01x03 - Orm Family

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Cured thousands of tantrums..

Saved hundreds of families...

And she's putting a moratorim on mayhem.

The pair of you, look at me.

Each week a new family screams for help.

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Aaah!

No child is too difficult.

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She's jo frost, supernanny.

You've been very, very naughty.

Tonight on "supernanny"...

Hello. Hello.

Jo meets the orm family,

Whose trio of wild boys run amok.

She has two weeks to tame them...

No more hitting.

...with a healthy dose of discipline.

Tammy, place him into the naughty room.

[ Sobbing ] I'm talking to you.

♪ Be good, be good, be good, be good, be good ♪

♪ Be good, be good, be good, be good ♪

♪ Johnny

♪ Be good, be good, be good, be good, be good ♪

♪ Be good, be good, be good, be good ♪

♪ Johnny

♪ Johnny

Let's take a look and see who we have here.

Hi, we're the orm famil.

I'm tammy. And I'm shawn.

Shawn and i, we met,

And we were married in three months --

One of those crazy whirlwind romances.

Such a short amount of time with just the two of us

Before chandler came into the picture.

We went from one to two boys.

It wasn't that big of a change,

But then the third really was a big jump.

Shawn goes to work every day.

I'm the one that's there all the time

Doing most of the discipline.

Sit on your butt.

I feel like I'm getting pulled in different directions.

I do share with them, but they never share with me.

Aah!

No-o-o-o!

Ow! Ahh!

We are here to talk about our three little boys.

Chandler's biggest issue is respect.

You know why I want to do it alone? 'Cause you!

You clean up the toy room. No.

Tammy: the back talk.

Chandler. No!

It's all about the attitud.

Shawn: caden -- boy.

He's always worn us out.

Not that chair!

Caden orm.

[ Whining ]

He won't eat anything with the family.

He usually has to have another meal cooked for him.

Honey, we're not having fruity pebbles for dinner.

I make him something different almost every night.

Caden obviously doesn't like his food.

Declan? Declan.

He's just a handful.

Get out of my way!

I'm starting to see little things that he does

That are just mimics of his brothers' behavior.

What did you say?

He is a little bit of a wanderer.

He kind of has free rein in the neighborhood.

Decs!

Far too dangerous.

I feel like if I don't get control now,

I'm afraid of completely losing control later.

We are asking for your help with our little guys.

Please come and help the orm family.

Consider it done. I'm on my way.

[ Knocks ]

Hello. Hello.

Pleased to meet you. Jo frost.

Jo, I'm tammy.

Jo: today, I met the orm family.

This is caden.

Hi, caden. Pleased to meet you.

Can you say, "nice to meet you"?

And let's see. That's chandler over there.

Hi, chandler. How are you?

Pleased to meet you.

When she walked in the door, I was a little scared

'Cause she seemed like she had that sternness about her.

Hi, ya! This is declan.

Hi, declan. How are you?

Are you gonna shake my hand?

Pleased to meet you.

He's a little shy.

Tammy introduced me to her three sons,

And they're full of energy

And, you know, definitely a handful.

What we're gonna do today

Is I'm gonna watch you and observe.

So I want you to carry on as normal.

I know you've got some issues that need to be addressed,

But we'll get to the bottom of that

And we'll find solutions.

I'm gonna just watch you as you normally would be.

Okay, sounds good.

When I first meet a family,

I observe their family life

And the dynamics between parents and their children.

I watch, I listen, and I take mental notes.

I want to paint. We'll paint in a minute.

Let me just put one more load of laundry away,

And then I'm all yours.

Within minutes of walking into the house,

Chandler, who's , and caden, who's , started fighting.

Ow!

Oww!

Chandler: you are dead meat, caden!

They were hurting one another,

And then they became a lot more aggressive.

Aah! You okay?

[ Crying ]

Jo: caden!

Stop.

Mom was oblivious. It was just madness.

Yeah. Mmm, mmm, mmm, mmm.

Caden, do you always step over your brother like that?

Great.

Tammy: which way's he going?

Get the ball!

He's going for mine.

So you got to hit it this way.

Play with your brother for a little bit, honey, okay?

I need your help.

Honey, who are you gonna play with? Mommy can't play.

Where's caden? I don't know.

Caden? Honey?

Caden, who's years old, nobody knows where he is.

He's not in the house.

Where's caden and... Mom!

...declan now?

And declan, who's years old, he goes missing.

Does that normally happen, tammy?

Yeah, because they all run outside,

And especially with declan

Because he never tells me he's leaving.

Then I'll be running around the neighborhood searching every where for him.

That's bloody crazy.

Where's declan? Declan!

Today, declan went missing.

My word, I thought I was gonna have a heart attack because we couldn't find him.

Where's declan?

Coming up on "supernanny"...

Where's declan?

Can jo help mom find her missing son?

And how will tammy and shawn take it

When jo speaks the truth?

You know the day is coming bad

When you're walking out into the front yard,

And you're thanking your lucky stars

That you weren't dealing with something more serious.

When "supernanny" returns.

♪ Johnny

Where's declan now?

Jo: declan, who is years old, he goes missing.

Where's declan?

Nobody knows where he is.

I thought I was gonna have a heart attack.

Mum hasn't got a clue where her sons are.

I could not believe the situation we were in.

Where's declan, tammy?

Hey, bu-- oh! Honey!

No, no.

That's not good.

Jo: did declan just have those scissors?

[ Chuckling ] yes, he did.

I dread to think what that boy could have done

With a pair of scissors in his hands.

There was no discipline

For taking the scissors in the first place.

Tammy needs to get assertive herself

And take responsibility as a mother

To look after her three boys.

Mom!

One of the big issues in the orm family is eating.

They do nothing

But constantly snack throughout the day.

That can make them hyperactive,

Then they're gonna lose their appetite,

And they're not gonna want any of their meals.

He-e-y! You're home.

How are you doing today?

Jo: shawn came home at lunchtime,

And it was good to see him.

Did you eat a lunch? No.

Well, my job takes me away on a lot of trips.

So I'm gone a lot.

Hopefully somebody from the outside can tell us

What each one of us is doing wrong.

All right, little boys of mine.

Here you go, baby. You want whole or a half?

I'll take...

Ew!

This is normal.

I ran out of turkey, honey.

[ Crying ]

Jo: today at lunchtime,

Caden decided that he didn't want to eat

The sandwich that tammy had prepared

For all the other children,

And he kicked up a fuss.

Tammy: caden, you're being ridiculous, honey.

Shawn: you don't get any food.

All right, just forget it. I'll just...

What do you want? Do you want a turkey sandwich?

[ Crying ]

I'll make him turkey.

Shawn: I just don't think that she's strict enough,

And she thinks I'm too strict.

Jo: caden didn't want to eat his sandwich.

Dad said he had to,

And mum went and made another sandwich.

They've got different approaches,

And they need to come together.

What would you say that you disagree on --

Some of the issues?

Tammy: I think he yells too much.

That's big -- number one for me.

And I don't think she does enough

When they're doing something wrong in front of her.

So when you come home, you mean, you don't think she --

When we're together in the car or whatever.

They'll be throwing something while she's driving.

And she'll just sit there and talk or read a magazine

And not do anything about it.

But you want silence.

If they even, like, uh, you know, "mom."

You're like, "I told you to be quiet!"

My gosh, he was just asking me something.

Chandler!

Tammy doesn't hold authority with her children.

They don't look at her with any respect.

Chandler! Come on.

Don't "jeesh" me.

Time for homework.

[ Speaks indistinctly ]

Come on, sweetie.

Oh, cool, a street washer. We need it.

I hope they come down here all the time.

Jo: chandler's years old,

And he smart-mouths his mother all the time.

And I think that's very disrespectful.

Huh?

Chandler, honey.

I don't need that kind of attitude from you.

Tammy pleads with her children

To do stuff that they should be doing.

Tammy: yes, caden. No!

Chandler, honey, don't yell at me, sweetheart.

Stop, baby. Wait till I fix it.

Caden, stop!

She begs them. It's cringing to watch.

Please?

Put it back up for mommy. Stick it in there.

[ Sighs ]

Caden.

Jo: there also seems to be a lot of chaos,

And it seems very hectic in the household.

We are in the middle of baking cookies.

At one stage, declan had his hands in the oven

Because they were cooking cookies,

And next minute...

Tammy: oh, here he is. He's catching bugs.

...caden was outside the house, and nobody knew where he was.

And now she's got two children that are in the house,

One of them being years old,

Which could have his hands in the stove

Looking for the cookies.

But mum wouldn't know

Because she's out here collecting bugs.

Crazy.

[ Laughing ]

Did you poke holes in the cookies?

Oh, you did poke holes in the cookies, didn't you?

Mum was really trying to multitask

And manage looking after all three boys,

Which she was struggling with.

Tammy?

Come through. Look at this.

I'm just tired.

This is mummy on the floor.

It's just got a little bit out of hand, to be honest,

In the house.

The children are ruling the roost.

When I first meet a family,

I go in and I observe their family life

And the dynamics between parents and their children.

And I take mental notes throughout the day

Of what I feel is not working.

And at the end of the evening,

I sit down and I talk to the parents

About what I observed throughout the day.

Jo -- when we were waiting for her to talk to us,

It -- [ laughs ]

The longer I waited, the more nervous I got.

I'm supersensitive in the area of my kids

And my job as a mother.

Shawn: I'm definitely nervous. I don't know what to expect.

I would like to say to the both of you

That you couldn't find a home

As warm as the home that I've walked into.

And without a doubt, the love and the praise

That you give your boys in abundance

Is really a beautiful thing.

Also, I'd like to talk about

The things that I'm not too happy about.

Discipline needs to be a must.

There is a lack of discipline on your behalf, tammy.

You're constantly trying to convince them

That they should listen to you.

And you're the mum. You're in charge.

And there is discipline on your side, shawn,

Which seems so much firmer and sterner,

Where you're more relaxed.

And because no one's being consistent,

The children are getting mixed messages.

Chandler is a boy who smart-mouths.

He's rude when he smart-mouths back to you.

He doesn't respect by the way that he talks to you.

Declan, a smart -year-old.

You know the day is coming bad

When you're walking out into the front yard,

And your child has got a pair of scissors.

And you're thanking your lucky stars

That you weren't dealing with something more serious.

Caden, for example, won't eat his lunch, as we know,

Or his dinner.

And your complete fear, as a mother,

That your children are gonna starve

Makes you act impulsively.

Now, I'm sitting here, and I'm watching you feel upset.

Because you know what I truly believe that I'm seeing here

Is a woman that is taking all of this blame as guilt,

That you feel guilty, tammy,

If you have to discipline your children,

That you feel that you won't be any closer than what you are

To put your foot down.

[ Exhales ]

And let me tell you something, shawn.

Your wife's tired.

She's struggling.

And she needs your help. She does need your help.

I want to be supermom, where I take on everything,

And I've -- sorry.

Yeah, hey.

I've never asked him to help me very much.

[ Voice breaking ] and he's kind of gotten used to that.

I'm sorry.

He goes to work every day, earns a living.

I could just stay home with the kids.

He gets home and he's tired, and, um...

You don't work? You work, tammy.

Oh, hell, you work. You work every day.

You two come together and change your parenting techniques

And change your behavior pattern,

Your children will change their behavior pattern.

And we are gonna go through routines and techniques,

And we're gonna make this better.

So you don't think it's too late to backtrack?

It's never too late. It's never too late.

My word, it's never too late.

Okay.

Jo -- she's definitely straightforward.

So -- and the combination of that and me being emotional

And me taking so much pride in my job,

It was a little overwhelming.

Shawn: there was nothing that jo said

That I disagreed with at all.

The whole part of me not helping out enough is,

You know, probably, you know, very much so true.

Coming up on "supernanny"...

No, no, no, no, no.

Tammy. Place him into the naughty room.

Jo schools the orms.

[ Sobbing ] I'm talking to you.

And everyone learns a lesson..

Hey, chan.

[ Crying ] you yelled at me in the first grade.

...especially dad.

No yelling, daddy. Okay? Okay.

...when "supernanny" returns.

♪ Johnny

[ Doorbell rings ]

Hello!

Tammy: hey, jo!

Hi, ya!

I've got a routine.

The routine I felt the house needed

Because it was very chaotic,

And it gives a very solid foundation here

And structure for your children, which they do need.

It's definitely going to take some getting used to

Because it's been eight years of running things this way.

Tammy: I wasn't expecting a routine chart to come out.

I thought, "oh, my gosh.

When did she have time to put my life on a chart?"

Shawn: when she pulled out the list of routines,

I thought, "oh, boy. I'm back in the military here,"

You know?

I've put here "snack time,"

Which I think's very reasonable because lunch was at :.

Kids come home from school and they're hungry.

So I want you to make that snack time

For all of the children, okay?

Jo: before I start teaching my techniques,

I lay out a set of rules of what behavior is acceptable

And what behavior is not acceptable.

What I wanted to talk to you all about was household rules.

Okay, which I think are very important.

No more hitting one another,

Because I know that you brothers

All love each other very, very much.

When mommy cooks a meal,

I want you all to behave well

And eat your dinner or your lunch.

Shawn and tammy, when you see behavior that's not acceptable,

I would like to give your children a warning

And tell them, "no, stop that behavior.

It's not acceptable."

If you don't stop your behavior,

And your behavior carries on to be naughty,

Then mommy will put you into the naughty room.

I would like to use the downstairs bedroom

As the naughty room.

Okay?

Yeah? Are we nodding?

Are we nodding? Yeah, I think it's good.

Caden is gonna be jo's challenge for this whole thing,

'Cause he's a stubborn little guy.

Ow!

Jo: I'm really concerned

About how the boys become overaggressive when they play.

That does need to stop.

Declan, oh, they're beautiful pictures.

Caden and declan were painting,

And caden took a swipe at declan.

That's just not acceptable.

Will you let him down? No, no, no, no, no.

Caden had already been warned by tammy

Not to hit his brother.

So he got sent off to the naughty room.

Tammy...

We can come down.

Give them eye contact,

Lower your tone so that you're being firm and authoritative,

And place him into the naughty room

For the unacceptable behavior.

Do you hit your brother?

Did I already give you one warning today?

You have to go sit in the naughty room right now...

Caden: I am!

...without the attitude, for six minutes.

Jo: explain to him why you put him in the room.

"You're in this room because..."

Caden, you're in this room

Because mommy warned you not to hit your brothers.

Let's go, you guys. Out.

Jo: so, whilst caden's in the naughty room,

He's gonna have time to think about his naughty behavior.

Tammy: it felt good to put jo's teachings into place.

Normally, it's me screaming, "caden, knock it off!"

I didn't lose it. I felt so in control.

I did what I had to do. I did what she told me.

Jo: it's time now that you could go and get caden.

Remember to say, "mommy put you in this room

Because you hit your brother.

It's time to come out,

And I'd like you to apologize to your brother, please."

If he says no, then he stays in there.

Do you know why you were in this room?

What happened?

For what?

Yeah. Is it nice to hit your brother?

Can you please go and apologize to declan

And give him a hug and say you're sorry?

Thank you.

Jo: tammy did really, really well.

She followed through to the "t," and it worked.

The boys love to snack on loads of junk food,

And that can make them hyperactive.

And then they're going to lose their appetite,

And they're not gonna want any of their meals.

In order to stop the boys

From helping themselves to all the snacks,

I've brought a snack box.

You can most definitely take that into the pantry

And clear up all your snacks and put them in there.

The purpose of having the snack box

Is so that the boys don't feed on those snacks

Throughout the whole day,

So they don't want to eat come lunchtime or dinnertime.

Oh, I see lots of things that could go in this box.

Oh, my word.

There's enough there for a whole army.

[ Laughs ]

Come and take a look. The snack box.

Okay, you guys.

Jo: even though I've curbed the children from eating snacks,

It's still not going to completely change

Caden's eating problem,

Because that's all about control.

There's no reason, unless he's allergic to any particular food,

That he shouldn't eat the same as his brothers.

When tammy realizes that she's losing control of dinnertime,

What she needs to do

Is to separate the food on caden's plate

And explain to him exactly how much more she wants him to eat.

Tammy: first, I want you to eat this meat,

And then I want you to have one bite of corn.

Just a bite.

He's got to have the big bite like you said.

Finish this meat and take a bite of corn.

Best not stall. Address that situation again.

Let's finish that meat up, please.

Finish that meat right there.

Shawn: let's eat that one bite of corn.

Caden was still resisting to eat,

And so I taught shawn how to set by example --

Show-and-tell.

Check it out. Dad's gonna get his bite.

Get your bite. Do it together.

It's a teamwork.

......

...go.

Jo: attaboy. Good boy. Whoo-hoo!

Way to go, babe. That's my boy.

At least you tried it.

When we first sat down together,

I probably did doubt jo's ability

And the knowledge that she had of kids.

I was proven wrong. [ Chuckles ]

Caden did a .

We're super proud of you, honey.

I think it's wonderful...

How well they're doing.

And I'd like to say "well done" to mom and dad.

Thank you.

This evening, dad sat down to do homework with chandler.

I'm trying to be there for my wife when she needs help.

It's not gonna be easy.

So you need to think of a sentence.

Chan, pay attention to your work.

[ Groans ]

Jo: as they were doing the homework,

I could visibly see that chandler was getting upset.

Don't look at me. This is your work, honey.

Shall I have a look?

Should I suggest something?

Let's have a look. Sit down, darling.

Let's have a look.

Hey, hey.

Chan, we're not going to do this.

Sometimes children bottle up what they're feeling inside,

And what you get is a secondary emotion.

And sometimes that comes out physical,

With attitude or with aggression.

Can I ask you, why do you feel really upset?

Just...

Talk to jo-jo and tell me,

And then we'll work through it together.

You're not happy?

Then you tell me why you're not happy.

What is that, darling?

Is there any reason

Why you like to do it with mom and not dad?

I didn't yell at you.

Okay, listen to that, because that's valid.

Okay?

How does that make you feel when dad yells at you?

I'm very pleased that you've said how it makes you feel,

Because that's important.

Okay, chan? That's important.

So no yelling, daddy, okay?

Okay.

Do you want to write the sentence by yourself?

When chandler told me how he was feeling during homework,

It really, truly just tore me up inside,

'Cause I sure in the heck don't want my son

Not being able to ask me a question

Because I yelled at him last year

Over something in homework.

It was an eye-opener, you know?

It didn't feel good at all.

Chandler was saying that he felt that you yelled at him

And made him feel upset when he was doing his homework,

Which put pressure on him.

So I want to open up that doorway.

So if I can get you to call chandler in and just say,

"You know, buddy, I'm sorry if I made you feel that way,

"But I really want to be able

To help you do your homework sometimes."

Hey, chan? Hey, dude, come here.

Your dad wants to talk to you.

Dad doesn't want you to feel like, you know,

That I'm yelling at you.

I know I used to, honey,

But daddy's gonna change that, okay?

If you ever feel that way again,

You need to tell me,

Right when we're doing your homework.

All right? I love you.

Jo: good job, huh?

Thanks.

So I'm gone for awhile,

And tammy and shawn have to do it on their own,

Because I can't be around forever.

I hope, while I'm away,

That tammy and shawn remember the details

Of the techniques that I've taught them.

Take care.

Have a good night. See you later.

We're on our own.

[ Both laugh ]

Shawn: I think jo's got us pretty close to trained.

You know, we'll find out. [ Laughs ]

Coming up on "supernanny"...

Chandler.

All right. Go into the naughty room.

God!

The orms go solo.

Is that beans? I'm not eating beans.

But caden goes on strike.

Get in control of the situation!

And declan takes a hike.

Oh, my god.

...when "supernanny" returns.

♪ Johnny

Jo: I hope, while I'm away,

That tammy and shawn

Remember the details of the techniques I've taught them.

Take care.

Have a good night. See you later.

Bye.

We're on our own.

[ Both laugh ]

Jo: tammy and shawn are gonna be put to the test.

I just hope that they stick with it %.

And whilst they're doing it, I'm gonna be watching them.

[ Sighs ]

Caden: is that beans?

Tammy's got to make sure

That when it comes to caden's eating time,

That it doesn't go on forever.

That's what caden's good at --

Game-playing with mom and stalling the whole situation.

Tammy: no, we're not giving him money.

He has to take a bite.

You can either spend the good hour

That we have of playtime playing,

Or you could spend it at the table,

Which doesn't sound like a lot of fun to me.

Mom, don't buy into it. He's playing you.

Not a bite!

If you take a bite. And you don't like it,

Then mommy won't give you pork and beans anymore.

You need to try it.

Not a bite!

This is absurd.

What is going on?

Homework time. He looks stressed.

Chandler really looks stressed.

Look over that word -- the tricky one --

'Cause it looks like a "u," but it says "oo" -- "flute."

It -- come on, baby.

Chandler?

What?

Please do homework with me.

I am.

Had a busy day today?

You're mad because you had a busy day today?

Why would you take it out on me?

I told you last night

That you had a lot of homework today.

Come on, tammy.

Get in control of this situation.

Just like all the other kids out there, honey.

They have homework, too.

There we go -- attitude.

I tried to start this out nicely,

But if you're gonna have this attitude with me,

This is your warning.

Are you gonna read this with me?

All right, go into the naughty room.

No homework getting done tonight, that's for sure.

Tammy: chandler has given me a few challenging moments.

Let's go do homework nicely?

I feel like [sighs] I have no control.

You're not gonna do homework nicely?

I can't regain the control that I need.

Whoa. Slamming doors again.

I'm done.

Chandler? [ Sighs ]

I think it's hard for tammy, having to manage all three boys.

Oh, my god.

Where is anybody to look after declan?

Nobody knows he's even outside the house!

This is too dangerous.

A car!

Oh, that's it.

I need to get back to the orm family now.

Coming up on "supernanny"...

I've got some footage to show you.

Not happy with watching declan

Move out on his own in the street.

...jo returns and takes drastic action.

[ Drill whirring ]

I want you to explain why that lock's on the door.

...when "supernanny" returns.

♪ Johnny

Jo: after I've left the household,

I go away for a couple of days,

And when I come back,

I show the family footage

Of where they need to perfect the techniques

That they have found difficult whilst I've been away.

Okay.

I'm only asking for one bite, hone.

One bite is all I ask.

Caden: not a bite!

Not a bite!

Not a bite!

Right, and there,

That is where I would have stopped the nonsense.

Your low voice should have come in,

And it should have been,

"Caden, sit at the table properly

"And finish the two spoonfuls.

"Otherwise, you're going into the naughty room

Because you are not listening to me."

Just like all the other kids out there, honey.

They have homework, too.

Okay. I'm done.

You've got frosty. Oh, I was so done.

Oh, jo, I was so done.

I was so frustrated.

The pair of you were like this, ready to pull your hair out.

So your firm voice could have come in with,

"Do not give me attitude. Do not talk to me like that."

If you stay calm,

Then you can address

The situations that do need to be addressed

With his attitude and how he speaks to you.

Then you can go, "let's get it done

So we can relax and hang out together afterwards."

I'm not happy with watching declan

Move out on his own in the street.

See the height of declan in comparison to the car?

He walked straight out on the road,

Behind this parked car,

And there could have been a car.

And he's in the middle of the road.

That, to me,

You know, my mind wouldn't even imagine

What could happen to declan out on the street

While you were indoors.

And that is why I feel

That you have to supervise declan,

Because he's too young.

You got to be on top of that situation, the pair of you.

Okay, is that clear?

Okay.

We've looked through the footage.

And I'm gonna stick around and support you

And reinforce all the techniques, okay?

I have bought a door lock.

What I would like to establish

Is your awareness of where the children are.

I think it's a very good idea that they start coming to you

And asking you if they can go out.

Hold that.

[ Drill whirring ]

Okay, mommy,

I want you to explain to your boys

Why that lock's on the door and what you expect from them.

This lock is on the door because,

While we're in the house,

And you guys want to go out and play,

I need you to come and say,

"Mommy, I'm going to play outside," and tell me where you are going.

And this especially goes to you.

Brilliant, tammy. Excellent.

Now the boys have to come to you.

Jo: tonight the orm family had a barbecue,

And they invited their friends.

As usual, caden was resistant to eat his food again.

Caden, have you taken the bites?

You'll just have to sit here until you take those bites, okay.

Just got to have a couple of spoonfuls to try for mommy,

Then you can get down. Look at me.

I'm giving you one more minute to take a bite of that.

And if you don't take a bite of that,

You're gonna go into the naughty room.

Tammy: I can see now, that's a control thing,

And he's gonna eat it.

I was catering too much.

[ Whines ]

There we go.

Way to go, caden. Way to go, darling.

Tammy: caden ate what I told him to eat.

I think he knew that we were serious, and we were firm.

He's getting the picture.

She did really well.

She followed through, and she got the results,

And it was very successful. I was very proud of her.

Come here. [ Smooches ]

Coming up on "supernanny"...

Jo leaves the orm family for good.

Tammy: things have really started to change,

So I just got to hang in there.

Take care. Thank you.

Can mom and dad cope without her?

I can't even tell you how much you've helped us.

Oh, thank you.

...when "supernanny" returns.

♪ Johnny

My household is so different.

Everything is running more smoothly.

There's not as much chaos in the house.

Caden's eating his dinner.

He doesn't come in and out of the pantry times a day.

Shawn: very proud of you.

Can I go...?

Wait until everybody else is done.

"How to be a ranger."

Good. That was very good.

There's been a big change in chandler.

His attitude is improving.

It's not supposed to have two t's.

No.

Now chandler wants to do homework with shawn.

[ Laughing ]

And declan's gotten used to playing in the house.

It's a huge difference.

Jo: there has been a tremendous amount of progress

With the orm family.

Tammy's got more control over situations

When she's managing all three boys.

And both parents, they've, like, connected and come together,

And they're working on the same page.

[ Laughs ]

Aw!

All right.

Tammy: watching shawn with the boys, it's amazing.

It's good for the boys to bond with their dad like that.

Okay, you want a green guy? Yeah.

Jo: progress is happening, slowly but surely,

And that's what counts.

And that makes me feel very, very happy for them.

Take care.

Thank you.

Everything is so awesome.

I can't even tell you how much you've helped us.

Oh, thank you.

They were open from the beginning.

They were warm. They were receptive.

They wanted change.

And they deserve every result they're getting --

Every result --

Because they've put the hard work in.

And it is lovely to walk into a house

And see what needs changing

And to walk out and see it changed.

That's priceless -- priceless.

I've done what I was meant to do here in this family,

And I'm off to the next one now.

Tammy: go, caden! Go, go, go!

It's all yours. Yeah!

Everything has changed. This is more than I expected.

To actually see her come in here and work wonders on our family

Was more than I could have ever hoped for.

Yay!

It was an amazing experience for all of us.

Shawn: since jo's been around,

I think the biggest difference in our family

Is we're much closer.

Even though we were a tight family,

It just seeming like we've came together even snugger --

Kind of put some sealant around the window, basically.

Chandler: I am happy that jo came in.

I'm so happy, but I'm so sad 'cause I'm gonna miss her.

[ Chuckles ] double dot.

Okay, start at that dot right there.

Shawn: she's made me, I would say,

Be a better father, you know,

And help my kids act proper, you know?

Which is gonna reflect onto them

And pass it on to their kids one day.

Tammy: jo made a big difference forever

On how these kids are gonna turn into --

-, -, And -year-olds into grown men.

And they're gonna be raising their kids

And be better parents because of what jo taught us.

It's a chain.

Not only did she affect our life,

But she can affect my children's life.

That's an amazing thing to do for somebody, for all of us.