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Carolina has never been
to America before.
I'm really worried that my mom's
gonna convince her to go home.
You made me feel sad.
Well, I have to be more careful.
My mom has a problem.
I haven't told noon yet.
My concern is that,
down the road,
you'll resent her.
Anything can happen.
We might not get along.
And coming up...
There's no real men
hitting on your girlfriend.
Fernando, what is this?
Uh...
You're not gonna
hook up with him
just so you can get a free pass
to America, are ya?
This is your beautiful fiancée
in the dress.
my wedding is in 3 weeks.
And my bachelorette party
is this weekend.
My sister's coming.
My best friend, Sarah,
is flying in from buffalo.
And I am going
to get her at the airport.
Sarah's organized the events
for the weekend.
I have no idea
what they have planned.
I'll see you in a little while.
I'll be here.
I love you.
Love you too, baby.
Bye.
So do you know
what's gonna happen tonight?
No. I have no idea.
No idea, huh?
Just promise me
you'll, you know,
keep an eye on her over there.
Drunk girls are not very smart.
Go to, like, strip clubs
and stuff
like that and just get wasted.
And, you know, I'm worried
a little bit about all that.
Hello.
Oh, here comes trouble.
Oh, my god!
Hi.
It's so nice to meet you.
Don't hit my head
on the ceiling.
He's like a real person.
He is the giant.
Sarah and I, we get each other.
We talk super fast
or super obnoxious.
It's just how we are together.
I'm a little nervous for alexei
to meet her because he's gonna
see a side of me that he
hasn't really seen before.
So it should be interesting.
What are we doing this weekend?
You know, I'm so excited.
I can't wait to do all the
things we're not supposed to do.
But we're gonna do them anyway.
What? What? I didn't hear.
I understood you.
We'll dance.
We'll drink.
Are you gonna tell me?
I'm not telling you
what we're doing.
She's the yin to my Yang.
I'm the Yang to her yin.
I'm a bit over...
overwhelmed, you say?
How you say?
And see, because I'm tan
and she's not...
I'm the white side.
It works perfect.
I'm gonna be watching TV.
But now, she's wearing white
and I'm wearing black
just to mind.
It's my bachelorette weekend!
You're supposed
to be talkin' to her, not me.
I can't put one word in there.
Again with the f word.
So you just
go on with your thing.
I'm gonna be watching TV.
I'm kind of hoping this
isn't alexei's general demeanor.
Um, if this is a regular thing,
I don't like it.
Just remember,
I did not plan this.
I don't know what's going on.
I had nothing to do with it.
Like you said...
It's all Sarah's fault,
actually.
See what happens.
I just show up.
You'll see what happens.
Mm-hmm.
I'm gonna behave myself.
What are you so worried about?
You just...
You said you were nervous.
What are you so worried about?
I'm not worried.
I'm just telling you.
I have you.
I want you, only you.
I'm just telling you,
no strippers.
Oh.
Hmm.
I don't want any,
I don't know, other guys,
like, uh, naked
around her or whatever.
This just makes me sick,
you know,
to think about something
like that.
We're havin' 18 strippers
per person.
Mm, then you'll have
to marry her.
Fine.
It's legal now.
Okay. Done.
Happening.
I swear I'll behave myself.
Mm-kay.
Thanks for a great start
to my bachelorette weekend.
You are?
Good.
Come on, let's go.
All right.
I'll get my stuff.
Have fun.
I do trust loren.
But, you know,
under the influence
of other people, like Sarah...
Andale, andale!
Who knows, you know?
You can let
your imagine fly from there.
Becky, do you have the keys?
Yes.
Let's do it.
Today, noon and I are
going to Minnesota,
where my mom lives.
I haven't seen my mom
in 10 years.
But noon's given me the courage
to come back and reconnect.
I know...
The truth is, my mom
has a problem with drinking.
And it's not a comfortable
subject to address.
So I haven't brought it up
to noon, yet.
We're gonna meet my mom
at my aunt's house.
It's a neutral place
where we can, hopefully,
reconnect.
All right, you ready?
Mm-hmm.
This is a big moment.
I'm worried that we, just,
may not click again.
Yeah, I can tell.
You're nervous.
I'm okay.
Hi.
Hey, miss.
Come on in.
I've always been
close with Kyle.
I've encouraged him
to call his mom many times.
And he wouldn't.
So it's...
it's great
for them to get together, again,
finally over all these years.
Hi, mom.
Wait, wait, wait.
I got to recognize you, first.
I don't want just anybody
to call me mom.
God!
Come here.
She's got her beef back.
You know, it felt really
nice to see my mom
and give her a hug again.
It was very long overdue.
Well, I'm taller than you are.
Shut up.
Not by much.
I'm just...
I'm glad you don't have
that moppy hair I seen before.
We were estranged
for over 10 years.
And we weren't talking.
So he was out on his own.
I was ready to collapse.
But...
Well, I'm happy to see
that he got a haircut.
You're lookin' good.
Ah, thank you.
Meet my fiancée.
Hi.
Come here.
Yeah.
I haven't told noon
about my mom's problem.
But I hope that my mom
has a good day.
And we don't even have
to talk about it.
No more 10 years'
break from your mama, huh?
Yeah.
I love you, kid.
I love you, too, mom.
Mm-kay.
You get a kiss later.
The first time I see his mom,
I feel something wrong,
uh, I think.
I feel a little awkward, there,
because I don't know anything.
When I saw my mom,
we just got here,
and I feel like I already
wanna just go back home.
It would be nice to have
my family in our wedding.
Well, I think we
should keep it simple.
Oh.
Well, we are halfway
through the 90-day process.
We have had
some challenges, here,
that we didn't have
in the Philippines.
But I know that I don't wish
to spend
the rest of my life alone.
Before we get married, I think,
mark have to learn
how to be more sweeter.
But we're working on that.
So whatcha doin'?
Look at this.
Wow, $8 for a wedding dress,
what's the catch?
Well, what do you mean,
what's... what's the catch?
Why is it so cheap?
What... what's this...
I know I search in Google
"cheap clothing" online
and... and there's a lot of,
like, below $10.
I think that most American
people, wedding dresses
cost like $1,000, above.
That's crazy expensive
in philippine money.
In philippine,
we don't buy a wedding dress.
We... we rent wedding dress
for like $4.
You should get
a couple of those.
Well, you got your homework
cut out for you.
You're gonna have to figure out
where you wanna get married,
to whom you wanna get married,
and what you're gonna wear...
To who?
To get married.
To who?
To who.
So where do you see
yourself getting married.
My real dream wedding
is like marry on a beach.
Wear my... my white
Hawaiian wedding shirt
if we get married in Hawaii?
Yeah, that would be nice,
Hawaiian shirt
and Hawaiian white.
All white.
All white.
Yeah.
It would be nice to have my
family in our wedding, though.
But I know they
can't be there 'cause it's far.
I think we should keep
it simple.
I won't invite my family.
We're just get pictures
and share... share it that way.
Oh.
Nikki's put a lot of trust
in me.
Giving up close contact
with her family, her friends.
Things have been difficult.
But I'm willing to do
whatever it takes to make sure
that she's happy.
It's Carolina's first day
in America.
And I wanna make her, uh,
a really nice breakfast.
Things didn't go very well
with my mom.
And so I just wanna try to make
her feel at home.
Definitely want, uh,
at least the first 90 days
to go without incident.
It might be impossible.
But I'm gonna try.
Carol, where are you?
Here.
I made breakfast.
Let's see if you like.
O.J.
O.J.
Orange juice.
And what...
what is the rules, here?
There's no, like, no rules.
You know, nobody's gonna
tell you what to wear.
If you wanna walk around naked,
that's up to you.
Or if we do something crazy
in the house,
it's not like somebody's gonna
come and,
uh, come knockin' to bother you.
So I'll... I'll pick up.
Fernando!
What is this?
Uh...
Panties, girl.
I've cheated on Carolina
in the past.
And I haven't earned her trust
since then.
Did you find 'em in the closet?
I...
That has nothing...
That's nothing from recent.
That's old, old.
I... I... I'm serious.
That's, uh...
Mm-hmm.
It happened so many years ago
that I can't even remember
who they're from.
Or what they are.
It's my responsibility
to turn this around.
And over the next 90 days,
she's gonna
have to learn to trust me
if we're gonna make this work.
Head this way,
I'm gonna show you her dress.
I love alexei
more than anything.
I really hope he
doesn't freak out.
Hey.
Hey.
Hello.
Good to see you, too.
This is my mom, uh, Svetlana.
Hi.
I'm Heather, nice to meet you.
Our wedding is in a few days.
My parents
just arrived from Russia.
We're gonna head this way.
I'm gonna show you her dress.
Even this one's pretty.
Is your dress a long dress
or short?
Long?
Oh.
She'll be perfect, today.
You pick up the front.
I've got it.
We'll go show your mom.
Oh.
Isn't it beautiful?
Okay, see, yeah.
I like that one.
I like then sparkle.
I know it's hard for my mom
to accept my new life,
but I know that she just
wants me to be happy.
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Woo!
This night starts
my bachelorette party weekend
with my maid of honor, Sarah,
and my sister.
Uh, right... right here.
Go here.
I think alexei's concerned
about what's gonna happen.
But we'll see.
I just... I wanna have fun.
It's my bachelorette party.
Oh, my god,
alexei's going to k*ll me.
Yay!
Woo!
If I get divorced before I
walk down the aisle, it's okay.
I have a wand.
I had nothing to do with this.
I love alexei
more than anything.
I'm, like, legit shaking.
My heart is pounding
because I really
hope he doesn't freak out.
I'm, obviously,
gonna behave myself.
I'm just...
I'm a little excited
because this is
like my one excuse to do this.
Okay, are we ready?
Oh, my god, I'm going in.
Hey!
Oh, my god.
Yay!
Tell him I gotta use a dollar.
Oh, my god.
Oh, this is romantic.
Woo!
Loren, this your first
time here, sweetie?
Wow, she's a virgin.
Everybody say, "aw."
Aw!
Now, get ready,
the sexiest man of 2014.
Our man of steel, Logan,
gonna get a little sexual.
I can't hear you!
Oh, my god.
Wanna get back out there?
One more time,
give it up for our bachelorette,
loren drummin' down.
Oh, my god.
We're drinking,
having a good time.
And I get a text from alexei.
And my heart just sinks.
I have to tell him
this is where I am.
But I know this is
not gonna end well.
So mad at me.
I gave my phone to Sarah 'cause
I knew that, if I talked to him,
he was going to freak out on me.
Hey. It's Sarah.
I just wanted to talk to you
for a second
because loren got your text
and now she's all upset.
And I don't want
her to be upset.
I don't you to be upset
because nothing
bad is actually happening.
You don't need to freak out.
Strippers are paid
entertainment.
There's no real men
hitting on your girlfriend.
Well...
Quite frankly, I think
he needs to just grow up.
Hi.
I talked to alexei.
Oh, my god.
Is he, like, not gonna marry me?
He's freaking out.
He... well, he's freaking...
I had nothing to do with this.
And I'm like...
That's what I said.
That's what I said.
It's, like, so not worth
losing him over.
You deserve the bachelorette
party you wanted.
Like, is he not gonna
marry me over this?
Have you looked
around at dresses at all?
We ordered online.
It's, like, $10.
Ten dollars?
For $10,
you're lucky you get a towel.
Does she know all about your...
your ancient days?
Rebecca, Brenda, eh, Barbara?
We're about to meet a couple
of old friends of mine
that have heard about Carolina
but have never met her.
I'm excited to show her off.
I'm also very nervous
that they might put ideas
in Carolina's head.
I think they're comin'.
Kinda dorky.
Dude.
How you doin'?
Hi.
Oh, let me introduce you.
How are you?
That's Monica.
Nice to meet you.
Carolina.
I've spent so many years, uh,
bashing my friends
for being married.
So I'm worried my friends
will tell Carolina how much
I've enjoyed being single.
And it would just add
to her jealousy.
Glen and Monica
and my friend, uh, Louis,
is coming, too.
We all went to the same
high school.
How was Fernando before me?
Um...
Definitely this situation,
I wouldn't imagine.
That... I thought you
were gonna be like, you know,
one of these guys
that, you know, turned 60
and, you know...
Yeah, I guess maybe some people
had the perception
I would never...
never get married.
Yes.
Yeah.
Hey, what's up?
Hi. How are you?
Buddy. Hi. How are you?
I'm Louis.
Carolina.
So, Carolina,
how are you liking Miami?
Oh, it's beautiful.
Beautiful?
Yeah.
So it's, uh, it's been
a long road for you, buddy,
to get to this point, you know?
I'm... I'm still kind
of shocked, man.
Right.
Right, because obviously,
the first thing that goes
through your mind is,
you know, 20s, 40, you know...
If you're, like,
if you're too young?
Oh.
You did not go there.
You did not go there.
I had a lot of concerns
for Fernando.
She is a young person,
much younger than him.
And she's going to kind
of have her own agenda.
You're really ready
to settle down, right, for real?
This is for real, right?
Yeah.
I wouldn't have done this if,
uh, if...
if I wasn't ready
to settle down.
I'm definitely ready
to settle down.
But does she know
that she has to tame you?
I know.
Yeah.
Uh, does she know
all about your...
your ancient days and all that?
No.
No, she doesn't know.
Tell you?
Rebecca, Brenda, eh, Barbara.
Is a divorce not a failure?
Yes?
Okay, I did... I did...
It's true.
It's true.
Okay, it's true, right?
Yes, I've been married before.
I've had
quite a few girlfriends.
But it's been a long time.
And, uh, I hope my friends
can understand that I've changed
and that I've changed
for the better because
I wanna be with Carolina.
Yeah, this is New York City.
Whoa, cool.
Pretty big, huh?
Nikki and I have unresolved
issues at this point.
I know that I
don't wanna lose her.
We gotta have more fun
than this.
So today, we're going bridal
shopping in New York City.
Look happy.
I made my commitment, zip tie.
I love the simplicity
of a wedding dress under $10.
But I think she should have a
choice of getting a bridal gown
if that's what she would like.
So if you find a dress you like,
I'm not gonna say, "no."
But if you want
me to see somethin'...
I'll just call you.
Have fun.
Hi, how are you?
Good.
Please, come on in.
So tell me, have you... have you
looked around at dresses at all?
Well, actually,
um, we ordered online.
Okay.
And it's like $10.
Ten dollars?
Yeah, mm-hmm.
Wow.
Okay.
For $10 you're lucky
you get a towel.
When Nikki told me,
I almost fainted.
I can't even believe that you
can get a $10 wedding dress.
I'm gonna show you
some true bridal dresses
that'll make you feel elegant
and like a true bride.
Hope so.
Not like a...
not like a $10 dress.
Let's try this one.
What's beautiful about this
is that, after the ceremony,
skirt snaps off and then,
poof, a mini-dress.
Now you're ready
for dancing on the beach.
How old are you, my love?
Um, I'm 19.
Oh, you're 19, okay.
How old is your fiancé?
Um, he's 58.
He's 58.
Well, he's a very lucky man.
I must tell you that.
Okay, here we go.
Look straight ahead
in the mirror.
Open up the bottom so we can see
the beautiful shape.
It's got beautiful,
beautiful detailing on it.
And then it's got
the corset top.
Oh, yeah.
It is truly, truly gorgeous.
You're ready to walk
out the door and get married.
How you feel?
I feel beautiful.
Good, you are beautiful.
You love it?
How much does this dress cost?
This dress costs $2,300.
Oh, wow.
But it's worth every,
every penny.
So should we tell mark you
found a dress that you loved?
Yeah.
Mm-kay.
Let's call mark.
I worry mark might say no.
Hello?
Hi.
You want me to come up?
Yes, because I
found a dress I really love.
Okay, I'll be up in a minute.
But I wanna see if
he's serious buying the dress.
Uh-oh, I feel... I feel scared.
In Russia, we don't have this
bridal shower.
I never know.
You're not gonna
hook up with him
just so you can get a free pass
to America, are ya?
Come on, dude.
Oh.
Here's the pizza
for the bachelor's party,
go ahead and eat it.
We've been really busy
planning for the wedding.
So I haven't had, really,
time just to have fun.
Heavenly father,
we're thankful for this food
and for the opportunity
to enjoy each other's company.
The typical mormon bachelor
party is usually like,
the men go hide while the girls
have the bridal shower.
Were you living at home
with you family?
No, I was in Czech Republic.
Oh.
Yeah.
And so the girls have the fun.
They have, like,
this nice party.
And the men are just, like,
eating pizza, watching a movie.
Everyone, we're gonna
do presents, now.
So they're gonna
start bringin' 'em down.
In Russia, we don't have this
bridal shower.
Oh.
I gave aleksandra
a bridal shower gift
of a little, pink nightgown.
The color is so cute, thank you.
It's going to make
their bridal night wonderful.
That was a lot.
I can't believe
that my wedding is tomorrow.
I'm still wondering if I'm ready
for all these changes.
So I hope that everything
will be better than we think.
We can imagine.
You seem like a very sweet girl.
I'm finally seeing my mom
after 10 years.
I think last time I was here,
that house was not there.
Probably not.
I'm feeling uncomfortable
about the situation.
And I'm worried
about what noon is thinking.
Is better?
No, I can step through.
Okay.
It's gonna rain, today, huh?
Yeah, it's lookin' that way.
Hey, noon.
Yes?
I gotta show her
some of your baby pictures.
You were an adorable kid,
and you still are.
He handsome.
Well, I know that.
I gave birth to him.
You're here 'cause you love him,
don't ya?
Yeah, I love him.
Very much?
Yes.
Are you in for the long haul?
Yes, yes.
Forever, yeah.
You're not gonna
hook up with him
just so you can get a free pass
to America, are ya?
And they just came
just to get citizenship.
No.
No? You better be
straight with me.
So, now, I know.
So...
After 10 years, you know,
you see your mom.
And she says she's excited
and happy to see you
but can't control herself.
It was very disappointing.
I'm a little sad about he
did not tell me everything.
Mark said if I like the dress,
he won't say no.
This is your beautiful fiancée
in the dress.
So you like the dress?
I do.
I'm, like, scared.
I feel, like,
fear that that's it.
We're done.
And if you can't trust
each other, then frankly,
you probably
shouldn't be together.
I know.
That's what worries me.
I feel scared.
Mark said, if I like the dress,
he won't say no.
I don't know 'cause the price.
Hey, how are you?
Hi, your beautiful fiancée
has found a dress
that she's fallen in love with.
Uh-oh.
Am I supposed to see it?
Yes, it's okay.
And this is your beautiful
fiancée in the dress.
So you like the dress?
Say yes.
I do.
Are you still planning
a wedding in Hawaii?
Yeah.
Yeah.
So this, you think, will work?
This is perfect for Hawaii.
But she wanted a barefoot
wedding, uh, you know.
Well, this can be bustled up.
So nothing would drag
on the floor.
It's a beach.
So how... how... how much...
how much is it gonna set
me back?
The dress is only $2,300.
It's $2,300.
You know, you don't wear
a wedding dress a lifetime.
You know, at best,
she will wear it 15 minutes.
It's a once in a lifetime
opportunity for a girl
to get married.
Yeah, we don't have guests.
So basically, it's for her.
I was hoping he'd have
that reaction like,
"oh, gosh, you're so beautiful
in that dress."
Like that.
Is that okay?
What is there to decide?
He's happy.
You're happy.
She... she says she wants
to think about it.
You feel you need to think
about it a lot?
Okay, you think it over.
I'm a little concerned that,
maybe, she's not sure if she
wants to marry him or not.
Um, I think,
if you're in love with somebody,
there's a certain feeling
that you have.
And I'm not getting those vibes
from Nikki.
I think she seems that she still
has a lot to think about.
Nikki, you're gonna
make a beautiful bride
no matter what you wear.
Our trip to New York,
Nikki, was it exhausting?
It was fun.
I just want mark to prove
how special I am for him.
If he doesn't show love,
I have to go back
to Philippines.
Hey.
What's up?
Hey.
Loren's bachelorette party
was last night.
She's not home yet.
And, eh,
she did go to a strip club.
I'm very pissed at her.
What's goin' on?
I don't know.
She... she's having fun,
I guess.
Had some fun.
Yeah.
Well, I spoke to loren.
She said that it was...
it was absolutely innocent.
So...
It's a strip club.
How innocent can be?
I... I... I just... I just think
that... I think both of you,
at this point,
need to calm down and talk.
I don't know how to
talk it out, actually.
Don't know where we are
at this point 'cause
that's the only thing
I asked her not to do,
she just did something
that I asked her not to do.
And, yeah, it makes me feel
like there is a trust issue
about that.
Scared, I feel,
like, fear that that's it.
We're done.
I... I do think you two
both have to learn how to,
you know, just move on.
I mean, the... the... things...
things can happen.
I don't know
how to move on right now.
I need some...
I don't know what to do.
I was, like, freaking out.
I was about to just...
I understand your concern.
I understand your concern
about what have happened.
I understand your concern
that you asked her not to.
And they told me
they're not going to.
Well, I don't think
she really knew.
Yeah, but she... she told me,
if anything, I won't do it.
Anything bad happens...
Well, I don't know...
I don't know what she did,
to be honest with you.
Me neither.
That's what scares me even more.
You guys need to talk.
If you have any reservations
till the second you say,
"I do," you can say, "I don't."
I don't know how to...
I don't really wanna talk
to her right now
or see her or anything.
So...
If you can't trust each other,
then frankly, you probably
shouldn't be together.
I know.
That's what worries me.
But you need to do
some serious thinking.
You need to do it quickly.
They have to decide, are they
gonna forward with this?
Do they love each other enough
to go forward with this or not?
Next time on "90 day fiancé"...
Bev is very protective of me.
As of right now,
I do not trust devar.
It will become my issue
when he hurts you.
He's not gonna hurt me.
We'll be fine.
It's the big day today.
Despite everything, I would love
for my mom
to make it to our wedding.
It's my house, my cars,
my business, my retirement.
Sign the prenup,
and we go forward.
I still can't believe that I'm
getting married so soon.
I just have these doubts
that I'm still too young.
Do you feel ready?
I asked you not to go
to a strip club, and you did.
Oh, my...
I looked at going back home.
Are we still getting married
in 3 weeks?
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