-Previously on "90 Day
Fiancé," the couples tell all.
-So you think my mama's jealous?
You're the most jealous
person on this whole
cast, so how are you
gonna say that my mama?
-Well, if I'm jealous,
can I recognize jealousy?
-Right.
Obviously, you jealous of everything.
-I didn't think she would
have took it as far as she did.
-Sounds like there was a constant
test going on there for quite some time.
-It's not a test.
It's just -- It's just
words of confirmation.
He's a salesman.
He is an amazing salesman.
That is what -- That is what
we are all witnessing right now.
-Like you say, you admit the
fact that you treat him like a child.
Does that make any sense?
This is somebody who's gonna
be like the father of your child?
-I know grown-a*s men
that still act like children.
-That's condescending. It's controlling.
-It was -- It was f*cked up.
-You're trying to shut down him as fast
as you can, and it's very American women.
-Strong-willed, motivated, direct.
-Or controlling.
-You told Eith that you
would find another sponsor.
-Why did you say that? -Yeah.
-Because she didn't
have her paperwork done.
-That screams like red flag dream card.
-That screams replaceable.
-I just wanted to, like, to find --
-You're like, "That's hurtful.
" ♪♪
-It's a need for you guys
to have a marriage contract,
especially when you're coming into
a marriage and you have no assets.
Who coming into a
marriage without no assets?
You don't know me.
You don't throw my life back home.
That was Shade Jaheeda.
-You need to stop third-wheeling, bro.
-Third-wheeling? -Yeah.
You all in they business.
Like, this your brother, brother.
-How's your family doing on the farm?
-It's not your brother.
-Are you still living at home?
You lonely at home drinking six
packs of beer playing video games. Chill.
You talking about your girl right now.
You talking about your
brother's girl right now.
You feel me? -Get off the titty, bro.
-You feel me? This is -- This
is gonna be -- Look at that.
Look at your brother.
He's happy. -I'm happy for him.
-He's happy. He's gonna be a great father.
-Hell yeah. -He's gonna be a great mother.
-Hell yeah.
-You lonely at home drinking six packs of beer playing video games.
-That's not lonely. -Chill.
-That's not lonely. -Don't dim his light.
-I have friends that play
with my video games.
-He's dimming lights
'cause his light ain't lit.
You know what I mean? Chill out, bro.
-So, I want to ask Patrick
about the perception
that Jabri has of John
and how accurate it is.
-Um... No, I don't
think John's lonely.
You know, I think he gives
us our space for the most part.
He's not too much involved in what we do.
-Eh, she would say otherwise.
-Tayis, do you think John is
too involved in your relationship?
-Uh, yes, I think so. -Okay.
-I think he'll always, like,
want to hear devices from John
and share our, like, our life with
John, our problems, our privacy.
-Well, yeah, I mean,
John, being my brother,
is someone that I talk to about our
relationship, you know, like, we're family.
-It's what happens. -Yeah.
-You know, it's part of life.
You know, but I try to be nice and cordial,
but then again, you
know, I fight back, too.
Like, I'm very combative,
like, Sparkles over here.
You know, I'm not just gonna sit
here and not say nothing, you know?
It's not in my nature.
-Patrick, since you have
been taking this kind of
hands-off approach with them arguing back
and forth, who do you see as most at fault?
-John.
Yeah.
-Shut up.
-I mean, that's kind of --
that's kind of an easy one.
Like, there's definitely no filter.
There's more combativeness,
and, you know, like,
it's not -- it's not good when you're
trying to build a relationship with someone.
-Mm-hmm. All right.
Patrick and Tyese, you have taken some
big steps forward in your relationship.
We hope you continue on that path.
Okay, I think we need a break.
-All right, collect your people.
-What's up, bro? -What's up, bro?
-Good to see you. -Good to see you.
-A lot of times, even somebody
can be an a*s or be a --
but you see there's good to
them, too, and he's a nice person.
He loves his brother, and... -Yeah.
-...he'd probably be a fun uncle.
Can you imagine him as your uncle, though?
Like, Uncle John? We all have that uncle.
-He'll be a fun uncle. -Yeah.
-He'll do some -- but she's
gonna be annoyed by it.
-He'll always be the uncle
that wants to borrow 20 bucks.
-Go ask your mom and dad for some money.
Give it to me.
-Why is Jabri so upset?
-Dude, that's a guy who gets a little
-- his panties in a bunch, you know?
He likes to spit stuff, but he
can't take stuff back, you know?
That type of thing.
Some people are soft, bro.
I don't know what Spikles thinks, though.
I can't remember my
right hand getting back up.
When I drop up, drop
Spikles right on the ground.
-This is not my phone, bro.
-No, I'm not seeing it.
Yeah, I feel bad for Tais.
I mean, I really -- I like her a lot.
I like Tais. I like Patrick.
I think they're good people.
I think John's a dickhead.
I don't want to go back
in there with that dude.
I don't like that dude. He pissed me off.
-How old are you now? -39.
-39? Oh. -Just turned 39 yesterday.
-Oh! -It was Thursday.
Never mind. It was Thursday. Never mind.
-Thursday.
-I was a good boy your last, and I had two drinks. That's it.
-What's going on there? -Yeah.
-Oops, sorry.
-It's under my shades.
I left them upstairs.
-So you just go door to door and sell them?
Like, what's your spiel? Like, when you --
-When someone opens
a door, what do you say?
-Hey, I'm Pat.
-Hey, I'm Pat.
-What do you do for yourself?
I mean, typically -- -Do
you actually do it, or do you
have other people -- 'Cause
you're a supervisor, right?
-I've done it where I do it, and
then I have a team of guys that do it.
-Gotcha.
-I got to get you back upstairs next.
-I don't want to go upstairs with them.
No, I don't want to film with you, bro.
-Okay. -So we're gonna go upstairs.
We'll go upstairs, but I
don't want this dude up there.
-Okay, Spackles. No problem.
-Yeah, I'm gonna knock him
out if you bring him up there.
-No, you're not. No, you're not.
That's not how that story ends.
-No, I don't --
-I can tell you that's
not how that story ends.
-Your energy throw
off this whole sh*t, bro.
-Throw off what? -Everything.
You just -- You're not -- You're not -- -Are you crying?
-No, I ain't crying.
-It sounds like you're crying.
-I don't want it to escalate to that point.
You know what I mean?
-We're all invited here, including Pat.
-I just don't want to get into it with him.
You know what I mean? So...
-Well, if you're gonna bring it, bro, you got to take it.
-Liz, I ain't taking nothing you're giving.
You gonna be the one taking a lot.
-I don't think so, buddy.
-You're taking a lot of energy from
your people, and I don't like to see that.
-Well, listen, it's not about you.
-So, we'll be chilling until y'all --
-I know you think it's about you.
-When you decide to remove yourself,
I don't want to have to remove you.
-You ain't gonna remove nothing, bro.
You ain't gonna remove nothing. Trust me.
I've seen you in action
with your boyfriend.
I'm not scared, bro.
-This is all down in my mood.
Let's just go up there
and have a good time.
I hear what you're saying.
-Should I just hit him?
-No. No.
-And that's all respect to you, Patrick.
That's all respect to you.
-Sometimes people need
a little smack, you know?
-This all respects you.
I just don't f*ck with this dude.
I don't care who you f*ck with, Spackle.
-I still want to talk to John.
I really do.
-You got a crush on John.
-I don't have a crush on him.
I want to pick his brain now.
-Okay.
-Let's search him out.
John.
♪♪ -John.
-Hello, hello, hello.
Very nice to meet you guys.
-You, too. Kenny.
-John, Tim, nice to meet you, man.
-Tim and Kenny. All right.
-Yeah.
-Or Kenny and Tim.
-Kenny and -- Oh!
-We were wondering, though,
it's your first time, all right?
So, were you surprised at all of them,
the Paisley Pastel Cowboys,
the one that went for you?
-Paisley -- Oh, you mean Spackle's?
-Yeah.
-Well, I got to be honest.
I -- I don't -- He sat -- He
right off -- He's like, "Ah.
" -He came for him.
-He did, 'cause I came
out, and he's like this.
"Oh, he's already
drunk. Six-pack.
" And some of them like this.
"Well, for the first time,
I haven't had a beer.
" I woke up at 8/7.
-Oh, we were wondering.
-We were like, "He might be drunk.
" -Yeah, I woke up at 650, man.
-This is his personality.
-Yeah, this is normal, John.
Yeah. Yeah, so then he sat
with that, so then I gave it back.
And then you can tell he can't -- He couldn't take it.
-He can't.
-He can't take it.
-For me, when I told my
brothers I was going to
Columbia to meet a girl,
they thought I was crazy.
So when your brother tells you,
"Hey, I met this girl in Brazil, and I'm
gonna marry her, and now she's pregnant,"
you must be thinking the same thing
that my friends and family thought.
Like, you're a little skeptical.
Like, what's she really looking for?
-Well, at first, I was, and then I
got to see her interaction with him.
And, you know, when I
talked to my sister, you know,
of course, they were asking
me, 'cause I live with him.
They're like, "Does
she actually love him?
" And I'm like, "You
know what? She does.
" -You see it.
-We might not be getting along, but I can tell she loves him.
And, you know, the fact that he spent --
Like, he was going to
Brazil every six weeks.
-Geez.
-And you're talking about
for, like, a year and a half.
That's a lot. That's a lot.
So anybody that puts
that into it, you know,
you gotta sit there
and be like, "All right,"
and then give her the
chance, give her the benefit
of the doubt, even
though we don't get along.
-Well, I don't drink, but I would
have a beer with this dude.
-There we go. -So...
-I want one now. -Oh, God, yeah.
-It was super meeting.
-Very nice meeting you guys.
-Yes, seriously, man.
Hey, it's refreshing for your honesty, man.
-And I will never forget Sparkle.
-Never forget it. -That was perfect.
-Hey, no disrespect, bro.
I got respect for you, so
I don't want to -- -Uh-huh.
-I don't want to
knock his a*s out.
-We got you. -It's been more for you.
-Yeah. -I already been knocked.
-Thank you to me for, like, trying.
Yeah, you do what Patrick doesn't do.
-Well, no, that's not
what Patrick don't do.
I respect Patrick. -Yeah, I know.
-I respect you. You know what I mean?
So that's first and foremost. -Uh-huh.
-If I weren't, I would have
knocked his a*s out already, though.
-Yeah.
-You good? -Yeah.
-Don't let nobody get to you.
-I know. He just pissed me off, bro.
He ain't cool, bro.
-Remember why you -- why y'all did this.
-Yeah. -Just stay till you go.
-Yeah. -Don't let nobody take you outside of your cap.
-Yeah, appreciate you.
-Aww.
-Before we dive back in, Jibri,
what went on during that break?
-I don't like how that
dude was talking to
Tais and his brother,
man. That's crazy to me.
-At least someone say something.
-When I see people like
how John was treating them,
that brings me back to
where I was at in South Dakota
where, you know, kids were bullying me
and making fun of me for being different
or being out there or
saying disrespectful stuff.
That's some trailer trash-a*s sh*t.
That's what we call it in America.
So that sh*t gets under my skin
when I see people belligerent
but not only belligerent,
just disrespectful to people.
-Patrick, does it not bother you to hear
someone call your brother trailer trash?
-They from the trailer park.
He from a trailer.
But look what his brother's
doing, taking care of -- being a man.
You know what I'm saying?
-He's paid for everything.
-He doing all that, and he
gonna sit here drinking beers
at his house, making
fun of -- belittling him.
I don't care if that's
your brother, your dad,
your sister, your mom, if
somebody's toxic in your life,
you are removed from my life.
I'm benching you.
When you do the work and you get better,
maybe I'll bring you
back into my starting five.
But right now, you're benched. Email me.
I'm gonna stand up for -- When I
see that, it just -- it does make me mad.
Like, if you're gonna be a bully, well,
let me bully you and see how it feels.
-Kaice, would you say you
admired Jibri for standing up to John?
-Yeah, because Patrick never say anything.
Like, bro, say -- -I mean,
there's nothing to stand up to.
Like, he can go ahead
and talk all he wants to talk.
It doesn't really make a difference.
-Patrick is a person I
should be blaming here
right now because she
stood up for your wife.
Man, she wants you to be
more for -- for -- you know, for her.
I don't know. I feel
like I'm handling my
own, like, the best I
can. And it is awkward.
Like, my older brother's been
my older brother my whole life.
Like, it's weird to be in this position now
where it's like, you can't punk your mom.
You didn't do it yet.
-Yeah, but my mom put in a lot of work.
You know what I mean?
-My older brother did, too,
'cause I didn't have my dad.
It's the same way.
It's like, you can't just,
like, go right for the throat.
There's, like, a way to do it.
And, like, that's what
we're getting at now.
-But do you think your way is effective?
Because it seems
like Taice is still hurting.
-I don't know. It's the best I could do.
I mean, I'm trying.
-I just don't like that people think
that they can say things to
people without repercussions.
That pisses me off.
-And at the beginning of our conversation,
you had this exchange with Ari.
-Yeah, if you don't like
people bullying others,
you know, like, you
were bullying me before.
Like, you were picking on our relationship.
Like, you don't always see
all the other things that go on,
so, like, that could be
hurtful, what you said.
-I wasn't trying to pick on you.
I was trying to say, "Hey,
he's got a lot of potential.
You should uplift him."
That's what couples do.
But when old boy right
there was talking about,
"We're gonna go hookers," and blah,
blah, blah, that's not a good role model.
-All right.
This is one issue that
will not get solved tonight.
Let's move on to Emily and
Kobe, who didn't just get married.
They also welcomed
their second child together.
-Yeah. -Congratulations, guys.
-Thank you. -Congratulations.
Okay, I want to get some updates.
How is baby Scarlett?
-Oh, my gosh, she's so good.
She's so beautiful.
She's like her brother.
She's getting quite the personality.
-Well, you actually brought
us some home video
of Scarlett, including
footage of the birth.
Let's take a look at that exclusive video.
-And go.
Come on. Really hard. Really hard.
Come on, daughter girl. -I'm going.
-Come on. -I'm going.
Whoa!
-Aww, that's so sweet.
-She is just adorable. -Thanks.
-Did that -- watching that
get you emotional again?
-Yeah.
I just really love my family.
Like, I love the life that
we've built, you know?
-Yeah.
-And it's like obviously happy tears.
Like, I want to make
all the babies with him.
Like, we want to, like -- And he, like,
missed so much of Kobe, you know?
Like, he wasn't there for the birth.
And, like, so, like,
when Scarlett was born,
it was just, like, really
special, you know?
-The care -- You're crying.
-I -- Yeah. -Why are you crying?
-'Cause that'll be us soon. -Aww.
-Like, the pushing and the -- It's
like I'm watching my life happen.
-So, Kobe, what was it like
for you in the delivery room?
-Um, I don't like blood, honestly.
It's not really my thing.
-Did you watch from
this angle or that angle?
-No, he was there. -I saw everything.
-Yeah, he saw everything. -Gosh.
That was -- That was a lot.
-So, Emily, you freeze-dried the placenta.
-Yeah, so I got my placenta encapsulated.
-Okay.
-So, there's this company in
California that I overnighted to.
They, like, dehydrate it.
They put, like, turmeric and ginger in it,
and then they grind it
up and put it in, like, pills.
Because, you know, essentially,
when you are pregnant,
you have a placenta that
your body just magically makes.
It's incredible.
And it takes all your hormones.
So then, after you have the baby, it literally
strips you from all of those hormones,
and your body, like,
goes into shock, basically.
And so, when you
encapsulate it, you're just slowly
putting those hormones,
like, back into your body.
-Do you feel it help?
-100%. No anxiety.
I lost my baby weight
from her in, like, two weeks.
I didn't have any
struggles breastfeeding her.
Like, I tell all of my friends who are
pregnant, I'm like, "Do it." It is amazing.
-Wow.
Okay, Kara, what do you think about that?
Might you try something like that?
-Yeah, I would definitely plan on doing it.
-Really? -I've heard of people
actually, like, keeping it and, like,
cooking it themselves and eating it.
Like, that's a little
too far for me, I think.
Encapsulating it.
-The air mode is saying -- -Just taking a pill. That's fine.
-The air mode now.
With all the respect for my wife...
-Thank you.
-...we ain't gonna cook
that sh*t in my kitchen.
No, it's not a sh*t. It's not a sh*t.
-I'm not sure we meant
to do that kitchen either.
-It's a placenta.
-All right, knowing
that, I just got to ask,
what does raising two
kids do to intimacy?
What is the sex life like?
-So, um, well...
-Babe?
-I mean, we haven't had sex in a long time.
-What's a long time?
-Two weeks.
-What? Two weeks? -Right?
-No. It's been more than a month.
-No. Has it?
-Let's not go there.
But it's been more than a
month we haven't had sex.
-More than a month? -Yeah.
-More than a month? -More than one month.
-Yeah.
-That's what happens when you have kids.
-We're making time for it.
-Well, we're going to.
-Okay, so there was
zero intimacy after Scarlett.
-We've had sex since she's been born.
-I can say we've had sex about four
or five times since Scarlett was born.
-Okay. That's fair, yeah.
-It's because of me, because I don't
want to take any chances right now.
-Yeah.
-I think you need to talk to Bilal, 'cause
he knows how to not get a woman pregnant,
so he could probably
give you some notes, okay?
-He looks real confident over there.
-He could. He could do it really good.
-I'm a sperm, too, man,
so I know what you mean.
-Mm. Okay.
-That was some shade.
Shida just threw a u-Bilal.
-She's queen shade.
-Oh, my God. -She's queen shade.
-Okay, has anybody else's sex life cooled?
Tyson Patrick?
-Oh, yeah, it's gone up.
-No, it's better now.
-It's better now? -It's better now.
-Yeah, it's better now. -Better now?
-Yeah, it's -- -Better
now that you're pregnant?
-Yeah. -Really?
-Yes. -Yes.
-Kara? -Yes.
-Would you say that? -Is it best now?
-Yes. -It's insane.
-Interesting. Okay.
Bilal and Shida?
-Bilal likes to practice. -We're blessed.
-Yes.
-But he doesn't -- I think after practicing, something should be there.
Like, you want to see something, you know?
-Right.
-We've been apart for so long.
I'm like, "Let's enjoy
each other for a little bit.
" -Yeah, how
long is a little bit?
-Like, you know, two years.
-It's been taking too long.
-That's long.
-You're gonna have two years.
-I'm 27, by the way. I know that, right?
-You should remember the time.
You don't control time. -Yeah.
-Well, and you never know how long
after you really start trying it'll take.
-Thank you.
-My friend tried for years
and years and years.
-You better start trying now.
-Bilal thinks having a baby, life stops.
-No, I don't think that.
You're taking my -- the context
of what I'm saying differently.
What I am saying is, when you
do have children, the reality is
that it limits you on some
things you can do at that moment.
-I feel like when you meet the right
person, you know that's what I said to him.
-When we first started talking -- -He
holds that against me because I say that.
-When we first started talking, she
mentioned she didn't want to have children.
I actually convinced her to have children
because I do want more
children, you know, but --
-Is that true he convinced
you to have children?
-It didn't happen like that whatsoever.
It didn't happen like he convinced me
because if he convinced me, it would
have been easy for him, you know?
He didn't convince me.
Bilal has never -- Bilal doesn't
want kids right now at all.
We're not talking about right now.
We're just talking about children.
-You didn't convince me. -Okay.
All right. You're right.
-All right.
Right now, I want to move
back to Emily and Kobe.
Well, Kobe couldn't have been happier
when he arrived in the United States.
Not only did he finally see his
fiancé after being apart for so long,
but he was all set to meet
his son for the very first time.
However, Emily had other
plans for their first day together.
Take a look.
-Now that I'm in America, I'm
finally going to meet my son, Kobe,
which is something I've been
looking forward for over, like, two years.
-So I was thinking maybe we could just,
like, have one night together, you know,
because I wanted to see Kobe, and obviously
I don't want to take away from that,
but would you be okay if maybe we had a
date night and stay the night somewhere?
-I thought we were going to meet him today.
-I know, but don't you want to have,
like, one date night with me, babe?
-You know, I want to meet Kobe so badly.
I can't wait. -Yeah.
-How is this possible?
Bad life was being selfish.
I want to see my son.
Please.
-I'm not trying to take away
that moment of you and Kobe,
and I was just thinking, like, it's,
you know, our only opportunity.
-Oh, Emily, there was a
lot of reaction to your plan
to keep Kobe to yourself the
first night he arrived in America.
One viewer from Twitter
wrote, "If this situation
were reversed, people
would be outraged.
You have never met your son before,
but I'm going to talk you into
sex before you can see him.
This is gross.
" What do you say to those folks
who were just appalled by your plan?
-Eight months, five times.
Okay.
I mean, I would have brought Kobe into the
airport, but COVID was a very big thing,
so I was like, "He's
not going to come.
" It was a long day.
I didn't want to get
back, and Kobe's, like,
ready for bed and not
excited to see his dad.
You know, like, I haven't
seen him in 17 months.
Like, let's just have one night.
And, you know, I obviously
-- You looked very different
from when he met me, and,
like, I was nervous about that.
-I felt bad that she planned that,
and she didn't even tell me
before leaving came around.
So if she had told me, I
would have prepared my mind.
Psychologically, like, I was like --
I was going to meet Kobe because,
I mean, this is blood, you know?
-And I've apologized.
Like, I should have said
beforehand, like, "Is it okay?
" Or, like, "Do you
want to do this first?
Like, let's have one night,"
because we are staying
with my parents, you know?
-I was surprised. -Were you surprised?
-Yeah.
-What made you say this is our only opportunity?
-Once he was with Kobe, I didn't
want to take him away from Kobe.
Like, I wanted him to, like, be with him.
-And imagine going all the way --
like, coming back after
that long and not seeing
each other and being in
the house with your parents,
with a child and trying
to find -- -Like, yeah.
-And 17 months.
Like, I can't understand.
-Yeah. -That's a long time.
It's like two years. -A long time.
A long time.
-I wasn't a fan at first when I saw that.
But now hearing you, like, explain it,
like, now I'm kind of like,
"Okay, yeah, like, it makes sense.
" -All right.
We're going to hear more
from Emily and Kobe a little later.
Let's move on to Eve and her squad.
The squad was pretty critical
of Mohammed and vice versa.
Let's watch.
So, thanks for coming.
How was the travel?
-It was very long.
-It was very long.
-My first impression about
Eve's friends, that they are weird.
I felt that they are trying to see
how I will react because I'm Muslim.
So, they in purpose to
show more of their poops.
I don't need to see that.
-So, we have some questions for you.
Is it okay if we -- -Take it easy.
-Putting you in the hot seat, Mohammed.
-You can ask me anything you want.
-Have you ever been
intimate with any other women?
Like, had sex with any other women?
-No. -No?
You never, like,
made out or, like -- -No.
-You never kissed another woman until Eve?
-Yes.
-How did you know what
to do, then, if you've never --
No, really, like, did you --
Have you ever watched porn?
-In Egypt, no one never will
ask these kind of questions.
She's sitting, talking about sex, talking
about, "Are you watching porn or not?
" I don't want to be here.
-Like, is this freaking you out?
-Not a lot of it going on.
-They were judging me the entire time.
And that's showing how
stupid they are, you know?
-Okay, we would like to bring
out a member of the squad
to get her take on Eve
and Mohammed's situation.
Please welcome Tatiana.
-I just really hope that
we can clear the air
and we can either talk
about it and move on,
or we can talk about it and just leave
it there in part ways, if that's the case.
-Welcome.
-Hello. -Get over it.
-Okay, so, Tatiana, what did
you think about those things
Mohammed said about
you and your girlfriends?
He called you guys weird, said you
were stupid, had your boobs hanging out.
What did you think?
-Well, that he has his
opinion and we have ours.
-Do you think this kind of
conversation is normal in any culture?
-For us to be brought into a situation --
-Are you gonna let me finish?
-For us, right?
-'Cause I will answer your question.
Thank you.
I think that this whole
situation is unorthodox,
so you are gonna have
unusual conversations.
-It's not normal in American culture.
I have so many American friends right now.
All of them told me that's not our culture.
We're not talking to people like that.
-In this crowd, we do talk about sex.
We're very open and empowered,
and we don't see a problem
with either sex talking about it.
-You can talk about sex as
much as you want, but you can't.
-You're asking a question as far as
why, so if you would like me to answer,
I would suggest you listen to the rest
of the answer before over-talking me.
'Cause if you just want to
talk, you can talk by yourself.
Go ahead.
-It's like -- -She polices.
-My sexual private life.
It's not anybody's business.
You can talk about sex till tomorrow.
-Me and my friends are not just
some vulgar women that go up
to conservative men and
start asking about their sex life.
The way that we all met
is through studying tantra,
which I know some
people can reduce it as just
sex, and it'd be a
situation, but it's not that.
We don't see sex as taboo or
something as uncomfortable,
but I do understand
that there is cultures
that find that very sacred
and uphold it in a different way.
-Do you think it was, like, a big shock
for you, like, to see that she's, you know,
ended up with someone who
isn't open and is so conservative?
Maybe that was a shock for you.
-Well, and that's what I'm trying to say.
Like, in our group of people,
we didn't mean it as a bad thing,
and I think we can all just
-- we're all learning from this.
-You went over there to know me
because you don't know who I am.
Did you know me when you
figured out that I'm good in bed?
-Did you know us? Wait, what?
Did you know me after you
figured out that I'm good in bed?
-Oh, my God.
-Yeah, we know a little bit more,
and we just try to understand the drawl
of this whole situation
that we got going on.
-I didn't expect Mohammed to say that.
-Yeah, me neither.
I definitely express to him in
the future, if anything makes
you uncomfortable because
it's so different culturally,
please, you know, just
say, like, "Hey, you know,
that's not acceptable
to talk about my culture.
Can we not talk about that?
" -You know, I didn't even know that
Mohammed was a virgin until after the fact.
I assume because he had a girlfriend.
-You didn't know Mohammed
was a virgin until after when?
That conversation?
-After we consummated our relationship.
Like, I just assumed he
had a girlfriend in college.
I just assume because in our culture,
it's kind of normal that
people have premarital sex.
-You and your friends, on the street, I
feel like you planned that you had, like,
"No, we're gonna
get Mohammed today.
" Like, he's not really
familiar with this topic.
-This is a first meeting with them.
I don't know them.
-He didn't have anybody, like --
-From being, like, outsider,
like, watching it, you know?
-No, and I understand that, and that's a
dynamic that I can explain to other people.
What I don't respect and
what I don't appreciate
is that during that whole
time, you had every opportunity.
We even came up to you and
said, "Hey, everything good.
" So whatever you
have to say in this anger
that's coming out, you
had a chance to speak it.
You had a chance to resolve it,
and now you're coming at me,
like, honestly, really aggressively.
And I don't know what you're
expecting to get from that,
but that's also not what I
came here to do as well.
-Like, you didn't, like, understand or
feel that I am feeling uncomfortable?
-I just said that I did.
So what are you needing from
me so you feel better about it?
-I didn't know that you
were uncomfortable either.
-Right now, I don't need anything from you.
-Okay, then, well, then we understand.
-I expected from Eve
to say anything, but she
didn't, because I don't
think any, like, any woman
will accept this question
to be asked to her husband.
-No, I didn't know.
-From her friends as well.
-Every time that we've talked is just
to see, "Hey, are you really about Eve?
Are you really about Eve,
and is this what you really want?
" Because there's a lot of stuff
here that is not gonna make it easy.
-Do you think it's genuine love, though?
-Well, I just want to ask if
any of the other couples,
if their person had ever
asked them that -- or
ever told them that they
would get another sponsor.
-That's just communication error.
This is your best friend, right?
So I don't know, but
just from the outside of
looking at it, I'm team
Eve and Muhammad, man.
I think this is genuine love.
Don't worry about all the
religion, the differences, all that.
I believe in you guys. I see true love.
-Thank you. -Okay.
Now, Tatiana, when you heard that Muhammad
was inquiring about
getting another sponsor,
what were you thinking?
-Well, it wasn't an inquiry.
It was said when -- and you're being right.
It was said in anger, but as --
-Okay, let's play the clip right now.
We can see it for ourselves.
-I don't understand what -- Babe,
why are you sending me this?
You're saying if I don't get the paperwork,
Jen, you're gonna get,
like, another sponsor.
-I'm trying to figure it out.
It's possible we can't --
-You can't do that, babe.
I'm your sponsor. I'm your petitioner.
You can't just, like, come to this
country and get another sponsor.
Like, we have to get married first before
the paperwork can even be turned in.
-So let's get married.
-We are. Hello?
-You promised me to --
-I never said that. I never said that.
And I don't want to go to the courthouse
and just have, like --
that's not special to me.
I want to have a wedding.
-You're -- -That's messed up.
Everything's on me.
If you cared about me, you
wouldn't stress me out like this.
-I have been explaining to
you that getting married legally
doesn't have anything to
do with having a wedding.
-It has to do with "I" with,
like, something special.
-Because that's selfish.
-No, it's your selfish.
I've done a lot, a lot for
you, so it's just not cool.
Because it's like -- -I don't need
to hear from you every single day
that you have with me.
-Okay, well, I don't need to hear
from you either to say, like, negative
things that just are stressing me out.
-You like to talk about
yourself a lot, Eve.
-Excuse me?
-Excuse me?
-Whatever.
-Now, that doesn't sound
like a language barrier.
-No, we've had that conversation.
-Yeah, it's still hurtful.
-Yeah, no, that's still hurtful.
I get it, but it's still hurtful.
But my question is why?
-To get my bivers in to...
-And I understand, right, but it was like --
it seemed like it was more
of a thing of impatience.
-For me, coming across America, not being
able to work and starting from scratch
is a lot of pressure, and you do
become impatient, even for us.
How many times I sound
just like Muhammad there?
-Oh, you said the same stuff.
I'm going back to Trinidad.
-Yeah, do you know how
many times I've said that?
-Yeah.
Do you know how it is to feel to be
working six days per week and then stop?
-Yeah. -I feel you.
I was doing the same. -It's hard.
-But do you know how
hard it is to be really
trying to make something
work and bringing someone
from another country
and doing the best you can
to have someone tell you
you're not moving fast enough?
-When you are in a frustration,
you can say things that --
maybe you don't mean 100%.
You are frustrated.
-Did you do the paperwork, or
did she do the paperwork, though?
-She did the paperwork. -Who the f*ck?
-She's hustling, though.
You know how hard
that f*cking paperwork is?
-I know. -So you work in 72 -- -It's the paperwork.
-You know what I'm saying?
-It's a lot. -It's a lot of paperwork.
Y'all putting it all on the Americans
like, "Come on, give me my -- -Hurry up.
-I'm like, "I gotta work.
" -I think that Mohammed's
ego is really going
through it, coming to
America and being here.
-You think Mohammed has a big ego?
-I wouldn't say it's a big ego.
I just think he's
having trouble -- -Stop.
-Trying to find himself.
You know, I think the thing
is, though, Sean, is, like,
at the end of the day, Yash,
we did definitely vet him,
because we just wanted to
make sure that he was okay.
-You know, I love these women.
They're like my soul sisters.
They mean a lot to me,
and I love them so much.
And, you know, I love him, too.
And I want us to be able to hang out again
and, like, you know, start on a new page
and things like that,
you know, so, like, he can
understand, like, that
these are beautiful people.
-Taziana, the thing is, I do appreciate
and respect your relationship with Eve,
and I thank you that you're being supportive
to her even before I arrived to America.
But the thing is, this conversation
not going to help you to know who I am.
I expected other kind
of questions, you know?
Other than that, I have
no problem with you.
We can hang, like, chickens.
-Oh, all right. -You got this, Mohammed.
You got this, bro. Come on.
-Other than that, I have
no problem with anybody.
Thanks.
-Taziana, thank you so much for being here and sharing your thoughts.
-Thank you.
-You can see how much
love you have for your friend.
-Thank you. -Even Mohammed,
it seems like you still
have a number of issues to
work out, but we certainly
wish you the best of luck.
Thank you. -Thank you.
-We'll be right back.
-These are two of the ones I would have bet
at the beginning of the season
that they were not gonna make it.
-And they seem to be
fighting to stay together.
-That is the most animated
of her, Mohammed.
-He went up a notch.
-The entire scene, yeah.
-The octave went up a notch.
-The octave higher, yeah.
-One notch, but you could hear it.
- ♪ Do re mi fa sol la ti do ♪
♪ Ti la sol fa mi re do ♪
-That was very stressful.
My heart, like, beating so fast.
-If I brought Kobi in
front of all my girlfriends
the first time meeting
him, and they're like,
"Oh, are you a virgin?"
-Then, like, Bobby -- -Oh, oh, my t*ts are hanging.
I'd be like, "Uh,
hold the f*ck up.
" -Yeah, that's not normal
for anyone's culture.
-Yeah, no, I wouldn't -- -Exactly.
-I would be like,
"Are y'all good?
" -Yeah.
-Can you come here with me?
-No, I'm public here.
-Oh, I'm like, "No
one lives here.
" -Hey, Apti wants to talk
to you for just a second.
-I just wanted to talk to you,
'cause I really want to make
sure that we clear the air,
because I know that you're
uncomfortable with us.
We are good people for Eve.
We are her friends, and we support her.
-But she was just surprised
because you seem so still angry,
and she's discussed this
with you twice already.
-I just felt disrespected.
-I genuinely am saying I
hope we can move forward.
I respect you.
I apologize, and I want to
make sure that we're okay,
because you're part of my best friend's
heart, and her heart matters to me.
-Yeah, and the same thing.
I do respect you, and I never --
Even when I was mad, I
never said I don't respect
you or -- -No, you just
called us stupid and weird.
-That's something else.
So, yeah, going forward, I
just -- I'll make more of an effort.
-I would like you to make an effort, too.
That would mean a lot to me, as well.
-Alright.
-Alright, you guys.
-Alright, guys, we're
back off in the studio.
-Woo!
-I hope we're out.
Close doors, please.
-Now I want to check in
with Ariella and Binyam.
We first met them a few
years ago when Arie took a trip
the other way and went
to Ethiopia to live with Biny.
After a lot of ups and downs,
they decided that their
best hope for a happy life
together would be to
move to the United States.
Let's find out how life is treating them.
Gotta ask about little Avi. How's he doing?
-He's great.
I'm now getting to the
stage where I'm, like,
the proud mom that can
talk about all his milestones.
-Does he have more of
your personality or Biny's?
-I think both.
He's moody like me, but...
-Biny, what do you think?
-I think he's just like me.
He's very athletic.
Like, he's dancer.
He's doing taekwondo.
He's doing circus.
I'm proud of him.
-Very cute. Very cute.
Switching gears from Avi, Biny,
I understand you've been
spending some time out in Las Vegas.
-Yeah. -Yeah.
Tell me about that.
-Yeah. -Tell us about that.
-Yeah.
Vegas, yeah, was very crazy.
I like it because that's what I
have to be for my dream for MMA.
The other thing, like, I have so many people,
Ethiopian community, I feel like home.
I feel better, like, around there.
-I mean, of course Biny's
gonna love Las Vegas.
That's Biny in a city.
Like, it's bright and flashy and noisy
and parties, and I don't really like it.
And he likes all that stuff.
-He's a grown man.
He should be able to choose
where he wanna live, you know?
-That's true.
But then do I have to go with him?
-No.
-Jabri, this is your
dream, that we break up.
-No, I don't wanna try to break up.
I just want you to be more supportive.
-You said they wouldn't last.
-They not gonna last.
You know, too.
You know that that ain't gonna work.
-No, I don't know that.
Their energy ain't gonna work.
-Jabri, don't put your
mouth in their relationship.
Let's take classes together.
-No, I was just getting my opinion.
My opinion don't matter.
Don't listen to me.
I think they gonna last.
Y'all gonna last.
Y'all gonna last.
Y'all gonna last.
Y'all ain't gonna last.
Y'all ain't gonna last.
I'm just giving y'all my honest opinion.
-You don't think Bilal
and Shia are gonna last?
-No, they're not gonna work out.
I hope they do, but I
don't think they will.
My gut's usually right.
-Whoop.
-So, Jabri, of everybody here, you
think the two that won't last
are Ari and Benny-- -Yeah, no.
---and Bilal and Shia.
-No.
I think they have a better
chance if she can start being
so jealous and possessive,
and they got a kid together.
-You think that they have the least--
-The least amount of chance, absolutely.
-Bilal?
-I tend not to speak
about what I don't know.
-OK.
-Well, at least I'm aggressive
aggressive and not passive aggressive.
-Hey, you could be whatever
aggressive you need to,
but you should support
your man more with the fight.
-When I hear this, I
think he has so many
things that would be
great for him in Las Vegas.
-Yeah, I know.
I do get that.
I do agree.
I mean, I agree.
When he first told me, I was like, OK,
so you could live out there
like most, like, you know?
And you could come back and
see me and stuff and all that.
And he's like, no.
I kind of like the
freedom of like, oh, yeah,
I'm married, but I'm
doing my own thing.
-Does your version of marriage
align with Benny's version?
-Like, Benny has been the one who's teaching
me like, this is what commitment is.
This is what being together is.
So I love that.
On the other hand,
there's still a part of me
that's like, oh my god, I
want to run away screaming
because it's like scary to be
in a committed relationship.
And it's scary because I do love Benny.
And like when I get crazy,
like trying to spar with MMA
fighters and gyms, it's because
I actually care about him.
Like if I didn't care about
him, I just wouldn't even react.
-All right, I want to switch gears.
-Have you traveled
back to Ethiopia recently?
-Yeah, I was in Ethiopia for three months.
-Three months?
-Yeah.
-What were you doing
there for three months?
-So I was helping with
some of the camps for
displaced people because
there was a w*r in Ethiopia.
So I was raising money,
and I helped deliver
food and supplies to
one of the camps there.
-Wow.
Did you take Avi with you?
-I did.
I wanted Avi to see friends
and family in Ethiopia as well.
And I didn't expect to
stay for three months.
It just got prolonged.
And honestly, I think it was good for us
to have a break from
each other for a little while.
Like I like to-- I don't know.
I'm overwhelming, and you're annoying.
I love you.
But it was good to get away
from each other for a little bit.
-How did you feel being away
from Avi for three months?
-It was very hard.
Because when she left, I just
knew she was leaving for a week.
Like that's what I know.
-You had no idea it was
going to be for three months?
-Yeah.
-And what happened when you were in
Ethiopia and Benny was back in the States?
How did you guys do
with your communication?
-So I was nervous that I would have
to go through the same
dramatic experience
of not being able to
get in touch with him.
And he would turn off his phone,
and he wouldn't communicate with me.
So I was like, you know what?
Let me just not deal with that.
So I pulled a Benny on him.
I just blocked him for a little bit.
And then I was--
-You blocked his number?
-Yeah, I blocked his phone number.
-OK, now Ari, you got upset
when Benny did that to you.
He blocked your number,
and you were furious.
-Yeah.
-Why was it OK for you to do that to him?
-I don't think he even noticed, honestly.
-But why would you block him?
What's the message behind that?
-Just playing games.
-No, I just-- I was trying to lessen my
control thing and checking on your WhatsApp.
And I was like, you know what?
I got to just be focused on Ari.
So let me just not deal with Benny.
-Who thinks it's odd for a husband
and wife to block each other?
-Yeah, it's odd.
-Yeah, that's odd.
-That's weird.
-And the fact that you were
like, I don't think he noticed.
I'm like, if you blocked
me, are you joking?
I would notice immediately.
-I was blocking him so I
couldn't communicate with him.
-Right.
-And when I came back-- and this is
why our communication has gotten better.
Because when I came back,
I actually was quiet for once.
And I let you talk.
And then I listened to you.
And I got better.
-Interesting approach.
-I mean, I will talk to her sometimes.
But I don't know if she's
blocked me, like what I feel.
-You didn't even know she had blocked you.
-But when I call, it's not working.
Maybe--
-You were like, OK, whatever.
-He gave me the benefit of the doubt.
I don't give him the benefit of the doubt.
-Wow.
So you consider it healthy to block him?
-No, but it worked.
-Well, yeah.
OK.
One person who has
been a source of friction
in Ari and Binyam's relationship is her
best friend and ex-husband, Leandro.
Everybody please welcome Leandro.
Hi, Leandro.
-Hello.
So much light.
-All right.
Well, Leandro, you
give Ari and Biny advice.
Binyam, how do you feel when your wife's
ex-husband gives you relationship advice?
-First of all, I don't like him.
Second, every time he's
coming, just he's talking about,
if you do just like that, if
you do just like that, stop.
It's not about just Ari.
All the other families, they want him back.
-So my mom considers Leandro like a son.
And my brother is best friends with him.
-Does your mom wish that
you could be with Leandro
because you have a better
communication with Leandro?
-I don't know.
That's-- you'd have to ask her.
-He can have women friends.
He can have them.
But I just don't want to see
him roll on the floor with them.
-Bro, you can't do this no more.
You've got to stand up for yourself.
-Bro, you can't do this no more.
You've got to stand up for yourself.
-So Leandro, if you were in Binyam's
position, would you approve your wife to be--
her best friend be her ex-husband?
Would you approve that?
-I would be-- -I would be-- -I would be--
-I would be-- -I would be-- -I would be--
-I would be-- -I would be-- -I would be--
-I would be-- -I would be-- -I would be--
-I would be-- -I would be-- -I would
be suspicious, but I would still allow it.
-Do you have any girlfriends?
-Yeah.
-You guys can be swingers.
-Swingers?
-Wow.
-Leandro, you told Biny that he
was not paying enough attention to Ali.
-Yeah.
I mean, sometimes
maybe you worry too much
about the training and not
so much about your wife.
That is what it seems to me.
-Are you kidding me?
-I think Biny needs to
focus on the family and
having the family, after
all, that is what they want.
They wanted to have a family together.
-I'm focused on my family.
You know that, like I'm
focused on my family.
-Good.
Good.
-I'm working very hard for my family.
-Jabri.
-I can't with these guys.
What's they doing?
-Would you be okay if Myona had an
ex-husband and that she was best friends--
-Hell no.
We might even go there.
---with him and he was
offering you relationship advice?
-No one's--
-Hell no.
-No one's okay with that.
Biny is not okay with this.
-I'm not okay too.
It's not about just like that.
I'm not okay.
I'm not happy.
It doesn't make me comfortable.
-Can I give you an advice?
You guys are trying
to fix your relationship.
You should first fix your relationship and
then try to bring your ex-husband into your
relationship because right now
it's actually making more problems.
So you're not going to fix
anything at the end of the day.
-Obviously I'm going
to choose my family first
and, you know, and
I'm going to choose you,
but I don't want you to put me in a
position that I have to choose anybody.
I don't know if we're
going to find a resolution
to this tonight, but hopefully there
will be some peace within the family.
Leandro, thank you so much for joining
us today and sharing your thoughts.
We wish you all the very best.
Thanks so much.
-Ciao.
-We'll hear more from
Ari and Biny a little later.
Now I want to speak with Jabri and Miona.
Rather than have a
proper wedding with their
loved ones in attendance,
they chose to elope,
a decision that caused some major
rifts with their friends and family.
Wow.
What a journey you two have been on.
Have you finally found a place to settle?
-We are living in the Palm
Springs area at the moment.
We are thinking about
traveling more and maybe
being part of the
year outside of the US.
-For Miona and I, we love adventure.
You know, just hearing
y'all situation with
the kids and now, you
know, for both of y'all,
I want kids, but we got some
more adventures to go on.
-So you guys are going
to be nomads for a while.
-Creative nomads.
I'm appreciative that
you're such an adventurous,
sexy woman who's
on this crazy adventure.
I'm so glad that you
jumped on this red
carpet with me and we
off in the sunset, baby.
And I'm glad that you lived
in South Dakota with me.
I know that was probably
not a good idea and
it kind of backfired,
but you know, it was
an experience and I
commend you for doing that.
-You look at that whole experience
in South Dakota as one that backfired.
-Yeah, I mean, it's
not that it backfired
as much as just Miona
just wasn't, you know,
she wasn't feeling the Black Hills,
South Dakota the way I thought she was.
And then, you know, me
living with my mom and
my dad up in the house,
like, it was too much.
-Yeah, we should have never done that.
-We should have went straight to LA
and that's what we should have done.
I should have listened to you.
So you know, you're right.
-Well, Jabri and Miona
spent most of their time
before the wedding
living with Jabri's parents.
That gave Jabri's parents
plenty of opportunities
to observe Jabri and
Miona's relationship
and to question whether Jabri was
making the right decision to marry her.
Here's a look back at how they
expressed those concerns to him.
-I've been in the US
for a few weeks and it's
definitely not as comfortable
as I wish to live in this house.
You like it?
-I think it's, I think it's little.
If Miona chooses not
to adjust the way that
she dresses in our home, to me that is
a sign of a deeper issue of disrespect.
Parents can generally tell
when their child looks stressed.
You just, normally
you're bubbly, excited,
passionate about things,
talking about wonderful
things in the future and
you're not doing that as much.
And it seems like you're not doing okay.
-We don't see that you're happy.
If you didn't have
this 90 day, you know,
limit that you have a year to
decide if you're going to get married.
The question I have is would you
really end up getting married at all?
No.
-I think part of what is really
keeping him in this decision
to get married is concern
about the blowback from Miona.
That really pains me
to say because I want
to be optimistic, but that does not seem
like it's going to be healthy in a marriage.
I never imagined not being at your wedding.
I never imagined that.
It is going to break my heart.
-Wow.
Okay.
So, Debrie, your parents told you that they
could not attend the wedding because they
did not have enough time to
plan around their work schedules.
After seeing some of
those conversations, do you
really believe that was the
reason they didn't come?
-I mean, it hurts me
to see that, but at the
end of the day, their
parents, I'm a grown man.
I'm 28 years old, but it did hurt.
-Yeah.
-I think it hurt us both, and I made
multiple efforts to make them come there.
I think they were maybe
offended that I didn't
want to have a big wedding,
how she imagined in South Dakota.
I thought until the last
moment that they're
going to change their opinion,
but that never happened.
-You know, we
invited your parents to
participate in the
tell-all, and they declined.
-Yeah.
-When was the last time you saw them?
-Since we left South
Dakota, I haven't seen them.
Six months.
It's been six months
since I last saw my mom.
-Six months?
-Yeah.
-Well, Debrie's
parents weren't the only
ones who disapproved of
Debrie's relationship with Miona.
His friend and bandmate, David,
had quite a few issues as well.
I'd like to bring him out right now.
Please welcome David.
Hi, David.
-Hi, everyone.
-Hi.
-Man, it's quiet in here.
What's going on?
-Good to see you, David.
-Good to see you.
-You know, we saw some intense moments.
-Oh, yeah.
-Between you and Debrie this season.
How are things between you guys now?
-We're doing great.
-Good.
-Good.
-Good.
-Good.
-Good.
-Good.
-Good.
-Good.
-Good.
-We are always intense.
We got that relationship.
-There's always tension, you know?
-So there was tension in your
relationship pre-Miona, right?
-Oh, yeah.
-Okay.
-Mm-hmm.
-Did her relationship with
Debrie add to the tension?
-Yeah, definitely.
I think the most that
added is the separation.
You know, he kind of drifted away.
-I had to put you and
the band at a distance
because I really felt like
y'all was weighing me down.
When we went on tour, our
momentum was so strong.
And then I felt like I
was leading the group,
and I feel like you weren't
really pulling your weight.
Like, you guys were just, like, a weight.
And then when I met Miona,
she didn't make me feel stressed.
Like, the band was
giving me a lot of stress,
and I was thinking, like,
the whole time myself,
I was like, "Man, I could just be doing my
solo thing, and then I could be with this
beautiful woman and
then travel the world.
" You get what I'm saying?
-Okay.
-But when you felt like band was stressful,
you were the leader, you were putting a lot
in, and me and Brandy
were weighing you down,
that's when you say
exactly what you just said.
You say those things.
You say, "Hey, I feel like
you're weighing me down.
" I think the way it happened is
what hurt me more than anything else.
You know, I didn't know
that you got engaged.
None of us knew.
It just happened on Instagram, you know?
Y'all didn't even know they got married.
-Yeah.
-You wouldn't have came either.
-You never invited me.
-I know, but had I have invited
you, something would have came up.
You busy.
-I'm going to two weddings this year.
Two weddings.
-Right.
And not mine.
-Why?
-That's what I'm trying to say, bro.
-Why wouldn't you even invite me?
-That's what I'm trying to say, bro.
-That's crazy.
I want to be part of your life.
You know, the more you are
separating me, you know what I'm saying?
The more you're pushing away, it makes it
feel like I'm more distant from me on it.
Bring her in.
Let's get to know each other.
-Right, but when we met
her, bro, I was like, "What's up?
" -When we met her, bro, originally, you
was never supportive from the beginning.
-Never.
You like built up a wall
and you just hid her from us.
-But that's my frustration
when there's people
that are from the outside looking in,
but you're not giving me no solution.
So what's your solution?
-You haven't asked for help.
Do you know?
You haven't asked for help.
-I'm asking you now,
I'm asking you now, W.
What's your solution
from this point forward?
This is my wife.
This ain't my girlfriend no more.
You know what I'm saying?
-She rubbed me the wrong
way and I was honest about it.
-Man, that's some bullshit.
-Where's Dribri going?
-You don't want to
pick up a call, you don't
want to f*cking talk
to nobody, but then all
of a sudden you want to play the
nice guy or whatever that sh*t is.
-That's some bullshit, man, honestly.
-What's going on, guys?
Like, why?
-That sh*t's got me in
the way, m*therf*cker.
It's cool, I just need
like a little second.
Like, bro, you seen me on it?
You seen m*therf*cking me on it?
You seen what I've
been doing with me on it?
Be happy for me.
You know what I'm saying?
Be f*cking happy for me.
He's just jealous, that's
really what it comes down to.
He's f*cking jealous.
He see me, he see what I'm doing.
Bet you don't make no
effort towards anything.
And then you come in here and act
like you nice and everything's all handy.
Like, we haven't f*cking
talked in three months, bro.
Like, that's some f*cking bullshit, bro.
That's some f*cking bullshit.
And you being jealous, that's
just really what it comes down to.
That's what it comes down to is
m*therf*ckers ain't happy for you.
-Jabree?
-I just want to have my
friends and family support me.
If you pull up tomorrow, bro, and
you know me, if you pull up tomorrow
and you say, "Jabree,
I just won the lottery,"
I'm going to be
happy for you, brother.
You know what I'm saying?
So I feel like when I got with Miona,
you wasn't necessarily happy, bro.
You was just literally looking at
our situation like, "Huh, must be nice."
-Like, I want to be part of getting to know
Miona and part of your guys' happiness.
You wasn't confining, you were just
like, "Ah," or whatever, and just elope.
-I want to ask, Miona, do you feel
responsible for breaking the group up?
-No, I do not feel responsible.
There was something maybe in the
background from the past that came out now,
like he was saying, that
he was feeling that way,
and maybe him being in a
relationship with me brought out the light,
but I think it would happen
with or without me at some point.
-I want to know,
though, from our couples,
does anyone think that
Jabree isolated himself
from the people that loved
him, like David, like his parents?
Does anyone feel that way?
-Yeah, I mean, 100% it's Miona.
If Miona wasn't in the picture,
he was to stick with his band.
Miona, he didn't isolate
himself with Miona because...
-But there would be some other Miona.
-Sorry? -If it wasn't this Miona.
-If it wasn't this Miona, there
would have been another Miona.
-Yes. -But we made a commitment, Jabree.
-So you think Jabree broke a promise?
-No, I don't think he broke it.
-He broke a promise to the band.
-Yeah, six months into it.
You know, right when we
were like at the peak, you know,
and then he just broke it and
made another commitment,
which is, that's what I'm
saying, with no communication.
-So, Jabree, what I hear David saying
is that you were not a man of your word.
-No, I mean, I didn't follow through.
-Like, I just feel like you
need to do your thing,
but maybe the future will
hold something different for us.
But right now, Jabree's all over the
place for us to be together, you know?
-So is this friendship over
right now, or can it be salvaged?
-I think we just got to give it some time.
-At some point, you just got to
say, "Well, I'm wrong. I'm wrong.
" -What you're saying is you want me
to say that I was wrong about Miona.
Is that what you want to hear?
-I want you to say you
were wrong about Miona.
I want you to say, "Jabree,
I appreciate you as a friend.
You know, you've taught
me a lot. I've taught you a lot.
" And just like that, like, I can sit
here and say, "You changed my life.
You changed my life.
I learned the language because of you.
I did this. Thank you."
It's gratitude. It's those words.
"Thank you. I appreciate you." Empathy.
And I don't know why you don't have that.
-I do that in many different ways.
You call me at any moment
for anything, I'm there for you.
You know what I'm saying? Like,
you changed my life, too, in many ways.
And maybe I was wrong about Miona.
Not maybe. I was wrong about Miona.
I feel like she's proven
different, you know?
-That was awesome, man. -Thank you.
-Thank you, Zara. -Thank you, man.
Thank you, man.
Okay.
You guys have a very, very long history.
There's a lot of backstory
here, and so, hopefully,
this is the starting point of a better
relationship between the two of you.
-Davi, thank you so much for joining us.
-Thank you, guys, for having me.
-Thank you. -All right.
-All right. -Thank you.
I want to move on over to Emily and Kobe.
I want to speak to two
people who have had an
up-close and personal
view of your relationship.
Please welcome Emily's
mom, Lisa, and her dad, David,
connecting remotely
from their home in Kansas.
-Hello, hello. -Hi, Lisa.
-Hi, David. How are you? -Hi.
-Hi. -Hi.
Okay, now, is everybody
still living together?
-Yeah. -Everybody's still together?
-Yeah. -Yeah, we're all there.
Okay. David, are you getting
rent from your children?
That's a good question.
Okay, but wait.
When did you buy, like, the groceries?
You know, like, "I cook.
He takes care of the animals.
I clean the house."
You know, like, it's a group effort.
David, you said you were worried that you
would be supporting everyone in six months.
Those were the words that you used.
Is that what happened?
It's more like a year.
It's been about like a year.
And, well, I think
they've got a timeframe in
mind, so that's-- we'll
work with them, whatever.
For their own relationship,
they need to move on.
-They need to be-- -I mean, you know,
at some point, -they need to move on.
-They need to go.
They need to go at some point, huh?
They got to go for their own good.
Yeah. Lisa and David, I got
to ask you guys something.
Emily and Kobe said,
you know, after having their
second child, you know, it
wreaks havoc on the sex life.
There's no intimacy.
I got to ask you two,
with a house full, how
is it for your sex life?
Oh, my God.
Our house is soundproof.
Hey!
Hold on, bro! You
coming to get it up?
Got a lot going on there.
-Yeah. -Got a lot going on.
Okay. Emily and Kobe butted
heads quite a lot over their son,
Kobe, especially when
it came to breastfeeding.
Let's take a look back at
their co-parenting dynamic.
Oh.
Babe, you just really have me.
What, me pumping right
here in the living room?
This is not normal.
I'm sorry to say
this, but-- What?
-Our son. -Our son.
She's going to be my wife,
and we make love, you know?
-Oh, God. -And I have to suck her breasts.
'Cause I love breasts, to be honest.
So I can be sharing breasts with my son.
Not sharing breasts with your son?
-I mean-- -Toby?
Kobe was big enough.
To be honest, he was big enough, I mean,
to, you know, start
managing his own affairs.
That was my-- that became
mine, you know what I mean?
My boy was raised differently in Africa.
-My boy was raised-- -Yeah, man.
to manage his own affairs at
the age of three years old, boy.
Okay, did you think Kobe
was too old to be breastfed?
I mean, he didn't need that to survive.
-No. -You don't need that to survive, too.
I said, "You don't
need that either.
I just want to say that
I think in this country,
we need to really
normalize breastfeeding.
And the fact that men find
breasts pludgeable is a bonus.
But the fact is, they're
there to feed our children.
That should be the priority.
-Kobe, listen to Mama. -Yeah.
-Go ahead, Mama. -Go ahead, moms, yeah.
Go ahead, Mama. Kobe, listen to Mama.
I'm trying to figure out what I'm gonna do.
No, you'll be here. The baby will be here.
Oh, there you go. Tyeese, just-- see, Kobe?
-You got two. -You got two.
Yeah, I don't see a problem, Sharon.
Who thinks Kobe is too old to be breastfed?
-How old was he? 17 months?
-You know, 17 months.
Is that too old to breastfeed?
I mean, Avi's 2 1/2.
I still give him my boobs even
as a pacifier just to soothe him.
-And how old? -2 1/2.
I'm the one I give it to.
Like, for me, in my
culture, more than anything,
even food, breastfeeding
is very important for the kids.
Yeah, what is-- do you know what Kobe
means by sharing breasts with his son?
Kobe is sharing his breasts with me.
I mean, like-- like, if I-- if I didn't
call him, like, I would be selfish.
Just I would think about
it just for-- like, for myself.
Also, you know what?
I just want to point out
that Jibri was just
bullying Binny and saying,
"Uh, uh, uh, making fun of the
fact that it's his second language.
" -Okay, so this is where I'm talking--
-You were talking about bullying.
Do not bully him.
Binny was, like, having
trouble getting out his words.
It's not his first language. He's doing
really well, and I'm really proud of him.
I ain't talking about him.
I'm talking about two guys
talking about sharing boobs.
-What are we-- what are you talking about?
-Yeah, well, I don't know.
It just seemed like it
wasn't-- I don't know.
It seemed to me that it was bullying,
especially because he was
talking about bullying before.
He was laughing
at something else.
-That was quiet.
-Yeah, I wasn't-- definitely not laughing at you.
-No, I-- -'Cause you're not funny.
-You're not funny at all.
-'Cause you're not funny.
I was more concerned about
how you're treating Binny.
Okay, I want to go back to David and Lisa.
Before we let you guys go,
David, I wanted to ask you--
we saw you hand Kobe
something right before the
wedding ceremony, and you
told him it was his job now.
Well, you remember the first letter
you sent me with asking permission.
-Yeah. -And you remember my response.
-I remember. -All right, well, here.
-I'm gonna give you this. -Oh, thanks.
Thank you so much.
I appreciate you more.
All right, man.
All right. I love you like a son.
What did you give him?
That was something personal. I don't
know if Kobe wants to share that or not.
-I don't want to-- -It was something that--
Okay, well, it was
something that meant a lot
to me, and I think it
meant a lot to Kobe.
And it was kind of like, "You're taking
over, you know, care of my daughter,"
and it meant a lot to me.
I hope it meant a lot to Kobe.
-Oh, respect. -Yeah.
Don't do that. Don't start crying.
Lisa, do you know what David gave Kobe?
-I do. -Okay.
-And you know Emily? -Yeah.
Okay, so it'll be just
between the four of you guys.
We'll leave it at that.
Lisa and David, we want to thank you
for taking the time to speak with us today.
Please take care. You've been great.
-Thank you. -Thanks for having us.
-Bye. Love you. -Bye, guys. Have fun.
Emily and Kobe, we know you have
had some major obstacles parenting Kobe.
Let's hope things go more
smoothly when it comes to Scarlett.
We wish you both the best of luck.
-Thank you. -Thank you.
Okay. All right. Okay, guys.
Thank you so much. You don't
have to button it, 'cause I'm gonna go...
Yeah. Thank you, sir.
-Behind the scenes.
-Yeah, this is literally behind the scenes.
-Hi. -Hi.
-How are you? -What?
-Congratulations. -How are you?
-I'm a hand changer. He's a hugger.
-I'm a hugger.
He doesn't like being
touched, so I have to... I love it.
-I don't like being touched.
-You earned me five times eight months,
so you know what I mean? Love a hug.
Whenever you get
overwhelmed by having two such
little kids, I had four
under four by myself.
What? Four under four?
I had a four-year-old
and then I had triplets.
-You had triplets?
-Yes, my daughters are triplets.
This is my friend.
-I didn't know they were triplets.
-Oh, my gosh.
Yeah, I get overwhelmed.
You're letting Kobe
now do some sh*t, right?
Yeah, yeah, now.
So we've been around the block a
couple of times and done a few tell-alls.
I know it's your first tell-all.
Is it what you expect there?
Well, you know, I was
waiting for b*ll*ts to fly my way.
And I don't think anyone wants to
attack me because I feel like I got some...
-It's not over yet. -It's not over yet.
She's a new mommy, so a lot of
people might be feeling like Tracy.
But give us a T, though.
Who got under your skin?
Who got under my skin?
I feel like Jabri didn't make any sense.
Like, why did he attack John?
He was going after John.
The moment he came out, he's like, "You're
an alcoholic. You're wasted right now.
" I'm like, "OK, shut up, for
one. It's getting too intense.
" Who did you
connect with today?
I don't know. I feel
like, you know, Kara
and Thaïs, like, they're
both pregnant, too.
So I feel like, oh, my gosh,
we have that connection.
Like, come to me for all the mom advice.
Who did you see that you
were, like, blown away by, like,
you don't look anything like
I thought you did from TV?
-Ari. -Ari.
-I did not know she was...
-She doesn't look the same.
I didn't know she was so tiny.
-Yeah, she's little. -She's so tiny.
So is Binion, too. He's small, too.
All right, guys, back over to the studio.
They gotta go.
We're gonna get her in trouble.
-They're calling, so we've got to wait.
-OK.
-This is for me, and this is from Thaïs.
-Oh, I love it.
And I'm gonna pound it.
Pound it. All right.
-Pound it. OK. -Bye.
Yes.
We are back with "90 Day
Fiancé," the couple's tell-all.
All right, I want to dive
back in with Ari and Benny.
OK, let's talk about your journey and
some of the comments people have made
about what they have seen
going on in your marriage.
Now, Ari, you received a lot
of criticism on social media.
That's not news, right?
-Yeah. -That's definitely not news.
But you received a lot of
criticism on social media
for your reaction to
having to support yourself.
Here's one tweet that I'd
like for you to respond to.
"I also need someone to
explain how does Ari or Emily
dictate anything when neither
of them earns any money?
Here's an idea. Ari,
stop worrying about the
four hours Benny plans
to train. He can't work.
And figure out how to find yourself
" Ouch. OK. What do you say?
-Sick burn. -Yeah.
I mean, it's not like I'm sitting
on my butt doing nothing.
I did find a job, and, you know, I do
take care of Avi, and I do a lot of things.
But, yeah, I do understand, like,
some of the, maybe, resentment
towards me because people feel like, "Oh,
I'm privileged and I never had to work.
" But I do appreciate what I
have, and I'm very grateful for it.
But I do get, like, the outside
perspective of, like, you know,
"Oh, I'm 30 and, you know,
not working," whatever.
But I, at the same time,
like, I wouldn't say, like,
if I'm looking at someone
else, like, I wouldn't say to Emily,
"Oh, she doesn't do anything,
you know, she works really hard
with her kids," and so...
Two of the most important
people in Biniam's family
are his sisters, Mimi and Wish.
They have always had a
difficult relationship with Ari,
and the bad blood reached a
whole new level when Ari and Biniam
revealed that they were
officially leaving Ethiopia with Avi.
Let's rewatch that intense moment.
I'm happy that I'm not
going to see you guys
anymore, and you know
what? I didn't marry...
I'm not going to marry you guys.
I'm marrying Biniam.
Oh, you... Uh... Uh, it's crazy.
Oh, that burns. Jeez.
Oh, dear.
Oh, my God, I've never gotten
alcohol for the right case before.
That's a new experience.
All right, Ariella and Beniam, thank you
for your openness and your honesty today.
We are excited to see what
happens in the future for you.
All right, well, we've come
to the end of this tell-all.
It has been emotional with
difficult conversations and
surprising revelations, but we
appreciate you opening up for us,
and we wish you nothing
but the very best in the future.
Have a good night.
Let's clear you out, please.
Thank you, guys.
Thank you, everybody. Great job.
Thank you, Sean.
We made it part of another
awesome tell-all, man.
Absolutely.
I'm so happy we were a part of it.
Yeah, dude. This tell-all had it all.
Kenny, tears, drama, and more
pregnancies than I can count.
Babies, babies, babies. Yes.
Sean did amazing again.
She always performs.
Congratulations, Sean.
She always performs.
She always brings it. Love it.
Yeah, man.
That's a wrap for 90 Day Season 9.
Can you believe it? That's a lot.
We're getting double digits with 90
Day Fiance, dude. Can you believe that?
This season is not disappointing.
We laughed, we cried.
We saw Benny choke somebody out. Yep.
You know, I actually really
enjoyed talking to the cast today.
And I got to say, John was my favorite.
I like him. Yeah, he keeps it real.
I loved watching this with you, man.
We got to do it again, bro.
We do. It was a lot of fun.
So much fun, man.
Great hanging with you.
I have got to call Armando
and fill him in on all
this crap, though, because
there was a lot going on.
I guess I'll give you
back to your real husband.
You were my play husband for a day.
I mean, anything is
fair and it's all right.
I mean, it's all a fair game.
We've all put our lives out there to be
scrutinized and to have people talk about it.
And I'm a big girl.
You know, I can take it.
I mean, I'm glad we came when
we did it, but I'm so glad to be leaving.
Yeah, me too.
Trevree was a as*h*le.
I mean, I was like, "Why
is this guy so aggressive?
Why is he so crazy?
" It's just--it's, like, overwhelming
to deal with someone like that.
And then I really thought
I was f*cked up when
Trevree said that our
relationship was not gonna last
because we've been
together three and a half years.
I guess it's early on in the relationship,
but, I mean, we really,
really love each other.
This was a long day.
Yeah, I spoke my truth.
Benny and Ari are very toxic.
Bilal and Sheeda are also toxic.
And I think Neon and
I have a lot to work on,
but after seeing most
of the couples today,
I realized we don't have as much
as I thought we had to work on.
I need to work on my temper and my patience
and make sure that I'm sending
love and light to everybody
rather than always just
trying to fight everybody.
You ready, Mimi?
We coming right now, my man.
This is New York. This ain't South Dakota.
They gonna leave our house.
This is New York.
All right, you wear the fancy sunglasses.
The hardest part of the day was
hashing out things again with John
and, you know, kind of like
seeing how my fairy tale of everyone
getting along and living
together kind of didn't come true.
It's a tough situation to be in.
Like, I'm definitely stuck
in the middle of two people
I care about, and I think
I'm doing the best I can.
We got a whole life to figure out.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Thank you.
At times it was a hard process.
Mohammed kind of got a little heated.
Today was an unexpected day.
It was so hard.
To be open is not something easy.
I'm trying to understand
more, and I think we know
each other better now,
and that's something good.
Yay, babe!
Oh my God, I'm so tired.
I just wanted to say I don't think it was
fair that Jabri said you guys won't last.
I think you guys will for sure last.
Aww.
And I see love in chemistry,
and I felt really bad.
I'm sorry that I didn't say
anything in the moment.
I regret that.
I regret not standing up and being like...
Every relationship has ups and downs, and
it's so sad that somebody not in your shoe
is predicting what your
relationship is going to look like.
But I mean, you guys are the ones in need,
and you definitely know it's going to work.
You're mature enough. You're not a baby.
I mean, I don't care what people say
about us, but I know we're doing good.
I was kind of shocked that Jabri said
that Bilal and Shaita would not work out.
You know, everyone has an opinion,
but I thought that was a
little mean, a little personal.
But anyways, we do wish you all the best,
and we're so close,
we have to get together.
Of course. I appreciate it, man.
Seriously. Hello, brother. Appreciate it.
In a couple months, we want to move out,
but we don't have a lot of
money right now to do so.
We have to be on our own.
We need to move out to get
some space for our relationship.
I mean, we got two kids right
now, so... You okay, man?
Oh, you know... I don't know. I feel like
here I am just thinking I'm this good guy,
but it seems like everybody
sees it different, you know.
Didn't feel good.
I do know Bilal is an amazing person.
Like, I will not travel all
this way, almost 3,000 miles,
to marry someone that I
think is not fit to be a husband.
These little things that
get into a relationship,
if we don't deal with
it now, it could fester.
And when I look at...after he had Shahidah,
it looked like they'd
never dealt with that,
and it probably reached a point where
she was like, "Oh, I can't take it anymore.
" So, no, I want us to not
make that same mistake.
That's all.
We identify what is the
problem, and we can work on it.
And listen, I'm willing
to work on it as your wife.
I'm here with you.
But if I stay silent, it could turn
out to be like your last marriage.
Um...you know, it's very, um...
Um...shocking, raw, um,
disappointing, saddening.
She chose to spend his time focused on...
starting other
relationships, engaging in
activity a married man
should not be engaging in.
I met a girl online.
She was very nice.
I thought we are friends.
I was speaking to this
woman for, I think, two months.
And then things started to get bigger.
Eve saw my phone, and she saw text
messages there, and that's how Eve knew.
I asked him if I could see his phone,
and when that happened,
I saw inappropriate things.
I saw pictures and calls,
and put the pieces together.
I wanted to make that right.
I texted this woman.
I told her, "I am a married man.
Please stop texting me anymore.
I know I did wrong.
All I can do now is say sorry to my wife,
and I promise her that
will never happen again.
" I don't love Eve, and
she doesn't deserve that.
I'm trying to fix it.
I'm appalled, and I'm shocked.
And honestly, I just don't know
what the future holds for us.
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