02x10 - Get Me Out of Here!

[bunniefuu]

Did you picture five years ago
for you to be married?

Five years ago,
I was partying in college.

I didn't picture anything
other than blackness,

'cause I was unconscious
every day.

That sounds f*cking terrible.

I would have never dated
you in college.

[imitating buzzing alarm]

I have decided to go
in the direction of real estate.

If this doesn't work out,
what are you gonna do?

Come up with something
that you have as a backup plan

as well.

Oh, my gosh.

My friend Anita
has a daughter that has autism

and Tourette syndrome.

And you remember the link
I sent you on the device?

-Yeah -- Neupulse.
-Kind of, like,

deep brain stimulation,
but not invasive.

I think you should explore it.

You got that baby fever
going on.

I don't have baby fever.
I just want kids.

Colin's really moving up
the timeline here.

I actually have
a question for the doctor.

How your medications would work
when you're pregnant?

We're not talking
about this right now.

[tense music plays]

♪♪ Hey, mm, mm, mm, mm, mm ♪♪

♪♪ Mm, mm ♪♪

[Baylen] You're excited
to meet Dr. Flaherty?

[Colin] I am.
I'm really excited to meet her.

We're in Boston to meet

with my neurologist,
Dr. Flaherty.

She's been my regular doctor
ever since my parents

and I met her last year.

We usually do
virtual appointments

because Boston's
about nine hours away,

but I do wanna
see her in person,

because -- [short whimper] --
I have some serious concerns.

I have a nine inch p*nis.

-That's a serious concern.
-[laughing] OK.

[Colin] Hopefully she can give
us the real on everything.

[Baylen]
Yeah.

[Colin] I was able to get
a couple days off of work

to be able to go with Baylen.

Her parents usually go
to these appointments,

but, since we're
getting married,

I want to be able to,
like, step in

and be there for her.

Hello.

I like to usually always have
someone come with me

to my doctor's appointments --
[short whimper] --

because I always
forget something.

It's good to see you.

This is my fianc\, Colin.

-Hi -- nice to meet you.
-[Colin] Very nice to meet you.

And it's his first time
at a doctor's appointment ever.

[Colin] I've heard a lot
of great things about you, so...

I'm excited.
-[larynx squeeze], d*ck.

So what's on your mind
to talk about?

A lot.

I have several other conditions
on top of my Tourette's,

including a mood disorder
that can definitely

increase my tics.

My doctor prescribed
a medication a little while ago

that helps with my mood.

However, one of its unfortunate
side effects is weight gain.

Um, I know the medicine
that you put me on for my mood,

-Mm-hmm.
-...it's been working,

but I also
am just concerned with the fact

that since I've been on it,
I've gained 18 pounds.

Getting on this new mood
stabilizer has really,

really helped,
but, with the wedding coming up,

and getting some comments
online questioning

if I'm pregnant or not,

the weight gain has definitely
started to affect

my mental health.

A lot of the medicines
that boost serotonin,

it turns out they actually block

what are called
satiety receptors in your gut,

the things that tell you
you're no longer hungry.

So when they're blocked,
your brain is getting

a message, "You're still hungry,
you're still hungry."

-Wow.
-It's a major side effect.

You know,
it's not like just cosmetic.

-[Baylen] Mm-hmm.
-It's important for your health

that you can maintain
a normal weight.

So in my mind, the new meds,
the GLP-1 agonists.

They're the best treatment

for it.
-Mm-hmm.

[Dr. Flaherty speaking]

...are drugs
that you take weekly injections

and they decrease
the brain's desire for food.

Well, that's what I'd recommend
is to start one of those meds.

[Baylen] And I can stay
on the other meds I like?

-Yeah.
-[Baylen] Yay!

I'm really glad
that I'm able to stay

on my existing medication
to help with my mood...

[short whimpers] -- d*ck!

...and tics.

Hopefully I'm able
with the GLP-1

to lose some weight

and regain my confidence back.

-How is your physical pain?
-Terrible.

-[Dr. Flaherty] Tell me.
-[Baylen] I've had numbness.

It's in my pinky, and my ring,
and my thumb.

-Mm-hmm.
-I think it's

from hitting myself when I tic.

-I'll hit, like, my...chest, um.
-Mm-hmm

But there'll be times,
like, I've hit my head

off doors, things like that.
I like to either smack it

back against walls...
-[Colin] Yeah.

...or hit tables
with the front of my head.

Uh-huh.
Yeah, yeah.

My motor tics cause me
so much pain and exhaust me.

Just moving my neck casually
really hurts

when you do it 300 times a day.

When Baylen's dealing
with her motor tics,

literally you just have to,
like, sit there and make sure

that she doesn't...
really hurt herself.

But it is hard
to sit by and watch.

So one thing I can tell
you pretty certainly

is that the hand tingling
problem that you're having

is not from
hitting your head.

That is something that's,
if you're gaining weight

and you're also getting, like,
puffy skin from it being hot

and you know, you've got fluid,
extra swelling in your skin,

that can make
those nerves pinch.

-Huh -- that's a relief.
-Yeah.

[Baylen] I wanna ask you about
something else I heard about.

There's this device
called Neupulse.

-Mm-hmm.
-[Baylen] I know it's
a non-invasive device

that you wear
that helps your tics.

Yeah, so there's not that much
known about it,

but it's doing it through
electrical stimulation,

and it seems to quiet things
down a little bit, so...

Have you read
into any of the clinical studies

that they've done?
-A little bit, yes.

And it seemed like
it had a significant effect,

like, they were
reasonable papers.

It seemed
like it's pretty safe.

And is it specifically for,
like, your motor tics,

or will it also help
your vocal tics as well?

I don't think so,
but why not try it?

I could be so wrong.

You know, maybe it would help
the hitting tics.

-[Baylen] Mm-hmm.
-That would be good.

That's what we were hoping.

The Neupulse
bracelet is different

from deep brain stimulation,

which we decided wasn't
going to be helpful for her.

It doesn't require surgery.

It's something you
just put on your wrist.

[short whimper]

For someone with bad tics,
if Neupulse helps those tics,

it can be life-changing.
They'll go out more.

They can do more activities.

They may not injure themselves
as often.

Well, I would love
to try this device.

Yeah.
It's not available here.

If you did want to try it,
you'd have to go to the UK,

I'm afraid.

Yeah.

We're definitely gonna have
to, like, talk about it.

Yeah.

OK, so I'll prescribe
that GLP-1 agonist,

and we can talk
about how to administer it.

I actually do have one
more question.

-Mm-hmm.
-Um,

if we plan on having a family

and having kids...

the medications
that she's on right now,

how is that going
to affect her during pregnancy

if she would have to get off
of any or get on new ones?

[Dr. Flaherty] Um...

it's definitely something
we can talk about

and think a lot about,

but the meds that you're on,
I think, are OK.

-OK.
-Um, no more baby questions.

Baylen had said that she's done
having the conversation

about kids, but I wasn't
bringing it up to her.

I was bringing it up
to the doctor.

And it wasn't about kids.
It was about being pregnant.

So, a little bit different.

Oh, yeah.
Huge difference.

Huge.

Sometimes it's just like,
"No means no."

-Are you ready?
-Yeah, I'm ready to go.

OK, OK.
Thank you so much.

[Colin] Yeah, thank you.

Yeah, it's great
to see you both.

It was nice to meet you.

-Bye.
-[Dr. Flaherty] Bye now.

It was really nice to be a part

of Baylen's neurologist
appointment.

It was really cool
to learn the ins and outs,

and I would love
to be able to come

to more of these appointments.

[Baylen] Glad we stopped
and got these umbrellas
in case it rains.

[Colin] Yeah, 'cause it does
look like it is about to rain.

-Very...
-For Narnia!

-I can take it.
-Sweet.

-Thank you.
-Very pretty city, though.

It is, [exhales].

[Colin] You want
to just chill right here

and take in this view?

[Baylen] I'd love to.
Piece of sh*t.

Bald b*tch!

[short whimper] Bald b*tch?
Oh, my -- g*dd*mn!

He has the biggest mustache
I've ever seen

in my entire life.
That's a squirrel!

[short whimper]
Oh, my God.

When I tic at random
strangers, it can feel...

annoying.

-You little w*nk*r!
-[Colin laughs]

You little w*nk*r!

In all Nantucket,
they are wankers.

-Nantucket?
-Nantucket.

There's a boat over there
that says Nantucket.

What do you want me to do?
Everything's in my peripheral.

Everybody's screwed right now.

But, like, sometimes
you just can't help it.

Sometimes it's just like,

"What the f*ck
we have going on here"?

[blows raspberry]

[Colin speaking]

She's really smart.

She's heard about Neupulse.
Isn't that exciting?

It's really nice
that she is saying,

"Hey, it's not
gonna hurt," right?

But then there's also, like,
the flip side of it is, like...

It's not gonna hurt,
but you gotta go all the way

to the UK.
-[Colin] Yeah.

-It's starting to rain.
-[Baylen] Thank you.

All right.
Oh, there are minis.

-For Narnia!
-Oh, all right.

I feel like I'm in the UK
right now.

'Ello.
'Ello.

I'll be speaking in a British
accent the entire time

we're over there if we go.
-Yeah.

But, in reality, hopping
on a plane and leaving tomorrow

isn't, like, our best bet
with wedding planning

and saving money.

Devices that
can help reduce tics

don't come around often.

But money isn't the only
obstacle with a trip like this.

You're winning, m*therf*cker.

I have never gone to that part
of the world,

so who really knows how my tics
will be triggered there.

Plus, Colin's gonna have
to get time off of work,

I'm gonna have
to get a passport,

and there is my struggle
with plane travel.

I'm worried about the flight.

Like, whenever I navigate
the airport

is when I'm the most anxious.
-Yeah.

-And it's not --
-For me,

I'm anxious
when we take off,

but also, I don't like the idea
of flying over water

the entire time.

So you're actually
more nervous than me to fly?

Yeah.

Do you know how many planes go
missing just "poof"

when they're flying over water?

-Dude, why are we talking --
-I don't like that.

Why are we talking
about this right now?

[Colin laughs]
I'm just saying.

You're not helping
my anxiety at all.

Well, that's
where my anxiety is.

OK, that's great.
Suck it back in.

I've known that Colin
has flight anxiety.

It's not new to me,
because when me and Colin

took a trip to L.A.,

Colin's anxiety
on that flight was terrible.

Yeah, but I feel like
I can hold myself together

to the point where
I'm not making Baylen's anxiety,

like, really bad.
But, I mean,

at the end of the day,
I'm still gonna have

anxiety about it.

Like, that's literally
how planes go missing.

-They crash in the water.
-Here we go.

Here we go.
Here we go.

You can't even hold it together
right now.

Oh, my God.

Anyway, we still haven't even
heard back about our budget

regarding the wedding.

So, I mean, I think it would be
kind of irrational to...

[Baylen]
Make a decision?

...go ahead and fly over
to the UK.

-Oh, yeah, completely.
-I know.

And I don't think...

I just think that,
I'm gonna bring it up to my mom,

let her know
about how the conversation went,

her and my dad.
-Yeah.

Because they would know best
and just kind of see

what they're advised and what
they would, kind of say,

to go from there.
-Yeah.

It's fine with me.

If this device actually works
for Baylen,

it would be
a complete game changer for her.

But taking a trip to the UK

is not the most realistic thing
to do right now.

Eat a bag of dicks.

There's really not a safe place
on a golf course around Baylen.

Just tap it in.
Miss it, b*tch.

[short whimper]

It was a really good trip.

Did you bring up
the Neupulse to her?

Yes, I did.
And she gave it a go.

I don't think I realize
how much I actually want this

until this moment.

[uplifting music plays]

Thank you.

Me and Colin got back
from Boston yesterday

and I'm at my parents
to pick up the dogs

because my parents
were pet sitting.

But first, my brothers
offered to help me

with a little problem I have.

OK, who's helping me?

[Bechnir] Hey, Bay.
What's up?

I'm going golfing with Colin
and I need help with my swing.

Colin's meeting up
with an old friend

later this week

and we'll be playing golf
with him.

I'm not good.

I probably need the most help
with driving.

[Bechnir speaking]

[Vick] I don't wanna
get hit in the teeth.

In the past,
my tics have definitely
interfered with me golfing.

I've thrown the club
a couple times.

I like to eat the ball,
throw the ball.

No, I just sh**t it out.
[blows]

Mm-hmm.

Isn't it supposed to be like
a fist away?

Fist away?
I don't know.

Don't you guys golf?

Yeah, but I just go up
there and hit.

I'm naturally good
at everything I do.

Congrats.

I'm not.

-So am I, by the way.
-No, you're not.

Yes, I am.

-Holy sh*t.
-Damn.

-Yeah.
-This is gonna
be me on the golf course.

All right, Bay,
let me see that club.

[Bechnir] You could learn
from the best over here.

-Um, probably Sven.
-Sven.

-This one's for a scholarship.
-[Sven] Yeah.

You don't know who you're
talking about, do you?

Oh, good shot!

Holy!

[Baylen] I'm going
over here to hit it now.

Endurance.

-Endurance.
-Confidence.

What?

You swing one club and then
you just pick up and walk?

That's not endurance.

Yeah, but you've got
to do the same thing

for the next time,
and it has to be just as good.

So, consistency,
not endurance.

Same thing.

I don't know.

[Vick] There it is.
That's a good shot.

-That's a good hit.
-Sweet -- there we go.

You all have a good night
and a good day.

I'm out.

[whirring]

[Julie]
Winnie, no!

I'm literally going
to hurt you.

No, it's shiny.

-[Julie] OK.
-There are wider leaves around.

-There's three.
-OK -- Hi!

What are you --
what are you doing?

Your mother's learning
about yard care.

[Julie]
Yep, make sure that's closed.

Oh, my goodness.

Hi, everybody.

Thank you guys
for watching them.

Hey.

It was a really good trip,
not gonna lie.

[Julie] What did you learn
with, like,

your medicine
and the unintended weight gain

and...?
-[Baylen] She told me that

everyone that experiences this
specific type of side effect

with this specific
type of medicine,

she prescribes a GLP-1.

And I'm like,
"OK, sick, give me it."

In the past, Baylen has
actually stopped taking certain

medications because they've
caused her to gain weight.

So I'm essentially comfortable
with Baylen taking this GLP-1

because she can stay
on the mood stabilizer,

which is actually working
that she needs to stay on.

More importantly,
what I'm aching to get to,

is did you bring up
the Neupulse to her?

Yes, I did.
And she gave it a go.

Like a go go?

Like she's looked
at clinical studies,

she's read things,
and -- d*ck --

in Nantucket
they all wankers.

-I picked that up in Boston.
-What's a w*nk*r?

-Masturbator, [laughs].
-Oh my God, help us.

Gosh.

What?
What?

I love it.

I'm like numb to the idea
of like all her tics

at this point.
Like nothing's off limits.

Just nothing.

OK, anyways, moving on.

So she's basically like,
"Give it a go."

"Give it a go,
except for it's in the UK."

So...

I'd love to go.

But, like, with wedding
planning right now,

it's just not in our budget.
It's just not.

Hmm.

I tend to be the person
pushing Baylen to explore

new treatments, but I do
realize a trip like this

could be very challenging.

There's money issues,
the logistics of the airport,

the length of the flight,
and that's if Colin

can get the time off work.

So did you ever say anything
to Colin about the possibility

of this happening and, like...
-Who would even go?

I would think
you and Colin, right?

Well, speaking of Colin,
that man's got flight anxiety.

He has flight anxiety?
Oh, wow!

This is the blind
leading the blind.

He needs to be dosed up.
He needs to be dosed up.

This is -- OK,
There's lots of..

There's some things
where I'm like --

Isn't he in the Air Force?

"That's not helping
my anxiety, babe.

That's not helping it."

I didn't know that about him.

-[Baylen] Mm-hmm.
-That's fantastic.

Maybe it's just the long flight
that he's worried about

or the ocean or something.
-Could be -- yeah.

But I don't know.

I wouldn't join the Navy
if I didn't like boats.

I feel so bad for him,
but it's like, "Oh, my gosh,

how is this going to work?"

Because she needs a lot
of help when she's traveling.

[Baylen]
It's a really cool device,

it would be really awesome

if we'd be able
to get over there.

To be able to see
in that moment,

how much it helps
and how much it doesn't.

Oh, it'd be like
the opportunity of a lifetime.

Yeah.

I don't think I realize
how much I actually want this

until this moment.

The device is not available
in the U.S. yet,

but maybe it will be here
before my wedding,

which is like 10 months away.

It would be extremely
uncomfortable and painful

to feel like I have
to hold my own tics in

on my wedding day.

So I would really like to try it
as soon as possible.

Finding out now
that it works for me

could really ease my anxiety.

But there's a lot of obstacles
standing in the way.

I just don't want to get all
my hopes up.

I have a g*n.

Woo-hoo, woo-hoo,
woo-hoo, woo-hoo.

You're bald, sir.

[short whimper]

[Julie] Well, I totally get
why she wants to go.

Why would we leave any stone
unturned at this point?

I've been the one encouraging
Baylen to check out Neupulse,

and I believe it's still
worth exploring.

[Allen]
Financially, their wedding's

their top priority right now.

You think
that they're not going to go?

Yeah.

And I don't want that to happen.

♪♪ If you get it, get it
If you really want it ♪♪

♪♪ You do what you've got to do
I can come to life ♪♪

[Baylen] Hey, b*tch.
[short whimper]

Woo-hoo, woo-hoo,
woo-hoo, woo-hoo.

Thank you.

Even though we don't know
if we're going to London yet

to try the Neupulse device,

I don't want the fact
that I don't have a passport

to get in the way of that,

especially since they can take
a while to get.

So, I decided to take
a rideshare today

to the closest passport office
to get my passport.

I have a g*n.

[short whimper]

I have a g*n.

[whispering]

Unfortunately,
the passport office

is inside a library.

Silence is a huge trigger
for my tics.

Woo-hoo, woo-hoo,
woo-hoo, woo-hoo.

I also try to avoid museums,
movie theaters,

churches,
anywhere quiet, basically.

You can catch me not there.

Oh, your nails are so pretty.

Oh, thank you.
Are you here for passports?

-[Baylen] Yes, I am here
for passports.
-Perfect.

-[short whimper], d*ck.
-OK.

Do you have
your picture ID on you?

Thank you.

Let's see.

[Baylen] Goddam!

The woman that I'm talking
to doesn't react to my tics

at all,
which is really relieving.

If I'm around somebody that
doesn't know what Tourette's is,

I never know
how they will react,

whether laughing, staring,

or not knowing what to say.

-I have a g*n, [short whimper].
-OK.

Let me go make some
copies, OK?

-[Baylen] OK, sweet, thank you.
-Thank you.

Woo-hoo, woo-hoo,
woo-hoo, woo-hoo.

You're bald, sir.

[short whimper]

[whispering]

I'm using my CBIT technique,

which is deep breathing
and masking.

I like whispering.

It's my favorite
masking technique.

[attendant] I'm gonna
take your picture, OK?

Do you mind if you give me
a countdown before,

just 'cause I have
Tourette Syndrome,

so it's hard for me to...
-[attendant] Yeah, of course.

I'll just make faces
the entire time.

-Yeah, of course.
-OK, sweet.

I have a g*n.

-You ready?
-Mm-hmm.

Three, two, one.

-Perfect.
-Sweet.

-Yay --
-[short whimper] b*tch.

Now you can come back
over here, OK?

OK.

My tics were
pretty typical today

compared to other trips
to the library.

Perfect -- OK.

-So, um...
-I did break your pen.

-That's OK.
-OK.

Who really knows when I'll
be able to use this passport,

but this is just one more step
on my path to adulting.

[attendant]
All right.

And with that,
you are all done.

-Thank you so much.
-You're welcome.

-You have a lovely day.
-Thank you, you too.

Woo-hoo, woo-hoo,
woo-hoo, woo-hoo.

Goddam!
I have a g*n!

[mouthing] My God!

We'll never be back.

Just kidding.
I probably will with kids.

That'll be fun.

f*ck them kids!

[horse neighs]

[soft music plays]

-Did you get Baylen's text?
-No.

She got her passport today.

Oh, my gosh.
She didn't waste any time.

OK.
Well, that's good.

I'm sure it's not an easy
process for her to do that,

especially if she had
to go do it by herself.

A couple days ago,
Baylen's neurologist

gave her the go-ahead to try
the Neupulse device,

but it's in England.

The fact that Baylen went
and got her passport, kind of,

speaks volumes about
her ambition to really want

to figure something out.

Well, I totally get
why she wants to go.

Heck, I want her to go.

Why would we leave any stone
unturned at this point, right?

We've come this far.

[Allen] Well, financially,
their wedding to them

is their top priority right now.

[Julie] So you think
that they're not gonna go?

Yeah.

And I don't want
that to happen.

I'm in the way for...

[sighs]

I mean, I'm willing to throw
some of our money

at this to make
this happen right away.

Yeah, I would love to be able
to take that burden

out of the equation
for Bay and Colin,

but I don't know
there's so many "what ifs"

and ambiguity to it too.

Even if it worked
it's not like you can even

leave there with it
so that's where I'm like --

that's where the balancing
comes in

it's like you have to weigh it,

like you have other kids
and family to worry about

and I know that her health
is still a priority
in our lives,

but you you still have
to objectively

stand back and say

"Could the good here
outweigh the bad?"

I have been the one encouraging
Baylen to check out Neupulse

and I believe
it's still worth exploring

but I have to remind myself

that we are
a one income household

and we do have five other
children that we support.

I mean, over the years,
to help Baylen with her care

the sacrifices
that we've made...

-Are endless.
-It's uncountable.

Honestly sometimes the other
kids have kind of went without.

But on the flip side,
she has such strong tics

and loud tics --

quite honestly, her Tourette

has stripped her
of the experiences

that some of us
take for granted,

like church and the movies
and quiet-place experiences,

because she feels
like a social outcast.

Even if Baylen can't bring
the device home with her,

the intrinsic reward of it
is knowing that it would provide

her hope if it worked.

There's no means that
I wouldn't go to to provide

my kid with that.

I just think...

you wanna go to bed every night
for the next 10 years

wondering if something
would have worked or not?

Or do you want an answer?

[Julie]
Of course I want an answer.

And to be honest, I kinda wanna
be there for the test.

And I know
that they want to, kind of,

forge their own path together,

but this is
completely uncharted territory,

so I would love
if she would feel comfortable

for us to experience
this together.

But I don't want to feel weird
about it, like,

"Oh, we're inviting ourselves,"
like, "We're going with you."

Like, "Sorry,
this is a family thing."

-I want her to be...
-No, you invite her.

-You've who?
-Let's go on a trip there.

Oh.

We make it
as an invite to her.

Like, "Hey, we would like
to do this for you."

We can even take
the boys with us.

-Mm.
-Give them an experience.

Mm.

I love that idea.

If we can figure out
how to do it.

If we're going to go big,
we might as well go big.

We have never been
to the UK before,

and they've been
on Baylen's journey with her.

They've been alongside
for this whole roller coaster.

And it also provides us a way
to support her,

because it's so unpredictable.

You have no idea
how much stress or anxiety

or how much she's going
to hold back her tics,

and then eventually
it comes crumbling down,

and she could be
in the fetal position,

and she spends
the entire trip trying

to recover,
only to get back on a flight

and come all the way back.

I mean, it's not just
the financial aspect of it.

-It's the travel.
-Yeah.

I'd rather join them
at this point anyways,

after hearing that Colin
also has some flying anxiety.

Like, the travel piece of it
could be a huge hurdle.

Not saying that
they couldn't do it together,

but any time that people
are willing to support you,

you should welcome that.

All right.

I'm gonna, uh...
I think it's a go.

Don't put it out there
until we know 100%

we can make it work,
'cause I don't wanna
give her any false hope.

-Yeah.
-Like, you've got to figure out

vacation time.
I've got to figure out

what works for the boys,
for school, budget.

We have a lot to figure out
in order to really

make this come to life.

So I've been planning
a major career move

in going into real estate.

More than 80% of people

who get their real estate
license stop,

you know,
in less than five years.

[Baylen]
There is so much potential

to succeed in this field,

but there's even more
potential to fail.

♪♪ Seek and hide ♪♪

♪♪ We play it all the time ♪♪

♪♪ Can you ever find me?
Can you ever find me? ♪♪

[Baylen speaking]

So I've been planning
a major career move

in going into real estate
when I get out of the military.

An old friend of mine, Josh,
is actually in real estate

in Myrtle Beach,

and him and his colleague, Nick,
are in town

for some business,
and they invited Baylen and I

to come play golf with them.

Oh.

I'm excited,
but I'm also very nervous,

because this is only my second
time on a real golf course.

Oh.

Compared to, like,
mini golf or the range.

Your head's gotta be
on a swivel.

Actually, there was one time
where me and Colin went

to the golfing range,

and he was sitting behind me,

and the ball went backwards
and almost hit him.

There's really not
a safe place on a golf course

around Baylen.

Is there something I should know
before Josh and Nick

get here?

Like, is one of them bald?

I don't think so.

-Oh, there's Josh.
-Hi.

Hi.

I told you.

-What's up, man?
-How are you, man?

[Colin] Good.
How are you?

-Good to see you.
-Good to see you.

-Hi, I'm Josh.
-Can I have a hug?

-Nice to meet you.
-Nice to meet you.

I've known Colin
for over 10 years.

I was his youth pastor
when he was in middle school,

and he reached out knowing
that we had

our own real estate company.

Let's go play a few holes.

-[Josh] Let's do it.
-[Nick] All right, let's do it.

-[gasps]
-Roller coaster.

[Baylen]
Be careful.

Oh, oh.
That don't sound good.

-[Colin laughs]
-OK, we made it across.

Eat a bag of dicks.

[Nick] Oh, we got
a beautiful day to golf.

-[Colin] Nice wind.
-[Nick] Yep.

[short whimper]
Just tap it in.

Just tap it in.

Miss it, b*tch!

[short whimper]

I was a little nervous to meet
Baylen in person

for the first time today,
'cause I have never met

someone with Tourette's.

Yeah, I have not met anyone
with Tourette's before.

So it caught me a little
off guard when Josh

first got up there,
and what she said

on his backswing
was pretty -- pretty funny,

and I had to hold it in,
not to laugh.

[Baylen] Tap it in.

-Get over!
-Oh, what a shot.

Woo-hoo, woo-hoo,
woo-hoo, woo-hoo.

[short whimper]
Miss it, b*tch.

-Oh, baby.
-That might be on the green.

-[Nick] Good-looking ball, too.
-[Colin] Oh, my gosh.

I might be in trouble here.

[short whimper]

Miss it, b*tch.
f*cking b*tch.

-That's in the water.
-Oh.

-[laughing]
-Oh.

[Josh] Well, there's no pressure
on Baylen.

♪♪ Living in my own lane,
are you ready ♪♪

♪♪ You ain't gonna stop me
k*lling it ♪♪

♪♪ Want me on your team just
a little bit? ♪♪

♪♪ Take a look around, you can
see that I'm feeling it ♪♪

♪♪ Yeah, I'm feeling it ♪♪

I'm just gonna move up.

Oh, you're close
to the fairway now.

-Here we go.
-[Baylen] OK!

Oh, my God.

We're gonna get there
by next year.

Oh, man.

-Oh -- water ball.
-Well..

-That was better contact.
-[Baylen] Yep.

Maybe I just need to get
a little warmed up,

a little wrist flicking,
making sure the swing is good.

It comes up.

Ooh, ooh, ohh.

-Yeah -- there you go.
-[Baylen] Sweet.

[Colin] There we go.
Keep going, ball.

-Just topped it.
-Yep.

It's OK.

You want to drive up
to my ball?

It's five feet.

-Sure.
-I'm walking mine off.

Which one -- how do you use
this thing, though?

-What's this for?
-[Colin] It's reverse.

You don't use that.

OK, so all I do is,
the right is gas,

the left is brake.

-Wait Colin -- why is...?
-Turn the wheel, turn the wheel.

Turn the wheel.
Turn the wheel.

-This way?
-Yep.

And then press the gas.

There you go.
Now straighten it out.

Straighten it out.

There you go.

Sorry,
I almost took you guys out.

Press brake.
Press brake.

Press brake.
And then push right here.

Yep, push down all the way.

No, I've never driven
a golf cart in my entire life.

It's the same as a car.

I don't drive cars either.

So thank you for that,

but, "In one ear,
out the other."

So how'd you get so good
at golf?

He plays every day.

-I wish.
-Definitely, real estate.

[Nick] You get to play golf,
you know, often.

Josh was telling me
you're thinking about getting

into real estate.
-Yeah, I am.

Awesome.

I think what really intrigues me
about it is, like,

the amount of success
that you have in real estate is

based off of the amount
of effort that you put in.

No, there's no ceiling#*
where you can make,

but especially in the beginning,
it's a grind.

The top three things
that we see that attract people

to real estate are freedom
of their time,

unlimited income potential,

and they get
to be their own boss.

But there's a lot
that goes into it.

It is a five or six day
a week job from day one.

You have to be available,
and that's why

it's really important
that both of you are

on the same page as well.

He's gonna be away a lot.
He might be on showings.

Weekends, he'll be
running open houses,

running outside for phone calls,
different things like that.

So it really helps if, you know,
you're supportive with that,

that he's gonna be busy

and on his phone a lot,
probably.

[Baylen]
Mm-hmm.

[Josh] It's really important
that you...

-Sounds like bullshit to me.
-...communicate well.

Holy sh*t.

It sounds way longer
than a nine-to-five job.

Colin's been talking
about starting a family soon,

but I don't wanna be alone

with an infant.

[Colin] Yeah, but even hearing
the nitty-gritty parts

that Josh and Nick are
telling me,

it just comes down to it being

something of mine,
and I'm putting

all of this hard work
and effort into...

my business, into my name,

and that will give me
a lot of satisfaction

at the end of the day.

It's a lot of work,
and you might show 20 properties

to a couple over seven days,

and then they choose to buy
in another area.

It's also, it's tough to,
kind of, get over,

you know, you could go three,
six months without a paycheck.

[Josh] And, you know,
as a realtor, you're
an independent contractor.

And so healthcare's,

it can be challenging.
-It's not cheap.

Mm.

So more than 80% of people who
get their real estate license

stop in less than five years.

Yeah.

If anything, that statistic
gives me motivation.

Like, I kind of like when odds
are betting against me

so that I can just
prove people wrong.

Knowing that only 20% of people
in real estate make it

really makes me worried
for Colin because...

there is so much potential
to succeed in this field,

but there's even
more potential to fail.

Also, there is
no health insurance

and no benefits.

My parents told Colin
that he needs a backup plan,

and I'm starting to think

he's gonna need
a backup plan too.

Did either one of you guys have
a backup plan?

Not really.

I just said, "I'm going to do
this and make it work,"

you know?
-I did not either.

[Nick]
You have to be all in.

You know, it's tough
if you have a side job

or something else.

Like, it has to be
what your priority is.

Yeah.

I know that Allen and Julie
want me to have a backup plan

going into real estate,
but listening to Josh and Nick

makes me think I don't need one.

If I have a backup plan,

it's already introduced --
-Back up d*ck.

Yeah.

I can't let myself off the hook
in case things get hard.

So that's official then?
No backup plan?

Yeah, it's official.

You want to be
around the right people,

the right company.
-Mm-hmm.

I mean, we have a great company
that really focuses

on new agents, kind of,
giving you a blueprint

on how to be successful
in this business, you know?

[Josh] You should come down
to Myrtle Beach

to check out our office
and allow us to be able

to introduce you
to some of the agents

and be able to show
you a lot of the training

that takes place
and what a day-to-day life

would look like.

Yeah, we'll have to figure out
a time for me

to come down there.

With everything that's
going on in our lives right now,

I don't know when I'll get
the opportunity to go down

to Myrtle Beach,
but it is an amazing offer,

and I'm feeling really good
about this opportunity.

I'm glad you are.

All I hear about is long nights,
hard days, long hours.

You'll never be home.
Yay.

I'll be out there golfing.

So, should we get back
to the game?

-Yeah, let's do it.
-Sweet.

Awesome.

♪♪ You got this moment
So baby own it ♪♪

♪♪ You got this moment ♪♪

Oh, we got a couple missed
calls from Allen.

-What do you think Allen -- ?
-I have a couple missed calls

from my dad.

-What do you think he wants?
-I don't know.

-Do you care if we call him?
-That's fine.

OK, sweet.

[line beeps]

[Colin sighs]

What's up, Dad?

-[Baylen] Oh, my God, really?
-[Allen] Yeah.

Thank you so much.
It's exciting.

[Colin]
Yeah, thank you, guys.

'Ello, 'ello.

I'm so excited that my parents
were able to make this work

for me and Colin.

And I couldn't be
any more grateful.

[Allen speaking]

That's kind of cool
that it's going to be

like a little family vacay
mixed in with a little, like,

doctor's appointment.

[Allen speaking]

Well, thank you guys
for making a decision

for everyone to go.

I love you, Dad.

Thank you so much for letting us
know the big news.

Bye.

-We're going to London.
-[Colin] Yeah, we are.

'Ello.

Are you excited for the whole
family to go?

Yeah.

I've never flown out
of the country.

-Yeah.
-So at least they're there

to help us, guide us through.

Yeah.

It would have been a fun trip
for Baylen and I, by ourselves,

but it also would have been

a little bit scary
at the same time

'cause I haven't been
out of the country in,

like, ten years.

She hasn't been
out of the country,

and neither one of us

have ever been to that part
of the world, so...

Do you think they trust us
to go alone?

I don't know.

That's the question
I was gonna ask you.

Like, does your parents not...

Can you stop doing golf while
we're trying to talk serious

right now?
It's making me want to sway.

OK.
Yeah, that's amazing

that they're offering to fund it

and, you know,
help us get there,

but does your dad
or parents not trust...

me to be able to...

handle the health,
you know, appointments,

doctor's appointments.

-We're literally about to...
-Be married.

I see where
you're coming from,

but I personally don't think

it has anything
against you or me.

I just think they've always
been invested

and always have been there
for my health.

And this is huge.

Like, this is a really,
really big deal

to go there and try on
a device and see if it works.

'Cause this could be
life-changing.

Maybe my parents
just want to be there to --

suck d*ck [whimper] --

to witness that right there
in front of their eyes.

I can just see it being a trip
for all of us to remember.

I'm super grateful that Allen
and Julie have offered to pay

for this trip to London,
but I can't help but to feel

like Julie and Allen
don't fully trust me.

It's maybe a little upsetting.

Yeah.

We've been dating
for over two years,

and I've helped Baylen

through some really
tough times.

But even then, it still feels
like no matter what I do,

it's just not enough for them.

[laughing] Colin!

That should be enough.

Going there for a week,
not a month.

We are going to London, England,
and I am so excited.

What are you looking forward
to the most?

-Scones...tea, crumpets.
-I was talking about adventures.

I wasn't talking about food.

What age can you get a tattoo
in London?

This is gonna be epic.

I have always had anxiety
about flying.

I guess I'm slightly concerned
that nervous energy

pours over onto her.

[Colin] Holy crap,
that's a lot of people in there.

-You're not helping.
-Sorry.

Oh, my God,
something's going on.

[short whimper] -- woo-hoo,
woo-hoo, woo-hoo, woo-hoo.

The airport's
just a tic disaster.

I just really need to get
through this

as quickly as possible.

-Is there anyone behind us?
-Yeah.

-Because my legs are locked.
-Yeah.

We got a long way to go,
Baylen.