Previously on
"90 day fianc"...
So you're basically saying
that you're just dating me
because I can buy
you things.
Yes.
I don't think that's love.
Lowo is arriving
in about 5 days.
- Hello?
- Hey, baby.
What're we gonna do
about our wedding?
As we all know, this wedding
will be the fourth for
Matthew.
And that's why we try
not to talk about it.
Not much to do when you
have no one to talk to.
Maybe I would be
happier without him.
I don't know.
Mommy and daddy think
you messed up,
and you're still
messing up right now.
You need to ask them
for forgiveness.
Everything's falling apart.
And coming up...
Whoo!
Tonight's the bachelor party.
We're gonna have fun.
Matt,
one of your ex-wives
is gonna be strippin'
for us tonight.
Aw, yeah!
-Whoo!
-Whoo!
Have you thought about
a prenuptial agreement?
They don't trust my judgment,
and they certainly
don't trust Pedro.
This is it.
This is my last night with
azan.
Why are you so sure
you wanna marry me?
I wanna hear
why you love me.
this is it.
This is my last night with
azan.
Communication with azan has
been
very hard for a few days.
And I never thought
we'd have this many problems.
I'm not forcing you to kiss me
in public or anything.
I'm gonna pass out.
I don't exercise.
Okay?
This is
not a thing for me.
I don't know what to do.
I mean, you can't hold on
to a fairy tale
just because you think,
you know,
you can change
the ending of a story.
Because it won't change.
I really need to sit down
with azan
and talk about everything
'cause if we wanna go through
this k-1 visa and get married,
there is a lot that we need
to be sure about.
When we argue,
like, the things
that you can say,
it really upsets me when you
say
that kind of stuff.
No.
And I'm sorry about that.
It's not
that I don't want to.
It's just so different for me!
-I just wanted...
You don't understand
how different this is!
You don't understand
how different...
Okay. This is --
this is what you think.
You think that --
-listen, just --
mnnh.
I'm not Moroccan.
Why do you want me
to be Moroccan?
Didn't you fall in love with
me
because I'm not Moroccan?
If I say stuff like this,
it doesn't mean that
I don't love you, okay?
I just want to --
-but I'm not your perfect
woman.
But you --
but I love you anyway.
And if I said things like
"you should change,"
it doesn't mean that I --
I give up on you
or something, you know?
I know that -- I know that
marriage
is like different thing,
but...
Why are you so sure
you wanna marry me?
I wanna hear
why you love me.
Hearing azan tell me that
he loves me is a huge deal.
It means a lot to me.
I can.
Okay.
I feel like this conversation
did change something in him.
Like, he really seemed
like he wanted to change.
Like, this just feels
right 'cause, like,
I really wanna be with him,
and I do love him.
And he loves me
and wants to be with me.
So, you know, if we think
we can change,
then we should try.
Can we kiss
on the roof?
On the cheek?
Okay.
Me first?
Are you sure?
Why?
That's good.
I love you.
So much.
Anfisa, can we talk
to you just for a minute?
Oh, okay.
Uh, last night,
me and Jorge argued.
I don't really remember
what the fight was about.
It was some small thing.
But I think it's just...
I had this anger in me.
And it just was the last
straw.
Hello?
Hello?
So?
First, you kick me
out of bed.
Then you kick me
out of the couch?
Like, what was
I doing to you?
After our argument
at the Russian restaurant,
my head's been
all over the place.
You're basically saying
that you're just dating me
because I can
buy you things.
It is hard being
with somebody that thrives
on, uh, conflict like that.
But I really wanna have
a rational conversation
to find out where things stand
because I love anfisa.
Nothing.
I don't want nothing.
Wow. Wow.
I think he doesn't
really realize
that it's hard to be
in a foreign country
where I don't know
anybody except him.
Yes.
I even think of
going back to Russia.
I even started packing
my things.
Okay.
I told anfisa
I wanted to spend
the rest of my life with her.
And I wanna make this work.
But if we can't find
a way to compromise,
I don't know what to say.
I don't think y'all have
really thought about
everything.
What are you getting at?
If you have thought
about having
a prenuptial agreement.
If he's up to somethin',
I should just see it
for myself.
So I told him,
"you're goin' to Vietnam?
I'm comin', too."
It's a win-win.
My fianc, lowo,
lied about everything
when we were first dating,
like, some really big lies.
Lowo lied to me
about living in Alabama.
And he lied to me
about his son's mother.
He told me she was deceased.
So the fact that we got
engaged
after he catfished me,
it was, like, really
surprising
to a lot of people.
It took me a long time
to be able to trust him.
And now, lowo tells me that,
unfortunately,
there is another delay in him
getting his visa.
Lowo, what are we gonna do
about our wedding?
Seemed a little fishy to me
that he would have to go
all the way to Vietnam
to get a paper for his visa.
Then I realized
if he's up to somethin',
I should just see it for
myself.
So I told him, "if you're
goin'
to Vietnam, I'm comin', too."
Hey, guys.
I'm gettin' ready to go.
Bye, babe.
Ohh.
In order to go to Vietnam,
I'm leavin' my son
behind with my mom.
Love you.
You'll be good?
Yeah.
...that is unpaid, by the way.
Bye, see ya.
Lowo and I have only spent
Can't marry a man
when I have all these
questions
about what he's doin'.
If I find out he's been hiding
something from me or lying,
that could end our
relationship.
I am lowo.
I'm 29 years old.
I'm from Nigeria.
And I am a Nigerian prince.
I am presently in Vietnam,
where I lived for 2 years,
because I need to get a
document
that states that I don't have
a criminal record in Vietnam.
I am actually very excited
that kyia is comin' to
Vietnam.
But the fact that she doesn't
trust me fully concerns me.
Trust issues have affected
our relationship a lot.
When I first started
talkin' to narkyia online,
I made her believe a lie.
I wouldn't call it a catfish.
My face and my name,
everythin' is real.
I didn't fake nothin'
except the lies.
When I started talkin'
to narkyia,
I was talkin' with other women
to try and develop
a relationship
and get a green card...
If I told narkyia the truth
about everything that I am,
I don't think she would
even wanna talk to me.
And so...
Narkyia is this beautiful
and trusting woman
that has caught my eye.
And I knew that this is
the only woman I wanna be
with.
When narkyia found out
about my other social media
page
with my baby mama
and my family on it,
she flipped.
And I was beggin' her
that she should just give me
a second chance.
I finally won narkyia back,
flew her to Vietnam,
romanced her for 9 days,
proposed to her.
She put a ring on it.
Yes, she did.
I did.
And she has been
my fiance ever since.
Yes, I am marrying narkyia
for a green card
'cause that's the only way
to stay with her.
I know narkyia is comin'
because
she has big trust issues.
But once she's here,
I can romance her all over
again
and prove to her
that I'm not lyin',
and I'm sayin' the truth.
It's a win-win.
My brother
recommended
to me yesterday
that I speak to my parents
because he thinks that
I owe them an apology.
And he's right.
We never thought
you would lie like this.
I thought you were better
than that, Chantel.
And now
you're gettin' married?
Look, I messed up.
But tell me what you
think I could do now.
Mommy and daddy think
you messed up.
And you're still
messing up right now.
Just come see 'em tomorrow
'cause they're not happy.
The best-case scenario would
be
that my parents actually,
you know, thought about it
and warmed up to the --
the idea of me
marrying Pedro.
And maybe they even wanna help
with some planning.
But I don't think
that's the case.
They said 6:30.
What are you gonna do
when my parents tell you
that they don't want us
to get married?
You're gonna ask my
family what's their problem?
Oh, my god.
Where are they?
Oh, there they are.
There's my parents.
Everything's fine.
Okay?
-Hello.
-Doin' all right?
It's goin' good.
Chantel,
everything's goin' well?
-Yeah, everything's going
well.
-Wow.
Pedro and Chantel,
they are gettin' married
within 2 or 3 days.
It makes me
very cautious of Pedro.
We will proceed
with extreme caution.
So what is the news
that we need to hear today?
River said that you
were really upset.
Yes. S.
And that you don't
trust Pedro.
You don't think he's fit
to be my husband.
Chantel,
you know I was upset.
You know this.
-Right.
Think about it.
You waited all this time
to tell us
that you're gettin' ready
to get married in 2 or 3 days
when you knew
he proposed a year ago.
You say you love each other.
But you got a lie up in there.
That doesn't mix.
That doesn't even --
that ain't even sound right.
That doesn't even go together.
Right, Tommy?
It doesn't even
go together.
Well, I just wanted to tell
you guys that I'm sorry,
that I wanted to give you guys
time to be honest with me
first.
So then, I could ask
for your forgiveness.
I don't think you all have
really thought about
everything
that you all
need to think about.
What are you getting at?
What are you trying to say?
Your father and I were
talking,
and we were wondering
if you have thought about
having
a prenuptial agreement.
You understand?
I don't think you all have
really thought about
everything
that you all
need to think about.
What are you getting at?
What are you trying to say?
If you have thought about
having
a prenuptial agreement?
You understand?
Have you given that
much thought?
Not very much.
-Not very much.
You always wanna
protect yourself.
And I know Pedro wants
to protect himself.
By my parents
bringing up the prenup,
that's just proof
that they think
I'm doing the wrong thing.
And they don't trust
my judgment.
And they certainly
don't trust Pedro.
Yes. S.
Well, if you two
are really in love,
and if it's real,
then it would not matter
if you have
a prenuptial agreement.
It would be okay.
Pedro, we like you.
But we don't know ya.
Well, back -- back to
the prenuptial agreement.
My parents are pretending like
I have a choice in this
matter.
But if I don't get the prenup,
they're never gonna trust him.
He wants to know,
what kind of man
do you want me
to ever marry?
-What kind of man?
-S.
Any man --
any man would be better.
It was unfair to us
that we weren't given
the opportunity to be --
-to know Pedro.
-...To know Pedro
and to be involved
in this situation
and your decision.
It's kind of like pie
in our face.
-It's throwin' a pie at us.
-Yes.
Think about it.
It's throwin' a pie on us.
How -- how can we trust
Pedro and you
when 2 days ago,
you said that,
"we gettin' married
tomorrow or the next day."
Then you expect us
to show up...
-And be happy.
-...And be happy.
You deceived us,
you and Pedro both.
Okay.
Okay.
It's clear now
where my parents stand.
This whole prenup thing
is catching me
completely off-guard.
And I know exactly
how they feel
about my relationship
with Pedro.
They don't want me
to get married.
So, we ready
for tonight, guys?
-Whoo-hoo!
-Yeah!
-Yes!
-All right, guys.
We're proud of you.
We're proud of you.
-Yeah.
-Number four.
Good to see you,
rob, man, that's awesome.
Tonight's the bachelor party.
And I have no idea
what to expect.
-You need to put this on
first.
-Christmas sweater, of course.
I should've asked
for more details about why --
what was goin' on
tonight.
Patrick has been settin'
this up for a couple weeks.
And I know
he's up to somethin'.
-That's your deal.
-Put your money jacket on.
-Oh, geez.
-Yes.
When my friends
first started talkin'
about havin' a bachelor party,
I was worried there might be
a constitutional amendment
or somethin' against havin'
your fourth bachelor party.
It just seems wrong.
But here I am. Rah-rah.
You guys have an advantage
over me right now.
I need to play catch-up.
This is
bachelor party number four.
We have some adult
entertainment
showin' up tonight.
I think this is gonna
definitely be...
This is the one
where we're like --
this is the one. We've pulled
out all the stops.
Whatever happens,
happens.
If alla finds out,
and she doesn't like it,
then she doesn't
have to marry him.
-Right.
-It's true.
All right.
Hell, yeah.
Let's go
get in this bus.
-Let's do it.
-Fourth time's the charm.
Right.
Let's get on the bus.
- Whoo!
- -Oh
here we go.
-Whoo!
Hell, yeah.
Oh, wow.
Oh, yeah!
The man of the hour
right here, baby.
Oh, my gosh.
That's enough. That's enough.
That's enough.
I'm already two-fistin' it,
and it's, what, 7:30?
Where are we goin' anyway?
Why are we goin' to --
Matt,
one of your ex-wives
is gonna be strippin'
for us tonight.
I got one of your exes
to finally come through.
Aw, yeah.
Hey, at least
I've finally figured it out.
What'd
you figure out?
I figured out --
no, how to get the right
woman.
You looked online to get
Russian brides, obviously.
Wow.
Tonight was supposed to be
fun.
But some of my friends
and family
can be a bit prickly about
alla and I's relationship.
And it was frustrating.
All right, guys.
The stripper is here.
Pat, can you
hand me a beer?
-Yes.
-I don't want --
I don't want anything
to do with the stripper.
You need this.
No, I'm not takin' it.
I think Matt wants strippers
more than he says.
He wants to pretend
like he doesn't.
But he's not married yet.
So whatever happens, happens.
I'm not interested
in this at all.
don't lie.
don't lie.
-Oh, my god.
-don't lie.
You decided you wanted
to get married...
Yeah, and I'm lookin'
forward to it.
...to somebody that you
shouldn't be gettin' married
to,
is my thought.
-No, that's not true.
We have this
beautiful girl, Amy.
Amy, can you --
can you please come back here
and show
Paddington bear --
Paddington bear --
-no. No.
Whoo!
Okay. Spread your legs
a little bit, baby.
No, I'm not
spreading my legs.
-Just a little bit.
-I'm not spreading my legs.
Spread your legs
a little bit.
No. No.
- Matt, stop.
- Stop bein' a
-it's just 10 minutes.
-No, no.
Yeah, but you guys know how
I felt about this
if -- if you feel like
it's so appropriate --
if you feel it's so
appropriate, you do it.
Shut up.
You're bein' stupid.
Oh, stop.
I'm sorry
your life sucks.
Yeah!
-Yeah!
-Whoo!
-Yeah!
-Right.
My friends are total
I thought we were gonna
have a good time tonight.
And they end up tryin' --
just razzin' me the whole time
about my next marriage
and then havin' some stripper
come on the bus.
And they know I've got
no interest in that.
Thank god it's
my last bachelor party,
that I don't have to deal
with this again.
I'm sorry.
Right now, I don't even see
why would I get married to
him?
I'm tryin' to compromise,
and you're not even
compromising with me.
Gettin' ready
to go pick up narkyia.
I'm afraid that she will
always question me,
and that makes me
feel scared.
Last night, Jorge spent
the whole night
in his car in parking lot.
And he still hasn't come back.
It was an argument
that I don't understand.
She just sort of went crazy.
And it's really hard talkin'
to
anfisa when she's mad.
It's like talking to a wall.
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
Can you stop
actin' like this?
No.
I came to talk.
Well, I'm sorry
the way that I acted.
You just go crazy on me.
Like, you kicked me out.
Like, really?
Like, was that necessary?
Yes.
He tried to apologize.
But he didn't --
he didn't bring flowers
or something --
something cute, so.
Like, why do you have to
have an attitude for
everything?
The attitude you're having.
The attitude you're giving me.
When anfisa gets mad,
she doesn't always mean
what she says.
But I feel like
I can get through to her.
Like, things are
not always perfect.
What are you
talking about?
Just, you want it
all your way.
And it doesn't always
work like that.
I'm trying to compromise
with you as much as I can,
and you're not even
compromising with me.
You see? Like,
you think this is a game.
I'm tryin' to tell you
that whatever --
you've been actin' like
an idiot since I came here.
I just wanna go home now.
How -- what -- see, like,
I don't understand where
you're even coming from.
Exactly.
You don't understand.
Before I moved here,
I thought it's gonna be
nice living with Jorge.
I expected that he would do
some romantic gestures,
like...
Give me some small gifts
like flowers or something.
But he never did, not even
once.
I think it's easier for Jorge
because he's in his country.
He has his family here.
He has his work.
And now, he has me.
So he gets to have everything.
And I'm the one
making sacrifices.
Can we just get over
this argument already?
No.
-Can I give you a hug?
-No.
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry. Stop.
Stop. I'm sorry.
I thought, if we were
to just talk it out,
things would go back to
normal.
But now, I'm afraid
I'm gonna lose her.
I've been here for 6 weeks.
And Jorge has done nothing --
no proposal,
no ring, no bag.
Can we just make up,
like...
No, we cannot.
What did you do
to make up?
Nothing yet.
But I'm sur--
he needs to prove that
he loves me because, right
now,
I don't even see why
would I get married to him.
Bye.
Okay.
Get dirty
get dirty
get dirty
get dirty
get dirty
I'm in the hotel
gettin' ready
to go pick up narkyia.
I already bought so many
things
she loves, cakes,
you know, fruits and all that.
Number-one thing right now
is to romance narkyia...
The last time I saw narkyia
was about 9 months ago.
I had the best time of my life
with the best woman --
the only woman I wanna be
with.
Narkyia is comin' to Vietnam
to check up on me.
I know that it's because
of the trust issues.
But the opportunity
to see narkyia again,
it's, like, awesome.
She is going to be
so into me.
She had a really long flight.
So, yeah, she's gonna be
tired.
But I know narkyia.
She loves romance.
Yay!
Yeah, baby. Mwah!
Yeah. Gotta go.
And I'm afraid that she will
always question me.
And that makes me
feel scared.
Look at you.
Leaving like this,
it's a lot harder.
I just don't feel like
fiances.
Show some freakin' emotion.
Shed a tear or two.
I don't wanna go.
Today's the last day.
I'm leaving.
Um, 5 weeks
seemed to go so fast.
It just doesn't feel
like it was long at all.
Azan's sister and her husband
and his mom were here.
I'm really gonna miss them
'cause they're really
nice people.
Even though
we couldn't talk much,
you know, they're
really friendly to me.
And that means a lot.
I'll be back.
I'll be back.
-Thank you.
-Goodbye.
-Bye-bye.
-Bye-bye.
I wanna believe if I
was there another week,
that he would change
and do more.
I'm gonna miss you.
I think --
I think you're
gonna miss me more.
Yeah.
Even if he changes,
it's gonna be hard
to forget everything
that happened on this trip.
I feel nervous
and anxious, poundin' fast.
There's a lot of things
goin' on.
Let's go.
Once you get used
to somebody for so long,
you just, like, you --
you feel weird
separating from them.
I feel that.
I love you.
I love you, too.
Okay?
I really wish I could
kiss you right now.
As soon as you
plant foot on America,
I'm gonna kiss you
once you get off that plane.
Yeah.
I'm feeling a million emotions
right now.
I wanna stay here.
But on the other hand,
I miss my daughter.
And I need to get back home
to her and my family.
I think it's like,
you know...
Saying good-bye
when everything is good
and you know where you're at
is a little bit easier.
But leaving like this,
it's a lot harder.
So, right here?
Yeah.
Okay?
Azan doesn't seem to be too
sad
for me to be leaving.
Yeah.
You can't hug me
and kiss me in public,
but show some
freakin' emotion.
I'm supposed to be
your freakin' fiance.
Shed a tear or two, okay?
Hug me hard.
Okay?
I don't know.
I just don't feel like fiances
as much as I would expect to.
See ya.
I don't wanna go.
Bye.
Bye.
I'm a little afraid that will
be
the last time that I see him.
But I have to see
what happens then.
I don't know.
Nicole, she's really sad
that she's back to America.
But, to me, I'm really glad
a little bit because it's
like,
we don't have to fight anymore
and, like, no shouting,
you know.
But after everything,
we love each other.
Next time on
"90 day fianc"...
Hey.
Mm.
We've had a lot of delays.
Let's just make sure,
let's get it done.
What the
literally making a deal
for $15,000
and you're up.
That's what happens
when you pay
for somebody
to spread their legs.
Wanna make sure that
you're marrying him
for the right reasons.
Why do you love Matt?
His mom is getting
so upset about it.
They would like for me
to have some type of
protection.
What's the problem?
Tell me
what really happened.
He thinks that
I should lose some weight.
He's not attracted to me.
If my husband said
that just once,
we wouldn't
have gotten married.
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