Previously on
"90 day fianc"...
Whoo!
Tonight's the bachelor party.
The stripper's here.
I don't want anything
to do with the stripper.
-Yeah!
-Whoo!
Have you thought about
a prenuptial agreement?
They don't trust Pedro.
If he's up to something,
I should just see for myself.
If you're going to Vietnam,
I'm coming, too.
Yeah.
Even if he changes,
it's gonna be hard
to forget everything
that happened on this trip.
And coming up...
I'm not a Nigerian woman.
I want to make sure
that you're marrying him
for the right reasons.
Why do you love Matt?
Tell me
what really happened.
He thinks I should
lose some weight.
He's not attracted to me.
If my husband said that,
we wouldn't have
gotten married.
His mom is getting
so upset about it.
They would like for me
to have some type of
protection.
What's the problem?
What the
you're literally making a deal
for $15,000
and you're it up.
That's what happens
when you pay
for somebody
to spread their legs.
things haven't really
gone the way I hoped.
After our argument,
things have been
really tense at home.
If things don't get better,
I don't know
what's gonna happen.
So, I have to work.
I was just wondering if maybe
you would come with me.
We can grab some breakfast.
That way you're not hungry.
No.
You just don't want to go?
You don't like it or --
so what is it
that you don't like?
What?
I didn't say I don't like.
-Oh. So --
-what are you talking about?
I just said I don't
want to go with you.
Okay.
My god.
All right, then.
I'm gonna go.
I thought there's gonna
be more life here,
but it feels really boring.
I don't really like
lying to anfisa,
but I wanted to trick her
into thinking
that I was going to work
today,
because I want to surprise
her.
I still haven't proposed
to her properly,
so I'm actually
going to buy her a ring.
-Hi.
-Hello.
-I'm Miranda.
-Jorge. Pleasure to meet you.
Okay.
So let me show you some
stones.
I'll start off with
the smallest to the largest.
It's hard to please her,
'cause she likes,
you know,
really nice things.
I do like this size right
here.
I like the sparkle.
Everything about this one
is pretty nice.
So what would this run me?
It'll be $18,800.
I'm looking to stay within
the $10,000 and $15,000 range.
Somewhere in there.
-Okay. Yeah.
-So what size would I need?
-$15,000.
Yeah, if you were to do
just the solitaire
in the diamond.
That'll bring the cost down.
It would be $11,700.
I'll go ahead.
That's one good.
-Really?
-Yeah.
Okay.
What's that noise?
Um, it's my fiance.
She has me
on "find my iPhone,"
so when she ever wants
to get my attention,
she'll just bing me.
Anfisa has my password on
the "find my iPhone" app,
so...
She tends to click it
to get my attention,
and just that screeching,
beeping noise
makes me
just want to break it.
So, you're all set.
Just come and pick it up
tomorrow morning.
She's like "answer me!"
So, why does
she keep binging?
It's just...
Yeah.
The first few times,
it kind of wasn't
too big of a deal.
But then it started happening
over and over again.
Anfisa and I need to have
a conversation about
boundaries.
-Bye, Jorge.
-Bye.
Come on, may.
Got to get your arms out.
-There's mommy.
-Where's mommy?
We're gonna get mommy.
Finally here
to pick up Nicole,
and it'll be good just to get
her in my arms and...
Feel that she's still with me.
Do you see her?
Do you see her?
I see nothing.
It's been a long five weeks.
You know, I'm ready for her
to fill in some blanks.
-Hey, may.
-May.
Look.
Who's that?
My mommy.
Yeah, that's me.
You're so big.
Oh, my god.
I feel like
she's 3 years old now.
Leaving sucks, but being
back home is great.
Like, life as I can live it
is back to normal,
and I'm just really
happy to see may.
Like, oh, my gosh.
Hi.
-Mommy.
You're may.
I'm mommy.
All right.
Home.
Before I left Morocco,
I was a little upset,
because the trip didn't
turn out exactly
how I thought it would.
This is what you think --
you think that there's this --
listen. Just --
I'm dreading getting home
and talking to my family
about what really happened,
but I know when I get home
that my mom's gonna
want to talk about it,
so we're gonna have to
talk about it.
Taste okay?
Mm. Mm-hmm.
I was telling Ashley
this is
a lot of food compared
to over there.
Really? They don't eat
or have as much food?
-Not big portions.
-Mm.
So, I know things
were rough.
You're trying to shield me
from some of it.
-Mm.
-Tell me what really happened.
A fight.
And stuff.
How many times
did you argue?
-Well, little fights.
-Little fights.
Well, little fights
turn into big fights,
and then big fights
turn into...
Ugly big fights.
Mm-hmm.
Sometimes when we fight,
if he wanted get me to shut
up,
sometimes he would say
"shut the up."
Or he would say,
"I don't care about you."
Okay.
Is that it?
He thinks I should
lose some weight,
and there would be better
attraction between us.
And how did you
feel about that?
I didn't know he cared
about it like that.
So he's...
Not necessarily
turned on by your size.
Is that what you're saying?
He's not
fully attracted to me.
But you're ready to just jump
into a full-out marriage
with someone who really
isn't attracted to you.
Mm-hmm.
What you see right now
could be the way
you're gonna spend
the rest of your life,
and you're okay with that?
No,
I'm not okay with that.
What if he doesn't change?
At this moment in time,
we want to fix things,
and the last few days,
we said we'd change.
If my husband would have said
any of that just once --
just once -- we wouldn't
have gotten married.
No one should have
to physically tell you
to "shut the 'f' up."
Because you should be
able to talk to each other.
I think he's using her,
but I would like
to see her actually...
Manning up and dropping
the relationship
if she feels like it's not
gonna be good for her.
I got a bad feeling
about this.
I don't think you've really
thought about this, Nicole.
I think I'm jet lagged,
and I'm ready to go to sleep.
I'm about as frustrated
as I usually am with her.
All I can do is hope
to guide her in the direction
that she needs to go
sooner rather than later.
I really feel like
azan can change.
I do.
And I want to give him
that chance
before my family judges him
about what happened.
I don't think we're gonna
accomplish a lot more tonight.
Me neither.
Look at you.
Now that I've seen
him,
I'm happy and excited.
I hope
that it stays that way,
as opposed to finding out
things
that are unfavorable.
My concern with alla is that
this is a rushed marriage.
But you're marrying him?
-Yes.
-And you don't love him?
When narkyia
and I started talking,
I made her believe in a lie.
I understand that she
has trust issues with me.
I understand that she doubts
whatever I say.
Why didn't I
hear from you?
What do you mean
you lost your phone?
How do I know
you're not lying to me?
So,
they approved your visa,
but they waited
three weeks
to tell you that you needed
the police report?
To really see things
for herself,
but I think I'm gonna turn
that
into a romantic getaway,
and I'm going to do
a lot of romantic things to
her.
Yeah.
Hey.
Hey.
I came to Vietnam because
I started feeling suspicious.
But honestly,
now that I see him, like,
the only thing
I can feel is,
like, that I'm happy
and excited.
So I hope that
it stays that way.
As opposed to, you know,
me finding out things
that are unfavorable.
-Oh, really?
-Yeah.
-Oh, okay.
-Really.
Whatever.
I don't care about that.
There's nothing
unfavorable here.
I do.
I care about it.
-This is for you.
-Thank you so much.
Here. Let me just...
They're pretty.
All right.
Sounds good.
Well, come on,
let's go back to the hotel
then.
Mm-mm-mm.
How did you feel
about me coming here?
Well, I'd be much more excited
if you had that paper.
Oh, wow. Okay, well, the
paper,
yeah, I know.
Because it's kind of, like,
putting a wrench in things.
Like, we're trying
to plan a wedding.
It makes it hard.
Not only that, like,
I'm tired of living without
you.
Aren't you?
-Yes, I am.
I am tired of
living without you.
All right, baby.
Yeah.
Got my nose.
Okay.
-Yeah, just...
-Wait.
don't let me walk
into anything, please.
-No. Come in straight.
-Okay.
Sorry.
Come in straight.
One, two...
Uh-huh.
...three.
Aww.
-You like it?
-Yeah, I love it.
-You love it?
-What...
You got me cake.
-I know you love cake.
You done have pictures
on the wall.
Yeah.
Love it?
I love it.
-I love you.
-I love you, too.
-Mm-hmm.
-Thank you.
I feel like us being together
will make a lot of
my insecurities go away,
because the distance
and not being together
and not being able to see
what was going on,
that kind of, like,
adds to my insecurities
and I'm hoping that, you know,
things will be better
and I won't feel
that way anymore.
-Man, you got to go, man.
-You ain't got to go home...
Get out. Get out.
Get out. Get out.
...but you got to get
the hell out of here.
Get out.
Get out.
Alla and I are joining pat
and Julie for dinner tonight,
even though I wasn't
really happy
with Patrick's
snarky remarks
at the bachelor party
the other night.
At least
I finally figured out --
-how to get drunk?
-No, how to get the right
woman.
You look online to
get
Russian brides, obviously.
My goal tonight
is that Patrick
just gets to spend
some more time around alla
and see
who she really is
and just get to
know us better.
Oh, they're already here.
Look what strangers you find
in a place like this, right?
Hi.
Look who's here.
-Good to see you, brother.
-How are you?
-How are you, alla?
-I'm doing good.
I have become pretty
close with Julie,
but I don't like
her boyfriend, Patrick,
because he judged me
based on Matt's ex-wives.
Julie told me
on the way over here
that they're going to Miami
for a girls trip.
And my comment was,
"you pay for it.
You go. No problem."
Seems reasonable.
-Right.
-If you pay for it.
No, he said as long
as we can afford this.
Yes, as long
as we can afford it.
-And we can.
-Yes.
Yes, because you have
my credit card.
Exactly.
I don't trust
Matt's decisions at all.
My concern with alla is the
fact
that she is coming
from another country,
and this is a rushed marriage.
And I think it's gonna
turn into a train wreck.
So, alla,
you know my concern,
of course,
is always on Matt.
So I want to make sure
that you're marrying him
for the right reasons.
What do you mean
for the right reason?
That you love him and not just
because you want to be here
and you want Max
to have a good life.
So why
do you love Matt?
You never told him?
-I never told him.
-Why not?
It's because...
It's because I cannot
just say love.
For me,
it's really mean a lot.
-But you're marrying him?
-Yes.
And you don't love him?
I don't know.
But you're marrying him?
And you don't love him?
I don't know.
But you're getting
married anyway.
Um...
Just -- just shut
your mouth, seriously.
What? I'm asking a serious
que-- I mean, this is --
no, you're being rude.
It's not the way
that you're --
you're making it out
to be at all.
Seriously.
You're gonna tell me
that this isn't
a big problem?
It's his life.
I just don't understand
why you're so much involved
in his life
and try to --
to take control.
-Control.
His life.
This is his life.
I think that she came over
here
because she needs a better
life
and not because she loves him,
and she admitted that.
This will be
his fourth marriage.
How do I know you won't
leave him in three years?
How do -- how do I know that
I will be alive in three
years?
How do I know?
I cannot promise anything.
That --
that concerns me.
I've had doubts
prior to this.
Now I really have doubts.
I've got to know that you're
here for him in order for me --
what else could
she possibly say?
She said this
five times already.
But you're --
you're getting hoodwinked.
Whatever.
don't come if your plans
are to disrupt the service.
Well...
What is the reason
to be there?
I think it's probably best
that I just leave, so...
I'm sorry that you had
to
deal with that, but he's...
I...
I'm embarrassed
right now.
Nothing we're gonna do
is gonna change it.
Yeah.
I think Patrick is...
Is involved too much
in Matt's life.
It's just interesting for me
that Patrick was concerned
about
that I don't say to Matt
that I love him.
That is not a deal breaker
for Matt.
In three days,
I'm gonna get married,
and I have no preparations.
And on top of that, my parents
are pressing me to get a
prenup.
Have you thought about
having a prenuptial agreement?
Well, back to
the prenuptial agreement.
I think that Pedro is offended
that my parents want a prenup,
and I'm worried that it's
gonna
cause some trouble between us.
Hey, mami.
Pedro has an extremely
strong bond with his mother.
He's a mama's boy.
But I think that he shares
a little too much
with his family
and he should keep
our private business private.
When Pedro's mom
gets heated up
and speaking really fast,
I don't really understand.
It's almost like she doesn't
even care for me to
understand.
Not very respectful.
Is she talking
my parents?
I cannot deal with Pedro's
mom's
negativity right now.
I don't need that in my life,
and if I'm gonna be
calling her my mother-in-law,
she's gonna have to calm down.
They don't trust you.
When she's telling Pedro
not to sign the prenup,
it's a red flag that his mom
is getting so upset about it.
And I think that
I need to talk to him.
Adios.
Baby, I don't understand
why your mom is so
against us getting this paper.
-My mother?
I understand
that she thinks
that if we're getting
married for love,
there's not gonna
be a divorce.
But if there's not
gonna be a divorce,
then we'll never have
to use the paper,
so what's the problem?
My parents don't think
that you're with me right now
for money,
but they think
that in the future,
if we do not work out,
they would like for me
to have some type
of protection in place
to not let this --
to not let our finances
be split unfairly.
Okay.
-Okay.
-Okay? Good?
It was frustrating
to listen to Patrick.
When do you think
you're gonna be ready to --
to tell me
that you love me?
I'll call you back
in just a few seconds.
Can you -- oh, my...
Are you joking?
Phone call.
I need to make this
I can't wait to marry her.
I promised anfisa
a proper proposal,
and I'm excited to
pop the question tomorrow.
I've been spending
a lot of time with anfisa,
but now I need to double down
and work twice as hard
so I can support the lifestyle
that she wants.
Most of my time for work
is on the road.
So as of right now, I'm
involved
in the marijuana industry --
growing and providing
medicine to patients.
Today could be the day
I close a big deal.
Sorry, I got to call you back.
Bye.
Oh...
No, I didn't!
Anfisa likes staying
on the phone with me
while I'm at work.
She gets a little bit lonely.
I don't know.
It's hard to count.
Like, at least 1,000.
Oh, my...
Well, I can't talk.
Sometimes
it is frustrating,
especially when I'm taking
care
of something for my business.
I'll call you back
in just a few seconds.
Can you -- oh, my
are you kidding me?
Are you joking?
Phone call.
I need to make this
oh, my goodness.
What the is the
problem?
I need to make this money.
What the
hello?
I just want to throw
this phone
out the window.
Like, I am literally
making a deal
for $15,000,
and you're really it
up.
Oh, my god.
Yep.
That's it.
It's the famous sound.
Yeah.
Hey, babe, I'm home.
Oh, you're home.
How are you?
-I'm good.
How about you?
-I'm good.
Are you okay?
Yeah, I just, you know,
saw that you made me tea.
Very nice.
Last night, it was
frustrating to sit there
and listen to Patrick
be so hard on alla.
But at the same time,
as she hears me tell her
"I love you" all the time,
and she's never told me
verbally that,
"I love you."
I, uh...
I just kept thinking
about, uh...
Just his behavior
last night at dinner.
Yeah.
It was inappropriate.
But he was making
a big deal out of saying that --
saying "I love you."
You know?
No, I don't understand
what you're trying to say,
Matt.
Okay. Well, in --
in our culture,
in the states
where you now live...
It is something that is...
Expected
in a relationship.
Even if people don't feel it,
they just expect to hear it.
They do. Yes.
Yes, they do.
I'm sorry.
I'm not American.
So, when do you think
you're gonna be ready to --
to tell me
that you love me?
I still need time.
Yeah.
If she --
if she tells me
that she has reservations,
that she's concerned,
that she's...
Uh...
I don't know.
Real love, for me,
it's something that should --
should go -- should be created
with -- with years.
Only these years
that could show
if it's real love or not.
Yeah.
I don't know when it'll
happen.
It can be tomorrow.
It could --
it could be never.
But we have this
really good, nice feeling,
and I don't know
if it is love,
but I'm ready
to marry you.
So am I.
I'm willing to get married
without her saying "I love
you."
It is just a word, after all.
Yeah.
-Be careful.
And she has already proven
her love in so many other
ways.
When I was telling
those lies, she believed.
But now that
I'm telling the truth,
that's when she has
a fight with me.
I think we should go and see,
like, an immigration lawyer.
I called my sisters
to talk about my situation.
As your sister that will
always tell you how it is,
that's what happens
when you pay
for somebody
to spread their legs.
So, what exactly
is this place?
Mmm. That looks good.
It's narkyia's
first night in Vietnam,
and I'm taking her to a place
called chicken street.
She's gonna love it.
-I'ma sit right here.
-Let me get your chair for
you.
Aw, aren't you sweet.
Even though I came here
because I'm having
some doubts about lowo,
I'm pretty excited,
because we're hanging out
and we're going out to dinner.
Oh, yeah. Fine, fine.
I know what you like.
Mmm.
That is the best chicken lapp
I ever had.
Chicken lapp.
Yeah, you know
that's how I fell in love.
Gave me all
your chicken skin.
I'm just excited
that you're here.
The fact that
I can see you.
Oh.
Like...
I mean, that's part of
the reason why I'm here.
You wanted to see me
and then you wanted
to double check, right?
Well, I just needed
peace of mind.
You understand that?
Well, I mean,
I just got here.
Narkyia and I,
we do get in a lot of fights.
Number-one reason
is she's independent.
You cannot tell
narkyia what to do.
You know, like,
this whole thing
with this document
that you need --
a trip out of the blue
is what it felt like to me.
Like, "oh, I got
to go to Vietnam."
Like, it just
made me feel uneasy,
and I just wanted
to see, like,
what was really
going on in Vietnam.
But, babe.
Are you doing something
that you shouldn't be doing?
You know, when I was
telling those lies
in the beginning, she
believed.
But now that
I'm telling the truth,
that's when
she has a fight with me,
and so,
it's definitely frustrating.
I know the initial stages
of our relationship,
- I messed it up.
- I up.
If I'm going to
be your husband,
then you really
have to trust me.
Well, I think we should
go and see, like,
an immigration lawyer,
so they can decide,
look over the paperwork
and make sure everything --
oh, no.
No, no, no, no, babe.
-Well, don't you --
-I got it all sorted already.
I'm raising up my voice
because I feel like
you're accusing me
of challenging your manhood.
That's not
what I'm doing.
In Nigeria,
you're the man of the house,
and your woman has definitely
got to trust you.
I'm not a Nigerian woman.
There's nothing wrong with me
trying to help you out.
I'm trying to help us.
Oh-h*...
I want to show you that I
care,
I respect your culture.
But at the same time,
like,
I'm not gonna step
back into the 1950s.
Lowo and I have a lot
of cultural differences.
He feels like he's a man,
I'm a woman.
I shouldn't ask him
too many questions.
But I am independent,
and if I hear you even start
to say something
I don't like,
I'm gonna cut you
right off and be like,
"unh-unh-unh, no."
And I don't know if
that's gonna cause problems
later down the road.
I just -- I feel like
our relationship has...
...changed.
I don't even know
how to explain it.
I think it's just a lot of
pressure from the 90 days.
Like...
I called my sister lourdes
to talk about my situation.
She said she's nearby having
a meal with two of my sisters.
I'm gonna stop by
and talk it over with them.
-Hey, my lovely brother.
-Oh.
-Hey, sis.
-How's it going?
Anfisa only met lourdes so
far.
But I have a big family,
and word travels fast.
So I'm sure they know
all about anfisa.
I see you guys are already
enjoying your guys's dinner.
-Yeah.
-Glass of wine?
-I need a bottle of wine.
-Oh, why?
-Why is that?
-What's going on?
Just, you know,
problems at home.
What kind of problems?
Basically, I had
an argument with anfisa.
And it didn't go well.
I feel like I'm...
Being controlled or like...
I don't know.
It's like being tracked.
Like, there would
be a difference
if I'd be out there
cheating or bull
but, you know, like,
I'm not doing like.
You got to live
with this woman,
and you got to make sure that
this is the right woman for
you.
And if she's not...
-It started off like that.
-Right.
-Absolutely.
No, it started off
like that, but...
Right.
You know me.
As your sister that will
always tell you how it is,
I think there's
alternative motives there.
-Do you think that...
-So...
...that she's here for
something else versus you?
Well, I mean,
as far as I think, like,
if I sit and think about it,
like I've done my part
to please her,
and she has not done
one thing to please me.
Like...
-That's what happens
when you pay for somebody
to spread their legs.
Next time on "90 day fianc"...
It's the day of my wedding.
I don't have a dress.
I don't have the prenup.
Today's crazy.
I'm either picking out a dress
or I'm gonna
get this paper done.
Something is not right.
I can't believe you're okay
with being treated that way.
I don't know what to do.
You know what to do,
honey.
I don't want...
The wedding is off limits.
It's just off limits.
When the preacher
asks,
"are there any objections,"
I'm not sure that I'm not
gonna voice my opinion.
While you're talking to me,
what, you talking to her, too?
Is that why you told me
she was dead?
Yeah.
Ahh. Yeah.
Babe.
-don't touch me.
-don't do that.
don't touch me!
What the
she keyed "idiot"
into the driver-side door.
I just want this nightmare
to be over.
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Did you know that you can remove censorship board-wide, use our advanced search functions, be notified when new content is posted, join our memberships, set episodes to show in any order you want & more if you are logged into your account?
Register or sign in here: ucp.php?mode=register