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04x01 - For Your Eyes Only

Episode transcripts for the TV show, "90 Day Fiancé". Aired: January 12, 2014 – present.*
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Show is based on the K-1 visa process.

04x01 - For Your Eyes Only

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Oh, wow.

We met online.

I seen her a picture of her,
and I just fell in love.

Me and azan have never
actually met in person.

I'm going to Morocco
to meet him.

Where is Morocco?

I was catfished
by my own fianc,

but I want to marry him
anyway.

Yeah.

Now I'm very nervous.

Very nervous.

Oh, my god.
Oh, my god.

Pedro!

I come into United States.

So excited.
I'm full of new emotion.

She put a ring in it.

I did.
She did.

Oh, I'm scared.

I spent about $70,000
since we've been dating.

That girl
just wants her sugar daddy.

She's just marrying you
for your money.

Pedro is coming
to marry me,

and my parents have no idea.

There's something
going on.

We have 90 days
to get married

or alla
has to go back to the Ukraine.

Please, please.
Stop.

Just make sure
you come home to us.

Nicole is very naive.

She has no idea
what she could be getting
into.

There are monsters out there.

Not only do I get
my fiance, I get Max.

I'm a little nervous because
his family is polygamous.

You should not
marry him.

She's a little brat.

She cares about money
more than our relationship.

She erased my phone.

You don't know where
you're gonna find love.

Why limit yourself?

But I think
he has a hard time showing it.

go get the ball.

I'm Nicole, I'm 22,
I live in bradenton, Florida,

and I have a 2-year-old
daughter named may.

Boom.

Go get it!

I was actually in high school
when I met may's dad.

We started talking
through the Internet,

and then the year
that I graduated

and turned 18, I moved to
Texas
to be with him.

Get your ball.

We winded up getting pregnant,

and I guess he just
kind of decided,

you know, he was
too young for this,

and so I packed my stuff,
and I went back home.

Having a young child,
it was hard dating.

Did the whole, like,
online thing again.

A lot of guys, you know,

around here
don't really want to be

with someone
who has a kid.

Whee!

But six months ago,
I got a message,

and my whole life changed.

When me and azan
first started talking online,

it wasn't just like,
"hey, girl."

It was like,
"hey, my name is azan.

I'd like to get to know you."

He is tall, dark, and
handsome.

He got that --

that personal-trainer body,

and he's just...
Really hot.

Say "whee!"

When azan first messaged me,

his initials for where
he lived where m.O.,

and I found
out it was Morocco.

I was like, "where is
Morocco?!"

I looked it up, and I was
like,
"Africa? Really? That's
crazy."

Me and azan have never
actually met in person,

but we just have
this connection,

like, I've never felt before.

We started talking about
marriage probably...

Hmm, three weeks in.

He has sent me a message
that said, "will you marry
me?"

With a little ring emoji,
and I was like,

"yes, I definitely want
to marry you, you know."

Here.
Sit here.

In order to apply
for a k-1 visa,

you actually have to have
evidence of a relationship,

and you actually have to meet
for the first time.

So, I'm going over there

so he can get the visa
to come over here.

Hey.

I'm fine.

Are you excited that
I'm leaving tomorrow?

Yeah.

Do you want to say
hi to may?

And I'm gonna miss --

hi. Say hi!

Oh, my gosh.
I'm gonna miss her.

I'm not bringing may
with me to Morocco.

She'll be staying with
my sister while I'm gone.

Five weeks will be a lot.

It's gonna be really
hard and intense.

I've only been away
from may for --

the longest time
I think was three days.

I really can't wait
to see you.

I love you.

See.

Just the thought to be his
wife
just sounds so exciting,

and I know this trip
is gonna be amazing.

I can't wait to start
the 90 days with him.

Come here. Rah!
I'm gonna miss you!

Y'all ready?



My name is Chantel,
I'm 25 years old,

and I'm from Atlanta, Georgia.



I've been a cheerleader
since I was 4 years old.

I do teach cheerleaders,
and they are so cute.

...7, 8.

Yeah!
Whoo!

I live at home
with my mom, my dad,

my sister, and my brother.

My dad coaches basketball,

and my mom's
a cheerleading coach.

Do it once more, then they
have
to come down and cheer.

Okay.

My family is so close-knit.

Sharp points.
Sharp points.

There's just no privacy.

Right now I'm at
a community college

pursuing my bachelor's
degree in nursing.

I was interested
in learning Spanish,

and I had a friend
introduce me to Pedro.

Hello.

Hello.
Hello?

He's from
the Dominican Republic.

The idea was for me
to learn Spanish

and for Pedro to learn
English.

But when I first saw him
online,

I was attracted to him
right away.

So, I decided to visit him
in the Dominican Republic.

I thought that I was just
gonna
have a little fun on vacation.

But we fell in love.

Whoo!

And on the third trip,
he proposed.

Pedro has the perfect body.

He has a nice smile.

He's just -- just --
mnh -- I don't know.

I don't know.
I love me some Pedro.

He's just -- he's hot.

In the past,
I had some relationships

that just were not that great

because I think that Americans

don't really treat me the way
I want to be treated,

but Pedro definitely
is a breath of fresh air.

He treats me like a princess.

I was really hoping
that we could live together

in the United States,

and the best and fastest
option
was the k-1 visa.

Pedro's arriving here
in just a few days.

I can't wait.

Are you ready?

Yes.

Because you have to
learn English.

My parents know that Pedro
and I
are gonna be living together,

but they don't know that...
We're actually engaged.

They think that Pedro's
coming here on a student visa,

not a k-1 visa, because, I
mean,
with the k-1 visa,

we have 90 days to get
married.

If my parents knew that Pedro
was coming here on fianc visa,

they would flip.

I love you, too.
Mwah.

Mwah.

She wants a chanel
purse -- close to $10,000.

Oh, she'll be so happy.

She's being a little brat.

Are you worried?
Are you scared?

I've been married
three times before,

and I'm ready to get up there
the fourth time.

My name's Jorge,
I'm 26 years old,

and I'm from los Angeles,
California.

I'm an entrepreneur in
the medical marijuana
industry,

growing and providing
medicine to patients.

Oh, hey, Jorge.
How you doing?

Just got to grab
a couple things real quick.

Growing marijuana always been

sort of like
an art form to me.

I also provide packaging
of medical herb.

I've designed a bag
to block out U.V. rays

and keep it more potent
for a longer time.

It allows me to have
a six-figure income

without having a 9-to-5.

But when marijuana becomes
legal

for recreational purposes,

my business could potentially
grow into the millions.

Stocking up
for the weekend.

Pretty good.
Changes things up on this one.

Got the d.U.
In there.

It sounds real good.

My past relationships
were terrible.

A lot of the American women
are feminist.

And from the way
I was brought up,

a woman should
depend on a man

but not try to compete.

I pretty much gave up
on finding true love

until I found anfisa.

My fiance anfisa is


She's from moscow, Russia.

We met on Facebook.

I seen a picture of her
and I just fell in love.

I didn't get anything back
for,

you know, the first 10
messages

that I sent to her till
finally

I just said something funny,
and she responded.

And then about four months in,

she was gonna be
studying in Spain,

so I decided that that was
the perfect time to meet her.

And when I pulled up
to the place,

I just couldn't believe my
eyes.

Like, this gorgeous
supermodel woman

just standing in front of me,
ready to go on a date with me.

We've pretty much traveled
all over the world.

We've got to Barcelona,
Paris, France, Italy.

Our last trip was
to the canary islands.

Usually, initial reaction
when I show pictures

of anfisa is like,

"what is a girl
like that doing with you?"

It makes me feel pretty lucky,
pretty fortunate.

So, I told her
that I wanted to spend

the rest of my life with her
and that I wanted to marry
her.

She said yes, and everything's
been perfect ever since.

Except arguments.
But, um...

That just comes
with the territory.

We've spent about a month
of physical time together.

Our k-1 visa just got
approved,

and I'm leaving
for Russia in three days

to finally bring anfisa home.

But right now, we're in
a little bit of a situation.

She's being a little brat.

She wants a chanel purse,

and it's close to $10,000.

And I just --
I told her I want to be able

to save more money for,
you know, what's to come.

Instead of the purse,
I might get her some jewelry.

Yeah, I'm looking
for a gift for my fiance.

Oh, wow.
Won't you come with me?

I have another room in here
where we have all,

like, our
higher-end jewelry.

What's her favorite color?
Uh, she likes red.

Yeah, there's this one.
This is really cute.

Yeah, this one's nice.

Yeah, I think I spoil her.

I've bought her
a lot of stuff --

jewelry, Tiffany, Louis
vuitton,

two iPhones already,
and a bunch of clothes.

So, are you engaged
or are you --

not officially,
but we've pretty much

already started planning
for, you know --

the wedding?
Yeah.

And where
are getting married?

She's from Russia.
Oh, wow.

So, I have to go
pick her up and come back.

Wow.
Yeah.

That's interesting.

And she hasn't been
in America before?

No, never.

Oh, she'll be so happy...
Yeah, I think so.

...whatever you give her.

I'm a little worried
that anfisa's gonna be

a little unsatisfied
with what I bring.

Hopefully,
she's just glad to see me.

Thank you so much.
Thank you so much.

And good luck
with everything.

Thank you.

About $70,000
since we've been dating.

It's gonna be a big step
when anfisa finally gets here.

There's gonna be a lot

that we're gonna learn
for each other.

There's a few things that
anfisa doesn't know about me,

and I'm afraid to tell her.

I'm hoping that it
doesn't affect our future,

because, eventually,
she's gonna find out.

Good afternoon. It's Matt
at northern Kentucky auto
sales.

I'm Matt from williamstown,
Kentucky.

I'm 43 years old.

I run a car dealership.
It's a family business.

Wake up!
Time to get to work!

I get to work
with my niece, Stephanie,

a couple of
my long-term friends,

and with my brother,
who's not only a brother,

but he's an identical twin.

I have been unlucky with love.

That is for sure.

I have been married
three times before.

In the past,
I would go out on a date

and I would fall head
over heels,

and the next thing you know,
I'm getting married.

But I was cheated on in my
first
and third marriages.

So, if there's anybody
that understands

marrying the wrong person,
it would be me.

All the women my age, locally,
they're not interested in me

because I've got
too much baggage.

So, the best option for me
was going to eastern Europe,

and that's where I met alla.

Alla just --

she grabbed my heart from day


I met alla on a dating
website.
She's 30 years old.

She lives in Kiev, Ukraine,

with her son, Max, who is 7.

I went to Kiev, and I spent
a little over a week

with her and Max,

and by the end of that trip,

I knew that I really wanted
to be with her.

Next, we met in Rome,

and then we cruised around
the mediterranean for a week.

So, after that, I asked her
if she would marry me,

and she said yes.

We applied for a k-1 visa.

So, alla will be
moving here with Max.

And as soon as she gets here,
we have 90 days

until we either need
to get married

or alla has to go back
to the Ukraine.

That adventure will begin
tomorrow.

Oh, there she is.

Oh, hello, babe.

Hello.

Oh, it is nice
to see you.

I know.
But guess what?

I am gonna get to see you
in person tomorrow.

Ohh!

So, how is Max
taking it?

I think he does not realize
what is going on.

Not only
do I get my fiance,

but I get Max, her 7-year-old.

Hello!
Aww! Hello!

I enjoy kids, and I want
to have some kids of my own.

So, for me, it's a blessing.

But, of course,
if Max isn't happy,

that could present
a huge problem.

It could be --
it could be really bad.

So, your last night
in Kiev.

Are you worried?
Are you scared?

Yes, you did.

This will be the first time

that we're in vacation mode,

and I'm concerned about it

because she's from
the big city,

and I'm
this rural country guy.

So, the next 90 days

are gonna --

are gonna be --

they're gonna be telling.
That's for sure.

I mi you.
I miss you, too, babe.

But I will not be
missing you for long.

And then I will have you
every day to come home

and to give me a hug.

Oh!

Okay.

Well, goodbye, babe.
Mwah!

Bye-bye.

I'm ready to get up there
the fourth time and get
married.

But this 90-day situation,

it doesn't allow
any room for error.

Sometime, people will
use other people.

She does have me thinking

whether or not
he's really genuine.

Customs are so different
there,
and kids have gone over

to other countries
and wound up getting caned

because they did
something wrong.

Yeah. Okay.

Ugh! So heavy.

I'm finally moving out
of my parents' house

into an apartment with Pedro.

Da, da, da, da

I've never lived
with a guy before,

so it's going to be
the first time for both of us.

It's finally gonna
be here in two days.

So, me and Pedro
are gonna be able

to start
this amazing life together.

But the only thing is

I'm keeping this secret
from my parents,

that Pedro and I are engaged,

because I want for them
to really get to know Pedro

before I just drop this b*mb
that we're getting married.

I'm really excited
about you

moving into your new place.
It's awesome.

I want to be out
of the house for good,

and I don't want to come back.
You know what I mean?

We are really excited.
She's moving out!

Yes!

So, you're glad that
I'm moving out with Pedro?

Well...

I've never met Pedro,
but I've talked to him,

sort of, on the phone.

Obviously, he thinks
he's in love with Chantel.

He's really nervous
to meet y'all.

Right now it's time for you
to concentrate on

your studying
to become a nurse.

I really hope
that you will keep focused.

So, now you're gonna
tell me what to do.

Growing up, my parents always
had pretty high expectations,

so it only makes sense
that they would want me

to have the best career
and the best life.

I'm sure he has goals. I don't
know what they are, but --

he plans on being an aviator
mechanic after he learns...

English.
...English.

Can't understand
how he and Chantel

have that much in common.

It's a relief that
he's just in the U.S.

Until he's done studying,
which is good.

Well, what happens
when he's done with school?

Mm.
I don't know.

Like, he might want to go
back to the Dominican
Republic.

We don't really want you to
move
to the Dominican Republic.

Listen, I really hope that
he's
not going to come

lay on the sofa and twiddle
his toes playing video games.

Well, he needs to start
working really, really soon.

Because, sometime,
people will use other people.

Happens all the time.

But I don't think
Pedro's like that.

I would hate
to see that happen.

That would make daddy
very upset, too.

Okay.

I know that Pedro's
in love with me,

but she does have me putting
a little more thought to,

you know, whether or not
he's really genuine.

Okay, I really think that he
is.

I really believe that he is.

But there's always
that possibility.

Nobody wants to see you
hurt or used.

Okay.
Yes.

But...Okay.

Trust me on this.
don't do something stupid.

Okay.

Hey. You want
to go see papa?

Yeah.
Yeah?

Papa.
Papa?

Yeah.

Today is
the last dinner with my family

until I go to Morocco.

A lot of my family is here --

my mom, my dad, my stepmom,

and my stepdad
and my sister Ashley,

who's gonna be watching may,
and my youngest brother.

Hey!

Hey, may!
Hi, may!

I love
your hair, may.

Oh, what'd you do to her?

I didn't do anything!

You up in her business,

just like we all gonna
be up in yours.

Yeah.

Since I told my family
about the trip,

they've been very against it

and really want me to not go.

Dear god, we ask
that you bless this food

and just protect Nicole
on her trip to Morocco,

and that this guy isn't it
for whatever he's in it for --

that he actually
likes her and loves

and that he's going
to take of her.

In Jesus' name, amen.

Amen.

So, my parents
are divorced,

but they're both remarried,

and I actually have
two great stepparents

that are both opinionated.

But that just means that
I actually have two
stepparents

who really care about me.

Hey, you want a hot dog?

'Cause I don't know
if they have pork in Morocco.

Did you research?
On Morocco? No.

They have a lot
of pickpocketing, you know?

It's like right up there

in the top
for human trafficking.

Mm-hmm.

She's gonna be
in Morocco for five weeks.

I'm worried about
how safe she's gonna be.

There's warnings
to American tourists

and travelers
in that part of the world.

And it's
a Muslim country.

So?

You're joining
two families together

across continents.

Two completely
different families.

Any family is gonna be

two completely
different families,

even if you're from
the same religion.

Not this kind
of different, though.

This is like...
What kind of different?

You're switching completely
different nationalities...

And different
work ethics...

Religions.
...And religions,

and everything
is different.

Worst-case scenario is
she comes back in a body bag.

You want to go
with the best one?

Uh, no,
worst-case scenario is

she doesn't
come back at all --

no body bag, no nothing.

Customs are so
different there, Nicole.

You're not familiar
with a lot of the things

that they do
or don't do or...

So, what does that mean?
I don't know.

I mean, kids have gone over
to other countries

and wound up getting caned

because they did
something wrong,

you know, stuck in jail
because they --

yeah. Okay.

I believe Nicole has decided
to rush into this.

I feel like there's
a disconnect somewhere

where common sense
has been overridden

by the desire to be in love,
and that part worries me.

There are monsters
out there.

Is it worth it?
Is trying to find out if --

I wouldn't be going
if it wasn't worth it.

If this guy is the love
of your life,

trying to find to find out,
is it worth it?

No, I don't think
it is, honey.

If he's
the love of my life,

it's not worth it
trying to find out?

Not if what his
intentions are are wrong.

Quite frankly...

Nicole's
a beautiful girl,

but she's not the most
beautiful girl out there.

And azan looks like
he's a very handsome man,

and it's difficult
to understand,

with this variety of women
on the Internet, why Nicole?

If he's not
the man she thinks he is,

then her world could crumble
really quickly,

and she needs
to have a plan "b."

Just make sure
you come home to us.

I'll be back.
Everything will be okay.

I feel butterflies inside.
I just can't wait to see him,

and I can't wait
to see his reaction

when he sees me.

Right now I'm about
to meet up with my sister

and my niece to talk
over my situation

and me going to Russia
to bring my fiance back.

Oh, look who it is!

Oh, my gosh!
Hi, sis.

It's been forever.

I have five sisters,

so word travels
fast in my family.

But this is my first time

talking to lourdes
about being engaged.

So, how you guys been?

Good.
Busy.

That's good.
What about you?

Yes, we need answers.

I heard it through the
grapevine
that you were getting married.

And, you know, hearing that,

it's like, you know,
surprising.

Definitely.

Everyone is shocked,
to be honest.

Really?
So, I know you guys

know a little bit
about her from the grapevine.

She knows
more than I do.

I've only seen
pictures of her,

and her pictures
on Facebook look fake.

When I first saw
anfisa's picture,

I would never have any idea

that I would be able to date
a woman that pretty.

You know, the day
that I laid eyes on her

was like beyond anything

that I could have
ever dreamed of.

She's gorgeous.

I fell head over heels
for her.

And the whole thing with,
you know,

getting married so fast is
that
because she's from Russia,

the visa allows
for a 90-day process.

I must marry her
within that time frame

or she has to
go back to Russia.

I think that's too fast.

I think Jorge is
in love with her

because
she's beautiful,

but we don't know
her intentions.

So, what is her plan
when she comes out here?

It's gonna be
a huge change for her.

No, definitely.

But pretty much I think
it's gonna be the same thing.

You know,
she likes to stay home,

you know,
take care of her house.

And, you know,
on her free time,

she likes to go shopping
just like every other woman.

And are you gonna be
okay with that

for the rest
of your life?

I mean, you know,
at certain times,

I'm not gonna be able
to spend,

you know,
on high-end luxury items.

Like, she asked me
to buy her a chanel purse.

That argument
of not getting the purse,

you know, turned into
her giving me an attitude.

And, you know,
try to call her

'cause I'm gonna be leaving
to Russia pretty soon.

Just it's, like,
an annoying --

you don't see that
as a red flag?

We both have that fear

of the typical Russian
mail-order bride.

What does she really want
out of my uncle?

What is she really
coming out here for?

That girl just wants
to come here and just, you
know,

think that she has
her sugar daddy, you know?

She's just marrying you
for your money.

You know, it doesn't
happen like that.

You know, overall,
I think she's amazing.

Jorge has had
several girlfriends,

and they always end up
taking advantage of him

because he's kindhearted.

I think, "are you truly
in love with my brother?"

I guess we're having a hard
time
because we don't know her.

And, you know,
it's happening so fast.

You guys don't know her,
but I know her.

To a certain degree.

I respect their opinion,

but as of right now,

I'm not really concerned
of what anybody else thinks

because I know anfisa.

If this is what you want,
then, I mean, do it.

It will be
a lesson learned

if it doesn't go
the way you thought.

Pedro is sitting on a plane
right now

coming from
the Dominican Republic,

and I can't wait
for him to get here

and see our brand-new
apartment.

I think that's the best
I can do.

I feel butterflies inside.

I just can't wait to see him,

and I can't wait to see
his reaction when he sees me.

This looks good.

Pedro appreciates the fact

that I go the extra mile
to look good for him.

And I do put a lot of thought

into trying
to look nice for him.

Pedro is just the sweetest,
and he never lets me down.

But the k-1 visa is
bringing a lot of pressure

onto Pedro and I's
unique situation.

We only have 90 days
to make this work.

Can't wait for him to get
here.

I don't even know what I'm
gonna
do when I see him.

I don't know if I'm gonna be
able to contain my excitement.

His plane has landed,
but I don't see him.

Right now,
I'm feeling super anxious

and really nervous
that he's not on the plane.

Ugh.

I've been waiting for Pedro
to get here for so long,

and his plane has landed,

but right now I'm really
nervous
that he's not on the plane.

Hello, baby.
Baby.

No, baby. No.

Okay.
Adios.

Adios.

So, he doesn't have a plane
to get on, apparently.

I don't know if he missed
his plane or...

With the language barrier,

I don't really know
what's going on fully.

Tonight was supposed to be
the happiest night of my life,

and it now is going
to be the loneliest.

I am worried that I've created
this perfect, little world

that it's kind of become

a little bit like a fantasy.

So, I hope that
when Pedro gets here

that I haven't
just filled in the blanks

where they fit instead of
seeing
what's really there.

Well, it's 5:00 somewhere.

Actually, it's 5:41.

Phew.

I work at a car dealership

with a tight-knit group
of family and friends,

and it really
is pretty rewarding

because we get to talk
about business and life.

And with my fiance, alla,

arriving in
from the Ukraine tomorrow,

there sure is a lot
to talk about these days.

How many more bengals
home games are there, Matt?

One.

Do you have season tickets
for two people?

I'm planning
on taking her to the game.

Has she ever
been to a game?

Like, I know Ukraine
has soccer, right?

Theyave
real football.

Is that what
she says to you?

Yes, that's
what she says.

You know, so the question
I get is,

"Matt's really having
this girl

come halfway
across the world

to change her life
and be with him and all that?"

But he went through counseling
after the second wife.

He's gone through it
after the third.

Why is this time
any different?

It's all about picking
the right person, dude.

I've been married
three times before.

My family and friends,

they've seen me be hurt

and seen me taken advantage
of,

so even though I believe
I know alla very well,

there are some skeptics.

So, you sure you really
want to do this?

Yeah, of course.

Yes. Yes, yes,
yes, yes, yes.

You don't think that
you're making

one of the craziest decisions
in the world?

No, I don't.
I feel like I know her and --

how do you know her?

You've talked on Skype,
you've vacationed?

I mean, what problems
have you faced?

Unfortunately,
I see this whole thing

as just being
a train wreck.

All right, well...

I'm sorry
you feel that way.

In his previous divorces, it

where his whole life
just falls apart.

And so, we're all left kind of
filling in the holes,

trying to make sure
everything's
okay and supporting him.

And so,
I'm just not willing

to go down that road
with him again.

Matt, I don't expect this
to be any different

than the other times
where your family

is gonna support
the decision you made

and do everything
we can to make it work.

You know, I would like
to propose a toast

to the arrival of alla

and to doing everything
we can do

to support the decision
that you've made at this
point.

So...

Patrick,
you might not toast it,

but you and I both know
you will support

to the best you can.

Here's to Matt.

Very excited about
alla's arrival.

We are. We are.
Yep.

Cheers, Matt.
Thank you, guys.

I want
to make it a hug.

I want a hug.
I want a hug.

I want to tell you I love you.
It doesn't matter.

Always support you
to the end.

Blindly.

Oh, thanks.

That's awesome.

Patrick is one
of my best friends,

and so, it hurts
that he's being so negative

about my relationship with
alla.

But I know that I'm doing
the right thing, and I feel
it.

I've lived it.
I know her.

They don't.
They're scared.

I respect that.

I'm about to leave to Russia,

so I'm staying in a hotel
near the airport.

Ever since anfisa
and I argued when I told her

that I wasn't gonna
buy her the purse,

she hasn't returned my calls.

It's sort of
a little bit irritating

that she's throwing
a little fit

over something kind of small.

I am feeling the weight
and the pressure of,

you know, me going to Russia.

It's 6,500 miles away.

It's a little nerve-racking.

Try calling her.

I tried calling her.

She erased my phone.

She has my apple I.D.
And password,

so with that information,

you can wirelessly erase
the content on the phone.

I don't know what her problem
is right now.

I'm resetting my phone.

I don't think I've done
anything
to deserve the way

that she's acting right now.

She is a little bit
controlling.

Oh, yeah, she actually sent me
an e-mail saying

"I canceled your flight."

I'm not 100% sure
if she's bluffing,

but I'm gonna try
to confirm that right now.

Wow.

She actually just changed
my password to the e-mail,

and now I can't log in
to my e-mail.

Yeah, now I can't even
log in to my e-mail.

I don't understand her.

I mean, I wouldn't
even know what to say.

I wouldn't even know what to
say
about our relationship right
now

just because she's
taken it too far.

I put so much
into our relationship.

I'm trying to hold things
together

and trying to hope for the
best.

But as of right now,
I'm not going to Russia.

You know, she obviously cares
about material things

and about money more than,
you know, our relationship.

Yeah, it's up.

This season on
"90 day fianc"...


Oh, boy, oh, boy.
Here we go.

She's leaving everything
to come here and be with me.

How many days have you guys

nine, I guess.

I don't exercise, okay?
This is not a thing for me.

I've created the fantasy,
dug myself a hole with this
lie.

I'm worried
about his family accepting me.

Oh, man.

You're over here deleting
my phone, changing the
password.

I'm thinking, like,
"who would go through all
this?"

A person who wants
a green card.

Alla's different
from my three ex-wives.

Oh, my gosh.

Where is your ring?

Forgot to put it back on.

She doesn't respect my
culture.

I'm not sure I can spend
my whole life with her.

You met your ex-husband
at a night club.

Do you want to talk
about your past? Three women.

What the
I'm literally making a deal

for $15,000
and you're up.

I would definitely be
watching him to make sure

that he is exactly
who he says he is.

When you tell a lie
to your parents,

you have to
live with that.

You're making me feel
like I don't matter.

So?
I don't matter?

No.
Not anymore.

Just get away from me.