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I'm seriously pregnant.
So what are we going to do now?
We're not telling my family.
We're in my parents' house.
And the one thing they told us not to
do was have another kid in their house.
How long do you think you
can keep this from your parents?
You and me, we want different things.
You want more kids.
I don't want more kids.
Sometimes I think you and me
are really, really, really different.
I just talked with your mom.
I told her that we are just going to elope.
I don't want to support a train wreck.
I mean, this is like bullshit.
You treat me like a little kid.
But I don't know if whenever we get
married, if you're going to get better.
What are you doing?
Why are you doing this two
days before our wedding?
It's not really the time to be asking
those f*cking kinds of questions.
If you're not confident in
marrying me, then don't.
I brung up having the prenuptial agreement.
So here is a hard copy.
He has trust issues.
And I have to pay the price for everything
that has happened to him in his past.
This says that you won't
take me for everything I've got.
You want to tell your
dad about the wedding.
You're not telling your dad
about the truth of what we're doing.
I'm going to tell him this night.
Things had to get rescheduled
because of the venue.
Look, if I have dreams-- If you
love me, you will understand.
And if I'm not going to
be allowed to be here--
I have dreams, too, to have a nice wedding.
That's your f*cking dream.
I have another dreams.
Well, then go.
That's your decision.
We're done, then.
Copen, you want to
hang out with Lala today?
Yeah, yeah.
What to do?
Uh-oh.
Honey, just let him be.
Oh, my goodness.
And, Koby, I've got your room right here.
All right.
All right, good luck.
Ever since we found out about their pregnancy
a few weeks ago, I feel really guilty.
Keep me a secret from my parents.
So there's a tense vibe going on.
All right, coming.
OK, let's see.
Wow, this looks good, babe.
Yeah, pretty sharp, man.
Looks good.
I'm definitely having complicated
feelings because I want
more kids, but like, I'm not
happy at, like, the timing of it.
Yeah, considering the fact
that I can't work right now
and I'm living in your father's house
and we are holding on to this secret,
I'm just so worried this is
going to piss him off so much.
So it's just so heavy.
But, like, we're not telling
him before the wedding.
It's just going to add more stress on them.
They've already put a lot
of money into our wedding.
Like, I want them all to have a
good time, and then we can tell them.
So we'll be fine.
You like that suit?
I love it.
I'm so worried we don't have
your groomsmen's outfits.
Wow.
We ordered them from China.
So what I told you on our way coming here,
that they're already
on their way to Salina.
Oh, god.
Koby and I have been
trying to play it cool lately.
But honestly, things
have been super stressful.
And there's definitely been a lot more
bickering after we found out I was pregnant.
I don't even know who your groomsmen are.
Me neither.
What's-- yeah.
OK.
He's here-- I thought you
were talking about the weather.
What?
Oh, my-- I thought we were
doing wedding stuff tonight.
Temperature is one of Koby's
closest friends who lives in Ohio.
And now that the wedding
is only a week away,
there's a lot going on,
and it's pretty chaotic.
So I'm a bit surprised that his friend
showed up a couple of days early.
Well, I don't know how
he came up with that.
But when I met him, everybody
was calling him Temperature.
All right, go change.
You have a date tonight.
And I can go home and
plan the wedding by myself.
Of course.
Thanks, yeah.
Thank you, sir.
Wow.
I understand.
I understand.
I understand.
My brother-- Yeah?
Koby, that's America,
not how you understand.
Yeah.
There is something bigger even than that.
Emily doesn't want me to tell
anybody about the pregnancy.
But temperature is somebody I trust.
So I need to relieve myself from
this load that I've been carrying.
My brother-- What's that?
Koby!
I don't even have money.
We are living in our father's house.
Yeah.
So it's just so much going on right now.
I wish, but she's so strong-headed.
So I don't think she would
move so far from her parents.
Temperature is making a
whole lot of sense in here.
It's like I've been too
dominant in our relationship.
They are working the
African man spirit in me.
I realize that I need to wake up.
I need to be the man that I used to be.
That is it.
So have you thought about
how you want to call your dad?
Finally, after all the
fighting and back and forth
and arguing, Daice is going to call her dad
and tell him that we're getting married.
I'm relieved because I plan
on being with Daice forever.
And that means I'm going to be
a part of her dad's family forever.
And I want his respect.
So I would have felt horrible if we
ended up getting married
without her dad even knowing.
Do you want me to be there
with you when you call him?
I haven't seen him in a while.
You don't think it's
going to be a good idea?
No.
Use my iPad.
Well, maybe we can just
try to call him together.
And then if you want
me to leave and give
you guys some privacy,
I'll just go upstairs.
All right?
Well, I'm going to grab my iPad.
OK.
OK.
We're waiting for him to--
ah, OK, it's connected now.
I wanted to be there
and explain my side of
things and try to get
my two cents across.
But I realized, hey, this isn't my place.
So I'm going to go in the garage.
I'm going to grab a beer.
And I'm just going to let her handle this.
What I wanted to say to him, and I
didn't get to say it, was like how much--
Yeah.
Like, I want him to know that.
Listen, I want to go to this cafe.
What's that?
I want to go to this cafe that I found.
Well, I'm kind of working, sweetheart.
You mind taking like some time
off from work to come with me?
You said I want to talk home
because-- So that's what I was getting at.
So it's a talk that you want to do.
I want to do a talk.
I have consulted with
my lawyer back home
about the prenup that
Bella wants me to sign.
I just want to know if the contract
is fair when it comes to me as well.
Is this the type of contract that you
would allow your daughter to sign?
My lawyer has reviewed the prenup,
and he told me that I should
alter some of the things.
So if I'm ever going to sign a
prenup, it's going to be on conditions.
No work for me.
Make money later, I guess, so we can talk.
Yeah.
You ready?
Yeah.
One, anytime you hear
the word, let's have a talk.
It's usually not a good thing.
And two, the wedding
is just a few weeks away.
Parking space right up front.
Mm.
And we are definitely
not seeing eye to eye
when it comes to the
prenup show agreement.
So I don't think there's anything
else we need to talk about.
I think I'll have to remove this jacket
because I don't want to be
burning up with all the heat.
I had a conversation
with my attorney, Fareed.
Fareed.
Yes.
A very knowledgeable man back
home, also a personal family friend.
So he has your best interests.
Like, I trusted you, but at the same
time, I was looking out for myself.
Yeah, I'm 100% fine with that.
I mean, you know me.
Mm-hmm.
You know what I'm about,
what I've done for you.
And I think that my track
record could have spoke for itself
and related to, like,
how you reacted to it.
But I realized with this,
and I don't know if it's
your American culture, you
guys are business-oriented.
You love love, but you put business first.
Like, for me, when I first came
here, I was loving from a storybook.
Like, for me, it was like a
storybook love, Cinderella love.
That never exists.
I don't want to cut you off, but the
Cinderella stuff, it's not real, right?
That's infatuation, and that's not love.
True love is built,
and it's built over time.
But you got to be smart, too, though.
You know what I mean?
He did mention this.
He was like, the contract
'Cause I asked him, I was like, "You think
I should put in something in the prenup
concerning having
children at a certain time,
as well as assisting me
to start my business in KC?
" He was just like, "Yeah, because
this contract 100% protects Bellao,
so if you want to protect
you, anything should happen.
" But he also said that I have
to be clear when it comes to that.
He was like, "If Bellao is going to assist
you in getting your business started here,
you have to be clear that what
you own belongs, stays with you.
That money is my money,
and if something should
happen to us, it's that
you cannot fight me for that.
That's mine."
So he was being very clear on that.
Even though we are establishing
that after we get married?
Of course we're going to do business
together, and we're going to have joint stuff.
But when it comes to my brand, my yoga,
I want to look at it as my real
estate, if you know what I'm saying.
Yeah, I don't understand
what you're saying.
So my yoga is like my real estate.
You see how your real estate, your
company's, it's yours, your children?
I want to have that for me.
I get it.
What I was just adding on to
what you were saying, though,
is that the reason why my real estate
is my real estate is because I built it.
Whereas, let's say, your
yoga business, right?
Well, you're looking for
startup capital coming from me.
You're looking for help coming from me.
All those different things,
which I'm 100% willing to do that.
Listen, if the shoes
were on your other foot,
and I see you having your brand and having
yours life in a whole different country,
and I'm seeing you
leaving behind your source
of income to make a life across
here for me, hell yeah, I will help you.
Okay.
What I'm saying is if
things did not work out,
like meaning that if you help
somebody, me in this case,
and I did very successful, well, the
equivalent is the same as saying that
no matter what I built, whether
it's a couple thousand dollars
or a couple million dollars or even
a billion dollars worth of real estate,
that all of that would be
me, even though you helped
me build it, it's all mine
and you get none of it.
That's what I'm just saying.
That's an example of what
you're literally asking me.
The prenup is one-sided.
So if Bilal says, "I
have to sign a prenup,"
there are certain
things that I want.
He has to set up my business here in
Kansas City, and it just belongs to me.
I gave up so much to come here.
I'm prepared to walk away if
he doesn't see it the way I do.
If the lawyer comes back
with a prenup and he puts
in the little notes, are
you going to sign it?
I, you know, I'll consider it.
I was really mad and upset last night.
Can we, like, have a better
day than, like, yesterday?
I hope so.
Mahavan and I had an
argument, and he told me
basically he was going
to find a new sponsor
because he didn't feel
like I was getting the
paperwork done on a
timely basis in his eyes.
And it hurts my feelings
that Muhammad doesn't
really care how much the
ceremony means to me.
I hope that this is not a
pattern that's occurring of
him wanting to have control
over what I do when I do it.
You know, it wasn't
intentional to delay the wedding.
I understand.
You were mad, but I
didn't do it on purpose.
Like, it's, you know,
like, it's out of my control.
I just, I was upset because
I think that we could do
it earlier and we have
time and we're not stressed.
I understand he feels
like he's put his life on
hold and that's been
such a big sacrifice to him.
And plus, we waited
two years to be together,
and I don't want to
give up on each other.
I just never want to look
in your eyes and see, like,
that much anger that you
had yesterday. It was awful.
Okay.
I'm sorry.
Hi.
Hey, Katiana, how are you?
Good, good.
I think he visits all her shoes. Hey.
Hi.
Thank you.
Well, hello.
So just take off your top.
You can leave your pants on if you want.
Get under the shoe.
This is for your knees. Okay?
Okay, girl.
All right.
Anytime I have an issue with my
body, I come and see my dear friend Eve.
And it's just a nice
time to catch up,
especially in the midst
of her wedding planning.
Okay.
Hey.
So I think that we'll do some cupping
up through here. Is that all right?
Yeah.
Is it bad that I want to
make sex-turned jokes?
Yeah.
So we'll do two because we'll go over here.
So that's like two pumps. Is that okay?
It's not too, too tight.
What's going on with the wedding?
Did you go check out the venue?
Yes. It's beautiful. It's gorgeous.
Did he like it?
I hope he was excited. I don't know
if it was, like, overwhelming for him.
Was he just all quiet?
A little, but... One thing I was really
hurt by is that, like, he was getting upset
because he didn't think
that I was taking it seriously
as far as, like, getting
things accomplished.
And I'm like, "It's not my fault. Like,
things canceled. I had to reschedule.
" And he, like, freaked out and told me
that he was gonna get another sponsor.
What?
And, like, I'm the
petitioner. Like, you can't just
come to this country and
think that you can just...
Did he just refer to you as his sponsor?
It did. I am his sponsor.
But I know, but... That's mean.
It was super mean.
And that just, like, makes you
seem like you're replaceable
and he could just pick someone
else to just, like, marry him?
You know?
But hold on. I'm just
like, "Okay, first off, sir, if it
takes the full 90 days to
find out if he's, like, a jackass,
that's important to fully, like, have."
You know what I mean?
I mean, I know, you know,
sometimes when we get
pissed off, we say certain
things that we don't mean.
It still feels kind of raw.
I feel like I'm still kind of hurt by that.
But he did apologize and I'm trying to
be understanding more about his feelings.
I'm glad that you guys talked about
it and you guys are in a better spot.
But that's a crazy thing to say
before you guys get married.
Well, yeah. I agree. No, I agree.
But he does have a very
amazing, kind soul and heart.
Theron accepts him and
so I just want everybody
else to, for him to see
you guys in that light
and you to see that
in his heart in light, too.
Okay, well, does he want to see us again?
What does he have to say?
What does he have to say about it, Eve?
I would like you all to get together again.
Oh my God.
And for the love of me, I would appreciate
that because I do not want people to be...
Who does he hate the most?
Tell me. I won't tell them.
I don't know.
Tell me.
The initial meeting of the squad
didn't go over that well with Mohammed.
I think there was a lot
of cultural shock for him.
Do we have some questions for you?
Is it okay if we...
You can ask me anything you want.
Have you ever had sex with any other women?
How did you know what
to do then if you've never...
No, really, like, have
you ever watched porn?
Are you very curious why you're judging me?
You can't hide it, actually, you know,
like, I see in your eyes everything.
And we see in your eyes, too.
If Mohammed can't get along
with the squad before the wedding,
it's going to be difficult because
I'm not willing to lose my friends.
So that will be an issue
that could be detrimental
to our relationship if
they don't get along.
Ever since the family dinner where I
expressed my doubts about marrying Miona,
I really avoided speaking
with my mom about
the decision to go
through with the wedding.
I know my mother has concerns,
but I've made up my mind,
and no amount of therapy or therapy
kung fu is going to change my decision.
My mom's working late tonight, so I decided
to visit her at her office so we can talk.
Hey, Mom.
Oh, hey. Thanks for coming.
Yeah, grab some sort of toy
or something, so... You're funny.
So, um, I just wanted to
clarify some things about, um,
the conversation that I
had with Miona recently.
Okay.
Um, so she was saying that you
guys were going to get married.
Mm-hmm.
You've told me that you are
not sure you're making the right
decision or what you want,
and we haven't talked since,
so I don't know what's gone on between you
and Miona that you came to this decision.
Um... Yeah, I'm
going to marry her,
and it's hard for me
to even say it to you
because it just really
hurts that, uh,
you're worried about me and
you're not as confident in my decision.
I don't want to live
with regrets, you know?
And, um, I hope your red flags
and the warnings you've given
me are not right, which most
of the time they are, right?
So... I'm just in a really
hard position right now.
I don't feel like it should be this hard.
I want my mom to be happy about this, and I
just don't feel like they think I'm ready,
which is in turn me not feeling ready
because I don't have their support.
But I know I love Miona.
This just is a really
difficult decision I'm
making when my
family is not in it with me.
I want to hear from you
because I think it'd be helpful.
Why you want to marry her?
Tell me.
I'm going to marry her because I love her.
I'm the one who proposed.
I'm the one who wanted her to come here.
Which is good to hear because I'm
not sure I've heard you say that yet.
I do believe she loves me.
Now, whether she hurts
me or not or... I don't know.
I guess it's a risk I'm willing to take.
Okay.
I am feeling sad.
Deeply sad.
Because I think he still doesn't
know what he's really wanting.
But I was really glad
to hear that he loves
her and that he believes
that she loves him.
But that was one sentence.
And then the rest of it
was him saying, "I owe her.
" I brought her here.
I'm the one that proposed.
So now I have to follow through with it.
That's what I was hearing.
Which is not a reason to get married.
Ugh. This is painful.
My plan right now is to
go to California and might
as well get married
where we're going to be at.
LA is the destination for us.
So we might as well get married there
and then just build our life together.
I just feel really bad because I
feel like I'm disappointing you.
I don't want this to get in
between you and I because...
I don't want you to worry about me and you.
Okay.
So if you're telling me that you are going
to get married, then I wish you the best.
The 90 days are almost up
and I'm just feeling really anxious.
There's no way to extend the K-1 visa.
So we need to have a wedding in place.
So we're buying time preparing for
the wedding while also trying to decide
if we're going to get married or if
we're going to go our separate ways.
The veil is amazing.
Yeah, maybe.
I like it.
Abby, you're a bride.
I really wish that you
would come to the wedding.
I'm going to be with my best
friend and is there any way
you could maybe delay your
flight by a day or something?
I'm very sorry.
I really wanted to go, but I
don't think that is possible.
I understand.
This is the huppa.
On the top, we have the scarf
from your grandmother and
we also have the
representative scarf from Ethiopia.
To be honest, it's like we're going
through the motions to find this wedding,
but in the back of my head, I'm not
sure that we're going to even get married.
I'm doing for Abby's parents for
wedding, but I'm not sure just the
wedding is happening for now because
still me and I will still be fighting.
Me and Abby are very
completely different people.
In America, we say that,
as that means, sky and earth.
That's kind of the problem me
and Abby sometimes because
her culture, my culture,
her religion, my religion.
I love this relationship.
I'm working on it.
I don't want to give up, but I'm not
sure just Abby, she will be marrying me.
If you're not married for 90 days,
of course I'll go back to my country.
But I don't want to lose Abby.
Already I lost my mom and
dad and then my first son.
I don't want it happening again.
If I lose my son, it's so painful for me.
Abby, come, let me show you.
Come on, let me see.
No, you want to try?
Let's see, look.
Okay, you want to pull around?
You can just, you can see us.
Let's see, stand up.
Look at me.
Yeah, dad, he did a good job.
Come on, high five.
Kiss me, kiss me, kiss me, come on.
Oh my God.
Oh my God.
Honestly, I feel defeated because
since we've been in the US, we haven't
really made that much progress in
fixing the issues in our relationship.
I thought that if Benny
saw where I come from,
he would be able to
understand me better.
But I feel like we've gotten more
distant since we moved to the US.
On one hand, I love Benny,
but love is not enough.
And there's a lot of pressure
to make the right decision.
Put it back, let's see.
Ah, ah.
Daddy, daddy, daddy.
Who's that? Is that the mommy?
Mommy.
Daddy, daddy.
Hi, Abby.
Oh, what's the bill?
Good.
Abby, what is that?
Shows for mommy, shows for mommy.
Oh.
Yeah.
Okay, which color do you like?
Which one you like?
You like this one?
You like that one?
I like that one too, actually.
Good job, high five.
High five.
High five for mommy.
High five?
Okay, what if I wear it?
Oh, no.
No?
Oh, it's yours?
Okay, sorry.
Okay.
Oh, okay.
Seeing Abby and Benny together,
like, they have an amazing bond.
Benny's such a great dad.
And it just reminds me
of what's important to me.
Abby brought Benny and I
together, and Abby is really, like,
the biggest reason that
Benny and I decided to
overcome such difficult
problems in the relationship.
Like, we both, I think what
we both want the most, what
Benny and I both want the
most is to see Abby happy.
But thinking that this could
be one of the last times that
I see them together if we
don't get married, it's like,
it really makes me realize that I
want to keep my family together.
That's what's important to me.
Abby, I know you
love those bow ties, but
these pants are going
to look so cute on you.
Yeah.
At our wedding.
Oh.
What do you think?
You know, I don't know.
Like, we've been together
a long time now, you know.
And I know that we always fight,
but we always love each other.
I know, I know we fight so
many times, but I'm trying
the best, you know, just to
save this family, you know.
You give me Abby, and then you
are the one who make me happy.
You are the one who make me
bring back my smile, you know.
Oh, I love you too.
He's happy we're getting married.
That's why you did that.
Yeah, that's what he wants.
Like, I never really thought
I cared that much about
having my own family, but now that I
have my own family, I have the best family.
You know, you guys are the best.
I'm always a pretty logical
person, so sometimes I think, like,
Bini and I are so
different, and we've had so
many problems, so many
issues with communication,
because our spirits
are really different.
But I think one of the reasons
that we have such a happy
baby is because this
father is always making him
laugh, and he sees the
world in a positive way.
If Bini disappeared
from Abby's life, like, all of
a sudden things would
be very quiet and very dark.
You are a light for me and Abby.
Thank you.
You're welcome.
What?
You want to kiss him?
You want us to kiss? Okay.
Okay.
Good job.
Hello, mama.
Hola, hijo. ¿Cómo estás tú?
Bien. Chévere. Super ansioso.
Coño, ya mañana. Mañana es el gran día.
Last night, when Karen and me went
back home, everything was really weird.
It's not the pitch I thought I was
going to be on, and it worries me
a lot that I don't even know what
is going to happen in the future.
So I feel that I need to talk with
my mom because she will probably
give me the best answer or
she will try to make me feel better.
¿Qué tal? ¿Cómo estás?
Está bien.
Bueno. ¿Cómo están los preparativos?
¿Cuéntanos.
No, bien.
Mira, todo para el lugar está súper bien.
¿Me decías que vas a colocar
estratégicamente la cámara en algún sitio?
Sí. Tú tranquila que tú vas a ver.
Ajá.
Ya me organizé con la cuestión,
con el live que hay para mañana.
De todas maneras, yo lo descargué en mi
televisor y lo vamos a ver en mi televisor.
Y bueno, vamos a estar contigo.
I'm organizing a social media
account so my family can be part
of a wedding and they can see
how everything is going to go.
My plan is to put a laptop and
a phone to watch the wedding.
Like I don't want anybody of my family to
lose opportunity to be part of the wedding.
De verdad, es un poquito difícil
que no va a estar la familia, ¿sabes?
Todavía es algo que
no asimilo por completo.
Yo no te he querido decir
nada porque no quiero
uno de los días más
importantes de tu vida.
Y no quiero que sea empañado
por esa tristeza de no estar
presente la familia, tu papá,
tu mamá, tus hermanos.
Yo voy a poner como en
la primera línea, tengo algo
pensado, voy a dejar un
espacio que va a ser para Jota.
Gracias.
Pero ya, tranquila.
Guarda todo eso para mañana,
para que lo hagas una vez.
Que mi familia esté viendo mi
wedding me hace sentir muy bien.
Pero al mismo tiempo, yo
teniendo preguntas el día antes
de mi wedding no es la página
que pensé que iba a estar.
Esto me hace sentir insegurado.
Pero te quería hablar de algo.
Yo le tenía preguntas a cara, ¿sabes?
Y más porque me fui a cortar
el cabello, la persona que me
estaba cortando el cabello,
yo no sé, estuvimos hablando.
Y le terminé contando un poquito
de la relación que tengo con cara.
Ella es mandona.
Ella decía no para toda vaina.
Ella me dijo que cualquier
tipo de problema en
una relación es mejor
mejorarlos antes de casarse.
Porque ella dice que
cuando ya las personas
están casadas ya no hay
más nada que cambiar.
Por supuesto, si hay
algo que tú tengas que
hablarlo con ella, es bueno
que lo hablemos ahora.
Pero por supuesto que también después
del matrimonio también hay que hablar.
Porque habrán cosas o
costumbres que ella pueda
adquirir o tú puedes adquirir
después del matrimonio.
Que sello a lo largo del
tiempo, que estén juntos.
Entonces no es una cosa que ya venga
de atrás, sino que es algo que sea nuevo.
Bueno, ayer en la cena yo le
tenía preguntas a cara, ¿sabes?
De repente a ella le molestó que yo le
hablara de eso dos días antes de la boda.
Yo me sentía como un poco nervioso.
Yo le hice sentir a ella
que estaba inseguro.
Que tenía dudas.
Que tenía dudas.
Las dudas son normales.
Desde que conociste a
cara, tú sabes cómo es cara.
El espíritu alegre que ella tiene.
Sí, rochelero.
Si quiere salir con sus amigas,
es el libre albedrío, ¿sabes?
Claro.
Tienes que dejarlo.
Dejarla hacer.
¿No?
Ni ella, tú también.
Sí.
Es una mujer grande ya.
Sabe lo que quiere.
Por eso se está casando contigo.
Que el matrimonio no es una cárcel, papá.
Tienen que cuidarse mutuamente, papá.
¿Oíste?
Sí. Gracias.
Mi mamá me hace sentir
como si pudiera respirar un poco.
Ella me dijo que en todas las relaciones,
habrá cosas que tenemos que resolver.
Pero hay muchas cosas
que nos hacen sentir amor.
Y son más grandes que las
cosas que nos hacen luchar.
Es realmente increíble cómo
mi mamá me hace sentir mejor.
Gracias, ¿no?
Gracias de verdad por hablar un ratico.
Y por darme buenos consejos.
Me pone en la sensación
de estar listo y ir a casarme.
Me quiero mucho.
Yo también, mamá.
Yo tengo solo uno de ellos.
No necesito ellos.
¿Puedo ir a Cotóes?
No, no puedes.
¡Hola!
¿Tenéis un segundo?
Sí.
¿Pueden nos reunir aquí en la habitación?
Sí.
Estaba a punto de ir a casa.
No, no te preocupes.
Mi papá tocando la puerta.
Me siento como si yo estuviera a 15 años.
Me siento como si
estuviera en la silla o algo así.
Solo no me da el gusto.
Hola.
Hola.
Sí, verlos allí, sentados por
un lado, y sentados por otro.
Me siento como si estuvieras
a punto de hablar algo serio.
Así que ustedes han
estado aquí por unos meses.
Y... Queremos hablar sobre lo
que eran los planes para ustedes
y lo que pensabas en
términos de... de irse.
Así que hablamos antes de que Miona venga,
que podías quedarte con
nosotros por unos meses.
Todos hablamos del final del año
después de que ustedes se casaron.
No, no, y dijiste "del final del
año", así que es otro mes completo.
Así que eso es lo que estamos hablando de.
Queremos firmar planes.
Así que estás se casando pronto.
Algo... ¿donde está?
No lo sé.
Estás se casando pronto.
¿Cuándo es?
No lo sé.
Ah, ok.
Así que es donde queremos que sepa que...
Por eso necesitamos un poco
más de tiempo para que sepa.
Mis padres están en un barrio.
Ellos no están tratando de ayudar.
Ellos no están apoyados.
No, no, no, no, no.
Es lo que esperaba.
Parece que estás tratando
de que se nos quita.
Así que, ¿qué es...?
Entonces, de nuevo, esto va a la plan.
Esto no es personal.
Esto no es sobre no querer estar allí.
Hemos dicho que queremos estar
en tu casada de vez en cuando.
Y necesitábamos saber cuándo
para que pudiéramos hacer planos.
Sí, pero no sabíamos cuándo la
Fiancé Fiancée de K1 iba a pasar.
Teníamos el día de la entrevista
un mes antes en el final del verano.
Así que no teníamos tiempo para planos.
No teníamos diez meses para planos.
Ok, así que... Tenías
tres meses para planos.
Estamos todavía en esos tres meses.
Así que es cierto.
Así que no quiero argumentar sobre eso.
Porque... Jebrie.
Sé, pero si piensas sobre esto, es
como... Un poco de un slap in the face.
No, no es un slap en the face.
Tu tenías bastante tiempo antes de que
Miona viera para buscar lugares para marcar
porque sabías que esto iba
a pasar de vez en cuando.
Estamos siguiendo los planes
para que tú también estés
en tu casa comenzando
una vida marcar en tu casa.
En los finales de los 90 días.
Para mí es definitivamente
bueno que nos digan que
nos movamos porque eso
es exactamente lo que quiero.
Porque necesitaba algo como esto para
que Jebrie se entera que tenemos que ir.
Pero de otra parte, siento
muy disculpa por Jebrie.
Como que no estoy diciendo nada.
Porque no sé qué decir.
Me siento horrible.
Como que nunca lo haría a mi niño.
Yo estoy diciendo que... que...
que... que esperaba un poco de ayuda.
Tal vez vosotros pudierais
intentar nos ayudar a resolver esto.
A ayudar a nosotros, sabes.
No sé, me estoy molestando.
Hey, tú eres 28 años.
Tú eres adulto.
Ok, es tu casilla.
Lo que hemos aprendido a un edad
de que tenemos que hacer muy... muy...
muy grandes límites con Jebrie.
Para que él se entera con las cosas.
Si hay algún desliz, entonces
él se llevará a la ventaja.
Jebrie está actuando como si
decidimos de repente que lo abríssemos.
Hemos estado hablando de esto por meses.
Este fue el acuerdo.
Entonces, esto es tu comitment.
Sin embargo, al final de año...
No, vamos a estar aquí antes.
Ok.
Ok, es tu opción de hacer eso.
No, vamos a apretar nuestra cosa.
Porque ustedes no nos
van a ayudar con esto.
O nos quieren aquí.
No creo que hemos dicho eso.
¿Lo hemos dicho?
No, no.
No, no lo hemos dicho.
Pero siento que estoy de 15 años de nuevo.
Yo también siento que
estás de 15 años de nuevo.
Ok, esta conversación está terminada.
No, no, no.
No hay nada más que decir.
Si quieres que se apetece a la ayuda de uno
de nosotros, por favor, sientete atentos.
Ok.
Y eso fue dirigido por Miona, no por ti.
Gracias.
Voy a ir a ver a Miona.
Ok.
Yo tengo un millón de cosas en mi plato
que estoy jodiendo entre
trabajo y planeando una casilla.
Así que estoy encontrando a
Mohammed en un coffe shop hoy
porque siento que necesito
un poco de un descanso.
No te has perdido.
No.
Te estás conociendo tu
área y tu ciudad, ¿verdad?
Por supuesto, pero nunca me he perdido.
Es muy fácil.
Así que, ya que la casilla está justo
en la esquina, pensé que sería bueno
que mi escuadra, las
chicas, vuelvan a estar
juntos y que pudiéramos
pasar más tiempo juntos
para que pudiéramos conocer
a uno el otro un poco mejor.
Porque es un
un primer encuentro tumultuoso.
Así que voy a ver si todos pueden venir.
Y dónde está?
A nuestra casa.
Bien.
Pienso que Mohammed no estaba convencido
de cómo se estaba estando con él.
Y desde lo que insinuó, básicamente,
nunca quería ver o hablarles de nuevo.
Y estaba bastante desastrada por eso.
No quiero perder a ninguna
de estas personas en mi vida,
así que espero que
podamos deslizar las cosas.
Así que lo que pensaba que sería bueno
si hicieramos una ceremonia de fuego
y te expositara a algunos de los otros
tipos de trabajo de curación que hago.
Estoy tratando de mostrarles,
esto es mi ceremonia,
mis rituales que hago,
que significan mucho a mí.
Y siento que estoy muy
abierta a aprender sobre
tu religión, a ir a la
mosca y lo experimentar.
Esta es mi iglesia.
Yo solo, si no me siento
cómodo alrededor de ellos,
por qué me pones a
estar alrededor de ellos?
Ellos son tus amigos.
Te pongo a hacer algo
que significa mucho a mí.
Yo solo agradezco que estés más abierta.
Estoy abierta porque no les gusta.
Estoy abierta porque...
Eso no está abierta.
Eso fue como un mes.
Si estuviéramos en
Egipto, nunca tendría estos
tipos de amigos como
mis amigos de Beyoncé.
Y nunca compartiría la misma
mesa con el equipo de la iglesia.
No los vería en mi día de la muerte.
Solo quiero recordarte
que ellos no me respetaban.
¿Puedes pensar en mí?
¿Cómo difícil es para mí?
Me estoy en el medio.
Estas personas significan mucho a mí.
Tú significan mucho a mí.
Es importante para mí intentar hacer las
cosas mejor, hacer las cosas funcionar.
No estoy tan cerca de mi familia.
He construido y creado una
nueva familia con mis amigos.
Por eso son muy importantes para mí.
Porque no tengo más sentencia de familia.
Ellas son mi familia ahora.
¿Entendiste que si... si en el
día especial de nuestra casilla
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mal, sienten mal, sienten mal?
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solo quiero... Oh my gosh, so
did you have fun last night, babe?
Yeah, I think last night was super fun.
I mean, temperature.
Good, I can't wait to meet him.
Yeah.
I think it's important to
know your fiancé's friends.
Like, maybe I get to see a different
side of my husband that I don't know.
Somebody's here.
Oh, hey!
Hi, how are you?
Nice to meet you.
Heard so much about you.
Temperature, nice to meet you.
We're excited to meet
Kobe's friend, Temperature.
What did you do?
Yeah, bye-bye.
I think Kobe seems
happier to see a familiar
face and, you know,
someone who gets him.
High five?
Yeah!
Yeah!
Welcome to Salina, man.
Thank you so much.
To Salina, Kansas, oh my gosh.
Can you believe you're here?
Yeah?
You're from the same
area, region of Cameroon?
Yeah.
So cool.
And you like it?
Yeah, it's a place to be.
We don't have any of that.
Yeah.
Did we still need a few minutes?
I think we're ready.
Okay.
I'm gonna do the chicken piccata.
Okay.
And then Kobe's gonna get lasagna.
You like the lasagna, right?
Yeah, I think I can go with that.
Please.
She wants to do almost everything.
She's loving it.
Yeah.
It was my first day meeting Emily.
And I'm considering the
way Emily is treating Kobe.
I think they have been
living the American lifestyle.
Because Emily is the boss.
So I told Kobe to stand up as a man
and start doing things the
way they're supposed to be.
What do you want, lover?
Kobe, take that from him.
Oh, honey.
Oh, my goodness.
I'm gonna have to freak out on you.
Yeah, it would be my
pleasure to see them together.
I believe the key is just to teach
the wife what she's supposed to do.
I give him respect.
Do you think so?
Yeah, of course.
No.
Okay.
What, is he like a prince?
What are you saying?
No, I'm not.
My dad.
What? Your dad is?
My dad is from a royal family.
But, yeah.
What the hell?
What?
I am so confused.
Like, this is huge news.
Like, do we have a castle in Cameroon?
Like, what is going on?
Exactly, Kobe.
So your dad's like a
king or is he a prince?
Not a king, like... Let me
explain something to you.
Like, Cameroon, like, there's
And all those tribes have, like, chiefdoms.
They have chiefs.
Right.
Those people are all from a royal family.
Do you see yourself being a chief one day?
No. I'm far away from that.
I'm far away from that.
It's just my own path, you know.
I thought I knew Kobe pretty well,
you know, until this secret came out.
Because I'm like, that's a big thing.
Why wouldn't you tell me?
I would have told you in the two years
that we've been talking every day forever.
Okay, so wait.
We have no money and
no kingdom to go rule.
Yeah.
I have just me, myself.
He was just citing an example.
I'm trying to make you understand
that Kobe has the financing.
And you are getting married
to an African, not an American.
So the man is the head of the family.
So many things you build out of him.
I think there's a reason
why you're not married.
Hearing temperature and more about where
Kobe's come from has been very eye-opening
because Kobe's never
expressed this on this level.
Yeah, Emily's very much
independent and strong-willed.
So talking about the man being the king
of the castle, that's not going to happen.
You know, yes, she's
marrying an African man.
Yeah.
But he's marrying an American woman.
So they have things they're
going to have to work out.
I'm saying all this because I've
been here before my brother here.
So I know how things work when
it comes to these American ladies.
Being that controlling in a relationship.
I don't think that's a fair thing to say.
In general, yeah, because you
wouldn't say that about a man.
You're just saying, like, oh, a woman is
coming off like that, and that's not okay.
I totally disagree with
you because... I'm trying
to tell you that there
are different roles.
The American, the
system is the lady at the top.
So I'm trying to, like, make her understand
that before going to sign that stuff,
don't expect that things
will be the way it used to be.
I absolutely hate that
temperature is trying to
tell me that men are the
boss in the relationships.
Like, no, we're in America, honey.
Like, that's not how it works.
But at the same time, he has shown
some of this mentality in the past
when he told me basically
to f*ck off in the barn.
So I'm just really worried.
Am I gonna see more of this
Kobe after we get married?
Is he gonna change and then try
to, like, take control of everything?
Do you agree with everything
that Temperature is saying?
Well, he said some things that were right.
It's true that we are from Africa where,
you know, the man is always on top.
But if there is respect in
the relationship, you know,
communication, like, you know,
everybody has a role to play.
It's like equal.
But the man is always on top.
The man is always on top.
How can I help you?
Um, can you grab those
sticks over there, please?
Okay.
Put, like, some kindling there.
And then some of those little sticks
we want to use for you guys, though,
'cause you're gonna use
those to, like, blow into.
I've gathered my friends and Mohammed
to have the fire ceremony tonight
because fire ceremonies are used
commonly in Native American cultures
to cleanse and purify
and also let go of
things that maybe have
been difficult or hard.
And there's a lot of negative
energy going on between
Mohammed and my friends,
and I'm hoping this fire ceremony
will bring a little more positive
vibes between everyone.
Thank you.
I definitely hope that Mohammed is
open to experiencing something new.
I hope the girls will be here shortly.
This is an opportunity to start
fresh and maybe have an opportunity
to all get to know each
other in a different way,
'cause I would like to all
turn a new leaf so you guys
can really understand why I
all care about you so much.
I love that.
Hi! Perfect timing.
Hi!
How are you? Have my love.
Hey, how are you?
Hi, Mohammed. How are you?
Good.
I'll have you guys all get a stick.
Anything that you feel like
you want to release... Yes.
You blow, and you can
do as many as you want.
So I wrote stuff. Cool.
I have an intention for you.
Aw.
Yes, and then I have a few that I'm
going to be releasing and also manifesting.
We do ceremonies like this every
New Moon and every Full Moon.
It's taking time to really
make manifest all that we're
bringing into our lives, you
know, letting go or bringing in.
Eve is so open-minded, and I really
want the best for the both of them,
but I'm a little worried, 'cause we just
don't know how committed he really is.
There you go.
So for me now, I'm
basically going to cleanse
my stones that I do a
lot of healing work with.
I don't know what they are doing.
I'm just watching, and I
felt that I'm in a movie.
I now invoke my Mariah
presence to completely overlight
my body and my beings and harmonize all
with God's plan, the divine plan. Thank you.
Thank you, sisters. Thank you.
Mohammed, are you going to go to the fire?
No, I'm fine. Thank you.
I'm not OK with Eve's pleas.
If we wish something, why we don't ask God?
Like, fire has nothing to do with wishes.
If that's how Eve and
her friends practice
their spirituality, that
goes against my pleas.
So Eve should know that's not the
best way to get me close to her friends.
So thank you, everyone.
Thank you for just being
open to an experience,
and I hope that, like, we
continue to evolve and grow.
What, Tati?
No, I'm just glad that we're
all able to come together.
I was worried there for a second, Mohammed,
because I thought you
didn't like us anymore.
Yeah, that's right.
You don't like us?
No.
You still don't like us?
Like, you don't like us?
Where were that?
I felt zhaj.
That's why I was mad at every one of you.
Well, but do you understand,
though, that we're just,
like, looking out for Eve and
making sure that she's OK?
Because we don't know you.
The way you were asking
me the questions... Uh-huh.
It was like investigation or something.
Yeah, no, absolutely.
And you can say the same question
with another energy or something.
Let's not fight, please.
That's what I would
like, and, like, that's why
I just wanted us to
spend some time together.
I think he needs to
understand that no one's here to
purposely insult him or upset
him in any way, shape or form.
We're just doing our due
diligence as Eve's family and
friends, and I think he
would do the same for anyone
that was in his care or that he cared
for a lot, so no need to get upset.
So what did you think about
the fire ceremony, Muhammad?
Uh, that's something I
never experienced before.
But did you enjoy it?
Did you think it was...
I enjoy it, and, uh, I
can get warm, and so
this fire was very good.
Everything, it's too weird for me.
It's very frustrating that
Muhammad isn't open to what's
important to me because
I feel like I have done a lot
to make compromises and
respect his belief system,
and if he chooses not to compromise
for me, it does make me question,
is this connection worthy
of us taking this final
decision and proceeding
with getting married?
Y'all enjoy the full moon energy.
I feel like I should,
like, check in on her.
♪ Mm-hmm.
Oh, look.
♪ Still talking.
Well, probably not a good sign.
I know.
I mean, at least I'm glad
she said something, right?
'Cause that would've
been f*cked up, for sure.
Yeah, I mean, at least he
knows about us getting married,
but I'm still, like, nervous to see,
like, how the conversation went.
Well, yeah, I mean... They should be
happy that, like, his daughter is happy.
She found someone that loves
her just as much as he does,
someone that wants to take care
of her just like he does forever.
I got a point there, you know?
At least you're a good guy
right here, piece of
just keeping her from her father.
I'm just kidding.
Mom, think how.
Mm-hmm.
Okay.
Just a gut shot that I wasn't prepared for,
like, this is worse than
what I thought it'd be.
Like, I never thought her dad
would tell her to go back to Brazil.
Like, ever.
I don't know if I want to, like, be mad.
I don't know if I want
to, like, console her.
This is the first time I've ever seen
her cry since we've been together.
So, like, to see her cry,
I'm terrified right now
that Thais is going to decide to
stick with her dad and go home.
I mean, I would do anything to be with you.
Next time on "90 Day Fiancé.
" Don't be worried
about me. Love you.
It's hard for me to say goodbye to my mom.
I think that sometimes there is
love lost when you're marrying
a significant other that your
parent doesn't approve of.
- Bye. - Bye.
When we act impulsively,
there's consequences.
- Hey, assalamu'alaikum.
- Wa'alaikum assalam.
Bilal and I, we have been bickering and
fighting, so I'm looking for some advice.
When you marry, you don't
look at your partner like a suspect.
Marriage is not perfect.
Figure out how to make it work.
I definitely need some
champagne before I go.
Get the buzz on.
Nervous?
A little bit.
My hands right now are so sweaty.
My heart is going so hard.
This is not stopping.
I'm getting married.
Is she coming?
Not yet. She will be.
I don't know if I should stay in America.
I really need my mom's advice.
You need to be in a new environment.
You're being in a new family.
Those two kids.
What?
I was very clear with Kobi that no
one should know about the pregnancy.
You told him?
He's my friend.
Why would you f*cking do that?
Kobi?
Seeing Thais cry after talking to her dad,
she could just pack
her bags and she's gone.
Uh...
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