Previously on "90 day fiancé"...
Welcome to the u.S.A.
While you're at the farm,
There's gonna be rules
that we have to follow...
That you have your own room,
And you're gonna take
proper steps
To make sure that
there are no children yet.
My mom's a [bleep] block.
[ laughs ]
I have said to them, though.
Uh... Yeah.
Tarik:
Hazel dropped a b*mb on me.
She told me
that she was bisexual.
So hazel having a girlfriend
Is gonna be
a part of our married life.
♪♪
My mom wants us to go stay
over at her place.
She's excited to meet you.
Introducing my future wife
to my mother
Is one of the most
important things in my life.
Don't be disrespectful
if you won't do it.
♪♪
It's just real fast,
but you're gonna be fine.
Mike: With natalie coming,
she just wasn't
Quite comfortable
with beau living in the house,
But I want to ensure that
She's the most comfortable
possible.
[ both laugh ]
Made it.
[ laughs ]
♪♪
♪♪
Brandon:
Julia just arrived yesterday,
And it's so great
waking up next to her.
It's amazing
that we get to stay together
And she doesn't have to leave.
♪♪
As long as we get married
within this 90 days,
She's here
to start a life with me.
Good morning.
But so far,
it's just not going smooth.
My parents decided to throw
all their house rules at julia
On making us stay
in separate rooms.
Rise and shine, sleepyhead.
Got so much to see today.
Today will be julia's
first full day in america.
It is her second day
of being here,
And we decided
to spend the weekend
Sightseeing in washington, d.C.,
before heading back to the farm.
Guess what I brought.
[ both laugh ]
I brought you your favorite tea.
So how you doing this morning?
I know. Do you believe it now?
It's time to go.
Oh, we're gonna see
all the sights.
My mom's got it all
kind of planned out.
[ sighs ]
I think you have like
According to her schedule.
Oh, I love the sound of that,
But my mom's
got it all planned out, so...
I know.
I know.
Just put up with them
a little bit more.
Yes.
And put up with them even more.
[ chuckles ]
♪♪
♪♪
Um...
Yeah, I don't want it
any more than you do.
I know. I know. We'll talk.
♪♪
I'm gonna talk to them.
Okay.
We got some fun to have. Mwah.
She is stern on the fact
That she wants me
to talk to my mother today.
I'm not very confident
about this.
I've already tried.
I'm not getting anywhere.
I don't know what's supposed to
come out of this.
♪♪
♪♪
Jovi: See your options
on what you can wear.
You're gonna probably get dirty.
You're going to the bayou.
You're not going
to a nice restaurant.
You're going to
kind of [bleep] places,
Not [bleep],
but not what you're used to.
No. Why would you
wear something like that
To go to my mom's home?
Just wear a t-shirt,
jeans, and a jacket.
Jovi: Today's a big day for me.
We're going to my parents' house
on the bayou
So yara can meet my mom.
It's basically
the middle of the swamp.
[ laughs ]
Take this. You can have
something to sleep in.
Okay, well, let's pack anyway.
A couple pairs of socks,
underwear.
What are you doing?
♪♪
My parents have really been
skeptical about me
Bringing this foreign girl
to america, to the bayou.
My dad's not gonna
be there tonight.
He's working on a boat
off the coast of alaska.
♪♪
But my mom and I are very close.
We have a very good
relationship,
So I'm a bit nervous
how my mom's gonna react
Whenever she meets yara.
Yara's got
a different personality,
So I really hope that
yara can make a good impression.
I want everybody
to have a good time
And for everybody to get along.
♪♪
Hey. Jovi: Hey, mom.
Hey. Y'all finally made it.
Hey, finally get to
meet her. [ chuckles ]
I'm cooking for y'all.
Hi, yara.
Nice to meet you.
So I'm cooking you...
You're gonna have to learn
how to say this...
A fricassee.
Fricassee?
Oh, very good.
Jovi: That was pretty good.
Very good. I'm impressed.
Some cajuns can't say it
that well. That was good.
It's a stew.
It's like gravy,
And then we'll put, like,
shrimp and crab inside of it.
It kind of doesn't look too good
When you first start it.
You'll like it, I think. I hope.
And if not, I got fruits
and yogurt for you.
Gwen: I definitely can see why
jovi is attracted to yara.
Of course, she's pretty.
Everyone can see that,
But if I don't like her
and I get a bad feeling,
I am gonna open my mouth
because I can't just watch him
Make a mistake
and me not say anything.
Okay. See it, yara?
You can kind of see
what the finished product
Is supposed to look like.
Jovi: I got a call from work.
I'm gonna go deal with this now.
- Okay.
- I'll leave you up to it.
Hope y'all will be okay.
You just met.
We'll fight. [ laughs ]
Y'all play nice with each other
while I'm gone.
[ laughter ]
So... so are you okay
sleeping here tonight?
Jovi said you might be nervous
or uncomfortable or...
Yeah.
Okay.
Yeah, you can be
comfortable here.
It'll be fine.
In our cajun country,
you just sleep wherever.
You go by your friend's house,
And if it gets too late,
you stay sleep.
We just do that,
So I was kind of sad that
she considered not staying here.
How things going here?
Everything good?
Oh, not great, but...
Okay.
Do you have to leave early
to go to work?
Like how early?
I still don't know
what's gonna happen,
But this is what
they sent me today.
Yeah.
Maybe 20, maybe 24,
maybe 27. I don't know.
Just they said
maybe a few days sooner.
♪♪
Yeah? You like it?
Gwen: You like it?
[ chuckles ]
Okay, so we have any, like,
Definite wedding plans?
What's the deal
with y'all, like...
Why are you looking at him?
It's up to him? [ chuckles ]
Is it definite?
It's up to y'all, too.
I'm just kind of
sitting backseat on this.
She's the bride.
I mean, you said
you think it's good here
Because we can have a more...
My grandparents involved,
And she wants vegas,
so who's gonna win this?
Listen, I told you
a long time ago,
Your grandma and grandpa
would absolutely love
To see you get married,
But if y'all choose vegas,
that's fine.
I understand that.
Jovi: If we can't have
the kind of wedding
That we wanted, a big wedding,
Since both of our families
can't be here
For us to get married,
I was thinking just
we can go to vegas.
We can make a fun weekend
out of the whole deal.
I wish we could do something
more with my family,
but I guess not.
So I do understand,
But at least some type
of little wedding thing,
Just some type of little party.
Yeah, I mean, I get it.
It makes me sad, though,
'cause I would like
to do something for y'all.
♪♪
I don't know if it's
a matter of yara's
Maybe being a little selfish
and "I want it my way"...
But it really deep down inside
kind of hurts my feelings
Because in the big picture,
she chose to come here.
So if jovi would have chose
to go there
And I wasn't allowed
to go in the ukraine,
I would just have to accept that
that was his decision.
Maybe we need to talk about it
a little bit more
Because I would really,
really be disappointed
If we didn't do anything.
♪♪
[high-pitched voice]
baby, I love you.
When are you guys
getting married?
♪♪
♪♪
♪♪
Alright, guys,
who's ready for story time?!
- Yay!
- Yay!
Aw, that's really nice of you.
My name is andrew.
I'm from roseville, california.
I'm 32 years old,
and I run a daycare center.
Alright. Ready?
A very long time ago,
There lived an emperor
in a splendid palace.
I had never really imagined
myself working in a daycare
Or running a daycare,
owning one.
It's certainly not a profession
that men find themselves in,
But I think that
a positive male influence
Is incredibly important.
The end.
[ applause ]
I run the daycare center
with my mom,
And we operate it
out of her house.
I work 12 to 13 hours a day,
so I don't necessarily have
An opportunity to maintain
a large group of friends.
And so a lot of the times,
I'm comfortable
hanging out by myself.
♪♪
I have been lucky
to date many wonderful women.
Unfortunately, none of them
Evolved into any type
of long-term situation,
But I want to have
a relationship.
I want to have a family.
I want to settle down.
I tried online dating locally,
but nothing really developed.
And so ultimately,
I ended up trying
the international website,
And luckily,
that's when I found amira.
♪♪
[ bell tolls ]
♪♪
[ laughs ]
[high-pitched voice]
baby, I love you.
I love you so much.
You are my baby.
Come give me a hug.
Miss you, baby.
[normal voice]
from there, we talked every day.
We got to the point we're like,
"hey, let's get together.
What city do you want
to come to?"
She says she always wanted
to go to las vegas.
I was really nervous
to go meet amira.
I had done all this work.
I had prepared, like,
This entire trip for her
in las vegas.
I set up everything
and all these surprises
And all this stuff,
And, like, my heart is b*ating,
you know, like a cartoon cat.
She came out, and she
looked like a supermodel,
Like she walked right out
of a magazine.
She just grabs my hand,
And all that nervousness
goes away.
♪♪
Like, that connection,
just that ease with a person,
It's something that
you don't always find, you know?
♪♪
Are you having any concerns?
We're definitely worried
about her visa,
And if we don't
activate it right now,
We're not gonna have
an opportunity.
Andrew:
It is becoming very worrisome
That we're not gonna be able
to use the k-1 visa,
But I would rearrange the stars
for amira.
I will move heaven and earth
for us to be together,
And that's exactly
what I'm doing.
And I'm pretty good at finding a
lot of resources and loopholes.
So we're planning
to go to mexico,
Quarantine for 14 days,
And then
enter the united states.
Amira is getting ready
to go to mexico.
She'll be getting on
a plane pretty soon.
How is she doing?
She's nervous,
and that's understandable.
You know, like, covid.
I would be
incredibly nervous, too.
How did you find all this out
About going to mexico and stuff?
I was on a message board
For other people
doing the k-1 visa process
And saw that other people
were using this as a loophole
And successfully getting into
the united states through mexico
After waiting
the 14-day quarantine period,
And so I got very excited
about the idea of us actually
Being able to activate this visa
and thus being able to use it.
So do you have any concerns
about her visa
If something goes wrong?
Of course I'm concerned
about her visa.
The whole reason
that we're doing this
Is because we're concerned
about her visa.
I mean, it's not like we want
To do a vacation to mexico
during a pandemic.
♪♪
Lori: When andrew told me
that he was going to mexico,
My first reaction was,
"are you serious?"
Because that just seems
very extreme.
I am just stunned with
what's happening in the world
With the pandemic,
and that scares me.
♪♪
We're gonna give it a go.
That's quite a go, isn't it?
♪♪
♪♪
[ ringing ]
Angela: Hello?
Tarik: Yo.
I know I'm late,
but I'm on my way.
So just sit tight.
I ain't that far.
Tarik: Right now, I'm on my way
to meet my best friend, angela,
To help me pick out an outfit
because my fiancée, hazel,
Is arriving tonight.
We are hours away, and I'm
freaking nervous as hell.
♪♪
Hazel's favorite color
is powder blue.
So I thought it would be
a great idea for me
To get a powder-blue suit,
And hopefully, that'll get me
some cool points.
♪♪
Angela: What took you so long?
I had to go get flowers.
I had to...
What up, what up,
what up, what up?
Look at you.
Angela is my best friend
for like almost a decade.
Light blue.
I mean, you know I can make
light blue look...
I just think '70s corny,
but okay.
- '70s?
- [ laughs ]
She's like the tough sister
that everybody needs.
She has been there through
the ups and downs of my life
Since I've been
in virginia beach.
I like that one.
Try that one on. Okay.
Okay. Look, look.
You know what I'm saying?
When tarik first told me
about hazel,
I thought he was absolutely
insane, that he'd lost his mind.
Alright, alright,
alright, alright.
He assured me
that he talks to her every day
On facetime and skype.
They spend hours together.
But I still worry
a little bit about hazel
Because she's young and I don't
really know her intentions.
That is very handsome.
I mean,
it may not be powder blue,
But that's fierce.
Time will tell, but I want him
to protect himself.
So do you think
You're gonna invite dean
to the wedding?
Ha!
No, don't want to.
Tarik: Dean is my brother.
Me and dean used to be
super tight, but we are not now.
Early in
hazel and I's relationship,
Dean gave me a lot of [bleep],
You know, sort of questioning
hazel's integrity.
She's got very good game.
A con artist is a con artist.
You got to be real
with yourself, man.
So when I went
to the philippines
For the first time
to meet hazel,
My brother went along with me.
You got kids?
You know, it says a lot
about a woman
Depending on how hard
she fights for her kids
About that woman's character,
you know?
Alright, we're done.
We're done.
And then after dean
gave me so much [bleep]
He turned around and did
the same thing that I did.
Dean met some girl on whatsapp,
Moved with her
to the philippines.
You rode my ass about this.
You know what hypocrisy is,
And this [bleep]
is the height of it.
Respect! Respect!
You owe me respect, fool!
♪♪
I'm so angry at my brother dean,
there is no recovery.
Angela: That's sad, but
I just want you to be happy
And focus on hazel getting here.
That's right. That's right.
I haven't talked to him
in a long time,
And he will not be
at my wedding.
This is nice,
But I feel like
the other one was more like...
Yeah, but it wasn't
powder blue, though, you know?
What can I do?
Powder blue.
♪♪
How do you think
ari's going to react
To hazel
being present all the time?
I actually think
she's gonna be really happy
Because she's only
seen her on video.
My daughter, ari, has autism.
She's just like everyone else.
She just
communicates differently.
♪♪
I'll say something to her,
and she just doesn't understand
What I'm talking about.
And I have to catch myself
and tell myself,
"remember, this is...
She doesn't understand.
She's not ignoring you.
She's not comprehending you."
So it's a tough thing.
♪♪
I got to be worried a little bit
Because having a child
with autism is tough.
I think she'll learn from me,
But, I mean, you have to have
ungodly patience.
You know,
if that doesn't happen,
I don't know
what I'm gonna do then.
There's a lot at stake for me
to have hazel move in to my home
With me and my daughter.
The only person I've ever
lived with is ari's mom,
And obviously, that didn't
go the way I expected.
And that concerns me.
So I'm hopeful,
But you never
really know someone
Until you live with them.
♪♪
Uncle beau used to live
with mike before I arrive,
But I told him I didn't want
uncle beau around.
[ both laugh ]
♪♪
Try to enjoy that view
the last time, huh?
It's pretty incredible, huh?
Mike: I went all-out
For natalie's first night
here in america.
We're down here in seattle.
We got this nice room
We've got to check out of,
unfortunately.
It's just like...
Natalie loves seattle.
It's different
from what she's used to,
But, yeah, I mean, she's gonna
be in for a surprise,
Definitely
when it comes to sequim.
Wanna check out the view
one last time out on the deck?
I know.
Gonna go cruise around
the city a little bit.
I think uncle beau's in town.
How does he feel? I don't know.
We're gonna go
talk to him right now.
You want to get
some steamed clams?
Clams are in
little things like that.
You open them up,
and then you just dig
them out and eat them.
They're steamed.
♪♪
How you been, buddy?
How's everything going?
♪♪
I'd like you to meet natalie.
Nice to meet you, uncle beau.
[ laughs ]
Well, I'm glad we're all here.
You know, very excited.
There you go.
[ laughs ]
[ both laugh ]
I don't drink at all, really.
[ laughs ]
[ sighs ]
[ laughter ]
You guys are both
confusing each other now.
He's like, "huh? What?
What are we talking about?"
♪♪
Think she'll be able
to survive up there, beau?
[ laughter ]
My country,
it would be like like half,
Like not even half.
Which country are you from?
- Oh, ukraine, okay.
- She just got here yesterday.
Well, welcome.
Welcome to seattle.
Your fiancé?
Well, congratulations.
When you guys getting married?
♪♪
Well, enjoy. Let me know
if you need anything.
♪♪
Appreciate that, buddy.
♪♪
Separate-room situation...
She's not happy about it.
She's pretty adamant
about, you know,
Him wanting to
make us change our mind, but...
Hmm.
I know. I can't wait, baby.
How you feeling about
flying tomorrow?
♪♪
♪♪
Perfect.
Alright, I just texted brandon
And I told him
we got to get going,
So let's go try
and round them up.
Betty: Hey, guys!
Coming.
We got to go!
Betty: Hey!
Hey, good morning, good morning.
Good to see you.
Alright, let's do it.
Got a lot of sleep?
[ laughter ]
That's not what
I wanted to hear.
Just saying.
We had a really big day
of sightseeing planned,
But julia is a little jet-lagged
And they slept late
this morning.
So got a little bit later start
than we wanted.
You guys excited about
seeing all the sights
in washington?
Yay!
Because they're trying
to not be fat.
Yeah, welcome to america.
Alright, let's go check it out.
The washington monument
was built in 1888.
- It's pretty spectacular.
- Yeah.
Wanna take a picture?
Bet you wouldn't want to
go to the top of there.
[ laughter ]
Yeah, that'd be great.
Julia: Yes! Very good.
You want to take another one
like that?
Yes, I want more picture here.
More pictures? Yes.
We can do that.
Have you noticed that
julia has a third arm?
[ laughs ] yeah.
It's called her selfie stick.
And she doesn't go anywhere
without it.
[ both laugh ]
She takes so many photos!
Betty: They started this,
And then they had 23 years
Where they had to
stop construction
Because of lack of funding.
That's why it wasn't finished
till 1888.
Yes. Yes.
The camera loves you.
Brandon: I can see my mom
kind of rolling her eyes
Every time julia is taking
a selfie, but whatever.
That's what julia does.
She wants us to
take photos together,
And then I need to back up
And make sure I get
some beautiful sh*ts of her.
Betty: We may get up
to the monument at some point.
Yeah, maybe.
Sometime this year, maybe.
- Oh!
- Good?
Whoo-hoo!
Come on. We got more to see.
Come on. You can see
our white house.
Right there.
The big white house.
[ gasps ]
Do you know who's
in the white house?
- Our president.
- Our president lives there.
Yeah.
Yeah. Let's go say hi.
It's kind of an important year
Because we're getting ready
to have a new election.
♪♪
Okay. Alright.
There's a great little
burger place.
I know you like burgers.
I'm gonna take my future
daughter-in-law over
And bring some burgers back.
- You guys hungry?
- We'll wait here.
Alright.
We'll be back in a short...
- Yeah.
- Sit down?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So how did last night go?
It was mostly good.
It was only day one of 90, so...
I know. So far I'm like...
So far, so good.
Yeah. Okay. Good.
But the topic did
come up about, again,
The whole
separate-room situation.
And?
She's not happy about it.
I understand that. Yeah.
But I also kind of felt like
She seemed like she understood
the respect issue.
Mm-hmm.
Like, I guess going back to it,
I don't know the purpose of it.
Just doesn't feel right to us
before you're married.
Even when you are married,
It still might feel
a little odd to us
If you're in the same room
in our house,
And to be quite honest,
I don't want to hear anything.
I don't want to...
I just... I can't do that,
And I just am not
comfortable with it.
What's her having her own room
going to do?
What's... it's gonna
stop us from...?
I know, but I just wish
you would respect the fact
That we want you to be,
At least while we're all
sleeping, in a separate room.
Hmm.
I thought it went pretty well
last night when we talked,
But apparently,
she has a problem with it
And it's become a red flag.
So I don't know
how it's gonna turn out
Because we're pretty adamant
about, you know, our wishes,
And it sounds like she's pretty
adamant about, you know,
Him wanting to talk to us
and make us change our mind.
But I don't think
that's gonna happen.
Maybe when she has her own room,
When she sees her own room,
She'll fall in love with it
and she'll be like,
"okay, I understand."
She's just gonna push me harder
To leave the house
because of it,
And if she absolutely says,
Like, "that's it. We got to go,"
What do I do?
I'm not sure you're in
the position to move out,
And I don't want to be
hanging that over your head.
But I don't know
that you want to,
You know, be financially
in a position right now
Where you're trying to...
You know I don't.
...Get married,
You're trying to have
a reception and a honeymoon.
Yeah, I know. I know.
You know I know that.
And hopefully, she'll come
around and see our side.
My mom's still not budging on
this whole separate-room thing,
And there's no resolving it
except for just the fact
That I [bleep] up.
I wish I had told julia
about my parents
Wanting us to stay in separate
rooms before she had arrived.
If she thinks I don't
tell her something,
She gives me hell.
[ chuckles ]
I'm worried if I tell julia,
she's gonna eventually, like,
Get into that kind of mood
and just stay there,
And it definitely won't go well.
I've seen julia explode before.
I can't see her
keeping a cool head about it.
♪♪
♪♪
Yes.
♪♪
[ cellphone rings ]
Hey, baby.
You like my hat?
Thank you. I like your face.
[ both laugh ]
I've been missing you.
It's been tense
Being so far away from you
for so long.
I've been worried, you know?
How you feeling about
flying tomorrow?
On the website,
that other french girl,
She was able to...
Right through,
And she said that
there was no problems.
I know. I can't wait, baby.
Baby, it's gonna be
such a long trip for you.
I'm gonna be worrying about you,
thinking about you.
You text me
if you need anything.
Please do, baby, 'cause I don't
think I'm gonna sleep.
I can't wait to see you.
Mwah!
♪♪
Hazel will be here
in a few minutes,
And my stomach is in pretzels.
I'm gonna have to bite
the b*llet and tell hazel
That I reached out
to our ex-girlfriend, minty.
♪♪
♪♪
Tarik: Okay.
[ whistles ]
Here we go.
[ sighs ]
I'm on my way to
norfolk international airport
To pick up my fiancée, hazel,
who has flown
from the philippines
To get here.
All of the hard work
to get her here, you know,
It all was for something.
[ sighs ]
Norfolk airport.
I have seen you many times.
♪♪
I'm excited, you know,
But at the same time,
I'm nervous...
Because I probably messed up.
Hazel is bisexual, and we have
an ex-girlfriend named minty.
And hazel has basically
forbidden me
From all communication
with minty
After our breakup
a year and a half ago,
When a few weeks ago,
I reached out to her
Because I was worried about her.
I know I'm gonna have to
bite the b*llet
And tell hazel that I reached
out to minty at some time,
But not her first night
in america.
This has been the longest time
that we've actually been apart.
You know, it's normally
four months, five months.
This has been double that.
And now hazel will be here
in a few minutes,
And my stomach is in pretzels.
Hmm...
For over two years,
Hazel and I have overcome
so many hardships.
At times, I never thought
we would get to this point,
But here I am.
♪♪
Damn.
♪♪
Where is she?
♪♪
♪♪
Excuse me, excuse me,
excuse me, excuse me.
Look at you! [ laughs ]
♪♪
♪♪
[ laughs ]
♪♪
These are for you.
[ both laugh ]
I know. You see?
I know it's your favorite.
That's why I did it.
She's here, she's here!
I'm excited. I'm pumped.
She doesn't have to leave.
I just keep saying that
over and over.
"you don't have to leave.
You don't have to leave."
"overwhelmed." I like that word.
So I got to dress like this now
all the time? I'm more handsome?
Hmm.
You're here. I can't believe it!
You're here. You don't
have to go nowhere.
Can you believe it?
♪♪
Yeah, I know.
Here. Give me this.
♪♪
Is this everything? Yes.
Yeah.
Yeah, we'll get him.
We'll get him.
But this is best for him,
So it's just
what we got to do for now.
♪♪
Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.
[ laughs ]
[ chuckles ]
That's how I'm feeling!
♪♪
♪♪
I know my future
is gonna change now.
This is, you know,
the turning point in my life.
It's, like,
everything before her
And then everything after her.
♪♪
Yeah, I'm fine.
Happy as all get-out.
♪♪
I think you made it clear
what you want.
♪♪
♪♪
So, yara, your flight
was really, really long
To get here, right?
♪♪
Jovi: Yara met my mom
for the first time tonight,
And I think everything
went pretty well.
They were talking a good bit.
They seemed to laugh and joke,
and most of all, I'm very happy
That yara decided to spend
the night at my mom's house.
So I think
we're doing good here.
I'm ready for bed.
What about y'all?
Are you, too?
Yeah, I bet you're tired.
You woke up early.
Gwen:
Yara seems like a cool person.
I see when they look
at each other, like,
They have
some kind of connection,
So that's a good thing.
And I'd like to say
that all my worries are gone,
But they're not.
We have 90 days.
Whether yara likes it or not,
I'm gonna spend lots of time
Getting to know yara
before the wedding.
Alright. Thanks for the food.
That was delicious.
You're welcome.
Alright.
You ready to go to sleep?
Come on, princess.
See y'all in the morning.
Say goodbye, maybe?
Nice to meet you.
♪♪
So how do you feel?
Yeah, no, tell me
how you really feel.
No need to hide it from me.
Come on. The food was delicious.
Okay. Whatever you think.
I don't care.
♪♪
Yeah, it's not really a good
thing to be talking about.
I think my mom's
cooking is great,
But I understand we have
a different acquired taste.
She's from ukraine. They're not
used to that kind of food.
So I get it, but she's gonna
have to learn to like it
If she wants
to be a part of this family.
What do you think about larose?
Yeah, I mean, I'm not arguing
with you on that. I agree.
Like a ghost town?
♪♪
Jovi: I don't need yara to think
That larose is the greatest
place in the world,
But at the same time,
I think her hometown sucks.
When I was there, I said,
"oh, yeah, this is great."
I was bored as [bleep],
But I just said whatever I can
to make her happy.
She didn't like the food, and
she talked bad about the bayou,
But I'm glad she did it
on the side and just told me
Only to me in the room
and not in front of my mom.
What do you think about my mom?
She's got a lot of questions
For the person who
I'm gonna be married to.
What do you expect? Moms...
That's how moms are.
I think you made it clear
what you want...
And how it will be.
Let's go to bed,
like, get ready.
No, no, no.
Go.
Pbht! Pbht!
♪♪
♪♪
Andrew: I'm meeting
my sister connie today.
I'm gonna miss her baby shower
when I go to mexico,
So I'm bringing her a present.
- Hey, sis.
- Hey! How's it going?
How you doing? Good. Yourself?
Good.
I got you a present
for your baby shower.
The one you're not gonna be at.
♪♪
I really am sorry.
I really wanna be there.
Connie's not too happy that
I'm gonna miss her baby shower,
But I don't think that connie
experiences the gravity
Of what's at stake here
And how much is on the line
to lose if we lose this visa.
Me and amira got you that one.
Aww. It's like a beret.
It's a beret.
- It's blue.
- It's a blue beret.
It's probably gonna
take a little bit for
him to grow into it.
- That's cute. Thank you.
- Yeah. No problem at all.
Appreciate it. It's very cute.
Yeah.
Can't believe that you're going
during my baby shower.
This is probably the only baby
I'm gonna have.
I really don't wanna miss it.
Well, then...
Well, I hope that the mexico
thing works out.
I mean...
It's kind of risky with covid
going on and all of this stuff.
I mean, our visa's gonna expire.
If we don't do something,
we're gonna run out of time.
Yeah. Is she nervous
about flying?
She's nervous about it all.
And can you blame her?
I mean, it's
a tough thing to do.
But in the end, she'll be here,
and you guys can get married
And start planning your wedding.
Yeah. I'm excited about that.
So, I've met amira
a couple of times
That she's come
and visited my brother.
Every time that she's come,
my impression of her
Has kind of been that she's
a little bit superficial.
I have a hard time seeing what
andrew and her have in common.
I'm just concerned for you.
I don't want anything bad
To happen to you
while you're in mexico.
I want you guys...
I mean, two weeks together
In quarantine is gonna be a lot
for your relationship.
It's gonna be really hard.
How long has it been
since you've...
You guys have spent, like,
that much time together?
- Five months.
- It's been about five months.
Mm-hmm. This is the longest
we've ever been apart.
Really? Five months. Wow. Okay.
It's been... it's been tough.
You know?
Usually we see each other
every two months or so,
You know, so this extended
period and the longer
That it gets drawn out,
the more tension that
gets built up, and...
Do you feel like you argue more
When she's here
or when she's away?
The distance creates
difficulty in communication,
And we've already had some...
Some issues in the past,
You know, like, six months or so
because she's kind of started
To change her ideas
about family.
What kind of things about family
have changed for her?
Like, you know,
she used to be really excited
About getting married
and having a kid
And doing all of that, you know?
Does she not wanna have a kid
and start a family right away?
She seems like she doesn't
wanna have kids anymore.
- At all?
- Yeah.
Is that, like, a deal breaker
for you, though?
'cause I know
you wanna have kids.
Like, you wanna start
having kids right now.
That would be such
a difficult choice for me.
- Yeah.
- I do love her.
Do you think she'll change
her mind about kids?
She's changing it now.
That's the problem.
So, my brother
really wants kids.
I remember a couple years ago
he told me that he really wanted
To find somebody
and try to start a family
As soon as he could,
and he found amira,
And he's been really happy
with her for two years.
But I can imagine that he is
probably really disappointed
That she changed her mind.
Marriage is a big deal, and I
don't think that anybody should
Be on opposite sides
of whether or not
They should have children
before they get married.
When she gets here, are you
gonna talk to her more
About the kid thing
before you get married?
I think that's a conversation
that needs to be reasonably had.
Don't you think?
Yeah, in person, face-to-face,
yeah, totally.
Yeah, so I think
I'll have that conversation.
And if she decides that
she doesn't wanna have kids,
You're still gonna
go through with it?
I-I really hope that
t-there's common ground here.
Since you're gonna have
Basically no interruptions...
It's just gonna
be the two of you...
I would just recommend, like,
You guys really talk
about these topics.
Talk about the having kids,
talk about what your plan is.
Don't get lost in the
"lovey-dovey, nice to see you,
I love you" honeymoon phase
And just focus on talking about
some of those bigger topics
Because you are
about to get married.
And before you marry anybody,
You wanna make sure that you
guys are on the same page.
It's all really complicated.
It needs to be figured out.
♪♪
It is very concerning that they
haven't spent a lot of time
Together before
they're about to get married.
So I think that andrew and amira
should spend the full 90 days
Once she gets here to figure out
Whether or not it's the right
thing for both of them.
The later the wedding,
the better.
If you guys can't come to
agreement about the kid thing
Or any other big topics
that you need to discuss,
I want you to know
you don't need to be afraid
To walk away if that's
what you wanna do.
Thank you, sis.
I appreciate that.
I think connie has given some
great advice today about having
Those conversations with amira
about children.
Connie knows that I want kids,
and she wants me to be happy,
You know,
so she wants to make sure
That amira wants
the same things.
What do you think of the house?
The house is clean.
♪♪
♪♪
♪♪
Betty: So, julia,
are you enjoying d.C.?
Oh, good! Well,
when we finish eating,
We can head over
to the lincoln memorial,
And then past that
is the jefferson memorial.
And there's
the korean w*r memorial.
We've got lots more
to see before tonight
When we go to dinner.
Actually, I was kind of thinking
we'd head back now.
Really?
Yeah, I kind of
got plans for us.
I got us reservations somewhere.
I guess you and me for dinner.
I guess so. That's okay.
Yeah. I guess it is what it is.
It's been really great hanging
out with julia and the family,
But now I think it's time for us
To just have some time
to ourselves
And have maybe a little talk
About the whole
separate-room situation.
♪♪
Right here.
Where we go?
Right here.
Mm-hmm. Absolutely.
Good?
So how does it feel
to be in an american bar?
[ laughs ] uh-huh.
Absolutely. Anything for you.
I try. I try.
Yes, ma'am.
[ laughs ]
Huh?
Yeah.
Um, so...
She's still not kind of
budging on the topic.
I don't know, julia.
I don't know.
♪♪
Right.
♪♪
You know, it's, like, not fi...
We have these expenses
coming up,
And I want to stay there
for this short amount of time
So we can get, like,
kind of financially stable.
So, like, when we go get
our own place,
We set off, and, like,
we're financially good.
We're good with money.
We're not gonna have more
problems with money when...
I don't want to put you
in a situation like that.
I think my mom might be
a little nicer.
My mother loves julia, and even
though she has a ton of rules,
She still has
her best interests at heart.
But I'm a little nervous
that I'm putting julia
In the same situation.
I can't control my mother.
I can't control
how they will interact.
They both have
really strong personalities,
And I just feel like
they're gonna clash.
It's never changed.
Tomorrow, it's gonna be
toiling in the fields.
♪♪
♪♪
Yeah, I can't believe
you're here, either.
Tarik: My fiancée, hazel,
Just got here
from the philippines.
I've been waiting for hazel
to arrive for 2/12 years.
Now we can finally
start our lives together.
I just need to figure out
When to tell hazel about me
reaching out to our ex, minty.
I hope she realizes it really
was coming from a good place.
Do the houses
look different here?
Yes.
Yeah.
It's our house.
You got to get used to
saying that... "our house."
Hazel: Our house. [ chuckles ]
mm-hmm.
Okay, wait,
wait, wait, wait, wait.
Close the door. Mnh-mnh.
I open the door... For you.
[ laughs ]
Don't touch that door
never no more.
My house is probably average
size for an american house.
♪♪
Thank you.
But hazel's life is pretty hard
in the philippines.
You can probably fit the house
where hazel grew up
In my garage.
Yeah. Your hands are cold.
I hope that hazel
is not overwhelmed.
I hope she can
kind of be comfortable
And make it feel like home
to her.
Tonight, ari's with her mom,
So it's just me and my fiancée
in this big, old house.
[ imitates drumroll ]
We're home!
No, we can take our shoes off
on the inside.
Okay.
You've seen it in the movies...
[ chuckles ]
...But now you're seeing it
in real life.
Okay, so... Quick tour.
This is the living room,
the living quarters.
This is the dining room...
And kitchen.
So... Dishwasher.
Yeah. Dishwasher.
♪♪
See?
Yeah, so no more
washing dishes by hand.
You just rinse them off,
put them in there.
What do you think of the house?
It's already clean.
How clean does it have to be?
The house is clean.
That's ari's stuff.
Mm-hmm.
Mm-hmm.
♪♪
It's already really clean.
It's just not
your kind of clean.
Listen. We have
two definitions of "clean."
♪♪
[ laughs ]
It's a big house.
Tarik: It's your house now.
Our house.
Yeah, our house.
It's a big...
Big house.
Do you like it?
Do you not like it?
Yeah, I like it.
Finally having hazel in
the house... it's just surreal.
But I think it's gonna take
a little minute
To get used to being here.
[ gasps ]
Ooh!
♪♪
Ba-yow!
Yeah, let's go.
What?
♪♪
Ooh! Lordy, lordy, lordy!
- Man: Oh!
- Amira: Oh!
♪♪
♪♪
- Oh!
- Oh!
[ speaks french ]
Merci. Merci.
Mike: Welcome home, baby.
Welcome home, love.
[ sighs ]
♪♪
Come on, babe.
♪♪
Tonight, me and natalie
are heading back to sequim.
Come on, love.
Over here.
♪♪
Sequim is about 7,000 people,
very small.
About her apartment building...
Back in kyiv.
[ chuckles ]
♪♪
Yeah, I'm very happy that
everything went smooth today.
Well, he's not perfect.
♪♪
Scary road?
The whole drive back
at nighttime is dark.
[ laughs ]
You know, there's a light in
between every couple of miles.
♪♪
Natalie's a city girl.
She likes the people.
She likes the fast pace.
Here in this town,
it's a big difference,
And I don't know
if natalie is gonna like it.
But I kind of hope she learns
to grow to appreciate it
Because, uh, we're not moving.
[ chuckles ]
I mean, there's no place to go.
Hey.
We're gonna turn
off the road here.
...It's gonna get real icy.
♪♪
Whoo!
♪♪
[ laughs ]
♪♪
You wanna drive?
No. [ laughs ]
Welcome home, baby.
[ laughs ]
Jump on out. Come on, babe.
Time to get snowy and wet.
What do you think?
[ chuckles ]
[laughing] what did you say?
Come on in. It's the mudroom.
Yeah, it'll get
always muddy in here.
You should step over there
a little bit further
Because they're gonna get wet.
I mean, you can go anywhere.
You can go in any room you want.
There's a light right there
next to you in the hallway.
There you go.
[ sighs ]
[ sighs ]
Welcome home, love.
Take your bag?
[ both laugh ]
Mike: Have a seat.
Boo boo, go say hi.
[ cat meows ]
[ smooching ] say hello, hello.
[ cat meowing ]
There you go. Come say hi.
She's here.
She wants to say hi to you.
♪♪
Mike: Me and boo boo.
That's my girl right there.
My longest relationship.
♪♪
Um...
♪♪
We'll get it organized tomorrow,
But, like, that's gonna be
your whole section there.
Get your clothes
hung up and stuff.
I got your shoes and stuff
over here already.
I'll have to clear
some more of this out.
So what do you think, babe?
Natalie: Hm. I don't know.
Huh?
'cause it's a bunch of snow
and stuff outside.
It's... well...
[ cat meows ]
That's what happens
during winter.
Didn't think it would be
any much colder here
Than it would be in ukraine,
but...
Maybe just the scariness of the
dark woods and snow all around.
Can you have a tea?
Tell me what you think.
What, you just trying
to take it all in?
Okay.
Uh, we can see if I have tea.
I don't know if I have tea.
[ cat meows ]
[ chuckles ]
Don't be scared.
She won't get you.
If I even have tea.
♪♪
♪♪
Ohh! Look at that.
I got some tea.
♪♪
You're so quiet.
I mean, she's definitely
in some shell-shock.
It's a completely
different environment.
It's new.
But I'm sure in time,
she'll find some things
That she really likes
about the place.
But, I mean, if natalie ends up
Not liking the town
or just the rural living,
It's probably gonna
obviously put a strain
On the relationship for us.
[ kettle whistling ]
Next time on "90 day fiancé"...
Stephanie: Ryan is
So everybody likes
to call me a cougar.
Seven of cups.
This is you looking up here,
and there's a snake there.
I'm worried these cards
are picking up
On the skeleton in my closet.
There's one thing I really,
Really need
to talk to you about.
[ rooster crows ]
Climb up over here.
[ gasps ]
- Come here.
- You can do it.
[ laughs ]
[ laughs ] julia.
[ pig snorts ]
It's been five days since zied
went to his final interview
For his k-1 visa.
It has been absolute t*rture.
What's wrong?
♪♪
I can't wait for us
just to be together.
[ text tone ringing ]
I am absolutely devastated at
the news that I just received.
Jovi: I don't like this rug.
I'm not putting it
in my apartment.
Yeah.
Woman: You have to go apologize.
- Why?
- Because!
You mad now? You serious?