04x11 - Are You Ready for This?

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Previously
on "90 day fianc"...

I'm not a Nigerian woman.

I want to make sure

that you're marrying him
for the right reasons.

Why do you love Matt?

Tell me
what really happened.

He thinks that
I should lose some weight.

He's not attracted
to me.

If my husband said that,

we wouldn't have
gotten married.

His mom is getting
so upset about it.

They would like for me
to have some type of
protection.

What's the problem?

What the

literally making a deal
for 15,000 dollars,

and you're
it up.

That's what happens
when you pay

for somebody
to spread their legs.

And coming up...

It's the day of my wedding.

I don't have a dress.
I don't have the prenup.

-Today is crazy.
-What are we doing?

Am I picking out a dress
or am I getting this paper
done?

Something is not right.

I can't believe your okay
with being treated that way.

I don't know what to do.

You know what to do,
honey.

I don't want...

The wedding is off limits.
It's just off limits.

When the preacher
asks,
"are there any objections?"

I'm not sure that I'm not
gonna voice my opinion.

While you're talking to me,
you're talking to her, too?

Is that why you
told me she was dead?

Yeah.

Oh, yeah.

--Babe.

don't touch me.
don't touch me.

What the
she keyed "idiot"

into the driver-side door.

I just want this
nightmare to be over.

It's really hard --

I wanted to buy her a ring,

but now that we're
having a huge fight,

I feel like
our relationship has...

...changed.

I don't even know
how to explain it.

I have to go.

Sorry,
I got to call you back.

I'm literally making a
deal for 15,000
dollars.

It up.
And you're really

oh, my god.

My head's been all over
the place since our argument,

so I called my sisters
to talk about my situation.

I've done my part
to please her.

And she has not done
one thing to please me.

That's what happens
when you pay for somebody

to spread their legs.

We all go through things
in life for a reason.

And sometimes we learn
from our mistakes.

And we got to cut loose
what is hurting us.

I think, right now,
my family thinks

that me getting married to

anfisa would be very bad.

And it's pretty difficult
to ignore them.

Honestly, I believe
that she thought

she was coming here
to the U.S.,

think that everything
was gonna be handed to her,

and then
you were going to give

every single thing
that she asked for.

Yeah.

Maybe it's a good thing
this happened.

I don't know.
Like, maybe it's a good thing

that it happened now,
because...

At this point,
I'm just tired of everything.

I'm just completely tired,
and I
don't want to deal with it.

So we'll support you
in whatever decision you make.

We love you.

I know we're hard on you.

I don't know.

I mean, right now
I have to get back, so...

I love her with all my heart,

but I don't even know
what I'm gonna say to her.

Surprisingly, my phone's
been pretty quiet.

It's kind of scary.

So I don't know what to
expect.

What's going on?

What?

She just told me to get out.

There was really
no conversation of anything.

We didn't even
talk about nothing.

Probably gonna stay
at a hotel or something.

I don't know.
I just --

I don't want to deal with it.

Like, there's no need
for me to deal with it.

I could only do so much.

There's really no point
in arguing with her.

I don't want this
for the rest of my life.

I wanted the anfisa that
I met when I first met her.

I wanted the anfisa that
pretty much traveled

all over the world with me.

Now I'm starting to see
how she is,

as far as, like, her attitude,

pretty much her gratitude,

and it's not really
anywhere near close --

not even close to what
I want for my future.

I wanted to marry her.
I woke up this morning, uh,

basically with every ambition

to go buy her the ring,
chose a ring,

and just things didn't work
out.

She's going back home
tomorrow.

Yeah.

The wedding is tomorrow,

and things got pretty heated

when Pedro and I
discussed the prenup.

If we're getting
married for love,

there's not gonna be
a divorce.

But if there's not
gonna be a divorce,

then we'll never have
to use the paper.

So what's the problem?

Getting this paper
signed is the only way

that my parents will be on
board
with us getting married.

So, I'm fortunate that I could
find a lawyer to meet with me

and Pedro
at the last minute.

-Hi, how are you?
-Hi. Chantel.

Brennan.
Nice to meet you.

-Pedro.
-Nice to meet you, Pedro.

-Gloria.
-Pedro.

Please have a seat.

So what brings you
both here today?

Pedro and I
are here today

because we told
my parents

that we were
getting married.

And they think it's best
that we have a prenup...

-Okay.
-...In case of a divorce

in the future --
or anything.

Is it normal for
people
here to get prenups?

It's always a good idea
to have prenups

because you can end up
in a situation

where if things go wrong
and you were to divorce,

the other party is getting
more
than they really should get.

So the prenuptial agreement
allows you to protect you

if were to get divorced.

Well, I don't have
any assets right now,

but my mom was really upset

that I haven't had
a prenuptial agreement

prepared that includes
inheritance.

I don't have any money.
Like, I'm a student.

But my parents are
worried about inheritance

because my family,

without question,
has more money than his.

Pedro is from
the Dominican Republic.

-Okay.
-He's here on a k-1 visa,

and we're out of time.

So I have to
marry him tomorrow

or else he'll have to go
back to his country.

So, you said that
you're gonna need

to be married within a day.

Tomorrow.

Okay.
Um...

That's, uh, not a lot of time
to get this done

if this is
what you want to do.

Right.

There's a turnaround
time for us,

and timing-wise,

we wouldn't be able to prepare
that agreement today for you.

Okay.

In making a big decision li

especially with
a prenuptial agreement,

because this is not
a quick one-page thing.

It takes a lot of preparation.

Wow.

Hm?

Okay.

My mom's gonna be so mad.

Well, I feel for you.

I wish you guys
the best of luck,

but timing-wise,

it's a little late
in the game.

- Okay.
- -Okay.

Thank you.

That the plan

all along was for him
to wait this long

so that there wouldn't
be enough time

to get a valid document.

And I think it's gonna
be harder for them

to trust him even more.

Okay.

It's been hard since
I've been back from Morocco.

I miss azan, and I feel

like we don't talk
as much as we used to.

I can't get a hold of azan.

I asked him to Skype
just to get --

just to talk to him.
I just want to talk to him.

I'm just frustrated
that he won't answer

or text me back or freaking

just be where
he's supposed to be

when I asked him to be.

I just wanted to talk to him
'cause my mom wasn't too happy

to hear how azan had treated
me
while I was over there.

You're trying to shield me
from some of it.

Tell me what really happened.

Sometimes when we fight,
if he wanted me to shut up,

sometimes he would say,
"shut the up."

Or he would say,
"I don't care about you."

You're gonna spend
the rest of your life.

And you're okay with that?
-No, I'm not okay with that.

My mom wants to talk to me
today

because she's upset that
I'm still going through this

and not trying to think
smarter or something.

There's a lot to be said
about a man

and the way he treats
his woman.

I know, but...

So, I'm your mom.

I love you
with all my heart.

And I need you
to be honest with me

and I need you to tell me
the truth, because I'm the one

that's gonna tell you
the bold, honest truth.

I'm not gonna sugarcoat it.
-I know.

I just, um...
-You have a hard time

with people telling you
anything
you don't want to hear.

So now's the time
to tell me all the stuff

you don't want to tell me.

Come on.

You're practically
a total stranger to him.

You guys may have
talked on the Internet,

but you didn't really
get to know each other.

Something is not right.

I can't believe you're okay
with being treated that way.

I'm not okay with being
treated this way!

-Do not yell at me.
-Then don't say that.

Use your brain, Nicole.

I mean, seriously?
This was --

this was an impossible
relationship to start with.

Why?

Because his world
is so different from yours.

You can't wrap
your head around it.

It makes no sense to you.

What happens when something
doesn't make sense to you?

Look at me.
What happens?

You bulldoze your way
through it,

and you take everything down
with you on the way through.

I don't know what to do.

Yes, you know
what to do, honey.

I don't want...

You know what to do.
You need to pray about this.

You need to listen
to the people

that love you
because they love you

and they're not doing
anything to hurt you.

And do the right thing
for you and for may.

'Cause remember, no matter
what you do, she's in this,

and she doesn't have
a choice.

I don't know
if I can just end it.

I know.
I know, sweetie.

I don't want to.

Sometimes
what we think we want,

what we hang on to so hard
is not good for us.

She's trying to bulldoze her
way
through a relationship

that is --
it's not gonna end well.

I know in my heart that this
is not the right move for her.

And it can a recipe
for disaster.

You deserve so much better.

I know!

Like, I know it's hard
to understand, but I don't --

I can't just let go
that easily.

It's not who I am.

I know I should, and I know
a lot of people would.

But it's just -- I can't.

I'm not that way.

It's gonna be okay.

If you've got any problems, b

the wedding is off limits.

When the preacher
asks,
"are there any objections?"

I'm not sure that
I'm not gonna voice my
opinion.

My fianc, lowo,
he lied to me in the
beginning.

So today, just decided to
check
on his visa paperwork.

Are you gonna
believe me now?

We'll see.

Our wedding is just
around the corner.

Are you excited?

You haven't really said much.

Yes.

Since alla got here,

we've had some ups
and downs in our relationship.

In the states
where you now live,

saying "I love you" --

it is expected.

Even though we're not on
the same page with everything,

I love alla very much.

It doesn't matter
if she tells me, "I love you,"

because she has already proven
her love in so many other
ways.

And I'm 100% ready
to get married again.

Come on, Max.

And what's especially exciting

is that we found out
a couple days ago

that alla's sister
is gonna make it to the
wedding.

And having iryna there
will mean the world to alla.

There she is.

Oh, my gosh.

Oh, my gosh.
I'm so glad that you're here.

I'm so glad, too.

My sister is one of the most
important people in my life.

I'm really happy.

She received her visa just in
time for the rehearsal dinner.

And it's like a miracle.

Tonight's the rehearsal
dinner. I'm most

but I'm getting a little
nervous

even though he doesn't
really support our
relationship,

he said he's gonna
come to the wedding.

So tonight, I'm hoping
to get some time

to pull him to the side
and let him know,

"dude, be on good
behavior tomorrow.

don't be screwing up
my wedding."

I'm just so happy to see
your family, my family here.

It means everything to me

that my sister and Matt
get along so well.

-Yes.
-I just like things

for something as special
as your wedding

to have it just right.

And I'm starting to get
excited
about my wedding tomorrow.

I need to go talk to Patrick
about something.

-Okay.
-I'll be back.

Give me a couple minutes.
-Okay.

The rehearsal dinner's
going off without a hitch.

Everything's prepared
for tomorrow's wedding.

Really, the only loose
end is Patrick.

And I wish that Patrick
tried to understand me.

-I saw you sitting over here.
-What's up?

Tomorrow night
is important to me,

and I really would like
to see things go smoothly.

Like, if you've got
any problems,

bring it up to me now.

But the wedding is off limits.
It's just off limits.

If you were to see me
get married to somebody

that I shouldn't get married
to,
would you say anything?

Of course.
I would do it right now.

I wouldn't do it in the middle
of the wedding service.

You're such a cynical a*s.

You know that?

Keep living in la-la land.

I don't want to run
in circles all night long.

All right, all right.

I want to enjoy
the night tonight.

Just -- just let me know
that you'll be in good
behavior.

I will try.

I can't say --
-I got your word.

No, you don't have my word.

But I'll try.

I look forward
to proving you wrong.

I will be coming to the
wedding.
But when the preacher asks,

"are there any objections?"

I'm not sure that
I'm not gonna stand up.

I'm not sure that I'm not
gonna voice my opinion.

My fianc, lowo,
he lied to me in the
beginning.

He told me he was from Nigeria
and living in Alabama.

He was actually
living in Vietnam.

After lowo told me there was

I came to Vietnam
because I needed to make sure

that he was being honest
with me

and telling me the truth.

So, today, I just decided
to come with him

to the ministry of justice

so I can kind of, like,
check things out myself.

See?

For once in my life,
really?

--Oh...

I guess
his story checks out.

Let's get a taxi.

Mm.
Well, we'll see.

I love him,
and I want to be with him.

Does he love you, and does
he want to be with you?

Can you honestly say he wants
to
be with you for the good
parts?

I don't know if he'll
ever be that person.

It's the day of my wedding.

I don't have a dress.
I don't have the prenup.

I don't have nothing.

-Today is crazy.
-What are we doing?

Am I picking out a dress
or do I get this paper done?

I just want
this nightmare to be over.

I think it's better for anfisa
to go back to Russia.

It's really --

I haven't been able
to talk my brother

since I got back from Morocco.

He's coming over here
to talk about me and azan,

'cause he actually
wants to hear,

like -- hear me out,
and he wants me to be happy.

So he really wants
this to be true.

So how was it?

I know it is.

...about bad things --
'cause I don't want you guys

to hear the bad things
and then think badly.

And then think bad about him
and not want to let you do
this

and just give you
constant crap about it.

I know all of it, Nicole.
I want to hear the good

'cause I don't want to think
--
-no, he's a good guy.

Okay?
He's a good guy.

He's selfless.

You know, he just
gives to people.

And he's nice.

You look sad.

I'm just --

I thought you would be
extremely happy.

I am happy.

I just --
it's situationally sad.

How often
did he make you sad?

Sad enough to where
you wanted to leave.

I never wanted to leave.

You never wanted to leave
the entire time?

Did he ever make you cry?

Yeah, I cried.

How often?

I'm just trying to grasp why

you're still even thinking
about being with this guy.

It wasn't anything like that
when we were talking before.

On the phone?

He really made you happy
on the phone.

But the key word
there is "on the phone."

It's just --
it doesn't look good.

You can talk on
the phone all day.

I know it doesn't look.

That's why I don't want
to talk about it.

I feel like he could be
a good guy,

but right now he's not.

No, during that trip,
he wasn't.

Why is he different on the
phone
than he is in person?

I don't know.
I don't know.

I can't answer
that question.

Since she has a fake version

of him to grab onto
and hold onto for hope,

that's what's making
this all stay.

And that's what's making
her think it can work.

Other than that,
it would be out the window.

It doesn't feel right.

It doesn't seem like
she should go through this.

And that's just the truth.

I love him,
and I want to be with him.

Does he love you,
and does he want to be with
you?

Can you honestly say
he wants to be with you

for the good parts of it?

That's what he told me.

When I cheated on him,
he gave me a second chance.

When all this stuff happened,

he gets a second chance
to prove himself.

And if it doesn't work out

and if he's gonna treat me
the same again,

that's the cut-off point.

You can come out of this.

You don't have to do this.

I know I don't have to.
I want to.

-I want you to be happy.
-I know.

I just want you and mom

and everyone else
to not judge him so harshly.

I told you I didn't want
to think bad about him.

I was waiting
for you to come back

and tell me
all these good things.

You know him by
who he is on the phone.

He was not him on the phone
when you got there,

and now you want him to be
the person he is on the phone.

I don't know if he'll
ever be that person.

My mom and my brother --

I listen to them,
and I hear them.

I might have a few more doubts
about the relationship.

But I still want to do this.

Pedro, come here.

The last 90 days
have been the most crazy



And today is the day
of my wedding.

I don't have a dress.
I don't have any rings.

I don't have the prenup.

And I don't even know
if my parents are gonna show
up.

Right now...

Excuse me.

Since there's
not enough time

for the lawyer
to prepare the prenup for us,

plan "b" is that we'd get
a generic prenup online.

Hopefully, it'll satisfy
my parents' wishes.

Yes.

-Okay?
-S.

Pedro and I have
to get married in a few hours,

and I have no preparations.

I don't have anything.

I'm leaving it all up
to my best friend, gege.

That's the only person
that's supportive of Pedro

and I's relationship.

It's probably just gonna be me
and gege and Pedro.

And that's it.
And bishop Watson.

Hey.

Baby, oh, my god, baby.

What are we doing?

Are we doing this paper
or are we doing my hair?

What are we doing?
Am I picking out a dress

or am I getting
this paper done?

What am I doing?

Oh, at least
I have white dresses.

Okay.

Okay, let's try
on these dresses.

Getting ready
on my wedding day

and not knowing whether
or not my parents

and my siblings will be there
feels like

can you stop right now?

Okay, nobody --
yeah, nobody can help me.

Baby.

Baby, no.

Baby, no.

I can't stress enough how much

so I want to go through
with this marriage.

Will you forgive me?

Baby, it's okay.

-Yeah?
-Yeah.

Okay, where's my
phone?
I need to call my brother.

See if he's gonna show up.

- You have reached river.
- Please leave a message,

and I'll be --

I'm gonna try
to call my mom again.

You know, I really wanted
to have a wedding

with all my family there --

my aunts, my uncles,
grandparents,

and of course
my immediate family.

Please leave message
after the tone.

Hey, mom, it's me.

Give me a call back
whenever you get this.

Thanks, bye.

Oh, my gosh. Just --
I can't get stressed out
again.

At this point, I really don't
expect anybody to show up.

Baby, you ready?

Come here.

Fasten this up.

Yeah,
you look so handsome.

Perfect.

Okay, let's go.

Can't forget
our prenup.

I really hope that my parents
will be at the wedding

and that they'll accept
that we're getting married.

Okay.

Yesterday, me and anfisa got

this morning, I woke up,

and me and anfisa were
going back and forth with
texts.

And...

Women are crazy.

We don't have much time
left on our fianc visa.

And anfisa seems so unhappy

that she's even
threatened to go home.

I feel like I just need
some time to clear my head

and work out
what I'm gonna do next.

She keyed "idiot"
into the driver-side door.

I was ultimately thinking
of proposing today.

This is not how I pictured it.

Now I just want
this nightmare to be over.

It's a little bit
under $10,000.

It's more than enough
to buy her the ticket home.

She pushed it
a little far this time.

This time, I think, too far.

Right now, I think it's better
for anfisa go back to Russia.

I think I'm just gonna
take her to the airport.

I think it's better
to do this off camera.

-Yeah.
-Yeah.

Anfisa, are you
planning to go home?

Since anfisa arrived,

we've been fighting
about everything.

You have issues.

We decided it was best

for the both of us
if anfisa went home.

How do you feel
about going home?

I don't want to talk about it.

I'm gonna buy the ticket,
and she's gonna go home.

It's really --

-that's their car.
-See them?

-Yeah.
-All right. Let's go.

She has to be at the airport

before the ticket gets...

Anfisa, can we talk to
you
for five minutes?

Anfisa, I'd love to just hear
sort of what you're thinking,

what you're planning.

Next time,
on "90 day fianc"...

While you're talking to me,
were you talking to her, too?

Yeah.

Oh, yeah

--babe.

- don't touch me.
- don't touch me.

So they wouldn't think
I'd be able to...

You might need
to get a co-sponsor.

I'm worried that I won't
have a way to do this

because I don't
have the finances.

Please help me.

-Are your parents gonna be
here?
-I'm not sure.

My parents are not
exactly supportive

about Pedro
and I getting married.

But if my family doesn't show
up, I'm gonna be devastated.

If they don't show up
in a few minutes,

we're gonna have to go ahead
and get started.

So, what do you think
we need to do now

for you and I to be happy?

Right now I don't
where me and anfisa stand.

We're thinking about
calling it quits.

Do you want
to marry me?