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I met devar on vacation
in Jamaica.
I think the hardest adjustment
for devar
is going to be just being
viewed as the father figure
I got this for you.
Oh.
Thanks, man.
Nikki is young.
She is 19, and I am 58.
Oh, look at that.
Oh. That's the day
I met my ex-wife.
There's a lot that noon
doesn't know about me.
It's not the nicest house
we could be bringing her into.
You got some work to do, man.
She's leaving everything
she's known to be with me.
We'll have to be apart again.
I don't know
if he's approved for the visa.
The thought
of not being with him
just makes me sick
to my stomach.
This is my fiancée, Nikki.
It kind of hit me that,
"oh, wait, she's actually 19."
And it's weird
that she's, like, my stepmom.
Do your parents know about noon?
I haven't seen them in years.
If I get a call that
he doesn't get approved,
I don't know what I'm gonna do.
Oh, my god.
Carolina and I have never been
apart this long.
She's very jealous.
How does she know that
you're not sleeping with women
every other day?
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Nikki arrived yesterday,
and today's gonna be
the day she meets my daughter.
I have a little concern
about how my daughter elise
will get on with Nikki.
You're bringing someone into
our lives that I've never met.
And so you expect us
just to get along?
She could be your daughter.
I don't so much worry
about Nikki,
but I hope elise
is a team player.
Elise is coming any minute.
I have faith in you
'cause you want
to make it work, okay?
So...
Hi, elise.
- Hi.
- How are you?
I'm pretty good.
I wanted you...
I love your outfit.
- Thank you.
- Miss kitty.
Anyway,
this is my fiancée, Nikki.
Hi.
Why don't you step over here
and meet elise.
- Oh.
- Hello.
Hi. How are you?
When I first walked down,
Nikki looked so much younger
than I thought she did.
The thing about
her being younger than me
that freaks me out is it's weird
that she's, like, my stepmom.
I am going to go get dinner.
I will be back in a minute.
So, girls, try to think
of something to say.
- Okay.
- So...
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I'm Fernando
and I live in doral, Florida,
and I'm 39 years old.
Fernando.
- Andrea.
- Andrea.
We're sisters, yeah.
You guys are sisters?
You guys don't
look like sisters.
I think surprisingly
I've done well with the ladies.
I've done well with girls.
Don't know why.
I should not.
But I tend to do well
for myself.
Hey!
I've been married before,
and it ended because I cheated
in the relationship.
My dating life since my divorce,
I guess it's been very active.
This'll work.
It's been a long time single.
Kind of enjoying my single life
until I met Carolina.
For the past 10 years, I've been
traveling to Latin America,
and it was on one of those trips
that I met Carolina.
She's from medellín, Colombia.
It's a really poor city.
I was in medellín and I was
on a date, and on the street,
I saw a beautiful girl
and she was also on a date.
We made eye contact,
but we were being a little
flirtatious from a distance.
And at one point,
we kind of met up together
and gave each other
our phone numbers.
And we started messaging
each other.
Carolina is young.
She's 22.
And we have
a 17-year age difference.
She has
a very strong personality,
and we got really close.
We had a lot of fun.
And I realized
this is the person
I want to spend the rest
of my life with.
And that's when
I decided to propose.
And we started
the k-1 visa process.
It looks good.
Let's sit down and eat.
I currently share my house
with my parents.
It was important for me
to help them out.
And I had a big enough house
to do that,
and so I invited them
to live with me.
When Carolina comes to America,
obviously she will share this
house with my parents, as well,
and even though my family
is hispanic,
the cultures are very different,
and I don't know how
that's gonna work out.
Carolina's not gonna be
used to the tablecloth
and the glasses and the wine.
She's not used to that.
My father is very quiet,
but my mom's outspoken,
she's opinionated.
I know my mother
is anxious and nervous.
I think she's well aware
that Carolina's gonna
take run of the house,
and I think she's concerned
about the dynamics.
When I applied for the k-1 visa
last year, I really thought
it was gonna be a process
that would last
no more than five or six months
at most.
But we've been delayed
several times
because some missing paperwork
related to my previous marriage
and divorce.
Hi, my love.
Carolina's waiting
in medellín, Colombia,
and she's very anxious,
she's very frustrated,
and it's very difficult for us
to be away from each other.
I don't want to be without you.
I miss you, too.
I can be there as soon
as, maybe, like,
less than two weeks.
I don't believe you.
We haven't seen each other
in a very long time
because I have to gather
a lot of evidence,
and as the months went on,
I spent a longer period
away from Carolina,
and she began to think
that this could actually
end our relationship.
She's very jealous,
and I haven't always been the
most honest or faithful to her.
Carolina has caught me texting
or messaging or e-mailing
other girls before.
How about this.
I promise I'll be there
next Tuesday.
It's important that I earn
Carolina's trust again.
I understand.
I love you, too.
I have to go to Colombia
to make her feel better
before she gives up
on this relationship.
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I was really heartbroken
when I had to say goodbye
to alexei
after our Canada trip
because I don't know
if I'm gonna see him again.
We'll have to be apart again,
and we don't even know
what's gonna happen next.
If I get a call
that he doesn't get approved,
I don't know what I'm gonna do.
If anybody deserves to be happy
and together, it's us.
Hi, sweetie.
Where are you?
I am at the entrance.
Are you doing okay?
Are you nervous?
I'm okay.
We're gonna get this, right?
Yes, yes, yes.
Okay, good.
Did you shave?
- Yeah.
- Okay.
Okay, baby.
I'll call you soon, okay?
Okay.
- I love you.
- I love you, too.
The hardest
thing is that people think
they want to marry American
for a green card,
and that's not the case with us.
He doesn't want to come here.
He wants to stay in Israel,
but he's coming here because
he wants to be with me.
It's just so messed up how hard
it is just to be together.
It's 2:00 A.M. here in New York,
which means it's 9:00 A.M.
in Israel,
and I've not heard
from Alex yet.
I'm hoping
that he went in on time.
I don't... I don't know.
I just...
I just want to know already.
Alexei is at the consulate.
He is in his interview
right now.
I'm freaking out because our
future is gonna be determined
if he can come to the U.S. and
if we can be together finally.
Oh, my god.
Hi, sweetie.
Hi, baby.
We're good, we're good.
Calm down.
We're good.
We got approved?!
We are approved.
We are approved.
So you stop stressing out.
Stop freaking out.
Oh, my god.
We got approved?
Yeah.
Oh, my god.
Yeah, consulate said that
everything is approved.
We're getting married!
Sweetheart.
Oh, my god, I just want
to give you a hug so bad.
I'm sorry it took so long.
I was waiting in line.
So long?
Are you kidding me?
I'm exhausted.
I'm not gonna be able
to go to work tomorrow.
All right, I got to go.
I have people to call.
Give me a kiss.
I love you.
I love you, too.
Bye.
Bye, baby.
Everything we worked for,
it paid off.
I can't believe it.
I can't.
I can't believe I'm getting
married in four months.
Hello?
I'm getting married.
Oh, god bless.
I know all of our friends,
our family are just
so incredibly happy for us.
We got approved.
And while I'm on cloud nine
times infinity,
the reality of it is,
is oh, my gosh, it's here.
We got approved.
We are moving to Florida
with my parents,
which means I have to pack up
my life here in New York,
he's coming on over,
and we're going to take that
There is no way
I'm gonna sleep tonight.
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Devar's been here
in the states a few days,
and it is gonna be a period
of adjustment for him.
Hunter.
It's very important to me
that devar and hunter can get
to know each other.
Yeah?
What do you say?
I don't know.
Come over.
Don't be scared.
It's gonna be pretty tough.
You can stay on your knee
if it's hard and do this.
No, I don't like doing that.
Oh, yeah? Well, do it
your way, then.
I like doing this.
Oh, yeah, you got...
okay, let's do it.
Guess what I get for you today.
Oh, baseball bat.
I've got no idea
how to play the sport,
so you're gonna have to show me.
Yeah.
Ready?
I hit it.
That was good.
Favorite part about him being
here is playing sports with me.
Oh, god.
I hit the gray.
That was good.
That was good.
Tomorrow when I come back,
I'm doing the showing, deal?
Okay.
But that was a pretty good day.
It's gonna be fun
having you here.
Sounds just perfect.
I want to try some nice
hot wings when I reach.
Oh, they have hot wings.
Sweet.
Tonight I just
got home from work,
and I'm gonna take hunter
and devar out to dinner
so we can all spend time
together.
Oh, mozzarella sticks.
Thank you.
They hot?
So, do they have
these in Jamaica?
I've never seen these
on the menu in Jamaica.
It's my first time seeing
something like this.
It's basically fried cheese.
I'm so not trying that.
Just try a little piece.
I will stick to my water.
For the wedding,
am I gonna, like, stand up
with you and devar,
like, on the side,
or am I gonna be down?
I don't know.
We really didn't discuss it yet.
What do you think, devar?
I want to stand up by you.
You're gonna stand
right beside me.
You are the best man.
So, what do you say?
Deal?
- Deal.
Sounds good.
Hunter's face just, like,
lit up like a Christmas tree.
That's really exciting because
devar doesn't have anybody here.
I mean, he's here
all by himself.
I'm very excited
to be the best man.
At the wedding, I'm gonna
stand right by devar.
Mm-hmm.
Sounds good.
Mm-hmm.
Mm-hmm.
How do you think things
are going with hunter?
Me and hunter got
this really good
relationship going on.
Yeah, I can tell.
He's been looking forward
to meeting you for so long.
He did, and he love it.
They have hit it off great,
and it's a really,
really good start.
We are loving each other.
It's good.
- We're tight.
- Mm-hmm.
But devar has not met
everybody in my family yet.
Are you nervous about tomorrow?
I'm a bit nervous.
Beverly.
Tomorrow we're gonna go have
dinner with my sister bev,
and she's never met him.
She doesn't really trust devar.
I think my sister may think that
he was here for a green card.
Your aunt bevy's a lot like me.
Yeah.
They're both tough.
She doesn't take any bull
oh, yeah?
My sister bev has always been
very protective.
That's her personality.
And I hope that
once she gets to know him,
she realizes she can trust him.
She seems to be
a hard nut to crack.
A hard nut to crack.
Knowing that I'm gonna meet
bev for dinner,
I was a little bit scared
of what her respond may be.
I got to make a good impression
for bev.
Don't do that.
You have to figure out
what you have in common.
I'm somewhat Filipino.
There we go.
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Finally over.
The wait is over.
Noon has finally
come to America.
Oh.
I'm very excited
to bring noon home
and show her around new Orleans,
show her how I live my life,
and make her a big part of it.
Many building.
Never.
Me and noon have only spent
a short amount of time
together in Thailand,
and she's never gotten
to see how I live
on this side of the world,
so I hope that she's happy.
All right, babe, we're home.
Okay.
Okay, I...
What's up, Bryan.
Right here.
- What up?
- Oh.
How you doing?
I'm good.
How are you?
It's gonna be crazy.
We're gonna have some fun.
Yeah, we're gonna have
a lot of fun.
Bryan is an interesting guy.
He is prone to not wearing
as much clothes
as he should at times.
You can't be walking around here
with your hanging
out all the time.
I'll try to keep it under wraps.
To make noon
feel more comfortable,
I bought a bunch of tapestries
and I've decorated it
in a way that she would...
she would feel comfortable with,
just like she was back home.
Yeah, I love it.
Yes.
I tried my best
to get the house clean.
I at least tried to cover up
the mess a little bit.
But I'm pretty nervous it might
not live up to her standards.
Here's my room.
Oh.
Not bad, huh?
If you want to go
to the kitchen...
Mm-hmm.
You have to go through
Bryan's room into the kitchen.
And if Bryan wants
to come outside,
he's got to go through our room.
Bryan's room.
Okay.
And this is the kitchen.
Don't do that.
Well, I don't want them
to stay alive.
I don't even know
if the oven works.
I've never used it before.
And a fridge.
- Mm-hmm.
- Big fridge.
Not a big kitchen, but it works.
All right.
- Okay.
It needs a woman's touch
a little bit, huh?
Yeah.
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I feel so nervous and scared.
Hi.
- Hi.
How you doing?
I'm pretty good.
How about you?
Um, kind of nervous.
So, hopefully my dad's been
treating you well and...
Well, he's treating me
very good.
Good.
I really truly hope...
Iced tea.
That my daughter and Nikki
get along.
You're sweating.
Yeah, I know.
And that they're able to be
more than just cordial.
You okay?
Mm-hmm.
You have to figure out
what you have in common
and go from there.
I'm somewhat Filipino.
There we go.
I'm not sure what I think.
I think she don't like me.
I hope not.
So, what's it like
actually having her here now?
It's wonderful.
Nikki and I shared a sunrise
this morning
that was incredible.
And it was fun to hold somebody
and watch the sun come up.
It was wonderful.
I haven't really heard
much about you.
It's just meeting you
for the first time
is a little awkward.
Nikki and I still have quite
a bit to get to know each other
before I can say
that we're gonna get along.
Are you gonna maybe think
about going to school or...
Going to school?
Scary.
Go to school.
But in future, maybe.
Anything else?
You want to pick through that?
- No.
- You sure?
So, you guys, like,
planning your wedding yet,
or is that a little too far
ahead in the future?
It's... you know,
I could've married her there
and brought her here as my wife.
The reason she's here is
to make sure she's happy here.
So she needs to know
the real me.
And, um... And then she knows
what she's getting into.
I have 90 days to decide
if I want to get married or not.
I don't know what will I do here
in America.
I'm still adjusting
to everything.
I hope mark make me happy.
I don't want to change my mind.
I never thought
I'd see this day.
I can't wait to see him
walk out those doors.
How long you gonna stay?
It all depends on what happens,
and it'll depend on the visa.
Hopefully, she'll have the visa.
Today I'm finally moving
down to Florida.
Alexei can't work during
the 90-day process,
and I really couldn't afford
a lifestyle
for both of us in New York.
This is sad.
So, really the only option
for alexei and I right now
is to move to Florida
and live with my parents.
I'm getting too old
for this crap.
She gave up a job,
she gave up her apartment,
she's moving in with us.
Whether I like this situation
or not, I'm supporting her
'cause I'm not gonna lose
my daughter over this.
I don't know how we did it,
but we did it.
I could've kept my job,
I could've stayed in New York,
but I really wanted to make
his move as easy as possible.
I'm sacrificing a lot
to be with him.
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Alexei is en route right now
to Miami airport.
I can't believe it.
He's on his way.
I'm nervous.
I hope... I don't know
what his first reaction
of America's gonna be.
This guy has no idea
what he's getting into.
- That's not true.
- He knows.
- Maybe.
- And he's still coming.
I want him
to walk out of customs
and it's just me, like,
standing there.
I mean, I know there's gonna be
other people at the airport,
but...
not the other 300 people
on the plane, right?
"Excuse me, airport,
can you please move?
My fiancé's coming out
of customs. Thank you."
This is it!
Never thought I'd see this day.
Like, that light at the end
of a tunnel.
This is a life-changing moment
right now.
This is it, and I can't wait
to see him walk out those doors.
Oh, my god, it arrived.
Arrived.
Oh, my...
Oh, my god!
You got it?
Welcome home!
How are you?
My god.
I'm in America finally,
and I'm very excited,
but I don't know, like,
how is it gonna be here
living with her parents, living
with her for the first time.
Right now, it's all
a big question mark.
God, you smell so bad.
I need a shower, yeah.
You need a shower.
That's what you need.
Leaving my family
back in Israel,
this is the hardest part, yeah,
and it does make me feel guilty.
They rely on me for a lot
of things, and it's difficult.
It was really hard
to leave them behind.
And loren, she needs to be
strong for me
because she's now... she's now
the only thing I have here.
My god, I can't believe
you're here.
Yes.
I got here.
Yeah, you did.
- Finally did.
- Finally.
It is so weird.
You're in America.
Like, here, my territory.
Maybe it didn't really...
it didn't hit you yet.
- Hit me yet, yeah.
- Now it did.
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What do you need this for?
Because I have to
fly to Colombia.
Why?
Carolina has been waiting
a long time.
The visa is taking a little
longer than I expected.
You didn't tell me this before.
Just fly away, that
you're leaving today.
I didn't know that.
Your father didn't know, either.
Yeah, I know, I know.
I have to keep her happy.
She's upset,
she's worried, and...
if I tell her she has to wait,
she's gonna get more upset.
You know, when you are child
that you buy a bicycle,
for a few months, you are happy.
Then later you don't want it
no more.
How long you gonna stay?
How long you gonna stay there?
Probably just a couple of weeks.
So, you come with her
or you come alone?
I'm not sure.
It all depends on what happens,
and it'll depend on the visa.
Hopefully she'll have the visa.
I know my mother's
very anxious and nervous
about Carolina coming.
She's been in charge
of this house for a while,
and now to have someone
that's gonna be my wife
and has a big place
in this house,
I think that's gonna be
kind of difficult for her.
I get it.
Get yourself ready.
You have a couple of weeks
to get ready for her.
We can.
Just we might have to eat
separately.
It's gonna be a lot easier
than you imagine.
Okay.
You know.
Let's see.
I don't want to put pressure
on Carolina or my mother
that they have
to like each other,
but if they don't, honestly, I
don't know if this'll survive.
I'll be back in a couple weeks.
Mm. Okay.
Do your parents know
you're getting married?
Do they know about noon?
I haven't seen them in years.
I absolutely do not trust devar.
My very first concern was that
he was coming here to America
to use my sister.
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Now that noon
has seen the apartment,
gonna take her down and
show her the French quarter.
Hopefully it's not too much
of a culture shock for her.
Bourbon street is a very
interesting part of town.
This is bourbon street,
where all the dirty stuff
goes down.
I don't want to leave Thailand
because I have my family there,
my friend.
But I want to live with Kyle.
I want to see him every day
because I love him so much.
I hope new Orleans,
it feels like home for me.
I only work three blocks away
from here.
My god.
What do you think?
See that?
That's not water.
That's...
that's gross, right?
All right, babe,
let's get you a daiquiri.
I don't like to drink much.
You get it?
Yeah. Sweet.
- Sweet.
- Yeah.
It's a lot of alcohol.
Oh.
Lot of strange people, right?
Yeah.
It's weird here.
Don't come here alone.
Thank you.
I'm gonna introduce noon
to some of my
very close friends here,
which are like family to me
here.
What's up?
What's up?
When I was young,
my parents divorced
and moved to opposite sides
of the country from each other.
My dad is kind of off the grid.
He's hard to get ahold of.
My mom is, too.
This is noon.
What's up, noon? Ramón.
Nice to meet you.
- Hi. Nice to meet you.
Hi.
Nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you, too.
She's from Thailand
and they're getting married
in 90 days,
so I just want to know, like,
what they're all about,
see if he's ready
or if she's ready.
How was your trip over here?
It's a long flight.
Really long flight?
Yeah, 32 hours.
- Damn.
- Wow.
We're so glad to meet you.
Yeah.
Yeah, see?
She's real.
I'm real.
Aww.
You guys are planning
to get married?
Take that day at a time.
Take that day at a time?
- Say what?
- Do they know about noon?
I haven't dropped
that b*mb on them.
'Cause I haven't seen them
in years.
I haven't seen my dad
in maybe five years,
and I don't think
I've seen my mom in 10.
Do they know that
you're gonna get married
with her in 90 days?
Like, how do they feel
about that?
They don't know
the circumstances of the visa
that she's on.
Kyle don't like to talk
about his family.
Someday, I think he will
tell me what happened.
Are you ready for it, though?
We haven't figured that out yet.
I wonder if he realizes
how hard it's gonna be,
'cause, you know,
he hasn't spoke
with his mother for 10 years,
his father for 5,
and then, you know,
all of a sudden,
"hey, mom, dad,
I know we haven't talked.
I'm about to get married.
Here's my girl from Thailand."
So, they're gonna think
like everyone else.
"Are you doing
the right thing?"
So, how important is it,
you know, for you
to meet Kyle's parents?
You nervous?
A little bit.
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Sister, how are you?
Hi, sister.
Tonight we're meeting
my sister Beverly
and her husband here for dinner.
She's just
a little bit protective.
I am nervous because
I want her to accept devar
and I want her to,
you know, trust him.
How are you?
Oh, my goodness gracious.
I absolutely do not trust devar
at this point.
My very first concern
was that he was coming here
to America
to use my sister,
to get his green card,
and to basically move on.
Oh, yeah.
What are you having
over there, big guy?
I don't know yet.
- Oh, yeah?
- What are you gonna get?
Me? I already have
what I want.
So, do you remember when
I first told you about devar?
When I think
I first found out about it,
I think I was just
a little bit shocked.
To me, it was like, so,
you go on vacation
and you meet the lifeguard
on the beach at the resort,
and, like...
How does that happen?
Just happened.
Right.
I went to Jamaica
and I fell in love with this man
sitting aside of me.
Oh, yes.
So, from what I've heard,
a lot of people in Jamaica
want to come over here...
And everyone wants to live
the American dream,
so to speak.
I understand your point.
- Okay.
- But the thing of it is,
you can't really judge a book
by its cover.
Say, you know,
"he's from Jamaica.
You can't trust him.
He's just here for one purpose
and one purpose only."
So, you're working
at a resort, or you were.
So, you have all these women
to choose from.
There's thousands of women
in Jamaica.
So, how does she know
that you're...
when you were in Jamaica,
how does she know
that you're not sleeping
with women
every other day?
And you met her at a resort,
so how many others
have you met like her?
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You met her at a resort,
so how many others
have you met like her?
You know, you're in Jamaica,
she's here.
You get women
in and out of your life
basically every day,
every week...
but they're there.
And I'm like, every person
that you slept with,
now you're sleeping with her,
which means now she's sleeping
with all those people
with the big sexually
transmitted diseases.
My god.
Right.
If Beverly doesn't like devar,
that could be a problem
for our relationship.
The bottom line is I wouldn't
do it if I didn't love him.
Right.
This could be the biggest
mistake of Mel's life.
We will see where it goes.
I am hoping that devar is here
for the good intentions
that he claims to be,
that he truly
does love my sister
and that he's not just here
to live the American dream.
I don't dislike you.
You're gonna make her happy.
So don't marry her
if you don't love her.
And I'm hoping that
this all works out
and that you're not using her.
The next 90 days
for devar and Melanie
will be very interesting.
He will still have to prove
to me that he loves my sister.
Next time on "90 day fiancé"...
Nikki!
Nikki's seen me on vacation.
I'm not on vacation here.
I told noon
we're gonna go skydiving,
but she has absolutely no idea
what I have planned.
Aleksandra's been here for a
week, and she's still adjusting.
Because in Prague, girls can
wear, like... what is it?
- See-through shirts?
- Uh-huh.
So, that's my beautiful lady
Melanie.
What was your thoughts
when I told I was marrying
a white lady?
I know that people think
we're liars.
I promise I will speak
to your dad.
I will try to make him
understand.
I just hope that my relationship
can survive through this.
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