previously,
on "90 day fiancé"...
they are gonna
recommend a denial.
oh, my god.
all we want to do
is get married in america.
i'm at the bar dancing.
i'm drinking some.
oh, my god.
i don't like to make promises
i can't keep.
i can't promise i'll call you
when i get home.
traditionally, i know
that the bride's family
pays for the wedding.
hey, what's going on?
this is
such bull‐.
so, you done with america,
done with anna,
done with the boys.
we just need
to figure out
how to get him
the hell out of here.
is there anything that you
have been not telling me?
have you ever applied for
another k‐1 visa with anyone?
angela:
well, i just landed in nigeria,
and this is my third time
being here.
ahh!
mmm.
when you got upset,
i was...
you broke my heart.
and i'm gonna fight like hell
to find out what happened.
i'm good, don't worry.
i love you.
so, michael...
i've been thinking
about this,
like, over and over
in my head.
like...
i need to really know ‐‐
when you went
to the interview,
what happened from that moment
you walked in that embassy?
i can't believe
you didn't mention
we had
an engagement ceremony.
no, but that doesn't ‐‐
michael, that's a crucial part,
that your mom threw me one.
that means
it's real to her.
do you understand that?
that doesn't ‐‐
you don't listen.
you're the stubborn,
hard‐head‐est man
i've ever
met in my life.
no, you listen!
put your
pride down.
put your damn
pride down
and let me help you
get this visa!
you're hard‐headed.
michael acts like he knows
everything, and he don't.
maybe if he listened to me
a little,
he might've got this k‐1.
hello.
it was long.
thank you.
thank you.
i want to show you
something.
what is that?
mm‐hmm.
what the hell is it?
man.
oh, my god!
god, that is...
oh, my god, michael.
i love this!
this has really touched
my heart.
this is why i'm here,
'cause when we love each other,
we want to be together,
and we are not together,
and it's hard on both of us.
i'm finally here with michael,
and i am so happy.
we have a lot to get done
on this trip, but for now,
i'm just gonna lay in bed
with my sexy nigerian baby.
i bought this for you.
you can see that ‐‐
look at this.
mnh‐mnh, mnh‐mnh.
yeah!
okay, you don't like
that one?
you can put this one on.
look at the booty.
bring it home to mama.
bring it home to mama.
producer: could close that door
all the way for me?
man: yep.
producer: alrighty.
cameraman: okay, i'm gonna
go ahead and roll.
just breathe in.
it's on.
no, i'm not ready
to go back to america.
it's the saddest part now.
um...
hmm.
mm‐hmm.
nothing.
just listening.
sounds like she doesn't care
if i leave right now.
that's not what he asked.
you were just like,
"you, i'm leaving"?
i just want you to go.
nothing i can say will change
his mind,
so what's the point
of talking?
oh, great.
thank you.
yeah,
she's got practice tonight.
so, that's good.
living so close together
makes co‐parenting
very convenient...
because we're not the most
organized...
family in the world,
so, like, when juliana has to
run over cece's cheerleading bag
because i forgot to grab it
when i picked cece up.
are you in a hurry
to get home?
you want to have
some coffee?
yeah.
you just like black,
right?
yeah.
you're welcome.
how's it going?
how are you adjusting?
how old were you
when you did that?
what kind of church?
like a...
but how did you get involved
in that church
in the first place?
like, you went with
a friend one day
or something?
who was also
part of the church?
how did you finally, like,
get out of that?
did you have to sneak,
or did you just ‐‐
you were just like,
"you, i'm leaving"?
it's not imaginable for a kid
to be where you've been
and overcome
what you've overcome.
but even, like,
right now,
you just talking about
those experiences,
you know, there's something that
brings a smile to your face,
and...
sorry!
i'm, like, crying.
there's so much more depth
to juliana
that is so indescribable.
it's overwhelming to hear
that any person
has been through the stuff
that she's been through.
when we very first met,
like, that first day,
i was like,
"i don't want you to parent."
but at the same time,
like,
you have good values.
you're a hard worker.
you are intelligent.
you value family.
you love the kids,
i can see,
and i'm really thankful.
i feel like you and i
sort of...
you know, fill in the gaps
for each other.
i could have chosen to...
take on
the same sort of judgements
and skepticism
that many people have
when it comes to juliana,
but this isn't a competition
in this life,
and by trying to take it away
from one person
is not helping me.
i am really, really,
really thankful
that michael chose you.
you ‐‐
no, i'm thankful ‐‐
no, i'm thankful
that you chose mike.
no.
oh, my god.
the night mursel
called his parents,
i had him stay in a hotel.
i didn't think it would be
a good thing for him to stay
at the house
with the boys and me
because i didn't know how
the boys would take him leaving,
and i didn't want
to be around him.
today, mursel is going to come
and get his things
and then go back to the hotel.
i don't want to sit
and have a conversation.
i just want to get it over
and done with.
nothing i can say
will change his mind,
so what's the point of talking?
please, mursel.
i can't believe you're not
choosing me.
you can say
to your family,
"no, i'm going
to marry anna."
no.
mursel, you can
choose your life.
no.
you're choosing...
no, you don't.
anna: i'm just angry about
this whole situation.
i really thought he would've
picked me over his family,
and he's not doing that.
he keeps telling me that
he loves me and he's sorry,
but...
[ exhales sharply
...he can't man up and prove it.
yes.
my heart is broken.
no. no, no.
no.
i don't want ‐‐
you lost me.
i just want you to go.
and mursel, don't contact me
again, okay?
i want to punch you.
are you sure?
i can't believe
that this is happening.
if he really loved me, he
should've stayed here with me.
and i just can't believe
this is over.
tonight, one of the artists
on my label is having a show,
and i'll be doing
a couple songs with him.
so, jasmin and i are getting
ready to head out to the venue.
hey, babe.
how's it going?
you look great.
ready for tonight?
seeing which one to put
on tonight.
which one do you think?
when it comes to music,
i definitely have
two different personalities.
so, i put on the mask,
and i have this whole persona.
that's the whole point.
if jasmin hates the music
tonight, i don't know.
it'll make me feel
some sort of way,
but i'm just hoping that it
doesn't have to come to that.
you almost done?
okay.
um...
you know, i know they're still
going through the process
of getting the house,
so it should be ‐‐
yeah.
that makes sense.
i understand.
i get it, and that's how
i am, too, you know?
it's only temporary,
you know?
it's not forever.
and you know, in two months,
we'll be married,
and then we'll be able
to stay together.
let's go.
you don't want to be too late.
we got to get over there.
the more you hurry me,
the more it's gonna take time.
blake: you know, jasmin takes
a while getting ready.
like, when i know
we have to do something,
i'm telling her, like,
at 1:00, like,
"we're leaving at 5:00
to do this,
so get ready when you need
to get ready."
so, she'll start to get ready
at 2:00.
you look great.
ah, here we go.
porcelain doll face.
i can't do anything.
she's like a museum.
can't touch her.
watch. you see?
you see?
see? look at this.
i can't give her ‐‐ look.
look how hard it is for me
to go ahead and hug you.
but no one's
touching your face.
like, do you ever see me
go like this?
no, i do not.
hello?
what up?
yeah, we're
alright.
bye.
man.
they're all there.
i'm the only one
that's not there.
i'm vp of a label,
and i'm the last one there?
you know, it doesn't
work that way.
this performance tonight
means a lot to the label.
i'm the vice president.
so, being on time and punctual
is very important,
especially with the role
that i have with the music.
i have to be.
it's not a good look.
hmm?
alright.
your sister?
what's up, y'all?
you guys are here.
finally.
‐about time, dude.
‐i know, i know.
geez, you almost missed
your own show, man.
‐i know, right?
‐hey.
rita:
blake is usually so punctual.
he's the one in charge.
he's making sure everyone
gets there on time.
hey.
how you doing?
so, to see him running late
is really not like him.
‐who was it this time?
‐i mean...
see?
‐you lied to me, girl?
‐ ?
‐ yeah.
yeah?
alright, let's go.
emcee:
make some noise!
what's up, y'all?
come on.
come on.
hey!
let's go!
hey, hey!
hey! hey!
♪♪ shot like a knife
all through the night ♪♪
thank you y'all.
goodnight.
thank you all.
‐ , you did amazing.
‐ thank you so much.
oh, my god.
‐so good.
good show.
thank you.
you did great.
thank you, thank you.
the crowd was definitely
feeling it.
yeah. good. good.
it's awesome.
i'm glad they were ‐‐
i was surprised, though,
because i don't know
why jasmin wasn't in the crowd.
she was at the table
the entire time with her sister.
i didn't see her come out once.
i don't know.
it's just like ‐‐
as long as
she's there supporting...
did you feel like she was
supporting you, though?
yeah, you know, i think, like ‐‐
she showed up, you know...
she showed up.
we all showed up, but...
yeah, of course.
so, i was hoping
that she would be
a little more supportive.
didn't seem like
she was there,
even though she was there.
i thought that she'd want to be
part of the crowd,
she'd want to be up
in front and center,
you know, supporting him,
cheering him on,
and she was just kind of off on
the sidelines with her sister.
so...
it's so easy for her to just
come here and act a part,
give her minimum ‐‐
like, bare minimum ‐‐
come and use you, you know,
and do what she needs to do
just to be here
with her sister.
i want you to make sure that
you're not making excuses.
you just need to make sure
that there's already
a good foundation
and a good start there,
'cause if you don't have,
that's not gonna grow
within these 90 days.
exactly.
i just ‐‐ yeah.
i hope she's...
she's here
for the right reasons.
yeah.
blake:
after hearing what rita said,
it worries me that jasmin
and i are different
'cause i'd expect her to be out
there in the pit
and shoulder‐to‐shoulder
with everybody or whatever.
so...
i'm gonna think about it
because, like,
i want jasmin to show
that she does care.
that's a deal‐breaker for me,
you know?
syngin:
tania is finally flying back.
at the moment, i'm feeling a lot
of mixed emotion, you know?
we got to figure out all these
life‐changing decisions,
and that's ‐‐ wow.
it scares me
to even think about it.
do you feel like he has more
power over you
than you do over him?
i just think that...
you're not
the house servant.
yesterday, i drove all the way
from connecticut to new york,
'cause tania
is finally flying back
from costa rica to america.
i'm at the bar dancing.
i'm drinking some.
oh, my god.
like, you have to have
that trust.
yes, i'm independent.
i travel.
i like to go out.
i like to have fun.
i don't like to have to check in
with someone all the time.
ah.
my wallet.
my pretty flower.
oo‐pah.
driver: good, thanks.
at the moment, i'm feeling a lot
of mixed emotion, you know?
i hate it when we argue
and we're not together.
it feels like nothing
really gets resolved.
oh,!
my sugar.
i was like, "where is he?"
...damn, you're so cute.
i've been looking for you.
oh, baby.
well, you just
jumped over that.
‐ you're so cute.
‐ yeah.
mm.
i feel a lot of, like,
stress has gone off me.
my anxiety's dropped.
i just feel like bliss
and happiness, man.
like, i don't know.
i could probably jump over
the moon right now if i tried.
oh, it's a lily.
yeah,.
aww!
you know i always have to
bring you some sort of ‐‐
no, but i love the lily.
i don't know if you know.
it's one of
my favorite flowers.
yeah.
tania:
i don't want to argue tonight.
amen.
i just want to cuddle.
so do i.
hmm.
oh, baby, i love you.
this is so good.
oh, you smell so good.
it's natural.
i know.
mm.
welcome home, baby.
smelling his armpit
is one of my weaknesses.
i missed you.
i missed you, too.
it so good
touching you, even.
i know.
alright?
let's do this. yeah.
you ready?
tania: no one will ever love me
the way you love me.
i hate, like ‐‐
for example,
i hate biting into apples.
it gets all in my teeth.
so, he will bite
into the apple
and then give me
a piece of it.
it's all the little things
that you do
that just show me
how much you care.
amen.
tania: thanks, baby.
it's goo to have you back.
i know.
part of me feels like
i was gone for so long,
and another part
of me feels like
i wasn't even gone
for anything.
like, i feel like
i was gone for,
like, two days.
yeah.
i hated being away from syngin,
and, you know,
just the fights
that we had and everything ‐‐
it's like,
i know i'm a little extra.
i am.
i am.
but we still have quite a bit
to figure out
before we get married.
here we are, babe.
we are gonna sleep so late.
oh.
it's like the most sexiest thing
you've ever said to me.
we are gonna sleep so late.
oh, say it again.
we are gonna sleep so late.
so late.
oh, yes.
tania: i love syngin so much,
but we're rushing to, yes,
legally get married.
we're rushing it.
we've talked about
getting married.
we want to get married
to each other.
but, i mean, we have a lot
we're gonna have to work on,
and are we gonna have the tools
and the patience
and the compassion we need
to be able to make it last?
gentleman you're not.
michael, where have you
got me going?
the hell is this?
what is this?
what is this?
this ain't no
breakfast place.
what the hell?
‐it's at the back.
where are we going?
don't worry, let's go.
what the?
well, i'm hungry.
is this normal food?
what is it?
what is local food?
what is this?
oh, my god.
aah!
oh, god!
i'mma throw up.
wait, wait, wait, wait.
michael has not only the fish.
he has the fin, the head...
the tongue.
oh!
good god, michael!
michael's not getting kissed
for a while.
listen, we really
need to talk
about what we're gonna do.
this k‐1 visa
being denied ‐‐
i wasn't prepared for that.
i'm always prepared.
a what?
we have
an immigration lawyer.
of course she said that.
she's nigerian.
well, in american law,
you're ‐‐
okay, i'mma let you tell me
that we paid ‐‐
that we paid.
michael...
that's what your lawyer
said you got to do,
she ain't mine.
that's what your nigerian
lawyer said.
mine said he believes
we can win this
in six months
when we get the letter.
we have a 60% chance
of getting it.
the good news is that 60%
or so of the appeals
end up
in granting the visa.
if we win the appeal,
we're looking at
maybe another
seven to eight months
before michael is here.
if we go with the getting
married in nigeria option
and bringing him over,
looking at 18 months,
maybe even two years.
it's not the only way.
listen.
i'm not getting married
over here.
i shouldn't be forced
by one denial
to get married in nigeria.
but baby, it's the surest
and the ‐‐
that is ridiculous.
you don't know.
come on, now.
that's not happening,
so next question.
baby.
we both want
the same thing
but different ways
of doing it.
but i still want
to investigate
more about this k‐1 visa
and why it got denied.
okay.
and give the letter at least
another month to come.
if it don't, then we'll move
from there, and...
i don't want to say...
we've talked about
the spousal visa before,
and i told michael no.
it's my family's right to see
their mother, their grandmother,
and their daughter get married,
and i don't think
michael understands that.
do you feel like
you're being used?
i don't think so, no.
joey: with the 90 days,
it's either now or never
that he notices her lack
of interest in what he's doing.
the show was a few days ago,
and i'm trying not to think
about rita's concerns.
but i'm disappointed
that jasmin didn't try more
with my friends.
‐ yo, yo.
‐ oh, look who it is.
‐look who decided to show up.
‐all the time.
god.
‐keep you guys on your toes.
what's going on?
‐okay, glad you're here.
blake: i've been working a lot,
and today,
i'm going to the studio
with everett and joey
to work on a track
that i produced a few days ago,
and it's time
to put the vocals on it.
so you guys have the verses
already, set to go?
‐i got my verse ready.
‐yeah.
what about you?
you got something?
i have something.
where's, uh ‐‐
where's jas at?
surprised you didn't
show with her.
nah.
i'm not gonna show up with her.
she's never seen
this process before?
no, never been in the studio
with me.
she has to like it.
yeah, i don't think she was
rocking out to the show.
she wasn't really
bobbing her head.
yeah, her and her sister
were just, like...
‐what i saw.
‐...chilling at this table.
as blake's friend,
it's hard to see jasmin
show a lack of interest in what
he's doing and what we're doing.
i don't know if blake sees it
or notices it,
but it's definitely
something that i notice,
and everett notices,
and i hope he can see it soon.
she didn't even look like
she was enjoying it, man.
that's how it is.
she wasn't born here.
it doesn't matter.
she was born
with ears, right?
i don't know what she's supposed
to react like.
dude, like, rita's been
at all the shows,
and when she's at the shows,
she's always there,
front and center,
making an appearance, or...
‐well, that's her.
...and participating.
that should be your girl, too,
don't you think?
no, because
everybody's different.
you know, like, when we're
there, and then, like,
she may not talk about it
right then and there,
but when we're at home,
she'll ask me questions.
like, she opens up more
when it's just,
like,
me and her, obviously.
why can't she do that more
around us?
because she's not used
to you guys.
we're gonna be around.
you can show her more of us.
but we've been getting used
to everything else,
then she'll get used to,
you know, you guys.
i know that jasmin's
not expressive at times,
and that's just how, like,
some finnish people are.
so what else do they expect?
i can't, like, change someone.
i'm like, "yo, put yourself
in her shoes."
like, "you're going to another
country,
and you're meeting
all these other new people.
like, would you be
the same way?"
they just need to understand it,
like, through her eyes.
just because she's not,
like, the typical girl
that's from out here and doing
whatever, like, having ‐‐
wanting to party
all the time ‐‐ whatever.
like, it's obviously gonna be
hard for her to do that.
she's been here for a month.
i mean, i guess,
but that just seems,
like, an excuse, man.
there's not even a night life
out there where she's from, bro.
but do you understand
what we're saying?
i don't know if jasmin's name
is spelled
with a "z" or an "s."
there's very little
that we communicate about.
even when i do try
to break the ice,
it's always something
very just, like...
stern, you know?
and i don't know what it is.
i mean, like,
this is your girl.
you're showing her your world,
and it doesn't seem like
she's down with it.
everett: i just want her
to like us, you know?
i would love for us to all be on
the same page, be best friends,
hang out, laugh,
have the same jokes, you know.
maybe she can interject
here and there
about something, anything.
she can, like ‐‐ anything.
anything.
anything.
that's just something
that's never, ever
been reciprocated
from her, and...
my, uh, patience is wearing thin
when it comes to being nice
and taking her
into consideration.
do you even know her enough
to know what she's really ‐‐
her interests are?
and, like, why she's here.
pretty much do you feel
like you're being used?
i don't think so, no.
look, we're not trying
to pull you away from her.
we're trying to get you
to understand
why we're feeling this way,
and you keep
giving us excuses
about her not being
like this
or not being like that.
why can't you just be like,
"yeah, i know she's just ‐‐
she needs to open up
to you guys more."
because she's different,
so that's how everybody is.
so, wait, we have to just accept
that and just cater to that?
i'm not saying
you have to cater to it.
i mean, i accept it.
our world, our pocket.
‐okay.
‐is she gonna support you?
do you think she has ‐‐
no compromise.
that's what i'm saying.
do you think she has
any room
for compromise at all?
lately, man,
you seem overwhelmed.
you already know
what's going on.
i got my stuff.
i got my 90 days
to go ahead
and marry my wife.
you know what i mean?
i understand that,
and that's great,
and we want that for you.
so, i mean ‐‐ you know what?
maybe you should
just think on it, man.
it ain't nothing for me
to think. you guys have done...
‐nah.
...the most thinking
out of everybody.
i'mma dip out.
with the 90 days,
it's either now or never
that he notices her lack
of interest in what he's doing.
maybe he doesn't want
to accept it
or maybe he's just delusional.
i don't know what we said
that was completely off.
you know what i mean?
but as soon as he calms down,
i mean,
he'll definitely see
that, man, we're coming
from a good place.
natalie was asked
if she loved me,
and she, uh,
didn't really give
a yes or a no answer.
natalie's told me she loves me
before many times,
and, um...
yeah, it was just really hard
being right there next
to her not to...
not to feel that.
the whole trip
seems like
it's gotten to both of us.
it's just put a lot
onto my mind now,
and, um...
it's made it very hard.
but you don't ever
understand.
nice going‐away party.
what am i
running away from?
from someone
that doesn't love me?
michael, we need to workthat doesn't want to be with me?
on our relation‐‐
hey, no worries,
you don't have to
explain yourself anymore.
i gave you a ring for a reason,
'cause it meant something.
it just doesn't mean
anything to you.
did i ask you to take it
off right now?
or did you
throw it at me?
mike: she took her ring off,
threw it in my suitcase,
and i was just like...
you know, shocked.
michael, i want a strong man
by myself
who will work
on our relationship.
no, you want to devote your life
to freaking religion
and give up everything and...
it's not about religion.
...and devote yourself
to the church,
just like you said
the other day, then go for it.
well, either way,
i'm out of time.
you said what you
wanted to say, right?
mike: here, i guess
i was wrong about that.
i'll see you later, mama.
i don't know, mama.
i don't know.
thank you.
natalie's mom really likes me,
so, you know,
i'm sure she's probably sad.
yeah, i mean, it's just...
it's hard.
thank you, mama.
mm‐hmm.
mm‐hmm.
keep calm and carry on.
stop what?
why you do this?
i'm gonna say goodbye to you,
'cause i got to go.
you want to say bye
or no?
i'm not apologizing.
okay.
i'm getting to the edge.
stop. just say it.
then jump over it.
do what you want to do.
syngin.
tania.
jumping over means
leaving you the behind.
so if you want me to jump over,
i'll do it.
yes, i will, syngin!
you ready?
i think so.
can you check the bed,
make sure there's nothing?
so me and tania spent the night
in new york ‐‐
a magical evening ‐‐
and now it's going
all the way back to connecticut.
back to the shed.
alright.
give me a kiss
before we do this.
let's do it.
tania:
coming back form costa rica,
we need to start working
towards our future.
i think our values aligned
very well.
it's just kind of the timing
and the end vision
of what it kind of looks like
that we're still
kind of working on.
but we need to save money,
you know, to do that.
that's true, as well.
very ambitious,
but i love it.
hold yourself to ambitions,
reach for the stars, and we'll
get as close as we can.
happy to be back
in your arms.
yeah, it is nice.
but like, i'm ready to start,
like, working on,
like, you know,
those goals and stuff.
like...
hmm.
like, one thing
i'm learning is...
now you got me.
a 30‐year‐old trapped
in a 18‐year‐old mind set.
i don't ever want you to end
that, but you can be that,
and you can also be an adult
at the same time.
i do. i ‐‐ i ‐‐
i'm not like everybody.
once i start working, like,
i feel the system.
i feel i am not
helping myself.
i'm just helping another guy
get richer.
kept the job.
yes, see how you always
compare it to that?
like, you don't have to ‐‐
like, that was miserable.
you don't have to be
miserable like that again.
syngin: i started working
on the mines at the age of 18.
i did it for almost about
and i didn't like it at all.
i hated going underground
in a steel cage
with a lamp and rescue pack,
and i had friends who died,
and work colleagues
and everything.
so, it's very little money.
it's not worth risking your life
every single day.
like, i just think that has
made me this sensitive
like i am now, you know?
that's why ‐‐
that was so long ago, though!
well, it still sticks with you.
if something happened to you
in childhood,
it's still carrying on
when you're 50 years old.
it's just frustrating.
on arriving to america,
it kind of feels like to me
like a new slate in life,
you know?
so i'm looking at all kinds
of crazy.
like, being a fireman, um,
looking at policeman,
i was looking
at woodworking, carpentry.
i'm just more worried
about how long
that's gonna take.
hmm.
yeah, who knows,
'cause i can only wait
so long
before i even get
the work permit.
i know, but you can start
studying for one of them.
yeah.
there's things you can do
while you're waiting
for the work permit.
yeah, i know.
you can bartend
for a little bit.
yeah,.
i know i have to do that.
i'm just talking about
in general.
like, i hate being
in the work system.
well, i just wish
you'd figure it out.
what?
like, i'm gonna work.
i'm gonna get a
steady job even though "i know"
i'm gonna be in the system.
i'm gonna "take" the system ‐‐
so then you're gonna be
miserable.
"take" the system up my bum.
i'm gonna do it.
well, there is just sometimes
where i'm like,
are you just too young
for me?
i want, like...
an adult
next to me, too.
well, i am.
i ‐‐
i'm also
a very free spirit.
like, i don't ‐‐
i sometimes don't even
worry about the future.
you never have.
but now it's like, i need to be
grounded a little bit, like...
why are you being like this
right now?
it's too much.
i don't have time for this.
you just don't care about it.
i do care!
you already said you don't
care about the future.
okay.
yeah, i don't.
not at all.
let's just see
what the universe does.
that's literally
what you do.
yeah, let's do it.
sounds game to me.
i'm not doing it.
like, what is the problem
right now?
stop lingering
on the past.
i'm pissed that you ‐‐
i'm going ‐‐
bringing up the past...
i am.
i'm pissed that i went
to go learn
and i told you
to go learn
your woodworking.
okay.
i told you to do
a woodwork shop.
okay, we didn't have money
for $800!
yes, i told you don't worry
about it,
and it would've been fine!
$800 for one week.
i don't care!
no, you do care, 'cause
you're worried about money.
you could've been doing things
and making things.
we don't even
have money now.
where are we gonna
out $800?
like, when the time is right,
when we have the money ‐‐
i'm telling you, though,
i don't have much more time!
okay.
no, because it is, syngin.
because you don't ‐‐
i tell you over and over,
like, what i need.
i cannot
do this right now.
and don't say i'm not
civilized.
don't say that.
i'm getting to the edge.
stop. just say it.
syngin.
tania.
jumping over means
leaving you the behind.
so if you want me to jump over,
i'll do it.
yes, i will, syngin!
oh, my god!
you're crazy!
i'm getting to the edge.
stop. just say it.
syngin.
tania.
jumping over means
leaving you the behind.
so if you want me to jump over,
i'll do it.
yes, i will, syngin!
oh, my god!
you're crazy!
i'm just letting you know
'cause i feel like i have ‐‐
okay, stop. just stop.
no, i want to make sure
you hear me.
yes, i hear you so bad,
i want to jump out the window.
syngin, stop saying things
like that.
gonna be a long drive.
it is a
long drive.
especially with you yapping
like this the whole time.
syngin, i'll drop you
off on the side of the road.
that doesn't sound
too bad, actually.
please don't tempt me.
oh, please stop being
so hard‐headed, man.
get over it.
"get over it."
i'm not feeling heard,
so this is what happens.
you never feel heard,
even if you're heard.
i'm not!
you don't have this problem
just with me.
you have this problem
with society.
you feel like they never listen
or hear you.
so it's not just me.
tania:
coming back from costa rica,
being submerged in nature
and holistic healing
for a month,
and then just, like,
going from straight
from new york to connecticut,
it started to make me feel edgy,
topped with ‐‐ we only have now
a month to get married.
i don't know, i ‐‐
my emotions are high.
it was stressful as.
it was so stressful.
i'm sorry.
i'm sorry.
it just...
i want to be serious with
my future moving forward,
and i'm scared that...
you just won't be
as serious with me.
really scares me.
i feel like sometimes i have
a blind faith in syngin
because he's never ‐‐
he's quit jobs before
with no follow‐through,
and he has lived life
without plans.
like, for example, we were
saving up money in south africa,
and he decided
he didn't want to work
his bartending job anymore,
and he quit,
and he said, "next week,
we're going to thailand."
do you think he had
a flight plan
or where we're staying planned,
or anything like that?
nope.
somehow, i still
magically believe
he'll start planning things out
and follow through with jobs,
and working towards
our future, and...
i pray that he does.
did you hear me
when i said i'm sorry?
hmm.
i'm just scared.
it's time to get
a big reality check.
i am just wondering, like,
is he gonna get a job?
and it's hard
because he can't get a job.
he can't prove to me ‐‐
that's what's so hard
about this 90 days,
is i can't see
his work ethic here.
however, being realistic, like,
he can't prove everything
to me in these 90 days.
he just can't.
i love you.
love you, too, babe.
juliana: hi!
hi!
so, it's coming up.
are you excited?
are you nervous?
yes.
are you nervous
about the ceremony,
or...
actually getting married?
yeah.
aww.
it's gonna be so much fun.
i think that michael
has a really good heart,
but you will work.
and when you do,
don't just
hand money to him.
i made that mistake.
i just started handing him
my paycheck,
just gave it all to him.
and it just created
an imbalance of power
in our relationship.
do you feel like he has
more power over you
than you do over him?
yes! exactly.
also, you're not
the house servant.
it's funny because, like,
for mother's day
or for my birthday,
he would be like,
"oh, you don't have
to do laundry,
you don't have to do dishes,
you don't have to cook,
you don't have
to clean up."
it just wouldn't get done
until the next day...
when i would have
to do it all.
it's not like he was sitting
there doing all that stuff.
i guess we'll just
park here.
oh, my goodness,
it's heavy.
hello.
how are you?
my name's natalia.
‐juliana, nice to meet you.
‐hi, natalia, i'm sarah.
nice to meet you.
‐sarah. pleasure, guys.
how can i help you today?
she's getting her dress
altered today.
you already have a dress,
congratulations.
mm‐hmm.
i was with my mom.
i was able to buy it
right off the rack.
it was, like, 400 bucks.
that's how we do it
in toledo.
ohio, not spain.
oh, my gosh.
it is more beautiful
than i thought.
oh, my god!
you look amazing.
mike is gonna be weeping.
it's perfect.
and i know he loves you.
it is ‐‐
i'm really angry
and sad and upset,
and i have all kinds of emotions
going through my head.
but i decided to take mursel
to the airport
because i love mursel,
and i wanted to spend
as much of the remaining time
left that we had,
and i'm hoping
he will change his mind.
the visa's finished
when you leave.
so you go, we're finished.
let's go.
mursel, i'm never going
to turkey.
never.
so you go, and you
and me finished.
no.
the k‐1 visa
is a one‐entry visa,
so once you leave,
you cannot come back
into the united states.
so once he leaves, that's it.
he's not coming back.
please, mursel, don't.
well, here's his boarding pass,
his receipt, and his bag tag.
please,
mursel, don't go.
please.
me, too, but ‐‐ finish.
anna: this is just heartbreaking
that he's leaving.
if he loves me,
he shouldn't leave.
he should just stay here.
he should stand up to his family
and tell them
that he wants to marry me,
and tell them that
i'm a good person,
and he doesn't do that.
he just ‐‐
"okay, mom and dad,
i'm coming home."
please, mursel.
no.
i don't want to.
anna: mursel left.
i didn't think he was ‐‐ i
thought he would change his mind
last second, and he didn't,
so...
now that he's left on the
k‐1 visa, he can't come back.
i never thought we'd be here.
he's broken my heart, and i'm
not gonna go back from this.
i don't think i can.
next time on "90 day fiance"...
i'm gonna get sooo drunk.
ew.
i think i'm gonna go.
i don't think i have that
full soul mate feeling.
that's bull‐.
i feel like my first love
was my soul mate.
betsy:
oh, you look like an angel.
i think you got
the right dress.
i hope you have
the right groom.
you don't have to be a debbie
downer all the time, betsy.
you can be happy for me.
yes.
you asked her
a simple question
and i wasn't expecting
that response.
she's like, "oh, gimme,
gimme, gimme, gimme,
gimme, gimme, gimme."
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