01x02 - The Four Second Look

[bunniefuu]

How about let's dive into bread?
Use your hands, take a piece.

- What we do is we break it in half.
- [William] Okay.

And then pick up your butter knife.

- Ninety degrees.
- [William] Oh.

And your index finger should be on top.
That way, you have leverage.

Take a little bit, butter it on.

Put your knife down.

[William] So, just like...
No, not there, where the bread is.

- Ooh. And that? Ah, there we go.
- Mm.

- Mm.
- All right.

- And then the bread in the mouth.
- Mm-hmm.

You don't need to close your eyes
when you're eating.

[upbeat music playing]

[William] Hey, everyone.
Welcome to another stream.

It's a really lovely day, so I'm glad
you guys can all tune in and join me.

I'm William Termini. I'm 28 years old

and I work as a senior systems engineer.

Hey, yeah, it is warm.
It is very warm today.

I like to stream walking.

I mainly do it so that I have friends
to socialize from all around the world.

I'm glad I can entertain you
while I'm doing this.

Hey, Google.

What's the ideal searing
temperature of a pan?

[automated voice]
400 to 450 degrees Fahrenheit.

[William] I do like being by myself.
I enjoy being alone.

I grew up mostly as an only child,

but I was also really longing
for a new relationship.

I'd like to be able
to do something romantic.

I needed to go on a little adventure
to find something like that.

I am quite timid.

That's something
I'd like to change about myself,

is this assertiveness.

I'd like someone to be able
to kind of observe how I act.

I definitely think
Sara will be able to help me.

I've never been to
a finishing school or anything,

but it sounds like
it polishes off the rough edges.

I'll definitely take away new experiences
and I think that will allow me

to be more adventurous
and continue to try new things

that will lead me
towards a partner I really like.

["Lessons" by The After show playing]

- [Sara] Hello, William.
- [William] Nice to meet you.

- Welcome to my finishing school.
- For having me.

[Sara] Have a seat.

[William] Thank you very much.

This is going to be British afternoon tea.

Ooh. Oh, wow.

I've never had tea like that.

It's always been
a continental breakfast or something.

Nothing quite that elegant.

- You like your tea how?
- Just... I don't know.

[Sara] Oh-oh-oh.

- So, William.
- Oh. Yeah?

The cup and saucer
are like husband and wife.

Okay. Husband and wife, eh?

- They don't separate.
- Here you are.

Thank you.

[Sara] I like to have tea
with my students because

it's a bit more relaxed.
We have a bit of chitchat.

It's a nice way to get to know
my students on a personal level.

Let's see how you stir.

Stir?

- Like this? Oh, dear.
- [Sara chuckles]

So when you stir,
just forwards, backwards.

[William] Forwards, backwards.

The most elegant way to stir your tea
is forwards, backwards,

and not clink the sides of the cup.

This feels very elegant.

I gotta tell you, doing it this way,
I feel... You know.

So you put your spoon down
at a position that's 10:20.

10:20. All right, so...

- Oh, wait. 10:20.
- 10:20.

Oh, God. It's been a long time
since I've used...

- That's not 10:20.
- That's not 10:20.

Oh, no. I don't look
at analog clocks anymore.

[laughs]

Twelve o'clock.

It's a bit tricky.
I don't have the muscle memory.

What am I doing?

10:20 is your spoon
to the right-hand side of the ear.

[William] Right-hand side, okay.

[Sara] And the spoon is facing me.

- Spoon is facing you.
- That's right. You got it.

[William] I got it. And that's the ten.

Ten's here. I had it the other way around.
I was thinking ten going this way.

Ah, got you.

Do I do the pinky out thing
or is that a misconception?

[laughs] Some people keep
their pinky out to keep balance.

- Who?
- But it looks really pretentious.

So, definitely pinkies in.

[William] All right. Pinkies in, then.

No pinkies out, surprising.

You always hear that on TV
and it's always pinkies out.

So... please help yourself.

[William] All right.

Oh, God. This feels like a test of...

All right, I'm scared.

Afternoon tea is a social event,
just like dinner and lunch.

You want to know
how to behave, to be at ease.

That way, you can focus on bigger things.

What is the favorite drink
of Chinese people?

I'm gonna say a type of tea? A tea?

- Hot water.
- Hot water. Yes, of course.

I dated a girl. It's always hot water
when she came home.

What was it like dating a Chinese girl?

Uh...

I don't know. It wasn't too difficult.
We got along really good.

So why didn't it work out?

It was a number of little things
and then they add up.

And you realize, "I really like
this person, but it's not forever."

[William] Most of the girls I've been with
were already interested in me,

but when I saw the kind of girl
that I was really really into,

I never really got those girls.

I've dated internationally here.

- What other countries?
- It's just been China and Japan.

- What do you actually look for in a girl?
- I look for someone smart,

has a bit of an attitude
and air about her, very cool,

a bit punk and shares
some of my interests.

And there's got to be
a level of physical attraction.

[Sara] The kind of girl that
he was describing sounded like

a very idealistic, perfect girl.

It sounds like William
doesn't know what he wants.

I feel I'm asking for a lot.

It's okay. I can be picky.
It's better to be picky than not to be.

'Cause I won't be able
to give her my full heart.

[William] I'm here
for the experience itself

and coming out
a bit more refined on some things.

I look forward to that.

There are many "the ones."

There are many "the ones,"
but I have to find a "the one."

[Sara chuckles politely]

[playful music playing]

- [in Chinese] Good morning, everyone.
- Good morning.

Today's lesson will be
on men's dress codes.

[Joey] ♪ Ta-da-da-da! ♪

[Sara, in English] Some of the things
I teach my students

might seem a bit old-fashioned,

but understanding etiquette
empowers you with social know-how.

[in Chinese] Normally, men will wear
a top hat along with a white tie outfit.

You can see there's also
a handkerchief here.

Usually, there will be a waistcoat inside.

Look at the dress shirt.

It has pleats.

- Yes, I really like it.
- You like this physique?

My husband is like this,
but also like this.

[laughs] Remember, one centimeter
of this has to be exposed.

And then you will see
something called cufflinks here.

Let's look at the black tie now.

Oh, I like this. My husband wore this
when we got married.

[Sara chuckles]

This dress shirt is for either
the black tie or the white tie.

I chose it for this black tie.
You can touch this. It has a six-pack.

A six-pack.

I like when men wear this. It looks smart.

- A six-pack.
- Don't touch it for so long.

It's okay if he has no six-pack.

I thought people who wear this
need to have a six-pack.

[all laughing]

[rock music playing]

- [knocking on door]
- [William] Hi, coming.

- Hey. Good to see you.
- Hi, William.

Welcome. Please, come in.

- All right. Shoes off?
- Yes, of course.

- [Sara] The Asian way.
- Would you like the tour?

I would.

So, uh, this is the main living space.

A big American flag.

- Oh, yeah. Yeah.
- What is this thing?

[William] That?
That's Charmander or Hitokage.

[Sara] Did you just speak Japanese?

I... I know chotto.

- Not a lot, though.
- [laughs]

[speaks Japanese]

[William] I know a little Japanese.

That's a good icebreaker,
a way to start a conversation

when you talk to someone.

So, this is the balcony.

- [Sara] Is this a skeleton?
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.

It's a little Halloween dog I got.
He just sits there.

He's... I like dogs. He's cute.

From a feng shui perspective, definitely...

reconsider.

Feng shui is a centuries-old practice
since ancient China.

It's all about the balance
of yin and yang.

Skeletons are a no-no in feng shui.

You're creating extra yin energy
and it can cause bad luck.

This kind of reminds me of a kitschy
Taiwanese or Japanese restaurant.

[William chuckles]

My family's always had collectibles
laying around the house.

It's kind of, you know, how I have things.

We always keep knickknacks
around the house.

Seems like William has a thing
for Asian culture.

What is it about Asian culture
that intrigues you?

I think it is the food.
I think the food was the gateway.

Would you say that you prefer Asian girls?

I'd say yes, and Western girls
that like the culture.

The next girl you look for,
where do you want her to be from?

It doesn't really matter.
It still doesn't matter.

She can be from anywhere,
but we gotta have that mutual bond.

Let's check out your bedroom.

[William] All right.

Please come in.

I'm limited on space,
so this is where I work.

And this is where
I'll play games and stream.

How did you manage
to date during lockdown?

Didn't, uh, really.
I met some girls on Tinder.

- Oh!
- I just kinda talked to them. Just two.

- I wanna see your Tinder profile.
- My Tinder profile?

Let me take a look.

I always enjoy looking
at friends' online dating profiles

in terms of the pictures they choose,

how they make their first move online,

how they put themselves
out there and initiate,

because that also takes courage too.

We need to change the cover photo
to make it less crazy eyes.

Yeah, sounds good to me.

Oh, wow. Look at you.

Nice, I like that.
You have puppy-dog eyes here.

Thank you.

[Sara] I'm trying to think,
"Does it add another dimension?"

Because you wanna have a sporty picture,

a fun karaoke picture,
a sexy intelligent picture.

Definitely need to work on getting
the eyes just right in the photos.

None of those crazy eyes
and keeping it light and bubbly.

Okay, so this one's Japanese.
This one's Korean.

She's Japanese. Korean.
Clearly, you like Asian girls.

[William] I don't deny. I like them, okay?

- Yeah.
- I can't help it.

William's online dating profile

has definitely given me
a better understanding of who he is

and how I can help him.

This is your opening line.

"Love your style."

"Going to guess you're somewhere
in North America based on distance."

"My city needs more women like you."

And she didn't reply.

No, and that's all right.
I don't think I'd reply either.

William has a long way to go in dating.

But I'm Asian, and I understand
the cultural differences,

so I can help him with that.

Check her profile,
see how you could've done better.

So based on her pictures,
what would you resend?

I have no idea. She's not giving me a lot.

- What about that? Did you notice that?
- Oh!

I didn't notice the ice skating.
That's a good one.

Excellent observation.

The ice skating wasn't highlighted
in the photo, it was very subtle.

You'd have to really look at the photo.

I think the lesson
is pay closer attention.

That was definitely
some interesting tips and tricks.

Well, I'd say early convo,
keep it light, keep it fun, no pressure.

Yeah, that's a good idea.

["6 Steps" by The Next men playing]

- This class is on Western table manners.
- Excellent.

William wants to find the right girl.

He needs to be at ease,
and understanding etiquette,

he'll be confident enough to focus on
big things that matter like conversation.

So I'm going to teach him
how to nail it on a first date.

Often times when we have a formal meal,
there's a ton of cutlery in front of us.

- Mm.
- What order do we use that cutlery?

That's... That's a tough one.

When you see a ton
of cutlery in front of you,

always remember
you go from the outside in.

[William] Wow, this is nice. This is fun.

If I go out somewhere
and it's a formal setting like this,

maybe I can show some
of these things I've learned.

If you want to know
how many courses there will be,

you basically count the right-hand side.
How many pieces of cutlery?

- There are three on that side.
- So, you have three here plus dessert.

So, that means today you're going
to be eating four courses.

Okay.

One thing I like to remember is BMW.

B for bread on your left-hand side.

M for main course in the middle.

And W for wine or water
on the right-hand side.

- So if you ever get confused, BMW.
- Easy.

[William]
These are all interesting things.

It's new information.

I just hope I remember
and can put it into practice.

Now that we've done theory lesson
of Western table manners,

we'll have formal Western lunch.

- Okay.
- Let's go in for the soup.

That is how you should not drink soup.

Oh. Okay.

You do not put
the whole spoon in your mouth.

Oh.

Instead, you should let the soup glide
elegantly into your mouth, like this.

[William] I grew up in a pretty standard
American family household.

I had friends and family say,
"You should hold the fork this way."

"That's not how
you should do this and that."

Let me try.

I'd like to learn
how to do it the right way,

and do it in a way that show respect
to you and those around me.

Where do you see yourself in five years?

I'd like to be with someone
in the next five years.

What's stopping you from getting there?

I just haven't met the right one yet.

[Sara] I think William will go a long way.

It's just about throwing him
into these different situations

where he can apply what he learned
and find his perfect mate.

- William, when we eat...
- Mm.

...you don't do this.

- Mm.
- You do this.

- Don't over think it.
- Don't over think it.

Relax.

That's a hard one for me.

Hard one for you?
Why is it hard for you to relax?

Always thinking. Over thinking, you know?

It can get to the point where you fumble
because you're thinking too much.

You need to let things flow naturally.

[William] I'm very anxious.

You know, growing up,
I was a very nervous kind of kid.

And I wasn't happy.

After my parents separated, it was hard.

I just had a hard time dealing
with all this and I really felt them.

Sometimes when you're too self-aware,
it has the reverse effect.

- Mm.
- When you're trying too hard,

your anxiety comes out.

[Sara] I think I understand William.

Trust and self-confidence,
that is what William needs.

[in French] Très élégant.

[William] Sara was a good teacher.
She was very to the point.

She tells me I don't do something right
and I'll take those lessons to heart.

And, you know, improve.

[gentle folk music playing]

[Sara] So, I'm bringing William here today
because I want him to work on his anxiety

and his intimacy in relationships.

- Come on in, William.
- [William] All right.

[grunts]

It's important to bring William
to a place where he can really feel

and he feels safe enough
to bring down his wall of defense.

You're a little hunched.
You have to loosen up.

All right.

[William] I'm a bit
of a tense person in general.

But to be honest,
I was quite happy on the horse.

How are you feeling?

Having a good time.
Just... It's new. It's exciting.

It's important to try new things,
get yourself out of your comfort zone.

- Yeah.
- Put yourself out there.

Having anxiety, one of the biggest things
is having people I can talk to.

So spending time with Sara,
that's really helpful.

[Sara] There's something
therapeutic about horses.

- Hmm.
- I don't know if you can feel it now.

Close your eyes.

I want you to think about the last girl
that really meant something to you.

What made her special to you?

She shared my interests, my hobbies.

I liked her style. She was cool.
I don't know. It's hard to explain.

It sounds like she really left
an impression on you.

She did. It's fine because,
you know, it's an experience.

And it's better
to have felt those feelings

than never have
a chance to feel them at all.

But did you really let yourself
feel those feelings?

Sometimes when we feel pain,

we find ways of coping with that pain.

And sometimes our ways of coping
are self-defense mechanisms.

And self-defense mechanisms,

while they lessen
our pain in the short term,

it cuts us off from intimacy.

And that's something you have trouble with
because you don't let anyone get close.

[William] I've learned that I just need
to kind of talk and open up,

and I'm glad I had this experience.

I think it's made me stronger
and actually more confident

now that I've processed those emotions.

[whispering indistinctly]

[Sara] I feel that
this has been helpful for William.

I can see that he's let his guard down

and he feels it's a safe space
for him to be more of himself.

[William] I don't have any more carrots.
Sorry. You're really perky.

[playful music]

Everyone is like a flower.

You need to help them blossom.

How? By asking open questions.

Open questions require
several sentences to answer.

Like, why did you move to the city?
Or, what do you like about your job?

[Sara] All right, William.

This next class is about
dressing and personal styling.

Oh.

First impressions are very important
if you want to attract the right partner.

This, to me,
what you're wearing today, feels heavy.

[William] That's the thing.
I wasn't really focused on how I dress.

I didn't really care too much
about those things.

What you want is contrast.

If you're going black below,
then you should have a bright white,

you know, something on top,

and your sneakers should
ideally be a white leather sneaker

or black sneaker
with white sole to break it up.

I used to kind of just grab some T-shirt,

but I'd like to try new styles
and see what works.

I think it'd be fun.

I would say for a coffee date,
especially first date,

keep things simple, casual.

T-shirt and jeans.

This color looks really good on your skin.

It doesn't seem as heavy
and as somber, not as serious.

And it looks good against your complexion.

[William] I'm gonna take some
of the lessons from dressing,

and knowing how to not be boring,
stand out from the crowd, you know?

Well, let's say it's date two, date three,

and maybe you take her
to a nice sushi restaurant.

So let me tell you something.

Girls actually really like it
when guys wear a bit of pink.

[William] I definitely need
to improve how I'm dressing.

It's just one of those things
that will add, you know, spice to my life

and makes me more interesting
and help me find someone.

It's a general step
in the right direction.

[gentle music playing]

[in Chinese]
Our next lesson is on deportment.

How we sit, stand, and walk
will give someone a first impression.

How long does it take for someone
to form a first impression?

- One minute.
- [Sara] One minute.

- Ten seconds.
- Ten seconds? That's cruel.

[chuckling]

- Five minutes.
- [Sara] Five?

Wow, you're tolerant.

Actually, some studies
suggest it's two seconds.

People who take
a longer time need two minutes.

So, today's deportment lesson
is very important.

Yes.

Let's start from our standing position.

All right, please come on stage.

Okay, so firstly,
your feet can have a slight V shape.

This position represents openness.

This position is closed off to others.

For example.

But this is open.

Opening up your hands is receptive.
This is also welcoming to others.

- Ah!
- [Sara] Take a seat.

So, if someone forms
a negative first impression of you,

it actually takes
eight positive encounters

to change their mind.

But how long
does love at first sight take?

- One minute?
- One minute.

[laughter]

Our next course is on social graces,

deportment and basic manners.

William is very stiff.

We want William
to be more comfortable today

in this situation than he was yesterday.

- That's one thing.
- So,

how do you walk
on the street with your date?

So the cars are on that side.

- This is the pedestrian walkway.
- Yeah.

I'm your date. How do we walk?

I'd probably be on this side,
make sure you're away from the traffic.

Okay.

Now let's say it's date three, date four.

Your date kind of feels like
putting her arm into your arm.

- Yeah.
- Say we just turned a corner.

We turned a corner
and your date is by the cars.

What would you do?

- I'd probably kind of loop her.
- Yeah. Go ahead.

- Just kinda...
- Do it.

Just kinda... I don't know.
Do I move her out of the way?

That seems a bit rude. I don't know.

I think I was concerned whether
I'm doing that right. It felt robotic.

It has to go in like this.

- Like that?
- Yes, exactly.

But after some words of encouragement,
I just kind of calmed down,

and actually it felt quite relaxed
just walking and enjoying

the little circular motion
of walking around the chairs.

- How do you get into a car?
- Open the door.

- I'd let them in first.
- Okay. I'm going in. And then?

And then I will go and follow after.

So you'll make your date shuffle
across the back seat in a skirt and heels?

Oh, I never thought about it that way.

I'll go around to the other side.

Absolutely you'll go
around to the other side.

So you close this door.

It was an eventful day.

There was a lot of stuff covered.

I learned a lot of things
I didn't know before.

And you pop right in.

[William] Maybe I need to try
something different with my life,

then people will care
and take interest in me.

How do you feel about your eye contact?

Hit-and-miss.

- Yes, I would agree.
- Yeah.

Your eye contact is hit-and-miss.

Oh.

Because you don't blink.

Oh.

Not blinking, that's going
to be a hard one, but...

I think that's something about
just relaxing and not being so focused.

Has anybody told you that?

No one's told me I don't blink,
but I'm good at staring contests.

- [laughs]
- When I do it intentionally.

I feel I really need to work on practicing
my blinking or trying to be less serious,

and everything else will come naturally.

You can never be too old
for a staring contest.

[Sara laughs]

Sex on the first date?
I don't know there are rules around that.

So long as it's consensual and safe.

[pop music playing]

[William] I'm not sure why I'm here.
Sara said to come down for another class.

And, uh, I'm here.

So, yeah, let's find out
what we'll do today.

I'm really not sure, to be honest.

Probably a little nervous.

Excited, you know?
It's always something new.

You don't know what to expect.
It's just get yourself ready, in the zone.

- [Sara] William! Good to see you again.
- Hey, Sara. How are you?

Good to see you again.

Let me introduce you
to our other students.

This is Jessie.

- Hi, Jessie.
- William.

[Sara] Going forwards, William needs
to really enter the real world.

So I've invited him to join my class.

This lesson,

it's our social graces lesson
on the art of conversation,

and how to do icebreakers.

Remember, eye contact is a number one step
to establishing any kind of relationship.

So, there are simple steps

to making eye contact while
making sure you don't look creepy.

Build up your eye contact slowly.
William, what do you think that means?

Like, kind of look over there,
look away. I don't know.

Never done that in a public space.

I just go, "Oh no, they've caught me
with the eye contact."

"I better never look that way ever again."
Um... [laughs]

One thing about me is I'm kind of shy,

but it's not something
you want to present about yourself.

You want to be open and loose and free.

In the beginning,
you start with little looks...

- Mm-mm.
- ...before you go in for the big look.

Oh.

So, William, try it on Petrell.

Okay.

[Sara laughs]

[Sara] Role-play
is a big part of my lessons

because it creates a safe space
for students to build their confidence.

- Don't giggle, William.
- Sorry, I'm a giggly person.

As this class is underway,
what's going through my mind is,

how can I just kinda be more relaxed?

There are times
when I stop thinking about it,

that's when it kinda falls together.

How long do you establish eye contact for?

If I'm checking someone out,
it'll be very quick.

It'd be like, you know.

Okay, check Siok out.

Okay. And then look away.

It'd be like... And then like...

[laughs]

- No giggling.
- [Siok] Creepy.

Oh, William, because your eyes...

How long are you staring at Siok
when you're trying to get her attention?

I don't know, a moment of a second?
Half a second?

It's too short, William.
Take it to four. Check out Joey.

[playful, jazzy music]

- How did that feel?
- Felt fine.

- Write down four seconds.
- Four seconds.

Four seconds, okay.

Four seconds, no more, no less.

[playful music]

And that's my four-second look.

Maintaining eye contact
for too long is not a good idea.

You should break it up
with some kind of gesture.

Are hand gestures included or...?

Sure. Okay, all right.
Give Petrell a hand gesture.

I don't know. Like, "Hey, how's it going?"

Things like that.

[chuckling]

And then, William,
your most important thing.

Can you guess what it is?

Something about blinking?

[Sara] Very good.

Don't forget to blink.

You are going to put it into practice.

- Oh, great. Oh, boy.
- [Sara] Okay.

This is cool because I'd like
to play more of an active role in life,

not let it pass me by.

William and Joey.

You two are buddies having a drink.

And these three, also having a drink.

And there's one girl who you think
is potentially your dream girl.

And you need to get her attention
through eye contact

while at the same time making sure
you do not look creepy.

William, do your thing.

[Sara] Have you caught the eye
of your dream girl yet? Yes or no?

A second or two maybe?

That means you're not trying
hard enough. Try harder.

Staring into Jessie's eyes, it felt like
just having that little bit of confidence,

being calm and slow
and fluid in your motions.

It's what you want. That's confidence.

[Sara, in Chinese]
Do you have an idea who he is looking at?

- Is it me?
- [Sara] I don't know.

I feel like I'm doing better than him.

[Sara, in English] Jessie said she feels
she's doing a better job than you are.

[laughing]

Maybe I should come on over.

[Sara] Okay, William.

This time you're gonna use some kind
of smooth 007 gesture to break it up.

[William]
I'd like to try and go for more of a 007,

a calm, cool, collected state
and kind of just be myself.

[Joey, laughing] It's getting hot here.

Yeah, that's sexy.
That's good. That's sexy.

[laughing]

- You look a lot more confident.
- Exactly.

- And relaxed.
- That's what women want.

Okay.

I think what I'm learning today will
definitely help me in finding someone,

but it's one of many things
and steps in the right direction

to help me reach my goals.

William, I think you are well on your way

to finding and approaching
your dream girl.

[Sara] I am satisfied with
William's performance today.

I feel like the mother bird who's tipped
the nest for her baby bird to fly out.

All right, I think William deserves
a round of applause.

Good job.

You've come out like Daniel Craig.

[women laughing]

[upbeat music playing]

- [William] Yo, Harry! How's it going?
- [Harry] Hey.

- How's it going, man?
- Yeah, good.

The biggest thing for me still is

I still need to work
on that underlying anxiety.

I'm getting better at it,

but it requires effort
to change, you know?

It takes work, but eventually,
your mind will rewire itself

and what used to be difficult is now easy.

[woman] Hello, how are you?

Hey, it's good to see you.

Good to see you too. How are you?

Good, good, good.

My ultimate goal is
to find a partner, a thing like that.

That's not tonight.
Tonight is just a great warm-up.

It's just friendly, but I hope
I get something like that soon.

[woman] Basically, you hold
maybe one-third from the edge.

One-third, so a bit further up.

[William] Life's a journey.

You're always on it.
I don't think you ever stop.

I still got more to go.

I just have a bit more
life experience now, so...

And I feel, you know, better.

[woman] I like the pink shirt.

- Not a bad idea.
- [laughing]

♪ Nothing else matters but now ♪

♪ Right now ♪

["Now" by Alex Mercier playing]

♪ Anymore ♪

♪ This is what we're fighting for ♪

♪ Now ♪

♪ It all starts now ♪

♪ Nothing else matters but now ♪

♪ Nothing else matters but now ♪

♪ Nothing else matters but now ♪

♪ Right now ♪