What the is the
problem?
In the dramatic new
season of "90 day fianc"...
We have to get married
on Thursday.
This Thursday?!
She's just marrying you
for your money.
These couples put
everything on the line....
So, why do you love Matt?
...for a shot at love.
I've never told Matt
that I love him.
She keyed "idiot"
into the driver's side door.
Just get away from me.
So you're basically saying
that you're just dating me
because I can buy you things?
Yes.
Now, they're coming together
for the first time.
Before I put the key in
the lock, I'm like
I'm just lucky that
the love of my life --
after everything, he still
chooses to be with me.
They look back...
I honestly did not even
believe
that his real name was azan.
I just thought it was
pretty much all a scam.
Setting the record straight...
And why
are you dating me?
Because I'm smart?
Nothing is off limits.
You saw what
that b*tch said.
She just called one
of your sisters the "b" word.
The burning
questions
will be answered.
Alla, do you love Matt?
Azan, tell me
about that moment
when Nicole told you
that she cheated on you.
And at least one couple r
is your marriage in trouble?
It all starts now
the couples tell all."
hello and welcome
the co
I'm Shaun Robinson,
and I am so excited
because I am here
with Pedro and Chantel,
Jorge and anfisa,
Nicole,
and Matt and alla.
Unfortunately narkyia and lowo
could not be with us today,
but luckily azan is joining us
via video chat
all the way from Morocco.
Hey, azan,
how are you doing?
Good, good, good.
Okay, all of you are meeting
up
for the very first time...
Yes.
...Today.
Just a couple of hours ago --
what, what has it been like?
Here we are.
It's cool to see
everyone in person.
-Yeah?
-Yeah.
Okay, now we were
a little bit concerned
about one couple here --
anfisa and Jorge --
because you guys actually
missed
your flight last night.
What happened?
Jorge was broke,
and he didn't have money.
So we could get
on the flight,
but, like, we wouldn't have
money for anything
when we arrived here,
so we decided to miss the
flight
and wait till
he gets more money.
So, and we took
the next flight.
Oh. So, Jorge,
you were flat broke.
Yep. Uh, actually,
my bank account was frozen,
and I couldn't access it.
-It's not my fault though.
So, you didn't drain
the bank account?
No, it's, like,
I couldn't access my funds.
-Really?
-Yep.
Okay, so you finally got here.
We were about to start taping,
but you guys hadn't arrived.
So was there another fight
this morning
that caused you
to be late today?
Nope, that's all her.
I was -- I was ready
to go right off the bat.
And then...
You woke up at 7:00. We were
supposed to be here at 6:00.
I woke up at 5:00,
and I said "it's 5:00."
You didn't wake up --
what, when?
I woke up at 5:00
and said it's 5:00.
We went to sleep
at like 5:00.
No, I woke up at 5:00, and
I said it's time to get ready.
You're like "no, well,
we're gonna get ready.
They know I'm always late."
I'm like, "okay."
We weren't sure you were
gonna make it at all.
We were really concerned.
What do you guys think
when you all hear about
the, you know, the problems
that Jorge and anfisa are --
are dealing with?
Matt, let me start
with you.
It's just life,
it's part of being married,
being in a relationship,
and it's perfectly normal.
Relationships
are a difficult thing.
They take work, you know?
All right.
Alla, let me ask you.
What about you?
What do you think?
Because you're someone
who's pretty outspoken.
I don't try to argue.
You don't think
you try to argue?
Nope.
I get -- like once I know
that I'm not gonna be back
by the time I said, like,
I already know that like --
I'm already getting
mentally prepared,
ready when I get home.
Like, before I put the key
in the lock, I'm like
we also found out
that this morning
that you guys sent
a picture of broken phones
to our producer.
Yeah, it was crazy,
we -- look at that!
Those are your phones,
right?
Yup, that happened.
Tell me what made
that happen.
And you threw the pho--
anfisa, did you
throw the phones now?
That looks like more than
throwing, that looks like --
like putting on the ground,
stomping, like that.
Tell us what
the argument was about.
I really don't remember.
Oh, yeah.
Oh, yeah,
that's what it was, I guess.
So, did you all
make up?
Obviously you did.
But, um, is this how fights
are
all the time with you guys,
throwing the phones,
throwing something?
I've had to replace
the phones a couple times.
I had to replace it
the other time
you broke it like that, too.
-Just one.
And you threw a laptop.
What else did you throw?
Yeah, like, it just gets
crazy.
It gets violent.
And it's not like I'm getting
violent or anything.
It's just like things
get broken.
But what did I do?
Like, I don't cause
the argument.
I have to go to work,
and I have to --
you threw it at me.
You cause all this trouble
for me --
do you provide anything?
Like?
Exactly.
Um, Chantel, I see you
whispering to Pedro.
What are you saying
to him?
Oh, I was just explaining
what was going on
with the situation
'cause he didn't understand.
He didn't understand?
What did he say to you?
Um, he just asked what --
what y'all were talking about,
and I explained that
you threw your phone at him,
right? Because, he came --
he came home late.
And then he broke
your phone.
So that's what
I explained to him.
Okay, so, I want to go
to Nicole and azan.
Do you think anfisa
needs attention
and that's why
she's throwing phones?
Yeah, yeah,
exactly, that's why.
Well, she's home all
day, right, while he's
working,
and you don't have
many friends right now?
So while he's working all day,
it's hard to be alone.
If I leave the house and say
I'm gonna be back by 3:00,
she's already blowing me up
by 12:00,
saying, "I'm hungry,"
or something.
Basically, it's like having
a 4-year-old...
Why don't you --
...it's like having
a 4-year-old at home.
Like, I have to take care
of work
and also take care
of her, like -- like a child.
Okay, let's move on
to a different topic.
Well, it has been a great
season
with many highs and lows.
Let's take a quick look back
at how all of this started.
Me and azan have never
actually met in person.
But we just have this
connection
like I've never felt before.
He has sent me a message
that said, "will you marry
me?"
With a little ring emoji,
and I was like,
"yes, I definitely want to
marry
you, you know.
We met on Facebook.
I seen a picture of her,
and I just fell in love.
I didn't get anything back
for,
you know,
the first 10 messages
that I sent to her,
till finally I just said
something funny
and she responded.
I thought that I was just
gonna
have a little fun on vacation,
but we fell in love.
So I told her
that I wanted to spend
the rest of my life with her
and that I wanted to marry
her.
She said yes, and everything's
been perfect ever since.
Except arguments,
but that just comes
with the territory.
Alla just -- she grabbed
my heart from day one.
And I asked her if she would
marry me, and she said yes.
Alla, you moved from Kiev
to Kentucky to be with Matt.
Yeah.
What has been the toughest
thing, the hardest thing,
about making
that transition?
-My English.
-Your English?
Yeah, understanding people
is the most hard for me.
And of course...
Does it feel lonely
sometimes?
Of course.
Jorge, you said everything's
been perfect ever since.
Do you want to retract
that statement,
or do you still feel
it's been perfect?
Um...
Except arguments.
Uh...
I don't know.
I think --
what is your hesitancy
to answer the question?
I mean, it's not as how
I thought it was gonna be.
How did you think
it was gonna be?
Perfect.
Yeah, and then, um...
Like,
just as time goes on,
sometimes I would think,
like, "what am I doing?"
You know, like, I would
have really deep thoughts
of, like,
the situation I'm in.
And did you reach
your tipping point?
Is that...?
-Yep.
That was my tipping point.
-Uh-huh.
Um, like, before that,
like, she would even
throw blows at me --
throw what?
Like, punches.
Anfisa, did you
physically hit him?
No.
don't lie.
Are you saying
that she actually hits you?
No. There would be
arguments,
and she would, like,
start, like, swinging.
Anfisa, do you get violent
like that?
Do you start swinging?
Yes.
Let me back up.
Um, he reached out to you
several times on Facebook --
like, 10 times.
-Yeah.
What made you
finally respond?
He said he was rich?
Did you say you were rich?
I don't recall that.
Is that something
that you would've said?
Um...
Yeah, that's -- actually yeah,
like, he was showing off,
like, "I have this, I have
that,
I have money."
Did you make it seem as though
you had a lot of money?
I did, actually.
-You did?
-Yes.
-Okay.
So you would kind of
flaunt that.
You would say,
"I'm desirable
because I've got money,
I've got..."
-Yup.
-"...I've got material
things?"
Yeah, like, back --
back actually at that time,
like, my work ethic
was, like,
not having to worry
about coming home.
As the relationsh--
you were just blowing
your money.
He told me one day
he spent $10,000
in a strip club
in one day.
Is that true, Jorge?
That's true.
Like, I made it...
I've made decisions
in my life,
but, like, that I really don't
regret because I'm young.
Like, everybody
has to go through this,
but, like, I've blown a lot
of money on the dumbest
things.
Chantel, do you think Jorge
is responsible
for putting
that image out there,
and that was the type of woman
he attracted?
Um
yeah.
I think because you -- you
told
her that you had a lot of
money.
We actually, like,
went on trips,
and I spent
a lot of money.
Okay, but how did -- but she
responded when you said...?
Like, the thing is --
no, and it wasn't that.
She was just joking,
and it's just like I'm rich...
-Oh, okay.
-...But, like, the thing is...
I think that if you are
going to kind of like
portray yourself
with a lot of money
and you know, kind of flaunt
that way to attract a woman,
then maybe you do have
the kind of responsibility
to keep your end
of the bargain.
Pedro, what about you?
People want to know --
are you in this relationship
just for your green card?
So your sisters
don't like anfisa?
You make them
think bad about me.
They wanted to meet her,
and she didn--
I didn't want to meet them
on camera.
-Before.
Because you saw
what that b*tch said.
She just called one
of your sisters the "b" word.
And later...
You're not convinced
that azan loves Nicole.
I am not convinced
that azan loves Nicole.
All right.
And what is the one thing
that makes you feel that way?
The couples tell all" c
hello and welcome back
the couples tell all."
Before any of our couples
got together,
some of the families weighed
in
with their own opinions.
Let's take a look.
Sometimes people
will use other people...
But I don't think Pedro's
like that.
I would hate to see
that happen.
That girl just wants
to come here
and just, you know, think
that she has her sugar daddy.
You know, she's just
marrying you for your money.
So you're sure
you really want to do this?
Yeah, of course.
Unfortunately,
I see this whole thing
as just being
a train wreck.
I would like to propose a
toast
to the arrival of alla.
Well, I'm not
gonna toast it,
so you all
can do what you want.
All right.
If he's the love of my life,
its
not worth it trying to find
out?
Not if what his intentions are
are wrong.
Worst-case scenario is
she comes back in a body bag.
Whoa, Nicole, that was some
lunch gathering right there.
I mean, they were
really, really hard on azan.
They were putting all kinds
of doubts into your mind.
Did you listen
to any of them?
-No.
-Not at all?
No.
Azan, how did you feel
when you heard
that Nicole's family
was really not in favor of
her pursuing this relationship
and coming over
to Morocco to see you?
Azan, can you pull
the mic away?
The mic is too close
to your -- your mouth.
Okay, yeah, thank you.
Just let it hang,
just like that. Thank you.
What about your own brother
and your friends?
Why did they think alla wanted
to be with you, Matt?
My -- my friends and family
have been --
they've actually been really
supportive of our relationship
for the most part.
There's some exceptions.
Yeah, I saw your, what --
your twin brother --
he wasn't really happy.
And that was your best friend
who kind of storms off.
Yeah, Patrick had a little --
he had a little meltdown.
The rest of his family
seemed pretty wary
of his relationship with alla,
culminating with an intense
dinner conversation
in Cincinnati.
Let's take a look.
Is the idea of living
in America
and being married
to an American...
I don't know,
is that something
that's been a dream
of yours?
I was dreaming about America
for a long time.
-Dreaming about it?
-Yes.
Dreaming about it, like,
fairy tale when I was...
-Yes.
-...10 years old?
Yes, yes.
This is dream come true,
but I will never do
my dream come true
just because
I want to do --
to get this dream.
Um, it is...
Wow. Alla, did you feel that
during that conversation,
like, they were trying to get
you to say
that you married Matt
simply because you wanted to
come to the United States?
Yeah, I felt it.
Of course they're gonna
have that concern.
You know, at this point
in our relationship,
by the time
she'd gotten here,
those concerns were --
were gone.
Jorge, your sisters have been
very hard on anfisa.
To this day,
are things better?
When I met his sisters
in person off camera,
they were all nice to me,
but I can feel that
they don't really like me.
Because they think that
you're with their brother
just for the money.
Because Jorge is stupid
and he doesn't --
and he does know
about our problems.
Like, who does...
I can't vent to you.
Like, I have my sister --
she's like my confidant.
You know, like I can, like,
get experience from a woman.
So your sisters
don't like anfisa?
You make them think bad
about me.
They wanted to meet her,
and she --
before.
Hm.
She just called one
of your sisters the "b" word.
Hm.
And what did his sister
say about me?
Why can't I just call her
a b*tch?
Like,
there's nothing bad.
But, anfisa, you will admit
the sisters don't like you
because they say you're in
this
relationship for the money.
So they have a legitimate
reason
not to like you.
Yes, but...Yeah.
You're saying yes, okay.
All right.
Jorge, do you want to defend
your sisters at all?
Um, yeah. I mean...
Yeah, he wants to
defend his sisters,
but he doesn't want to
defend me.
Like, what is there
to defend?
She's admitting
to the fact
that she's here
for a green card and money.
Well, let me ask
the group.
Then why
are you dating me?
Because I'm intelligent,
because I'm smart?
Because I hope
that things would change.
Let me ask the group.
Nicole, do you think
anfisa's going to change?
I think it's gonna take
a lot of time,
but, like, only because
it takes time
to, like, mature
and to see things.
I mean, maybe this is
who she is,
but, like, I think just
the more experiences she has
will help her to see things
differently
and maybe just from
someone else's angle.
You know, and there
are a lot of people
who are like
your own family members.
They think your partner is
in this just for the green
card.
So let me ask, alla, are you
in this just for the green
card?
Pedro, what about you?
People want to know --
are you in this relationship
just for your green card?
- I'm very happy, yes.
Azan, you've heard
this conversation.
Are you in this relationship
with Nicole
just for the green card?
Do you all know people
in your country
who would marry
just for a green card?
Me has a friend.
You had a friend?
Yeah. Had a friend.
How did that make you feel
to hear him say that?
Well, he's told me
that before,
that he does have friends
that just want a green card.
And honestly,
it did make me worry.
Really?
I really think that he does
genuinely love me at this
point.
But before, it made me
very insecure to learn that.
Pedro, did your friends think
you were marrying Chantel
for your green card?
They did?
Wow.
Wow.
And which one?
Wow,
that's really hurtful
because I know
some of those people.
And what advice
would you give
for dealing with family
and friends who are saying,
"look, this isn't
a good idea.
E people are just out
for their green cards"?
Because everybody has dealt
with that type of pressure.
What advice would you give
a couple dealing with that?
I would say be honest
to the people who love you,
but still follow your heart
and make your own decisions
because you have to live with
your decisions, not them.
That's what I'd say.
Anfisa, are you in
this relationship with Jorge
strictly for his money?
And later...
When you see, like, yourself
on the television
and, like, everybody saying
these bad things
about you constantly, it
hurts,
and it really gets to you.
The couples tell all"
continues.
Even before we met anfisa,
she was already stirring up
controversy.
And poor Jorge found himself
in a cautionary tale
about sharing passwords.
Let's take a look.
I tried calling her.
She erased my phone.
She has my apple I.D.
And password.
Oh, yeah, she actually sent me
an e-mail saying
"I canceled your flight."
Wow.
She actually just changed
my password to the e-mail,
and now I can't log in
to my e-mail.
You know, she obviously cares
about material things
and about money more than,
you know, our relationship.
Yeah, it's up.
Jorge, why did you give
anfisa your password?
Yeah, so, it didn't happen
that
I, like, intentionally like,
"here's my passwords,
have control of me."
There was
a Youtube video, but...
Did you have
second thoughts
after she canceled the flight
and erased your phone?
Definitely,
I had second thoughts.
Like, that's not
something you do.
That's something, like,
real childish,
especially,
like, knowing that, like,
the phone is something
essential
to me working
or continuing
my daily life.
I mean, that's so major.
Anfisa, why did you do it?
'Cause I was mad.
'Cause you were mad?
That's it?
She was mad.
Yeah, I don't think that's
a good enough reason to
explain.
-But you still married her.
-Yeah.
She only did it
like a few times.
- Oh.
-But still.
She only did it a few times?
That's all.
You erased
the phone again?
Yeah, I did
a couple times.
Yeah.
Pedro, what would you do
if Chantel erased your phone?
But if I did?
She did it
more than once.
No. No.
I've changed my passwords,
and it becomes a problem.
She goes
even more insane.
Yeah, because why you
changing your passwords?
Why?
So, Pedro, what do
you think about this?
Would you give her
your password?
-Why not?
-Huh?
You have my password.
Okay. Matt, what would you do
if alla erased your phone?
- It would never happen.
- It would never happen.
So I don't have to
worry about that.
So, anfisa, alla said
that this is disrespectful.
What do you think
about that?
I think that they didn't show
the reason why I did it.
They only talk about,
"oh, my god, poor Jorge.
She erased his phone?"
What?
Why you, like...
But the reason you did it
is still childish.
Like, there's still no reason
to go to that length.
So, did you ever get
the purse?
She actually bought two
at Louis vuitton.
Like, so we basically walked
from that store
to the next store right over,
and she bought two purses
instead of the one.
I told her, like, "look,
if you buy this purse --
if you buy this purse,
I'm not gonna be able to buy
you
another pair of shoes
in the next week."
She doesn't understand
the value
that I actually have to
work for the things
and make money
in order to go do it.
She wants to keep doing it.
-Alla, let me go to you.
Do you think that anfisa
is in this relationship
with Jorge just for the money?
Mm-hmm.
You see chem--
oh, wait, let's hear.
You can see chemistry
between them.
Really, now tell me about
that.
You can tell that
that's sincere?
Well, let me ask you,
are you in this relationship
with Jorge
strictly for his money?
Not strictly,
but for the most part.
For the most part.
So what?
I would say,
I don't know.
Jorge, you nodded your head
when
I asked anfisa that question.
You think she's in the
relationship for the money.
Yeah, because, like,
when I have it,
there's absolutely no problem,
no arguments, no nothing.
Like, I'm the most
perfect person.
And then when it's like --
it's getting short,
like toward the end
of the month, then it's like,
"I hate you."
Like,
"you're the worst person.
You're an idiot.
You're this, you're that."
She just has to understand,
like, there are times
when he does have money,
and then there's times
when he doesn't.
But she has to be there
for him.
Like, what if you didn't
have money, god forbid?
What if you didn't have
money one day?
If something were to happen
to me, like legal-wise,
or like, something
were to happen to me,
like, I would get hurt
and I couldn't provide,
like, she would just leave.
There has to be
more there.
If he goes bankrupt,
are you gonna leave him,
anfisa?
Yes.
Like, see,
and that's the problem.
The problem is, is that --
-because you --
when we met, you were like,
"oh, I have this, I have
that."
And I had it.
No, and I had it.
The question is,
why would you be with someone
who solely wants to be with
you
for you money?
Honestly, like,
I have thoughts every day,
like, "what am I doing?
What's the situation?"
You know?
Have you thought
about leaving her?
-Yeah.
-Why?
Because of the situation.
Because it's all about money
for her mostly.
And you feel
it's not love.
No, well...
You told him just last night
you wanted to leave him?
Anfisa, do you have
your green card yet?
No.
-Are you waiting until then?
-Yeah.
And then after you get
that green card,
would you leave Jorge?
She actually said
that's what she's waiting for.
And I just, like --
that's what I'm just like --
I don't know
if I really want to do this.
Are you thinking about
annulling
the marriage to anfisa?
If things get to the point
where they -- if they get --
you already
had phones thrown.
What point
are you looking for?
Just a boiling point.
Like, the phone thing --
that was a boiling point.
Okay.
You know, like,
I don't even know
where else it can go
with the situation.
Is your marriage
in trouble?
A little bit.
Anfisa, are you concerned
that Jorge will annul
this marriage?
No, I'm not concerned.
Why not?
'Cause he won't.
I believe
she believes that.
And I almost believe her.
I don't think there's
anything she could do
that would make you
annul the marriage.
Yep, there is actually.
What could she do?
Hm.
I don't know what
the boiling point would be.
Chantel,
who was that other guy?
I don't know.
And I never meant
to disrespect him ever.
Pedro, did you feel
disrespected that night?
Yes.
And later...
Let me ask you, anfisa.
Do you really love
Jorge?
The couples tell all" c
one of the recurring themes
throughout this season
was Chantel and Pedro
living a lie
that began to spiral
out of control.
Let's take a look.
But now that he's here,
it's going to be so hard
to hide the secret
that we are engaged.
When do you start school?
-Huh?
-March.
-Oh, march.
-S.
So, Pedro, how long does
your student visa last?
Is it one year, two years?
How long do you have --
oh, no, he has to...
He has -- as long
as he's in school
and he maintains
the visa status.
Lying to my parents' face
is extremely stressful.
Chantel, how long did you
think
you could keep that lie going?
I don't know.
I was thinking that
I would keep it going
until I graduate
from college.
During that conversation
at the restaurant,
it seemed like Pedro
was so confused.
Like, he didn't know
what was going on.
Yeah, he didn't really know
what was going on
because we didn't really
plan it out.
Mm-hmm.
And then he didn't even
speak English.
He speaks a lot
more English now
even though he's not
using it today.
See, I was thinking
that what was happening
was that they were
asking him questions,
and he pretended like
he didn't know
what they were talking about
because he didn't want to
tell them the truth.
- Pedro, did you pretend
not to understand
some of the questions?
Yes.
And you really did
understand them?
Well, shortly
after he arrived,
Chantel took Pedro
down to Florida,
which led to an awkward night
of dancing.
Let's take look.
-Ohh.
Oh, my god.
I don't even want to look.
She's grinding
on some other guy.
Chantel,
who was that other guy?
I don't know.
We had a lot of comments
from social media asking,
did you disrespect
Pedro?
Did you think you did
that night?
Yes, I think it was
disrespectful.
At the time,
I didn't realize
what a problem
it would have been.
I mean, I just thought
that it was just, you know,
having fun, just being silly,
and just --
I didn't really think
it was that serious.
But I saw how mad
it made Pedro.
Right.
And I never meant
to disrespect him ever.
Pedro, did you feel
disrespected that night?
Yes.
Chantel, you're upset
about something.
What are
you upset about?
I mean, I never meant to hurt
Pedro or disrespect him.
I mean,
I was really drunk.
I mean, everybody's had
their moments, I'm sure.
Now, this is so interesting
because, Matt,
you were concerned
when alla went out,
and she wanted to go out
and have some fun one night.
You were concerned something
like that would happen, right?
I was not worried
about alla's actions.
What I was concerned about
is the other people's actions.
-Men?
-Men, of course.
Giving her
too much attention.
-Right.
-Right?
And that, what, she might
not be able to handle that?
No, um, no, it wasn't that she
wouldn't be able to handle it.
It's that these men would do
stuff that was in appropriate
or impolite or rude
or disrespectful, whatever.
And alla felt
you didn't trust her.
Yeah, I think that's
the way it came across.
Okay. This season,
Nicole's story
was really that
of a fish out of water.
Before you went over there,
what did you know about islam?
I didn't know a lot,
but being with azan,
I've definitely looked
more into it,
and I've talked to other
people
to understand it some more.
And maybe it didn't
come across well on TV,
but I did try to research
what I could, but...
Azan, did you try
to teach Nicole
about islam
and the culture there?
Yeah, I think I
--
yeah, I think I did,
like, all the time,
but she never, like,
tried to understand.
Now, part of the cultural
divide
involved PDA,
something azan was
very uncomfortable with.
Let's take a look.
When it comes
to relationships,
I'm a physical person,
and I like
to have affirmation.
I still need you
to, like...
Hug me.
Okay, let me ask
the other couples here.
Alla, what did you think
about that?
Did you think that Nicole was
being too demanding to azan?
Chantel -- Chantel,
how did you feel
about the way Nicole
wanted azan to, you know,
be more physical
in public?
I completely understand
where she's coming from
because Pedro and I
are so affectionate,
and I know how it can be
to just want that attention.
Anfisa, how did you feel
when you were watching that?
Azan, would you prefer
she just keeps her hands
off of you in public?
I think just, like,
hold my hand, that's it.
That's it?
Can you do that, Nicole?
Just hold hands, that's it?
We'll see.
No promises are being
made right now, azan.
I'm just letting you know.
Nicole's mom gives her take
on her daughter's
long-distance relationship.
I really didn't believe
azan was sincere.
I, honestly, did not even
believe his real name was
azan.
I just thought it was
pretty much all a scam.
And later...
Did they feel that Pedro was
just out for the green card?
They just didn't trust him.
Pedro,
how are things today
between you and Chantel's
family?
The couples tell all" c
we're back with Nicole
and her mother, robbalee,
and azan is back with us
via video chat.
While I talk to Nicole
and her mother,
our other couples are
following
along in the green room
and will join us
again later.
Robbalee,
how are you doing?
Wonderful, thank you.
Good, good.
You are still not for
this relationship, right?
-It's -- it's --
-is it growing on you?
It's growing on me
a little bit.
What were your reservations
at first?
I really didn't believe
azan was sincere.
I, honestly,
did not even believe
that his real name
was azan.
I just thought it was
pretty much all a scam.
Were you worried that Nicole
was being very impulsive,
jumping
into this relationship?
Yes.
I don't think
it was impulsive.
All right, azan.
Let me go to you.
How long was it
until you proposed?
Well, Nikki
on Twitter writes,
"azan dies every time he says
'I love you.'
doubt he means it."
Let's take a look.
-I know.
-Mm-hmm.
It's amazing.
- Okay.
Oh, my god.
-I love you.
-I love you, too.
Where you looking at?
I said "I love you,"
that's what I said.
Yeah, but you're
looking at the lamp.
You love the lamp?
-Yeah. I think so.
'Cause...
No, you're really sexy.
Thank you.
You know, this really
feels like a dream.
Yeah.
You're like
my Arabian prince.
Yeah.
Well, what were
you thinking, robbalee,
when you
were watching that?
You're awfully clingy.
-I'm not clingy.
-You think Nicole is clingy.
I'm not clingy. That was
the first day we met ever.
It's one thing to say
she's affectionate.
It's another to say
she's clingy.
Do you think
by what you saw
that it's sort of
a turnoff to azan?
It was to me.
Well, you're not azan.
He did not seem all that
receptive to it.
He looked
very uncomfortable.
Azan, do you think
Nicole is clingy?
Be honest.
Well, one of
the biggest conflicts
between Nicole and azan seemed
to be her lifestyle choices,
specifically azan's hope
that she would adopt
a healthier attitude.
Let's take a look.
The first time I saw Nicole,
I see that she's pretty
and, you know, she's cute.
Okay, I'm ready.
It can happen finally.
Then, I see all her --
I mean, all her body.
I was surprised that
she's big a little bit.
Just try it please.
And I don't like zucchini
and vegetables and stuff.
You know, I like that
there's French fries
everywhere.
Yeah, I know.
You want me to change?
You never told me that.
I can't go up there.
Oh, my god.
I'm gonna pass out.
I don't exercise, okay?
This is not a thing for me.
Nicole, what's it like
for you to watch that?
It's horrible.
I look horrible.
Why do you say
you look horrible?
I think when I was
saying that stuff,
I was a little naive about it,
and the longer
I stayed in Morocco,
I tried re things also.
I just want to say that
sand hill was something else.
Azan, we saw in that video
clip
that before you met Nicole,
you were hoping that she had
a certain body type,
looked a certain way.
How did she meet
your expectations
when you first saw her?
But you knew
what I looked like.
Mm-hmm.
Mm-hmm.
So, azan, let me ask you,
are you physically attracted
to Nicole?
Yeah, I think. Yeah.
Yes, I do -- now.
Wait. You said,
"you think"?
In my country, we don't care
about how the body is,
so it's normal.
You think Nicole is unhealthy
at the size she is now?
Robbalee, what is it like
to hear these things said
about your daughter
from her fianc?
At least
I'm not the only one.
That's what I'm thinking.
Do you tell her
the same things?
I try to get her
to eat more vegetables,
try to get her to, you know,
exercise more.
I worry about her health.
It's not like I take offense
to my fianc or my mother
saying that
I should be healthier.
Do you think he was
trying to change you?
No, he isn't trying
to change me.
He wants me to be healthier
because he does care about me,
and I know that about him,
and I know that
since I've been with him,
he motivates me
to want to do better, too.
So it's nothing
offensive for me.
Robbalee, do you
want your daughter
to go through
with this marriage?
And later...
We got into
a big old argument.
I got to --
-it was a problem.
The couples tell all"
continues.
Well, Nicole and azan
got off to a rocky start,
and her next revelation
didn't make things any easier.
Let's take a look.
It's hard to bring up,
but, like...
...when I cheated.
Before I came to Morocco,
I cheated on azan.
And it really hurt us.
I'm here
because I love you,
and I know it's hard
to forget what happened --
this is the first time.
That made you really
uncomfortable
watching that,
right, Nicole?
-Mm-hmm.
-Tell me what happened.
It was just a -- a mistake
that happened one night,
and that was it.
It was just a big mistake.
Worst mistake ever.
Because azan's
the one I want to be with,
and I almost ruined
everything.
Azan, tell me about
that moment
when Nicole told you
that she cheated on you.
Robbalee,
were you surprised
that your daughter
cheated on azan?
I was surprised.
It -- it did surprise me.
She seemed
so committed to this.
So it felt like it
came out of left field.
But I know that she is
a very passionate person.
And she -- she needs,
you know, physical affirmation
as well
as verbal affirmation.
And, um, I know this is
something she has to deal
with.
Now, Nicole and azan have been
fighting almost the entire
trip,
which eventually led
to a very memorable blow-up.
Let's take a look.
If Nicole, like,
she doesn't respect
everything about my culture,
I'm not sure I can spend
my whole life with her.
I'm sure they're not
gonna arrest you
for assaulting
my shoulder.
No, it's not bad to talk much.
No, it's not.
-I hate that.
-I'm sorry.
I guess
that's just how I am.
I know.
You should know by now I'm not
a sit-and-listen kind of girl.
So, I'm sorry.
So, how are you
gonna show me off?
If you can't do
any of that stuff,
how can you show me off?
-I don't know.
Because literally --
you need to figure it out,
though.
Literally, you're making me
feel like I don't matter.
Yeah, so?
-So?
-Yeah, so?
I don't matter?
No, not anymore.
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry,
but I don't like this.
Get away from me.
Whoo! When I was watching
that,
that was so uncomfortable.
Azan, did I see you laughing
during that segment?
What were you thinking
as you were watching it?
Nicole, it was interesting
because you said
during that argument, "how are
you going to show me off?"
Tell me
what you meant by that.
Because I've explained
to azan before
that you don't have to kiss
and you don't have to
necessarily have romantic hugs
in public
to show them
that you appreciate them.
I wanted people in Morocco
know that I was his
and that he was happy
to be with me.
Robbalee, are you still
dead-set against
helping Nicole financially
to get azan over here?
-Yes. I am.
-You will not help one penny.
Because I feel like
this is something
she needs to do
on her own.
She's gonna have to
dig deep for this one.
All right.
We have lost our connection
with azan, and we are trying
to get that back.
But he seemed
very disappointed
that your mother
would not help you.
But he didn't seem
surprised.
No.
He wasn't surprised, either.
Robbalee, do you want
your daughter
to go through
with this marriage?
Well...
I don't think
it's an ideal situation.
I think it, um -- it needs
a little more revisiting.
I know you love him, but I'm
not
convinced on the other side.
You're not convinced
that azan loves Nicole?
I am not convinced
that azan loves Nicole.
All right.
And what is the one thing
that makes you feel that way?
Hearing him talk.
I see the look on his face.
You know, when someone is
in love, they're animated.
You can see it.
You can hear it in their
voice.
Maybe everyone's not as
animated
and passionate as we are.
You should hear him
speak in French.
That's passionate.
The only reason
you think it's passionate
is 'cause
you can't understand it.
See -- all right.
So, you totally trust azan.
I do trust him.
That's stupid.
All right.
I don't.
I don't care.
But that's me
being a mom.
That's my prerogative.
I can -- I can be that way.
Mm-hmm.
And one day, you're gonna
be a mom of a teenager,
and I can't wait.
I know, and I'll probably
say the same things.
I can't wait.
Payback coming soon.
If may did that...
Oh, my gosh.
-I know, right?
I would take the time off to
go to Morocco with her,
though.
Alla, do you love Matt?
And later...
You told me,
"the ticket's 5 grand,"
or something like that.
-So?
I was like, boom.
Here it is.
-You gave her $5,000 cash?
-He didn't give it to me.
-Yes, I did.
-You didn't give it to me.
-Yes, I did.
-No, you didn't.
-Yes, I did.
-No, you didn't.
-Yes, I did.
-No, you didn't.
The couples tell all"
continues.
Welcome back to "90 day
fianc."
We are here with alla and
Matt,
anfisa and Jorge,
Nicole,
and Pedro and Chantel.
We're still trying
to reconnect with azan.
Now we're gonna move on.
Robbalee said that she still
did not trust azan.
Alla, I want you
to comment
on what you heard
from Nicole's mother.
Genuine.
So, Chantel, what did
you think about it?
I thought that her mom
just responded
like any other mom
would respond.
And I guess she has
the suspicion
because he doesn't really
speak with a lot of affection.
You guys were watching
the conversation
between Nicole
and her mother.
Jorge?
I feel like I went
through the same thing
that Nicole
went through.
You want the affection,
you want this,
and then now it's, like...
Like, after a while,
you start to realize,
like, when the true colors of
the person actually comes out,
you start to realize,
like...
Anfisa's getting upset.
Jorge,
where's your phone?
--Yeah.
It's broken.
It's already broken.
Okay.
Well, at this point,
Chantel still hadn't told
her parents what was going on.
With only days to spare,
she finally let
the cat out of the bag.
Let's watch.
So, Pedro is not here
on a student visa.
He's actually here
on a k-1 visa.
We have to get
married on Thursday.
-This Thursday?
-Yeah, Thursday.
Basically, you have to file
for a k-1 visa
when you want to marry
someone who does not live
in the United States.
And when they get here,
you have 90 days to marry
them.
The name of the show
is "90 day fianc."
So 90 days ago,
you could have mentioned this,
or 50 days ago.
Wow. They seemed pretty
calm at the time, Chantel.
How long did that last?
Um, it didn't last
very long
before they started, um,
you know,
trying to persuade me
not to get married, so...
Did they feel that Pedro was
just out for the green card?
They just
didn't trust him.
Pedro,
how are things today
between you
and Chantel's family?
Um...
Not very good.
Matt, what was it like for you
to watch that interaction
between Chantel's family
when she told them
what the real deal was?
Oh.
Yeah, that was intense.
For me, the thing that
would be so difficult for that
is that I love my family.
They're part of my life.
And, um...I want them involved
in knowing what's going on
with me and supporting me,
and...
To get to miss out on
that whole part of dating
and getting married
would be...
It's a tough decision.
There was a shocking moment
towards the end of the season
as alla made an incredible
confession.
Let's take a look.
My concern, of course,
is always on Matt.
So I want to make sure
that you're marrying him
for the right reasons.
What do you mean,
for the right reason?
That you love him and not just
because you want to be here
and you want Max
to have a good life.
So why
do you love Matt?
I've never told Matt
that I love him.
You never told Matt?
-I've never told him.
-Why not?
It's because...
It's because I cannot
just say love.
For me,
it really means a lot.
-But you're marrying him?
-Yes.
And you don't love him?
I don't know.
Alla, do you love Matt?
Yes. I love Matt.
When was the first time that
you told him you loved him?
I think it was...
Alla, what made you
say it, finally?
He just showed me that --
I don't know --
that he is ready to do
everything for me.
And I just tried to think
that he is not in my life.
And...
It was a bad feeling.
And I've -- I've realized
that probably this is love.
I don't know.
But, probably, this is love.
That got you so animated.
And then, obviously, Matt,
you were, like --
that was it for you, buddy.
-Oh, it was.
You were just so happy
after that.
I was so excited.
But I couldn't show it
because her culture is --
it's like the clip
we just watched.
Her culture is so...
You know, of course we're
different parts of the world.
You don't share stuff like
that
from where she comes from.
Mothers can tell their
children
that they love them,
and that's about it.
You just don't throw
that word around.
So I'm not allowed
to pull the car over
and jump up and down and run
around the car like a crazy
man.
-Yes.
-All right.
It would have been very easy
for alla to just say,
"sure, I love him."
But she wanted to be honest
with you and his family,
right?
You wanted to have
that honesty, right, alla?
Yeah. I want to have
this honesty with him.
Not with his family.
I don't care
about people around.
I want to be honest
with him.
No, I mean, I care
because this is his family,
and they're very important,
but the main reason for me
is to be honest with him.
Yeah, I think it was
a big bluff, like --
she's like,
"well, drive me, then."
And then once we were there,
I was like, "get out the car."
No, you were
not like that!
And later...
I understand the way
she feels.
When you see --
-hey.
When you see, like,
yourself on the television,
and like, everybody's saying
these bad things
about you constantly,
it hurts,
and it really gets to you.
The couples tell all"
continues.
We're back with
our "90 day fianc" couples.
We all became aware
of anfisa's expensive taste
during the chanel purse
incident,
but that was just the
beginning.
Let's take a look.
Did we want to move forth
with trying on
the $45,000 dress?
It's up to her.
Yeah.
I hope she don't like it.
You love that one?
-How much is it?
Let me take a look.
So, the retail on this
is $300,000.
I think the ring shows
how much he loves me.
If he proposed to me
with some cheap ring,
I think
I'm not gonna marry him.
We have to be reasonable.
Where is your wedding ring,
anfisa?
I don't have a ring.
You don't have a ring.
Why don't you have a ring?
Because Jorge
didn't get me a ring.
Nope. I was gonna
go buy a ring,
and I think that same day,
she's blowing up
my "find my iPhone."
I'm literally looking
at the ring, placing the
order,
doing the whole paperwork
for it,
and then she starts to get,
like, really crazy,
like, extremely crazy.
So, basically, we got
into a big old argument.
Yeah, it got to the point
where
I drove her to the airport.
-For her to go back...
-Yep.
-...to Russia.
-Yep.
And what happened?
Obviously she didn't get
on that plane.
Yeah, I think it was
a big bluff, like --
she's like,
"well, drive me, then."
And then once we were there,
I was like, "get out the car."
No, you were
not like that!
I gave her the money
for the ticket.
I even booked it,
like, first --
I even gave her like
a first-class price.
No, you didn't!
I gave you 5 grand.
No, you didn't.
-Yes, I did.
-No, you didn't.
Keic
you told me "the tt's 5
grand," or something like t
-so?
-I was like, boom.
-Here it is.
-You gave her $5,000 cash?
-He didn't give it to me.
-Yes, I did.
-You didn't give it to me.
-Yes, I did.
-No, you didn't.
-Yes, I did.
-No, you didn't.
-Yes, I did.
No, you didn't.
After fighting constantly
throughout the season,
anfisa, once again, took
control
of Jorge's phone,
and it finally seemed that he
had reached his breaking
point.
Let's take a look.
What the is the
problem?
- I need to make this money.
- What the
god.
Phone out the window!
I just want to throw this
for $15,000 dollars,
and you're really it
up.
Anfisa sent me a text
saying that, uh, she did
something to my car.
Uh, I asked her what.
She didn't tell me.
And, uh...As I'm inspecting
it,
she keyed "idiot"
into the driver's side door.
I don't want this
for the rest of my life.
I wanted the anfisa that I met
when I first met her.
Hopefully, I wake up tomorrow
and this is all
just a bad dream.
Wow.
Anfisa, you could tell that
Jorge was really hurt.
Did you regret etching the
word
"idiot" into the car?
-No.
-Why not?
So, people would look at this
and say,
"keying his car,
erasing his phone,
is not treating somebody
that you love with respect."
Do you agree with that?
So, why do you think
you did it?
Because I had my reasons.
Tell me the reasons.
But nobody cares because --
who cares?
You're not even
gonna show nothing.
You're just gonna show
that I'm the b*tch, and...
That's how they show me,
so I can't blame people for...
Oh!
Nicole, what is one comment
on social media
that you remember
people saying?
It said that "this heifer
cheated on azan.
She's such a pig."
There are so many more
where that comes from.
The couples tell all"
continues.
At the end of the last
segment,
anfisa walked off the set.
Oh!
I wanted to find out
from the rest of the cast
what they thought
of what had just happened.
Interesting.
I think she reads
a lot of the social media
and what they say about her,
and it's not good.
Right.
I mean,
I can kind of relate to her,
like, 'cause I feel
really bad that...
The moment where
I was at the club --
I mean, it
was totally out of my
character
at that moment, and, like,
I feel like I've really
changed
and I've grown and, like,
right now, my only focus
is to finish school and just
be
the best wife possible.
And, like, I understand the
way
she feels when you see --
hey. It's okay.
When you see, like, yourself
on the television,
and like, everybody's saying
these bad things
about you constantly, it hurts
and it really gets to you.
And, I mean, at least --
I'm just lucky
that the love of my life --
oh.
Stop it, okay?
After everything...
After everything, he still
chooses to be with me,
and...He trusts me.
And it didn't affect us.
Alla, what has you
so emotional right now?
Yeah.
The comments that people
leave on social media --
do they really hurt?
Yeah, they hurt.
Yeah, they hurt.
If you're not a strong person,
those comments will destroy
you.
Nicole, what is one comment
on social media
that you remember
people saying?
I read a comment that said...
It said that "this heifer
cheated on azan.
She's such a pig."
There are so many more
where that comes from.
Right. Chantel, give me
one comment from social media
that you remember
that really hurt you.
Well, they just say that
I'm, like, really immature
and that all I care --
like, of course,
that I don't respect Pedro,
which, I mean, I do.
But, you know,
I just try my best
to stay away
from it now.
I mean, I read it
a little bit,
but after that, I just try to
stay off of social media.
I changed everything
private, so...
-You did?
-I try to ignore it.
-You changed it to private?
-Mm-hmm.
How are you doing?
I'm good.
Did you hear what the couples
here were saying after you
left?
No.
They said they understood
how hurtful comments
about yourself can be.
Tell me why you walked off.
What were you thinking
in that moment?
Alla, would you talk
to anfisa right now
and tell her what you said
when she walked off?
Yeah, you can.
Anfisa, can you tell us
what she said?
She said that we love each
other, that we have chemistry,
and, yes -- she said that,
yes, she understands that
I love money, like...
I mean, there's a lot
more to anfisa than we know.
I've seen the comments, and I
know that she sees them, too,
and that is not
who she is.
It's not even
about the comments.
It's like...
Jorge is trying to talk bad
about me.
But I'm not trying to talk bad
about you.
It's like I'm trying to get
you
to realize how I feel
inside...
'Cause it seems like,
when you do these crazy
things,
like, you seem like you don't
care about anything else.
Like, I'm not trying to sit
here
and shame you as a person.
Yes, that's what
you're trying.
No, I'm not.
You understand that we have
cameras around.
No, but I'm not trying to say
that you're a bad person.
I'm just trying to get you
to understand, when you do --
can you tell me that
in private?
Why are you trying to...
Well, let me ask you,
anfisa,
do you really love Jorge?
Yes.
Do you feel bad when,
you know,
you key his car
or when you erase
his phone? Do you?
Like I said,
I do it for a reason.
Like, he does something bad,
and then I do.
Well, do you think that the
relationship can survive
going the way
it's going now?
I think a lot of changes
need to be made.
Anfisa, if Jorge can give you
more attention,
the attention
that you want,
if he's willing to make
certain sacrifices
to make you happier,
what sacrifices would you
be willing to make
to make Jorge happier?
I think I made
enough sacrifices
by leaving everything in
Russia
and moving here.
That certainly was
a big sacrifice.
Can I have another tissue?
Do you realize
the type of sacrifice
that anfisa has made to come
here to be with you?
Just to be here.
-Because we're in America.
Just to be here.
Because America's
such a wonderful place.
-Yeah. Yeah.
-You're here.
Everybody just wants to leave
everything behind
and just stay here.
-That's actually a good point.
I mean, and that's something
that I haven't heard
anybody say before.
What do you think is making
her
most emotional right now,
Jorge?
I think what made
her emotional
was, like, seeing
the moment again.
The couples tell all" c
we're back with
our "90 day fianc" couples.
Well, let's take a look back
at some of our couples'
memorable wedding moments.
So we're
gathered here today
to celebrate one of life's
greatest moments,
the joining
of your two hearts.
Well, I'm glad that
you've decided to show up.
My brother -- where's river?
-So I give you...
-So I give you...
-"...my life to keep."
-...My life to keep.
-Hey, river.
-River.
Aww.
Are you sure
you want to do this?
Yes. I'm sure.
Hi.
- "...for richer..."
...For richer...
- "...and richer..."
...And richer...
- ...and richer...
- "...And richer..."
Do you take
alla as your wife?
I will.
You may kiss.
Da-da-da da-da-da
anfisa, what was
the most emotional thing
about the day
that you got married?
Jorge, what was it
for you like?
It was great.
Mm-hmm.
It wasn't how I...
Imagined it would be.
Why?
I know we had to do the 90
days
and get married,
but, like, I wanted it
to be different.
I didn't want us
to be forced, like,
to go through
the whole process.
I wanted to, like --
I'm still planning to give
anfisa a big wedding, you
know?
Are you?
What do you think
is making her
most emotional
right now, Jorge?
I think what made her
emotional
was, like,
seeing the moment again.
Mm-hmm.
But it wasn't her --
it wasn't her dream wedding.
Yeah, it wasn't
her dream wedding.
I mean, anfisa wants
her family to be there
and share that moment
with her.
Who would you have liked
to have been a part
of your wedding, anfisa?
My grandmother and my mom
and my best friend.
Do you think
it's a possibility
that, when you have
your big ceremony,
that they would be
able to be there?
I think I would make it
a priority to get them there.
Can you understand
how anfisa's feeling now,
when your family, your friends
are not there
to share in that
special day?
Yeah, but my situation
was a little different
because Matt did
everything possible
that we can get my sister,
and she made it.
That made a world of
difference
to you, didn't it?
Yeah. That is why
I was so emotional --
because I was
seeing her on...
Yeah.
And you knew how important
it was to alla...
Oh, my gosh, yes.
...to make sure
her sister was there.
It was everything, yeah.
And, Pedro, your family
couldn't
be at your wedding, right?
Chantel, why wasn't
his family there?
Well, I mean,
it was so last-minute
that there was not enough time
to apply for them
to have their visas and ready
and everything like that
to come here, realistically.
Did you know how much
he wanted them
to be a part of the day,
the ceremony?
Yes, I do.
And...Hopefully, we'll be able
to have one in his country,
and it's much easier
for my family to go there.
-Mm-hmm.
-So...
You know, that's one of the t
usually, people spend --
they can spend a year
planning their wedding,
and you guys have to do it
so very quickly.
So, that's one of the
downsides,
I guess, from the program.
But would you do it again?
I would most definitely
do it again.
Marrying Pedro has been
the best decision
I've made
in my entire life.
Good for you.
That's nice.
Matt.
We'll find out just how much
okay, guys, what is your
partner's sexiest body part?
The couples tell all" c
all right, I'd like to play
a quick game now
with our couples to see
how well they know each other.
Now, each of you have
a pad and a marker.
The object is to write down
your guess
for what your partner
said about you.
And we just have to mention --
Nicole's not playing
because azan is not here.
But he's here in spirit.
-Okay? Everybody ready?
-Let's go.
Everyone, when it comes to
your
marriage, who is in charge?
When it comes to your
marriage,
who is in charge?
We will go to Matt.
"Both." Okay.
-There is no boss.
When there's things that
are important, we discuss it
and make sure that
we are both in agreement.
Okay.
Alla, what was your answer?
"50/50." Good. Both.
Great.
Anfisa?
You said you -- you're the
boss.
Okay.
Ah, "anfisa."
All right, right now,
the couples are jibing.
Their answers are in sync.
Chantel says she is the boss
in the relationship.
Pedro?
Uh-oh. I think we have
a disagreement.
Oh! We do.
There's a little bit
of a power struggle there.
Okay.
All right. Okay.
Guys, what is your partner's
sexiest body part?
And, girls, what do you think
they are going to say?
What did you say, Matt?
For this,
it was easy for me,
because she has the most
amazing a*s in the world.
Butt.
I tell her it is
the best in the whole world.
Alla, what did you think
his answer was?
"Butt." Yay!
We got a winner here.
Okay. Jorge.
Her everything.
-Aww.
-Her everything.
Oh, very sweet.
Very sweet.
Anfisa, what did you think
he was going to say?
I don't want to show mine.
- Go ahead. Show...
Okay. We got that.
All right, Pedro.
Oh!
What did you say,
Chantel?
-I said boobs.
-Boobs.
No.
Everyone, describe your spouse
in one word.
Okay. Nicole, describe your
soon-to-be spouse in one word.
Selfless.
Selfless, okay.
Great.
Matt, how did you describe
alla
and -- aww, awesome.
Alla is awesome.
-Alla, what was your answer?
-Spelling is...
-Sensitive.
-Mm-hmm.
Anfisa, describe Jorge
in one word.
-Funny.
-Funny.
That's good.
Anfisa -- amazing.
Nice.
Chantel, describe Pedro
in one word.
Perfect.
Pedro?
Perfect.
Oh, okay. That's good.
That's all right.
So, I want to ask our couples
--
is there anything
that you would have done
differently
knowing what this k-1 visa
process was going to be like?
Jorge?
-Um...
There's probably a lot that
I could have done different,
but right now, I wouldn't
change it for anything.
Anfisa, what about you?
I would not do it right now.
I would do it later
because I felt like we were
in a constant rush, and...
That's just put a lot of
stress
on our relationship.
Chantel?
I would have definitely
told my parents
the moment that he engaged --
the moment that he asked me
to be his wife --
that's the main thing.
And I think that that would
have
made a world of difference.
Mm-hmm. Pedro, would you have
done anything differently?
Mm. Okay.
Alla, what about you?
Is there anything you would
have done differently,
knowing what the process
was going to be like?
I wouldn't change
anything.
Just accept everything
that happened.
It just -- everything went
how it was supposed to go.
Matt?
I think, for me,
something I was naive about
was the cultural difference
and how important --
how big a factor that would be
in understanding each other.
Mm-hmm.
Nicole, what about you?
I got to agree with Matt,
with the understanding
someone else's culture --
that would have been
a lot easier on us
while I was in Morocco
if I had just been
a lot more open-minded
and understanding of him.
Alla, how are things
between you and Patrick today?
We are not best friends.
He's been over --
him and his girlfriend, Julie.
They've been over
several times,
and we've enjoyed
each other's company.
And they've had us
over to their place, so...
Jorge, how do you
make things better
between your sisters
and anfisa?
I can't control
what my sisters think.
And, also...
Anfisa's cooperation
with trying to maybe
make things a little better --
like, she doesn't try
to make them like her.
If you're in my life,
they're gonna be in your life,
no matter what.
My family's
not in your life.
I'm not saying, like, they're
gonna be in our relationship,
but I'm saying, like, they're
gonna be a part of my life,
regardless of anything.
Like,
if I went to Russia,
like, I would communicate
with your family members.
Yeah,
because they like you
because I don't tell them
bad things about you.
Are we gonna
start this again?
So, obviously, there's still
a lot of work to be done.
-Yeah.
-Yes.
And we wish you luck.
Well, it's been great
sitting down with all of you.
I cannot wait to see
what the future holds for you.
For more information about
"90 day fianc," go to tlc.Com.
I'm Shaun Robinson.
Thank you for watching.
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