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I've been feeling guilty
because I have lied to Gino.
When I wanted the surgery,
the only person who could
provide that money
to me was...
There you go.
You did it though.
You did it.
My biggest concerns about
converting is
it's so easy to slip up.
How are you?
And if I don't
impress her dad
and make him trust me,
then like there's no wedding.
There's nothing.
I'm not even asking
for that much.
It's been over two years.
Just tell your parents
you're in a relationship.
You're not getting a threesome
until the intimacy
comes first.
Here we go.
Act like a little child.
Run away
like you always do,
throwing your
little man-trums.
It turned like
from bad to worse
back to bad
and then to weird.
Sex doesn't make
all the problems go away,
even though it's a good time.
And just because
you're married,
it's not magically
gonna change things--
But I do have faith that
we can work through
our problems.
I have to have faith.
Y'all just wanna
judge, judge, judge.
That's bull.
It feels like Sophie's
not on my team.
There's not one thought about
"That's my future husband.
Maybe I should be worried
about fixing this."
If you don't mind,
I'd like Sophie to stay
with me tonight.
I am furious.
He thinks everyone else
in the world is wrong,
except for Rob.
He makes you think that.
He's talking nonsense--
All the time.
I know it's your dream.
I know you love him.
And I know you know
you can see the good in him.
And you being
around him 24/7,
I guarantee within six months,
you won't be
the Sophie that I know.
You will be depressed.
All your little sparkle
will go.
All your dreams will go.
You can't be around that.
- You okay?
- Yeah.
I guess.
So...
I mean, how-- what do you
think you're gonna do now?
- Yeah, I think that's
what you need to do.
- Thank you.
He just messaged me.
What did he say?
What did he say?
He sent me a video
of a nice car
and said,
"This could be ours."
Oh, he's in damage control.
- He's like panicking.
- All right. Give me,
give me it back.
- I wanna see.
- He's gone from doing nothing,
playing the victim,
to go, "Hey. This is
what we're gonna get, babe."
So, he sent me that video
as if that didn't just happen.
- I mean, he's in--
He's panicking.
- He's panicking
'cause I'm with you.
Yeah. He's thinks I'm
the antichrist,
and I'm gonna brainwash you.
'Cause if he thought
I was in the wrong,
he would
not reach out to me.
He would not say anything.
That's him trying to--
'Cause he won't say sorry.
He wasn't gonna message me
saying sorry.
But he'll kind of
try and change the subject.
That's what he's done.
I want him to really just like
sit with himself,
not me, himself
alone in the house,
and realize that I could leave
if he keeps acting like this.
'Cause I don't think
he thinks it's real.
'Cause I always just am--
I'm with him.
But I feel like this is
kind of what we needed
- and, you know.
- Yeah.
I think you've gotten to him
a little bit as well.
Good.
After what's went down,
I understand
people make mistakes,
which is fine, as long as
people apologize
and admit that
they're wrong sometimes,
which is completely fine.
So what I want from Rob
when I do speak to him
is for him to apologize.
And if he doesn't apologize,
that's gonna really bother me
because it kind of shows
he doesn't care
about other people's feelings
and he won't
take accountability
and he doesn't realize
he's doing things wrong.
So I don't think I wanna
marry someone like that.
Really?
Well, I'm actually shocked.
I'm like kind of glad
that you're actually
not delusional.
That you think--
My mom is definitely like
making me realize
some things that I have--
'cause like I do like
to push-- like, in my mind,
I like to push
the negative realities out
and I like to hope
for the best.
Thank you.
But it's like maybe
I should be more realistic
with myself,
and realize that, like,
you know...
it's not looking good
at the moment
for me and Rob.
All right, if you decide
you're gonna marry him,
I mean, I don't believe
it's gonna work.
I'm not--
I hope it does.
But, man. God, it worries me
that you're gonna lose
your happiness and peace
to be with someone like that.
You're such a gentleman,
opening up my door.
Do you remember
why I came here to Moldova?
'Cause it wasn't
to fight with you, so.
How did I start--
I-- Did I get up
in the middle of the night--
Okay. Did I get up
in the middle of the night
after our fight,
and I touched your chest
and I-- I touched you
and I said,
"Please, come to bed
with me, baby"?
And you got up, right?
- Yes.
- And you came. Okay!
So, then,
why are you so upset today?
I-- What do you mean?
I got up and got ready
and did my hair,
did my makeup.
- I knew we were gonna
go horseback riding--
- No, no, no.
What is the problem?
You always make something
like into something more.
I don't think
all about myself.
I do think about you a lot
and I do a lot...
in our relationship--
- Really?
- Yes.
Okay.
So it's all me, right?
I have to change everything?
I? Me? Alone?
I have to change everything?
- Because I'm your guest.
- But--
If you're staying with me
in the United States,
I'm gonna be doing
mostly everything.
What are you saying, Igor?
There is a huge,
huge cultural thing
with cooking, cleaning.
He's accustomed to women,
this is how
they treat their men.
And I'm learning.
But it feels like an excuse.
He obviously can't handle
someone like me.
And I don't know if
that's ever gonna change.
Oh.
I cannot believe
this is happening here,
Manuel deciding to have
another b*tch-fit.
We're going in circles.
Even though you're the one
that brought up money.
Not me.
Did she come out
and start attacking you?
Or did you say
something to her?
Gino's ex-girlfriend
really ruined my life.
She was blackmailing me
for a while.
And I blame Gino.
Oh, my God!
We are in Niagara Falls
and it is a huge surprise
for Manuel.
He's been talking about
Niagara Falls
since before
he even moved here.
Just over here
are the waterfalls.
Ooh la la.
Wow.
Yeah. No words.
Yeah?
Yeah.
Yeah?
I want that, too.
But we're
not talking about that.
What do you mean-- What?
Okay, leave it. Yeah.
Manuel.
I cannot believe this
is happening here.
We are in Niagara Falls,
we're in this beautiful spot,
the sun is shining,
the weather is sweet,
and here is Manuel deciding
to have another b*tch-fit.
We're going in circles.
Okay. I like seriously
wanna have a good day today.
Like, we have-- I have some
activities planned--
I have some
activities planned for us.
And I wanna have
a good day today.
And so...
Even though you're the one
that brought up money.
Not me.
Two steps forward,
four steps back.
Sometimes I feel like
we're making progress,
and then something happens,
somebody's triggered,
and it triggers the other one,
and then we're back into
this negative-feedback loop.
And we are rediscussing,
re-breaking down things
that we talked about
in therapy.
♪ You gotta let it go ♪
♪ You gotta let it go... ♪
♪ You gotta let it go ♪
Oh, I'm just not
in a good mood.
Hearing all that stuff
you were telling me
kind of bothered me a lot.
When we were packing to go
back home to Michigan,
I decided to be honest
about a secret
that I've been holding,
which is that I borrowed
$2,000 from
my ex-boyfriend, Dane,
to get butt-implant surgery.
Gino was like very upset,
and it breaks my heart to know
that I caused this.
It's my fault. This time,
I screwed it up.
It's completely my fault.
Why is he giving you $2,000?
Now he's gonna expect
something from you.
Like what?
- What is he gonna expect?
- Yeah, that's the question.
Like what? What do you think
he's gonna expect?
Nothing!
A friend loans you
- Yes. Yes.
- Why are you
still talking to him--
- I have-- I have borrowed...
- Why are you still having
conversations--
...and given money
to my friends.
You should be happy
that I have
- such a good friend.
- Why are you still talking
to this-- him?
We're about
to get married soon
and you're
still talking to Dane.
- I-- I'm still talking
to him...
- Which is ridiculous.
...because he's a good friend.
- You guys gotta stop talking.
- He's a good person.
Just--
it has been as a friend
or to ask a favor, you know?
However, when you have
contacted your exes was,
for example,
to send naked pictures of me.
One of your exes
sent me a message.
Did you send her
naked pictures of me?
That was
part of my privacy.
How can you do that?
Don't!
- Guys.
- How dare you?
I trusted on you.
Did you say anything
to provoke it?
What did you say?
Did you say anything
to provoke the fight?
Or was she just attacking you
out of the blue?
What did you say?
Well, you heard me.
That I provoked her?
No, I asked you.
Did you provoke something
or did she start attacking you
over nothing?
- Wow. Wow.
- Was there anything
that you said to her?
And you are really asking me
if I provoked her.
Calm down.
What the
is wrong with you?
Stop getting
out of control.
You're way out of control.
- Way out of you're--
- Because you're
stupid, man.
All the emotional humiliation
that I went through...
Yeah.
Yeah.
She sent my naked pictures
to every blogger
she knew.
- And all these people were looking at myself naked.
- Right.
And you're asking
if I provoked her.
I'm... I'm talking
for the initial
g*dd*mn conversation,
did she come out
and start attacking you
or did you say
something to her?
And stop yelling.
I wish I had Dane
that last night.
I wish.
That's the only thing
I regret in life.
Not him
so good
as we used to
every time with.
Yeah, I wish I would
my exes 'cause
they were great.
- I have no doubt about they--
- They were a lot
better than you.
I have no doubt
about they being great.
But what about you?
Yeah. Me too.
- Yeah. Me too. Yeah.
- You're trash.
I'm not gonna get married
to this idiot.
I don't have a problem
with Anali at all.
I don't know. I'd feel better
if I just see, once a week,
of her cooking, you know,
something American.
When I hear my mom
make certain comments,
it makes me wonder
how all this is gonna work out
in the future
with the three of us.
If I had a place
to go tomorrow, I'd go.
'Cause I have a feeling
that's what you're
trying to do.
I'm not trying
to kick you out.
We'll put
this little hat on
- you know, either baby pig,
or Chocolate.
- Yeah.
I could put this
on his little chunker head
and then this on his
little chunker chest.
That'll be so cute.
- Thank you.
- Well, appreciate it.
Thank you.
- Show my pupper.
- We'll be back.
Ay, good boy.
- Thank you.
- Thank you.
Things have been
less tense between
me and Anali,
since we resolved
a lot of our issues
in San Diego.
Well, we didn't get
any parking tickets, at least.
But I'm still
a little frustrated
with the wedding planning,
because I feel like
there's a lot of weight
on my shoulders.
My sister Brandi said
that she would help out.
But last time
me and her spoke,
she hung up on me.
So, a lot of things
are still up in the air.
So, how did things
go in San Diego?
Uh, they went good.
Got to see Kameron.
- That was great, seeing him.
- I bet it was.
Very happy moment.
Right. That's awesome.
I was glad that
you get to travel and stuff.
But, I hardly talked to you
in a couple months.
But I know that
there's a lot going on.
Well, there's been
a lot of changes
in the house.
I don't have a problem
with Anali at all.
But, I would
try to go to sleep,
and stuff like that,
all the lights are on,
and talking out loud,
and cooking and leaving
everything laying out.
I've been sensing some tension
between my mom and Anali.
Mostly coming from my mom.
She thinks that Anali
should be speaking
more English.
You know,
cooking more American food.
You know, cooking for me
more often.
And then I'll hear my mom
say something like,
"Oh, yeah.
There's a lot of dishes here."
And what I know that means is,
"The dishes need done."
Just things like that,
to me,
that's passive aggressive.
And I hate that.
But Anali doesn't understand
the language enough
to pick up on that tone.
So I have to kinda be like,
"Hey, mom. Don't do that."
I don't know. I'd feel better
if I just see, once a week,
of her cooking, you know,
something American.
You know?
Where's the cheeseburgers at?
I mean, I want her to learn,
you know, to cook
American food too,
and it's probably easier.
I would teach her
how to make something.
She hasn't one time asked,
"Hey, can you teach me how?"
Or, "Do you know
how to do this?" Or...
Not one time.
I just wanna make sure
my son's taken care of.
I know he's a big boy,
and, you know, a grown man.
But, I mean...
I like to see him
eating something good
that he likes.
I've never heard Anali
ask her soon-to-be husband
if he wants something to eat.
She'd just go in there,
and for two hours,
and making a little chicken,
and chicken, and chicken,
and chicken.
And he likes beef, you know.
I just figured there'd be
like, more patience
with each other
- than it seems--
- I don't have a problem
with nobody.
Oh.
It's already
stressful right now.
And I want to make sure
that you guys aren't
having digs at each other.
We're not having digs.
- Okay. Because...
- We get along fine.
You know, all I hear
is Spanish and it's like,
I can't, you know...
Not that I'd join in,
but let's have
a family conversation here.
Well, it seems to be,
you're defensive about things,
and are having...
I guess I'm just trying
to defend myself.
Well, I know. But...
I... I feel like you're...
You have...
You assume that
everyone's like,
out to get you,
and like...
Assume they're always
talking about you
all the time.
- And...
- I never once
said that anybody are...
- I... I know.
- Talking about me.
I'm telling you
I have that perception,
- just based on--
- Oh, well. I'm sorry you have
that perception about me.
If I had a place
to go tomorrow, I'd go.
'Cause I have a feeling
that's what you're
trying to do.
I'm not trying
to kick you out.
When I first started
this K1 visa process
with Anali,
I was expecting everything
would go well,
but the whole time,
it's been a roller-coaster.
It's not stress that
I would want to put on anyone.
My mom's really defensive
and takes things
really personal.
She often doesn't see
that she might be
part of the issue.
So it's putting me
in a difficult position.
But my mom needs
to get her own place.
Now that her being
in the house is affecting
mine and Anali's
private relationship,
I'm hoping that,
you know, she'll do it
as soon as possible.
- Is marijuana
legal out there?
- No.
All the drug talk,
with the legal stuff going on,
I'm starting to get
nervous sweat about it.
So, it's better I just
talk to Herman
and tell him what's going on.
I really hope he doesn't get
too angry and like, make Citra
call off the wedding.
Whatever.
He wants to ride a horse
to the mountains.
Really?
I wanna ride a horse too.
- I have never
ridden a horse.
- Never?
But they have that
stuff out here.
But your dad,
he'll be doing this
on the horse.
Citra's family just arrived
from Indonesia.
Heading back
to the house right now
to go meet my dad
and we're gonna have
some American food.
This is my room. Um...
I've been sleeping
in Tim's room, of course.
Cool little slide-out drawers.
I am very nervous
about impressing her dad,
and feel like
I just have to think
about everything I do.
But at least,
it's one step closer
to us getting married,
and getting our freak on,
getting that naughty business
going on.
Naughty business?
Mmm-hmm. Oh, you know
the naughty business.
And business is good.
- Dad?
- Hey, yo!
- Hello.
- Oh, hi.
This is her sisters
and this is her dad
right here.
Yeah.
You say it right.
Did I get it right?
Yeah.
This is an unreal moment.
Seeing them actually
meet in person.
He'll act polite
but be thinking,
Crazy foreigner.
- Fried chicken.
About as American as it gets.
- Mmm.
You guys will have
to eat more than that.
Yeah, I just kind of,
got a lot.
It almost
kind of feels like...
They're just like...
Acting like it was alien food
or they were aliens
and eating food
from another planet.
Like the faces they had made.
And it's all
potatoes, apparently.
No spice, no life.
That's what it comes down to.
So how are you guys
liking America so far?
America?
America is
far away from Indonesia.
Oh, yeah.
You realize just how far
when you travel.
And all the foods
are different.
- Oh, yeah. It's just
a light...
- I can see that.
Spices are more.
How do you feel like,
about we want to get married?
Um...
Getting to know you
over the last few years,
I'd been coming...
Becoming happier about it.
And, um...
I've always sort of, felt that
Sam isn't responsible
at times.
But, over these
last couple of years,
he's changed quite a bit.
And, um...
You know, I have five kids.
And I always felt like
four of them sort of, matured
and become responsible.
But now, Sam at 30,
it's finally happening.
So I'm... I'm really
happy for him.
You know, it takes
the right woman
to make you get there.
Yeah.
Mmm-hmm.
Dad's thrown me
under the bus a little bit.
Like, I'm trying to make
a good impression
on Herman here.
Telling him like, how much
of a up I was
in the past,
like... Like, what good
is that doing to me?
Um, stick to the good stuff.
He grew up in California,
in LA.
Is it like out here?
Is marijuana legal out there?
No.
- No.
- Not yet?
Yeah. No. No go.
I guess, like a really
big punishment,
- if you have...
- Oh, really?
Wow.
If you have like, one...
Like...
- One... One brick?
- Yeah.
- Like cigarette. Ciger...
- Oh, cigarette.
Like, one stick.
- One!
- One stick?
Five?
I knew the laws
were strict in Indonesia.
But, like for one joint,
you go to prison
for five, 20 years, whatever.
And now I have to tell
Citra's dad about
my drug diversion program.
I'm . I'm screwed.
It's a simple question.
Answer.
You know the story.
You know what she did to me.
I believe I have a right
to be upset with Jasmine
that she borrowed money
from her ex, Dane.
I'm sorry to say
but I think you have to end
your relationship with him.
How can he tell me that?
I don't wanna marry him.
You know, that was
the biggest humiliation
ever in my life. Ever.
All social media
have my
naked pictures.
He has the ba*ls to tell me
that, "What did I tell her
to provoke her?"
It's a simple question.
Answer.
You know the story.
You know what she did to me.
And you are telling me
that I provoke her.
I believe I have a right
to be upset with Jasmine
that she borrowed money
from her ex, Dane.
But, you know,
at the same time,
the situation
with my ex-girlfriend
caused a lot of problems
for Jasmine.
I understand.
Um... And I feel bad about it.
But this is typical
in our relationship.
Normally, Jasmine is okay
if you give her enough time
to cool off.
That's what I think
I need to do now,
is let her chill out
and I can like,
talk to her later.
Um...
So, I'm sorry
that I upset you.
Uh, whatever I...
From what I was saying,
I didn't mean to upset you.
Um...
You know...
I know what you went through
is terrible.
- Don't get me wrong.
- And it was...
Everything because of
what you did.
I know it was terrible,
and yeah.
You know, it was not
something like,
I can just forget about it.
I wish I could, but...
- Whatever. Like...
- Yeah. I know. I know it's
a very sensitive subject.
And I know it still hurts.
It is.
For going on
a goodbye dinner to Dane.
And making Dane
be an excuse
why I accepted $2000,
when in my heart,
I know that I was
wrong.
I know it hurt you.
I am sorry.
I didn't mean it.
I know that...
My ex hurt you.
But, you know...
The fact that you're
talking to your ex,
that hurts me.
I'm sorry to say
but I think you have to
end your relationship
with him.
Because you don't want me
to having a relationship
with my exes.
You don't let me
speak to my exes,
I don't want you
to speak to your exes.
You can text him that,
you can leave a voicemail,
a message, however
you want to do it.
Gino is my priority.
He is gonna be my husband,
and he is the man
that I generally love.
And he comes before
anyone in this world,
and that includes Dane.
I wanna give him
a voice message, okay?
Okay.
Hi, Dane, I hope
you're doing great.
Um...
Well, good news.
I'm gonna be
getting married soon.
Well, you know
that already.
But, like, in a very short
period of time,
And I just wanted
to say thank you
for being such an amazing
human being.
You are such a good friend.
However, I am leaving you
this message
to let you know that
we won't be able
to communicate
because as you
might understand,
I wanna make Gino my priority.
He is my priority, and...
You, as a guy,
might understand, you...
I don't think
that you will be happy
with your fiancee, future wife
being so close
to an ex, right?
Well, same with Gino.
And I understand...
And even though you know
that we are just friends,
we have always been
just good friends.
I'm doing this
because I wanna show
to Gino how much
I love him, so...
This is my goodbye to you.
I wish you nothing
but the best.
And so...
Bye, have a nice life.
Babe, it is time for us
to act like two adults
and put our exes behind.
- The best way--
- I agree.
I don't want that
tension between us,
you know, up unto our wedding.
Yes.
Our exes are dead to us.
- They die.
- Yes. Yes.
- Let's--
- Good.
Please.
Mmm. I don't even remember
who my ex was.
What about that?
I'm hungry.
Let's finish making the salad.
Kiss me.
- Baby talk.
- No.
- Come on.
- Later today.
You don't deserve it
right now.
She's not happy with me.
Kind of tell.
I hear a lot
of Spanish arguments.
...the more escalated,
the faster she talks.
Hey!
I hear a lot
of Spanish arguments.
I mean, because...
the more escalated,
the faster she talks.
It's not normal hardly at all.
I mean, I just...
I don't know really
how I'm feeling.
I'm feeling
in some sort of way.
Um...
Nervous and...
Mainly nervous for him.
- Ma.
- Yes?
Do you know where my
EpiPens are at?
Yeah, they're out here
- Oh.
Where?
My EpiPens.
Here they are.
I'm gonna see if
there are any new ones.
What is going on in there?
I don't know.
She's not happy with me.
Kind of tell.
It's frustrating that
she's not speaking English,
because wedding stuff has been
me and Brandi.
I don't think she has
a desire to learn English.
I don't know, I shouldn't
say that, but...
I said what I said.
It would've been nice to have
a little bit more help.
Good morning.
- Good morning.
- Good morning.
Anali's really good
at gaslighting.
It's frustrating because
she has, like,
this emotional mind
and I have a logical mind.
And even if something
makes sense...
If it doesn't feel good
or feel right to her,
it's still my fault.
Here we are, going into
wedding week.
You know, we're about to
be in the car with each other
for two and a half hours,
and we should be celebrating
having, you know,
happy moments and, you know,
here we are, bickering again.
This is our last trip before
our K-1 visa gets approved.
I know you have doubts
in our relationship
breaking out as well.
Yeah.
I only have a few more
days left here,
and I have to decide
what I wanna do.
I don't
wanna hurt you.
It's the water!
We got a rainbow,
there was a double rainbow,
there was a rainbow
following us.
So the water in the face,
and we're Cancer rising,
so we're just thriving
in this energy.
And literally I was like,
"it.
This is how I'm feeling.
Are you down or not?
Are we making
the right decision
getting married right now?
So, so tired
of crying.
I can't, like, any more.
I'm, like, drained.
We're finally here
to go horseback riding,
so why don't we
just enjoy the day
for whatever it is.
I'm only here for...
a short, limited time
till I go back to
the reality of my world.
We can start and try today,
focused only on us.
And only on sweet things.
I'll try.
When Justin and I
have disagreements,
I think to myself...
I'm like, you know what?
"I don't have all day to sit
and fester over drama."
I only have a few more
days left here.
So I feel that I want to
try to have, like, resolution.
And I have to decide
what I wanna do.
Hello.
- Hello
- Hey.
- Oh, you speak English.
- Oh, yeah, I do.
Uh, let's go.
- Yeah.
- Good. Perfect.
You can take
your reins a bit shorter.
Let's try it and trot.
It's gonna be
just a bit easier.
It's gonna be like
up, down, up, down.
- Okay.
- In this kind of rhythm.
Up, down, up, down.
Horse riding,
as a sport in itself,
is very therapeutical.
It just gives you,
like, good vibes,
and I think, when couples
come here together,
they share these vibes.
Babe, I think we should
recreate the photo
maybe somewhere over
around there.
Okay, let's try.
The horses were
different colors,
- but it's still--
- No problem.
It's us on horses.
Okay, smile.
Okay, thank you.
It's been a really bad
few days for Justin and I
fighting and trying
to come down
to some type of resolution.
But I wanna really consider
what I truly came here for.
Put aside all our differences
and literally focus
on what really matters.
Our love.
Is there love?
This is our last trip before
our K-1 visa gets approved.
I know you must be
feeling the same thoughts.
That you have doubts
in our relationship
working out as well.
Yeah.
- We--
- I'm trying.
I'm really trying.
I'm always...
Give me your hand.
I'm always going to love you.
I loved you
when I first met you,
I loved you when I
left you the first time,
and I always
thought about you.
We both don't deserve
this fighting,
but I do know that I love you,
and, um...
- I wanna be with you.
- Me, too.
So, I think that we have
made some progress.
Let's enjoy our engagement
celebration tomorrow.
Is that what you want, too?
Of course.
It would be
a whole lot easier for me
to just walk away
and say, "Oh, you know,
I can move on
and I can find somebody else."
But...
I don't know,
just something tells me,
like, he's my soulmate,
and he's my perfect match.
And yeah, like, you know,
we definitely need
to learn a lot more
about each other,
you know, but...
I don't know, I don't think
I can do better than him.
And I know he's not gonna
do better than me.
I love you more than anything.
That's why I'm here right now.
That's what I want
to hear every day.
- No.
- Okay.
Okay.
Okay.
Kind of feels
like Manuel and I
are going through the hardest
parts of our relationship
at the front end.
And so I'm hoping
that that means
that it'll be smooth sailing
on the back end
of this, right?
We go through, you know,
all this pain points,
and we go through all these
issues with communication,
and we go through all these
bumps in the road,
and so for us to, like...
get it out of our system.
There's definitely a deep
soul family connection there,
which is why
I keep his a*s around.
But boy, does he grind
my gears sometimes.
Are you ready?
I hope so.
So we're gonna need these.
- Hi!
- Hello!
Thank you!
Things have been rocky.
We've been one foot
in front of the other.
We have been living together
for less than three months,
and we're getting married.
We have tons of work to do.
We're leaving!
Oh, my God!
Yeah.
- Wow!
- Oh, my...
This is so beautiful.
I can't--
Look, there's a rainbow.
Mmm-hmm.
So beautiful.
Wow!
Oh, my God!
Oh!
The Maid of the Mist
is magical.
It is the most beautiful
experience ever.
And to experience it
with Manuel
is even more amazing.
There's rainbows everywhere.
It's just...
Honestly, this is exactly
what we need right now.
Because we've been
under so much stress.
You like your surprise?
You're welcome.
Yeah.
Are we making
the right decision
getting married right now?
Okay.
It's the water!
We got a rainbow,
there was a double rainbow,
there was a rainbow
following us.
So the water in the face,
and we're Cancer rising
so we're just thriving
in this energy.
And literally I was like,
"it.
This is how I'm feeling.
Are you down or not?
And he's down.
So, let's have a wedding.
Yeah. Okay.
Okay.
What luck
is this rainbow right now?
It's hard to say,
with a felony.
Ah, my heart's racing, like,
a million miles an hour,
just waiting for his reaction.
The decorations...
all you've told me...
That you have plates.
- Mmm.
- That's it?
I've never really seen
Clayton plan anything.
I mean, he lives with my mom,
for God sakes.
So, did you find an officiant?
Anybody in Indiana
can be an officiant,
so it really doesn't matter.
He's gonna ask
me to do it because it's easy.
I will leave, I will act like
I have diarrhea.
I'm out.
Thank you.
Do you want to sit?
In Indonesia,
like, around 8:00 p.m.,
it's already dark,
but here, still bright.
Yeah.
During summer, yeah.
Oh.
Um...
Um, well, like, how exactly?
You're going to translate?
I want to be
completely sincere with you
'cause I want you to know
I care
and, like,
I'm being fully real
'cause nothing's
more important than Citra
and you guys as my family.
Yeah, a couple months ago,
as you know,
I got in to-- got in trouble
'cause I had some
of my medicine on me.
But it was old.
A couple months,
I hadn't seen my doctor,
and
because it was, like, expired,
and that's--
that's how I ended up
getting in trouble,
to begin with.
Why you, like,
end up to use that?
Because, uh,
like, I used to be addicted
to pain medicine.
And I take that now
to stay sober
and, like, clean.
- Yeah. Yeah.
- Yeah?
Yeah. Definitely.
Herman's got
an amazing poker face.
Stone cold.
Like, no expression.
My heart's racing, like,
a million miles an hour,
just waiting for his reaction,
how he's going to handle it,
or if he's even going
to say anything at all.
There was a program,
the diversion,
that would have
made it easier,
like, for me to kind of...
I'd just basically be good
for a year,
and I'd skip some of the,
like, getting into trouble.
But I didn't get the paperwork
applied for in time.
Six months.
Six months up to a year.
I mean,
it's hard to say
with a felony.
When is your court?
Uh, the 14th.
Sam,
uh...
Yeah. Yeah.
You understand that?
- Yeah.
The only thing I'm addicted to
is marrying your daughter,
and, like, I don't want
any kind of bad life.
This feels worse than
disappointing my own parents,
letting Citra's dad down,
'cause we really have
a strong bond.
So, like,
it honestly breaks my heart
messing up
and giving
this news to him.
Seeing the disappointment
in his eyes,
I just-- there's
nothing worse.
I'm trying to be optimistic,
hoping I can turn this around,
but with the way
things have been going,
I just don't know.
I'm-- I'm nervous.
Put the glass
on the floor.
Yeah.
Come on,
chunker pig.
Good boy.
Me and Anali are driving
from Kentucky to Indiana
because this is wedding week.
We're about to
get married.
It's crunch time.
It's been crunch time,
but it's really, like--
it's wedding week.
It's now.
Hey.
See you in a few days.
Yeah, see you
in a couple days. Bye.
We're staying
in a rental house in Indiana.
Whoa, they got foosball.
It's nice.
It's got a indoor pool.
I don't
think I've ever
had an indoor pool
anywhere I've stayed at,
besides a hotel.
It's spacious.
It's a little older,
but, I mean, it's nice.
It's definitely nice.
Well, well, well,
if it isn't my arch nemesis.
- Whatever.
- My own sister.
You left the keys
in the trunk.
There's three days
until the wedding.
I feel like Clayton has
tried to plan things out.
- Hola!
- Hola!
But I've never really seen
Clayton plan anything.
I mean, he lives
with my mom for God's sake.
All right,
so let's talk wedding.
'Cause I have a list of things
- you've asked me to do.
- Okay.
And I want to know
what you've got done
'cause it's your wedding.
So you asked me to find
a llama or an alpaca--
- Yes.
- ...which I think is absurd.
I couldn't find one,
but I did try.
- No alpaca.
- No.
No.
The decorations,
all you've told me
- that you have plates.
- Mm-hmm.
- That's it?
- No.
Flowers.
- Plates and flowers?
- Yep.
Okay.
So did you find an officiant?
No officiant.
No have officiant.
But anybody in Indiana can
be an officiant,
so it really doesn't matter.
I mean, I can ask
someone at the wedding.
They are definitely available.
Oh, my God.
I am extremely shocked
that he doesn't have
an officiant.
I didn't even want
to say anything,
because I was like,
"Man, he's going
to ask me to do it
because it's easy."
But I will hide.
I will leave.
I will act
like I have diarrhea.
Anything. I'm out.
So everyone gets
to come to this wedding
that I'm stressing out about
- and enjoy it.
- Mm-hmm.
Well, it's not your wedding.
It's our wedding.
We can enjoy the wedding.
Right?
Clayton, you.
Yeah. you, Clayton.
- Yeah. Me too. Yeah.
- Jeez.
This is me being a b*tch
because I'm
stressed out, honestly.
Have you
prepared anything
for the bachelorette party?
I just was thinking of having,
like, a couple people over
and some snacks, like...
we could have a fire out back.
Watch a movie.
Okay.
I think Anali will be
pleasantly surprised.
What are you actually going
to do?
She asked me
for a bachelorette party--
- Yeah.
- ...like, within
the last week.
- Okay.
- You think I can just
pull it out of a magic hat?
If Clayton knew
that a stripper was
going to be there
that gets down to his socks.
Honey.
Big day coming up soon.
I'm feeling a little nervous.
Sophie's mom came in
last night.
So, you know, mom's had
every opinion under the book.
I have put in so much effort,
but that feels like
we're not on the same team.
Sophie has always assumed
that we're going
to get married,
but I have all the way up
until I say, "I do".
Here you go.
Oh, my God.
I'm so glad to be back.
Yeah, same.
Yeah.
I think I need some time
apart from Rob.
♪ I always try ♪
♪ To do right ♪
- He hasn't sent me
anything since I've left.
- Oh, really?
What does that mean, though?
Is he really angry
or is he just being a knob?
I don't know. He's probably
just feeling sorry for himself
and just kind of thinking
I'm the bad guy
in this situation.
So, I'm just--
I'm not going to text him.
It's not great for me
and Rob's relationship
when we only have
three weeks to get married
and we're spending
the night apart.
But at the same time,
I do think
we really need some space
where I stay somewhere
and he stays somewhere
and kind of just
both cool down.
He can reach out to me,
but I'm not going
to be the one to try
and make things
all right first.
So, I'm just not--
I've not messaged him at all.
That's good.
I'm proud of you.
Stay strong.
It is very depressing.
It's obviously not
how I wanted...
this to go.
I kind of just hoped,
you know, me, my mum
and Rob would all have
a good time together.
So, it is kind of
just another thing
to add onto our relationship.
So, I don't know.
It's kind of seeming
that, like it's not--
the arguments aren't stopping
and it's kind of
making me feel
like I can't keep
giving Rob excuses
and I can't be giving
our relationship excuses.
There's definitely doubts
now in my mind
about whether or not
this wedding is going
to happen.
Whites and hots
and colors and colds.
This morning, there was
a ridiculous argument
with Sophie and her mom,
and Sophie didn't care
to work that out with me.
So, she's gone,
hanging out with her mom.
But you know, I can't
really sit at home
and sulk about it.
I got to still do chores
and get things done.
So I'm going
to the laundromat.
Tor'I and Ty are going
to meet me and maybe...
I can talk my.
Been a little bit.
Yo.
What's going on?
- What's up with you?
- What's up? You all right?
- What's up? What's up?
- Got the hair out.
Man, I can't
keep it braided every day.
Some days, you just
got to let the hair out.
- How you guys doing?
- Good, man.
Can't complain.
If we did, wouldn't help.
- Yeah, no.
- Wouldn't help.
Wouldn't help.
Big day coming up soon.
- Very big day.
- How you feeling?
I'm feeling a little nervous.
Mmm.
Good nervous? Bad nervous?
- If anything, bad nervous.
- Oh, no.
About what?
Things obviously haven't
been smooth
this whole 90 days
and it's like, now we're
coming down to the wire
and Sophie's mom
came in last night.
So, you know, mom's had
every opinion under the book.
And she already didn't have
a good opinion, did she?
She had, I think,
an iffy opinion
'cause, you know, her
and Sophie are so close,
but Sophie's gonna tell her
all of the negatives.
And then it was just like--
it was like
them two against me,
and she's talking about
a real man wouldn't have--
would have
held off on the relationship
for a year
to get a new spot
and then continue
the relationship.
She went there.
Which to me,
made me feel like,
"All right then.
it then." Like...
I know how you get.
We know how you get, boy.
- Sounds like it.
- Yeah.
Claire telling me
that I'm not a real man is
where I lose
respect for Claire.
You could be
the Queen of England.
You don't show respect,
I'm not going
to show you respect.
Man, I just wish
Sophie would have my back
and just not take advantage
of every opportunity
to point out my flaws.
If somebody else is
going to do it,
she's so eager
to do it with them.
She did not tell
her momma anything
other than...
jumping on the bandwagon
to be like,
what we don't have,
what we didn't make, you know,
what I don't have right now,
or, you know,
looking at it like
I'm supposed to have
so much going on, but I don't.
- So--
- Gotta take these--
- My clothes.
- Oh.
Well, I want to know
from what you've
figured out now so far,
obviously you're
in a sensitive state
at the moment,
but if you...
one to ten,
how good are you feeling?
Ten being I'm like--
"I'm sure we'll get married",
one being like,
"It ain't going to happen"?
Yeah.
I'm like a four.
But bro, like,
it seems like you're willing
to like, throw everything
that y'all worked on away.
You know,
it's been three years.
I would have thought
that you'd been like,
thought about this
and you're ready to marry her
and stuff like that, like...
It's been three years,
but there haven't been
a lot of opportunities
for the type of situations
we've been going through
in the last 90 days
because it's been
long distance.
There's been things
that I haven't had
a chance to see.
And that's kind of the--
You know,
it's three months.
As if that's enough time.
It's ridiculous.
But that's what
I'm trying to see.
I'm trying
to see these things.
How do you not see this
in the first couple of years?
Because
there wasn't a moment
where her mom walked
in my house
- and Sophie didn't
have my back.
- Yeah, yeah.
Like, I'm not
going to sit here,
how I feel right now,
for the next three weeks
and then get married.
At this point, I don't see
this wedding happening.
That's
the crazy thing, though.
Like, I see it happening,
but I see
Rob just being miserable.
Oof.
I really have
a sixth sense on this.
Like, Rob is going to do this,
but he's not going
to be truly content
or happy with the marriage.
And Sophie's going to be in it
for all the wrong reasons.
And if anything, it's going
to end up in divorce.
Like, I feel like Sophie has
always assumed
that we're going
to get married.
But I've told her,
I have all the way up
until I say I do.
Next time
on 90 Day Fiancé...
Let's go! Let's go! Let's go!
It's okay, baby. It's okay.
Yeah.
Cheers!
- No!
- I saw you're good.
Oh!
Oh, my God. Here we go.
♪ I'm just going
To be honest ♪
♪ You must be
the hottest thing ♪
♪ That's here, right? ♪
♪ I just want to go... ♪
- Huh?
- You seem really nervous.
I'm-- Okay.
I'm nervous to tell my mom
about me being bi.
You know, it's serious to me,
and it's important.
I'm bisexual.
- That's a good choice.
- I do like that one a lot.
I want
to check in to see
if my mom's going to show up
to the mosque when I convert.
Oh, yeah. Are you coming
- to me converting?
- Well--
I don't think
anybody should have
to convert to marry.
I wish she could
just check those feelings
for an hour or two
and celebrate with me.
Just be happy, you know?
No strippers.
Welcome to America.
Oh, my God.
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