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Old guy from Russia. She's smoking hot.
She was only here for the summertime.
And then all of a sudden,
she tells me she's pregnant.
Are you ready to be a dad?
I mean, I have literally
no idea what to expect.
He is so immature.
So I'm really concerned about that.
I don't want any life.
I feel like I'm coming over in
the US for the wrong purpose.
You want the black guys with a white girl
because you want to get over to the States.
But that's not my style.
Do you think you're ready to get married?
Do I think I'm ready?
Yeah.
Everything feels a little bit tense.
I don't feel comfortable.
I can't imagine being married at 90.
He's only seen him for two
weeks out of the last five months.
But I hope that he's
going to be a good dad.
[baby crying]
Welcome to America.
What is with flowers?
Larissa seems unhappy about everything.
In the future, I would
like not to live here.
You used to get pampered back home.
And how do you adjust
to the life here in America?
They're here to have a good life with me.
And I'm here to provide it.
There's no way that we're going
to allow her to live in this country.
And coming up, we only
spend a few weeks together,
so we have to learn
more about each other.
So when does baby come?
Steven, I don't know.
I'm concerned about how
Jay is going to manage us.
He's the only black
person in the neighborhood.
I don't think I can sleep tonight.
Hopefully none of your neighbors
don't call the cops on me or nothing.
It's so much things I
don't know about Jennifer.
He had told me before he met you
that he didn't want to get married.
That's made me feel terrible.
How are you there?
When Coach told me that we
live with his mother, I got worried.
I would like to move to other house.
But Beghi, unless she
changes, there's not going
to be a future for
either one of them here.
We only have 90 days before the wedding.
I'm worried that Reena might make
me and Alessandro has to go home.
If things don't work out,
do you have any plan B?
My family feels like Oswaldo
really is just here for a green card.
You disrespect my daughter,
and you're going to have issues.
He's looking forward
to [bleep] out of trouble.
This is like our last time coming in here.
I know.
Jay was finally approved for his K1
visa after months and months of waiting.
We've put so much effort into all of this.
It's just crazy to me that he's going
to be coming back to America with me.
Want some fruits? What do you want?
Pineapple.
But Jay is very close
with his family, and I
feel really bad that
he's going so far away.
I'm sure it's going to
be hard on all of them.
Pineapple in the U.S.
doesn't taste like this.
Come on, get grapes.
You should call your dad so we can see him.
Life in Jamaica is all over now.
But my mom, my little
brother, my sisters, and my dad.
Hey, daddy.
As a kid, my mom and my dad broke up,
and my mom is actually in the state now.
My dad is running around in
Jamaica because that is all he knows.
I want to see you real quick.
Yeah.
All right, then you're nearby.
Even though my dad
wasn't around when I was
younger, he's always there
to give advice and stuff.
All right, then pull up.
Growing up, I always wanted to go to America,
but I feel kind of sad leaving my dad.
I haven't seen your crazy dad in a while.
I know, you know, he's
always working and stuff.
He's always texting.
I know, I know, he's
chasing the girls as well.
Where is he right now?
Skins!
Jay's dad is definitely a ladies'
man with multiple partners.
He's known as **** and that's
because he gets a lot of **** apparently.
Pretty sure Jay was just
like his father at one point, but
since we've been together, I
don't think that that's happened.
I think he's definitely changed his ways.
Just short of making you
know, sir, I'm a swoon gone.
You see it?
Visa get approved and everything.
What you say?
Yeah, man.
I know, we have to bust through it.
So you feel about that, though?
I know, sir.
I'm going to walk a
straight line in my boss.
Then you see a lady,
man has no respect to her.
Are you going to cry
when we go to the airport?
Well, maybe.
I told you, you both are depends.
Because we're jeez, don't cry.
We are real skins.
Real skins.
You know, sir, that is a skin.
I know this.
So you know, sir, me name
the original **** original **** skin.
He got a lot of girls
and once you got a lot
of girls in Jamaica,
people respect that.
Because they say you're a galleys.
That's the word in Jamaica,
me have a lot of girlfriends.
So I respect that.
But I don't want to be like him.
I want to be better than him.
Alright, yo, blessings here.
Yes, sir.
See you.
Love you.
Take care.
You going to miss him?
Yeah, I'm going to miss all of my
family members because I love them all.
Jay is leaving a lot behind in Jamaica.
His family, his friends,
his whole life basically.
It's really important for me to make
sure this is what he definitely wants.
And I just hope he's really
making, you know, a good decision.
Because I don't want him to regret it
later down the road and resent me for it.
I'm flying 4,000 miles to Russia
where my fiance Olga lives.
I haven't seen her in about nine months.
And she's pregnant with my baby.
It's kind of crazy because in
a week I'm going to be a dad.
We were only together for a summer.
When I found out she was pregnant.
So we applied for the K-1 visa,
but we haven't heard anything yet.
So I came all this way to
be here for the birth of my kid.
I always dreamed about going overseas.
But I never thought that I'd
be doing anything like this.
I'm leaving everything
behind and I'm not just
going to be getting ready
for the birth of my son.
I'm going to get to learn a
lot more about Olga as well.
I'm very afraid that I'm going to
get lost because I'm going by myself.
And I hope there's going to be English
translations because I don't read Russian.
Hi. Do you want to go
like that way or I'm like lost?
Olga's not going to meet me in Moscow.
Having a big belly takes a
lot of energy out of a person.
It's the one that goes to Voronezh.
So I'm taking a seven hour train
ride to Voronezh where Olga lives.
Upstairs and go to the right.
Okay. Thank you.
It's about the same back.
I've missed Olga so much
over the past nine months.
I'm so excited to see her.
But I'm so nervous at the same
time because a lot is about to change.
I'm praying that there's still that spark
there that we had during the summertime.
[Music] Careful.
[Music] Hello.
My name is Olga.
I'm 20 years old.
I'm from Russia, Voronezh.
I thought you were at home.
I know. Surprise.
I feel excited. I feel, I
don't know, I just can't
speak because for me it's
too much, too much emotions.
And I can't breathe.
I like have no words what to say right now.
I'm so shocked.
I thought you were going to be at home.
Seeing her was by far the
happiest I've been in a long time.
Yeah, it feels like a
fantasy, like a dream.
There's no other person I would
rather be my fiancé rather than her.
Like is it hard to walk?
A little.
Why didn't you just wait at home?
Because I want to surprise.
I thought I was going to
get, it was a very big surprise.
I'm excited to spend a lot of time
together before the baby comes.
[Music]
It feels a little weird because like we're
dating like two months, then like, ba-bam.
But I'm happy to be again together.
It's like touch me.
Hug him.
I can't stop smiling.
It's good. It's good.
Can you just slowly?
Is that how it hurts?
Uh-huh.
I love Steven because he
make me feel comfortable.
I know Steven has hard
time in his past and when I
was young, I also didn't
have like perfectly life.
[Music]
I was living in the place where
like children living without parents.
It's really hard, but I really
want to leave my past in the past
so me and Steven can think about
our future as a family in America.
[Music]
He's literally not stopped
complaining since we arrived here.
I don't like the house because it's small.
We feel we move to a new house.
We feel boom.
[Music] It's the worst.
Think about my wedding.
[Music]
[Music]
Oh, they do have double deckers.
My fiance, Lida, is
finally here in America
with her son, Alessandro,
and her sister, Reina.
So we're going to spend a
few days on the East Coast
waiting for Lida's parents
to arrive from Indonesia.
To pass the time,
we're going to take a day
trip to Philadelphia to
do some sightseeing.
Familiar with this area?
No, I've never been to Philadelphia.
Then why the hell did you take me here?
Because it's historical.
Okay.
[Music]
I'm a bit nervous spending
time with Lida's sister,
Reina, because Reina
can be quite judgmental.
She has some reservations
about our relationship.
See them?
Lida's family is very
successful in Indonesia.
They have a ton of money,
and they live like it, and
I don't have money, and
they don't really know that.
Because it's all about money
and status where they're from.
Wisconsin cheddar right there.
Best cheddar in the world.
Really? I want to try that as well.
We can get cheese at home, trust me.
It is important that I prove to her that
I can provide for Lida and Alessandro.
I'm going to take Alessandro and
get some food. I'll be right back.
Okay.
All right.
How do you feel about the country so far?
This is your first time too in America.
It's big, a lot of places to explore.
It takes time to adapt.
So how are you feeling about Eric so far?
We'll see. I'm in.
My sister Reina is trying to stop me
moving to America because she thinks that
my life here is not going to be that
good compared to my life in my country.
I'm worried that if things are
not as much as you expected,
Reina might make me and
Alessandro have to go home.
You know, he has responsibilities.
I mean, do you understand,
I don't know, the financial
stuff that Eric's still giving her?
Oh, I mean like...
Child support is not something cheap.
It's still a big amount of money.
Eric has been sending money
to his ex-wife for child support.
I don't like it. And that doesn't
happen in my country at least.
I don't get money from my previous
husband for the child support.
So it doesn't make any sense to me
for Eric to send money every month.
So if this thing is getting
away for me and Alessandro
having a life here in America,
this thing will need to stop.
Eric doesn't want to lose the parental
rights, which is why he keeps sending money.
Are you okay with that?
I do understand it. But I
was like it. I kept arguing
about it, like why, why and
why? Is that even necessary?
But you only have 90
days before the wedding.
Yeah, I know.
How about if within
that 90 days things don't
work out between you two?
Do you have any plan B?
There's no plan B.
It's always plan A for me.
I think Reina wants me to follow
what she wants. And it's kind
of like overstepping my life
because I've made this decision.
I cannot step backwards. I have to
move forward. I have to just go for it.
Ladies.
One for all of us?
Wow.
This is the original, regular, good
old fashioned Philly cheese stick.
How do we eat it?
You take a bite.
I was surprised that she told me
that she didn't have any plan B.
But given her character, I know that
she would hate me if I offer my advice.
It's really hard to eat.
I don't want to mess with my hands.
She doesn't really care much about what
she does. You just like go with the flow.
But anyway, that's her decision.
So, see what happens next.
I'm going to eat with my parents.
Good. Good.
I'm not sure whether they're
going to be okay. We'll see.
[Music]
Ready to go home, Daren?
Oh, please.
Larissa has only been in Las
Vegas for three hours and she's
literally not stopped complaining
since she arrived here.
Larissa.
Where is my flowers?
Where is my flowers?
What do you think?
I thought that was another
place, more beautiful.
That is beautiful.
It's okay.
It's okay.
I think Larissa and I will have some
small hurdles to overcome initially.
I can't survive here.
Honey, I need you to stop, okay?
I love you. It's better.
I love you too. I
appreciate you saying that.
I just want to go home
and enjoy my time with you.
Well, finally I will meet
mommy and the baby girl.
Yeah.
I feel like the largest barrier for us will
be just to learn to live with my mother.
It's here.
Oh, baby, I can't believe that I come here.
When Coach told me that we
live with his mother, I got worried.
I can't lie and
say, "No, I love it.
" Oh, my God.
Hey, mom.
Hello, Debbie.
Oh, look at you.
How are you, Debbie?
So how was your trip?
The flight was amazing.
Yeah?
No turbulence.
So what do you think of Las Vegas?
You can see this through.
Okay.
What do you think of Las Vegas, honey?
No.
Las Vegas, I can't say the
same, but it's not like the pictures.
No.
I think she's a tiny bit disappointed.
Yeah?
Yes.
No.
A little bit.
But this is a beautiful house.
Have you seen the sofa?
There's no sofa. Because
I wanted to wait until you
got here, and now guess
what? You can pick one out.
Yes.
Or me, or all of us.
I love you.
I'm so happy for you guys.
I love you, mom.
I'm glad you're finally here.
Take a walk.
I think that her uncle could have a
good relationship. I want him to be happy.
That's sweet.
Yes.
Beautiful hair.
Thank you.
My mother and I had our
thing going for many years, and
now Larissa is here, and
it's different, but it's good.
I think we can have a
really good life together.
So, we have stairs, and then a bathroom,
mother's bathroom, and mother's room.
This is our room.
Oh.
Closet.
Baby girl.
Baby girl.
This is Larissa, your new mother.
So, you're here?
I hope you like it.
Yeah.
Okay.
Okay.
I don't like the house because it's small.
No furniture in the living room.
And it's ugly decoration.
What do you think of the house?
I like the house, but...
I think that if we move to a new house
with a pool, you know, more biggy.
Look, we're not even one day in.
We can put the sound machine in.
In three hours.
I hate last day because I
would like to move to other
planet, but I can't, so I would
like to move to other house.
I mean, I don't know
what you want me to do.
You don't like Las Vegas.
You don't like the heat.
You don't like the house.
You don't like anything.
So, I'm like, okay.
I mean, what do you want me to do?
I like you is enough.
Oh, I like you too, baby.
You don't want me.
I've left everything so you
can decorate any way you want.
It's because I wanted just to
make you feel like it was your house.
So, this lot machine, no?
Who gave it to you, this lot machine?
My dad bought it for her.
Oh.
I'm sorry.
No, it's okay.
It's cute.
It's a toy.
It's nice.
You making dinner?
It's ready.
What you made it, Debbie?
Beef stew.
You just want to eat?
When I feel hungry, I eat.
Okay.
You can have something else.
You don't have to have that.
I'll put the stew in the refrigerator.
Let's take your things upstairs.
I wanted it to go
really good, and it's not.
I thought it would be easier.
I don't think she likes
anything about anything.
There you go, madam.
The initial encounter between my mother and
Larissa didn't go as well as I had hoped.
We have to work together
and learn how to live together.
I love her, and I want to be with her.
So, I think we just need
more patience and time.
You know, he had told me before he
met you that he didn't want to get married.
It's so much things I
don't know about Jonathan.
I think it's going to take a little
bit of time for them to like you.
If Kalani's family don't
like me, I go back to Samo.
I love being American and
live with John, but I hate all this
visa process because you
can't work and then you're alone.
And I feel boring.
So, today I meet Danny, Jonathan's
friend, and we will go into shopping.
Have my own friends on
Lumberstone is hard because I'm not 21.
I can't have fun, and also his
friends is not that fun like mine's.
How was your day?
It was long, but it was good.
Easy?
Yes, yes, I got you.
In Mexico, my friends are
almost at the same age as me.
Everybody's stupid, getting drunk.
So, it's now like that formal, and
well, it's a new experience for me.
What are you doing when he's at work?
Big stuff.
Danny was nice with me in the
junior with some Jonathan's friends.
I want to trust on her,
but I don't know if she
supports Jonathan with
getting married with me.
Hey, how are you guys?
Good, how are you?
Good.
Jonathan and I have been
friends for a while now, and I haven't
gotten to spend a lot of time with
Fernanda since they've been here.
Oh, that's cute.
That'll go with everything.
So, I figured we could do a little bit
of girl time to kind of get her out of the
house and get a chance to get to know
her outside of Jonathan, kind of hang out.
What's Jonathan up to tonight?
This is the first time you've
been out without him, right?
Yeah.
Aw.
I feel free.
That's a good feeling.
Yeah.
He and I have been friends for a
while now, and it's different to see
him with somebody because he doesn't
bring a lot of girls for us to meet.
Jonathan knows my friends, my
family, everything to me, and I don't.
Yeah.
So, it's difficult for me to take a
decision so big if I don't know Jonathan.
Yeah.
It's nice to talk with
someone who knows
different things about
Jonathan that I know.
Is there anything that
you don't think he's told
you, or is there anything
that you want to ask?
Maybe you can tell me about
the relationships before me.
You know, Jonathan is 32 years.
You can help me.
Yeah, if you want.
And that makes me feel
bad because I don't have bus.
Yeah.
You know?
And sometimes I ask myself why
Jonathan don't watch a relationship series.
It's rare.
Yeah.
Well, I mean, he and I have talked about it before,
and, you know, he had told me before he met you that he
didn't want to get married, but then on the other hand
he would tell me, you know, like he wanted a family.
But sometimes Jonathan makes me feel bad.
The first time I arrive
here, I find a talk.
It's hard talk with Jonathan's
friend about our problems.
I feel, of course, more comfortable talking
with my friends, but I don't have option.
If I tell my friends and my family,
they will be disappointed to Jonathan.
Not excusing that, but I'm pretty
sure when he moved, he just
picked up the drawers, like
moved them from place to place.
I mean, he's, you
know, didn't think like we
would have to like clean
out and do those things.
That's made me feel my, my out of
steam and my happiness when I get here.
It's here when I see that.
It was terrible.
When I come in here, I'm
so excited and it feels stupid.
Don't feel that way. I mean, if I
found that now, I would be curious.
I mean, it's not about you, you know,
being young. It's about being a person.
I try to think that. I try, you know,
Jonathan passed, Jonathan passed.
And I won't believe I won't believe in him.
But you think the worst.
Of course, she had some concerns.
If I had been in the
country for the first time that
I'm giving up everything to
come here and marry someone.
And then the first day I get there, I find
a woman's underwear. I would have lost it.
This is like typical Jonathan.
I'm telling how long
that's been in there.
He hadn't thought about it.
He's just a boy and he's dumb.
Honestly, if I thought
you because I like you
and so I would kind
of give you a heads up.
And I don't think you have
anything to worry about.
You know, I never talk with
somebody about that. Yeah.
Because, you know, if Jonathan
know he's in my side, I have nothing.
It's so much things I don't know about
Jonathan and I just have 90 days to find out.
Take his pants off and
then change his diaper.
Osweiler arrived in the US yesterday and
the first morning of Osweiler being here.
I definitely am trying
to soak it all in because
it's a big moment.
It's a special moment.
I dreamed about this
moment. I prayed about this
moment like this was
everything I wanted and I have it.
Look, it's not supposed
to be that high.
You pull up so that it's
like even with the back.
Osweiler is only 23. He has
a young mentality, but I hope
that he can make me happy
and be a good father to my son.
You think daddy did change his clothes?
Okay. And then we'll change his outfits.
In summer, the moms
taking care of the kids.
So I'm very surprised to change his diaper.
The first morning, he doesn't stop crying.
Hopefully, maybe next few days he will stop
crying to me and give me a beautiful smile.
You like that?
I am proud of you.
Hi mom.
How are you guys doing today? Good morning.
Hi baby.
You're ready to go bye bye with me?
Since Oliver's been born, I've basically
been at Kalani's condo almost constantly.
Do you want to say bye?
I love you.
Being able to have her fiance here
with her made her need me more.
I think there's going to be a lot
of things that are expected of him.
So it'll be something that will
take a little bit of time for him to get.
See you guys later.
You're going to be home in
time for family dinner, right?
Yeah.
I just want to make sure.
We'll be there. Love you.
Love you guys. Be careful.
I feel like I need to ease Osweiler
into being a dad and playing that role.
But I feel like today's
not really that day.
I kind of just want to spend
time with him alone and
just take him to the beach
and kind of talk about things.
And I really need to prep him
for dinner tonight with my family.
I don't think he's aware of how much
they don't approve of our relationship.
When I grew up, it's a poor little village.
But that time I dream about
wanting to go to America.
It's very, very beautiful.
It's a very nice beach.
Yeah.
Wow. There's no coconut.
How come there's no coconut?
I don't know. I don't know why.
What's that tree called?
A palm tree?
Oh.
Okay.
There are lots of rubbish.
What's this?
Seaweed.
This is rubbish.
Look at the beach here in America.
There are lots of white
people crowded all the place.
And also the sea, it's very cold.
Whoa. It's like a river.
Your water is warm.
This is very different from
Samu, but I really like it.
So how was your first
morning in the United States?
It's like in the paradise.
Oh, that's cute.
So we are having dinner
with my family tonight.
Yeah. Your mom told me that.
How are you feeling about that?
So a little bit nervous, but
I'm here happy to be here.
Just a little nervous with your dad.
My dad is very scary and intimidating.
I like having conversations with your dad.
What do you think he would talk about?
I apologize to him to engage with
you and to make a baby with you.
I'm sorry what happened to the past,
but I learned everything about love,
about how to make your
family for a better future.
I think that it's going to be
very uncomfortable tonight.
I think it's going to take a little
bit of time for them to like you.
So you really think your family is going to
hate me for the whole time I've been here?
It's like it feels weird
because we do lots
of things to get me
here to be a good family.
And I promised myself I want
to take care of you and my son.
Maybe your family thinks I'm too young
for you, and I'm not good enough for you.
So I'm going to tell myself.
Seeing Oswealu cry breaks my heart.
I hate seeing him cry.
So knowing that he feels so strongly
about getting my family's approval,
it kind of made me more
nervous about tonight.
I tried my best to want to be with you and
my son for the whole time I've been here.
It makes me nervous to meet with
her family, her dad and also her sister.
If Kalani's family don't
like me, don't want me
to be a part of their
family, I go back to Samo.
We only spend a few weeks together, so
we have to learn more about each other.
So what do we have for a baby?
I have this.
That's all.
You look tortured.
It bugs me that Oswealu feels that he
can immediately become a father to Oliver.
It's been nine months since I
last saw my pregnant fiancee Olga.
And after all of this time traveling,
I'm finally here and I get to see her.
So Legs here.
No, he's sleeping.
You know he's asleep?
The cab is driving us to her
apartment and then we're finally going
to be able to be alone for the
first time in like nine months.
The baby is due just a little
bit more than a week away.
After he's born, I plan on
staying in Russia for about
two months, so I'll have
time to spend with them both.
I hope that Olga's K1 visa
does approve by the time that I
leave so we can all come to
America together as a family.
I only know three Russian words.
It's "Да, нет" and "Привет, кокзила".
That's it.
Olga didn't end up teaching me any
Russian because we were only together
for a summer and I didn't really
see a future like with Olga until after.
She told me she was
pregnant, but I guess
now I'm going to have
to start practicing it.
While I'm here, you're going to
teach me some Russian, okay?
So I know more than three words.
Okay?
Is this your apartment?
It's amazing that Steven finally came. Having
Steven with me, it's so, I can say, strange,
weird because I always saw him on the FaceTime
or the phone and now he's near with me.
I can touch him and I can see him. I
don't need to wait when he will be online.
After you.
Oh my God. Yeah.
Show me around the rest of it.
Uh-huh.
Kitchen.
It used to be a little weird to live together
because we didn't see each other like nine
months. We only spent a few weeks like
physically together as a couple in Oshu city.
And it's the bathroom?
Uh-huh.
And I'm nervous because
it's not a long time,
so we have to learn
more about each other.
It does. Nice.
How does this work?
This is our house.
Uh-huh. Look at you.
Okay. All right. Where's your room?
There.
Right here?
Uh-huh.
It's different.
It's small though. Ah, okay.
Stay.
It's going to be hard because it's a very
tight space, so I'm not so sure how Olga and
I are going to be able to have alone time
when the baby sleeps in the same room as us.
I don't want to have more babies.
Like if the baby doesn't want to
lay down, you can hold him up.
And then whenever you
rest speed, when you're
out in public, so
that just like covers it.
You put this in there for right now.
And then you can see.
We will go shopping
and we'll buy more stuff.
I didn't really know too
much of what to buy, but Olga
told me a bunch of things
that she thinks that she needed.
In America, baby stuff is
expensive, and like I've never had any
other kids, so I don't know how
much it costs to raise an entire baby.
Now I'm tired though.
Uh-huh.
We have like nine days
before the baby comes, so I
think we have a little
bit of time to figure it out.
I went to the hospital today.
Uh-huh.
Did you ever talk to the hospital for me to
be in the hospital room when giving birth?
We need to figure out what
is needed to be done in order
for me to be in the delivery
room to see my son be born.
Because I have already missed the
entire pregnancy. I cannot miss the birth.
I want to ask the doctor
about, they have like room.
You can stay and visit me.
In Russia, hospital, they
can't allow men to be in the
birth, so Stephen need a
special permission to get inside.
I'm afraid I will go to the hospital
and stay there until the baby comes.
Oh.
We have two days.
Two days until baby comes?
No, two days until I
will go to the hospital.
So when does baby come?
Stephen, I don't know.
Olga's like just confusing me. I
thought that you only go into the
hospital when you go into labor,
not days before you go into labor.
So is this how they
actually do things in Russia?
Doctor told me that it
can be like any minute.
I was expecting to have
over a week left with Olga until
she tells me the doctor said
the baby can come any day.
Stay?
Uh-huh.
Okay. That's not what I planned for at all.
Okay. Perfect.
I had high hopes for
the first meeting between
Larissa and my mother,
and ultimately it was terrible.
It was a disaster, you could say. She was very blunt
to my mother, and I'm a little disappointed and
maybe a little bit hurt that she isn't more positive
or more patient or open, especially on the first day.
Hey. How's it going?
She's not happy.
Yeah. She's really happy, but
she'll be fine. She had a long flight.
I know.
She's very tired. She's
in a different country.
She's never been in.
She's just tired, okay?
Okay.
I expected Larissa to be the sweet, wonderful
person that Colt told me so much about,
and when she gets here, she's just not the
same person. She's not at all what I expected.
I feel Larissa didn't make an effort to try to
connect with me or anything going on, and I made
a nice stew for Larissa, but she just wanted to
be by herself, and it really kind of upset me.
Eat something.
Okay, I'll eat it.
It's okay, Mom.
Come over here, Mom.
It's okay.
It's the first day, okay?
It'll be fine.
That's encouraging.
The first half hour?
Been here about two hours, maybe? It's
fine. This is really good stew, though.
Thank you.
What's Larissa doing?
Relaxing.
I just got in Colt's house, and I would
love to be alone because I'm really tired.
I was flying for 24 hours, no
stop to come to my new country.
And I don't know that we will
eat dinner together with them.
I feel that it's not good for a relationship,
always living under Mommy's skirt.
I'm sorry she's not
happy about this, but...
People often judge things as
soon as they see something.
First impressions. Don't
judge a book by its cover.
Some people do, apparently.
It's okay. Different culture,
different ways of thinking.
I don't know, I just
wouldn't walk into a place
and condemn everything
about it from the beginning.
She didn't say one nice
thing about anything.
I don't know what your expectations are.
Just go with the flow.
Normal?
Normal is... Fine.
You know what? Fine.
Okay.
What I do have expectations
of is common courtesy.
The moment I walked into my
house, so far what I can see in the first
glance is that she's selfish, she's
demanding, she's not very nice.
And unless she changes, there's not going
to be a future for either one of them here.
Just give her time.
Give her a day, at least.
I'm really concerned
that Larissa and my
mother seem to be at
odds right off the bat.
I don't want there to be two
sides at w*r with each other.
Almost there. You guys ready?
Yep.
I'm ready.
I've been here in
America for a few days with
my sister, Reina, and
my son, Alessandro.
And today, my mom, my dad, my
brother are arriving here in America.
My parents are not happy to know
that I'm going to move in America.
So they wanted to make sure
that Ari is the right person for me.
Come on, bud. Let's go.
Lita's parents have very high
expectations, and I'm afraid
that they might be disappointed
by my lower lifestyle.
I don't have a ton of money, so I am feeling
a little bit of pressure at this point.
I don't really think that
Lita has chosen the right
guy, the right person
for her life, basically.
It has to be, yeah.
So I'm a little nervous to see her parents
just because, well, it's the in-laws.
You've got to impress them.
And I have to impress them.
I have met her parents
before, and we got along great.
But they don't know I'm not wealthy.
I didn't lie to them.
The topic had never come up.
If my family knew that
Ari doesn't have a lot of
money, they will make
me go back to Indonesia.
Oh, my God. Oh, my God.
There they are.
They're here?
Oh, my God. Oh, my God.
Hello. Oh, my God.
Oh, my God.
Hi.
Hello.
Hi.
I'm so happy to see you.
Glad you made it.
Hey, Doc. How are you?
Good.
Good flight?
Yeah, good flight.
Very tired.
It's been so long time sitting in the seat.
Very tired.
All right, come on, bud.
Let's go.
Okay.
Let's go.
Huh?
Give me one.
Okay, get to that.
Give me the big one.
No, it's okay.
Let me take that one.
No.
I hope Eric to be good guy, but
many responsibility for his new family.
And I hope Eric can
work hard to get prosperity.
This is all my hope and also my prayer.
In Indonesia, Lita's
parents are personal drivers.
I don't think I could compete
with that, but I will do my best.
Seat belts.
Seat belts.
Seat belts.
See, what do you do to that?
This truck was built for that.
Oh my God.
Man, seems like I can smell the coldness.
I'm a little bit worried
about J adjusting well.
Trying to eat on me.
Our relationship's on the line.
She could go back to
her country any minute.
[MUSIC]
We have a disaster in here.
Oh my gosh.
Why don't we do this?
We'll put your clean clothes
here, and we'll start folding those.
Okay.
I'm just being here for a short time.
It's hard because the house feels like a
single house still, but we'll figure it out.
Bring me hooks to hang the clothes.
I don't have a bunch.
Please.
You need hangers?
Oh my God.
You said you needed a hanger.
Oh my God.
I saved these for you.
Really?
[SPEAKING SPANISH]
I don't understand how to speak.
Jonathan has a fun personality.
I love that part of Jonathan.
[SPEAKING SPANISH]
He can help me distract
myself and feel good.
But since the beginning, these
All this has been a lot for me.
I just leave my country and my family
and my friends, and this is really hard.
[PHONE RINGING] Hey!
[SPEAKING SPANISH]
[LAUGHTER]
[SPEAKING SPANISH]
[SPEAKING SPANISH]
Well, my family, it's my mother and
my brother, Gael, and my sister, Emily.
[SPEAKING SPANISH]
[LAUGHTER]
[SPEAKING SPANISH]
I am so close with my family because
my mom is very young and always working.
So I take care of my
brother and my sister all life.
[SPEAKING SPANISH]
[SPEAKING SPANISH]
[LAUGHTER]
[SPEAKING SPANISH]
I mean, I miss a lot my
brother and also my sister.
It's really hard.
It's really hard not to have them.
[SPEAKING SPANISH]
[SPEAKING SPANISH]
[SPEAKING SPANISH]
[SPEAKING SPANISH]
[SPEAKING SPANISH]
[LAUGHTER]
Jonathan and I decided to get married
in Chicago because his family is there.
But my family don't have a
visa because it's really hard
in this time with the
government and all this.
So for my mom, it's really hard.
[SPEAKING SPANISH]
[MUSIC PLAYING]
[SPEAKING SPANISH]
[MUSIC PLAYING]
[MUSIC PLAYING]
[SPEAKING SPANISH]
[MUSIC PLAYING]
It's hard think about my wedding without
my mom, without my brother and my sister.
It's the worst thing about my wedding.
[MUSIC PLAYING]
[SPEAKING SPANISH]
[MUSIC PLAYING]
[SPEAKING SPANISH]
[SPEAKING SPANISH] Bye.
Bye.
[MUSIC PLAYING]
Baby, are you all right?
What's wrong?
She missed me.
I know.
You miss her too, don't you?
It's all right.
It's OK.
I know you'll get out of here.
[SOBBING]
We're going to do this together, OK?
I think being away from
your family and a foreign
place at that age can
be difficult for anybody.
It's really important that things go well.
It's going to make Fernanda
feel comfortable here.
Our relationship's on the line.
She could go back to
her country any minute.
And I have to do whatever it takes to make
sure she feels like she's in good hands.
[MUSIC PLAYING]
I'm going to miss you.
Today is-- it is the day Meena, she's
going to leave Jamaica and go to the US.
And like, I'm just like really excited
and really sad at the same time.
[SOBBING] Oh, God.
[SOBBING]
I know you're going to miss me.
I feel kind of sad leaving my family, you
know, and missing the birth of my niece.
It really hurt.
[MUSIC PLAYING]
But I always say to myself that I
want to experience America someday.
And I hope I'm ready.
[MUSIC PLAYING]
This is my last time.
My ankle.
Bye bye, airport.
Bye bye, Jamaica.
[MUSIC PLAYING]
Welcome to America.
We're in Baltimore, in the US.
It's amazing.
Do you ever been so
excited you're not hungry?
I'm always hungry.
I'm not hungry.
I'm not thirsty.
I just want to go home
and jump in your bed.
I don't know what to expect in the US.
But I just feel lifted,
like I'm in a better place.
Our 90 days has officially begun.
And I'm just ready to marry you.
I am too.
Move on to the next chapter of our life.
We're going to be together forever.
[MUSIC PLAYING] Ooh, it's cold.
The guys who immigrated told
me that it is even colder outside.
Brace yourself.
Oh, oh, my god.
Oh, my god.
Babe.
What?
You're good.
It's not that cold, is it?
[SCREAMING]
You're so dramatic.
Relax.
It's really not that bad.
Seems like I can-- seems
like I can smell the coldness.
What the hell?
Jamaica is a very warm place.
It's a very hot place.
[GROANING]
And it's crazy here.
[SCREAMING]
Turn the heat on, babe.
Turn the heat on.
Turn the heat on.
[SCREAMING]
Did you turn the heat on?
It's on, babe.
You can't feel it?
No, I can't feel your
[BLEEP] Oh, my god.
I'm not wondering if I'm
in a dream or something.
You know, because I-- I'm here.
I'm here.
I don't think I can sleep tonight.
I'm going to sit up and
wait for the snow to come.
And after I reach a certain
height, I'm going to run over there.
Jump in it.
Hopefully none of your neighbors don't
call the cops on me or nothing, because--
Why would they call the cops on you?
If-- if you're in your house
and you look out the window
and you see a black guy jumping up
outside with, uh, in his underpants--
What are you going to do?
You can't be in your underpants
outside in the United States.
That's not, like, not a thing over here.
You're like, ah!
What are you going to do?
You're going to call the cops?
You can't yell, babe.
My neighbors, if you're yelling
outside, yeah, they would call the cops.
I'm just a little bit worried
about Jay adjusting well.
He's facing a lot of cultural differences.
Speed limit 60.
I'll be going 180.
You can't speed here, like, in Jamaica.
The laws here are extremely
strict compared to Jamaica.
You know, open container
laws, noise ordinances.
You can't go pee outside wherever you want.
Like, those are things
that you just can't do,
especially now that he's
here in the US on the K1 visa.
But in Jamaica, they
don't even bat an eye at it.
This is your neighborhood?
Oh, my God.
This is, like, a very quiet neighborhood.
Jay is a young black man, and he's
moving to an all-white suburban area.
Yeah, baby.
Are you ready to see your
house for the first time?
Our house. Oh, God.
I'm hoping we don't have
to deal with any racial
issues, but I'm also
very naive to all of this.
Ooh!
I know that society
doesn't necessarily accept
a blonde-haired, blue-eyed
girl with a black man.
So it might be an eye-opener to me
to see how people in the
community react to our relationship.
Ooh!
Oh, my God.
Babe, there's no one to blind me.
[laughs] That's cold.
Let me get this baby.
Are you ready?
Oh, my God.
[laughs]
Oh.
It's wonderful, babe.
This is the kitchen.
It's amazing.
You know, like, all this time,
you know, me and Ashley
have been in Jamaica,
and that is, like, my place.
[laughs]
What are you doing?
And now I'm here, and this is,
like, better than where I come from.
It's cushiony.
Oh, it's so wonderful here, babe.
Am I in a dream?
You want to slap me real
quick and wake me up?
I love it.
[laughs]
See, I come in a five-star hotel.
It is just so amazing.
I want you to take us to the bedroom.
Ooh!
It's hard to do this.
[laughs]
I've been on my own for a long time, so I'm
really excited to have him finally home.
It's definitely a big
change for both of us.
Come here. Come give me a hug.
The 90 days starts counting
down today, and I'm sure
we're going to go through
plenty of ups and downs.
It's hard living with anyone,
especially going from
not seeing each other
hardly at all to being
around each other 24/7.
We'll see how that goes.
[laughs]
[laughs]
Mm.
Colt doesn't usually
eat bread for breakfast.
He usually has bacon and eggs.
You want to have a life, you
have to eat it the right way.
You disrespect my daughter,
and you're going to have issues.
He's looking forward
to [bleep] all the trouble.
[clock ticking]
Yesterday was literally a disaster,
and nothing went right with Larissa.
Hopefully today was a first start.
Starving?
There was stew. I mean, you could have ate.
Oh, no.
Good morning, sunshine.
Well, she's not doing any harm.
That's good. She's a part of my family.
She's a part of our family.
Why you be so mean to me?
I didn't do nothing.
Oh.
I can't.
Why?
My cat is not fat, and
don't fashionate my cat.
No.
She's not 200 pounds.
You don't even know what a pound is.
Poor cookie.
Oh, I don't know. Eggs, bacon, hash browns.
For most of my life, my
mother cooks breakfast.
So I really hope my mother doesn't get
upset if Larissa takes over the cooking.
I think she's resting, okay?
Look.
I want to eat, so you
go get it if you want.
Okay.
Okay.
Hey, Mom. You want that breakfast?
Mm-hmm. Okay.
Larissa's very direct.
Oh, but my mother's
more the opposite of that.
She's very kind.
She's very kind.
She's very kind.
She's very kind.
She's very kind.
The opposite of that.
She's gone? Yeah.
Larissa and my mother
got off on the wrong foot.
I'm worried how they will get along today.
Hi, Debbie.
Good morning.
Smells good. Good morning.
How are you?
Fine. How are you?
I'm good.
How'd you sleep?
Would you like some water?
Would you like some water?
I made you the breakfast.
That's nice. Thank you.
Well, when Larissa got here yesterday,
things weren't exactly as I had planned.
We didn't say a lot
last night to each other,
and when we woke up this
morning, things are a little better.
Good.
Good?
Yeah, something simple.
He doesn't eat a lot of bread.
Colt doesn't usually
eat bread for breakfast.
He usually has bacon and eggs, or cauliflower,
fried cauliflower, turns into hash.
There's some things that are his favorites
that you'll need to learn how to make.
I don't believe in, like, oh, you
can only have XYZ for this meal.
That doesn't make any sense.
No, no, no, no.
If you want to have life, you
have to eat it the right way.
Breakfast is different than lunch,
and you have lunch and
breakfast, so it's not good.
So what do you want for breakfast tomorrow?
I'm not worried about
that tomorrow, I guess.
Ideally, Larissa and my mother
could get along, and we can all
live together in peace and find
a middle ground, but we'll see.
[music playing]
Do you think he can feel when I touch him?
Yeah.
I'm definitely enjoying
spending time with Olga.
After nine months apart, it feels so great
to be back together before the baby comes.
He can hear you.
Mm-hmm.
I was expecting at least to have, like, a
week with Olga before the baby even came,
and now the doctor says
the baby can come any day,
so I don't know which
day the baby's coming.
Steven, maybe we make a list for a baby.
We'll go to shopping soon.
Okay.
We only have what I brought
from America, and Olga
has a few things, but I
don't know what to buy,
so I'm going to be leaving
the decision-making
up to Olga, and she
picks it out, I'll buy it.
But I'm worried about
not having enough money.
We need a sax because I don't have it.
All right, definitely buy a sax.
I've been spending my money coming
to Russia, and I don't have savings.
What is this?
And she's still in college.
She doesn't have a lot of money.
So I hope Olga doesn't go overboard
with it and buy unnecessary things.
[upbeat music] I mean, wow.
Here.
I follow you because I don't really
know where, like, everything is.
Let's just look around first
before we pick up the pink.
Pull out your list.
Here.
All of this is very new to me.
There's all these different brands and words
that I don't even understand in Russian.
Even if I wanted to, I couldn't even
go up and ask a worker for help.
Um... They're not
going to understand me.
Um... Does it have a box,
or do you just take it like this?
Is it good?
Yeah.
I don't know how it works over here, Olga.
I can't speak Russian.
Steven, I can't find socks.
I don't know this store.
I've never been here.
Steven, me too. It's the first time.
Steven doesn't understand fully.
At 20 years old, I never
thought that I would be pregnant.
I need to learn about this stuff too.
Buy?
Or a little more?
No, we don't.
Um... It's up to you.
How much do you think you'll need?
A little more.
We can get more.
I want Olga to know that I came to Russia
because I'm going to take
care of her and the baby as well.
So I feel like I have to pay.
Is a thousand rubles a lot or no?
Kind of.
No, I can't believe that we are
buying together stuff already.
A few weeks together is
not a big time for a couple.
At the same time, we have
to learn how to be parents.
And I hope that me
and Steven will have a
long time to grow up
more and more together.
Keep a receipt in return?
No.
You can't?
No.
It's a lot on my plate right now.
No relationship.
The baby is coming. Come on.
Doing all of this stuff and I
still have to focus on the angle.
Her K1 visa get improved.
I hope it's... I will be okay.
Baby, you ready?
Hi.
Hi, you ready?
Yeah.
My mom met Oswealu yesterday.
It went pretty well, but
she is the only one in
my family that is
supportive of my relationship.
Tonight is my family dinner with Oswealu.
My mom is, of course, making a
meal, because that's what she does.
My dad will be there.
He doesn't really approve of me
being with someone from Samoa
because he thinks that he came
here maybe for a better life in America.
And I've had to move to an Airbnb
until we figure something else out
just because my sister hates Oswealu
and she refuses to live with him.
Things that went on, you kind of
interpreted as him cheating, whereas I.
..
Interpreted or I was told.
I'm saying I'm not guilty.
You weren't exclusive
so that he's not guilty.
I know I'm not going to
allow anybody just to come
in and mess things up even
with you or my grandson.
I know.
There's so much at stake with this dinner
because there's definitely
a possibility that my family
would try to prevent my
wedding at the end of the 90 days,
especially if they felt
like Oswealu was being
dishonest or if they
just couldn't trust him.
Come on. Come on, Senegis.
Oh, yeah.
Nice.
Hungry?
I can't think.
My heart is pounding too fast.
Why? Are you nervous?
Obviously.
I feel like I'm shaking.
Yeah.
It makes me nervous
because the first time I
met in person with her
dad and also her sister.
They should be here in a minute.
OK.
Kalani's family don't like
me, don't want me to be a
part of their family, but I
hope they will accept me.
Are you freaked out about meeting daddy?
Just a little bit.
I think growing up in Samoa
and being Samoan himself,
my husband is worried about
Oswealu providing for Kalani and Oliver,
and he would want Kalani to marry
someone that is an American citizen
and not be concerned whether
he wants to just get to America.
You ready?
Ready as I'll ever be.
When I first meet my daughter's fiancé,
I'm going to kind of fill him out,
see what path he wants to take.
Hopefully he's humble, kind,
you know, a friendly person.
Excited?
Excited?
Yeah.
I feel anxious with my sister
telling me everything that she
did at dinner and basically
saying that she'd been lying.
I don't feel like I really let
go of everything completely.
I don't really know if he's good
enough for my sister and their baby.
Oh, boy.
Hello.
Your auntie's here.
Hi.
Hello.
Hello.
Hello.
Hello.
Hello.
Hello.
Hello.
Hello.
Hello.
Hello.
Hello.
Hello.
Hello.
Hello.
Hello.
Hello.
Hello.
How are you?
Good.
Full's ready?
Yeah.
Full's ready?
Yeah.
Full's ready?
Yeah.
Yeah.
All right, see?
I'm starving.
Serve yourself.
Oh.
Can you pass me the baby, please?
Hey.
Stay with Mama.
Let's do this way.
So what are you doing today?
With my girls?
Yeah.
I just come to see you, see how you are.
Oh.
It's nice to see you.
It's good to finally meet you.
So you excited to be here?
Yeah.
I just want to apologize
for like we have a baby
but not coming first
straight to her parents.
I will try my best to
look after my little family.
Rule number one, you
don't disrespect my daughter.
As soon as you disrespect my daughter or my
family, then you're going to have issues.
You know what I mean?
What's your plan?
You're spending your time here.
You're a hard worker?
Yeah.
That's what it takes to
make it in the United States.
You know, don't believe
what they tell you that
there's milk and honey
here because there's not.
That's what the American
people promise you.
They come here, yeah.
They just don't tell you the milk is
expensive and the honey is not sweet.
You want Daddy?
What?
You want Daddy?
How do you feel about getting married?
Feel rushed in it or?
It's not a crazy question,
it's a serious question.
Do you really love my daughter?
If I didn't love her, why I didn't come?
So that's why I choose
her and myself because
I want to make a new
family and get married.
Make a better life than you have in Samoa?
Yeah.
It's kind of hard to see quality
at the first moment, right?
I know how important this is for
my daughter, but it won't be easy.
I'll be looking for him not to get lazy or
going back on what he had told me today or
he's looking forward
to f*cking all the trouble.
You look tortured.
For the first five
months of Oliver's life, I
was like his dad and
it was a lot to handle,
but I love him so much
that I was happy to do
it for her, but that
also came with a little
bit of resentment toward
Oswealu for not being there.
It bugs me that Oswealu feels that he
can immediately become a father to Oliver.
It's really weird seeing him with
a baby because I've been dad.
I know that it's important to my
sister to have my approval of Oswealu.
So I am doing my best to be nice.
So I kind of sat there
not talking to Oswealu
right now, but there
are a ton of things I
want to talk to him about
without my parents being there.
Well, I did tell him
already that you did
play dad for five months so that that's your
position that he needs to earn from you.
But I think it's good he's active with him.
I think it would be bad if he
just sat back and did nothing.
It's been like a day.
Dinner was tense.
Words don't really mean much in my family.
Everybody wants to see your
actions and see how you are.
So I know that my dad and my sister want to
watch Oswealu and see how he's going to be
with me and see how
he will be with the baby.
Everything is on the
line because I don't
know if I can get married if they
don't really approve of my relationship.
What's up, baby?
So Fernanda's been in the U.S. for a little
over a week and I can see she's missing her
family a lot and it's
made her really upset.
But I've got a little surprise for her.
I knew this would be hard but not.
Not this hard?
I miss my family.
I know that I can't
bring your family from
Mexico here but what if I
took you to go see your dad?
Seriously?
I'm hoping this trip to
Houston cheers Fernanda up.
It's also a great opportunity for
me to make a good impression.
Next weekend.
Seriously.
Next weekend, baby.
I have not met a girl in person before.
We live in the same country but have
not been able to make it down to Texas.
My father, he's the best dad in the world.
Hello.
Hello, how are you?
Hello, how are you?
I haven't seen him
for a long time because
after my mom and dad
divorced, my father comes
to Houston to start his own
business and he's working on that.
What are you telling me?
Look, I have a surprise for you.
Tell me.
I wanted to see if we were okay with
you but I bought flights to go to Houston.
Really?
That's great.
What a surprise you just gave me.
And I'm also very excited
because I want you to meet Johnny.
I really hope my father
likes Jonathan because
for me, my father is
like my best friend and
I can't get married with Jonathan
without my father's approval.
By the way, Jonathan, I'm talking to you.
Since you're here.
Yes.
The only thing is when
I talk with my father
about Jonathan,
he's just like, you don't
show up boyfriend because
he wants to protect me.
So I'm nervous.
To say I'm nervous is an understatement.
Every picture I've seen
of Mr. Edgar is jacked
up, he's carrying
as*ault r*fles on his back
and I'm going to meet him on a surprise
trip that I didn't even tell him about.
So it's like, I don't
know if I'm doing it
the wrong way or what but
yeah, super nervous to meet Mr.
Edgar and I hope he
doesn't bring his g*n.
Yeah, he wants to talk with you.
I know.
You sound really serious.
It's so important to me, Jonathan
and my father have a good relationship.
But Jonathan needs to
be worried because my
father gets mad so fast and he's the
kind of person you can't play with him.
So it can be really hard for him to
talk with my father for the first time.
With me, he's so sweet
but you, he will be like a rock.
I mean, I love you but you
should be a little bit nervous.
Next time on 90 Day Fiancé.
How you guys getting along with
living with each other and everything.
Basically she needs her
space, I need my space.
I think that he's naive right now.
She's a gold digger.
You can always break this off.
There's a lot of tension
between me and Natalie.
Why did you tell Ashley
I was cheating on her?
I'm not the one that did
the things that you did.
What the f*** is this?
I am a little worried about the apartment.
It is a major downgrade from
where she's living now in Jakarta.
I don't feel home at all.
I don't want to go back.
I want to prove myself
to you and your family.
You had cheated on her
so that's why I hate you.
We're going to have contractions.
I know we got to go now.
Am I allowed in the room?
No, right now.
I will be watching my kid be born.
If not, all hell will be raised.
What the hell are you doing?
That girl was dancing with my fiancé.
I'm here alone.
You don't know how I feel.
I can't do this.
Bernanda!
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
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