Previously on 90 Day Fiancé... I don't
like that pre-nupting. I really don't.
There's challenges, like in everything.
Bilal is certainly an alpha male.
He's strong-minded and he does not beg.
American men are very c*ck.
They know it all.
You're not afraid that you're gonna clash.
I was away from my wedding.
I am still trying to see if I'm 100%
ready to -- for this relationship.
It just doesn't feel right
that you're not here.
If I look on some website, just
get you a quick air ticket tonight.
I can't.
So your mom and dad, they were really
hesitant about you getting married right now.
How is that setting up with you now?
I'm gonna do what I think is right with
me, and that's to -- let's get married.
All these things are just
coming out of the woodwork,
and I'm like, "Where
are they coming from?
" I've left friend, family.
I fought to be here,
and you still doubt me?
In reality, this is a man from
Cameroon who I met in China.
We got pregnant and engaged very quickly.
I don't know. I'm questioning it all.
If you can trust me, at the
eve of our wedding -- Oh, gosh.
So, do you still want to get married?
It's not simple.
The thought that she could give up and
just go back to Brazil is just terrifying.
And at this point, there's
only one thing I can think of.
♪ Ooh ♪
♪ I can't say it all ♪
♪ Before we blacken out ♪
It's the morning of the wedding, and I
am just feeling, you know, kind of lost.
With all the Ohio stuff and
questioning gender roles
and keeping the secret from
my parents about the pregnancy,
it kind of made me question,
like, if Colby and I are on the
same page about our life and
where we want our future to go.
And last night was awful and emotional.
We haven't spoken
'cause we slept at the hotel.
I did not sleep very well, and then I
woke up not feeling, like, the best, so...
But I'm upset with myself
because I overreacted
and it got us to this
situation, so it sucks.
Like, he is truly the best
person I've ever been with,
so I don't want him to feel some type
of way, especially on our wedding day.
Hello?
-Hi, babe.
-What's up?
-Well, I just kind of wanted
to call and, like, check in.
I just, like, have been
thinking a lot about last night.
Like, I feel bad that I just
came at you the way that I did.
-Yeah. That got me, Gloria.
You know, we're so close to getting
married, and she has trust issues.
-They're not, like,
necessarily towards you.
They're just, like, in general.
But I'm realizing myself,
like, I jump to conclusions,
like, really fast, and I
need to learn to just,
like, talk to you about
it and not get upset.
Yeah, so I guess, you know, I'm sorry.
I just want you to know that I really
do love you and I really do trust you,
and I know you have sacrificed
so much to be here with
Cobin and I, and I really
cannot wait to marry you.
-That horrible night's sleep,
that's what took me so long.
-Yeah. I also understand
that every relationship
has its ups and
downs, but I love you.
Just put that out of the back of your mind.
-I love you. -I will.
Okay.
All right. I love you.
-Love you, babe. -Bye.
♪♪ -Ugh.
Marriage life.
After the fight last night, I didn't really
think there was going to be a wedding.
Emily had trust issues grown more and more,
but it means a lot to me that, you know,
she's acknowledged the fact
that, you know, she's overreacting.
And I know there are a whole lot of things
that, you know, me and
Emily, we need to work on.
Like, the pregnancy thing,
you're here, hiding, keeping
secrets from your parents,
and you are talking about trust.
Like, you can't trust me.
It's questionable.
Like, it's been troubling me so much.
Wow.
So I just pray, God, that, you know,
this marriage of a
thing that I'm about to
embark on turns to be
something like a success.
♪ Whoa-oh-oh-oh-oh ♪
♪ Whoa-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh ♪
♪ Boy, you got me like ♪
♪ Whoa-oh-oh-oh-oh ♪
♪ Whoa-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh ♪
♪ Oh, your love is like ♪
♪ Whoa-oh-oh-oh-oh ♪
♪ Whoa-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh ♪
♪ Boy, you got me like ♪
♪ Whoa-oh-oh-oh-oh ♪
♪ Whoa-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh ♪ Yeah.
This ready?
My wedding is tomorrow.
My sisters are in town.
Bilal's family is coming over to enjoy
some Trinidad and Tobago Caribbean food.
Guess who's here.
Oh, my God!
Straight from Vegas.
Yeah.
I am meeting you, smell like onions.
Oh, that's all right, baby.
I've been eating.
Hi.
This is my sister, Tia.
Oh, okay.
This is my other sister, Nisa.
I like you.
I like you so much.
It's good to finally meet
you all, especially you.
Well, it is really good
to finally be in the flesh
because we have been
talking for a long time.
I know, right?
So it's just really good
to -- This is a lot to me.
I know, I know.
I'm just like, I'm already
claiming you, but, you know.
Thank you.
All right, claiming you.
So what's -- what we doing today?
We have to turn this place to
look like a wedding reception area.
Oh, well, we -- So we have
a lot of food in here to move.
And plus, we're cooking for everyone
so that we can have something to eat.
Food will be ready in -- Oh.
A little bit.
'Cause I'm starving.
I know you're starving.
Like Marvin.
I know the rest of the
fellas are starving, too.
But we'll be downstairs.
I'm about to head downstairs
so I'll let y'all do your thing, so --
And Nefertari will be
here shortly, so -- This is
exactly what I envisioned
when I got with Bilal.
The blended families of different cultures.
American culture versus Trinidad
and Tobago Caribbean culture.
The family aspect, the big, happy family.
I love this.
♪♪ Oh, yes!
Thanks!
♪♪ Hey, everyone.
Food is done.
It was t*rture me.
That aroma.
Mmm.
Smells delicious.
What do we got here?
Is this pilau?
Mm-hmm.
You eat avocado?
Mm-hmm.
Okay, so you -- With this, you
put avocado in the sandwich, right?
Oh, I guess you eat avocados, too, eh?
Avocado is our life.
We eat avocados.
I realized, across in
America, avocados are luxury.
In Trinidad, that's poor man food.
When they have nothing in
their house, they go outside
and pick an avocado,
bring it inside, and eat it.
We got going on.
This looks absolutely amazing.
We got everybody together.
Okay, so is this a
little taste of Trinidad?
Yeah.
Okay.
Taste of Trinidad.
Go ahead.
We'll recite al-Fatiha together, inshallah.
Time to eat.
You know, like, we had some amazing
times since she's got here to the States.
Uh, but I would say, like, this, I think,
for me, is, like, one of the best times.
Even after all the romantic
stuff that we've done
and dates, whatever, like, this is the best
time, 'cause family is everything for me.
It's a warm feeling having
both our families there.
Like, it's definitely one of the
highlights since I've been here for me.
Okay, excuse me, everyone.
How did you like the food?
Absolutely awesome.
It was so good.
And my belly is full now.
No, I love this seasoning.
The spice was awesome.
This would have not been
possible to cook so fast if it
wasn't for my sissy pussies,
I've called them, my sisters.
Thank you, thank you, thank you.
It's like a little patty of sissy p*ssy.
In Trinidad, not in the United States.
Like.
Woo!
This is cool.
So there's that lone jacquard tree.
I think that's cool.
This is...what?
I know, it's gorgeous out here.
It's America.
We're at the end of our 90 days, and Myona
and I are in Joshua Tree to get married.
I feel a lot of pressure to make
everything look good for Myona.
It's a little bit more
pressure than I expected,
and we don't even have
any damn guests, so...
I couldn't imagine having
Woo!
Did you call your mom last night?
Yeah.
How was that?
They're not coming, are they?
Unless you know something I know.
No, I don't.
Uh, no, I mean, it's... You know,
she gave me her... her best wishes.
I said, "Do you
have your blessing?
" And she was like, "I
support you if you love her.
" So I'm like, "Okay.
" That's what your mother does.
Yeah, she's a...
She's a practical one.
I don't know, it was okay,
but it just wasn't what I...
You know, I wanted them to be here.
I really wish that my mom was here
right now with me and Joshua Tree.
It definitely feels frustrating, and
also I'm just a little bit confused
with my parents right now, just that
they don't want to attend the wedding,
that they don't want to attend
the ceremony, and it hurts.
And I definitely feel
like it would have been
a nice addition to have
my friend, David, you know?
That's my boy, that's my
bandmate, my best friend, you know?
I would have hoped that he could have made
it, but Miona and David can't get along.
That's why he's not here.
As much as I know it's been hard for
me and him to see eye to eye on this,
I wish she would have been
there supporting me on my wedding.
So the view there would be really cool.
The view is super awesome.
And there's no houses.
Well, you know, nothing really impeding it.
No, it's perfect.
Miona, she's got this idea
with this rug and the arch.
Do you know if Igor's on his way or...?
I don't know.
He hasn't called me or anything.
Igor is my really good friend
that I've been through a lot
of stuff with, and he's always
been there for big events.
He's a brother. He's family.
Igor lives in L.A.
and he's agreed to pick
up an arch for our ceremony
and bring it three hours from L.A.
to Joshua Tree.
So I just hope he makes it in time.
It feels exciting that my
wedding day is finally here.
Honestly, I never imagined
this for my wedding
because I never thought of
people getting married in the desert.
But, I mean, it's kind of pretty
similar when you look at the desert
and the beach, it's just the
ocean is missing right there.
I compromised on the beach wedding,
but I'm not willing to compromise
on some details that I really wanted.
Like, I always imagined to have an arch
behind me when we're having the ceremony.
I want those pictures next to the arch.
I want flowers on the arch.
I mean, it gives that
symmetry to the photo,
and without it, it
wouldn't be so special.
I mean, this is, like, spectacular.
You have literally, they put the arch,
which I don't even know what
the arch looked like, but whatever.
You put the rugs down here.
Oh!
We come up here smooth.
Boom.
I know.
Mm-mm.
Oh, I got to write the vows.
You told me you already did that.
I didn't, yeah.
It's crunch time.
I don't, I haven't tried this suit on.
I haven't got these vows written.
I'm hoping that my friend Igor shows up.
The arch is very important for Miona.
Miona seems ready this morning, but
she seems like a woman on a mission.
Yeah, I'm definitely afraid
of getting Miona's way.
You don't get in a Serbian woman's way.
Two pages, Jeru.
That's why you're marrying your a*s.
Okay, write fast.
All right, pressure's on.
Igor is late.
How far is he?
Two hours.
Well, we can go for
three and be totally ready.
Yeah.
We got an hour of lightning.
Yeah.
If he'll be here by then.
Yeah.
Igor is going above and beyond to
pick up the arch today, which I appreciate,
but Igor is saying that
he's two hours away,
and I'm not even allowing myself to think
about how long I'm going to be coming home.
I plan to have a wedding around
midday, and I'm trying not to stress out,
but I know exactly how I
want my wedding to look like.
My wedding was always one
of the biggest dreams that I had.
So it's like, don't even
try to ruin my wedding.
Don't f*ck up and ruin my day.
It might make me mad.
That's not a good look.
I hope it's not going to be too
late with the sun and everything.
That's life. We just got to play it by ear.
Yeah.
Okay.
I definitely dropped
the ball with Dias' dad.
I could have tried to make a
better effort building a relationship.
So really the only thing I'm looking to
gain for this call is her father's respect.
But at this point, it seems
like that's not going to happen.
You know, I feel like...
And I understand, you know,
with all the circumstances
that we had, with just
having the 90 days and,
you know, waiting to tell him.
I think for our relationship,
it's better for us to,
you know, when we have
problems, to not push him away.
And to... Yeah.
So... you still want
to get married?
Yes.
Okay.
It feels like a little victory that her
dad trusts me to take care of her.
Our wedding is tomorrow.
And even though we don't have his blessing,
this is a step in the right direction.
Oh, this.
I'd love to see my eyebrows lined.
Okay, so you like a sculpted brow.
A sculpted brow.
Okay, perfect.
Today is the big day.
Today is our wedding day.
It's a really joyous
and happy occasion.
It's a day that I've been thinking
about for a long, long time.
And here, we're at that moment.
But this has been a
rough, you know, 90 days.
A lot of trial and a lot of error.
Especially, you know, with the preen up.
So there's a lot of doubts that came up.
I'm not sure how she's feeling.
But I'm hoping that she's
ready to walk down it all.
Look up to the ceiling.
The house looks
absolutely beautiful.
Nefertari did an
absolutely amazing job in
turning the house into,
like, this wedding space.
I'm feeling happy.
I'm feeling energetic,
enthusiastic.
I like it. I look like a bride.
That's the goal.
Ta-da!
Oh my gosh!
I look so pretty!
Aww!
I like how she did her face. You like it?
Yes, I love it. She was patient.
She did well. She did really good.
Yeah.
You all set? Yes, yes!
How are you feeling now seeing your dress?
I'm feeling like this
is not happening.
Wake me up! Wake me up!
I can't really actually
get in my dress.
I'm trying to say no.
It's not too late to go home.
I read the changes to the prenup yesterday
and Bilal did put in what I asked.
So we both signed it, but of course,
I do have lingering feelings about it.
I love Bilal, but being married
to him will not always be easy.
I want us to get along more, less
bickering, less fighting, more in love.
My concern for the future is he is not
as enthusiastic to start a family as I am.
It worries me.
But Bilal is not my boyfriend.
We already did on the car.
We made a vow to each
other in the sight of God.
And I sacrificed so much to come
across to America to be with him.
And that puts immense pressure
on me to make this relationship work.
You know, I think you're
never going to be like
everything about a person.
That takes, I think, like years and
sometimes even a lifetime to do.
I think if that core is there, that
foundation, then you can build on that.
I think that's for sure definitely there.
You know, we've experienced
all these last 90 days
if we didn't think that
it was if it was worth it.
Yeah.
So we're looking forward to,
I think, our happy ever after.
Hey, Jabbayna.
Children.
Mommy.
This is your finishing product.
Amazing.
Our wedding is filled with beautiful
moments and tremendous excitement.
But at the same time,
knowing that my family couldn't
be here with me, it took
me to a very sad place.
You look amazing.
You look so beautiful.
Honestly.
Thank you.
Don't cry. I'm so sorry.
Be there while you look great.
You look amazing, honey.
Yeah, it's just really emotional right now.
The love of my quad trip started two years
ago and to be here now, it's unbelievable.
COVID happened, which definitely
put a damper in our relationship.
I couldn't come to America.
The long visa process,
it took even longer.
So now to be here in the United
States with the man that I love.
And now this is the
day, this is the moment
I've been waiting for
basically my whole life.
Is your contour blush good?
Yeah, it looks good. It looks really good.
Whoa! Whoa!
Turtle! What's that turtle doing?
You are gonna win best dressed.
Okay.
What was that?
Whoa!
After calling Kobe this
morning, I am just feeling
like so relieved that
we're on the same page.
Cheers!
And I'm just really excited
to see my fiancé today.
My soon to be husband.
Okay, so you have
to like open it like this.
Here, man. You have
to like hold it like that.
Alright, let's find the floor.
Yeah, there.
Very good.
You look so pretty.
Thank you.
I don't want to cry yet.
Oh, you're about to cry. Just shut up.
I know I haven't been
the easiest on my parents.
They've been there for all my rough
relationships, all the mistakes I've made.
So like today, I don't know, just
seeing my mom look at me in my dress
like it means a lot because I know
she's really proud of me and like it means
the world to me that my mom approves
of Kobe and she wants the best for us.
I don't want to mess up my makeup.
Oh, I know.
Got a lot of exciting life ahead
of you and you know, you guys
just got to compromise and love each other
and you know, you can't win every fight.
I wish.
Yeah.
I'll just keep crying. Yeah.
Hey Kobe, what's going on?
You're not done?
We don't have much time, man.
Damn.
You just went for a shower
and you're sweating?
I'm so nervous.
Don't be nervous, man.
I never pictured myself getting married
without my family members around
but I'm really grateful that, you know, I
have two bodies of mine to cheer me up.
Temperature is going to
be my best man and I got
Aichu also who's coming
all the way from Houston.
You're going to realize after
today, life is going to change, man.
For real? Yeah.
It'll give you goose pimples.
Kind of.
Kobe is
like a brother to me.
We grew up together and
the day he was living to come
over here to the US, I was
there and come along with him.
So we saw him off at the
airport and on that day I
was like just imagining
what today would look like.
And we're finally here
so it's an exciting day.
Emily died, David.
His presence
alone, it means a lot.
Let me see what it looks like.
And we need for dress too now.
Yeah, they have to get dressed.
Oh, you guys gotta get dressed.
But it's always been stressful knowing that
Emily's pregnant and David doesn't know.
Very handsome.
Thank you so much, sir.
Yeah.
It's just like a sign of
respect. I cannot knock your
daughter the first
time. I'm not there the
second time under your
roof and I don't tell you.
But Emily, she kept
insisting that you have
to keep it a secret
till after the wedding.
So, it's really heavy for me.
So, you happy?
Yeah.
I'm happy.
I mean, you feeling good?
No, I'm feeling good. I'm
okay. I'm so honored, you know.
Not gonna be easy.
But it's going to be fine.
I'm positive.
I'm all for it.
It kinda hit me this morning
that Emily was getting married.
So, it's a big deal
because I had a lot of
serious doubts before
Kobe came to America.
But he sent me a letter telling
me how much he loved Emily
and that, you know, he wanted
my permission to marry her.
And I wrote him a letter
back saying it's important for
him now to step up to the
plate and take care of things.
Well, you remember
the first letter you sent me
with asking permission
during the pregnancy. Yeah.
And you remember my response.
I remember. I remember everything
till sometimes I go through that.
Here, I'm gonna give you this. Oh.
Thanks.
Thank you so much.
Thank you so much.
Yeah.
Well, it's your job now.
So, that's for you,
Emily and Kobe.
You know, you take charge and
you got him in the right direction.
So?
I appreciate so much.
All right, man.
All right. I love you like a son.
So.
It's gonna be a good day.
I gave Kobe something personal
that I wanted him to have that would
remind him of what
my letter said to him.
It's a really beautiful thing.
I appreciate so much.
That's personal.
That's personal, you and me.
Yeah. Okay.
All right. Ready
for the big day.
Oh, man.
Yeah.
You all right?
Yeah.
It's not easy, you know.
I do respect her father so much and it
really hurts telling him about the pregnancy
because right now I feel
like he trusts me so much.
Ah. You can do this.
It's going to be like I failed
him and I am afraid that I
might ruin everything but I
just can't take this anymore.
There's something that I,
you know, I wanted to tell you.
It's heavy but I
have to say this.
Okay.
You guys want to stand as
close to the bed as you can.
I'm going to probably just get this wide.
So there is a...
I see the zipper.
My friends would be laughing
if they saw me trying to do this.
Oh, there's another button.
Look over your left shoulder.
Back at your... Don't look.
What?
I feel really good that
my wedding day is finally
here and I think Miona
is going to be Miona
today which means that
this day better be perfect.
And so I'm just going
to try not to mess it up.
There you go.
Oh my god.
It's folding here.
I like the wedding dress that I saw in
Chicago but I didn't feel like that's the one.
Really soon after that I
found this dress accidentally on
the internet and it was
by a Russian designer.
I was so surprised
when I saw it.
I fell in love with
it immediately.
I was like so happy.
Look at me over your shoulder, Miona.
Yeah, like behind you.
Kind of right there.
My mom and dad, when they had a wedding
I always thought that they
just got married in courthouse
and then my dad told me, "No, we
had it but the pictures got destroyed.
" I was like, "Oh my god, that
sounds like the worst nightmare ever.
" Can you call Gibri?
He was going there.
Can you call him to do the
first look with me here now?
Oh, yes. I think
that it's important to
document the most
important events in your life.
I want to have those photos
because I want to send
them to my parents who
are not going to be there.
And also for me, for the
memory, it's also really important.
Yes.
Oh, hooo!
Damn!
Can I get your number?
That's how you got me.
Wow.
Blossom your eyes.
Wow.
Where do we go from here?
We're going outside?
Yeah.
Just come right here for now.
Gibri, kind of like kiss her neck
and her temple and all of the spots.
Yeah, beautiful.
Touch your noses together.
Kiss her neck, kiss her jaw.
Make her giggle.
Bring your hand and hold his cheek
really gently with your fingertips.
Yeah. Let me go replace
my battery real quick.
I'll be right back.
Oh, baby. I'm tired.
I know these photos are... Do
you guys know what time it is?
Oh, gosh.
Today's a lot.
It's a lot of pressure. The arch is not
here and we are ready to have this wedding.
We are running out
of light. Where is Igor?
We gotta get with this arch, man.
And there's a neighbor that we
ran into that's dropping off his vintage
truck for us to take pictures, but
he still needs to drop off the truck.
Yeah, we need to get
this arch going, man.
We don't have time.
I really just want her to
be satisfied and happy.
An unhappy Myona
on her wedding day.
You don't want to see that.
That's gonna be a messy storm.
That's gonna be messier than it was
before we got to Joshua Tree. That's
gonna be a South Dakota snow storm.
Please. I know. Positive.
I'm very cheerful
and very positive.
Let's do a couple here and then if you
guys want we can go into the ceremony.
Is the arch here yet or no?
No, not yet.
So we can just continue
doing it. Do you want
me to check my phone
to see where Igor's at?
If you think that
he sent something.
Sorry, I'm gonna leave you for
a second. I'll give these for you.
Give me those.
You want these? Yeah.
I can take some solo
pictures while you're there.
Thank you.
And hug yourself and kind of like
move your head around a little bit.
Grandma, I'm worried about this arch. I
don't know where Igor's at. You know what?
The ceremony for me
is the important part.
What?
We have the sky.
And the desert as an arch.
I know. You know, it's we
can't delay the ceremony.
The sun is not gonna wait for us.
Then she can get married in the dark.
And we'll have to get married
in here where there's some light.
You know, sometimes again,
don't get everything you want.
Okay.
Look over your shoulder right here.
Yeah, perfect.
How you feeling, man?
I'm stressed out
because Igor's not here.
You know.
My parents aren't here. I don't know.
It's just very rushed and it
seems like it's, you know.
Perfect.
I love this. I'm gonna
wait for Jabri to come
back so we can get
him right in front of you.
Hopefully everything's gonna be okay.
Okay.
Alright, looks like we're almost here.
This is it, Amal.
What do you think?
It looks good, huh?
Yeah. Alright, it looks beautiful.
Wow.
Yeah, park over here.
Got everything?
Yeah.
So nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you.
Hi. Nice to meet you.
Monica is my wedding planner
and thank God I found her.
Here's your room, Pat.
Because in such a short amount
of time she got all our decorations.
She got all our flowers.
She set up the whole venue and she
communicated with everyone to make sure
that, you know, this
wedding goes out flawless and
Dice and I don't have to
worry about a single thing.
Now, do you like volume?
What's volume?
Volume like, and you don't
want it flat to your head?
Like a little bit of oomph?
Okay, okay.
So does your family have a way
to be able to watch this today?
Or are they just gonna
see it after the fact?
The link.
Okay, so like a zoom?
Yeah, zoom. Okay, awesome.
Yeah, I hope everyone is there.
Let's see.
Alright.
Oh, this is hard.
What are you doing, bro?
Practicing our dance.
What the f*ck?
Are you being serious?
Yeah, I'm 100% serious.
Bro, what is this?
No idea, to be honest. Something Brazilian.
Dancing has never been my thing.
Dude, it'll look better
when I'm in a suit, okay?
I don't think so.
But our first dance is
really important to Thaiz.
She went out and paid for a Brazilian
choreographer to make this dance
for us and it brings like some
Brazilian culture to the wedding too.
So I'm willing to put
my pride down and make
sure that I do this dance
the best I can for her.
Are you ready?
Yeah, I think I'm as ready as the
And everything is good with you guys?
Yeah, I think it's good. I mean, it's
not perfect, but we're figuring it out.
Did you call the dad?
Yeah, we talked to him.
How'd that go?
It went okay. We had the conversation
that we needed to have to like, you know,
get to the point where Thaiz is
here and we're gonna get married.
But I asked for the blessing, he said no.
No way!
What did she say about that?
I mean, she obviously
wasn't happy about it.
I figured maybe we were with a
heartfelt conversation, you know,
you just be like this. So you guys didn't
hash it out is what I'm hearing basically.
I mean, she's here,
she's putting on her dress.
You know, her father hates my brother.
I gotta be honest with you.
This is not gonna be easy going for them.
God's got a long
road ahead of him.
I mean, of course she's, yeah.
I mean, of course sad, but I mean,
I try to like ease it up by us having
another wedding
in Brazil eventually.
So I have my doubts,
right, about their marriage.
I mean, honestly, my biggest
fear is this not working out.
I don't wish the
worst of the worst.
You know, and because
it doesn't deserve it.
How are you feeling? Are you scared?
Are you excited? You're nervous?
Thoughts about what?
In this moment, I feel very.
If my father was against
the wedding, I would
probably think about
it and postpone it.
But I can't do that.
I know.
If I go back to
Brazil, we're over.
I would probably do it.
I mean, you love Patrick.
Yeah.
I pitched you out.
I realized that I was really going to get
married and I don't even know what to do.
Sad because I'm away from him.
If I was in Brazil, he would be
with me, he would be coming in.
I want my father's approval.
And I raised him at
my wedding and I didn't
have the opportunity to
have him here with me.
That's not what I wanted for me.
It's not a dream.
Come on, little guys.
Do you have the nerves kicking in?
I think it's the nerves.
Did you run away yet, you think?
I'm nervous, I'm ready.
But... I have no idea how
Thaisa's feeling right now.
I hope she's happy.
I hope she's excited.
But like, I don't know.
There's... There was so much that
has happened up to this that like,
she could be feeling a
lot of things and yeah.
I guess I'm going to find out
if she walks down the aisle.
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Oh my goodness.
It's my day, man.
Love you.
We are gathered here
today to give our support
as Emily and Kobe unite
their love and marriage.
You didn't give up.
And here we are today.
So I'll have you repeat after me.
I, Emily, take you,
Kobe, to be my husband.
I, Emily, take you,
Kobe, to be my husband.
I, Kobe, take you, Emily.
I, Kobe, take you,
Kobe, to be my wife.
To be my wife.
For richer, for poorer.
For richer, for poorer.
In sickness and in health.
In sickness and in health.
To love and cherish always.
To love and cherish always.
I give you this ring as a
symbol of my love for you.
Let it be a reminder that
I'm always by your side.
Let it be a reminder that
I'm always by your side.
Let it be a reminder that
I'm always by your side.
Let it be a reminder that
I'm always by your side.
Will you, Kobe, take this woman
from this day forward to be your wife?
If so, say, "I do.
" I do.
Will you, Emily, take this man from
this day forward to be your husband?
If so, say, "I do.
" I do.
Emily and Kobe, I now
pronounce you husband and wife.
You may now kiss your bride.
It's kind of crazy to think about
that Emily's someone's wife now.
It's kind of crazy to think about
that Emily's someone's wife now.
It's kind of crazy to think about
that Emily's someone's wife now.
It's kind of crazy to think about
that Emily's someone's wife now.
It's good feeling.
It's good feeling.
It's good feeling.
It's good feeling.
It's good feeling.
It's good feeling.
It's good feeling.
It's good feeling.
It's good feeling.
It's good feeling.
It's good feeling.
It's good feeling.
It's good feeling.
It's good feeling.
It's good feeling.
It's been a crazy two
and a half months.
I can't even believe I can't even
believe we made it to this day
because there were definitely
points where I was questioning it.
I just wish that they continue
pushing each other and that they
support each other
because they are one now.
And just to see that
happen is really cool.
Now that the wedding is over, is it
time to tell the family your secret?
No.
Yeah.
It's just the perfect time.
Not today.
This is something I've been waiting.
You know, I've heard this.
It's really heavy on me.
I can't continue living in your
father's house looking at him.
Just relax.
It's just-- Quit looking at him.
It sounds easy. And you won't feel bad.
It sounds easy to you,
but I cannot, honey.
Please. I just hope you can understand me.
We agreed on after the wedding.
Like, maybe the next
day I'll go into line.
He's not picking up.
Hey.
Okay.
Ten minutes.
Okay.
Love, drive safe. Bye. Bye. Bye. Bye.
sh*t.
What happened, babe?
Did you find him?
Igor's like ten minutes away.
Igor is late.
And that's making me nervous, but I'm
trying to be understanding. He had to pick
up the van, drive from his house
to pick up the arch in another city.
Babe.
Is that him?
Yeah, that's Igor.
Oh my goodness.
Ooh, be careful.
Don't hurt yourself.
God.
What is this? Igor!
Igor, hey.
Yeah, he's saving the day.
I love you.
Yeah, close your eyes.
I love Igor.
Oh my god, it makes me so happy.
Igor is one of our best friends.
Igor and Ghibri know
each other longer, but
I think Igor and I
have better connection.
He can understand me better because
still his first language is Serbian.
I mean, Igor is deaf, but he knows
how to speak Serbian almost perfectly.
English knows how to speak.
He learns Serbian sign
language, English sign language.
He also came here as an
immigrant when he was like 17.
So we just have a connection
when it comes to that.
Igor, Igor, thank you,
thank you, thank you.
Thank you, bro. Thank you.
Okay, let's bring the arch.
Yeah, I didn't really
know much about the arch.
I just kept hearing about arches and
arches and how arches are wonderful
and beautiful and then when the arch
showed up it was just like two sticks.
And I'm like, that's the arch like that,
but then I'm, you know,
I'm not gonna say that sh*t.
Oh, interesting.
This arch was gonna make or break our ceremony
and we could have made this ourselves.
Arch, a damn arch.
Can you open it a little bit more?
Like open it, stretch it.
Almost, we have like
one inch left up there.
It closes.
At the top it's gonna, it should meet.
Right on the outside of the rack.
The arch is finally here and my makeup,
my hair, my dress is exactly how I wanted.
This is the moment
I've been waiting for.
Everything is perfect.
This song, Mion has never heard before.
This is the country song I was telling her.
Yeah, so
Babe, come on, the sun is going down.
Okay, I'm coming, I'm
coming, I just gotta get this.
You gonna sage it?
Oh yeah, we gotta walk with the,
with the, with the ancestors with us.
Both your ancestors, my ancestors
and the ones that have been on
this land way before, both of us.
It's important.
Guide us, man, guide us in this.
We ready now.
Okay.
Right here.
Take some.
This is for us.
I wrote a song called A Thousand Miles
for Miona, which is a country song, which
is a genre that I've never done before,
as a testament to how far we've
been and how far we're gonna go.
I gotta get a little dance with you.
Oh, no kissing yet.
That was an amazing song.
You guys are making me cry.
Because the two of you, Miona and
Jabri, chose the desert as a setting
for your marriage ceremony,
it seems appropriate that
we incorporate a sand
ceremony into your celebration.
Joshua trees spring from
the sand of this desert.
There's one over there.
Theirs is a story of survival, resilience,
and beauty born through perseverance.
May these traits also be the foundation
upon which your marriage will thrive.
The container in the
center holds a layer of
sand scooped from the
desert that surrounds us.
It is the first layer in
this jar and symbolizes
that your marriage
is grounded in love.
The next layers are the individual colors
that represent each of you and acknowledge
that the foundation of
the marriage is based
on the strength that
each of you possesses.
You mix them together.
As these grains of sand
are mixed together, they
represent the coming together
of your two lives in loves.
The sand cannot now be easily separated
into the colors that they once were.
Just as this marriage cannot now be easily
divided, they will remain mixed together
as a symbol of your
united relationship.
And you can keep this
container as a memento of
your wedding and of
your love for each other.
Okay.
Okay?
Ready.
We are together today
to unite Myona and Jibri
in the sacred and
joyous union of marriage.
It is a commitment of
honesty as well as adventure.
Marriage is a partnership in
which both are artists using wonder,
passion, and courage to create
the journey of their dreams.
I must remind you, though,
that the vows you are
about to say to one another
belong entirely to you.
Myona?
Dear Jibri, I love you because the entire
universe conspired to help me find you.
I was always seeing
you from time to time
until three years ago
we finally connected.
It was meant to be.
The universe was
leading us to this moment.
Wherever life takes us, I will do my
best to make that place feel like home.
You are one of the kindest
souls I ever met and I'm
going to be proud and
honored to call you my husband.
Thank you.
I love you.
Jibri?
You are so much more
than meets the eye.
That's why I traveled every
continent just to hug you.
And I would learn every
language just to say I love you.
I'm your lantern in the dark.
I'm your match
that you will spark.
I vow to protect you.
And most importantly,
like my grandmother and
my mother taught me,
I vow to respect you.
Can we kiss again?
Not yet.
I gotta do this
other stuff first.
That was the most unique wow.
Miona?
Do you take Jibri to be your
lawfully wedded husband?
Yes I do.
And Jibri?
Do you take Miona to be
your lawfully wedded wife?
I do.
And now, by the power vested
in me, I pronounce you married.
You may now kiss
as husband and wife.
Jibri!
The 90 days was
a lot of pressure.
It's very difficult. How are we?
We're flying. We're figuring it out
day by day as we go. I'm excited to
see what journey and
adventures we go on next.
It's never easy
but it will be okay.
I believe in us.
You did it!
Yes!
I'm happy that Jibri is here.
Actually now I can see
the big full circle of her.
I gotta let you open this thing.
I don't wanna ruin my pants.
Oh wait, wait!
What we've been through for the last 90
days definitely strengthen our relationship.
It's been a lesson.
Good and bad sides both.
But I would go through
it all over again if I
need to, if it's gonna
lead us to this moment.
I wish for them to just grow old together.
That's what I want.
And that they both
feed their creativity.
Because if without that
the marriage won't last.
I want them to love
each other and have fun.
Why else are we here?
I'm so happy that I'm here.
I'm so happy that I'm here.
I'm so happy that I'm here.
Why else are we here?
You know, growing up I would
see my parents and just how
they interact and the love
that they have for each other.
At a very young age I
wanted to get married.
So, seeing her walk down the
stairs in her beautiful wedding dress,
it was something that I would cherish
and remember for the rest of my life.
You all may be seated.
We began with Allah's name,
the Merciful Benefactor, the
Merciful Redeemer, and in our tradition
we're celebrating what we call a Nikah.
The Nikah literally means
to tie a knot, to bind together.
We're going to start with you.
Sister Shida, you
want to stand up?
In our tradition we ask
that these two, if they want
to accept each other as
husband and wife three times.
You ask three times, you know you're sure.
But it also represents
marriage on three levels.
The mind, the physical
aspect, and the soul.
So, Sister Shida, do you take Balao as
your lawful, wedded husband under the laws
and the principles of
Islam and the established
practices of Muhammad
Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam?
I do.
So everybody heard that, she said it once.
We're going to do it again.
Do you, Shida, take Balao?
I do.
For the third time.
To make sure, because everybody
here wants to make sure that you're sure.
To bind this thing together.
This is your last time.
Do you take Balao to be
your lawful, wedded husband
under the laws of the United
States of America, the laws of
Islam, and the established practices of
Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam?
I do.
Alright.
It's been a rocky road
when it comes to finding love.
And I was never the type of
person that wanted to settle.
I wanted to wait until I make the
right decision with the right person.
And to go through so much, like this
is the man I've waited for my entire life.
Balao, do you take Sister Shida
to be your lawful, wedded wife
under the laws of the
United States of America?
Yes, I do.
Do you accept Sister Shida
as your lawful, wedded wife?
Yes.
I do.
You, Balao, do you take Shida to be your
lawful, wedded wife under the laws of Islam?
I do.
Alright.
So we have officially three yes's
on both sides, and you have me
as the officiating of
this ceremony to make it
official that these two
now have tied the knot.
I was married now.
Wow.
They must have overcame
all of the obstacles.
I remember when they were in
Atlanta, and you know, when I
dropped them off at the airport,
they were really kind of like
going through some things. I was wondering
if they were really going to make it.
You know, the pre-nump
thing was like a really big deal.
You know, the baby
issue was another thing.
And so it was just like a lot.
And so to actually see
them up there at the altar
and smiling at each other
and seeing that things
worked out, I was
really happy about that.
We want to sign Eli's marriage license now.
Yeah, so sign that first.
They both seem like really
like happy for each other.
Ever since she's come to America,
she's always been like really kind.
And my dad has
been like more happy.
Yeah, I definitely see that
my dad has been more happy.
I feel like she's a great
addition to the new household.
Did your brother fall
asleep during the ceremony?
No. He did.
I did not. He definitely did.
What happened, I
was concentrating.
Were you concentrating
or were your eyes closed?
No. My eyes open.
Maybe.
I do have a gift I would
like to give you as well.
So this is it actually
has more sentimental.
This was something that
my father gave my mother.
And it's in Latin.
In English it says, I will
never give up on you.
And on the back it says, and
you will never give up on me.
So.
The moment I got off the plane, I
didn't think I would have made it here.
Like at the airport, yeah.
In the truck, nah.
There was definitely a lot
of ups and downs for sure.
But I'm the type of person
though that I'm not a quitter.
So I think if this wouldn't
have worked it would
have been her giving
up versus me giving up.
I say that's not fair.
Yo, what's the best thing
to make me look bad?
What the future looks like together,
I hope Bilal and I could work on our
communication as we get
to know each other more.
I hope that we can all get
to know each other better.
And I hope that we can all
get to know each other better.
And I hope that we can all
get to know each other better.
And I hope that we can all
get to know each other better.
And I hope that we can all
get to know each other better.
And I hope that we can all
get to know each other better.
And I hope that we can all
get to know each other better.
And I hope that we can all
get to know each other better.
And I hope that we can all
get to know each other better.
And I hope that we can all
get to know each other better.
And I hope that we can all
get to know each other better.
And I hope that we can all
get to know each other better.
And I hope that we can all
get to know each other better.
And I hope that we can all
get to know each other better.
And I hope that we can all
get to know each other better.
And I hope that we can all
get to know each other better.
And I hope that we can all
get to know each other better.
And I hope that we can all
get to know each other better.
And I hope that we can all
get to know each other better.
And I hope that we can all
get to know each other better.
We plan and God plans,
and He's the best of planners.
So, He definitely planned this.
We are going to retreat.
Love you guys!
Peek-a-boo!
Here's your bunny egg.
Say "bunny.
" We're just playing with toys.
Oh!
Oh, kind of a snake.
I don't know what caterpillars say.
I don't think they say anything.
It's been a couple of
days since we got married.
And, I mean, after all, you know, the crazy
days that went into these past 90 days,
it was a huge
accomplishment to be able to
walk down the aisle and
marry your best friend.
She's so beautiful. I love her.
I will even marry her even in my next life.
Aww!
Kiss me, that was so cute.
Mwah!
So, tonight is the night.
Mm-hmm.
I'm going to tell you a
few things about the baby.
All right?
Oh, my God.
You know, we're done with the wedding now,
so the next biggest thing that
I feel like we should be facing
is getting the spring
and sea out of the air.
Okay!
Okay.
Are you nervous? I'm nervous.
Oh, my God.
Go do what you were doing.
We're coming up.
I would keep it a secret
until they found out.
Ha-ha, on their own.
See ya! See ya.
We did the one thing my
parents asked us not to do, so...
I'm supporting everybody
for six months, right?
Yep.
All right, but one thing's for sure.
You better not get pregnant.
Okay.
Fine, we're not going to have
any more kids in this house.
Whoops.
Did you want me to open
a bottle of wine or anything?
I don't think...
I'm not going to have wine.
I don't want any.
Do we have water out there?
You want to eat?
There's water on the table.
I can't wait for them to get out
of the house, start their own life.
They need to do that, and I'm very
excited that that's going to happen soon.
Stew's good.
Mm-hmm.
Bon appétit.
So, um... So how's married
life treating you guys?
Yeah.
Those second thoughts?
It's already too late.
Too late now.
You're stuck now.
But he got all of his stuff
for his green card to send in.
Oh, that's good.
Let's get you employed.
Um... Oh, my... Um, actually,
there's something that, um,
I want to tell you guys,
so... I want to tell you guys...
Emily's pregnant.
No.
Yeah?
Are you serious?
Oh, yeah.
Kobi definitely wanted to tell you before.
But I was like, "No.
" We didn't want to tell
you before the wedding
because we wanted everyone to
enjoy the wedding and not stress.
From the moment I found
out, I'm like... Let's just wait.
Oh, God.
Well, how far along are
you, and what's the deal?
Ten weeks.
Jesus.
It was a shock.
The best thing for them would have
been to get established, you know.
We wanted them to be in their
own home, and she knew that.
The baby is just not
coming at a great time.
I feel like why did it
even have to be a secret?
Because it's, like, the one
thing they said not to do.
Exactly.
Which is, like, the story of my life.
So I was just like, "Eh, let's
just not tell them for a while.
" I'm at a loss for
words, honestly.
I'm surprised that I didn't pick up on it.
Like, I do want what's
best for all of them,
their whole family, especially
Kobin, and now the new baby.
But I feel like Emily takes advantage of
my parents and everything they have here.
And she doesn't really realize the full
effect of all of her actions sometimes.
Do you see all the
disappointment on their faces?
Well, no, a shock. It's just shock.
It's just... We're surprised.
Hmm.
Seeing their reactions, like, my fears of
disappointing them are kind of coming true.
So my plans of retiring
in about a year and a
half, kind of going,
"That's not going to happen
because you're not
going to be able to work.
You can't work.
" They need to
get on their feet.
I mean, we cannot support them forever,
and we want to travel,
we want to do some things.
And I think Emily, she
feels very secure here.
I mean, maybe we were... We've
been too easy on them, you know.
You know, at some point, they need to move.
You got to sit down and just... figure
out how you're going to move out,
where you're going to live, how
you're going to afford two babies.
Figure out how that's going to happen.
How do we know that?
OK, I... Yeah.
You know, they're just concerned.
You know, we do have
a lot of obstacles ahead,
and we have Cobin, and
now we have a new baby.
We've been through a lot
during this night and today,
so I don't think there
is anything that is going
to come across our
way that we can't handle.
And I'm going to make sure that
I'm the man that I told David that I am,
and I'm going to be able
to provide for my family.
This is.
.. This is a big deal.
Mm-hmm.
Oh, no! Oh, no, it's right!
Oh, my God. All right.
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Am I on the side? Yeah.
I love you, Rob. I love you, too.
You OK? Mm-hmm.
Breathe.
Again.
OK.
Oh, goodness.
Of anticipation.
Yes.
That's it.
Oh.
Just looking at Thais, I'm just blown away.
She's just so beautiful,
and it just reminds me
of that first time I saw
her in Brazil, and
literally, I knew...
Um, I think I knew at that point, like,
my entire life was about to change.
I went from being divorced and
not knowing if I'd find someone again.
Oh, my God.
I guess, like, for it
to come true, that's.
..that's really emotional.
Welcome, family, friends, and all those who
showed up to support Pat and Thais today.
In their commitment to
one another, in their love
for one another, Patrick,
please repeat after me.
I, Patrick, take you, Thais.
I, Patrick, take you, Thais.
To be my wife.
To be my wife.
To love. To love.
And to cherish. And to cherish.
In sickness. In sickness.
And in health. And in health.
For now. For now.
Until the end of time.
Until the end of time.
Thais, will you repeat after me?
Patrick. Patrick.
I, Thais. I, Thais.
Commit to you. Commit to you.
As you create. As you create.
The life that you desire.
The life that you desire.
And that I support. And that I support.
This day and forever. This day and forever.
Do you have the rings? Yes.
That's yours. Thank you.
That's for Thais.
Oh. Wow.
By the little bit of power that I have.
I now pronounce you man and wife.
You may kiss the bride.
Yay!
Now he's selling.
Yay!
I love you. I love you.
I love you.
Aww.
Let's go.
Thais looks like the most
beautiful woman in the world.
And I'm the luckiest
guy ever to get to watch
her walk down the
aisle just to be with me.
But now, getting married is
definitely the most important thing.
To get John out of there.
John's gonna move out? Yeah.
Well, you can talk to him about that now.
Yeah.
Now, ladies and gentlemen, who's
ready to have a good time tonight?
Ladies and gentlemen, so now they
are going to be showing their first dance.
Are you two ready?
I gotta say it happened, right?
But, honestly, I don't
think that the fact that
they got married things
are gonna get easier.
Because they gotta work on a lot of
things, let's be honest here, you know?
But she loves him and he
loves her and that's what matters.
It's been the best thing in my life to be
able to connect with my brother, you know?
Because we didn't always have that.
But I love him with more than
anything I could ever express in my life.
I feel like, you know, I found
true happiness and it wasn't easy.
Every single sacrifice that
I've made and we've made
for this relationship to me
has been 100% worth it.
And I have full confidence
I'll be able to take care of
Thaís forever and hold that
promise I made to her dad.
Just to make sure that, you know,
I get to wake up to her every day.
Even though we've had so many problems
in these 90 days, I think it was worth it.
And that's why we got here, married.
It was worth it.
For... Always.
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