previously on "90 day fiancé"...
jay is only 20 years old.
he's definitely the life
of the party.
my main concern is you.
if jesus came down
from heaven right now
and said he cheated me,
i wouldn't do anything about it.
i spend most of my free time
alone with my cats
and my mother, debbie,
until i met larissa.
how do you know that
she's not just coming over
for a free visa?
i believe every word
that she says.
yeah, i'm not too sure.
leida lives in the lap
of luxury.
if she has all this money
and stuff,
why is she moving to america?
i met asuelu on vacation,
lost my virginity,
and had his baby.
fernanda is a fiery latina,
and i had no clue that my single
life would end so abruptly.
i really messed up.
and coming up...
olga is from russia.
she's smoking hot.
she was only here
for the summertime,
and then all of a sudden,
she's pregnant.
how many 20 year olds
would go across seas
and be with their family?
certainly where you are
people are taking jobs
and engaged in crime.
larissa is arriving today
from brazil.
i'm excited, i'm nervous,
i'm scared.
it's like christmas morning.
leida's family is very
successful in indonesia.
i'm worried about
her sister reina.
hey, mom.
-how was work?
-pretty good. all ready to go?
finally, after weeks of waiting,
larissa received her visa.
and she's arriving tomorrow
from brazil.
i just want to hug her and kiss
her and tell her that i love her
even though we only spent
i'm hoping that when she arrives
she won't be
completely disappointed
and won't get back
on the airplane
and turns around
and go back to brazil
because we've had
little misunderstandings.
i can't buy your ticket
the same day.
that would be
exponentially expensive.
you can wait a few more days
to come to america.
i'm a little bit nervous
because larissa
has never been
to america before,
and i'm not sure
if she's gonna like vegas.
then there's a situation
with my mother.
-so how was your day?
-it was pretty good.
finishing up
a project at work.
i'm not sure how my mother
is gonna react
when larissa enters
the picture.
it's just been my mother and i
pretty much my entire life.
my relationship with my mother
has been very good.
maybe -- maybe we're a little
too close, but, in my opinion,
a man's first best friend
would be his mother.
should i go this way
or the other way?
like you normally do.
let's not be adventurous.
okay.
i can't believe, like,
larissa's gonna be here.
i know.
are you nervous
about her coming?
a little bit. um...
i'm more nervous about
her expectations
of las vegas and america.
what does she expect?
well, i think she thinks
las vegas is just the strip,
and -- and,
you know, that's it.
i've lived with my mother
most of my life.
we also share one vehicle.
in the past, i think it had
an effect on my relationships.
on more than one occasion,
i had a girl that she was
more or less a burden,
and that i should think about
separating myself from her.
things are gonna change.
well, yeah.
this is probably
not easy for you,
going through
all this change, but...
yeah.
i am very nervous.
i've never met larissa.
i talked to her on the phone,
and i'm a little sad that --
that the situation
will change a little bit.
that's what happens
when your children grow up.
another successful landing.
i think it's very important
that both larissa and my mother
form some kind of
relationship together.
if larissa doesn't
like my mother
or my mother
doesn't like larissa,
it's gonna be
a very tough living situation.
wow, look at that.
holy cow.
it's literally a cow.
you know,
you're such a good cook.
thank you.
-you're welcome.
it's a celebration because
this is like our last dinner
before larissa comes here.
true. we'll never
be the same again.
no.
where's she gonna sit?
that's about what
i was going to say.
well, from what i understand,
couples --
brazilian couples sit next
to each other when they dine,
so, compare it, like,
you and i, if we were dating,
we might sit across
from each other.
well, but we're adding a new
dynamic to our situation.
it'll be different.
and we'll argue.
oh, i'm sure we will argue.
if we do have problems,
we have to communicate.
-right.
-sit down, be patient.
mm-hmm.
there will probably be
a little drama,
a little tricky at first.
i'll have to try to keep
my mouth shut a lot of times,
and that's not easy
for me to do,
but hopefully
it'll work out.
i mean, her and i have little
different personalities.
you know, maybe i'm more
reserved and collective.
she has a temper.
she is passionate.
but i feel like
larissa's the one.
she's the first woman
i've ever been with
that it's like,
"okay, we're done."
you want to marry?
you never mentioned that before.
the elephant in the room,
of course, is,
you know, boundaries
and privacy.
you know, her and i
are a couple, so...
absolutely.
there are things we need to do,
want to do by ourselves.
shut your door.
when you door is closed,
i won't bother you.
when my door is closed,
don't bother me.
you never know
who i might have over.
why don't you keep a sock
on the door handle?
you'll be fine.
well...
but that's expected.
you'll always be --
you're a part of the family.
thank you.
but it's still sad.
it's very hard.
it's -- i mean, we've been
together for so long.
i just don't want
to feel left out,
even though i know i'm supposed
to get my own life
and move on,
but it's still hard,
and i just don't want
to be left out completely.
life's about change.
mm-hmm.
i can deal with change.
my fiancée, fernanda,
arrived yesterday.
she is 19 years old from mexico.
fernanda moving here --
obviously, i'm losing
the lifestyle of a bachelor,
but i'm gaining so much.
but, um, unfortunately,
that first night
didn't go as planned.
jonathan: that's old.
first night in america,
first night together,
but i slept on one end
of the couch,
and she slept on the other.
fernanda and i have had
little arguments,
but this is something
that we didn't expect.
i bought some coffee
and, hopefully,
we can have a better
conversation today
and wrap this up.
hey, baby.
i just want to say i'm really
sorry about yesterday.
i don't have
a good explanation
other than
i'm a frickin' idiot.
where did they come from?
they're from an old girlfriend,
like from years ago.
you can't imagine
how i feel.
why you have it
in the first place?
why?
-i didn't know i had it.
-okay.
you think i would leave that
for you to find?
it was an accident.
it was in there.
i had no idea.
i left all my life in mexico
because you.
to just something so simple.
clean your.
i haven't taken the time
to clean that stuff out.
more than apologize,
i need more respect,
and i really need
he understand all the things
i am give up for him,
and he needs to think about
he's not single anymore.
the furniture is so old.
when i moved,
i literally took the dresser,
put it on a truck,
and moved it.
i never went through them.
you can't judge me based on
one thing that i've done wrong.
trust me, it means
absolutely nothing.
give me the opportunity
to prove it to you.
if i could do it over again,
fernanda,
i would do it a hundred times.
the only thing we can do
from here is move forward.
i don't want to have
that dresser
that reminds you
of that situation.
let's get rid of it.
i love you.
i promise.
steven: olga's from russia.
she was only here
for the summer,
but that one time
was enough.
it really does take one time.
i just so hope the baby
doesn't want to just pop out
right before i'm even there.
but i would not miss
the birth of my son.
asuelu is finally arriving
to the u.s.
oh,.
ya-hoo!
i don't know
what's happening right now.
my name is steven.
i'm 20 years old,
and i'm from bowie, maryland.
i'm a waiter at a restaurant.
it's not what i want to do,
but i didn't graduate
high school,
so it's good money
for right now.
i'm young, so my life is party
after party after party.
i got arrested a few times
just for graffiti.
being a dumb kid.
what you imagine every
meaning no harm,
but just having fun.
but that's why when i was 16,
my mom kicked me out.
ever since then,
i've just been bouncing around
between my friends' house
and my grandmother's house.
nothing, like, too steady.
i spend most of my summers
in ocean city.
i like living at the beach
during the summer time.
you see all the girls
in the bikinis and, like,
i did have my moments where
i was kind of a little player,
but all of that suddenly changed
as soon as i met olga.
she's from russia.
i was intrigued by her accent.
her accent --
i -- i loved it.
i never really met anyone
that's quite like olga.
she's an adventurous person.
the places that she's been,
the things that she's done.
olga's just smart,
funny, outgoing,
and, like,
she's smoking hot.
like, come on.
i scored the hottest girl
on the beach.
i knew that she was only here
for the summertime,
and we're both 20.
why would the future
be on our minds?
so we were both just having fun
and enjoying our time,
and then, all of a sudden, bam,
she tells me she's pregnant.
it was the holy moment.
i was not expecting
to get olga pregnant.
not using protection
that one time was enough.
it really does take one time.
i knew the moment that pregnancy
test came back positive
that i will be
in this baby's life,
but that's a big step
right there
for only being with somebody
for a month and a half,
but i'm gonna be able
to do all of the things
that i always wanted to do
with my own dad.
my dad died when i was
seven years old from diabetes.
it was so hard for me,
so i am not having this kid grow
up without a dad like i did.
we found out olga was pregnant
like a week or two
before she had to
go back to russia.
we didn't know what to do.
after she was back home in
russia, we talked for a while,
and then we decided
that the best thing to do
is just to get married so
our kid can have a better life.
like, he can know both parents,
so i proposed to olga.
hi.
what time is it there right now?
i did research about
how can i get her here?
and olga and i decided to apply
for the k-1 visa months ago.
show me your stomach real quick.
i want to see how big it is.
we haven't heard anything
about her visa.
she's been alone
through the pregnancy,
and olga's due date is just
a little more than a week away.
i missed all of the doctor's
appointments, the pregnancy,
so i'm going to russia
for the birth of my son.
i just so hope the baby doesn't
want to just pop out
right before i'm even there.
i hope it don't happen.
i'll figure out everything else
like getting olga's
visa approved
and getting married
as time comes along.
i had no plan to be a father
at such a young age
and to be married
for the rest of my life,
but it's what has to happen
for me to be
with my son and olga
and not have to do this
from across the world.
i'm very nervous
for the airplane flight.
i will try.
i will try my best.
i can't promise.
i don't really
feel ready yet to travel
because i've never been
on a plane
or left the country
at all with anybody,
so first time doing it alone,
kind of a little bit nervous.
alright. i love you.
bye, babe. sleep well.
i'm leaving for russia tomorrow.
i am kind of scared
for the future
because there's a lot of things,
like, i don't know.
i don't know how much it costs
to raise a kid
or exactly what
the baby even needs,
but i hope i'm gonna be
able to bring my fiancée
and my son home with me.
hello, grandma.
even though i don't have
the best relationship
with my grandmother...
-hey, steven.
...before i leave the country,
i wanted to visit her
to tell her what's going on
with this visa process.
yes. i --
eve is out there barking
and barking and going crazy.
so, what is the status
of olga's visa?
because of all the politics
that are going on right now
between the united states
and russia, like,
it's probably gonna take
a while for that to go through.
you probably couldn't have
picked a worse country.
i didn't know anything
that was going on.
i found out all of that stuff
after the fact of everything.
yep. and it just got worse...
and worse.
...since trump
has been in office.
yes, yes.
before olga and i met,
i knew nothing about russia
other than, like,
they have cold winters.
when i found out that
she was pregnant,
that's when i did the research
and found out that
america and russia
are not on good terms.
but you're hoping
it won't be that long
before they can
come back here, right?
i don't know when.
that's -- that's
one of the biggest reasons
why this visa process
really does suck.
i'm hoping that she'll get it
by the time that i leave,
so we can all come to america
together as a family.
it makes me
so impatient because
i need to have
my family here with me.
i can't live here,
and then her be there.
ruth: with the politics
that's going on here,
i'm really worried about her
being able
to get back over here.
honestly, how many 20-year-olds
would go across seas
and be with their family?
i can't be the person
i used to be
in any way,
in any way possible.
and that's very
good to hear.
i want my son to be like how
i used to follow dad around
everywhere that he went.
i want him to be like that
with me because, like...
i always said that i'm gonna
give my first son his name.
and everything else
was secondary.
that's why i want
to be there with him.
i feel like if i just sit
and think about it to much,
it's gonna take over me.
i don't want that
to happen.
you need to concentrate
on what you need to do,
but it's going
to be difficult.
steven: the whole trip
to russia is gonna change
my view of the world
in such a short amount of time.
i'm going to travel
to a new country by myself,
see the birth, be a dad,
then doing all this
for the first time
after only being with olga
for a month and a half.
i have such
huge responsibilities
that i have to take on,
so i'm scared,
but i hope i don't mess up.
♪ happy birthday to you ♪
♪ happy birthday,
my little lani girl ♪
♪ happy birthday to you ♪
thanks, mom.
kalani: it's my 30th birthday,
and my fiancé, asuelu,
arrives today from samoa.
-yay.
-thank you.
we met when i was on a trip
in samoa, and after a month,
lost my virginity
and had his baby,
and we started
the process of a k-1 visa.
but my sister hates him,
and my dad wants me
to be with a white guy.
i know.
things that went on --
you kind of interpreted
as him cheating, whereas --
"interpreted"
or "i was told"?
i have worked so hard
to get to this point.
my son's been
without his father.
i've been without asuelu.
i've been without support,
so i just feel like once
he's here, i'll feel complete,
and i'll feel like
my family is complete.
all right,
can i give him to you
so i can pick up asuelu?
yes, yes.
lisa: i found out
that kalani was pregnant
when she came back from samoa.
i was shocked because kalani
was taught growing up
that she should wait
until marriage,
and i was concerned
whether it would last or not.
my biggest concerns,
marrying someone from samoa,
is whether his intentions are
to have a family here in america
or just get to america.
picking asuelu today
will probably be
one of the biggest moments
of my life thus far.
i've been with oliver
by myself for five months,
and i'm just nervous
that he's gonna come in
and not know how to do
a lot of things,
and i'm like super
protective of the baby,
even though asuelu
is oliver's dad.
if the whole 90 days don't
end up working out with asuelu,
i will be losing everything --
time, money, relationships,
my son's father,
so this is a lot
for me to process.
hello. over here,
over here, over here.
ohh.
my name is asuelu.
i'm from samoa,
and i'm 23 years old.
thank you.
what is happening?
lord jesus, please, no.
i don't know
what's happening right now.
i'm in shock.
i mean, i'm here thinking, like,
"oh, it's gonna be so great,"
and he comes out and...
...does a performance
for everybody.
if things don't
work out with her, let me know.
i hated that he just danced
in the middle of l.a.x.
in front of everybody
because i don't like
being the center of attention.
i mean, it is his first time
in america.
he did just leave samoa
for the first time,
so i guess i'm just
gonna have to teach him
how to act in public in america.
-he's at the airbnb.
-where?
we're going to go so that
you can go see him.
you want to put your socks on
or you want to...
ooh.
leida's family
is very successful in indonesia.
stop.
leida gets what she wants
when she wants.
oh, my god.
today's the big day.
i've been driving 15 hours
from wisconsin to new york
because today i am heading
into jfk airport
to pick up my fiancée, leida.
she's from jakarta, indonesia.
she's a med-school graduate,
a model, and an actress.
she's wonderful.
she's the best thing
that's ever happened to me.
leida and i have only spent 23
actual days together in person,
and i'm super-excited to finally
see her in my own country
and have her here
permanently.
yay, yay, yay.
leida is bringing her
five-year-old son, allessandro,
to america,
and i'm going to adopt him.
allessandro does like me,
but i don't know if he considers
me as a father figure.
also, i have three daughters
through my previous marriage.
leida's only eight years
older than my oldest daughter,
and i don't know how
they'll react to a stepmother.
the other thing i'm worried
about is her sister reina.
reina took the trip here
with leida and allessandro
to help them settle in.
she can be quite judgmental.
their family is very successful
in indonesia.
they live like kings over there,
and they have
high expectations for me
to provide a future
for leida and allessandro.
so if reina doesn't like
what she sees in america,
she may try to take allessandro
back to indonesia
with her and her parents,
but i'm not gonna
let that happen.
i didn't want leida,
allessandro, and reina
to fly directly to the midwest
because i wanted them
to have a chance
to see some of the united states
before they saw my place.
i feel happy
when i think about her.
she's amazing, she's beautiful,
she's intelligent.
i can't wait
to get married to leida
and us to start
our lives together.
hey!
my name is leida,
i'm 29 years old,
and i'm from jakarta, indonesia.
how's he doing?
alless.
hey, buddy.
how you doing?
i can hear him laughing.
-yes.
-yeah.
-let's get the baggage.
-ah, yeah. let's go.
-this one?
-no.
hang on, bud.
ooh, audi.
all right, bud.
yeah.
those are mine.
i really underestimated
the size of your suitcases.
don't. don't.
no, no, no, no.
don't, don't.
no, no, no, no, no.
don't.
no. stop.
this is different.
-nah.
bags are gonna go
where they work on this load.
it's gonna be loaded how --
there is -- no.
this is gonna take
whatever it takes.
leida gets what she wants
when she wants.
stop. no.
oh, my god.
i'm a little concerned
about her ability
to adapt to my lifestyle
here in america.
oh, boy.
but it's not gonna
be immediate.
it's gonna be
a little rough getting there.
oh, my god.
i feel like we can't relax,
you know?
larissa?
this is the first time
larissa's ever been to america,
and i hope she likes it.
welcome to america.
i met my fiancée, jay, while
on vacation in jamaica.
he proposed after we spent
eight days together,
and after months of waiting,
we're finally at the end
in the k-1 visa process.
at this point, all jay has
is his interview left,
so i'm heading to jamaica
just to support him.
i'm really excited and hopeful
that his visa will get approved.
but at the same time,
i'm a little nervous
because jay has a past
of being a player.
it's also stressful
'cause i've ran from
two previous engagements.
i mean, obviously, you never
know what's going to happen.
so i just got to the airport,
and i'm looking for jay.
should be here somewhere.
jay's always late
when he picks me up,
so most of the time
i'm walking out of the airport,
and he's not there yet.
oh! there he is.
-all right?
-he's here!
i'm just so happy to see him.
running into jay's arms
is just the best feeling.
we've been apart for so long,
and it's just...
it feels great.
just to be with him,
just to have him hold me.
it's just great.
i missed you.
alright?
the weather is so nice here.
oh, god.
i know.
it's so cold at home.
what's the coldest
you've ever felt?
it's, like, 10.
yeah.
i bet.
yeah.
i know that he's not really
using it as an opportunity
because he's had opportunities
to come to the u.s.
he had an ex-girlfriend
that lived there,
but no one wants to be
stuck living
with someone that
they're just not --
just kind of just
disgusted by, so...
ooh.
you got a hotel.
wait, wait, wait, wait.
huh?
for what?
mm!
- ta-da.
- aww.
that looks cute.
take a seat, babe.
the room is really nice,
but i just --
i feel like we can't relax
until your interview
is done and over with.
if you get denied...
i'm sure it's very hard
for someone so young
to be abstinent.
you know, a long-distance
relationship
is not easy in general,
let alone with a 20-year-old,
so i definitely feel
the pressure
that i need
to keep him satisfied,
including having sex,
like, three times a day.
come here, baby.
mm.
ashley: i think intimacy
is really important.
sometimes, we just,
like, pull the car over
and have sex in the middle
of the road.
mm.
after weeks of waiting,
larissa received her visa,
and she's arriving today
from brazil.
been a while
since i've seen larissa.
i'm very excited.
hopefully, our relationship
will continue to grow,
even though we've only spent
hey, good morning.
yeah. you excited
for larissa to come?
it's different
living together, you know.
waking up every day,
having coffee, you know,
doing the regular,
normal-life stuff.
i'm pretty sure that we're gonna
use most of the 90 days together
to figure out if we can
actually live together
and we want to get married.
you want to check
her flight, too?
alright, cookie.
i got to go.
have fun.
hey, mom.
you down here?
yes.
hey.
track her --
look at her plane.
-i was doing the same thing.
-yeah?
where is she now?
right there.
ooh, right there.
excited?
very nervous.
very nervous?
aw, don't be too nervous.
i should be the one
that's nervous.
you're gonna have
a daughter-in-law pretty soon.
i know. i'm excited.
yeah.
i guess i should probably go.
bye.
debbie: i'll back off slowly.
it's only just slowly,
not just all of a sudden,
you know, shock.
like, "well, mom, you're not
needed anymore. go away."
so, that --
you know, that would hurt.
colt:
i'm pretty nervous. my hands
are shaking a little bit.
i just hope it all works out.
i hope larissa loves it here.
i hope larissa and i can learn
to live together and be happy,
and i hope...
mother can be happy, too.
larissa is barely minutes away,
and
i just can't believe it.
to be honest with you,
i have so many emotions
that i'm feeling right now.
i'm excited,
i'm nervous, i'm scared.
i just --
it's like christmas morning.
i don't know
what's gonna happen.
i hope it's good.
colt: i'm very excited.
this is the first time
larissa's ever been to america,
and i hope she likes it,
and i hope that she still
loves me, and we see each other,
and we hug and have that
moment every couple wants.
larissa.
hey.
you just --
you look great.
no flowers, honey.
i'm sorry.
how was your flight?
yeah, i bet.
welcome to america.
as you can see,
i cleared out the place for you.
i missed you, too.
yep. there's all
the flowers.
i'm not gonna
buy you $20 flowers
from a vending machine.
i'll tell you
how much parking is
since i arrived
so early for you.
you look
really beautiful.
i would love to show
larissa the city
and just show you around
the house she's gonna live in
and just talk to her
and just be with her.
baby, don't
front-seat drive.
do you know what that means?
you're not driving,
so i don't want
to hear your opinion.
kalani:
our 90 days just started,
and having asuelu in the car
knowing that
we're going to drive
and see our son in the country
my son was born in,
and, like, asuelu's new home --
i don't know.
it's just nice to finally
have the three of us together,
and, like, oliver has his dad.
his dad is finally here.
beep beep!
hey.
i feel like
we're a good match
because i'm more serious
and he's more joking.
i'm hardest.
oh, not hottest.
not "hot." "hard."
okay.
"hardest."
i am also the hottest.
yeah.
wow.
looks different or what?
it's a big house.
my son and i had been living in
a condo with my sister kalini,
but i'm staying
at an airbnb right now
because my sister
does not want asuelu around,
so we're just in this little
temporary space in the airbnb
until, basically,
i figure out what i'm doing.
yeah.
no.
wow.
you ready?
hello?
mom?
hi.
hello, mom.
-okay.
oh, can you close
the door please, baby?
asuelu didn't really contribute
to his son's life
in the first five months,
so there's going to be
a lot of things
that are expected of asuelu
and required of him,
so, hopefully,
he could handle it.
-oh.
-that's the bathroom area.
here. come over -- baby, you
don't have to open every door.
it's the first time asuelu's
gonna be seeing oliver
in a couple of months,
and it will be the first time
he ever sees my mom.
i have worked so hard
to get to this point.
my son's been
without his father.
i've been without asuelu.
i've been without support.
i am going to be looking at him
to contribute more.
it's not just, like,
"oh, your body's here,
so we're complete."
like, "no, i need you
to help me with the baby.
i need you to help me
with things around the house.
like, you have a role
that you're coming in
that you need to play."
so, i hope that he's here
and he's going to be present.
he's gonna be a good dad.
kalani:
monkey?
monkey,
guess who's here!
hi, my love.
hi!
so sweet.
-thank you so much.
oh!
oh!
it's daddy!
honey, are you
so happy?
ah!
mwah!
mwah!
it's okay.
it's okay.
i'm gonna leave you guys
for a minute.
i'm gonna go downstairs.
-okay.
my first impression of asuelu
was that
he was a little confused.
it might take a little while,
but it's very important
that the three of them alone
without anyone else
have time together.
you don't need
to be cranky, monkey.
baby.
-shh, shh.
you talk to daddy
on the phone all the time.
you wave to daddy
on the phone all the time.
yeah.
kalani: i can't even imagine,
as a father,
what that would feel like
to have
all this anticipation
and, like, months
of not seeing your kid,
and then your kid's just like,
"who are you?"
"bye."
you want to try and maybe
stand up with him
and walk him around.
you like to go on walks.
that was your favorite thing
to do in samoa.
yeah.
-shh, shh, shh.
see, that's better.
oh.
baby.
shh, shh.
here. i don't let him
cry like that.
i don't let him cry like that.
hey, hey, hey, hey.
come.
hi, my love.
so, how was it, like, when
you came into the airport?
kalani:
you did a dance!
that's so sweet.
that's awesome.
kalani: asuelu meeting my mom
went well.
my mom was very sweet,
but tomorrow is the dinner
with my dad and my sister,
and that's where everything
could go wrong.
my sister hates asuelu
because i told her that
asuelu had cheated on me,
so she doesn't trust him,
and i'm scared
for my dad to meet asuelu.
is there anything you want me
to make for you?
-nothing.
-nothing?
are you gonna
drink water?
asuelu just isn't
who he saw me being with,
and he feels like
asuelu came here
maybe for a better life
in america,
not to actually take care
of our son and to be with me.
i feel like everything
is on the line.
if asuelu doesn't make
a good impression,
everything's gonna be ruined.
certainly,
where you are,
people are taking jobs
and engaged in crime.
i mean, i have literally
no idea what to expect.
oh, my god.
jonathan:
fernanda and i were able
to make up after the fight,
and tonight, we're meeting
some of my closest friends
in lumberton.
i have not introduced
any girlfriends
to this circle of friends,
and they can be a tough crowd.
they like to push buttons
and put me
in awkward situations,
so tonight
could get interesting.
oh, my god.
don't be nervous.
i'm nervous.
i am more nervous
than you are.
ay, ay, ay.
just for two people.
oh, my gosh.
ding dong.
ding dong.
hey!
all: hey!
oh, my god!
hey!
i've known jonathan
since, like, 2007.
we both went
to the same university,
so pretty popular guy.
nice to meet you,
everybody.
bienvenidos.
but i would have never thought
he would be sitting in my house
with his fiancée
from mexico.
it's really kind of wild.
come on in. we'll get dinner.
-okay.
-y'all ready?
-yeah, i mean, we're ready.
our friend group --
we're like family.
so we're all very close.
we talk about things,
so i think for her
to walk in tonight
and be here,
it's gonna be difficult,
meeting all these
really important people,
but it feels great to spend some
time getting to know her
and share this part of his life
with him tonight.
you hungry?
yeah?
it's all
very southern.
what is that?
cornbread.
so, have you had
any of this before?
-unh-unh.
-nothing?
-okay, here we go.
-yay!
you can use your fingers
for that.
angelica: promise.
just tear it apart.
-yeah?
-with your fingers.
-okay.
-yeah.
"you know
what i'm saying, fernanda?
you know what i'm saying?
you understand me?
i mean, uh..."
yeah.
how was
your first night?
mm.
you don't have a bed?
i -- well, we waited
to buy a bed
until she got here.
did he have sheets?
a comforter?
no.
you didn't?
i knew it, dude!
the life
of a bachelor, man.
yeah. well, yeah.
well, we obviously knew
jonathan before you, fernanda.
-yeah?
-so he's, you know --
obviously,
he's a good-looking guy.
yeah.
yeah. no, they're
just kidding.
yeah.
angelica: so, as a married
couple here, like, are you --
you think you're ready
to get married?
-do i think i'm ready?
-yeah.
i mean, i can't imagine
being married at 19.
i mean,
you know, um...
you know, we've always talked
about our age differences,
but it kind of faded away
as the relationship grew.
and she doesn't like guys
her age, anyway.
you think if
your daughter said,
"hey, dad.
i just met this guy,
but he's 31."
here she is. 18.
what would be
your reaction to that?
yeah, no, i mean...
-oh, my god.
-...in the beginning,
i didn't know she was 18
when i met her.
yeah, you told us she was
i thought she had come off
as someone that was that young.
-age doesn't matter.
-doesn't matter.
dani: it's not the age.
it's the person,
and i think those things are
universal to all relationships.
i mean, it's not just --
-right.
i mean, you guys get
that kind of stuff.
yeah, the obstacles
are always different.
she said, "i never thought
it would be possible.
yeah, they're talking
about the wall.
right.
- the -- la frontera.
- uh-huh.
i think that,
certainly where you are
here in
north carolina,
there are a lot of people
that feel like
people are taking jobs and
are taking public assistance
and are engaged in crime.
you know, the people...
jonathan: "every person
gives what they have."
yeah, "if they have
a negative opinion,
sorry,
that's your opinion,
but i have a different
perspective."
i think you're always
gonna have nay-sayers.
-right.
-yeah, always.
i think that
love knows no borders.
yeah.
all: aww.
-that is so sweet.
-well, we're glad you're here.
not everybody feels that way.
-yeah.
not all americans
want a wall.
yeah.
jonathan: i feel bad
bringing her into a situation
as intense as it is right now
in a smaller town
in north carolina,
and so i
definitely expect people
questioning fernanda's motives
these next 90 days,
but i'm hoping fernanda doesn't
have to go through those things.
stephen: hey, cheers
to jon and fernanda.
salud.
they're here to have
a good life with me,
and i'm here
to provide it.
ashley: today is
jay's k-1 visa interview.
this is a huge,
huge thing for --
like, big in our relationship.
eric: so, i just picked up my
fiancée leida, her allessandro,
and her sister reina
from the airport in new york.
there's
the chrysler building.
leida's parents are flying in
from indonesia in a few days
to check on her and
allessandro for their future.
so, we're sticking close
to the east coast
instead of traveling all the way
back to wisconsin first.
there's the freedom tower
right here in the sunlight.
leida:
yeah, yeah, yeah.
all right, ladies.
we're on our way
to pennsylvania.
because it's too expensive
to stay in new york,
and it's much nicer
in pennsylvania.
quiet.
-mm-hmm.
-beautiful scenery, mountains.
i don't want to spend
a lot of money,
so we're staying in a cabin
in pennsylvania
until her family
arrives in a few days.
-all right.
-all right.
-yay.
-yay!
come on, bud.
welcome to america,
guys.
this is where we're
gonna stay 'til saturday.
yep.
leida's family is
very successful in indonesia,
so she's used to
a pretty lavish lifestyle.
two bedroom.
no. oh, okay.
i think my concerns
about leida adjusting
to life in the united states
will be that she can adapt
to a simpler lifestyle
here in america.
ready for bed, buddy?
i mean, if leida doesn't like
what she sees in this house,
then i am a little worried
about what she expects
from the apartment
back in wisconsin.
good night, reina.
it is a major downgrade
from what she's used to
in jakarta,
and i have not told her
everything about it.
this is our room
for the next few nights.
yep. mm-hmm.
nice and big.
i've shown some of it
to her on video,
but i don't know
if she's grasped
what i showed her
and what it's supposed to be.
ready for bed?
i'm so tired.
all right.
today's leida's first
full day in america.
been up early, making
a proper american breakfast --
eggs, bacon, sausage, the works.
morning, hon.
-hi.
eric:
breakfast burritos.
uh...
mwah.
first day in america.
first morning.
yeah.
huh?
no chicken porridge here.
we're not
getting a maid.
you're gonna have
to get used to that.
leida's used to having a maid
around the house or several.
i'm a bare-bones,
spartan kind of guy.
don't need much.
she can be
a little more materialistic.
it's just stuff
we'll have to work out.
it was good.
breakfast burritos.
the only time
we had problems is when
you started
picking fights with me
because you're bored or
other people were in your head.
i can survive.
they're here to have
a good life with me,
and i'm here
to provide it.
i want to provide that.
-hm.
-and i'm going to.
i really don't care
about her opinion.
yeah.
today is the big day.
we're here in kingston in
jamaica at the u.s. embassy.
jay's about to go
into his k-1 visa interview,
and i am just a roller coaster
of emotions,
just trying to figure out
how i'm gonna cope
if he gets denied.
you ready?
all right.
i've heard at the embassy,
they can be kind of hard on you
with the questions,
you know,
so i spent hours and hours
making this packet,
making sure they have
every single paper they need,
proof of everything, photos.
i like this picture.
their main goal in there
is, you know,
to try to weed out
the people that are not
actually coming over
for the right reasons.
luckily,
our relationship's legit,
so we know everything
about each other.
so, what questions
are you worried about?
when's my birthday?
-what?
-that's not my birthday.
you're denied.
you're denied.
that is not my birthday.
let's try again.
your birthday
is may the 2nd.
all right.
these pictures are nice.
like, i don't think
you can fake some of these.
don't stutter.
just remember that.
i'm ready.
i love you, too.
all right.
don't be
too nervous, okay?
-all right. i love you.
-bye. i love you.
ashley: jay's very,
like, goofy, you know,
always-clowning-around
kind of person,
so this is definitely
not up his alley, to be serious.
so i wish i could be there
to kind of, like, support him
and hold his hand,
but he has to, you know,
go in there and take care
of this interview on his own.
this is a huge deal.
this is a huge,
huge thing for --
like, big in our relationship.
with my kids being so young,
i can't just pick up
and move to jamaica with him,
so if he would get denied,
i don't even know
what we would do
from this point on.
babe.
babe.
you're so crazy.
i love you.
i'm ready.
both: mwah!
-let's get a drink.
-what do you want to drink?
how did it go?
you were shaking?
i know.
we made it.
it definitely feels
different now
knowing that
he can come over
and phew! you know?
the love dove.
of happiness
or sadness?
today's the day i'm traveling
to russia to be with my fiancée,
olga, and be there
for the birth of my son.
i spent nine months
apart from olga,
so all i really want is that,
when i go to russia,
they just approve her visa,
so my fiancée and son
will be able
to come home with me,
instead of me
having to leave alone.
my grandparents are gonna
be picking me up
and taking me
over to the airport.
after my dad died
and my mom kicked me out,
my grandmother's been the most
constant person in my life.
she's always tried
to protect me.
knowing that both
my grandparents support me
does make me feel really good.
hello, grandma!
i'm gonna be getting
on my first flight
and going over to a new country
i've never been in before.
so, it's kind of a bit
of a nerve-racking experience.
she's in voronezh.
that's eight hours
from moscow.
ruth: oh, okay.
steven: i know this is crazy --
going to russia
and doing all of this stuff,
i'm leaving everything behind.
so, i really do hope
olga is the right girl
because i only did spend, like,
a month and a half dating her.
so...
i mean, at my age, no one's
really ready to be a father.
exactly.
how old were you
when you had dad?
so, you were 17
when you had dad?
-yes.
-yep.
i'm 20, and i'm about
to have my first one.
how hard
was it for you?
'cause i have literally
no idea what to expect.
on your first baby,
you know, basically,
you're just winging it.
- oh, yeah.
- you know?
i had no plan to be a father
at such a young age.
it was not on my agenda.
i'm still a kid, and
i'm about to raise a kid,
so i got some growing up
to do now.
you'll fall right into it after
the first couple of diapers.
yeah.
you know?
i feel like my whole world's --
but, like, this trip itself
is literally gonna
change my whole world.
yeah.
richard: steven's a tough kid,
but it's gonna be an experience
definitely.
steven: i can't believe that
this is happening at all.
it feels like it's a start
of a new life for me
with my fiancée
and my newborn baby.
in little more than a week,
i'm gonna be a dad.
i love you, grandma. i'm gonna
miss you so much, okay?
walking into the airport.
oh, it's really big.
i don't really know
exactly where to go to.
i haven't seen olga
in about nine months.
i'm worried she's gonna look
a lot different
being nine months pregnant.
i was just hanging out
with this hot girl.
it's so different
than not having a belly.
it's only gonna be
a few days that we have together
until we're actually parents.
i've never even been with her,
so i don't think
i would be going to russia
and getting married
if olga wasn't pregnant,
but the baby just turned
into a happy accident,
and maybe it did help me
find the love of my life.
we'll see.
roll down
your window, please.
yeah.
we're in a desert.
yes.
it gets me
where i want to go...
...most of the time.
just yesterday, i didn't
have larissa in my life,
and now i do, and it's crazy.
it's right there.
gander...
over there.
-i don't have air conditioning.
-oh...
it's gonna get
a little hotter, too.
okay, roll down
your window.
roll down
your window.
roll down
your window, please.
yeah.
we're in a desert.
does brazil have
deserts at all?
it's pretty big.
i don't...
well, the strip
is not that big, really.
sign?
we can see this
very soon,
and then you can tell me
what you think about it.
okay.
yeah.
what do you think?
it is beautiful.
there's trees.
it's private. we're in
the middle of the road.
it's okay.
are you going back to brazil?
i told you.
this is america.
colt: i know that larissa
loves me as much as i love her,
but larissa seems disappointed
in las vegas
and seems very --
just unhappy about everything.
you've only been here
three hours.
well, we'll talk
about it later.
spend at least
one day here.
colt: i mean, it's a city.
you live here now,
so we don't
have to live here forever.
it's like
another planet. it's...
so far, larissa seems to hate
everything about las vegas.
i can tell that she
doesn't like being here,
and i'm literally terrified
about bringing her home
and meeting my mother
and my cats.
i really hope that my mother
and larissa can get along.
okay.
you want to go?
let's go.
what?
oh, well.
next time on "90 day fiancé"...
so when does baby come?
steven, i don't know!
i'm concerned about
how jay's gonna manage
as the only black person
in the neighborhood.
dani: he had told me,
before he met you,
that he didn't
want to get married.
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