previously on
"90 day fiancé"...
how much do you want
to have sex?
in a relationship.
tasha's situation,
i am done accepting things.
tania: as a mom, i don't
tolerate a new person
acting like that
towards my kids, period.
when the kids get upset,
i get upset.
you know what tomorrow is?
you get to be
a u.s. citizen.
i just feel even more
overwhelmed than i already did.
she's irrational, emotional.
i do give you
true compliments.
i feel really embarrassed
right now.
have you ever thought,
maybe it's you?
you're bat crazy?
she makes it seem like
i'm the bad guy,
when i'm trying so hard.
and coming up...
steven: i have a secret that
i've been keeping from olga,
and i'm worried about how she's
gonna react when i tell her.
the real elephant in the room
is larissa and you.
she said some horrible
things to me,
and i don't know
that i can forgive her.
debbie: larissa and i have
had our differences.
she's a b*tch.
i'm sorry it had to happen,
all right?
well, you don't seem
to sorry about it.
it's hard for me to accept
the fact that he's sorry
when he was the one
that booted me to the street.
i really wanted you guys
to be there.
it's really important.
i'm sorry.
i have been keeping
something from you.
i don't even
know how to say it.
i just want to know why a week
after you got married,
did you find it
necessary.
everything that i have done
for him,
and this is how he treats me?
the wedding's coming up
in a few days,
and it's been pretty stressful.
you know, i don't
feel good about it.
but i had to get tasha out
of the apartment
to prove to leida that
she is my number-one priority.
stay the
out of my room.
tasha...
i'm done with your
dramatic attitude.
this is why you don't
deserve my dad, either.
tasha: i don't know where my
dad
and i stand anymore.
but if he's really going
to disown me
because of his psychotic
new wife --
i don't want to just not see
my dad anymore,
but if this is how
it's gonna be,
then...i guess it's just
how it's gonna be.
the kids are --
the kids are upset right now.
they don't -- they don't
really even care
about coming
to the wedding.
if they want to come, then
good.
if they don't want to come,
then it's good.
eric:
tasha was hurt by leida,
and her sisters
are backing her up.
i'm hoping that we can
talk this out,
and then make sure that,
you know,
they're all clear
and everything's all right.
because this is --
this is my wedding,
and they are
a big part of my life.
and if leida and i don't
get married, i'm gonna be
alone.
and i hope they understand
that,
and i hope they don't
want that for me.
hey, kiddos.
gonna let me in?
-eh.
-eh, what?
all right.
i know it's --
i know it's tense right now.
"tense" would be a little bit
of an understatement.
yeah.
they got into this stupid
argument because, "oh, no.
everything's not proper.
holy geez, i'm gonna die."
doesn't mean you have to go on
a rampage and kick somebody
out.
how are you guys doing?
there's already eight people
living in that house, so...
i don't know. you don't seem
too sorry about it.
it's -- i don't know.
it's -- it's hard for me to
accept the fact that he's sorry
when he was the one
that booted me to the street.
you had warning.
you knew that she was coming.
you knew you had to find
your own apartment.
you knew there wasn't
gonna be room.
so it justifies the way
that she treated me,
and how the both of you
just threw me to the streets
like i was nothing.
i didn't throw you
to the street.
what's done is done.
all right?
still could've gone
about it better.
i had no control
over how it played out.
dad definitely could've
done better
to try to fix
this situation
before it even happened,
instead of trying
to do cleanup afterwards.
you literally told me
that it could not seem
that you were defending me
in any way, shape, or form
or leida
would blow up on you.
okay.
yes, i was taking her side.
i had to take her side,
because you're making me
choose.
she absolutely was.
she doesn't deserve to be
in this country anyways.
get the out.
take it easy, all right?
you're choosing leida
over any of us.
it's hard to stomach sometimes
that my kids
are hurting in this situation,
but leida's my last shot
at love.
um...
i spent two decades
making decisions
based upon the kids, you know?
and...
kind of gotta do it
for myself now.
listen, all right?
it's a complicated situation.
you guys are getting
a new stepmother.
she has different views
and perspectives on things.
she has different ways
of doing things.
but i'm not forcing you guys
out of my life.
i'm not going to.
i love you guys, period.
all right?
i'd really like to get this
resolved before the wedding.
i really want you guys
to be there.
it's really important.
you know, this whole situation
is absolute bat
and with all this going on
with tasha,
it's kind of rubbing
against me wrong, too.
i mean, what does that --
what does that say to her?
like, she can treat me
like
stomp on me,
kick me out to the streets,
and then i'm still gonna
kiss a*s and go to her wedding?
try to at least reconsider,
for me.
it would mean a lot to me
for you guys to be there.
tasha: i don't care how many
times he asks me to reconsider.
i'm not going.
i'm not going to think
about it anymore.
i'm not.
let's go.
eric: i'm in between a rock and
a hard place at the moment.
but i do hope that, you know,
rational minds will prevail
and my daughters
will come to the wedding.
his citizenship is the
most important thing to me.
and then we'll figure out
what's going on
with your visa, as well.
steven: i got him
his american passport.
so what that means...
he is okay to stay here,
but...
what do you mean?
hey!
okay.
yes, how -- how --
just feel stressed out
at this point.
jonathan:
fernanda wrote me a letter,
and i'm just preparing
for the worst.
i worry this could be
the end of it.
kalani: the baby did
better this time, yeah?
asuelu: mm-hmm.
asuelu and i just arrived back
in california
from utah for our wedding.
i decided to have my wedding
in california
because that's where
most of my family lives,
and that's my home.
it's been a pretty rough ride
getting here,
and the whole
surprise pregnancy
didn't really make it
any easier.
i feel like we had
a conversation
about waiting to have a baby
and being more careful.
every couple and family
has problems.
and i still want
to pursue the wedding
and get married.
i'm glad that we finally
decided to get married,
but it's taken the whole
now there's a bunch
of last-minute things
that we have to figure out
while we stay at an airbnb
until our wedding.
i like the colors.
you want to sit
for a little bit?
yeah.
here, come to mama.
oh, my goodness.
so, the plan for the wedding
is that it will be on a boat.
but since i did procrastinate
so much
with not knowing about
wanting to get married,
i have, like, a couple days
to get everything done
for my wedding.
asuelu
doesn't have clothes.
oliver doesn't have clothes.
like, we have nothing
put together for the wedding.
i don't know.
i know
i want to marry you.
i feel happy to do that,
but i just feel
stressed out at this point.
i don't want to.
i don't think it's a good idea.
i feel like if my family
finds out
that i'm pregnant
before we get married,
that they're going to think
that you, like,
got me pregnant
on purpose
so that i would have
to marry you
or something
like that.
i know.
i do love asuelu.
and i'm excited
about the wedding.
but i am worried about
telling the rest of my family
about me being pregnant,
because i just feel like
it'll ruin the wedding.
but it doesn't feel right,
keeping secrets from them.
so i don't know whether or not
i should tell my family.
jonathan: fernanda and i got in
a huge fight last night.
we slept in separate rooms,
and i haven't talked to her
since yesterday.
this is definitely the biggest
fight we've gotten into
since fernanda's been
in america.
you don't want what?
you know, i feel like i've
tried
to give fernanda
everything that i can,
every piece of me.
and we've worked so hard
to get here.
but i worry this could be
the end of it.
sit down.
fernanda
wrote me a letter.
i'm thinking to myself...
and i'm just preparing
for the worst.
i understand
why you're upset.
i really do.
i really do.
i feel terrible that
you feel alone here,
and that you haven't
quite made many friends yet
and haven't been able
to leave the house,
and that
you feel trapped.
'cause i feel like
your happiness
is my responsibility.
i've never had to do that
before --
support someone else
and think about,
you know, all their
feelings and emotions
and what could be going on
in their mind.
and i'm sorry.
what, do you --
i mean, are you --
so if i tell you
where i am and i say
i'll be home in a little bit,
is that okay with you?
okay.
then i'll come home.
okay?
i think it's necessary
to have these conversations.
you're getting ready to spend
your life with somebody.
you need to know
what they expect.
fernanda and i are
learning something new
about each other
all the time.
and that's the only way
this is gonna work out.
mm-hmm.
of course i do.
i know.
so am i.
maybe you and larissa can
come to terms, make amends?
she said some horrible
things to me,
and i don't know
that i can forgive her.
debbie: i don't see how colt
can
go through with this marriage.
she's a b*tch.
you want to go now?
i'm gonna do my hair and
makeup,
and then --
so, i'm gonna meet you
at the chapel, right?
meet me over there, yeah.
don't come back.
all right.
make sure you're beautiful.
take time.
goodbye.
jay: but we're in vegas,
and you know, like,
i think i'm ready
to get married.
hello.
-hi!
-hi.
hair and makeup.
how are you today?
-good, how are you?
-good.
so, we're gonna start.
-okay.
-perfect.
ashley:
after two previous engagements,
i cannot believe that i am
finally taking this step
that i was so close to before
but didn't make it.
woman: tell us
about your fiancé.
um, he's from jamaica,
actually.
-oh, wow.
-where'd you guys meet?
um, i was there for a wedding,
and i met him at a bar.
-that's cool.
-and now we're here.
i was engaged twice before,
so i'm finally making it down
the aisle without running away.
i am here getting married, and
i
do think it's the right choice.
but there's still a sadness
kind of surrounding the day,
just because my wedding day
is not really everything
i ever dreamed of.
i never in my life thought that
i would be alone
on my wedding day with no one
to help me get ready, you know.
i was looking forward to having
my friends
there supporting me,
and it --
you know, it hurts that i have
to do this all by myself.
in the past 90 days, i've had
some doubts about marrying jay.
he's definitely given me
some moments
that have made me question
whether or not
he's gonna be faithful.
but i know that all these
issues
leading up to our wedding day
have made
this relationship real
and made me realize
how much i really do love jay.
so i'm ready to do this.
i'm ready to get married.
i can't wait to see
jay in a dark-red tuxedo.
curious to see how he looks.
i'm following my heart,
not my mind, you know? so...
ashley: it feels a little
unreal
being here,
alone in my wedding dress,
in las vegas,
on what is supposed to be
the happiest day of my life.
this ceremony
is totally opposite
of the normal church wedding
that we were planning on
going with,
but here we are.
we're gonna get married --
jay, me, and of course, elvis.
amazing grace
how sweet the sound
i once was lost
jay: it was like
i was standing on mid-air.
and you know, i just want
her to, like, come up
and, like, stand in front of me
and hold my hand.
was blind, but now i see
just waiting on the part
where i'm gonna get to kiss
her.
congratulations, you two.
jay, come stand side by side
with your bride-to-be.
marriage is two hearts
with one love
that grows greater
through the years,
and is treasured
above all else.
if you two would turn
face-to-face.
jay, you have a ring for
ashley?
as you place the ring
on her finger,
tell her, "i promise..."
i promise...
"...to always love you
tender..."
...to al-- to always
love you tender...
"...and never leave you..."
...and never leave you...
"...at heartbreak hotel."
...at heartbreak hotel.
i never really imagined
i'd be saying
my vows, like, elvis-style.
but just looking into jay's
eyes
and him, you know,
saying the vows just, like,
kind of puts all of that away
and just makes me kind of
in-the-moment and happy
and just excited to be his
wife.
your turn, honey.
tell him, "i promise..."
i promise...
"...to take you as my hunka
hunka burnin' love..."
...to take you as my hunka
hunka burnin' love...
"...and always love you
tender..."
...and always
love you tender...
...and never return you
to sender."
...and never return you
to jamaica.
yes!
"for you will always be..."
for you
will always be...
"...my lovin' teddy bear."
...my -- my lovin'
teddy bear.
jamaica is, like,
all i've ever known
for the 20 years
i've been on this earth.
you know,
that is my place.
that is my heart.
it is a big decision
to, like,
give up my place
for her place.
that should show that
i really love her, so...
on behalf of the graceland
wedding chapel
and the suit that i wear --
thank you very much --
as well as the power vested
in me by the state of nevada,
i now pronounce
you husband and wife.
jay, kiss your wife!
yeah!
jay and i have had our issues
over the last 90 days.
and i just hope that i made
a good decision,
'cause i don't want to
regret it later down the road.
you never know what the future
holds,
so you just take that risk
and hope that it's worth it.
the wedding is less
than two weeks away.
in the past 90 days,
larissa and i have had
our ups and downs.
it's been very difficult for
me,
personally.
just leave it there.
but we managed to resolve
our issue in the past few days.
she's managed to control
herself a lot better.
at the end of the day,
you do have a good heart.
things are back on track
with me and larissa.
but my mother and larissa have
not talked since the barbecue,
and that was a few weeks ago.
larissa: you never say
nothing against me?
i'm done.
i'm done!
i'm done!
i'm done with you.
-larissa, calm down.
i am so done with you.
hey, mom.
hey.
colt: the wedding is
just around the corner,
and i really need larissa and
my mom to start talking again.
i'm looking for a recipe.
oh.
what recipe?
maybe for
a homemade pizza.
homemade pizza?
that sounds delicious.
yeah.
how was your dinner
with andrea?
it was good and bad.
why was it bad?
well...
larissa and i started out
kind of rough.
we were kind of --
we got in a little fight.
but ultimately,
it was a good time.
i needed to see if larissa
could be more patient,
more accepting,
more trusting.
and she was.
that makes me feel like,
"yes, colt.
you're making
the right decision."
larissa and i
can do this.
but the real elephant
in the room
is larissa and you.
so...
i don't know how to try
to get along with her.
she resents
everything i say.
debbie:
i haven't spoken with larissa
because she pulled
a big temper tantrum.
she starts screaming
and yelling,
and it's just not --
it's not necessary.
she said some horrible
things to me,
and i don't know
that i can forgive her.
well...
i was hoping that maybe you
and larissa
can come to terms,
make amends?
larissa needs to step up
and come to me
and apologize.
okay.
i don't know that i can
accept larissa.
i think larissa was wrong
and she should apologize
to me first.
i love larissa.
i want to marry larissa.
and i know you're hurt by
what happened at the barbecue.
i don't see how colt can go
through with this marriage.
she's a b*tch.
well, i don't know
if i want her in my family.
that breaks my heart.
mine, too.
a lot has happened
in the past few months.
but i never thought i would
have to choose
between my mother
and my fiancée.
if larissa doesn't apologize
to my mother,
i might have to make
a very hard choice
between a life with larissa
and a life with my mother.
and i hope to god
that i don't have to do that.
i do have some concerns
with him.
i feel like, 50/50.
i just don't know whether
i'm going to do this.
do you think that you are
ready to say, "i do"?
once you say "i do,"
then everything's
gonna be different then.
i don't know.
tonight, we're going out.
i'm uncomfortable being
around my sister
without her knowing
that i'm pregnant.
are you nervous?
come on, alless.
it's one week until the
wedding,
so today is gonna be
my makeup trial day
to see how am i gonna look
for my big day.
-hello.
-hello.
how are you?
what brings you in today?
yes, i have a makeup
trial appointment.
perfect. you're gonna be
with cassie today.
you don't deserve --
he can do way better than you.
i was hoping after
his last relationship
that tanked so badly,
he would've learned his lesson,
but obviously not.
-oh...
-yeah.
no, no, no.
what the ever.
you are the --
so nobody wants to come
with me today,
and i don't care.
i'm here.
i'm gonna do it.
let's sit
in that first one.
all right.
-so, congratulations.
-thank you.
-are you so excited?
-yeah, i am.
i just want to show you,
like, uh --
kind of what you're
looking to do today?
yeah, exactly.
i want, like, smoky eyes.
-okay.
i also like a little bit
lighter on the lips.
-mm-hmm.
-yeah.
great.
i don't even know how to do
my own makeup,
because back in indonesia,
i have a whole team
of makeup artists
and hair stylists
to get everything done for me.
so, the wedding is sunday.
-sunday, yeah.
-great.
so, has everything been
moving really fast?
yeah.
it's been hustle and bustle
since i got here.
so, where are you
from originally?
um, i'm from indonesia.
-okay.
-yeah.
i'm on the k-1 visa,
so you know, like,
i have 90 days
to get married.
really?
i don't -- i don't know
how you're doing it,
'cause i could not imagine.
i would be a mess.
yeah.
do you have
any family members
that are coming over
for the wedding?
uh, sadly, no 'cause
my family won't be here.
like,
they're in indonesia.
that's quite the --
quite the trip to make.
i know.
like, 26 hours.
-yeah?
-yeah.
did you think you were
in love before,
your last marriage,
the way you are now?
-not really.
-no, not like you are now?
no, 'cause...
-seven days.
-seven days.
it's really a big,
huge commitment, you know?
i want to have, like, a
lifetime
companion, you know?
-yeah.
-yeah.
that's exciting.
but i do have
some concerns with him.
okay.
i have a problem
with the child-support thing.
and then...
like, i wish that i could
turn back time
and just get
a single guy, you know?
-just relax your face.
-yeah, okay.
cassie:
she's got a lot going on.
she kind of wants that control,
and she doesn't have it.
so i think she's kind
of struggling with that.
and then, my family
keeps saying like,
"you can do better
than that.
you can find
someone else."
do you sometimes doubt
your decision because of that?
yeah.
but, you know,
you can't find perfection.
right?
i mean, you can, but
everybody's slightly flawed.
and that's why we love them,
i think.
yeah.
do you think that you
are ready to say,
"i do"
for the rest of your life?
this is it, you know?
like, once you say "i do,"
then everything's
gonna be different then.
i don't know.
i'm like, i still have
so many doubts, you know?
i'm just gonna have you
look forward.
yeah.
i almost goodbye to indonesia
because i feel like
he's not
making me as priority.
when was that,
just recently?
i think it was, like,
monday, i guess.
she's unraveling
just a little bit,
but that's as to be expected.
i couldn't imagine doing it
in this amount of time.
that's normal people,
girl.
yeah.
lately, eric's been trying
to prove it to me
that i am his priority.
hopefully, you get
some time to relax
and just calm down
a little bit.
-yeah.
-you know?
for now,
i feel like, 50/50.
i just don't know, um,
whether i'm going to do this,
or i can just go
back to indonesia.
kalani:
it's the day before my wedding.
i'm back in california,
and i just have this insanely
long list of things
that i need to do.
and today, i'm getting my nails
done with my mom
and my sister before
my bachelorette party tonight.
hello!
-hi! how are you?
-good, how are you?
-good.
it's faagata party
of three, kalani?
-yes.
-okay, no problem.
i can take you here.
-hello, guys.
-hi.
-hi, baby.
doing wedding-prep stuff
with my mom
knowing i'm pregnant,
my sister not knowing --
it just feels weird.
i just --
i don't really feel right.
thank you.
-no problem.
so, you're getting married
tomorrow.
are you nervous?
how are feeling?
um...
i'm nervous because
i don't have my stuff.
i'm not, like, nervous
to get married.
well, you have to admit,
the last time
when i was in utah,
it was a little weird
and you guys
did get in a fight.
yeah.
kalani: i've done lots
for your family.
and i even went against
what my dad said.
my dad didn't want me to go
to samoa with the baby,
because he was worried.
kolini: at this point, i would
like for my sister
not to feel like
she has to marry him.
because from what i saw
at brunch,
i wouldn't want her
to marry that.
obviously, every couple
has fights and stuff.
but i feel like we've talked
through a lot of things and...
well, that's good.
...before, i felt like it was
a mistake bringing him here
just because i didn't know
who he was or what he was
doing.
and now i feel like i have
the old him semi-back.
and i'm like, "okay, yeah,
that's who i want
to get married to."
well, i'm glad you feel better
about everything.
i'm uncomfortable, like,
being around my sister
without her knowing that
i'm pregnant
just because i feel like
i am keeping something
from her, because i am.
so it just feels, like, off.
i don't -- i feel off.
i think it's gonna be
a fun day.
i can't wait to see you and him
and baby all dressed up.
well, tonight...
we're going out.
you know where we're going
or what we're doing yet?
you'll see.
are you gonna have
a beverage tonight?
um...
it's awkward for me
when kolini starts talking
about drinking
at the bachelorette party,
and me already knowing
that kalani's pregnant.
i would hate for kolini
to figure out
on her own
that kalani's pregnant.
i'm worried that she might
be really upset,
and maybe try to stop
the wedding
because it's not
a lot of time for her
to process that
her sister's pregnant again.
whatever.
kolini: tonight, i'm throwing
my
sister a bachelorette party.
and we're going to have
some fun.
she's not gonna drink,
apparently.
but i will for the both of us.
i feel like my sister could be
a little more excited.
she seems almost numb.
like, she doesn't seem, like,
overly happy or anything.
and i just wish
that i saw that in her
because i want her
to be excited.
okay, it's all set.
do you like it?
yes, i love it.
thank you so much.
thanks.
so, i'm done.
love ya.
-bye. i love you.
see you tomorrow.
see you tonight.
-see you in a little bit.
-okay.
was it awkward for you
when she kept talking
about drinking?
yeah.
i feel like...
...i'm lying,
because i am.
do you think you're just
gonna tell her before, or...
do you still think
it's not --
i feel like because
she was so mad before
with me not telling her
a lot of things about asuelu,
that lying about
something else like this
is just one more thing
for her to,
like, be mad at me
and be mad at him about.
because it's just
this big secret
that she's not a part of.
it's, like, i don't want to
just keep dodging it.
i would rather address it.
but then, like, the other
part of me is just scared.
like, what if she finds out
and then it's like,
"oh, i don't even want to go
to the wedding"?
right.
or maybe
she'll try to stop it,
or maybe she'll try to
convince me not to do it.
it's a crap sh**t.
yeah.
kalani:
i feel kind of nervous.
but telling my sister
that i'm pregnant
the day of the wedding
is not an option,
so my bachelorette party
is really the only chance
i have to tell her.
i just --
i don't want to upset her.
steven: i have a secret that
i've been keeping from olga,
and i'm just worried about
how she's gonna react
when i tell her.
it's a little difficult
to say, but, like...
i have been keeping
something from you.
my sister's gonna be pissed
when she finds out.
i don't even
know how to say it.
yes, something that we didn't
really get that much.
hopefully, you'll be over
really, really soon.
yeah.
go right here?
steven:
being in russia with olga
and seeing our son
be born has been amazing.
but i've been thinking a lot
about my relationship with olga
since the time
that i've been here.
and i want to sit down with her
before i leave
and just talk
a few things out,
because i have a secret that
i've been keeping from olga,
and i'm just worried about
how she's gonna react
when i tell her.
it's a little difficult
to say but, like,
before i came here,
back in december,
like, when i said, like,
i applied for the visa...
i didn't apply
for it then.
if i would've applied
when i did,
you would've been over like,
a month or -- a month ago.
oh.
i didn't apply for the k-1 visa
when i told her that i did.
i applied for the k-1 visa
when i got to russia,
and i did not
tell her about it.
the reason, like,
i didn't apply for it --
okay, i can't say anything.
i didn't.
but i did now...
mm-hmm.
...and it is
getting processed.
um, but i feel like
i should be honest
with you about that.
i know.
and again,
it's my mistake.
i have no words
to save me,
'cause, like,
that was my mistake.
i just didn't know, like,
exactly what was going on
with us
because we got pregnant
and then,
we just
decided k-1 visa.
and to me,
i was like, well,
we didn't even get a chance
to really speak about it yet.
so in my mind, i just wanted
to hold off for a little bit
until i got to know,
like, you a little bit more.
do you understand, like,
in a way, what i mean?
like --
honestly, like,
i thought about it.
like, that's something,
like, i've been thinking
about a lot.
and i know that, like,
i don't want to be,
like, an a*s
about that.
i feel like
you really should...
keep him for now.
it was my mistake.
i really want to bring richie
over to the states with me,
but i know it's best
that he stays with his mom
because he's just really young.
i'm gonna miss him more
than anything in the world.
but i know that it's
the right thing to do.
i know my feelings
towards you.
and, like, i'm gonna try
my hardest
to give you everything
that you want.
i just want you to be
patient with me
and just not
give up on me.
mm-hmm.
and, like, you do mean
everything to me.
i may not show it
all the time,
and i don't really get my
real feelings out to you.
yeah.
but, like, i need you to know
that i grew to love you
so much, like,
while we were here.
that being said...
...will you marry me?
will you?
is it yes?
neither do i.
i'm very excited.
and look,
it fits perfect.
steven: when we found out
that olga was pregnant,
the first decision was,
"okay, we're just gonna get
married and come to america."
but i'd never got down on one
knee and gave her a ring.
you look very happy.
steven: i really feel like
i just dropped a million
pounds off my shoulders.
and, uh, my heart is very back
to normal beating.
but overall,
i'm extremely happy now.
i know this is what she wanted
and what i wanted.
yeah.
i will.
and i'll keep up
on the visa thing, as well.
i promise.
and then i'll let you --
i'll tell you everything
from now on.
it does bother me --
this rift that has developed.
are you choosing me
right now?
someone was facetiming
jay at, like, midnight.
everything that i have done
for him,
and this is
how he treats me?
eh, why are there
so many bugs here?
'cause they keep
plant life going.
eh, it's dirty.
eric:
so, tomorrow's the big day.
but there's still a lot
of issues we need to talk
about.
i love leida.
i want to marry her.
but leida's arrival here
in the united states
has thrown some turbulence
in my relationship
with my daughters.
that's how we do it
in america.
-step over.
-yeah, i know.
i just want to make sure
that it's clean.
you know me.
okay.
it sucks that we have this
deadline of the k-1 visa,
because i just don't have time
to fix things
between my daughters
and leida at the moment.
but i need her to understand
that my kids are still
part of the family.
i need her to accept them.
well, obviously...
mm-hmm?
...i mean, you're
the priority, okay?
you're
my immediate family now.
okay?
-of course.
the girls are immediate
family, too.
and obviously, as a parent,
it does bother me --
this rift
that has developed.
well, it wasn't my fault.
i keep saying, yeah.
-i don't blame you for it, no.
i do not blame you for it,
all right?
but eventually, this rift
will have to get repaired.
so we will have to move forward
with that in mind,
to mend fences.
-i know.
but it's not gonna be
that easy like that, no.
-no, i know it's not.
-it takes time.
it will take time,
i know.
it's not always gonna be
so cut and dry,
you or tasha, okay?
it will not always be that --
it may not always be that case.
are you choosing me
right now?
yes, i am.
i'm just trying to lay out
what may happen in the future,
just to prepare you.
-all right, okay.
but it will take time --
a long time to heal.
the other question was
whether or not
it would be a problem
to have her there if she did
show up for the wedding.
it would be a shame
if she wasn't there.
she's still daughter.
she's still family.
but i figured distance
would be kept anyways
if she did show up.
she'd at least be there,
sitting in the background
somewhere.
eric: it hurts when
she threatens to leave.
it's emotional blackmail.
and i need to know
that our marriage is
on a firm foundation,
'cause i just -- i don't think
i can get into a marriage
with someone that does that.
tomorrow's the point
of no return.
so once we're married,
we're married.
you can't just keep threatening
to up and leave.
if she's there,
she's there.
i'm not gonna, you know,
talk to her
or try to reach her.
but i mean, i'm choosing
not to go back.
i'm choosing to be
with you.
i've given up everything
to be with you.
i know.
and i expect you to do
the same thing, too,
and you are.
i'm choosing you
over my family.
and you're choosing me
over your daughter.
and i want to say thank you
for that.
but if it changes in the
future,
i don't care if we're married.
i still going back to
indonesia.
just be happy.
you're gonna get
married tomorrow.
just be happy with it, you
know?
-i am.
like, officially --
you don't look happy.
i got sun in my face.
i mean, i'm not
going to leave you.
but this only
depends on you.
if you keep pissing me off
all the time,
then i'll walk away.
i don't know.
i mean, just don't do it.
don't make that happen,
okay?
how do i not piss you
off sometimes?
i told you
in the beginning,
i do make mistakes sometimes
or say something stupid.
-don't do it.
-okay?
just don't do it.
i try not to.
you have to remember,
like,
we're in this situation
together.
yes.
that's what i keep
trying to say.
well, all right, then.
eric: i'm very ready to get
married to leida,
but i hope my daughters
come to the wedding.
it's important for me,
for them to be involved.
they are family.
they gotta be part
of this family.
i guess we'll see if they're
gonna be able to make it or
not.
but it's hard for me to imagine
getting married
without them there.
debbie: i'm very skeptical
about working
things out with larissa.
i have been keeping
something from you.
i'm pregnant.
i feel like maybe he did do
it...to tie her down.
mm-hmm.
hi. welcome, ladies.
welcome to candy nails.
how can i help you today?
we're here
to get manicures.
you guys can come on over.
hi, my name ivy,
and what is your name?
debbie.
larissa and i have had
our differences.
and i'm very skeptical about
working things out with
larissa,
but i'm willing to try.
right now, colt believes that
they're right for each other.
we'll see.
what kind of nails
do you want today?
okay,
glitter would be nice.
yes, uh-huh.
okay, not all white.
so it's like
the french, okay.
and how may
i help you today?
i would just like my nails
to look nice.
painted light pink,
maybe.
so, is there
a special occasion
that you guys are here
today for,
or are you guys
just here for fun?
oh, my gosh!
how exciting.
so, when's the date?
sunday is so close.
you have to have fresh nails
for your wedding.
yeah.
is this your --
your mom?
wow.
so big day for you guys,
right?
we do argue.
you know, my mother-in-law,
one time we fight
and after that,
she take me out for dinner.
-yeah?
-yeah, she did.
-you get along good now, or --
-yeah, she really nice to me.
-yeah?
-so it's good when you have
a happy mother-in-law,
you know?
so am i.
i do, too.
we're all women, right?
what goes around will --
yeah.
we're both
strong-willed women.
but we just want
what's good for colt.
debbie: i believe when
larissa apologized to me,
it was very sincere.
i think she realized
that she pushed it
a little far, too fast.
and i appreciate her apology,
you know, and i accepted it.
so i think we've probably
figured out a lot
of our problems going forward.
what is
your fiancé's name?
colt?
-a cat?
-i have a cat.
is he a mother's boy,
would you say?
yes.
yes.
well, i'm glad
colt's getting married.
i think it's about time.
at first, i wasn't sure
that you guys could
make it work.
but now, i think that you guys
have had problems
and you worked them out.
and i -- i know how much
he loves you.
he truly loves you.
you sure?
i really do want this to work.
and i think that larissa and i
are working it out.
she's come a long way, and
i think i've come a long way.
if you ever want to talk
about anything, i'm there.
okay?
i'll just move to another place
by myself.
you guys need to be by
yourself.
yeah?
-thank you.
-okay, bye.
bye.
looks beautiful.
yeah. oh, my god.
don't you love?
kalani:
i'm at my bachelorette party.
i'm going to meet my sister
and a couple of my friends.
-hi!
-hello!
hiya!
asuelu's back at the airbnb.
oliver is with my mom.
i would love to be drinking
right now, but i can't.
this feels really weird.
-oh, yeah.
woman #2: it looks like it's
gonna flop off your head.
no.
cheers to my beautiful sister
on her bachelorette night.
-thank you.
-drinking a shirley temple.
thank you
for inviting us.
of course.
so, give us the details.
what's the hottest thing
about him?
-yes.
-yes.
give her the mic.
the hottest thing --
hello?
is this thing on?
the hottest thing
about asuelu...
is, um --
damn, you have
to think about it?
-right?
-just say it.
we're all adults.
his p*nis?
like,
what else would be sexy?
lots of things,
you weirdo.
kalani: i'm so excited
to see my friends
that i haven't seen in a while,
but i feel like there's just
this looming weirdness
because i have to tell my
sister
i'm pregnant at some point.
shots, shots,
shots, shots.
are you okay?
um, i am glad you all came
here.
i love all of y'all, and
i'm so glad to see you here.
but i kind of just want to
steal
my sister away for a second
and have a little moment
with her
before we move on and party.
-that's okay.
we can all have
our own party here.
bye.
my sister's gonna be pissed
when
she finds out that i'm
pregnant.
worst case scenario,
she, like, storms out
and then doesn't want to go
to my wedding.
i just hope she doesn't cry.
well, i'm having
so much fun.
thanks for
all the decorations.
you're welcome.
i don't even
know how to say it.
okay.
i feel bad about how things
have been going.
i feel like when we had
a conversation with asuelu
and, like,
we came to the agreement
that we would be honest
with each other, uh,
and, like, move forward
from that point --
i have been keeping
something from you.
oh, you're
freaking me out.
uh...
kalani: okay.
i feel bad about how things
have been going.
i feel like when we had
a conversation with asuelu
and, like,
we came to the agreement
that we would be honest
with each other, uh,
and, like, move forward
from that point --
i have been keeping
something from you.
oh, you're
freaking me out.
uh...
...i'm pregnant.
no, you're not.
you are.
like, you promise?
i'm sorry.
i feel like --
i know it's, like,
disappointing news
and, like,
horrible timing right now.
but i just feel like --
i feel like either way
if i told you, it was bad.
like, i wanted to wait
until after the wedding,
but then i just felt like
i was lying to you.
and then it was too much.
and i just wanted to be
honest with you.
i don't want to keep anything
from you anymore.
kalani: i just told my sister
that i'm pregnant,
and i thought
that it would --
i knew she would
probably be mad.
but i was hoping
she would just be mad
and not be upset
the way she is.
and now she's crying,
and i feel like
i just ruined everything again.
like, you're
a grown-a*s woman.
and then this happens,
when the baby's
and asuelu can't work.
i thought it was
really stupid, too.
yeah,
and i bet he's stoked.
he doesn't understand
the concept of like,
"hi, we have to pay
for a baby."
it's always something.
you okay?
kolini: i just, like,
don't want --
like, this is not
how it's supposed to be.
i don't get it.
i don't get it.
just having this happen, like,
the day before, i just --
i don't feel good about it.
i feel like maybe he did do it
to tie her down.
and i just don't feel
like her marriage to asuelu
is the best for her.
she just, like,
dropped a b*mb on me, so...
yeah.
kalani: i feel like every time
my sister, like,
starts kind of accepting asuelu
or accepting our relationship,
then something else happens
to make her
either dislike him or just
dislike our relationship.
-want to sit?
-sure.
i am sorry for
telling you like this
and making you upset.
i feel like i just...
accepted the idea of you guys
getting married
and being together.
and then, this.
it's just one thing
after another.
i know that this is
a stupid decision
and a stupid time.
but i do love him,
do want to marry him,
and i'm sorry that
your feelings are hurt
and you're upset.
but i'm hoping that tomorrow,
maybe after we both sleep
and, like, kind of process
things a little more,
that hopefully
we can just enjoy
the day tomorrow
and be happy.
honestly, i don't even
want to see asuelu tomorrow.
i will remind her
that obviously, like,
it's never too late
to back out.
you can always not marry him.
someone was facetiming
jay at, like, midnight.
so i just messaged her.
i'm like, "why were you
calling my husband?"
and she was like, "the jamaican
guy that i met on tinder?"
um...
someone was facetiming
jay at, like, midnight.
and i noticed it said
"paige" on the phone.
and i was like, "who is --
who is facetiming you at, like,
this late in the night?"
like, he had just came
from the gym.
and, um...
and then he was like,
"oh, yeah,
a girl that was calling
about a tattoo."
and i was like, "at 11:45
at night on facetime?
why the hell would anyone
be calling you at 11:45
on facetime for a tattoo?
like, that doesn't make sense."
and so i, like,
asked him about it.
and he kept denying it,
so i just messaged her.
and i was like, um -- i'm like,
"why were you calling my
husband
at 11:45 at night?"
and she was like,
"who the hell is your husband?"
and i was like, "jay."
and she was like,
"the jamaican guy
that i met on tinder,"
with a question mark.
and then she was like, "he
never
told me he was married.
he said he just moved here
and he's staying with family
and wanted to meet up.
we were supposed to meet up
this weekend."
i found out that jay
made an account
and was talking
to multiple women and...
...trying to meet with them.
so i looked at jay
and i was like,
"do you have a tinder?"
as soon as it came out
of my mouth and i said,
"she's screenshotting me" --
he was standing right here.
and i said to him,
"she's sending me
the messages right now.
so either you admit to it,
or if she sends these messages
and they are in fact you,
you are out on your
a*s.
so you pick right now
which one you want to choose."
and that's when he admitted
to everything.
and i was like, "we're done."
and then he punched a hole
in the wall.
he won't admit to, like,
meeting with her
or sleeping with her,
and i didn't ask her.
honestly, all i needed to know
was when he said,
"yes, i've been on it."
that's enough.
like, i don't even need to know
if they had sex.
like...
he created the account
the day we got home...
from our wedding.
everything that
i have done for him,
and this is how he treats me?
i don't even know how you can
go
to bed at night
and be okay with yourself,
like,
treating someone so poorly --
someone that has done
so much for you.
the jamaican dream.
meet a girl
and come over to the u.s.
like, i'm so stupid.
like, the signs were there.
i just ignored them.
so it's my fault at the end
of the day
and, like, i should've --
should've known better.
i went to natalie's house
last night when i found out.
she just said she already knew.
she knew it was just
a matter of time.
she knew he was doing it
in jamaica.
maybe she was right.
it's not like you can just say,
"get out of my house
and go on down the road."
like, i'm responsible for him
for 10 years.
like, this isn't a cut
and dry like,
"hey, we went
to high school together.
your parents live up the road."
like, " you, you just
cheated on me.
get out," you know?
it's like,
"what do i do with him?"
it's funny how one action can
make you completely regret
and want to take back
the relationship.
'cause if you can do something
that quickly
after you get married,
you've been doing it.
you just never got caught.
i asked him what -- like,
"what did i do?"
like, "what were you missing
that you had to get on
and find women?"
and he says he was bored.
next time on "90 day
fiancé"...
saying goodbye to richie's
the hardest thing
in the world for me.
i never thought that i would be
leaving russia without my son.
he's upset because he knows
what's happening.
have you heard from nataszia
or any of them?
uh, no.
it hurts that my kids
don't support my marriage.
i have to believe
that they'll come around.
woman #3: have you spoken
to your mom today?
no.
i don't know why.
it's hard because...
when are you planning
on telling him?
you want to calm down
and come out?
colt:
larissa and i got into a fight.
i called the police.
you would've never admitted
to anything
if you didn't get caught.
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