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I think
I can get used to this.
Today, I'm having a photo
sh**t.
It's not okay.
You need to put
some more clothes on.
Look so good.
The most important thing
is to get my sister
to come to my wedding.
Oh!
Yeah.
I'm gonna pass out.
He's actually here
on a k-1 visa.
We have to get
married on Thursday.
You lied to me.
You lied about everything.
And coming up...
So you're basically saying
that you're just dating me
because
I can buy you things.
Yes.
What?
This wedding will be
the fourth for Matthew.
And the third one was
on a beach in Cancun.
That's why we try not
to talk about it.
After last night,
I feel sick in my stomach.
I don't want to see Pedro
again.
I don't like him.
Everything is falling apart.
Not much to do when you have
no one to talk to.
Maybe I would be happier
without him.
I don't know.
my love,
are you almost ready?
Does that mean
I should get back in bed?
It would bother me a little
bit
if anfisa would start
to turn a little bit more
into career woman.
I don't really know
why anfisa wants to model,
but it does bother me
that other men
are gonna see her
in skimpy clothing.
You guys are here
for modeling, right?
Gorgeous. There you go.
Gorgeous.
I think anfisa is
happier here now,
and our relationship,
as best as I could describe
it,
is pretty amazing.
It's just getting better
and better by the day.
It's been two months
since anfisa arrived in
America.
We know
that we're gonna get married,
but the initial engagement,
as far as giving her a ring,
hasn't happened yet.
-Hello. Welcome to xiv karats.
-Hi.
Hello.
So, today I'm taking
anfisa ring shopping
to find something
she really loves.
Please, have a seat.
So, I see you're
in the engagement-ring
section.
Yes, definitely.
Do you have, like,
a dream ring in mind?
I want
at least three carats.
Okay, oh, well,
welcome to Beverly hills.
When I tell anfisa
I can't buy something,
she's not really good
at compromising.
So, a silhouette
that's really popular --
actresses like Blake lively
and so on, they have ovals.
Now, this is
a three-carat oval.
And just
so you get an idea,
this ring is gonna be
about $75,000.
Nice.
Great.
Okay, well, there's ovals.
Let's see something
like this on your hand.
Round diamonds are
probably the most popular.
-That looks nice.
-What about bigger?
What do you think about one
that's in the five-carat
range,
just to see?
-Sure.
Now, that one is a much more
square-shaped cushion.
You love that one?
-So, what is it --
-how much is it?
Let me take a look.
So, the retail on this is
$300,000.
When I hear that
the ring costs $300,000,
I thought, like...
I like it.
We should be able to do this
for $150,000 for you.
Well...
It's a five-carat.
I know we were saying
$300,000...
But...
Yeah, we moved
to five really quick.
I think the ring shows
how much he loves me.
If he proposed to me
with some cheap ring,
I think I'm not gonna marry
him.
-That's -- that's too much.
-No?
Happy wife, happy life.
Yeah.
I like her.
Is there
a comfortable budget
that we'd like
to sort of stay under?
We kind of had a budget
from $35,000 to $45,000.
-Thousand? Fantastic.
-Thousand.
We can find beautiful things
in that range.
You're going to have
to sacrifice a little bit
in the color
and the clarity.
She wants
a more expensive ring,
but, I mean,
there's one thing
about being reasonable
and one thing going over
budget
and one thing making me a
sl*ve
for the rest of my life.
We have to be reasonable.
I want to make anfisa happy,
but I can't get her a ring
that's gonna take me
I think we need
some time to think.
Maybe I will be able
to make him get
something more expensive.
Thank you
for your time.
I've been
here in Morocco now
for four weeks with azan,
and my trip is almost over.
The best sight from the trip
is
when we went to the desert.
It was really amazing.
Oh!
-Will you?
-Yeah.
Oh, my god.
But after he proposed,
we had this huge fight.
I'm gonna pass out.
I don't exercise, okay?
This is not a thing for me.
It's supposed to be a
roller coaster of good
and good times,
not the scary kind
where stuff is always
backfiring
and you don't know
what's gonna happen
and he gets mad
about something else again,
and you're just like,
"why are you upset again?"
Yeah.
Not much to do when you have
no one to talk to.
Leaving my whole family
so I can go to Morocco
is really hard.
I'm a little upset
because the trip didn't turn
out
exactly how I thought it
would.
The hardest part
about this trip is
not being around may
for five weeks.
Like, I know me
and azan went through a lot,
but not seeing my daughter
and waking up to her
is really hard.
I just hope azan's worth it.
Okay, one,
two, three, go!
-Yeah!
-Aah!
Come on, come on,
come on!
Whoo!
Nicole has been
in Morocco now
with azan for four weeks.
From what I hear, they've been
working through some stuff.
You want to go inside?
Come on.
Lay down.
-Ashley?
-What?
-I want to play.
-No, it's time to sleep.
There have been
one or two occasions
where I've been upset
with Nicole
for leaving her daughter here.
I just can't wait
for her to come home
and, you know, see
her daughter again.
-What's may up to?
-She is asleep.
Mm.
So, did you and Nicole get
a chance to video-chat today?
Uh, no.
It's just been hard, you know,
knowing she's so far away.
And I can't talk to her.
I can't convince her.
I can't, you know...
-Mm-hmm.
...walk her through
some of the hard parts.
Yeah.
I wish she'd just hurry up
and get home.
I don't know
how things are going.
I really don't.
Some of the feelings I get
or some of the signals I get
from Nicole are
things are going great,
and then sometimes I get
signals
where things are not going
so well
and then back again.
It seems like
it's been a seesaw.
You know, I gave her the
number
of a young woman I met
who is also engaged to
somebody
right next door to Morocco.
And she said that if Nicole
ever needed to get help,
she would come over
and help her.
So that was
a little reassuring.
Yeah, that's nice.
They are engaged,
and they want to get married.
She wants him to come over
here.
I don't know
how that's gonna go.
You know,
his faith is one thing,
and hers is another.
The last message
I got from Nicole, she was --
she sounded
pretty anxious.
That's got me
a little worried.
I think she's in love,
but it's time
for reality to set back in
and for her
to do what is necessary
to make sure her and may are
well taken care of.
I brought my wedding dress
with me from Ukraine.
Mery, can you come in?
Never thought
you would lie like this.
I thought you were better
than that, Chantel.
I mean, do you even --
I mean, do you forgive me?
When alla decided
to give up her life
and pack
everything in a suitcase
and move to Kentucky,
I knew that she was committed
to what we've got.
But at the same time,
she misses home.
I would love
to have my sister here.
Hello!
Oh, it's good to see you,
sweetheart.
Oh, it's nice to see you.
I have four sons.
I don't have any daughters.
So I'm thrilled
to have a daughter.
And I thrill
to see my son so happy.
Anyway, tell me --
how is it going
with you and Matthew --
if you want to share.
-Yes, I --
-you don't have to at all.
I can share.
I think
that we are doing great.
He is...
You really did
a great job
to raise
such wonderful person.
- Thank you so much.
I know everyone wants
happiness
for both of you.
And I know that your mother,
if she were here,
would be telling me
the same thing about you.
I lost my mother
a few years ago,
so I think I will be close
to Matt's mom.
I can see her attitude to me,
how she cares,
and it's so nice.
When things happen
that aren't very happy --
and they will --
don't feel alone.
Thank you.
I'd like
to show you something.
I'm ready.
Yes.
I brought my wedding dress
with me from Ukraine.
And I know mery Ann would love
to see me in it.
Mery, can you come in?
Oh!
Alla, I didn't think
you could look more beautiful.
Oh!
You look absolutely,
absolutely...
Thank you.
You are the first
whom I show this dress.
That is an honor.
Alla, this is
absolutely divine.
Well, you got this
in Ukraine, I guess.
-Yes, yes.
-Did your sister pick it out
with you?
-Yes.
Very simple
with no heels.
You said
"walking in the sand."
It sounds like you...
That you've been giving
consideration to the beach.
-Yes.
-Yes.
That was my dream,
to have a wedding
on the beach on Sunset.
As we all know,
this wedding will be
the fourth for Matthew.
And the third one was
on a beach in Cancun.
That's why we try not
to talk about it too much
because that was
the beach wedding.
I think I'd like to have it
in Florida.
But also, the beach wedding
will cost a lot,
and we couldn't afford
going down there
for two or three days.
I would like
to talk to our family
because a marriage is
a community of people.
Oh, it's just beautiful.
-Thank you.
-Thank you, sweetie.
The last time
I saw my parents,
I told them that Pedro
and I are getting married.
And their reaction was --
they were just shocked.
He's actually here
on a k-1 visa.
We have to get married
on Thursday.
I'm gonna -- I'm gonna
let you handle that.
Okay, well, what would
you expect us to say?
You lied to me.
I've asked you
ever since I saw him.
You lied
about everything.
I knew that my parents
would be upset at me,
but river's reaction
is surprising.
He doesn't trust me anymore.
And he wants to have
a one-on-one with me today.
After last night,
I feel sick in my stomach.
Hey, river.
Hey.
This just --
it's too much to handle.
I didn't feel like going
to school today.
Chantel is making
a mistake -- a huge mistake.
So, why did you want
to meet here today to talk?
Why didn't you want
to talk yesterday...
-Because...
-...To me?
...this is the only time we
have
just me and you, nobody else.
And I feel
mommy and daddy weren't
really expressing
what they really wanted
to say about the marriage.
What are
they really thinking?
Nobody's happy.
We're all worried
for you.
Look, I don't believe
that mommy and daddy are
actually happy
about the wedding,
but, I mean, if Pedro
and I love each other
the way we do, why can't
people be happy for us?
You didn't give us a chance
to be happy for you.
You tell us too late.
You didn't give us
a chance to meet Pedro.
We barely saw him.
We don't even know
who you're marrying.
A couple days from now,
I'm not gonna know who you
are.
"Chantel who?"
I don't know
his last name.
I never meant
for this to cause such pain.
I feel like
I let my entire family down.
We never thought
you would lie like this.
I thought you were better
than that, Chantel.
Okay, I'm sorry that I didn't
tell you guys sooner,
but now we have
to get married
or else Pedro is
going back.
I don't like him.
If he went back,
is that a bad thing for me?
I don't like Pedro.
What can he do
to gain your trust?
Nothing.
He lied to me.
I don't trust
anything he says.
I don't want to see him.
I don't want
to see Pedro again.
Aren't you gonna be
at the wedding?
I don't know.
I mean, do you even --
I mean, do you forgive me?
Do you forgive me?
I mean,
do you forgive me?
I don't know.
I don't know.
This is too much.
You hurt me.
You really hurt me.
Look, I messed up,
but tell me what you think
I could do now.
Mommy and daddy think
you messed up,
and you're still
messing up right now.
And that hurts mommy
and daddy, too.
I don't know what I could
possibly do to show them
that this is
the right decision for my
life.
And I guess that's why I --
that's why I didn't want
to tell them in the first
place.
Do you think
that I could convince them
to show up at the wedding?
I mean, what does mommy
and daddy want?
What can make this better?
You need to ask them
for forgiveness.
Just come see them tomorrow
'cause they're not happy.
At this point,
nobody trusts Pedro,
and nobody is on his side.
Nobody is "pro-marriage"
at this point.
It really makes me feel,
like, alone.
It makes me feel like Pedro
and I are alone
and we're the only ones
rooting for ourselves.
Everything is falling apart.
What do you think
they're gonna want to say to
me?
They're gonna say,
"you're making a mistake."
And some mistakes are
permanent.
Pedro turned my sister
into a liar
because my sister never lied
about something this big.
I'm a little shocked
and heartbroken.
I truly do not believe
this will end well.
Okay,
I'll do it tomorrow.
I hope
that if I can get my parents
to agree to meet with me --
but I don't know
how I can fix this.
Look at all the people.
Happy birthday, Max!
Thank you!
Our wedding is just
around the corner,
but Max is turning
and just looking forward
to a fun day together
with my family.
Today is
all about Max's birthday,
but I know that ever since
Matt's mom came over last
week,
she has been wanting to talk
to me about wedding plans.
We still have so many stuff
to do for the wedding.
I would like to have my
wedding
in American tradition.
-We'll do whatever we can.
-Okay.
I know that alla has had
her heart set
on getting married on the
beach.
I think it's a great idea...
Except it makes it a little --
a lot challenging
for the whole family.
Okay, so...
-Yes.
...the thing is --
how important to you is
a beach wedding?
You know, like,
all girls,
we have
this dream in our --
about our wedding.
-Sure you do.
Sure, you do.
-So, of course, I --
I have this dream to have
my wedding on the beach.
We want you to have
what you want.
But the problem
with a beach wedding,
for all of us to go there,
isn't because
we don't want
to be with you
but because
it's so expensive...
-I know. I believe.
-...For everybody to fly
down...
-I believe. I know.
-...To an island off an
island.
So...
We could have
a very pretty wedding
at mark's house
and get married there
in his living room.
We could put sand
on the floor.
Um...
But that could be
a really fun, big wedding.
Not big --
it would still be small.
I really, uh...
I would like to have it
on the beach.
That's what I see
in my thoughts.
Are you sure
that's okay with you?
Yeah.
It's impossible, so...
If you have a big family...
They might be involved
in your life too much.
Better not expect me
to be sitting at home
with the kids all day.
So you're basically saying
that you're just dating me
because
I can buy you things.
Yes.
I think
we should buy you a belt.
No?
I only have
a few days with azan
before I have
to go back to Florida,
and I'm worried we still don't
know each other enough
to go through
with the k-1 visa.
Those are pretty.
Those are just like
the scarf.
Yeah.
I feel like
she doesn't love my culture.
But I hoped that she was
gonna appreciate,
because that's really mean
a lot to me
because it's like --
it's a part of my mind,
you know, of me.
But does, like, everyone pray,
like, every time?
-Yeah, but --
-everyone?
You don't.
So, can we go inside
and see?
No.
Why?
Clothes?
Girls don't pray
in the mosque?
Why?
So, why can't
the guy stay home
and watch the kids
while the woman goes out?
Because...
Better not expect me
to be sitting at home with
this is not
how it happens.
Morocco is beautiful,
and it's an amazing place,
but I feel
out of place here.
So, like, to be in America --
I feel like
things will be
so much better.
You know what I mean?
I guess that puts
the kissing and stuff
in perspective
a little bit.
It's still strange,
but, you know?
No.
I would never convert
to islam.
And I would never convert
to Christian.
-Hello.
-This way, please.
Jorge is taking me
to a Russian restaurant.
It feels nice to be somewhere
that reminds me of home.
What do you think
I would like?
Yeah, that looks nice.
Me and anfisa need to have
an honest conversation
about money.
She wants an expensive dress
and an expensive ring,
and right now I'm just not
in the position to get both.
So...
You know, we have such a
short,
limited amount of time,
and the budget has to be
in a reasonable means.
So it's either gonna be
you compromise on the dress
or you compromise
on the ring.
Why don't I compromise?
Yeah, maybe,
but you have
to be reasonable.
Yes, I know, but...
What if I can't get
those things?
Then what?
He says that
my expectations are too high
and that I want too much,
but that's what he promised me
when we just started dating.
So, obviously,
I'm gonna expect it.
I don't know
why is he unhappy with that.
So what?
But it doesn't matter.
A relationship --
-it does.
A relationship isn't based
on material items.
I think you're just,
like, wrapped up
in like, Hollywood
and Beverly hills.
And, like, you have
to step down to reality.
The reality --
so, why do you choose
these expensive things
and stuff like that?
What if I didn't have
the ability?
So you're basically saying
that you're just dating me
because
I can buy you things.
Yes.
What?
So you're basically saying
that you're just dating me
because
I can buy you things.
Yes.
That's just --
that's not right.
I don't think that's love.
What?
So basically you're saying
if I can't provide
I'm worthless to you.
It is.
If you were who you are.
Mm-hmm, yeah.
Yeah.
Looks don't always have
anything to do with it.
Yeah.
So, what if I buy you
the ring you want,
buy you the expensive dress,
I give you, like,
the most amazing wedding
in the world,
and something happens?
Say, I get hurt or something
and I can't work.
And what then?
You're just gonna leave me?
I'm beautiful,
and I like nice clothes,
nice shoes, nice purses, so...
I expect him to pay
for all that.
You keep wanting
more and more.
Like, when is the end?
After you want something,
you're
gonna want something else,
and after you get that, you're
gonna want something else.
Like, there's
never gonna be an end to it.
I can make
some sacrifices on my end,
but really,
if I buy those things,
like, I'm gonna just regret it
because
I'm only making sacrifices
for the person that I love,
but if they don't love me
back,
then why should I make
that sacrifice?
Excuse me, folks.
It's ready.
Mm-hmm.
Enjoy.
I don't know.
This is frustrating.
Like, it doesn't even seem
like you're really ready
to be in a committed
relationship...
-Yeah.
-...Let alone married.
So, then, what are you
even thinking?
Like, is this
a joke to you?
I told Jorge that I'm going
to go back to Russia,
and I'm really thinking about
it
because life here is
very different,
and it's hard for me to
adjust.
Well,
I'm not gonna stop you,
because obviously
you don't even care.
What do you want me
to do?
You don't take me
seriously.
As much as I want to stop her
what would be the point
if she's gonna still continue
to be the same?
I don't know
what my next move is.
I don't know what I want to
do.
I'm just stressing out
to be honest with you.
Oh, boy,
well, I'm excited
to see what this place
looks like, you know?
The other day,
my mom laid out
that we are not having
a destination wedding.
And alla was sad for...
For several days.
It looks nice.
So, today,
I'm hoping alla will warm up
to a local venue
that my mom has found.
We'll see.
I don't know.
Yeah.
Oh, hello.
-Hello!
-I'm so glad to see you.
You've already figured out
everything for us?
Yeah, it's a very nice
little venue for small
weddings.
I want to support alla
in any decision that she
makes,
but it's definitely better
for all the rest of us
if they get married here
and not down on an island.
- Oh, my gosh.
-Getting practice.
- Oh, my gosh, mom.
-Well.
-Howdy. don, nice to meet you.
-Welcome to a touch of
elegance.
-Hello.
So nice to have
your wedding here.
All right, well...
What type of a wedding
ceremony
are you looking for?
We should --
you should ask mery Ann.
- No, no.
Yeah.
Yeah, well, let's take
a look at the space.
All right.
Oh, no. This way?
-We got to go down this way.
-I like this room.
-Ooh.
-Wow.
-It's really nice.
This is nicer
than I was thinking.
-Yes.
-Hey, mom, this is nice.
I like this.
Wow.
Wow.
I had this dream to have
my wedding on the beach.
If we put the altar
up there
and if this table were put
over to the side...
-Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.
-...That you put it on.
All weddings are unique
and wonderful,
especially yours.
Well, what do you think?
-What do you think?
-Do you like it?
Yeah.
-I like this place.
-I like it.
It's perfect.
-This is it?
-Yep.
-I love it.
I think you made
a good choice.
Thank god alla is happy
with this venue for our
wedding.
But it kind of hit me
in the face --
like, "two weeks,
I'm getting married again.
My bachelor party is tomorrow.
Holy moly, what am I doing?
What am I thinking?"
But I know
I've got the right girl.
This is really
gonna be special.
All right, I'll walk you
to the door.
Babe, you know,
next time we're in this room,
- you're getting married.
- That's right.
I like it.
You've got to know
when you get on that plane
if this is what you want.
I don't know what to do.
I mean, you can't hold on
to a fairy tale
just because you think you can
change the ending of the
story.
There's only two days left, a
and right now, it's, like,
"make it or break it" time.
It's really been rough lately
on me and azan
and just, you know,
the arguments.
And when we argue,
I really have no one to talk
to.
It builds up
a lot of feelings in me.
No, please wait.
That's not...
You know,
even if you're mad at someone,
you shouldn't say
the things that you said to
me.
Azan is out helping his mom
with some errands,
so I'm meeting
my mom's friend Tanya today.
She has a fianc in Algeria.
I hope, when I talk to Tanya,
that she just kind of gives me
another insight so I can make
sense of my own feelings
or just be able to know
what I should do
and just what's best for me.
Hey.
-Hi, Nicole.
It's nice
to finally meet you.
Yeah, you, too.
How have you been?
Good.
How are you?
Good.
Wow, this is cool.
It really is nice
having someone
who's an American like me
to be here.
And understands,
you know?
- In this atmosphere.
I've been here.
I've lived it.
I've dealt
with this culture,
the religion,
and the people for three
years.
I don't know why,
but it's just so hard
for me to understand it.
-Mm-hmm.
It's just...
I mean, is this something
that you're going to be able
to do for the rest
of your life?
Is this something
that you can handle,
knowing that he's never gonna
be
completely American?
It will never happen?
-I know he'll never be
completely American,
but I feel like
it's gonna be different
in America.
Like, he won't have to worry
about these things,
even though it's cultural.
-He still will.
He'll still be Moroccan.
-Yeah.
I mean, his heart,
his way of thinking will
always be Moroccan.
This is gonna be
a big culture shock to him.
You know, I have dated
guys from arab cultures.
Through experience,
I've learned, you know,
some cultures are
more restrictive than others.
And you have to be able
to at least understand
a little bit of the culture,
and you just have to find
the right situation
to where you guys can meet
in the middle.
Think about this,
you know?
You've got your daughter
involved in this, you know?
You know, the k-1 process is
not
a short process.
It's difficult.
I don't know what to do.
I mean, you can't hold on
to a fairy tale
just because you think,
you know,
you can change
the ending of the story,
because it won't change.
She needs to think
about forever,
not just today,
not just tomorrow.
She needs to think
Is this what she wants?
Is this what makes her happy?
And if the answer is no,
she needs to find it.
You've got to know
when you get on that plane
if this is ultimately
what you need in your life
and in may's life.
Because it's not just you.
It's may, as well.
Yeah.
I think me and him have
a lot to talk about
in the next two days.
This conversation
with Tanya gave me
a lot tod to think about
an really ask him.
Like, you know,
I still need to talk to him.
I can't give
any definite answers.
I don't know
what the heck is gonna happen.
Maybe I would be happier
without him.
I don't know.
You got to think
and ultimately do
what's best for you.
Next time on "90 day fianc"...
Have you thought
about a prenuptial agreement?
They don't trust
my judgement,
and they certainly
don't trust Pedro.
Whoo!
Tonight's the bachelor party.
We're gonna have fun.
Matt,
one of your ex-wives is gonna
be stripping for us tonight.
-Aah!
-Oh, yeah!
-Whoo!
-Whoo!
-Yeah!
This is it.
This is my last night with
azan.
Why are you so sure
you want to marry me?
I want to hear
why you love me.
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