i'm concerned about
how jay's gonna manage
as the only black person
in the neighborhood.
dani: you know, he had told me
before he met you
that he didn't want
to get married.
do you really love
my daughter?
it's not a crazy question.
it's a serious question.
i don't think she likes anything
about anything.
larissa: and coming up...
eric: i am a little worried
about the apartment.
it is a major downgrade from
where she was living on jakarta.
you're not just
coming over here
to marry my man
for a green card,
are you?
you could always
break this off.
i'm not the one that did
the things that you did.
the past is the past,
you know?
kolini:
you had cheated on her.
so that's why i hate you.
steven: olga's
having contractions.
i know we got to go now.
am i allowed in the room?
i'm not missing
the birth of my son.
fernanda: jonathan make
bad decisions when he's drunk.
that girl was dancing
with my fiancé.
yeah?
colt:
there's no sofa.
i mean, i don't know
what you want me to do.
i don't think she likes
anything about anything.
yeah.
style of sofa?
i like old-fashioned,
overstuffed furniture.
mm.
yeah, like, little, skimpy,
little...
yeah.
-hey, ladies. welcome in.
-hello!
-hello.
-thanks for coming in today.
thank you.
okay. you found
the right place, then.
i like this one.
oh, let me help you
with this, okay?
this is actually one
of the best-selling piece.
yeah, it comes
in a 1-2-3 piece, too.
no.
do you like the color?
really?
yeah.
what color is it?
oh.
colt would have
to come look at it.
yes, but he...
no, he's got to put
his two cents in.
he's paying for it.
i don't know that.
oh, this whole couch sectional
is going for $1,299.
that's one of the best prices,
actually.
nope.
can't buy it
unless he says okay.
yeah, he'd be surprised,
all right.
debbie: colt and i have
a joint credit card
and a joint bank account.
and we started this bank account
when he was 14 years old,
and we've had it joint
ever since.
and i'm responsible
for his money,
and i'm not gonna spend it
without his okay.
okay.
ohh!
olga wakes me up in the
middle of the night and says,
"steven,
i'm having contractions.
i think he's coming."
like, "oh,
i'm about to be a dad."
we've got to get to the hospital
right now.
okay, okay, okay, okay.
okay.
i'm trying to stay
as calm as i can
because i don't know anything,
and i don't want to overreact.
okay.
put your...
okay.
we're getting the stuff.
woman:
yeah, yeah, yeah, okay.
steven: take your time.
i'm nervous.
very, very, very nervous.
i don't know what to expect
or what to do.
it's okay.
i'm glad i annoy you.
this is actually happening,
and i'm about to be a dad.
i don't like the way
the hospital looked.
it's dirty.
they might have different
customs than america.
and i don't speak russian,
so i can't understand a thing.
you need to go to the room?
mm-hmm.
am i allowed upstairs?
why?
so...are you gonna have a baby
born tonight?
um...
what?
so, the main thing
is this --
when the baby's born,
am i allowed in the room?
that's something you need
to talk to the doctor --
not right now?
okay?
yes, yes, yes,
yes, yes.
huh.
i hope the baby doesn't come
tonight while i'm gone.
i think it's very absurd
that the father is not allowed
to be in the delivery room
to see his own son be born.
i can't wait
to get my family to america
and just get away from
all of these crazy rules here.
all right.
what did she say?
so, what do they say?
what do we do?
mm-hmm.
so, we'll know nothing
tonight?
-yeah.
-yeah?
i'm not gonna sleep
any tonight, i bet.
coming through.
i will be watching
my kid be born.
if not, all hell will be raised
in that hospital.
i'm not missing
the birth of my son.
eric: it's important for me
to impress her parents...
come on, buddy.
...by showing them that
i could be a good father
to alless.
natalie: jay cheated on ashley
with two girls.
how can you possibly think
that he won't do it again?
i'm just trying
to do the right thing
and protect her.
are you serious?
i'm not giving you the key.
fer, come back!
fernanda!
welcome to new york!
eric: leida's family
are here in the united states
from jakarta,
and they're gonna be joining us
for our road trip
back to wisconsin,
where it's gonna be time
for leida to meet my family
and my ex-wife.
but we're staying in a cabin in
pennsylvania for one more night
because i want to give them
a break from traveling
before jumping back in a vehicle
for 15 hours.
and, frankly, it's just too
expensive to stay in new york.
manhattan, yes.
huh?
leida's only, you know,
eight years older
than my oldest daughter.
but i'm not totally
robbing a cradle.
and i think it's fine.
i don't think there's
anything wrong with it.
all right, everyone.
here's home
for the night.
he's still asleep.
we'll bring him in here
in a few minutes.
leida's family is --
they're pretty high-class.
her father's a surgeon --
a famous surgeon.
and in indonesia, living
in the country or small towns
is a sign that you're poor.
so this is probably
not looking good.
so, this is it
for the night.
welcome to america,
guys.
good to have you here.
probably want
to take a look upstairs.
wim: oh...
so, this is
the two bedrooms.
master here.
two beds here.
you guys can have the bedrooms.
we'll take the couches.
just a nice,
little porch out here.
wilderness right up
to the backyard.
yep.
oh, yeah,
there's animals in there.
squirrels,
maybe some mountain lions.
probably not.
no, nothing dangerous.
nothing -- they just --
they avoid us.
alless is still
sleeping out there.
i'm gonna go get him.
leida: okay.
be right back.
i'm worried about what leida's
family might think of the cabin,
but at least i can impress
her parents
by showing them that i could be
a good father to alless.
come on.
oh!
stop. hey.
that's enough.
come on.
wim: oh, come on, come on,
come on, come on.
oh, come on, come on,
come on.
you want grandpa?
yeah, he's definitely
tired again.
ohh. ohh.
kakek!
yeah.
sleep.
come on,
let grandpa up.
ohh. ohh. ohh.
come on, buddy.
ohh.
ohh.
ohh.
uh-oh.
you need to calm down.
yeah.
jay?
ashley: it's jay's first morning
here in the u.s. with me.
good morning.
good morning.
what's up?
we've been dating long-distance
for so long
that it's really important
for us just to have
some alone time at home.
it feels incredible.
what do you want
in your tea?
you mean the raw sugar?
jay:
no, it's brown sugar.
you want brown sugar?
do we have brown sugar
or just the white one?
ohh!
ohh
ah! oh, my god.
look at this mess
you made.
no, you...
you wanted
the brown sugar.
you should probably
change that to,
"as long as ashley
accepts me,"
not, "whoever
i'm living with."
like, what,
are you gonna move out
and live with
the next person next week?
oh, boy.
all right,
let's go, babe.
whew!
shut the door.
ashley:
it's extremely important for me
to make sure jay feels like
this is home for him
and that he's welcomed.
he doesn't know anybody here.
he has nobody.
so i want him
to make new friends
and feel like he has people
he can, you know, go to
if he needs something.
what are you hungry for?
i told jay that we're going
out to dinner tonight,
but i actually have
a surprise for him.
we just need to stop up here
real quick at my friend's house.
i need to get something.
it's not too far.
i'm looking forward, you know,
to just getting him
acquainted with everybody
so that he's comfortable
and kind of not
just stuck by my side 24/7.
all right.
ready?
but at the same time,
i'm nervous because
my best friend, natalie,
will be at the party,
and she and jay have a lot
of issues with each other.
my goal is
to always protect you.
right.
and my concern is --
i know that you,
still to this day --
you, still to this day, think
that he cheated on me, right?
we've been
down this road before.
honestly, if jesus came
down from heaven right now
and said
he cheated on me,
i wouldn't do
anything about it.
i don't think natalie
has a right being concerned.
she has her little story
in her head
of what happened in jamaica,
which i'm not concerned about
what happened in jamaica.
all: surprise!
-welcome.
-nice to meet you, man.
women: jay!
-whoo!
-get it, now.
-whoa!
-hey! hey!
i want to resolve things.
i want to do
what's best for ashley.
i want to have a relationship
with him.
but, like, there's no way
that i could just pretend
that the past didn't happen.
it was nice.
-nat, do you have your phone?
-it's right there.
natalie:
you busy out here?
i just wanted to talk to you
for a little.
you sure?
-yeah.
-okay.
i know that you and i have
our major differences,
and there are a lot of things
that i'm worried about
with you and ashley.
i'm just trying
to do the right thing
and protect her.
i'm not the one that did
the things that you did.
you were
with girls before.
you were with other girls.
there was, like,
some cheating going on, and --
that's nice.
jay cheated on ashley
with two girls.
and you're just acting
like nothing.
i really want you
to be --
to be that person
that makes her happy,
but, like, i can't see how
she can possibly be happy,
like, if you're not
being genuine
with everything you say.
i didn't just make up
the cheating in my head.
it doesn't make sense.
the past is the past,
you know?
that was the past.
now is the future.
but what happens
when everything
starts settling down
and you guys
have a disagreement
and you just need
to get out for a little?
are you gonna cheat on her again
and lie about it?
hmm.
i hope that ashley can see jay
for who he really is --
that he's a child.
she is oblivious to the fact
that he is a cheater,
and how can you possibly think
that he won't do it again?
i've seen ashley
being cheated on.
i've watched what
it puts her through --
what emotionally,
physically, mentally.
i don't want her to have
to go through it again.
ashley: it bothers me that
natalie pulled jay out.
i have a feeling whatever
went on outside was dramatic,
from the way he entered
back into the party.
i love you.
i just don't feel
like it was the time
to start with drama already.
he just got here.
but you're not
marrying my family.
kalani: there's a lot that
we need to figure out.
if you could
just behave...
i'm hoping that i can have,
like, both people that i love
around me.
this week was?
why?
because i feel
more alone.
jonathan:
it's been a tough first month
in america for fernanda.
and i didn't necessarily
make it easier for her.
jonathan: that's old.
to make matters worse,
fernanda is struggling
making new friends,
and her boredom
is getting a lot worse
since the 90 days have gone on.
it's been difficult.
the last time she was
skyping with her mom,
she broke into tears.
so, i'm sorry.
i know i've been
working a lot this week.
i feel bad because
i don't have nothing to do.
which is why...we're gonna
get out of the house,
and i'm gonna show you --
we're gonna have
a nice dinner
at the beach.
yeah.
i have just
a few short months
where i have
to convince fernanda
that north carolina's a place
that she'll feel comfortable in.
and so i've decided that
i'm gonna take her on a trip
to myrtle beach.
myrtle beach is about an hour
and a half from lumberton.
so whenever i'm feeling like,
"i got to get out of here,"
i try to get over there.
you're welcome!
a lot of the time
i spent in mexico
was vacationing with fernanda.
i think by going
to myrtle beach,
it'll make fernanda feel
like we're kind of
getting back to that.
not quite like
cancún or...
-the bacon-wrapped scallops.
-ah! thank you!
woman:
and grilled rock shrimp.
-excellent.
-yes.
jonathan:
bacon-wrapped scallops.
just try it.
try one.
would your parents ever
give you, like, the airplane?
like
mm.
ahh!
you tried it.
it's bacon.
mm-hmm.
who doesn't
love bacon?
how is it?
good?
want a bite?
so, question --
what are we gonna do
about the wedding in chicago?
i feel like it's important
if we start planning now
'cause these next two months
are gonna -- look at this.
they're gonna fly by.
yeah. but you're not
marrying my family.
i do. i do.
i get it.
i do get it.
so, here's what
we'll do.
we'll meet my family,
all right?
there's one thing i haven't told
fernanda about my mom,
and it's that she found out
we were engaged on social media.
she called me right away.
she was very upset and thought
i was having a midlife crisis.
i didn't tell my mom because
i knew she'd have reservations.
so i'm worried that my mom's
gonna take all of this
out on fernanda.
she's already super-skeptical.
she doesn't know her.
and my mom is a jealous person.
♪ yeah ♪
♪ yeah ♪
hey, baby, you ready?
you want to go to the park?
i'm so happy that asuelu's here
and that we can finally
be a family together.
but he met my family
a few days ago,
and they still have
pretty serious doubts
about me being
with someone from samoa
and someone that
they don't really know.
as soon as you disrespect
my daughter and my family,
me and you are
gonna have issues.
you know what i mean?
asuelu still
has a lot of work
that he needs to do
to win my family over,
but right now i just kind of
want to enjoy my family
as a family of three.
yeah.
yay!
you have to still
support him.
you won't be able to push him
like a big baby.
baby?
are you holding him?
that's too fast.
thank you.
all right.
i kind of feel like there's
a lot in regard to parenting
that asuelu isn't really
adapting to well enough yet.
asuelu's just kind of, like,
doing the dad thing,
and i'm kind of like,
"no. you aren't.
try again."
oh, are you okay?
so...
i have no idea.
i can't afford to stay
at the airbnb anymore.
i quit my job before asuelu came
so that i could spend time
with him and oliver.
but bringing asuelu here
has almost completely
depleted my savings
'cause of how long
the visa process took
and how expensive it was
and that he didn't really
contribute to anything,
and asuelu won't be able to work
for a couple of months.
so we're moving into
my parents' second home in utah.
that just kind of seems
like the best option
for us right now.
uh, five.
five bedrooms.
i just know that
my brother lives there,
and we'll be staying there
with the baby,
and that my parents
are gonna be there.
my brother, nick, will be
living there permanently.
i feel like my dad
kind of wants him there
to keep an eye on asuelu
all the time.
and then, my parents
will kind of come around
when they're on vacation,
but for the first two weeks,
they'll be there
for the whole time.
so, we're gonna be, like,
sleeping under the same roof
as my dad.
that's just weird that
my parents are gonna be...
yeah.
oh, maybe you can wait.
i mean, i...
pew!
what is, "pew"?
no, my sister's
not coming.
my sister's staying
in california.
i wish we were staying
in california
for a little bit longer
because i'm sad
to leave my sister.
i feel like my sister
is my home.
so, to be away from her just...
i would like
to go out with her
because the dinner
was just so awkward.
she didn't even
really talk to you,
but even with me.
most of my life,
i've lived with kolini,
and i love the bond that she has
with my son, oliver.
so i am hoping to
kind of smooth things over
before we move to utah.
and i hope that
by telling her the truth
about the whole cheating thing,
that she'll be able
to give me a second chance
and give asuelu a second chance.
she was really weird,
so i just feel like there's
a lot that we need to figure out
so that i can leave
without feeling like
i've left her behind.
i just want things to be fine
with my sister,
so if you could
just behave,
and, hopefully,
she will also behave
so that we can leave
to utah
and not have, like, all this
lingering bad vibes with her.
thank you.
my sister and i have this bond
that no one can break,
and i always thought
california was my home.
so it's just gonna be hard
to be away from her.
i'm hoping that, at some point,
my sister would be fine
with asuelu
so that at least i can have,
like, both people that i love
around me.
tom: hey, everyone!
steven: olga went into labor
a few hours ago,
but they're refusing
to let me into the room
to see my son be born.
i'm really worried olga's gonna
have the baby without me there.
eric: so, after two days
of driving to new york
and a few days in pennsylvania
and a couple days driving back,
we're finally back home
in baraboo, wisconsin.
leida is expecting me
to impress her family,
but my only concern is
i don't want her parents
seeing my apartment,
mostly because i think
her parents will feel that
the apartment
isn't good enough for her.
so i would prefer them
not ever going near it, period.
everyone out of the bus.
so, while leida's family
is here in baraboo,
i've rented them
an apartment downtown.
my family is waiting there
to welcome leida to america.
tom: hey, everyone!
hey, everyone!
oh, it's nice to meet you
finally!
-hi, leida!
-hello!
i love you already!
i do, too.
tom:
hey, welcome back.
i do have a good relationship
with my ex-wife.
i mean,
it was a mutual divorce.
there were no hard feelings,
and we're still close friends.
you know, it's still
extended family.
eric: come on in,
everyone.
come on, alless.
come on, buddy!
-nice to meet you.
-hi, doctor. i'm rebecca.
-that's jenna.
-i'm rebecca.
nice to meet you.
just all go out in there.
huh? aw!
i'm tania.
yes.
hi, reina.
hi!
that's tania.
nice to meet you.
let's just all
go on in there.
oh, my god.
eric: scoot over!
i don't want to sit
in between you.
it's a little awkward
being the ex-wife
in this kind of a situation,
i think,
but i didn't know if she would
feel awkward sitting next to me.
i would feel more comfortable
with her sitting next to me
than a couch
on the other side of the room
because too much space
allows for tension.
who's been doing
most of the shopping
and looking for the venues
and the caterers?
-i do the footwork.
-yeah.
then you're making him
make all the phone calls?
okay.
so, truly, once entering
the country, you have 90 days?
lots of time.
you're stuck with us.
or should i say
we're stuck with you?
unfortunately,
they had to work.
tasha will be done at 6:00,
and tanille's done at 4:00.
it would've
been nice, yeah.
i mean...
just the way it works.
we're gonna go --
we're gonna head on over.
all right.
all right, you guys.
we'll get your stuff
up here.
-okay.
-you guys can get unpacked
and settled in, and we'll be
back in a little bit.
let's go.
i'm gonna take leida
to her new home.
however, i'm worried that she's
not gonna like the apartment
because it's very small,
and she's used to this
big house with big rooms.
bye. we'll talk to you
in a little bit.
so, i just hope that
is enough for her.
she wanted to buy it
right then and there,
but i think it'd be better
if you saw it.
i trust my mother,
but i don't feel comfortable
giving larissa
my credit card.
every day, i take colt,
and i pick him up every day.
colt:
it was fantastic.
she wanted to buy it
right then and there,
but i think it would be better
if you saw it.
i don't think that's right,
that we buy something
without you
looking at it.
well, i --
well, i appreciate you wanting
to make a surprise, honey,
but at the same time,
i would like to be included
on the final decision.
yeah.
well, it's kind of a big
decision, buying a couch.
it's not like we're
buying a plant.
do you understand?
well, do you think we
should've bought it?
no.
okay.
there's also other places
we can go look at
that have different styles
of that kind of couch.
yeah. today was
your first venture
in this enterprise,
right?
i think my mother and i will
still share a bank account.
it's just easier.
i trust my mother,
but i don't feel comfortable
giving larissa my credit card,
because i think she would just
burn through that at
the speed of sound or something.
ashley: you have a booger
up your nose.
jay: stop.
did you have fun
last night?
mm-hmm.
so, what happened,
exactly,
with you natalie, when you guys
were out on the porch?
last night, we had
jay's welcoming party,
and i saw that jay and natalie
went outside
and had a conversation, but
i have no idea what was said.
what did she talk about,
cheating?
there's no point in
everyone arguing about it.
she doesn't know.
i don't know.
so, she needs to let it go,
at this point.
i don't know
what happened in jamaica,
and i just want
to trust jay.
but it's like she doesn't
even want this marriage
to work out for me.
it was never an issue
between you and i,
so i'm not sure why
it's still an issue for her.
i would never, no matter
what the circumstances were,
try to ruin someone's
relationship.
i'm not saying, as a friend,
i might not voice my concerns.
but if you say to me,
"this is what i'm doing,"
okay, well,
i value our friendship,
and i'm gonna stand by you no
matter what you choose to do.
i'll talk to her.
this argument is getting
annoying, though.
after what happened
between jay and natalie,
i said to natalie, "well, i just
can't take the drama anymore.
i have to distance
myself from you.
so, at this point,
you know,
you're no longer involved
in the wedding."
you know, she's been my best
friend for a really long time,
so it's hard for me
to just cut someone out.
but at this point,
it's been extremely stressful
playing the middle person
between the two of them.
i don't want to
look back at wedding photos
and see people that didn't even
really support our relationship.
-hey.
-hey.
-hi!
-oh, my god, it's so cold.
today,
my bridesmaids are picking
their wedding dresses up
from the shop.
woman:
i can't feel my ears.
and i'm looking forward
to having reliable,
supportive people in my wedding
party standing next to me now.
-all right. are you ready?
-let's go try on some dresses.
-hi.
-how are you?
-how are you?
-good.
all my bridesmaids
in this wedding
were gonna be my bridesmaids
in my previous wedding.
i always knew that
i wanted them by my side,
and they've stuck by me through
two previous engagements,
bought their dresses.
-let's cheers.
-thank you.
this is great.
before i ran away from
my previous two engagements,
one i didn't plan anything,
and the other one was completely
planned and paid for.
like, a $60,000 wedding.
but now, we're finally doing
this, and they'll be next to me.
-all righty.
-all right.
employee: so, i have
this one first.
i think that's brandy's.
maybe that one's mine.
-yeah, that's yours.
-okay, sure.
so, you're gonna be
in that room.
and then,
i have this one, here.
same thing, different size.
-oh.
that one we don't need
to try on.
she's not in
the wedding anymore.
so, you can put that one
to the side.
like, not in the wedding?
no.
okay.
so, we'll get rid
of this one, then.
you know, a lot of
our friends are mutual,
so i didn't want any drama --
like, to start any drama.
i just said me and natalie
had a falling out.
so, they already know
about natalie,
but today, i'm gonna explain
to my girls what happened.
-cheers.
-cheers.
-cheers.
-to hoping i fit in my dress.
they know that i've always
wanted this big wedding.
it's always
what i've dreamed of.
so, i think they'll be
understanding about my decision
to cut natalie out.
how did you tell her?
she messaged me and was like,
"um, what's going on?"
and i was like,
"natalie, you're not dumb."
she -- she's just --
she said she doesn't trust him.
she thinks he's cheating,
and she doesn't know it.
he, first of all,
is in a whole other country.
how do you know
what he was doing?
she just...not supportive
of the relationship.
all attention on natalie
and drama, so, i just can't --
-jealous.
-yeah.
so, it comes down to jealousy
and an attention thing, to me,
is what it seems like.
brandi: of course,
i've even questioned,
is he really here because he
loves ashley
and ashley loves him?
you don't know.
but at the same time,
i'm definitely going to be there
for her no matter what.
she was like,
"i didn't do anything wrong."
blah, blah, just making excuses.
but you don't attack somebody.
literally,
it came down to that.
i don't want to lay down to bed
with you every night.
they were friends
for so long,
but, you know,
that's ashley's call.
you know,
when you fall in love
and you want to be
with somebody,
sometimes you make
those sacrifices.
ashley: and i was like,
"listen, i'm done.
you're not
in the wedding.
i just need to distance
myself from you,
and not have you in my life
right now.
that's it."
pretty cut and dry.
woman: i think you made
a good decision, you know,
for yourself,
and for your wedding,
and jay,
and your sanity.
my sanity.
let's hope it's all
easy sailing from here.
-really good group of girls.
-it's gonna be. yeah, yeah.
should we try
our dresses on?
let's start
trying them on.
i'm the kind of person that,
once i make my mind up,
there's nothing in this world
that's gonna change it.
and i'm not gonna
put up with bull.
it's just not me.
brandi: oh, god.
so, i hope definitely that
the rest of the 90 days,
i just want it to go
smooth and drama-free.
i don't want anyone trying to
get in between our relationship
or causing any drama between us,
because if they do, they're out.
let's get
out of them.
i just want to make sure
that this is the real deal
for you now.
i just want to hear that
you didn't cheat.
leida: oh, my god.
i didn't expect this.
swear to god,
i didn't expect this.
hi.
i'm getting stuff ready
for our little sit-down dinner
with my sister.
we are leaving for utah
in the morning.
i need to be on the same page
with my sister.
i don't want to leave the state
and not be okay with her.
it's kind of easier for her
to just 100% blame asuelu,
but i feel like she does have
a lot of anger and animosity
towards him that should be
directed towards me.
you need help?
um, sure.
what's the baby doing?
baby's still sleeping.
okay.
-hello.
-hey.
good. how are you?
good.
you guys --
-oh, let me get the wine
out of the fridge.
-yes.
please.
you have glasses somewhere?
do you --
have you ever had wine?
asuelu: um...
do you want
to try some?
i came to dinner tonight
with questions to ask asuelu,
because when asuelu
was in samoa,
i was there for my sister
every day.
and i hated him because
i was under the impression that
he broke her heart
by cheating on her.
so, not only is it hard
for me to give up my role
in oliver's life,
but i have to give it up
to someone that
i don't even trust.
hopefully, by the end of
talking to them tonight,
i'll know that he's here
for the right reasons.
cheers.
you don't like it?
that's how it works.
so, leaving california's gonna
be really hard for me,
and i just don't want
to leave on a bad note.
i want to be able to come back
often to see you
and bring the baby to see you,
and i don't want things
to be weird.
i mean, it's rough
that you and my baby
will be not close to me,
but, i mean, yeah, i'd love to
get everything out in the open,
yeah?
so, dinner
was a little awkward.
you look tortured.
it's really weird
seeing him with the baby.
just that i was under
the impression
that you had
cheated on her.
so that's why
i hated you.
so, i mean,
now i feel like
i just want to
hear, i guess,
that you didn't cheat.
so once she came back,
then you guys knew
that you were going
to be serious.
being apart made me see that
i wanted to be with him.
i just want to make sure
that this is the real deal for
you now, that now this is it.
he's the first person
i, like, really loved.
i mean, obviously,
now he's here.
we're both fully committed.
we're both fully
in the relationship.
i want to forgive you,
and i want to
move forward,
but i just want
to know, like...
you love her, right?
you promise.
and you are here
to be with her,
are here to be a good dad
and support her.
you saying that to me,
i will believe you from today on
until you prove me wrong.
i believe him,
but i'm still skeptical
because he's only been here
for a few days,
so i will be still watching.
i love you.
and i would say bye to the baby,
but i know he's asleep.
i was hoping just to clear
things up with my sister,
so i do feel like
that was resolved.
so, you're not in
all the way, yet.
you're just, like, the door
has opened for you, at least.
i know that she still kind of
just wants to see him in action
and have him prove his word
to her that it's not just,
"oh, yeah, that's what happened,
and i'm gonna be the greatest
person ever."
she wants to see him
acting right
and being good to me
and being good to oliver.
welcome home.
i don't feel prepared
at all for this moment.
who is at 20 years old,
honestly?
here?
yes, that one.
whoa.
all right.
home.
okay.
but not jakarta home.
okay.
carry it.
i'll carry it.
my apartment's pretty small,
and my middle daughter, natasha,
shares it with me.
i am a little worried about
leida adapting to
the apartment that we're
gonna be living in.
it is a major downgrade from
where she was living in jakarta.
and, welcome home.
aw.
i leave for one week, and this
is what happens to the place.
yeah, well, that's tasha.
i told her to clean up
knowing that you were coming.
it's not even clean.
so she left like this?
ugh.
dirty dishes...
yes, i know.
i'm not happy about that,
'cause i've tried to teach her
to wash your dishes
when you're done and
put them away.
what is this?
fridge.
ugh.
ah, she was upset.
there's gonna be things
that she has to get used to
that are gonna cause frustration
in the beginning.
hopefully she'll have some time
to process the apartment.
my god.
ugh.
it's not even clean.
it was clean when i left.
oh, geez.
i think that she left this mess
in this place on purpose.
ohh!
no.
for the time being.
no.
no.
yes, we can until we can
get a bigger one.
no.
that's it.
-no, it's not.
-okay.
it's only, like, one single bed.
where me and allessandro
are going to sleep?
he hasn't done anything
to prepare the place
for me and allessandro
to live with.
i feel like eric lied
to me the whole time.
that's my closet.
that's your closet.
this?
this only my closet?
for now, until we need
a bigger one.
this is not gonna be fit.
i need both closets.
get my stuff here.
oh, my god.
i didn't expect this.
swear to god,
i didn't expect this.
ugh.
i didn't expect that.
oh, geez.
i don't know, babe.
just, like...
i did not expect leida to
react as badly as she did,
but she does feel like
i disappointed her.
makes me feel like
and it's just not the way that
we wanted to get this started.
no, you don't have to
do it by yourself.
no, you don't.
hey.
when she gets here,
tasha will clean it
like i told you.
you're making a mountain
out of a molehill.
steven: olga went into labor
a few hours ago,
so we went to the hospital, but
they're refusing to let me
into the room to
see my son be born.
i'm gonna have to speak to the
chief of the entire hospital
just to give me permission
to be in the room
for the birth of my son.
if olga's k-1 visa was approved,
we'd be in america giving birth
at a normal hospital,
and i would not have to
deal with any of this.
while my fiancée is in labor,
i'm stuck signing paperwork.
i'm really worried olga's gonna
have the baby without me there.
woman: father's signature.
steven:
after six hours of waiting,
they finally gave me permission
to be in the room.
no words can describe
how happy i am.
i know that i'm gonna
see my son be born.
ooh!
hmm?
mm, yes, definitely.
oh.
steven: no more waiting.
it's time.
i don't feel prepared
at all for this moment.
who is at 20 years old,
honestly?
how are you guys getting along
with living
with each other
and everything?
we're doing pretty good.
i think that he's
naive right now.
i think they're
pretty much screwed.
colt:
today, larissa's meeting my
cousin john and his wife, leah.
darling.
the relationship between
larissa and my mother
has not been easy,
so it's my hope that larissa
can have a good relationship
with them.
oh, bunny.
this is a really tall door.
before larissa arrived,
john expressed his concerns
in regards to her,
so i'm a little nervous
for them to meet.
how long you been
with larissa?
uh, i was with her
for five days,
and then i proposed
to her after that.
and then --
after five days?
yes.
oh, goodness.
this is gonna be fun.
-hi!
-holy cow.
-hello!
-hi.
-hello.
-hi, colt.
-how you doing?
-doing great.
good, got your fiancée
this time.
-yeah, i brought a friend.
-hi.
good to see you.
come on in, guys.
colt: hey, john.
the day has finally
come, huh?
yeah.
ah.
you gonna introduce me?
this is larissa.
hello, john.
hi, larissa, how are you doing?
welcome to america.
i'm good. thank you.
this is john.
hello.
you like it here?
-too hot?
-yeah.
leah:
how is it in brazil?
okay.
yeah.
how you guys
getting along
with living with each other
and everything?
we're doing
pretty good, um...
we're learning.
you guys are from
opposite sides of the world,
different cultures
and everything, and...
yeah.
...bringing
that together,
that's probably
a wild mess.
do you love
my man colt?
how do you express
your love to colt?
so, i express myself
in different ways.
not just sex -- hugging,
kissing, being intimate --
physically intimate,
obviously.
i'm not seeing anything wrong
with your...
i know,
the togetherness.
...your way.
i feel that way,
though, too.
yeah.
basically, she needs her space,
i need my space,
and we need to find a space that
we can both occupy together.
yeah.
leah: i feel like she does have
feelings for him.
he does seem very happy,
but i think that the fact
that she doesn't want to spend
a lot of time with him,
that's gonna be hard
because --
i think that he's naive
right now,
and he's excited
to have somebody in his life.
you're getting married in,
what, 90 days?
within -- well,
less than 90 days now.
clock is ticking.
you could always
break this off.
well, there's --
i just want you
to think about it, though.
you know what i mean?
you're not just
coming over here
to marry my man
for a green card, are you?
relationships, they work out,
or maybe they don't.
and, like, ours is just
a little different.
it's a gamble, really.
i mean, you want
the high payoff.
you want, you know,
make sure your investment --
you don't lose
all your money, right?
welcome to vegas.
no, i think they're pretty much
screwed, you know?
i think that she's coming
to america
to enjoy the, you know,
high life.
so...we should
probably get going.
it was good to see you guys.
it was good to meet you.
congratulations.
thank you, john.
he has a chance here
to enjoy his 90 days
or less than 90 days
or whatever they have left
and send her back
to brazil.
all right, bye, guys.
-bye.
-bye, john.
colt: i think john
maybe didn't take to larissa
as quickly as leah did,
but, um, overall, it went okay.
he was just
worried about me.
he doesn't want me
to get hurt.
he's like
one of my cats.
maybe they don't like you
the first day.
maybe they'll
scratch you a little bit,
but the second day, maybe
they're laying on your lap,
and you can pet
their heads.
fernanda!
stop.
look how close
they are.
fernanda: hey.
looking for food.
jonathan: it's been a tough
first month for fernanda,
so we're in myrtle beach
for the weekend.
i realize she's trapped.
she's feeling lonely,
and i think this trip to myrtle
beach is a good change-up.
go on in.
like what?
punches, punches,
punches, punches.
like -- like techno?
we can talk
to the deejay.
maybe we can request
a couple songs.
'cause we have to --
to take a shower, but we have to
be out of here in 30 minutes.
okay.
when are you gonna
be ready?
fernanda,
for her club routine,
fernanda's getting ready
on thursday for saturday.
oh, come on.
yeah.
babe, you ready?
you're showering,
you do your hair for two hours,
you makeup takes
another two hours.
oh, my god.
look who it --
look who it is.
it's like, "yeah,
i'll be ready in 30 minutes."
i don't bother her.
i wait another 30.
fernanda,
we have to go.
it's really
teaching me patience.
you look good, though,
every time.
every time.
hey, it's us.
-all right, guys.
-thank you.
man:
have a good night.
♪ work for it,
rehearse for it ♪
♪ k*ll the beat,
tell 'em throw a hearse on it ♪
♪ hunger for it all these...
would thirst for it ♪
♪ just imagine
if i twerk for it ♪
in the moment.
♪ gimme that money ♪
♪ g-g-gimme that money ♪
♪ gimme that money ♪
♪ gimme that, that money ♪
♪ gimme that money ♪
♪ g-g-gimme that money ♪
♪ gimme that money ♪
♪ gimme that money,
that m-money ♪
hey, fernanda,
come here.
hey! what's wrong
with you? hey.
are you serious?
i'm not giving you the key.
listen.
listen -- calm down.
i wasn't dancing with her.
i told her i couldn't
dance with her.
i said my fiancée's
about to be right back.
fernanda.
fernanda, come here!
fernanda, stop. listen -- i was
not dancing with her.
you're gonna leave?
you're gonna drive?
you're gonna
leave me here?
you're gonna
leave me here?
you're gonna leave me here?
are you serious?
this isn't the first time
fernanda's lost her cool
around me.
we were at a club in mexico.
it was our first night out,
and this one girl
kept looking at me,
and i looked at her once,
and fernanda, she shoved
the girl across the bar,
and her friends started
coming after fernanda.
well, her friends held her back,
and fernanda went crazy.
the fact that she saw me dancing
with another woman,
i feel like her reaction's
gonna be now even crazier
than what i've seen before.
fernanda!
fer, come back!
where are you going?!
fernanda!
fernanda!
stop.
i didn't do anything.
of course i do.
next time on "90 day fiancé"...
colt:
now that larissa's here,
i feel like it's a good time
to propose to her.
want to get married?
you giving up your whole life
for this woman.
you can't take a baby
out of the car seat!
this situation
definitely makes me doubt
wanting to marry asuelu.
ooh.
jonathan:
they could've pressed charges.
they may never give you
your citizenship.
then you have to go back
to mexico, and then what?
steven:
i'm so scared because i can feel
my entire world changing.
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