Solomamma (2025)

[bunniefuu]

I think... I like to think...

I like to think of myself

as a giving person.

And I probably just like the idea that

there's a part of me out there somewhere.

Should I say something to them?

Hello!

I hope you are loved.

I think you are, because your parent

or parents went through a lot to have you.

Life is going to be good.

And bad.

So...

Good luck!

SOLOMAMMA

Hi, Edith!

- Hi!

- Sigurd is outside.

- Ok. But Anders, I was wondering...

- What?

Did you get a chance to hand out

the books I gave you?

The ones about Karla.

Karla? Yes, I did.

That's great! Did you read them too?

Yes. I mean, I'm not sure exactly...

I'm not sure how far everyone got.

But they're working on it.

But you've read them?

- Not yet.

- I'm going to make so many of these!

I want to do that too! Like that, yes!

Can I have one of those?

Wow, is that your cake!

What do you want for dinner?

- Salmon and sweet potato!

- Yes! That sounds delicious.

Why is it always you picking up Sigurd?

- Is his dad dead?

- No!

- Is he in prison?

- No, but you know what?

When I wanted to make Sigurd,

there were no available daddies.

- So I went to the hospital...

- Everyone has a dad.

Kids don't care what's normal.

That's what I thought,

but children need a language too.

When adults don't explain things,

kids make up their own stories.

It's time you started hanging

out with grownups, Edith.

You know you can date

even if you have a kid, right?

What's your donor book about?

"Karla has no dad, and it's awesome"?

Yes, that sums it up.

It should be about not needing

to be two in every decision.

Was that comment for me?

Maybe you should do everything yourself?

- Why didn't I think of that?

- And now it's too late.

But speaking of donors...

You've never told us

what you know about yours.

- If I'm allowed to ask.

- Of course you can.

I think it's a boring question.

- I ask with no prejudice.

- It's alright.

It's like a journal where

they describe themselves.

- Hobbies, favourite food.

- You have that recording.

- Recording?

- Of the donor talking to a psychologist.

I didn't know about that.

Do you still think of him as anonymous?

I don't know his name

or address or anything.

And I don't want to know.

He's just a donor.

- What if a donor is lying?

- No one would do that.

If it was me, I would just

make up stuff to get chosen.

I'd say I got straight A's in school

and was the fastest runner.

A psychologist would know

if you were lying.

"Psychologist".

If you're clever, you get away with it.

Some young guy wanting to pass on

his genes, make a bit of money.

You're considering donating?

Some of them are eighteen. Their

frontal lobes aren't fully developed.

Is this the same wine as before?

It's just crazy to think about.

Sigurd is 50 percent of his donor.

But who would do that?

- I watched a YouTube video.

- How fun!

Remember I told you?

This woman in the US discovered

that her donor was schizophrenic.

- Torbjrn.

- I'm not saying...

- I'm just asking!

- There's mommy!

- Hello!

- Hi, Trine!

- Pizza! Can I have some?

- Give me a big hug first.

This looks nice.

- This is Marie and Torbjrn.

- Trine.

- You remember Selma from last year.

- Good to see you again.

Trine and I met when we found out that

Sigurd and Amanda were half-siblings.

- Did you have fun?

- Yes.

This was so nice.

I can't fit the bike wheel I found.

I want a new toy box. Amanda has one.

But she's not using it.

It just stands there.

Mommy!

When Karla's mother wanted a child,

she didn't have a husband or boyfriend.

So she went to see the doctor

and asked for help.

The doctor found a sperm donor

for Karla's mommy.

Karla doesn't know

what a sperm donor is,

but it must be a kind man,

since he helped mommy have Karla.

Alfie Atkins knows where his dad is.

Sure, but he doesn't

know where his mum is.

- Amanda has a dad now.

- Yup.

- You like Amanda, don't you?

- Yes.

Look at him!

- I want to read a different book.

- Ok.

Good idea. Let's read a different book.

- Hi.

- Hi.

Isn't it past your bedtime?

Yes.

It's late.

Let me look at you.

Have you stopped going

to the hairdresser?

It's time for bed. It's late.

- Go to bed.

- Yes.

Night, mum.

Donor 24897: Inuus. Welcome.

Thank you.

Why don't you tell us about yourself.

I'm from Norway.

I live in Copenhagen right now,

for work.

Am I allowed to say that?

That information

will be included in your profile.

Can you tell us

about your current work situation?

What are you doing right now?

You are self-employed?

It sounds like I'm unemployed.

I'm an entrepreneur. Tech development.

Why did you choose that field?

I guess because it's what I'm good at.

I'm really into fermenting.

Kimchi, kombucha, sourdough bread.

I just bought a mountain bike.

I like to bike around the woods.

And I played tennis for a while.

But I wasn't any good, so I quit.

And what kinds of people

do you like to be around?

People who share the same interests,

I guess. Same values.

I was always on my computer

since I was a kid,

and I thought, why not keep

doing the work that I put in right now.

To be able to use my knowledge

and technology in a positive way.

To help kids learn, for example.

I would also like to

help people have a better life.

I'm a curious person.

I like to observe other people.

It's kind of a passion, really.

I prefer asking questions or listen

rather than talk about myself.

What are you writing, Edith?

Not much.

I'm finishing the interview

with the researcher in Trondheim.

On genetic engineering.

And I'm interviewing

the 17-year-old who's in custody.

Is that ready for Thursday?

Well, we lost

our source in Nesbru yesterday.

He pulled out during quote check,

so I have to start from scratch.

Petter, you're on the royals.

The confusion is worst at night.

She's isolating herself more,

doesn't want to see her friends.

Wow, thank you!

So you have two children at home?

- Yeah.

- Maybe you should call Kari.

Get her to take Dorthe out.

- How's Sigurd taking it?

- He's so small. I don't think he gets it.

They're so close. I don't want him to be

scared by how she's changing.

- Maybe take her to the doctor again.

- I've thought about it.

- Selma, look what I got!

- A zippo lighter! Nice.

We can polish it and put it

in your case display.

- He's such a character.

- An old soul.

I was quite easy as a child.

I'd sit and look at

my older siblings run around.

I wasn't so interested

in kids my own age.

Why do you think that is?

You tell me.

I like to observe other people.

IS AUTISM HERITABLE?

I'm not shy, but... I'm a

sensitive person.

IS HYPERSENSITIVITY HERITABLE?

They called me Buddah, actually.

I'm not obsessive,

but I go deep into things I like.

IS OCD HERITABLE?

Do you plan to have a family?

It depends on what happens in life.

I prefer to ask questions

rather than talk.

IS INTROVERSION HERITABLE?

I like to think of myself

as a giving person.

IS NARCISSISM HERITABLE?

I read really fast.

I like to be outdoors.

I like to be in other people's space.

If you could change

anything about yourself...

Probably a lot of things.

I wish I had less self-doubt growing up.

Do you ever think about dad?

Why are you bringing him up?

I remember thinking

it was my fault that he

left.

It's strange to think about now.

I tried to make myself invisible,

so he'd come home.

But...

Aren't we happy, the two of us?

- Yes, we were.

- Were?

We are happy.

I went to see him once

when I was twelve.

Did you see him without telling me?

Yes.

But I couldn't call him daddy.

He seemed relieved.

There you go.

He was never a father, Edith.

Pancakes and.

Bye! Have fun.

- Bye!

- Bye, Jens!

- But what do you want for your birthday?

- I already told you!

- You can't say "stuff from the street".

- Yes, I can!

It's not for a while yet.

Pokmon cards or something?

Only if it's not from a shop,

and it's old.

We can go to the toy shop later

and find a gift for your brother.

I want something unique!

Sweetheart, I think it's great

that you want something unique.

But maybe you're making it

a bit hard for Amanda.

- Does it have to be from the street?

- She asked what I wanted.

- Do you want to play ring toss?

- Yes!

- You guys just relax for a bit.

- Thanks.

They look more and more alike,

don't you think?

No, I don't see it.

I googled collectomania the other day.

Apparently it's related to OCD.

Okay.

I've googled it too. It's not that.

It's genetic, apparently.

Were you like that?

- I don't remember.

- It could be from Inuus.

- Let's just relax for a bit.

- Yes, of course.

It's so nice.

I've found Inuus.

I know his name.

I had to find it so I could

stop thinking about it.

But that's completely...

- Jens doesn't like me thinking about him.

- Right.

It's hard for him,

because I already had Amanda when we met.

But he likes hearing about you.

The sperm sisters.

That Amanda and Sigurd are like siblings.

I just...

He lives right over in Nesodden.

- What?

- Yeah.

And his name is Niels Krohn.

Isn't that a crazy name?

Well, maybe not crazy,

but it's just so real all of a sudden.

- Bye!

- Goodbye!

I think maybe we'll walk home.

I'm just in the mood to walk.

Let's take a photo first.

We always forget that.

Say cheese!

Cheez doodles!

Cheez doodles!

- Cheese!

- Smile, everyone!

Brown cheese!

NORWEGIAN GAME DEVELOPER

REACHES 20 MILLION USERS

DEVELOPER FACES CRITICISM

FROM MINISTER OF EDUCATION

- I wish I had less self-doubt...

- If you could change anything...

Hello! This is your donor.

- Mommy, what was that?

- That's just grandma.

She's weird.

Hi.

- Hello?

- Niels Krohn?

This is Edith Westerlund

calling from Aftenposten.

Is this a good time to talk?

What's this about?

I'm doing a piece

on Norwegian game developers.

- And you want to write about me?

- Yes!

I don't need another article about

how I made kids addicted to gaming.

That's not the angle.

I'm writing about developers

who've done well abroad.

Oh, I see.

- Alright, well...

- Yes.

Where do you usually...

I could come out to...

I could come to yours.

- I live in Nesodden, it's a bit far.

- I love Nesodden.

Sure, if it's not a hassle.

It's just a trick to make

you more relaxed.

I can send you some dates and times,

and then we go from there?

- Ok, sounds good.

- Great.

- I guess I'll see you, then.

- Alright.

- Speak soon.

- Bye.

- Hi!

- Hi.

- Edith?

- Yes!

Was it hard getting here?

With the ferry and everything? Come in!

The floors are cold,

so I've got slippers.

I'm alright, thanks.

You have to wear them. It's really cold.

- Alright. These ones?

- Yes.

There.

Thanks for coming all the way.

Would you like coffee or tea?

I probably should've asked

you this on the phone, but...

My daughter really wants

to be a journalist.

So I told her she could

listen in while we talk.

- Is that a problem?

- No.

It was a bit of a coincidence.

I was never much of a gamer.

What's your role in the company?

That wasn't clear to me.

I guess I'm... a consultant

to my own company, in a way.

And I do some teaching on the side

when I have the time.

So... Yeah.

It's a bit odd that you reached out to me.

There are so many experts out there.

Who might be more... relevant.

But it's cool. It's fun being able to...

Well, Fruit Hippo was a

huge success when it came out.

And that you were

criticised so heavily after has...

I'd like to know how one moves

on from that.

Yes, well...

I've really grappled

with the ethical dilemmas.

That's for...

NAIVE

And during development,

were ethical guidelines

something you considered at all?

The success was so much greater and

quicker than we had imagined, so it was...

SMUG

I was in charge of the creative side,

I wasn't involved with programming much

due to my dyslexia.

I remember discussions around launch.

We were aware of it,

but the success took us all by surprise.

- So you're dyslexic?

- Yes.

I'm not dyslexic.

Right.

- It's not heritable, is it?

- I think it is. My dad has it.

- Would you like something to drink?

- I'm alright.

- Or something to eat?

- No, thank you.

Why are you interviewing him?

Well, uh...

- What do you mean?

- No, don't.

Don't listen to her. She's completely...

Completely confused.

- Could I use the toilet?

- Of course.

There's one upstairs.

It's not that big a deal.

This doesn't happen every day.

It's not a big deal!

It is! I came back here to

You're acting like this happens

every day.

That's not the point.

The world doesn't end just because.

- He went to school without any food!

- It's not that big of a deal!

- We have to go.

Bye, Silas.

Molly is just getting a pencil sharpener.

We can just continue.

If it's a bad time,

we can do this another day.

OK.

With the rapid advance

of technology, there arise

ethical dilemmas

you have to deal with as you go.

I like to think of myself

as a giving person.

I probably just like the idea

that there's a part of me

out there somewhere.

but on the other hand, it's also-

Damn.

- What is it?

- I have to pick my son up from daycare.

- I'm sorry.

- No worries.

I have several missed calls.

He's really ill, apparently.

- Throwing up all over...

- No worries.

You probably didn't get

everything you needed?

Let's see. I'm really sorry.

I know what it's like to have kids.

Thank you.

No need to walk me out.

- You'll be in touch, then?

- Yes.

Are you leaving?

My son is sick, so I have to

I have a few questions for you

for a school assignment.

It'll only take a minute.

Questions like,

"What does it take to be a journalist?"

"How many hours

do you work in a typical day?"

"How do you get an internship?"

Molly! Edith has to go.

But maybe we can pick this up

another time?

- Yes...

- Is that alright?

I'll text you.

Edith, this is the most

f*cked up sh*t you've ever done.

Yes, but now I can put it behind me.

It's over and done with.

If he asks, I'll just say

they shelved the story.

You weren't even close

to finishing the interview!

I'll tell him I got fired.

I'm never going back there. Ever.

But what did you find out?

He's got a wife and two kids.

What?

Was he married when he donated?

- Does his wife know?

- I hadn't even thought of that.

Do you think he's lied to her?

What does he look like now?

Send me a photo.

Just a sec.

There.

- I can see Sigurd in him. The smile.

- I know.

- This is crazy.

- What's wrong with me?

Trine is crazy for giving you his name.

You can't tell her you met him.

What is it, mommy?

- What is what?

- You're being weird.

Am I being weird?

It's the red one.

I know.

Has Sigurd come up with any

better birthday wishes?

- What do you mean, better?

- He's obsessed with his collection.

I can't just go and find

a stick on the street to give him.

He just wants something unique.

But it's like he's obsessed with it.

I can take him shopping this weekend,

and then he can choose

something nice he likes.

Well,

I actually wanted to talk to you

about that.

Okay?

Just say it.

You're stuck inside your own head again.

It's hard to talk about.

I just... think it's better

if you don't go out with Sigurd.

From now on.

Okay.

He's at an age

where he's hard to keep track of.

I think it's better

if you spend time together here.

That you play with him here.

You're so good at that.

I'm going to my room.

Can I ask you something else?

Did I collect weird things

when I was little?

I can't remember.

Maybe you did, maybe you didn't.

HI, EDITH. DO YOU WANTO MEET TOMORROW,

OR DID YOU GEWHAT YOU NEEDED?

HI, NIELS. SORRY FOR THE LATE REPLY.

MY EDITOR HAS ACTUALLY...

Sorry.

Edith?

There's a Niels Krohn here to see you.

- Here?

- He says you're doing a piece on him.

- But he's here? Now?

- Yeah, in the lobby.

Do I know about this piece?

Uh, no.

I haven't had the time to tell you.

- We could chat over lunch?

- Sure.

Sorry to drop in like this,

but we were in the neighbourhood.

Molly wanted to ask you

a few more questions. Right?

I said no,

because you're probably really busy.

But you really insisted, so.

So I wanted to see if

if this was a good time.

Let me think.

We have an evaluation meeting,

and I have some things

I need to do before that.

Just forget that we stopped by.

Don't worry about it.

But I'd love to talk

some more soon, Molly.

Great. I was wondering if you could

look at that paper I mentioned.

And I was wondering if you needed

anything else for the interview.

Don't hesitate to reach out.

I was waiting for my editor to green light

the story before we kept going, so.

Alright. But...

Ok, well, just let me know when you

find out.

Yes! I have to go now,

but... I'll be in touch.

And sorry again for dropping in like this.

I like that it's not another

success story.

I agree.

But I'm not sure if

he's the right person for it.

- Didn't you mention a video game?

- Yes. He made that Fruit Hippo game.

Was that him?

My kids were obsessed with that.

Weren't they criticised for

tricking money out of kids?

Yes, but it was a long time ago.

It's not really news.

Ethics and mobile gaming.

That's a pretty hot topic.

Yes, of course.

Simon can take over.

He's done a lot of research on it.

Sure.

I'll get him to reach out

to Krohn after lunch.

You know what, I'll do it. You're right.

I've already met him,

so it's best like that.

- Are you sure?

- Yes.

Are you thirsty? We have lots

of soda from a birthday party.

Theres a ton of it.

No, thank you. I'm alright.

ANY OTHER DISABILITIES?

HOW BAD IS THE DYSLEXIA?

Should we sit outside?

- Sure, if you prefer.

- Yes.

Nothing is flawless. A lot of stuff

can happen during a process like that.

There's so many components. Servers can go

down, the software can be buggy.

And there's

a significant risk of human error.

- Am I boring you with this?

- No. It's interesting.

Especially your own personal experiences.

- Like we talked about last time.

- Yes.

- Could you explain that further?

- There was a lot of...

There was a lot of

fuzz around that game.

I had a bit of a

personal crisis after that.

I see.

Molly should be home any minute now.

It's just us two today. Mia's working late

and Silas is with his dad.

I see. So he's not your...

- He's not your...

- No, I'm his stepdad.

I see. And Molly?

- So you don't have kids of your own?

- No.

- I didn't mean it like that.

- Not biologically, no.

I'd actually like a soda.

Is that ok?

Of course! We have so many.

There's lots of flavours.

Let's see... Kiwi, raspberry...

Uh... Lemon, pineapple -

that one's really good.

- Lemon sounds good.

- Lemon? Me too.

Thank you.

Cheers.

That's nice.

Oops! Oh dear.

- Don't worry.

- This is really good.

Is it fermented?

No, I don't think so.

I'm obsessed with fermenting lately.

I'm trying to make kimchi,

kombucha, sourdough bread...

I just got so into all of it.

Funny you should say that,

I used to be really into it too.

- I spent hours on YouTube and blogs.

- Me too.

I miss that. Wanting to ferment

everything. My fridge was...

You sound like me. When I get hooked

on something, I go all in.

That's probably why I'm a journalist.

Okay, well...

- Have you always lived in Norway?

- Yes.

- Apart from a few years in Denmark.

- Why Denmark?

I got a job offer, so...

It became my base for a few years.

I love Denmark.

And you've said you want to use your

knowledge to improve people's lives.

Teaching in school...

Do you feel like you've achieved that?

Did I say that?

Yes.

I admire people who work

towards a higher purpose in life.

I think that's really...

I really respect that.

People who don't give up.

I don't know if I've achieved

any particular goals.

But thank you.

Do you want me to smile?

Try and get your face

in the shadow of the tree.

That's it. Great. Don't move.

Just relax.

I never know what to do in photos.

The photos in the hallway look great.

Those photos were Mia's idea.

- Are you done?

- Yes.

I'll come down.

Every day is different.

But that's what makes it fun.

I like writing in the office. We also have

meetings there with the other journalists.

And then I go around interviewing people.

Like today.

What does it take to be a journalist?

It's not a protected title.

Anyone can start writing.

But you need to be curious about people.

Do you have any role models?

I... admire people...

who achieve their dreams.

Who don't give up and are committed.

Thank you.

This was great.

Would you like to eat dinner with us?

That's...

No, I don't think...

So nice of you to ask,

but I've got a little boy waiting for me.

But thank you.

Would you like something

for the trip home? A banana?

No, that's alright.

- Bye then.

- Bye, Edith.

So you'll be in touch?

Nothing is flawless-

GAME DEVELOPER OPENS UP

AFTER HARSH CRITICISM

Your personal experiences,

like we talked about last time.

GAMES WITH MICRO TRANSACTIONS

CAN PUT PRESSURE ON CHILDREN...

I had a bit of a...

personal crisis after that.

WAS THE CRITICISM JUSTIFIED?

SEND

What about your mother and father?

Do they have any prominent qualities?

I think my mom is very caring.

I don't see her that often.

So...

My father is probably

a bit more reserved, you could say.

I found one!

Which of your parents

do you identify the most with?

I've been thinking

about that a lot lately.

I think...

My father.

- How old is your daughter?

- She's 43.

And how are you dealing with all of this?

I'm fine.

I just want to know

if this is going to keep happening.

Well, stress will worsen the condition.

So try to slow down.

You mentioned the importance of

being social and seeing friends.

I'm trying to encourage you to do that.

But I'm a little worried about...

We have a birthday coming up.

Maybe she shouldn't come?

It's hard to say, but if there

are many kids there,

that will increase stress levels.

So maybe that's not a great idea.

So you're saying that

it's up to me to decide?

Yes and no.

Have there been any changes at home?

No... Everything's normal.

And that is...

You live together, is that correct?

With Sigurd, your four-year-old.

Yes. Almost five.

Edith was in a long-term relationship,

and thought they would have children,

but then he didn't want to.

So she waited too long.

I had Sigurd by myself,

and he's doing great.

Except that it can be hard

to get through to him sometimes.

Like all children at that age.

Yes.

The situation at home is what it is.

There's no reason to worry.

We're doing just fine.

This is about making

adaptations for your sake, mum.

When you chose to be a single mother,

was the plan for Dorthe to help you

more than she's able to now?

Yes, I guess it was.

That plan has changed a bit now.

As Dorthe's dementia keeps developing.

- But we do just fine, as I've said.

- Yes.

The important thing is that I do

the exercises you've given me.

You have to slow down.

That's the important thing.

Are you saying

I'm a stressed-out solo mom?

You're the one saying that, Edith.

It's not my fault you're sick.

- I can take care of myself.

- No, you can't!

You're not taking it seriously!

And now we're talking about me?

You're angry with me because of your

insecurities as a solo mom.

- What on earth are you saying?

- It's true.

You were a single mom yourself.

Dad left, remember?

Let's just calm down.

I think what you've done is really brave.

Brave? It's not brave,

it's perfectly normal!

Do you tell expecting couples

that they're brave?

Calm down and listen to the doctor.

No!

First floor.

What about a board game?

One that we could play together?

No. I want something old that

no one else has ever found.

- PUT IT BEHIND YOU.

- I JUST HAVE TO SEE HIM ONE MORE TIME

my friends playing ptanque.

Do you remember?

Oh yeah.

But there were games in the toy shop,

that we could've played together.

I said no!

- Are you completely sure?

- Yes, I told you.

- I HAVE SO MANY QUESTIONS.

- BUT WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM HIM?

I've decided to try again

with the same donor.

- With the same donor?

- Yeah. That was always the plan.

- Was it?

- What's up with you?

Nothing's up, I just...

I'm just thinking about Jens.

Shouldn't you guys be...

Jens doesn't know what he wants,

and the clock is ticking,

so if I want Amanda to have a sibling,

it has to be now, and with Inuus.

Of course. I'm sorry.

I had a long night with Sigurd.

But this is good news!

- How nice for Amanda.

- And for Sigurd!

He'll have another sibling too!

That's right!

Wow.

He's going to be thrilled!

Thanks for taking him this Saturday.

I really appreciate it.

Of course.

But I was thinking Jens could take them.

- Oh yeah?

- So I can come out with you!

Right? Sure, maybe!

Let's talk about it.

Sigurd!

Sigurd! Leave that lady alone.

What?

I don't get it.

- I've got it.

- Show us, then.

No.

"I've got it." Come on!

Your index finger.

What?

Can't you just tell us? Tell us!

No! But this round's on me.

Sorry, I've got a flight at six a.m.

- No!

- Rain check.

Get something nice for Sigurd!

You know what he likes?

Some Japanese trash.

- Hey.

- What?

I think I saw Inuus in here.

- Are you sure?

- Yes.

- So maybe you should leave with me.

- No, why?

Alright. It's up to you.

Just don't do anything stupid.

- Of course not!

- Good.

You've been warned. So you'll leave

with the others, right? Yes?

Enjoy your trip. Have fun.

- Next round, next round.

- Coming up.

Three beers and three Fernet.

- Aftenposten?

- You remember me.

It's all Molly's

been talking about for weeks.

- How are you?

- I'm good.

Thirsty?

You look different.

Is that a compliment?

I'm alright. I've been better, but...

- Were you unhappy with the story?

- No, not at all.

It was great. I just get a little

self-conscious reading about myself.

Do you need a hand with the drinks?

- Hi. Torbjrn.

- Niels.

Niels pilsner.

- Sorry.

- No worries.

Well?

- Good to see you again.

- You too.

Tell Molly hi.

- She's going to be an awesome journalist.

- Yes. Agreed.

Who was that?

Someone I did a story on a while back.

Cool. You're so on top of everything.

All while being a solo mom.

What's that supposed to mean?

What's that supposed to mean?

- I didn't mean it like that.

- And yet it comes out like that!

Why do you do that?

Why do you always do that?

Hey. Edith. Listen.

I'm giving you a hug.

- Hey.

- What?

Did I offend your independence by offering

to help you carry the drinks?

Do you want to carry them by yourself?

We need to get back to the babysitter.

Are you leaving?

Are you coming?

No, I want to finish my drink.

You guys go.

- Are you sure?

- Yeah.

- Say hi to Dorthe.

- She's away with a friend.

It's going to be alright.

Thanks, I guess?

Are you good?

Hi, Edith.

Hope you're having a great time.

Not to put a damper on the mood, but...

I've actually been waiting

for you to call all night.

Sometimes I feel like you see me

more as a babysitter than a friend.

And that's a pretty crap feeling.

When we found out the kids

had the same dad,

I was hoping we'd be more of a...

Or maybe...

Well, anyway. The kids are fine.

I don't know if you got the photos

I sent?

I'll see you tomorrow.

- A beer.

- Coming up.

- There you go.

- Thanks.

NIELS KROHN

ARE YOU LEAVING?

- That's Celine. Not me.

- I know.

- Hi.

- Hi.

- I ordered a taxi.

- Yes.

Maybe I could...

Do you want to share it?

I'm not going far.

Nesodden isn't the same way.

I'm not going to Nesodden.

Mia and I have split up.

- What?

- So...

I'm staying with a friend

while I'm sorting things out.

sh*t.

I'm alright. It feels like

the right thing. For both of us.

But you were the perfect family.

Surely you'll work things out?

No. Not this time.

- Where are the wine glasses?

- Above the sink.

Have you read this?

No, not yet. Have you?

- Well, I got the audio book.

- That's the same thing.

Is it really, though?

- Campari?

- It's all I've got.

Delicious.

I love your flat.

Do you want to give me a tour?

It's actually my mother's,

and I've got plans to renovate it,

but I never got around to it.

- So there's not that much to see.

- I'd still love a tour.

Okay.

- Cheers.

- Cheers.

No, that's not allowed!

A little bit...

- Just add some more apple juice.

- More apple juice, yes.

Or more Campari.

I think that'll do the trick.

When I was little,

I wanted to be an architect.

But then you married one instead?

- Now I get it. I get everything.

- I told you I'm going to renovate!

What's in here?

- Woah, there's a lot of stuff.

- That's my son's room.

It reminds me of my childhood room.

It's really nice.

Thanks.

- I'll keep going, okay?

- Go right ahead.

- Mind your head!

- That happens all the time.

Alright.

This is where it happens.

Now this tour seems like

"a move" on my part.

- A very childish move.

- I'm very young.

You're not that young. Are you?

- Another one?

- Yes.

We were never really meant to be.

Really.

But that can be hard to see

when you've got children.

I'm just really worried

about losing the kids.

Especially since they're not...

- Do you really think you will?

- Well, I...

They have a father.

- But they still love you.

- Yes. They do.

But maybe I haven't been there

long enough.

They're lucky to have

so many people who love them.

But I see what you mean.

The fear of not being enough.

- Do you ever feel like that?

- Of course.

Where is your son's dad?

We don't have to talk about it.

It's alright. It's just...

He's just...

He doesn't live in Norway anymore.

He moved back to New York

when Sigurd was two.

He's an artist, so... he didn't want that.

And we hadn't planned on having a child.

I was the one who wanted that.

Is he in touch with Sigurd?

- No.

- Not at all?

That dress is f*cking k*ller.

Is it red or brown? I can't tell.

But it looks so good on you.

- Let's see what colour it is on you.

- On me?

Yes.

I'm just going down to the fitting room.

Okay.

Okay.

Take this.

Oh sh*t.

Sorry.

- I spilled Campari on...

- No worries.

- I didn't get any on the dress.

- There are towels in the bathroom.

- I found this.

- You look gorgeous.

- Do you mind?

- Not at all.

You should start wearing dresses.

Is this a drunk tattoo?

Do you have any tattoos?

No, I'm afraid of...

And besides, Mia hated it.

She wouldn't let me. I mean...

I have a needle.

And ink.

Is that how you did yours? Let's go!

- It's going to look like yours, right?

- Yes, identical.

Morning.

- I'm going to get some breakfast.

- That's awesome.

Don't go anywhere.

Can you tell us

about your current work situation?

You are self-employed?

It sounds like I'm unemployed.

No, uh... I'm an entrepreneur.

Tech development.

I did a game a few yea

years ago that did pretty well.

- Should I say the name of the game?

- No, please don't.

Is that something

you want to continue doing?

Right now I'm working on

Yoohoo!

Hi!

Did you have a bit too much last night?

Do you like these?

Where did you say Sigurd's dad was?

I told you last night.

- He...

- Hello! It's just us!

- Can I play ptanque with Amanda?

- What are you doing here already?

- Let's go out again.

- I want to go to the park!

Edith has a colleague over,

so we'll go out in the yard.

We were just wrapping up.

I'm sorry.

They were supposed to come back later.

I think maybe you have to leave.

If that's okay.

You didn't answer...

I'm just trying to understand...

You're not in touch with Sigurd's father?

No.

Not at all?

- Well, he left.

- To paint?

You've looked me up.

I just wanted to know who you were.

I didn't...

What do you mean?

I wanted to know

if you were a good person.

How... How did you

I googled you,

and then lots of stuff came up.

And I just wanted to know a bit more.

And then...

You've been in my home.

You met my family.

What do you want?

I just wanted to meet you once. And then

you showed up at my office with Molly.

Wait. Wait!

What was I supposed to do?

So it's my fault?

Is that what you're saying?

Is it my fault?

- I don't know.

- I'm not the one who...

Don't look at me like that.

Don't look at me like that.

You're the sick one here.

I haven't...

Can you please leave!

I'm just trying to understand.

You've sought me out, right?

Do you know how insane that is?

I don't want you here! Please leave!

Is he...

Edith? Are you serious? Don't...

We need to talk.

Are you serious?

Have you got everything?

We're sweeping the floor.

Would you like to say anything to

the child produced from your donation?

Hello. This is your donor.

I hope you are loved.

And I think you are,

because your parent or parents

went through a lot to have you.

Life is going to be good... and bad.

So... good luck!

ARE YOU SURE

YOU WANT TO DELETE RECORDING?

I can't sleep.

Poor baby.

Can I lie here for a bit?

You have to sleep in your own bed, Edith.

You're so good at that now.

Sleeping alone.

Amanda hasn't asked me about it.

That's good. Sigurd hasn't either.

Do you think he realised

Amanda is his as well?

I hope not.

How could you let this happen?

I just felt a need to know more about him.

In case Sigurd ever asked.

That I'd have an answer.

And I felt like I knew him

before we'd even met.

I was...

I know I told you his name.

I'm sorry. I shouldn't have.

No.

But that was my limit.

I hope you know that.

Of course.

I'm not going to use Inuus

as a donor again.

Or Niels, or...

I don't know what to call him.

He's too real now.

Listen...

What you said in that voice message.

You are completely right.

I don't see you as a friend.

We're family.

You're Sigurd's sister's mother.

I'm so happy to have you in our lives.

I couldn't have done all this without you.

Oh well. They've got 10 000

other siblings out there.

True.

Can we go to the park later, grandma?

I think we'll stay inside, Sigurd.

A coffee, please.

I felt tricked.

You put me in a difficult position.

It was a huge transgression.

Toward me.

Yes.

And I'm really sorry.

Really.

What were you hoping would happen?

What was I hoping would happen?

I thought I might

understand my son better

if I knew who his father was.

You must've known it would go...

Go wrong, sooner or later.

I got carried away.

I liked you.

I was very charmed by you, too.

Having a kid by myself was a plan-B.

I sometimes worry I'm not enough for him.

I'd like to suggest

that Sigurd and I meet.

In a proper setting.

But it's completely up to you.

Sigurd is your son.

But...

Can I ask you why you donated?

It was kind of spontaneous.

I saw an ad for a sperm bank

when I was at a conference in Copenhagen.

It was a spur of the moment thing.

I think I actually...

Mia and I were going through

a difficult time.

She didn't want more kids. So...

Maybe it was a way for me

to feel like there's a part

of me out there.

I thought I could solve it

by w*nk*ng in a cup.

I need to use the bathroom.

- Speaking of.

- Yes.

Does this look alright?

Or is it too low?

I think it's fine right there.

Look at this!

I know that I put you

in a difficult situation.

And I may have planted

a need in you to meet Sigurd,

now that you know he exists.

But... what if you change your mind?

I don't want to create a longing in him.

To him you're a kind man somewhere

in the world who helped me have him.

And that's it.

If he's going to meet you...

I want that to be his decision, when

he's old enough to make that decision.

And I hope he wants to.

It might not have meant much to you

to wank in that cup, but...

It's my whole world.