jonathan: previously on
"90 day fiancé"...
i feel like you really should
keep him for now.
that being said...
...will you marry me?
i really do want this to work.
sorry it had to happen,
all right?
well, you don't seem
too sorry about it.
it's hard for me to accept
the fact that he's sorry
when he was the one
that booted me to the streets.
i have been keeping something
from you.
my sister's gonna be pissed
when she finds out.
i'm pregnant.
someone was facetiming jay
at, like, midnight,
so i just messaged her.
i'm like, why were you
calling my husband?
and she was like, "the jamaican
guy that i met on tinder?"
larissa: and coming up...
saying goodbye to richie is
the hardest thing
in the world for me.
i never thought that i would be
leaving russia without my son.
he's upset because
he knows what's happening.
man: have you heard
from natasha?
uh, no.
eric: it hurts that my kids
don't support my marriage.
i have to believe
that they'll come around.
have you spoken
to your mom today?
no.
i don't know why.
when are you planning
on telling him?
ashley: i talked
to a lawyer.
she was saying,
"if you annul your marriage,
he gets deported.
if you can't
trust him anymore,
i think that
it's pretty much over.
colt: you want to calm down
and come out?
larissa and i got
into a fight.
i called the police.
a few days after
our wedding ceremony, um...
i found out that jay had made
a profile for a dating app
and was talking
to multiple women
and even inviting them
to my house.
i just want to know why.
why the hell,
a week after you got married,
did you find it necessary
to get on a website
and meet people
and talk to them?
why?
it meant nothing
to you?
there's a reason.
you -- you obviously felt
like you were missing something.
you're bored?
like, what the
does marriage mean to you?
you would've never admitted
to anything
if you didn't get caught.
am i right
or am i wrong?
oh, at least once
you were caught,
you came out.
you were backed
into a corner.
that's why
you admitted it.
i don't want
to do this anymore.
she should try to hear me out.
like, she's just like,
"oh, it's done.
blah, blah, blah, blah, blah."
if she was in my position,
like...i wouldn't do that.
like...
she didn't meet someone in
person or something like that.
it was just message.
would you call that cheating?
messages?
kalani: all right.
move over.
the first part
was really nice.
it was just getting
to see my friends
i haven't seen
in a while.
kalani: it's the morning
of my wedding.
i feel excited.
i do finally feel
like a bride,
but last night,
i told my sister
that i was pregnant,
and she was pissed.
i'm pregnant.
i felt like i should
tell my sister
that i was pregnant
because...
...i was afraid
that everyone would
keep offering me drinks,
and then, like, right
when i said "i'm pregnant,"
she started crying,
like, right away.
i think it was probably
a combination
of all of those things.
my mom's about to pick up
me and oliver.
we're going to drive
to the hotel,
get ready with my sister,
and then meet asuelu
at the boat for the wedding.
hey, mom.
hey, baby.
sorry.
it's fine.
can we hurry?
i want to go.
yeah, i'm ready.
i just need to grab
my suitcase.
shh.
okay, bye.
i love you.
i love you, too.
i feel a little anxious
to see my sister today.
i don't really know
how it's going to go.
and i hope that
telling my sister
i was pregnant yesterday
won't ruin my wedding today.
-hey! hi, baby!
-say, "hi, aunt kolini!"
-come here!
-oh, my.
you're gonna
sit here.
-in the chair.
-and i'm sitting on the bed.
can you hold
all that?
oh, my gosh.
you want some
champagne?
kolini:
yeah. let's do it.
no, now it's weird.
now you can't.
-why is it weird?
-'cause you're pregnant.
-wasn't sure.
-okay.
yeah, i figured
he did not.
when are you planning
on telling him?
my dad doesn't know
that i'm pregnant,
and if he found out that i was
pregnant on my wedding day,
he would try
to stop the wedding.
i just don't want to give him
any other reason
to doubt asuelu.
i want him to just kind of
accept him today,
and i feel like them knowing
about the pregnancy
would just kind of make them
question his motives again.
so how are you feeling now
after last night?
do you feel, like,
a little bit better
having slept?
like, sleeping was
gonna make it go away?
i mean, like,
just a little less upset?
mm...
i don't know.
how do you think
it'll be for you,
seeing asuelu today?
kalani: i thought that my sister
would be more open to the idea
of me and asuelu being married
before the end of the 90 days,
but i'm hoping that
at some point,
asuelu and my sister
will not just be able
to tolerate each other
but, like,
actually like each other
and actually have
a relationship.
i just wanted to make sure
that we were both okay.
i know you're probably
still upset,
but i just want us,
for today, to be happy.
yeah, well, i do feel like
it might be...
i don't know.
it's just gonna be weird.
mm-hmm.
i know my sister
isn't completely on board
with my wedding,
and i'm worried about her
telling my dad or my brother
about my pregnancy.
so i just hope that no one
tries to stop my wedding.
my daughters are the most
important people in my life,
and i want them
at the wedding.
i don't know.
i didn't expect john
to go ballistic.
colt: if john does
come to the wedding,
i'm not sure what
larissa's reaction will be.
are you nervous?
i just want to
get it over with.
-good morning!
-sorry!
-happy wedding day!
-late 12 minutes.
this is the big day.
this is my wedding day,
so i'm going to have
my hair and makeup done,
and i really want
to look the best.
sit on down.
did you get some sleep
last night?
-not really?
-no?
oh, i feel nervous.
i'm not used to american
wedding tradition.
you'll be just fine.
hopefully.
what are you most
excited about today?
like, what's
the biggest thing?
that i'm going
to wear a dress.
yeah.
like, finally, officially
husband and wife, you know?
what do you think?
do you like it?
i love it.
it's -- oh, my god.
i feel awesome!
-it's really pretty.
-yeah.
it's expensive. it's fancy.
'cause you know me.
i want to have, like,
the best wedding ever.
okay, thank you!
have such
a wonderful day.
thank you.
all right.
finally, i'm getting married
with my american man, eric.
but i can't wait to finally
change my status.
and i think eric will be
a really great father figure
for allessandro.
leida: okay.
what do you think
about the makeup?
let me see.
you look great, hon.
eric: i treat every day
like a mission,
and today's no different.
today it's
"operation: marry leida."
over the last 90 days,
there have been moments
where i thought
we weren't gonna get here,
where i did have doubts
whether or not
this was gonna be achievable.
but i'm 100% ready now.
i just wish my daughters
were here
so that i could tell them
how important it is
that they support me.
i still hope that there's
a chance that they'll show up.
can you run this down,
put this on the podium?
-i will get that done.
-thank you.
heather is probably one
of my closest confidantes.
she's my best friend.
she got here a few hours ago.
since leida's family is not
coming back for the wedding
and my daughters
are not here yet,
we had asked her to help leida
to get ready for the wedding.
heather:
oh! so handsome!
ah!
when he first told me
about leida,
i was really afraid
that this was gonna turn out
to be some scam-type thing.
it's just crazy the way
that they met,
so this is definitely
gonna be...
something interesting.
bye, hon.
see you in a bit.
leida: yep.
problem.
pants aren't there.
are you gonna cry?
no.
no?
i promise not to.
where's my pants?
the pants aren't
with the suit.
what?
the pants are not
with the suit.
what?!
it's 4:30 right now.
the bag?
you didn't put it here,
inside this?
did you
took it off?
i have not touched the suit
since i hung it in the closet.
so, where are they?
eric: got 25 minutes
till the ceremony.
all my guests are downstairs
to see us get married,
and i have no pants.
i don't think
it's here.
who the hell going to forget
his own pants
on the wedding day?
i didn't forget to bring
my own dress.
it's not there.
no, not now.
i don't know.
we got to go get
a pair of trousers.
eric: we don't have time to just
go back to the apartment.
this could be a big deal.
come on. come on. come on.
yeah, let me look.
i'm so frustrated with eric.
we are about to get married.
i had nothing
to do with this.
when i was packing your ,
it was there.
it was just pure
black, right?
yes.
colt: we're down
to the wire here.
we got less than five hours
until i will get married
to larissa.
and i'm very excited
for our wedding.
the ceremony will be
very intimate.
my co-worker, justin,
and his wife will be there,
and, of course, my mother,
and i won't see larissa
until i see her at the chapel.
because of the 90-day
time limit,
larissa and i fast-forwarded
through our relationship.
we skipped a lot,
and, you know,
it hasn't been easy,
but things are back
on track with us,
and larissa and my mom
started talking again.
-colt.
-hey, mom.
-you look cute.
-thank you.
so do you.
-this will match.
-yes.
once we figure out
how to tie it.
i'll figure it out.
i had never thought colt
was gonna get married,
but i think colt's
making a decision
he believes is right...
for now.
cross the wide side
underneath the narrow side.
okay.
that's not right.
tighten and straighten
your tie.
that's good, right?
yeah, we got,
like, three hours,
so i'm sure
we'll figure it out.
okay.
we'll figure it out.
things are gonna change
once larissa and i get married.
but my mother will always have
a place in my life.
so, unfortunately,
no one can walk larissa
down the aisle,
but maybe you can
walk me down the aisle.
okay, i'd love to.
yeah.
are you nervous?
i just want to
get it over with.
yeah?
it feels like
it's the right thing to do.
is this how you thought
the 90 days would turn out?
no.
it went a little rough there
for a while.
a little.
i didn't think we'd have
as much resistance
with my family --
like john and lea --
about larissa.
yeah, i didn't expect john
to go ballistic.
the last time i saw john
was at the barbecue --
all hell broke loose.
you don't know what love is
or what respect is.
no, i don't care
to come to your wedding.
i hope that i'm working
or something.
i swear to god.
b*tch.
larissa uninvited john
to our wedding
at the barbecue,
but since then,
i reinvited john,
and larissa doesn't know.
you think john and lea will
come to the wedding?
we'll see.
be nice to have my cousin
and my family there.
yeah.
i love larissa,
and i want to marry her
and spend the rest
of my life with her,
but i really hope
that john and lea
will come to my wedding.
they're the only family
that i have in las vegas,
and it would mean a lot to me,
but i'm afraid if john
does come to the wedding,
i'm not sure what
larissa's reaction will be,
which is why i did not tell her
that they might come.
here we go.
i've never seen you
in a suit ever.
very nice.
you look so handsome.
thank you.
you look beautiful.
aww, thank you.
-want to go?
-yeah.
see you soon.
no goodbyes.
that's right.
okay.
it feels like this k-1 situation
is gonna break up
our family forever.
you're gonna tell me
why the hell you did this.
there is a reason.
this is what he's gonna do
three days after he said "i do"?
what the is he gonna do
when we're actually having
real marital problems?
steven: olga and i
have been through a lot
since i've been here.
i know that i can't
stay in russia forever.
and it makes me sad
knowing that overall,
it's gonna take long
for her k-1 visa to approve,
but it gives me
more time to prepare.
i need to go home
and finish school
and save up money
and just get things ready
for whenever her visa
does approve
so our 90 days
will actually start.
what time is it,
i'm gonna be just on time
because my flight's at 7:00.
mm.
say...
i'm gonna miss this boy
so much.
saying goodbye to richie
is the hardest thing
in the world for me.
just because i'm apart
from my son physically
does not mean that
i'm apart from him in his life.
and i know that leaving richie
behind with his mother
is the right thing to do.
i know
how it feels.
but just know, like,
i'm not going home
to do, just,
like, nothing.
like, i'm going home
to actually try
to get things together.
that's the main thing.
we spent
nine months apart,
and that made us
very, very strong.
you know that
we can do it.
it'll be hard,
but we can do it, right?
promise me?
he'll be okay.
but you just better seriously
facetime me all the time.
just so i can see
his face, okay?
okay.
i'm gonna start walking back
and doing that.
we got it, okay?
aww.
i hate to see
you upset.
huh?
it's okay, okay?
all right, i'm gonna go back.
mm-hmm.
i love you.
i love you.
steven: because i didn't
apply for the visa,
she's gonna be staying here
with the baby for a little bit,
and i'm gonna be
going home alone.
that's what made me realize
i should've done this,
like, way before.
no!
he's upset because
he knows what's happening.
shh.
okay.
all right, honey.
i love you very, very much.
i will.
mm-hmm.
bye, baby.
steven: before i even
came to russia,
i was still pretty immature.
i feel like i've grown up a lot
in the past two months
since i've been here.
it's hard for me
to leave them behind,
but i know that i'm doing
the right thing,
accomplishing things
for my family...
but it feels like
this k-1 situation is
gonna break up our family
for who knows how long,
and this can really affect
olga and i's relationship.
♪ she'll be waiting ♪
♪ she'll be waiting ♪
long
from here
could there be
another way?
♪ stand ♪
♪ on higher ground ♪
♪ we will never... ♪
fernanda: i'm trying
to enjoy this moment...
you want to calm down
and come out?
i don't think i can
ever truly...
make up for what i did.
i didn't
press charges.
oh, god.
hi!
-how are you?
-fine, and you?
good.
you nervous?
fernanda: i'm getting ready
for the wedding,
and jonathan's sister,
jackie, is here with me.
we decided to get married
in chicago
because his family's there,
but no one in my family can
come to the wedding.
did you sleep?
like, two
or three hours.
oh, my gosh.
yeah.
how do you feel
about the fact
that your mom's not here,
your family's not here?
those 90 days were
the hardest 90 days of my life.
i always thought
my dream wedding,
like, a big wedding
with your family,
and it's kind of sad
that i don't have that today.
and i expect jonathan's family
to love me
and accept me quickly,
and they didn't.
do you want to get married
at this point?
really, yes.
sweetie,
you're so young.
-mom, you keep saying that.
-i'm sorry.
jonathan: when are you
gonna warm up to the fact
that we're about
to get married?
hold off.
don't do it.
jonathan:
there's a lot of emotions going
through my mind right now,
and i'm feeling
really excited,
but obviously, of course,
very nervous at the same time.
we decided to keep the wedding
really low-key in chicago
and have a small ceremony
in the park.
my immediate family is here
with the exception of my mother.
she is not gonna be able
to make it to the wedding.
we just started rebuilding
our relationship,
and it would mean
so much to me,
but my grandmother is,
unfortunately, very sick.
of course,
i'm a little disappointed.
and i know fernanda is upset.
this is not what she had
planned or envisioned
because she doesn't
have her family.
yo.
bro.
what's up?
come in.
-damn.
-how are you?
-looking good.
-thank you, man.
-so are you.
-spotless.
-thanks, man.
-you ready?
yeah, i think i'm ready.
i'm nervous as hell.
it's weird seeing my brother
settle down
because he's always been
kind of that, like,
i'd say kind of a pimp.
like, he could pull
pretty much anybody he wanted.
so i hope that
he can be a good boy,
but you never know.
i'm sure he will be.
don't be scared.
you got to do it
at least once.
maybe twice,
maybe three times.
shut up.
one and done, man.
there you go.
drink up.
yeah.
have you spoken
to your mom today?
yesterday i spoke with her,
but today, no.
-i don't know why.
-that's weird.
but yesterday was
like, you know,
"i know tomorrow
is your big day.
i love you so much,
and i miss you,
and i want to be there
for support you,
but i can't,
but you know i'm here.
fernanda: my mom
can't be here,
and ceci's not coming
to the wedding,
so i'm disappointment because
it's important to me
him fix their relationship
and have support of family.
i know, then,
she has the reasons,
but i wish that
she could be here.
are you ready?
mm-hmm.
yeah.
all right.
let's get your dress on.
okay.
i could never imagine
getting married
without my family here.
so, i think that's hard
for fernanda.
it's sad to see that,
but i'm glad
that we could come together
as her new family
and pull this
all together for them.
i think you look
beautiful.
i love the dress that i bought
with jackie and jonathan's mom,
but i am not using
that dress today
because i want to keep
that dress
for my big wedding in mexico.
all right.
let's go do this.
jonathan: i've definitely had
my fair share of doubts.
you know, will we make it?
are we compatible?
is she mature enough?
am i mature enough?
is this whole thing worth it?
and there's pressure on me
now more than ever
of keeping
your soon-to-be wife happy
in a country she doesn't know,
but us only having 90 days
and going through the k-1 visa,
we have more trust
in each other.
we're now able to kind of look
back on those moments
and say, "this is what helped us
get to where we are,"
so i'm very thankful for that.
♪ all i know ♪
♪ is now you're standing here ♪
♪ tomorrow won't be the same ♪
♪ all i want ♪
♪ is to be with you again ♪
this is the most nervous moment
in my life.
after all the struggle,
and i'm here,
about to be his wife forever.
we have joined here today
to share with john and fernanda
an important moment
in their lives.
in their short time together,
we have seen their love
and understanding of each other
grow and blossom,
and now it is time
to live out their lives as one.
i, john...
i, john...
...give you, fernanda,
this ring...
...give you, fernanda,
this ring...
...as an eternal symbol
of love and commitment to you.
...as an eternal symbol
of love and commitment to you.
i, fernanda...
i, fernanda...
...give you, john...
...give you, john...
...this ring
as an eternal symbol
for love and commitment
to you.
...give you this ring
as an...
eternal symbol...
...eternal symbol...
...for love and commitment
to you.
...for love and commitment
to you.
by the power vested in me
by the state of illinois,
i now pronounce
you husband and wife.
you may kiss the bride.
jonathan: it's a huge weight
lifted off our shoulders,
and we're
a lot stronger
because of
those 90 days,
because of the sacrifices
we went through,
because of what
we've learned
in such a short
period of time.
i had some doubts
that we would be here today.
i think that they do have
a couple things
that they need to work out,
but she's gonna make
a great part of our family,
and she's a perfect match
for my brother.
jonathan:
when she came here,
i didn't know really
what to expect,
and she has played
such a big part
in the person
that i want to become.
she has brought me
closer to my family,
and i'm a much better person
because of her.
when exactly
did this happen?
like, as soon as we got home
from our wedding.
he was probably
cheating all along.
like, what
is he here for?
how strong do you
feel about, like,
actually
sending him back?
i don't like larissa
or what she stands for.
i don't approve
of the wedding at all.
it's been two weeks
since we got back
from our wedding in vegas.
and i found out that jay made
a profile for a dating app.
brandi already has an idea
of what's going on,
but i want to meet her in person
to kind of give her
the full story
of what exactly happened.
i'm embarrassed.
i feel stupid.
i feel like a fool.
-hey.
-hey, how are you?
-how are you?
-i'm all right.
brandi: ugh.
just don't know
what to do.
like, when exactly
did this happen?
like, as soon as we got home
from our wedding.
ugh.
i was so mad.
like, i knew.
he was trying to convince me,
like, and his reaction.
like, i'm sorry, but someone's
reaction to something...
like, his phone was laying
right on his lap,
and it was a facetime,
and i looked over --
'cause you know how facetime
rings differently --
i'm like, "who is facetiming
at midnight?"
and he's like...
jumps up.
i'm like,
"what the ? no."
and i just start, like --
i started throwing.
like, i knew right away
by his actions.
he didn't even have
to say anything.
she caught him on a dating site.
to me, that's pretty major.
that would be enough for me.
i think it should be
enough for her.
comes down to, he was
probably cheating all along.
she is complete
opposite of me,
and, like, previous people were
complete opposite of me.
it's like making me question,
am i even his type?
like, what
is he here for?
previous women?
yeah.
like, before he dated me.
after finding out
who the girl was,
i was able to pull up
her social media
and realize that her and i have
pretty much nothing in common
besides the fact
that we're both white.
i'm kind of short and slender,
and she is total opposite.
i mean, not only is the girl,
like, way larger
than i am in size,
but she's also 18 years old.
that has to leave you
feeling, like,
super-insecure
in every way.
like, this whole situation.
yeah. i already did before.
but like i said --
and that's...
i don't
understand that.
in my eyes, he's young,
and age really doesn't matter,
but it really does when you've
been there and you've done that
and when you're with somebody
that doesn't have a clue
what the next step
is like in life.
it does matter,
and i feel like
it would be a pattern.
how --
what does he do?
how has he been, like,
during the days?
like, you're home,
you're upset.
like, where is he?
he's right there.
have you asked about him
leaving the house?
where's he gonna go?
i mean, do you really feel
like that's your problem?
technically, it's my problem
where he goes,
because if he goes somewhere
and, like, does anything,
gets in trouble,
that's all my problem, then.
it's like,
it's not so easy
when you are going through
the k-1 visa process,
'cause i signed my life away
to get him here.
and ultimately, until he is
back on jamaica soil,
i'm fully responsible for him,
as if he was a third child.
i talked to a lawyer,
and basically what she's saying
is, like, if you annul
your marriage,
he gets deported,
and once you get deported
in the u.s.,
chances of you being able
to go come back here
are, like...
i mean, how strong do you feel
about, like,
actually
sending him back?
i don't know.
i mean, my emotions
are everywhere.
like, one minute,
i'll look at him and be, like,
wow, like,
i really love him.
i've never loved anyone
like him.
but then i get
so pissed.
like, he just
broke our trust.
right.
well, you think
if you know
that you can't trust him
anymore,
i think that's
pretty much over.
like, what --
what are you stuck on?
like, it really feels like you
don't want to completely let go.
i mean, you don't stop loving
someone overnight
just 'cause
they cheated on you.
right.
it's still there, like,
if you really love someone.
but if you really love someone,
you wouldn't do it.
and i don't know
what to do.
i'm angry. i'm pissed.
i'm hurt.
like, how do people get over
this kind of stuff
and move on in their marriage?
i don't know how.
so it would be a serious
road to recovery for us.
if you ask me right now,
he needs to go.
-you have beautiful hair.
-thank you.
are you excited?
how are you feeling today?
i'm feel excited.
you feel excited?
good.
-where you from?
-brazil.
-brazil.
-beautiful.
now, where is he from?
he -- he's america.
-oh, okay.
-uh-huh.
oh, yeah.
to live together
with another person,
especially mother,
is not easy.
and 90 days nothing.
i would like to have more days.
like, one year.
yeah, when it's different
cultures, too,
it's a little bit harder...
yeah. yes.
...to kind of get to know
and understand.
-beautiful.
-i love it.
yes. now i feel...
-you ready to get married?
-yes, ready.
put the dress on,
say "i do"?
-yeah, i do.
-perfect.
hello.
-congratulations.
-thank you.
thank you.
i told to john,
don't come to my wedding.
but john and lea
is the only family
that debbie and colt
has in vegas.
so...
he might come and...
colt: i'm very nervous.
but marriage requires
a leap of faith.
sometimes you just have to do
what you think is right.
i was worried that john and lea
would not come to the wedding.
so when i saw them appear,
i was so excited and so happy.
john: i don't approve
of the wedding at all,
but i'm here for colt,
you know?
i'm actually worried for him
at this time.
i don't, you know,
like larissa
or what she stands for.
this is a big deal.
i mean, this is --
this is for life.
colt: i know i'm ready
to marry larissa,
but at the same time,
larissa definitely feels like
john doesn't approve of her
and maybe doesn't
even like her.
is she gonna panic?
is larissa gonna
yell and scream?
what is she gonna do?
i need someone who will
be an adult with me
and a partner.
i don't want a child.
i want a wife.
but when i look at colt,
i realize that
it more important.
i feel really happy
and completely in love.
i feel really ready
to finally get married.
thank you, friends and family.
you may be seated.
colt, larissa...
stand right here,
right now,
at the very beginning
of an amazing adventure.
colt: larissa looks
so beautiful,
and i'm so happy that
i get to finally marry her.
she's managed
to control herself,
and this gives me a lot of hope
now for our marriage.
officiate: your marriage
starts with a sincere,
humble invitation for the love
of your life to join you
and all that you are,
all that you hope to be.
colt: it's important for
my family to approve of larissa.
i would want, you know,
their support and love
and acceptance.
but at the same time,
today's about larissa and i
and nothing else.
officiate: you see,
marriage is a covenant.
it's a covenant of promises
that are written
on the pages of your heart.
it's a covenant that says,
"i know you're not perfect,
but you are perfect for me."
the last few months,
there's been a lot of drama
going on,
from larissa to me to colt.
we are getting along better now
than we were at first.
it's a little bit
like losing a son,
gaining a daughter-in-law,
but still, it is sad.
but, hopefully,
we'll all be a family
and get along.
love looks for the best
in each other,
believes the best
of each other.
love never fails.
colt, would you
repeat after me?
i, colt,
take you, larissa...
i, colt,
take you, larissa...
...to be my wife.
...to be my wife.
i commit myself
to you.
i commit myself
to you.
larissa, i love you more
than anything in this world.
i will do anything
to make you happy.
i love you,
too, baby.
very slowly, place that
on your love's finger.
there we go.
beautiful.
look at that.
colt, larissa,
along with family and friends
who've come to celebrate
you, support you,
makes me very proud
to pronounce you
husband and wife.
you two may seal your promises
with a kiss.
whoo!
we did it.
there you go,
married lady.
celebrate with me
the union of colt and larissa.
i feel amazing.
i'm married.
-check out the flowers, baby.
-yeah. aww.
it's been a long 90 days,
baby doll.
ah!
-ah! the beautiful couple.
-hey, guys.
-thank you.
-congratulations.
you guys both
look beautiful,
and we're excited
for you guys.
-thank you, guys.
-can i hug you?
can i?
come on, big group hug.
aww.
john: it's very confusing,
emotionally
and, you know,
everything else,
you know, 'cause the foundation
i don't believe is there.
so they have
a lot of obstacles ahead.
-john.
-hey, congratulations, bubba.
john -- he care
a lot about colt,
like other people care, think
that colt's a little angel.
"oh, my god,
we have to protect him."
debbie: starting today,
everything in the past
should be the past
and start new.
gonna be a happy family,
and i'll be in the background.
when they want me around,
then it's fine.
otherwise,
they're on their own.
it's their life together.
i want them to be
an independent, happy couple.
darling,
you're beautiful.
thank you.
i love you.
you happy?
we did it.
once the dress is on,
there's no turning back.
i feel so nervous
right now.
leida: i wish that i have more
than 90 days to get married,
because everything
was just rush everything.
i don't know.
i don't think i could ever truly
make up for what i did.
eric: leida's a little pissed
at the moment.
we're a half hour away
from the wedding
and i go to put on my suit
and i find out that
my pants aren't there.
but there's a suit store, like,
five minutes away
from the wedding.
thank you very much.
thank god.
we got the pair of pants,
and we hustled back.
leida: let's go.
leida: how the hell did he
even forgot about that?
oh, my god.
time to get my dress.
like, really.
can't believe it.
we're gonna be late
for our own wedding,
and it's so embarrassing because
eric forgot to bring his pants.
why don't you just
make things organized?
how hard is that?
all right.
here you go.
once the dress is on,
there's no turning back.
beautiful.
so then, we slide it
right on your leg.
just for good luck.
this is american weddings,
okay, okay.
yes, yes.
hey.
hey.
i heard you needed help
finding your pants.
have you heard from nataszia
or anybody?
uh, no.
did you try calling
or getting ahold --
i texted tasha
yesterday
and asked if they were gonna
make it in time,
and she said, "maybe.
i don't know."
eric: it's nice
to have dad there.
but it hurts that --
thinking that my kids
don't support my marriage.
-see you in a bit.
-all righty.
i love leida.
i love my daughters.
it's very important for me
that this, you know --
that this family works.
it's very important to me.
i feel so nervous
right now,
'cause i'm gonna get married
in a minute.
i wish that i had more
than 90 days to get married
because i think everything
was just hustle and bustle
and it was just rush
everything, you know?
me and my son, like,
we came across the world,
and we only have eric
to take care of us.
so i hope that
i can trust eric.
pastor...
blessings.
thanks.
eric: i feel i'm ready
to marry leida,
knowing what may be given up
to do so.
but it is hard to think
about getting married
without my daughters
being there.
and then i see jennica
at the wedding,
and i'm overcome with joy.
i feel happy.
it just meant so much
to have at least
one of my daughters
here to support me.
i just wish that
tasha and tanille were here.
i think they might be feeling
that i'd be choosing
leida over them,
and in a way, i am --
not in a bad way, though.
i have to focus on leida
and allessandro.
i'm choosing love,
and i'm very ready
for this 90 days to be over
so that leida and i can just
start our lives together.
my hope for the future
is that we all come together
as a blended family
and that we move forward
together, as a team.
hi.
you may be seated.
good evening
and welcome.
you have come here
to be united in marriage,
which consists
in your mutual consent,
sincerely
and freely given.
eric, will you take leida
to be your wife?
will you be faithful to her,
cherish her, support her,
and help her
in sickness and in health,
as long as you
both shall live?
i will.
leida, will you take eric
to be your husband?
will you be faithful to him,
cherish him, support him,
and help him in sickness
and in health,
as long as you
both shall live?
i will.
i still can't believe
the luck that i have
in her finding me
and me finding her.
i, eric, take you, leida,
to be my wife.
i, leida, take you, eric,
to be my husband.
eric and leida have bound
themselves together in marriage.
thank you!
leida: the 90 days
is finally over.
like, yeah, officially!
i get to stay here
in america.
feel relieved and happy.
relieved, happy.
and...
so much love.
love is in the air right now.
yes.
tom: when he first told us
who he was introducing us to,
i'm like, "really?"
but see what it's developed
into, so yeah,
i don't think he's crazy.
i think he's happy,
and i'm happy as can be for him.
just wanted to say thank you
for everybody that showed up.
it's great.
it bothers me that
my two oldest daughters
didn't make it
to the wedding.
i do hope that we will
be able to mend this
in the future.
may we take
a picture?
i feel like i'm happy
to be here in america.
there's a lot of stuff
that we have been
planning about, right?
yep, i gotta get
this lady a house.
woman: perfect.
so, yeah.
i'm here.
the greatest country
in the world.
right?
slimy.
is that what
your problem is?
you don't get
enough attention?
maybe that is it.
jay: she got
to understand.
if you don't give me
enough attention, like,
i'm gonna try and, like,
find someone to talk to.
if that's what you do
when you're bored,
we're!
if anyone objects to this union,
please speak now.
ashley: it's been a couple
of weeks since i confronted jay,
and when i spoke with brandi,
i feel like she didn't really
sway me either direction
of what to do.
so...
jay wants to be married still,
but jay should've
thought about that
before he did what he did.
it's hard for me to even
look at you
or be nice to you
right now.
i know.
i mean, like,
what are you thinking?
thinking about what?
you're not gonna start to sit
here
and communicate with me
and tell me
why the hell
you did this?
there is a reason.
you're not happy.
you felt like you were
missing something
that you needed to go get
from someone else.
i already told you
why i did it.
'cause you were bored?
that was the reason.
that's what you do
when you're bored,
we're!
ashley: this is what he's gonna
do three days after he said,
"i do,"
what the are you gonna
when we're actually having
real marital problems?
if i didn't catch him,
he would have cheated on me.
he would've had people
at my house,
people in my car...
what do you
want me to say?
you don't show me much attention
and stuff like that.
so is that what it is?
i want you to talk.
is that what your problem is?
you don't get enough attention?
maybe that is it.
you don't give me
much attention.
jay: she got to
understand, like,
it is a big, like,
culture change.
like, and i have
no friends here.
i have nobody here,
so, you know, like,
if you come from work,
just don't come
and, like,
be on your phone all night
until you're ready to go to bed.
if you don't give me
enough attention, like,
i'm gonna try and, like,
find someone to talk to.
so, like, why can't you
just come to me
and say like, "i don't feel
the attention, the love"?
like...
i don't know.
maybe i'm telling myself
that i don't want
to come to you and say
'cause you're gonna get mad.
and i can promise you,
if you even thought
i was gonna get slightly mad
or pissed or whatever,
it's about
than what you're dealing with
right now.
there's a huge problem
in our marriage.
-i now don't trust you.
-i know.
but now you want me
to go against everything
i ever said in life.
i was cheated on twice
and had children
with both of them.
children.
and i was gone,
instantly.
did they have sex
with the person?
yes, they did.
well, i didn't.
and i know that doesn't
change the fact
that i was messaging
someone else
behind your back.
but i told you
it was a mistake,
and i'm truly sorry
for that.
and it wasn't gonna go
no further
than just a couple
of text message.
don't
with me.
it wasn't gonna go no further
than that.
doesn't even matter.
like, don't --
we don't even need
to go there,
'cause i'm gonna believe
and feel how i feel,
no matter
what you say.
ashley: i mean, i love him.
that doesn't go away.
but i also know what
is, like, to come
if we try to make it work.
i know i'm gonna throw
everything up in his face
every time we get in a fight.
you know what i mean?
i'm gonna want to look
at his location on his phone,
and, like, i just don't think
that's how a marriage should be.
he's not my child.
he's my husband.
i'm not even sure
you're sorry.
i think you're sorry...
i am sorry.
i think you're sorry
you got caught.
i am sorry.
and if it's gonna take
the rest of my life
just to try and prove that
to you, that i'm sorry,
i'm gonna take
the rest of my life to do that
until you can understand and see
that i've changed.
i love you,
and i'm willing
to do whatever
is possible
to, like,
make you believe that.
my husband of two weeks
cheated on me.
i don't know
if that's forgivable.
i know you're mad
right now.
i know you're mad right now,
but...
i need some space
from you.
like, part of me feels like
you're 20 years old,
what was i thinking,
and i need to let you
go and live your life.
jay: i really feel like this
was just a momentary lapse.
like, i don't want to have
to go back to jamaica,
'cause if it was she,
i would've forgive her.
i wouldn't even talk about it,
you know, 'cause it wasn't bad.
but...
you know...
it'll be much easier for me
just to walk away from you
right now...
and never turn back,
'cause it's going to be
one hell of a fight
to ever be able to recover
from something like this.
ashley: i invested
so much time and money
into the relationship.
i have no idea what the future
holds for jay and i.
going through the 90 days
and getting married,
at this point,
i regret every choice i made.
-asuelu.
-nick!
hey.
you excited?
good.
kalani: it's, like,
an hour before the wedding.
i'm feeling a little
stressed out just because
all of these bad thoughts start
coming into my head.
like, worst-case scenario,
what if my dad finds out
and objects at my wedding?
so i just hope
that everything will be fine.
hey, babe.
can you grab my dress?
i'm ready.
-yeah.
here.
do you need help?
yeah.
good?
seeing myself,
this is the first time
i'm starting to feel excited
about getting married
and really sure
about my decision,
and i'm just ready
to say "i do" to asuelu.
-let's see you.
-yay.
put your hair forward.
put your hair forward.
how do you feel?
-like a bride.
-oh, my gosh.
-this is weird.
-let's go.
let's do this.
whoo!
thank you.
kalani: i'm nervous
to see my dad
because i'm so scared for him
to find out i'm pregnant.
it's too windy.
my hair is, like,
everywhere.
hello.
daddy.
you look so handsome,
handsome.
how was yesterday?
her bachelorette deal?
yeah.
it was fun.
the ceremony is almost
about to start.
and i feel nervous that
something would go wrong.
even though the timing
with having the baby right now
isn't really
something i wanted,
i love asuelu
and i want to marry him
and i'm just hoping that
my family can understand that
and support me,
because it's my wedding day.
holy moly.
okay.
my hair's flying
everywhere.
when i see kalani's dress,
oh, my goodness,
it's like my heart is melted.
i feel like very excited
moment of my life.
hello.
thank you.
welcome,
ladies and gentlemen.
we are gathered here today
to sanctify the union
between asuelu and kalani,
and we gather here
to rejoice in the new life
they now undertake together.
if anyone objects to this union,
please speak now.
if anyone objects to this union,
please speak now.
kolini: when they said,
"if anybody had an objection,"
i felt my legs wanting to stand,
but i did not.
at this point, she seems
pretty sure of it now,
and so i'm happy for her.
do you, asuelu,
take kalani to be your wife,
in sickness and in health,
for richer or for poorer,
forsaking all others
in all your days together?
do you, kalani, take asuelu
to be your husband,
to love and to comfort,
to honor and keep?
i do.
please place the ring
on asuelu's finger
and repeat after me.
with this ring...
with this ring...
...i thee wed.
...i thee wed.
asuelu,
place the ring
on kalani's finger
and repeat after me.
with this ring...
...i thee wed.
i...
i thee wed.
you may kiss
the bride.
♪ finally, we came ♪
♪ for the first time ♪
♪ take me from the love
he love, the love, the love ♪
♪ you take me from the love ♪
i feel like kalani and asuelu's
future is bright.
just seeing
how emotional he got
when he was saying
his vows to her
was really
solidifying for me
that they're gonna have
a really good life together.
woman: kiss.
it feels good to be married.
i don't know.
i feel like it was
a long time coming.
it's like, uh...
i feel like my sister
and asuelu's future
is gonna be a rocky road,
but i'll be there
to be supportive
and to be there
if it crashes and burns.
but we'll see.
kalani: we had been on such
a roller coaster of a journey
in the 90 days that
this is the beginning
of something new,
the beginning of us
being together
and moving forward.
and now that we're married,
i guess our next step
will be telling
our family members
that i'm pregnant again,
the ones that don't know.
oh, yeah,
that'll go over well.
oh, my gosh.
thank you.
you're welcome.
you want to calm down
and come out?
come on, baby.
what do you want to do?
you want to come out?
i thought it'd just go away,
but it didn't work out that way.
larissa locked herself
in the bedroom.
why?
i got a notification...
larissa's been charged
with domestic battery.
honey. oh, god.
colt: what happened with larissa
was very private.
you know, i didn't want
to talk about it,
but four days
before the wedding,
larissa and i got into a fight.
and this night...
she just kept going
and going and going.
i was worried for her.
i just wanted her to stop,
just to calm down,
but she wouldn't.
i've never seen her
like that before.
i don't know how to say it,
honestly, without...
i mean...
things got heated, right?
so -- and then...
i called the police,
and she ended up spending
when colt and larissa were
fighting, i heard them.
i was in my room.
i was very surprised that
it was such a bad argument.
that's why he called the police.
but he immediately hung up
and told them it was all right,
don't come.
and a little while later,
the police showed up
and took larissa away.
i didn't press charges,
but...
she has to go
to trial.
her court date is set
for a few months from now.
even if her case
is dismissed,
it might still
affect her chances
at applying
for a green card.
you don't even know
if she's gonna be able
to stay in this country,
and yet you got married?
we ran out of time.
it was so close
to the 90 days.
what else could
i have done?
i had a choice after larissa
was released from jail.
do i go ahead with the wedding
or does she go back to brazil?
but regardless of what happened,
i still love her,
and i want her to be my wife.
calling the police was one
of the worst decisions
i've ever made.
in the moment, i felt like
i had no other option,
but i wish
i would've just ran away,
go to a park,
do anything else.
i don't think i can
ever truly...
make up for what i did.
i don't know.
i wish it had never happened,
but it had.
i'm very concerned
about colt's future.
larissa has a lot of problems,
and i think they'll have
to work extra hard
to keep their marriage
good and afloat.
this is not how i imagined
my life to start with larissa.
she's scared.
she's nervous.
she doesn't know
what's gonna happen.
i wish you all the luck.
you're gonna need it.
woman: next week...
producer: stand by,
give me a sound check.
...the couples tell all.
do you have money
or not?
it feels like
he lied to me.
do you think
that you can be
in a monogamous
relationship?
that's a good
answer.
-ouch.
-i can't.
whoa.
can you just tell me
"thank you"?
it's called respect.
it's already 6:00.
if you love someone,
you don't do that.
simple.
producer: can we bring colt
and larissa to set, please?
larissa...
she called me
names --
no, you called me
names first.
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