..90 Day
Fiance...
It's very hard for anybody to just
switch to another culture
That takes time.
Like, being 7,000 plus miles away.
You always had my back.
I want to feel that way again.
Wow.
Of course I will.
You're the love of my life.
Avi, these pants...
are going to look so cute on you...
Yeah.
..at our wedding.
Bini and I don't necessarily have
the most stable foundation
at the moment
and the 90 days are almost up.
I'm just feeling really anxious.
I wish that it would have been
a better circumstance that we're
leaving to.
My parents definitely hurt me,
telling me that they're not gonna be
able to come to the wedding.
All right, drive safe.
All right, I love you. Love you.
As a parent,
this is really, really,
really painful.
Kobe's friend, Temperature,
came to visit from Ohio.
We're not moving to Columbus.
There was, like, a search for
apartments in Ohio.
You're making a big deal
out of nothing, like, come on.
I'm agreeing for the prenup.
Something else...
I would like to have a child
before 40.
Um...
I can, I can agree to that.
'I don't think right now would be
the best decision to have a child.'
I feel like it could be
too much on us.
Are you homesick?
Homesick, uh-huh.
Do you think that you can make
Dallas your home?
No, I'm not sure.
You're not running away to Brazil
with a baby.
My grandchild will live in America.
Oh, Zaynah, girl.
What's up, sweetie pie?
Nothing. Just on TikTok.
You TikToking there?
Yes.
When are we gonna do
a TikTok video?
Whenever you want to,
but you got to learn -
Let's do it right now. You got to
learn some dances first.
Let's do it, come on, do it.
OK, let's see, let's see, let's see.
Ah. Ah.
Hey. Hey. Ah.
Now what's going on, girl?
We getting,
we getting close to the...
the time, the wedding.
It's coming up real quick.
How are you adapting to everything?
Oh, man. It's different...
but...I'm definitely
getting used to it.
Used to her being here.
It's nice, seeing you happy.
Really?
Because I wanna see you happy, Dad,
honestly.
And I know Yusuf thinks
the same way.
That's so nice to hear.
So, yeah, I like that
it's good for you.
If it's good for you,
it's good for me.
Aw!
Father-daughter hug!
I'm grateful that I've been
blessed with
two absolutely amazing children
and have been blessed with
an amazing woman
to have in my life.
Them all getting along
and everything like that,
it's just confirmation that,
you know, we're just doing
the right thing.
I think that deserves a zerbert.
A what?
OK, OK.
You miss my zerberts?
Anyways...
'The wedding is a few days away.'
We have decided to have
the wedding at home.
We're gonna make it into
a wedding venue.
And Nefertari is helping me prepare.
Shaeeda!
Yes?
Your wedding dress is ready.
Come on up.
Oh, my God.
Two more days!
I hope you love it.
Bilal's mom gave me some advice about
Bilal and also the prenup.
So now I can focus on the wedding
and I could finally get to see
the wedding dress that Bilal's sister
made for me.
I am so excited!
Should I close my eyes? Close your
eyes just a little bit as you come.
I'm just a very fussy person
when it comes to dresses.
I wanted something more tailor-made,
fit for my body
and she is a fashion designer.
Oh, my goodness.
Keep looking down, keep
looking down, keep walking.
OK, when I count to three.
My heart is beating so fast.
Oh, my God.
One...two...
three!
What do you think?
Um...
This is not the style
that I sent you.
Well, you know, I just thought
I'd kind of like,
do my own thing a little bit,
Sometimes, the customer don't really
know what they want.
So I just kind of did something that
I thought would look better on you.
And, you know, I know you wanted it
kind of fitted, but I thought
it should be a little bigger, so,
you know, I put some, some room
in there.
An old-lady dress. An old-fashioned
dress. A hideous dress. Uggh.
Like, I'm trying to compose myself,
because I know how I get
when I'm angry.
So I'm like, "OK, yeah."
'How can I get married
in this old-lady dress?'
Someone clearly was not taking
instructions.
If you remember, I wanted
something...like lace...
Not tight, but not big.
Mm-hm.
You remember I sent you something?
Yeah.
But that, but that's what I was
saying, I thought maybe...
You got some lace.
I was thinking, you know, you don't
wanna have it too fitted.
So you still got some shape in
there. Yeah. It's a bit big,
but I can alter it.
That's the other thing, it was
really hard to put this together.
We're in two different states.
Yeah, but you, you saying you don't
want it too big, but you should
allow me to decide that.
I mean, I usually see you wear
your clothes kind of big. Right?
Yeah, but I still want to look
modestly sexy on my wedding day.
Well, let me... Just give me
a second, hold on.
Mad.
This is atrocious.
I'm gonna bring a veil out
and I'm sure you're gonna love it.
Oh, gosh.
I know you're not in the mood,
but close your eyes one more time.
OK, open 'em up.
Oh, my God.
So...
Yeah. I just decided to play
a little joke on you with that one.
Nefertari, why you did this?
Like, stop!
It's a family trait, yes.
And, as you can see,
it's gonna be semi-fitted.
You've got your sleeves, you've got
your neckline, like you wanted.
Oh, my God.
So what do you think?
I love it.
I got your scarf and your headpiece
and a veil.
OK, oh, thank you.
And I believe you're gonna love it.
Now...this one or this one?
Throw that dress in the dump!
It's dingy, it's granny-ish. Oh!
Oh, my goodness.
That was a good one.
I just had to get you.
My heart cannot take it.
You and Bilal will k*ll me, I know.
This is... This is beautiful.
Initially, I wanted to throw her off
the bannister or the stairs.
Well, she still kind of hurt my
feelings though, at the same time.
Looks like something
from generations back.
I'm not even gonna tell you
where it came from. I'm only...
The second prank has some
sentimental value too.
OK, I keep getting myself in trouble
with this family.
Stop playing pranks on me
with sentimental valuable things.
Yeah.
That's classy.
Thank you. It's beautiful.
It's me. It's modern. I think it will
fit like a glove. I love it.
Thank you. You're welcome.
Uh-huh.
This is gonna be fun. I've never
been on a yacht before. Have you
ever been on a yacht?
Just try to have fun.
You don't need to stress about
all this stuff.
We're just here to have fun.
We're just in Miami for a day.
He's picking us up in a limo.
Yeah.
See? How cool is that?
Yo.
Hello, hello.
Hi.
How are you? What's up, dude?
Good to see you. You, too.
This is Thais. Hi. Nice to meet you.
I'm Jeremy. Good to see you.
I've known my friends, Jeremy, John
and Phil, for a really long time.
We're all in the same industry.
They're like brothers to me.
All right.
Mm-hm.
They planned this yacht party
for a wedding present.
Look at this thing!
Wow!
Welcome aboard.
Thank you.
Welcome aboard.
Look at this place.
Uh-huh.
Dude this is, this is the most
incredible thing I think
I've ever seen.
Or ever been a part of,
so thank you.
It's a reflection of our love
for you. Both of you.
Aw!
And our love for you in your future.
I'm glad I'm wearing glasses.
I got tears in my eyes.
The thing I've always noticed with
Pat is, he's so full of love
and he just wants to be loved.
And so we're very excited
for all of you.
Just don't break his heart!
Don't break his heart. And don't
break hers. Yeah, don't break
her heart.
Yeah, don't break my heart.
Pat, when he went through
his divorce,
it completely...gut-punched him.
So, with Thais, it's beautiful
to watch him finally be happy.
Oh, sh*t.
Doing good.
Whoo!
Yeah.
Oh, you changed outfits! Yeah.
It's more comfortable.
Looks so pretty.
Thank you. Beautiful.
Beautiful.
Patrick like, uh...
told me about you guys.
All the time.
The same.
I'm so excited for your wedding.
I'm happy and, at the same time,
like...
a little, like,
sad, because my family is not here,
at my wedding.
Got to be hard. Yeah. Hard.
Hard, very hard.
We have...
a lot of problems.
Patrick just does things without
asking me what I think.
Like, just do.
Just do it?
Whatever. Uh-huh.
And... Um...
My dad just told me to...
don't get married with Patrick...
..and go back to Brazil.
Yeah.
Stop.
Yeah.
My dad's dream is, like,
I get married with someone
in my country
and close to him.
But, like, life happens sometimes.
Like... You know?
Yeah.
Just say no. Like, "I'm an adult,
I love Pat and I'm gonna marry him."
I wanna marry Patrick,
but my dad's opinion is
more important to me.
So I respect him.
In Brazil, we have
a lot of respect for parents.
And I don't want...
uh, to hurt him.
And...
Yeah.
It's hard.
Yeah, it's hard.
So what are you gonna do?
I don't know.
That's a hard one.
If you feel like your dad,
his opinion, is more important
and it's gonna affect your life
forever, I think you should
re-evaluate marrying Pat.
So, if you're gonna break his heart,
like, you do it early
and then go back to Brazil.
'As Pat's friend, I feel like
it's scary that she seems
a little uncertain.'
It seems very late
to make a decision.
I feel like she should know by now.
If Thais isn't sure, like, she
shouldn't go through with this,
because nobody wants to see Pat
get divorced again.
That will break Pat's heart.
If you're gonna break it off,
like, you should just do it now.
Hello, there, Avi.
Don't take away the little
I have!
But that's OK.
# All I need is your love
# Your love is all I need #
OK, no, no. No, no, no.
It's yours. You brush yourself.
How about
your hair?
Yeah.
That's very good.
I'm excited, because today is
my wedding day.
I'm so happy.
I'm free.
I'm smiling.
Thanks to God.
OK.
Now, how big a tip do you expect?
Fred is coming to my house
to help me for getting ready.
Today is your big day.
Yeah.
Ari's big day.
You know, I'd like to ask you
permission.
I wanna marry your daughter,
you know, so I'm asking you like.
Well, that's, that's good
and old-fashioned
and maybe not even that American
these days,
but you have my permission.
Thank you.
And you'd better do right by her.
Yeah.
The other thing,
I bring for you a gift.
Like, for me, this is very special,
like, in my culture.
I get a gift out of this?
Yeah, just...
All right. I thought I was supposed
to be giving the gifts here.
It's very special for, like,
my country, this watch.
Yeah. This is truly lovely.
Wow.
Not expected. Right?
The best gift.
Yeah. Completely unexpected.
I tell them, like, this watch,
like, is very important for me,
because the watch is, like,
my culture.
My culture is inside in the watch.
The number is different.
Like different numbers.
Different everything. That's why just
I give it to him, the watch.
Like, it's very special for me.
So that's why. "You are a special
dad." I give it, that's for him,
like.
He loves the watch.
I hope you like it, yeah.
I'm so happy you like it. Just...
I, I do. This... Yeah.
This is gorgeous. Wow.
I can't believe
today is the day.
Like, you don't even seem nervous
today. Yeah, I'm feeling good.
This is the first time that
I'm a little bit excited about it.
all the things that you need to do.
It would have been nice to have more
time, more time to plan a wedding,
more time to...
you know, for everything.
So are his sisters coming to
the wedding today by Zoom?
At first, I really didn't like
the idea of Wish and Mimi attending
the wedding, even virtually.
Bini's sisters have not treated me
well over the years.
Particularly, right before we left,
they threw wine in my face.
I actually did invite them,
after I had a change of heart,
because it's gonna make Bini happy.
I really love him, you know.
Thank you.
I'm so happy. I invite my family,
my brother, my sister, my friend.
I invite them for watching
my wedding, for video call.
Of course I miss my family so bad,
but I'm so happy to be here,
because now I have my own family,
with Avi and Ari.
So that's my dream. Just...
That's, like, my everything.
All set, Ari?
Wow, you look like a princess.
That bad, huh?
Fantastic.
No, like, I'm trying not
to get too emotional.
Oh, Mom, that's so sweet.
Just remember that your husband has
to treat you like a princess
for the rest of your life.
Just tell him that.
Expect princess treatment.
Give him that advice.
Demand it.
For the majority of the 90 days,
I've been so focused on the negative
aspects of our relationship.
But the truth is that I really want
Bini here and I really want
my family together.
When I started to focus on that,
I see a lot of positives.
I recognise that the road ahead for
Bini and I is not going to be easy
and that nothing magical has
happened, that just overnight
everything is perfect.
Here, hold onto the train,
so I can get your veil.
Bini and I's situation, where we
come from totally different
backgrounds
and we couldn't be more different,
deciding to get married to
one another...
..is definitely taking
a leap of faith.
# Ain't got no time to waste
# Got to get the paper, baby...
Hi.
How are you?
You made it.
# ..ain't got no time at all
# Gotta get the money, honey #
It's been a crazy couple of days.
Oh, it's been a lot, we need
to catch up. Right, for sure.
I think that, after
the fire ceremony,
Rochelle still probably has some
doubts, in regards to Mohamed and I
getting married.
So I'm excited to tell Rochelle that
Mohamed and I have spent some time
reconnecting.
And I hope that...
she feels a little more comfortable
about my relationship.
Hi. You can take a seat right here.
How are you?
Pretty good. Good.
So we have all of these different
colour swatches here.
Um... Yeah, maybe...
Hm, let's see...
I don't know. I'm getting married.
I don't want something too bright,
but pretty.
Are you nervous?
Um, I feel much better than I felt,
like, two days ago.
Thank you.
So how long have you actually known
this guy?
A little over two years,
like, two years and four months.
Mm-hm.
But we only had 90 days to get
married once he got here.
And we're very fast...
Does it feel good to be fast?
Or does it feel, like,
a little crazy?
It's definitely...
It's definitely mixed,
because the process of getting him
here was not fast.
But then going from...
obviously, dating at a distance
and only seeing each other
four times during that timeframe -
Only four?
Well, not just four days,
but, like, four different trips.
Oh, I see.
It's not like somebody...
..that you just fly
a couple of states over to see.
So where's he from?
From Egypt.
Wow, Egypt?
That's pretty far.
Yeah, exactly.
I've never... I don't even think
I've ever even met anyone from Egypt.
What was it like out there?
Was it just super deserty,
kind of like here?
Kind of, actually.
I mean, the cities are a huge
metropolis, but in between...
He lives in Alexandria,
which is on the Mediterranean.
And then Cairo is a little south of
the Mediterranean.
But driving in between,
there's, like, farm land, but, like,
also a lot of desert, as well.
This is a beautiful ring, by the way.
That's my first engagement ring
that he gave me
on my very first trip to...
Egypt.
And then he gave me...
the bigger one last night!
Really? What happened last night?
That's a surprise.
Ta-da!
He literally, like,
re-proposed to me again.
Wow.
Oh, this is big. OK. Good.
How are you feeling now?
Much better.
I mean...
I so did not expect it, at all.
So he's thinking ahead.
This is good.
I've really been wanting to ask you
if you've gotten cold feet.
Yes. I literally had frigid feet.
But I do not have any doubts today.
I hear you say you have no doubts,
but you also say "today".
Well, because I was really scared.
Things just kind of got
a little...stressful.
I've been really nervous for Yve,
to take this man as her husband.
You know, they've been having a lot
of problems, lots of red flags,
in my eyes.
I don't think that Yve should marry
him and I want her to know that
I'm here, if she changes her mind.
I know, last night, he proposed
again and it was a beautiful thing,
but that's just like when you get in
a fight and someone brings you roses
or a beautiful diamond ring.
It's not just that.
I mean, we had a conversation.
It's just...
we're back at the place that we've,
like, pretty much been,
like him being lovey and romantic
and all that and...
OK.
I just want you to hear all that
you're saying right now.
I am hearing it and also I'm trying
to take him into consideration,
because I have no idea,
like, I have no idea how it feels,
like, to feel...
We've waited this long
and it was hard, it was so hard.
Like, um, not being together,
not knowing at times
during the pandemic,
like, when we were gonna see
each other.
I know, but I also want you
to really think about how it is
so fairytale-like.
It's a fairytale, he's in Egypt
and he's finally coming here.
Now he's here and...
there's been so many flags
that have popped up.
Him being upset and calling you
a sponsor.
And then, you know, there's just
these little roadblocks,
that are actually huge roadblocks.
I just don't want you to feel...
I want you to feel like
the woman of his dreams.
I want you to feel like his wife
and not just his sponsor.
I know, I...
Like, this is real life. This is
a major, major, major, major thing.
If you have any doubts
in your mind, Yve...
You know that I was a runaway bride
before, right? I actually...
told him I didn't wanna marry him
the day before the wedding.
The day before? I realised then that
I did not want to marry this man.
And it was a big decision.
It took a lot of strength
to do that.
If I was in Yve's position,
with all of the red flags,
I would have taken them as a sign
to say this isn't gonna work.
I just wanted to open that up to Yve
and let her know that I've been in
this situation before
and I want her to know that...
that option is always available.
Don't think about Mohamed.
Don't think about anyone else
other than Yve.
I have been dreaming,
fantasising about
Mohamed and I getting married.
But my friends are
pretty intuitive, so...
I take my friends' concerns
seriously,
because I want to feel comfortable
about the decision I'm making
for the rest of my life.
I just want you to also know
that it's OK, that no matter what,
you're able to...
choose what is in your highest
and best.
# Oh-oh-oh oh
# When night falls
# You call my name
# But I want more than I did
yesterday #
Oh, my God. We're getting into
the remote area.
Yeah, this is, this is the real
desert out here now.
'We are finally out of South Dakota
and we came to California.'
We are about to go
check in, into our Airbnb.
We've found, like, a place
that's perfect,
in between the house
and the venue for the wedding.
But the ceremony is gonna be outside
and it's been raining the whole day
today.
So I'm really worried about tomorrow.
I'm hoping that
it's going to be sunny,
but you never know.
After all, I didn't expect it
to rain in the desert.
Even though this is gonna be
a really small wedding,
there's so many details that are
really important to me.
It's my vision, after all.
After you, madam.
Ooh!
Welcome to the Desert Estates.
This way.
Super nice!
You like it?
I love it.
Is this what you expected?
Yeah.
Are you happy with this?
Yeah. OK.
Miona searched every minute
and hour on the internet
and she found this beautiful venue
for us to get married
and...
Bravo! I applaud her.
I'm proud of Miona for setting
this up, like, out of thin air.
Mm-hm. You better get that
make-up line popping.
This is really beautiful.
Yeah, look at that room! There is
two rooms, actually. We can choose.
There's two rooms?
I think this is maybe
the master bedroom.
Oh.
I like it.
OK, hold on. We got a guest list?
Wow!
What do you think? You like it?
I love it.
What about this bedroom?
Is this the one we're gonna be in?
I'm gonna check out the other one.
I'm gonna see which one I like more.
Oh.
So this is the one?
Oh, look at that.
I don't know.
Which one do you like more?
It's up to you. This is...
This is your...
your suite.
Your perfect suite.
How do you wanna wake up? Like that?
And all that rainy-ness?
Yeah.
I wish it's not raining.
Yeah, I know, I'm sorry.
Um... What do you think?
This one or the other one?
I feel like you want that other one.
I'm not sure. Don't make it this
complicated, whichever one.
Let's check out the other one,
one more time. OK, one more time. OK.
The worst case scenario with Miona
not having this day work out
perfectly is I'm gonna hear it.
Oh, you never did
this for my wedding, no beach
wedding!
I'm gonna be hearing that
for a long time.
I don't wanna hear that.
Hold on. How is this bed, though?
Don't sit with dirty jeans on it.
No!
Get out of there.
They say, "Happy wife, happy life."
Right?
I wouldn't know, but I'm assuming
that statement's probably true.
sh*t.
Ooh!
Hold on.
Grandma!
Hi, Grandma. You got a haircut.
I got a haircut.
Let me get your, uh, bag for you.
Thank you.
Hi, Grandma.
Oh, my God.
My grandma is marrying us and that
means so much to me, because
she loves unconditionally.
She's always there for me and
my grandma's everything for me.
So what's your official name now?
Now that you're marrying us,
what are you? Reverend Grams.
Reverend Grams, let's go!
When Jibri and Miona asked me
to officiate their wedding,
I felt very honoured
that they would ask me to do it.
Now it's kind of exciting. it took
much longer to write the ceremony
than it did to...
"get ordained".
Grandma?
Yeah?
Come on in. Can I come in?
I'm just getting some stuff out of
my suitcase so it looks decent
tomorrow.
How are you doing?
I'm good, I'm just trying
to get it altogether.
Yeah.
You know. I'm so glad you're here,
Grandma. I really appreciate you
for this.
This means so much to me.
So you're ready to get married?
No, no. No. I'm not ready.
But when are you ever ready?
My mom was upset.
"Why are you doing this?"
And I'm just like, "Look, why not?"
Her and I have to make a commitment
to help each other grow.
So your mom and dad were like...
they were really hesitant about
you getting married right now.
How does...
How is that setting up with you now?
I mean, yeah, it's affecting me.
But then I'm also like, I'm gonna do
what I think is right with me.
And that's to... Let's get married.
OK.
Jibri is one to go for things.
He doesn't hesitate.
Over the last weeks that Miona has
been here, he's had his moments of,
"Should I really do this?"
But after talking with him tonight,
I really feel like he is as ready
as he's ever gonna be.
And he takes risks
like no-one else I know.
Some of them come out well.
Some of them don't.
Do you think that there's
a possibility that they would show
up tomorrow? And surprise us?
I wish there was.
I don't know, I mean, they're...
They're both so dang busy.
I know they would want to be here.
I would love it, if they showed up,
but...
You're right. I wouldn't be
holding my breath. No. OK.
It means a lot. I love you.
I love you, too.
I appreciate that you are allowing
me to marry you tomorrow.
Yes! That's big. A new experience
for us both. That's so dope.
I believe that both my stepdad and
my mom think that I'm being
impulsive and being irrational.
And they decided, you know,
we can't make it.
That sucks.
Hurts my feelings.
I think Mom, she definitely would
drop everything and be at her son's
wedding.
I love you, honey. I love you.
I'll see you in the morning.
I'll see you in the morning.
Bright and early!
OK. Thank you, Grandma. I love you.
You're losing your blankie.
Oh, yeah. Yeah, yeah. Thank you.
Can't have the poncho slip off.
'My parents only have a little bit
of time to change their mind.'
I'm hoping that my mom and dad
will be there, but...
..I'm not sure yet.
Bye.
# I just wanna be with you,
don't matter where we're going #
So the silverware, the caterer
brought it wrapped. Uh-huh.
We can unwrap it.
Yeah, we'll do that.
I think it looks beautiful
over here.
You know which one goes on
which side, right, honey?
I know, babe.
Let me do my thing. OK?
Don't talk to me.
Don't talk to me?
You got a whole lot of time to talk
to me, for the rest of your life,
buddy.
# ..if I got you #
All right. So maybe this outfit.
I have to try it on and see if fits.
All right.
All right. See if it will zip.
Oh, God.
Move, move.
Are they gonna look at my stomach
and be like, "What?"
I don't even know
if I can sit in this thing.
Oh!
No. I know what you're saying, but
no. Please. Please no. Please no.
The fact that my parents are paying
for our wedding, you know,
I do feel guilt about them
not knowing, but I also want them
to have a good time.
But I just don't want a situation
where your dad finds out
that you're pregnant
and I'm not the one who told him.
We're not gonna tell them
the night before the wedding.
My family is in town and...
I don't want to ruin this big day
for them.
Actually, I have a plan in place.
I bought non-alcoholic beer.
So no-one will catch on
that I'm not drinking.
Are we ready? Let's go.
Let's go, bubba. Go inside.
Maybe it's time for you
to eat. Huh?
Hello!
Hi, buddy.
Look!
Hello.
I'm really kind of nervous, because
Emily's entire family is over here
right now.
I'm Aaron. Aaron. My cousin Aaron.
Kobe. Nice to meet you.
Oh, my gosh.
How are you?
I never thought I was gonna get
all this love and support from
her family...
It is so nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you, too.
..which means a lot to me.
You can wear it to a wedding, mostly
a traditional wedding, in Africa.
Yeah. And they fit so beautifully,
like...
I would really love them
to be here with me,
but my mum passed away in 2014
and my dad and my stepmum, I mean...
..they can't really travel.
I mean, that's a lot,
I'm a lucky man.
Thanks for the rehearsal dinner.
Oh, you're welcome, sweetheart.
I'm happy everyone's here.
I'm so happy to do it.
Are you nervous?
I don't think it's hit me yet either.
Nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you, too.
'I can't picture my life
with anybody else.'
But now that I'm pregnant with
our second child, there's just
a lot more on the line.
I never thought I would feel uneasy
so close to the wedding day tomorrow.
Hi.
All right.
In reality, I mean, this is a man
from Cameroon, who I met in China.
We got pregnant
and engaged very quickly.
And, you know, the last few days,
talking about Ohio
and bringing up, like, gender roles
and cultural differences...
..I don't know,
I'm questioning it all.
Um... I'm pretty overwhelmed.
Like, you don't have any doubts about
tomorrow? Like, is there anything
that bothers you?
If I wasn't gonna marry you,
if I wasn't ready...
I don't need ten months.
I don't need 90 days. Like...
Yeah. I mean...
It means a lot, but all these things
are just coming out of the woodwork.
I'm like, "Where are they coming
from?"
Like, knowing that,
deep down, you wanna move to Ohio.
I need to know these things.
And I don't wanna, like, find out
a year after marrying you.
Like, what do you mean by still
finding out more about me?
Yeah,
it's not been an easy journey.
I mean, I've tried everything.
I came just to let her know that,
"OK, I'm yours and I love you
and I want you."
But, man...
There's something I want you
to know. All right?
I left everything back home in
Cameroon to be here, just so
we can be happy together.
Kobe...
Listen.
How does that really happen?
You're getting married to somebody
you don't fully trust?
Does that make sense?
I don't know what to say right now.
All right? I don't know
what to say right now.
I did not plan on getting in
an argument.
Right now, I'm looking for
reassurance. I'm not looking for
defensiveness.
So now it just is like...
adding to the pot.
Like, are we... What are we doing?
Are we happy together?
And maybe it just wasn't realistic
for me to believe
that we had enough time
to really figure out
this relationship in 90 days.
# We've been chasing the sunrise
all night
# And it feels right
# That we're gonna escalate
# I can see the look in your eyes
# Like a bright fire,
I can feel you resonate #
Hey, babe.
Hey, babe.
Good.
I absolutely
almost can't believe
that I am going to get
married today.
Should I just wear this today?
It says what is going on.
Because although Mohamed
made a grand gesture
and he re-proposed to me
and completely surprised me,
like, literally, kind of, like,
swept me off my feet,
I still have concerns
that we are different.
Hopefully, I can still be
who I am and...
..and that he accepts that truly.
All right, well, you got to go. OK?
I love you. See you at the wedding.
Love you, too. I'll see you later.
I'm so excited. Oh, yeah.
Don't forget those. Of course.
I am so glad that this day
already came,
because I have been waiting to tell
everybody that Yve is my wife.
And finally it's gonna happen.
Can we grab another chair
and put it over here?
I got an idea. It's getting kind of
late for our prayer.
Should we just do our prayer?
Yeah.
Before things get busy?
Yeah.
Oh, me too, OK.
It's not easy to not have my mom
and my family on this day,
but I know that they are
so happy for me.
Having my friend Rafay here today,
I feel supported by him.
It is special to me to pray with
Rafay today, before the ceremony,
because this is a new life for me
and I want it started that way.
Allahu Akbar.
I would rather to have
a Muslim ceremony if I can,
but my call with my mom was
one of the reasons why
I can understand that...
I am here in the US
and Yve is an American
and it's her day.
You all right now?
Yes.
Good? Feeling good?
I am good.
Hi, my baby. Let me help you.
Let me see.
What do you need help with?
I have something in my eye.
I just need a tissue. OK.
Hi, gorgeous. Are you feeling good
about everything? I'm good.
Let me see your face.
Obviously stressful. You know?
How were you and Mohamed this
morning when you woke up? Good.
Was it a good night still?
Yeah, definitely. Good.
I'm excited.
I know that...
you all love me very much
and have some concerns and are
protective of me,
but I definitely wouldn't do this
if I didn't feel like
my heart wasn't in it.
I just want you to be happy, babe.
Definitely. I am, baby, I am.
I am.
That's all we want.
So, thank you, though.
My dress!
Oh, my gosh, it's finally time.
Are you ready to step in it?
Yes.
I love my dress, but I'm a little
nervous,
because it's not as modest
as most Muslim wedding dresses.
And I tried to kind of like
cover up the cleavage a little bit,
but I'm still a little worried that
he's gonna be upset, that it's too
revealing in his eyes.
Let me see you.
Beautiful.
It's beautiful.
Hi, Tharan. Did you know that
your suit, you match Mohamed?
Oh, my gosh, child!
You look so adorable.
You bring tears to my eyes.
You look so handsome.
Yeah!
You are.
Tharan does understand
what's happening today.
I've definitely been talking to him
about it, that we're going to the
castle and we're gonna get married.
And so I'm super excited
that he's embracing this
and putting on his suit and tux
and he looks absolutely adorable.
It was just, like,
a heart-warming moment.
Oh, you're so cute.
I've very excited to have
Mohamed waiting for me
at the end of that aisle.
So it's really important to me,
that everything goes as smooth
and as perfect as possible.
OK, you ready?
I'm so excited!
OK. I think we're ready.
Please rise.
# Oh, no, I'll never let go
# Can't untighten my fingers
from the end of this rope, oh, no #
Hey, Mama, can you hear me?
Can you see me?
Yeah. Hi.
sh*t, I'm gonna get married.
So...
You know?
Wow.
This is really happening.
Yeah.
Miona and I are a little stressed
out about all the stuff that
we have to do tomorrow.
But I just hope that tomorrow is OK
and that...
The only thing that is kind of...
missing is you.
Definitely. You and Dad.
You know? I know we're gonna do
a wedding in the future
with all of us...
..but it just doesn't feel right
that you're not here
and Dad is not here.
Um...
You know, I would...
I would be lying,
if didn't say how sad I was
about not being there.
But I'm glad you have Grandma there
and I hope it's gonna be beautiful.
Yeah. I think that was kind of
the whole point of having it there
was so that it would be beautiful.
Mm-hm. So...
I hope it's beautiful.
It would be more beautiful
with you here.
What if I look around some websites,
just get you a quick air ticket
tonight?
I just...
I can't.
Because Jibri and I have been
so close,
um, distance has never,
a physical distance has never felt
like a real distance.
Um...
But today it does.
And I am...
really sad,
but really I'm hurt.
The decisions that Jibri
and Miona have made
created some emotional distance.
And I think, really,
I'm having to create that distance
to protect my heart.
Um...
Because I wanna be there.
I want to see him say I do
and hold the woman
that he loves in his arms
and kiss her for the first time
as a married couple.
And we're gonna miss that.
And I didn't have a choice about it.
That's a memory for my son
that I don't get to participate in.
I'm sorry that, you know, your dad
and I can't be there.
OK.
I understand.
So...do I have your blessing?
Do I have your blessing,
as my mother?
We had a rocky start, but...
I want you to be happy. I want...
I want you to be happy.
OK.
And I support you.
OK?
So that means I have your blessing?
Um... Yes.
Yeah, you do.
I don't bless the way
this came about,
but I'm gonna bless it
moving forward.
That means a lot.
Thanks, Mom.
We'll be thinking about you
tomorrow.
Thanks, Mom. Thinking about Miona.
Thanks, Mom.
Yeah, I mean, I wish she would say,
"Hey, you know what, Jibri?
We decided we love you, son,
and we're gonna do whatever it takes
to be there at this wedding."
But it's just like, damn,
whoo, that hurts.
I love you.
I love you, too, so, so much.
Thanks, Mom.
Love you.
Love. Bye.
Hi.
Hello.
Hi.
How are you?
Good. Can we get a table for two?
Ah. Thank you.
Thank you.
First of all,
cheers,
because...we are...
We get a moment alone.
In Miami, huh? Finally!
I feel like the yacht party was
great and I feel like Thais had
a good time, too.
But Thais feels like I'm just
dragging her all across the country,
right before our wedding, too,
and she has a valid point.
Tonight, she wanted some one-on-one
time before the wedding, so we can
talk through everything.
Did you...
..go on the boat?
Mm-hm.
Uh-huh.
OK.
I don't know
why you feel this way now.
I told you about the boat,
about what we were doing.
No, no. I told you about my friends
being here. You never asked me.
You don't have to say yes.
I can do some things alone.
Alone?
OK, yeah, I'm telling you the things
that we're doing, to understand how
YOU think about it.
I'm not telling you just to tell you
and then go and do it.
I haven't done anything like that.
You just told me, right now,
if...
I don't want to do
what you want,
you will like,
do it alone.
Yeah, some things,
but look at right now.
You didn't wanna go out with my
friends, we're here by ourselves.
We're spending time together
and, like, that was fine with me.
I'm talking about everything,
not about just today, about...
Yeah, if it's something that's
reasonable that you don't wanna do,
like, if I wanna go skydiving...
..you would be better and...
now I feel like you don't.
Like, if I wanna go skydiving and
you don't wanna go skydiving, I'm
gonna go skydiving.
Huh?
Mm.
Yes, of course.
John is not gonna move out
the first month...
No?
You want me to throw
my brother to the street.
Like, that's not easy.
Like, I can't just say,
"Hey, John, get out of here."
It's really hard.
John moving out is not
a simple thing.
Like, we've lived together
for over two years
and, you know, he's like
an integral part of my life.
I understand, like wanting to live
alone, but she has to understand,
like, it's gonna take time.
It's not something like, hey, since
we got married, like, he's out
the door right away.
My family is important too.
I know.
So we can bring my dad
to live with us.
It's easy.
I would love your dad to live
with us. I don't think he would.
But all I have is John.
I have Tiffany. I have Matthew.
Even my mom is about to die.
I understand, I understand,
but do you see how hard it is?
Do you see how hard it is?
I don't came to Brazil...
to have problems here and...
get stressed
all the time.
I mean, I don't want you to do
anything you don't wanna do.
So do you still wanna get married?
Well, we have...
less than three days
to figure it out.
You know, at the very beginning of
our 90 days together,
I never imagined Thais and I would
be having a conversation like this,
right before our wedding.
I still wanna get married,
but Thais is still having doubts
and, you know, for the first time,
I'm thinking, man, like, she really
could go back
and we might not be getting married.
# It only takes one night,
it only takes one night #
I know Ari, she take, she take time,
but she make me more, like, nervous.
When I see Ari smiling...
when you look at me,
I love her so much, she's my angel.
Like God, he give it to me,
this beautiful family.
Wow.
You look really nice.
Biniyam, good luck.
Yeah.
We are gathered here today
to celebrate the joining together of
Bini and Ari.
Ari and Bini are standing today
under a chuppah, a wedding canopy,
made of Netela fabric from Ethiopia
and a decorative curtain
that belonged to Ari's grandmother.
I'm happy to be doing this ceremony
with Bini
and to marry him in a temple.
I think we both agreed that
we should compromise for each other.
So I really like that we were able
to blend things.
In keeping with Jewish custom,
which involves seven circles,
Ari will be circling Bini
three times,
Bini will then circle Ari
three times
and they will complete the seventh
rotation together.
I think our relationship is at
its best when we are, you know,
letting the other person
express themselves
with our different cultures,
our different backgrounds and so
that's why it's extra special.
Coming into this marriage, we create
for these two with this ceremony,
a momentary space of perfection
and beauty.
Just when I lost my first
relationship, my family,
and Ari, she find me,
like in the street.
I'm so excited for everything.
I remember the day that I met you.
When you were walking down
the street,
somehow, I got you to stop
and talk to me.
At that time, I never thought that,
one day, we would live in New Jersey
and we'd get married in a temple.
You are a great father to Avi
and I love you so, so, so, so much.
I love you, too.
OK, sweetie.
Our ceremony closes in
the traditional Jewish manner,
with the breaking of a glass.
The breaking of the glass signifies
to the world that this marriage is
now official
and cannot be easily undone.
Just step on it?
Just stomp it, yeah.
L'chaim! Mazel tov!
You may kiss each other.
No, don't pick it up.
We'll take care of the glass.
Kiss, kiss your wife.
Mazel tov.
Friends and family, honoured
witnesses, it is my pleasure
to present, for the first time
as a married couple, Bini and Ari.
For the last three years
that they've been together,
I was not sure we were
gonna make it to this day.
The good times were very good. They
had a lot of rough times together.
To be able to see my daughter
in a wedding dress so happy,
a great feeling for me,
certainly great for her.
'How does it feel to be married?'
It's, it's great.
I'm breathing.
Because I can see the future
for myself,
when I see Ari and my Avi
and just we will be happy together.
Let's go.
I'm not gonna lie, the 90 days
weren't easy.
I always had a lot of stress
on my mind that
we could be separated potentially.
So now that we've gotten married
and Bini's gonna get his green card,
it means that there's this huge
weight lifted off our shoulders.
We don't know what the future holds,
but I definitely think
that this family is gonna have a lot
more adventures in the future.
Oh, my God, I love you!
I love you.
I love you, too.
# Wake me up and tell me
I've been dreaming
# That you never had to leave
# And I'm not lying here alone
# Wake me up and tell me
it's not real
# That I've got something
to believe in
# Say you'll never let me go #
Thank you, my dear.
Hi.
Yeah. Of course. Taking time away
from work. Of course.
Means a lot. That's what little
sisters are for.
My wedding is tomorrow
and my two younger sisters Nisa
and Tiya were able to be here,
because they were in New York for
studies for some months.
The rest of my family
cannot be here,
because the borders are closed
back home again.
No-one is allowed to leave Trinidad.
I know it's your first time
in Missouri.
I find up here real dull though.
When I was coming on the plane,
I was watching the scenery
and it's all...
Everything is so brown and grey,
not like home at all.
Really?
You're not missing home?
You like it here?
I like it here. I like it here.
You like it here?
I love it here.
I love the neighbourhood.
I love the environment. The water OK?
Yeah, it's good.
How about the place?
I love...
I just feel like it's...
I keep saying this,
since the beginning,
there's no comparison.
You cannot compare Missouri to
Trinidad.
At no time, it's like
two different worlds.
Each on its own level.
Well, I guess, by living here,
you would say that, because
I compared it.
How are y'all feeling?
How are WE feeling?
You're getting married
not us.
Yeah.
Sometimes, it seemed like it would
never happen. Huh? Yeah. Yeah.
I know they have concerns, because
my sister Tiya she met Bilal once,
but my other sister,
she has never met Bilal.
So, of course, they wanna know
what type of person he is.
They want to know if there's
something they should be aware of
or concerned about.
Like, not in
a million years,
I would think that my future spouse
would be in the United States.
Yeah, I know that.
Like Bilal a little bit. I mean,
I wouldn't say he c*ck,
but he comes across as...
Like, he's sure of himself.
You know?
He's really sure of himself.
Reminds me of you. You are sure of
yourself also. Yeah.
In our relationship - Who wants to be
the bigger diva? Exactly.
I feel like I don't wanna take away
from the person who he is, because
he's a very nice person.
But, at the same time, he doesn't...
He don't really bend. I feel like...
He's reached a level of success
in his life
and he, like, he knows it all.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. So, when I came
here, it was a rude awakening.
An American man...
The ball isn't in my court.
Because, in his country,
it's so different.
Yeah.
For instance, the whole prenup
situation.
I never wanted to sign a prenup.
Tiya, you know that. Yeah.
I don't like that prenup thing,
I really don't.
My entire family knows about
the prenuptial agreement between
Bilal and myself.
It's not something that
they agreed with, per se,
because, back home,
a prenup is foreign.
That's something we don't do,
back home.
So they are not...
It's not sitting well with them.
I asked him to put in the prenup,
where he will help me build
my business here.
OK, good. Yeah. If I need something
to fall back on. That's fair.
I know, so having children, it's
important for me to have children.
Definitely.
He put in the changes.
Wow.
He told me everything is in there,
I just have to sign, but...
You definitely need to give it a
read. You don't know what's inside.
What little things
he chuck in there. You know?
My biggest concern definitely would
be her transition into the American
society, into this culture.
For me, it's the transition. Like...
I know it's Bilal out here,
that she has here.
And I want that support system
to be strong for her and then...
If the prenup is gonna create
friction...
You know? The family is
a very big support
and she doesn't have that here.
So that's what I'm concerned about.
Yeah.
No, you're not.
You better not play no gold-digging
song for me there.
I will play it. Just to true
Shaeeda.
Oh, no, she ain't truing
at the wedding.
Please.
Yes, I'm going to do it.
I hope you have some Caribbean vibes
in that wedding and not everything
Americanised. I know.
My sisters are reminding me
of everything I have already been
thinking and worrying about.
I think I underestimated
who Bilal is as a person.
I realise that Bilal is certainly
an alpha male.
He is strong-minded
and he does not bad.
There is challenges. Like, in
everything, there's challenges.
I am still trying to see if I'm 100%
ready for this relationship,
if I'll be a good wife to him
and if I'm ready for Bilal having
such a strong personality.
Please rise.
Just as we started the wedding,
Tharan, all of a sudden, was like,
"I'm done with this suit"
and started taking it off.
But it is what it is. Children have
their, like, time-limits and
patience.
And, with autism, sometimes,
children have less patience.
So that's what he ended up wearing,
which was just fine.
Don't kiss me yet.
Yve is looking
gorgeous right now.
Even though she's not wearing
a Muslim dress,
it doesn't matter to me anymore.
I let it go, because I just want
Yve to be happy, the way she wants.
The best of luck for you.
You can come with us.
Yes.
Let me go in the middle.
OK? Come on.
You may sit.
Sit. Get down there.
Friends and loved ones,
we're gathered here at this hour
to witness and celebrate
the coming together of
two separate lives.
What we're gonna do now, Tharan,
we are going to have you
help us. OK?
We're gonna each add some sand.
Sand.
Uh-huh.
This is gonna symbolise
your foundation.
It is the bringing together of
families. Wait, what's this?
That's your colour.
This is gonna be Mohamed's colour.
And here is Mommy's colour.
It's blue.
Right. So we're gonna combine them.
Mommy's is pink. Pink.
And Mohamed's is blue.
Blue. Blue.
'Mohamed is very empathic.'
He's very connected to me
and kind of knows how I feel.
He embraces Tharan for who he is
and it just helps me, to just be
strong, as well.
Keep going.
Stop. Whoa.
Whoa.
None of you are alone anymore.
You can't take the sand back
and make it separate.
This is part of your family now,
you're joined together.
It's brown.
So even though people have concerns,
I have no doubt
that he will be by my side
for the rest of my life,
because I know that family is really
important to him.
And what I'm going to do is ask that
you take the ring, first Mohamed,
and you seal your commitment
by repeating after me...
My heart.
With this ring...
With this ring...
..I marry you...
..I marry you...
..and join my life...
..and join my life...
..to yours.
..to yours.
I, Yvette, take you, Mohamed...
I, Yvette, take you Mohamed...
..with this ring, I marry you
and join my life to yours.
..with this ring, my king, I marry
you and join my life to yours.
When I saw Mohamed get emotional,
that just solidified
that he truly does love me
and is ready for that commitment.
And now by the power vested in me
by the state of New Mexico
and the spirits,
I now pronounce you
husband and wife.
Mohamed, you may kiss your bride.
Whoo!
This moment...
I was waiting for this moment
for so frickin' long.
So I'm glad...
to stay with...
with my regular sponsor.
The one and only. OK?
He's a good dancer!
Since he re-proposed
three weeks ago,
Mohamed seems to be
a little more open,
experiencing some of the things
that I do.
Ahh.
Hah! Hah!
Hah! Hah! Hah!
I decided to be more open,
because I realise that,
if I don't compromise,
I will lose Yve forever.
Oh, my God.
Aw!
So this is the traditional,
like, the Arabic wedding dance.
You know, today was really lovely
and eye-opening.
I think, for all of us, I can speak
for us, that let us rest easy,
seeing that genuine love shine
through, that's all that was here
today.
Apparently, we're gonna have to get
some dancing lessons!
I find Yve loving me unconditionally.
I feel the same way. I mean, I'm not
perfect. We're learning
to just not put too much pressure
on each other
to be something that we're not.
And I get to spend the rest of
my life with, like, my best friend,
my true love.
She's in love, so I want it
to work out for them.
Will it? We don't know.
We can't say. We hope it lasts.
It's been a hell of a ride.
It took a lot to get us here.
I wanna, like, go into the wedding
tomorrow, like, happy.
OK.
Thais is clearly unsure
about our future together.
And the thought that she could
give up and just go back to Brazil,
right before we get married,
is just terrifying.
Finally.
I've been going crazy,
trying to think of ways
to help her get through these
feelings of uncertainty
and put her mind at ease.
All right. Is that everything?
OK. Uh-huh.
At this point, there's only
one thing I could think of.
So, um, you know, I still haven't
really got the chance to talk to
your dad
about the conversation
you guys had before.
You think if I call him now, he'd
pick up? You think he's available?
I mean, we got to try, it's,
we don't have any time.
Just telling him how I feel. You
know, just telling him everything.
OK?
Are you sure?
I feel like that would be
a lot better.
Yeah.
Yeah.
All right.
Yeah.
Maybe if I explain to him
how I feel about you
and he comes around a little bit
more, you'll feel better about
getting married.
Like, it would be hard for me,
if my parents weren't on
the same page. Mm-hm.
And so, maybe, if he could come
around a little bit, I think it
would make you feel a lot better.
Yeah.
Yeah, yeah.
OK.
I'm just in shock
and I feel really defeated.
It definitely hurts, because
I know he has a ton of influence
over Thais.
So I'm scared she might not go
through with getting married
and just go back to Brazil.
Whoo!
..90 Day
Fiance...
My wedding day is finally here.
I feel a lot of pressure to make
everything look good for Miona.
How far is he?
Two hours.
An unhappy Miona on her wedding day,
you don't wanna see that.
Sometimes, you don't get everything
you want.
I know exactly how I want my wedding
to look like.
Today is the big day.
You're never gonna be like 100%.
But we're looking forward to,
I think, our happy-ever-after.
Last chance to say no.
OK...
Last night ended on a bad note.
I don't want him
to feel some type of way,
especially on our wedding day.
If my father was against
the wedding, I would postpone it.
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