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I came halfway across
the world to be with Jorge.
What?
I don't like when
I don't get my way with
things.
Can you just get
over it already?
Chantel,
if you were my daughter,
I would be upset.
You got to tell your parents
exactly what's going on.
In the beginning
he was lying to me,
telling me that he was
living in Alabama.
He had two
Facebook accounts.
He was catfishing.
Alla is looking good tonight.
I'm sure she's going
to get some attention.
I had no idea that Matt
is a jealous person.
You should know by now
I'm not a sit-and-listen
kind of girl.
Get away from me.
And coming up...
I'm starting to
worry.
Maybe he's lying to me again?
Maybe he's not the person
he says he is.
Hey, baby.
Why didn't
I hear from you?
So this isn't
your guys' first time?
I've been married
three times.
This is the last one,
right?
When Jorge asked me
to come to the states,
he promised to get me
whatever I want.
The dress
would be $45,000.
Do you like it,
my love?
What do you think?
I never thought
we'd have this many problems.
I'm not forcing you to kiss me
in public or anything.
This lie --
it spun out of control.
I'm going to get married.
I'm not going
to have any guests.
I'm not going to have
anybody there.
God. No.
I don't want --
I don't want this
on camera.
since I've been in Morocco,
it's been hard
to understand azan's culture,
and it's really put a strain
on our relationship.
And we're supposed to spend
quality time with his family,
but instead 're in the middle
of a huge fight.
Literally you're making me
feel like I don't matter.
Yeah. So?
I don't matter?
No.
Get away from me.
Azan's down there.
He's mad.
You know, even if
you're mad at someone,
you shouldn't say the things
that you said to me.
I'm upset.
She can't respect,
you know, my culture.
I respect
your culture.
I'm not forcing you to kiss me
in public or anything.
Okay?
You didn't even tell me
that before I came.
I told you that
we can share a room.
I told you
everything about it.
Yeah, about
the sharing the room,
but you never told me
about showing stuff
like that in public.
Azan...
It's okay.
You know, getting opinions
from other people,
from your brother-in-law
and to see
your mom and them and --
it's a different view.
And I'm sorry
I've been this way.
It's just different for me,
'cause you know
it's different in America.
From now on, about your
culture,
I'll respect it.
I hope so.
Hold hands only, okay?
I do think about that
we never met before this trip,
but I never thought
we'd have this many problems.
I have no choice but to be
understanding of azan's
culture
because if you're gonna
go through the k-1 visa
and get married, I have to
learn
to live with it forever.
Finally,
the time has come!
You get to try on
your dresses.
Whoo-hoo!
I haven't come clean
to
my parents about being
engaged.
So right now, I'm going to
look
at wedding dresses
and I'm just gonna bring
my best friend gege.
-Hi.
-Hi, I'm Scarlet.
-Hi, I'm Chantel.
-Nice to meet you.
I'm gege, the best friend
of the bride.
Nice to meet you!
So, what can I help
you guys with today?
Um, I'm just looking
for something
a little sleek in style.
Okay. What price range are you
trying to stick around?
Um, the lower budget.
Like, yeah.
Okay, very good!
Well, very good.
Well, we're going
to come on back here
and check out the dresses
and pull a few things for you.
Until my parents are on board
with the wedding,
I don't know how much
I can actually spend.
But I still want to see
what's out there.
So, how's Pedro
and the family?
Are they getting along?
I'm getting
a little nervous,
because my dad's asking
a lot of questions.
I just don't want him
to find out that I've lied.
Well, I mean, you're buying
a wedding dress.
How are you
gonna hide this?
don't you think that you need
to go ahead and tell them
that?
Chantel is definitely scared
to tell her parents
that she's getting married.
But now it's turning
into an even bigger lie,
but they shouldn't wait
till the last minute,
because it might
just blow up in their face.
Beautiful!
Do you think
it's beautiful?
Yes.
You can hop
on any block up there.
Okay.
Yeah, perfect.
I don't think
this one's for Pedro
because the Booty
looks flat.
All right, let's go on
to the next one, then.
I see a bigger smile.
We have a big smile
on this one.
That is beautiful,
right?
This is the shape
that I like.
If I was gonna get
something more like this,
I'd want to have, like,
a huge ceremony, you know?
I always pictured having
a big fairy-tale wedding,
maybe having a horse
and carriage.
Big, poufy dress.
Everybody --
my family and friends there.
And I just always
wanted it to be perfect.
Are you planning
on wearing a veil?
I don't know.
You want to at least
try it on?
Yeah, let's just try it on
just to see what it looks
like.
Now, I kind of dug myself
a hole with this lie.
Time is just dwindling away
and there's not much time
to arrange a wedding
or tell the secret.
I think
that's definitely you.
I think
this is perfect.
Yeah?
I think Pedro would like this
because it's a little sexy.
It is.
But very covered
at the same time.
-Comfortable.
-Yes.
Oh, it's pretty.
The more I'm trying on
these dresses,
and I feel like I need
to tell my parents.
And I don't think
that I can do this without
them.
I feel a little guilty
about not telling my mom
because I feel like
seeing me like this,
that would probably be one
of the happiest moments
of my mom's life.
My parents have no idea
I'm even engaged.
Really?
That's a big secret to keep.
-Yeah, it is.
-A very big secret.
I think that I do need
my mother...
Here.
...to help me.
I want for my family
to be sitting here and be
like,
"oh, yeah, it looks great.
Yay, let's do it!"
Get the tears,
get the excitement.
The more and more
I try on these dresses,
the more and more I think
that it's almost time
to come clean.
This is just too much
of a big secret.
It just feels so real right
now.
I just really hope
that my family can be on
board.
It really is feeling like
I need to get on top of this.
Yes.
It's getting close.
All right,
so let's go home.
I'm starting to
worry.
Maybe he's lying to me again.
Maybe he's not the person
he says he is.
Hey, baby.
Why didn't I hear
from you?
Anfisa, she has this thought
that if it's more expensive,
it's better.
The dress
would be $45,000.
Do you like it,
my love?
My fianc, lowo, is done
with his visa interview,
and I am just waiting
to find out the results.
I'm just so stressed out.
I can't even focus.
It's been really hard to get
a hold of him back in Nigeria.
And that just makes
my anxiety worse,
'cause there's definitely been
some red flags
in our relationship.
In the beginning, he told me
that he was living in Alabama.
He also told me that
his son's mom was dead.
That's not really a lie
you should tell.
And his family
is polygamous.
He had two
Facebook accounts.
He was catfishing.
You know,
with all this time passing
and not hearing from him,
I am kind of thinking, like,
worst-case scenario.
I mean, this is huge news.
Like, our lives are on the
line.
Hey.
Hey, baby.
"Hey, baby"?
Yeah, I'm asleep.
Where you've been?
What do you mean?
You know what,
I'm very --
I don't want you to take this
the wrong way,
'cause, like, I'm really
excited
and happy right now.
But why didn't I hear
from you?
I called you
so many times.
No, I couldn't get you.
What do you mean
you lose your phone?
All your stuff,
he stole it.
He says someone stole his
phone.
It could be true.
But lowo was really good
at lying in the beginning.
Even like to this day,
I do have some insecurities.
Like if he tells me something
and if I think that it is even
just a little bit
unbelievable,
like, it causes a --
it causes a problem.
How do I know you're not
lying to me about the phone?
Mm-hmm. Okay.
But you don't know
how I was feeling over here.
You over there
just feeling good
'cause you know
you got your visa,
you know what I mean?
You over there feeling
yourself,
all happy,
and I'm just over here
stressing,
not knowing
what's going on.
Lowo and I are meant
to be together,
and I really truly love him.
But I'm starting
to really get worried.
Like, maybe he's lying
to me again.
Maybe he's not the person
he says he is.
My biggest fear
is that he breaks my heart.
Can you send me
the picture of the phone
just so I can have
piece of mind, please?
I'll send it to you.
All right, baby.
I love you.
And I'm sorry.
Yeah, I love you, too.
Bye-bye.
I've been here for one month,
and it's a little harder
to adjust to America
than I expected.
Kitty.
I feel really lonely
being at home alone all day
so I decided to get a cat
to keep me company.
What should I wear?
Tell me.
You know?
This?
Or this?
Now that we have an apartment,
we need to start
planning the wedding.
Yeah.
Why you looked
at me first?
I don't know.
I wanted to see your reaction.
Yeah,
I'm looking forward to it.
We only have
two months left of our 90
days,
and we still haven't
set a date for our wedding.
But I know
that the wedding dress
is going to be
important to anfisa
so I set up an appointment
at a top bridal boutique.
I kind of told her
that I didn't want to get
anything, like, very
expensive.
Hi, welcome to panache bridal
in Beverly hills.
But anfisa just --
she has this thought
that if it's more expensive
it's better.
There has to be
a limit.
don't make me laugh.
Be reasonable.
I am a little worried
of how much this could cost.
So anfisa, tell me a little
about what you're looking for.
I don't want,
like, a big dress.
I just want something straight
that would show off my curves.
Okay.
I want lace.
White.
What about price point.
What are you comfortable with?
What is your most
expensive dress?
Our most expensive dress
would be $45,000.
--Is that okay?
When Jorge asked me
to come to the states,
he promised to get me
whatever I want.
Whatever makes you happy.
Now that I'm here,
he keeps telling me
that he can't afford
everything
and there are things
that are more important.
Okay.
I just want
to make you happy.
don't roll
your eyes at me.
Well, I definitely have
some ideas in mind,
so how about I go and pull
those
and we can get started.
I'll be right back.
You ready to try some on?
Yeah, I will try some on.
Okay.
Now that she knows
about the $45,000 dress,
I'm worried that anfisa's not
going to be happy
till she gets it.
Okay, honey,
let's go in order
and see what you think,
okay?
Mm-hmm.
Okay.
First dress.
Okay.
Seeing anfisa
in that dress reminds me
of why I fell in love with
her.
She looks stunning.
I want to do anything
that I can to make her happy.
Oh, it's nice.
I really like it.
It definitely showcases
your figure beautifully.
And what would be the press
for something like this?
This one
is just under $10,000.
Okay.
All right, next dress.
I think you'll really
like the next one.
All right.
So here we have
a sheath silhouette.
It's a beautiful dress.
This dress is right
under $8,000 at $7,900.
Looks nice.
But not like "wow."
Looks too simple here.
Too simple?
So maybe more embellishment?
Did we want to move forth
with trying on
the $45,000 dress?
Uh...
Yes?
No?
It's up to her.
Did we want to move forth
with trying on
the $45,000 dress?
It's up to her.
Yeah.
Yeah? Okay.
I'm only looking to spend
a few thousand dollars,
but she wants to try on a
dress
that costs 45 grand.
So how does it work
when purchasing
such an expensive dress
of $45,000?
So we do require a 60% down
as the initial payment.
Once the dress comes in,
that's when we require
the remaining balance.
Okay.
Yeah. That's it.
Well, let's get you back
in the changing room.
I'll go forth
and pull the dress.
I hope she don't like it.
That's a lot of money
for one day.
Here you are.
He's going to love
this one.
All right,
so here we have...
So the moment of truth.
Do you like it,
my love?
What do you think?
I think just because
it's 45 grand, you love it.
To me, she looks beautiful
in any dress.
Definitely one of the most
expensive designers
I've ever worked with.
Yeah, it's not
gonna happen today.
I deserve expensive things
that make me look beautiful,
but I know Jorge doesn't want
to spend that much money.
Okay. Well, I think maybe
it might be some time
to maybe just go home,
think about it?
All right, honey.
Come on in.
I've come all this way
to be with Jorge,
and now he can't even get me
the dress I want.
You ready?
Yes.
Wow.
You know,
obviously I don't have
$20,000 in cash
right now.
So, it's not my problem.
So it's not your problem?
Yeah.
Anfisa's very controlling.
She likes to be bossy,
and I kind of like that.
I kind of like
her firmness of,
you know,
her standing her ground,
but I'll also stand my ground,
too, so, you know,
that's where conflict
comes into play.
Then why did we even
started getting this visa.
Why did you bring me here
if you're not ready?
It's not that
I'm not ready, but --
you're not ready.
It's not
that I'm not ready,
I'm just saying
that it's, like...
Can you just be
straightforward
and not like,
"oh, yes and no."
Yeah,
I am straightforward.
All right,
so the straight forward part
is that you want
expensive things
and it's, you know,
hard for me to keep up.
It's not all
that I can say.
I'm just saying
that it's, like --
it's all happening
so quick,
so we have to get
everything...
Blah, blah, blah.
That's what I hear.
I'm not that wealthy
to, like, compensate
for all of the things
that you like...
That are really expensive,
that you want, like, right
now.
No, I mean,
eventually I can get them,
but you want everything,
like, today.
Like, you want it today.
Why can't you...
When he tells me
that he can't really afford
these expensive things now,
I feel like
he's breaking promises
that he gave me
before I arrived.
Part of me even wants
to go back to Russia.
Nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you
there, Pedro.
Student visa -- do you
have to work with that or...?
-No, he can't work.
-So he can't work.
No. 'Cause it's not a work
visa,
yeah, it's a student visa.
Can he apply for a work visa
as long with the student visa?
Impossible.
Impossible.
Hey.
Hola, Pedro.
How are you doing today?
Good.
How's Chantel doing?
-Going to work, Chantel.
-She's going to work?
Oh, okay. Here to work out
a little bit with you.
Yeah. Come on.
It's going to be interesting.
Just work up a sweat
a little bit.
Probably won't do too much.
Just do a little, you know,
a little talking, basically.
We're going to see
what he's made of today.
Oh, okay.
Ah, man.
Oh, yeah, so it's nice.
It's nice.
I like it.
Okay.
Oh, you workout
every day?
Every day, yes.
Every day in here?
Every day.
Oh, man.
When I was 21
I had a six-pack.
Yeah. Okay.
So the ladies loved you
over in Dominican?
Huh?
The senoritas?
Shh.
Oh, shh.
Oh, we don't want
to talk about that?
Okay.
You know,
we're protective of Chantel,
so we need to know
your plans for Chantel.
Just to date Chantel?
Or plans
for the future?
Long way away?
Oh, okay, okay.
Hmm.
Okay.
To move
from the Dominican,
you would think
for a person
would have other things
on their mind.
-Mind?
-Yes.
Things on their mind.
No.
Okay.
Let me ask you this.
Do you love Chantel?
You love Chantel?
-Oh.
-Okay, okay, okay.
How much? How much?
-Little?
-No.
-Or grande? A lot?
-No. Grande.
A lot? Okay.
It's questions, questions,
questions, questions,
the same question.
It's very, very bad.
So that means that you're
going to support Chantel.
-What?
-Uh, take care of her?
-Take care of her?
-Yes.
With a job?
Because how long
will you be in school?
-My school?
-Yes.
One year, two years?
Oh, my god.
Okay.
Problem.
Okay.
English still --
it's getting better,
but the communication
was tough.
And I believe he was trying
to dodge some tough questions.
So do you plan
on marrying Chantel?
Um...
Okay. Ring?
Uh...
No.
You don't want
to marry Chantel?
Really hard to say?
Oh.
I am finished today.
-I am finished today.
-You finished?
Okay.
Ooh.
"You marry me?"
"No understand."
-Goodbye, Pedro.
-Goodbye.
-You give me a call.
-Okay.
You give me a call.
don't let Chantel call --
you call.
-Okay?
-Okay.
Definitely he seemed nervous.
I'm worried about Chantel
taken advantage of.
Red flags, stop signs,
everything is up right now.
Today, we're going to go
shopping for wedding bands.
I have been married
three times.
-This is the last one, right?
-That's right.
Azan's taking me
to an overnight camping trip
to the dessert.
It's okay.
Oh, my god.
So you're excited?
Yes.
Our wedding's
coming pretty soon,
and things have been really
hectic around here lately.
So today we're going to go
shopping for wedding bands.
Welcome to the castle.
What can we help you find?
-Wedding bands.
-Wedding bands? Okay.
You want to step
down this way?
The wedding bands
are right around
in this case
right over here.
Actually, you know what,
we have a play area back there
that's got some toys
and stuff if you want.
Oh, really?
Max, come here.
Buddy, look.
They have toys.
If you want to go through.
There's cars.
It's big.
Did you have anything in mind,
like a style or...?
I just wanted to see
different options.
That one's got
round diamonds "and."
I really like this one.
I don't know.
How'd you guys meet?
We met, uh...
Um, in Kiev.
Hmm.
All is here
on a fianc visa.
How long does that last?
It's 90 days.
Good for 90 days.
Boy, that's coming up fast.
You better start hustling.
The wedding is coming soon,
and we have so many decision
that we need to make.
I worry about that.
So where are you from?
I'm from Ukraine.
What's the tradition there?
I'm not familiar with it.
Pretty much the same.
We just wear our rings
on right.
The wedding band, too?
Yeah.
And usually a divorced
women wear...
Divorced women where
it on the left hand?
They will think
you're divorced.
This is not good, babe.
So you get to keep
the engagement ring
after you get divorced?
Yes, yes.
Ah, nice.
What happened with your old
engagement ring, babe?
Did you get
to keep your --
I kept -- yes.
So this isn't your guys'
first time getting married,
-is that correct?
-No, it's not.
I have been married
three times.
So...
This...
This is the last one, right?
That's right.
Absolutely.
This is the fourth time
that I've gone
through this exercise.
In the past I've sometimes
I've rushed into things.
But this time
is different.
This is the fourth ring
and the last ring.
No more rings.
And I really hope that
alla feels the same way.
-I think I want this one.
-You like that one?
-Yeah.
-Okay.
-Yes.
-Yes!
Happy, love it,
it's great.
-It's perfect? Good.
-I'm happy. Yeah.
All right.
Oh, it looks delicious.
It was such a relief
to have azan's family
help us work through our
issues.
The tajine's very good.
Mmm.
I know our relationship
isn't perfect,
but hopefully we're heading
in the right direction.
And I'm excited because
now azan's taking me
to an overnight camping trip
to the dessert.
Thank you.
The dessert is
his favorite place in Morocco,
and the fact
that azan's taking me
just the two of us
means a lot to me.
So we're almost there?
Yep.
I've never been
to the dessert.
I've never thought
about going to the dessert.
I am not an outdoorsy
kind of girl.
But I just have to trust
that azan knows what he's
doing.
Okay.
I've never been this
close to a camel before.
I've never actually
ridden one, either,
so that's going to be awesome
and scary, and I'm excited.
Not scary, trust me.
Oh, my god.
It's okay, no problem.
Okay.
It's okay.
-Oh, my god.
-Are you scared?
don't worry.
No.
Jimi --
Jimi Hendrix?
Sounds like Chewbacca.
--Let's go.
Just --
you look sexy.
Yeah?
Yeah.
Hey, look, shadows.
That's cool.
Whoa. I'm afraid
that he's going to fall.
You mine is, like, sick.
What the is going on
with that camel?
You got the old one
and I got the good one.
-Get a selfie of us.
-Gladly.
That's good.
I'm a little nervous about
being
in the dessert at night.
The difference between
and Florida and this --
our sand is flat
and we have air-conditioning
and cars.
Definitely no camels.
Yeah.
Remember you, honey?
You're going to be here
forever.
With me.
That's beautiful.
Stars are beautiful.
So many stars
you could still see,
like, light in the sky.
It just was lit
in a beautiful way.
Was so gorgeous.
Oh, my god.
Okay.
Okay.
Yeah, it's really peaceful
and beautiful at night.
What's in there?
What?
Yeah.
Yeah.
We can check that off
our bucket list.
Yeah.
Ride a camel
in the Sahara desert.
You know, I never thought
I would have done that?
Yeah?
You look so cute
with your turban on.
-Yeah?
-Yeah.
I'm going to get married.
I'm not going
to have any guests.
I'm not going to
have anybody there.
God.
This whole secret
that I have is just
getting out of control.
And now it's like
negative energy
between Pedro and I.
And it really hurts.
What?
Hey.
don't be telling me
what I need to do.
Baby.
Can you do this?
I just need to take
a little break.
I'm way stressed.
So I'm meeting up with gege
to hopefully talk me
down a little bit.
Hey.
Gege's been telling me
from the beginning
that I have to tell
my parents the truth.
But I still haven't done it.
All right,
so what's been new?
I've just been
so stressed out lately.
So, have you told
your parents yet?
-You know -- thank you.
-Thanks.
But if I tell them now,
I know that they won't
approve.
Yeah, but, you know,
you're on a show, you know.
They're gonna
find out, so...
Oh, my gosh.
...what did you
tell them about that?
They think
that I'm on a show
that's just about
young people,
young relationships.
How long are you
gonna carry this lie?
It's just --
it's crazy.
You know, you're going
to get married soon, right?
Well, I haven't really come up
with any arrangements for --
it's just really crazy
that you don't have
all this already done.
Tell your parents,
like, soon.
Hopefully everything
turns out okay.
But you waited so long,
so now it's like, you know,
you just have to take it
as it comes.
So hopefully we can,
you know,
plan something nice
at least for,
you know, the day
when you get married.
Maybe somewhere,
like, at a nice park
or something like that?
Just go ahead
and tell your parents.
I know you're a little
stressed, but...
All right.
-I love you.
-I love you, too, girl.
Gege's trying to convince me
that having a wedding in a
park
is going to be beautiful.
And it's just hard.
It's hard for me to believe.
I don't want to just have
a nothing wedding and -- oh.
I mean, I'm going
to get married.
I'm not going
to have any guests.
I'm not going to have
anybody there.
And...
I mean, it's just --
nope.
I don't want to talk
about that right now.
No, I don't have anything.
We don't have any money, okay?
God.
No.
I don't want to talk
about it anymore.
Chantel.
I know that everybody else
is expecting,
"oh, when you get married
you get these big rings,
you get a nice wedding,"
and I won't have that.
I don't want
to have this on camera.
Next time on "90 day fianc"...
I think I can
get used to this.
Today I'm having a photo
sh**t.
But wear your dress.
It's not okay.
That looks so good!
I can't go up there.
Well, what are we going
to do about our wedding?
My dream is to have
a wedding on the beach.
This wedding will be
the fourth for Matthew.
And the third one was
on a beach in Cancun.
That's why we try not
to talk about it too much.
So, I have something
to tell you guys.
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