Previously on "90 day fiancé"...
It's about 6:30
in the morning.
Doors opened.
She walked through.
Hi, there.
I was quite relieved.
This would be like
a real farm wedding.
You know what?
Dude, hang a tent.
You consummate the marriage
right here.
Come on.
Crazy.
It's just too much.
So this is evelin.
She is my fiancée.
How much is this one?
$726.
Mohamed can't work right now,
so I really need to make sure
that I can afford this dress,
back in Nicaragua,
yamir was a hugely successful
pop star.
And coming up...
Being that yamir is a pop star,
his style is a bit flashier
than what I'm used to.
Chelsea's style is, uh...
At the pool party,
it went south pretty quick.
Never met her. Not even
a picture. Not even a mention.
Look at this.
Does she not trust me?
My dad has concerns
about your race.
You make me
lose everything there.
I'm afraid
that you're gonna leave.
there's a crab shack
right there. You ever have crab?
No, never.
Don't worry.
We're gonna have crab.
Cassia's adjusting
to being in America.
I think it's important
for cassia to go out
and check out the action
here in spring hill.
We ready to go?
Let's go.
Uh-oh.
I'm gonna sneeze.
Did I spit on you?
Yes.
Sorry.
Mm!
Oh, my god.
Bikini brasil!
Hi.
Hey.
What are you thinking?
I don't know.
This section right here,
there's the newest section.
I like this.
That's the one in the window?
Mm-hmm.
Yeah.
Okay, you can try right here.
Isn't that a little revealing?
No.
I don't think it is.
That's, like,
very basic Brazilian.
This is normal.
I...
She's got the body for it, so...
Do you like it?
Yes.
Okay. All right.
We'll get that one, then,
if you're happy.
Thank you.
I think the Brazilian bikini
is outstanding
when you're in Brazil.
Maybe not here
in the spring hill area.
Hey, Jason.
Yes, ma'am.
So, I have something for you.
Yeah!
How about some sungas?
Uh...
Ooh!
You want me to wear this?
Yes, please.
Good luck.
Oh, my god.
You're k*lling me.
Okay.
I think I'm ready.
Ooh!
Ooh!
True Brazilian now.
Sunga is just...
you can see, like...
The butt of the man
and the front.
So, it's, like, very tight.
Don't you think it's too small?
This is medium?
You can wear that.
Well, I'm gonna work out
a little bit,
and then we can fit into it
in a couple of months.
Yes!
Okay?
America is different
from Tunisia, and I miss home,
but Danielle and her daughters,
they make me feel like I'm home.
The lady I'm talking to,
she's gonna do a cake like that.
It's three levels.
Now that mohamed's getting used
to life here in America,
we're starting
to plan the wedding.
Do you wish your family
could come to the wedding?
Yeah, I wish that, but, you
know, they are not able to come.
Mm-hmm.
That makes me feel bad
because mohamed's family
won't be at the wedding.
I think
when we go see the venue,
it will cheer him up
a little bit.
I'm Barb.
I'm mohamed.
This is mohamed.
Mohamed, nice to meet you.
Thanks.
Danielle, how are you?
Good.
Good.
Yep.
Okay.
Come on, baby.
My sister, Sarah,
and her husband, Paul,
are coming with us.
Danielle and mohamed's wedding
is supposed to be July 12th.
We'll see.
See if it even gets that far.
Here's the cabin.
Me and Sarah were thinking
getting married
up on the porch of the cabin.
In Tunisia, we don't get married
in an open place.
So it would have be
in a covered place.
Mm-hmm.
Most of time, we do it
in the house of the man.
Mm-hmm.
I was thinking, too,
for the wedding ceremony,
I just want mainly family
and close friends,
and then at the reception,
everyone else can come.
Mm-hmm.
Hey, what about the music?
Paul is gonna
take care of the music!
I got all the equipment.
So we have a deejay.
Yes.
Paul's the deejay.
How much you guys
looking to spend food-wise,
whole wedding-wise?
Well, my dress...
about $500.
Okay.
And then, the food
is probably about...
$400 for the food,
I would think. $500.
Financially, she probably
makes about what I make,
and I know I struggle with
my household to make ends meet.
So I don't know where
all the money is gonna come
to help pay for this.
Mohamed don't know
how tight the budget is.
And I've been avoiding getting
into the details with him
because I don't want
to worry him more.
I won't be nervous until I
actually see a marriage license.
And I hear the word
"I do."
So, I finally
introduced evelin to my family.
I was, you know,
a little bit disappointed.
They asked a lot of questions.
Felt like we were just kind of
getting, you know, interviewed.
We want to know your intentions
for the future.
No offense, but why is this now?
I'm just really
kind of mad about it,
but I'm, you know,
going to meet my mom
because, obviously,
it's important for evelin,
and I want my mom and evelin
to have a good relationship.
Hello, mother.
Good morning.
You guys hungry?
So, how you guys been?
We're good.
We've been busy.
I know we haven't seen you
since the pool party.
How do you feel about that?
No, it was...
was it a little stressful
for you?
Yeah, I mean, I didn't know
how anybody was gonna react.
You know, a little crazy.
It was.
It was a surprise.
Okay, I just want you
to understand
why everyone was so...
Shocked.
It was like you were going
through all these emotions...
in love, engagement,
talking about marriage...
and your family wasn't involved.
Well, do you understand
why I did it?
It's never been easy on us,
and then, when I always
have to defend our relationship,
it just makes it harder.
You start to kind of
challenge your thoughts,
and I didn't want anything to,
you know, challenge it.
And I'll accept that.
But I want you
to be fair to your family,
especially Jake and Jennifer.
Well, that's why we're here.
He was just very concerned
and worried about you,
to make sure you're making
the right decision.
Can you understand
their point of view?
I know the time
is too short, in 90 days,
for all these things,
so many things,
but...
For me, the most important thing
that makes me cry...
The most important thing for me
is the relationship of my kids.
Right.
'Cause you're all I have.
And you know...
I want my kids
to have a good relationship.
I don't want you
drifting away from your family.
And I want you and Jake to see
each other's point of view
and not be stubborn...
good relationship.
You just want me to meet
with Jake, then, one on one?
I would love that.
And, evelin,
once you get to know everyone,
you're gonna love them,
and they're gonna love you.
I think your mom
wanted the best for you.
I know
how important it is to her,
so I'm definitely gonna try
to meet with Jake
and, you know,
talk about our feelings.
All right,
we'll walk you to your car.
Yes. Please.
All right.
He might still have
some strong opinions, you know?
I guess
the worst-case scenario
is if Jake didn't support
me and evelin.
So it's gonna be a little bit
hard to talk to him.
I've realized that we don't have
a lot of alone time together.
What you guys up to?
Nic crashing my private moment
with Amy is not cool.
I am worried at times
that with all the money issues
and finances and stuff that...
Right now, everything's
pointing to, "oh, my god.
This is a disaster waiting to
blow up."
Amy!
I'm here.
Hey!
Hey.
Got you flowers.
Amy and I both agreed
that we're gonna stay abstinent,
and that's why she's living
at my brother's house,
and I've realized
that we don't have
a lot of alone time together,
and it's taking a toll
on our relationship.
When we have together time?
It's been very bombarded
with people.
It is frightening.
Is it?
So, to prove how committed I am
and to get things back on track,
we're gonna go on a date.
Aah!
Are you good?
I'm fine!
Are you fine?
Yeah.
Look at us.
Wait.
You're actually good.
Do you need me
to hold your hand?
Stop.
How do you stop?
I want to go faster.
You're speeding up.
We have very good
sexual chemistry,
so it's crazy hard
to not go past
the boundaries that we set.
Yeah, you're allowed
to hold my hand.
You're allowed to, like,
put your arm around me.
You can't touch my butt.
We made it alive.
That was really fun.
I love you.
Oh, it felt so good
being alone with Danny.
We really needed quality time,
and now the perfect ending
to this date
would just be cuddling
on the couch with Danny
and watching a movie.
Are you comfortable?
Yeah.
Here.
Are nic and Cheryl here?
Yeah.
I think they're upstairs.
Oh, okay.
Mm.
As the 90 days
get closer and shorter,
temptation is definitely
going to get stronger.
What you guys up to?
We're just watching a movie.
Do you think
I could sit here a little bit?
I mean...
If you want.
If you want.
Is that cool?
Yeah.
Okay, cool.
I guess so.
That's great.
Where are you gonna sit?
I figured right here.
I'm assuming a fatherly role.
So...
What were you guys doing
earlier today?
There's only, like,
a few weeks left
right before they get married,
and this is, like,
the danger zone.
You guys are kind of
keeping to everything, right,
that we talked about?
Yeah. Yeah.
Yeah.
Cool. Let me just
get out of your way.
Okay.
All right. I'll see you guys.
All right.
I guess it's not really
alone time here, huh?
There is some disappointment.
I want to spend alone time
with him
and kind of just walk this
journey just with him and I.
Well, it's nearly 11:00.
Nic crashing my private moment
with Amy is not cool.
I know my family means well,
but sometimes it feels like
they're getting in the way
of me and Amy.
Love you.
Until yamir gets something going
with his music career,
we're both without work
right now,
and we're working with
a really limited wedding budget.
We're interested in looking for
wedding bands and wedding rings.
Okay. We have
different cases to look in.
Okay. This one's really cool,
actually.
Do you want to try it on?
Mm!
My dream wedding
would probably be...
Rustic, like, bohemian,
and, like, natural wedding,
but not, like, too...
I'm not gonna get
too granola on anyone.
Do you have any opal?
I do really... or moonstone?
Chelsea's style is, uh...
Is that for winter?
Yeah. This is what
you're gonna need.
In Nicaragua,
it's summer every day,
but I am scared
for my first winter...
U.S.A.
See the mirror?
Can you see yourself?
I am a queen.
- No, king.
- You're a queen.
My English is...
oh!
These are
the more traditional ones.
Try that.
Mm-hmm.
That one's similar
to the one that you have.
All righty.
I don't like ring.
The old rings?
The old rings, yes.
I like new for me.
I definitely have my heart set
on a vintage ring.
But being that yamir
is a pop star,
his style is a bit flashier
than what I'm used to.
Is it okay if I get an old ring?
'Cause I see it differently.
I think every ring
has, like, a story.
So I like that about it,
and I like that it's older.
It's a new history, you and me.
Right.
It's new.
Understand?
I understand.
Mm.
And if there's nothing that...
well, if you want to get
a new ring, that's fine.
Okay.
And if I want to get
an old ring, that's fine?
I found a vintage ring
that I love.
Think that's the one?
I think it's really cool.
And yamir's
gonna get a new ring.
So I think things worked out
really well today.
But between helping yamir
become accustomed to life here
and planning a wedding
on top of that, it's crazy.
I just don't know
how we're gonna do it all.
My sister
and my cousin wanted to meet up
to discuss the wedding budget
with me.
Hey. Hi.
They know that I've had
some money troubles,
and they're concerned
about me and the girls.
Are you guys
still aiming for the 12th?
Yeah, but I think
it's just gonna turn into
more of, like,
a reception-type thing.
Issues.
Issues.
And I am worried about
how we're going to pay the bills
and stuff like that.
Once you guys get married,
I mean,
how long is it gonna take
for him to be able to work?
It just really depends how fast
we get the paperwork in,
which I've started working
on the paperwork.
But you got to pay for all this?
Mm-hmm.
- How much does that cost?
It's $1,000.
Okay, $1,000 so he can work, and
you're already behind as it is.
Mm-hmm.
Holy...
Yeah.
I'm just, like,
at a total loss now
with this whole money situation.
I mean, you got to
pay for a wedding.
That's the application fee,
monthly rent,
car payment, food, electric...
I mean...
sounds like you need
like three or four jobs.
Yeah. I mean...
Mm-hmm.
My biggest concern is, I mean...
I mean, how are you guys
gonna make it?
I don't see how
this is all going to happen.
I love him,
and I know he loves me.
It's just, I am worried at times
that with all the money issues
and finances and stuff
that he's gonna want to leave
instead of trying to work...
Yeah.
Together to figure it out.
I haven't been totally honest
with mohamed
about financial troubles.
I'm worried about how he would
react if he finds out the truth.
I want you to be happy.
I really, really do.
Everyone deserves it.
But...
I really have doubts, Danielle,
if this is it.
Mm-hmm.
I mean, just the age difference.
And, I mean,
even the culture differences.
Right now, everything's
pointing to, "oh, my god.
This is a disaster waiting to
blow up."
Mm-hmm.
By then end of the lunch,
I think she was upset with us.
Yeah.
She's upset, but I think
it's stuff she needs to hear.
Yeah.
She needs to hear...
I mean, I hate to say it.
She is my sister.
I love her.
I want her to be happy.
But you are making
a monumental mistake.
Usually, when someone
says, "this is my fiancée,"
"oh, congratulations."
Usually, that's the first thing
people say.
Never met her. Not even
a picture. Not even a mention.
Oh, look at this.
We really need to have a talk.
- It's good.
- Nice shot.
What's up, man?
What's up?
After the family reacted
the way they did towards evelin,
I was a little shocked
and disappointed,
and it was a little bit hard.
But after meeting my mom,
she definitely wanted me
to kind of reach out
to my brother, Jake,
and talk about evelin some more
so he can kind of get to
understand our relationship.
I'm not really sure
how that's gonna go.
How you feeling?
Yeah, I'm good.
I think it was a lot...
you know, a lot of stuff
at the pool party.
It went south pretty quick,
so it was just, you know...
It was kind of
a b*mb you dropped.
Yeah.
That was a little overwhelming.
Since the pool party,
we didn't talk.
I left him
a couple voicemails, texts.
No response.
Nice shot.
He needs to start
reaching out a little bit.
"I met a girl in Colombia.
"I think I'm gonna
go back to Colombia.
You know, we've been skyping."
You know?
Something, anything,
not just drop the b*mb on us.
You think we were unfair?
You know, in the beginning,
it was just disappointing,
'cause usually, when someone
says "this is my fiancée,"
"oh, congratulations."
Usually, that's the first thing
people say.
What would you say if the shoe
was on the other foot?
I would have shook your hand,
gave you a high five,
said,
"take care of my brother."
Yeah? You probably
would have known her.
You probably would have
met her before.
Never met her. Not even
a picture. Not even a mention.
I just worry about you, man.
She's coming
from another country.
She doesn't have a job.
Does that worry you?
Do you have a plan?
Um...
Does it worry me?
Sure, it does.
But I don't think
that's gonna prevent me
from wanting to get married.
I mean, I think
any marriage is hard.
I agree with that.
You know I've dated
plenty of girls.
What's different?
With evelin?
Yeah.
Oh, everything.
When we kiss, dude,
I don't know.
You've kissed
a lot of girls, man.
That's what I'm saying!
That's why I can distinguish
between a good kiss
and a bad kiss.
All right. All right.
So, I think...
She'll make me
a better man, I think.
We did open up a little bit,
and he probably didn't like
what I had to say, everything,
but he understands,
and it's just brothers.
You know, I tell him
what I feel,
and he can take it
for what it's worth.
You were dialed in, yeah.
What's next, then?
I don't know.
Let's get together
with Jen or something.
Me and evelin
can cook some dinner.
We'll give you a little taste
of Colombian flavor.
Taste of Colombia?
Yeah.
That'd be nice.
I want to know about the girl,
evelin.
Obviously, my wife is gonna have
a lot more questions
that we want to ask.
We know nothing.
Go ahead. Hit a few, man.
Getting together
with Jake and Jen,
I'm not sure
whether it's a good idea.
You know, we have to try
to create
a relationship
with evelin and my family,
but it's gonna take time.
Hi, girls.
Whatcha doing?
We sold those pez dispensers.
Huh?
My father and I
have an online business
picking up a few things
here and there
and selling them online.
All right,
I got to find 19 items.
They don't call me the king
of boxes for nothing, Cecilia.
We have to plan a wedding.
We have to make money.
So the last few days,
I've spent time at auctions,
estate sales, garage sales.
It's been mainly myself devoted
to my business.
Hey, honey.
Mm?
We're taking off.
Mm-hmm.
You need anything
while I'm gone?
Nope.
How long you gonna stay out?
We're probably gonna be
about an hour and a half,
maybe even two hours.
Mm-hmm.
Jason rather
stay working all day long,
and I don't think
it's good for him,
and it's not good
for our relationship.
Bye.
If we want to get married
and have a life together,
we have to spend
more time together.
Wait a minute.
Oh, look at this.
I think it's the...
So, I could not find anything
about sports in here.
And before I came to America,
I told Jason
no nude magazines inside the
house, and he kept this one.
I could not understand
why he had that,
so I got a little pissed off.
I'm realizing
that I don't know him yet.
I don't trust him 100%.
I'm gonna take
a look around the house.
If there's more magazines
in this house,
I'm going to find them.
Uh, no.
The most important thing
in a relationship
is to have trust
in someone you are with.
Maybe it's in here.
If you cannot trust this person,
it's hard to keep
the relationship.
When Jason gets home,
we really need to have a talk.
Who substituted you
in the concert?
Things have been
overwhelming already for Amy.
There is still something
that I need to tell her.
My dad.
Uh-huh.
I know he has concerns
about your race.
- Hey.
- Lady.
Whatcha doing?
How is franky?
What does he say
has been going on?
They had a concert?
Who substituted you
in the concert?
But is that, like, weird?
Yes, it's difficult.
Have you talked to him recently?
You're gonna message him?
Yes.
Right, you just want to know
what's going on.
You can't just be
waiting around forever.
Right.
Send.
Things have been overwhelming
already for Amy
as she's trying to get
incorporated in my family.
There is still something
that I need to tell her.
I need to talk to Amy
about my dad.
He lives in Texas.
He, um...
He's not very comfortable
with interracial marriages.
What are you doing?
How are you doing?
Good. How are you?
Good.
Oh, sick!
Cool, right?
They look really good.
I can't believe,
like, it's actually happening.
I know, right?
It kind of makes it feel real.
My dad called me today.
Mm-hmm.
Him and my mom are coming
two days before the wedding.
Oh, okay. Awesome.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So that's when I'll meet them.
Yeah, that's when
you're gonna meet them.
Two days before the wedding.
Two days before the wedding.
Okay.
Yeah.
My, um... My dad.
Uh-huh.
He hasn't really experienced,
like, interracial couples
before.
And I don't...
I don't know what
the specific things are,
but, um...
I know he has concerns
about your race.
In South Africa, there's been...
yeah, there really has been
a long of history
of segregation.
I haven't heard a lot about,
you know, race issues
in America.
I really don't know
what it's gonna be like,
being with him in person.
And so I'm quite nervous
about that.
Even if my dad,
like, doesn't accept you,
it won't change anything.
Like, I'm not gonna
break up with you.
It's not even about, like,
whether or not he accepts you.
It's about whether or not
I love you, and I do.
So I'm not gonna leave.
I guess it's just
really disappointing, you know?
Mm-hmm.
Love goes a little further
than, you know,
the color of your skin.
Yeah.
Is what matters the most.
But I don't know.
Like, we'll just have to see
when I meet him...
Mm-hmm.
How that's gonna go.
I really don't know
how I would handle it
if Danny's dad has an issue
with me marrying Danny.
I think I'll definitely be hurt
if he doesn't accept me.
You need
to explain me everything.
Why you didn't tell me
that you have problems
before I come here?
'Cause I was scared
that you wouldn't want me.
It's not about scared.
That you wouldn't want me.
You make me
lose everything there.
Before I came here,
me and Jason had a talk about
the magazines he had at home,
and I told him
I don't want them in the room.
But I found one magazine there,
and I got very pissed off.
I have only 90 days to decide
if I like living with Jason.
In his room?
Oh. Frank...
cassia: Hey!
Frank had a blow-dry.
Sit down.
No, don't bend it!
Don't bend it!
I will do whatever I want to.
Don't bend it.
If you complain more,
I will rip it off.
This was worth 10 bucks!
They're in a box somewhere.
Show me the box.
I'm a little embarrassed.
I mean, does she not trust me?
There is, somewhere around here.
I'm going to,
as soon as I organize them.
Can you put that in there?
I don't know what to say.
If she doesn't want to trust me,
that's on her.
It's going to get sold, okay?
When?
When we deal with it.
Mm-hmm.
And how long they are there?
For months?
Lying can be very...
Difficult.
I'm doing the best I can.
Oh, okay.
It's gonna get sold,
as I told you before.
I told you a million times.
But don't say it. Do it.
So, like I said,
if you just respect my property
and respect my past,
we'll have
a better relationship.
Yes.
Cassia has her reservations
over the magazines
because she can be possessive,
she can be a little jealous,
and she has to realize
that I don't need that.
I just look at it as money.
We agreed
that we're selling them,
so cassia has nothing
to worry about.
Mohamed just found out
about some past-due bills
after our cellphones
just got shut off.
Now that he knows how bad
my financial problems are,
I'm afraid he'll want to leave
to go back to Tunisia.
You need to explain me
everything so I can understand.
Why you didn't tell me
that you have problems
before I come here?
Why?
'Cause I was scared
that you wouldn't want me.
It's not about scared.
That you wouldn't want me
if you knew the truth.
What you did, it's mean.
You're lying.
It's not about scared
or not scared.
You make me
lose everything there.
I lost my job, I lost my family,
my friends... everything.
Are we gonna be able to figure
all this out before your visa?
I'm worried sometimes
that we're not gonna be able
to figure it out.
Are we gonna be able to figure
all this out before your visa?
I'm worried sometimes
that we're not gonna be able
to figure it out.
If you don't want me to leave,
you have to change
a lot of things.
If you will keep
doing like this,
sure, I will leave.
How you will pay all your bills?
How you will pay your car?
We need to trust each other.
And if you keep doing like this,
you will lose my trust.
But I'm afraid.
Why?
If we don't figure this out,
that you're gonna leave.
I'm not going to leave
'cause of the problems.
I will never leave
'cause of the problems
or 'cause we don't have money.
I will leave only if you
keep doing things by yourself,
and you don't share it
with people.
I will give her time.
She have from today
till the last day in my visa.
So...
She's the only one.
She can decide
if I will be here, or I go back.
We start from the beginning.
We forget all about
the problems,
and we start from the beginning.
Wow.
I can't believe it.
Gabriel say myla vox is over.
He says it's my fault.
Myla vox is, uh...
Finished.
I just don't understand why,
without even trying,
he's already gonna, like,
throw in the towel,
because you guys haven't even
tried to make it work.
When yamir told me that
myla vox had finally broken up,
I was just really upset.
It's hard being the person
that's making yamir
give up so much,
and that hurts.
Like, you don't want to see
the person you love,
like, go through that.
I just want you to be happy.
Next time on "90 day fiancé"...
You don't have a dress yet?
Are you crazy?
Well, I waited for you to come.
I didn't officially
propose to cassia
because I want it
to be something special.
We're gonna just see
how things work out.
Good afternoon.
Yamir has a meeting at a famous
recording studio in Chicago.
Hopefully that'll
open some doors for him.
I got to go, sweetie.
Cassidy doesn't want to have
anything to do with daya.
And that's got to be hard.
Open up!
She's been a pain in my a*s.
We're gonna elope.
So you don't want your own
family to go to the ceremony?
Right.
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