have a place
to live on our own,
and it was just perfect.
It's very inviting.
You know, like, this would be
the perfect place
to bring our family
and let them see
what the next chapter of
our life is gonna look like.
The 90 days is flying by,
and I think cassia's excited
about getting married in Vegas.
But we've had our ups and downs.
Okay, honey, can you grab
our bag of food, please?
My father and I, we pick up
a few things here and there.
Estate sales, garage sales,
drug-seized auctions,
car auctions,
and sell them online.
And bam, you're in business.
Cassia thinks I work too much,
but today, going
to the auction together
is a great opportunity to work
and play at the same time.
It's like, you know,
the peanut butter
and the chocolate, all in one.
Good afternoon, everybody.
Welcome to ballpark auctions.
If it is your first time,
welcome.
We do have just a little bit
of fun here, right?
I don't like the auction
because I stay there for a long,
long time doing nothing.
Just looking at people and look
at the guy who's saying things,
and there's not a lot
to do there.
If we have in Brazil,
I don't know,
but I've never been in one.
We are gonna start soon.
We can probably be out of here
in three or four hours.
No.
Why? We just got here.
We're gonna just see
how it goes, okay?
Come on.
This is how we make money.
Come on.
Last call.
You're too late.
You want one or two?
Takes one time.
Sorry.
Sorry.
Last call.
What's going on?
What? What, are you crying?
What? What?
What? What's going on?
Um...
Are you just overwhelmed
by everything?
I was very frustrated with Jason
because I feel like I left
everything I had
in Brazil for him, and he's not
making the same sacrifice.
I feel... So alone.
Well, yes.
We're making some sacrifices.
The both of us are.
I feel quite helpless
whenever I see her cry,
and I have a lot of guilt.
We're gonna work together,
and we're gonna have fun
doing it.
You know, the journey.
Come on.
What are you... come on.
We...
what?
Yes.
Yeah, but we're together,
and that's what's fun.
No, I'm not.
I just want to know
what's going on.
Thank you.
I don't understand.
Please, please, please.
Just leave.
Okay.
Guys, come on.
I think that when my parents
met your mom and grandma,
it ended up being
just a little awkward.
And your name is?
Lorna.
Nice to meet you.
But there's still more time,
'cause the rehearsal dinner
is coming up,
and so they're gonna be
meeting again
and, you know,
having more time to talk.
We just wanted to thank everyone
for helping.
Thank everyone for your love
and support,
especially Amy's mom.
Thank you for raising
such a beautiful daughter.
Aww.
This is bigger than just us
getting married.
This is two families
coming together.
We're crossing cultures,
we're crossing just boundaries
that some people don't like.
And that's a big deal
because we're creating,
you know,
just unity between people,
'cause we're all the same.
All right, you can eat.
The big thing
is the different cultures,
how people do things, you know?
How two people get married
and what you believe in
and how you live.
You know, it just depends
on the two of you.
How hard are you going to fight
to make this relationship work?
I definitely want to see
Danny's dad as my dad.
Like, I think it's important
to have our families be
accepting of each other.
It looks like them two have
a big day tomorrow, huh?
They do.
I feel like it came up
really, really quick.
It did.
Came out of nowhere.
So, Amy is your only child,
right?
Yes. Yeah.
Wow.
She's marrying
into a very large family.
Well, she's gonna be our...
my daughter-in-law
and in our family,
so she's family.
And I will treat her
like a daughter.
Well, I have, uh...
No, I don't think
I would treat her like that
because they make
their own choices in life.
And they are no longer really
an integral part of our life.
They're just
on the outer fringes.
Nowadays,
the parents have no say
in who their children marry.
Not at all.
Well, how I am feeling about
the night before the big day is,
it's not too late
to get cold feet.
Nowadays,
the parents have no say
in who their children marry.
Not at all.
Well, even here, there's
different kinds of weddings,
'cause our wedding was...
We had a judge there.
Okay. That was it?
That was it?
Okay.
Nobody else.
We got a little marriage
certificate this big.
And I show it to my dad
and he goes,
"nah, I don't think so."
My husband wanted
the big wedding at church,
so I'm glad I did it.
So, I'm sure
the weddings in Africa
and the U.S.
are very different.
So what's some
of the differences?
In the black African cultures,
they have this thing
about paying a dowry.
In the old days,
they used to give cows.
Let's say you abided by that,
what would you say to Danny?
How much am I worth?
She's worth a lot of cows,
though.
Well, I went to a good school.
She went to a good school.
Oh, so she is worth
a lot of cows.
She's a virgin.
I'm a virgin, yeah.
And, you know,
all those things...
so, so far we're talking
two, four, seven...
nine, right?
Okay.
She's worth all the cows
in the world.
Here we go.
You've taught him well.
For me, there's definitely
a lot of relief
knowing that, you know,
they found some way to connect
to each other.
I'm okay with the fact that
she's going to be in the U.S.
It's beautiful, this place.
It's very beautiful.
It's a bit risky.
It is risky. You don't know
what kind of guy he is.
She honestly gets along
with everybody.
There's just something
that strikes the heart.
Here, here to Amy.
I was a little nervous
about meeting them,
but I must say,
I can't believe how...
Yeah.
Cheers for you, mom.
Cheers.
It felt really good to
see both families click well.
It brought, like, a sense of,
"okay, tomorrow
is gonna be amazing."
Yeah.
Our wedding.
Yeah. Our wedding.
Hi, Martha.
Hello, mother.
Hi.
How are you?
Good. You?
Good.
After the conversation
that we had
on the hot-air balloon,
evelin made me realize
that the right decision is,
you know, to tell my mom
we wanted her to come
to the elopement.
What you guys been doing?
Just planning stuff.
Yeah.
Hanging out. Busy.
Busy?
Yeah.
So, how are you doing
on your dress hunting?
How'd it go?
What were you guys doing
when you were wedding dress
shopping?
It was fun.
Yeah.
All right.
Ooh.
Oh, that looks good.
So, how is your planning coming
for your elopement wedding?
We are in the early stages
of that.
I mean, that's actually why we
wanted to meet with you today.
You know,
we got a little surprise,
you know, that we want to share
with you.
We want to, you know, we want
to invite you to the wedding.
Okay?
We want you to be there.
We want you to be there.
I think it's important.
Thank you.
That was your plan
all along, huh?
That I was gonna invite you?
I want to thank you
for talking to him.
I know it was a lot
of your influence.
You might've come around
on your own, but I'm not sure.
I think that just a few
family members there
will still make it intimate.
Oh, we're getting more people?
Make it a family.
You know.
I think everyone's
gonna be excited.
Wow, we just keep adding
to the list.
Ooh!
Just keep adding away.
We have a small family.
No, it'll be good.
I just didn't want the stress
of, like, trying to plan it.
You know, accommodations.
I'm bridezilla?
Yeah.
That's why I never want
to plan the wedding.
Groomzilla?
Okay.
Well, we got to do it quick.
I see now.
I know now.
Watch out.
Okay.
I do believe evelin
is a good influence on him.
She's making him open up
more to the family,
and I'm very pleased.
Yeah.
To our family.
To all of our families.
Yeah.
All right?
I feel so happy
because I have my new family
at my wedding,
so this is great for me.
The fact that we have 90 days
to get married,
that's kind of
all I've focused on,
and since I was just
so focused on us,
I kind of forgot
about the family and my mom,
and I think this is a moment
that I want to share
with my family.
Oh, I love you.
Love you, too.
Yamir and I really
need to sit down
and talk about him wanting
to move to Chicago.
It's not fair
waiting till the day
of the wedding to decide.
The wedding is gonna be
at my parents' home,
and we're up against the clock
finalizing all
the last-minute details.
I was just thinking about,
like, what exactly
we're gonna do here.
I think, like, having
the ceremony in this area
so we can be standing down here.
Yes.
And then we can hang lights
and put lanterns
and, like, flowers and...
It's beautiful.
I think it'll have a pretty cool
look when it's done.
It's just imagining it
that's the hard part.
So many things are still
up in the air,
and at the same time,
I think yamir and I really need
to sit down
and talk about him
wanting to move to Chicago
to pursue his music career.
I'm hoping we can figure
everything out.
Hey.
Hi.
I wanted to talk to you
about everything.
Like, I think it's a really cool
idea to go to Chicago.
I think there's a lot
of opportunities
for you for your music.
And it's just that right now,
it just seems like
we'd be rushing into things.
We're still trying
to get on our feet,
and we don't have, like,
anything to fall back on,
and it could be a real issue
trying to stay afloat.
I want you to be happy.
'Cause I know how much you had
to give up to come here,
and I know what
a huge sacrifice it was.
And...
And how much it affected you
when everything happened
with the group
and then when the band broke up.
Like, I feel responsible
because you're here with me,
and I never want you to feel
like you made
the wrong decision.
It's difficult for me, honest,
right now.
You're happy?
I'm happy.
Very happy.
Very happy.
Very, very, very, very happy.
Yeah. And you?
Very happy.
After I went to
the lawyer and I came here,
I thought that I'm leaving.
I'm gonna go back to my country.
Danielle is not good
in financial stuff,
so I'm worried
that she won't change,
because there's a lot of things
that she promised
but she never did.
The girls are worried
that he's going to leave,
and so am I.
People rearranged their day
just to come and be here
with us today.
I am stuck.
I am stuck.
I don't know if it's gonna be
okay or not.
This is the biggest decision
I ever made.
I went to the lawyer now.
Did you hear that?
It's not fair what you're doing.
Waiting till the day
of the wedding to decide.
I went to the lawyer now.
Did you hear that?
It's not fair what you're doing.
Waiting till the day
of the wedding to decide.
So, what do you want now?
Keeping my girls wondering
if you're gonna be here
and keeping me wondering.
Just, I want to have
private conversation.
I don't want it to be in front
of the cameras.
Please, just let me talk to her
for some time.
Okay.
Okay.
What?
The girls are happy now
that they know
that there is actually
going to be a wedding.
Now that we decided
to get married,
I'm hoping the day will end
better than it started out.
What you do?
On the day of the auction,
I was sad because I gave up
everything to be here.
Have no friends here.
My family's in Brazil.
I feel so alone,
and it got me very upset.
Sure.
It's about the auction.
Yeah.
I cried because...
I'm just sorry
because I know you were working.
But then I remember
about my friends that I left.
You understand me?
Yeah.
Understand you were
quite emotional.
You left everything,
and all I've been doing
is auctions
and thrift shops
and estate sales and all that.
But you know what we're
trying to do here.
I mean, this wedding's
not gonna get done
just because it's... you know,
I mean, I'm doing this for you.
I'm doing this for us.
I understand.
I appreciate that.
But other relationships,
they need to have time
to do things together.
Cassia, she's given up
a lot down in Brazil,
and she means everything to me,
and I'm gonna do everything
in my power to make her happy.
Can't we just have fun
in a couple months
when all this stuff blows over?
I'm kidding. Yes.
You know, I'll just make
a better effort
to kind of focus
on our relationship.
We're dedicated to each other,
and we know things
will work itself out.
You know?
All right, good talk.
Next time on "90 day fiancé"...
Danny, this is your last day
as a virgin.
You're about to get it on.
This is gonna be a disaster.
If anyone present
knows of any reason
why this union
cannot lawfully take place,
let it now be known.
How someone can object?
It's my wedding.
Hey, we're gonna take off.
It's one night
before the wedding.
His actions
doesn't show he gets it.
Your mom is talking
like as if I was a bad person.
Your mom is just being paranoid.
That's not why I said that.
Yeah.
I won't be hurt
if you didn't say that.
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