..90 Day Fiance...
What is going on over here, man?
Like, you have water literally
everywhere.
Living with Bilal's OCD is getting
on my nerves.
You have me like Cinderella here
scrubbing floors, babe.
I ain't gonna lie,
Kara's controlling.
She's crazy, she's crazy.
I have goals and I have aspirations
and so when they don't go...
She loses it.
You make me feel that I don't have
any power in the relationship.
So I need to work on my listening
is what you're saying?
Yeah, because you like
to talk a lot of sh*t.
We're home.
[SPEAKING PORTUGUESE]
[SPEAKING PORTUGUESE]
What do you think of the place?
A little small. Small?
Live with it.
Are you going to drink with
your friend?
It would be nice to have
a glass of wine, actually.
Really?
Like all these f*cking rules,
it's like, really?
It does not feel good to me.
If you've ever been in a
relationship
that's taken like a not so positive
turn, this is how it starts out.
It's just like using his religion
as a way to control her.
You told me to shut the f*ck up
in front of my mom.
Like, that's so rude.
Do they do that in Africa?
You know I'm doing something
I'm working
and then you're just there
talking and talking.
You were just trying to be bossy,
control everything, I kept saying -
I'm not, I'm trying to help you,
but - Help me with what?
Either we're gonna figure this out,
or this is not gonna f*cking work.
So ever since you guys
got together, you different.
I'm gonna be his wife,
I have his best interests always.
I just can't stand
David talking to me about Miona.
I'm reaching my boiling point.
I just wanna make sure that
she's not, like, disturbing us.
All right, bro, stop. Hey.
Stop, bro, stop. No.
I'm gonna f*ck you up, stop.
We don't need to... f*ck you.
Yusuf, you about ready?
We gonna play some ball.
What you guys got planned
for today? You doing something?
Nothing in particular.
You know what we should do.
What? You should teach me
some Trinidad dishes.
Mm. Now she's given me an idea.
Yeah.
Some Trinidad dishes.
There's so many different types of
dishes, like,
it have Creole, it have curry.
Curry. Curry? Yeah. OK.
Bilal has shared custody of his
children,
and this weekend he has the kids.
So I'm really excited to spend some
one on one time with Zaynah.
It's important for me to show Bilal
that I could have a good
relationship with his children.
Just don't burn the house down.
[LAUGHS]
And also I wanna show Bilal that,
yes, I'm ready for motherhood.
So, Zaynah, just you and I.
We have to cut up, um,
some garlic and onion.
Did you have time to cook for your
dad
ever since him and your mom
divorced?
Usually, I cook breakfast food,
cos that's what I'm best at. Ah.
And then I'm also really good at
making omelettes.
Yeah. You can come across here.
I was defrosting this chicken -
Mm-hm... for lunch.
So we gonna clean it, skin it,
and lime it, you know. OK.
There's one thing in Trinidad where
you have to wash the chicken,
like you're washing
your lady parts.
So we have to really get into it
and wash it.
When I'm washing my meat be like
this.
You know getting into the meat?
Ooh.
You have to wash it, you have
to get into it like this.
Some of the things she's saying
is definitely awkward for me.
Cos honestly I don't even know what
to say.
The chicken right now is smelling
that, how it smell.
That scent is what we call fresh in
Trinidad. Mm.
And I would just clean up the sink,
you know your dad is a bit of
an OCD-type of person.
He's been warning me about,
you know dropping water
all over the place so... Mm-hm.
How did you survive for 16 years?
Talk to me.
Um... [LAUGHS]
Honestly I'm a messy person, so
every time he comes in my room,
he's like, "Clean this up now."
You're messy? Yes.
Thank God I have some company.
Honestly, I don't even know
what to tell you.
Cos I do the same things.
[LAUGHS]
So, yeah, um, is there anything,
you want me to prep
while you're cleaning up the sink?
You can cut this tomato up, like,
cut it in cubes for me.
OK.
I feel really happy that
Zaynah and I are getting along.
And we really have some things in
common
when it comes to living with Bilal.
But there has been something that
has been bothering me
since we first met.
Her and Yusuf calling me by
my first name.
[SIZZLING]
I really do like how we are bonding
in the kitchen here. Mm-hm.
One of the, one of the important
things for me
was to build a nice relationship -
Mm-hm... with you and Yusuf.
If you know what I mean? Yeah.
You know, when I met you guys,
I was, I was sort of taken back
how you guys were referring to me
by first name.
Hm. I realise it's not
disrespectful in your culture
but, at the same time, I was hoping
we could have come up with a name.
Something else. Something. OK.
But what your dad said to me, when
I suggested "Umi," he was like,
"Oh, that means Mom, that's
a little too, you know..."
Yeah. "..you're getting to know
the kids."
And that's the next thing, in my
culture, whether we are connected
or not connected with an adult,
we refer to them as Umi.
Of course they're not my mama,
but we just refer to it
and I know
that's a strong word for you all.
But, for us, it was just a word
we call adults who are old. Mm.
Me and my brother, we call like her
and my stepdad by their first names
cos that's like normal for us.
I don't wanna move too fast
with the names.
Still getting used to her,
still getting to know her.
She's my stepmom and all that, but
I'm not ready to call her that yet.
But, like I said,
I'm now getting to know you guys,
I don't wanna be like pushing you
guys to call me something.
Take your time.
I mean this is what it's all about,
cultural differences.
We definitely
have a lot of differences.
Yeah.
It does bother me that Zaynah
doesn't wanna call me Umi.
But I have to take baby steps
when it comes to trust.
It's something it won't happen
overnight,
but I hope it does happen,
because I need Bilal to see
that I'm trying to build
a relationship with the kids.
I just hope I didn't put too much
pressure
to make this relationship
work with Zaynah.
Stop, bro, stop. No.
I'm gonna f*ck you up, stop.
We don't need to...
f*ck you.
We don't need to talk about
this sh*t right now.
We don't need to talk about this.
We're f*cking recording this sh*t.
That's what I'm trying to do.
I wanna make sure you... Stop.
..in here. We're here to focus.
We're not here to talk about this
sh*t now. Why are you getting mad -
Why are you talking about this
[BLEEP]? Trying to help you focus.
All right come on.
You see how he gets mad
because of Miona.
Everything Miona.
Just take a breath.
OK, all right.
OK.
David, what's up?
I feel like she just, like,
trying to have him for herself.
It's like
she's not letting him be him.
She's like slowing him down so
much, because it's like he can't...
We can't record,
we can't do nothing.
David needs to shut the hell up
when we're in the studio like, man.
We got to work so... [EXHALES
SHARPLY] ..that's frustrating.
He's always worried about what
she's doing, how's she gonna be,
you know what I'm saying,
like here. Stop talking sh*t.
I'm not talking sh*t, man.
Stop talking sh*t or leave.
Stop talking sh*t or leave.
I'm trying to resolve this.
Go or I'm gonna smack the sh*t
out you. No, we're not doing that.
We're not doing that.
No, bro, no, for real.
But we're not doing that.
I understand. Because we -
We doing this. So focus. I get that
but we can't do it without him.
So we stop, enough about Miona,
that's it.
Bro, you better chill.
Enough about Miona.
You out here causing a scene.
In front of a producer that -
Then put it on the mic.
Stop.
I'm trying to put it on the mic
but I'm trying to make sure
your mind is right here.
I know I was blaming Miona but
she is the source of this conflict.
She is the source of his erratic
behaviour.
I don't know if she's adding that
to him,
or he's doing it to himself,
but she's a factor in that.
And it's just very concerning.
Like, get your mind right. Tell me
what the real issue is with her.
She's just distracting you from the
main goal.
And you distracting me by talking
about her, so let's get on the mic.
I'm just trying to make sure she
supports you. Alex, play that.
Brandi, go off please.
Let's do it.
All I'm saying is, being as like we
all just got back together again,
I do not appreciate this energy
that we are cultivating right now.
This is not what it is about.
This is not what it's about.
Right now we have a prominent
engineer wanting to work with us,
and we're fighting amongst each
other. We look like amateurs.
All right. Brandi, you ready?
Yeah.
Here we go.
♪ Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah
♪ Somebody ring the alarm
♪ Ice drip off the wrist
I just got a new charm
♪ Baby come meet me at the bar
♪ Take a couple of sh*ts
getting nasty
Getting freaky in the car ♪
What? Let's go.
Let's go. Let's go, come on Brandi.
Let's go. Snap.
Even though there's conflict and
there's a lot going on with my band
in the studio,
it feels really good to be back at
it
and hearing this new music that
we're working on.
[SINGING IN OWN LANGUAGE]
Once we start recording and getting
back into that musical process...
Let's go, let's go.
Ha-ha! Let's go.
..we remember why we're doing this
in the first place.
That's all we need. That's all
we need, we're good. That's it.
Alex, do you wanna put the vocals
altogether? I'll play it back for
you. I appreciate it.
Let's go in here and listen.
All right, come on. OK.
When Black Serbs and I are in the
studio, and we are in synch,
it's magical.
♪ Somebody ring the alarm
♪ Ice drip off the wrist
I just got a new charm
♪ Baby, come meet me at the bar
Take a couple of sh*ts...
David, jump in come back her up.
[SINGING IN OWN LANGUAGE]
My band is definitely like a family.
Dysfunctional family at times,
but music is
when time stands still for me.
And that's how I feel when I'm with
them,
especially when we create something
that we know is gonna be great.
♪ Keep that tempo
♪ Don't stop moving
♪ Keep that tempo Let's go.
♪ Don't stop moving
♪ Let's go
♪ Don't stop moving
Keep that tempo
[INDISTINCT CHATTER]
Let's go. Dang. [LAUGHS]
That sound amazing. Yeah.
I don't know if you got something
to add before we head out?
I'm sorry I lost my cool, I just
got a lot going on with Miona.
I don't know how to deal with
everything, you know.
I can see that, that's why I'm
worried about you,
because I can see you, being all
over the place.
This energy that you got usually is
kind of like steady
and now it's just like, one minute
it's here, one minute's it's there,
so I'm just trying to figure out
what's going on.
You're saying it's a lot of
pressure.
I just don't know how I'm gonna be
able to give a full effort.
It's like, I miss y'all, man,
and I wanna make...
No, I really wanna make a real
apology,
cos I put a lot of effort into my
relationship with Miona.
I feel like I did give up the band
for her.
I don't know how I do both, bro,
I really don't know how I do both.
I feel like being invested in
a relationship
and taking this next step is
definitely scary for me
as somebody who's a creative nomad.
I'm scared of the things
that I won't do.
I just don't wanna get distracted
and get lost in this relationship
and forget about my dreams.
Yeah, I got a little in over my
head.
And now I'm under this pressure,
I got to get married
and I don't even know how many days
left I got.
It's just a lot, man.
[EXHALES SHARPLY]
line:90% position:50% Get your hand off of me.
I need to feel my baby.
Don't touch me.
[LAUGHS] OK one more.
Stop.
Let me touch you for the last time,
this is the last time. Stop.
[LAUGHS]
Stop. Just stop.
[LAUGHS]
Emily. Hi. Hey.
So good to see you. I know.
Kobe's been in America
for about a month now
and there's definitely been a lot
more bickering than I had hoped for.
This is Kobe. Nice to meet you.
Hey, Kobe. Hello. Nice to meet you.
Kelly and Nicole. Hi.
I know, childhood friends.
Yeah. My mom's best friend. Wow.
I know we still have issues that
we need to work through
over these next two months
before we get married.
Kobe and I we like hardly ever get
out of the house,
because we have a child,
we live with my parents.
It's just a lot of pressure and
stress,
and then like to plan a
wedding on top of that.
My mom was able to watch Koban
so I have set up Kobe and I
to go horseback riding in my
neighbour's house.
I thought it would be a fun little
day date.
All right, babe, are you nervous?
I'm OK.
I can do that. No, you're gonna do
great. Yeah, it will be fine.
I've never ridden a horse before,
never in my entire life.
I've never touched a horse in my
life but, whenever we have,
you know, a little opportunity
to spend time together,
I'm just happy to do it.
Come on, baby. Let's see what we're
working with here.
You ready? I'm ready. I was born
ready. Come on, Kobe.
Oh. Here you want... OK.
Stick it in and then throw your leg
over.
Yep. There you go, see, like a pro.
I'm a pro, babe.
Check you out, honey.
Your first time. Yeah.
You're doing amazing.
Yeah, what you said. Peace.
Peace baby. Wow.
Wave to the camera.
You're doing good. It's OK.
[LAUGHS]
Me and Emily, we disagree, like,
we have this kind of little fight
and I don't like that, I don't want
us to be fighting all the time.
I do feel like a proud parent.
Look at you, babe. Oh, yeah.
But one good thing with us is that
we don't let the fighting ruin
whatever moment we wanna experience
together.
You know what, this is not a
competition.
I know.
People who say they are pro.
[GRUNTS] Take it easy.
I got it.
You're good. Well, I haven't been on
a horse in, God, years.
OK, turn. Good job.
There you go. Good job.
Babe, here, hold my hand.
Do it, you can do it.
Just let go for one second. Oh.
Yeah. That was cute.
Oh, my goodness.
Hello.
Hey. Hello.
Despite all of Kobe and I's issues,
I am still really excited about
marrying him.
And it's crazy to think that
we only have two months left.
Delilah's not very happy
about being groomed. Oh, Lilah.
Kobe and I have talked a little bit
about planning our wedding,
and financially how we're going
to handle it.
I wanna ask my parents for money
for the wedding.
But I definitely think it hurts his
pride a little bit,
for me to do that.
What's going on?
Yeah, it's still like so crazy that
Kobe's here.
It is crazy. Yeah, well...
And I feel like we have so much to
do,
like we were talking earlier about,
like...
..how we haven't started
planning the wedding.
Yeah.
I think I'm just, like, worried
about money.
So...
..like, would you guys help with
that?
Currently, you know,
Lisa and I are paying for just about
everything for Emily.
So it's not surprising that Emily
would ask us to pay for the wedding.
But right now
we don't know him that well,
so he's got to prove to me
that he can provide for his family.
OK, well, first of all, I still
don't think you should get married
for the sake of getting married. I
mean, just... I don't know why
that's in your head, that I'm
getting married just to get married.
You seem to be worried about
a timeframe, that's what -
We are on a timeframe.
If I had, like, 90 days isn't a lot
of time, but that's what we have.
So all I'm saying is...
I mean all we're saying is, you do
have a choice.
I mean, we like Kobe,
he's a nice guy,
but I've only known him 30 days.
And your relationship is your
business,
but I heard kind of
a worrisome interchange between
the two of you the other day.
Yeah.
What are you talking about?
Well, we were in the barn, he was,
you know, cleaning out the stalls
and told Emily...
He got mad because
I was telling him what to do,
and so he told me to shut the f*ck
up.
Emily!
I mean it's a little, you know...
That's inappropriate,
that's total disrespect.
I mean... Oh, man.
People argue so I'm not that
worried about it. People argue but -
You don't, you cannot let him speak
to you that way.
It was handled it doesn't need to
be brought up again, it's fine,
and it was handled.
I think, you, know the beginning of
a relationship, that should be like,
you know, rainbows and unicorns.
And so if it's not in the first few
weeks,
they certainly need to realise
they're not gonna get married
and everything's gonna be fine,
which I feel like is the attitude
Emily has.
I mean, we're gonna support you in
whatever you decide,
and we're here for you.
But we have legitimate concerns.
We're trying to help you.
No, I know you're trying to help,
which is why I'm coming to you for
help, with money.
But everything else, I have it
handled, I know, I have it handled.
Oh, God.
I think the hardest part about
living in my parent's house is
sometimes, like, my parents will be
involved, a little too much.
I know Kobe and I definitely have
like a lot of problems to work out,
and like it's hard enough on our
own,
so we really don't need a third
party in our relationship trying to
help us figure it out.
OK.
Here's the deal,
as far as the wedding thing goes,
if you're dead set on it, fine.
We'll help with it,
but are you gonna keep coming back
every couple of months
and asking for other things?
I mean, sooner or later you're gonna
have to just say, we're on our own.
Well, hopefully when he gets
his green card and can work...
What kind of work is he gonna do?
I don't know.
There you go. I think you should
focus on things like that, I mean.
That's just crazy. Mm. Mm.
I do worry about, of course,
if she's making the right choice
marrying Kobe.
But my biggest concern right now
for her and for Koban
is she talks the talk and she wants
to move out and she wants to do this
but she doesn't have a clue as to
how to get from point A to point B,
or... She doesn't have a clue.
I mean you don't really understand
what it's like to live in the real
world.
I know you think you do, but you
don't know what it's like
to have a house payment, and pay
utilities and pay for kids
and buy food, and budget your money
every month.
You've never done that.
OK, well, I'm sure I can figure it
out, like everything else, so...
Yeah I just don't see
any evidence of that, so...
OK.
line:90% position:50% Hey. How you doing?
I'm just calling in regards of the
hot water situation,
and was just looking for an ETA?
I understand.
Hey. So I just got done talking to
the plumber.
He's gonna stop by later. Yeah,
cold shower this morning was -
Cold shower, yeah... was pretty
rough. Yeah, a little rough.
She wouldn't even hop in so...
She wouldn't hop in? No.
So, I mean, with last night and
stuff,
I don't know what she's saying
exactly but I can read your face,
you know, and your body language
and stuff, you know?
Her reaction to the house yesterday
was like... Didn't make sense.
There's nothing, there's nothing to
complain about. Yeah.
Yesterday, John, Thais and I moved
to Dallas and didn't go exactly...
the way I hoped.
She was pretty upset about the house
and was complaining a lot about it.
Just being under appreciative and
ungrateful.
That wasn't the way I want to start
our new life together.
I could tell she was, like,
annoying you, and it was getting
under your skin.
Yeah, like I don't wanna have all
these issues.
It's just a lot.
She still tracking your phone?
Yeah, she still has it, I haven't
taken that off yet.
Are you gonna take it off?
Yeah, I mean,
I told her, that was the plan.
It a security blanket. Yeah.
Now she's here, it's not necessary.
I don't think it's gonna be
an issue, I got an idea hopefully.
Yeah, you got to man up, buddy.
Got to man up.
You know what I'm saying? Yeah.
Through our relationship I'm usually
just a go with the flow
and hold things back, not really
express how angry something makes me
or how she makes me feel
with certain things.
And it's just because I don't really
wanna have a fight.
All right, I'll see you later, I'm
gonna get ready.
But Thais has been in the United
States for a few weeks
and it's really important that
I start dealing with
some of these issues that we're
having.
Let's go get some dinner. Mm-hm.
I plan on marrying Thais in a couple
of months
and so it's important that she knows
how I feel,
and I don't put these things off.
Because I don't wanna go into a
marriage
with someone that doesn't trust me.
OK.
[SPEAKING PORTUGUESE]
For the appetiser, let's just do,
like, the spinach artichoke.
I'll bring that right out for you.
All right. Thank you.
Are you gonna try this?
Beer?
Hm.
It's different, right?
[SPEAKING PORTUGUESE]
I don't know that one.
I got something for you.
Hm?
Here.
Is this for merry Christmas?
No, this is your welcome to America
present.
[SPEAKING PORTUGUESE]
Amor.
[SPEAKING PORTUGUESE]
Why the hell would I get you a cat?
Because this...
This is just, this is...
This is just a little stuff.
And that's for later.
Wow. That's for Christmas morning.
[SPEAKING PORTUGUESE]
A cell phone for America now.
But...
But... But what?
[SPEAKING PORTUGUESE]
OK?
You smart, you.
I wanted to give you a present,
and I don't want you to have
my location any more, so...
I can have two motives to do that.
Well, then, don't take the phone.
I know, but...
[SPEAKING PORTUGUESE]
It feels bad when you know I'm
with somebody and they're,
you know, the love of my life
and they don't trust me.
It doesn't feel good.
Tell me why I don't trust you.
Because I spoke to a girl - Ha.
..after we were together.
It was in the very beginning.
I think it's different,
like, when you kiss a girl...
between have sex with a girl.
[GROANS] OK.
So... this is what happened.
I went to Brazil, I met Thais.
After that first time, you know,
I visited,
John and I had a party at my house.
And there was a girl we kissed,
like, we were making out,
and I could have had sex with her,
but, you know,
like, I was drinking a lot,
and I was kind of floppy.
So, like, you know,
like, nothing happened.
I felt really bad, because, like,
I was already in Brazil with Thais
and, like, told her I loved her
and then, like, this girl happened.
It was like a really confusing time
because we were like kind of
in a relationship at that point,
but, you know,
I haven't made anything close to
that mistake you know, since then.
But what else? That's it. No.
That's it.
There is a girl...
Ridiculous.
No.
Si.
Oh, she loves it, no?
[WHISTLING] Come on, Chiqus.
Who do you love more?
I knew it. [LAUGHS] I knew it.
I have been three weeks in
Charlottesville, Virginia,
and Kara, Chiqui and me definitely
feels like a family.
And we have about 60 days
to finalise paperwork about my visa.
Now I'm feeling the pressure
and it's definitely stressful.
[SPEAKING SPANISH]
What do you think?
Oh, baby, I think that actually
this place is so beautiful.
It is really. And, in some way,
Virginia reminds me so much of home.
Like, yeah, my mom's city.
San Felipe. What's your mom's city?
San Felipe. San Felipe.
And it's so cute.
I have been trying to adjust in the
city
and in the house with you.
We have been busy.
I know.
And we have the wedding stuff.
We got to go and see places, no?
I still wanting to do something good,
you know, something fun.
You mean for our wedding?
I think, yeah.
In my mind, because of the
situation with the whole 90 days
and it has to happen quickly
and budget and all the things,
it makes sense for us to have just
like a courthouse ceremony
and wait until next year,
when we can have a big wedding.
At the court house
it's, like, 50 bucks.
And we don't have any money.
We're doing the first one
very fast because we have to.
But then, in a year, we can really
take the time
and celebrate it how we want,
and then invite everyone.
It gives us more time
to save money,
more time to work on how to get
your family over here.
Yeah, I mean, yeah. So, like,
I know you want a big wedding,
and we can have a big wedding,
eventually.
But I don't wanna try to squeeze
my dream wedding into 90 days.
The reality is that in one year
we will be saving money for a baby.
Or we will be saving money for a new
house,
and I don't think that I wanna be
thinking
in one year or two years,
about a wedding.
Another wedding.
I'm just saying that we can just
spend right now,
we can try our best.
What would you be comfortable
spending?
So let's pretend we go to see a
place, and they're like, "It's..."
How much would be affordable for
you?
Some, $2,000.
OK.
Have you ever look at the prices
already?
Well, I have friends who are
married,
and got married around here
and did the big wedding.
And it's like... Have you asked?
..$10,000 just for a venue.
Have you ever went there?
No, I've never gone there.
Would that make you feel better?
Yeah, of course. You wanna fall in
love with something and then can't
have it?
Just checking.
When we were living in DR,
Kara basically was telling me yes
for everything.
But, now that I'm here in America,
and she's telling me no
to whatever I wanna do.
I mean, I just wanna be with
the same person
that I fell in love with.
I think by coming to the United
States our roles have kind of
reversed.
Whereas, like in DR, he was the one
leading me around and, you know,
kind of taking charge of
the decisions
and what was a good thing,
and what was a bad thing,
where we should go, and where
we shouldn't go and all that.
So, I mean, sure maybe
I've changed, and I say no more
but it's also more
of the decision making
is on me, I feel like.
You are not my mom here,
to tell me yes or not.
We are going together to see a place
and we together make choice
saying yes or not.
Guarantee you it's gonna be more
than $2,000.
Are you gonna keep going like saying
like,
"I guarantee you..."
and you don't know sh*t?
I'm telling Guillermo no just for
shits and giggles, like,
I'm telling him no cos
there's logic behind it.
I know these wedding venues are
about to be astronomically priced
but, dear God, can't say the truth
around him,
because then I'm a dream squasher.
I'm happy to go show you a wedding
venue,
just don't get super attached,
because it's like showing you
a chocolate cake and then telling
you you can't eat it. That sucks.
line:90% position:50% Hello. Hi, how are you?
I'm good. How are you?
My name is Chris.
I'm going to be helping you today.
This is Summer, she's my helper.
Ooh.
I chose to go wedding dress
shopping in Chicago
instead of Rapid City because
there is not much of a choices
for wedding dress shops
in Rapid city.
Let me get you checked in and then
we can go ahead and get started.
I was always kind of imagining
what kind of dress I want,
how it's going to look like,
so I'm really excited.
Oh, hi. Hi.
How are you?
I'm good. How are you? Yeah.
I wish that I could have my mother
and sister with me of course
but I'm really happy that Brandi's
coming with me
to the wedding dress shop.
She became a really good friend of
mine
when Jibri's band was on the tour.
We were in the same hotel spending
time and we definitely bonded.
What are you thinking? Like more of
a sweetheart, mermaid, like?
Exactly. You know me. Yeah.
All right, so I have some options
here for you.
Amazing. A lot of them are gonna
have that really nice
figure-flattering shape
that we're looking for. OK.
So you just let me know which ones
look good to you.
OK. And then we can try
any of these on.
OK, I see.
We try...
Which one do you like the most?
Let me see. Let's take a look.
These are beautiful, though.
Beautiful gowns.
Like, I like this. I like that one.
There are some things that I want
my wedding dress to have.
I was like imagining to be
the mermaid type of shape.
I'm imagining to like have
the corset maybe.
People say when you try the wedding
dress that you really like,
you feel like it's the one.
So I don't know, I hope
I'm going to find the one.
I like this one. The first one?
Yes. Yeah.
I like pretty much I think those
two.
Perfect. What is...?
So that one is strapless.
So it kind of has
the corset inside. OK.
OK. This one.
Mm-hm. Yeah.
And this one is strapless as well.
Yeah. OK. And the second one
next to the beaded one
looks like strapless
because it's all sheer and really...
Yeah... really sexy and beautiful.
Yeah, which one do you think I
should try first?
Like, that one or that one? Yeah.
I probably will wanna try this one
too just because of the corset.
Perfect.
You can come along with me.
Jibri and I did not discuss the
budget for the dress,
but I know he, he's worried about
money and spending.
Ooh. So elegant.
I'm not going to overspend or buy
something ridiculous
but I wanna feel good in it.
And it's gonna cost as much as it
costs.
I don't care.
Is this what you pictured with
the...
Yeah... with the corset?
Yeah, definitely.
So where do you and your fiance
live?
I came to Rapid City first. Yeah.
But, it's definitely not where I
see us.
So how's it been, like, in Rapid
City,
like, living there with him in the
house?
I think we are too old to be living
with the parents any more.
I'm trying to do everything
they ask me.
I'm trying to be the best I can.
Yeah.
It can be difficult in some moments
definitely.
But Jibri is trying definitely
to meditate between us, you know?
To be like on both of the sides
to make peace and everything.
In front of other people even when
it comes to his mom,
I want him to be on my side.
Yeah.
Cos I never saw him as that kind
of person, you know?
Playing in the middle.
How was he acting with David?
Was he like, trying to stand up for
me or no?
Well, he definitely didn't wanna
talk about it.
David mentioned things and they got
into it.
Uh-huh. So that was that.
He definitely stuck up for you as
far as like,
he didn't wanna talk
about your relationship. OK.
Yeah, I think definitely he's
trying to like, keep the peace.
Like, he's trying to... Yeah.
..juggle you and his family,
like, merge this thing together.
So he's not trying to like ruffle
feathers. Yeah.
I feel for Miona just as any woman
would, you know,
trying to make a relationship work.
And being new to this country and
trying to start a new life
with a person you're potentially
gonna be with
for the rest of your life.
Because I've been doing music with
Jibri, we've been in the band,
I've definitely seen him under
pressure.
So, yeah, we'll see.
You want him to fight for you a
little bit more. Yeah.
Yeah. He-He-He will.
I'm teaching him.
You're teaching? Yeah.
Good morning.
Since Mohamed's arrival,
I've been super stressed
because I just feel like all of
a sudden there's all these rules
and I'm not used to that.
I'm a very independent woman
and I've taken care of myself most
of my life.
And so, I'm sorry but, like, things
are different here.
I'm not Muslim and he does not live
in a Muslim country any more.
OK, well I don't wanna give up that
time
that sometimes I just need
to be with my friends.
My life is super busy and I have a
lot of responsibilities
and last night I had a little time
with my friend.
Like, my friends are just worried
about me.
..that makes like, no sense to me,
like.
I'm trying to understand what they
are mean about that.
They don't want me to lose
who I am.
So, in Arabic we say...
[SPEAKING OWN LANGUAGE]
That means, don't spill the poison
in the honey.
So, I feel that happening when Yve
go out with her friends
and they started to...
That's why she acting, like,
she doesn't know me.
I think it's just there's a lot
of differences
that everybody's just not used to
dealing with.
I'm trying to navigate, like, just,
learning about your religion
but, like, I don't have any
intentions of converting.
It's just gonna take time.
They just, when they say that,
when they say that to you.
Well I don't, I don't...
No, I feel the same way.
I feel... I feel the same way.
..defended because... I feel the
same. I don't wanna lose who I am.
Because they, they cannot judge me.
Because they judging me when they
tell you,
"We are scared if you lose
who you are."
Do you feel like you're going
to lose who you are with me?
Sometimes I do. Like... Why?
Because I just feel like your
religion is too confining for me.
I'm a very free spirit
and I don't wanna abbreviate myself
for anyone.
She doesn't have to convert to my
religion.
But I expected Yve to respect my
culture
because she decided to be with me.
That's doesn't make any sense to me
because you know who I am since
two years before I ever come here.
Now, if I did hide
anything from you,
let me know, because I was very
clear with you about everything.
Well, so am I.
I want you to accept who I am.
Do you accept that I'm American
woman that I'm not Islamic,
and I'm not Muslim. Oh, my God.
No, I wanna clarify.
I wanna clarify...
That's very disrespectful and rude
for you to say that
because that is not true.
Mohamed and I over the last two
years,
never talked about the specifics of
like, what he expects of me
because his culture, religion.
No, that's not right.
She went to the same society I was
living in four times.
And that's who I am.
It was very clear.
But that's not like real reality.
Like, we were on vacation.
You know, so, I didn't get to,
like, see
the day in, day out of like how
a person would like normally act.
I thought that I don't need to
explain anything
because I felt that you were ready
to start a new life.
I know that American life is
different than your life.
But also I am sad and scared and
nervous because I hope
that we can figure out how to meld
our different lives...
..because they are very different.
I'm not gonna change who I am just
because her American friends
think that she's gonna be a
different person by being with me.
I don't know who is Yve gonna listen
to, me or her friends.
But if Yve not going to accept me
for who I am,
I'm not gonna be here
after the 90 days.
Everything, no?
So what's the thing you're talking
about
because you're wasting my time now.
line:90% position:50% [SPEAKING OWN LANGUAGE]
[SPEAKING OWN LANGUAGE]
[SPEAKING OWN LANGUAGE]
You guys about ready? Mm-hm.
Today is a family day, you know,
we got the kids, got Shi and I was
"Let's get out of the house,
it's a beautiful day.
Let's go and have a little bit of
fun."
Well, it's a beautiful day outside.
It's actually a great day
for Zaynah
to learn how to drive. Yeah.
Come on, Zay, I'm gonna let you get
in the driver's seat. Come on.
You ready? Are you serious?
I'm real serious.
Right now? Let's do it.
No, there's too many of us in the
car.
I ain't trying to die right now.
So you just gonna do me like that?
We got to go to a parking lot.
Like, an abandoned parking lot.
Like, where there's no cars around.
Cos I asked Zaynah to start the car
literally yesterday
and she was like, what?
I don't know how to start it.
And it literally says,
push to start.
[LAUGHS] But, it's OK.
Speaking of driving, I got to teach
you how to drive.
Well, you know how to drive. Mm-hm.
It's just that I have to get
accustomed to the side of the road.
But you just don't know how to
drive on the right side.
The wrong side of the road.
The right side of the road.
Yeah.
You do things backwards. It's OK.
But, no, like, are you like getting
used to now, like...
I think I am getting used to...
..the side, being on this side?
I know when we first got here... It
was very much confusing for me.
I'm actually glad that I'm getting
a break from driving.
I was gonna say.
I can't wait for you to drive.
You'll be like, Bilal,
"Can you take me...?"
And then you... So... give me
that little look that you give me
and I'm like, "OK."
I am glad that I am being driven
now.
But it can only last for so long.
Like, I kind of, I'm ready to learn
how to drive on this side of
the road.
It's actually much easier to drive
in the United States
than it is to drive in Trinidad.
If you can drive in Trinidad, you
can drive any part of the world.
If I knew the day was going to be
like this,
it would have been a perfect time
for us to visit different stores
when it comes to like shopping for
wedding supplies and wedding
decorations.
Mm.
Bilal is dragging his feet when it
comes to wedding planning.
I love Bilal, but this is my first
wedding, I need to look good.
And I haven't done anything yet.
We don't even have a venue.
I don't even know what type...
It's a lot of stuff we got to get
done, yeah, yeah.
Shi's been here for a month now,
and she wants to talk about wedding
planning.
It's not that that's not important
but there is a lot more things
that we need to talk before we
start talking about that,
because I want to get
a prenup before I get married.
I mentioned the idea of having a
prenup
but we haven't rally talked
about like details.
Would you look at this, we got
a nice parking space right here.
But today's a beautiful day,
got the kids with us,
and they haven't had
that much time together.
So I don't wanna stress about all
the things that we have to do.
All right.
Have you ever done one of these
before? No.
That's good, it's always good to do
something new.
Get you out of your little comfort
zone, get adventurous.
You know? Yeah.
Let me get things started here.
I have seen scooters but I don't
go on them.
I just think it's so unsafe,
but I'm trying to down play it,
to not k*ll the vibe with the kids.
You can't pop a wheelie like me,
Zaynah.
Oh, oh, there we go.
Yeah, I've ridden, yeah, now I know.
I don't want to be like the party
pooper, of this, you know,
wonderful family experience with
everyone.
Am I going to go this way and crash
into those trash cans? Yeah.
Do you wanna crash in those trash
cans? No, but I'm just - OK, then.
Let me show you how to do this.
Put your foot here. Mm-hm.
Right and these are gonna give
some traction. OK.
Then you're gonna go, put your
other foot up there, OK?
This right? And so, remember, keep
going until you get some speed. OK.
Whoa. Uh-oh.
[LAUGHS]
You OK?
That was, that could have been not
so good. You OK?
Start doing it until I get some
speed. Yeah.
Thanks for the advice [!]
Sometimes her mind tends to go
negative first.
There you go, there you go,
there you go.
OK. You're doing good. Just scary.
Well, I'm not gonna say sometimes,
a lot of times.
Her mind goes negative first,
so I'm trying to think,
"Hey, think of the bright side,
you know.
"You might not fall, you know,
let's have some fun."
All right, all right, all right.
Bilal, I need a break.
I was gonna say I think you
need a break.
Sit down. Thank you.
By my calculations,
you almost ended your life three
times.
I thought, I nearly, I think I saw
God. Really? Yeah.
But it was good. Geez. It was good.
Nice family outing. Yeah.
Get out of the house a little bit.
[SPEAKING OWN LANGUAGE]
You're here now. Yeah, I am.
So, how are you, like, adapting,
like,
cos not only you're like in another
environment for as a home,
you know, living with another
person. Yeah.
I enjoy getting to know you,
seeing your habits.
Can be... You can be very fussy at
times.
Very particular.
Fussy, when you say fussy?
Fussy as in, we know you like to
have everything spick and span.
Now I don't have a problem with
that,
it's just that I get nervous
knowing that, you know,
if you come home and open a door,
and see it like that.
If you're gonna fuss and I don't
wanna hear you.
Well, it's not fussing cos I don't
fuss to you. Complain about stuff.
Shining the spoons, all these
things, shining everything.
Babe, you do not shine spoons.
Can't please you, babe.
I'm just telling you.
Like, you even told me your own
self, you said
your mom used to complain about
your silverware.
I hate when you do this, like you
always try to, you always do that,
if I tell you something,
you throw it back.
It's not a throw back I'm just
telling you... Just to win a
conversation like I hate that.
Because literally you'll do that
and I have to rewash it.
Yeah, babe, yeah, like I feel like
every time we having
a conversation, you must win.
Every single time we talk and you
have to win. OK.
Now every time you're talking
I'll say you win. OK.
I have never argued so much in
my life ever
with anyone, ever.
To the point where I feel like,
there's no point of even arguing
any more.
And it's like when I try to express
myself, you say I'm nagging
or I'm giving you a lecture or...
And it's like I don't know what
to do.
I can't win for losing.
But you're always get offended on
something really small.
I never said that.
And even if you...
We're talking about something being
clean and being unclean.
That's not a right or wrong.
No, babe, you will fight
during a conversation just to win,
like.
What do you wanna...? There's no
win.
I just, I don't know.
There's no win or lose it.
This has me so uncomfortable
speaking to you right now.
OK, you don't got to, we don't
have to talk then.
We do not have to talk.
You wanna go?
Ready to leave?
Yeah. You can just nod your head,
yes or no.
No, right to have some me time.
So like this...
I'll let you have some me time.
I'd like to stay here by myself.
Let me know when you're ready.
Thank you.
Every time I try to bring up a
problem when it comes to Bilal,
he deflects
and he brings it back on me.
And it is completely frustrating,
because we are butting heads
in this relationship, and we're not
coming to a solution
on how to communicate more
effectively.
This is not how I see myself
dealing with a disagreement
with my future spouse.
position:50% So this could potentially be a venue.
First impressions of the outside.
Beautiful right?
It's beautiful.
It's a beautiful place.
Would be nice. If we
just had money in the bank.
But we don't.
Today I am taking Guillermo to
King's Family Vineyard
and I wanna show him potential
things that we could do
if we had time to plan and
give him an idea of like
what it actually costs to put
a wedding together in America.
Hello there how are you?
Hi. I'm good.
Kara. Nice to meet you.
Hi. I'm Carol. Guillermo.
Hi, great to meet you guys.
It's my pleasure. Welcome.
Thank you. Well, we're gonna take
the grand tour, so I thought
I'd show you around the outside
first and then we'll go inside.
My pleasure. So congratulations
to you, I guess - Thank you.
..you're planning on getting
married. We are, yeah. Great.
Do you have a particular time of
year that you'd be interested in?
It's actually July.
Is it this Ju...? Oh, OK.
Right, yeah, so this summer.
This summer, wonderful.
We're on a K-1 visa.
Yeah. We have 90 days
to get married. Oh, OK great.
So we don't have a lot of time
to like put things together.
I wanted him to see options of...
Sure, sure.
..what Charlottesville has to offer
as far as wedding venues. Great.
Well, I'd love everybody to take in
the view obviously
because that's like a big point
about this winery.
It's a dream, actually.
The spectacular view. So pretty.
So come this way.
We have lots of horses here, so you
can see those in the field. Right.
Guillermo, we play polo here
every Sunday.
OK. From Memorial Day through
mid-October.
So if you chose a day, like if you
chose a Sunday wedding,
there would probably be polo during
the day for your guests to enjoy.
So nice.
So that's kind of a fun thing.
How many people are you planning?
Like, probably like 50.
OK, so on the smaller size.
Yeah, we want to keep it intimate.
Sure. We wanna make it intimate
and put the money into having
like quality things - Great.
..and really great food and really
great wine. Right.
People set up here with a view of
the mountains in the background.
Normally when the wedding start,
is it everyone,
like the people still there?
No, no, so we ask that weddings
take place after 5:30
because the winery... OK.
..is open until 5:30.
But you do have spectacular sunsets
here.
Have you seen a venue like this
before?
In my city, in Venezuela, we don't
have actually so much wine.
We do have rum.
But we definitely have...
It's always good to have.
..beautiful places like this.
It's actually makes me feel home in
some way. Good.
And that's why it makes me like...
Yeah. .it's a dream. Right?
That's, yeah. Yeah.
Well, that's wonderful.
That looks like the movies.
Everything look like a movie now.
It's pretty spectacular, I have to
admit. It is.
It's always beautiful, even if the
sun isn't shining.
The clouds actually are pretty
dramatic and -
And the way they like top off the
mountains, it's beautiful. Indeed.
Kara have been telling me no for
so many things.
Like when to go out, what can we buy
or a place to even have our wedding.
Thank you. Sure.
I feel that she doesn't wanna
respect my opinion.
Like Kara doesn't want me to buy a
computer
even if I wanna buy it with
my own money.
And even in the high school reunion,
it makes me feel that she just wants
to control everything single thing.
So we are entering into the north
gallery.
We'll enter into the reception area
here.
This is a great time to see it,
because a wedding is being...
It's so beautiful... already set up
for this afternoon.
Looking at it, it's stunning,
I mean the flower arrangements,
I love the colour of the chairs,
I love the chandeliers, beams.
I mean just everything is beautiful.
I look through the windows and it's
so beautiful.
It's like I will definitely be so
happy
I will definitely cry, cry a lot.
[LAUGHTER]
Great. We can walk outside and sit
down and talk about details.
Yeah, thank you.
Thank you, thank you so much.
Damn I almost wanted to cry
because it was so beautiful.
It's something that you are gonna
remember for the rest of your life.
What are you thinking?
Being such a beautiful place
makes me like have
those thinkings of my dreams.
Right. And this is exactly
how I could imagine.
It's a big day, you want it to be
special
and you want it to be done right.
I've got a little folder here for
you, that is gonna go over
the things that are included in the
wedding.
Then there's the pricing, which
I'm sure you're interested in.
So you'll notice here, Fridays and
Sundays are 7,500,
and Saturdays are 10,500.
You would need to get a caterer who
would be doing all of your food
service and your alcohol.
Plus florist, plus cake, dress. It
is a big expense there is no doubt.
I love this place,
but I understand that it's very
expensive.
I understand that it's not what we
can afford right now.
Tell me about your budget.
I mean, the truth is that
it's actually really bad.
If you plan it a year out, that
you're gonna do this big party,
then it gives you more time to save
towards that.
Well, that's my whole point.
I just wanted him to realise
that we don't have to not have this.
But we just need to start to think
realistically
about how much it costs. Right.
I think now that Guillermo has seen
how much it costs,
I think he's like, "Oh, wait,
Kara might have a point."
I'm gonna let you two sit and talk
for a little while.
Great to meet you guys.
Thank you. Thank you. Bye-bye.
That's the point,
I want it to hit home for him,
I want him to see it ain't cheap.
Like I know you're dreaming and
like America is the land of dreams.
But like money still has to be
there, you know?
[SIGHS] Here we are.
What are your thoughts about today?
It's expensive,
but it's a beautiful place.
Oh, I know, I mean people pay lots
of money
just to have their wedding here,
yeah. It's a dream.
But just for the venue, $7,500.
Yeah, yeah, it's a lot of money.
I appreciate that Kara listened
to me and take me to the venue.
But at the same time, she still
wants to control everything.
Like Kara is all the time making
plans without asking me.
It's just so frustrating.
I feel that sometime when you tell
me so much, no and no and no and no,
I don't feel so free,
I don't feel home like that no.
Like I have the final word?
We have to stop that sh*t.
Stop what sh*t?
That you do whatever you want,
and the truth is that
you don't have the final word.
And sometimes you do things
even when I'm not there.
Like what?
Like you make plans
when I'm not with you.
And then I feel like because you
already made those plans,
I have to go.
I feel you push me in positions with
your friends
that I don't wanna be there.
Like, "Oh, he's feeling tired."
What would you like me
to tell them?
They know I'm always there. They're
my friends, I always show up.
They know if I'm not coming it's
not because of me, you know.
So what am I supposed to say?
If that's the truth, you want me
to lie to them?
It's just a question?
If Kara still doing those things
in front of her friends,
that she put me in a bad position,
I will be like, "Hey, listen,
go out," and that's it.
But whenever I'm really tired, I'm
not gonna be waiting in the house.
I will just move to another place
and that's it.
I'm not gonna be waiting for someone
that wants to do whatever they want.
OK, yeah.
I think that I would just made
a deal with myself.
If I don't wanna do something that
you want me to do,
and if I don't feel that I wanna do
it, I will just not do it.
It doesn't bother me, for you to
voice your opinion.
And like I'm happy to hear your
side, I may not agree,
but right now, like this moment,
is supposed to be like romantic
and beautiful
and talking about the future.
Discussing like happy things, and
now we're talking about
like going out and plans and like
other sh*t.
The day definitely took a turn for
the worse.
I brought him to the venue to make
him happy and now he's upset.
It definitely gives me some pause
when he's bringing up the same
issues.
And I just feel like I can't win.
Like I thought you loved me for me.
Like you loved for me when it's
good for you,
but then when there's something
about my personality
that is not good all of a sudden,
everything is a big problem.
It's definitely raising some
eyebrows for me.
This studio session didn't go the
way that I wanted it to go.
So, tonight while Miona's hanging
out with my cousin
and my bandmate Brandi,
David and I are gonna go to
our favourite Serbian restaurant
in Chicago.
[SPEAKING OWN LANGUAGE]
Because I'm still frustrated
and angry about what went down.
We need some rakia. Yeah we need
some rakia because we need to talk.
Yeah we do.
In his culture when you get in a
fight, you need to talk about it.
[SPEAKING OWN LANGUAGE]
And you have to drink some rakia.
Once I drink that rakia,
that's that moonshine is like -
That's why I wanna open up.
That's medicine.
Let's step back from everything
that has happened.
There's a like a lot of emotions
going on, me and you
are not on the same page.
We got to do better, man.
We can't be fighting.
Like, we're not 19.
Like, we done that. Yeah.
The thing that makes me mad is that
David could be right.
Maybe Miona isn't ready for this
relationship.
Maybe I'm not ready for this
relationship.
He's putting the mirror in my face
and I don't like that sh*t.
Who wants to see that they failed
or they're not doing the right
thing?
No-one likes to see that.
Like we fought in that dude's
studio.
You was pissing me off.
I understand,
but you can't act like that.
Like I care about you, I'm not
against you, I'm for you,
I want y'all to succeed.
Just doesn't feel like that.
I know it doesn't, because honesty
is straight up,
I'm just being truthful.
My mistrust was there
and I'm honest about it.
And you should respect that.
I'm worried about you.
So what does Miona bring to
the relationship for you guys?
What does she bring to you?
Does she inspire you?
Does she support your music?
Does she encourage you? With the
music, that's not her world
and she doesn't understand
that I get creative at night.
And when I got to be up at four
o'clock in the morning,
she's, "Come back to bed,
and do that..."
So it's, she's not...
It's a whole change.
Yeah she doesn't quite understand
that, which is frustrating.
Do you think she will ever
understand?
Do you think you will ever be able
to like explain that to her
or have her realising
she'd be OK with that?
This is the first woman I've ever
been with that's younger than me.
Yeah, you always had...
I always had older women.
I had women that were established.
They were taking care of me.
Yeah, now you got to take care of
her and it's a lot.
It's whole different.
Because you still don't have your
own stability.
You like to travel everywhere.
Right, so I used to have old women.
That's what I'm saying. [LAUGHS]
You used to have somebody taking
care of you.
I mean... Sugar moms, some...
Hey, hey.
You have to do what you have to do.
Come on, man, we was, we was fresh.
You know, so. Hey, got them, you're
fresh. I remember those days.
I've never been in a position like
this.
I've always had an older woman who,
has more degrees and more money
and real estate and stuff that...
I don't have any of that.
But Miona and I have something
different and right now
my family and my best friend David
just don't see that.
Now, you in love.
Yeah, it's different.
Now, you wanna build something with
her, right? I'll tell you this.
She's the first person I see myself
having kids with.
I get a sense that Miona controls
the relationship.
I get a sense that her needs are
more important than anything else.
I feel like Jibri is willing
to give himself up for her.
I think Jibri's gonna burn out and
he's gonna invest a lot of time,
money and energy into something
that might not work out.
And I don't wanna see that.
Miona's young, she's impatient.
About what, about your success,
about?
About you got, you making it,
or she's putting pressure about
certain things?
Yeah it's just like, all the
vacations we went on, it was now,
it was instant, she wanted those
instant.
You know what I mean?
And I didn't like that.
That's what's stressing me out, cos
I'm like every vacation we go on,
I'm on the vacation for two three
days and I'm like go to the beach
and then after the beach I'm like,
"I've been on the beach two days."
Yeah, you're all ready to get over
it. I'm light skinned, I got a
little blacker. OK, cool.
Like everything that gives me that
fulfilment in life,
I don't thrive without creation.
If I'm not creating something, if
I'm not doing music,
there's only so much that sex or
adventure and excitement,
in terms of vacation.
That stuff, is only...
Temporary.
..giving me so much dopamine.
I need to create, man.
That's what I'm worried about.
Because I just see two different
worlds.
That's all I'm saying, you're
saying
what I'm trying to kind of tell you
what I see.
Let me ask you a question.
We open. Let me ask you a question.
What do you think I should do?
Would you get married, right now?
No.
I feel like I would need a little
time to get to know my partner
to make sure
we're on the same page.
People change things change, goals
change.
I would take my time.
David knows that I'm a person that
is very impulsive,
so a lot of the times I don't quite
think about the whole scenario.
So I feel like I could potentially
be making a mistake
and putting Miona first
before I put my career first.
And I'm feeling a lot of doubt
about marrying Miona.
Make the right decision and just
look at you first, what you give,
what she gives, and we'll all
support you.
Make your decision before
everything, you know,
before everything goes down.
middle line:90% position:50% All right.
Have a seat. Thanks so much.
Tonight Emily and her mom took
Koban to visit her grandma...
..when he says he wants to talk
about something...
Emily's dad is a big guy, and he's
a little bit intimidating.
And I feel like we get along OK
but it's not like we've had
so much time to spend together.
So I'm a little nervous,
why he wants to talk to me.
All right.
Well, listen,
I, I'm just getting to know you.
And so far we've kept it pretty
light.
But I do have some serious concerns.
Ever since Kobe got here, there's
been some confrontations with Emily
and it seems like
some of them got a little heated.
And that's a little disturbing.
I mean, I'll give him the benefit of
the doubt,
but thinking about the future,
they got to have a plan
on what the hell they're gonna be
doing.
Otherwise they're gonna be floating
around
in this la la, you know,
fantasy world,
and I'm not paying for it, period.
So, Kobe I mean, I'm supporting
a lot of, a lot of people here.
And we're not charging you rent or
anything like that.
So, in order for things to happen,
you have to have a vision,
a career goal,
how much money you plan on making.
What is your plan?
As far as plans,
I gonna tell you now...
Because I understand
that Salina is not very big, but...
I don't know, I was thinking like,
you could maybe train me like you
know to take over the company.
OK, you mentioned civil engineering
and I'm not sure exactly in Cameroon,
did you get a licence there?
No.
Was it...
What did you get, a degree?
I had like high school.
OK, but did you have any training
after that?
No, I didn't have any.
He's crazy if he thinks he's gonna
come in and take over my business.
But that's not gonna happen.
It's just like he's out of his mind.
OK, so if you wanna become an
architect,
that's probably
a four- or five-year programme.
And once you get out of there it's
another two, three, maybe four years
of training before you become
licensed.
And you got have to figure out a way
to pay for that.
Yeah. So...
Like, I don't have any problem
like going back to school,
and Emily...
So, like...
Well, $4,000 to live here,
it's-it's not a lot.
I mean it's not, it may be,
you know, in some places,
but it's,
it's not a lot of money here.
I mean, that might last you
a couple of months, you know.
OK.
With $4,000 back home in Cameroon,
you can rent an apartment on
your own.
That can take you for like almost
a year and feed your family.
And...
Let's have a plan.
Maybe you will be out of here before
the 90 day, you know, deadline.
Let's hope so.
I think you need to sit down with
Emily and talk about a budget,
how you're gonna budget for Koban.
How are you gonna budget for food,
how much money are you gonna budget
for rent?
Emily has no clue as to how this all
works.
So, it's not party in the USA.
It's work, work, work, and I hope
you're ready for it.
He's got a lot of mouths to feed and
I think he's got good intentions.
But I don't know, I think
I'm still waiting to feel
that they realise love isn't enough,
and that they're willing to go
the extra mile to make it work.
We'll see, we'll see.
Can you hang that up for me?
Hang it up... Hang it up.
Hanger. [SPEAKING PORTUGUESE]
Uh-huh.
Ah! Oh, man, I think we're almost
there. Almost done.
I know.
Yesterday, Thais wasn't happy
that I'm not gonna be sharing my
location with her.
I want her to forgive me for some
mistakes that I've had in the past.
So I've been doing everything to
make sure that,
you know, she can trust me again.
And now I think it's time to have
trust in this relationship.
[SPEAKING PORTUGUESE]
I got to wait,
I got to wait for that. Yes.
Hey, guys, just wanna let you know
I'm throwing a little house warming
party
a little later today,
a few co-workers, nothing crazy.
[SPEAKING PORTUGUESE]
No. Party.
Party, where? Here.
It's a get together, celebration,
people from Patrick's new team,
just for everybody
to get to know each other.
And Thais gets to meet the people
who you work with.
She hasn't met anyone since she's
been here. Right. I didn't know.
I didn't know either. Surprise.
Surprise. Yeah.
So I'm gonna let you guys get ready
and I think we're gonna have a good
night.
Good times.
All right, well... Mm.
I mean, does every house need a
housewarming party to make it
official?
I'd say yes. Come on, John.
We're new to a city.
You know what I'm saying? So...
It was a nice gesture to get
people involved and she can meet.
[SPEAKING PORTUGUESE]
Let's be honest, if I had
asked you straight up,
you guys would have said no.
Of course.
What am I supposed to do?
[DOORBELL]
Welcome. Oh!
They got drinks. Come on in.
Now, what's up, buddy? What's up?
What's up? What's up?
Nice to meet you.
Thais? Thais. That's enough.
I brought beers but I drank half
of them on the way up here.
So...
You got to start from somewhere.
So, this is your crib?
I like the lights, very cute.
Super modern.
Can you believe she's here?
Oh, you're here. Finally!
Wagner was my first recruit on
my first sales team.
So he's kind of always followed
wherever I've gone,
he went to Austin with me
and now he's moving to Dallas.
And you know, I consider him
one of my best friends.
[SPEAKING PORTUGUESE]
[REPLIES IN PORTUGUESE]
[LAUGHS] I hope it's cool -
Right, that?
..I invited a few people.
Yeah, we invited a few people.
For your housewarming party.
A few more people.
I might have known about a couple
of them, so let's go.
[SPEAKING PORTUGUESE]
Hello, well welcome, welcome,
welcome.
I'm John, the host.
Hey, John. Hello.
I'm freaking out, especially
because we are working on trust
in our relationship
so I don't like the idea
of random girls running around
my house.
Come on, man. You know?
They weren't for you,
they were for me, Wagner,
and the rest of the fellas.
Can we have some fun?
[EXHALES SHARPLY]
Oh, hey.
Hi.
Hey, how are you? How's it going?
Friends. Hi. How's it going?
What's up, guys? I'm Patrick.
Nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you.
This is my fiancee Thais.
Hi, how are you? How are you?
Yeah.
[SPEAKING PORTUGUESE]
Cool.
I'm uncomfortable with these girls
coming to the house,
like, really uncomfortable.
Like, my heart was pounding.
I expect her to be uncomfortable.
Let's make sure everybody gets a
drink. Yes.
And then let's toast to...
You guys... to them.
[INDISTINCT CHATTER]
Hey. Good to see you again.
Let me, yes. Oh, yeah.
Theodore, you got to seduce her.
Theodore, come on. Here you go, bro.
Get that sh*t.
[INDISTINCT CHATTER]
Yes.
I just have to stay sober enough so
there isn't any more people
that come into the house
that I don't know.
Pow, pow, pow. You got it,
you got it, you got it.
Hey.
[SPEAKING PORTUGUESE]
Thank you.
It's gorgeous. New home,
new country. Yeah, new country.
It's huge. New city.
That's a lot.
[INDISTINCT CHATTER]
What's up, what's up,
what's up, what's up?
Let me talk to you.
How's everything going?
Do you want me to be here with no
girls? Like, come on.
Well, I didn't think
she was gonna be upset.
But my thought was like, well, she
has to meet some friends and like -
Well, if she has a problem, then
that's gonna make a problem for me.
No, I know, and I'm totally OK with
that. And you know that. I do.
[SPEAKING PORTUGUESE] OK.
Well, I've known Pat for years now.
Thais has been jealous a bunch of
times
that we've been out, like,
watching sports.
We're just watching football.
Be careful, OK?
I want you to know like,
I'm not trying to talk to them.
[SPEAKING PORTUGUESE]
I know. And you are
a beautiful Brazilian.
So trust me.
OK?
OK.
Do you wanna go back?
Yes.
[INDISTINCT CHATTER]
[EXCITED SQUEALING]
..90 Day Fiance.
What if I tell you
I have a bad feeling about this?
Don't worry. And what if I asked
you not to fight tonight?
If you're scared of heights,
don't look down. Oh, my God.
It's probably not the best time,
but we got an e-mail.
Yeah? A marriage contract, prenup.
The prenuptial agreement. Yeah.
I am in complete shock right now.
Before I came here, Bilal had
mentioned a prenuptial agreement
and I was adamant
that it was not for me.
To...
To you and Guillermo.
I'm still concerned - Yeah.
..that you think you'll bounce back
if this all goes awry.
I've had people question every
decision I've made because it's
against the norm.
Just a lot of risk here.
Well, I'm a betting woman.
OK, ooh, that's beautiful.
Yeah, you look gorgeous.
But I feel like, if we're getting
married, I would like a nice ring.
Go into my purse really quick.
There's a box in there.
You did not. I did.
So what if he finds one
and he buys it
and you don't like it
as much as this ring?
We have money. Trust me.
Show me. Here, take some cash.
I'm done with this conversation.
Whatever. [DOOR SLAMS]
I don't feel any support
from your parents.
They're saying they don't wanna
come to our wedding.
That's absolutely fine with me.
That's not absolutely fine with me.
Jibri should grow up and stop
thinking what they're thinking.
Focus on us
if you want this to work.
If it's - Do you want this to work?
If it's gonna be like this, no.