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03x01 - Departures and Arrivals

Episode transcripts for the TV show, "90 Day Fiancé". Aired: January 12, 2014 – present.*
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Show is based on the K-1 visa process.

03x01 - Departures and Arrivals

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Hello!

- I met devar on vacation.
- He was working as a lifeguard.

We had unbelievable chemistry.

Nikki is young.

She is 19, and I am 58.

She's never been to
the United States,

and she's leaving everything
she's known to be with me.

This is a life-changing moment.

This is it, and I can't wait
to see him walk out those doors.

Oh, my god!

The moment I landed in America,
whoa!

America...
everything is new for me.

Before I met aleksandra, her
lifestyle was a lot different.

It concerned me, 'cause
you didn't want your
future daughter-in-law

to be a go-go dancer.

This is my fiancée, Nikki.

Hi.

She could be your daughter.

She probably could be
my granddaughter.

If I don't get married,
in 90 days,

she's back to Colombia,
and this is over.

It's gonna be very different
coming to a very small town

to be a father figure.

You're not gonna hook up
with him

just so you can get a free pass
to America, are you?


in the United States,

and you had to import someone?

How does she know
you're not sleeping with women

every other day?

That's the day
I met my ex-wife.

I can't believe it.
I can't.

I don't know what I'm gonna do.

If anybody deserves to be happy
and together, it's us.
I'm loren.
I live in New York City.

I'm an executive assistant.

You know what? I'm not
in the office in right now.

I'm gonna have to call you
when I get to the office.

I have
that fast-paced lifestyle.

I have no filter.

I'm very outgoing
and very bubbly.

Growing up,
my parents spoiled me.

I was their princess.

I still am their princess.

I love shopping
more than anything.

I may even love it
more than my fiancé.

I'm engaged
to a wonderful man... alexei...

who's coming to America
from Israel.

Birthright is a free 10-day trip
for Jewish people

to go to Israel
to tour the country.

And I went
a year and a half ago,

and he was the medic on my trip.

It was not love at first sight.

It was definitely

"I'm gonna hook up with you"
at first sight.

You playing with my bra?

What?

Mnh-mnh, he won me over.

I don't know what he did.
He's just wonderful.

Got alexei cooking.

Hello.

He is 6'4",
chiseled, and handsome.

And even though he's just,
mm, delicious,

he is probably the best person
I've ever met.

The night
I was going back to New York,

he goes, "so I'm gonna
get on my knee now."

And he, like, pulled this
Michael jackson/james brown move

and, like, swerved down,
and he had the ring in his hand.

I cried like a baby,
and I was like, "of course."

And so we applied
for a fiancé visa.

He would come to America.
We have 90 days to get married.

It's gonna be hard
when he gets here

because alexei can't work
during the 90-day process.

And I couldn't afford
a lifestyle for both of us

in New York,

so I am moving back home
with my parents

to their three-bedroom condo
in Florida.

Should be interesting.

Hi, baby.

Hi, baby.

How are you?

I miss you.

This visa process is
just taking forever.

Alexei hasn't gotten approved
for his k-1 visa yet.

He has not been allowed
to come to America.

And I think it's important
that now that we're engaged,

he needs to meet my family.

So we're all meeting in Canada
'cause he can fly there.

My parents are flying up.
He is flying out.

I'm flying up.

We have to fly to another
country just to see each other.

But that's why you love me!

Oh, so delicious.

You're meeting my parents.
I mean, I'm just...

I'm a little nervous that
we're moving in with them

and you're meeting them
for the first time.

Mm-hmm.

It's going to be chaotic
and stressful,

and I'm a little overwhelmed.

I don't think the reality is
gonna set in until he gets here,

and it really scares me.

What if he decides
he hates America

right before the wedding?

I don't want to lose him.

I'm so nervous!

We're doing it.

Oh, my god.

It's crazy.

I am mark, and I'm from
Baltimore, Maryland.

I'm 58, and I have
my own company, fleet of pianos,

that I rent out
for major events.

My daily routine
is to paint life happy.

When I get out of bed,

the first thing I do
is look in the mirror,

and I always say,
"you're a specimen!"

I tend to be happy
within my own space,

and I don't need a lot of people
around me.

I have to make more popcorn.


I actually met my ex-wife

and brought her here
on a k-1 visa.

She was Filipino, from cebu.

We had four children.
She changed radically.

She no longer wanted to
be a primary caregiver.

She wanted her independence,
and she wasn't happy.

So we were separated,

and I got left raising
four children in diapers.

I needed some time
to sort things out.

So for the last


I've been raising my family.

But now I have an empty house,

and I'm ready
to start a new chapter.

I met Nikki first online
through a free dating site.

Nikki lives on the outskirts
of cebu city in the Philippines,

which is where my ex-wife
is from.

Nikki is young.
She is 19.

Young, young, young!

In the Philippines, they think
in marriage as a team,

and there's not the tug-of-w*r

that you find
in American relationships.

I love that.

After talking online,

I told Nikki I was planning
a trip to the Philippines.

She wanted to meet me
at the airport.

We had magic.

Magic! I mean,
it was unbelievable chemistry.

Two days after I met Nikki,
I was taking my bag down,

and there was a used zip tie.

I don't know.
Something just overcame me.

I got down on my left knee,
and I asked her to marry me.

And I put the zip tie
on her finger,

and that zip tie's still there.

Hi, Nikki.

Hi.

I applied for the k-1 visa,

and Nikki is arriving
in a few days.

Hi, Nikki!
How are you?

I'm good.

That's nice to hear!

So are you excited?

I am excited!

We have to get married
within 90 days.

I am most certainly nervous
in Nikki meeting my family.

She is younger than my children.

The fact that there is an
age difference may be offensive

to some of them,
like my daughter.

I can't tell you how much I'm
looking forward to seeing you,

Nikki.

And I want you standing
right here in the kitchen,

and we can cook together.

Well...

Will you be happy here?

You don't think
you'll get bored?

There's a lot of little,
unanswered questions.

Nikki has not expressed to me
any real game plan

except that she wishes
to be in my life.

I know you're gonna be happy,
Nikki, but I worry.

I promise to protect you,
to provide for you,

and most of all, Nikki,
I promise to love you.

Bye.

My name is Josh,
and I'm from rexburg, Idaho,

and I'm 22 years old.

Aw, man.

Rexburg is a great town.

It's almost completely mormon.

Are you guys ready?

I'm almost ready.
I'm gonna go put my shirt on.

I have a really big family.

I have seven brothers
and one sister.

Everybody in the car.
Let's go to church.

Right now in the house,
there's a lot of people

because it's summer and we all
have a break from school.

Being mormon, it kind of sets me
apart from different people

because I don't drink or smoke,

and we don't believe
in premarital sex.

I'm glad I waited because I
found my true love, aleksandra.

Aleksandra and me met
in Prague, Czech Republic.

Then I was a missionary for
the church of Jesus Christ.

We were outside in
a cold wintry day,

and it just so happened

that that day
was the day we met aleksandra.

Aleksandra is Russian,

but she moved to Prague to study
in the university there.

As a missionary,

it's not allowed to date girls
on your mission.

And so when I met aleksandra,
I wasn't allowed to be like,

"oh, we're gonna teach you
about god,

and then tonight,
can we go on a date?"

So it wasn't
until the end of my mission

where I could start to date her.

I love everything
about aleksandra.

Like, her eyes, her smile,
everything.

She's the perfect girl.

I knew I wanted to
be with aleksandra forever,

and so I asked her to marry me.

She said yes.
It was awesome.

Before I met aleksandra,

her lifestyle
was a lot different.

She was not living, like,
the mormon-esque lifestyle

that... like I had lived
in rexburg, Idaho.

¶ Dance all night
in the lonely sky ¶

she also worked as a dancer,
too, in a club.

She was around alcohol
and smoking and the drugs

that go on in the club.

And I think it was really
difficult for her to change.

I'm sure there's things
that aleksandra misses

in her past life,

but she made a promise with god
that she'll live differently.

And that's what means the most
for me that she's changed.

Hello!

Aleksandra's coming in a week,

and once she gets here,
we have 90 days to get married.

I can't wait to see aleksandra!

How are you doing?

How's your day going today?

Packing your bags?
Wow.

Are you ready?

No.

Were you able to say goodbye
to everybody?

So what do you think
about being in a...

here with, like, my big family?

Good.

Oh.
The perfect answer.

Yeah.

I love you so much, and I can't
wait to see you so soon.

See you soon!

Knowing that aleksandra
changed her whole life for me

is, like... it's a big feeling.

And knowing that she's making
a bigger commitment

by, of course, being with me,
it means it lot.

I feel a lot of pressure.

I'd like to help aleksandra
be happy in America.

I met devar when
I was on vacation in Jamaica.

Oh, my god.

I think the hardest adjustment
for devar

is going to be just being
the father figure

for my son, hunter.

Devar, you're talking to
an 11-year-old child.

Oh, I got you.

You're meeting him!
Oh, my god!

I... I... I don't know.
Wow.

You know, I still have
some reservations on it.

My name is Melanie.

I live in orwigsburg,
Pennsylvania,

and I'm 33 years old.

I'm a registered nurse,
and I work out every day.

My job could be stressful
at times

so going for, like, a five-
or six-mile run afterwards,

it's a great feeling to have.

Good?
Yep.

On the weekends,
I have my son, hunter.

So I'm usually spending time
with him.

Want to race?
Yeah!

Hunter is 11 years old.

When I was 21, I got married,

and then when I was 26,
we got divorced.

You're on a bike.
I quit!

I love my mom.

Every kid wants to
be with their mom.

Hunter is my priority,

and when devar gets here,
that is not going to change.

I met devar when I was
on vacation in Jamaica.

My friends and I
were hanging out on the beach,

and he was swimming.

He was working as a lifeguard,

and as he was coming out
of the water,

I noticed
he was very physically fit.

If you look at him,
you'll see that.

¶ Whoa, it feels this good ¶

oh, my god.

I asked him
if he would accompany me

the next morning for a run.

Doing a five-mile run
this morning.

We ended up spending every day
together after that point.

Going on vacation,

I never expected
to meet the man of my dreams.

But I did, and now
we're going to get married.

Devar and I
spent about 20 days together

before he proposed to me.

Cheers.

And I said yes.

My friends were shocked that
he proposed to me so quickly.

It's just
such a short amount of time

to be jumping in so soon
to this.

"How do you really know him?

How do you know
what he's all about?"

But it's my life,
and I'm gonna do what I want.

We decided to apply
for the k-1 visa,

and within two weeks' time,
devar will be here.

This will be the very first time

that devar is here
in the United States.

For the most part, devar's life

was hanging out on the beach
with his friends.

He is always
the life of the party.

So it's going to be very
different for him coming here

to a very small town,
a very small county

to be a father figure
for hunter.

Oh, here he comes.

Hey, hunter.
How are you doing, buddy?


Good.
How are you?

I'm doing excellent.

Hunter has only spoken to devar
on facetime or Skype.

He's never had physical contact
with him.

I'll go for a 0.2-mile run.

He's very athletic,

so I can show him how to play,
like, hockey, like, basketball.

We can kick the soccer ball,
like, in the yard or something.

I can't wait.

I think the hardest adjustment
for devar

is going to be just being viewed
as the father figure.

Yeah, my birthday is on Sunday.

Hey, what do you do
for birthdays in Jamaica?

Let me tell you all about it.

We get flour, eggs, and water.

What?

Devar, you're talking to
an 11-year-old child,

just so you know that,
right? Correct?

Oh, I got you.

My biggest concern
with hunter and devar

is that they both like each
other and they both get along.

I can't wait
for you to come here.

In the next 90 days,
if something would happen

that was traumatic to hunter
with devar being here,

that would be a deal breaker,
I guess,

to say that you're gonna go back
to Jamaica.

We'll see.

I miss ya.
I'll see you later.

All right, babe.
Bye-bye.

Ciao-ciao.

Say a prayer?

Do you want to say the prayer?

Amen.

And bless the food.

Aleksandra...
she's arriving next week,

so I'm super excited but nervous

because I want my family to
love her as much as I love her.

I'm from a really big family,

and she's been living alone
for three years

because she was going to school.

And what should we say
when we greet aleksandra?

What's the words we should say
in Russian?

Or should we say it in Czech?

Was she your favorite convert?

Of course.

You think of meeting some
random stranger on the street

and somebody's like, "oh,
you want to learn about god?"

Your first reaction
would probably be like,

"no way, José."

But she gave us time to talk,

and we told her, like, the book
of mormon had changed our lives.

If she read it,
it would change her life, too.

She was like, "oh, I've been
wanting to change my life."

So she did.

So have you noticed a change
in her over time?

A lot.

I think the way for her
growing up

was, like, I don't know,
to be popular

and, like, just to have fun
and do what you want.

In Russia, you know, it's vodka

and going to the club
and dancing.

So that's sort of how
she lived her life.

She had to give up clubs
and also alcohol.

I think those were
the two biggest for her.

When I first heard that Josh
was talking to the young lady

in Prague... aleksandra...
it sort of concerned me

'cause you didn't want
your future daughter-in-law

to be a go-go dancer and drinks
and get drunk and, you know?

In our church, we believe
that you're married forever.

You want to marry
the right person

'cause it's not
just for a few years.

It's forever.

My parents met aleksandra
in Prague,

but she spoke
barely any English.

And so this time
when she's in America,

I hope
that she can get to know them.

Ever since the day when she
became mormon and was baptized,

she's lived her life
differently,

and that's what matters most
for me.

I hope aleksandra
will be able to fit in

and show my parents
how much she's changed.

Alexei hasn't gotten approved
for his k-1 visa yet,

and it's really important
that alexei meets my family.

So we're all meeting in Canada,
and he gets in tomorrow.

I'm about to see my parents.

It's really important
that I speak with them
before he gets here.

Look at the traffic, yeah.

And what a view.

There she is!
Never mind. Never mind.

Baby girl!

Hi, mom!

You look good.
Mwah!

Beautiful.
Hello.

I want them to be happy for us

and support us
in everything that we do

because our relationship is not
like a normal relationship.

I cannot believe that
you're engaged, number one...

Who ever thought I'd be engaged?

And to someone
we haven't even met physically.

I can't believe he's on a plane
right now to come see us!

Like, you're meeting him!
Oh, my god!

I... I... I don't know.

Wow.

You know, I still have
some reservations on it.

You've been 12,000 miles apart.
That's not like this.

I know.

I mean, yes, you talk
every single day.

But that's not being together.

I'm nervous.

I'm not gonna sit here and
tell you that I'm not scared.


in the United States,

and you had to import someone?

I still have some reservations
on it.


in the United States,

and you had to import someone?

People have said to me
over and over again,

"why did you have to
find somebody in Israel?"

And my answer every time is,
"yes.

There are millions of people
in America,

but there's one alexei."

And when you fall in love,
that's it.

I love you.
I want you to be happy.

And he makes me happy.

You love of him.
I got it. I can see that.

But I don't know him yet.
Is he in love with you?

I mean...

He better be!

My first thought was that
he wanted a green card.

And he has to prove to me
that he's in love with you.

I have a lot of concerns.

My big concern is
he's going to break her heart.

In which case,
I'm gonna break him.

What's the status of
the visa at this point?

Well, we could find out
by the end of the month

if we're approved.

It's frustrating, and it is
hard, and it is scary.

And I want to get approved
because I miss him,

and I want to be with him!

I don't know if
I'm going to be approved or not.

I don't know if,
after this trip,

this is the last time
we're gonna see each other.

Sweetheart.

I really do miss him.

So you gonna take me for a ride?

Oh, wow.
M.C., great to see you.

My sister from Colorado
has flown into town,

and she's coming over to talk
to me about my plans with Nikki.

Oh, the water's really nice.
It's pretty warm.

Yes, it's very, very warm.

My brother's had an incredibly
hard time raising kids

and trying to do what's right
for his family.

And he was stretched
pretty thin.

So I think now he's looking
for happiness just for him.

I think it's his turn.

What made you decide
that Nikki was the one?

She's very pretty inside,
and she's as pretty outside.

I love everything about her.

But it's kind of awkward

because, you know,
my children...

I didn't mean to meet someone
younger than my children.

I don't see Nikki with an age.

I believe
that if you can find happiness

with a consenting adult,

that there's no explanations
needed.

How is Nikki coming over?

So is it like a visa
where you work,

or are you...
you are responsible for her?

No, it's the same thing I did
for my ex-wife.

Is that a marriage thing?

It's a k-1,
so it's a fiancée visa.

She gets here,
she's got 90 days.

Well, what if you don't want to
marry her after the 90 days?

Then, so be it.

Are you scared, though,
that you've already done this

and it didn't work

and you're doing the same kind
of arrangement again?

You loved her, too.

My ex-wife, she changed.
She wasn't happy.

She felt that if I wasn't
spending money on her

that I didn't love her.

Do you ever think
that she sees you as somebody

who is so ready
to have a romance

and have a partner
that she can suck you into this

and then dump you
when she gets what she wants

and live in this country?

The way you're thinking
sets yourself up for a
possibility of failure.

Love hath no guarantee.

Yeah, I know that.
But it's a big bite.

Only Nikki knows
what's in Nikki's brain.

I mean,
I hope for my brother's sake

that she is genuine
and that she doesn't hurt him.

I'm looking at this relationship
a little differently.

I'm going to cherish
every moment

that I get to spend with Nikki.

And if it ends and it's over,

I'm gonna be happy with the time
that I spent with her.

And it's that simple.

My sister had concerns,

but I hope that history
does not repeat itself

and I have a wonderful
relationship with Nikki.

I'm a little concerned about
how people will react to devar.

Do you think maybe
he's just here

because he wanted a free ride?

We are definitely gonna be
the talk of the town.

I can't wait to see aleksandra.

We're ready to go.

I think the nervousness is
outweighing the excitement.

What are you guys hungry for?

I don't know.
I don't know.

I'm too excited to eat 'cause
I can't wait to go see devar.

Tonight I'm going to have dinner
with two of my good friends

Jen and krista because I'm
leaving for Jamaica in two days

to go pick up devar.

Cheers, girls!

So are you ready?

Your entire life
is getting ready to change.

Well, I'm a little nervous
because I have no dress.

We have no rings, no cake.

As soon as he steps foot
on American soil,

you guys have 90 days
to get married?

Correct.
That's, like, quick.

Mm-hmm.

I'm hoping that's enough time,

but it's gonna be pushing it.
It really is.

I mean, are you concerned,

like, to see someone,
if they're like,

"oh, well, I think he's just,
you know,

here for a green card?"

Yeah, what if?

I'm a little concerned about
how people will react to him

just because he is Jamaican

and he is coming here to a very
small town, a very small county.

But, like, how would you react
if, like, you're out

and somebody's like,
"ugh, ew. Look at that"

and, like, makes a comment?

Black man and white woman.

I know.

So you brought him here
from Jamaica.

Well, do you think
maybe he's just here

because he wanted a free ride?

I think that everyone's
going to have their opinion.

But at the end of the day,
it's my decision,

and I have to live with it.

When my family
and friends found out

that I was going to marry devar,

they were very apprehensive
of me doing that.

It's our relationship,
and we're happy.

And, I mean,
we're just two normal people

in a relationship
that are going to get married.

People who've never met him,

never spoke to him,
never seen him,

they are going to be
a little bit judgmental.

And, obviously,
they're gonna have doubts as to,

"is it strictly for a green card
so he can just get to America?"

Now, you know,
you talk all the time,

you facetime,
you go back and forth,

but are you nervous about,
like, now you're, like,

living together every day?
Yeah.

'Cause the most time
we spent together was 10 days.

Mm.

I'm hoping
everything goes smooth

and, you know, the wedding
happens and he's happy and...

We will be there for you

whether everything turns out
like hearts and rainbows

or everything doesn't go well.

Thank you.

You guys are gonna be
like my cheerleaders, then.

Cheers, girls!

Cheers!

Thank you for being such
good friends. I love yous.

We love ya.

Okay, got everything?

Yep.

Here's your sign.

Ooh!

I'm really excited
to head to the airport

to pick up aleksandra.

She's coming soon.

I think the nervousness is
outweighing the excitement.

I can't wait to see aleksandra!

My heart just, like,
jumped out of my body.

I can't wait to see aleksandra!

My heart just, like,
jumped out of my body.

My name is aleksandra.

I'm from Russia,
and I'm 21 years old.

Can't believe you're here.

Me too!

All the stress of, like,
waiting for her to come

just melted away.

And I could just see her.

Here, I'll get it.

There it is.

I know it was really hard
for her to come here to America.

And I know she's leaving
a lot of things she loves.

Like, knowing
that she'll be comfortable here

and that she'll be happy here,

it's just, like, what I dream of

and what I pray for every night

because, I don't know,
that's my biggest worry.

I don't know.
I want her to be happy.

I am.

Good.

Don't make me cry.

Devar was finally approved
for the k-1 visa,

so tonight I'm gonna leave
for Jamaica,

and I'm going to bring him home
with me.

That is the best feeling
in the world.

Hey, babe, how are ya?

Hey, sweetheart.
I'm doing excellent myself.


And how are you doing?

I'm good.
I'm packing.

I'm leaving here in a few
minutes, going to the airport.

I can't wait to see you.

Oh, my god.
I miss you.

Mm-hmm.

What do you think about
the lemon bikini?

It is just perfect.

Would be a bit better when
I see you in it, by the way.


Ooh!

Oh, yeah, I know.

So how you feeling?

Are you nervous about
coming here, leaving Jamaica?

I am a little bit nervous.

It's my first time
out of the country,


moving into a new home.

Devar has lived with his sisters
his entire life.

He was kind of
the man of the house.

They're gonna miss you.

Indeed.

I'm gonna miss them,
too, you know?


His family is going to have to
make up for it financially.

So that's going to be hard
for them when he does leave.

Are you nervous
about meeting my family?

Oh, yeah.
I'm a little bit nervous.


It's always a challenging part.

When I told them
that we got engaged,

my family, they were surprised.

Their concern was just
that it was so soon.

You know, why can't I find
someone here in America,

that devar is in it
for a green card.

But I really don't think that
he is just getting a green card.

- All right, babe. Bye-bye.
- Mwah!

Everything building up
to this moment,

almost felt like
it was never going to happen.

To actually be flying there
for the last time,

knowing that you're not going to
have to wait anymore,

it's exciting.

But at the same time,
I'm very anxious

that we are gonna have
a lot of things going on

in the next 90 days.

He is landing
literally any second.

If he doesn't
get through customs,

that'll be a serious issue.

Don't think of her
as your stepmom.

Kind of is.
No, she isn't.

You're bringing someone into
our lives that I've never met,

and you expect us
just to get along?

Alexei and I've applied
for a k-1 fiancé visa.

He has not been allowed
to come to America yet,

so we've decided
to meet in Canada.

We are at the airport
to pick up alexei.

He is landing
literally any second.

Holy cow, it's here!

If he doesn't
get through customs,

that'll be a serious issue.

Because I am right here waiting.

Oh, my god.

Hi!

¶ I'm gonna look
into your heart ¶

¶ and find my way ¶

it was the best feeling
in the world

seeing him
walk out of that gate.

Oh, my god.

My name is alexei.

I just traveled like 13 hours
to get to Canada.

You're here!

I'm obviously exhausted
from the long travel,

but I'm very excited
to see loren finally.

Oh, my god!

¶ Just like a razor ¶

¶ cut through me
just like a stranger ¶

yeah.

Now we're going to
see my parents.

Yes.
Oh, boy.

Oh, boy.

You excited?
I am excited.

Are you nervous?
I'm excited. I'm nervous.

I'm everything.

You're here!

It's really important for alexei
to meet my parents.

This is his future family.

The biggest fear I have is
that they are going to judge us,

and I'm really scared
that he's not gonna like them.

Oh, my god.

I need a Xanax.

Nikki is arriving tomorrow,
and I have a little concern

about how my daughter elise
will get on with Nikki.

I made it clear to elise
that I expect my privacy.

So I insisted that it was time

for her
to move into the guest house.

Hi, elise.
Hello.

How are you?

I'm great.
It looks like you're cleaning.

I am still cleaning.

Nikki shows up Thursday.

So you and Nikki
will have a lot in common,

and it's important to me

that you at least
are cordial with her.

Try to be friends. don't think
of her as your stepmom.

Kind of is.
No, she isn't.

Think of her as a friend.
Just think of her as a friend.

So, anyway,
why don't we go upstairs

and look at the changes
I've made?

So she's getting her own room?

Well, it's her choice.
It's up to her.

Basically, I moved the bed
from the little house

to this guest room upstairs.

I don't think she's gonna stay
in this room.

I don't think so, either.

I feel like
that's a little weird.

She always enjoyed my company
and being next to me.

Do you ever worry
that you're just her,

like, easy way out
of the Philippines?

Or...

Well, you can look at it...

I think any relationship
has its pros and cons.

If we can share happiness,
that's enough for me.

Hold on a second.

Let me get a couple things.

I'm happy that he found someone
he's happy with,

but it might not be
what I consider to be love.

These clothes, you know,
they weren't good to you,

and then I cleaned them up.

My clothes?

This has her name all...

then you can find something...
can she try it on?

No.

Because I don't want her
wearing my clothes.

It's really weird.

It's just the boundary. Yeah.
I respect that.

I respect that.
I respect that.

Why don't you have a seat
over here?

So is there a reason why
you didn't tell any of us
that you were engaged?

I did!
I put it on Facebook!

That doesn't mean you told us!

You're bringing someone into
our lives that I've never met,

and you expect us
just to get along?

I understand it's awkward,
because you said,

"I don't care who you date, dad,

as long as she's not younger
than I am."

She could be your daughter.

And she probably could be
my granddaughter.

I feel like you should
have problems with that.

You find it a little awkward
that she's into me.

You got to admit she hit it big!

She doesn't have to work, ever.

If she wants want to work...

But she doesn't have to.

Like, if me and Nikki don't get
along and I need to come over,

is she going to tell my dad
that I can't?

She basically has control
of all of that,

and that's kind of scary.

I don't think I'll ever see her
as my friend.

I understand that, to you,
this seems a little awkward.

It's very awkward.

I'm hoping it all works out.

It is very important
that my daughter and Nikki

are at least cordial.

Want to go to the airport
and pick her up with me?

No, I don't.
I'm not ready.

You're not ready?
I'm not.

This season on
"90 day fiancé"...

This is it!

She's leaving everything
she's known to be with me.

Are you ready for this?

Melanie
living in Jamaica, compared to
Pennsylvania, is very different.

Bars up.

When alexei comes here,
he should be a model.

What's this?

I had bought the same car
for my ex-wife.

You don't feel sure about me,
or you don't feel sure about us?

About you.

Girls, try to think of something
to say.

It kind of hit me
that she's actually 19.

It's weird
that she's, like, my stepmom.

Why are you so angry at me?

Because I was disrespected
like that.

Are we still getting married
in three weeks?

I looked at flights.
I looked at going back home.

You're sitting here saying
that you're gonna send money

back regularly to your sisters
in Jamaica.

Oh, yeah.

I have 90 days to decide
if I want to get married or not.

I have tried everything
to avoid this.

I absolutely do not trust devar.

My first concern was that
he was coming here to America

to use my sister.

I don't know where
the relationship is going,

and the clock keeps ticking.

So messed up how hard it is
just to be together.

Oh, my god.