previously on
"90 day fiancé"...
hey! that's rude.
wow.
betsy.
what?
okay.
i think anny's expectations
are a little too high.
okay, wait. anny,
do you know he's, like...
poor?
do you feel like
he has more power over you
than you do over him?
baby...
joey: do you feel like
you're being used?
that doesn't make sense.
with the 90 days,
it's either now or never
that he notices her lack
of interest in what he's doing.
why are you being like this
right now?
it's too much.
i don't have time for this
you just don't care about it.
you already said you don't
care about the future.
oh, my god!
you're crazy!
stop what?
why you do this?
i want to say goodbye to you
'cause i got to go.
i'm not apologizing.
okay.
that's okay.
mike: my flight was leaving.
i had to go to the airport.
we're out of time.
i have to go.
i, you know...
it's unfortunate all this
happened
hours before i had to leave.
i'm sad.
the whole thing
made me feel sad.
i guess one thought in my head
was, "you know,
could this be the last time
i see her?"
i wanted natalie to go
to the airport with me
and say bye to me,
but i just felt like she was
acting childish in the car.
it was just...
it was a tough situation
to be in.
mm.
mm‐hmm.
unfortunately, we don't live
in a perfect world, do we?
no.
i need you to be serious
for a moment, natalie.
there's nothing we can do now.
i'm leaving.
just 'cause you're saying
this stuff right now
is not gonna change anything
right now.
you know that, right?
you need a taxi
or what?
blake:
tonight is my best friend,
everett's, birthday party,
and i'm headed to my mom's
apartment to pick up jasmin.
there's a pre‐party dinner
that everett
and a few of our friends
are gonna attend,
and then after that, we're gonna
head to this lounge/bar,
and that's where we'll meet
everybody else.
ready?
jasmin: yeah.
yeah.
my friends are kind of skeptical
about jasmin's intentions,
and i get defensive.
all the feelings that my friends
have about jasmin,
it's a little bit hard to hear,
but hopefully
as the time goes on,
i hope my friends and jasmin,
they do get along,
and they do find
some common ground.
why?
well, that's, like, the most
important part. like...
the pre‐party,
like, the dinner is, like,
the close friends
and family and everything.
that's even more important.
i guess that's cool.
get dinner first.
well, i'm already ready,
so...
jasmin knew what the plan was.
so, like, no,
i'm not super‐happy about it
because it's my best friend
and everybody's expecting us
to be there.
jasmin knows that my friends are
already skeptical about her,
so skipping this
pre‐party is not gonna help.
out.
'cause you wanted to spend
time before we went out,
even though it had to be
on everett's birthday.
we're already missing
half of it.
so i'd like to...
do you know
what you would like to get?
food, man.
green tea.
i'll have
the obama burger
and the paloma slushie
or something like that.
yeah,
can i have that, please?
a wine slushie.
what?
oh, my god.
oh, my god.
oh, please.
please.
damn, see, like, we're missing
the drinks already,
like, the whole
pre‐gaming thing.
sheesh.
what?
we're always gonna
spend time together.
we're gonna be
in the same house.
i just said, "we're going to,"
as in, like, future.
yeah, we're gonna be
in the same house,
so, like
you spend the most time
with me anyway.
uh‐oh.
woman: all right, so,
we got your rose paloma here.
oh, yeah. thank you.
no,
i'm not having one drink.
it's everett's birthday.
are you kidding me?
we're missing
the pre‐party stuff.
so, like, i'm not gonna be
the only one, like,
not drinking
while everybody else does.
it's
my best friend's birthday.
yeah,
but, still, i want to.
i just want one more,
please.
one more...
yes.
okay.
thank you.
thank you.
what?
i'm gonna get so‐o‐o drunk.
what was the point of this
if i'm just gonna go
by myself?
i should have just went by
myself in the beginning.
instead of saying, "oh, yeah,
we'll go here first,
and then we're gonna go
to the party."
like, is this,
like, your little pre‐plan
to make me not go ‐‐
say that you want
to spend time and come here
and then not go
to the party?
i should haven't
just done this.
this would be a total waste
if you didn't come.
it is a waste of time!
what...
you didn't have to cut
into my friend's birthday
and then be like,
"oh, i'm not gonna come."
i'm not forcing you to go.
i ain't forcing you to go.
if you don't want to go,
then you don't want to go.
that's...
you're supposed to...
no, stupid, you're supposed
to be there...
with me.
and already...
huh?
all right, go.
tania: yeah.
mm.
um...
hmm.
i need a break.
that's
let's get
this done.
i'm ready to find out
something. i'm ready.
michael's k‐1 visa got denied
here in nigeria,
so i'm gonna go see if i can get
something out of my embassy.
i'm really upset.
so, on our way back
from new york to connecticut,
me and tania got
into a heated conversation.
knock‐knock.
hey, baby.
i got you water
that's...
thank you.
nice and room temp.
yeah.
so, the astrology reading
we're having later ‐‐
we need the exact time
of your birth.
i'd have to call my mom.
yeah, go ahead and call her.
yeah.
tania: since i went
off the rails in the car,
i think syngin and i came to,
like, a good understanding.
now i want to start building
more of a strong foundation
to be able to go deeper in a
spiritual sense with each other.
hello, my mother.
good, listen,
i can't really talk long.
listen, are you sure
i was born at 3:00?
i came out of my mum's womb.
that's 2:40.
i set up an appointment
with an astrologist
who's gonna look at the universe
when syngin and i were both born
and see how the stars
and the planets align for us
and see how we are
in a relationship together.
okay. thank you so much,
and then i will ‐‐
i'll call you a bit later.
much love. chat later.
bye. bye.
okay.
some people, you know, think
that astrology
is either,
like, the devil work
or really
for really far‐out people,
but, i mean, everything
has energy.
like, we are energy beings,
and i was born at a certain time
for a certain reason.
daizy: oh, can you hear me?
yeah.
hello.
mm.
oh.
yep.
mm.
mm.
yeah.
we have been barbwiring
each other a couple of times.
yeah.
mm.
um,
i definitely feel that.
i wasn't always very big
into believing in past lives,
but our connection
is so vivid.
it's, like, i had to have met
you somewhere, you know?
um...i‐i...
i don't think it's...
i don't ‐‐
i don't think i have that
full soul mate feeling.
hmm.
than what are you
really feeling?
like, i don't know.
babe, i love you.
i love you so much.
and i just...
i don't know.
like, i've had that strong
connection with you
that i feel like we've been
together in the past in some ‐‐
i don't know how you could
have been...
for all i know, you could
have been my best friend.
you could have been my brother.
like...
like, our souls
have probably met.
but that deep sense of just
knowing that, like, your souls
are meant to be, i just...
i don't know if our souls
are, like, meant to be.
i know, like, i'm...
i feel that, like,
we're meant to be now,
and i feel like you're meant
to be, like,
the father of my children.
mm‐hmm.
i feel kind of good
'cause i feel like i,
like, said it.
it's something
you've been hiding away.
no, not even hiding.
it's something i've wanted
to tell you,
but i just knew
you'd get really hurt.
you wanted to tell me that
i'm not really your soul mate?
i don't know.
i love you. i love you so much.
and i feel like anything
i say will really hurt you,
and i just don't ever
want to
say it.
i don't know.
i feel like i've met
my soul mate.
like, i feel like
my first love was my soul mate.
and i feel like ‐‐
but i was okay leaving him
and just knowing, like,
we're not meant
to be together in this time,
but it doesn't mean
i don't want to be with him,
i don't want to marry him.
so you felt more with him
than you feel for me?
no, it's not even that.
and that's why, like...
then what is it?
how do you predict him
your soul mate,
but me, you don't know.
i don't know.
it's just a thing
of knowing.
that's literally it.
just the thing of knowing...
you're still young
and dumb, as well.
no, i still know that now.
yeah.
thank you.
i think my version
of soul mates is just knowing
that your souls are
gonna end up intertwining
when they're meant
to intertwine, and...
yeah. i'm not...
okay, so, maybe that's not
a good example.
that's
i need a break.
yeah.
okay, i'll let you process.
i'll let you process.
it's enough now.
yeah.
yeah.
baby.
do you want to ‐‐
can we talk?
you don't want to come
talk outside with me?
what do i say?
"i want to speak to someone
about my k‐1 visa"?
"i want to see an officer."
all right. well, let's get
this done.
i'm ready
to find out something.
i'm ready.
michael's k‐1 visa
got denied here in nigeria
at the united states embassy.
so while i'm here,
i might as well see
what i can get out
of my own embassy
and see a k‐1 visa officer.
okay.
how far is it, michael?
so fingers crossed.
i'm gonna go see if i can
get something out of my embassy.
i love you.
if i don't come back,
tell the grandkids i love them.
wish me luck.
okay, honey.
michael.
michael.
you're not standing there
waiting on me, michael.
i'm really upset.
they wouldn't let me in.
my own damn embassy.
yeah, i
i respectfully raised hell.
i went through
one guard...
yeah. then i went to the second
guard, and he said, "wait."
and a woman come out,
and then she tells me,
"what's the need?"
i said, "i'm here about a k‐1.
i am the petitioner."
she said, "well, i'm told,
at the gates,
you can't just come in
without an appointment."
i said,
"my government told me
i can come over here
and see the embassy."
i said...
and she walked off
and laughed
and said, "emergency?
a k‐1?"
i said, "well, to me,
it's an emergency."
i said, "i can't keep flying
back over here,
spending all this money
to talk to the embassy here
that denied my fiancé."
you know what i mean?
okay.
so she come back out, she said,
"there's no officers left,"
but she gave me
an e‐mail address
where i can set up
an appointment request.
i asked him twice,
"are you sure
if i'm the petitioner
and i go on this e‐mail
and tell y'all
i want to see an officer,
it's an emergency about my k‐1,
i'm the petitioner,
that i'll get to see him
because i'm only here
a few weeks?"
and he said, "yes."
so basically me and you got to
get on the computer tonight
and send
an appointment request.
it's my right as a petitioner
to look for more information
on what happened
in that interview.
i'm hoping my embassy
will take me seriously
and give me a response
so we can be together.
yeah.
that's my baby.
got my g*ns.
i would like
to see mama again.
i love mama.
you haven't told mama
and them...
that is our business.
your mom and them know
i'm not getting married
while i'm here,
right, baby?
okay.
i just pray michael's family
don't all g*ng up on me
and try to convince me
about the spousal visa
because we need to be focused
on this appointment request
for the k‐1 visa.
before we go,
is there anywhere to drink?
we have some hard times
coming up, you know.
i think it's better
if we get married asap.
do you feel
you complain a lot?
nobody's cheap.
she's like, "oh, gimme, gimme,
gimme, gimme, gimme, gimme."
emily: i love
the pacific northwest.
oh, yeah.
it smells so good.
i'm so glad i'm getting
married to a bodybuilder
for this exact reason.
be careful of the steps
at the bottom.
emily: so, i am originally
from portland, oregon,
but for the last two weeks,
we've been staying with
my sister betsy in indiana
until we figure out
where we're going to be living,
but it's not going
how i planned.
betsy and sasha
have been nonstop fighting.
yeah, is that
what you're going to eat?
yeah, usually i would eat
something more healthy, but...
this will be
your cheat meal.
my cheat meal?
yeah, this is not
exactly healthy.
okay.
for real, i am done
of this all.
you're just shaming her
for her weight gain.
that's what it is.
right now, i feel like
i'm in a prison.
i just think maybe it's time
we got out of here.
like, i don't want this
to be awkward.
emily: so, today, we are
on a quick visit to portland
to get away for a bit,
and i can't wait to show
sasha around my hometown.
it's just
so beautiful here.
yeah, i really love
this place and...
sasha:
such a beautiful place.
i never see so many roses.
portland's a really nice city.
it's really different place
than in south bend.
i really like it.
i want to live here. really.
really great place
for a family, and i hope...
raising kids.
yeah,
but it is one of the,
if not the, most expensive
suburb in portland.
emily: sasha seems pretty
relaxed right now.
he's happy
to be away from betsy.
but we have some
hard times coming up.
neither of us has a job.
plus, sasha can't work
while we are waiting
for the green card.
it's a lot on my mind.
it's just so calm
and peaceful here.
i wouldn't want to raise
my family anywhere else.
yeah,
i have a same opinion.
our savings
are quickly depleting.
i wish i can work, really.
i wish you could, too.
emily is worrying about money,
about finding job,
about taking care of baby.
i know it's not so easy
to get a job so fast,
but i know she's
a really intelligent girl,
and after we married,
i'll apply for a green card,
and i finally can start working,
i'm sure.
just need some time.
i think it's better
if we get married asap.
yeah, sure.
"yeah, sure"?
that's all you have to say
about us getting married ‐‐
"yeah, sure"?
excuse me?
i said, "i think it's
better if we get married asap."
"asap" means
"as soon as possible."
why you couldn't say it
just "as soon as possible"?
because...
people say "asap,"
and everyone...
i don't know.
what is this "asap"?
i thought you knew.
no.
you didn't teach ‐‐
you didn't teach me.
emily: you know, i'm just
like any normal girl.
i imagine the big,
beautiful wedding.
but i've never been
a planner.
it's obvious.
so i'm happy with
a small impromptu wedding.
we don't need
these fancy things.
for who? for who?
we're doing this for us
and for our family.
not for public.
i am ready
to get married asap.
now he knows what it means.
i guess i better start
looking for a dress.
yeah, sure.
"yeah, sure"?
‐whoo!
‐how you doing?
‐good.
‐how you doing?
hi.
robert: tonight, me, anny,
and my sister robin,
we're gonna meet
my brother kenny.
kenny knows about anny,
but he never met her before.
and i hope
that kenny likes anny
because he's concerned
that anny might come over here
just to use me
and do me dirty.
so, anny, you're about
to meet my big brother.
me and kenny, we didn't
grow up like me and robin did.
we got the same dad, but we
didn't grow up with kenny
'cause they was
on the move.
yeah, no, we brothers.
thank you.
it was nice meeting you.
‐nice to meet you.
‐i'll rate you five stars.
mm, mm, mm, mm, mm, mm.
yes.
hi, brother.
‐what's good, baby?
how are you?
how you doing?
robert: hello, kenny.
what up, baby?
what's going on?
anny, kenny. kenny, anny.
hi.
how you been?
sit down, baby.
i'm very happy that kenny came
out here to meet anny tonight.
it's a good vibe, a good feel.
the family can become one.
isalud!
yep, and a new beginning.
robin:
i love all three of y'all.
my brothers and my sister.
i don't know.
i'm trying to see.
i hope so.
my feelings is different
than yours.
i don't know that.
anny: why do you say that?
i'm telling you.
i don't know that.
he's been through
a lot, though,
so i want to make sure
he's happy.
you got to get a chance
to know her first
before you judge her.
all right.
kenny: well, when she first
walked through the door,
she's very attractive
and everything.
she's my brother's speed.
i like that.
but my brother...
man
being with him and seeing him
with different women,
it was kind of crazy
'cause it was all about them.
robert has been hurt
in the past,
and i really don't want
to see it again.
i'm the older brother.
i have to be protective.
you have kids?
no.
bryson is her kid.
so, how ‐‐ huh?
bryson is her kid.
you can handle him?
okay.
bryson loves the
out of her.
i mean, he speaks about her,
but if things get hectic,
she walk away...
robert:
she talking to you.
you gonna be disrespectful
like that?
i mean, hey.
i don't know yet.
yeah...
robin: go to it.
i don't know.
i'm just meeting you
for the first time,
and you guys are talking
about a wedding, so...
i understand that.
i understand that.
hell no.
what do you mean, "cheap"?
i'm not cheap.
nobody's cheap.
why am
i being called "cheap"?
cheap is
a person who has a lot
and don't want to give at all.
i do as much as i can,
so i don't think
that's being cheap.
what you think about it?
a thrift store.
yeah, but do you expect
everything all in one take?
rome wasn't built in one day.
no, it wasn't.
see?
i'm glad you reasoning with me
because she...
she's like, "oh, gimme, gimme,
gimme, gimme, gimme, gimme."
like ms. pac‐man.
mah‐mah‐mah‐mah‐mah!
so it's like, yo,
you're not giving me time.
not to cut you off, do
you feel you complain a lot?
you want this.
it ain't that.
"i need to get this."
"i want this."
it all supposed to be done
in one day?
i'm looking out for bro.
he's been through a lot, man.
i'm sorry.
my brother digs
where i'm coming from.
kenny is feeling like
anny's more focused on herself
and it's all about anny.
yo, you know what?
i'm glad i brought you here.
'cause it's like...
how i lie?
i say, "yo."
i say, kids,"
and you forget.
i did.
she's gonna fry you
in spanish.
do you know
how many kids i have?
i have seven kids.
seven.
look, man...
we don't know
what you do.
thank you.
we don't know where
you've been in d. r.
you could have been
a streetwalker for all we know.
damn.
‐there he is.
‐there he is.
all right.
fantastic.
it's the day before my wedding.
it's been an extremely hectic
few weeks.
time is zipping by without us
even getting a chance
to catch our breath.
it's the indiana boys.
it is.
hoosier fest.
that's right.
hoosier fest?
michael #1: my brother
just arrived yesterday.
my dear friend clay from
indiana, whom i grew up with.
it means a lot that i've got
family and friends
who are here with me today.
matt: and everything's
going great so far?
there's no, like ‐‐
all the loose ends
seem to be coming together?
i think so.
yeah.
it's a little scary.
if it weren't for the timing
of the visa
and the fact that she's here,
we have 90 days.
we would have more patience,
and we would not necessarily
feel we need
to get married right now.
i feel like this is
a little more chill
and free‐flowing than ‐‐
wedding one was,
like, big, like, thing
with lots more hubbub,
whereas this as kind of,
"hey, we're doing
this thing in my backyard."
all right.
it's gonna be a good time.
bring it in.
and you're feeling great
about it, right?
you bet. i'm so happy
you guys could be here.
what are you feeling about
dad getting remarried?
i'm glad he is
'cause he'll be a lot happier
and i like juliana, so...
i'm kind of...not nervous.
i mean,
i'm just kind of nervous
about dad getting remarried.
not like anything about
juliana or dad.
'cause i don't ‐‐ like, people
might think it's weird.
i think it's a situation
that no one really has,
but it fits
with our family.
i'm glad she's here.
are you nervous
about the wedding?
nope.
i get to speak in it.
you do?
yeah.
when?
i have to speak.
after mom speaks.
what do you say?
you'll see.
cousy: yeah?
i'm so happy
that they were able to come
'cause i know
how hard it is for cousy.
she live in milan, and it's
a very expensive ticket.
and also, paula ‐‐
she did everything,
canceled jobs for me.
so it means everything to me
that they are here.
i'm making sure i don't
forget anything now.
i actually bought two tuxedos.
one was my aspirational tuxedo,
which if i was able
to lose enough weight,
i'd fit in it.
that didn't happen.
so my backup tuxedo,
i got fitted this week,
and it looks really good.
you need a taxi
or what?
let's go inside, then.
come on. help me find out
where i need to go.
i got a lot of emotions
going through me right now.
a lot of emotions.
yes.
fly all the way over here
to see her, and...
...now i have to leave.
now i'm sad, angry.
frustrated.
you asked her a simple question.
and i wasn't expecting
that response.
i don't know, dude.
that's all i got, dude.
i'll call you later,
and we'll talk.
i just need some time.
all right?
it's your attitude,
natalie.
you act like a little kid.
i feel like you don't
take things serious.
all right.
♪♪ this will be
my final teardrop ♪♪
♪♪ this will be
our curtain call ♪♪
♪♪ take this
as my last confession ♪♪
♪♪ this will be mine after all ♪♪
♪♪ this will be
my final teardrop ♪♪
♪♪ this will be
our curtain call ♪♪
♪♪ take this
as my last confession ♪♪
♪♪ this will be mine after all ♪♪
♪♪ after all ♪♪
we have this product, also.
so, michael springs on me,
"mama wants a microwave."
michael #2:
how much is it?
i only have 15,000.
and that's all i got.
what you want to do?
"oh, wow, why doesn't jasmin
want to come?"
now i got to hit up
another explanation
about why
you don't want to come.
we don't argue, so that makes me
more worried
about how things
are between her and i.
angela: what?
i'm putting on
my injection perfection.
for my botox. huh?
if you don't,
it don't work.
it is a process.
so, what are we doing today,
honey?
a what?
so you decided to get
the microwave after all.
michael #2:
angela: michael has mentioned
in the past
that his mom wants a microwave.
but i don't want to get in this
habit of every time i come,
the present gets bigger and
bigger and bigger and bigger.
this is not
"the price is right," okay?
slow your roll.
yes, we will.
i love...
but stop
adding on stuff.
and if you want your mama
to have gifts, you give them.
here, in nigeria...
that's it, michael.
i got things i got to get
for us started.
so i don't
even know what...
okay, never mind.
i really want her to have it.
i do.
sexy daddy.
oh, sexy papa.
okay.
man: yeah.
i thought we was going
to a store.
man #2: hello.
welcome to nigeria.
okay.
‐yeah.
oh?
no.
this kind of microwave
in america,
we buy
for, like, $50.
um...
did you just say "buy"...
michael.
so you tricked me
in here...
...to buy your aunt
something.
i cannot believe
you've done this.
let me break it
to you both.
i only have 15,000.
and that's all i got.
that's all i got.
my wife, you see...
that's all i got,
is 15,000,
so if you could be so kind
and show nigerian love for me
as an american going to be
a nigerian american.
i'm gonna be your sister
'cause i'm planning
on marrying him.
really?
thank you.
thank you.
i'll come back.
to my surprise,
i got a gift for...
and michael's got a gift
for his aunt...
that i paid for.
and i'm thinking, "did
he just do that, like, sneaky?"
but michael's mom wanted
a microwave for years.
so i hope this shows her
how much i love her
and it makes her life
a little bit easier.
thank you, oshay,
my brother.
thank you, my brother.
yeah.
and already...
huh?
all right, go.
yo.
where you at?
i'm gonna head over there.
bye.
what you want to do?
i don't know. i think
you should come with...
and not miss out on my friends
and make it seem like,
"oh, wow, why doesn't jasmin
want to come?"
now i got to hit up another
explanation about whatever,
why you don't want to come.
it's just a waste.
like, it makes no sense.
like, literally, we came here
just to have food,
and you tell me not to have
drinks, and then that's it.
what's the point of that?
yeah, so?
yeah,
you know how i am with it.
special occasions
or celebrations,
we celebrate,
and we drink.
the only reason why
i'm drinking with you
is because you wouldn't
let me drink
with the rest
of the group there.
you wanted to come here.
either way, if i was gonna
go to the pre‐game...
if i was gonna go to the
pre‐game, we were gonna drink.
that makes no sense.
so?
what?
you gonna go
to your sister's,
i'll call the uber or whatever,
which is a total waste.
it's coming.
there goes your...
car that you don't need.
bye. text me.
blake: we don't argue,
so this is new for me.
but jasmin isn't really making
an effort here,
so that makes me more worried
about how things
are between her and i.
and i only have, like, less than
a month to figure it out.
hey.
hey.
yeah.
jasmin:
everything is about blake.
and, like,
i need blake to show me
that i'm a priority in his life,
or, like, that's it.
like, i'm done
with just everything.
betsy:
oh, you look like an angel.
i think you've got
the right dress.
i hope
you have the right groom.
you don't have to be
a debbie downer
all the time, betsy.
you can be happy for me.
emily: so, we've just finished
our trip to portland,
and i'm really sad
to be back in south bend,
but we've decided
to move up the wedding
because we're running
out of money
and we have no other option.
until we get married,
sasha cannot work.
in two weeks, we're gonna fly
back out to portland
for a long weekend
and get married.
well, you know, we have only
so much in savings,
so we're not spending money
on an expensive venue,
flowers, whatever,
but i'm definitely
getting a dress.
wow.
oh wow.
oh, my goodness.
that's a lot of dresses.
well, hi. good afternoon,
and welcome to greta's.
i'm the bride.
i'm emily.
and how soon are you
gonna be married?
within the next two weeks.
oh, my gosh!
you're on a quick timetable.
yes.
well, we're used to that.
so let's go
around the corner,
and we'll select
some gowns, okay?
okay. sounds good.
wonderful. come on over.
i might not approve
of emily's marriage,
but she's pretty sure about
her decision to marry sasha,
so i'm here
to support her today
and help her find her
perfect wedding gown.
so, do you have
your venue chosen yet?
no.
no. okay.
but we are leaning towards
a beach wedding.
oh!
mm‐hmm.
going someplace exotic?
betsy: oregon.
oh.
yeah.
you'll need...
you'll need something
with long sleeves, then.
okay.
whatever wedding she has,
it's not gonna be
exceptionally fancy.
we don't have a lot of time
to plan intricate details,
so i think probably
something more casual
than what she's thinking,
but we'll have to see.
we always
let the bride choose.
when i was a little girl,
i'd always had
this childhood dream
of getting married
at the beach.
i wanted the beautiful
ocean backdrop.
i would look like a princess.
but that's not gonna happen.
and it doesn't need to happen
right now.
this is
really, really sexy,
and i'm just gonna
put it right over here.
that is
definitely sexy.
this isn't the wedding
that i had always dreamed of
as a child,
but it is what it is,
and what's important is
i'm marrying
the man
that i really love.
i'll just go ahead and...
put that in there.
oh, no.
uh, o‐kay.
yeah.
this is...
i...
now that i see it on me,
it is a lot more sparkle
than i've wanted.
this doesn't work
for the type of wedding
you're gonna have.
why don't you try one
that's a little more casual
than that?
greta: let's try...
let's try this one.
okay.
see what size that is.
va‐va‐voom. again.
here she comes.
oh, my god.
it's beautiful.
it has lace, but it's not
too, like, ostentatious.
and it's simple,
so i feel like
it could work for the beach.
i think you should try something
a little more carefree,
casual,
a little less formal.
i mean,
you don't have to be
a debbie downer
all the time, betsy.
you can be happy for me.
i am happy for you.
i'm just nervous.
obviously you're not.
i'm just nervous.
oh, the friction was intense.
i felt like it was
a little overwhelming.
and they were both so sweet,
so it was really odd to see
that much friction
that was transpiring.
just...
i think you've got
the right dress.
i hope you have
the right groom.
i do.
i can't keep my mouth
entirely closed
about my feelings
on this wedding.
emily doesn't always make
the most sound decisions,
and i just want to make sure
that this isn't a big mistake
marrying sasha.
are you gonna do a veil?
can we get her a veil?
oh, i would love to get her
a veil and a headpiece.
that'd be awesome.
these are real pearls
in here.
oh!
wow.
look at that.
turn towards me.
oh, are you crying?
no.
i'm not.
the veil
made it feel more real.
yeah.
oh, it feels real
to me, too.
greta: aww.
betsy: it was really
a magical moment for her
to put that veil on
because she transformed.
you could tell in the way
she was holding herself,
she really felt like a bride.
and she looked ‐‐
she looked stunning.
you're not really
a virgin bride, though.
'cause...
now you made it fall down.
okay.
i'm really surprised my sister's
crying right now,
especially since she's
kind of been against this
from the beginning,
but i'm happy.
it's nice to feel supported,
especially in this moment.
you're getting married.
okay.
it's just too early
to tell right now, dude.
mike: i just got back home
from ukraine.
i went to ukraine
to see natalie.
things didn't go the way
i wanted, you know?
not at all,
especially towards the end.
just feeling down,
depressed, sad.
if i could turn my brain off,
it'd probably be nice
not to think
about it for a little bit,
but it's gonna be there
for a little while.
i'll probably take a day
or something
and just kind of gather
my thoughts and stuff,
and then
i'll probably try calling
and reaching out to natalie
and seeing what her thoughts
are and stuff
and see where we stand.
uh
my status right now is unknown,
i guess. you know?
i got the ring, and...
i guess
not engaged right now.
beau!
just waking up.
first day back from ukraine.
just keep up tradition,
make some breakfast.
huh?
it was very interesting.
starvin' like marvin
or what?
you got to stay away
from that place, bro.
a withdrawal?
yeah.
the bank of mike?
yep.
except for the bank's
closed today. it's sunday.
uh...
there was some frustration.
we had a couple little
arguments and stuff
and one big argument,
and...
it was just...
there was
really good times.
it was really nice,
and it just, you know...
frustration level set in, like,
real quick, i think, and...
i don't know.
i'm just not fully ready
to talk about it yet,
but...
there were some frustrating
parts, for sure.
oh.
it's just fresh.
you know what i mean?
it just ‐‐
it, like, just happened.
so i just need
to have some reflection time
and just gather
my own thoughts.
i support you.
i appreciate that,
but, i mean,
i'm just going through
some personal hard times
right now.
i'm sure i'll talk to you
more about it later.
i'm just, you know...
oh, yeah.
not exactly, buddy.
not exactly.
mm‐hmm.
well, damn, bro.
i'm trying, dude.
yeah.
i don't know if it's really
gonna matter anymore, buddy.
yeah.
yeah.
the way things are going
and looking right now,
it's not looking good.
it's not headed in
the direction anymore.
mm.
pray.
yep.
it's just too early
to tell right now, dude.
it feels like
i just don't know anymore
at this point, you know?
oh, yeah.
angela: this is really
michael and i's business.
somebody get me the hell
out of here now.
juliana: i'm sad
that my family's not here,
but i'm not gonna
let it ruin my day.
i'm marrying the man i love,
and i'm trying to focus on
in that.
and today's about me and him.
you look so pretty.
when i was young, i had no idea
how my wedding
was gonna look like.
i just knew that i needed
a princess dress.
no matter what.
i'm, like, freaking out.
i hope michael cry when he see
my dress for the first time.
ooh!
so...
okay.
go which way, michael?
this way?
okay.
i really like going to see
michael's family.
i really like them,
especially...
i just want to sit down
and have dinner and laugh
and get to know
my family better.
hi! hey, mama!
angela!
‐angela.
‐hello!
woman: how are you?
how are you?
man: hello.
angela:
i'm tired of seeing you
have to wait on michael
hand and foot,
so when you cook food,
you don't have to heat up
his food no more.
michael can get off his butt.
this is a microwave.
man:
okay.
yeah, it's okay.
‐yay!
‐hey!
okay.
uh...
okay.
thank you.
i don't even cook at my house.
i don't even eat nigerian food.
and you want me to cook?
okay. sideways?
mm‐hmm.
oh, god.
well, i don't know...
ah!
what's that mean?
like, the newest?
okay, okay.
oh, lord!
i feel like
betty crocker here.
oh, i'm really out
of my zone.
okay!
i got plenty!
if it's not good,
say it's delicious.
i cooked this.
come to the table.
mama, i got botox.
that's to make my face
grow young,
instead of grow old.
woman: mm‐hmm.
oh!
you look younger.
it's working, then.
it's painful,
but it's worth it.
okay. that's okra?
mm.
michael got denied
in 20 minutes.
you cannot make a decision
in 20 minutes
of our relationship.
mm.
there's something going on.
i don't know.
and i'm trying
to get to the bottom of it.
yeah. okay.
my k‐1
is my only opportunity
for my family
to see the wedding
'cause i can't afford
to fly them all over here.
you see?
as soon as possible.
yes.
mm‐hmm.
to start his own family.
now you got your family talking
about the spousal visa.
this is really michael and i's
business and not theirs.
somebody get me the hell
out of here now.
is that what you want?
if it is, then...
conversation over.
oh, hell no.
you didn't say that.
now you pissed me off.
your a*s is grass.
next time on "90 day fiancé"...
can you make me a promise?
depends on what you want.
can you promise
to love my sister forever?
i will do my best.
what are your plans
after the wedding work‐wise?
i can do, like, social media
every now and then,
but, like, i don't want to,
like, go 9:00 to 5:00.
it takes two incomes
as a young couple
unless you're already marrying
a millionaire,
which my son is not.
one income does not suffice
in america.
how many ex‐wives officiate
their ex‐husband's wedding?
i mean, if they're throwing
around words like "classified,"
there's probably something
pretty serious out there.
why don't i write you a check
and buy you a plane ticket
back to
the dominican republic?
i didn't bring you here,
but i can send you there.
i'm just saying.
anna: the boys were pretty upset
when mursel left,
so i'm gonna let them
know what's going on.
i've got something important
to tell you.
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