04x04 - Life's a Beach

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Previously
on "90 day fianc"...

Anfisa has expensive taste.

Well, hello!

Lying to my parents' face
is extremely stressful.

So, Pedro, how long
is your student visa?

Mm...

But I think he has
a hard time showing it.

I see this whole thing
as being a train wreck.

Even though I believe
I know alla very well,

there are skeptics.

With everybody
asking us questions

and always having to lie --
-yeah.

We just had to get away,
be ourselves.

So, you're
Matt's next wife.

Matt told me to be
in my best behavior.

I'm just not so sure
about it just yet.

-Hello, it's nice to meet you.
-Nice to meet you.

As a family, you know,
we talk, and we're like,

"okay, is she using
my brother?"

Before I came to Morocco,
some stuff happened.

It's not something
I've done before.

I'm sorry, but my family?

I'm here in Morocco
meeting my fianc

azan for the first time ever.

Now that me and azan have
spent a few days together,

I'll be here for five weeks,
and, like,

I had to leave behind
my family and my daughter,

and it's really hard.

-Morning.
-Hey.

Good.

Today, azan's taking me to his
home town to meet his family,

Thank you.

and I like
to have affirmation.

and I've accepted that,
in public --

I still need you
to, like...

Hug me.

Smile -- even just smiling
at me once in a while.

I really know that she want
to kiss me and hold me

and hug me all the time,

but my culture doesn't
allow me to do that.

Hey.

You're the only
person I want.

And, you know,
today we're gonna go

and meet your mom
and your family

and -- you know.

I really hope
they like me.

I want to be happy
with you.

Yeah.

Azan keeps blaming his culture
for not showing affection.

But before I came here,

something happened
that almost ended

our relationship for good,

and I'm afraid he's not over
it.

So, what do you think
about meeting lourdes, my
love?

I feel nervous.

I've been in United States
for two days,

and I'm meeting Jorge's sister
lourdes for the first time,

and I feel very nervous,

because I want to make
a good impression on her.

You think she'll like me?

Yeah, I don't see why not.

That girl just wants
to come here

and just, you know,

think that she has
her sugar daddy.

You know, I'm sorry --

she's just marrying you
for your money.

Lourdes doesn't really know
about the fights that me

and anfisa have had
before she got here.

But I really want
to move forward,

so I'm hoping the meeting
today goes smoothly.

Do we have to do it today?

Why don't you want to meet
her?

Because I'm scared.

You have such a big family.

I know, but you have
nothing to worry about.

I promise.
-Okay, if you promise.

I am a private person...

Okay, let's go.

...and I don't feel
comfortable

when I'm being asked
a lot of questions.

So, I hope lourdes
won't be too nosy.

-Hello!
-Hi, sis.

Hello, brother.

Hello, anfisa.

Nice to meet you.
-Nice to meet you.

So, welcome to America.

-Thank you.
-Are you enjoying it?

Yeah.

So, what do you think?

I know.
She's beautiful.

You know, I want to get
to know you more, you know?

Um...

-Yes.
-Yeah?

So, are --

are you wanting
to work here?

Yes. I was thinking about
pursuing a modeling career.

Have you done
that before?

No.

No? Aw.

Well, that would
be something nice.

She's good with pictures.

And she's beautiful.

Pictures on Facebook
that she has --

they're very provocative,
very flashy,

and not appropriate
for any children.

For her to just move out here
and leave everything behind --

is she doing it for love,
or is she doing it

posted pictures
on Facebook,

and as a family, you know,
we talk, and we're like,

"okay, is she using
my brother, you know?"

I don't know.
That's the questions

that come out
of our mouths, so...

...I want to get to know you

and others sisters
and Jorge's parents, too.

To make them love me
like Jorge does.

but...Every situation
is different,

We really love each other.

How do you know
that this is -- this is it?

It's more about the connection
that we've had.

Like, everything
that's happening --

it's like -- it's almost like
it was meant to be.

I can't wait to marry him.

Normally, I'm really good at,
you know, reading people,

but she seemed very cold to
me.

I want to get
those questions answered.

These past few weeks
have been so stressful,

so we're here
in Panama city beach, Florida,

for a beachy vacation.

With everybody
asking us questions

and always having to lie --
-yeah.

Yes!

Whoo!

Let's go to the water!

-Baby --
-come on, let's go,

let's go, let's go!
I know!

Why?
Yes.

No, no -- baby.

When I first met Pedro,

and make him feel like
he's having as good a time

as I had in his country.

No! Aah!

I've never felt
this way in my life.

And I wish that my family
could see that.

I love you, too.

If you're not serious,

then go back
to the Dominican --

Baby, where is your ring?

and I didn't want them to ask
me
any questions about it.

And I forgot
to put it back on.

I'll try to be better
about remembering.

because I want for my family
to really like Pedro first.

Patrick is concerned
about alla's intentions.

I just need you to be
on good behavior.

I'm not gonna sugarcoat
anything with her.

So, you're Matt's next wife.

No, no, no, no, no.

Hi!

Meeting his family
kind of scares me.

It's not something
I've done before.

I'm sorry, but my family?

Tonight, Matt's
best friend Patrick

and Matt was supposed to be
home
more than one hour ago,

and he's still not here.

-Oh, hey.
-Hi.

You must be Patrick
and Julie, yes?

-Yes.
-Yeah. -Hi!

So, you're Matt's
next wife.

I'm just playin'.

-Nice to meet you.
-It's nice to meet you.

I'm sorry.
-So, where is Matt?

He's at work.
He's late.

I mean...
-Mm...

Very often.

I supported Matt's
previous wives,

but I'm very concerned
with alla's intentions.

I'm not gonna sugarcoat
anything with her.

and ensuring he doesn't
make a dumb mistake

Hello.
I'm sorry, babe.

Do I get a hug?

Mmm.

Hi, I'm sorry again.

I was late getting home,
and that was not good.

So I need get the dinner
ready,
not burn it,

and hopefully we can
enjoy our evening.

These might need to come off.
Would you check them?

How many times
have you flipped them?

What do you think
about alla?

I don't like that
she's complaining

that you're not at home yet.

And she was pissed.

She wasn't pissed.

I just need you
to be on good behavior.

Patrick is concerned
about alla's intentions,

but hopefully he can start

to get to know her
for who she is.

It's nice to finally
get to sit down

and enjoy our meal together.

So...

that you're getting ready
to get married?

No.

I'm not nervous at all.

Is it difficult
around here?

Do you want to be in the
bigger city more often than...

Mm, yes.

There's a strong desire

to have her sister here
for our wedding.

Do you think that's
something that's possible?

Unfortunately,
it's not looking good.

But hopefully you will
make the wedding.

We hope both of you
will make it.

I know that Patrick
has been concerned

about their relationship.

He does know Matt's past
a little more.

Me on the other hand --
I'm more of a romantic.

Thank you.

I really do.

Patrick --
he's not being supportive.

But at the same time,

it's not like
he ruined our dinner,

so hopefully things continue
to go well moving forward.

-You got it.
-Mm-hmm.

This is our fifth day
in Marrakech,

and now we're leaving to
agadir
to go meet his family.

I'm really nervous
and excited.

I can't wait to see him in
his,
like, more homey town.

It's gonna be amazing.

This is a nice car.
-Yeah.

Okeydokey?

speak a different language
than me --

Finally we're here.

Come on.
don't be nervous.

I am nervous!

don't be!

Really hope that
they love each other,

you know -- my family love her
and she love my family.

Because that the only thing
that I care about now.

Hi.

So, azan opens the door
and there's, like --

it feels like seven,
eight people there.

That's okay.

Apparently.

Really.

Yeah, I'm happy.

Nicole.

You should ask them
if -- if I'm dressed okay.

No. No.

I just --

I want -- I just want
to respect them.

She said...

Aww.

Tell your mom
that I love her son.

I'm really excited
to meet them, and nervous.

They really love her.

They started laughing
and smiling all the time.

It's only because
they liked her.

That's why.

Do you know
where we'll stay?

Yeah.

I'll see you
in morning, okay?

You should rest
a little bit, okay?

I love you.

See you.

Okay?

Okay.
See you tomorrow.

Love you.

Okay?
-Okay.

I just wanted his family
to know that I really love
azan.

and that I really want
to make him happy

and, you know,

be the best married
couple there will be.

Droppin' low to the floor

get your hands up

get your hands up

g-g-g-get your hands up

I wonder if this is
tight enough for me.

Pedro and I skipped town
for the weekend

to escape all the questions
from my family.

It's time for us to get
a pitcher of margaritas,

let loose,
and have a good time.

Mm...

Let's go.

Yes.

-Ow!
-Yes.

Stop!

Pedro false advertised
a little bit,

because every time

that I went to the Dominican
Republic to visit,

And now that he's finally
here,

Pedro's the only
Dominican that can't dance.

Aah!

You're not very good
at dancing, you know that.

-let's go.
-No, no, no, no, no.

It's not fair.

He thinks that I party too
hard.
I mean, I came here --

I just wanted to make
a couple of friends.

But I guess he's not used

to the Florida hospitality
here
during spring break,

so we're going home early.

You okay?

Really?

No.

How would you know?

I hope no more surprises.

No, no, no.

Oh. Okay.

What?

Adis. Vamonos.

Whoo!

These shoes are k*lling me.

I bet.
I don't know how you do it.

So...

Do you want to go
anywhere tonight?

No, I'm tired.
You're tired.

I think
Jorge's sister lourdes

have many doubts
about our relationship,

but in my culture,
people don't really discuss

their relationship with
others.

I'm very happy.

She didn't make you
feel awkward at any point?

No.
Well, a little bit

when she was asking
about modeling

and everything like that.

Mm-hmm.
You don't like the questions?

Mnh-mnh.

I think lourdes now knows
more about our relationship

than my grandma or my mom,
'cause I don't just,

you know, tell everything.

So, you know,
obviously, um,

it was brought up
that the family

had some concerns
about you.

You know, the rest of the
family
had, you know,

looked at pictures
of you on Facebook,

and I think
they probably think, like,

"what is such a gorgeous woman
doing with my brother?"

You know? Um...

If I were trying to date

a girl that looked
as beautiful as you here

that would definitely
never happen.

So, I think that my family
has a concern that --

you know, they're afraid
they have a mail-order bride.

Everybody thinks that
you're gonna hurt me

or pretty much say
you're using me.

I've heard about the idea
of Russian mail-order brides,

and I think why not?

If some men can't find
their love in United States,

why can't they find
a girlfriend somewhere else,

but it's not our case.

With us, it's, um,

a real relationship.

Does your family
have any concerns about me?

Yeah!

Like, what are
the concerns that she has?

Like -- I don't know --

what if you're not
a nice guy?

Are you gonna leave me?

No.
That'll never happen.

The hardest part
about moving here

was to leave my family,
but now I have Jorge.

He's gonna be my family.

You have nothing
to worry about.

I found you,
and I fell in love.

A lot of people have
different opinions,

but anfisa makes me
feel a certain way,

and I don't really care
what anybody else thinks.

Get to spend a little time
with my baby.

It's been a real whirlwind
around here lately,

so I want to spend
some time with alla

and see how she's adjusting,

especially since my friends

and family haven't exactly
accepted her with open arms.

Being married
to an American --

is that something that
you've been thinking about

for a long time, or...

-Here you go.
-Thank you.

For you.
You're welcome.

All right, thank you.

Um, things have been
going by so fast

in these 90 days,
you know?

I'm just wondering

if you're gonna be
comfortable living here

in this country with me.

Thank you.

What I'm wondering
is maybe,

uh, you can go out
with Julie to karaoke

or to just go
to a restaurant.

I mean, if --
if you meet girls

and they're all
wanting to go out

Do you know
what I'm saying?

-No, I don't.
-What I'm saying is --

you're saying --
-no!

I think I understand
what you mean.

"Trust me --
I can go to a nightclub,

I won't pick up
any other men,

but yes, that is actually
where I met my ex-husband."

Today, alla and I
are getting lunch

to spend some time together

But immediately,
it's getting a little tense.

I won't pick up
any other men,

but yes, that is actually
where I met my ex-husband."

I was cheated on in my first
and third marriages.

I've been hurt by trusting
too much, and --

and it's taken some therapy

It's happened to me
in the past

where someone
has told me that...

They're going out
with their girlfriends

But of course I want you
to feel freedom.

I want you to enjoy
what you enjoy.

I think we're
on the same page.

Ahh.

Pedro's not too happy
right now with me,

because he thinks that I got
a little too drunk last night.

I don't see what
the big deal is.

Can I get you started
with any drinks?

You want a mojito
or something?

No alcohol, please.

You didn't have fun?
Why?

Why?

I don't know.

I don't remember
doing anything bad.

But when we first got
together,

he already knew
that I liked to party,

so it's not fair
that I have to change that

now that he's here.

You were buying me
all those drinks.

Yes.

Oh, my god.

I'm sorry.
I don't understand that.

Huh?

It is perfectly fine

to have fun at the club
while on vacation.

Baby...

You understand me?

Please?

Okay.

Okay?

I'll try to do better.

The whole point
of this vacation

was to not have to worry
and to not have to tell lies

and just be able to relax.

Okay, baby.
Okay.

We are running out of time
to plan this wedding,

and I don't want this
to turn into a big fight.

I'm gonna have to come clean
--
tell my family soon.

I don't know.
I don't know.

The beaches up here, they
remind
me of the beaches in Florida,

kind of remind me of home.

We're in agadir
near azan's family.

on the beach, like,
it's amazing.

Trip so far has
been kind of crazy,

so it's nice
to just relax.

-Okay?
-Yeah.

Oh, my god.

You know,
you're really sexy.

All right.
Thank you.

Azan is downright hot

and that's not normal for me

just because I've never
grown up with, you know,

super-attractive guys
asking me out.

You know...

Yeah.

It really sucks not
being able to kiss, like --

so, being able
to have these fun,

playful moments --
it's amazing.

-I'm hungry.
-You're hungry?

Oh, my gosh.

We should get some wine.

Seriously?

I know that I love him,
and I know that he loves me,

but I'm also nervous,

'cause communication has been
a little bit off.

Before I came to Morocco
some stuff happened.

I just hope he doesn't think
I'm a bad person.

It's like --

it's hard to bring up,
but, like...

-What?
-You know, I know since --

...when I cheated.

It's hard to bring up,
but, like...

When I cheated...

Before I came to Morocco
I cheated on azan.

And it really hurt us.

I'm here
because I love you,

and I know it's hard
to forget what happened --

long-distance relationship --
it's just not easy.

It was circumstances
and it's just --

I wasn't in
the right state of mind.

One thing lead to another,
and it was a mistake.

I'm sorry, but that's really,
really ridiculous.

That's really not okay.

That's it.
"Next time?"

There won't be a next time,
because I know that I love
you,

and I would never do
that to you again.

I love you more
than anything.

Yeah.

I hope so.
I am not going

to lose you
over something so stupid.

I hope so.

That's all what I can say.

-Next time on "90 day
fianc"...
-Yeah!

I was catfished by
my own fianc,

but I want to marry him
anyway.

She put a ring on that.

Did you find an apartment?

I haven't been completely
honest
with anfisa about my
background.

Uh...
-You ready?

It's important to alla
that she gets to go out

and do what she enjoys.

I had no idea that Matt
is a jealous person.

If you were my daughter,
I would be upset.

You can't run away from it.

You got to tell your parents
exactly what's going on.

-Oh, my goodness.
-Oh, my god.

You should know by now I'm not
a sit-and-listen kind of girl.

Just get away from me.