Previously on "90 day fiancé"...
Going on vacation,
I never expected
to meet the man of my dreams.
And now we're gonna get married.
The hardest adjustment for devar
is going to be just being viewed
as the father figure.
Our relationship
is not a normal relationship.
We have 90 days to get married.
in the United States,
and you had to import someone?
It was really hard for her
to come here to America,
and she's leaving
a lot of things she loves.
In Russia, you know, it's vodka,
going to the club, and dancing.
You didn't want
your future daughter-in-law
to be
a go-go dancer.
You're bringing someone
into our lives
that I've never met,
and you expect us
just to get along?
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And coming up...
I would be very upset
if she got her heart broken.
So tell us
about Russian weddings.
Aleksandra's saying
how Russian weddings,
it's a big, drunk party.
People don't do that in rexburg
as mormons.
I am nervous about him meeting
my friends, my family, my son.
- Are you nervous?
- Mm-hmm.
You're putting fingerprints
on my windows?
Nikki, you're messing...
ni... Nikki!
Never touch the window.
Standing there at the gate
waiting for her,
my heart is racing.
oh, my gosh.
- I have to wake up.
- You do need to wake up...
- Good face.
- Because we're here.
Good face.
Alexei hasn't gotten
approved for his k-1 visa yet,
and he has not been allowed
to come to America.
So we're in Toronto
'cause he can go there.
So I flew up from New York.
My parents flew up from Florida
so they can met each other.
Kiss.
You got this.
- Love you.
- I love you, too.
All right, sweetie.
- We're here.
- We're here.
It's really important
for alexei to meet my parents.
This is his future family.
- Let's go.
- Let's do it.
Ready?
Take my bag.
It's okay, I got it.
Don't worry.
Please.
The biggest fear I have is that
they're gonna judge us,
and I'm really scared
that he's not gonna like them.
- Oh, my god.
- Oh, my god!
Oh, my god!
- Hi!
- Oh, my god!
Oh, my god!
Oh, my god!
Oh, my god!
I can't believe it.
- Hi, mom.
- Hello!
- What's going on?
- Nice to meet you.
Oh, I can't believe it.
Look at this.
She comes up to his chest.
Oh, my god.
Perfect fit.
I can't even.
I can't even believe
that we're sitting here.
Yeah.
You just flew
halfway around the world...
- Yeah.
- For her.
Are you crazy?
I am, I guess I am.
Crazy.
- Crazy in love?
- Yeah.
She did it for me.
Loren's dad is
very forward, very funny,
and already,
I can see that he loves her.
- Oh, how beautiful.
- Oh, wow. Nice.
I have the utmost respect
for both of you
for building this relationship,
you know, long-distance,
not just on physicality.
- But you have to understand...
- Yes.
We've never lived
with each other,
which that in itself
is gonna be a challenge.
Well, that's a concern.
I mean, the two of you
are trying to live together,
but with the extra strain
of living with us.
The thought of you hitting
the ground in the United States,
then you have 90 days
to decide that you're
going through with this or not.
How do you feel
about that pressure?
- That's only three months.
- It's only three months.
- It'd be longer?
- Yeah.
Like, it would...
you'd have more time?
Yeah.
Of course, I have concerns.
- I want to hear them.
- Anything can happen.
- I want to hear your concerns.
- Whatever can happen.
We have to see
when we get there.
We might not get along
or whatever.
Everything can happen.
- You're leaving everything...
- Everything.
You know and love, and everyone.
I know, yeah.
What happens when that sets in
and you... Get homesick?
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I don't know.
My concern
is that down the road,
you resent her for...
- No.
- For you being here.
I mean, my mind is clear.
I know what I'm doing.
I know that it's my decision.
Whatever I decide to do,
it's mine, so...
I would be very upset
if she got her heart broken.
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It's the day that I pick Nikki
up at the airport.
I can't really explain
what's going through me.
This is the happiest day
of my life.
I mean, I'm crying, but it's
the happiest day of my life.
Oh.
I hope that I can make
this day special,
as I hope I can make
every day special.
Nikki being at the gate
at the airport
just gives me goosebumps.
I was married before,
to a woman from the Philippines
on a k-1 visa.
And shortly after we moved here,
she changed radically,
radically.
And so, I got left raising
four children in diapers.
I think my family has worries
about the age difference
and the fact that I could be
repeating my past,
but Nikki and my ex-wife
are extremely different.
I knew the second I met Nikki
that she was the right one
for me.
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My name is Nikki.
I'm 19, from Philippines,
cebu city.
I'm excited.
The next 90 days
will be wonderful.
I feel super-duper happy,
and I feel super-duper complete.
Yeah.
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Oh, so nice.
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Yeah!
- See that?
- There's an open car.
- Cool.
- Called a convertible.
Nice houses.
Beautiful.
You're putting fingerprints
on my windows?
Oh, it's not allowed?
It's not allowed, no.
That was one of the rules
when my children were...
Really?
Never touch the window
'cause it's...
So I'm not allowed
to touch the window?
You don't touch the window.
You don't touch the window
'cause you have to
clean them, then.
You're making trouble.
Do you want me
to be happy, Nikki?
Do you... Nikki,
you're messing...
ni... Nikki!
You're messing
with my happiness.
Oh, I can wipe it off
with my clothes.
No, no, no.
We'll get you a towel
to wipe it, okay?
Huh?
You're weird.
I know.
- You're always weird, baby.
- I'm always weird.
That's why I love you so much.
Thank you for that.
You're welcome for that.
I think that as time goes on
that I'm going to see that Nikki
isn't as well-rounded,
maybe, and not...
You know, a little immature.
I'm hoping that we can,
you know,
get through those issues.
Do you think you'll feel like
you're at home?
I don't know yet.
Maybe.
I don't know anybody
here in America.
It's really important to me
that his family and me
get along well.
Oh, it's tomorrow
I'm going to meet elise.
My daughter elise
is dragging her feet,
and I want her to be cordial
and I want you to be
the best of friends.
For the last 20 years,
I was a single dad.
That's why I really,
truly hope that my daughter
and Nikki get along.
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Noon has never been
to the United States.
This is not the nicest house
we could be bringing her into.
You think it looks good enough
in here?
This is, like,
the cleanest I've seen it.
You've got some work to do, man.
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So tell us
about Russian weddings.
Aleksandra's saying
how Russian weddings,
it's a big, drunk party.
We don't do that in rexburg.
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My name is Kyle.
I'm 28 years old.
I'm a bartender in new Orleans,
Louisiana, on bourbon street.
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Bourbon street is a crazy place.
Yeah!
Girls flashing,
a lot of drunk people.
There's always something
going on.
Good evening, ladies.
Being a bartender,
you have to be a people person,
very outgoing.
- Nice to meet you ladies.
- Nice to meet you.
I have to make you feel special
if I want to bring home
the cash.
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I live the lifestyle
of a bachelor.
I live with my best friend.
Oh, gosh.
Our place is messy,
but we are two dudes.
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But noon coming here,
it's time to transition fully
into the man
that she's gonna need.
I met noon on social media
while researching things to do
in Thailand.
And she agreed to show me
some places around Bangkok.
Immediately, we had chemistry.
Noon is my love.
She's spontaneous,
and she's sweet.
After my first trip to Thailand
and spending time with noon,
I knew from then on that we
needed to be together, always.
I asked noon to move to America
with me.
She said yes,
and I was very, very happy.
Noon has never been
to the United States.
She doesn't know anybody here,
and she's leaving everything
behind in Thailand
to come here and be with me.
I'm worried that noon
will have a hard time
adjusting to new Orleans.
She's not gonna be used to
the way we do things in America.
I have so much to do.
There's a lot
that noon doesn't know about me.
She doesn't know how I live,
the nature of my work,
what it's like here.
But certain things you can only
figure out by living together,
so she's gonna be
learning a lot soon.
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What's up, Bryan?
Yo, dude.
What's up, man?
Are you getting stoked
for noon to come, or what?
Yeah, you know it.
I mean,
what are you thinking, like...
First thing I'm thinking is
I better clean this house up...
- Yeah.
- Because it's nasty.
It's pretty dirty
right now, huh?
- All these roaches in here, man.
- Yeah.
What do you think
she's gonna think about that?
I don't know, dude.
This is not the nicest house
we could be bringing her into.
The lack of privacy is gonna
make things very interesting
because the house
is shotgun-style.
If my roommate wants to leave,
he's got to
come through my room.
And if I want to go
to the kitchen, I have
to go to his room.
And Bryan likes
to walk around sometimes
in a less-than-normal amount
of clothes,
so he'll have to change that
a little bit.
You can't be walking
around here with your
hanging out all the time.
All right.
I'll try to keep it under wraps.
What do you think
we should plan out
when it's time
to go to pound town?
You know you'll just come
in there and be like,
"Bryan, don't come in my room
because it's going down, so..."
All right.
Cool.
I'll keep my...
yeah, yeah.
The question is, are you ready
to marry noon in 90 days
and start a life out here?
What do you think, dude?
- Would you be nervous if...
- I mean...
your lady was coming from
across the world and you...
- Yeah, I'd be...
- Had to get married?
Hella nervous.
So you're nervous,
that's what you're saying?
Yeah, of course, man.
Kyle has to grow up
and take care of his woman.
It's definitely
a bachelors' pad.
Now this is gonna be
changing a little bit.
You think it looks good enough
in here?
This is, like,
the cleanest I've seen it.
I don't know.
You got some work to do, man.
It's not my wife that's coming.
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What are the differences
between, like, where you're from
and where I'm from?
Aleksandra just got here
in rexburg.
She left behind a lot.
She left behind her friends,
her family,
and, like, the beautiful city
of Prague and dancing,
so it's a lot.
Let me see if grandma's here.
As a mormon couple,
we are waiting until marriage
until we have sex.
- There's grandma.
- Oh!
And so we're living separately.
Aleksandra will be staying
at my grandma's house,
which is just behind my house.
Hi!
Good, and you?
- Long, hard trip.
- Oh, yeah.
That's true.
I bet.
Okay.
You know where
to take the luggage, so...
- Yeah.
- You can move down.
We try to keep our young people
virtuous.
And so she's gonna stay with me
until after she's married,
and Josh will stay at his house.
Here you go.
Oh, wow!
And I have a curfew at 11:00,
so she'll be in at 11:00
every night.
Come see this picture.
- This is from Russia.
- Yep.
Aleksandra's birthday
was two weeks before she came.
I want aleksandra
to feel at home,
so we want to have
a family birthday party with her
to welcome her to America.
Oh! Here's aleksandra!
- Happy birthday!
- Oh!
First time when I met Josh's
parents, it was in Prague.
- Hello, aleksandra.
- Oh!
- How are you doing?
- I'm doing good.
How was your flight?
Oh, which one?
From Prague, here.
- It was very hard.
- Oh.
So tell us
about Russian weddings.
Um...
How do you say?
You go to the courthouse.
Yeah, um...
Aleksandra was saying
how Russian weddings,
they go from house to house,
and it's a big, drunk party.
People don't do that in rexburg
as mormons,
so it'll be a lot different.
I don't know
how to behave around him, so...
Same day or next day?
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This is the moment of truth
when devar is gonna walk
in my house and meet my friends,
my family, my son.
You ready?
I was just hoping
that everything went well.
Oh, god.
I would like to have
our own apartment, you know.
Moving to Florida,
in with my parents,
is the best option
for us right now.
It sucks.
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I flew to Jamaica to be able
to help devar
pack up all of his things
and get ready to live
in the United States with me.
When I land in Jamaica
and I see devar,
knowing that devar
was coming back with me
was a fabulous feeling.
My name is devar.
I'm from Jamaica.
Age is 28 years old.
Aww, isn't he so cute?
When I seen devar
saying goodbye to his family,
it was really tough.
Cheers.
Flying back to the United States
was the best feeling
in the world
because I know that I wasn't
leaving him in Jamaica.
- Are you good?
- Mm-hmm.
You excited?
So excited.
Whoo!
We only have 90 days
to get married,
and you say you're speechless?
Gotcha.
Oh, yes.
- All right.
- Oh, god.
Devar's never been to America,
and I'm very excited
that he's here
and I get to show him
where I live
and see my world.
Time to go home.
Time to go home.
Oh, my goodness gracious.
Living in Jamaica compared to
Pennsylvania is very different.
Pennsylvania, here I come.
So what do you think?
Well, to me, it's a little bit
quite the same...
- It's not the same.
- In some way.
And in some way, it's different.
There is no beach here.
There's no beach?
There's no beach.
- There's a lake.
- Oh.
There's no crocodiles.
Goodness. Well...
No, it's a very clean lake.
- They fish there.
- Fish, huh?
What if I want
to spear fish there?
I don't know
if you can spear fish.
I talked to hunter earlier.
He can't wait to meet devar,
the devar that mommy
has always been talking about.
Oh.
I told devar I had
a son the first time I met him
because I just think
devar needed to know
that I had a son
before he decided to get into
a serious relationship with me.
He partied a lot
before he met me,
so it's gonna be
very different for him
when coming here to be
a father figure for hunter.
When we get back to my house
tonight for the first time,
my mom will be there, along with
four or five of my friends
and hunter.
Come on.
All right, babe.
- You ready?
- Mm-hmm.
So inside is my friends
and my mom and hunter.
I'm ready.
This is the moment of truth
when devar's gonna walk
in my house and meet my friends,
my family, my son.
- You ready?
- Ready.
I was a little bit anxious
because they've never met
in person,
so I was just hoping
that everything went well.
Ready.
Hi!
Oh, god.
- How'd you think today went?
- Yeah, wasn't bad.
- You met my parents...
- Mm-hmm.
Your future in-laws.
But if we... if the time comes
and we have enough money,
I would like
to have our own apartment,
you know, have our own time.
We're gonna move
in with her parents,
and I'm a bit nervous about it.
I mean, you know,
we're a couple.
We need our own privacy
and space and everything.
Well, we just have to work hard
and... and...
- That's what we're going.
- Save up...
you know, 'cause, I mean,
the visa process alone
is a big financial setback.
Moving to Florida
and in with my parents
is the best option
for us right now financially,
but also to have support.
This is a very busy time
in our lives.
It's a stressful time
in our lives,
and we need people there
to help us.
It's gonna be difficult at first
for me to adjust in general,
and then, also, we'll be
living with your parents.
It's...
It sucks.
- But...
He was really nervous
about living with my family,
and I'm not really sure why
he's talking about that yet
'cause we don't even know
if he's approved yet.
We have to be apart again.
We don't even know
what's gonna happen next.
Yeah.
Saying goodbye to alexei
to begin with is really hard.
But this goodbye was the hardest
because I don't know
if he's approved for the visa,
and the thought
of not being with him just
makes me sick to my stomach.
Oh, look at that.
Oh, yeah.
That's the day I met my ex-wife.
I'm going to pick up noon
from the airport.
My heart is racing.
The buildup to this has been
for so long.
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Oh, yeah.
"Welcome home, Nikki."
Nice.
I'm really excited and happy
that Nikki's here,
and I hope that
she's comfortable in my home.
So, this is my house.
In here...
My view of the world.
I was enjoying the view.
It was beautiful.
And his house...
I love his house.
And this is the room
I set up for you.
It's very nice.
So, Nikki, this is the room,
if you feel comfortable here...
'cause we're not married,
you know?
If you want to make
this your room,
you're more than welcome to.
- I didn't say that.
I will stay in your room
with you!
Well, you can do that, too.
It's your prerogative, though.
It's your choice.
I don't want to stay
in different room than mark.
I'm not comfortable
being far away from him,
sleeping far away from mark.
It's always perfect.
And, Nikki, this is my bedroom.
Oh, look at that.
What's that?
Oh. Yeah.
That's the day I met my ex-wife.
When I start looking
at the pictures
and when he talk
about his ex-wife,
um, make me feel sad.
I had children here,
so, um, I had pictures...
there's pictures
of their mother in the house.
So that would've been
I know.
Don't remind me.
When the children
were growing up,
I wanted them to know
their mother,
good, bad, or indifferent.
My ex-wife, after coming here,
became a person
that I didn't know,
and I'm hoping that Nikki
can stay true to herself
and that together,
we can form our future.
You know, it was a special day
in my life.
I'm not ashamed
that I met the woman,
and I'm not ashamed that we had
really good times, but...
Well, maybe we
should get ready for bed.
Yeah.
Try the pillow.
Ah!
Oh, yeah.
Right now, I'm going
to pick up noon from the airport
after waiting nine months
on this visa.
My heart is racing.
The buildup to this has been
for so long.
Time, 11:13.
Arrives in 3 minutes.
Standing there at the gate
waiting for her,
I was definitely overwhelmed
with emotion.
Once noon lands,
the clock starts ticking.
We have 90 days.
Noon's got to figure out
in that time
if she really
does want to marry me
and if she wants to stay
in the country.
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My heart is racing.
The buildup to this has been
for so long.
Oh!
How are you?
So he call me "noon."
Oh, baby.
Sorry.
When I saw Kyle
in the first time in America,
I feel like,
"oh, my god, he crying!"
Cut.
I don't like it when he cry,
but I know he cry
because he happy.
- Yeah.
- Yeah. I know that.
Because I waited a long time
to see you.
Oh, baby.
I love you.
Kyle is perfect
because he is so handsome.
Are you ready for this?
She's given up everything
to come here and be with me,
so I will do anything it takes
to make sure that noon is happy
I can't believe it.
God, I love you.
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Devar and I are
finally back from vacation.
In the states,
and now the 90 days starts.
Inside waiting for us is my son
and a couple of my good friends
that have been very supportive,
and also my mom.
Hi!
Oh, boy.
Actually meeting everyone here,
it's a bit shocking.
How are you, buddy?
- Hi.
- He's so happy.
- Aw, mama's here.
- And mama's here.
Mama's here!
How are you, sweetheart?
My mom found out from my friend
that I was engaged to him.
She was, you know,
really shocked at first.
But then she realized
that I did love him
and I wanted to spend my life
with him.
But honestly,
the most important person
for him to meet was my son.
If hunter and devar didn't get
along, that's gonna be an issue.
I'm a little nervous
'cause, I mean, like,
there's a new man
in the house, so...
I didn't know what he was gonna,
like, think of me before.
Hunter!
Come here, buddy.
Aw.
- How are you doing?
- Good, how are you?
I'm doing wonderful now.
It was just
overwhelming for me emotionally
to finally see them
interact together.
It was just emotional.
Like, you do this then this.
Are you gonna
join the gym with us...
- Oh, yes indeed.
- And come and work out?
Most definitely.
It'll be good for the winter.
Why, are you cold now?
A little.
Well, you never
been in a winter, eh?
- Unh-unh.
- Oh, there's snow.
Three feet piled right up
against the door. It's cold.
You're gonna be wearing,
like, four layers of clothes.
- Four layers?
- It's okay.
Hunter's got lots of socks.
Mel's got lots of fleeces.
You're good.
This is the easy group
to win over.
I hope that all of Melanie's
sisters and other friends
who have not met devar are going
to be as welcoming to him
as we all have been tonight.
Look, I got this for you.
Oh, thank you!
Hunter has only spoken to devar
on facetime or Skype.
It was important to me
that devar and hunter
met the very, very first night
and they got to know each other
because devar is gonna
be a big part of our lives.
What kind of ball is this?
Never really seen one
like it before.
It's just a football.
It's a bit different for
a soccer ball we got in Jamaica.
Yeah.
Thanks, man.
It was, like, "oh, my god.
It's like, my son."
We're going for the tour?
- Yeah.
I'll show you around the house.
- Deal.
You lead, I'll follow.
- Okay.
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This is my room.
Hang on a second.
I got to take my flip flop off.
I can't mess it up.
It's pretty nice.
It's really nice.
- Yeah.
I usually sleep on the top bunk.
I will be sleeping
on the bottom bunk.
What do you think?
- Okay.
Here's the bathroom over here.
Bathroom sounds good
because I'm telling you...
I want to pee.
Ooh!
Shower is nice.
And then mommy's room.
Mommy room?
Nice.
Your mom got a really big bed.
Yeah.
Nice and soft.
Hey,
what you all doing back here?
We are just taking
a little tour.
I think the hardest adjustment
for devar is going to be
just spending time with hunter
where he's being viewed
as the father figure.
Then, devar, here's pictures
of you, you, you, and you.
Oh!
Me and mommy.
Hunter's been asking
ever since we met,
"when's devar coming?
When's devar coming?"
Devar is here.
I love you, buddy.
Can I give both of you
a big hug?
Sure.
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Meeting mark's daughter,
I'm feeling nervous.
I have faith in you 'cause
you want to make it work, okay?
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This is my first morning
waking up
at Josh's grandma's house.
Josh and I had a big day
with his family yesterday,
so today, Josh decided
to take me on a lunch date
just for the two of us.
Before I became a mormon,
I used to wear, like,
short skirts and dresses.
And I'm still getting used
to dressing in...
more in mormon style.
And we need to look nice, and...
Oh, wow!
You look beautiful.
Oh, thank you.
To match your dress.
Ready to go?
Even though me and aleksandra
are waiting until we get married
till we have sex, there's
a lot of ways we can have fun
and get to know
each other better and better.
Will you still love me
when I'll be fat
and wrinkles on my face?
I'll always love you.
Come on.
Really?
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My name's Dave.
Welcome to the sandpiper.
Can I start you off
with a beverage?
Can we just
get two really cold waters?
Two really cold waters,
coming right up.
Be right back.
- Thank you.
You're welcome.
Do you remember
the first time when you saw me?
Mm-hmm.
What did you think?
I remember that I had
a really short dress,
and I was like...
- Yeah.
- You noticed that?
We both were just, like,
looking
like this the whole time.
And we were, like,
putting our book
of mormons up, like,
I thought
you didn't notice that.
Yeah.
I decided to make a change
by becoming mormon,
but I still get insecure
about my past.
Enjoy.
Thank you so much, man.
I just...
And, um...
Do you think
it's a lot better now?
Oh, yeah.
As a missionary,
I wrote home about you, like,
every week, like, your progress,
and wrote, like,
all these big, long letters
about how you're doing.
And, like, my parents,
they were really impressed.
I like him,
but he's always so serious.
Make a good...
- Impression.
- Impression.
Yeah, right.
He loves you.
Don't worry.
He doesn't look
like he likes me.
I feel like aleksandra
is worried about what others
think of her past,
but I've seen how she changed,
and I hope my family
can see that, too.
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Yesterday, I messed up.
There were pictures
around the house...
the moment I met my ex-wife.
And unfortunately,
Nikki saw them.
I replaced the picture
with the moment
that I met Nikki.
Good morning, Nikki.
Hi.
Oh!
Wow, I love this picture.
When I wake up
and I saw the picture,
I love it.
I want more pictures.
I'm glad Nikki's very happy.
Today's gonna be the day
she meets my daughter.
I understand that my daughter,
elise, has concerns
between myself and Nikki.
You're bringing someone
into our lives
that I've never met, and so you
expect us just to get along?
She could be your daughter.
Meeting mark's daughter,
I'm so excited
and a little nervous.
She's worried
that I might hurt mark.
We all need to be
on our best behavior,
and we can each bring
our a-game.
I don't so much
worry about Nikki,
but I hope elise
is a team player.
Elise is coming any minute.
I have faith in you 'cause
you want to make it work, okay?
So...
It's really important
to me that elise is...
she's fine with me and mark.
I don't know what will happen.
Next time on "90 day fiancé"...
New Orleans is, like,
a party city.
Lot of strange people, right?
- This is my fiancée, Nikki.
- Hi, elise.
I will be back in a minute.
So, girls, try to think
of something to say.
Nikki looked so much younger.
It kind of hit me that,
oh, wait, she's actually 19.
It's weird that she's, like,
my stepmom.
If I get a call
that he doesn't get approved,
I don't know what I'm gonna do.
Oh, my god.
Carolina and I have never
been apart this long.
She's very jealous.
How does she know
that you're not
sleeping with women
every other day?
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