Previously on 90 Day Fiancé.
I never thought I'd see this day.
I can't wait to see him
walk out those doors.
Was it hard to stop drinking
alcohol when you became a woman?
I really like to make c*ck
and wear like, how do you say it?
Like see-through shirts?
Uh-huh.
I had bought the same car for my ex-wife.
What was your thoughts when I told
you I was married and now a white lady?
If you want it, then yes.
If you're convinced.
And coming up, house rules.
I don't want to hear it.
I don't want to see it.
We're like set up a sex
schedule so they don't hear us.
Today I go for my wedding
dress with my mom.
None of us want to leave.
Oh my, they were all kind of in an order.
These are your divorce books.
I'm hoping I don't need to reread those.
How can you get married at 21?
It's terrible.
I want to go back to Prague.
Is your plan to help your
sisters pay their mortgage?
Most definitely.
Maybe I would've done that pretty now.
[music]
Welcome to Florida.
Alexi is finally here from Israel.
I'm beside myself.
We've waited so long for this.
Welcome home.
Come on in. You get the grand tour.
Okay.
Welcome home.
You're here. Good.
That's when you say I'm happy I'm here.
I'm happy I'm here too.
This is home.
Your bags can't even fit in here.
wedding is crazy as it is.
We're still getting to know
each other and we have
to do all of this while
living with my parents.
This is the dog's seat and the cat's seat.
So we get the floor.
It's going to be four people
in a three bedroom condo.
Scary.
It's like a deer in the headlights.
Welcome home baby. You're moving in.
I'm moving in.
Oh my gosh, you're invading my space.
Oh, not the shoe chair.
Shoe chair.
In our relationship, I am
clearly the neater one.
Oh my god.
Because I'm really OCD about
my things and where I like them.
I guess you can put your
suitcase along here for right now.
Yes, right here.
There's the closet, huh?
My closet. Your closet.
My closet.
Oh my goodness, all the shoes everywhere.
The closet's completely off limits.
You didn't think it through.
Where is my clothes going to go?
Fine, I'll put these in the closet.
Here's some more for you.
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
We're stuck to space.
Oh my god.
He's finally here. I can't even.
He's in the bedroom with my daughter.
Hi.
So, will you fit in that room?
Yeah, sure.
Oh boy.
Very nice.
M'kayem, good luck. Welcome.
Bye, daddy.
Thank you for having me.
It's not my home yet.
We'll see how it goes.
Alright, it's going to be a big
adjustment for all four of us.
House rules.
I don't want to hear it.
I don't want to find any wrappers.
I don't want to see it.
I expect knock knock.
Wait for a reply.
Don't open the door.
Okay, so... Is that being said?
Because you're not in my circle yet.
Or like set up a sex
schedule so they don't hear us.
Remember the rules.
Knock on the door and wait for a response.
What's the first rule?
I don't want to hear it.
My parents better go out
to dinner every single night.
For a really long time.
So we can have our alone time.
I can get to touch you.
All the time now.
Yay!
You get to have me every day.
It feels so good to have
her in my arms finally.
And it's going to be forever now.
It's good.
It's good.
Mmm.
Do you have people here?
Yeah, nobody really
comes here to Main Street.
It's been a few weeks.
I'm in Ragsburg and I still didn't dance.
And it's so hard because
I really love dancing.
Before I got baptized, I could
go to the clubs every night.
I like these short dresses.
I really like the attention from boys.
Yeah.
In the Mormon religion, it's okay to dance.
But it's like if you will
dance it in the bed way.
Or in the clubs.
I know Alexandra wants
to live a Mormon life.
So tonight I'm going to
take her salsa dancing.
I'll get the door for you.
Dancing is a big part of my life.
So I hope that this place will be fun.
Party hard!
Whoa, what's that?
[music]
When I came inside,
I didn't like the music.
I didn't like the atmosphere.
The people there, they
danced, but it wasn't salsa.
No.
I dance.
[music] You okay?
I'm not a really good dancer.
All I can do is try my best
to dance as well as I can.
[music]
Just go with it.
Listen to the music.
[music]
In Prague, the music is really good.
The DJ is good.
When you come inside, you just
feel like you are in Latin America.
And when I just came inside
here, it was like, I'm still in Rigsburg.
[music]
I just wanted her to enjoy
it a little bit, but she hated it.
It was bad.
[music]
When Alexandra wanted to leave, I
was hoping that she would enjoy it more.
We can ask them to play
something faster if you want.
Then we could stay.
No, like... Is it because it
makes you miss Prague?
It doesn't even look like Prague.
Nothing can come.
It's been a long time for
me to see Alexandra sad.
And just to see her face and
just to see the disappointment.
Like... Let's go.
[music] It was awful.
Because I realized
that I will never find...
I will never find a place
where I can dance.
I will never feel the same like in Prague.
I wanted to go to Prague more and more.
Oh my.
Nikki, they were all kind of in an order.
Just let me do my business here.
Stop laughing.
I've been worried about
my family paying bills.
Nikki has been here three weeks.
And I've been really busy
with my work and house.
And we haven't spent much time together.
So that we can get to know
each other during these 90 days.
Mark works a lot in the house
and he does a lot of work.
Before I met Nikki, I hadn't had
anyone in my life for 20 years.
And now that Nikki's in my life, it's
a struggle trying to find a balance.
Mark is busy downstairs
so I just want to help him.
Nikki.
Yeah.
Where are you?
Mark's house is very beautiful.
But there's a little bit
that he needs to change.
Oh my.
What?
So I see you've been cleaning.
Yeah, cause I wanted to help you.
I'm using this.
Yeah.
Yeah, furniture polish, yes.
How about that?
I was arranging the books.
How did you arrange the books?
From big to small.
Okay.
Raising four children alone, I had
to become extremely organized.
I have a way.
The towels are all folded the same way.
Everything is done the same way.
Nikki, they were all kind of in an order.
There was a science
shelf and a music shelf.
These are your divorce books.
Well, yeah, I'm hoping I
don't need to reread those.
And then I have like
people that I work for.
Why you put it like that?
See, there were people that I worked for.
Um.
I don't know, Nikki.
Just let me arrange it on my own.
Just let me do my business here.
So what?
Stop laughing.
Shoo.
Well, yes, I--
Take care, bye bye.
Okay, well I'm curious
to see how it all works out.
I'm trying to help my work, but I feel
like I'm not doing a great job for him.
Mark used to learn to give
me a little room in his life.
I think Nikki and I are
going to have to talk
about the way things
are done in the house,
about how I have to
have a sense of order.
I'm going to take off, go to work.
When they'll take off
to work in the morning
and I'm home alone,
it's a bit depressing.
Bye.
Meet me and miss my family in Jamaica.
So actually I think
about how I'll give them
a Skype call and see
what they are doing.
Hello.
Hello.
Okay, I can see you now.
What's poppin'?
You miss me?
Oh, yeah.
A lot.
I miss the cooking.
Think you're going to have
to cook for yourself now?
Yeah, I better get used to it.
Oh, okay.
I better get used to it.
Oh, yes.
I've got seven siblings, four girls,
three boys, my little niece and nephew.
Oh, boy, you're going to trouble.
How are you doing?
We're really close.
A lot of us are really close.
Do you miss Uncle?
Yes.
You want Uncle to come back home?
Yes.
I miss you guys.
Oh, yes.
Oh, yeah.
Me being so far away, I did
worry about my family paying bills.
My sisters, they are working now.
But before they were
working, I would support them.
Since I'm not there,
we spend the bills now.
Oh, the bills?
You know, those bills are
very expensive, so I guess,
unless you are volunteering
to pay some of the bills.
Yeah, I would pay the
bills when I'm working.
Oh, when is that?
Uh, everything goes to plan.
Maybe about six, seven months.
Oh.
Mm-hmm.
My plan when I do get a job, you will be
assisting my family, sending back cash.
So whatever they need to do with such cash,
they will just use it to do such thing.
I've got to work where, you know, money
is good, so I can support you guys as well.
Melanie actually don't know I'll be
sending money back home to Jamaica as yet,
so me telling her such thing, I'm
not quite sure she's going to react to it.
Yeah, take care. Bye.
Ciao, ciao.
[ music playing ]
[ speaking Spanish ]
I'm going to miss my family.
Dancing in Oxford just made me homesick.
I want to go back to Prague
because it's not possible to live here.
Give it a try.
I don't want to try anymore.
[ music playing ]
[ speaking Spanish ] Fernando?
[ speaking Spanish ]
I want to show my family
that serious about Fernando.
So today I go for my wedding dress
with my mom, my aunt, and cousins.
[ music playing ]
[ speaking Spanish ]
[ music playing ]
[ speaking Spanish ]
[ speaking Spanish ] Wow.
[ speaking Spanish ]
[ speaking Spanish ]
[ speaking Spanish ]
[ music playing ]
[ speaking Spanish ]
[ speaking Spanish ]
Okay, everybody.
[ speaking Spanish ]
[ speaking Spanish ]
I love my dress.
Oh, my God. I want to cry.
[ laughing ]
[ speaking Spanish ]
[ speaking Spanish ]
I'm happy to move to a
new life with Fernando
in USA, but I'm going
to miss my family.
[ speaking Spanish ]
[ speaking Spanish ]
[ music playing ]
Dancing in Ragsburg just
made me to feel more homesick.
[ phone ringing ]
Hi.
My best friend is my dance partner.
He's from Angola, but he lives in
Prague, so I think you understand.
We went to Latin American Dancing.
It was terrible.
And we went to the
car, and I wanted to cry.
I want to go back to Prague
because it's not possible to live here.
I miss it a lot.
It's different.
[ speaking Spanish ] With who?
Josh doesn't know how to dance.
He's dancing, but it's
like the basic steps.
You want more.
I can dance with you.
[ speaking Spanish ] Yeah.
It's going to be hard to live in
America and not having dancing.
How's the preparations for the wedding?
Everything?
So freaked out. I'm like, "No.
" So fast.
Yeah, but... Take
it easy. Don't worry.
You'll be fine.
What?
How can I get married in 21?
It's just terrible.
I want to go back to Prague.
The wedding is close, and
sometimes I'm just like...
Sometimes I just have these
doubts that I'm still too young for that.
Do you have any regrets now that I'm here?
Maybe you're exploring
whether you have regrets.
Bye-bye.
[ speaking Spanish ]
You might want to get that.
She's upset. She's crying.
Can you let me in?
Nikki and I have spent time together,
but we haven't really
lived in the house before.
I would like to talk to Nikki to
address some of my frustrations
so that we can figure out
the answer and move forward.
There, for your hard effort.
Strawberry margarita without the rum.
Oh, thank you.
You're welcome.
How's your margarita?
It's good.
Pretty good?
Well, I wanted to talk to you
because there are things in my...
you know, that we have to work through.
What?
There's challenges.
It's like the books.
That's a challenge. I walk in and... I'm
sorry. I didn't know how to arrange books.
It's okay. I mean, my
life is kind of the way I
want it, but I understand
that I'm sharing a space,
so we have to work together to figure
out a plan and how to make it work.
Now I'm here, you're so dizzy.
Yesterday you went to work, and
you've been gone for, like, 20 hours.
I was thinking, um... Is it disarray
that I'm here because Mark's so busy?
I just want to ask, do you have
any regrets now that I'm here?
From the moment I met
you, I've never been more sure
that I want to spend the
rest of my life with you.
So I don't know, when
you say, "Do I have regrets?
" Maybe you're exploring
whether you have regrets.
Mark is so serious.
Sometimes, um, when
I hug him... [scoffs]
He don't hug me back.
It's not like when he's in the Philippines.
It just, like, feels like I'm
always the one hugging
you and kissing you, and
you have many things to do.
You can't concentrate with me.
Everything that I do, I
do because I love you.
I'm going to have to work
on meeting your needs.
You say you need more
hugs and more kisses, and all I
ask is that you appreciate
that everything that I do...
I do really, really super duper
appreciate everything you do.
I see that as a love.
Before we get married, I want Mark to
have to learn how to give more time for me.
I want Mark to show more,
um, action, that he loves me.
I told you the day I met
you that you could look
a lifetime for something half as
good as what we have and not find it.
The only regret that I have is that you make
the right decision what's right for you.
It's a test, you know?
Nikki has to figure out if
she's happy, if she's happy,
because I said early on
that I won't take a goldfish out
of a goldfish bowl and watch it
flounder about left to die on the table.
We have 90 days to figure out
whether we have a future together.
[music]
It's been about a week
since Alexi's arrived,
and we're still adjusting
to life with my parents.
And on top of that, my
sister's down from college
visiting, so we've got five
people in small quarters.
I came to see Alexi,
my future brother-in-law.
I do not think he knows exactly what
he's getting himself into with this family.
Taking the change little by little, it's
overwhelming sometimes, it's different.
And I miss my family and
my friends back in Israel.
I was born in Ukraine, and my whole
family moved to Israel when I was 11.
Israel is my home, it's always in my head.
In Israel, I live with my mom and my brother,
and I helped out and contribute a lot.
My grandma is really sick, and
my dad also have back problems.
They rely on me for a lot of things, and
it was really hard to leave them behind.
I never thought about moving to America,
I never wanted to, and I
moved here because of Lauren.
Hi!
Hello!
Good morning!
Hello!
Are you happy?
Tove. Tove my o.
But tell him you tried lobster.
He wants a lobster.
If he comes to the wedding,
we'll get him a lobster.
He says, "Come to the
wedding, you'll get a lobster too.
" I'm very happy.
He said, "I would love to, but I
can't leave my mom with anyone.
" What is your
mom worried about?
How did you get here?
Even Artyom cried.
Two.
They said my brother had
a breakdown because I left.
He's still alive.
I see.
How's your mom doing?
Also no good.
How is he feeling?
Is he going fishing?
No more fish?
He's going fishing with Lauren.
No one has a fish mask.
He said no one to go with.
It upset me.
It's got to be so hard for
them to see their son over here.
What did she say?
They're praying for me.
Okay, you can say bye.
Bye-bye.
Bye.
Bye.
Aww.
You might want to get that.
She's upset.
She's crying.
They always say these things.
What can they do?
As much as it rocked her
world, it devastated their world.
The brother had a breakdown.
The mother's not doing good.
The father's not going fishing.
Babe?
Can you let me in?
No.
She locked him out.
She locked him out?
Just give me a minute.
I think Lauren's having a
big thing of guilt right now.
I don't know how they're
going to handle that one.
It's going to be tough
to get over, I think.
We'll see.
Time will tell.
She feels like she just took me away from
everybody, but I made my own decisions.
I came here.
She shouldn't let it tear us apart.
Babe?
What?
You okay?
Yeah, I'm fine.
Fernando Chidi in the past, I
don't know if I can trust him now.
I don't know if I can take it anymore.
You don't want to be a jealous girlfriend,
but you are a jealous girlfriend.
Is your plan to help your sisters pay
their mortgage while you're up here?
Most definitely.
Maybe I will do that pre-nup.
Carolina's K1 visa has not been
approved, and she's very frustrated.
So I'm in Colombia to calm
her fears and calm her anxiety.
What do you think?
What excites you about
the idea of coming to Miami?
Once Carolina's visa is finally approved,
I am more than ready to start a
life together in the United States.
Like, what kind of things
are you thinking about?
That's logical.
The zoo.
Yes, you know I like animals.
Say, "Miami Zoo.
" Miami Zoo.
To say Carolina speaks bad
English, it's an understatement.
So on this trip, I
definitely wanted to teach
her a little bit more
English, teach her phrases.
Among my friends, I call them dudes.
Hey, dude.
Or, "What's up, dude?
" Hey, dude.
Yeah, what's up, dude?
I know my English is bad, but I'll try.
Centro Comerciales? Shopping malls.
Shopping malls.
You'll learn English faster than you think.
Mami.
You're scared.
I'm scared.
I'm scared.
I'm scared.
I practice English with Fernando.
I try. I try.
I love you.
I love you.
I have to go to Miami
to take care of my affairs,
take care of paperwork stuff that
we need to get ready for the visa.
Leaving Carolina, it's got to be one
of the most difficult things I've done.
And I hope she'll understand.
I have to go soon.
And how long do I have
to wait for me to get it?
I don't know.
Let's be positive.
And let's think that the visa is coming
soon, we're going to get approved soon.
And maybe we're just going to be
apart a month, and you're in Miami.
I don't like this.
I know you don't.
There's nothing to worry
about, about me being in Miami.
My only reason to come back is just for
work, for things that I have to take care of.
I'd love to stay.
Distance makes you insecure,
and especially being alone.
Because you might want to
be alone to find another girl.
Fernando Chiri in the past, I
don't know if I can trust him now.
I don't want to be an
excessive and jealous girlfriend.
You don't want to be a jealous girlfriend,
but you are a jealous girlfriend.
We can't deny what happened,
and that's why I don't feel safe.
And I have every right to doubt.
You don't feel sure about me,
or you don't feel sure about us.
About you.
I have no idea when the K1
visa is going to be approved,
and I just hope that my
relationship can survive through this.
The rule is on.
Alright, thank you.
Tonight, my sisters
Sherry and Bev are coming
to dinner, and Devar
is making us lobster.
Your lobsters are weird.
See the ones that got
back home, they're pink.
And they're cute.
Both of my sisters are older than me.
Bev has always been more
of a protective type of sister.
The last time that we had dinner with Ev,
she had a lot of questions for
Devar about him, our relationship.
How does she know that you're not
sleeping with women every other day?
Bev is pretty tough, and I think I
got a lot of work to do to earn her trust.
Me meeting Sherry, I hope things
will go way much more smoother.
There's Devar.
Hi.
This is the first time that
Sherry is going to meet Devar,
and I'm not really sure
what's going to happen.
I want to learn from Devar if
he was ever married before,
how many girlfriends has he
had, does he have any children.
I just don't trust him yet,
so I guess time will tell.
What can I get you guys to drink?
I'll have some wine.
Alright, sure, I'll get you some wine.
Okay.
Cool.
You want to sit?
Sure, I'll sit down.
So you were a lifeguard?
Lifeguard/medic back in Jamaica.
And were you married before?
No, I've never been married before.
How many girlfriends?
What?
I'm just curious.
How many girlfriends?
Yeah.
I think it was about one.
What about the other girls?
Like would you ever hook up
with somebody like when I stand or?
No, I'm not really one night stand.
No.
It's a risky business, too easy.
Right.
Oh yeah.
Until I meet your younger
sister, and that's good.
So Devar, what are you cooking us?
Some lobster.
Bow chicka wow wow.
That's right.
Excuse me please.
Okay.
So what do you think so far?
When I came out, you
were talking about one
night stands, and he's
like oh no, that's not me.
Really?
Yeah.
I find that a little hard to believe.
Yeah, me too.
Whatever.
It's probably going to take me, I would say
at least a year to trust Devar right now.
It's so hard to tell.
We don't have to believe it, Mel does.
Exactly.
And we can't talk about you no more.
I know, right?
What are you saying?
Anything bad?
No.
No, just curious.
No, that's all.
What are you curious about?
Ask me.
What about a pre-nump?
You're going to do that now?
So you like totally trust him?
If I had, I do, I totally trust him.
So when is he able to start work?
About three months after we get married.
So right now you are supporting
him 100%, like everything?
So he doesn't have any money at all?
Nope.
No.
What's popping, man?
Gracias, ponilla.
So you guys plan on
having children someday?
Really?
No, I'm going to put
another one in, you know.
Oh, boy.
But Tavar, how do you
feel about being here
with no money and Mel
supporting you 100%?
Well, tell you the
truth, if I should rate
myself from one to
ten, I'll keep it at zero.
To me, a man's most important
job is to actually support his family,
and me being here not able to work and
support Melanie and Hunter is pretty tough.
How is the upkeep of your
home going in Jamaica?
I've got two sisters.
When I used to be there, I was
working, so I used to like do everything.
Oh, okay.
Tavar, is your plan to help your sisters
pay their mortgage while you're up here?
Most definitely.
I will assist them in a way.
Oh, yes.
I didn't realize that was your plan,
that once you start making money
you're going to send it back to Jamaica.
What percentage are you
going to send back to them?
I'm just curious.
So let's just say I'm making ten.
I will send back about nine.
That's interesting.
Maybe I will do that pretty enough.
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It actually does put
me on higher alert with
Devar now, because
like what else is he hiding?
I think Mel needs to ask
more questions about him.
Yeah.
I'm not doing the dishes.
I just don't think that he should
be sending money back to people
that are fully capable of working
and supporting themselves.
Devar, I'm going to tell you something.
I have busted my a*s to get you here.
And for you to sit there and
say, once you start making
money, you're going to send
it back to them, like really?
It's annoying.
What do you mean it's annoying?
No, it's f****** annoying.
Mel.
Babe.
Can you let me in?
No.
She locked him out.
She locked him out?
Okay, okay.
They had their first Skype
with his family, and thanks to
that, his brother had a breakdown,
his mother's not doing well.
It was a tough call.
Lauren got upset because
my family, they always
keep saying that they
miss me and stuff like that.
It's my family, and I miss them too.
Babe.
You got upset?
Are you kidding me?
I know it was Alexi's decision
to come here, but of course I feel
guilty because I know that his
family and friends are hurting.
I feel like a monster,
and I'm not a bad person.
Don't talk about it. Don't talk.
Don't talk about it? I just heard it.
Okay, so you don't talk about it again.
Grandma's praying for you.
Don't say it again
and again and again,
because that makes it
come up and then go out.
But I feel bad, Alex.
Okay.
Lauren feels guilty of taking
me away from everything and
everybody over there, and
she gets upset and she's crying.
I wish she would just be more like I
am and just keep it somewhere aside.
How would you feel?
I would feel the same, but I
wouldn't say it over and over again.
But I don't say it over and
over again. I just hear it
over and over again. So you
tell me how you would feel.
Okay, I told you. You don't listen.
I am listening to you.
And you're going to be crying
more and more if you don't listen.
Okay, well then so
be it, because it's hard.
Whenever she brings it up so much, it makes
me think and it makes me more upset too.
I feel very guilty, because I know how
much his parents, you know, rely on him.
And it makes me feel bad that he gave
all that up to be with just one person.
And it's not like I haven't heard it before
over and over again. It's just, it's hard.
I'm going to go for a smoke.
You okay, honey?
Yeah, I'm okay.
We told them it was not going to be easy.
Their rocky road still has
bumps and bruises to endure.
I've always put others
first, so I feel bad for
myself for the first time
wanting to be happy.
And I feel selfish because
he misses his family.
If she's not happy, that's a problem.
Next time on 90 Day Fiancé...
You've given up all those things to
join the church and come to America.
Is it going to be forever, do you think?
I think he'd be a great underwear model.
You have this look that a lot of
modeling agencies would probably go for.
They want to do something more meaningful.
What are you ladies getting into tonight?
First time on Barbie Street.
I see him first with some girl.
I'm jealous a little bit.
I didn't know his plan was to
send money back to Jamaica.
I love Devar with all my
heart, and this is definitely
the type of thing that
can cause some tension.
You're going to be
moody and be distant, and I
don't know that I want
to repeat this situation.
I'm going to be moody
and be distant, and I
don't know that I want
to repeat this situation.
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