[Gino] Previously on
I'm effectively living as
a virgin
because we haven't been
having sex recently.
[Kameron] I know
what those eyes mean, man.
"Shut up, shut up!"
What's she gonna do,
not have sex with me?
[Anali in Spanish]
You're in trouble, buddy.
- Wow, look at that booty.
- [Jasmine] Be gentle.
- You've been bad.
- No!
Miami is the place
where I belong.
For the wedding,
this is what I dream.
The only problem is my
family wouldn't be there.
I don't want them at my wedding.
[Gino] How could she possibly think that
I wouldn't want my family at my wedding?
That blows my mind.
[all exclaiming]
[Stacey]She really wants this.
I just worry.
You know, people don't
want to be around him.
You gonna spend the rest
of your life with this man?
I have faith, Mom.
I know, honey. I'm just worried.
There's something I
kind of need to tell you.
After getting
arrested for having
my Suboxone medication
in an unmarked bottle,
the judge offered me
a diversion program to,
like, if I complete
it, I get off.
I didn't get the paperwork
applied for in time,
and now I have to go to court
and hear with the prosecutor
if he offers
probation, jail time.
[Citra speaking]
Do you love me enough
where no matter what,
you're going to
stick by my side?
You know, if you're
trying new things.
- You answer that question.
- No, you answer it.
You just want me
to tell on myself.
If I would have said yes, he would
have been down for that, which is gross.
You cannot blame me for
saying this isn't a question for me.
You're not even married yet, and
you're thinking about [bleep] other people.
I didn't say I was trying
to have sex with anyone.
I just want to know
my man only wants me,
and I can get the
trust back with you.
[bleep] that.
[soft music playing]
You trying to make
me out to be a dog.
No, that's not what it is.
I feel like if you're that
interested in somebody else
or if you're that interested
in experiencing another girl,
then you have something
that you need to figure out
on whether or not
you're interested enough
for us to do this as a couple.
Because I don't like the idea
of you having a side partner.
That's not cool with me.
That makes me feel
like I'm not enough.
I understand why I was upset was
because I thought you
wanted to [bleep] her.
And if it was about
supporting me
and not the fact you
was getting a green light
to have sex with someone
else, then that's fine.
I understand.
All right, let's move past it.
I feel like Sophie and I will
have these heated arguments,
and then we somehow
find each other.
And I really appreciate that
Sophie's able to move on
from these moments,
and I really try to myself.
Now he knows in the
future, if any girl wants
to get with him in any
way, with me, without me,
just tell her to go away
and leave me alone,
and I have a stunning
fiance, or soon-to-be wife.
Maybe.
[upbeat music playing]
All right, so you
sent me a little list.
- Chicken, potato, and veg.
- Yeah.
Okay.
What's my job in all this?
To help me.
Help you with which part?
Um, all of it.
I want you to help
me cut the potatoes,
but I feel like there's no room.
[Sophie] Oh.
[Rob] There you go.
I mean, that helps.
You can go that side.
Let's peel it.
This is the first time me and
Rob are cooking in the apartment,
just because, you know,
there's not much room to cook
- in the apartment, so...
- This is not the first time.
- This is the first time.
- No, it's not.
We cooked when you
were here the first time.
What did we cook?
We've cooked.
- We have... It's not
the first time - No.
- We've ever cooked in these...
- We put a pizza in the oven.
- That is not cooking. That's not cooking.
- Sophie, we have...
See, you couldn't do
this in a big old kitchen.
What, sit down?
Sit down and do
this part together.
- Yeah, a lot of kitchens have...
- It's a bonding moment.
Ah, it's hot. Ah, ah.
Why is it hot on there?
Stove, it gets hot.
My phone is there.
All right, but it's not
gonna get messed up.
[Sophie] There's about three weeks
left until we have to get married.
So tonight, my mom's
arriving from Mexico to see me,
so I'm excited to see
her, but at the same time,
I'm a little bit nervous
how it's gonna go,
because I know they haven't
had the best bond together.
But, yeah, um... Are
you looking forward
to my mum coming later?
Sure.
Yeah?
It would be nice. I mean,
you know what I'm saying?
I'm gonna do my best.
Just want to make sure your
mom isn't going to add stress.
Because, yeah, it's
kind of a bad time for us.
You and I are trying to
get over our own problems
before this huge thing
that we're about to do.
I understand
that, but it's also...
I don't have anyone out
here, and it's my mum,
so I'd like to see her,
and she misses me,
and we have a
close relationship.
I kind of feel like Claire
is a wrench being tossed
in the gears of Sophie
and I. She doesn't know how
to shut up, when
it's time to be quiet.
That's rude.
I'm just saying, though,
your mom says some
very problematic [bleep]
at the wrong times.
What if I said to you,
your mum doesn't know
- how to shut up when she needs to?
- If my mom...
- If my mom...
- That is so rude.
If my mom was as rude to
you as your mom is to me...
- No, I think my mum...
- It definitely affects me, and if you care about me,
then you would understand
where I'm coming from.
But she's always
gonna be in our lives.
She might not be
making it hard on you,
but she's making it hard on me.
She's always
gonna be in our lives,
so you have to
learn to accept it.
They actually taste good.
Yeah, they taste good.
Good job.
- You did good.
- You did good.
My mum just landed.
Oh, yeah?
Nope.
Are you excited to see her?
Am I excited to see her?
Like, is there any part of you
that's excited or is just straight,
like, you don't care to see her?
Just please try to
stop from scratch.
Of course I'm gonna
start from scratch.
I'm not gonna say
anything negative.
She brings a lot more
drama than what is needed
or necessary.
[Sophie] I can't wait
to see her, actually.
[Rob] I'm hoping that Claire
does not [bleep] up our relationship.
I hope she's not gonna
bring her brand of bull [bleep].
Sophie and I are not cruising.
You know, we're hitting a bump.
We're hitting
bumps left and right.
So the last thing I
need is for her mom
to come in and make it harder.
[upbeat music playing]
Don't be a p*ssy.
I'm not familiar
with these birds.
I don't think he likes me.
I know.
No.
[banjo music playing]
Tonight is our
first night in Miami,
and I have signed Jasmine and I
up for some salsa dancing lessons.
Jasmine seems extra stressed
about the wedding planning,
but I just want Jasmine
to have a good time and,
you know, be happy
with each other again.
Yeah, that's the spirit.
Do you see?
All right, guys, let's get
ready for a salsa class.
My history with salsa dancing
with Jasmine is I've not
been very good. [laughs]
[Gino] I'm trying to.
[Jasmine] Babe...
Just move.
I would describe my dancing
as like John Travolta, you know?
Just kidding.
Um, yeah, I need a lot
of work with my dancing.
Five, six, seven, and one, two,
three, and five, six, seven.
- Let's do it?
- All right, ready.
Come on.
Every time that I try
to practice with Gino,
[laughs]
Yeah, you're great!
Okay, the other
step, you remember?
I'm kind of traumatized about
our previous experiences.
No, no!
Yay!
- Whoo!
- Oh, my gosh!
I'm amazed!
You're doing great!
[upbeat music playing]
- Mmm, delicious. I love this.
- How's your coffee?
- It's a good cappuccino.
- I know.
It's starting to feel like
the old Jasmine and Gino
when things were
good and we were happy
and having a good time together.
Look at that view. You
can see the whole city.
South Point Park Pier.
This is exactly what I
wanted out of Miami.
Yeah. Good.
And the pictures, you
know, and he's like, yes,
Mommy, send me all
the pictures, all the videos.
And look at what he said.
He said, Mommy, [in Spanish]
Tell Papa Gino that
I love him so much.
Oh, really?
And yes, Papa Gino, [in Spanish]
And that I'm learning English.
Oh, wow.
He's dreaming of
coming here with us.
No, I really look forward
to the day that we are able
to bring your kids over here.
I would like to have
the chance to be like,
you know, a father figure.
That's so sweet, baby.
Trust me, once especially,
he sees you as a
dad figure already.
- And I can tell.
- Yeah, I mean, I can kind of feel that.
Right?
A bonus dad, but a good one.
But, you know, I want to be
more than a bonus dad, too.
I want to like to
try to be a real dad.
Being a bonus dad
is being a real dad.
- It is real.
- It is real.
I would like to have
one child of my own.
At least one would be nice.
I'm, like, almost mid-50s now.
I'd like to try to do it soon.
I'm not... ready.
[sighs] I have some
very personal fears...
And I have never opened
myself about how I really feel.
Gino has no idea
what I went through.
I am like some
sugar mama to you,
and the sex part you
get from the other b*tches.
Oh, so you want
to have threesomes.
I feel like, why are
we even together?
You really want to admit me
to the nut house, don't you?
What?
I just moved here
and he going to jail,
like, it's just a lot for me.
I'm still upset about it.
I can see it in her eyes that
she's having second thoughts.
[dramatic music playing]
Since I've told Citra about
not filing the paperwork
on time, like, she's
been real quiet.
I can see it in her eyes that
she's having second thoughts,
like, did she make the right
choice coming here to be with me?
And if I could be
facing jail time,
like, I'm not going
to be around.
Why would she want
to stay around for that?
Like, I know it's on me. I
have nobody to blame but me.
But I hope I don't lose her.
You look all nice today.
Um, you, after sleeping
on the, what I told you last,
yesterday, like,
how are you doing?
I'm still upset about it...
Uh...
It's like a 2,000-pound
weight off my shoulders
hearing that she's
still gonna stand by me.
You're welcome. I'm sorry, baby.
I was scared to death.
The woman I love, like, I
thought maybe I lost her
for a second, but there's
just no words to explain it.
I hope your dad
takes it as well.
No, but I'm gonna have to.
I get him.
Mm-hmm.
I have a special way to
punish you for keeping a secret.
And what would that be?
It's gonna be something special.
Special or spicy?
Burn me a new ass
[bleep] in other words?
Mm-hmm.
[coughs]
And this is safe to eat?
[Sam] Yeah.
I already, like, put,
like, a, you know,
Every meal in Indonesia,
like, mostly nowadays,
they're spicy because
Indonesian people, they like spicy.
- It's her survivor kit.
- No spicy, no life.
It's because they burnt
their taste buds so much
they can't taste it
unless there's a pound of
- spice in it.
- Yeah.
[coughs]
Baby, I don't know.
The American woman's
starting to sound good.
It's just such a level of
burning, numbing your tongue.
Like, I can handle it.
It's just other parts
of me can't handle it.
Getting a good case of
IBS from loving this one.
But it's worth it.
So good, baby.
So good.
- [sniffing]
- [chuckles]
[bleats]
Okay?
[sighs]
[Nikki] If you invested
as much as I did,
I think that you would feel something
like what I'm feeling right now.
I feel like now I am like...
some sugar mama to you,
and the sex part you get
from the other b*tches.
That's what I feel like.
Try what?
Just sex?
Oh, so you want
to have threesomes.
Oh, my goodness.
A lot of things try with you.
You really want to admit me
to the nut house, don't you?
What?
- It's sometimes... maybe going to happen.
- I was explorative
and experimental in my 20s.
Like, I did all this stuff.
Really?
Very close.
I'm wondering if the reason
why he wants to have this
threesome is honestly mostly
it's just because of
my gender, you know?
And me not being
born biologically female,
I feel like I'm not enough.
I feel like, why are
we even together?
Like, why don't you just
go be with another woman?
[sighs] So much for
our romantic getaway.
I don't know if Justin loves
to get a reaction out of me
because he knows that I
can go crazy, you know?
And I think that either
he likes to get me jealous
or he literally is serious.
And I don't know
which one is it.
We seriously
need to have a talk.
Because a lot of things
are really upsetting me.
First, the part with you
saying that you didn't find
what we were doing.
Um, anything important,
that it was just, like,
we were just talking, right?
Okay, fine.
But I was already having
unprotected sex with you.
So, like, how many partners?
- I'm always protecting myself.
- You always protect yourself?
- Yeah.
- Yeah?
Okay. How many girls?
Mmm...
Okay.
Now...
In the car, you also was like,
"Oh, I want the threesome."
Hon... I'm 47 years old.
I'm ready to settle down.
I did all this playing
and doing all this, like,
sex experimenting,
exploring when I was younger.
And I've been with girls. I've
been in a two-guys [bleep] me.
I've been with two girls
[bleep] me and a guy.
I've been [bleep]
Yes, I tried all of it.
I did it once upon a time. I even
had three guys [bleep] me in Paris.
That didn't work too
well. It was too much.
But still, your sex drive
with me is at its worst.
- I talk about these things in the future.
- Huh? No.
Not now.
- Oh, in the future.
- Now I want to focus on us.
So after we're married
and we have our vows,
you want to do these threesomes?
- Are you serious?
- Now we're talking.
We're just talking.
[Nikki]You know, at this
point, I've been thinking and...
[sighs]
I've been thinking
so much about where
I want to go with
this relationship.
Do I want to end it?
Do I want to continue?
Do I want to deal with him
cheating on me or feeling like
it's not cheating, dealing
with these, like, games?
And I'm just trying to, like,
process all this right
now because it's a lot.
Everything that you've
been telling me is,
like, you just kept on living
your life. Like, I was nothing.
Like, I was a piece of [bleep].
I just don't know what to
think for our future together.
Ah, my Lord.
[sighs]
More money, more problems.
I don't want to
disrespect her in any way,
but this whole not
telling her dad thing
is also causing her to
hide you from her life.
I know that these things
tend to spiral and I would hate
to see something like
that happen to him.
Honestly, man, she has
some uncertainty about you.
[upbeat music playing]
[cell phone chimes]
[doorbell rings]
We go swapping.
We have a visitor.
Are you excited?
- Hi.
- Ashley.
How are you?
♪ To find love ♪
♪ We'd fight until the
break of dawn is up ♪
Oh, my God.
[Ashley] Manuel's best friend,
Jonathan, lives in New York City.
It's been a year since Manuel
and Jonathan have seen each other.
Like, I'm talking probably
like six years plus.
Oh, yeah.
Since he's been here...
[continues in Spanish]
How did you learn English?
Like, did you take any classes
or did you just
kind of go for it?
Like, how did you learn?
Street? Mm-hmm. Exactly.
I think it's time for you guys to
go enjoy Rochester a little bit.
Get out of the house.
It has been such a challenge for
Manuel to connect with my friends,
so this is one of the reasons why I
invited Jonathan to come see Manuel,
cheer him up, and then also to
be able to speak in his language.
I remember all
the traveling I did,
and at a point in time, just
wanting to hear some English.
And so, I know that he's
probably at that point.
[in Spanish]
[in English] More
money, more problems.
[laughs]
[speaking Spanish]
[upbeat music playing]
♪ Those eyes like a loaded g*n ♪
♪ And your hands
on the trigger ♪
It's our first morning
waking up in San Diego,
and Anali is not happy with me.
She has been mad at me
for oversharing our private life,
but our private
life affects me too,
so I'm just getting
advice from my friend
and his girlfriend about
something that affects me directly.
Chiquis.
- Hola.
- [speaking in Spanish]
Mmm.
[in English] I'm sorry, honey.
[in Spanish]
sister wife.
Thank you.
- What's going on, big boss?
- What's up, man?
You ready to learn
how to dance, man?
- Let's do it, bro.
- All right, give me another hug.
- You ready to get your groove on?
- Yeah.
Anali has been making
fun of me recently,
saying that I dance like a tree.
Hello.
- Welcome, welcome.
- Who's teaching me how to dance?
- Both of us.
- Oh, come on.
So I found a Peruvian
dance instructor that's going to
teach me to dance to
impress Anali at our wedding.
So we're gonna do
the Marinera Nortena,
which is the national
dance of Peru.
- Okay, all right.
- It's gonna be for you.
This is for you, too.
And then we have the hats.
- Since you get to groom, you get the big one.
- Okay.
- You get the little one.
- I got a bigger head, I think.
- Let's get started.
- [Clayton] All right.
I wouldn't exactly consider
myself a graceful person.
Bow.
All right, I'm not
doing very good so far.
It's all good.
There you go. Catch yourself.
I feel like I'm
limping. Am I limping?
Yes.
That's an A for effort, right?
Definitely.
- Speed it up just a little bit.
- No, you got to speed up.
And float. Think of floating.
Awesome, Clayton.
There he goes.
Clayton is doing better than
I expected, in all honesty.
He can get his shoulders
and hips moving more than
I expected, so I give him that.
And music ends. Dun, dun.
- That's it.
- [all clapping]
- All right, thank you.
- Good job, man.
That was awesome.
- All right, bye.
- Bye, guys.
Take care.
How do you think
dance class went, man?
- I'm gonna be honest, bro.
- I didn't know you had it in you.
That was better than I expected.
I think she's
gonna like it, man.
- This is a cool little area you're in here.
- Yeah, for real.
How do you feel
about Anali last night?
Kind of like your guys' first
really, like, sit-down, you know?
Look, man, I think
Anali's a great girl,
and I don't want to
disrespect her in any way,
but just I know you, and I
don't want you to be hurt.
So, I mean, there's just
a lot of things going on.
Like, you guys
aren't having sex.
Not only that, but this
whole not telling her dad thing
is also causing her to
essentially hide you from her life.
Really, what I truly
want to do is be like,
"Hey, Anali, you need to
do it kind of like now-ish,
or I'm going to do it myself."
But I think that would
just not end well,
and she would thr*aten
or actually break it off.
And, you know, but
then I have to think,
if that would be a possibility,
is that a relationship
that I want to be in anyway?
Yeah.
Honestly, man, I
think the reason behind
all of these things happening
is she also has some
uncertainty about you.
I don't know, man.
You're about to get married.
I just don't want to
see you hurt, man.
I think you need to take
some time to reflect to yourself
what an ideal marriage
and lifelong commitment
- would look like to you.
- Mm-hmm.
Ultimately, it's you
who has to live with you
and your mind and her if
you do choose to go with her.
I understand what you mean, man.
[Kameron]I think in Clayton's
head, he is very anxious about
losing his girl and losing his
source of happiness right now.
However, I think that
it's a little bit of a veil
because the source of
happiness may not be exactly
what he thinks it is.
And I know that these
things tend to spiral
and I would hate to see
something like that happen to him.
- Oh, you're pretty aggressive.
- Oh.
She's not aggressive.
She's just joking.
Between both of them,
I'm always one word away
from saying the wrong thing.
I know deep down you
want to say something to me.
I can feel it. You want
to say something to me.
I could always say something.
[dramatic music playing]
[gasps] Oh, my God, oh, my God,
oh, my God, oh, my God, oh, my God.
- Oh, my God. Come in.
- Hello.
Oh, my God, oh, my God.
You look so beautiful.
Oh, my God.
Don't cry.
Hello.
Hey.
I like your hair.
- Thank you.
- Did it get it?
Oh, bubba.
Do you want to sit down?
I've been worried about
my Sophie because
I've just been so
scared, her living in L.A.
all by herself with an
unsupported boyfriend.
And I'm hoping Rob just isn't
just Rob the Knob anymore
and just sort of ups his game
and starts being a grown-up
because I just think
he's a bit immature.
I want to hear what's going on.
We're here to see you.
How was your flight?
- It was good.
- Was it stressful?
[Rob] Yeah.
No, I made lots of mistakes,
dropped lots of things.
But, no, it was good.
It was good.
So, when is it all
happening, the wedding?
Uh, the 16th.
Okay, so am I helping with that?
Totally. You should
help her with that.
You know I have no
idea how weddings go.
Neither does she.
Do you think you
still need the stuff like,
I think it's something
borrowed, something blue,
something old,
and something new?
[Rob] No, I think that's...
- I think that's like some...
- No, no, no, I think it's a thing.
That's like some
'80s [bleep] right there.
Because I think it would be fun.
Okay.
I'll throw it to you.
I mean, it's a super
small wedding, so...
And my sister's already married,
so... I'm pretty sure
it'll be between you
and my mom on catching that.
- I need to get married.
- [Rob] I don't doubt it.
My mom's a tiny
lady, so it's not like...
She's super tiny
and not aggressive,
so she's not gonna...
I don't think so.
Oh, you're pretty aggressive.
You're gonna,
like you just said,
you'll knock my
mom to the floor.
That's pretty
aggressive in itself.
Oh.
She's not aggre...
She's just joking.
Right, but that's kind of... Her
mom... Your mom to my mom?
The energy?
- My mom is super...
- Yeah. My mom's joking.
She's not gonna knock
your mom to the floor.
- It's a joke.
- I know it's a joke, but it's still...
No, he said, [bleep]
as if I'm going to be at
- your wedding and knock a woman to the floor.
- Right.
My mom's very
sarcastic and jokey.
You guys are taking me literal.
I didn't take you literal.
See, this is exactly why I'm always
on edge when Claire's around.
It's like we're joking,
everything's good,
and then if I say, you
know, a joke back,
now we want to take it
personal or make it negative.
It just feels like
between both of them,
I'm always one word away
from saying the wrong thing.
See, you know... I know
deep down you want
to say something to me,
because the way you're sitting,
your body language is
all about... I can feel it.
You want to say something to me?
- I could always say something.
- Goodness, say it.
- I always have something.
- I think we need to... Because I don't want
to be the mother-in-law
that you hate.
I don't hate you. That's
not what I'm going to say.
Oh, you don't hate me?
I don't think he
gets you, but it's fine.
Oh, I get you.
- I get both of y'all.
- You don't get me.
- No, I don't think you do.
- Get both of y'all.
I can see why you argue,
because when we talked about
the bouquet and me tucking
your mother to the floor,
which was a joke,
you literally didn't
take it as a joke.
- I didn't take it seriously.
- You got...
- He doesn't get British humor.
- No, he doesn't get it.
[Sophie] No, he does. He is.
Anyway, so tomorrow
I'm going to come
and see your place, yeah?
I guess so.
I'm excited to see it.
[Claire] I'm dreading
seeing the house,
'cause I can tell
by their faces,
it's obviously not very good.
Because he's a lovely
guy, beautiful looking,
I get that, but you can, you
know, there's only so long
you can stare at
a beautiful painting
before you get bored, so...
- Good seeing you.
- It's all right, son.
Yeah, I'm glad I'm here.
- Bye.
- [Claire] See you later.
[speaking in Spanish]
He's trying to dictate
how I spend my money.
I don't like that.
So are you telling me I'm
not supporting you right now?
Is that what you're saying?
I brought you here on
my back with no cosigner.
How are you going to sit here and
say that you don't feel supported by me?
It's, like, disrespectful.
[upbeat music playing]
[Spanish music playing]
[exclaims]
Tell me, what
happened last night?
I want to know all the
tea. Give me all the gossip.
What [bleep] did
you talk about me?
[in Spanish]
Okay, okay, okay. Okay.
Can you, like, help
me figure this out?
Like... I'm noticing
Manuel doesn't really like
to spend money on himself.
And I feel like I work hard, so if I want
to spend money on myself, I'm going to.
So, like, why is how
we spend money, like,
so important to him?
I just feel like Manuel
thinks that the money that
I spend on myself could be
put towards helping his family.
Directly. That's how I feel.
[speaking in Spanish]
[in English] I don't like this.
It's coming out of my pocket.
This could go to my light bill.
And I'm taking it out of
my purse to give to a family
that he is keeping
me separated from.
I'm paying all these
bills on my own.
He gets on my nerves
with this topic because
he's trying to dictate
how I spend my money.
I don't like that.
I'm not going to not take
care of myself for your bill.
I take a lot of offense
to that, and I might cry.
[in English] I need a minute.
I can't. He just hurt
my [bleep] feelings.
I'm not supporting him. He
doesn't feel [bleep] supported by me.
All I am doing is
supporting him.
The food you eat is
the food that I bought.
The cell phone you use
is the phone that I bought.
I give you love, I
give you affection.
We're banging it out
multiple times a day.
How else can you
feel supported by me?
I brought you here on
my back with no cosigner.
How are you gonna sit here
and say that you don't feel
supported by me?
How are you gonna say that?
It's, like, disrespectful.
[Gino] It's really painful
to see her so emotional.
I feel helpless, 'cause there's
not much I can really do about it.
[sniffles]
[line ringing]
He was seeing a
couple of girls for sex.
Then he says things to me like,
[imitates Justin] I very
much want a threesome.
[speaking other language]
Okay. How can I say it?
I love my kids
more than my own life.
- You know? I love them.
- Hmm-hmm.
But one of the hardest
things that I have experienced
as a mom...
You know?
Look at you. You
picture your son
or your daughter
like, oh, I'll do this.
I'll do that. And then...
Reality is different.
What if we have a kid, and...
Before I agreed to marry
Gino, we made the decision
that both of my kids will
have to come to America.
I have two sons, Juance and JC.
I share custody
with my ex-husband.
People are very mean.
And I just confirm that
once I have my son,
- because people are mean.
- Some people.
Some people.
[sniffles]
[sobs]
You're still a human being, and
we're gonna take care of him, right?
You can't predict it.
- Exactly.
- You can't predict it.
It scares me,
baby. It's my fault.
- I ruined him.
- It's not your fault.
How do you know that?
Even doctors cannot tell.
Why?
Still a child, you know,
there's no difference whether
he has a disability or not.
That's the way you
should look at it.
Nothing is your fault.
Don't think it's your fault.
It's really painful to see
Jasmine so emotional
and, you know, sad.
And the thing is, I
feel helpless 'cause
there's not much I
can really do about it.
So it just makes me
sad to see her like this.
I just want to assure her that,
you know, whatever
happens with us
in regards to children,
whether we have a child or not,
I will always be there
for her no matter what,
and I'm not going
to abandon her.
You're such a kind soul.
Oh, you're so beautiful.
Oh, I'm lucky to have you, too.
Yeah.
And my children are
lucky to have you, too.
And if we ever have a baby...
You can do whatever you want.
I just need to talk to my mom.
[line ringing]
Hey, Mom.
How are you?-I'm good.
So tell me how everything's
going, hon. I haven't heard from you.
How's everything
going? Everything's good?
I had the biggest
hangover this morning,
and I went to
breakfast with Justin,
and we got into
this conversation.
Um...
He basically stated that
he was seeing some girl,
a couple girls, for sex, like,
you know, just to whatever.
Wait, wait.
Let's back up a little bit here.
He was basically not taking
our relationship seriously
until he, like, proposed to me.
Remember when I told
you all those times where
I was calling him and he
was always on the road?
Or times where he just
ignored my text messages
and got nasty with
me on the phone?
There were times on
our vacations where
it felt like there
was a blockage,
like there was
somebody he was dating
and he was an ass
[bleep] to me on purpose?
I felt so many things.
I knew it.
But it's like I had
the feeling in my gut.
Is he really being
honest, honest with you?
It seems like now he is,
but then he says things
to me like,
[imitates Justin] "Oh, I very
much want a threesome.
I've never done threesome."
- Never what?
- You know, mom.
Threesome.
Two girls and him.
And Mom...
[sighs]
[dramatic music playing]
[speaking other language]
You want a relationship.
You want a husband.
You want him to
come here to get a job
and be serious with you.
- That's what you want.
- Right.
Okay?
I mean, no.
No.
Absolutely not.
No.
I mean, you deserve it.
[in English] Ivan he tells me
be more man in this relationship.
And I think that's true.
Mom, and just in a few days,
we're supposed to have
an engagement celebration.
I know, well, you know what?
You don't have to have it.
You don't have to have it.
That's where I'm at right now.
That's where I'm
deciding what I want to do.
I mean, I know you love him,
and I know he loves you too.
I know he loves
me, but this is a lot.
But, um, yeah, I'm
gonna have to figure it out.
It's been the roller coaster.
I'm really drained today.
Like, it's been a
long day for me.
And I'm tired.
I'm exhausted.
Maybe I'm overreacting.
But for me, my motto is
trust is earned, never given.
And there's a lot I
have to think about.
I came all the way here,
and now I'm contemplating
the K1, our relationship, and
our engagement celebration.
All three in that order.
All right, Mom, I'm gonna
let you go, but I love you.
All right, honey, love
you. Take it easy.
All right.
Oh, my God.
- This is Citra, Mom.
- [Citra] Finally, we meet.
I know from the past and,
like, living with my mom,
all it takes is one second
for anything to blow.
It's Armageddon.
What would happen if
Sam didn't want to convert?
Would he get to still marry you?
[upbeat music playing]
[Sam] Me and Citra, we're heading
to my mom's house right now,
and they're gonna
meet for the first time,
so fingers crossed.
Let's hope it goes well.
You want to put it
somewhere stable right here?
I grew up with my mom
for, like, my early years,
and we were pretty
close, but since,
like, teenage years, we've
kind of been estranged,
and there's been a big distance.
But even though we've
been estranged for,
like, over the last 10 years,
she recently kind of
resurfaced in my life
and is back in the
area, back in Cameron,
and we're trying
to rebuild things
and build that
relationship back up.
There's a reason I keep my
distance from my mother, though.
So, just...
If it goes fine,
fine, but just...
I told you, she's kind of crazy.
She'll be nice and
sweet to you, but...
don't judge me off of her.
Part of me wants to keep
Citra and my mom apart
just because on one
side, my mom's side,
they were really religious.
And I hate saying
it, but more of those,
they love to preach but
don't follow what they say.
Who knows what's going
on in my mom's head or like
she might think that Muslims
don't wash up or like...
use toilet paper.
It could just be
something weird.
Hopefully she just
doesn't say obscene things
and asking her all kinds of
questions, overloading her.
She's gonna love you.
She's so gonna love you.
[Sam] That's it.
It doesn't look too bad.
[Citra] But I hope, like,
everything gonna be okay
between me and his mom because
I don't have my mom anymore,
so that's why I need his
mom to be my second mom.
- Hi.
- Oh, my God.
This is Citra, Mom.
- [Citra] Finally, we get to meat.
- I'm really glad to meet you.
- Another daughter.
- This is her.
We have too many
boys, need more girls.
[Citra] I know.
No, I'm joking.
You can come here and meet my
mother, which would be Grandma.
[Citra] Yeah.
- Mom, this is Citra, and this is Trebreh.
- Hi, Citra.
- Hi, Citra.
- Hi.
- I've heard tons about you.
- [all laughing]
Yeah, from North Carolina.
I did this, Citra, just for you.
- No.
- [all laughing]
What is it?
Rendang.
Coconut? You know
how much I love coconut?
You remember your old Salsa?
You look good,
Sammy. I love you.
She's one of my
favorite grandma.
[Sam] I'm trying to
play it cool, but I just,
I know from the past and
like living with my mom,
all it takes is one second
for anything to blow.
It's Armageddon, so...
Nervous.
Definitely nervous.
So what do you think of it here,
just in the United
States of Missouri?
It's quiet.
- Quiet?
- Not that busy, like, where I live.
It's not busy?
She's used to, like, motorbike
towns and motorbikes.
Like the pictures
I've seen of you.
Those are my
favorite pictures ever.
They are.
We're going to be getting
married in a few days,
- and... me and her.
- Who?
Oh.
And you're invited, by the way.
- You better be there.
- Yes, I'll be there.
- Don't worry.
- Yeah.
It is nice. Like,
I have grandma.
You'll have to get
used to me, okay?
Okay.
I am excited about
them getting married,
but this is honestly
something new for me.
So are you having
a Muslim ceremony?
Yeah. That's good.
What became of your conversion?
Is that all settled and done?
Uh, we're still finding a
mosque to, like, do it at,
setting up an appointment,
and we gotta do it here soon.
I don't believe anybody
should have to change
their ways or beliefs
just to marry somebody.
You should love them
no matter what, you know?
I mean, there's some things
you shouldn't maybe marry to,
like, I'm gonna be blunt
about this, witchcraft.
But, you know, again,
If I could have it my way, I'm
not going to stand here and lie.
I would love to see her
and her family serving
the same God as
I do. Absolutely.
Absolutely.
What would happen if
Sam didn't wanna do it?
Would he get to still marry you?
Would you just call it off?
[chuckles]
As a Christian, going
to a Muslim ceremony...
I don't know how
to explain this.
How do you go to something
that you don't approve of?
I'm glad you guys
got to meet her,
and I hope you better
make it to the wedding.
I approve of them marrying,
but not of the Muslim way.
All right, we're
heading out, Grandma.
What, baby?
We're heading out, but I'm so
glad you guys got to meet her.
- Oh, me too.
- Nice to meet you.
And you tell me if he's bad.
I'll straighten him out, okay?
- I will.
- Okay.
[Citra] He's bad all the time.
- Bye-bye.
- [Sam] Mom, I love you guys.
[Deedee] Bye, hon.
Be well.
Okay.
Were they better
than I warned you of?
Yeah, they're nice.
She acted better about
the, like, conversion
than I thought she would.
Yeah, which is nice.
But it's probably because
you were here and around.
You know that's why
she threw in that, like,
if I don't convert,
would you leave me?
Mm-hmm.
To be honest, I kind
of have some faith
going on there that this whole
thing's going to turn out okay.
I really do.
[softly] Maybe.
[chuckles] Maybe.
[speaking in Spanish]
[in English]Like,
is she in danger?
Like, why is she so worried
about it that she's crying?
Like, she seems scared.
[bleep]
[upbeat music playing]
[Clayton] Surprise.
It's Kameron.
[in Spanish]
[in English] Good.
Hmm.
- [laughs] - So I just wanted
to come say my goodbyes.
So this is the last time that
I'm gonna be able to see you.
[in Spanish]
Come here, bring it in.
Adios.
- All right, see you, brother.
- Good to see you, man.
Are we gonna do a
handshake or a hug, bro?
- I mean, we do both, you know?
- All right, man.
- Good to see you.
- Good to see you, brother.
- See you soon.
- Take care.
It's a big relief to know
that meeting Kameron
after 13 years is the
exact same as online.
It's like, it's pretty much
like a seamless transition.
Best friends goes
both ways, right?
So, I don't know.
I'm glad that the
interaction was mutual.
Speaking with Kameron
has made me realize that
we don't really
have a lot of time left.
So I'm cooking
Anali a special dinner,
and I'm planning on
talking to Anali about her dad
not knowing about
our relationship.
We'll be having a nice
meal, having a good day.
I think this will be a
good time to resolve
the things that we
need to resolve.
Um...
- Bye.
- Bye.
[Clayton in English]I have no
idea why Anali is crying about this.
You know, it makes me wonder
if there's something
else going on.
Like, is she in danger?
Like, why is she so worried
about it that she's crying?
Like, she seems scared.
Hello.
[bleep]
This is our humble abode.
[Claire]
[Sophie]
[Claire] It's sad.
They shouldn't be
living there right now.
I think you could
have done more.
Neither of y'all can sit
here and tell me about
what I should have done
and what I should have,
because neither of you guys
have ever been at the bottom.
Do you want me to put
some gel in your hair?
Yeah, if you want to.
So much hair.
Watch it.
Okay.
Yeah.
♪ Baby, I don't know Tell
me what you're thinking ♪
I'mma be nice. I promise
I'm gonna be nice.
Thank you. I appreciate that.
Well, when you start
seeing it, you know me.
You see the energy.
I can only take so
much, so I need you...
I need you to also be
aware of what's happening
so that if she's making digs,
maybe just remind her that
Rob hears everything.
This morning, Sophie's
mom will be coming to
my house, and I'm
nervous because
I know that she's
super over-opinionated
and just says things
before thinking,
and I'm like, you know, is
she gonna come into this spot
and just rip me apart, or what?
I don't know.
I'm just hoping that
she can... I don't know.
I don't know what I'm
hoping. I'm nervous.
[cell phone dings]
She said, "I'm here, I think."
Okay, so let's go out there and
see if she's really here or not.
Yeah, I should probably go
to the street and check on her,
'cause she doesn't want to
be walking around in the hood.
[Claire] Oh, my God.
- [Sophie] Well, well, well.
- [Claire] Well, well, well.
- You look nice.
- Oh, my God, you look beautiful.
- You look nice.
- I like your dress.
- Oh, my God.
- Hey, Rob.
Hey. Damn, you look good.
I'm really nervous
to see where you live.
- I've got anxiety.
- It's not that bad.
You want to lead the way?
- So you got the flower entrance.
- I like this pretty gate.
- Yeah.
- Yeah, the courtyard's cute.
Yeah.
I will show you in the house.
And the bathroom's
through there.
[Rob] That second
door is our bathroom.
Oh, so you don't have a
bathroom in your house?
Okay.
Ta-da!
This is our humble abode.
Very humble.
[Sophie] This is the kitchen.
This is our dining room
with no dining table or chair.
This is the bed and
sofa and chilling area.
And that is it.
[Claire] So this
is where you live?
For now.
For me, this was fine while
I was living here by myself,
trying to figure things out.
[stammers] I don't
know what to say.
Is it safe here?
Yeah.
I think somebody
was just playing with
their [bleep] in their backyard.
To be honest, for Rob's
place, the courtyard's really cute
and everything, but for her,
it wasn't what I visualized
for Sophie to be
getting married into.
Yeah, they shouldn't
be living there right now.
This is my area.
Listen, it's your home, and
the courtyard's beautiful.
What I don't get is...
You knew she was coming?
[Rob] Yeah.
Why wasn't there... Why
haven't you sorted out
a different place,
a bigger place?
Because in the last
two and a half years,
I've been putting a lot of
money into just us being together.
I mean, the traveling, the...
Everywhere we've had to stay.
I mean, we literally lived
in Playa for two months,
so that was rent money
going to a whole 'nother spot.
In the two years, if you... Like,
I don't want to say that term.
It's not the right term to say.
- Like... No, I can't say it.
- What?
Like, a real man would be like,
Soph, we can't see each other.
I know we want to be together,
but we need to put
all this money in,
so by the time you get here,
we've got a deposit,
we can move into
a one-bedroom place, we'll
have space in a safe place.
You've just basically moved
yourself into a man cave.
The whole idea of a
real man is supposed to...
tell his woman, like,
all right, we're not gonna
see each other for a year
so that we can get a spot.
That's ridiculous.
Instead, a couple months
of dealing with the spot
and then finding
a spot together,
that seems way more
accessible and way more like
me and her will actually
get to be together.
I really, truly, like,
stand true to this.
I think you could
have done more.
You two are in this situation
because you didn't put
enough effort into
saving up for it.
And whether you like
it or not, she can't work.
You knew when she
got here, she can't work.
[Sophie]I'm trying not
to take my mom's side,
but it's like, everything
my mom's saying,
I agree with, and everything Rob's
saying, he's just acting defensive.
He's being the same
old Rob that he always is,
so she can't get
anywhere with him.
I just, I don't know. I just,
I don't know what to say.
I think we're doing just fine.
I mean, I agree that you did
know the situation was gonna be in,
and when I came here,
you didn't have a job
lined up already.
So what haven't I done
from your perspective?
- 'Cause you've obviously been here a little bit more.
- You knew I was coming here.
You knew I couldn't work.
You haven't had a job secured.
You haven't had
the place secured.
There could have been a lot of
things you could have done better.
There was months I was saying,
"When are you going to get a job?
When are you
going to get a job?"
You're like, oh, yeah, soon,
soon, soon. You didn't get a job.
Y'all and these opinions
is blowing my [bleep] mind.
Neither of y'all can sit
here and tell me about
what I should have done
and what I should have
because neither of you guys
have ever been at the bottom.
If you've never
lived on your own
and had to do it on your own,
then shut up trying
to tell somebody else
what they should be doing.
You don't know what the
hell being at the bottom is
unless and whenever you
have ever been at the bottom,
you just make a phone
call and you're back up.
That's easy enough for you
guys, but I don't have that.
It makes me feel
like fully [bleep].
Not even the slightest
bit. I have zero help.
I have zero help.
I have zero help from anybody.
And you're going to tell
me you have zero help?
- Yeah, I do.
- That's a bald-faced lie.
[Claire] Yeah,
that's what you think.
I'm confrontational.
I'm trying not to be.
But they brought it out of me.
And I can't really
go back from that.
Judge, judge, judge, and
act like y'all been through it all.
That's bull [bleep].
[Justin] Next time
on 90 Day Fiance...
Baby...
What is that?
[in Spanish]
[Jasmine]Gino has shown me
nothing but love during this trip,
but I've been feeling guilty
because I have lied to Gino
and I have hide things
that I shouldn't have.
- Awesome.
- Thank you.
Enjoy.
Before I convert, I
want to have some fun.
There you go.
You did it, love.
I'm about to meet her dad again.
And if I don't impress her
dad and make him trust me,
then, like, there's no
wedding, there's nothing.
[speaking Indonesian]
[speaking in Spanish]
But why I got to
see you [bleep] a girl,
another girl, and me?
- Yes.
- Why?
[laughs]
That's really so disrespectful that
you can [bleep] laugh in my face.
You don't take accountability
for when you do something wrong.
- You don't want to hear it because you're the man.
- Stop, stop.
Here we go.
Act like a little
child. Run away.
I don't have time
for this [bleep].
[in Spanish]
Sex doesn't make all
the problems go away,
even though it's a good time.
Y'all just want to [bleep]
judge, judge, judge,
and act like y'all been
through it all. That's bull [bleep].
It's, like, actually
ridiculous like a child.
Like, grow up.
[Rob] They can't accept
that they're not right.
Like, get the [bleep] out
of here with that [bleep].