01x07 - Julie & Carlos

[bunniefuu]

- MALE SINGER: ♪ MTV

- FEMALE SINGER: ♪ Yeah,
I been hiding ♪

♪ In plain sight this
whole time ♪

- TRAVIS: You've met the love
of your life...

- I love him.
Like, I wanna marry him.

- I think Barry is the one.

- RAHNE: But they're hiding
a massive secret...

- I have not met anybody
in his family.

- RAHNE:...you.

- I don't wanna keep thinking
it's me.

- I'm proud of our relationship.
I want her to be proud too.

That's all.

- TRAVIS: We're on a mission
to find out why.

- He's maybe doing some type
of steroids.

- We got missing jewelry,
a house that no one can go to.

Welcome to Vegas.

- I mean, he may be in
another relationship.

- Oh!

- I'm Rahne Jones.

Let her go, let her go.

I've been hidden.

I can't tell you how
hurtful it is.

It does make you
severely insecure.

- I'm Travis Mills.

I've definitely done it.
I've been in relationships

that I haven't posted at all.

- RAHNE: We're joining forces
to help desperate partners

uncover the truth about
their secret relationships.

- I used to work for the
Department of Homeland Security.

- This could very well be a guy
that's living a double life.

- There's a difference between
being in love

and being a sucker for love.

- If we do not do this,
there will be no wedding.

- TRAVIS: We'll bring these
couples face-to-face.

- The reason why I'm
hiding you...

- The reason I'm hiding
you is...

- I really don't know what
to do.

- RAHNE: To reveal their
shocking secrets.

- That's enough.

- Can I get a second?

- You should have told me
something like that!

- You in there with your ex?

- Donald!
- Donald!

- Yo, what the [bleep]?
- All right, Donald.

- Stormy, come on, man.
Open the door.

- TRAVIS: This is MTV's

"Help, I'm in a Secret
Relationship".

- TRAVIS: Tonight, we're in
Hoboken, New Jersey

with Julie and Carlos.

- I love Carlos so much
and he's just hiding me.

- TRAVIS: Carlos thinks he's
on a show about

up-and-coming performers,
but Julie wants

to know why she's
being hidden.

- I have never met his parents.

- And you have not met any
of his friends?

- No.

- It's not that simple.
If it was,

I would have just told
her by now.

- I have a theory.

- He grew up in a
Catholic household

and I'm Jewish.

- There's a lot of compromises
that need to be made

to make that work.

- That's enough.

I can't.

- TRAVIS: Holy [bleep].

- ♪

- FEMALE SINGER: ♪ I'm not
even grinning ♪

♪ I'm back, I'm back

♪ I'm not even getting

♪ I'm back, I'm back

- Welcome to the East Coast.

- I'm on your coast now.
Change of pace.

- Welcome. Glad to see ya.

- Yeah, you see the five layers
of clothing I have to wear?

- [Rahne laughs]

- Comes to the East Coast once,
dresses like an Eskimo.

- Like, what are you,
in a tundra?

- Let's see what we got today.
- All right.

- ♪

- RAHNE: Julie has been dating
her boyfriend, Carlos,

for four years.

- FEMALE SINGER: ♪ Start
it up ♪

- My name is Julie and I
currently live

in Hoboken, New Jersey
with my boyfriend, Carlos.

- I demand a recount.
- [Julie laughs]

- You cheated.
- You're dripping.

One of the first things I really
loved about him

was his personality just
came right through.

He always makes me laugh.
- Good girl.

- Stella.
- Yeah.

- He is the love of my life.

I could see us getting married
in the next couple years.

- Good girl, you're so good.

- Carlos is Catholic
and Venezuelan

and I'm Jewish and American.

So we do have some cultural
differences.

- [speaking Spanish]

- [chatter]

- I don't speak Spanish,
so I'm learning Spanish.

I wanna be able to talk
to his family.

- [speaking Spanish]

- [speaking Spanish]

- CARLOS: Yeah.

- What does that mean?
- Kiss my a*s. [laughs]

- I definitely grew up in a
little bit more

of a conservative household.

Imagine if I said that
to your grandma.

- Well, my grandma's dead,
so...[laughs]

She won't mind.

- Before we moved in together,
he said I would get

to meet his family, his friends.
That was two years ago

and I still haven't
met anybody.

- My parents travel
all the time.

This week's no good.

- I'm just so tired
of seeing these photos

of you with your family...
- It hasn't worked out.

- I don't know why he's
hiding me.

I'm a little nervous to find
out the truth,

but if he's hiding something
really bad,

I can't be with him.

- I'm kinda like, thrown
with the fact that they

live together and she has
met no one in four years,

and they just got
a new puppy.

- When you get a puppy,
that's like an unofficial child.

Right?
- That's your baby.

- You're living together,
you have a dog together.

She wants to get engaged.
- Yeah.

- But only if she can find out
why he's hiding her.

And if she doesn't,
she says that it's over.

- Oh, Lord.

- We have a lot of work
ahead of us.

- We do, indeed.

- Where are we gonna meet her?

- At the tennis court.

- Let me tell you what.
I was taking some tennis lessons

for a little bit there.
- Okay.

- I'm awful.
- RAHNE: [laughs] Me, too.

- ♪

- MALE SINGER: ♪ Hey
the party started ♪

♪ We ain't trying to go home
we ain't missing all this ♪

♪ Hey, get this party started
hey ♪

- Practice real quick.

- JULIE: Go, Ally!

- TRAVIS: Which one of you
is Julie?

- Hi, Julie.
- Julie!

- JULIE: Hi!
- How you doing?

- Good. Sweaty.

- Are we...are we crashing
y'all's lesson?

- RAHNE: Sorry!

- I'm Travis.
- JULIE: Nice to meet you.

- You as well.
- Hi, I'm Rahne.

Nice to meet you.
- Nice to meet you.

- I've taken, like,
three tennis lessons

in my whole life
and I'm not that great.

- Gotta tell you, I'm nervous.

- JULIE: You're in the
right spot, so.

- Rahne, if I hit you
in the face, I'm sorry.

- ♪

- You got it. Yes!

- You take it! You take it!
- I got it!

- I'm scared!
- TRAVIS: Go, Julie!

- Nice shot!
- Ah! Okay.

- Oh!
- Out!

- It was almost in.
- [laughter]

- Do you wanna sit down
and cool off and we can kinda...

- For sure.
- ...talk about everything

that's going on.
- Definitely.

- ALLY: Bye!
- Bye!

- TRAVIS: Bye, Ally!.
- Bye, Ally!

- Sorry I wasn't the
greatest partner.

- Next time!

- ♪

- Why don't you walk us
through, you know,

start at the beginning.
How did you and Carlos meet?

- So, my friend was looking
for an apartment,

and I was looking to room
with her,

and he was actually a realtor.
He showed us the apartment,

thought he was really cute.
He just started out

being friendly, um, we went
on a first date.

It was honestly pretty much
a whirlwind.

I was just moving.
We were spending a lot

of time together, like, it
started, like, once a week,

twice a week.
One of our first dates

I just started crying because
I was just so happy

to have this feeling that
I had never experienced before.

- ♪ I feel so alive

♪ Yeah, yeah, feel so alive

- You and Carlos have been
together for four years, right?

You still light up thinking
about Carlos.

Can you tell me about your,
your dating experience

and the past?

- I feel like I grew up in the
age of the ghost,

so it's been brutal.

Just not being treated right
at all.

- What is it about him
that makes you wanna stay

and want to give him a chance?

- I would say it's mainly,
like, just the feeling of

this is somebody that I would
like to spend my life with.

It's just this one very large
obstacle that I can't

really get past.
It's been four years

and I have never met
his parents.

- What are the excuses that
he gives?

- They're busy, they're
traveling.

Do they know you have
a girlfriend?

- Julie, just drop it.

- It's crazy, right?

I feel like everything's
perfect.

It's just no...no family,
no friends, like,

coordinates when he has
comedy shows that I don't go

when his parents go.
- Whoa, wait.

He's a comedian?
- Mm-hmm.

- So, he's intentionally not
bringing you around

these comedy shows.
- Correct.

- How does Carlos make
a living?

Like, what is his job on paper?

- He works in real estate and
he also produces

and does a ton of
stand-up comedy shows.

And he's obsessed with
wrestling,

and he's created a persona.

- Wait, wait, what?
- He started this

online presence of
The Equalizer wrestler.

- I'm the styling, profiling,
wheeling, dealing,

son of a g*n.
- Can I ask you a question?

How old is Carlos?
- He's 33.

- I feel like he's old enough
to know better, you know?

He's not like a kid that's not
allowed to have

a girlfriend over.
Like, this is a grown a*s man.

- Yes, yeah, exactly.

- Okay, so what are some things
that you think Carlos

can be hiding you for?

- It could be cultural
differences.

His family is from Venezuela
and I don't speak Spanish.

I'm also Jewish.
Um, he grew up

in a Catholic household.

- I mean, regardless of that
or not, that's a conversation

that you should be
having together.

- RAHNE: Absolutely.
- Yeah.

- TRAVIS: You know?

- It could be something
about me.

I have struggled a bit with
obsessive compulsive disorder.

Um, I didn't realize it until
a couple years ago.

- I get it.

I have been diagnosed with OCD,
anxiety, depression.

I spend a lot of time
in therapy.

What do you experience when,
you know,

when you're dealing with
something like OCD?

- I experience intrusive
thinking.

You're always, like, looking
at the situation

through a different lens.
Did you say the wrong thing?

Did you say something
inappropriate?

It's like second guessing
every step of the way.

And it's...
- It spirals.

- It spirals, yeah.
- It's just...

I don't know if he's hiding me
because of that.

I don't know.
- You know, Rahne and I have

been doing this for awhile,
so we've seen, uh,

a ton of different reasons
why people have been hidden.

Julie, do you think there
could be someone else?

- Um, I don't know.

I mean, he, like, works
pretty strange hours.

His shows could go, like,
'til two in the morning now.

But I feel like it's more,
like, me.

I don't think it's him.

- Um, who are some people that
you think Rahne

and I should talk to?

- Um, my best friend, Rachel.
We went to college together

and we're still really close.

And then, Orli and Spencer
are good friends.

I've known Orli since college
and Spencer the past

couple years.

- And they both have spent
time with Carlos,

they've...they've seen
your dynamic.

- For sure.

- Send us those names
and numbers.

- I'll send them to you guys
right away.

- Julie, thank you for, uh,
showing us how bad

we are at tennis, and we'll
be in touch, okay?

- For sure.
Thanks.

- RAHNE: All right,
have a good one.

Wanna get answers for our girl,
'cause she's the sweetest,

and I just really
hope that this works out.

- You know Julie's theories
on my he's hiding her,

I mean, the first one, cultural
and religious differences.

- If it's something about
religion,

if it's something that's
culturally-based,

I feel like that...those things
can hopefully be worked through.

- And I feel so bad 'cause
she's like, it's me.

It's something about me.
- Right.

She automatically went there.

- I wanna look at his socials.

- I think she sent us his
handle, so...

Carlos.

- TRAVIS: "I tell jokes
onstage.

Seen on a bunch of stuff.
- RAHNE: Yeah.

- He has a podcast.
- There you go.

- There's a comedy show.

There's the dog. There's Stella.

- Oh, there she is. Stella.
She got two posts.

- There's not one photo...
- Nothing.

- ...of Julie on there.

- What do you think?

Why do you think
he's hiding her?

- I don't wanna say that
there's someone else,

but going to the comedy shows
to support him, but he's

like coordinating it to where
his friends, his family

aren't there when his
girlfriend's there,

then when she's not there,
the friends and the family

are coming.
You know, he could be

having other girls come
to the comedy shows.

He could, you know
what I mean?

It's a big possibility.
- Yeah.

- I hope no matter how ugly
the truth may be,

she can accept it,
process it,

and then decide how
to move forwards.

- Yeah.
- But we definitely have

our work cut out for us.
- Absolutely.

- TRAVIS: Coming up...
- [Carlos groans]

- I get that this is a lot.
- Yeah, not cool.

- Let's give him some time.
Hopefully he'll come back.

- Do you think you're gonna
be able to call him out?

- Yeah, I mean, if it's
another person, that's it.

I'm out.

\h- FEMALE SINGER: ♪ Ain’t no way
I’m gonna break under pressure ♪

- TRAVIS: We’re in
Hoboken, New Jersey

\h\hto help Julie find out
whey her boyfriend, Carlos,

has been hiding her
\h\hfor four years.

\h\h\hAfter you.
We’re on our way

to meet Julie’s friend, Rachel,
\hto see if she has any ideas.

Are you Rachel?
\h\h\h\h- Yes.

\h\h- Hey, I’m Travis.
- So nice to meet you.

- Nice to meet you.
- RAHNE: I’m Rahne.

\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Rachel.
- We’re here to help Julie.

- Yes, and I appreciate you
\h\h\h\h\hguys doing that,

’cause she’s one of
\hmy best friends.

- What we wanna do is kinda
\h\h\h\h\h\hpick your brain

about that whole situation.

What’s your take on Carlos?

- Um, when I first met them,
\h\h\h\h\h\hI mean, they were

amazing together, and I can see,
like, how happy he makes her.

However, I do feel like there’s
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\ha red flag

in that she hasn’t met
\h\h\h\hhis family yet,

which is a huge deal.
\h\h\h\h\h\hI mean...

- That’s what I’ve been saying.

- Why do you think Carlos
\h\h\h\his hiding Julie?

- To be just completely honest,
\h\h\h\h\hI don’t think he has

any money, I think he’s broke.

\h- I mean, do you mind if I ask,
like, what makes you think that?

- Yeah, so on a pay app
\h\h\h\h\hwhich I use,

Carlos uses it, Julie doesn’t
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\huse pay apps,

but I see he’s been getting
\hpayments from his mother

\hon, like, a weekly basis.
Like, I can show you guys.

That’s his mother, Virginia.

- TRAVIS: Food and electric
\h\hbill, Stella expenses.

\h\h\h\h\h\h- RACHEL: Right.
- RAHNE: Literally everything

having to do with
\hthe household.

- Yeah, and it makes me
\h\h\h\hquestion, like,

does he have the money?
Like, I don’t think so.

He claims to be doing all of
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthese things.

He says he works in real estate
\h\h\h\h\hand he’s a comedian,

and those are kind of, like,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hhis jobs.

But there’s no proof that he’s,
\h\h\h\hlike, making any money

from all of these gigs,
\hand she just doesn’t

know where he is.

- Could you see Carlos living
\ha double life and possibly

having another girlfriend,
something else on the side?

\h- I don’t think he’s always
honest about what’s he doing

and where he is.

I mean, to answer your question,
maybe, yeah.

I mean, the signs are there.

\h\h\h\h\hShe’s such a kind,
genuine person who deserves,

you know, the same love back
\h\h\h\h\hthat she’s giving.

I hope that you can get
to the bottom of this.

\h\h\h- Yeah, we’re going to.
- That’s why we’re out here.

- RAHNE: Thank you for
\h\h\h\h\h\hyour time.

\h\h\h- Yeah, well, I really
appreciate you guys helping.

- Yo, I am hoping this is the
reason why he’s hiding Julie,

because his mom’s giving
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hhim money.

- Absolutely.

- Because we could go down a
\h\hmuch darker path of this,

like, double life...
\h\h\h- Other person.

- You know, working this job
\h\h\h\has, like, a cover up

so you can go out with your
\h\h\h\hboys and, you know,

[bleep] around, like, you know,
\h\h\h\h\h\hdo all this stuff.

\h\h\h- Uh, Rachel definitely
dropped a nugget on us, so...

\h- And we got receipts.
Pick it back up tomorrow.

- MALE SINGER: ♪ Take me to
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthe party ♪

♪ Let me stay up all night ♪

\h\h\h\h♪ You could be my heart,
hey, shining like a flashlight ♪

- RAHNE: Yesterday, Rachel
told us she believes Carlos

is hiding Julie from his family
\h\h\h\h\h\hbecause he’s broke

and his mom is paying his bills.

We’re curious to hear what
\h\hOrli and Spencer think.

- TRAVIS: How are you feeling
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\habout Julie?

- I was, like, up last night
\hthinking about how much it

just breaks my heart that she,
you know, is putting everything

on herself as the reason why
\h\h\h\h\hshe’s being hidden

rather than his own [bleep].

- The first thing that she said
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto us is,

this is my forever person.
\h\h\h\h- She’s a romantic.

Like, she wants to make it
\h\h\hwork no matter what.

- Those are the pitfalls of
\hbeing a hopeless romantic

is sometimes you’ll ignore the
\h\hred flags because you just

wanna be in a relationship
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hso bad.

This is high stakes.

- ♪

- Spencer and Orli.
\h\h\h\h- ORLI: Hi.

- How are you guys doing?
\h\h\h- Nice to meet you.

- Hi, how are you two.
\h\h- Hi, how are you?

\h- Rahne.
- Spencer.

- I’m Orli. Nice to meet you.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Travis.

- You mind if we, uh,
pull up these chairs?

All right, well, let’s
\h\h\htalk about Julie

and your perspective on this
\h\h\hwhole Carlos situation.

- Yeah, of course.

\h\h\hSo, Julie’s one of my
best friends from college,

but she’s definitely a more
\h\h\hconservative person,

and Carlos is extremely,
\h\h\h\hextremely bubbly,

like comedy, wrestling, like,
\h\h\h\h\h\hall of the above.

\hAnd Julie is very, like,
she’s a very chill person.

- So, do you have any theories
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\habout Carlos

and why he’s hiding Julie?

- Personally, my opinion is
\h\h\hthat it’s more, like,

the cultural differences.

Maybe he doesn’t want his family
to know that he’s

\h\h\h\h\hseeing someone from a
completely different religion.

Maybe that’s a conflict there.

- I have a theory.

\h\h\hUm, I went to one of his
comedy shows a few months back.

He went through this whole bit
\habout how he got a vasectomy.

And in excruciating detail he
\h\h\h\h\h\hsaid everything.

He said that they stuck a
\h\hneedle in his ba*ls.

It was a no-scalpel procedure.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hIt was $1,500.

All he felt was a little pinch.

- RAHNE: Needle in the ba*ls.
\h\h\h\h\h\h- SPENCER: Yeah.

- Do...do you see my legs
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hright now?

- I don’t even have ba*ls and
\h\h\h\h\h\hI was like, ooh.

- [laughter]

\h- But it was just, like,
so real, he would only know

about it if he actually
\h\h\h\h\hhad it done.

I’m convinced that he got
\h\h\h\h\h\h\ha vasectomy

and doesn’t want Julie to know.

- TRAVIS: Have you told Julie?
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I have not.

- Have you told Julie?
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- No.

\hI don’t want to upset her.
I mean, I know how important

\h\h\hkids are to her.
And if that’s the case,

he really needs to be the one
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto tell her.

- You know, Rahne and I met
\h\h\h\hwith her yesterday,

and one of the things that we
\h\h\h\hbrought up, and it’s

\h\h\hkinda like the first time
anyone’s ever told this to her,

but I was like, you know, she
\h\h\h\hwas telling us about

the comedy shows, late at night,
and I was like, well,

have you ever considered that
there could be somebody else?

Do you see Carlos being the
\h\h\h\h\htype of guy that

would do something like that?

- Um, I’ve told her that I
\h\h\h\hthought it was, um,

a little bit of a
sketch situation.

- I think he’s like,
not fully committal.

\h\h\h\hI don’t know.
That’s what I think.

\h- That’s a big one.
- That is a big one.

Well, thank you so much.
WE appreciate your time.

Great to meet you.
\h\h- You as well.

- Of course.

\hHoly [bleep].
- This could be

devastating for her and
\h\h\h\h\h\hdevastating

for the relationship.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- 100%.

\hI think the next step is
we talk to the only person

who can kind of give us
\h\h\h\h\h\hthe truth.

\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah.
- TRAVIS: And that’s Carlos.

- Carlos.

- TRAVIS: Remember, Carlos
\hthinks we’re doing a show

about up-and-coming
\h\h\h\hperformers.

- [phone ringing]

- CARLOS: Hello?
\h- Hey, Carlos?

- CARLOS: That’s me.

- RAHNE: This is Rahne and
\h\h\h\h\hTravis from MTV.

\h\h\h\h\h\hHow are you?
- CARLOS: Ah, hey, guys.

You guys ready to meet
\hThe Equalizer, yeah?

- [laughter]

- CARLOS: Just chatting with
\h\h\h\h\h\hmy manager, Jake.

You guys can come on by.

- Uh, okay, cool.

- CARLOS: All right, you guys.
\h\h\h\h\hSo excited. [laughs]

\h\h\h- All right.
- All right, buddy.

\h- RAHNE: Equalizer.
- Dude, I don’t know

if I’m mentally prepared
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hfor this.

- I don’t know if I am.
\h\h\h\h- I’m really...

\h\h\h\h\h\hI’m scared.
- RAHNE: We shall see.

- FEMALE SINGER: ♪ On the
\h\h\h\hfloor for good ♪

♪ And the Conga hit ’em
when they’re hot, hot ♪

- TRAVIS: We’re in New Jersey
\h\hhelping Julie figure out

why her boyfriend, Carlos,
\h\h\h\h\h\his hiding her.

The only way we’re gonna get
\h\h\h\hJulie some answers is

to talk to the man himself.

\h\h\h\h- Oh, yeah!
I’m The Equalizer,

\h\hthe baddest man in
professional wrestling

and in the world.

- Oh, hey guys.
\h\h\h\h\h- Hi.

- I’ll give you a pat,
\h\h\h\h\h\hI’m Carlos.

- Nice to meet you, man.
\h\h\h- Nice to meet you.

- Hi, I’m his manager.
\h\h\h\h\h- All right.

- How are ya?

\h\h- You wanna get in
the ring a little bit?

\h\h\h\h- Hell no.
- You look like you

\hcould take a move or two.
- Dude, my wrestling career

ended at, like, 13, okay?
- Real quick, real quick.

\h\h\h\h\h\h\hCome on.
- Oh my God, oh my God.

- People want it.
\h\h\hYou ready?

- TRAVIS: Dude, I’m
\h\h\hfreaking out.

- Yeah.
- Yeah!

That’s what happens when you
\h\hmess with the Equalizer!

- Get up!

- [groans]

\h\h\h\h\h- That’s my boy!
That’s my boy right there!

- All right, that wasn’t as
\h\h\h\h\hbad as I thought

\h\h\h\h\h\hit was gonna be.
- It’s fun. Looked like fun.

\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah, okay.
So I think my first question is,

one, how did you get started
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwith wrestling?

- Well, I’ve been a lifelong
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwrestling fan

since I was four years old.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Okay.

- Uh, this guy’s also a
lifelong wrestling fan.

We got together.
\h\hAs they say,

the rest is history.
\h\h\h- RAHNE: Okay.

- Jake’s about to take off
\h\h\h\h\hbut first, let us

show you some moves.

[laughs] Yeah!

- [groaning]

- CARLOS: You guys hungry?
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah.

- I told my parents you guys
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwere coming

\hand my mom wanted to make you
a traditional Venezuelan meal.

- Give us one second and we’ll
\h\h\h\h\h\hmeet you up there.

- See you there.

- How you doing?
\h\h\h- I’m good.

- Body okay?
\h\h\h- Yeah.

I’m gonna eat some food.
\h\h\h- Great. All right.

We’re about to meet mom
\h\h\h\h\hand Julie...

- Before Julie, yeah.

\h\h\h\h\h- Hey, guys.
Meet my dad, Guillermo.

- [chatter]

\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- My mom.
- I’m sorry. [speaking Spanish]

- She’s making a traditional
\h\h\h\h\h\hVenezuelan thing

called guasacaca.

- RAHNE: We sit over here?
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah.

\h- Sorry, I got to
get my makeup off.

- [speaking Spanish]

- She can only make a
\h\h\h\h\hfew things.

\h\h\hLike the guasacaca.
But the things she makes,

\h\h\h\h\h\hit’s good.
- Got this down, yeah.

- Do you guys just
\h\hspeak Spanish?

- Yeah.
- Okay.

- I was born in Venezuela.
I came here when I was 13.

So Spanish is my first
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hlanguage.

So Spanish only here.
\h\h\h\h- All right.

- [speaking Spanish]
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Okay.

\h\h\h\h- Thank you.
- [speaking Spanish]

- This is a little white rice.

\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Dad.
- [speaking Spanish]

- Thank you.

\h\hSo, Carlos, did you grow up
in a super religious household?

- They go to church very often.

I don’t as much as I should,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto be honest.

- If you were to bring a
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hgirl home,

would religion be an
\h\h\himportant part

of that relationship?

- It’s not so much about just,
\h\h\hlike, me wanting so much

to be Catholic, but it’s a
\h\h\h\hpractical question.

So let’s say I marry someone
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwho’s Jewish,

what religion do you
\h\h\hraise the kid?

\h\hDo you have communion,
do you have a bar mitzvah?

What do you do?

It’s just, there’ a lot of
\h\h\hcompromises that need

to be made to make that work.

- Do you parents know
\h\h\h\habout Julie?

- I mean, I, I don’t know.

- I don’t know a lot of Spanish
\h\h\h\h\h\hbut I know amigas.

That’s a friend, right?
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah.

- Do you bring your friends
\h\h\haround your parents?

\h\h\h- Sometimes.
- What about, like,

\h\h\h\hyour comedy shows?
Have your parents and Julie

ever been at a show together,
\h\h\h\h\hanything like that?

- No.

- He says, he keeps
\h\h\hsaying Julie.

- Julie, Julie, Julie, Julie.

- They don’t know Julie at all.

\h\h\h- Yeah, that’s
what they’re saying.

- Um, can we...can we talk
\h\hto you without parents

for a second?
\h\h\h- Yeah.

\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Okay.
- Thank you so much. Gracias.

\h\h\h\h\h\h- All right.
Carlos, what show do you

think you’re on right now?

- Well, this is supposed to be
\h\h\h\h\h\h\ha day in the life

of The Equalizer.

- All right, so it’s definitely
\h\h\h\h\hmuch more than that.

- Rahne and I help people who
\h\h\h\h\h\hfeel like they’re

\h\hbeing hidden by
significant others,

loved ones, and Julie reached
\h\h\h\h\hout to Rahne and I

\h\hpretty much describing a
picture perfect relationship

except for this one
\h\h\h\hhuge issue

and the fact that she’s never
\h\h\h\h\h\hmet your family,

\h\hshe’s never met any of
your friends in four years.

\h\h\h\hSo Rahne and I are here
to help get Julie some answers.

And find out the reason why
\h\hyou’ve been hiding her.

- Jesus Christ. Oh God.

- I Get that this is a lot.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hAll right?

\h\h\h\h\h- My God.
- It’s heavy. Okay.

\h- Not cool.
- All right.

I don’t think he’s happy.

\hLet’s give him some time.
Hopefully, he’ll come back.

Yikes.

All right, you’ve had a second.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hAll right.

I’ma just be real honest
\h\hwith you, all right?

\hI don’t think you understand.
When we sat across from Julie,

she took all of this on herself.
She thinks something

is wrong with her.

- I’ve never said anything
\h\h\hto Julie to make her

think she’s not good enough.

- You need to tell Julie that.

\h\h\h\h- You’re right.
This has not been easy.

\hI mean, whenever I’ve had some
of the toughest days of my life,

she’s been the one
that’s been there.

- And doesn’t someone like that
\h\h\h\h\hdeserve your honesty?

- It’s not that simple.
If it was, I would have

just told her by now.
\h\h- Told her what?

- I can’t tell.

- So you’re keeping something
\h\h\hfrom her that you feel

that is gonna be a done deal.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Absolutely.

- What makes you think that?
\h\h\h\h- Because I know her.

\hAnd I know her family.
And I know the second she

finds out, it’s it.
\h\hIt’s game over.

\h- Are you willing to sit down
and have an honest conversation

with Julie?

- I don’t have an answer
\h\h\h\h\h\hfor you now.

I just need to think about this.

- Okay.

All right, we hope we hear
\h\h\h\h\h\hfrom you, okay?

- Mm-hmm. See you guys.

- RAHNE: What the [bleep] is
\h\h\hgoing on with this guy?

Like, everything we learned,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthe vasectomy,

with him possibly being broke,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hit’s something

\h\h\h\hbigger potentially.
- Which leads me to believe

that it’s our worst-case
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hscenario.

The thing that Julie didn’t
\h\h\h\heven have a clue...

- Yes.

- ...about even being a
\h\h\h\h\h\hpossibility

about having someone else on
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthe side.

Maybe someone who speaks
\hSpanish, someone who’s

Catholic, someone that he can
\h\h\h\hbring home to his mom

once he figures out this
\hwhole Julie situation.

\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Right.
- You know, I feel like

\h\h\h\hwe’ve done...
- Yes, I’m exhausted.

- ...all that we can do.

- FEMALE SINGER: ♪ Oh, I got
to get away ♪

- TRAVIS: Yesterday, Carlos
finally admitted that he's

holding onto a secret.
He asked for some time

to decide whether he's gonna
sit down with Julie

face-to-face and tell
her the truth.

Last night was crazy.
- RAHNE: Yeah.

I'm still reeling.
- I just felt so bad for Julie.

- Oh God, yes.
I texted her last night

and basically gave her
the run-down.

Like, we told Carlos what
show he was really on

and that he got pissed off
and that he needed to,

you know, take a second, uh,
to think about everything,

and he wanted to stay with
his family for the night.

- TRAVIS: I just don't get it.

- RAHNE: I...I truly don't.

- ♪

- There she is.

- RAHNE: Oh, there she is.
Look at her.

- TRAVIS: She looks
stressed out.

Let's go. Now or never.

What's up, Julie?

- Good to see you.
- Thank you guys for coming.

- Of course.

- ♪

- Feel free to grab a seat.

- Okay.

- How are you?

- Uh, I've been thinking a lot
about, Travis, what you said,

how potentially Carlos could
be seeing another person.

Now it's just, like, stuck
in my brain.

I can't get it out.

- Well, I didn't say that to,
you know, put these

negative thoughts in your head.
We just want you

to be aware of all
of the possibilities.

I guess we can tell you a little
bit about the

last couple of days for us.

Yesterday we met up
with Orli and Spencer.

They love you.
They think you're

the best person ever.

But the thing that Spencer
did say, on one hand,

it confirms that Carlos
is at comedy clubs,

he's doing shows.
But the subject matter, um,

of some of his stand-up
was pretty alarming.

- Yeah.

- It's about him
getting a vasectomy.

- A vasectomy?

- Yes.

- Maybe it is a joke onstage.

- Yeah, you know, a big part
of why Spencer is convinced

that this is real is he said
Carlos was very detailed

about the procedure,
from how much it cost,

to how long it takes,
to what they did...

- Mm-hmm.
- ...down there, to, you know,

the pain, to...
- Yeah, kinda like someone

who possibly has
gone through the procedure.

- That's something you would
tell your significant other, no?

That's unforgivable.
Absolutely unforgivable.

- We met up with Rachel.

She follows Carlos on a couple
pay apps

and she showed us a screen shot
of payments coming

from his mother.
- From his mom?

- From his mother, yes.

- ♪

- They were things like, rent,
um, money for Stella,

living expenses.

- That just doesn't make
any sense.

What is he doing all these hours
that he's working

if he's not making money?

- Which leads us to believe
that there's something else

going on...
- [sighs] This is unbelievable.

- Yesterday we actually had
the opportunity

to meet up with Carlos.
And we were fortunate enough

to meet his mom and dad.
- Wow.

I don't understand how you
could possibly meet them,

like, in a minute
and I've...it's been four years

and I have nothing.
Not even a phone conversation.

- I mean, we feel the
exact same way.

- Absolutely.

- So, we brought up Julie.
And his dad started saying,

Julie.
- Julie?

- Julie?
- Who's Julie?

- Didn't really know
who Julie was.

- He's the first thing I
showed my family.

I shouted him from
the rooftops.

And he's just hiding me.

- If Carlos decides to come
today, and tell you the truth,

do you think you're gonna be
able to call him out

and get the answers
you deserve?

- Yeah, I mean, this is it.
It's now or never.

But if it's another person,
that's it.

I'm out.

- ♪

- [phone ringing]

- CARLOS: Hello?
- Carlos.

- CARLOS: Hey, how you doing?
- This is Travis.

I'm good, man. How are you?
- CARLOS: I think I...

I think I wanna talk to her.

- I think that that would be
a wise decision, man.

I think the only way out of
this, man, if you wanna keep her

is to come over here
and tell the truth.

- I'm really scared.

- I know.
I'm sorry.

We're here every step
of the way.

I want you to know your worth.

No one should be treated
like this,

especially by someone who
says I love you.

Should not happen.

- ♪

- [sighs]

- TRAVIS: How you doing?

- I'm just ready to get
over this now.

Ready to get through this.

- What's going through
your mind right now?

- It seems like I'm at
a crossroads now.

So might as well tell
her the truth.

- I couldn't agree more, man.

- ♪

- Carlos, secrecy has brought
us to this moment.

You have the answers.
And I know that it's scary

and I know that it's hard
and this is risky,

but Julie, the woman that you
say you love,

deserves the truth.
So with that,

Julie, speak your mind.
This is your moment.

- I needed help because I've
had enough of your lies.

Rahne and Travis have talked
to Spencer who said

that you actually had
a vasectomy.

It was onstage, but I know
there's always truth

to your jokes.

Rahne and Travis have talked
to Rachel, who's seen

your mother sending you
payments for rent.

I would love to know what
the truth is

because I'm tired of
being hidden.

I'm tired of it.

- Well, the first thing I
wanna say is, really?

Let's start with the
vasectomy joke.

It's a [bleep] joke.

I made a pun on vasectomies.
I thought that was hilarious.

- So, it's not true, clearly.

- No, it's not [bleep] true.
- Okay.

So you can have...
- You thought I would

get a vasectomy?

- I don't know.

- I mean, admittedly, you have
been hiding her from

the most important people
in your life,

so it would not be a
foreign concept to think

that you could be hiding
something else.

- ♪

- And the pay app thing,
my mom loves it.

She thinks it's hilarious
to send me little...

she'll send me, like, $12
and put rent on that.

Remember the ones I've sent
to my friends?

I told a guy, buy a house.
I sent him six bucks.

- Okay.

- But it's none of these
reasons.

To be honest, I wish those were.

- What's the truth.
Why are you hiding me?

Is there more?

There's no other woman.

- Julie, the reason I'm
hiding you is...

- ♪

- Why are you hiding me?
Is there more?

No other woman.

- The reason
I'm hiding you is...

I host sex parties.

- You have sex with
other people on stage?

- No, no, no.
I host parties.

I can show you.

Basically we host these
parties where we sell items.

Sex toys.
Nipple clamps, dildos.

You know my cousin Chris
knew people and this club

started letting us come through
and do these parties.

And my parents know about this.

Here's a video right here.

- [cheering]

- Now, we're gonna get
[bleep] dirty for you guys.

Are you ready to get
[bleep] dirty?

- [cheering]

- TRAVIS: Is Carlos getting
smacked in that?

Or is he smacking someone?

- He's smacking.

- CARLOS: [inaudible]

- And it's just a lot.

- ♪

- This is disgusting.

- It's a show, Julie.

- It's another one that you
can combine items.

Puppy's a bad, bad boy.
[inaudible]

- Okay, that's enough.
That's enough.

I can't.

- CARLOS: Julie.
- It's disgusting!

- I'll go. [sighs]

- I knew this would happen.

- Julie, how you doing?

- It's just so disgusting.
Like, why would he do that?

It just doesn't make any
sense.

I'm so angry.
- Yeah.

Is this profession that he is,
you know, tapped into

something that you could
over look?

- What I'm frustrated with
is the deceit.

- Okay.
You really do have to

really assess the next
steps here.

Like, are you gonna give him
an ultimatum?

Like, are you gonna tell him
if you wanna be with me,

you can't do this anymore.

I want you to go back
in there if you,

when you feel ready,
and we talk this out.

So whenever you're ready...
- Yeah.

- RAHNE:...we will be
ready for you.

Well, she's gonna need
a minute.

- Think about what you wanna
say to her

if she does come back
and sit down,

because it very well could be
the last time you get

a chance to talk to her again.

- ♪

- Oh God.

I...you don't get to play
the sad one here.

- I'm not sad.
I'm honestly scared.

- You did this, though.
So you knew what you were doing.

- It's just, what else can I
do between

an entertainment career,
real estate,

at two in the morning
to make more money?

- I don't care about the money.

- I like being able to make
enough money to know that

if we need something,
we can have it.

I didn't know that this
was happening.

- For four years you've
dodged me meeting your parents,

meeting your friends,
going to half your comedy shows.

- Because they all know
about this stuff.

- I want you to put yourself
in her shoes, right,

like, we pull out an iPad,
we show a video of her on stage

putting dildos in her mouth...

- Slapping a*s.
- ...slapping people.

- CARLOS: I get it.
- TRAVIS:...putting nip-- like,

and she says, well, I just
wanted to make money.

- See, if Julie comes up to me
with that kind of stuff

with my family, we probably
wouldn't care.

- But you took that choice
away from her

because you didn't tell her.

- Are you trying to get me
to break up with you?

- Of course not.

The reason I didn't tell you
is because I didn't want

you to break up with me.

- Are you willing to quit
the sex party thing for me?

- If that's what you want,
I'll quit.

- Julie, I just wanna make sure
like you don't think you have

to make a decision right now.
Like, is this something

that you really wanna do?

- I'm just so conflicted
right now.

I'm so angry at you.
Very angry about the lying.

Everything.
And we're gonna have to

figure out a way
to talk about this.

But I can't imagine
losing you.

- I think that we've come
to a good place in this moment

and I'm hopeful for you both.

- Yeah.

- ♪

- MALE SINGER: ♪ I will hold
on tight ♪

♪ And if I fall

- Hi.
- Julie.

- Hi!
- Guillermo.

- Dad, Guillermo.

- Hola!

- And this is Sunshine
right here.

- Hey!

- Hi, Stella.
- Hi, Stella.

- [speaking Spanish]

- SINGER:
♪ I will hold on tight

- ♪