¶¶
- Hey, Josh.
- I'm almost ready.
- Nice.
- Can you hold my suit?
- Yep, I'll hold it for you.
That's a nice suit.
Today's the wedding day,
and I'm super stressed
for the wedding.
But I'm super excited to marry
the love of my life, aleksandra,
and be with her forever.
You're nervous?
I'm just worried
about all the things
that could go wrong...
In the planning.
Do you have any worries about
anything afterwards
and the wedding night?
¶¶
The rules for mormons, um,
are pretty simple.
We don't believe
in premarital sex.
Mostly, like,
the most important thing
is just to be relaxed
and enjoy it and...
Sex is something special that
we're supposed to wait for,
and...
And that we're supposed
to, like, prepare ourselves for.
There's no guidelines
or anything
to say you're 100% ready, but...
But you love aleksandra
and ready to be
committed to her.
Yeah, no doubts about her.
¶¶
It's my wedding day, and I'm
feeling a little bit nervous.
But at same time excited
because this day
is very special for us.
I still can't believe that
I'm getting married so soon.
I'm 21, and I still feel
too young to have a husband.
¶¶
The 90 days is almost up,
and life has been a bit hectic
with Nikki.
Are we going to be fighting
with each other?
It won't happen again.
I'll try to control my emotions.
Well... and my ex-wife
also said that.
And I don't know that I want
to repeat this situation.
I have a lot of faith in Nikki,
but I have to remember my past,
and I need assurance
that it won't happen again.
It's been
a very fast-paced 90 days.
Mm-hmm.
And before we met,
I said that I couldn't go into
a relationship without a prenup.
My ex-wife, when she left,
I woke up alone
with four kids in diapers,
and next I'm looking
at attorneys
going after everything,
and I-I don't wanna repeat
that process.
Prenups, basically, are...
Pieces of paper that
are written in happy times,
worried about
terrible times ahead.
Kind of an insurance policy.
But anyway, in this document,
the prenup,
basically you're saying that
what property I had before
we get married is my property,
and what property you have
before we're married
is your property.
- I just don't want
really think...
-if...
don't want to think
about divorce.
If we get divorced...
it... but if it will happen
in future, it will happen.
- But if not, it's not!
- But still...
just need two people
to work it out!
Mm-hmm, right.
¶¶
Right.
But people change.
Crazy thing is,
I trusted my ex-wife.
When she was here
on her k-1,
I would've trusted her
with my life.
So for a prenup to be legal,
um, there's a stipulation
that you need
independent legal counsel.
You need to have an attorney,
um, explain it to you
and... and tell you situations
where you, by signing this,
you give up certain rights.
Okay.
So we'll need to make
that appointment.
- Do you understand?
- Yeah.
Nikki agreed on our first date
to the concept of prenup.
If Nikki doesn't sign it,
it's a deal-breaker.
I need a... I need
a signed prenup or I...
I would be a fool to go forward.
¶¶
This past weekend was
my bachelorette party.
And my sister Becca
and my best friend Sarah
took me to a strip club,
even though
Alexi was against it,
and he is pissed.
Hello?
I woke up to a text this morning
from Alex,
saying that he was gonna
be out for the day.
He can't avoid this anymore.
Like, we really need
to talk about this.
How are you, ladies?
- What's going on?
- Hmm, nothing.
We went to a strip club.
It was interesting.
- Mm-hmm?
- Alexi found out.
When I got there,
I wasn't gonna tell him.
What do you...
what do you mean he found out?
It... was it supposed to be
a secret?
Yeah, but he found out.
- He texted me and he was like,
"are you at a strip club?"
He's mad that I went
into the strip club
and chose to not go away
from it.
Your girls planned
your bachelorette weekend...
- Right.
- And you knew nothing
about it.
I tried talking to him.
He was like, "I don't even
want to see you."
Let's really look at
the reality here.
And I don't want any wisecracks.
There is a problem.
- I'm not happy right now
because...
-what did I do?
Because everything your father
and I said from the beginning
is now happening.
For people who have
this long-distance relationship,
whether you Skype
and sleep together
every night on Skype,
now you're with each other 24/7.
And then you leave him to go out
with your girlfriends,
and he's like,
"oh, great. Now what?"
If it's a mistrust
or lack of trust,
that's a whole different issue.
Well, then this is something
that I need to discuss with him.
Right, so don't tell me
he won't talk to you,
'cause then
that's another problem.
- He won't talk to me.
- That's a problem.
- He...
-how are you gonna go into
a relationship,
that he won't even
talk to you...
- He probably just needs...
- When there's a problem?
Here... he's not even here
and wants nothing to do
with you.
That's a huge problem.
¶¶
The two of you better
get your act together quickly,
and either you're having
a wedding or you're not.
- don't take it out on me!
Like, that's not fair!
-Oh, really?
I am watching all of this
going on,
and I'm telling you
there is a problem here.
And unless you and Alex fix it,
it's not gonna work.
We will! But it's still fresh.
He's angry.
Well, if you think we're gonna
continue on with this wedding
when you don't even know
what the two of you are doing...
what do you know?!
You and daddy are miserable!
- We're miserable?
- You're miserable!
Go yourself.
We're married 31 years!
We're miserable.
You are not half as happy
as Alexi and I are!
Oh, I can see that.
What did I do?!
I had a bachelorette party!
You can't stay out of things!
You don't know how to!
You know what? You need to go.
You need to go somewhere.
They have to work this out.
Either they're getting married
or they're not.
There... there's no time.
As of right now,
I do not trust devar.
Oh, it will become my issue
when he hurts you.
He's not gonna hurt me.
This document is like
a dagger in your back,
from my perspective.
This is a piece of garbage.
You can't sign this.
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Oh, nice. Look at you.
Need a little bit of help
with this stuff.
I'll give you a hand.
It's actually
the day of the wedding.
It's astonished.
I can't really believe.
Like, 90 days actually flew by
so quickly.
- Yeah.
- Are you sure?
The tie looks nice.
It's nice to have, like,
devar here.
He just tied my vest.
Sweet.
Devar being my stepdad...
that's gonna be cool.
Mm-hmm.
- Ready?
- Yeah.
Okay, let's go.
¶¶
So the wedding day
is finally here.
I'm a little queasy.
Now I'm here getting
my hair done and my makeup.
- Is devar allowed to text me?
- No.
He's not even allowed to text?
- No.
- Put your phone away.
- Why not?
- Yeah, why not?
This relationship is over
until 3:00 P.M.
I have four bridesmaids,
and they are Erin,
who is my maid of honor,
krista, jet, and my sister bev.
Bev, are you getting curls?
Holy hell.
It's hot in here.
-Aw, hell, no.
When my sister met devar,
she had a lot of apprehensions
about him.
How does she know that you're
not sleeping with women
every other day?
Bev is very protective of me
because I'm the baby.
I asked her to be
in the wedding,
and she was agreeable to it.
- So are you nervous?
- No, I'm ready. I'm good.
Yeah, well, that's good.
You're in love, you're in love.
It's all that matters,
is your happiness.
And it doesn't matter what
anyone else says or thinks.
- You know it, sister.
- Yep.
Oh, it will become my issue
when he hurts you.
He's not gonna hurt me.
We'll be fine.
You never know, though.
As of right now,
I do not trust devar.
Um, I've researched
on the Internet of Jamaicans,
um, hooking up with white women.
They're only here to get money
to send back
to the family that
he already has in Jamaica.
Um, so it's just gonna be like,
uh, watch and learn
and, um, just to see
where it goes.
I do wanna support you.
And... I wish you well.
I-I-I'm gonna start to cry.
- don't you start crying.
You're not allowed to cry.
-I know,
but I'm just thinking about,
like, everything. Like...
You'll be all right, Mel.
Start crying and I don't
know why.
Well, at least you don't have
your makeup on yet.
Oh, my god. I've never
seen her emotional.
- She's crying!
- Aw!
- Tissue!
Oh, my god.
I can't believe we're actually
getting married today.
So those are actually
happy tears.
The best case scenario for
Melanie and devar's wedding
is that they live
happily ever after.
The worst case scenario is that
the whole thing goes sour.
Mel is left heartbroken,
with no money.
And...
It's okay if that happens,
because us as a family,
we will bring her back
and we will pick her up
and we will move forward.
Cheers!
¶¶
Today is the big day,
and I couldn't be more excited
to finally get married to noon.
The last 90 days
haven't been easy.
Noon really wanted to meet
my parents,
so I took her to Minnesota
to meet my mom,
which turned out to be
a big disaster.
You're not gonna
hook up with him
just so you can get a free pass
to America, are ya?
¶¶
- No.
- Nope?
- No.
-You better be...
Straight with me.
Despite everything that happened
in Minnesota,
I love my mom
and I would love for her
to make it to our wedding.
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Noon is getting ready
at the temple.
We're having a semi-traditional
thai Buddhist wedding.
We're doing it because
it's important to noon.
I want her to feel at home here.
¶¶
Today is my wedding day,
and I feel nervous and excited.
It's gonna take noon
a while to get ready,
so now all I have to do
is stay calm
and wait for all the guests
to arrive.
¶¶
This is the biggest day
of my life so far,
and I really wish my mom
will show up.
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Whoo-hoo! Look at you.
Hi, Kenny.
- I'm glad you made it.
- Yeah.
So I guess she didn't come, huh?
All right.
I'm very glad that
my aunt and uncle came,
but my mom did not make it.
Unfortunately,
my sister didn't come.
So it was nice that we could
step in and be there for him.
I had your mom crying
on the phone yesterday,
telling her how proud I was
of you and...
It's a pretty big moment today.
I'm really hurt that my mom
couldn't be here with us.
But noon is my family now,
and she's what matters the most.
Now that I'm ready...
- Thank you so much.
- You're welcome.
Okay, let's go upstairs.
- I'm ready...
- To see my wife.
¶¶
Nikki needs independent counsel,
so she needs to see a lawyer
to go over the prenup,
and I'm hoping
that we're in agreement
and we can sign it
and move forward.
Do you want any water?
- Um, I'm good.
- Okay.
All right, Nikki,
so you are here
because your fiancé has prepared
a prenuptial agreement
that he wants you to review
and sign.
- Yeah.
- And how old are you?
Okay. And mark is...
How old?
He's 58.
This is a very unusual
age difference.
I gotta throw cold water on you.
So on the one hand, you're
entering into this partnership
where you're hopefully in love,
or you wouldn't be doing this.
And on the other hand,
this document is like
a dagger in your back,
from my perspective.
This is a piece of garbage.
It's horrible.
You can't sign this.
It's as one-sided
as it could possibly be.
And it's... Basically
leaving you with nothing.
That's not safe for you.
What happens
if you come home one day,
and he literally
changes the locks,
throws you out on the street,
cuts up your credit cards,
and you're literally walking
around the street?
Your name's not on the house.
You have no money.
You have no...
you have nothing.
What do you do?
Based on this,
not a whole hell of a lot.
The prenup is all about him,
not me.
It hurts.
You need to go back to him...
- Mm-hmm.
-And you need to tell him
you can't sign this
because it's so one-sided.
Otherwise, you're not
gonna get married.
I-I bet he'll agree to it.
I don't think so.
If he loves you enough, he will.
Lawyers are trained
to be skeptical,
and when there's
such a gap in age,
and then to present
such a one-sided
prenuptial agreement,
um, it raises
a level of concern for me.
And I hope she doesn't sign it.
You do this.
- Aah!
- Okay.
I asked you not to go
to a strip club, and you did.
I looked at going back home.
Are we still getting married?
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Carolina!
We're going now to clean
the bathroom.
Carolina, come here.
So you have to get this...
that inside the bathroom.
Okay.
It is important to me
Fernando's ma... mom to like me.
This is, uh, disinfectant.
Oh, my god.
I think you are doing it
like a... like a baby.
Why you clean like a baby?
Just so...
You do this.
Okay.
- Ay.
- Aah!
Um...
I don't know.
I hope everything will...
Okay,
but I don't know
what's gonna happen.
I really don't know
what's gonna happen.
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I just needed
to get out of there.
I have to clear my head.
I just really hope
that Alex comes back soon
because I need to figure out
if I'm still getting married.
Alex?
Yeah?
Hi.
How are you?
How are you?
So-so. How are you?
I'm exhausted.
Um...
I'm confused.
I'm not confused.
I wanna talk to you
about it, but...
- I mean...
- I don't wanna talk here.
You wanna step outside?
Okay.
Alex and I worked so hard
for him to come to America
so we can be together,
and because of this,
I'm petrified that
I'm about to lose him.
My body hurts.
My stomach is to shreds.
How do you think I felt?
I was walking circles all night.
I didn't sleep at all.
I feel like you...
you don't trust me,
and that's a...
that's a big problem
if we're getting married.
I didn't plan any of it.
I know you didn't plan
any of that.
I care about what you did.
But the fact is,
I was pushed by my friends.
I had no idea.
- Yeah, you knew.
- Did I go in? Yes, I went in.
I take responsibility for that.
But you would've done it, too.
It was my one night
to just have fun.
Two hours before you went there,
we had... we... we spoke,
and you said, "I will never do
anything to jeopardize it."
And I said, "yes. Okay. Good.
Don't go to strip club."
But I wouldn't!
You wouldn't, but you still did.
Why are you so angry at me?
Because I was
disrespected like that.
- I behaved myself because...
- good.
There are boundaries,
and I would never cross them.
Would you have been
more comfortable
if we went to a nightclub and...
yeah, I would. Yeah.
So you would be
more comfortable?
I was in a room with all women.
- All women.
- Yeah, but that's not the point.
- But nobody was talking to me
or hitting on me or anything.
-That's not the point, again.
- If I was at a nightclub...
- That's not the point.
With bottle service,
men would've tried to talk to me
and hit on me and drink with me.
- Right.
So you would've been okay
with that?
Yeah, because I didn't ask you
not to do that.
I asked you not to go
to a strip club, and you did.
Oh, my god. It was
my bachelorette party.
Oh, my god.
I looked at flights.
I looked at going back home.
You were willing to just pack up
and leave and go to Israel
because of this?
Yeah, I was thinking
about it. Yeah.
- Are you kidding me?
- No.
And throw everything
that we've been through
just down the drain?
I mean, are we still getting
married in three weeks?
Are we... are we still gonna
be together?
Like, I-I don't know.
I know I wanna marry you still.
I mean you need to figure out
if you wanna marry me.
¶¶
We are going to fight.
We are going to laugh.
We are going to cry together.
But I know I wanna
marry you still.
The thought of him getting on
a plane to go back to Israel,
it crushes my heart.
I mean, you need to figure out
if you wanna marry me.
¶¶
You know I love you
more than anything.
I know, baby.
You mean so much to me.
You know this! So I don't know
why I have to tell you this.
You know how much I love you
and care about you.
You're my best friend.
But I feel disrespected
and disappointed.
And I'm... I understand
all the circumstances
and everything.
And that's why I'm...
I didn't go away.
I'm sorry if you felt
that I disrespected you
or humiliated you in any way.
That's not the purpose of...
my bachelorette weekend
was for, at all.
Okay.
Hopefully we'll be okay.
What can you do now, right?
You either move on or you don't.
And... I choose
to move on, so...
Yes, I-I still wanna marry her.
I hope it will never get,
you know,
happen again or whatever
'cause...
I specifically asked her
not to do something,
and she just went and did it.
So are we still getting married?
Yeah.
That sounded... Confident.
We are. We are.
- You wanna marry me?
- Mm-hmm.
You sure? That's believable.
I wanna marry you.
Good.
Well...
Alexi decided to stay.
I'm just worried
that in the future,
if we get into fights,
he's gonna resort
to wanting to run back
to Israel.
I love loren,
but 90 days, it's not enough.
Relationships are not easy
to make work out,
and, uh, I wish we had
more time to do it.
¶¶
There we go.
Oh, beautiful.
But I know that
Josh loves me, and I love him.
¶¶
I'm so happy my parents
support our marriage now.
- You feel ready?
- Yeah. I can't wait already.
Shh.
¶¶
The k-1 visa is
a long, complicated process.
It's, like, a big struggle.
Seeing aleksandra
in her white wedding dress...
All the stress of, like,
the 90 days just melted away.
I know we can be with...
with each other forever.
¶¶
Dear friends...
¶¶
Whoo!
When Josh put his ring
on my finger, I'm happy!
Now we can live together,
and I just can give
all of myself to him.
Mr. and Mrs.
Josh and aleksandra strobel.
Josh is the right person.
I know that he will be
a great husband,
and he has a big heart.
Nyet.
So after the ceremony,
me and aleksandra are gonna do
our first dance.
I'm feeling kind of scared
to dance
with such a good dancer
like aleksandra.
I don't want to do a bad
first impression as a husband.
Whoo!
¶ Never thought
I could fall for you ¶
¶ but it looks like ¶
¶ I could be wrong ¶
and, um, I got a mormon.
¶ So far, s'good ¶
¶ so far, s'good ¶
¶ didn't think we... ¶
I think it's great.
They were smiling the whole time
and they were having
a wonderful time.
I think they're loving
being married.
And they dance so good together.
Yeah! Whoo!
Um...
I hope.
Yeah.
Whoo!
We just have to do
a very, very small wedding,
'cause your father and mother
won't be here.
Do you wanna talk about it?
It's my house, my cars,
my business, my retirement.
Sign the prenup,
and we go forward.
¶¶
There's a lot going on
for Carolina.
Between dealing with my mother,
the trust issues,
and being homesick,
it hasn't been easy for her
in the United States.
I wanted to toast to...
of our...
of our time in Miami.
I hope you stay.
Maybe.
Maybe? All right,
then maybe we shouldn't, uh...
Whoo! Whoo!
Uh, bachelorette party.
It says
"Mary's bachelorette party."
- Ah!
- You wanna have 'em do that?
You wanna put, uh,
everybody a shirt
and walk around Miami beach?
No?
You know, with time...
Hopefully you'll meet
some people.
I'm sure somebody will wanna...
you... you mean, like, somebody
will wanna help... help you?
Yeah.
We don't even know where
we're gonna do it.
And we can do, like,
a big wedding like you wanted,
or we just have to do
a very, very small wedding
because your father and mother,
um, not here. Won't be here.
Carolina has a hard time
when I talk to her
about her parents
not attending the wedding.
So it's, um,
it's a touchy subject with her.
¶¶
Do you want another drink?
You haven't touched the food.
You don't want to try it?
- You're no longer hungry?
- No.
Do you wanna talk about it?
Why you're upset?
Well...
I think it's a lot for someone
to make such a drastic change,
uh, regardless of how much
she loves me
or how much she wants
to be with me,
it's a lot to do in... in such
a short period of time.
And... Oh.
Everything that's going on
could be too much or Carolina,
and, uh, she might wanna
go home.
¶¶
I'm hoping if I talk to mark,
he will change his mind,
'cause I really don't know
what to do.
Oh.
So what did the attorney say?
And he said what's
in this paper looks like
all... all for you,
none for me.
He's wrong.
It's a 2-way agreement.
The income that you make
is yours,
and the income
that I make is mine.
And if you get a job
and you make money, it's yours.
If you are discovered
as the next top model
and you make millions
and millions of dollars
and you decide to leave me,
I don't get any of that.
This is protecting from,
like, yourself from me.
It's my house, my boats,
my cars, my business,
my retirement.
You have no right to that.
No? Nothing?
Well, I'm providing a roof
over your head.
I'm protecting you,
sheltering you,
and that comes out of my money.
That's my promise to you.
With my ex-wife,
I didn't have a choice.
You know, the rug was pulled
right out from under me.
And then I had lawyers trying
to figure out, um,
what part of me
they were going to get.
There's a whole encyclopedia set
of paper in there
of my divorce.
It k*lled me, and I don't ever
wanna be there again.
Never.
I don't want big, dark clouds
in our future.
Sign the prenup...
And, you know, we...
we go forward.
¶¶
I don't want big, dark clouds
in our future.
Sign the prenup...
And, you know, we...
we go forward.
So that's where you would sign.
- You have to sign the prenup.
-So what if I don't sign
the prenup... Thing?
Then... then we'll have to
just cherish
the moments
that we spend together,
and then, unfortunately,
you have to go home.
You really can't accept I'm not
going to sign this prenup
and just continue the...
continue this thing?
- Continue the...
-well, there would be
a trust issue, then,
because you agreed
on our first date
to accept the prenup,
and we talked about...
yeah, you told me
at the first date,
"you're going to have
a prenup."
But that time,
I don't know what is prenup.
Well, I explained it to you.
And so you...
you see...
There's also, like,
a trust issue
for this prenup thing for me.
I understand. I understand.
And... and I'm saying we should
get it over with, bury it,
and get on with life.
Why can't you just trust me?
I need a signature,
or we won't be married, Nikki.
It's that simple.
He said if I'm not going
to sign a prenup,
I have to go back
to Philippines.
¶¶
I don't really have a choice.
So you understand the agreement?
You're giving up your right,
should you leave me,
for my... my property,
my income,
um, support, and alimony.
You understand that.
- Yeah.
- All right.
¶¶
Well, that's done.
It's a relief.
I love Nikki and I wish to spend
my life with her.
And the fact that we can
bury the prenup
and get on with life is...
is a relief to me.
¶¶
Today we get married.
I'm waiting here for noon,
and I feel butterflies
in my stomach.
I know any minute, I'm gonna see
the love of my life
walk through those doors.
¶¶
I'm okay.
You are so beautiful.
I'm so happy to have missy
and Kenny in... in our wedding.
But Kyle's sad because his mom
cannot make it, cannot come.
I love your dress.
You want to wear this?
S...
uh... No, I'm good.
Ready to do this.
My mom did not make it.
But I'm marrying
the love of my life,
and she's the best thing
that's ever happened to me.
¶¶
And this one?
Yes.
I have no idea what goes on
in a thai wedding.
I figured I would just show up,
and we would work it all out.
We have something on our face,
like the mask in here.
That just mean, like,
we... we are married.
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Exchanging rings made it feel
very real.
Thank you, all, for enjoying...
for coming on the best day
of our lives.
Thank you so much for coming.
Now we got married.
Kyle is my husband.
I never call someone "husband"
before,
so that is, like,
a little bit weird,
but it's good.
Over the last 90 days,
I feel like I've grown up a lot.
I feel like...
I wanna better myself
just so that I can give noon
the perfect life.
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I'll always be there for you.
You know that?
Yeah, I know.
Okay. I'm okay with that.
Here's to you guys.
Noon, I love you more
than anything ever.
Same.
I'm so happy today because...
- You are home.
- Yeah, I know.
With me.
Ohh!
I'm nervous, and I'm just hoping
that everything goes as planned.
I've given her a bunch
of reasons not to marry me,
and yet she wants to do it.
And hopefully she's right,
that I am the right one for her.
I don't know what is
going on with me.
It's difficult to describe.
Living with somebody
just for 90 days...
Whew!
Is not really enough to...
to know the person.
I feel kinda confused.
You okay?
I'm okay.
Well, 40 minutes late.
You know, um, maybe I'm gettin'
a little anxious.
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