previously
on "90 day fiancé"...
so, you're not going to tell
your family about the boys?
no.
anna: we're coming to the end
of the 90 days,
and we're about
to call it off.
i want marriage.
i don't care.
we'll find another unit
for you guys when you're ready.
if she don't get what she wants,
she pouts like a little baby.
so do you love me, or do you
just love the apartment?
hi.
finally.
what are you excited for?
to see?
okay, okay.
ooh.
carolyn: prenuptial agreements
have to be fair.
it can't just write juliana
out of everything.
when do you plan
to have the wedding?
within the 90 days.
here in america?
he better get that visa.
would you marry him
in nigeria?
what?
i've kind of got, like, a knot
in my stomach right now.
i know it's hard for him to be
in this country for me
and i'm leaving for 30 days.
huh?
mike: i'm in ukraine to see
and visit natalie,
but this whole process
of waiting for this visa...
it seems like our differences
are really coming out.
it's hard right now.
it's fine.
that's why
you're frustrated,
because you want me to stop
eating meat and go to church?
yes, baby. they will choose.
they will choose.
natalie: confusion.
it's not confusing.
i'm not laughing
or making fun of you.
mike: the 90 days has not
even started.
and now we're talking
about kids,
we're talking about religion.
and me telling natalie, like,
i don't believe in god
and, you know, her pressuring
about beliefs in gods
and raising kids
and this and that,
but i don't think
it's a problem.
we're all individual people.
you know what i mean?
it's not a bad thing, you know?
do you feel like i'm not trying
to accept you for who you are?
i don't
believe in god.
i'm interested in
many other things.
you're picking
two things on me,
and i feel like you're trying to
shove religion down my throat.
i don't believe in god.
it's okay for me
not to believe in god.
now you're saying
it's not okay for me
not to believe in god
because of our child,
because we're going
to have a kid
and you feel like
he's going to be confused
because i don't believe
and you believe.
now,
can i ask you a question?
if we both believe,
and there's all kinds of people
that he's going to school with,
and all kinds of people around,
because there's four other
billion people in the world,
and they don't
believe in god,
and they tell them there's
no god and this and that,
don't you think he's already
going to be confused?
and he's going to
come home ‐‐
and you think he's going to
come home and ask us,
"they say god is fake."
now, don't you think
that he's going to
have the choice
to think about it,
whether he believes
in it or not?
they're kids.
we all make a choice.
why can't i
make my choice?
why can't you
respect that?
i'm trying to ‐‐ i went to
church with you yesterday.
i'm trying to support you,
and you're being mad at me
because i say that
i don't believe in god?
i can't stand here and tell you
i believe in god,
and that does not make me
a bad person.
i'm just frustrated with natalie
and everything she's throwing
at me right now.
it's too much.
i just need
some self‐reflection time.
i'm just unsure about where i am
in life right now, you know?
alright,
let's go, guys.
we're exploring the idea
of a prenuptial agreement.
so i thought it would be best
to go to a mediator,
but the meeting
caused some tension.
juliana, since
she's been here,
she's lost a lot
of her independence,
and the whole discussion
only really reminded her
that at this moment,
she's a little bit
in the corner.
she hides a lot of
her real feelings
for the sake of max and cece,
but i know her well enough
that this is a very...
it's very difficult
for her.
you look like
a high‐school student.
instructor: better? yeah?
alright.
i feel like
i'm about to skydive.
i don't think juliana's ever
rock climbed before
because i feel like this is
kind of like an american thing.
ooh, that looks cool.
i kind of think
that she might've ‐‐
she told me she didn't.
she did?
yeah.
okay.
oh, cool.
and it just, like, lowers you
down like you're mary poppins.
all right, max, go for it.
let me see you.
wow. look at max.
max is so strong.
but you see his arms,
they're like ‐‐
he is probably stronger
than i am.
i know i do.
okay.
okay.
michael: when we started seeing
each other, some of my friends,
some of my family
were in my ear saying,
"oh, just another girl
that's bad intentions.
going to treat you bad."
and didn't even feel right,
but for some reason,
i felt so much pressure
just to break up with her.
and i said, "this is it.
we're done."
i think she felt helpless,
and that's created
some lingering issues.
i hate talking about
that
i mean, it's,
i don't want to ‐‐
you're not being fair
on yourself.
you got upset
because her line of questioning
has made you feel helpless
and useless.
as if you're the victim
of something
that hasn't even
happened yet.
it has nothing to do with your
independence or your dependence.
this has to do
with marriage.
it's a whole different thing
than the stupid prenup thing.
but it has nothing to do
with prenuptial agreements.
no, that's
a totally different thing.
what you are upset about
was completely different
than what
the conversation was about.
yeah, sweetie?
of course you can.
i made it all the way
at the top of that one twice.
the purple one?
uh‐huh. twice.
twice?
mm‐hmm.
wow.
why don't you trust that
i wouldn't take care of you?
we're going down
this road ‐‐
it became what you call
a self‐fulfilling prophecy.
we're not doing it.
no prenup.
it doesn't make sense.
it's stupid.
no matter what happens,
you're going to be okay.
kids will be fine.
this is not why
we're getting married,
as a business transaction
or some stupid thing like this.
so whatever.
there we are.
michael:
we are together in this.
we're both thinking
about each other.
so i thought about it
and decided
it's not something we need.
we don't need
a prenuptial agreement.
you know, i just want
to hope for the best.
i'm confident
it will work out.
and if for some reason
there's problems
or it doesn't, it's something
we're going to have to address.
i'm done.
i've had enough for now.
cece:
oh, you're so close, matt.
you guys are doing really well
with this. i'm impressed.
angela: london!
hurry, hurry.
memaw needs you.
i'm having anxieties
about michael.
wake your butt up.
i'm nervous.
you're supposed
to be comforting me.
where's the mirror at?
you help me put makeup on
so when he calls i'll at least
look halfway decent?
go ask grandma.
will you do that for me?
angela:
i just got home from work,
and i'm waiting on
a phone call from michael
to tell me about the interview
for the k‐1 visa.
if michael gets approved
on this visa interview,
he will be on a plane
in one week
coming home to his baby.
i have been waiting two years
for this phone call
with michael.
oh, god!
yeah.
nope. oh, my god.
okay.
come here, london.
i'm scared to death.
what, baby?
what?
angela: what, baby?
what?
what does that mean?
are you kidding me?
you got denied?
why?
what the hell, michael?
oh, my god.
i'm not believing this.
i'm in shock.
i am sitting here
not believing this
i feel like somebody hit me
in my damn belly,
like knocked the breath
out of me.
i really couldn't
comprehend it.
michael, baby.
look at me, michael.
you're going to ‐‐
baby.
michael.
look, michael.
ohh.
i've never seen michael cry,
and seeing him cry like that,
it's ‐‐
it touches my heart.
it's painful.
michael,
why are you upset?
'cause you think
i might leave you?
look, they're not going to stop
us from being together.
no is.
you got that?
i'm going to
figure this out.
don't worry.
i don't know what to say.
i'm just disgusted.
you can bet your a*s
i'm going to find a loophole
because i don't
understand this.
and i'm going to come get
to the bottom of it, michael.
i just can't comprehend
why they said no.
one thing about me,
i'm not going to sit down
for this
you can believe that,
because i do pay taxes,
and i pay a lot.
as a single
freaking memaw.
i feel like i been cheated.
i meet the criteria of the pay,
the allowance yearly
to take care of him.
i meet the criteria
of my background.
i've been to nigeria twice.
why would they want
more evidence?
there's no more to give,
you know?
what do you want?
a porno with ‐‐
there's nothing to give.
it's not right.
i'll do what it takes
to get michael over here
so we can become a family.
look at me.
we'll figure it out.
i'm going straight
to the lawyer.
i love you.
do you love me, michael?
so we'll get
through this.
i'm a fighter.
i'm not giving up.
cheer up.
we'll figure it out together.
all right.
i love you.
bye.
♪♪ cake, cake, cake ♪♪
♪♪ cake, cake, cake ♪♪
♪♪ cake, cake, cake ♪♪
robert: anny's still upset
that we can't move.
i would love to find
a bigger place,
but i renewed my lease,
and i can't break out of it.
no, anny. wait.
wait. we need ‐‐
robert:
shh. no snitching.
but today's anny's birthday.
i want anny
to feel appreciated.
so me and bryson, we decide
to get her a cake.
we put the candles on.
it's easy to deal with anny,
the only thing i do is try
to butter her up a little bit.
and she falls for it.
♪♪ happy birthday to you ♪♪
♪♪ happy birthday to anny ♪♪
♪♪ happy birthday to you ♪♪
yay!
whoa!
okay, everyone ‐‐
ah!
you like that?
ooh!
tastes good?
so, anny, what you want
to do tonight?
i don't know
how to dance bachata.
one, two, three.
one, two, three.
yeah?
one, two, three.
one, two, three.
one, two, three.
one, two, three.
bryson, you ‐‐
one, two, three.
i know.
you heard it go pop!
let's have a toast first.
whee!
a toast is like this.
say happy birthday
to anny.
happy birthday to anny.
wish you many more.
many, many more.
god bless you.
god bless you.
we love you.
we love you.
and we all are one.
all are ‐‐
one.
cheers.
cheers.
cheers.
now you got something to say?
you are happy?
yeah. cheers.
cheers, what?
for what?
family.
family?
wow.
aww. give me a kiss.
wow.
that was a real wet one.
okay, jay just texted me.
he said he on his way.
bryson's babysitter
for tonight.
i'm a little tired.
i've been up since 5:00 a. m.
but it's anny's birthday.
so i'm going to go out
with her, have some fun.
and hopefully,
i just don't fall asleep.
yeah, we can go out.
downtown orlando
to a bar.
what?
for what?
i'm 41.
i have a son,
and i'm just trying to chill,
have a family,
that's it.
i'm really not into strip clubs.
i'm done.
i'm over it, and i just want
to chill for the night.
just me and my lady.
why you want to go
to a strip club?
see, you should be happy
that i'm focusing on you.
that part of my past
is done and over with.
i'm not boring.
all right. we could go
for a little while.
yeah, great.
so when did tania ‐‐
when have you guys talked last?
ohh.
♪♪ la‐la‐la, la ♪♪
♪♪ la‐la‐la, la ♪♪
♪♪ la‐la‐la, la ♪♪
♪♪ la‐la‐la, la ♪♪
something, something.
♪♪ it's a glorious morning
for me ♪♪
tania: i've been in costa rica
for a couple weeks now.
it's absolutely beautiful.
i'm learning herbal remedies
and connecting more
with mother nature,
learning from afro‐caribbean
and indigenous people
from the costa rica area.
i want to take what i learn
and be able to share it
with others who need it.
pretty much when
i'm not in class,
i'm at the beach every day
really taking in
all this nature around me.
it's been a dream.
it's been a dream come true.
i am also having fun
and partying and learning salsa.
let go of my hand,
go back.
it's such a great time.
i literally live five minutes
from the beach,
like, it's paradise
and i love it.
now you go home and you say
"i learned to dance salsa
with a black guy
in costa rica."
a good‐looking black guy
in costa rica.
yeah, yeah.
it's been kind of tough
getting hold of tania
while she's been
over in costa rica.
ah, that really sucks.
hey, syng,
that's my cake.
hey, hello.
that's my tiramisu.
i thought i need to just
steal a piece.
well, might as well
serve two pieces.
oh, do you want a piece?
okay.
yeah, it's my tiramisu.
it's the best cake
ever made.
and things are going okay.
it's not ‐‐
yeah, it's not the best.
what have you
been up to?
do you want to
go relax outside or...?
i will, but i got to
put this away first.
missy:
he's missing her a lot.
he keeps saying it to me
how much he misses her.
but syngin is not
my responsibility
while she's not here.
syngin is a grown man.
obviously i'm a mother‐in‐law,
future mother‐in‐law,
so i care for both,
so i will just encourage him,
keep him occupied
to get my stuff done.
such a lovely day.
it is.
syng,
we're going to have one problem.
and i love you and all,
but if i'm not here,
don't touch my jack daniel's
unless you go to a packy
and buy some jack daniel's
and bring me back jack daniel's.
you had a lot of it
with your coffee.
don't assume, don't take it
upon yourself, don't.
okay. yeah, duly noted there,
yeah.
so,
how are you feeling?
i've been
missing her a lot.
it's been...
it's been
to be honest.
you know, i'm out here,
i don't really have any friends
or anything.
it's just basically me.
how do you feel
that she booked that ticket
knowing you were coming?
not really anything
against that, you know.
that's something she needs to do
to improve her life.
but i don't know.
but it's only for
the time being.
i understand that.
but it's just how i'm feeling.
right. and it's not like
when she gets here
everything's cool, you know?
we've got literally five weeks
left until my visa runs out.
definitely understand,
he comes here,
and then she took off,
but i love
that he lets her grow.
i'm happy with
who she's chosen so far
and i have no complaints
as is so far
until he gives me something
to complain about.
kind of like don't touch
my whiskey without asking.
so when did tania call?
when have you guys talked last?
we don't really talk much.
oh.
yeah.
yeah.
even at times
when i talk to her,
it's kind of like
she's also talking
to all of her friends
in the background.
i kind of try
and understand
where she is
and what she's doing.
yeah.
i just hope she's not, like,
maybe getting cold feet on me
or something.
you have your little arguments.
make‐up sex is great.
yay.
yeah.
you know what i mean?
she won't dump you.
oh.
how'd it go?
okay.
mursel, so...
mursel.
hm?
so no marriage,
mursel?
so, what now?
anna:
i'm feeling pretty devastated.
this isn't what i planned for.
we love each other, and we've
invested all this time and money
and one ‐‐ one word
from his family, and it's done.
are you just not planning
on working?
that's going to be really nice
and comfortable for her,
but that's putting
twice the burden on blake.
have you been
with a woman before?
it's been a few days
since jasmin's move to america,
and i was really hoping that she
would fit into my life in l. a.
but with her meeting my friends,
it didn't kind of
go as expected.
what are you excited for?
to see or do?
jasmin,
do you drink?
okay.
ooh.
i really want jasmin to feel
at home here in l. a.,
so i'm taking her on a double
date with everett and rita.
hopefully tonight, jasmin will
start to feel more comfortable
and she'll start to open up.
i'm excited for this
whole dinner thing.
yeah.
everett is
my best friend.
known him
since middle school.
that's like my brother
right there.
and everett and rita
have been together for a while.
they're both very,
very important to me.
i just want you to get
along with rita
and get along
with everett.
we all got to get along,
you know?
so, and i want to do,
like, more double dates...
...and more, like, group things
that we can do.
i'm not really, like,
trying to make
close friends here
in united states.
i have my sister,
and that's, like,
the most important thing for me.
‐yo, yo.
‐yo.
guys.
finally,
what took you so long?
just that l. a. traffic.
just the usual lags.
yeah.
yeah, you guys want to go up
there and order?
do you know
what you want?
man.
how are you adjusting?
yeah? you like it here?
how was the moving in?
are you staying by yourself
when he's at work, or...?
just by yourself?
oh, okay.
the most important thing
i wanted to do
was make jasmin
feel welcome,
but the reciprocation that
i'm getting creates this wall
where you don't
really know
where her motives
are coming from.
if she's going to stay
like that,
then that's definitely
going to be an issue.
we should all honestly get to
know each other as a group
because if we're all going to be
around each other and, you know?
oh, thank you. sweet.
thank you so much.
has blake told you
about the show?
it's going to be a party.
yeah.
we're going to do a song
for sure.
yeah, exactly.
it's a pretty big deal.
he's on the stage with everett.
it's a lot of fun.
‐you want to come?
‐yeah.
okay.
i'm vice president of
saprata records,
and everett is the first artist
that we signed.
we've been making music together
for about six years now.
our label is having
a show coming up,
so it's kind of a big deal.
i was just telling rita
the other day
that it's kind of
still, like, hitting me
that you guys
are getting married.
just want to know, like, how
you're going to be able to
balance out marriage
and your career.
you guys have already
talked about kids?
it's like,
i can't have them now.
in the future,
like a few years?
yeah, it definitely has to be
more than five years.
that's a while.
not really anytime soon.
i'm still taking care of myself.
from now.
she don't know what she likes.
i say like five or six.
nah, i didn't say
no damn eight.
that means
i'm going to be almost 40.
are you just not planning
on working until then?
everett: i just think
within those five years,
something needs
to happen with her
and bringing some type
of support in.
other than
her emotional support,
that's not going to alleviate
any of the strain and stress
that a relationship
has to bring to the table.
i don't know. i just ‐‐
he knows you and i don't,
i just really hope
that your words are trumped
by your actions in the sense of
showing that you can actually,
"i got him, i got this.
this is what i want to do."
okay.
you think
that, like, it's working?
oh, yeah,
between me and her?
that's, like, what i need.
i've had a lot of sames
before.
it's like the whole ‐‐
i'm not saying your relationship
is fake, it's just like,
i haven't wrapped my head
around it yet.
blake is
a hopeless romantic.
he's given so much of himself
to his relationships
and, you know, the women
that he's been with,
and he's gotten hurt
because of it
and this is a really,
really big move
and he can really get caught up
in this worse than ever before,
if he's not smart
about it.
he's taking on
a huge responsibility.
i just hope it's not something
where it becomes
a judgmental thing where, like,
blake and his friends drink,
and "i don't want to be
around it"
and then it's like
we don't get to see you
and then, like,
we lose you,
'cause, like, that's my biggest
thing, you're a brother to me.
i don't know what i would do
if it had to come down to,
you know, me having to decide
between my friends and jasmin.
like, i really wouldn't know
at this time and moment.
oh, the sun.
oh, yeah. it's setting.
it's that golden hour.
better go get your pictures now.
wow.
everett: oh, my goodness.
chilling.
are we done here?
yep.
robert: seeing anny react
like that in this strip club
threw some major
red flags to me.
i don't know if anny's
into girls, i don't know.
mike: i'm not trying to run away
from natalie,
i got nowhere to run out here.
i'm just mad and frustrated,
that's all it comes down to.
i need to step away.
i need some time to myself,
come out and have a beer.
i'm not doing
anything bad, you know?
i'm just
i need some time to reflect
on my own self.
i don't know.
my relationship with natalie
is just ‐‐ it's on the fence.
i don't know
why she, like, does this to me,
like, comes at me and we ain't
even got the visa yet.
why cause this much stress?
i mean,
it's communication, really.
i have changed my life
all around.
i made some really
big sacrifices,
really big decisions,
but i just don't feel
that support back sometimes,
and it's just ‐‐
that's the frustrating part.
we're only spending
weeks together.
it's extremely difficult.
it's a lot, dude.
i mean, if i'm getting this now,
before you know it it's going
to be 20 years down the road
and you're just
going to be like,
"holy
what the happened?"
robert: all right, let's go.
chop chop.
goodnight, everybody.
see y'all later.
wait.
anny and i are heading out to
the strip club for her birthday.
come on, hurry up.
i'm pretty much a homebody
being a single dad,
so i don't need to go
to clubs all the time,
but anny insists
on going to a strip club.
i do. you guys ready?
after all, it's her birthday,
not mine,
and i want to
make her happy.
man: all right, all right, party
people, we are rocking in here!
everybody give it up.
show a lot of love.
let's get it!
♪♪ haters be illin' when they see
me killin' on the floor ♪♪
♪♪ looks like i'm missing
competition ♪♪
oh, my god.
♪♪ i know you're looking at me ♪♪
♪♪ i know you wanting more ♪♪
♪♪ well, i'm bad, baby,
to the core ♪♪
man: one more performance
on the main stage.
i really didn't enjoy myself.
i tried, but i couldn't.
anny was having
more fun than me,
which is really odd.
i'm looking at anny
in a different light
because she got a lap dance,
smacking things and all of that.
that tells me anny got a little
bit of freak to her side
that she's not telling me.
i think we should wrap it up.
i got to get home.
all right.
seeing anny react like that
in the strip club
through some major
red flags to me.
i don't know if anny's
into girls
or if she just wanted
to just hang out.
i don't know.
were you a stripper
in your country?
i'm just asking you that
because you're infatuated
with the strip club,
that's all.
yeah, i'm done.
i can't talk too long.
i'm getting ready, i'm heading
out with the girls tonight.
as usual.
as usual.
can you sound a little happier
that i'm going out?
i'm about to have a fun time
with my friends.
oh, my i'm so happy.
i'm so excited!
are you ladies ready
for tonight?
definitely.
i hope it's a little bit busier
than last time we went there.
i've been here in costa rica
for about three weeks now,
and i have been meeting so many
amazing women on this trip.
and especially the ones
that i'm rooming with,
they're are a lot of fun
and we head out
sometimes after class
and hit the town.
i felt like i didn't see that
many cute guys there last time.
‐it was dark.
‐it was dark.
and people were sweaty.
i did tell the salsa
instructor though.
he's cute, tyrone.
i told him, i was like,
"oh, my girls and i, we're
going out dancing tonight,"
so i think
he might even be there.
do you tell syngin
if you're talking to someone?
if y'all dance together, do you
share that stuff with him?
he knows i like to go out.
he knows i like to dance.
i don't think i've, like ‐‐
i don't know
if i would actually go,
"oh, i danced with this guy
and then i danced
with this other guy."
so y'all don't have
boundaries
or rules or anything?
you just ‐‐
i mean, we're in
a monogamous relationship,
so that's our boundary.
so he wouldn't get jealous?
come here, come here,
come here.
so he used to really
get jealous.
that's the one thing
i'm working on.
and i'm the first, serious,
actual real relationship
he's, like, ever been in,
and especially he comes
from such a...
i don't want to talk
about his culture.
he comes from
such a different culture.
i mean, he is white.
white, yeah.
but white in south africa
is, like, a different white,
the afrikaans culture.
amina: why are you
the first brown girl
that syngin
has ever dated?
indigo:
yeah, what's that about?
if he grew up in africa?
it's so segregated.
he was born during apartheid,
so he didn't even go to school
with brown
and black kids growing up
when he was younger and stuff.
that's crazy,
that's crazy.
yeah.
indigo: we're all trying
to unlearn tendencies
that are a product
of our environments.
and that's a process.
it's not tania's job to ‐‐
teach him everything.
yeah.
oh, yeah.
that's syngin.
all right, i'll be right back.
go talk to him a little bit.
thainna: uh‐oh.
have y'all noticed
that every time
they're on the phone,
they argue?
amina: yeah.
it happens.
no, they argue every single day
about tiny
hi, babe!
yeah. i'm heading out tonight
with the girls.
what have you been doing?
yeah.
take advantage of the time
while i'm not there.
like, you should
start doing research
into the woodworking shops.
tania:
syngin can't work for about
another eight months in america,
but he wants to
get into woodworking.
and there's a workshop
that he can do,
but he doesn't want me spending
the money for him to do it.
but i'm like, "if it's going to
make us money in the future,
i'd rather spend the money now,
so you don't have to waste time
when you do have
your work permit,
you can just jump in, doing the
work and making money then."
you've literally never changed
a baby's diaper.
yeah, you should probably
practice that some.
yeah.
i can't talk too long though.
i'm getting ready.
i'm heading out
with the girls tonight.
as usual.
what?
i said, as usual.
um...
i'm making you feel weird?
it's just like the "per usual,"
like those comments,
just usually aren't needed,
or "as usual," whatever.
but it is.
that's just straight
on hitting the
nail on the head.
it's not the beating
around the bush,
it's just honesty,
just that's how it is.
we haven't been
talking much,
i've heard little from you.
every time we talk,
you're busy with 10
other people in the background.
it's me just being
straight‐up honest.
i don't know,
just the "per usual" comment
just wasn't needed.
it's the norm.
it's the norm, you knew
i was going to be out here,
i wouldn't be talking
to you as much.
it's just, like ‐‐
can you sound a little happier
that i'm going out,
i'm about to have a fun time
with my friends out here?
oh, my god.
i'm so happy.
i'm so excited,
you have an awesome time,
i'm so happy for you.
babe, babe, babe.
it could have been like,
"i know it's one
of your last weekends
and i really
hope you enjoy" ‐‐
like a little bit more pep
in your step, babe, that's it.
i'm not asking you
to be so happy
and just talk to me like this
and be like, "yay."
like, a little bit more pep
in your step, babe, that's it.
i'm not asking you
to be so happy
and just talk to me like this
and be like, "yay."
i'm going to go get ready.
i'm heading out tonight, okay?
i will do my best, i'll try
my best, but no promises.
like, let me know you're safe
and you're good
and that's all i ask.
i don't want to argue about it,
i don't want to argue about it.
you know when i'm out,
i'm drinking,
i'm having a good time,
phone is the last thing
i'm worried about.
that's a bull excuse.
oh, i don't know.
i may ‐‐ i may or may not.
i don't even want
to argue about it.
all right, i got to go.
tania: it just upset me
because it's just like,
"yeah, just let me breathe
and have fun and just be out."
like, i'll be okay,
i traveled plenty of times,
way more than he ever has.
i'm way more street smart
than he is.
so i need him not to get
so nervous
and worked up
and call me so much.
and just learn to breathe
a little bit through that,
because i will call.
i need a drink.
amina: what's the matter?
ugh. i'm like,
"babe, i got to go,
i'm getting ready
with the girls,
like i can't talk really."
and he's like, "yeah, as usual."
i'm like "damn."
yeah, exactly.
literally doesn't
have to be two extremes.
y'all don't have to talk
every day.
yeah,
that's the thing about ‐‐
oh, we're very different.
but every day, you'll find
something to argue about.
it's becoming habitual,
like habitual arguing.
right?
and sometimes you just have
to accept
that that's the way he is,
and just hang up the phone.
yup.
because it goes from there
and you're like,
"you always do this
and you shouldn't do that
and you should know..."
and it's like,
he's not your kid.
yeah.
you're your own person.
so it's like, yeah,
your partner's
there to help you,
to help you guide you
in any way,
but it's also not, like,
their responsibility
to help you grow as a man,
like, that's on you.
exactly.
you have to do your own healing
and your own work.
you can help each other
along the way,
but you cannot raise anybody
that's not your child.
yes.
i mean, i think
in order for it
to be a healthy relationship,
partnership,
they do need to work
with these days
because if they're not
both willing to give,
nothing good is going
to come from it, i think.
i'm ready to put
that phone call behind
and i just really want
to go out
and have a good‐a*s
time tonight.
‐let's do it.
‐yes, b*tch.
thank you. it's one of our last
weekends in costa rica.
it is the last.
so let's leave that phone call
behind,
let's leave all that drama
and let's just go out
and have a good‐a*s time.
‐let's go, i'm ready.
‐all right, let's go.
no more talking
about syngin.
all right, grab your stuff,
let's go, let's go.
come on, mike,
that's too much.
it's weird.
you know angela
is very outspoken.
yeah.
she talks.
look at me.
i don't like you.
why?
when i was hospitalized
with pneumonia,
did y'all give a
because a real man
would've told him
turn his a*s around
and go home.
is that funny?
is that funny?
stop it.
relax.
mike. michael.
relax.
mike.
just calm down.
wait, wait, wait.
i will
for this guy.
let's just go inside.
peter,
i don't want him around.
i will fight this guy.
i don't want him around.
don't worry.
let's just go inside honestly.
michael, go inside.
let's sort this out, please.
just for my sake, please.
michael.
what's up?
how?
you overreacted.
he called my fiancée trashy.
that's too far, man.
robert: me and anny is going to
a coffee shop
because last night
was real hard.
got a little hangover.
so we're going to go get
some coffee to wake up.
i'll have a small mocha.
okay,
we'll bring it over.
great. thank you.
after going to the strip club
with anny, it made me question
if anny wants to just party
all the time and go out
because that's not really me.
that's not my m. o.
and i want a mother figure
for my son.
i'm tired.
you enjoyed that
a little bit too much.
you didn't have sugar
last night?
all that a*s in your face.
she flipped her butt on your
face and you was like that.
nah, that's not funny.
i don't ‐‐
hell no,
i don't like it.
i'm disappointed in you.
last night was not cool at all.
it's not that.
it's just like,
i brought you here
to be a future wife,
not to go to a strip club,
and it's like you're not
showing me that at all.
time out. time out.
is there anything else that i
need to know,
to hear it from you?
because i really do feel that
you're hiding something from me.
have you been with a woman
before?
in any way because last night,
what i saw in you
was kind of crazy.
so what, you want to have
a threesome?
threesomes?
that's not a nice
surprise at all.
that's not something
that i want.
that's not something
that i want in my household.
that's not something that i want
around my kid.
all right?
no, i'm not
acting a little crazy.
i'm not a little badder
than you.
look, i'm going to be
honest with you.
i really feel disrespected
because you think it's a joke.
obviously this relationship
to you is a joke.
what i want
is a good woman,
a woman who wants
just her husband
and don't want to let nothing
come between our household.
and right now,
what you're showing me,
you're not what i want.
i don't really want a woman
that's out there like that.
i want a woman that's family
oriented, loving and caring,
and most of all,
an example for my son.
so i don't know
what to do right now.
i really love anny.
she's a beautiful girl,
but if she's just with me
for all the wrong reasons,
it's not going to happen.
well, fine then.
yes. bye.
bye.
if he loves me,
he has to accept me how i am.
i'm tired of this
i'm not sure what's really
going on anymore, natalie.
always feel like
you're attacking me.
mike: this morning was rough.
natalie and i, we were arguing
about children, religion.
i was just...
i had to get out of there.
i needed to go for a walk.
just walk it off
and prepared now
to have a pretty
serious discussion with her
about everything that's
leading up to this point
and everything that kind
of happened this morning.
there's some serious things
that we need to work on.
i just don't want to feel
like the enemy to her.
it's the most
important conversation
of our relationship.
can we talk?
hmm?
i'm not sure what's really
going on anymore, natalie.
i just feel like
you're attacking me.
made me feel like
a bad person.
i don't like feeling
that way.
i don't fly ‐‐ go flying halfway
around the world
and you telling me
these things.
i tried to accommodate
your feelings.
who you are, your heritage,
your beliefs.
when it comes to me
and my beliefs,
i don't feel the same back.
i'm just tired of this.
i'm tired.
i'm not going to pretend
to be someone i'm not either.
i am who i am.
i need to know
where you stand.
i don't know.
i need to know your thoughts.
we need to find
a common ground.
that's all you got to say?
i tell you these things,
and i don't know
if you understand them.
okay.
i mean, is that
how you really feel
when it comes towards
kids and stuff?
you think i'm going to be
a bad influence on your kid?
i don't want to fight with you
no more,
but i also need to tell you
some things too.
mm‐hmm.
this whole baby issue
and everything.
my biggest thing right now,
why i don't want to have
a child right now,
it's because i'm like
$30,000 in debt,
okay, and i've been afraid
to tell you this.
it's something i've been
needing to get off my chest.
i don't want to bring in
another life into this world
if we can't...
if i can't take
care of you and me first.
yeah.
but with time, i think,
you know,
we're going to continue to build
our relationship,
our partnership.
we're going to grow stronger
and it's going to be good.
it's going to be a nice,
good life, baby.
you see your aunty.
next time on "90 day fiancé"...
i think anny's expectations
are a little too high.
okay. wait, anny, do you know
he's, like, poor?
how long would the spousal visa
take to get approved?
seven to eight months
before michael's here.
oh, my god.
all we want to do
is get married in america.
it's my tax‐paying right.
is there anything that
you have been not telling me?
i need to make sure
that you're telling me the truth
in everything.
have you ever applied for
another k‐1 visa with anyone?
i'm at the bar dancing.
i'm drinking some.
oh, my god.
i don't like to make promises
i can't keep.
can't promise i'll call you
when i get home.
traditionally, i know that
the bride's family
pays for the wedding.
i haven't talked to my parents
about the wedding
and who's going to pay it,
but, like, i don't think
my parents
would be okay with that.
got the baby part down,
but you don't have
the marriage part down.
betsy doesn't trust me,
and i think it's not fair.
emily's expiration date
is coming up. huh?
you come here for 90 days.
you break my daughter's heart,
and now you're going to go
back to turkey.
this is just such bull
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