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Oh my God.
We're getting married.
We're gonna party it up
in Florida.
I wouldn't have it
any other way.
Yeah.
There are
just so many unknowns
before the wedding,
and seeing Manuel
in this place
honestly makes me
really nervous.
No strippers.
Oh my God.
I'm actually just interested
in getting her drunk
and finding out
who she really is
because drunk words
are sober thoughts.
You still wanna get married?
You're getting married
in two days.
I borrowed $2,000
from my ex-boyfriend Dane,
to get butt implant surgery.
Why is he giving you
$2,000?
Now he's gonna expect
something from you.
What did you say?
I wish I have done
that last night.
I believe I have a right
to be upset with Jasmine,
that she borrowed money
from her ex, Dane.
The fact that you're talking
to your ex, that--
that hurts me.
I think you have to...
end your relationship
with him.
I know that I'm not doing
anything wrong
by being friends with Dane.
But, I think he's right.
Hi, Dane.
This is my goodbye to you.
It is time for us
to put our exes behind.
She's gonna be my wife.
I mean, I don't push
my faith on people.
Sam mentioned that
he's gonna do
the Islam wedding ceremony
with Citra.
And I don't feel
I should go to that.
One of the most important
moments in my life
and you wanna miss it,
that's up to you.
Well, let me think about it.
I'm bisexual.
Oh.
Have you--
No, I would've told you that.
I think they're falling
out of love right now.
She should be the one
walking away.
One to ten,
how good are you feeling?
I'm like a four.
Sophie has always assumed
that we're gonna get married.
But, I have all the way
up until I say "I do."
♪ Ohhh ♪
♪ Ohhh ♪
No.
I'm cheap, but not that cheap.
It's been a couple weeks
since Jasmine and I
returned from Miami.
and um, you know,
we'd got into an argument.
But,
we're in a better place now,
we've made up.
You know, we don't want that
hanging over us.
I want us to be happy
and in a good place
when we're trying
to plan the wedding.
- At your service.
- Thank you.
Oh my goodness!
- Hi!
- Hello.
- Hi, Jasmine,
welcome in.
- Welcome in.
- Nice to meet you.
- Nice to meet you.
Welcome to White Magnolia.
Today, Gino and I
are going to look
at wedding gowns.
It's very unusual
to bring your fiancé
to dress shopping, but...
how am I gonna get
to that store to begin with?
How am I gonna pay
if he has the credit card?
So...
It's a must,
I have to bring him.
I don't have
any other choice.
So, what are you
looking for today?
Well...
Because at the beginning,
you know,
- I wanted
a black wedding dress.
- Okay.
- Okay.
- Because I'm like,
the black widow,
the spider...
- ...that eats the--
- a
Their husband.
I'm just joking.
It's a joke, baby.
It's a joke.
So good he's laughing at it.
- Yeah.
- Uh, but no,
just being serious,
honestly, after looking
at all this...
- Yeah. Yes.
- ...just superficially
looking at this beautiful...
white wedding dresses...
- Okay, let's do it then.
- Yeah,
What are we trying
to stay around?
So I know what to pull.
To be honest with you,
- it's very expensive
to have a wedding.
- Yeah.
- Yeah, it is.
- You gotta buy rings,
- wedding dress.
- Everything adds up.
- Yup.
- So, I'm hoping
that we can stay
somewhere around
$1,000 for dress.
- That doesn't even exist.
- That--
Not when it comes
to wedding dresses.
We can work
something out.
- So, don't-- don't worry
about that.
- Good.
- Good. Yeah.
- Let's just enjoy
the day and--
- Yeah, I agree.
- Yes.
I love her attitude.
That's what I need
in my life.
Yeah, yeah,
just enjoy this moment.
All right.
Pop open the champagne.
Get comfortable.
- Get drunk.
- We'll see you in a minute.
Well...
Ultimately, I'm gonna
have to pay for the dress.
So, I have to ask
the tough questions
about how much, you know,
do these dresses cost.
- I hate to ask
those questions...
- Oh.
But someone has to,
and I'm the bad guy today.
- All right.
- Yeah, I'm sorry
I made such a mess.
- No, no worries.
- I feel really bad.
- Absolutely not.
It's totally okay.
- Um...
I've been married
before once.
But, I never had a wedding.
No dress, no venue,
no nothing.
This is my last chance.
I haven't decided
between a princess
kind of dress
because you know,
I am a princess,
or a mermaid,
because I'm a mermaid too.
It's so hard.
But, I know that
walking down the aisle,
I wanna feel
like a goddess.
And I want Gino
to be speechless, like,
"Oh my gosh."
You know?
That's like, the reaction
I'm looking for.
- Oh!
- I know.
Wow,
that's beautiful.
That is a gorgeous dress.
Stunning.
What do you think?
It's beautiful,
isn't it?
I-I think it's stunning.
Yeah, that's
a really beautiful dress.
I-I was just curious,
you know,
- what the cost
of this dress is.
- Okay.
This one's gonna be
a little over $3,000.
- Whoo.
- Yes.
Come on baby,
it's just a few thousand.
You're not gonna
go bankruptcy.
Potentially, yes, I could.
I mean...
Baby, invest it
in my happiness.
I'm gonna try
the other dress.
- Okay?
- All right.
- Let's get started.
- Yeah.
$3,000.
That's a lot.
I want Jasmine to buy
the wedding dress
that she really wants.
But, we have a budget
for the wedding
and I can't spend
a million dollars
on this wedding, okay?
$3,000.
Man, get out of town.
Wow, yeah,
that is so beautiful.
I can see your shape,
you know, your figure.
I feel like
a goddess right now.
I look like a mermaid.
That is romance.
That's what I wanted.
Baby, I want this dress.
I don't even wanna
try other dresses.
This is what I dream of,
ever since I was
a little girl.
Do you know how much
this costs, or--
Yeah, this one
is close to $5,000.
$5,000?
- Oops.
I'm innocent.
- Yup.
- I didn't know the price.
- Five--
- I'm sorry--
- Yeah.
- Baby, I want it.
Baby, I want it.
- Um...
Baby, I want it.
Baby, please, baby.
Baby, please.
I'm sorry I'm so broke,
you know.
So, there's definitely
some friction with financials.
It's a little uncomfortable.
I-I don't want to interject
or get too involved,
but, it's-it's hard
to make both parties happy.
Wow, look at you.
Oh my gosh,
I love this one.
Wow.
You look stunning,
like a queen.
I look so, so good
that I look like
I'm not real.
- Right? Like a painting.
- Yeah, like a Barbie doll.
This feeling, I wish like
every woman get to experience
one day in their life.
I feel so beautiful,
I look so good.
It really pops out
my attributes, I love it.
I love this dress.
And I have good news.
I asked her something
more friendly
to your budget.
- Yeah, this is
our floor sample.
- I like those words.
Fits her like a glove.
So, we could do about
$2,000 for you and...
I think everyone can, yeah,
be happy today.
- Wow.
- Yeah.
I like that.
Do you like the dress?
Yes.
- Is this the one you want?
- Are you sure?
I wanna make sure
you're happy with the dress.
- I feel beautiful.
- That's all that matters.
- You look gorgeous.
- Aw...
I feel like I found my dress.
Uh, I feel gorgeous.
Gino loved the dress.
He didn't complain about
uh, the budget.
And...
Something that I joke about,
being super necessary,
it wasn't,
um, he was willing to pull
out 2,000 extra dollars
for my wedding dress.
I am happy.
I love it.
- Thank you,
congratulations to you both.
- Cheers.
- And thank you so much.
- Cheers.
- You're very welcome.
- To Gino and Jasmine.
You look great.
Today is the day
before the wedding.
Finally confirmed
with the officiant,
he's good to go.
I have a make-up artist
and a hairstylist
for Anali tomorrow.
Just a few days ago,
we weren't really sure
who was gonna do what,
but, it looks like we've got
pretty much everybody
ready to go tomorrow.
Push-ups, squats.
Uh...
No.
Yeah, okay.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Oh, no.
Okay.
This is just
ridiculous, man.
I can't even
talk, dude.
There she goes again.
Hey, um, so this whole ordeal
with the stripper thing
is like...
literally making Anali
pack up her suitcase.
Like, she is acting like
she's gonna leave.
Because I'm upset
over the fact
that you guys had
a stupid
stripper
at the stupid
bachelorette party.
I should not be apologizing
or taking any responsibility
for something that I'm--
What I feel like
I'm the victim of.
The hell do I do?
Yep, and you are
giving me them
and I'm responding,
and that's just how
conversations work.
Well, then...
I plan on having
a wedding tomorrow
and she's packing
her suitcase.
I understand
you're pissed
and all of the
is obviously about me.
Just say, "I'm sorry,
I didn't mean to hurt
your feel--"
- I have the right
to feel a certain way.
- Stop.
The way
he's treating me,
I don't really know
why I keep fighting
at this point.
I do have limits.
Say, "I'm sorry,"
and that's it,
and we'll move past it.
♪ Yeah, I know it's okay ♪
♪ Something's getting
In the way ♪
♪ I don't want you to change ♪
♪ But it don't feel the same ♪
♪ I'm playing with fire
'cause the flames
grow higher ♪
♪ Should I let you go
If I don't know who you are ♪
- What's up?
- Hello.
- Did you miss me?
- Yes.
- Did you?
- Yes.
- Did you miss me?
- Yeah.
Yesterday, Sophie
and I got into it,
her mom as well.
Sophie made sure that her mom
knew that she was not happy
in this apartment.
And I... And then,
I feel like Claire
just switched up.
She just has to ride
for her daughter.
She stayed the night
with her mom
instead of staying home
to work things out with me.
You know, I feel like
she did not have my back.
I feel like she let me down,
she wasn't on my team,
and that's kind of like
a big deal to me.
So, I'mma need
to hear something from her
that makes me feel
like she gets it.
Yeah,
it was nice to spend time
with my mom, obviously,
but I definitely...
like, woke up
and then was missing you.
I mean, I half-expected
you and your mom to have
spent the whole night
just talking about
how terrible I am.
No, not at all.
So, when it was you
and your mom, you were...
When she would say something
negative about me, you...
You would have my back?
Yeah, I really did.
I'm curious
where was that...
where was that energy
when we were all together?
I mean, I...
The energy was that
I was agreeing with
some of the things
she was saying.
And, you know, obviously,
if I agreed with what you were
saying about my mom,
I would... I would say,
"Yeah, Rob, I agree."
It was
unnecessary, period,
for you to even agree
with her.
You really let me down
right there.
Like, I thought
we were a team, and I felt...
And after that conversation,
I felt like you were
not on my team.
I felt mad alone.
You weren't on my team.
I didn't mean
to make you feel like that.
And I'm sorry
if I'm making you feel alone.
I didn't mean
to make you feel like that.
- Like, you know me.
- I... I'm sorry. I'm...
I am sorry.
All right, I hear you.
I think
in this instance, like,
I do understand how maybe
he may have felt, you know,
it was him alone
against me and my mom,
and I don't want him
to feel alone.
And also, knowing
me and Rob's history,
if I don't apologize,
then it--
The argument probably
won't end, and I...
I just don't have
any mental space left
to keep arguing with him,
I just, I-- I just wanna
move past this.
Home "I know
you hate it" sweet home.
I don't hate it.
I still kinda
wanna talk.
So, if you want,
we could just sit
outside for a little bit.
Yes, it is.
You ever heard the phrase
"left out to dry"?
Yeah.
I felt very "left out to dry."
I felt very vulnerable
with no support.
And that's what made me upset.
It's like,
I am really fighting for Rob
and our relationship.
But it's like...
the way he's treating me,
I don't really know why I keep
fighting at this point.
It's like he just wants
to sit there and feel bad
and make me feel bad.
I do have limits.
Look, I understand
how you felt. I know--
In the car, I apologized,
and I understand it.
I don't know what more
you want me to say, I'm sorry.
I feel like the least
you could say is,
"I'm sorry for being
disrespectful to your mom."
It's still my mom,
at the end of the day.
It's like, you don't have
to apologize to me.
I'm sorry
I yelled at your mom.
- Okay, thank you.
- I'm sorry I raised my voice.
- Thank you. Okay.
- And I'm sorry
that I said things
that I really tried
not to say.
Okay, that's...
Thank you. That's...
That's all I can ask for,
and it's like, I'm willing
to move past it.
And it's like, yesterday,
when I was sleeping
without you,
I was missing you a lot,
and then this morning,
I woke up.
It wasn't aimed at you.
Which is--
Which is hilariously accurate.
I'm not denying
that it relates to my life.
I didn't post it
just for other people,
I posted it
because it was relatable.
And if she did see it,
then, like, I don't know,
maybe she'd get
where I'm coming from
by seeing it coming
from a different perspective,
or it, you know,
not coming from my mouth.
But I'm not really expecting
her to get it,
because I've reposted a meme.
There's no way for it
to just not sound
like I'm...
like I'm 19.
I understand you're pissed
and all of the
is obviously about me.
So you wanna hurt my feelings.
I didn't wanna hurt
your feelings.
- You're not
supposed to hurt my--
- You don't have to look
- at my Facebook.
- - You know I see your.
Just say, "I'm sorry,
I didn't mean to hurt
your feel--"
- I have the right
to feel a certain way.
- Stop.
You have done something
to hurt my feelings,
even if you didn't intend to,
say sorry.
I wanna talk about
the that matters
- and you wanna talk
about social media posts.
- I mean-- Oh, my God.
- You're so frustrating.
- Maybe you can't just--
Okay, Sam.
Just everything
we've been through
and just so many problems,
it's like we might as well be
both talking to a brick wall.
Are you gonna
have your, like, dad
kinda walk you up front?
- Like, 'cause that's kinda
traditional of American and--
- Yeah.
Mm-hmm.
♪ Falling for you
is a risky thing ♪
How many chairs
do you think we'll need?
Besides who's standing up
with us,
we want, like, the important
parts of the family up front.
Where should the food
and stuff go?
- It's gonna be in the...
- Oh, the front?
- Yeah.
- Front yard?
Tomorrow's the wedding day.
A lot going on.
I'm converting,
and then after, like, uh,
having my, uh,
spiritual ceremony,
and then my American wedding.
Just a lot of moving parts
that need to come together.
We're gonna have
the music here or what?
After I convert
and we're, like, married...
Mm-hmm.
you know, like,
I'm not just after sex.
But after waiting
this long, like...
it's k*lling me.
♪ Light of the dawn ♪
Yeah.
It's a good color on you.
We're going
to the mosque today
for me to convert,
finally become a Muslim,
and we will marry
in the eyes of Allah.
And then after, we're going
to have our American wedding
at the farmhouse.
- Yeah.
- No, no, no.
No?
Well, it's,
my feet are stiff.
Trying to bend
my feet like that way, uh,
it was kinda painful and...
Uh, it was just
awkward feeling.
And, like, Indonesians,
they're all small,
so, like, they can ball up.
But, uh,
it's a learning experience,
that's for sure.
Okay, Sam.
Really?
So, yeah,
you just click that.
- Okay.
- There, yeah.
Okay, Sam.
Okay, before the wedding,
are you ready?
I feel like I'm ready
as I can be,
and, uh, I'm so happy
you and her family are here.
I really feel like
we became a family.
Okay, Sam.
Okay, Sam,
I am Citra's father.
Just a message to you.
Please take care of my child,
love him.
The language barrier,
it's like, we might as well
be both talking
to a brick wall.
And Google Translate
does not help,
like, that just makes it worse
'cause that doesn't even
get it right.
Love him
until death comes
in the sense that
until he gets old,
until grandparents
have grandchildren.
Lot of times, it'll even put
like different words,
completely different meaning.
But for the most part,
you can kinda get the gist
of what someone's saying.
- Don't
waste my child, okay?
- Yeah.
Uh, honestly,
I wanna be
like you and Citra's mom.
Like, you guys were
the perfect example,
and that's how I want
our family to be.
Thank you.
Okay, Sam.
Okay, Sam,
I believe what you said to me.
In the next few hours,
will be responsible
Citra answered.
I will leave it to you.
I believe in you.
You are sure you can
take care of my child.
- Yeah. Yeah.
- Okay?
I promise
I'll take care of her.
Thank God, or I mean, Allah,
that he gave me his blessing.
Just everything we've been
through, and like,
a real father-son bond,
and it's just great.
I've never had
anything like it before,
so It was a special moment
for both of us.
Let's go check on the ladies.
Mosque.
I can't believe I'm about
to be a married man already,
and about to have two weddings
back the back.
Like it's just, it's crazy.
But honestly,
I don't know a whole lot
about being a Muslim.
So I just hope I don't make
a fool of myself
at the mosque
during the conversion.
Like it-- it would kinda
bring shame and disrespect
on their family.
I can still lose Citra
if something bad happens
with the conversion.
I can't mess this up.
I'm just concerned
about your family
ruining my special day,
our special day.
I don't see them welcoming
into their family at all.
I know
that they don't like me.
How do you think
they'd feel if they
couldn't make it?
Put-- Put yourself
in their shoes.
They're asking for prenups
and looking at me like
a freaking gold-digger.
You should talk to them.
I didn't spend
the last two and a half years
building this relationship
with
all for her to pack
her suitcase,
go get her passport
and go home.
You know?
♪ Ta-da-da... ♪
- With the g*ns...
- Oh.
This giving you the feeling
of the Wild West?
Yes.
I mean, this is what
Michigan is. Look at today.
Look at this beautiful,
sunny, warm day.
This is what you can expect
in the summer.
If it could only stay
like this forever, I...
I think it will make it.
- I will survive.
- Hmm.
Oh.
I'm so convinced
that this is the place
for us to be married
and I really think
you're gonna like it.
From my side,
this is the best place
I found and also, like,
you know, it fits our budget.
And I want you
to look at this place.
I want you to give me
your honest opinion today.
You know, I'm really
feeling good about it.
Gino's dream wedding
is quite different from mine,
um, because...
Oh my God.
Look at this place.
You have a chimney.
Hi, there.
- Hi.
- Hi, are you Jasmine?
- Yes.
- Hi, Jasmine, I'm Anna.
- Hello.
- Nice to meet you, Anna.
- Nice to meet you, Gino.
- Hi, Anna.
- How are you?
- Nice to meet you guys. Good.
- Congratulations on your
recent engagement...
- Thank you.
...and welcome
to Cornman Farms.
Well, if you guys
want to follow me,
we can start
over in the barn that
allows for up to 75 guests.
Okay. Wow.
Nice, right?
Yeah, I'm just
admiring the place, baby.
So, if you want
to follow me this way,
this is the lower level
of the barn.
Awesome.
Um...
- Wow. This is it.
- Wow...
Holy cow.
I have to be honest
that I really like the place.
This is an old antique house.
It's so beautiful, it feels
like being in a museum.
This is huge.
Old-fashioned.
The only
wrong thing about this place
is that it is in Michigan,
not in Panama.
Because I'm quite sure
that if I had had
the same place in Panama,
I would be like, "Yes,
Forget about the wish wedding.
I want it to happen here."
But I'm not gonna give it up
that easy to Gino.
I'm so used to it.
So, if your guest count
fell between 15 and 75...
- Yeah.
- ...this is where most of your
event would take place.
Our team will set up
a tablescape,
a floor plan that we had
agreed on previously.
- Oh, okay.
- Mmm-hmm.
- Mmm-hmm.
- I...
Yeah.
Nothing to worry about.
Yeah, it'll be
a chill day for you.
But what about like, um...
- Because you guys are doing
everything, this...
- Mmm-hmm.
Like, the cost?
Yeah. So for smaller weddings,
we can see anywhere
from 5,000 to 15,000.
For those larger weddings,
we can see anywhere
from 15,000 to 35,000.
- It really all depends
on what you add on...
- Okay.
...what kind of things
you bring in,
- how many people
you guys have...
- Um, number of guests.
Yeah, I love this place.
This is really beautiful
in here.
Well, do you guys want
to head back over
to the farmhouse?
- Perfect, okay.
- Okay.
Bye, barn house.
This house
is actually very beautiful.
And it's like
a dreamy location.
Uh, it has
a beautiful landscape,
but a part of me is really
concerned that I still have
a lot of unresolved issues
with most of Gino's
family members, unfortunately.
I wish I could change it,
but it is what it is.
Well, since you guys have
a lot to think about,
a lot of decisions to make,
um, I'm gonna head inside
and work on a proposal
for you all.
And I'll give you guys
some privacy to kinda discuss,
see what you guys
are thinking.
- Sounds good to me.
- Yeah, thank you.
- All right.
- Anna, thanks so much.
You're
one of a kind.
So I'm still not quite sure
about this being
our wedding place.
- Um, of course--
- Still?
After seeing this
beautiful place?
Well, I...
I like it. I still--
I still don't know. So...
I'm just concerned about
your family ruining
my special day,
our special day.
What if they say
something mean,
or they don't like something,
or they come
with their questions?
I mean, it's just
a lot of things
I'm trying to process.
I made a promise to Gino
when we were in Miami
that I was gonna try
to get along with his family.
But I don't know how easy
that's actually gonna be.
I don't see them welcoming
into their family at all.
I know that they don't like me
and I don't think
there is a way
I can be accepted by them.
How do you think
they feel if they
couldn't make it?
Put-- Put yourself
in their shoes.
I want this experience
to be beautiful
and I don't want anyone
to say anything that day
or make me feel bad.
I don't know. I don't--
They're not gonna make you
feel bad, they're only
gonna make you feel good.
How do you know that?
- How can you guarantee that?
- It's not gonna be
a bunch of questions
like the first time
you met 'em.
- But that's
the impression that I have.
- This is...
That's the only experience
- that I have had with them.
- We're going to celebrate
our wedding.
That's the only experience
that I have had with them.
And they're
asking for prenups, and...
looking at me
like a freakin' gold digger.
You should talk to them, like,
"Hey, you know what?
- Just stop asking...
- When...
...like, bombing Jasmine
with so many questions.
- She's going through a lot of.
- " - Baby.
You know?
You should be, "Hey,
take it easy with her."
You know?
I-I wanna get through a day
in which I don't cry
and I feel okay
and I... I'm...
No. It's okay.
Everything's gonna
be okay, babe.
Don't cry.
We're gonna work it out.
We're gonna figure out
a good wedding for us.
You know,
I know Jasmine
wishes her family...
was here.
You know,
and I know she misses them.
Um, but I want Jasmine
to feel loved.
I want her to feel...
that my family is her family.
This is super important.
I really
want them to get along.
It's not gonna be easy.
But it's, you know,
it's very important to me.
I asked him
to set up a call with his mom
because despite
all this secrecy,
all the back and forth,
they are going
to be my family.
It's like
how is our relationship
gonna work
if we just keep
arguing?
I'm sorry
for hurting your feelings
- over some
social media posting.
- It's not that hard.
I can't always keep
being unfair to myself.
You're either able to change
or you're not.
♪ They're expecting us
To fall down ♪
♪ And mess this up ♪
But, um...
Does it feel real?
♪ We can make this work ♪
Ashley.
Okay.
Yeah.
Since Manuel's
been missing Ecuador,
and I've had
such little contact
with this family so far,
I asked him to set up
a call with his mom
because she
can't there for her son
when he gets married. So...
And I wanna make sure
Manuel knows that I care
that his people aren't here.
And that I... I know.
There's a piece
of my heart missing too.
Mmm.
Yeah.
Mm-hmm.
Aww.
Ah.
It feels good to, like,
be included in this
conversation because Manuel,
in the past,
would have had this
conversation separately, or...
I don't know.
Gone to the bathroom
or something like that.
And so...
despite all of it,
all this secrecy...
all the back and forth,
I hope that...
this is the beginning of us
cultivating
a deeper relationship
on, like,
all spectrums, you know?
'Cause they are
going to be my family.
It's like
how is our relationship
gonna work
if we just keep
arguing?
I'm sorry
for hurting your feelings
over some
social media posting.
Okay.
I know that I've...
that I've...
been lacking in how
I'm responding to some things.
I know that.
I am really
trying to get better
and I'm really
trying to stay calm
and I'm really trying
not to-to only think
about myself.
I'm trying to think about...
about your point of view.
I've always tried
to think about it.
But I'm trying even harder.
I really am.
You know...
it's hard to see
you're trying...
- when it's... we keep
getting the same result.
- Like, a lash. Just...
As much
as I love you and
want to marry you,
I need to be happy too.
And I can't always
keep being unfair to myself
by ending these arguments.
Keep arguing
and then I always
have to end them
because you just
won't see my side.
Eventually, it's gonna
get to me
and I'm gonna
be a unhappy wife
and I don't want that.
So it's like,
yeah, I do want
to marry you
but I do need to-to realize
for myself whether or not
you are able to change.
You're either able to change
or you're not.
I'm-I'm trying to do that...
for us.
Well, do you reckon...
if you keep trying,
you can get to the
point where...
you just take construct...
criticism as what it is
and there's
never an argument
in the first place?
Or are you always gonna
take it as an attack
in an argument?
- I don't take
constructive criticism...
- No, no, no, no.
- That's you
not taking accountability.
- ...as an attack.
- I take... I take shade.
- You're not trying.
Just answer the quest...
- It's never shade.
It's never shade.
- I take shade.
Just take accountability
right now.
Please help me realize
that you can change.
'Cause this
is important for me.
Yes. Because I wouldn't
even be... you wouldn't...
Again, it's not an attack.
I'm asking you.
So are you
gonna take accountability
- moving forward? Okay.
- Yes.
If I wasn't,
I wouldn't be
trying to change.
Wouldn't be trying
to work on those things.
I finally see
that I'm
getting through to Rob
and he starts to be genuine.
Which that's
what I wanted all along.
Is just to see,
look at him
and see he's being
sincere and genuine
and he can care
that I-I'm upset.
So I'm in more
of a forgiving mood
and it's like, you know,
I feel like it ended
how I wanted it to start.
Which was us just
both being genuine,
saying I'm sorry.
I just wish it would
happen a bit sooner.
I do love you to death
or I would not
be doing all of I can.
To fix this relationship
or to make this relationship
what we both feel like
it can be.
Because I don't want you
to feel like I get angry.
I want you to feel
like you can talk to me.
We've been happy before,
okay, babe?
Yeah.
We can and will be again.
Okay?
Yeah. I mean,
I've always believed that.
It's just,
today I did have a doubt,
but I still believe we can.
So did I.
And I still believe
we can as well.
Okay, I forgive you.
I forgive you also.
I feel like Sophie
and I will have these
heated arguments
and then we somehow
find each other
at the end of them. And...
I really appreciate
that Sophie's able to...
move on
from these moments and...
I really try to myself
because I need that.
I need to know that my partner
isn't ready to give up
and that we can
work these things out.
A lot has happened
but I still
obviously love him.
I don't not love him
and I still want to marry him.
It does suck
that we have
all these issues going on.
Like, we had
the whole kids situation.
And then we had me
coming out as bi. And then...
Rob not getting along
with my mom. But...
you know...
Yeah. I'm hopeful too.
I'm sorry again
for snapping at you.
I'm sorry as well.
You always got
a bunch of lipstick on.
Yeah. I do.
I feel like
a frightened kid
about to do a play at school.
Just stage fright.
No matter how I feel inside,
I have to play it cool.
Were you worried
I wasn't gonna do it?
You, well, you didn't
really show me
at the first, like...
- you know...
- I'm hurt.
Yeah. But I'm glad that we're
finally here at the mosque
and have my family that can...
see you converting.
I'd really like
both my parents to be there
when I convert.
Even if they
don't agree with it.
It's a big moment
for me and her.
And her parents are there.
Why can't I have
my parents there?
Like... it's, you know...
it's, at least...
I hope that I can count
on them at least for this.
Huh?
Wudu is purifying
yourself before the prayer.
You wash your hands, feet,
mouth, face three times each.
And then you say the "Sahara?"
Think I'm saying it right.
Still new to it. Sorry.
It's just like
a whole little ceremony.
And go...
I'm worried
that he's unprepared,
because that's typically
of Sam.
Like, he's not prepared
about everything.
Even if I do wing it,
I pull off, all right?
I think that's your dad.
Yeah.
It'd be nice
if my mom was here,
but well,
kinda hurts,
but I'll take what I can get.
Kinda surprised,
but very happy,
my dad showing up.
He's not religious at all,
but he loves me enough
to be there and support me.
Thanks for coming.
I know what it's like
to go to something
and have none
of your family there.
My mom,
she's not coming.
Definitely makes me sad,
'cause she kinda gave me hopes
that she might actually come.
And having Citra's dad
and my parents there
would just been
the perfect moment,
but I don't think
I'm gonna get that today.
Hi, yo.
Hello.
I find all religions
interesting to some extent.
- Good to see you.
- Yes, me too.
I mean, I'm an atheist.
Um, it just makes
more sense to me
that the gods
were more unlikely
from other solar systems,
especially with the way
the pyramids are set.
But I was left alone a lot
during my marriage,
you know,
and my side of the family,
so I would never do that
to Sam.
I got it.
- You sure?
- Mmm-hmm.
Welcome, welcome.
Welcome, welcome, welcome.
In Sha Allah,
we have a happy event today.
So, uh, uh,
our brother who is, uh,
going to, uh, pronounce...
You know, uh,
he was preaching.
Uh, if you please come.
Uh...
Uh, it kinda feels
like everything's happening
too fast.
Sit down.
It would've been nice
to have a little bit of time
just to prepare myself.
We have brother today with us
who is going to pronounce
his Shahada.
We have to listen to him.
I feel like a frightened kid
about to do a play at school.
Just stage fright.
No matter how I feel inside,
I had to play it cool.
Feeling like my life's
really about to start.
Super nervous about living
up to the expectations.
It's all such a new shock,
so opposite to the way
I used to live.
I wanna know
what it's gonna take
to be loved and accepted
by you.
Gino needs to have my back
at any given moment
It's now or never.
You in bikinis
and on the beach, and...
This is not normal.
I'm about to get married.
Feeling like my life's
really about to start.
But, uh, super nervous.
My heart kinda dropped
for a second.
It felt like 1000 minutes
just waiting for his response.
Here we are.9
Our wedding is quickly
coming upon us,
and we've been so busy.
There's still
a lot of last minute details
we gotta work out
with the photographer,
this music and the food.
This is table for you.
Awesome.
It's a lot, a lot of,
lot of planning,
organizing, and...
Um, a lot of stress,
because we don't have a lot
of time to figure this out.
You know, it, it's stressful.
So, who's coming?
Dana's coming,
Michelle and Amanda.
And also, my nephew Anthony.
And what about Lori
and, um, Tony?
Uh,
they messaged me
that they're not gonna be able
to make it.
Jasmine has mentioned to me
that she was hurt
by some of the things
that she heard from some
of the family members
at our first dinner meeting.
Our wedding is right
around the corner,
and it's really important
Jasmine puts an effort
in with my family tonight,
and that she's just open
to talk to them
and try to work things out.
Um, that's really
important to me,
and I hope she, you know,
can hash out the things
that she's concerned with
with my family
and we can have our,
you know, a super wedding,
where everyone's comfortable.
- Hi.
- Hi.
- Hi.
- Hey.
Hey.
- Hey.
- Hello.
Hey.
What's going on?
I'm willing to give
Gino's family another chance.
Not because of them,
but because of Gino
and how much I love him
and there is anything
I couldn't do to make him
happy.
Just because of that.
But Gino needs to have my back
at any given moment
with no hesitation.
It's now or never.
So, you guys are,
you're getting ready?
Are you guys nervous?
Of course.
Yeah, it's,
it's been, like, uh...
I don't know,
it's hard to explain.
Uh, I've been happy, you know,
because this is something
that I prayed for in the past
and it's happening right now.
Um, I was very nervous,
uh, to come here.
And I was telling Gino
that I don't want to feel
this nervous and this anxious
every time we are having
a family gathering.
I understand you having,
you know, like,
this, this fear of...
But I can tell you
guys that
that that's not the case.
That, that's not the case.
I wanna know what,
what it's gonna take
to be loved and accepted
by you.
I really...
I really need you guys.
Like, I need...
I need you.
I know.
I miss my family
as you have no idea.
I also wanna open my heart
and think, like...
But I, I have
an American family now.
It's very important for me
to feel like I belong
and that I'm welcome.
Because I,
I'm not having it easy.
This is one
of the hardest things
that I have done in my life.
What we're doing right now
is the, probably the start.
- Mmm-hmm.
- And I'm really
glad that,
that you are straightforward
with your feelings.
And, you know,
the only thing that
I can say is, like,
everyone had their concerns.
It's like, "She's beautiful.
Why can't a woman like that
find a man in Panama?
Why she gotta come all the way
here to Michigan...
...and steal our Gino away?"
Because look at him.
I mean, he's a babe.
And this is, like,
like, this is not normal.
You know, we didn't know you,
we saw some pictures
of you in bikinis
and on the beach, and...
You know,
so we really just got
to know you,
you know, like,
I just got to know you too.
And you're smart and funny
and you know I love you.
I know that you guys
are super important for Gino.
And I would love to,
to have a family,
to see you as my family too,
you know?
I'm here by myself.
I only have Gino.
And I'm sorry, baby.
In front of your family,
I'm sorry for being so bitchy
to you and for being rude.
I am so sorry.
You, you have given me
nothing but love and support.
Thank you.
You know,
I wasn't really open minded
to everything
when you first got here,
'cause I didn't want you
to get here
and then just turn around
and leave again
and break his heart, you know?
That's just another thing
that I was worried about
for him.
'Cause, like,
I see the twinkle in his eye
every time he looks at you,
you know how much he,
he really loves you,
you know?
And you're coming
to my awkward uncle, you know?
We all know he's awkward
at some times.
So, but, I mean...
He's not awkward,
he's super awkward.
Yeah,
super awkward.
And, you know,
it just all didn't make sense.
But the more we seen
you guys together,
I mean, it just started
to click for us.
When I first met Jasmine,
I was really skeptical on,
you know,
the whole deal with her
coming over here and,
and marrying my uncle.
You know,
he went through something
like this in the past,
and, you know,
I just kinda wanted to be
that kinda shield for him.
After really getting
to know her
and really vetting her and,
and to, seeing the emotions
that are coming from her,
yes, you could really tell
that she wants to do the best
for my uncle, so.
You know, she really does,
you know, love with her heart.
I, I really appreciate that
about her.
And so, I just wanna toast
to Jasmine and Gino
and just welcoming Jasmine
into the family.
Whoo!
- Salud,
yes, in Spanish.
- Saluti.
Saluti in Italiano.
Back to the whole
family thing, I mean,
- you're stuck with us now.
- I... Yeah.
It's such a relief for me
to hear from Gino's family,
that they welcome me
into the family,
because I love Gino.
And I know that the family
is very important for him
as much as it is for me
and I really don't wanna have
any inconvenient
or problem with my husband
in the future
because of family issues.
See, I told you
we had nothing to worry about.
My family loves you
and my family is your family.
Yes.
I'm about to convert
before I get married.
Feelin' like my life's
really about to start.
But, uh, super nervous
about living up to
the expectations
and just...
It's all such a new shock
and, like,
so opposite to the way
I used to live.
Say...
He doing it really good,
because I teach him before
to say the Shahada.
So, he, he's doing really good
and I'm surprised.
Mmm-hmm.
It is a big thing for me
that he finally
became a Muslim,
and I'm really proud of him.
It's not easy for someone
to convert to other religion.
Yeah, honestly, if you go in
trying to fake it,
you're not gonna make it.
It's not gonna work.
I was definitely a bit of
a up in the past
but since being with her,
she really
straightened me out.
Yeah, if you up
any more,
you have to answer me.
Okay.
Yeah.
She's coming.
Okay.
So, when the Imam asked
Herman if he still agrees
to the blessing
of my marriage, like, my heart
kind of dropped for a second.
It felt like thousand minutes
just waiting for his response.
And then that big wave
of relief
when he gave his blessing.
I just fully felt accepted by
Citra's dad at that moment.
Yes.
Okay. You will look at him
and tell him...
Meaning "I marry myself
to you."
Brother Sam, and you say
what means "I have accepted."
Thank you.
Uh, it's great.
I know that he loves Citra.
And he seems to be happy,
and that's all
a parent can want.
Welcome, welcome, welcome.
We did it. We're married now.
Like, I've been waiting
three years for this.
I can't wait.
The day's finally here,
- and, like, we're through it.
- Mmm-hmm.
It's what
I've been waiting for
all my life, it feels like.
It happened so fast.
Like, you blink your eyes
and then that's it.
We're married.
It just feel unreal.
I feel like we're ready
to get off in the car
with the tin cans behind us.
It's just crazy.
We did it. We got married.
- Congratulations.
- Thank you.
Thank you, congratulations.
- Thank you.
- Thanks.
- Good luck.
- Thank you. I'll need it.
- Yeah, thank you.
- Thank you.
Oh, God, okay.
I did not take into account
hurricane season
when I chose the wedding date.
Oh, my God.
The word "storm"
is making me hyperventilate,
because I don't have a plan B.
♪ I like the rendezvous ♪
♪ Ain't no better girl
that's me plus you ♪
I had an amazing bachelorette.
- Yeah.
- It turned out perfectly.
- I wanna do it again with you.
- Oh.
Yeah!
♪ Looks like a good time ♪
♪ I came to party
Right now I'm on the floor ♪
Oh, my God.
Armando messaged me.
Oh, my God. Okay, okay.
Armando is
our wedding planner/officiant
and he is the one taking care
of business for the big day.
Okay, here we go.
Ashley?
Looking at the climate, um,
it looks like we're gonna have
tropical storms.
Oh, God, okay. My head.
You have to understand
when you're on the beach,
you're possibly putting
your people
in a really serious situation.
Oh, my God.
Hearing the word "storm"
is making me hyperventilate.
Like, I, it...
I'm not a Floridian, okay?
I did not take into account
hurricane season
when I chose the wedding date.
At all.
Okay.
See? I'm perfect.
This is why I'm here.
Yeah.
I'm not really sure
how we got to this place.
This is my dream wedding,
and I can't even think of
bad weather ruining it.
Okay.
I'm freaking out.
Okay.
What happens if it rains,
or even worse, if there's
a hurricane? I'm gonna die.
I can't stop
thinking about it.
I have a pit
in my stomach right now.
- About what?
- The rain.
Well...
There's some things
that you can't control.
- Like the weather.
- Like the weather.
Yeah. I think giving it, like,
attention and...
- I'm trying to not.
- ...speaking, like,
it's not helping.
And we've got this full moon
hitting right on day 89.
All of this is happening
in divine timing.
I chose the date,
but the rest was being handled
by my wedding planner.
So I don't have a plan B.
- Gonna be fine.
- Mmm-hmm.
Postponing the wedding
is definitely not an option.
It's a destination wedding.
People have flights.
And tomorrow also is, like,
the cut-off day.
The K-1 visa is conditional.
You get married
within 90 days.
After those 90 days,
if you don't get married,
they get the boot.
It's just, like,
starting to hit.
- Yeah.
- Like, we have 24 hours.
Yeah.
I have been waiting
to marry him for so long.
It's happening. We're getting
married on the beach.
That's the vision.
That's what's happening.
That's what we're doing
at 5:30 p.m.
There is no other option.
Like, what would happen
if that dream is crushed?
My world
will implode on itself.
Everything. Tomorrow.
Two-plus years.
We have worked so hard.
Like, I don't think
I've worked harder
for anything in my life.
Mmm.
I really don't.
This wedding could be ruined
if it gets rained on.
And of course
I'm frustrated at this idea
of not just rain, but, like,
hurricane. We're not talking
about a light sprinkle.
Everything that we've worked
for to get to this point,
it could all just go to waste
and quite literally
be washed away.
Whatever happens,
whether it rains or not...
- Yeah.
- ...you know,
you're gonna be okay.
Like, you do hard things
all the time. I see you do it.
Yeah.
I love Anali
so much.
I don't want
some stripper
breaking us apart
after we've already
been through so many things.
I didn't spend
the last two-and-a-half years
building this relationship
with Anali,
spending all this money
getting her here,
doing all this wedding stuff,
planning,
all for her
to pack her suitcase,
go get her passport
and go home.
That's just not an option.
Um... it's just not an option.
Next time
on 90 Day Fiancé...
- Boob.
- Ah!
Now it's all
kicking in,
the fact we're about
to be married.
But my mom and Rob
haven't really, you know,
made up or spoken
since the whole big fight.
I've walked in
and literally no conversation.
You've just gone
and sat on the bed.
I just talked to you.
You know I don't need to be
here. I can go to a hotel.
- You're acting like...
- Mom, Mom, it's fine.
I don't need them
to be best friends,
but I do need them
to at least get along.
All right.
The ceremony
is about to begin.
Kinda nervous right now.
This wedding
is incomplete because
my other half,
my family, is not here.
To marry, you know,
outside your country,
not having
your family or anything...
It's very sad.
After the priest says, like,
"Do you take this man,
do you take this woman
as your wife, husband?"
we finally have
our first, like, kiss-kiss.
I don't have
the slightest clue
how I'm gonna find someone
in an hour to marry us.
Feel like we're right at
the finish line,
and then bam, brick wall,
like, can't get married today.
I'm just so sick of
running into problems.
I'm gonna miss
our time together.
There's still things
that we need to work on,
but I'm very hopeful
for our future.
- Have you heard from Anali?
- No.
She's not here.
I'm ready, everyone in
the audience is ready,
and my bride
is still not here.
Okay, man?
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