08x08 - Unsure and Insecure

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08x08 - Unsure and Insecure

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[narrator] previously on


- I'm gonna miss you.
- [talking]

- So much.
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Julia, we need brandon to
give us a hand. We'd like
for you to get involved too.

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All this is all yours one day.

Would you want to
give all this up?

I love the farm, but it was
never my dream.

Julia is my dream.

He's been the first person
in my life I've ever wanted
to marry.

But I've been helping
ryan financially.

I've spent 1300 us a month.

I was sending your ass money
because that's all you did,
was sit on your [bleep] ass.

[talking]

[automated voice]
amira is online.

[talking]

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You're on a pedestal up here,
what makes you better than
anyone else?

[talking]

[talking]

[grunts] okay.

Time to start packing.

So, the belizean government
finally decided covid calmed
down enough

For the borders to open up,

So I could go to belize
to see my 27-year-old
fiance, ryan.

He and I have not been
getting along at all.

We've been fighting,
we don't trust each other.

[stephanie] yeah, exactly,
baby bird.

We're just gonna have to see
how this all goes,

If we can just let all...
All or our differences
that we have been

Fighting about. I'm just
hoping that we can let
this go for this trip.

- [cat meowing]
- you know that.

Turkey.

So got some new
bathing suits for him.

And this is for ryan,
he loves skulls.

Ryan and I have not
seen each other for
ten months,

So I'm extremely excited
to see him.


The fight ryan
and I had the other
day is very typical,

Just because of the stress
the long distance is causing.

I got us about 12
of these shirts,

So he and I can have
matching stuff when we swim.

I actually bought 12
of these watches.

I hope he likes these.

Especially this one,
it's a $3000 snake
watch,

I love it, I love it, I love it.

He's gonna look so good in that.

It's so cool.

[chuckles] and I have
a pair of pants that I
bought for him,

It's that exact color.

I cannot believe I found
a watch that matches his
pants exactly.

That is very, very cool.

[sighs] so, I'm also taking
the ring that my father

Gave my mother
when they were married.

So I spin the ring
and I thought,

Should I ever get married,

I always wanted it to be
with the ring that my
father gave my mother

When they were married.

[stephanie] even though ryan
is my fiance,

He's never officially
proposed yet.


So the ideal thing for me
is for him to propose
with my mother's ring.

I just have this feeling
that this might be the time
he proposes, on this trip.

We shall see.

Momma loves you,
I'll see you in a couple
of weeks. Okay, baby?

- [cat meowing]
- mommy loves you.

I love ryan with all my heart.

And I hate the level
that we're fighting now.

Because our love will never
survive if we can't restore
the trust in the relationship.

This will be the trip
where we decide,


Do we move forward
or do we end it?

[mike] uh, love.

Got wood?

Things are a little bit calmer
for us this morning


But yesterday was...
Was a pretty big blow out
between the both of us.

[mike] we definitely have
to work on things if we're
gonna make in the long run.

[talking]

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-Yesterday was
a hard moment.
-[natalie talking]

- Okay.
- [talking]

I'm sorry too, you know.

- Um...
- [talking]

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[talking]

I know sometimes
we have out differences.

But at the end of the day,
we both just have to remember
not to fight each other.

[mike] okay. I'm not
here to hurt you.

It's still really early.

I'm trying to have a lot
of lot of patience, okay?

[mike sighs]

[talking]

[natalie talking]

[talking]

[talking]

[mike] should we go out
to dinner with mom?

[talking]

[talking]

Okay.

[mike] I'm glad me and natalie
are in a better situation
right now

Because my
mamma's coming tomorrow.


We're gonna spend
the weekend together.


First time mom
and natalie are meeting,


So very happy
and excited about it.
A little nervous.

Like I want, uh, natalie
to love my family.

As much as I love
natalee's family, you know.

-I'll go clean the back room
and you clean here, okay?
-[talking]

[natalie talking]

[natalie talking]

[natalie talking]

-[talking]
-[mike] yeah. I told my
mom what happened.

You gave the ring back
and stuff and, uh...

Oh, yeah.

She knows.

[talking]

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[talking]

Uh, my mom is a very strong,
smart individual.

But she can sometimes
be hard headed.

[mike] mom is a tough broad.

She grew up on a farm riding
horses, bareback and stuff.
You know,

Like my mom is a...
Mom is a...
She ain't no joke.

[talking]

[mike] here, I'll show you.

[talking]

Here we go, "hard headed."

Practical and realistic.

[talking]

- [talking]
- at times, at times.

-At times, she can be
hard headed.
-[talking]

-I think you two will get
along just fine.
-[talking]

Hard headed.

-[talking]
-you can be hard headed
sometimes too.

[talking]

-Just a little bit of times.
It's not all the times.
-[talking]

We're all hard headed
when it comes to certain
things.

-[talking]
-that's hard headed right
there. See? You got it.

[talking]

[natalie talking]

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- [woman talking]
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[farm animal sounds]

[goat bleating]

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[goats bleating]

[chickens clucking]

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[julia talking]

[grunts]

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[phone beeps]

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- [talking]
- mm-hmm.

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- [talking]
- mm-hmm.

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- [talking]
- mm-hmm.

[in russian]

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[julia talking]

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[julia talking]

[talking]

- [yara] hi.
- [woman] can I help you?

Yeah, I need some
pregnancy test.

[talking]

[woman] we actually have
these two kinds.

[talking]

[talking]

[cash register beeps]

-Okay, here you go.
Good luck!
-Thanks.

[talking]

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[yara talking]

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[dispenser clanks]

[water running]

[yara sniffles, clears throat]

[sighs]

Ai...

[phone dialing]

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[lera talking]

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[yara talking]

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-[talking]
-I'm sorry. What you
want me to say?

[talking]

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- [lera talking]
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- [amira talking]
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[amira talking]

My mom knows what happened
on the last trip to ukraine.

[mike] lockin' eyes.

[mike's mom] I don't have
a super impression
at this point,

But, I'm sure
we'll work on that.

- [mike] go get her.
- [mike's mom] hi, miss natalie

[sad music playing]

[funky music playing]

[andrew] ice cream.

Amira would love this.

Two spoons.

One for me. One for amira.

I really wish she was here.

There's all these families
playing on the beach
over here.

Makes me think of...
Hopefully one day, starting
a family with amira...

Having beach days like this.

But for now, I'm gonna
go touch the ocean.

[melancholic music playing]

[melancholic music playing]

[melancholic music playing]

[mellow music playing]

[mike] oh, sh**t!
What do we got here?

- [mike's mom] mama's here!
- [mike] my little mamasita!

- Hi, my little baby boy.
- Oh, you got
some fresh kicks on or what?

You ready to get all dirty?

- Hey, mother.
- Hi, baby boy.

[mike] me and my mom are close.

We talk probably
almost every other day or
every couple days in between.

Mama lives in oklahoma
and I maybe see her
once a year.

Very excited for
those two girls
to finally meet.

So, was it
pretty painful or what?

Oh, it's always painful.
I hate that trip.

[mike] but my mom knows
what happened on
the last trip in ukraine.

And I think it's
a lot of concerns
and stuff in her eyes,

And, uh, she just wants me to,
you know, be happy
in the long run.

-[mike] lockin' eyes.
Go get her.
-[whimsical music playing]

[mike's mom] hi,
miss natalie. How are you?

[mike] uh-oh, uh-oh, uh-oh.

[trish squealing in laughter]

I like my blue.

I think natalie's
a beautiful girl


And I think that we're gonna
get to know each other
a little bit

Over the next few days.

I don't have
a super impression
at this point,

But, I'm sure
we'll work on that.

You bring me nothin'?

- Me?
- All right,

- I'll-I'll take that, mother.
- [both laugh]

[mike] I'm not sure
what you mean, too.

Oh, that's right, that's true.
You did birth me, right?

- [trish] yeah.
- [mike laughs]

Nothing like
birthin' an elephant.

[trish] I'm teasin' him.

See, see, that's where
I get it from. Right there,
you see that? Teasing.

[mike laughs]

Well, that's him.
He's very fun and jovial,
and happy-go-lucky. So...

-[mike] t-tell her, mama.
-[trish] it's just-just
part of him.

[cat meows]

-[mike clicking his tongue]
-[trish] last time I was here,
I took his cat for a walk...

Down the driveway.

I let the cat down,

And I found this tree,
and all the bark was missing
about 12 feet up off of it,

And I realized that
that was a bear
had marked its territory.

Oh, it comes
to the yard all the time.

-[mike] yeah, there's a bear.
-[trish] I'm down at the...
halfway down the driveway...

No.

So, if a bear
ever att*cks you,
you should just...

Just pretend you're dead.

They're gonna come up and,
like, they're gonna
move you around.

You're not gonna move,
and then...

And then, they leave.

He likes to play.

- It's... he's being playful.
- Yeah.

[natalie] I know
that he likes to play.

Oh, I wouldn't have missed it.

I just wanna know
when I get grandbabies,
dang it.

Everybody asks
that same question,
your mom and me.

[trish laughs]

[mellow music playing]

Keep you guessing?

When you gave him back
the ring, were you
makin' him guessing?

Well...

Y'all gotta figure it out.

[trish] don't test
each other and...

And it will make it
a lot easier.

- [natalie] mm-hmm.
- [trish] yeah.

As for their future,
I'm not really sure...

What they should do.

I think they have
big differences,


And... I don't know
how they're gonna
make it all work out.

But, natalie comin' over here
and being here
for only 90 days

Before a person gets married...

That's... that's a really
tight window of time.

And I believe they
really need to explore


What they might be gettin' into.

[mike] we'll get there.

[dramatic music playing]

-[ryan] come on in.
-[stephanie] [sing song]
ooh, look...

All right.

Since I'm not sure
if you've been
a nasty boy or not,

I've brought some
glow-in-the-dark rubbers.

- [ryan] uh-huh.
- [stephanie] I would bet you

That he has not been a


[stephanie] who's kayla fc?

[playful music playing]

[stephanie] after a very
extremely hard trip,

I have one puddle jumper
left to take

Before I see
my 27-year-old fiancé, ryan.

We have not seen each other
in 10 months.


So, the reunion is long overdue.

I'm excited, but I'm also
incredibly nervous.


These last 10 months
have been the worst part
of our relationship.

And I'm afraid if this trip
does not go well,
we will be done and over

Before the k-1 visa
actually comes through.


But I hope we can work out
the kinks in the relationship.


[mellow music playing]

[muffled speech]

- [stephanie laughing]
- [music turns upbeat]

[both] [muffled speech]

Thank you

Aah...

Jeez, it's been 10 months
since I've seen ryan.

So, it's phenomenal bein' here.

I-I honestly thought
it would never happen.

[stephanie] for real.

[stephanie] okay, whoo.

[upbeat music playing]

[sound of motor]

[stephanie] [sing song]
we're here!

-[ryan] welcome to paradise.
-[stephanie] oh, I guess.
This is beautiful.

[stephanie] beautiful.

So, I'm very excited
to just get back to the hotel.

Because a lot of feelings
came rushing back
when I saw ryan,

And just all of
the negative emotions
went right out the window.

Oh, my god, this is perfect.

Yes, yes.

I just had this feeling that,
wow, maybe we can make it,

Maybe love can conquer all.

[sing song] ooh, look.

- [ryan] bedroom.
- Ooh, isn't it nice?

[ryan] check out the view.

[stephanie laughs]

-[stephanie] [muffled]
I'm so glad I'm finally here.
- Oh, yeah.

I've got some presents for you.

- Really?
- Yes!

[ryan] one, two, three.

I know how much
you've been telling me
you need new slides.

So, there's the first pair.

Go ahead and try 'em on,
please, I wanna see if they...

- [ryan screams]
- [stephanie laughs]

I know exactly what you like.

Ah, well, guess what?

Mr. Jungle,
how do you like that?

[stephanie laughs] put 'em on.

[stephanie] and then, I know
you said you were
gettin' low on undies,

So, look at these. [laughs]

You got the red ones.
You know I like the red ones.

- Of course.
- [ryan laughs]

And then of course,
just your regular boxers

- That I know you said
you were gettin' low on.
- Thank you, very much, honey.

And another pair
of the sexies. [chuckles]

And then, there's
another shirt for you.

But then also, I bought you
a lot of these, you know,
because I love those,

How when I first met you,
remember, this is how you
kinda would wear your hair?

Yes, yes!

[stephanie] so, do you
think you're set on shorts?

You're set on shorts,
you're set on shirts,

- You're set on sunglasses...
- Um, shades.

- You're set on, uh... Footwear
- footwear.

-All right,
now for the watch party.
-[ryan making beatbox sounds]

There he is.
That's a $3000 watch.

Do not [stammers] please.

I know you would lose a lot
of things. Please, I don't
want you to lose that one.

-[laughs] all right, okay.
There we go, we have a deal.
-All right.

Over the past few years,
I've spent thousands
on his gifts

But I love buying ryan gifts

Because, you know,
he's never had
much of anything,

And he's very appreciative
of everything that I buy him.

[stephanie] I brought...

Since I'm not sure
if you've been
a nasty boy or not,

-I've brought some
glow-in-the-dark rubbers.
-Holy [bleep]

If you told me no,
I brought some
glow-in-the-dark tape

To tape your ass up, and then
I'll put it on for ya.

- [stephanie laughs]
- let me check this out.

[stephanie] yeah, I can't wait
to check these out.

- [ryan] boom!
- Oh, my god.

Well, let me see, you liked
to do it four times a night
when I was forty.

So, we're set
for the next 10 nights.

You're right, oh, and then what?

[ryan] you know, I have
a lot of stamina.

We do it four times a night,
six nights straight.

[stephanie laughs]

She's a bit overage
but, yeah,
sh-she keeps up. [laughs]

You know, it's been a...
It's been a long ten months.

We've, uh... I think
we've probably gotten along


- And fought 70%
of the time. So...
- Right.

You know, you and I really,
really need to figure out
here in the next two weeks

If we really wanna go through
with this k-1 visa still.

[pensive music playing]

You know, I mean, you know
I've picked up your phone

And seen you
texting other women.

Is that changed or... What's...
Tell me what's changed?

Well, I appreciate you
sayin' that, but...

Why don't you bring that phone
over here right now,
and unlock it,

And let's go through it.

Because I wanna s...
I'm just curious.

[tense music playing]

Who's kayla fc?

Um...

[somber music playing]

Why don't you bring that phone
over here right now,

And unlock it,
and let's go through it.

Who's kayla fc?

Um...

Well...

Okay.

- Okay?
- Okay.

All right. Okay.

Well, thank you
for showing me that.

That makes me feel better.

- Feel better now?
- Yes, I do. [kisses]

- I feel much better.
- All better.

- All better?
- [laughs] a lot better.

Okay.

[both laugh]

I'm here in puerto vallarta.
I wish amira
was here with me.

This is exactly
what I was looking for today.

But now that amira is safe,
the least I can do is
do a little bit of self-care

And make the best
of this situation.

- [masseuse speaking]
- I'm very comfortable.

[speaking spanish]

Ever since I got to mexico,
I have been incredibly worried
about her.

But I've already covered work
and I need a little bit
of healing now.

So I decided to stay here
and indulge in the vacation.

[man speaking]

[andrew]
all that marble in there,
all that deliciousness,

I feel you, man,
I feel you, yeah.

[cell phone ringing]

- [amira speaking]
- hey, baby!

Oh, you look beautiful.
So how you been?

I really wish you were here.
Last night, I went to this
amazing steakhouse.

- And you would've loved it.
- Uh-huh.

Why, you want me to go home?

I've been trying
to make the most of it,

But it feels
empty a little bit
without you.

I got a walk-in tour on Saturday

And then I got a boat tour
on Tuesday.
I'm gonna go to a...

[chuckles]

[amira speaking]

I'm really hoping
that we can activate
that visa, baby.

Yeah, I think
less than 40 days
to use this visa...

The countdown is real.

We, if we don't get an extension

And the borders don't open up,

I mean, we may have to
do this all over again

In another country.

[sighs]

It's not even a thing
on my mind, like...

I'm just talking stupid.
I'm just talking out ideas.

I really want to be with you.
I really want you here.

I really want us
to start our lives together.

[amira speaking]

Certainly.

All right.

I think right now,
we are interacting
pretty well.

More butter's very good for you.

[brandon on phone] julia...

Three for dinner?

- Three.
- Okay. This way, please?

Thank you.

[natalie speaking]

Ooh, it's hot in here.

How you doing?

I think right now,
we are interacting
pretty well.

But I believe that
it's a little bit hard for her


To understand
the language fully,


So that puts a little bit
of a barrier on having
a full-on conversation.

This is a pretty neat place.

[natalie speaking]

[waitress] all right,
and here's the
seafood specials...

That looks amazing.

It's just mashed potatoes.
So it's just the red potatoes.

- It's the red skin.
- It's the skin
of the potato, yeah.

- What's wrong with butter?
- More butter's very good
for you.

- Yeah.
- It's very good for your mind.

Butter is good for your mind.

Real butter
is good for your mind.

It helps with your memory.

[natalie speaking]

So, he's trying that?

That's up to him.

Right?

Yeah.

How many days now has it been
since you've been here?

Do you have any thoughts

On how that's going?

[mike] she hasn't unpacked yet.

Why haven't you unpacked
your suitcases?

Does it upset you
that he didn't give you
the ring back?

A little bit?

Do you think it upset him
when you gave it back to him?

Mmm-hmm.

I do believe
that testing each other
like, "I'm gonna

Give you back your ring
to see if you're gonna
put it back on my finger."

That's probably not real good.

With the ring?

[mike] that's the first time
I heard natalie
admit to her mistake.

I mean, I was hurt, you know?
I was hurt, you know?

So, yeah, it did feel good.

Honestly, it's good
to have a third party.

My mom is kinda right.

She feels hurt
that I'm not giving her
the ring back.

I feel hurt that
she took the ring off

And gave it to me
the way that she did.

[natalie speaking]

Oh, sure.

Right.

I understand
you want your mom to come.

That's a big...
It is a big step.

So, you'll have to set
a tentative date
and apply for the visa.

And if it should turn out
that you don't use it,

You at least try.

Correct?

And you work towards it.

[mike] I think that
it's a good idea that
my mom's pushing us

To set a date for the wedding.

It's a good common goal
to work towards.


At least have her start
with her mom,
to research that,

To do what we need.

It's a good thing.

Whether we get married or not,
you know what I mean?

How about we look at
the calendar tomorrow

And come up with a good date
like that?

You know, if you're
gonna get married,

You need to talk
and work out everything

So it'll work out
in the long run

Of being married
for a long time.

[mike] we will work on things.

[natalie speaking]

One time I'm smart.

I don't necessarily feel
like I pushed my son
to pick a date.

It was a suggestion
to make it all work out


But I personally believe
that they have
too many differences

And that it probably
wouldn't work out
in the long run.

My son has already
gotten hurt by all of this


And, of course,
I don't wanna see him
get hurt no more.

But he's a big boy, you know?

He has to make his decisions,
so we'll just have to see
how it plays out.

[line ringing]

[brandon] yeah.

What?

Why?

What is... What is...
What's making you so upset?


Julia...

- Please. Please...
- No! No, no, no.

Stop. Stop. Can we just,
like, talk about this


[sighs] later
when I'm not at work?

[sighs in exasperation] okay.

[julia speaking]

Well, first off,
I don't understand your phobia
of animals.

I didn't bring you here
to clean animals.


Julia...

What's wrong with taking care
of a few cute animals?


I don't understand it.

[stephanie] this is the ring
that my mother
got from my father.

That would be the ring
that I would want you
to propose with.

You're holding the ring now,
okay?

So, it's in your hands.

[stephanie] hey, sweetie,
I need you in here.

- [ryan] what's up?
- I need help with this dress.

All right, sure.

You like it? All right.

I'm happy to see you.

You look good.

Since we've been talking about
this m*llitary watch forever...

Yes. You think so, too?

- [waitress] good evening.
- [ryan] hey, good night.

Yes, very nice.

- Thank you.
- You're welcome.

- Thank you.
- All good?

- Yes.
- All right.

I think I already know
what I want to drink.

I'm gonna have a margarita
on the rocks with salt.

Sure, okay.

- Thank you.
- [waitress] you're welcome.

- What are you gonna get, dear?
- Um...

Okay, all right.

So, you know, one of
the things I wanted to say
is I'm very appreciative

That you want me
to go through your phone.

I didn't expect you
to let me do that.

Every time
I've ever asked you before,
you've told me no.

Did you figure I'd ask
to see it when I got here?

Why would I forget
about it when that's
every time I...

So, why would I not ask
about the phone this time?

- Okay.
- Right?

Again, this is
our first night together

So I don't wanna,
I don't wanna quarrel anymore.

- Right, okay.
- Yeah.

- [waitress speaking]
- thank you.

Thank you so much.

[all] cheers.

Look at me, I'm so busy
wanting to order food.

Oops, I poured it on my purse.
[laughs]

I was gonna do it again.

Ryan can be very convincing.

He's trying to convince me
that he's changed,
but I'm not convinced yet.

Lobster with shrimps.

All right. Thank you.

- [waitress] enjoy.
- Thank you.

Okay.

So, what do you think?
With this k-1 visa process
and the pandemic we're in...

This is stressful.

March 15, the visa center
stopped sending paperwork out.

- Yeah.
- They still aren't open.

It is out of our hands,
but I'm just saying.

Things have been
absolutely [bleep]
between the two of us

Since coronavirus started.

It's stress not knowing,
thinking you were coming

And then, you know,
now we don't know
when you can come.

I mean...

Okay.

There's the ryan.
There's the person
that I fell in love with

And I filed the k-1 visa for.

I, uh...

I brought something.

I know you and I
have talked about some day

Getting down on one knee
and you and I have discussed
what ring we'd use.

This is the ring that my mother

Got from my father.

If you and I decide that we
could make things work,

That would be the ring
that I would want you
to propose with.

You're holding
the ring now. Okay?

So it's in your hands.

[man speaking]

It's really exciting
to finally hear him talk


About a plan to propose.

But, you know,
I still haven't been
totally honest with him

About sleeping
with his cousin harris.


So I'm feeling guilty.

- Cheers.
- Cheers. Cheers.

[man speaking]

Good. Yes.

Perfect. Perfect. Always.

I really wanna tell him,

But I just don't know when
the right time is gonna be.


[woman speaking]

We'll start trying to figure out

What it takes to get her
mom, her friends here
and stuff like that.

[speaking]

[woman speaking]

- You want some coffee?
- [speaking]

What do you think
of mama last night?
We have fun?

[speaking]

I think she likes you. Yes.
Seems like you two
got along very well, actually.

- Don't you think?
- [speaking]

We're just waking up.

We're gonna make some breakfast.

And, you know, we all had
a good night last night.

Everyone's getting along.

It always feels good
to be in a good place
with natalie.

[speaking]

All right, so you got here
what, the 16th?

You wanna set it out
towards April?

- So that gives us a maximum
amount of time.
- Like what date?

How about April 2nd?

[speaking]

- Three of them?
- [speaking]

Okay, so how about three
on April? That's Friday.

- [speaking]
- okay.

We set up a date at a time,
so that way we could...
Like tomorrow.

We'll start trying to figure out

What it takes to get her mom,
her friends here
and stuff like that.

Okay, so where
are we sitting here?

We could sit at that big table
over there in the back

- 'cause there's three chairs.
- Okay. Okay.

[mike] we have a deadline.

It's not just choosing a date.
There's a lot of stuff.

Everything that goes on
the wedding and everything
that needs to go with us.

Still learning
about each other
and everything else.

You wanna tell her
the good news?

[speaking]

I think April 3rd
would be a good day.

- To do a wedding?
- Yeah.

[trish] I think they have
a long ways to go.

Ninety days is not enough time
for two people to be together

To really kinda
get to know each other.

I'm not real sure
about this wedding myself.


They have
some very big differences,


But they're gonna
have figured out.

So if you guys go through
with the wedding,

How do you wanna do it?

[speaking]

It wouldn't bother you
if it was not in the church.

[speaking]

You know, you guys could do
something right out here.

It'd be nice to set up
a bunch of flowers
and do it that way.

There's definitely lot of room
people to spread out,

But I mean, it all depends
on the weather, you know.

It'd be nice to put like
a walkway of flowers,
arch or something like that.

Have a group of white chairs
and stuff out there
for everyone to come.

[speaking]

Okay.

[conversing in foreign language]

-Hello.
-[speaking in
foreign language]

She's very happy.

- Wonderful. Wonderful.
- She loves us.

-Thank you.
-[speaking in
foreign language]

Okay.

[speaking]

Right.

You're gonna
have to really figure out

How to work together
to make everything happy,

And you really
have to work at it.

- Are you okay?
- [speaking]

[sobbing]

- I know, baby.
- [sobbing]

[speaking]

I imagine, baby. Okay?
I know it's gonna be hard.

You lived with mama
every single day.
I'm gonna be here, okay?

[trish] it's very hard
to come to another country

And and everything
is different for you.


Everything.

So I can see her getting upset
and really missing her mom.

[speaking]

Of course it's hard.
It's a really big change.

- [speaking]
- [both chuckle]

He's a very good boy.

[speaking]

It's okay.

[yara speaking]

Can I open this window
just a little bit?

[yara speaking]

[conversing with jovi]

Okay.

[yara speaking]

- Hey.
- Hey.

- [yara speaking]
- don't worry.

You got so much lipstick on.

It's coke.

Ready to go home?

[yara speaking]

It's now whiskey, it's coke.

[yara speaking]

[jovi] after a month at work,
of course,

I'm expecting her to be happy,
be excited to see me.

The first thing she does
is complain.

She's mad because
I had a drink
when I got off the plane.

I'm pretty sure yara drinks
on the plane all the time
when she flies, so,

I don't see any reason.

I think she just looking
for something to argue about.

[yara speaking]

- It's just one.
- [yara speaking]

[jovi speaking]

[yara speaking]

Yeah, it's here.

Ready? Let's go.

[speaking]

It worries me
that she's this angry.

And I'm trying really hard here.

[speaking]

[brandon] julia called me
and she said that
it's time to leave.

It worries me
that she's this angry.


Julia.

Julia has no idea
how lucky we are to have
a place to live for free.

And I'm saving money
for our future together.

I'm trying really hard here
to make her happy,

And it just feels like
the efforts in vain.

- Hello?
- Hmm?

What's wrong?

[speaking]

You hung up the phone
and you said you hated me.

[speaking]

Julia!

[speaking]

Why?

[speaking]

I'm trying, julia. I'm trying.

[speaking]

It's just temporary.

Just something we need to
deal with for a little time.

And then we'll be out
in our own place.

[speaking]

I know, I know, but I feel
like it's not as hard
as you're making it out to be.

I don't know,
maybe it's just easier for me,

- But I don't see...
- [speaking]

I don't
'cause I just think it's easy.

-It's just I don't think
it's as hard...
-[speaking]

Why is it so hard taking care
of cute animals?

More people would love this.

[speaking]

Julia.

[speaking]

I mean, I love you.
I wanna do anything for you.

But it little bit upsets me
that you're just, like,

So easily, like,
"oh, I'll just leave."

[speaking]

I hate this. She makes me
feel like I don't have
any other choice.

She's done.

We just gotta
leave the family farm,

Because from here, things are
only gonna get worse.

It's so hard to hear.

[exhales]

But I'm gonna fix this for us.

I'm gonna talk to my parents.

Tell them we're leaving,
'cause I don't wanna lose you.

I'm gonna be the man
that you want me to be.

[speaking]

By telling my parents that
I'm moving out with julia now,

I'm taking a huge risk.

One, financially,
and I'm also worried

That my relationship
my parents will never
be the same.

I love you.

- [speaking]
- okay.

But I love this girl
and I do not wanna lose her.

[female]
next time on 90 day fiance.

[speaking]

- What?
- [speaking]

It's hard for me to believe
that all of a sudden

She gets to america
and she's pregnant so fast.

This one's a half a line.
So you are lying to me.

[speaking]

I know. I think we have
more to work on.

Natalie's putting
a lot of pressure on me
in regarding getting married.

But I just
can't pull the trigger.

I'm done. I'm done. Let's go.

- You remember melanie?
- Yeah.

She's not fully accepted my
relationship with zied yet.

I'm not trying to compare you
with the ex,

But both young,
both from north africa.

And now we're
at the same apartment.

Our options are serbia
and trying again out there.

[speaking]

Are you wanting to look at
everybody or just your type?

[speaking]

We have to be careful
because jealousy
is a huge thing.

I think that julie and I
need to leave.

Wait, wait, wait, wait.
No, no, no. No.

- It's not my decision.
- [both] it is your decision.

- It is your decision.
- You're the man of the family.

I don't know. I could
throw a bargaining chip.

Maybe we can stay
in the same room.

The fact that
she's making you choose.

[crying] that makes me so sad.

You wanna know the truth?

After I threw you
out of the hotel.

I met your cousin harris.

Then, well...
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