Previously on "90 day fiancé"...
- This is my fiancée, Nikki.
- Hi.
It kind of hit me
that she's actually 19.
It's weird that she's,
like, my stepmom.
If you wanna go to the kitchen,
you have to go
through Brian's room.
The visa is taking
a little longer than I expected.
I can be there as soon as,
maybe, like,
less than two weeks.
I don't believe you.
I haven't always been the most
honest or faithful to her.
How does she know that
you're not sleeping with women
every other day?
And coming up...
I told noon
we're gonna go skydiving,
but she has absolutely no idea
what I have planned
when she lands.
Nikki!
Nikki's seen me on vacation.
I'm not on vacation here.
Was it hard to stop drinking
alcohol when you became mormon?
Um...
I have tried everything
I can possibly do to avoid this.
Nikki, breakfast!
Nikki has been here four days,
and we have had some challenges.
Nikki!
Nikki's seen me on vacation.
I'm not on vacation here.
Hm?
Breakfast!
Nikki.
Come on.
It's breakfast time.
Oh, what a beautiful day.
I know she will get bored
if she has a sedentary life
of just sitting around.
I would like
her to find direction.
No, Nikki, I'm not.
Mark.
Yeah?
Come here.
Yes.
I'm trying to get things done.
Nikki is young.
She is 19.
I've got to do something.
I've got find some way
to keep her captivated.
So, Nikki,
I've got something to show you.
Hm?
I have a big surprise for Nikki.
I can't wait to see
what she thinks.
What the...
What's this?
Every person
that you slept with,
now she's sleeping
with all those people
with the big sexually
transmitted diseases.
Oh, my god, devar.
Ooh.
Oh, yes.
Not a big fan of gold,
so we're gonna look
for something in a white gold
or a platinum, I think.
Well, you've got
some really nice rings here.
How about, um,
that first one right here?
Yeah, that one.
That's pretty.
Was there
any particular price range
that you guys wanted to stay in?
Well, um,
I'll be honest with you,
that's gonna be up to my parents
because my parents
are actually buying them for us.
Okay.
Oh, yes.
That first one with just that
little bit of diamond in it.
That one right there.
Mm-hmm, yeah.
Price-wise, you're looking
at about $2,400 for this one.
Hm.
Yeah, that one I like.
It's very nice, yes.
Thank you.
Okay.
So these seem to be the ones
that you guys
are leaning towards.
Yes.
I like this one.
Okay. Very good.
We're gonna go with that one
for myself.
And then, devar,
this one here for him.
You're gonna have to wear it
for a long time.
- I will.
- That's pretty good.
Okay. So, yeah.
Okay, thank you very much.
- Thank you.
- Thanks for your help.
I'm stressed.
And the wedding's very stressful
'cause it's right
around the corner.
So I think
as it gets closer and closer,
my stress level
is gonna go higher.
And I think
once we have everything in place
and I know everything has been
planned, I think it'll be good.
Stop it.
So we picked out the rings.
Mm-hmm.
The flowers, we gotta deal with.
We have to meet your mom...
To invite her to the wedding.
I think I was about 9 years old.
Not quite sure
what she was thinking about me
bringing a white lady
to introduce to her.
It's a possibility
that she's not gonna like me
because I'm white.
I think
that's the reality of it.
Hi.
I know it's important
for aleksandra
to fit in with my family.
- See-through shirts?
- Uh-huh.
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Josh tells me that we're
going to fourth of July party.
It's, like, we will celebrate
the birthday
of the United States.
Aleksandra's been here
for a week in America,
and she's still adjusting
to life here in roxburg.
You want some food?
Hello.
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When aleksandra became a mormon,
she gave up a lot of things.
And I know it's important for
her to fit in with my family.
Wait.
So, you are related to us?
- Uh, not yet, not yet.
- I am related to you.
Everyone was curious
about who she was.
Like, who is this Russian girl?
So they wanted to get
to know her.
Who kissed who first?
- Hard question.
- Yeah.
Hi.
- Oh, hi.
- Hey.
- I'm Lauren.
- Lauren.
- I'm Logan.
- Logan.
- I'm Rachel.
- Rachel.
I'm Paige.
Hello.
So, you're from Russia, right?
- Yeah.
- Okay. Sweet.
Yeah, I've spent
most of my life here, so...
That's cool.
My cousin is going
on a mission there soon.
Uh-huh.
So, yeah.
Have you ever been on a mission?
Nope, not yet.
What interesting things
did you do in Prague?
When aleksandra
started talking about drinking,
that was definitely different.
I know in other areas
of the country,
like, drinking
is a pretty big thing.
But just around here,
it's not part of the culture.
So I was kind of surprised
to hear that.
Was it hard to stop drinking
alcohol when you became mormon?
Um, not really.
- Like, see-through shirts?
- Uh-huh.
Cleavage.
And then, um...
So...
Aleksandra
adjusting to American life,
I think as we go along and she's
here for longer and longer,
it'll be harder and harder.
I know it's gonna be
a struggle for her at times.
Noon's been here
for a few days already.
I know the apartment situation
isn't ideal.
Living with Brian,
there's not as much privacy
as there should be.
Sorry, sorry, sorry.
Sorry, sorry.
Sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry.
Bug!
k*ll it.
It's not clean enough?
It really never bothered me
before because it was just
me and Brian in kind
of a bachelor pad.
But I can tell that she wants to
put some feminine touch in here,
and it's not ideal
for that, even.
Yeah, dude, get him.
I'm about to
this dude up real quick.
I'm gonna have to hide
real quick though.
Noon's given up everything
to come here and be with me.
I'm worried
that she's not happy here,
so I've gotta come up
with a big gesture
to show her how much I love her.
Even though noon
and I are engaged,
I've never given
her an official proposal.
So today is the day.
I told noon
we're gonna go skydiving,
but she has absolutely no idea
what I have planned
when she lands.
I'm gonna surprise her
with an engagement ring.
You see that airplane up there?
Yes.
That's you and I.
You know, in Thailand,
when someone's scared,
they will...
let me smell that thing, noon.
It smells like vaporub.
When I jump, I need...
I need this.
There it is.
Oh, yeah.
Holy.
I'm bringing my friends
with me skydiving today.
- What's up?
- Hey.
Noon thinks it's just
for moral support,
but she doesn't know that
they're really there to help
me out with my big surprise.
Scared?
You gonna jump off?
Yeah.
- Ready to go do this?
- Good luck!
- Nice knowing y'all! Bye!
- Yeah!
- Yeah, we got to get the ring.
- And the banner going, huh?
And the banner going, yeah.
Ready? Break.
Let's break.
What better way to propose
to someone than skydiving?
And then, you look down,
"will you marry me"
with a huge banner.
It's gonna be great.
She's gonna love it.
Noon seems a little bit nervous.
Whoo-hoo!
If noon chickens out, then
the whole proposal is a bust.
So when I come down
there this weekend,
I will let you meet
my lovely lady, Melanie.
Hello?
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I'm in medellín, Colombia,
to see my fiancée, Carolina.
Muchas gracias.
Carolina's k-1 visa
has not been approved,
and she's very frustrated
that she can't fly
to the United States.
She can't visit me
in the United States.
So then, I have to come to her,
calm her, uh, anxiety.
This has been the longest
span of time
that we have not been together.
It's been almost a year.
My name is Carolina.
I'm from medellín, Colombia.
Fernando is funny...
So hot.
It's not cold.
It's never cold in Colombia.
When I finally do see her,
I feel sparks.
I got goose bumps, everything.
You can say "10 months."
Carolina speaks bad English,
so on this trip
I'm definitely wanting to teach
her a little bit more English
to just get around in America.
So they asked me
for more information...
I don't know how...
I don't know.
We just have to wait.
But, I...
I'm not the one in charge
of approving the visa.
I'm sorry.
I know.
I'm sorry.
I have tried everything
I can possibly do to avoid this.
We just have to wait.
I'm expecting that maybe you
have an interview
with the embassy in a month.
You knew that this was part
of the deal.
Carolina's parents
don't understand
how this visa process works.
Their idea of the United States,
that everything
goes very quickly...
In their minds,
maybe I'm lying about applying.
I know that it's taken so long
that people think we're liars.
I know your dad
doesn't believe us anymore.
I promise I will speak
to your dad.
I will try
to make him understand.
I just hope that my relationship
can survive through this.
My plan is to call my mom,
schedule a date
when we actually can meet up.
Hey, mom.
Hello.
How are you?
I was 9 years old when my mom
actually moved to the states.
She came here to work and, uh,
support us back home by sending
us cash and some clothes.
When my mom leave, it was...
Well, actually,
I'm here chilling, thinking
about coming to pay you a visit
on the weekend, this weekend.
Oh, yes, indeed.
You'll let me know?
Uh-huh.
My mom doesn't really quite
know much about the relationship
that me and Melanie got, but...
So when I come down
there this weekend,
I will let you meet
my lovely lady, Melanie.
So, how do you feel meeting
her pretty soon in person?
Hello?
I got ya.
Mm-hmm.
Trying to set up a time period
for my fiancée to meet my mom
is pretty frustrating.
All righty.
So you'll keep me posted?
All righty.
Bye.
Once that door opens
and you're looking down...
that's when fear
starts to come into you.
All right, we're 100%
hooked in and ready to skydive.
Today, I'm taking noon skydiving
for her first time.
And when she lands,
I'm gonna present
to her an engagement ring.
Noon seems a little bit nervous.
If noon chickens out, then
the whole proposal is a bust.
Once that door opens
and you're looking down,
that's when, uh, fear
starts to come into you.
Ah!
Oh, my god!
Yo, noon's out!
Oh, my god!
Whoo!
Yeah, that's her.
Whoo-hoo!
Now I still need
to survive the jump
and land before her
to execute this proposal.
She's not even expecting this.
No. She's gonna be
so excited.
Whoo-hoo!
Nice and tight.
There we go.
That's perfect.
Oh, that's awesome.
Yeah, Kyle! Yeah!
Why, thank you.
Yeah!
Oh.
Aw.
When I come down
and I see that say,
"will you marry me?"
Oh.
Crying. I'm so happy.
Oh!
Uh-oh.
Hey, babe.
I have something to ask you.
Oh!
Noon, will you marry me, babe?
Yes.
Want to go again?
No.
I want to throw up.
Big surprise.
Big surprise.
He does something
cute all the time.
I'm excited to start
planning our wedding
because it's gonna be a big day
for me and Kyle.
I'm a little worried
that Nikki's bored.
So this morning, I'm surprising
her with something big.
What the...
What's this?
So, what do you think?
It's new.
It's like new.
Why don't you sit in there
and see how it is?
Oh, no. I never tried
driving a car before.
I can't even learn driving
in the Philippines 'cause
the streets are very not safe.
See, you got a...
a big pedal right here.
- This is not on, right?
- No, it's not on.
But see, there's a big
pedal here, right?
- Stop, go?
- No, no, no.
You don't use that foot.
You use the same foot to stop
and the same foot to go.
You look pretty good in it.
Thank you so much, but I need
to learn how to drive.
Well, no, you can drive me home.
I'm going to drive you home now?
Yeah, it's just
around the corner.
- No! No, no, no, no, no!
- Oh, no, no. You can do this.
First, you have to put
your seat belt on.
This is the brake.
I'm gonna have my hand
on the brake.
So, uh, you can't...
you can't do any harm.
No, no! I'm so nervous,
I might run into some person.
I'm going to bump...
You're not going to bump.
You'll be fine.
I think I can teach Nikki
how to drive.
I taught my children
how to drive,
so I think I can do this.
Put your foot on the brake.
Push hard.
Okay, that's drive, okay?
And now you're just going
to drive right here.
Just keep on driving.
No, no, no!
I'm going to brake!
No, you're fine.
You're fine.
You're fine.
You're fine, okay?
- You're fine.
- I need to stop early, okay?
Now make the turn.
You have to make the turn.
Thank you
for driving me home, Nikki.
See? Now, how hard
was that, Nikki?
How hard was that?
Let's go!
Nikki, is this the right color?
Yeah, I love the color.
Nikki loved this car.
And I'm hoping that'll be
enough to keep her happy
because my future
depends on her happiness.
When I sit in this car, Nikki,
it rolls my clock back 25 years.
It's absolutely perfect.
I had bought the same car
for my ex-wife.
It was for her
to get around, though,
'cause she liked the car.
Um, but then, you know,
she had problems learning
to get her, uh, license.
And then, of course,
she got pregnant.
My ex-wife was Filipino.
I actually brought her here
on a k-1 visa too.
Is this your... the same,
really, car that you...
it's not the same car.
It's the same model.
Same model,
but not the same car?
No, yeah.
This car has all the options.
And the car that I bought
for my ex-wife
just was a stick
with roll-up windows.
So, Nikki,
let's go to the beach.
- Let's go.
- Yeah!
- We are going.
- Let's go to the beach.
I am nervous
about Melanie meeting my mom.
Today, we're gonna try to find
a wedding dress for me.
- Hello.
- How are you?
- Aleksandra, how are you?
- Hello, nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you.
Come on back.
It was my dream when I will go
to the store with my mom
and buy the dress
for my wedding.
Pretty stuff, huh?
I like something, like, easy,
so maybe without sparkles.
Okay.
We never get to come
to this store, huh, eliza?
We have only brothers
and boys, huh?
A mormon bride wears something
modest that covers her here
and sleeves.
How do you feel about that?
No.
No? Okay.
It's, like, too big.
You don't like the long sleeves?
- No.
- Okay.
The dresses here are much more,
um, modest than found in Prague.
And I hope I can find
something I like.
This is so big.
Do you like this style better?
No.
Okay. See, that's why...
that's why we try on.
Sure.
Sure, let me grab one.
I got a tattoo before I met Josh
and before I was converted
in the mormon church.
She's a little bit embarrassed
of her tattoo...
Okay.
'cause our church
said not to get tattoos
'cause our body's like a temple.
These keep falling down.
Okay, let me do some thinking
of what we're gonna do there.
Okay.
The back is pretty,
and the train.
The back is really pretty.
Okay, what do you think
about style?
I like it.
It's so comfortable.
Yeah.
I think that's really pretty.
So here's a veil.
This is more simple.
This one's a little more full.
Yeah. Yeah.
It's just...
Today, me and Mel
are gonna take a road trip
to see my mom in Maryland.
- Got everything?
- Oh, yes.
I know very little
about devar's mom 'cause
I've never met her before.
So I have no idea
what to expect, none at all.
So, who does your mom live with?
Do you know?
She lives with one
of her friends
by the name of Paulette.
She's from Jamaica.
Okay.
So, are you excited
to meet my mom now?
I have no idea
what to expect, devar, none.
This is stressful.
Oh, my god.
I swear to god I have,
like, an ulcer or something.
I have this pain right here.
I hope that she does trust me
and she does understand
that I love him
and I want to keep him happy.
So it's right here, I think.
Watch your step.
The last time I've seen
my mom was 8 months ago,
when she actually paid us
a visit back home in Jamaica.
So this is where my mama lives.
Really excited to meet my mom,
but I am nervous
about Melanie meeting my mom.
I'll keep my fingers crossed.
Oh, look at you!
- Hi.
- How are you doing?
Come over here
and give me a nice, big squeeze.
Oh, my goodness.
Long time, no see.
How have you been?
I'm doing excellent.
Excellent.
Yeah, man.
It's nice to see ya.
I've been telling
you about someone.
Someone?
A beautiful...
come here, girl.
This is my lovely...
hi. Nice to meet you.
Hi. How are you?
Okay.
- Mama and my wife.
- Hi, son.
Oh, my goodness.
Give me a squeeze.
Nice to meet ya.
How are you doing?
- Are you ready to eat?
- Oh, yeah, for sure.
Come on, sweetie.
So I'm gonna eat some fish
and rice and peas.
I can't wait.
What drinks are needed?
Whatever you have is fine,
water or...
You good?
Mm-hmm.
Mm-hmm.
There we go.
It's really hot.
So, how...
when you left Jamaica,
how old was he?
And she came here to support
us back home by sending us cash.
Yeah. He gets along very well
with my son.
I have a son who's 11.
Oh, my god.
Devar raise.
Right, devar?
Oh, yes, indeed.
Right?
So, what were your thoughts
when you found out that devar
was gonna be so close to you?
Because we're only,
like, 3 hours away.
How did that make you feel?
You know, I was happy.
Oh, kids!
So, are you trying
to get each of your children
here in the states?
- Yeah.
- Okay.
My mom's actually
trying to get me
and my other brothers
and sisters here in the states.
I was in the process
of doing a...
something quite similar
to a k-1,
but it takes way much longer.
It's a long process.
Yeah, it's long.
During the process
of such things, I met Melanie,
and that's when I get to come
out of that process.
K-1 took about five
months for it to be approved,
and then it took
another three months
for it to go through Jamaica.
So he'll have his green card
three months
after we're married.
Yeah.
When I met devar,
I had no idea that
his mother was petitioning
for him to come here.
But it had absolutely no effect
on devar and I whatsoever.
There may be people here
that think that devar is here
for a green card, but it really
doesn't make a difference to me
what other people think.
I'm in Colombia having dinner
with Carolina's parents.
It's been tough on Carolina
because during this period
that we've been away
and waiting for the visa,
she moved in back
with her parents.
And she didn't
like that very much.
The visa's been
taking way too long.
And I know Carolina's parents
are gonna
have some tough questions
that I'm gonna have to answer
and convince them
that this is actually for real.
Carolina's parents don't get
why it's taking so long.
In their minds, maybe
I'm lying about what I've done.
It's their only daughter,
their little girl,
leaving with this man
to the United States.
I'm feeling a lot of pressure
from Carolina's parents, um,
about the k-1 visa
and about making this work.
And I definitely have to...
have to turn it around.
Next time on "90 day fiancé"...
Come on in.
House rules...
I don't want to hear it.
I don't want to see it.
We're gonna have to,
like, set up a sex schedule
so they don't hear us.
Today, I go for my wedding dress
with my mom.
Oh, my. They were all
kind of in an order.
These are your divorce books.
I'm hoping
I don't need to reread those.
How can get married at 21?
It's terrible.
I want to go back to Prague.
Is your plan to help
your sisters pay their mortgage?
Most definitely.
Maybe I will do that prenup.
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