02x08 - My Everything

[bunniefuu]

Thank you for coming.

I mean, you don't have
to tell me twice.

Micah: previously, on
"welcome to plathville"...

Helena's beautiful.

We have great
chemistry together.

He's in a time in his life

Where women are trying
to get his attention.

If I were to date micah,

I'd have to make sure
that he was serious

About pursuing a relationship
with me and only me.

Here's to my single life.
I'm having fun being single.

I've had big dreams
of the guy I wanted,

And max has literally

Set all of those on fire
and built new ones.

We have massages
we can do here --

Olivia: how do you
think that sounds?

Yeah, I'm...

So do you do massages
on just people

Or do you do animals
or something?

Woman: [ laughs ]

I was curious, because
I had heard of people

That massaged, like, dogs
and horses and maybe even cats.

I don't know.

Barry: so, what have you and
the children been up to lately?

We were talking
the other day about joshua.

Oh, really?

I was thinking that it would
be good to go to the cemetery.

You know, all of us.
Yeah.

It's been 12 years
since he died,

And that was the hardest thing
I've ever had to walk through.

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♪♪♪♪

Moriah: hey, micah.
Yes?

Have you been wearing
my star anklet?

I don't wear your anklets,

Although I might, now
that you bring it up.

Oh, my god. I never
should have said that.

So today, we are going to
the river with some friends --

A friend of mine,
saralyn,

And a friend of hers, max.
A friend.

Not so much just
a friend, but...

I just can't wait to get
out on the water.

It's gonna be
such a good day.

[ Gasps ] I found it.
You found it?

Yeah, it's over there.
[ Laughs ]

Well, I have another one
of yours right here.

You're so weird.

What you up to?

Just packing us
some nutrients.

[ Crunching ]

Did you get enough for
all of us or just you?

I think there's enough
for all of us.

Just him. I know how he eats.

Micah: we'll share.

Our relationship
is going a lot better,

And I have never, ever been
more happy in my entire life.

So is it just
the three of us or...?

No, one of my friends is coming.
She should be here soon.

And like, I haven't seen
her in a long time.

Like eight, nine years ago,
or something.

But like, we just
recently started talking,

Sounds like fun.
How many girls do you talk to?

Don't ask me
that question.

Don't put him on
the spot like that.

No, I just have a lot
of friends, you know?

[ Knock on door ]

Oh, she's here.

Hey!
Micah: hey!

I haven't seen you
in so long.

I haven't seen you.
You look so different.

Oh, my god.
Good to see you.

Hey!
Micah: this is moriah.

This is her boyfriend, max.
Nice to meet you.

This is saralyn.
Yes.

Okay, well, are you
guys about ready?

Sarah lynn: okay, so
you're a model now.

Yeah, off and on.

Wow.

Micah has changed a whole lot.

I was not expecting
what I did end up seeing.

I feel like he's changed,
definitely for the better,

But micah and I are
just friends right now.

You know, we're just
catching up,

Getting to know each
other and seeing how

Our lives have both changed
in the last several years.

And you go to fsu?

Yes. Yeah.

I go to florida state.

Been there two years,
and having a good time.

I bet.

Well, especially being, like,
homeschooled and everything,

Like, going straight to
florida state, it was like --

I can't imagine
what that's like.

Yeah, I didn't --
you were homeschooled?

Like, we were raised
similar, I guess.

Really?

From what I know of
how you were raised,

We were more sheltered,
and stuff like that.

Yeah, I think that you
guys were a lot more strict,

But we were
a little similar

In like, the fact
that we were homeschooled,

Raised extremely christian,
you know, only wore skirts.

Christian music, like, only
thing we could listen to.

We weren't even allowed to
listen to christian music.

We weren't able to listen
to anything but classical.

Oh, okay. No.

I feel like that's good
for when you're young,

But there comes an age
when you have to,

Like, suddenly
adapt to the world.

You're not gonna stay your
parents' kid forever.

Yeah, no.
That's true.

I was just kind
of thrown into it.

Moriah, you were
gonna go to --

You were planning on
college last year, right?

Yeah.
Oh.

Last year, I was thinking a lot
about college, and I still am.

Honestly, just hearing her talk

About how great
it has been for her,

It really, really
makes me want to go,

But I know first
I have to graduate,

And I also want to
make sure, for certain,

That, like, what I would
go for is my passion.

And right now, my passion
has always been music.

I just realized that
this entire car

Is full of
homeschooled children.

Oh, is this it?
Yeah, this is it.

This looks so cool.

[ Splash ]

♪♪♪♪

Olivia:
want a gummy bear?

No.
Why?

That says "500
milligrams" on it.

That's dope, or something like
that, hidden in a gummy bear.

"We've got some dope,
man. It's good, man."

Do you even know
what dope is?

"We're getting
high, man."

Olivia:
ethan and I haven't taken
a trip together in a long time,

And the main reason why I'm here

Is to work on my
business rebrand.

Ethan and I have had a really
fun past couple of days.

I feel like now, maybe
we're a little bit closer.

Pop the trunk?
Yep.

[ Clicking ]

Joshua tree was romantic,
but it was romantic in a sense

Of like, kind of
exploring new things,

So I was definitely outside
of my comfort zone.

You really can't tell
me where we're going?

Nope.

[ Exhales deeply ]

So, I have a surprise for
olivia,

Something I've been
planning to do

To kind of gain insight
or knowledge

On how to be what
she needs me to be,

And help our relationship
continue to move forward.

I think you're
gonna like it.

I'm sure I will like
what you chose.

There's just that nervous,
nerve-wracking part before.

Kind of was doing a
little bit of research,

And I found this one lady --

Seemed to be, like,
a pretty credible source online.

It looked, like, real
professional and everything.

Triambika: what I do with
couples is I support them

to come into greater,
deeper intimacy

with themselves
and with one another.

I'm talking with the lady.

She gets into some
type of, like,

Awaking your inner
something or the other.

I didn't really understand
what she was talking about,

So I just kind of like,
let her talk.

i'll definitely be giving you
maybe, some sexy homework

to take home with you
and give you some great ideas

so that you can understand
one another better

and really be able
to focus on one another.

Okay, yeah. I like
the sexy homework part.

That sounds good.

When she said that after
that she was gonna give us

Some, like, sex homework
or sexy homework,

And I was like,
"alright, I'm in.

then I'll see you tomorrow.
You guys are gonna love it.

If that's what homework was,

I would be through
college already.

Is this, like,
some... Ahh...

Hoodoo something?
Voodoo?

It might be.

Really?

Honestly, olivia,
I don't really know.

I'm nervous.

Why are you nervous?
That makes me more nervous.

If you're nervous about
something you've planned --

What if you don't like it?
This is the unique steel fence.

Olivia:
ethan has gone out on a limb,

And it honestly kind of
gives me anxiety.

Do I feel like ethan
is knowledgeable enough

To pull off a surprise?

Yes.

Do I want that surprise
to happen to me? No.

"Fire garden metalworks."

Is this it?

I don't know. I don't
know where we're going.

Are we making
metal today?

This looks like something
you drive into

And you never
leave alive.

you planned this.

I think the concept
was good.

Uh-oh.
Someone's watching.

What are we doing?

If you're scared
and you planned this,

Then what am I
supposed to feel?

♪♪♪♪

What is this place?

Metalworks?

Ethan: olivia was
just quite nervous --

Didn't know what to expect,
didn't know where we were going

Or what we were doing.

It seems like something straight
out of an old horror movie.

I'm like, "I am on
the edge of my seat."

And also, I'm quickly
running out of time

To give her this
surprise that I have,

So I'm getting, like,
a little desperate,

But anything would
be better than here.

Hi, ethan, olivia.
Hi.

Nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you, too.

I'm triambika.

Okay.
Triambika.

Triambika, yes.
Triambika.

It's a sanskrit name,
okay.

And is in the tradition
of tantra.

♪♪♪♪

Okay.

Tantra's what we're here
to talk about.

Are you excited?

I have no clue what's happening.
Ethan planned all of this.

My first thought was,
"this is weird,"

Because I couldn't imagine ethan
booking something like that.

So it's a surprise?

Yeah.
Yeah.

Yeah.

♪♪♪♪

Micah: woo!

Sharing moments
like this with max --

Like, I wouldn't trade
anything for that.

We call it "partners in crime"
and "adventure buddies."

Ethan: there's, like, beds
out and under trees, and...

I mean, I guess you go from
a session straight to the bed.

You know, "here's your
homework, bang it out."

I was like, "man, I don't know
what I got myself into."

Mm-hmm.

♪♪♪♪

I'm triambika.

Triambika.
Triambika, yes.

Tantra's what we're here
to talk about.

I have no clue what's happening.
Ethan planned all of this.

So it's a surprise?
Yeah.

Yeah.
Yeah.

Ethan: I was poking around
on the internet

And I saw this link that said,

"15 Ways to surprise your spouse
and keep your spark alive,"

Which seemed to be everything
that I was looking for.

My aim is to support your love
to come even closer together,

A deeper intimacy
and more connection

And more understanding
of one another.

Okay.
Alrighty.

Alright, would you like
to walk around?

Sure.
Have a look?

Ethan: triambika.
Triambika.

It's a spiritual name
that was given to me

By a spiritual teacher.

Who calls themselves
"triambika?"

Her parents?
No.

That was not
her real name.

How do you know that's
not her real name?

Because she said
she made it up.

It was like, something "son of
a spirit of another spirit,"

That was given to her
in a flaming --

Well, I thought it was kind
of pretty. It was different.

I saved it on our baby name
list for our first kid.

The experience that
brought us together.

No, you did not.

Now I will.

[ Sighs ]

So, this is
the fire garden.

This is also where I work
with my clients.

Mm-hmm.

We're walking through these
little gardens or whatever,

And there's, like, beds
out and under trees, and...

I mean, I guess we go from a
session straight to the bed.

You know, "here's your
homework, bang it out."

And I was like, "man, I don't
know what I got myself into."

Well, would you like
to sit down?

Olivia: sure.

You guys can decide what
seat you'd like to be on.

Do you have to take your
shoes off or something?

Yeah, I think you should
take your shoes off,

Just so you can be comfortable.

Mnh-mnh.

Okay. Cool.

Olivia: ethan didn't want
to take his shoes off.

Did you think your
feet were gonna stink?

No, it was just like a ritual
thing that I didn't want to do.

It's not a ritual.

It was just, taking your shoes
off is a sign of respect.

Hmm.

So, tantra is an ancient path

That is about expansion
and liberation, alright?

So we're expanding our limited
ideas of who we think we are,

Of who our partner is,
so that we can feel more free,

So that we can be
more liberated.

Does that makes sense?

Yeah.
Yeah.

How is this sounding
to you so far, ethan?

Um.

I have no idea what
any of this is about.

I thought that it was
like a marriage...

What I thought was, it was
like teaching a couple

More about each other
and understanding,

Like, how a women
works and stuff.

I...

It was quite different
than what I expected.

My perspective on, like,
all the new-agey stuff,

Being in touch with your
inner -- inner something,

I don't know how to use that,
so it just doesn't relate.

What would make your
relationship so much

Even more awesome
than it already is?

Mmm...

Understanding how
a woman works?

Understanding how a woman works,

How she thinks,
what she might need?

Yeah.

Tell me more. What else?

I think the biggest
thing, for me, is

Enforcing boundaries.

For ethan to
enforce boundaries?

Mm-hmm.
Oh, okay.

So, let me see
if I understand --

If ethan were enforcing
boundaries in his life

And in the life that you
have together more,

That would have you feel --

Safer.
Safer.

Okay. Got it.

Some of my worst regrets,
like, that I have in my life --

That I did not stop
or stand up for you

When someone was saying
something about you.

That I should have said,

"No, you can't talk to
my wife like that."

And I didn't, because I
thought that if I was nice,

It would all go away,
and that's not true.

I just wish I had
a second chance,

Because I feel
like I don't.

[ Crying ]

♪♪♪♪

We can't change the past,
but what could happen

Is some healing and some
repair in the present, right?

You need to be able
to hear and understand

That he gets that there is
a time and a place to say "no,"

Or at least "let me check
in with my wife first."

Yeah.

[ Sniffles ]

Is this bringing up
some feelings?

♪♪♪♪

You okay?

[ Muffled sobs ]

Don't look at me.
[ Sniffles ]

Yeah.

Do you want to share
what's coming up for you?

No. Okay.

Olivia: not putting boundaries
down at the beginning

Of our relationship and
letting people walk on us

And not being in control
of what happens to me

Feels like standing
in the driveway...

...being humiliated.

You know, I
married your son

And I'm in your family
now, and I'm different,

And that has
to be okay.

Do you think that there might be

Some blind spots
that you're missing?

Character-type things

That may be occurring
that you don't see?

♪♪♪♪

And having ethan stand
there and say nothing.

♪♪♪♪

But in the last year,
ethan's grown a lot,

And he's trying to
learn what hurts me,

And that's why I know
that I should trust him.

But then also, ethan and I
having these new experiences

Is gonna be a key thing
to rebuilding that trust.

♪♪♪♪

♪♪ So let's go, let's smile ♪♪

♪♪ Kick off my shoes
and run awhile ♪♪

Today, micah, max, and
one of micah's friends,

Saralyn, and I
are going kayaking.

Max and I have gone
through a lot lately,

And so just this chill day
on the river will be nice.

Alright, here he goes.

[ Indistinct chatter ]

Moriah: oh.
Okay, he did it.

So, how did you pick,
like, your major?

I didn't know.
Like, my parents --

You know, we had no plans
to go to college.

Like, it just wasn't a thing,
especially for girls.

Like, it just wasn't --
we just didn't go.

Yeah, I get that.
So, and then,

I just decided to go,
and my dad was like,

"Well, you're not
going for business,

If you go to college."

I was like "okay, fine.
Engineering."

What, are you gonna go
to college to be a mom?

Like, I can't do that.
That doesn't make sense.

My parents' strictness
shouldn't have been

So much on what we
can and can't do,

Friends we can't and can't see,

And the focus should
have more been on, like,

Education and the things that
are going to get us somewhere.

So, I mean, but
I'm happy I did go.

Yeah.

My mom has since
then changed her mind

About it, and is
really happy.

Good. Good to hear
when parents come around.

Yeah.

Saralyn's mom was not supportive
of her going to college either,

And now that she's in college
and doing her own thing,

It seems to be okay,

So that does give me
a little bit of hope

With my dreams and my mom.

We watched you
almost k*ll yourself.

We're definitely
going on the swing.

I want a hug!
[ Screams ]

Micah: who wants
to go kayaking?

Saralyn: I do.

I'm not gonna lie,
I'm having fun

Out in the world right now,

Experiencing new things
and just living life.

Here we go. Drastic change.
Hey! No!

[ Laughing ]
we're going right!

There's just just a desire
in me to experience new things,

Get out of my comfort zone,
and live the best life I can.

That a gator,
right there?

It better not be.

Where?
Right over there.

Oh, my god!

Max, you want to
go jump on him?

[ Scoffs ] yeah, right.

He looks a little bit,
doesn't he?

There's another
one! Ahh!

[ Australian accent ] "oh,
my gosh. It's a gator."

Max: moriah has her
paddle upside-down.

I don't!

Saralyn: wait, there's
a right side to this.

Micah: yeah, you have it right.
Okay.

Alright, max,
we're racing right now.

Oh, sh**t.

Splashing me!

Hey, pal, that's all part of it.

Moriah: I want to go
skydiving really bad --

Like, just the feeling
of flying,

I've always wanted to
see what that feels like.

Micah: woo!

Was that fun?

Max: that is such
a long fall.

Ohh!

You did it!
I did it.

Just that few
seconds of falling,

Even though I was just like,

"Wait, the water should
be here about now" --

It's like, "is this what
skydiving feels like?"

Sharing moments like
this with max --

Like I wouldn't trade
anything for that.

We call it "partners in crime"
and "adventure buddies."

Everything that max and I
have been through lately

Has definitely made us stronger,

So though it's been,
like, super hard,

I don't regret it, you know?

♪♪♪♪

So I've been getting some dms
from a model agency in miami.

There's no telling
what could happen.

I have a little
surprise for you.

Okay.

Ethan just showed up with a
backpack and a little surprise.

♪♪♪♪

♪♪♪♪

Triambika: ethan, put
your hands on her thighs.

Oh, yeah. Let's do that.
Yeah. Yeah.

And then just scooch in a
little bit more, olivia.

You got to scooch
in a little more.

And now this would be
a really, really good time

To start off with
saying something that

You really, deeply appreciate
about your beloved.

I do really appreciate
your humor.

Oh, really?

I do appreciate
your humor.

You know how when you know
you're failing, and if you fail,

You know it's gonna be bad?

Triambika: okay, I'm gonna
give you a little hint --

Start to think about
who is she for you?

Everything.

♪♪♪♪

That's not good.
Why?

'Cause you have to be
somebody outside of me.

You're his everything.
That's pretty special.

Breathe that in.

[ Inhales deeply ]

♪♪♪♪

This is that moment
where you surrender

And you just receive that.

Good.

And keep breathing together.

[ Inhales deeply ]

[ Laughs ]

[ Sniffling ]

Wonderful. Wonderful.

There is a lot of love
that is young between them.

They're still
actually exploring,

"What does it really mean
to love someone deeply?"

And I think that there
is a place there

Where they're also
learning about themselves,

And learning to love
themselves in the process.

You guys are doing great.
How are you feeling?

How are you feeling?

Pretty good.
Yeah?

Thanks so much, guys.

Thank you.
it was wonderful.

Hey, honey.
What?

What? What do you
think it is?

What?

[ Laughs ]

Made of stone?

♪♪♪♪

♪♪♪♪

[ Cellphone ringing ]

So, I've been getting some dms
from a model agency in miami...

[ Cellphone ringing ]

...and all of the sudden,

I heard my phone ring,
and it was them.

This could be a
life-changer, right here.

[ Cellphone beeps ]

Hey!
Bridget: hi!

How are you?
good.

Nice to meet you.

Yeah.

I've really been studying
and paying attention

To agencies and stuff like that.

I've heard about select.

They're one of
the fastest-growing agencies

In the world,
and that's flattering,

That they're coming after me.

I'm so ready to
move on with modeling

And actually do something,
not just talk about it.

Wow. Well, I am so pumped.

I can be whatever I want,

And there's so many
different possibilities.

There's no telling
what could happen.

That would be awesome.

I can make that work, for sure.

Thank you so much
for reaching out to me.

Alright. Thanks, bridget.

Yes!

Wow.

♪♪♪♪

Olivia: you're gonna go
ahead and pick her up.

So you're gonna put your
legs around him --

Just like, pick her
up around her butt.

Yeah. And put your
legs around him.

Olivia: today, I'm sh**ting
with a new couple

On a beautiful california beach
for my business rebrand

As a destination, couples,
and wedding photographer.

Go ahead and take
a step over for me.

You're good, right there.

It is literally, like, the last
hour of my trip in california.

I still haven't given her
her surprise, her gift.

Even though she's working,
for some reason,

Everything about it
just felt right,

And I was absolutely confident

That this was the right place
and the right time to do it.

I felt like it was
gonna be perfect.

I'm gonna sh**t this
way as they come.

Okay. For one, I'm gonna
cross over behind them.

Okay. Alright!

When you're ready --
go nice and slow,

Just kick the water up
nice and high for me.

And you're good to go.

[ Camera shutter clicks ]

Olivia: go ahead and spin
her around, right there!

[ Camera shutter clicks ]

♪♪♪♪

That was perfect!
Yes!

Let's do that one more time.

Woman: nailed it.
You're getting a workout.

Olivia: just lean your
heads a little towards me.

Ethan: it was one of
the first times I really

Got to see her
kind of in her zone.

You can see it all over
her face, her body language,

That she really, really
loves what she does,

And I'm really excited
to surprise her

With this gift that I brought.

Woman: k*lled it.

Olivia: thank you guys so much.

My rebranding sh**t
turned out really good,

And I really enjoyed it.

It was really important to me

To work with people
I had never met before,

So that when a potential
client looks in,

They can see that even though
I have never met these people,

I'm able to connect with them.

I'm able to properly tell
their story, and I'm able

To make them feel comfortable
in front of a camera.

Hi, honey.

What do you have in there?
A surprise for you.

Okay.

[ Grunts ]

Ethan just showed up
with a backpack,

And I know something
is going on,

But I'm really
confused as to what,

Because he said "it's
just a little surprise."

♪♪♪♪

[ Zipping ]

♪♪♪♪

Ethan is slowly revealing his
surprise, and it's a picnic --

Like, I don't think
he's ever thrown a picnic

Like that for me before,
and it's really sweet.

This is a good surprise.
You like it?

Yeah.

Cheers to what?
Cheers to our future.

Okay, I'll drink
to that.

[ Laughing ] god.

At the beginning of our
trip, starting in l.a.,

I guess you could say there was
still some tension in the air.

And then now, at
the close of our trip,

It feels like we've
worked through a lot.

I feel like now, at
the end of our trip,

Maybe we're a lot
closer to being

In a healthy, happy place.

I think this is one swell way
to say "peace out, california."

I agree.

♪♪♪♪

I have something
for you.

What?

♪♪♪♪

♪♪♪♪

Moriah: it's coming up on 12
years that he died, right?

Micah: mm-hmm.

Micah:
today, moriah and I are going
over to my brother's grave.

We're going to spend some time
with my siblings and my parents.

♪♪♪♪

♪♪♪♪

At the time, most of
us were so little

That we couldn't
all say "joshua,"

So we called him "da-wa."

[ Birds chirp ]

Sometimes I wonder what
our family would be like

If he was still around.

I really miss him.

I wish ethan
were here.

Yeah.

It's been hard, but I'm
glad we've had each other

Through the whole time.

I feel like if
joshua were here,

He would kind of be,
like, your buddy.

Yeah, 'cause isaac
was always ethan's buddy.

Ethan and isaac have
always been close,

So I feel like joshua would
have been my best brother.

But I mean, I love
the brothers I have, so...

It's good to come back
and remember this.

I feel like joshua watches us
when we come back here.

I feel like he watches
me, a lot of times.

He's like, "oh, moriah,
why even? Why?"

But, um...

I think about him
all the time.

Hey, micah and
moriah are here.

There they are.
Look at that.

Today, we're visiting
joshua's grave,

Even though it's, you know,
really sad for everyone...

Hey, guys.

It's great that this is

Something that can
bring us together.

Nice to see you again.

Hey, moriah.

With micah and moriah going in

Their own separate
direction and us moving,

It's really nice just
to be able to come here

And joshua's kind of, you know,

Just a nice spot for
us to come back together.

Don't stand on him.
Sorry, I'm picky.

Barry: so, do you
ever have moments

Where you just think
back to that day?

Mm-hmm.

I remember everything.

Yeah, I remember me,
isaac, ethan and mommy

Were in the suburban,

And we were just going to
get another load of trees,


And she pulled forward
and we felt the bump.

I just remember
watching my mom panic

And her get out of the car.
[ Voice breaking ]

She pulled joshua
out from under it.

[ Crying ]

I didn't really know what
happened, at the time.

I was so little.

♪♪♪♪

Kim: after his death, I didn't
cope with the self-blame.

I pretty much just shut down,
and I relived that moment

Like a continual torment
for many months.

I really wanted to die.

I knew that as time went on,
little things might get fuzzy,

So I just kind of
wrote them all down.

"Ethan trained him
to keep his hat on.

Usually little guys keep a hat
on for two to three seconds,

Then pull it off.

Ethan would move his hand away
and say, "keep your hat on."

Eventually, he figured out
he better just keep it on.

He'd keep it on all day,
and if it ever fell off,

He'd pick it up
and put it back on."

Joshua's death -- I mean, that's
so big, so heavy, so traumatic.

But kim, in addition to
the pain I was feeling,

She's got the pain
and then she got the guilt.

It was at her hands, you know?

So I'm looking at her going,

"Oh, she's got -- she's
got a lot to deal with."

♪♪♪♪

I purposed in my heart...

I don't know why
I'm so emotional.

So, you know, when I saw
what happened and I saw kim,

I purposed in my heart
to never accuse her.

Of "what were you thinking?
How could you do that?"

I said...

[ Slapping thighs ]

I never wanted to go
into accusation mode...

And condemn her or, you know,
lay it heavy on her,

Because I knew she
was dealing with a lot.

♪♪♪♪

Moriah: I know my mom
probably had it the hardest,

For sure, but...

I think all of us, to some
extent, went into shutdown mode.

It wasn't just my mom.

♪♪♪♪

It's not like just one
person went through it.

We all kind of just
went through it together.

♪♪♪♪

Barry: so today,
we decided to come out

To the graveside
where joshua is buried

And just kind of
reminisce, visit.

Here, daddy.

Barry: oh, thank you.

Kim: mercy?
Mercy's got hers now.

Ducks were his thing,

When he was a year
and a half old,

And so we have
this little ritual,

You know,
to put ducks out.

Daddy put a
beard on his.

The bearded duck.

♪♪♪♪

Alright, little girls,
we're gonna head out here.

It was good to see you again.

It was good you could
take time out to be here.

Hug me. Bye.

See you, man.

Good to see you again.
Yep.

Micah: we all have differences,

But it's good to be able to
come together on one thing,

Because we went through
this as a family,

And to be able to
help each other

While we go through it
is -- it's important.

Bye, moriah! Bye, micah!
Bye.

Micah: bye, mercy.

Bye.

"He gave the sweetest hugs
and kisses and smiles.

He is forever in our hearts."

You don't have to go into
despair. There is hope.

We've made it through
such a tragedy.

Like, if god can get
us through this,

He can get us
through anything.

There's nothing too big
or too hard for him.

I would say to somebody
that is in the midst of it

And really struggling,
just hold on,

You'll reach the shore.
Just keep on rowing.

That's why I'm hopeful
with ethan, with olivia.

You know, there are
many chapters to come.

So, you guys ready?
I think so.

♪♪♪♪

♪♪♪♪

Olivia: this is a good surprise.
Ethan: you like it?

Yeah.

Cheers to what?

Cheers to our future.

Okay. I'll drink to that.

Olivia: at the beginning of
our trip, starting in l.a.,

I guess you could say there was
still some tension in the air,

And then now at
the close of our trip,

It feels like we've
worked through a lot.

I have something for you.

What?

[ Waves crash ]

I got this for you.

That's mine?

As a promise to give you the
wedding that you always wanted.

I know that the ring
that I gave you

On our first wedding, you
have bad associations with,

And I wanted to get you
something that you could wear

That would be
from me to you,

And that would be my way of
promising you that someday,

We will have the wedding
that you always wanted.

I haven't worn my original
engagement and wedding band

In a really long time,

Because his mom was involved
in that whole process,

And just it felt like
one of those things that

Every time I looked down,
I couldn't really move on

If I had a constant
reminder of her.

And we had talked about
someday replacing my rings

When we had a vow renewal,

But I never expected him to
get me a new set so quickly,

And it just kind of symbolizes,
like, a fresh start.

Aww.

Thank you.
You're welcome.

Do you like it?
I love it.

Damn, ethan, that's
a good surprise.

You're not the kind of person to
plan things and pull them off,

And so I was
genuinely shocked.

You are one smart man.

Cheers.

I basically got my dream
ring in my dream state.

You did, exactly.
That's what I wanted.

I completely underestimate
you sometimes.

I'll take that
as a compliment.

Whoa! I thought you
were gonna catch me.

We have -- we have
had some champagne, so...

I want to go in the ocean.

Let's go in the ocean.

You good?
Yep.

♪♪♪♪

♪♪♪♪

Moriah: next time on
"welcome to plathville"...

Music is definitely a passion.

I want to write and record
and release music.

Man: so this will
be from the top,

And we're just gonna try to
get that first verse down.

Today, I'm going to
record some songs

That I wrote in
a recording studio.

♪♪ You'll never learn to
dance in the rain ♪♪

Put on the fanciest
dress you can find.

So whatever I want. Let's go.

I just I have something very
special and very unique

Planned for this evening,

And I'm the only one
that knows about it.

[ Crunching ]

I wonder sometimes
if I'll still have

A relationship with my siblings.

Kim: hey.

That's kind of just
more fuel on the fire.

If it's gonna be a big deal

Over olivia saying goodbye
to the siblings with me,

Then I guess we'll probably
see them all when they're 18.

♪♪♪♪