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"90 day fiancé"...
angela: this is really
michael and i’s business.
somebody get me the hell
out of here ‐‐ now.
betsy:
you look like an angel.
i think you’ve got
the right dress.
i hope you have
the right groom.
you don’t have to be
a debbie downer
all the time, betsy.
you can be happy
for me.
she’s like, "oh, gimme, gimme,
gimme, gimme, gimme, gimme,
gimme!"
and i was sad, angry,
frustrated.
fly all the way over here
to see her and...
...now i have to leave, so...
i don’t think i have
that full soul mate feeling.
i don’t know.
i feel like my first love
was my soul mate.
that’s bull
syngin: i need a break.
i’m going to get so drunk.
ew.
i think
i’m going to go.
me too,
but it’s finished.
anna: he’s broken my heart,
and i’m not going to
go back from this.
i don’t think i can.
i think i stay here,
right?
♪ i feel myself falling ♪
♪ wind in my face ♪
♪ beauty, it breaks ♪
♪ a story in motion ♪
♪ out of control ♪
♪ future unfolds ♪
michael:
seeing juliana in her dress,
i really felt
we conquered together.
not just her finally
getting here on the fiancé visa
after everything
we went through,
but being so in love
through everything.
couldn’t be happier.
i love you.
you look amazing.
oh, my gosh, you’re ‐‐
you’re a princess.
you know, this is sort of
an unusual setup, right?
like how many ex‐wives
officiate
their ex‐husband’s
wedding, right?
juliana, the first time
i met you...
what she said to me was
that she loves my children,
like they are her own.
and at first i was like,
"yeah, okay, whatever."
but then the more that my kids
talked about her
and told me about her
and the more i thought
about the kind of woman
that i know michael
would choose,
i knew it was sincere.
i could go on and on,
but i know we all want
to eat and drink.
so, at this time,
maxwell said
that he would like
to give a few words.
‐hello.
‐hi.
‐hi.
‐hi, max.
i’m glad you could all
come here today.
and i’m really glad
that my dad and juliana
are finally getting,
like, married...
...’cause i love both of them.
i love my dad very much,
and juliana’s a great person.
as ‐‐ as a father,
i’m so proud of them.
i love them so much.
to have them participate
in the wedding,
just felt so lucky that
we’re moving on as a family
and we’re all in this together.
cece: it’s been a lot better
since she’s came here,
and i’m just really happy
that they’re getting married.
‐oh!
‐that’s sweet.
me.
me.
please repeat after me.
i, juliana...
i, juliana...
...take you michael...
...take you michael...
...to be my husband.
...to be my husband.
i, michael...
i, michael...
...take you juliana....
...take you juliana...
...to be my wife.
...to be my wife.
with this ring...
with this ring....
...i marry you.
...i marry you.
juliana...
juliana...
...with this ring...
...with this ring...
...i marry you.
...i marry you.
oh, that’s beautiful.
it is my absolute honor
and delight
to declare you wife...
and husband.
please kiss.
michael: we did it.
michael: wow.
we’re married.
we did it.
michael:
the 90 days is over.
i feel like we really ‐‐
we made it.
we persevered.
in a strange way ‐‐
in a strange way ‐‐
thank you.
i love you.
to officially start our party,
ladies and gentlemen,
coming out for their first dance
are the newlyweds.
come on down.
sarah: it was an honor
to officiate their wedding.
like, of course, i’m supposed
to be the bitter, resentful,
like, 42‐year‐old,
stay‐at‐home mom
whose husband got a newer,
better model.
you know?
but that’s not really
what it is.
and i’m saying this
with all honesty and sincerity.
my kids have never been happier,
and my kids have never felt
more secure in their lives
than how things are right now.
♪ every day i seem to take
another chance ♪
♪ telling you how
i really feel ♪
michael:
i don’t know how to say it.
it feels like,
wouldn’t change a thing.
it’s what i’ve been
looking forward to
since i realized
i wanted to marry her.
it was more perfect
than i could’ve
imagined perfect being.
♪ your love is a risk ♪
♪ one that i want to take ♪
♪ if you believe ♪
♪ in love... ♪
cece: juliana did my hair,
and it’s very good,
and max
doesn’t think that.
because it’s true.
me.
i just took a shower
and hairbrushed it.
♪ oh‐oh, oh‐oh‐ohhh ♪
♪ your love is a risk ♪
♪ one that i want to take ♪
♪ with you ♪
i’m in nigeria to see
my fiancé, michael,
and we’re at dinner, having
a great time with the family.
but then, michael’s brother
yekini speaks up,
and i don’t like it.
damn.
i’m barn‐baited
by everybody at the table,
while michael sits there.
now you pissed me off.
‐come on.
‐well, then go find somebody
you want to be with.
talk about you’re alone?
whew!
i’m alone, too.
i have to take care of
all them people by myself.
that’s all part
of sacrifices, baby ‐‐
love.
that’s sacrifice, who we love.
well, then you really
don’t love me.
look what i sacrificed,
doing for us.
no.
it goes two ways, baby.
excuse me, y’all,
but this is true.
if we love each other,
nothing should separate us,
especially being lonely.
this is a disaster.
now, the night’s turned from fun
to, like, i’m ready to go home.
right.
no argument, right.
come together
with a plan.
but your brother and them
are over the family,
and if they want you to move on,
would you move on?
okay.
thank you.
thank you.
to all of you.
you know, hearing them talk
a little bit more, overall,
they reassured me that they do
want me to be with michael.
i think they just want
what’s best for both of us.
to hear michael’s family say
they want us together
and want us to get married,
it touches my heart.
i love family.
so in that respect,
i’m going to think about
the wedding in nigeria.
gonna open what every one
of y’all had to say.
but you.
you know, i came
on this trip thinking,
"i’m not getting married
here in nigeria."
but i’m going to give it
a chance and be open‐minded
and discuss the spousal visa.
ah!
i’m really sorry
about last night.
the boys were pretty upset
when mursel left,
so i’m going to let them
know what’s going on.
i’ve got something important
to tell you.
robert: today i’m taking anny
to the shoe store
to get some shoes
for the wedding.
last night was a disaster.
i was a little tipsy.
i know what i did was wrong.
i was out of line.
kenny was out of line.
anny got really upset,
and she just walked out.
it’s okay.
ooh.
my favorite color, too.
how they fit?
alright.
then go for it.
don’t worry about it.
mm‐hmm.
yeah, yeah, yeah.
i’ll tie your shoe.
i really like these shoes,
and i’m having
a good day with you.
i’m really sorry
about last night.
i know certain things
have been said,
i said things,
my brother said things,
and, um...
i just want to let you
know that i love you,
i care for you,
i respect you,
and i’m sorry
about last night.
i’ll never do that again
and talk to you like that.
i don’t want
to see you cry.
we’re not your enemy.
he’s probably like that
’cause he was going through
a bad relationship itself.
so those feelings,
he got mixed emotions
because of his past.
and i know
i said things,
but i’m not
a perfect person.
my eyes, my mind,
and my heart
is focused on you,
no one else.
i apologize
about last night.
i was out of line 110%.
my goal is to keep her happy.
so one team, one dream, and
that’s how i’m looking at it.
i learn every day.
we learn
each other every day,
and i want you
in my life.
alright.
but ‐‐
but why should
it matter?
what they see,
it don’t matter.
as long as i see it,
and that little boy
that you hug
and you kiss,
and he feel it, too,
that’s the only thing
that matters.
it’s us against
the world.
who cares?
what we trying
to do right now
is get some nice shoes,
plan our wedding,
and, um,
we go from there,
we work together.
so could you smile?
let’s just be happy.
you liked the shoes, right?
yes, i love.
alright,
let’s go get this.
go pay for the shoes.
one team, one dream.
give me a hug...
and a kiss.
i love you,
alright?
so here we are.
today, my friend tjaart
came down from philadelphia.
it is absolutely amazing
because i don’t really have
much friends.
he stayed in the same town
as me in south africa.
so he came to the u. s.
about three years ago.
it’s nice because i don’t really
have many friends in america,
so it’ll be good
to have him around.
now that we’re almost
on d‐day,
i’m stressed out.
around the corner, huh?
yeah.
wow.
it’s so crazy, man.
because i know
you’ve been married
almost, like,
three years
already now
in the states.
yeah, man.
it’s a very big
uphill climb.
it’s not easy.
and it’s been really tough
for me here in the states.
it’s difficult because we come
from different countries, man.
yes, it is exactly
like that.
two different worlds,
man.
like tania goes on
with her normal lifestyle,
but my life is
upside down right now.
it’s like,
"oh, my god."
and sometimes
they don’t realize that.
they don’t realize
how crazy it is for us.
i think
the most important thing
is for her to understand
what you are giving up.
yeah.
but if she stands by you,
it’s worth doing.
whatever quarrels
that you guys have,
you’ll sort it out
between yourself.
yeah.
and that actually
me up.
because i always, like ‐‐
i always presumed
that we were soul mates
and we were meant to be,
you know?
when she came and dropped
that b*mb on me,
it bombed me,
man.
just to hear that ‐‐
dude, just to hear it
in itself,
i’m, like, considering
going back
to south africa.
do you feel that tania
is your soul mate?
i feel that tania
is my soul mate, yeah.
if i look how destiny has run
its course, how we’ve met,
how she still chooses
to be with me,
chooses to be
with nobody else.
but do you think that she
still believes
that someone else
is her soul mate?
because if you’re
getting married to someone
and she still believes
someone else is her soul mate...
yeah, it’s stressful.
you giving everything up
for this lady.
yeah.
you’re giving your whole world
up for this person.
yeah.
are you sure that it’s ‐‐
are you sure
it’s the right decision?
yeah.
i’m just trying to
figure out and make sure
this is the right thing.
you’re getting married tomorrow,
what do you think?
i’m ready.
can you make me a promise?
it depends,
what do you want?
can you promise to love
my sister forever?
jasmin: last night,
i went to my sister’s.
i got a good night’s sleep,
and now i’m here today
at blake’s brother’s place
to talk about
what happened last night.
last night, i was feeling
a little annoyed.
i wish that blake understand
i’d rather spend time
with just me and him,
and not all the time
his friends and family around.
hey.
sit here.
yeah, everybody
was asking for you
at everett’s birthday.
they were asking
where you were.
yeah.
i don’t know.
yeah, of course, i drank.
i don’t know how much.
i don’t know,
i don’t keep count.
cool.
yeah.
so, what did you
and your sister talk about?
i just told her
i was annoyed.
i feel because the wedding
is so close,
that you should put
your priorities first.
like, you choose
your friends over me.
you should spend more time
with me.
if it was your sister
turning 30,
i’m sure you’d be there,
right?
yeah.
okay, so it’s the same thing.
with you not popping up,
it just made me look bad.
i don’t think
it’s a big deal.
it is to me.
you may not think it’s a big
deal, but it is for me.
but that doesn’t always
happen when we’re together.
every time
i have met them,
your friends have been
drinking, actually.
blake: when jasmine left to her
sister’s, i felt disappointed.
she knew that i wanted her
to go with me
to everett’s birthday,
and it kind of shows to me
and to my friends
that she’s not so much
trying to make a commitment
to start or to build
a friendship with them,
with people that are very close
to me, like family to me.
so it is disappointing.
i think they’re, you know,
a certain part of my life.
so...
like, what do you
feel about them?
they seem nice.
you don’t go out of your way
to hang out with them
or ask or anything.
why would i hang out
with them without you?
you’re working.
you’re doing music.
are you just trying to meet up
with her all the time or what?
i wish i could.
yeah, me too.
i don’t want to be like
my lifestyle
and your lifestyle,
we can’t do them together.
that’s never going
to work.
yeah.
you know that’s what we have
for these 90 days,
so it is kind of tough.
there really isn’t
much time left.
i know.
the wedding around the corner.
yeah.
i’m just trying to figure out
or make sure
this is the right thing.
i’m sorry
for walking out.
you know, i get it.
and that’s what happens,
and that’s what happened,
but i just don’t want it
to happen in the future.
that’s all i don’t want.
i get it.
okay, cool.
as long as we communicate
everything in the right way,
then we should be able
to figure it all out.
yeah.
yes.
yeah?
you can think so?
yeah.
good...
sasha, you cannot beat
that semi.
sasha, stop.
emily: we are back in oregon.
we just arrived in portland
this morning,
and now we are driving down
to the coast
to a cute, little
beachside house
that we rented for the weekend,
and tomorrow, sasha and i
get married.
how many times have
i told you ‐‐
if you get a speed ticket,
we are off.
tomorrow is
the happy day.
it better be.
yay, we’re here!
sasha drives like a maniac,
that i can attest to.
why do you drive
so crazy, sasha?
this isn’t moscow.
we’re okay.
we’re safe.
we’re in america.
look at him, he’s smiling.
‐he doesn’t know the pain
you put us through.
‐yeah.
come to me, my boy.
hi, honey!
we made it, we’re here!
sasha likes to speed.
he likes to whiz through cars
like we’re in moscow,
but we’re in oregon now,
where ‐‐
you almost ran over
someone, but, okay.
i want to see the ocean.
emily: whoa, h*, h*.
‐wow.
‐it’s so cute.
i still don’t really think that
this wedding is a great idea,
but i’m here,
i’m supporting my sister,
and i am open to sasha
earning my trust,
but history has a point
of repeating itself.
so we’ll see if he’s willing
to stick around
and if he’s in it
for the long haul.
emily: oh, my god, sasha,
did you see this already?
we can walk down to the beach.
come here, my love.
your mood
is better here.
of course,
i’m at the beach.
betsy: everyone’s mood is
better at the beach.
hungry boy.
okay.
go feed him.
it’s a really nice place.
yeah.
so...
can you make me a promise?
it depends.
what do you want?
can you promise
to love my sister forever?
of course,
i promise to love her
if she will
not stop loving me.
you’ll love her forever?
yes.
you will do your best?
i will love her.
‐you will not leave her?
‐i will do my best.
i will not leave.
you will not cheat on her?
no.
i’m not the person
like that.
if she support me and ‐‐
i will do the same.
okay.
you promise?
yes, i promise.
that’s a promise.
tomorrow you’re making
that promise to her, okay?
of course.
okay.
yeah. sure.
we’re good.
let’s enjoy the beach.
i hope that sasha
proves me wrong
and that he’s a wonderful
husband and father.
i hope sasha’s a different guy
here in america
than he was in russia.
i hope this time he takes
his marriage seriously
and tries to make it work.
this is beautiful.
i can feel
this fresh air.
yeah.
it’s really
a nice place.
hi, betsy.
go for a swim.
right now?
yeah.
he was supposed to call me
an hour ago,
and he hasn’t called yet,
so i don’t know what’s going on.
this whole thing is just crazy.
why don’t i
write you a check
and buy you a plane ticket
back to
the dominican republic?
i didn’t bring you here,
but i can send you there.
he was supposed to call me
an hour ago,
and he hasn’t called yet,
so i don’t know what’s going on.
when mursel left...
to go back to turkey,
i was ‐‐
i was really heartbroken,
and he called me saying
that his parents said
that we could get married.
i was in disbelief,
and i just ‐‐
i guess in that moment, i was
so angry at him for leaving,
but...
...you know, i still love him.
i’m just texting him,
saying what’s going on...
...and why haven’t you called?
it doesn’t really happen often,
but he may be able to come back
on the same k‐1 visa.
i can’t believe that we’re even
getting an opportunity
for this interview.
this whole thing is just crazy.
no, it’s him.
let me see
what he’s saying.
tsk.
hey, mursel.
you got your visa?
okay. good.
okay.
yes.
are you happy?
so, when are you
coming to america?
two days?
that’s it?
oh!
do you have a ticket?
good.
oh, my gosh.
alright.
bye.
i love you, too.
bye.
oh, god.
okay.
okay.
so mursel just found out
that he is getting
the visa reissued,
but there’s a race for time.
we’ve got to get married
before the visa expires,
which is in two days.
or everything that we’ve worked
for the past few months
was done for nothing.
i’ve got to let the boys
know we’re getting married.
my mom, my friends.
i’m nervous.
i don’t know how the boys
are going to react
to mursel coming back,
but i’m happy and excited
that we’re going to get
this, like, second chance.
i mean, if they’re throwing
around words like "classified,"
there’s probably something
pretty serious out there.
so, how have things been
with syngin?
it’s been up and down.
like, a couple of weeks ago,
we had a reading.
she was like, "is this
like a soul mate relationship?"
and syngin was like,
"yeah, i feel like it is."
i’m like, "i’ve never thought
of you as a soul mate."
how you doing?
good.
how can i help you?
here to see michele.
okay.
it’ll just be one second.
thank you.
since i’ve gotten back
from ukraine,
unfortunately me
and natalie’s not in,
you know, the best place.
i’ve tried calling her yesterday
and she didn’t answer.
so maybe she’s trying to gather
her thoughts and stuff.
hey. do you want to come on back
to my office?
but i’m gonna see my lawyer
today
because i needed
an outside opinion
and, you know, if me and natalie
don’t work out,
what do i have to do to proceed
or ‐‐ i mean i’m just trying
to see where i stand
and just ‐‐
i need more information.
alright.
so what can i help you with?
mike: i wanted to come
and sit down with you
and talk over my case
that’s going on
with my fiancée visa.
okay. has she done
the final interview yet?
yeah, she went in,
they took all of her stuff,
and said they’d get back
with her.
okay.
so have you received
any updates
regarding natalie’s immigration
approval for the visa?
no.
i was just in ukraine
for 10 days
and, you know,
just the embassy in kiev,
you know, try to get
some clarification and stuff.
but unfortunately, you know,
they pretty much told me
they can’t give me
any information.
right now,
it’s classified.
so since i’ve been back,
i’ve checked the website again
and it still says
the same thing.
so, i don’t know.
that’s ‐‐
i mean, i’m sorry.
i’m sure that’s not pleasant
for you.
and we kind of had
a fallout.
so just here to ask about
the visa and all that stuff.
like, would i still be held
responsible
if we ended up not getting back
together or anything?
is there a way
she can still come?
are you thinking of
canceling the request
for the fiancée visa?
i don’t know.
i mean...
what i can tell you is, is that,
yes, you can stop the process
on the k‐1 visa.
you just simply
do it in writing.
if you send the department
of homeland security, uscis,
a letter saying, "i am no longer
supporting this visa,"
that will put a stop
to it.
okay.
if you are gonna go
that route,
you want to make
absolutely sure
that you’re not gonna
patch things up
and want to continue
with it,
because if you change
your mind,
you’d have to start
from the beginning again.
okay.
yeah, i don’t know.
it’s just ‐‐ it was rough.
so i’m just ‐‐
it’s really early right now.
i mean, you know, i’m just
trying to figure stuff out.
yeah, you probably got
a lot of thinking to do
because, i mean,
at this point
if they’re throwing around words
like "classified,"
my guess would be
there’s probably something
pretty serious out there,
so i would say
you may want
to factor that into
your grand plan.
to a certain degree,
the status
that you’re in with the,
"hey, we’re not giving you
an answer yes
and we’re not telling you
no,"
is a benefit to you
right now
because it’s gonna give you
some time to think
what you want to do.
it’ll give you some time
if you want to try
and work it out with natalie
because essentially right now,
it’s just kind of in a limbo.
but the one thing
that i would advise is,
is that i would look
very carefully at this.
essentially something happened
to implode the relationship,
and i think
that’s something
that you should consider
carefully
because if this visa does get
approved and she comes here,
you’ve got 90 days
to essentially get married
and start the process
for her to get a green card.
and once she gets
a green card,
regardless of how
the relationship pans out,
you are
financially responsible
for her potentially
the rest of her life.
is it really ‐‐
no, i didn’t know that.
yeah.
making a decision to spend the
rest of your life with someone
based on 10‐day visits
and then having 90 days
to get married
when you’ve already
been made aware
that stress puts cracks
in the relationship,
it means he’s gonna be
risking a lot.
alright.
i think you’re absolutely right
on that part,
but yeah, it just seems like i
got some time to think about it.
so i think that’s what
i’m going to do
is just take your advice
and just kind of see
where i’m at,
where i stand right now
and see where this is gonna
go or not gonna go
and then...
continue on from there.
sounds like a good plan.
i’m not looking to make
any rash decisions right now.
i need to ‐‐ yeah.
i need to take in all this
information and process it.
hi.
hi.
you must be the bride.
hi, i’m tania.
hi, tania.
so nice to meet you.
nice to meet you.
i love syngin so much,
but i don’t know,
like, we just
can’t stop fighting,
but this wedding
is happening quicker
than i planned on it happening.
and so today, we are
going dress shopping.
i’m doing this with my mom, my
sister, and my best friends.
so we need to find you
a dress.
yes.
okay.
so let’s see what
you’re looking for.
alright.
yeah, so i’m looking not white.
i’m really looking for something
along the colors
of, like, black
or red or champagne.
i’m sure we’ll find you
something perfect.
awesome.
i’m so excited.
alright.
a part of me, like,
you always grow up
and you think of this
very princess vibe,
but i think i just like
pushing the norm.
i want whatever people
usually don’t get.
here you go, tania.
what do you think
of this one?
i love it.
i’m ready.
i’m ready.
alright, i’ll bring it in.
perfect.
it doesn’t surprise me
that she wants a black dress.
not at all.
her whole life
is nontraditional, and so yeah.
black, red, champagne.
it’s tania.
yeah, it’s definitely...
i don’t care for it.
i love the lace
and the color.
i don’t know if
the shape itself is like...
tania’s a nontraditional,
and i’m the very
more traditional,
so it’s hard for me
to give her
my opinions on what i like,
what i don’t like and stuff,
so i just keep that in mind
and i try to keep it neutral.
she’s gonna be beautiful,
and it’s her day.
whatever she wants.
can i see, like,
a white dress?
i know you don’t want white,
but just for fun or something.
i’d really rather not,
but...
yay!
oh, thank you.
thank you.
i want everyone’s opinions
of what they think
of me in my dress.
i kind of want to know,
but it’s hard
when people have different ideas
in their own head.
oh,
i do like that one.
this one
is so fairy‐tale.
i like this one a lot.
i like it.
yeah,
can we see the veil?
no,
don’t give me a veil.
don’t sell me more things.
i don’t want a veil.
stop.
yeah,
can we see the veil?
oh, my god. and with the hair
down, it looks beautiful.
i can’t. stop it.
let me take a picture.
can i just take one picture?
this is gorgeous.
rojana: it’s beautiful.
you look great.
it’s an off‐white,
technically.
it’s not a true white.
keep saying, "i look like a
bride." yes, you are a bride.
you’re gonna look
like a bride.
you need to look like a bride.
right.
so i don’t mind
being the pusher.
how have things been
with syngin lately?
um...things have been good,
up and down as well.
like, we had a reading done,
a birth chart reading,
and it was really
compatible and everything,
but she was like, "is this like
a soul mate relationship?"
and syngin was like,
"yeah, i feel like it is.
like, she came and she found me
and our souls met."
i’m like, "i’ve never thought
of you as a soul mate."
i was like, "i feel like
i’ve found a soul mate."
he was like, "who?"
and i was like, "my first love."
i was like i feel like i’m still
in a search
of, like,
what are soul mates even.
are you only allowed
to have one?
can you have multiple?
like, soul mates, i’ve only
known you for so long
that maybe i’ll get
that feeling later.
like...
but it was definitely rough.
it was definitely,
definitely rough.
he, like, took off,
we definitely didn’t talk,
didn’t even sleep
in the same bed.
i didn’t know you said
all those things to him.
i feel bad for him now.
marriage
is such a commitment.
you are committing
to him.
that’s what marriage is and
at the same time, you’re like,
"but you’re
not my soul mate."
that would crush somebody.
rojana: i’m sure it wasn’t said
that way, but ‐‐
no, it wasn’t said
that way at all.
it’s, like,
i’m committing to you.
but it’s the way
someone takes it.
doesn’t matter how you say it.
it’s how a person takes it.
she’s maybe
a little fearful
of just the whole idea
of getting married.
she probably still has this fear
in her of even being a bride,
which is why she’s so hesitant
with looking like a bride
and feeling
like a bride.
tiana: you don’t feel like you
should’ve had that type
of conversation,
though, before saying like,
"yes, let’s get married?"
i mean, yeah, we
probably should’ve had
that conversation before.
i agree. touché.
yeah, but would it have
changed anything?
like, i still love him.
i think he understands the
concept of what she was saying,
but it’s the way
she words thing ‐‐
comes off different
than what she had anticipated,
and i think his
emotional response to that ‐‐
i mean,
i would be crushed, too,
just for it
to be worded that way.
it’s like,
okay, i get it.
you’ve had other loves
in your life,
but that’s still
kind of hard to take.
no one gives you a guide
of when you get married,
like, how sure are you supposed
to be?
like,
no one tells you that.
so, it’s like ‐‐
your heart does.
no.
no guide tells you.
and my heart’s like,
"yeah, he is,"
but then my mind is like,
"but is he really?"
like, so it’s like...
so, you know,
it’s like what ‐‐
that’s why they call it
the leap of faith.
well, this definitely
doesn’t make me want
to get married
in this dress now.
all that juju
is on this dress.
can we try on
another one now?
true. that just kind of put a
damper, all that negativity.
blake:
it’s important that jasmin’s
parents get along with my mom.
well, jasmin, what are your
plans work‐wise, school‐wise?
i don’t know.
i don’t think i’m gonna work.
why don’t i
write you a check?
$15,000?
jasmin:
my parents are now arrived to
l. a., and i’m really excited.
they’re gonna be at the wedding,
and now we all get together
so they can meet blake’s mom.
i met jasmin’s parents when i
went to finland multiples times.
we hung out,
and i like them a lot.
it’s gonna be warm
today.
so it’s important that jasmin’s
parents get along with my mom
because it’s just like
in any other marriage,
the parents of the bride
and the groom
don’t get along,
that’s gonna be problems.
you know,
that’s a very big problem.
hello.
everybody’s here.
how are you?
nice seeing you, too.
hello.
this is my mom, kerline.
hello. mirja.
miriam?
mirja.
yeah.
nice to meet you.
nice to meet you.
hello.
how’s it going?
okay.
nice to meet you
as well.
how was
your guys’ trip?
long.
long?
location‐wise, i think
they’re all good
because i want to do it
around ‐‐ right before sunset.
so...
we decided to have
a simple ceremony
in a park
next to where i grew up,
and it has a lot of memories
and history there,
so we decided
to make it small, simple.
and i like
small weddings.
well, jasmin,
what are your plans
after the wedding
work‐wise, school‐wise?
i don’t know.
i don’t think i’m gonna work.
i have told you
that before.
like, i’m not into working
like that.
like, i can do like social media
every now and then,
but i don’t want
to go 9:00 to 5:00 job.
i just want to focus
on my inner peace
and just have
a good mind.
and he’s fine with that.
like,
he’s okay to work,
so that’s...
like, you know that.
we know that.
yeah.
in l. a., it takes two income
as a young couple
unless you’re already marrying
a millionaire,
which my son is not.
and, so i personally
don’t like it
because i wasn’t raised
that way.
what do you think
about that?
here, sometimes in america,
the situation can get tough.
one income does not suffice
everything,
so when ‐‐
so when it gets ‐‐
you know what i mean?
when it gets
kind of tough
or, god forbid, something
happens to blake, then what?
i can work if something happens
to him,
i have my education, as long
as i don’t need to do it,
i don’t want to, like,
work like that.
i’m not, like,
work‐oriented.
but things do happen,
right?
tomorrow’s not promised
to none of us.
what do you think
about that?
me?
yes.
this is something both of you
have to discuss.
jasmin:
i think it’s kind of rude to
ask, like, about the work
and, like, why are you
so interesting about what i do
and if i’m gonna work
or what?
my first priority
is not working.
i don’t think that’s, like,
the purpose in life
to be just working.
blake would be
the breadwinner.
right now, i think
we’re doing good
and blake is making
enough money for support us.
i hope that’s gonna be
the case in the future, too.
i just want him
to be financial secure.
we all do.
we all do.
he’s taken on a wife.
this is
a choice that he made,
and i want him to financially
support himself 100%.
yeah.
it is hard for me
providing for both of us,
so it does, you know,
rack my nerves a little bit,
but i’m just gonna do
whatever i have to do
to hustle and do whatever.
so, my mom knows
that’s how i am.
maybe she wants jasmine
to be the same way, too.
betsy: i’ve been pretty
skeptical of sasha.
emily: beautiful.
betsy: i hope that he’s
really committed
to trying his best this time.
emily:
four hours until we say i do.
are you ready
to get married?
oh, yeah.
sasha:
today is a really big day,
and last night
i couldn’t fall asleep.
i’m really excited,
but at the same time,
i’m sad because unfortunately
my family cannot be here,
same as my children,
and right now,
i want to speak with my mom
and my son, daniel.
it’s really sad i cannot see
my son really often.
but in the future,
when i get my green card,
i’ll do my best
to get visa for daniel,
for him to come to us,
to live with us
or just visiting,
whatever he wish.
do you like my dress?
yeah.
i know it’s not the color
palette you were going for,
but i didn’t have much time
to get anything,
so this is just something
i already had.
it’s fine with me.
i’m nervous getting ready.
i have my mom and sister
helping me,
and i’m trying my best
to remain calm,
but inside i’m freaking out
a little bit
because we’ve decided
to throw the wedding together
as quickly as possible
and to do everything
with no notice.
do you need anything?
i think
i can make that happen.
this isn’t a big wedding.
you know, we’re not
spending money on a cake.
we’re not spending money
on a reception.
it’s just me and my family and
a small ceremony on the beach.
whoo! almost took
out the window.
sasha.
what?
i have something
for you.
what is that?
orange juice?
mm‐hmm.
this is champagne
or what?
yeah, a little bit.
okay,
for this beautiful day.
is it plastic?
mm‐hmm.
sasha:
i’m happy that betsy could come.
yesterday, we talk a little bit
and we found a...compromise.
i feel better actually, and i
can see she is better, too.
it’s a girly thing.
what’s a girly thing?
this.
our drink?
drinks
don’t have a gender.
really?
really.
what about margarita?
that’s ‐‐
that has a gender
because
it’s a spanish word,
but men
can drink margaritas.
betsy:
i’ve been pretty skeptical of
sasha over the last few weeks,
but i’ve accepted that sasha’s
going to be my brother‐in‐law
and i want to give him a chance.
but there’s always gonna be
a little seed of doubt there
because his track record
isn’t great.
but i hope he means
what he says,
that he wants to be
with my sister forever,
and i hope that
he’s really committed
to trying his best this time.
what is
these flowers for?
hey! dup‐dup‐dup!
put those back!
that’s
for emily’s bouquet.
oh, we do the same
in russia.
my previous weddings was many
people in restaurant
with the music
and it was kind of expensive.
but this wedding,
this is totally different.
i don’t really need
the fancy wedding
because after two times divorce,
i think it’s enough.
i finally found the love
of my life
and i’m really happy right now.
alright, are you ready?
yeah.
are you gonna
wear a tie?
no.
no tie, okay.
you need to go.
sasha: oh, okay.
go.
here it is.
hey.
ta‐da.
karen: beautiful.
okay, is it sitting
where you want it to sit?
yep, exactly where.
how’s it look in front,
emily?
beautiful.
that’s a lot better.
that looks really,
really pretty.
i think for a last‐minute
wedding,
we did a really good job
on a tight timeline
and on a budget.
perfect.
we get rid of the boys.
mm‐hmm.
this looks good.
this looks really, really good.
yeah, we did it.
thank you, mom.
you’re welcome.
oh, my god.
it’s happening.
we’ve been through so much,
but now we’re finally here.
i’m about to walk out
and marry the love of my life.
first time i saw the ocean,
actually.
is it really?
yeah.
yeah, yeah. and now here you are
in oregon, huh?
it’s really good.
yeah, you couldn’t have
picked a better day.
take good care of her.
always.
hey, baby.
hi.
hi. i’m david.
should we join hands?
yes, please.
okay.
i don’t know
how to do it.
it’s an american wedding.
okay,
i’ll just follow you.
we have gathered here today
to celebrate
the marriage
of alexander and emily.
today your separate lives,
each with their own memories,
hopes, and trials
are merged into one,
for this as the meaning
of marriage.
do you, alexander, take emily
to be your wedded wife,
to love and to cherish,
for better and for worse,
forever and always?
yes.
okay.
do you, emily, take alexander
to be your wedded husband
from this day forward,
for better and for worse,
to love and to cherish,
forever and always?
yes, i do.
alexander,
will you take the ring
and place it
on the third finger?
i, by the authority vested in me
by the state of oregon,
pronounce you
husband and wife.
finally.
you may kiss your bride.
love you.
love you, too.
husband.
wife.
karen:
the wedding turned out perfect.
she looked beautiful.
i’m happy that she married
the person that makes her happy.
i’ve got a new son‐in‐law.
i wish him the best of luck
and hope that they’re happy
together for a long time.
we’ll see how it goes.
♪ suddenly we kissed
for the first time ♪
love you.
we’re husband and wife.
yes, finally,
we’re official married
and we can start our life
like a husband and wife and ‐‐
sasha can get a job.
yes, finally.
i’m waiting for this so much.
betsy: alright, come join
the party, whoo!
emily and sasha,
together forever.
oh, thank you.
yeah.
♪ until we fell in love ♪
you guys, it would really mean
the world to me
for you guys to be there
at the wedding.
joey: i think it’s a mistake
that he’s coming back,
considering that
he’s been gone for awhile.
what if i don’t?
i’ve got problems
with you already.
alright, come on.
come on, leo.
anna: mursel is coming back
to america.
his visa expires the same day
he lands in omaha.
so that means we’ve got to get
married as soon as possible.
so i’m gonna sit down
with the boys
and let them know
what’s going on.
so, how was band?
it was alright.
what did you guys
practice?
i guess stuff for the show,
i guess.
what are we doing here?
i’ve got something important
to tell you.
what?
leo: what, what?
mursel’s coming.
okay.
and, you know, i’m still hurt
with how things went,
but he got his visa reissued
and that never happens.
so i told him if he came back
this weekend
before the visa expired
that we would get married.
i know it’s last minute.
i’m fine with that.
like, i hope...
i don’t care.
...at least like another time to
spend time with him and stuff.
so you like mursel?
kind of.
that’s good.
gino: it’s pretty crazy
what happened.
when i heard that mursel
is coming back to america,
it felt ‐‐ i felt, like,
very surprised
and just very, like, happy,
because mursel’s very nice,
and i thought
he was just
gonna stay back in turkey
for the rest of his life.
i think my mom likes mursel
a lot
and i hope mursel is really
in love with my mom.
you don’t have anything
to say?
i just don’t care.
oh.
you expect everyone
to be excited about it.
no, you guys don’t have
to be excited.
do you
have to get married?
i want to get married.
why?
what do you mean, why?
why?
i still love him.
joey: i think it’s a mistake
that he’s coming back,
considering that
he’s been gone for awhile.
and now he’s gonna show up
and they have to get married
without any time
to think about it.
so is he good with his family
now or something?
i don’t know exactly. we didn’t
get into detail about it.
it’s just his sister,
but she was like evil, like ‐‐
what did she say?
she just says that,
"we don’t want you.
mind your own business."
did she mention anything
about us or ask ‐‐
did you talk about us
at all?
they know about you,
trust me.
it’s been really crazy
the past like 90 days.
i think it’ll be ‐‐ it’ll be
a lot different this time
’cause he knows
what to expect,
and, like, i think he was
really homesick, so...
alright.
what now?
pretty much he’s gonna get here
and then we’re gonna get married
pretty quickly after that
’cause we only have
until like midnight that day.
something small.
you guys, it would really mean
the world to me
for you guys
to be there at the wedding.
you’re my sons, and i
would really appreciate it.
i’ll come.
thank you, gino.
i will go, but i just
don’t want to be bored.
can you make it awesome?
yeah, i’ll make it awesome,
okay?
what if i don’t?
that’s your choice,
but i would really appreciate
you being there.
joey:
mursel says he loves my mom.
i don’t know if it’s true.
and i don’t know ‐‐ the way
he treats her sometimes
and how he reacts to things.
so i don’t really want to like
go to support her and mursel.
i think i might be busy, so i
don’t have to be here, right?
i would really appreciate
if you could be there for me.
not for mursel.
you don’t have to be there
for mursel.
be there for me,
your mother.
well, i don’t want to be there
if it’s with mursel.
joey’s opinion about mursel
coming back really upsets me
because i think by now
joey would...
at least, you know, he doesn’t
have to be happy about it,
but he doesn’t have
to be so against it.
so, ’cause i’m there for them
for everything in their lives
and the one thing that i want
them there for,
he doesn’t want to be there.
robert: today, me and anny
going out to brunch
with bryson’s grandparents,
ben and stephanie, to squash
all the problems.
anny really don’t care
for ben and stephanie.
the first impression
was horrible.
i don’t understand why you found
robert on the internet
and then all of a sudden
you’re here in america.
are you guys using
birth control right now?
so here we are to make peace.
and for the love of bryson,
anny’s giving it a chance.
‐hey, guys.
‐hey.
how are you doing?
fine and you?
how’s it going, robert?
going great.
how you doing?
how are you doing
again?
good, good.
that’s a pretty color
on you.
the shirt.
looks good on you.
looks good.
so,
how are you all doing?
we’re doing great.
good, good.
i know the last time
that we met,
we kind of came off
a little aggressive and hard.
i want to take this opportunity
to kind of clear the air
and just say, i’m sorry
about that time before.
thank you
for showing up today.
thank you.
do you understand
what he said?
yes.
okay.
alright, good, good.
how’s bryson doing?
bryson is great.
well, that’s good.
i’m glad to hear.
oh, really?
right.
well, you know, that makes me
really happy
that he feels that way,
but it also scares me
a little bit...
stephanie: yeah.
...that he’s getting
so attached to you.
i mean, is robert being able
to provide
everything that
you expected from him?
right.
is it hard not working?
so, the last time we talked,
robert,
we talked about
this relationship
kind of basically
being established
around being convenient.
everything’s convenient
for you,
maybe not so convenient
for you
because you’re away
from your family,
you’re away from home,
you’re surrounded by people
you don’t know here in america.
ben: they don’t seem to
really be in love,
and honestly nobody
really knows
what anny’s thinking
deep down inside, secretly.
stephanie: i’m very concerned
about bryson and his future.
it’s better to end it now
then to end in two years.
absolutely.
it seems like there’s
this semi‐underlying layer
of a money situation
that’s always going on.
i guess i don’t know really how
to put it into words, but...
it seems like...
i got a feeling that
because it is kind of
based around convenience,
why don’t i write you a check
and buy you a plane ticket
back
to the dominican republic?
i’m not crazy.
no, seriously.
why are you saying that?
just tell me
how much you want.
it seems like...
i got a feeling that
because it is kind of
based around convenience,
why don’t i write you a check
and buy you a plane ticket
back
to the dominican republic?
i’m not crazy.
no, seriously.
why are you saying that?
just tell me
how much you want.
stephanie: i know that robert
just doesn’t make a lot of money
and i wanted to give her
a legit out.
if she was miserable
and didn’t want to be here,
i would want somebody
to help me get back home
if i was stranded
in a foreign country.
there’s got to be
a price.
$15,000?
why would you even
do that?
i’ve got problems
with you already.
just so you know, anny, i’m just
trying to give you an out.
if it’s about money,
we can help you.
how many more days
until you leave?
you see what i’m saying?
she’s not leaving.
who says she’s leaving?
but who says she’s staying?
that’s between me and her
and no one else.
you still haven’t
gotten married.
how serious are you
if you’re not married?
i didn’t bring you in here,
but i can send you there.
i feel that ben and stephanie
was just being real
the purpose of this meeting
was to make peace
and if anny really wants
to go home, that’s up to me
and i’ll give her
the money to go home.
see, you’re taking it
offensively,
but it’s not meant
that way.
it’s coming from a love
of bryson.
if you’re trying to help, you
could have wrote that check
and say, "huh, put that
in bryson’s bank account.
huh, use that
for bryson’s school.
use this for bryson,
use that."
you’re giving her money
so she could get on a plane
and leave the country.
you can go
yourself.
you’re over here in america
to get a green card
so that you can have
a better life.
she’s in america
because i want her here.
she’s in america ’cause
she wants a green card.
no, no, no.
no, she’s not.
she’s here for me.
my responsibility
is to take care of anny.
she don’t need a checkbook
for a ticket.
she’s happy here with me
and my son.
and you know what?
you should tell her, thank you.
my son loves her,
and i love everything
that she do for my son.
you’re welcome
for the offer.
alright.
i feel like you’re taking this
the wrong way,
so i’m going to just leave it
out there.
if you are in a situation
that you want to leave,
i just want
to protect bryson
and give you the opportunity
to leave if you want to leave.
is she telling you
she wants to?
what if secretly she does?
she want to go home,
she shouldn’t have to
come to you guys.
she could tell me
that she’s unhappy.
we offered the money
out of love,
and i secretly think
they’re both ecstatic
that the money is there
in case she wants to leave.
he says that he can buy her
a ticket back,
but we all know
he can’t.
i am just happy the one thing
we got out of this
is that they know if they need
a way out, they can call us.
and something tells me,
sooner or later,
i’m gonna get that phone call
for that ticket.
i think so.
i think so.
next time on "90 day fiancé"...
i don’t have no friends
that’s gonna want
to pay this expensive trip.
it’s like
i’m happy for you,
but i’m very concerned
at the same time.
she made it clear,
like, "i’m not working."
so that
is not gonna last too long.
i know there was some talk about
getting a prenuptial agreement.
decided not to do it.
i have to protect max
and cece’s future.
why did you decide
not to get one?
do you love me or what?
right now,
i don’t know.
anna:
when a mursel lands,
we’ll only have six hours left
on this visa.
i’m nervous.
we’re in danger of missing
the deadline.
woman:
is there anyone here who objects
these two being married?
um...
i can’t do this
right now.
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