previously on
"90-day fiancé"...
oh, nice.
i wish i could say,
"okay, yeah,
it's just you and i",
but it's not.
it's my mother.
oh, wow!
woman: seeing fernanda try on
wedding dresses today,
it's a lot to process.
steven: all you do is stay home,
feed the baby.
have you ever said to me "thank
you" for what i'm doing so far?
my family didn't care about me
when i was little.
now she's not caring about me.
like, that just makes me
believe, like,
she doesn't really love me.
so, apparently someone wrote,
like, hundreds of comments...
jay: these comments make me
want to go back to jamaica
and don't want to be
in america no more.
i went against my dad so that
your family could see my baby.
you gonna break up with me
over child support?
i don't like it.
it's really hard because
i'm not his priority.
larissa: and coming up...
just need to make sure
you get the whole front door.
because of these
r*cist comments,
some of our family and friends
are dropping out of the wedding.
jay and i are here because
we need to tell you something.
brandi: uh-oh.
uh-oh.
my relationship with my mom
is different.
i love my mom,
and i don't want to miss out
on that opportunity
to build back that relationship.
you should feel like a damn
queen with a rock like that.
i don't care to come
to your wedding.
i don't know what would happen
if we didn't have a baby.
i really don't.
at this point,
i don't want to marry him.
you came in here,
and you destroyed everything.
he's gonna choose this psychotic
b*tch over his family.
i'm not rich.
i told you we would pick
and choose bills sometimes.
eric:
i took leida furniture shopping,
but i don't have the money
right now
to buy the things
that she wants.
but i want to
get a new bed.
anything over a few hundred
dollars isn't happening today.
i'm out of here.
i want to get rid of
the twin bed,
the teeny,
tiny bed right now.
and you can't
make that happen.
we will get you what you want,
but it takes time.
no, no, no, no.
wait, wait, wait, wait.
and the wedding venue?
it seems like i have
to accept everything.
i'm not happy.
my children
are not a burden.
okay?
you need to get rid
of that selfish...
in america, family
is what matters.
leida is upset,
and she made it clear
that she doesn't want
to get married.
it feels horrible.
she just doesn't think
that i can provide
a good life for her
and her son
because i pay child support
to my ex wife.
i just don't think
she wants to accept it.
i'm not ready to facing
this you know?
what are you talking about?
there's no to face.
it is to face.
it is.
what is the problem?
why?
what is wrong with it?
did you love me or not?
i do love you, but i --
then what is the question?
leida is saying
that she loves me.
i think she means it.
but i'm not exactly sure.
i want honesty.
i have been honest with you
from the beginning.
why?
because...
i keep telling you
i'm not gonna be happy,
and you would
rather let me --
what will make you happy?
why do you
have to yell at me?
because you're not
listening to reason.
what is it that will
make you happy, then?
me giving up
my parental rights?
or do you want me
to give you $1,000 a month
to put in your pocket?
both.
oh, both?
yeah.
not one or the other?
both.
why both?
no. you don't deserve me
to give up my child.
huh. okay.
i'm a parent.
she's a parent.
she should never have to ask --
she should never ask that of me.
i would never ask that of her.
the fact that you would demand
that i give up
my parental rights
is wrong.
it is wrong...
'cause i don't like it.
...on a moral level.
it is inhuman
to demand that.
then you're going home.
'cause i will not give up
my child.
this is over.
i don't care how much
i love a person.
i can't put them before my kids.
putting everything into context,
when she acts like this,
i do start to wonder
if the green card
is was what it was all about.
it makes me feel sick.
this is over.
whoa.
i take care of my mother.
you knew these things coming in.
it's not like
you're surprised.
"oh, here, by the way,
here's my 66-year-old mother."
you can't make me choose
between you or my mother.
that's not fair.
we found one-bedroom.
one-bedroom loft?
yeah.
if you guys move into a loft,
i would find a "senior" place.
so, larissa, do you have
something in mind
that you like
for a wedding dress?
okay.
did colt
give you a budget?
or less.
i like the "less" part.
i understand they have some
really pretty dresses here.
we'll find out.
yeah.
i'm not sure if i really know
larissa well enough
or their relationship,
but i guess this wedding
is happening,
so i'm making
an effort for colt.
oh, look, it's lea.
hey, guys.
hi!
hi.
how are you?
you ready to go try on dresses?
yeah. how are you?
good.
well, let's go do this.
sonja: hello.
hello.
welcome to viero bridal.
hello.
i am lea.
hi, lea. i'm alexa.
nice to meet you, alexa.
sonja.
nice to meet you.
and you must be the mom.
larissa?
well, come on in.
what kind of style
are you looking for
as far as
your wedding dress?
okay.
how about the coverage?
yes, but not too much.
yes, yes.
wonderful.
all right.
so let's pull --
okay, perfect.
so, we'll pull this one,
as well.
yeah, that one's pretty.
i like that one.
yeah, let's see.
i'm excited.
okay.
you ready?
ooh, yes.
wonderful.
here comes the bride.
oh, wow. oh, my.
oh, i love that one.
that's beautiful.
that one's beautiful.
wow!
oh, it's so pretty.
this dress can be also
enhanced with this belt.
so, you can dress it up,
or you can keep it simple.
however you like.
ooh!
we can definitely try you
in a different dress
that would be more form-fitting.
yes.
and see how you feel
about that one.
what kind of dress do you think
that she should get?
i don't think they're gonna
have anything here...
in our price range.
yeah.
colt only wants to spend
$1,000 or less.
when you're on a budget,
you need to go with what
your budget it, you know?
yeah,
he's got to save money.
he's got to pay for
the green card, you know.
yeah, there's a lot going on.
a lot of expenses.
definitely.
yeah, definitely.
oh, my goodness.
there's a sexy song?
that's cute.
oh, my goodness.
beautiful.
oh, my goodness.
ooh, i like that.
that's cute.
whoa.
alexa: it's beautiful.
she looks sexy.
it's beautiful.
yeah, it does look sexy.
and the price?
so, this one is $2,400.
that's too much.
you're on a budget.
in america, the bride's family
pays for the wedding.
really?
yeah.
no.
will you pay for your dress?
every family's different.
ahh!
but, no, tradition.
tradition says the bride pays
for the wedding.
that's tradition.
i guess he could use the money
he was gonna get
for your green card
and use it for the dress.
you don't have to get
a green card right away.
no, my green card
is more important.
mm-hmm.
it's $1,000
for your green card.
you want to put the $1,000 along
with the $1,000 for the dress,
hold off another six months=
for your green card?
no.
we could talk about that.
i think she thinks colt's
gonna say okay to the dress,
and she's not gonna be able
to talk him into it.
he'd rather see you in a sexy
nightgown after the wedding.
yeah, true that.
i mean, he doesn't want to spend
that kind of money on a dress.
it's ridiculous.
yeah.
he's spending a fortune on her
as it is.
it's...
perfect?
...perfect.
it's a really
perfect dress.
it's up to him.
my relationship with my mom
is different
from the relationship
with your mom.
but you need fix that.
jay and i are here because
we need to tell you something.
brandi: uh-oh.
uh-oh.
people are definitely
gonna be upset
about this decision
that we've made.
it's snowing.
it's your first time
in the snow.
look, you've got to try
to catch one.
okay.
put your hands up.
oh.
look.
hurry.
you're so young.
i guess i think when i was 19 --
you had me at 20.
no, if you do the math right,
i didn't have you at 20.
i got married
when i was 21.
i had you when
i was 22 1/2.
you've been married
a couple of times.
maybe you can give us
some advice.
hold off.
don't do it.
hello.
hi. how are you?
so, we'll do a love tea.
sure.
and i'll do a hazelnut macchiato
with an extra shot of espresso.
we have six weeks.
it's really stressing me
out now.
i know.
like, how far we are
behind the flowers,
the cake,
the venue, of course.
you know, the wine bar,
the decorations --
all of those things
that are involved.
it's like it's hitting me.
i'm so stressed.
like, you have no idea.
you what?
my relationship with my mom
is different
from the relationship
with your mom.
you know, you are your mom
are really a lot closer
than me and my mom.
but you need fix that.
me and my mom were very close.
we went through a lot.
now we're not as close.
we used to talk every day,
and things change.
being on your own for 10 years
in a different city,
you become more independent,
and you start focusing
on yourself more.
and you forget about the people
who helped you
get to where you are.
i wish i talked
to my family more.
i wish i'd call them and say,
"hey, ma, how" --
i love my mom, and i don't want
to miss out on that opportunity
to build back that relationship
that i used to have.
so, with this relationship
with fernanda,
my family is gonna be
more of a priority.
okay?
at first,
i was a little bit nervous
about fernanda
meeting my family,
but now that she's here, i feel
like it could be a fresh start
with all of us.
family is something
that should be really special.
it is really special.
but fernanda's making me
more aware of that.
oh, gosh, all right.
well, no more tears
for the rest of the trip.
it's been a couple of days since
i discovered the disgusting,
horrible comments
on our wedding website.
so, apparently someone wrote,
like, hundreds of comments,
and the "n" word is dropped
in almost every comment.
we're setting up
security cameras today
just for some added security
and peace of mind for us.
jay: take my phone, babe.
take my phone.
you got to watch the video.
see where it is?
mm-hmm.
just need to make sure you
get the whole front door area.
so, we want to know, like,
everything that happen
around our house 24/7.
so, i want one on the front
door, inside and out.
uh-huh.
because of these comments,
some of our family and friends
are dropping out
of the wedding.
they're actually concerned
for their safety.
and there's just been
a lot of...things happening
that kind of
make us feel like
we should just
change everything.
oh, they're here.
hey, hey.
i'm sure people are definitely
gonna be upset about this,
you know,
decision that we've made.
but i feel like i really need
to tell destiny and brandi
because they're
my close friends,
and i owe it to them to at least
let them know what's going on.
i got some wine.
that looks fabulous.
so, what do you guys
got me?
well, you can
have my slushie.
ohh, okay.
all right.
so, how's everything
been going?
busy.
busy?
yeah, i can imagine.
i know i saw your wedding site
that you have,
and i saw all the posts
and everything.
that's miserable.
yeah.
a horrible situa--
like, it's a bad situation.
you know what i mean?
so, it's, like, everything
leading up to our wedding
has been drama.
drama with natalie,
drama with the comments,
drama with people
dropping out.
just, like, everything.
and jay and i are here because
we need to tell you something.
brandi: uh-oh.
uh-oh.
yeah.
we're canceling our wedding.
like, you guys aren't getting
married canceling?
jay: uh...
no, we're gonna go to vegas
and get married.
eloping.
at this point, we're just
so frustrated with it all,
and we just, like -- we kind of
just want the two of us to go
and, like, get it done
and not have to deal with...
and you guys -- like,
it's not a rash decision
that you made overnight
from bad feelings?
no.
like, you guys thought really
long and hard about it?
yeah, we did.
you wouldn't have
guessed this.
the dresses you picked out
were, like, gorgeous.
mm.
brandi and destiny
have bought dresses
and have spent a lot of time
with me sending out invites,
even down to --
we were already making
the centerpieces and stuff
for the wedding.
so, i don't think
any of my friends
will be expecting for us
just to run off and elope.
honestly, like,
with my previous engagements,
i wanted that dream wedding
with a ton of people there
and everyone happy for me,
and at this point,
i just don't think it's
in the cards for me anymore.
but we, at this point,
are just going to
the elvis presley chapel
because that's, like,
our personalities.
i love that. i do.
true.
so, we're just gonna be goofy
and get married
and just take on vegas
for a couple days.
ashley ran from the wedding
in the past that she did
for huge reasons.
completely opposite of
what they have going on,
ashley and jay right now.
i don't think
she's running.
i think, at this point, it's,
like, what was pushed --
forced upon her to do.
well, i have to be honest,
i was really looking forward
to the wedding.
i mean, you know,
with the dresses
and getting to celebrate
with you.
you know, i was just kind of
really hoping to see everything,
have that fairy-tale wedding
in the end, but...
i know.
as much as it sucks
and everything,
'cause you definitely went out
of your way, i don't know.
i think running off,
getting married's kind of hot.
i think we would probably
keep the bridesmaid dresses
just in case, 'cause i think
she was talking about --
they're gorgeous.
yeah.
they're beautiful,
first of all.
it's in her hands.
yeah.
i'm gonna hang on to them.
exactly.
like, if she decides later on,
two years from now,
to renew their vows
and stuff,
we can
just use them for that.
i mean, i completely
back you guys.
well, i appreciate that.
'cause we're disappointed, too.
you know what i mean?
it's what we wanted.
it's what we planned.
but sometimes things
don't always go as planned.
the 90 days are coming
to a close,
and i never thought
in a million years
jay and i would just be
getting married the two of us
with no family and friends.
the r*cist comments on our
website really rattled us.
they forced me to change
my wedding plans,
which is something
i never expected
i would have to do.
but sometimes i think
that a scary situation
helps you get closer in your
relationship and grow together.
you know, jay and i are the two
people that are getting married,
and honestly,
at the end of the day,
that's the only two people
you need there,
and that's all
that's gonna be there.
i just feel like
since you've been here,
you don't try
to fix problems.
i applied for the k-1 visa
for my fiancée, olga.
what's going on with that?
and now...
well, that was
a short trip.
yeah.
how are you feeling?
awkward as ever?
yeah. kind of.
my sister kolini has been
visiting for a few days,
and yesterday,
asuelu and i had a fight
at brunch
in front of my sister.
you're not going to make me seem
like i don't like your family.
i've done lots
for your family,
and i even went against
what my dad said.
my dad didn't want me to go
to samoa with the baby.
does he usually do that when
you're having a conversation
about stuff like that?
yeah.
he just won't talk to me
for a while.
baby, come up and say bye.
please.
i was really wanting my sister
to see asuelu and me
in a good place,
but after this brunch, like,
she can't have anything good
to think about our relationship.
bye.
hopefully i'll see you soon.
and now she has to
get back to california
and get back to her own life.
i love you.
mwah. mwah.
asuelu: bye.
bye.
drive safe.
kalani: i'm sad that
my sister is leaving
and that i am stuck here,
but i do know
that this is a time
that i could use to have
a conversation with asuelu
because he just shuts down
and won't talk about it.
and at this point,
i don't want to marry him.
how do you think
brunch went?
well, why do you think
it ended like that?
i feel like that's why we have
been having so many issues
and why we haven't
been getting along.
because we're not understanding
what the other person is saying.
i just feel like
since you've been here,
that you're this different
version of yourself.
like, you're a different
person.
you're not the person
that i knew in samoa.
like, you don't really
talk to me,
you don't really
try to fix problems.
it just seems different.
a lot of things
seem different
since you've been here.
'cause i want to talk
about the issue.
i don't want to just pretend
that the issue is not there.
that's the problem, that
you don't ever want to
talk about what happened.
here, you just want to hug me
and act like everything is okay.
when i'm mad, i want to talk
to you about what i'm mad about,
not just, "oh, let's kiss
and let's cuddle,
and everything is fine."
i do feel like asuelu
constantly shutting down
and not talking to me
about his problems
is a maturity-level issue.
i feel like
because he is so young,
he thinks that he doesn't
have to talk to people
when he doesn't feel like it.
if you try to cuddle me
and i'm mad, that's what i mean.
because i feel like
you're doing that
so that then we'll not
talk about the issue.
to him, physical touching
is really important,
and that's what he views
as part of love,
and i kind of knew
that about him,
but i didn't think that it was,
like, this intense,
where he really believes
that i don't love him
if i don't want to cuddle him.
that makes me sad.
i'm sorry.
but i like that you finally told
me that you feel uncomfortable.
like, we need to talk,
baby.
we can't just not
talk to each other
about problems
that we're having.
then, can you please talk to me
if you're feeling uncomfortable?
can you come here?
come cuddle me.
i'm sorry.
i'm very happy we finally
had this conversation.
i feel like we're both
on the same page
and that i kind of feel excited
now to plan a wedding.
like, "okay,
i do want to marry you."
and i feel like we've made
a little bit of progress.
whoops.
it's okay.
it's okay.
steven:
i flew all the way to russia
to be with olga and my son,
and now richie
is three weeks old.
having a baby is way harder
than i thought it would be,
and things have been intense
between us.
all you do is stay home,
feed the baby, watch him.
you never come lay with me
or anything.
you forgot our relationship
because you put all of our focus
on our kid.
then show me it.
say it to me.
not yet.
i'm going to speak to him today.
we're still pushing
each other's buttons,
but i only have three weeks left
until i have to leave russia.
i only have enough money to
stay in russia for two months,
so i'm going to talk to
an immigration lawyer
to figure out what is needed
to get my son his
u.s. citizenship.
and we'll figure out
olga's k-1 visa.
when i get there, i'll ask him
what i have to do
and figure out
what is needed.
richie was born in russia.
that makes him
a russian citizen.
but because i'm an american
and since he's gonna be
growing up in america,
he needs to have
his u.s. citizenship,
but i'm not quite sure
how to do that.
i think i have all the documents
that's needed
for him to get
his u.s. citizenship.
i'm hoping this is gonna be
pretty easy for me,
but, at the same time,
i have no idea what to expect.
michael?
yes.
steven.
how's it going?
hello.
hi.
my fiancée, olga,
she had the birth of our son.
'cause right now, like, i'm
literally clueless of what i --
what steps should
i do for this?
okay.
okay.
i brought everything --
like, my passport,
the translation of my passport,
and his birth certificate.
okay.
oh, i bring all these documents
to the embassy?
yes.
okay, okay.
it's a lot paperwork,
but the lawyer makes it
seem pretty easy for me
to get my son
his u.s. citizenship.
but i need to get
more information
about olga's k-1 visa
so i can get her to america,
as well.
also, i applied for the k-1 visa
for my fiancée, olga,
and i'm just waiting patiently
for, like, the approval.
what's going on with that?
i love olga, and my plan
was to come to russia
and bring olga
and the baby home with me.
but there's no saying
when she's gonna be able
to come over,
because her visa is delayed.
and i do not want to leave
russia without my son.
it would just break my heart
not being with him every day
and him seeing me
and just watching him grow up.
okay. thank you very much.
i appreciate it.
so if i have to leave russia
before her visa approves,
i'm wondering if maybe i could
take richie back with me
to america.
but i don't want to say
anything to olga right now,
'cause i don't know
how she'll react.
hi, honey.
how'd he do
while i was gone?
olga: fine.
so...
yeah.
the baby needs all of this stuff
right here.
not too much, at least.
right now, i don't care
about sight-seeing
or doing anything
in moscow.
i care about
getting this done.
this is most important
to me.
there's a lot of
political things going on.
his citizenship
is most important to me.
and then we'll figure out
what's going on with
your visa, as well.
what do you mean?
your visa is gonna take
a long time.
you should feel like a damn
queen with a rock like that.
that b*tch is for his money,
period.
you are insisting that i become
a deadbeat dad to my daughter.
i'm not gonna give up
my parental rights.
colt: larissa and my mother went
shopping for a wedding dress,
but the dress
larissa chose costed $2,000.
i think it's ridiculous to spend
that much money on a dress
that she's
only gonna wear once.
honestly, i want the budget
for the dress
to be as low as possible.
it's only a few weeks
now before the wedding,
but there's a lot of tension
right now
between larissa and my family.
so i decided to have
a barbecue today
in the hopes
of having a fresh start
and just enjoy
each other's company.
i invited my cousin john
and his family to the barbecue.
however, last time
larissa and him got together,
it didn't end very well.
you're not just
coming over here
to marry my man
for a green card, are you?
you're getting married in,
what, 90 days?
you could always
break this off.
i really hope that we can mend
our wounds
and we can all just be a family
and john will finally
accept larissa.
hey, guys.
-hey.
-well...
-hello.
-hey.
-what's goin' on?
-how's it goin'?
i smell the barbecue.
-yeah. hi. how are you?
-good.
-how are you?
-can you say hi, baby?
can you say hi?
hi.
good to see you.
give me a hug.
how are you?
-are are you?
-good.
-you're looking good.
-thank you. you, too.
-hey, guys.
-you look wonderful.
-thank you.
-you too.
-wonderful.
-you look great too.
hey, thanks for inviting us
for a barbecue.
yeah.
we're excited.
colt: got some chairs out
for you guys.
come on. you guys
are gonna play inside
while we have grown-up time.
come on.
hey, larissa.
you want to sit here?
right here?
hey, come here.
john: i am concerned about
this relationship.
i don't think that
they love each other.
i don't think that they
are good for each other.
and i don't think she
actually appreciates
everything that he does
for her.
i need to take this food
in real fast.
so -- so how is
everything, guys?
yeah, we're doing good.
larissa and i were
looking at houses.
trying to figure out space,
you know,
living with debbie
and everything.
what's the plan
with aunt debbie?
i mean, is she gonna
live with you? or...
well we're not --
we're not sure yet.
we're still trying to figure out
the best situation
for all three of us.
could she
come live with us?
because i'd -- i'd be
more than happy for her
to pay half
of my rent.
oh no, no, no, no, no.
not now. not now.
i say forever.
she can come --
she could come over
to my house.
i think that she is
more of a blessing
than a burden
at this point.
it's a sacrifice
on both sides,
for her and you,
to listen to each other,
to work with each other.
both of you got to let
some things go
if you're gonna
make it work out.
okay.
but why?
why?
i can't handle it.
i don't have time.
my life was not...
you have to make time.
nobody to tell me
anything.
i learned by myself.
she lives here and pays rent
too though, larissa.
you have to respect her.
i am concerned about
aunt debbie, you know?
she comes over and she says
that she's hurting.
but she wants her son
to be happy.
but she needs to tell him
that that's not gonna work.
especially if they're willing
to kick her out on the street.
i mean, that's...
stupid.
but no, i mean,
these things are hard.
what do you want?
i want everyone just to calm
down and enjoy the house
that we live in
and enjoy each other's company.
well, hold on. that's -- that's
something that you want though,
is to calm down, to enjoy life,
to work together, or...
yes.
i mean, if we moved obviously
that would solve
the problem
of my mother and larissa.
but at the same time,
my mother is 66 years old.
she disabled and older.
i mean, she's the only family
i have, so...
and you love your mother.
i mean, she's been there
for you.
of course i love her.
i love her. so...
you know,
i'll tell you a story.
my mom, she always says
something that -- always says --
she says "nothing stays
the same but your aunt debbie."
and she said that
my whole life.
aunt debbie
is true to the bone,
true to the core,
always will be.
and my point is, cole,
i think that, you know,
you owe her
a bit of respect.
regardless, this is --
this is her son.
what i'm talking about
is respecting her --
is respecting her...
as an elder,
is what he's saying.
...as an elder and know what
she's going through as well.
you have each other,
don't you?
you have each other.
you have each other.
what does she have?
how is your life hell?!
you have a man paying for you.
your man pays for everything.
your man pays for everything.
because you don't do
a thing right now.
and until you do
and you understand respect,
you're not actually
going to understand
the truth about debbie
or colt or america at all.
'cause colt obviously
is infatuated with you.
-i wouldn't be.
-he loves both you guys.
and if you guys love him,
you guys got to work this out
so that he can have
both of you in his life.
and that's
a big-a*s ring.
so you should feel like a damn
queen with a rock like that!
but, no,
you take advantage.
hey, you know what?
half the i don't say,
i just go with because he's
a sweetheart and i love him.
you better love him,
dude, i swear to god.
yeah, we'll see. we'll see.
we'll see.
we'll see.
wonderful. wonderful.
wonderful. wonderful.
that b*tch is for his money,
period.
you better love him,
dude, i swear to god.
yeah, we'll see. we'll see.
we'll see. we'll see.
yeah, yeah.
wonderful. wonderful.
wonderful. wonderful.
that b*tch is for his money,
period.
you think about
riches and glory and glam
and all this other
you're the lucky one
'cause he deserves better.
he deserves better.
stop it.
welcome to vegas.
acid's cheap.
acid's cheap.
good luck. good luck.
good luck.
- don't come in here screaming.
- good luck.
-don't come in here screaming.
-stop.
i can't pretend anymore.
it's just -- it's just fake.
it's bull
that's not true love.
i'm sorry.
that's just a lie.
love is enduring for the other.
love is fighting for the other.
your fictitious
mind-set of love
is absolutely delusional
and confusing.
you don't know what love is
or what respect is.
you don't know what it is
to have a marriage
or a true, meaningful life.
i don't know what i can do.
i can't really handle someone
that is completely irrational
and yells and screams and...
i wish everyone would just calm
down and talk things through.
no.
no, i don't care
to come to your wedding.
i hope that i'm working
or something, i swear to god.
b*tch.
i just wish that...
i wish that she...
that's all i wish.
i wish that larissa
loved him.
i believe in true love.
i believe in actually,
you know,
working with a partner
and growing.
-i love you.
-i love you, too. go home.
no.
that's
that's garbage.
that's fake.
now what?
morning.
-what's up?
-how'd you sleep?
good.
last night we slept
in separate rooms,
because yesterday leida
and i had a pretty bad fight.
we both said some angry things.
well, there's obviously some
stuff we need to talk about.
well, let's not do it here.
let's go for a walk.
the kid is out there.
all right, then.
leida is unsure about
getting married because...
i pay child support for my
leida thinks that's money
that's being taken away
from her and allessandro.
so...
we need to have a talk,
so we're gonna go
for a walk
and jennica is gonna
watch allessandro.
we need to resolve this
and get this worked out,
because i don't want her
to go home.
i don't want her to leave.
i want this figured out.
okay.
so...
hm?
let's get to the subject
at hand,
the issue here.
i don't expect you
to be happy about me
having to pay child support.
i don't expect that.
you are insisting that i become
a deadbeat dad to my daughter.
and that hurt a lot.
okay?
but the fact is,
she's my daughter.
she's my responsibility.
i love her.
i'm gonna take care
of my children.
i'm gonna be a father
to my children.
-huge.
-it is huge.
it is huge.
i'm not expecting you
to be happy about it.
it's just --
it is what it is.
you're not gonna be
unhappy,
because we're gonna work hard
to build our future together.
it's not gonna be an issue.
also, because it's...
it's also because...
it's also because i'm
the only income at the moment,
and it's making you
nervous.
stop fretting about it.
everything will be fine.
i will never allow us
to go without,
and we will work hard
for our future.
you and alless
are always a priority,
and you will always
be priority.
but you will --
but jennica is also --
no.
you are equal footing
with my daughter.
because she is family,
too.
you're number one.
okay.
but i'm not gonna give up
my parental rights.
-all right.
-okay?
you know,
in the meantime,
our priority is
building our future.
yeah. okay.
yes. we are going to
get a home.
we are going to buy a home.
'cause i've been working...
i've been working to
get us a home.
you know that.
do you not trust me?
i do. 'cause you keep
talking about going back
where it's easy, so
i know you're not here
for the green card,
all right?
i get that.
you have my word.
we will be happy.
we will achieve happiness.
it just takes time.
you know what?
i'm done with this argument.
larissa: debbie...
i'm done! i'm done!
i'm done with you.
okay.
steven:
after seeing the lawyers...
so we're flying to moscow
where the u.s. embassy is
to make my son an american.
where to?
in a way, i'm kind of a little
bit nervous to meet anna,
just because i've heard
she's worried about me.
-hi, anna.
-hi.
it's good to meet you,
finally.
and you know who you
have to meet now?
can i see you?
hi there.
aww.
for this meet
for a long time?
ask whatever you like.
here,
you want to go to mama?
we had an argument
where i, like --
i walked out of the house.
i was like, "you know what?
i'm done with this argument.
i'm going out."
but the reason that it
started was because, like,
i would do everything,
but she just wouldn't say,
like, "thank you. please."
like those type of things.
i'm like, why can't you
ever just say like --
why -- why can't you
just say like sometimes --
no, i'm not complaining. i'm
just telling her what happened.
well, i mean, we didn't know
what's going to happen.
like, the baby
was so spontaneous.
i don't know what would happen
if we didn't have a baby.
i really don't.
yeah.
alright. i promise you
that i'll take real good care
of olga, okay?
okay.
it won't be nothing
to worry about.
-okay.
-have a good day.
-bye. you, too.
-oh, i got the baby.
what are you doing wrong?
look at the mirror.
it really puts more doubt
in my decision to marry her.
-you have to leave.
-make me.
i don't want to see her
ugly-a*s face no more.
i'm done with her.
i was surprised of john's
reaction at the barbecue.
i felt like things got
really heated very quickly.
i knew john had some
reservations about larissa,
but i didn't think it would
come down to actually yelling.
i think larissa might think
i'm passive
or i don't care
or weak or something.
everyone was going crazy,
so i figured one
more crazy person
probably wouldn't be
the best solution.
first off, regardless if my
mother poisoned their minds
with bull or whatever,
it doesn't matter.
you come off as very rude.
i knew that your mother...
it doesn't matter.
i don't --
say about a lot of
about me, and i'm rude, okay?
hold on a second.
i don't care what they did.
i don't care what they think
from debbie.
you give them no reason
not to think that you --
you're a b*tch or rude.
you should be very nice.
"oh, hey. how're you doing?"
very open. but you choose
not to because you think
their mind
is already made up.
but do you think i will
be nice with people
that your mother say
a lot of about me?
who cares?
but stop --
no matter what i do,
they will hate me.
it doesn't matter.
you're not giving them a reason
not to hate you, darling.
stop.
have a meal with someone.
ask them how their day is.
not allowed at my wedding.
i'm sorry.
he doesn't fully understand
the situation.
he has these thoughts,
you know, like,
"oh, brazilian hot girl --
money. green card."
it's our responsibility
to show them that's not true.
-okay?
-alright, well...
you never say nothing
against me?
l-- listen --
you both think
the worst of each other.
you both think you're --
you're --
you are the worst people.
it's not true.
none of it.
you just go from zero
to b*tch in like 0.3 seconds.
calm down. what do you
think you're doing now?
you're yelling at everyone.
you're mad.
what are you doing wrong?
look at the mirror.
listen.
debbie, come here.
she didn't slam the door.
yeah, she say,
"oh, but it's there".
larissa, calm down.
larissa.
larissa.
that's slam the door.
i'm done. i'm done!
i'm done!
i'm done with you.
-larissa, calm down.
-i am so done with you.
-larissa, you're not the victim.
-yes.
larissa, calm down,
please.
larissa, you cannot talk
to people like that.
okay.
'cause i'm in the wrong?
what's with debbie?
stop. no, stop.
you're not perfect.
you're not an angel.
i don't know what exactly is
going through your mind.
you think everyone's
against you all the time.
now debbie's not perfect.
debbie has problems.
john has problems.
i have problems.
you have problems.
but you take offense.
you threaten people.
"i'm going to call the police".
use american laws
against them.
you don't know
what that means.
you don't even know
how to drive a car.
it's not about my mother.
it's not --
you're not the victim.
larissa,
come back down here.
larissa,
you're not the victim.
i was really hurt when larissa
threw the ring on the floor.
i put a lot of effort
in proposing to her
and giving her the ring.
it felt like a punch in the gut.
i think it really puts
more doubt
in my decision to marry her.
you have to leave. you have to
pack everything and just leave.
make me.
oh, no, no, no.
is that?
the past 90 days
has been very stressful.
hello?!
oh, my
want a drink?
drink?
-hi.
-hey.
why are you in my room?
i was just like...
and a mess.
yeah?
it's my room!
but why the hell
are you keeping a mess?
you have time to hang out
with your boyfriend,
but why don't you have the time
to just clean up your mess?
this is really unacceptable.
you know me.
you know me.
i have a problem
with something mess,
and you keep doing
that all the time.
and you know me.
i have a problem with
invasion of privacy.
that is ill*gal.
-what?
-invasion of privacy.
i'm not invading you with
privacy or something like that!
-yes.
-i just check.
this is my house.
that's my room.
again, you haven't
paid the rent.
yeah.
that's not even a problem
anymore.
'cause i want you
to move out now.
i don't --
i don't want this anymore.
that's cute.
i -- i don't think i care.
i really don't.
that is between me and my dad.
we had an agreement --
no! i mean, like,
this is the boss --
-i am the boss right now!
-my dad and i had an agreement.
-you're not the boss.
-i am -- i am the boss.
-you're not my mother.
-no, no.
i don't have to suck up
to you and roll over
and show you my belly
every time
you get
a little upset.
- he doesn't want you --
- bull
because he doesn't want
to argue with you!
he doesn't want you to be here.
you came into here,
and you destroyed everything.
you have to leave. you have to
pack everything, and just leave.
make me.
alright.
okay. i'm going to give you
the proof that...
i just want to show it
to you because --
because he can't say
anything defending me.
otherwise,
you get all offended,
and you threaten
to leave him.
he literally told me
it can't look like
he's defending me at all.
otherwise,
you will freak out.
"i'll get on her a*s.
that's all."
-what it -- jake's?
-jake's.
"...all the time, then just
stay at jake's."
this is what
he said to me.
oh, my god. no.
you're gonna call my dad.
you -- your dad wants you
to move out.
that's what -- the last thing
that he said to me.
- that's all.
- bull
i'm calling him
right now.
-hey.
-hello?
hello.
dramatic, dramatic.
come on!
she said, like, um, you don't
want her to move out.
that's what she said.
is that true?
-no. i told her -- no.
-see?
i didn't say he didn't
tell me to get out.
what i said was
he literally said, he can't --
it can't look like
he's defending me.
otherwise you flip
your
is that true?
i can't what?
what did she say?
you literally said it cannot
look like you're defending me,
or she'll flip her ,
which she already is,
by the way.
stay the
out of my room.
stay the
out of my room.
so what do you think
i have to do right now.
'cause clearly she doesn't
want to move out.
i told you guys i was
going to clean it.
whatever. she keeps giving me
another excuse.
-i'm out.
-no!
well, then she
slammed the door.
that's really good.
is that how
your daughter --
is that your own daughter
treated you?
if this is indonesia,
you know what will happen?
well, she is
selfish right now.
she doesn't understand it.
i don't like it.
i don't like to be like,
"keep it clean".
it's simple.
keep it clean.
that's all.
i can't tell you how many times
she said she was not
going to touch my room.
she was not going to look at
my stuff without my permission.
and then she just waltzes in and
tells me to get the out.
if you don't like it, then
go back to indonesia.
it's just unacceptable.
that's all.
ooh.
this is only temporary. i'm done
with your dramatic attitude.
i'm sorry that you
don't like dirty.
yeah, it is.
you don't deserve
my dad either.
she's a
psychotic-a*s b*tch,
and she doesn't deserve
my father.
he can do better than that.
yeah. i'm done
with her bull
she acts like she's better
than i am,
and how my dad can't show
any affections towards me
or she freaks out.
that's bull
i'm his daughter.
that's
if that will make allessandro
have a better life,
then it's worth it.
what you doing there?
i help clean up.
you touched my stuff?
no, i mean, like, you need to
leave, that's all. i'm just --
what do you think
i'm trying to do?
i can't take everything
with me the first trip.
alright.
well, i hope
you're happy.
you don't deserve --
he can do way better than you.
i was hoping after
his last relationship
that tanked so badly...
-whatever.
-...he would learn his lesson,
but obviously not.
-oh.
-yeah.
oh, no, no.
what the ever.
bull
he doesn't
want me around
then what does it matter
to him what i do?
he doesn't care that i don't
exist to him anymore.
i'm not -- i'm not going to
her damn wedding.
i don't want to see her
ugly-a*s face no more.
i'm done with her.
i don't know where my dad
and i stand anymore,
but if he's really
going to disown me
because of his psychotic
new wife, i'm done.
like, i don't want to like --
i don't want to just not see
my dad anymore,
but this is --
this is how it's gonna be,
then i guess
it's just how it's gonna be.
i'm not -- i'm not expecting him
to choose between me and her,
but i am his daughter.
get this out of my face.
get out of my face.
i'm done with it.
this.
ugh. i just can't
wait to swim.
jay: vegas in the pool
and everything.
it's not gonna be like
jamaica, though.
whatever happen in vegas
stays in vegas, right?
ashley: jay and i are packing up
all of our stuff,
and we're just getting
ready to elope in vegas.
at this point, i am just
so relieved to hop on a plane
and take off and do this,
just the two of us.
how much our flight?
five.
five-hour flight?
that's too long.
jay and i have decided to elope
for multiple reasons.
we've had to tackle, you know,
a fair amount of issues,
more than i thought
we would in 90 days.
like my goal is to
always protect you.
-right.
-and my concern is --
i know that you still
to this day --
you still to this day think
that he cheated on me, right?
"you're a stupid b*tch.
i'm coming to your wedding.
it's my second calling."
he's referring to the right
to bear a firearm.
more towards you.
the past 90 days has been
very stressful,
and, you know, it's ending
with a marriage,
which is what i wanted.
however, it's not the wedding
that i pictured.
i don't really like these.
i'm debating if i'm gonna
wear it or not.
yeah.
whenever i was young
and, you know, running around
on the street with girls, i --
i always say to myself,
"ooh, me? mnh.
i would never get married."
you know, never be engaged,
because, like, you know,
that whole people don't --
like, people life
is gonna be miserable.
so you're still wearing the same
dress you were gonna wear?
yeah. you should probably try
your jacket on again.
like, when's the last time
you put this on?
but, as a 20 year old
from jamaica,
i've been through a lot,
you know, and i'm just ready.
i'm just ready to go
through the process.
ooh.
i'm at the point that i'm ready
to have my life change forever.
babe, guess what?
-hm?
-look at me.
i do.
alright, babe.
well,
there's one bag packed.
hopefully,
it's not overweight.
where are you gonna
put your stuff in?
well, i'll carry the dress
on the plane.
and what about your
other clothes upstairs?
yeah, it's gonna have
to go in the next one.
and i'm gonna get
a couple more --
couple more of these --
is that?
woman:
hello?! ashley?!
hello?!
oh, my
next time
on "90 day fiancé"...
she's irrational, emotional.
i do give you
true compliments.
i can't marry her.
it's always about you.
tasha situation --
i am done accepting things.
when the kids get upset,
i get upset.
as a mom, i don't tolerate
a new person in my life
acting like that towards
my kids -- period.
what's wrong?
this is kind of making me
question marrying him even more.
i just feel like this was, like,
the stupidest time to do this.
you know what tomorrow is?
you get to be
a u.s. citizen.
you don't have to beat
on my door!
woman: she's running away
from all of her problems.
wake up.
he's destroying everything
that you have.
mind your own
business!
she makes it seem like i'm the
bad guy when i'm trying so hard.
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