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02x01 - Spartanburg, South Carolina

Episode transcripts for the TV show, "We're Here". Aired: April 23, 2020 – May 31, 2024.*
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Featuring former Drag Race contestants, documenting the drag queens as they travel across the United States to recruit small-town residents to participate in one-night-only drag shows.

02x01 - Spartanburg, South Carolina

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♪ ♪

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♪ ♪

>> Bob: we are in spartanburg.

>> Eureka: ooh!

Country south carolina.

>> Shangela: welcome back to the

South.

>> Eureka: I'm from like two

Hours north of here.

I used to literally do shows

Here.

So crazy.

>> Bob: hi, I'm bob the drag the

Queen coming to live from

Spartanburg, south carolina.

>> Shangela: good morning.

>> Eureka: southern people I

Think they're just like

Naturally really nice and

Welcoming.

They're like, have a lovely day,

Bless your heart, oh, my

Goodness I love your earrings.

>> Shangela: it's good nice and

Country.

There are big wraparound

Porches, large columns at the

Plantation homes.

It's bougee, it's like mint

Julep and a debutant ball.

♪ ♪

>> Bob: so we've been in

Quarantine now for over a year

Now.

>> Eureka: I am in the car, I'm

On my way we're going back to

Spartanburg.

I can't wait.

♪ ♪

>> Eureka: I'm excited to be

Back, very bright, it's

Beautiful here.

>> Bob: I remember, thinking

We'd be back shortly, everyone

Was like, I'll see you, see you

In a month, maybe two.

A lot has happened in the past

Year.

Everything changed.

>> Shangela: am I glad to be

Back here?

Yes.

Especially come back with a

Purpose.

>> Eureka: I do feel like this

Energy of like coming out of

Covid people are just living

Their lives, I'm like okay,

Cool, work.

>> Shangela: hi!

>> Eureka: oh, my god.

>> Shangela: oh, my•

>> Eureka: it is so good to see

You.

>> Shangela: well, halleloo.

>> Eureka: ooh.

Come here.

>> Shangela: group hug.

>> Eureka: oh, my gosh.

>> Bob: we're back.

♪ ♪

♪ ♪

>> Shangela: oh, we're having

Tea on a porch in south

Carolina.

>> Pontheola: in south carolina.

>> Shangela: in spartanburg.

>> Eureka: this is so nice.

>> Bob: you running out of tea,

Eureka?

>> Eureka: oh, I'm sorry you

Want more tea?

Someone's stingy.

>> Shangela: no darling, thank

You so much, I'm on a tea diet.

>> Eureka: it's a gorgeous

Place.

I love the grounds.

>> Pontheola: thank you.

We work hard at it.

>> Bob: to see this home

Reclaimed, black owned.

>> Pontheola: oh, yes.

>> Bob: this is amazing.

♪ ♪

>> Shangela: have you ever had

Tea with three drag queens on

This porch?

>> Pontheola: no I haven't, this

Is a first for me.

>> Shangela: to firsts.

>> Pontheola: to firsts.

>> Eureka: that's the tea.

♪ ♪

>> Pontheola: and I'm glad

You're here.

>> Shangela: oh, thank you.

>> Pontheola: yes.

I just love it.

♪ ♪

♪ ♪

>> Bob: spartanburg, we're back

Baby.

>> Woman: I recognize y'all.

>> Bob: hi.

>> Shangela: I am so sorry,

Thank you.

>> Eureka: guess who's back.

>> Shangela: that's right, we're

Here.

♪ ♪

>> Bob: gotta try the cheese

Sticks.

>> Eureka: oh, my god!

Uh, shangela, I'm a bartender.

♪ ♪

>> Eureka: she's working it

Again, she's working it again,

I'm making mine.

>> Shangela: girl, those are one

Hundreds.

>> Shangela: it's nice to be

Able to come back to spartanburg

'Cause it's been over year since

We first met our drag kids and

Back then it was a whole

Different feeling.

[Chickens clucking]

>> Eureka: all right, miss noah.

Oh hi.

Oh hi!

>> Noah: oh, my f*cking god.

>> Eureka: oh, you're so cute.

Ahhh.

>> Eureka: did you do this?

>> Noah: yes.

>> Eureka: is there something

You might add?

>> Noah: yeah, it's just

Expressionistic, abstract

Design, yeah.

>> Eureka: work, I like you.

Noah: it's pretty small.

Little ranch style house.

>> Eureka: oh, cute.

This isn't very small.

I live in l.a. In the tiniest

Apartment.

>> Eureka: oh, I love this back

Porch.

Ooh, of course, and she's got

c*ck everywhere.

>> Eureka: they're all running

Away.

>> Noah: oh, yeah, they're

Terrified.

>> Eureka: that's cute.

>> Noah: very terrified

Animals.

>> Eureka: you know I have to be

Careful with plastic chairs,

Miss thing.

Work, oh, I love it.

>> Noah: you got it.

>> Eureka: so wait, you're from

Here?

>> Noah: yep.

I've been here my

Whole life and I've seen the

Changes that um, this town has

Gone through and it's still bad

But I mean I remember days like

Going back to the castle which

Was the old night club in town,

Like people would drive by,

Throw things at us, like while

We were waiting in line, scream

f*gg*t, um, that still happens.

Like I'm afraid to hold my hand

With my partner in public here,

Just unwanted attention.

And I'm afraid to like

Present myself in the way that I

Really want to because I just

Don't want people to like stare

At me.

>> Eureka: how do you identify?

>> Noah: um, I identify as

Male.

>> Eureka: male?

>> Noah: but it's confused

Male.

Yeah.

>> Eureka: that's

Understandable.

I think there's a gray area, I

Live in it.

I, I'm gender neutral, gender

q*eer, I go by they, or eureka,

Or david, if you're feeling

Nasty.

>> Noah: david?

>> Eureka: yeah.

So trust, I know the struggle of

Like the roller coaster that

Gender can be as like a q*eer

Male you know.

>> Noah: well I'm like really

Self conscious and I have two

Sides to me, I have a really

Confident bitchy diva queen side

And then I have like crippling

Self-doubt and it's always a

Struggle between the two.

>> Eureka: I understand that.

I mean especially in this area.

>> Noah: yep.

>> Eureka: it's hard in the

Bible belt.

>> Noah: yes, it is.

>> Eureka: you know, you already

Like express yourself like with

The earrings and the hair and

You know you're almost there but

It's like if you have more to

Show, like you're kind of like

Short changing yourself and the

World if you don't let them see

It.

You have to let that

Energy out.

>> Noah: you have to.

>> Eureka: you know and that's

Kind of what drag does too I

Think in a way like with your,

Like this feminine like persona

That you have inside is just a

Way to like let that energy out.

>> Noah: yes.

>> Eureka: there's a lot of

Difficulties when it comes to

Gender identity for noah.

Noah is afraid for the world to

See him in this q*eer feminine

Side of themselves.

I can relate with that, I think

Any q*eer person can, I think

We're raised to think that who

We are is wrong.

It gets exhausting to

Feel like sh*t about yourself.

>> Noah: I think it'll help me

With the battle of trying to get

Rid of that persona that's so

Critical in my ear.

>> Eureka: the easy part is like

The creative stuff and the

Excitement about wanting to do

Drag 'cause it's fun but the

Hard part about drag is that it

Will take you on an emotional

Journey weirdly, especially this

Experience.

I think it's important for noah

To admit to people this is who I

Am, this is how I want to

Express, because when you start

Just like taking a stand and

Being like, no b*tch

This is who I am people start

Respecting that.

>> Noah: all right, you ready to

Fly?

♪ ♪

>> Photographer: one, two and

Three.

Perfect, let's do it one more

Time.

>> Faith: okay.

>> Photographer: one, two and

Three.

>> Faith: I'm pretty comfortable

In my skin, I actually um a plus

Size model so I'm used to posing

In lingerie and almost nude like

I love my body but I can still

Walk into a restaurant and

Everybody will just stop and

They'll look because one,

There's a plus size girl with a

Crop top on and she has a face

Tattoo like.

>> Photographer: now look behind

You, you just look back at it,

There you go.

One, two and three.

>> Faith: I always knew that I

Was cut from a different cloth.

I've always been weird, quirky,

The goofy one, nobody else is

Laughing but I'm like hollering

Laughing at something that's not

Even funny.

So I've always known I was

Different.

>> Photographer: stay there,

Stay there, don't move.

>> Faith: honestly, I don't feel

Like south carolina is free, I

Feel like it boxes in the free

Spirited person.

South carolina is not an easy

Place to be h*m*.

>> Bob: ooh.

Hi!

>> Faith: oh, my god!

I didn't know it was gonna be

You!

>> Bob: oh, I'm so glad you're

Excited.

>> Faith: yeah, I am.

>> Bob: how are you?

Oh, you're so pretty.

>> Faith: oh, thanks.

>> Bob: okay, you're way

Prettier in person, I mean

You're very beautiful in videos

And pictures but you are like

Really gorgeous.

>> Faith: I knew it, I knew it,

I knew it!

Yay!

Ok, okay, okay, okay.

>> Bob: is this erykah badu?

>> Faith: yeah, I painted it.

>> Bob: oh, it's beautiful.

>> Faith: thank you.

>> Bob: did you really?

>> Faith: yeah, I painted this

One and that one.

>> Bob: these are amazing.

Are your tattoos also like the

Um, drawings?

>> Faith: so I do have like a

Lot of clients that are loyal

And they want my paintings

Tattooed on them.

>> Bob: work.

>> Faith: yeah.

>> Bob: you're a tattoo artist,

You are running in a field that

Is mostly white men.

Do your parents see it as like a

Viable means of lifestyle?

>> Faith: at first they didn't

And it wasn't until like

Recently, like when people would

Come up to my mom's job and

They're like is your daughter

Faith?

Oh my gosh, she's the best

Tattoo artist around here, you

Know like that's when they

Realized like, what you, you

Might be on to something.

>> Bob: I want a tattoo.

I kind of want a bunch of ducks

On my left leg and maybe you can

Give some suggestions.

>> Faith: yeah.

>> Bob: faith and i, we are both

Black, we're both q*eer, we're

Both southerners and we're both

Artists.

There's just so much wrapped up

In that, that lets us know how

Much we have in common.

>> Bob: the wings are like kind

Of either going around the other

Duck.

>> Faith: um, I'm successful,

Happy, I'm the first black

Female tattoo artist that's been

Licensed in the up state.

>> Bob: yeah, that is a•

>> Faith: and then with that

Bold outline, just imagine

Getting that on the wings done.

>> Bob: yeah, that would be so

Cute.

>> Faith: yeah, that'd be hot.

>> Bob: good on the skin too.

>> Faith: when I came out that I

Was g*y, everything changed.

One day you don't have a care in

The world, you don't have a

Secret, you don't have a burden

And then once you come to terms

With who you really are and you

Know that it's not accepted in

Your family then it's like

You're carrying around this

Guilt of who you really are.

>> Bob: faith is really

Beautiful and just really sweet

And really eager, really excited

But there's a vibe of like, it

Felt like she felt stifled by

Where she was.

Like, she wasn't full on code

Switching but she wasn't able to

Full on be herself either.

>> Bob: in regards to your

Family, what do you want them to

See in this performance?

>> Faith: I would, i, I just

Want them to know that i, my

Life is fun, my life is exciting

And I'm successful, I'm a great

Person and what I do, I love.

My lifestyle, I love.

I just want them to really see

It as being okay.

I want them to see that.

[Tractor engine noise]

♪ ♪

>> Olin: I'm straight, I am a

Father and I'm a husband.

To me, family comes first.

So when my big brother came to

Me and told me he wanted me to

Do this with him I just thought

You support your family, really

Regardless.

>> Shangela: hello.

Hi.

>> Olin: hey.

>> Shangela: I'm guessing that

You are olin.

>> Olin: I am, how are you?

>> Shangela: hi, nice to meet

You.

>> Olin: nice to meet you.

>> Shangela: I'm dj, or

Shangela, everybody calls me

Shangela, so feel free to.

>> Olin: okay, okay, call me

Olin.

>> Shangela: okay, consider that

Done.

>> Olin: yeah, yeah.

>> Shangela: awesome, nice to

Meet you.

>> Olin: nice to meet you.

>> Shangela: this is my first

Time to spartanburg so, are you

From here?

>> Olin: I am.

>> Shangela: oh, okay.

>> Olin: born and raised.

I've got an older brother and a

Younger sister.

>> Shangela: okay.

>> Olin: my sister and I just

Live around the corner from each

Other.

>> Shangela: okay, cool.

>> Olin: but my brother, pat, he

Lives in charleston in columbia,

He goes back and forth, he

Performs drag.

>> Shangela: what's his drag

Name?

>> Olin: patio furniture.

>> Shangela: I love it already.

All right.

>> Olin: in the southeastern

Region if you say patio

Furniture, they know patio.

>> Shangela: so, what do you

Think about in spartanburg like

I know there's a g*y pride here

But do you think that it's like

An overwhelming amount of

Support?

Do you think there's still some

Opposition?

>> Olin: I think a lot of it

Down here with us being very

Christian, you have some people

That don't acknowledge it at all

And you have some that accept it

But not want it thrown at them.

>> Shangela: mmmhmm, and what do

You think about you doing this

Show?

>> Olin: it, it, it's, I got

Extremely mixed feelings.

>> Shangela: yes.

>> Olin: I've had some friends

Of mine at work, who when they

Found out, it's absolutely not

Accepted.

>> Shangela: look, I believe in

The amount of love and respect

And admiration that you have for

Your brother, for you to take a

Walk in his shoes, literally

Take a walk in his heels just

Say hey, I'm gonna get in drag

So I can fully identify with

What you're going through,

That's gonna be a huge moment.

>> Shangela: hi.

>> Olin: hi, shangela, how are

You?

>> Shangela: good, I thought I'd

Bring a couple items by.

>> Olin: well here, let me, let

Me go ahead and grab them.

>> Shangela: hi.

>> Pat: hello, hello.

>> Shangela: hello.

>> Pat: I'm pat.

>> Shangela: oh, nice to meet

You.

>> Pat: good to see you.

>> Shangela: I'm dj but

Everybody calls me shangela.

>> Shangela: spartanburg feels

Very cordial south, you know

It's very, oh, come in, welcome

Everybody, it has a beautiful

Exterior but you know every

Beautiful exterior always has

Something else working on the

Inside.

>> Shangela: I just got to

Spartanburg today, this city is

Buzzing.

>> Papa: downtown has picked up

A lot.

>> Shangela: being in this

Community you feel like it's

Changed any over time?

How inclusive it is maybe now or

Not inclusive?

>> Papa: in nineteen fifties you

Know I didn't know what g*y was,

Never heard the term.

Now you got a bunch of letters

You gotta memorize.

>> Shangela: [laughs]

What is it olin?

It's the•

>> Olin: lgbtq community.

>> Shangela: there you go, look

At that, professional.

How long have you been

Performing?

>> Pat: twenty years.

>> Shangela: really?

Awesome.

>> Pat: and we have a great

Organization that's our local

A*DS service organization.

>> Shangela: is it a fundraiser

Event?

>> Pat: it's a fundraiser, it is

Their largest single fundraiser

And•

>> Shangela: oh, wow.

>> Pat: and um, I have been

Lucky enough to host it for the

Past ten years and love doing

It, that's a big part of what I

Do, I love•

>> Shangela: have you been to

The fundraiser before?

>> Olin: I have.

>> Shangela: papa, have you ever

Been to the fundraiser event?

>> Papa: I have not.

>> Shangela: but you've heard

About it?

>> Papa: oh, yeah, every year.

♪ ♪

>> Pat: yeah, olin would come

Out and he and his wife there a

Couple times to see me perform.

You know, having you in the

Crowd, having family there means

A lot.

Coming up this week uh,

We're gonna do a show.

>> Shangela: yes.

>> Pat: downtown, here in

Spartanburg.

>> Papa: not in columbia?

Here?

>> Shangela: no sir.

Here.

>> Papa: oh, here, okay.

>> Pat: down in morgan square.

>> Shangela: in spartanburg on

Tuesday night um, I am really

Excited because pat's gonna be

There and olin is joining me as

Well.

And they're gonna help me to

Showcase in this community how

Uh, advanced and inclusive and

Uh, like open minded this

Community is so we're putting on

A really cool drag show on

Tuesday night.

>> Papa: see I didn't know about

This.

>> Shangela: first of its kind

Sir.

So you're more than welcome if

You would like to come.

>> Papa: you will get attention.

>> Shangela: yes, sir.

>> Olin: our family, I

Understand exactly their

Feelings, they acknowledge that

Pat's g*y but they don't believe

That it's right, so I kind of

Have mixed feelings whether

They're gonna accept me wanting

To do this drag show.

And that's a scary thing.

♪ ♪

♪ ♪

>> Eureka: what size do you

Wear?

>> Noah: um, I have no idea.

>> Eureka: you don't know what

Size you wear?

>> Noah: not in dresses no.

>> Eureka: in lady's clothes?

>> Noah: mmm, mmm.

>> Eureka: shopping is my

Favorite thing.

That's cute.

>> Noah: very, very aunt nancy.

>> Eureka: listen, aunt nancy

Might dress funny but she knows

How to party.

Are you nervous?

>> Noah: yeah.

>> Eureka: being this g*y in

Public?

>> Noah: yep.

>> Eureka: why?

>> Noah: um, there's just a lot

Of haters.

>> Eureka: like what, what are

You afraid of?

That they're gonna judge you?

>> Noah: um, I'm afraid of

Getting followed and bashed.

>> Eureka: really?

>> Noah: yeah.

I've been followed before.

>> Eureka: you've been followed

Before?

>> Noah: yeah, it was on a

Night that I was kind of

Dressing really on,

Androgynously and had a lot of

Makeup on, I went out to this

Bar and there these people

Staring at me weird and I got

Followed home.

>> Eureka: do you think they

Were following you to like have

Sex with you or hurt you?

'Cause it could be either.

>> Noah: probably both.

>> Eureka: right.

They wanted to k*ll me and have

Sex with my dead body.

>> Noah: [laughs]

>> Eureka: very dommer fish.

I'm getting my daughter ready

For the prom.

>> Noah: okay.

>> Eureka: I'll be right here if

You need me.

>> Noah: okay, bye.

>> Eureka: how does it feel?

Do we like it?

Work!

This is my favorite.

Oh my god, I love this.

We gotta give this a little

Strut.

>> Noah: a strut?

>> Eureka: oh, my god, give me a

Little strut.

Who cares about these people.

You can do it.

Hey, anybody in the store, I

Want, I want you all to

Watch my drag daughter right now

'Cause she's nervous and we're

Gonna applaud her.

Miss miranda petri o'hara.

Work.

See, yes!

Come on sis, work.

She says, oh, these old things.

These mean nothing.

Ok, you gotta give me a snap.

Snap, snap mama.

Come on work.

Yes, work, yes.

Oh, my god, I'm so proud of you.

>> Noah: that was like the

Hardest thing I've ever done

Actually.

>> Eureka: was it?

>> Noah: yeah.

>> Eureka: well you looked good.

Look, see people

Literally don't care.

So how was that, weird?

>> Noah: it's weird.

>> Eureka: oh, I love you.

Ok, you can change.

You can get out now.

>> Noah: it feels so lame.

>> Eureka: you should be proud

Of yourself.

>> Noah: it was so hard.

>> Eureka: yeah?

It's hard to expose yourself.

>> Noah: yeah.

I mean even in boy

Clothes I feel uncomfortable.

>> Eureka: really?

>> Noah: I just

Wish that I liked,

[Sighs]

I wish I liked what i, what I

Looked like.

That's a big struggle.

>> Eureka: sometimes we create a

Perception of ourselves that we

Think other people see where

You're just obsessed over

Negative images of yourself.

And really it's just not true,

There's a lot of people out

There that see the beauty in you

But you have to see it too you

Know.

>> Noah: I spend a lot of time

Like hating my body too, so

Being a revealing is sometimes

Really hard unless I'm in a full

Look, don't•

>> Eureka: what do you hate

About your body?

No I'm• I'm not saying you're

Not allowed to hate your body.

>> Noah: I know.

>> Eureka: I just want to know

What you hate about your body.

>> Noah: um, really insecure

About my legs.

>> Eureka: okay.

>> Noah: 'cause they're like

Really manly and really strong

And really big and I don't like

That.

>> Eureka: that sounds wonderful

So you know what I'm saying,

It's like if you had like skinny

Little lady legs would be like

God, my legs are too lady like?

>> Noah: probably.

>> Eureka: you know what I mean.

>> Noah: yeah.

>> Eureka: so maybe it's not

Like those descriptions, maybe

It's just this idea of like

You're not enough.

If I can just get

Noah to this drag show it's

Gonna be our breakthrough

Moment.

I honestly think this is coming

At the perfect time for him.

♪ ♪

♪ ♪

♪ ♪

>> Noah: coming out again was

Really hard because coming out

As a g*y male was already hard

And it took a lot of thought for

Me to come out of the closet

With this.

I wanted to make sure that I

Knew.

>> Noah: hey, babe.

>> Nadia: hi.

>> Noah: how are you?

>> Nadia: I'm well, how are you?

>> Noah: I'm good, I miss you.

>> Nadia: I miss you, too.

> Noah: my friend nadia was

Like one of the first people to

Really acknowledge my non-binary

Non-cis self.

>> Nadia: I don't have to work

Tonight by the way.

>> Noah: oh, perfect, we are

Gonna watch alien covenant•

All right, bye babe, love you.

>> Nadia: I love you.

>> Noah: I don't want anything.

>> Eureka: put your clothes on

And open the damn door.

Hell yeah!

Oh my god.

I love this!

>> Noah: mamacita.

>> Eureka: you look good.

>> Noah: thank you.

>> Eureka: kind of wild 'cause I

Remember the last time I met

You, you were a little more

Timid about putting yourself out

There.

>> Noah: yep.

>> Eureka: you know what I'm

Saying?

So congrats to you.

>> Noah: oh, my god, when you

Had me in that f*cking thrift

Store on the way to hampton.

>> Eureka: oh, my god, the

Thrift store was so beautiful

Though, it was a gorgeous

Moment.

To be honest.

>> Noah: you can, you can pay

Me for that trauma later.

>> Eureka: no, you can pay me

For that therapy that that

Trauma put you through okay.

>> Noah: you're right, okay,

Fine.

>> Eureka: that was converting

From fear to fearless.

>> Noah: no, thank you.

It helped.

>> Eureka: have you come out as

Non-binary?

>> Noah: yeah.

That was also a big change.

>> Eureka: full t, oh, my gosh.

>> Noah: nadia, nadia helped

Me, she was just like you feel

Very, you, you, you feel very

They, them, you feel like a they

And I was•

>> Eureka: yeah?

>> Noah: when she said that I

Was like, thank you for

Recognizing it without me having

To prompt you, like it was a big

Moment for me because I'd been

Assigned like cis, like

Masculine cis male my entire

Life.

>> Eureka: is this the infamous

Nadia?

>> Nadia: we have guests.

Hello.

>> Eureka: ahhh!

Can I hug you?

>> Nadia: yeah, absolutely.

You're so beautiful.

>> Eureka: oh, my gosh, so you

Are you.

>> Nadia: oh, my gosh, it's nice

To meet you.

>> Eureka: oh, my god, you're

Gorgina.

Come in and sit with us.

>> Noah: isn't she amazing.

>> Eureka: noah was telling me

About your all's podcast.

>> Noah: yeah.

>> Eureka: and how much you like

Really helped him.

>> Nadia: yes, that's me.

>> Noah: it is called•

>> Nadia: I'm their biggest

Fan.

>> Noah: yeah.

>> Eureka: oh, h*, h*, h*.

>> Noah: I'm, I'm her biggest

Fan, this is my hero, we are

Getting married one day.

>> Eureka: when you're forced to

Go into that dark hole, when you

Come out of it on the other side

There's a lot you can discover

And when you're a person of

Difference, it helps to have

Someone like nadia that's like

You know what, girl you are okay

Being exactly like that.

Don't be afraid to be who you

Are.

This beautiful non

Binary child of mine.

>> Nadia: yes.

Absotutely.

>> Eureka: yes, absotooter,

Tooty lootly honey.

>> Nadia: yes.

>> Faith: I know usually I put

Them in the sink but they

Haven't been getting um, like

Proper drainage so they've been

Growing like a layer of mold its

Gross so you just spritz them.

It's just a little love.

>> Shaniqua: still learning.

>> Faith: I feel like quarantine

Helped me get more in tune with

Myself because I had to heal

Myself first internally in order

To love myself.

For the first time I am in a

Happy, healthy relationship with

My partner shaniqua.

>> Shaniqua: hey babe?

>> Faith: yes?

>> Shaniqua: can you bring me

Paper towels?

>> Faith: mmmhmm.

>> Shaniqua: thanks.

>> Faith: me and shaniqua, we

Both had time to really get to

Know each other, we got close at

The perfect time.

Before quarantine I was so busy

That I didn't see value in the

People around me including her.

I just gotta get this

Bottom layer of gold.

And so when everything

Slowed down for me you know

Pretty much like, it was like

The person right in

Front of you the whole time

Who's your person.

>> Shaniqua: [unintelligible]

>> Faith: no.

There's nothing little about me.

♪ ♪

>> Faith: hello.

>> Bob: oh, my god, hey!

>> Faith: hi.

>> Bob: oh, my good it's so, I

Haven't seen you in so long.

>> Faith: oh, my goodness.

>> Bob: you look amazing.

>> Faith: no you do.

>> Bob: we do.

>> Faith: I'll take that.

>> Bob: let's have a seat.

How have you been?

What's been up with you?

>> Faith: I'm in a relationship.

>> Bob: wait, what is it, when

Did this start?

Not this, not• is she coming to

The show?

>> Faith: of course.

>> Shangela: look how long your

Beard is.

Come on in, have a seat.

Hi, pat.

>> Pat: hey, good to see you.

>> Shangela: how you guy's been?

Oh, it's been a year.

>> Olin: mmmhmm.

>> Shangela: it has been a year.

It's just crazy, I'm so thankful

To be back with you all.

>> Olin: well we're glad to be

Back, I guess.

>> Shangela: oh, yeah, what you

Mean you guess?

>> Eureka: ooh, welcome, you

Look good.

Come on, come give mama a hug.

We're gonna be dominatrixes and

We're gonna have cages, the

Whole nine yards, we're about to

Be out there.

>> Noah: okay.

>> Shangela: so who do you want

To be, who does olin want to be

When you are on stage?

Are you sassy?

Are you like sugar pie, super

Sweet, nice?

Are you the sex kitten like bam?

Mmm, mmm, mmm, are you that?

>> Eureka: really just

Expressing like this idea of

Like, no matter what people say

Like, it's your choice to be who

You are.

Ooh!

Shoes.

That's a slutty boot.

>> Noah: oh, my god.

>> Eureka: yeah.

>> Noah: those are f*cking

Amazing.

>> Shangela: do you feel nervous

Right now talking about it?

>> Olin: very nervous.

I don't dress like a woman.

I don't want to dress like a

Woman.

>> Shangela: yeah, I hear you.

>> Shangela: so, we're gonna

Shave the beard and give you,

Have you ever worn lashes

Before?

>> Olin: mmm, mmm.

I ain't never done nothing.

>> Bob: something I've been

Really thinking about is you

Blossoming into the q*eer woman,

The representation of black

Excellence that you are.

I want to turn you into like a

Flower that you are just

Obviously, clearly a flower, you

Know what I mean.

>> Gonna make a, a hell of a low

Bigger.

>> Like wynona.

>> Shangela: do you like this

Color?

>> Or would you like to try

Something different.

>> Shangela: let's compare them.

Oh, yeah.

There you go.

>> Look at, you look like

Flirty, winky eyes.

>> Shangela: that's what charter

Banks is, shmeyes.

I like this color.

>> Olin: okay.

We'll go with the color.

>> Shangela: we'll go with the

Color?

Halleloo.

All right.

>> Eureka: okay mama, you gotta

Give us a strut honey, here's

Your runway.

Oh girl, miss mistress bobo

Maxwell.

Yes.

>> She's running.

>> Eureka: she's jogging through

The halls honey.

Ooh!

Oh, can you twerk in them?

>> Noah: I cannot twerk.

>> Eureka: have you ever tried?

>> Noah: every day.

I cannot.

>> Eureka: no lie, every day.

>> Shangela: six, seven eight,

And one, two, three, four, five,

Six, seven, eight and two, two,

Look at you, ain't even gotta

Look down.

>> Olin: uh, uh.

>> Shangela: so you don't think

It's gonna work for the show?

>> Olin: not these.

>> Shangela: okay.

>> Olin: something a little bit

Shorter and maybe a little bit

Wider on the, on the heel.

>> Shangela: yes.

>> Olin: that's, that's

Something right there.

Take somebody's eye out with

That.

>> Pat: and that right there,

That right there is what I wear

Every week.

>> Shangela: halleloo.

>> Pat: I'm a camp queen, I'm a

Comedy queen.

I host and mc events for

Charity.

>> Pat: quietest room I have

Gotten ready in.

>> Olin: little bit crooked.

There you go.

>> Olin: growing up some of my

Close friends asked me, say, is

Your brother g*y.

And then I'd be like no, that's

Just him, being pat.

They didn't think that it's

Right for someone to be g*y.

>> Pat: when I put that costume

On, I will do things, say things

That I wouldn't as pat.

>> Olin: I was the last one in

The family to find out.

He had tears coming out of his

Eyes, looked pretty scared, and

He just comes out and says olin

I'm g*y.

I told him it's okay.

I mean he's my brother and I'm

Gonna love him regardless.

>> Pat: being in drag empowers

Me, I just hope that there's

Some kid out in that audience

That's hearing it and will have

The courage to live their true

Self.

>> Pat: in this 1999 movie...

Woman:

Varsity blues.

>> Pat: really hellen?

Let me explain how this sh*t

Works.

[Everyone laughs]

>> Shangela: ian, have you ever

Seen your dad dancing in the

House?

>> Ian: no.

Not•

>> Olin: tell the truth.

>> Shangela: no?

How you gonna feel ian seeing

Your dad dance on stage?

>> Ian: embarrassed.

>> Shangela: embarrassed?

How old are you?

>> Olin: but he's, he's not,

He's not•

>> Ian: eleven.

>> Olin: he's not gonna be

There.

>> Shangela: well you'll see it

One day.

Ok.

>> Olin: yeah he will, he'll see

It one day.

>> Shangela: for sure.

>> Shangela: well cool.

>> Olin: he's still, he's still

A little young.

Me be honest with you I thought

That y'all weren't gonna come

Back and it was my kind of out

And it, it was a tough decision

For me about doing this just

Because of the small town we

Live in and the way that they'll

Perceive me.

And how they're gonna

Perceive my son.

I don't want them getting

Tarnished for something that I

Believe in.

>> Shangela: but you know what?

You're standing up for your

Brother.

You're standing up to say that

Drag is a good thing and showing

Your kids everyone should be

Valued and respected.

I appreciate you for that and

We're gonna do it and do it

Well.

All right?

♪ ♪

>> Bob: faith, hi.

>> Faith: hi.

>> Bob: hey everybody, how are

You all?

>> Everyone: hi.

>> Bob: so who, who is everyone?

>> Faith: so this is my mom.

>> Mom: hi, bob.

>> Bob: hi, mom, how are you?

>> Mom: good, how are you?

>> Bob: I'm great, it's a

Pleasure meeting you.

>> Mom: nice meeting you too.

>> Faith: and so this is my

Girlfriend shaniqua.

>> Bob: I've heard a lot about

You.

>> Shaniqua: I hope; I hope it

Was good.

>> Bob: oh, all great stuff, I

Mean•

>> Faith: and so then this is my

Little sister angel.

>> Bob: oh.

>> Mom: angel.

>> Angel: nice to meet you.

>> Bob: you have a little sister

Vibe.

So I'm gonna ask um, so how is

The black scene here in

Spartanburg?

>> Faith: it's not.

>> Bob: what about q*eer culture

In this area, is there a•?

>> Angel: same.

>> Faith: bible belt here very

Much.

>> Bob: do you all ever notice

There's any h*m*, especially to

You two, have you noticed

There's any h*m*

Specifically in the black

Community here?

>> Shaniqua: I would say with me

It, within my family um, of

Course uh, I never came out when

My mom was alive but I kind of

Think she always knew, I say she

Always knew 'cause it's a key

She drank like a little boy and

I would say my mom must have

Wanted me to be g*y you know I

Liked to but as, as far as on my

Daddy's side I caught some slack

But as I you know came around

And talked to him about it you

Know a lot of people see it as

Some women wants to be a man but

That's not me so once they saw

That, i, I'm not I'm still a

Woman identity I just like

Women.

They were okay with it.

>> Mom: well a lot of time you

Just feel like it's a phase they

Going through.

>> Angel: more a phase?

>> Mom: yeah, you just feel like

It's something that they're

Going through and eventually

They'll snap out of it, you know

You'll be like okay, you're

Gonna

Wake up in three months and

You're gonna be normal right.

>> Faith: what did you think

When I didn't snap out of it

Three months in?

>> I wanted to come in the

Bedroom and go, pop!

Snap out!

But I didn't.

>> Mom: I just, I felt like she

Was just being in the closet

Shut in, just all the way shut,

Always shut inside.

So I wanted her to be happy and

She wasn't happy holding all

That in.

So I was okay, I was okay with

It.

But I love my daughter no matter

What.

That's just the way it's gonna

Be.

>> Bob: that's so cute.

>> Mom: this is my baby.

I mean it's, she put me through

Some trying times but hey I

Stood in there.

>> Bob: faith embraces the

Things that have put her on the

Fringe.

I think it goes back to her

Upbringing and, and I think she

Continues to feel like the black

Sheep.

♪ ♪

>> Eureka: oh, my god, I'm so

Excited that you're here.

Marvin.

This is noah.

>> Noah: hello.

>> Eureka: obviously the

Performance is really about

Expressing yourself in a world

Where we haven't always

Expressed ourselves and now

Especially as non-binary people

I feel like you're really

Expressing yourself more, I know

I am.

>> Noah: yep.

>> Eureka: it's like you're a

Whole blossomed, like, flower.

>> Noah: I'm obsessed with your

Eyebrows.

>> Eureka: oh, these.

>> Noah: I can't stop looking at

Them.

>> Eureka: thank you.

>> Shangela: look what I wore

For you today.

>> Olin: I like that.

>> Shangela: tina turner

Sweater.

>> Olin: miss tina.

>> Marvin: tina turner.

>> Shangela: yes.

>> Bob: there we go, what is

This?

>> Faith: there has to be

Another way.

Oh no.

>> Bob: you got this.

You got this.

>> Faith: it's, I'm feeling

Really tight and uncomfortable

Here.

>> Marvin: about me• yeah,

You're fine.

>> Noah: I'll get.

>> Marvin: up, down, left,
hip•

>> Bob: if I can promise you one

Thing, I can promise you that

You will be in pain.

>> Faith: what?

>> Shangela: shimmy, shimmy.

Shimmy, shimmy.

Shimmy, shimmy.

You gotta have that groove.

You got a little groove to you.

>> Olin: you do have to have

Groove and I got a little bit, I

Got a little bit of soul left in

Me.

>> Shangela: oh, you got some

Soul left in you?

Soul.

♪ ♪

>> Eureka: you're welcome baby.

>> Bob: falls down.

Have you ever been able to like

Really declare your love for

Shaniqua in front of your

Family?

>> Faith: no.

>> Bob: you should f*cking slow

Dance.

>> Faith: what?

>> Bob: you should.

It'll add•

>> Faith: I have never slow

Danced.

>> Bob: it has to happen; it

Just has to.

There, it needs to be, it needs

To happen.

>> Marvin: that would be cute,

That would be so adorable.

♪ ♪

>> Bob: oh, my god, they're

Gonna go crazy!

♪ ♪

>> Eureka: own it, you are the

One.

Who are you?

>> Noah: I'm mistress bobo

Maxwell.

>> Eureka: say it louder.

>> Noah: I'm mistress bobo

Maxwell!

>> Eureka: louder.

>> Marvin: louder.

>> Eureka: scream it.

>> All: I'm mistress bobo

Maxwell.

>> Eureka: yes, b*tch.

♪ ♪

>> Faith: now that's a lash.

>> Literally your whole eyebrow

Is gone.

>> All right, olin are you

Ready?

>> Olin: yeah.

>> Are you gonna be sad?

>> Olin: no.

>> Here comes the ladies.

It's endless.

>> Faith: my nerves are kind of

Starting to kick in but it's in

A good way.

>> Bob: now when your adrenaline

Kicks in you're invincible, your

Feet don't hurt, the corset

Doesn't feel tight.

>> Faith: okay.

♪ ♪

>> All right, let's put her in

Baw-day.

>> Faith: give me body.

That's my butt.

I waited my whole life for this

Moment.

>> Shangela: yes, pop the cheek

Bones out, look at, yes look at.

>> Olin: I've always been a bull

In a china shop.

>> Shangela: well tonight you're

Not a bull.

What are you?

>> Olin: fierce.

>> Shangela: that's right and

That's noble, how 'bout that.

Yes.

>> Pat: your brother had been

Here up until about fifteen

Minutes ago.

Your brother gone now, the queen

Has arrived.

Yes.

>> Noah: I haven't physically

Rehearsed but I've been going

Through the performance and

Every step all day long.

>> Eureka: then just believe in

Yourself like we do.

'Cause we believe in you baby.

>> It's good?

>> Faith: it feels good.

I feel like a celebrity.

♪ ♪

>> Eureka: oh, my god!

Oh, my god, I love you guys so

Much.

>> Eureka: I was raised as a

Drag queen only a few hours away

From here and my drag family

Just drove up here just to be a

Part of my performance.

>> Eureka: I am literally here

Because of all you.

I would not be here today

Without you; I promise you that.

I just love you so much.

I love you so much.

>> Drag queen: we love you and

We're so proud of you.

>> Eureka: eureka was created in

This like bubble of love right

And this bubble of love just

Happens to have big boobies and

Smell like mackie.

[Laughs]

>> Shangela: coming to the stage

I'd like to introduce your

Hostess for the evening, miss

Eureka o'hara and family.

[Cheers and applause]

>> Eureka: you ready, ah ha.

♪ ♪

>> Eureka: girl listen, society

Has tried to tell me my whole

Mother f*cking life that I

Wasn't hot or sexy but as a

Queen, I knew otherwise.

Now girl, let's be real, I

Wouldn't be nothing without my

Drag family always lighting a

Fire up this delicious sick

Mother f*cking a*s.

Now I want you all to meet some

Of the amazons that have lit my

Life up.

♪ ♪

>> Eureka: my drag mother the

Amazing amazon, jaqueline saint

James.

♪ ♪

>> Eureka: my drag sister,

Fatriana evans.

♪ ♪

>> Eureka: now next up, my baby

Girl, seeing comps o'hara.

♪ ♪

♪ ♪

>> Eureka: yes, and now here I

Come, uh, oh, b*tch, uh, oh,

Here she comes, eureka!

♪ ♪

♪ ♪

>> Eureka: all right, family.

You ready, light up the stage,

Light up the stage, light up the

Stage, light up the stage.

Light up, light up, light up,

Light up•

♪ ♪

>> Eureka: all right, b*tches.

[Cheers and applause]

[Cheers and applause]

That is the legacy that I come

From.

My original drag family.

I also have some other amazing

Friends in the audience, thank

You so much.

Pontheola.

You gave us this amazing space.

Can I get a huge round of

Applause?

[Cheers and applause]

This beautiful black woman who

Reclaimed this plantation home

In a society of rebirth and

Build up that we need in this

World right now.

Thank you so much.

Thank you.

>> Faith: I'm excited to have my

Family see me, like, living in

My truth and to show people that

Hey, love has no gender it has

No race, it's just love.

>> Eureka: I want to introduce

My next entertainer who is the

Daughter of the incredible bob

The drag queen, give it up for

Big mama from the house of mama.

[Cheers and applause]

♪ ♪

["Make you feel my love"]

[Cheers and applause]

♪ ♪

["Make you feel my love"]

[Cheers and applause]

♪ ♪

[Applause]

["Make you feel my love"]

[Cheers and applause]

♪ ♪

>> Bob: make some noise for big

Mama.

[Cheers and applause]

I know I was, I was, that

f*cking love, I was crying, I'm

Not gonna lie, I was crying like

A b*tch, I'm not gonna lie.

After that, if shaniqua don't

Put a ring on it I'm going to

That was....

>> Faith: I do want to thank

Everybody for coming out and I

Especially want to thank my

Family and my friends thank you

All so much.

>> Noah: if I could talk to

Myself a year ago I would say

Focus on that you are valid.

Nothing that anybody else says

Matters.

>> Shangela: tonight, please

Welcome my sister eureka o'har•.

>> Eureka: with this

Performance, we're bringing the

Freak flag to spartanburg and

Maybe they'll go home and let

Their freak flag fly a little

Bit.

♪ ♪

>> Hello.

Like I told you before, I need

To to act right, noah, have some

Class.

No one's going to buy make the

Cream truck if you're handing

Out popsicles for free.

[Cheers and applause]

♪ ♪

[Cheers and applause]

♪ ♪

♪ ♪

[Cheers and applause]

♪ ♪

[Cheers and applause]

♪ ♪

[Cheers and applause]

>> Eureka: here you go, baby.

>> Noah: it's been a really

Wonderful journey out of the

Chrysalis.

When I got done with makeup

Today, and looked in the mirror

I was like, I know you but I've

Never met you before and I love

You.

[Cheers and applause]

>> Eureka: and we love you, I

Know that's why, one more time

For miss bobo maxwell o'hora.

>> Olin: I'm thinking that this

Is a, a lot bigger than what I

Thought it would have been at

The beginning.

>> Bob: please welcome to the

Stage from shangela's house.

>> Olin: everybody knows about

Pat but this is extremely out of

My comfort zone.

>> Bob: oh, lotta furniture and

The legend miss patio furniture.

>> Olin: I think that to do

Something like this now I know a

Little bit more of what he's

Going through.

♪ ♪

>> Another day at the office.

>> Let's get to work.

♪ ♪

[Cheers and applause]

Is a come musical

♪ ♪[Cheers and applause]

♪ ♪

[Cheers and applause]

♪ ♪

[Cheers and applause]

♪ ♪

[Cheers and applause]

>> Pat: our father is here

Tonight.

This is the first time in my

Twenty-one-year career that he's

Ever seen me perform and this is

The first time he's ever seen oh

Lotta perform either.

[Cheers and applause]

You got this brother.

>> Olin: when growing up pat did

His thing and I did my thing I

Guess it was twenty years ago

Maybe, I was the last one to

Find out that he was g*y and um,

I think I was the last one

Because he was scared that I

Wasn't gonna accept him.

Uh.

[Crying]

>> Pat: I love you brother.

>> Olin: [crying]

I love you too but I'm kind of a

Manly man but um, sometimes you,

You know the old saying, think

Outside the box, sometimes you

Have to act outside the box and

There might be another time that

You might see us up on stage I

Don't know.

>> Shangela: all right, we got a

Road show.

You all give up for my new

Daughters, the one and only miss

Patti o'furniture and oh, lotta

Furniture.

>> Shangela: I'm hoping that

Olin's performance will be the

First step for the entire family

To be able to showcase their

Support of pat with no types of

Limitations on it.

It's not like we love you but

Keep the g*y stuff out there.

It's gonna be like we love you,

If this is a part of your life

And conversation, it is welcome

Here.

>> Faith: y'all, look.

God had the butt I've been

Waiting on all my life.

Ooh, child!

My body's too bootylicious for

You baby.

>> Eureka: noah!

Baby.

Well this is obviously your

Family now too so.

>> Drag queen: we're not just a

Family on stage, we are a family

In real life.

>> Eureka: I feel like we need a

Group hug moment.

Get in here, noah.

>> Pat: I'm so proud of him.

And I mean he went in a hundred

And ten percent.

Seeing the sacrifices that he

Made for me, I'm gonna have to

Step it up.

It's gonna start with tomorrow

Morning getting up real early to

Go see my nephew play baseball,

Uh, ha, but I'm gonna do it

Because I figure if, if olin can

Do all this for me, the least I

Can do is go watch sports.

>> Faith: hey baby!

>> Faith: this has to be like

One of the best feelings in my

Life, like i, like I feel

Magical.

>> Faith: did you get my story

Mama?

>> Mom: I got your story baby.

>> Faith: you got my story.

>> Mom: yes, my baby grown into

A flower pot and then she got

Watered and then she blossomed.

She blossomed.

She blossomed into the most

Beautiful individual ever.

And god just want to•

>> Faith: thanks ma.

>> Mom: just god just want to

Let you know you are loved among

Everybody.

All of us and we just adore you.

>> Faith: thank you all for

Being here.

>> Eureka: helping the q*eer

Community be relevant in

Spartanburg is important because

Being out and proud is what's

Gonna show those kids that are

Being raised in this town that

Are q*eer that there are people

Like them.

Drag heals the world.

And spartanburg is just the

Beginning.

[Laughs]

♪ ♪

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